Gender dysphoria animation
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- Опубликовано: 18 сен 2021
- Song: Pink pantheress - Take me home
This can be interpreted however you want, idrc, but if you don’t have any input worth reading, don’t bother saying it bc if anything, it’s annoying ☺️
If you don’t understand the way I convey how I personally feel in this video, that is fine, but I suggest you keep any negative thoughts you might have to say because in the end, does it really affect you? 
Развлечения
I can tell this landed on the wrong side of yt and getting recommended to weirdos who think it’s cool to comment questionable things when they can just refrain from doing so, but to address those really annoying stubborn people, I just want you to know that you didn’t have to click on the video and just click the three dots next to it, and press “Don’t recommend channel”
And to those who don’t understand the video, this is my way of expression, if you don’t get it, that’s completely fine, just don’t take it for face value. I don’t care if you have negative opinions, but it would be wonderful if you just didn’t share it for once? I mean you can, but it’ll just make you look bitter yk? Ok cool.
Have a great day
FUCKING PR E A CH /VERY POS
Couldn't have said it better(❁´◡`❁)
Well said!
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Jおshせrちゅお。👀👋;🔫🕹🆖👊📢😡
Please ignore the other hurtful comments here, even I springtrap am not that evil
Hehe :)))
thank you spingtrap
I KNEW SPRINGTRAP WOULD BE SUPPORTIVE >:]
Thanks man, you’ll always be my bestest of homies in the world dude
You may be a serial killer but ily for this kwites husband
I swear Hydrea is on their own level of talent
I'm the 666th like. Now, you are cursed.
It’s not even talent at this point
It’s a superpower
It's really good though!
Fr
@@knockedout2826 and you're the curse that no one asked for
Friendly reminder: gender dysphoria doesn't always mean someone is trans. They could be completely cis but still experiencing dysphoria and thinking stuff like: "im not as feminine/masculine as the others. Am i even a woman/man?"
True.
I can sort of relate but I am in no way trans or feel like doing that
I actually relate to that since I am a girl but got hairy body early
Also friendly reminder from a trans man that being cis and having gender dysphoria and being trans with dysphoria are both valid. Respect.
@@CraigomyeggoGreg exactly!
Honestly gender roles sometimes are kinda stupid tbh
“Art should comfort the disturbed and disturb the comfortable.”
thats what this reminded me of
Not da goyspeak 💀☠
best quote actually, I’m taking that
This indeed comforted me.
Wise words
this, this is exactly what gender dysphoria feels like,,the way you symbolised so many things so accurately is really mind blowing tbh. awesome job hydrea !!
Agreed
my gender dysphoria doesnt feel like a bunch of moving and spinning
@@You-nl6wp its a different experience for everyone! Hydrea may just be trying to capture their own, or a common feeling of gender dysphoria! /nm
@@vvalmpic ok
My gender dysphoria right now feels so empty and they put it into a picture that I can relate to.
Once again, another absolutely legendary edit.
Ugh frrr- Hydra coming here with their Iconic edits so Iconic it has to be capitalized, Edit: I don't have notifications on- so I didn't see this, I know that their pronouns are they/them but when I wrote this ig it slipped my mind, very sorry if I offended anyone thank you for correcting me
@@FuzaketeSatsugai their*
@@FuzaketeSatsugai their pronouns are they/them :) (just a reminder i hope this doesn't come off as rude)
@@Soobinie.. thats cool
@@Coom42069 ok 👌
whoever keeps spamming skibidi toilet comments is OBSESSED LMAO great animation i loved the transitions omg
the skibidi toilet guy is so lost 😭
It’s the Gen Alpha kids with their mom’s IPad of course.
@@XS-03_Apolloyou are soo obsessed omg😭 please find something else to do than wasting your time commenting hateful comments on some random persons video, you’re acting soo pathetic. Why do you feel this way?? Why do you feel the need to be hateful? Is something happening at home? Does mommy not give you enough attention so you go on random videos seeking that attention by being a pathetic fuck? I recommend seeing a therapist, i hope you get the treatment you deserve. 🫶🏼💕 PS you have like 5+ comments on this single video, obsesseddd🙏
@@XS-03_Apollo do you usually lie to yourself or is this a one time thing
bait! @@XS-03_Apollo
I love this. It’s a beautiful expression of emotion and pain. It’s a skill that people can turn a feeling so painful into something so powerful and amazing. I hope you’re feeling better
as a person going through gender dysphoria right now, i can safely say that this is represented very well, and i love it
the song is very nice too
What's gender dysphoria?
