Now THIS is the type of person I will listen to. I'm so tired of RUclips videos featuring new moms who can't put together a grammatically-correct sentence. I LOVE this video. The woman is articulate and informative -- MUCH APPRECIATED!!!
There are a few factors in guides for a baby to sleep . One resource I found that succeeds in merging these is the Calmer Fixer Blueprint (check it out on google) it's the no.1 plan that I've seen. look at the great information
@@Kevintendo I believe I covered the answer to your seemingly- rhetorical question in my original post, Kev 😊 I think more pertinent questions are why don't "Calmer fixer blueprint" employees seem to notice each other's posts or work harder to disguise the fact that they're clearly typing from a script? Three employees (or bots) promoted the same product back-to-back-to-back, with little variance in their comments. 🤷🏼♀️
Iv co-slept “bed shared” with all 3 of my kids until they were alittle over a year! Co-sleeping with my 3rd baby right now. There are safe ways to bed share we are the only country who “doesn’t” bed share. I’m also a very light sleeper so any movement he makes I’m awake instantly! Also easier for us nursing throughout the night, we both sleep MUCH better, I can’t sleep on a mushy bed so mine is firm no blankets, no pillows, I also have a thing “not sure what exactly to call it” that goes on the side of bed in case he would roll without me knowing and he won’t fall or suffocate💕
We did bed sharing, in fact still are bed sharing (just turned 2), but I’m not a risk taker so for the first year we used a cosleeper in the bed with us. There was never a risk of her getting rolled over on or of blankets/pillows getting on or near her face. I loved it and since I had a preemie and csection I feel like I took longer to bond, and bed sharing helped. I don’t want to frame it negatively or judgmentally, but parents that bed share HAVE to be very diligent about making sure that if they want to bed share they go out of their way to do it safely and if they cannot or worry they are too heavy of sleepers, do bed extension or room sharing. I always woke up if my daughter even changed her breathing pattern or wiggled and I loved being able to put my hand on her little chest and make sure she was breathing through out the night. We are going to bed share the same way with baby #2, but probably not as long. Maybe until 3-6 months and then switch to room sharing. Thanks for the informational video! There definitely is a stigma against it here in the US but we had a very knowledgeable and supportive doctor 😊
Amanda Juline The Snuggle me organic is the best! I can’t say enough about how much I loved my Snuggle Me organic. I originally wanted the Dockatot but I ended up having my daughter a month early and needed it ASAP, and it was sold out. So I got the Snuggle Me instead and I am so so glad. It is so soft, so comfy, cozy. My daughter loved being in it. If I needed to put her down to do something, I felt good putting her in this. The Snuggle Me looks like it is truly cradling your child. It keeps her safely separate from us. Once she got old enough to roll over, it prevented her from it. She fit into it until she was almost eleven months! There are some good videos on RUclips so you can see. They didn’t have the larger size back then but if they did I would’ve bought it in a heartbeat. I’ll be using the Snuggle me with baby number two as well 🖤 The only thing the dock a tot has that the Snuggle me doesn’t is a cushioned bottom. It’s pretty much just fabric beneath, which is great for putting the baby on a couch or bed, but if you want to set the baby down somewhere on the floor you’d need to fold a blanket under it, which I had no issue with doing.
So our plan was The Snuggle me we bought it my baby is due in September! I was advised that it's not safe to use in the bed. Because of the side bumpers could be suffocating to them if they roll over or not even roll over but just put their face over to the side of the little bumper things. I'm not feeling 100% about bed-sharing right off the bat yet. So I was hoping the Co-Sleeper would ease my mind. And I don't want to use a sidecar or bassinest. I'm glad this worked for you and I'm hoping it will work for us. Why do so many people fear us out of these things!
Actually super helpful and informative giving a lot of good reasons behind the explanations. I was expecting it to just be a sales video but you added a lot of value.
There is so much amazing and factual information supporting bedsharing and co-sleeping, great video! Most of the infant deaths that happen "co-sleeping" are because parents are on recliners or couches..
Best video, super appreciated. I know we both out the lightest sleepers since we had our twins since we are terrified but are too scared to let them sleep anywhere but the bassinet. Problem is the girls won’t sleep at 4 weeks old . We’re going to try empty bed with a wearable blanket , probably won’t sleep out of fear 😂 but going to give it a go
This video is great! I do have a question though - are you using "SIDS" to describe suffocation as well as unexplained sudden infant death? The way I understand it is that suffocation (from pillows, soft bedding, etc.), is different than SIDS which is unexplained. Perhaps I'm wrong but I am just seeking clarification on that. Thank you for this wonderful information!!