@@Timiki_ Gender dysphoria is a term that describes a sense of unease that a person may have because of a mismatch between their biological sex and their gender identity. This sense of unease or dissatisfaction may be so intense it can lead to depression and anxiety and have a harmful impact on daily life.
@@amirror7132 oh ok
I'm going through the same thing bud
@@amirror7132 did you copy paste this off of Google? I can see many similarities.
Its so hard to take compliments about your body when you don't feel the things they say.
Yeah. I always have to keep up my usual monotone voice without letting my frustration slip through when I take those compliments
I hate having to be called “little girl” and “aww you’re such a big girl”. Why won’t it just fucking stop?
@@biothehaz4rd my parents keep calling me "our cute girl" and it have me sick
@@espantachangos that must suck dude
@TheSnailestOfThemAll Thank you.
You trans people are honestly so cool i don’t know how anyone could hate you guys and the animation is also sick as hell, you are validated and loved don’t let some edgy 9 year old or American homophobic racist man in his 40’s or a Christian grandma tell you otherwise
UTTP
@@XS-03_ApolloSilence, Chud
@@XS-03_Apollo how the hell does “I hate my gender I want to kms” make someone a p3dofile..? Are you okay?
@@XS-03_Apollobro how does this relate to pedophilia you skibidi toilet watcher 😭?
@@XS-03_ApolloHow the hell does trans people make them p3d0phil3s.
Have you noticed that most of the transphobes in the comments section are RUclips shorts kids? Lol
right !? oh my gosh !
TREE PFP
im gonna reply on any object show fans comments so hello there
also agreed HELP
RUclips shorts was a mistake
For all my ftm brothers/non-binary pals
If your parents refuse to buy you a binder, but you still really want to bind, don’t use masking tape, or bandage those things can damage you. Instead take 2 sports bras and wear one normally then wear the other one backwards. This works the same and is a safe alternative! Gender dysphoria is hell, but don’t worry, you are still valid :D
Edit: I’m so glad I’m helping so many people in the comments! you all are alive and I’m proud of you for that. Stay strong you guys! :] another reminder to always bind safely. No more then 8 hours a day, not during exercise or sleep. Bind safe guys! :]
So, I've actually done this and I have for a month and it works!
Edit: (April 28 2022) OMFG I JUST GOT MY FIRST BINDER!
thank you so much!! i found out i'm a demigirl just recently, and i've always felt uncomfortable with my chest, so i'll definitely try this.
Its been 4 months since i started looking for a binder and i havent found a single one. I cannot thank you how much this helps.
thank you sm!!
tysm!! i was always confused how two sports bras helps coz they have so much padding but thx
as a trans man this hits differently :(
STOP BEING EVERYWHERE
Fr
As another trans man, yep
yeah
Fr
Questioning gender is a hard and overwhelming situation,it makes you overthink,like questioning if you fit to that or to that is hard, its like the mind messing with you.
But later i found out im bigender but yet still im questioning....am i really bigender or am i some other?..
It's just so confusing
I hope yall find yourselves
I hope you find yourself too and can be confident in yourself :]
Wishing u luck from a trans guy:∆ 🏳️⚧️
ChatGPT comment 💀
Yeah I feel that, I’ve been questioning my gender for a while.
I am biologically female, but I’ve never really felt like a female so (only online, I don’t want to tell people till I’m pretty sure of myself) for about two months, I identified as she/they. But the ‘she’ part didn’t really feel like me, so I went fully they/them for about a year. But now I’m questioning demiflux (they/them, with fluctuating he/him). I kinda feel like I’m genderfluid, but I also feel like I need the construct of one gender to make me feel… whole? Like I don’t think I could identify as ‘any’ or ‘none’ or some sort of neopronoun.