@@Noella1963 Suffocation links in becayse babies can roll in their sleep, comforters or pillows can move or if a parent is so exhausted they can roll over on their child if they are in the bed with them. Plus a mattress for an adult and a mattress for a baby are differnt because of the firmness which is why bedsharing is a risk no matter how safe you -think- you're being. ATM The thinking on SID's is that the immature brain stops firing the message to remind the babys heart to beat and the baby to breath, they arent mature enough to ap out of it so this leads to death.
Great question! It's often good to switch either to a transitional swaddle or to a wearable blanket once your baby starts rolling over on their own. We have more info on that in this video if you skip ahead to 3:06! ruclips.net/video/z7wtRiHCzPw/видео.html
That is the Jenny Lind Crib in Lagoon. Unfortunately its so heavy our store is unable to ship it at this time. But if you are local to American Fork Utah you can make a phone order and pick it up at our retail store! If you aren't local you should be able to order it from other retailers!
The Baby Cubby Thank you! I’m in Texas so I would have to check out retailers near me. I have been binge watching your videos like crazy these past weeks. Every single one is helpful and I have been loving them
Oh we are so happy to hear that!! Please check out our blog as well it has a lot of helpful info for new mamas! Almost all other products we talk about you can purchase on our website at www.babycubby.com
We are not super familiar with the Joovy Room2 but from what we can tell they all have a similar mattress. The major difference between Nune and 4Moms and the Joovy is the set up and take down. Its VERY easy to fold and unfold the Nuna and 4Moms play yard. www.babycubby.com/4moms-breeze-playard-2018-plus.html www.babycubby.com/nuna-sena-aire-playard-night.html
Alexa Roberts Dockatot specifically says not to put your dock in any enclosed area. (Such as a crib or portable bed) If your baby happens to roll over the edge, your baby could get stuck. So make sure you're always placing it in a very open space :)
I’m sorry, I’m formula feeding my baby’s because of low milk supply .. you didn’t explain why That increases the chance of SIDS, I’ll do my own research but I wish you had explained that
Milo and Pepper, thanks for sharing that article! Olivia, the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) is always a good source if you have additional research questions if we've missed something in a video!
I am the heaviest sleeper ever. I know I’d kill a baby I have in two seconds by sleeping in a bed with them. But using the bed extensions are almost the same thing
There is no such thing as safe cosleep. Co-sleeping is not for the babies comfort but rather the parents convenience. Please don't change the definition of co-sleeping. You are giving the wrong info on SIDS.
Ermmmmm no my 3 month old daughter went 24 hours with no sleep to the point of exhaustion whikst I spent 2 weeks trying to get her to sleep on her own, until I let her sleep next to me, I then took shifts with husband and mum so someone was always awake with her as she just will not sleep on her own, it's definitely not convenient for us I would love nothing more than for her to sleep on her own but she won't so this is not true
OK so whats the other option.... my baby wont sleep on her own I tried for 2 weeks to get her 2 and she ended up really ill and wont eat in the end as she was so tierd from no sleep, she was so distressed she hyper ventilated and sweated through her blanket so I finally let her sleep next to me while I was awake but I lasted 3 days until I started hallucinating from sleep deprivation I then took shifts with my husband and mum so my baby could sleep now a month after at 3 months I will have to just co sleep because my baby gives me no choice my mum, my grandma have had her to try and get her to sleep in her own and she won't so we no longer no what to do doctors just tell me she needs more sleep ut then say oh but she should sleep on her own... we'll yeah genius thanks you come and spend a week with her then good luck to you getting her to sleep on her own
@@socat4559 rubbish you clearly havent tried hard enough you feed change and put her down to sleep if she cries leave her too it for a while then just go and gentley shush her then leave the room again
No unfortunately I have tried that over 2 weeks she wasn't eating enough as she was very tierd so I made a doctors appointment and I was told to do what ever it takes to get her to sleep
I have tried gently shushing, I have tried laying my t shirt under her, I have tried patting, hand in chest storking face, leaving to cry for 2 kins and going back then 5 then back I have tried leaving her with my mother so she could do it, I have tried a night nanny video consult, I have paid for a 0-3 sleep training progtqm I have tried a bed side snuz so my hand can be next to her etc, I have tried anti colic bottles, I have tried comfort milk, I have taken her several times to the osteopath, I have tried a constant bedtime routine with bath and wind down whicb I still continue regardless, I am not an un intelligent person qnd I am more than capable or preserving.. which I have done but my baby did become very unwell and won't eat so I did take her to the doctors and they advised to get her some sleep so after 2 weeks of hard work I am back to square one, she does have bad wind and brings up milk alot so sometimes when I have left her and she cries it comes out of her nose and shes coughing so it's not always her fault either
Now THIS is the type of person I will listen to. I'm so tired of RUclips videos featuring new moms who can't put together a grammatically-correct sentence. I LOVE this video. The woman is articulate and informative -- MUCH APPRECIATED!!!
There are a few factors in guides for a baby to sleep . One resource I found that succeeds in merging these is the Calmer Fixer Blueprint (check it out on google) it's the no.1 plan that I've seen. look at the great information
I've been studying helping your baby to sleep and discovered a great resource at Calmer fixer blueprint (google it if you are interested)
I've been investigating care sheets for babies to sleep and found a great website at Calmer fixer blueprint (check it out on google)
LOL WHY YOU GOTTA DISS THE RUclips MOMS
@@Kevintendo I believe I covered the answer to your seemingly- rhetorical question in my original post, Kev 😊 I think more pertinent questions are why don't "Calmer fixer blueprint" employees seem to notice each other's posts or work harder to disguise the fact that they're clearly typing from a script? Three employees (or bots) promoted the same product back-to-back-to-back, with little variance in their comments. 🤷🏼♀️
Iv co-slept “bed shared” with all 3 of my kids until they were alittle over a year! Co-sleeping with my 3rd baby right now. There are safe ways to bed share we are the only country who “doesn’t” bed share. I’m also a very light sleeper so any movement he makes I’m awake instantly! Also easier for us nursing throughout the night, we both sleep MUCH better, I can’t sleep on a mushy bed so mine is firm no blankets, no pillows, I also have a thing “not sure what exactly to call it” that goes on the side of bed in case he would roll without me knowing and he won’t fall or suffocate💕
We did bed sharing, in fact still are bed sharing (just turned 2), but I’m not a risk taker so for the first year we used a cosleeper in the bed with us. There was never a risk of her getting rolled over on or of blankets/pillows getting on or near her face. I loved it and since I had a preemie and csection I feel like I took longer to bond, and bed sharing helped.
I don’t want to frame it negatively or judgmentally, but parents that bed share HAVE to be very diligent about making sure that if they want to bed share they go out of their way to do it safely and if they cannot or worry they are too heavy of sleepers, do bed extension or room sharing.
I always woke up if my daughter even changed her breathing pattern or wiggled and I loved being able to put my hand on her little chest and make sure she was breathing through out the night.
We are going to bed share the same way with baby #2, but probably not as long. Maybe until 3-6 months and then switch to room sharing.
Thanks for the informational video! There definitely is a stigma against it here in the US but we had a very knowledgeable and supportive doctor 😊
What in bed cosleeper did you use? Looking to get one for extra safety as baby went sleep in her bassinet
Amanda Juline The Snuggle me organic is the best! I can’t say enough about how much I loved my Snuggle Me organic. I originally wanted the Dockatot but I ended up having my daughter a month early and needed it ASAP, and it was sold out. So I got the Snuggle Me instead and I am so so glad. It is so soft, so comfy, cozy. My daughter loved being in it. If I needed to put her down to do something, I felt good putting her in this.
The Snuggle Me looks like it is truly cradling your child. It keeps her safely separate from us. Once she got old enough to roll over, it prevented her from it. She fit into it until she was almost eleven months! There are some good videos on RUclips so you can see. They didn’t have the larger size back then but if they did I would’ve bought it in a heartbeat. I’ll be using the Snuggle me with baby number two as well 🖤
The only thing the dock a tot has that the Snuggle me doesn’t is a cushioned bottom. It’s pretty much just fabric beneath, which is great for putting the baby on a couch or bed, but if you want to set the baby down somewhere on the floor you’d need to fold a blanket under it, which I had no issue with doing.
So our plan was The Snuggle me we bought it my baby is due in September! I was advised that it's not safe to use in the bed. Because of the side bumpers could be suffocating to them if they roll over or not even roll over but just put their face over to the side of the little bumper things. I'm not feeling 100% about bed-sharing right off the bat yet. So I was hoping the Co-Sleeper would ease my mind. And I don't want to use a sidecar or bassinest. I'm glad this worked for you and I'm hoping it will work for us. Why do so many people fear us out of these things!
Actually super helpful and informative giving a lot of good reasons behind the explanations. I was expecting it to just be a sales video but you added a lot of value.
We are so glad it was helpful! That is our main purpose as a company. Thank you!
There is so much amazing and factual information supporting bedsharing and co-sleeping, great video! Most of the infant deaths that happen "co-sleeping" are because parents are on recliners or couches..
Or intoxicated / smokers (even if you just smoke on the balcony you shouldnt sleep next to a baby)
Thank you for this! I didn't bed share until he was after 6 months eating regular food. I am trying to get him in his crib now. 😁
We're glad this video was helpful! Let us know if you have any questions we can help you with!
Amazing channel. This video was extremely informative. Thank you.
We're so glad to be of assistance! Thank YOU!
Best video, super appreciated. I know we both out the lightest sleepers since we had our twins since we are terrified but are too scared to let them sleep anywhere but the bassinet. Problem is the girls won’t sleep at 4 weeks old . We’re going to try empty bed with a wearable blanket , probably won’t sleep out of fear 😂 but going to give it a go
The most helpful video I've seen on the topic that isnt old.
Happy to help!
Thank you this was great and very helpful information!
You're so welcome. Thank you for watching!
People are starting to realize, very slowly, what the likely cause of SIDS is... but we're not allowed to say it out loud. Very sad.
Thanks! very comprehensive and informative :)
Very useful information, thank you.
This video was so informative! Thank you😊
You are very welcome, we are so happy to hear you found it helpful!
This video is great! I do have a question though - are you using "SIDS" to describe suffocation as well as unexplained sudden infant death? The way I understand it is that suffocation (from pillows, soft bedding, etc.), is different than SIDS which is unexplained. Perhaps I'm wrong but I am just seeking clarification on that. Thank you for this wonderful information!!
suffocation and sids are differnt, suffocation leaves physical signs, sid's doesn't
@@cloudedcolour5329 right so how is it linked at all. Strange.
@@Noella1963 Suffocation links in becayse babies can roll in their sleep, comforters or pillows can move or if a parent is so exhausted they can roll over on their child if they are in the bed with them. Plus a mattress for an adult and a mattress for a baby are differnt because of the firmness which is why bedsharing is a risk no matter how safe you -think- you're being. ATM The thinking on SID's is that the immature brain stops firing the message to remind the babys heart to beat and the baby to breath, they arent mature enough to ap out of it so this leads to death.
@@cloudedcolour5329 but wouldn’t suffocation be the cause. Isn’t SIDS described as unexplainable death?
@@Noella1963 thats why its current thinking and why I previously stated it leaves no physical external signs
Great video
Sav Telly thank you! Let us know if you have any questions!
wish there would have been mention @the 'new' breathable bumpers they have came out w/ to try & acxomodate both sides of this equation!
Not sure it’s possible to mention every single possible thing in the world related to babies. It’s a great video so shush.
Great video!
Does anybody know when to transition from swaddler to wearable blanket?
Great question! It's often good to switch either to a transitional swaddle or to a wearable blanket once your baby starts rolling over on their own. We have more info on that in this video if you skip ahead to 3:06! ruclips.net/video/z7wtRiHCzPw/видео.html
Loved all the information. Was wondering what crib that is in the back? It is beautiful!
That is the Jenny Lind Crib in Lagoon. Unfortunately its so heavy our store is unable to ship it at this time. But if you are local to American Fork Utah you can make a phone order and pick it up at our retail store! If you aren't local you should be able to order it from other retailers!
The Baby Cubby Thank you! I’m in Texas so I would have to check out retailers near me. I have been binge watching your videos like crazy these past weeks. Every single one is helpful and I have been loving them
Oh we are so happy to hear that!! Please check out our blog as well it has a lot of helpful info for new mamas! Almost all other products we talk about you can purchase on our website at www.babycubby.com
Does Joovy Room2 also has plastic mattress like the Nuna and 4moms? I’m deciding between the nuna 4moms or joovy. Thanks!
We are not super familiar with the Joovy Room2 but from what we can tell they all have a similar mattress. The major difference between Nune and 4Moms and the Joovy is the set up and take down. Its VERY easy to fold and unfold the Nuna and 4Moms play yard.
www.babycubby.com/4moms-breeze-playard-2018-plus.html
www.babycubby.com/nuna-sena-aire-playard-night.html
Does the SnuggleMe have the same safety features as the Doc A Tot? With the sides being breathable?
We are not too familiar with the SnuggleMe's but they are made out of Organic Cotton which is breathable.
Can you use the Doc A Tot inside the Sena?
Alexa Roberts Dockatot specifically says not to put your dock in any enclosed area. (Such as a crib or portable bed) If your baby happens to roll over the edge, your baby could get stuck. So make sure you're always placing it in a very open space :)
You forgot to include the halo bassinest. Oh you mentioned it ok never mind
Can you use sena mini with newborn?
Eds V Yes!!
What about the Baby Box?
A baby box is a perfectly suitable sleep environment for an infant as long as they are manufactured properly.
I’m sorry, I’m formula feeding my baby’s because of low milk supply .. you didn’t explain why That increases the chance of SIDS, I’ll do my own research but I wish you had explained that
www.aappublications.org/news/2017/10/30/BreastfeedingSIDS103017
Milo and Pepper, thanks for sharing that article! Olivia, the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) is always a good source if you have additional research questions if we've missed something in a video!
This had no tips related to co-sleeping. Room sharing/ wall sharing is not co-sleeping.
Hello! Thanks for leaving us a comment! Room sharing does fall under the co-sleeping umbrella. Were you looking for tips on bed sharing?
@@TheBabyCubby actually yes, I was looking for tips how to do actual co- sleeping/ bed sharing and not just room sharing.
@@minkasharma504 then you need to look elsewhere, that much is evident
I am the heaviest sleeper ever. I know I’d kill a baby I have in two seconds by sleeping in a bed with them. But using the bed extensions are almost the same thing
Hannah Schaffer gotta do what’s right for you!
Monica Haehl yeah. true
Lol this video makes me nervous
There is no such thing as safe cosleep. Co-sleeping is not for the babies comfort but rather the parents convenience. Please don't change the definition of co-sleeping. You are giving the wrong info on SIDS.
Ermmmmm no my 3 month old daughter went 24 hours with no sleep to the point of exhaustion whikst I spent 2 weeks trying to get her to sleep on her own, until I let her sleep next to me, I then took shifts with husband and mum so someone was always awake with her as she just will not sleep on her own, it's definitely not convenient for us I would love nothing more than for her to sleep on her own but she won't so this is not true
Bureaucrats
no no no co sleeping should NEVER be an option
Thanks for your concern! Thankfully there are so many ways we can put our little ones to sleep that work best for them!
OK so whats the other option.... my baby wont sleep on her own I tried for 2 weeks to get her 2 and she ended up really ill and wont eat in the end as she was so tierd from no sleep, she was so distressed she hyper ventilated and sweated through her blanket so I finally let her sleep next to me while I was awake but I lasted 3 days until I started hallucinating from sleep deprivation I then took shifts with my husband and mum so my baby could sleep now a month after at 3 months I will have to just co sleep because my baby gives me no choice my mum, my grandma have had her to try and get her to sleep in her own and she won't so we no longer no what to do doctors just tell me she needs more sleep ut then say oh but she should sleep on her own... we'll yeah genius thanks you come and spend a week with her then good luck to you getting her to sleep on her own
@@socat4559 rubbish you clearly havent tried hard enough you feed change and put her down to sleep if she cries leave her too it for a while then just go and gentley shush her then leave the room again
No unfortunately I have tried that over 2 weeks she wasn't eating enough as she was very tierd so I made a doctors appointment and I was told to do what ever it takes to get her to sleep
I have tried gently shushing, I have tried laying my t shirt under her, I have tried patting, hand in chest storking face, leaving to cry for 2 kins and going back then 5 then back I have tried leaving her with my mother so she could do it, I have tried a night nanny video consult, I have paid for a 0-3 sleep training progtqm I have tried a bed side snuz so my hand can be next to her etc, I have tried anti colic bottles, I have tried comfort milk, I have taken her several times to the osteopath, I have tried a constant bedtime routine with bath and wind down whicb I still continue regardless, I am not an un intelligent person qnd I am more than capable or preserving.. which I have done but my baby did become very unwell and won't eat so I did take her to the doctors and they advised to get her some sleep so after 2 weeks of hard work I am back to square one, she does have bad wind and brings up milk alot so sometimes when I have left her and she cries it comes out of her nose and shes coughing so it's not always her fault either