(No offense to genderfluid ppl, ofc)
bluddington bluddington you are not going to reach 30, you will ACK in 10 years
@@jayomato thanks:)
Dysphoria is different for everyone, as a 15 year old Trans Girl, it never bothered me how I looked, I dont have a manly face, I was always able to make my voice girly tho I never hada deep voice to begin with, the problem lies in gender roles, I was always expected to be masculine, I get treated like a boy especially in school where its a Boys = Bad thing and I get mistreated by most of my female classmates because they perceive me as a boy, it hurts to be judged, for something I have no control over, I didnt ask to be born male, but I still love myself somewhat, and I didnt let it change, I didnt let it make me unhappy, I didnt let it change me, I even still believe in Christianity even if people like to say LGBTQ is a sin for I dont care, everyone is special, everyone can be a good person, I will transition once I'm an adult and before that Im working on socially transitioning and voice training :)
All of you have a lovely day!
Valid
I wish you tons of luck on your social transition and voice training!
This made me smile as a Non-binary, hope you have a great day
As a Christian who is bi and ace I believe that there’s a difference between actual Christians and people who hide behind the Bible for no good reason
You are not a sin. You are a wonderful young lady!! Please take care and know we are rooting for you.
This is how I feel, every day i go out I see gender envy, and other people and things reminding me I’ll never be a real girl
To me, you are a real girl :)
Don't listen to them!
My original comment was deleted ;-;
you are a real girl !! :-(
You are a real girl! For example nobody is born liking the color pink, but that doesn't mean it isn't your favorite color! Same goes for gender :)
You are a real girl
the top comments vs the new comments…
UTTP
LOL-bu5nv has 100+ comments and returns to this video daily. ignore him or report him for spam or whatever just don’t entertain him
@@youre764 ok
The new comments: skibidi toilet is aryan 🥵
The duality of man
Hey if you're scrolling from the newest, please, stop.
It's not worth your time or energy to reply to trolls or people who have an idea in their head and are unwilling to be convinced or agree with you because to them they feel like it needs to be a fucking debate and they see agreeing with you as losing so they will never agree with you no matter what good arguments you offer.
Please just go somewhere else and watch whatever makes you happy, of you need recommendations I recommend watching a RUclipsr name Dougdoug :] his content are fun and genuinely made me feel better and don't have annoying and dividing politics or horrible and annoying gender wars like in tiktok, anyone no matter their race, gender, background can enjoy his videos which is beautiful rather than a dividing, political videos that makes us hate each other.
Please, treat yourself, you deserve the best and only the best ^-^
DafuqBoom and SPVA is so much better than Dougdoug doe
>namedrops Hasan Piker's autistic brother
Did oldGODS just BTFO all of newGOD talking points??
dougdoug was blacked by his transracial brother who made the gyattley's parable. aryans won.
For a second I thought your pfp was a gigachad and it fits perfectly
@@raven_tea homosexual
top comments: 🍭🙂😀🥳😙
new comments: 💀🤢🔫🧌🧍♂️🤬
fr dude
You should always bring a hazmat suit whenever trekking into new comments
@@L3_cHatthanks for the advice
@@catzarewowzers my entire state had stooped very low since 2021 so bonus points and a brownie for you 🫥
@@catzarewowzersthat roast died so freaking long ago 💀💀💀💀
As a cis guy, all you trans guys gals and nb pals and everyone else in between, you guys are valid! To trans guys specifically, you guys are real men. Doesn’t matter if you weren’t born with masculine anatomy, doesn’t matter if you have breasts, you are a man. You guys are the strongest men out there. ⚠️TW⚠️ My ex boyfriend was trans, and he committed suicide this year. It wasn’t due to the fact he was transgender, I honestly don’t know his reasoning, but I do remember the nights he called me crying about hating his body. That shit hurts. I bet it has an impact on all you trans guys, a huge one. But you are still a man. You are still men.
ilysm omg /p
@@dead91945 love you too :)
Tysm ily
@@Zainfa4 Aww I love you as well! If you want to say anything in this comment section I’m here to listen :)
tysm :]
WE QUESTIONING OUR GENDER IDENTITY WITH THIS ONE 🗣️🗣️🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🗣️🗣️🔥🗣️🔥🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️💯💯💯
FR
The animation is so simple yet beautiful
I really relate to this as a trans male/nonbinary
It’s especially hard because I like to dress femininely 😓
Thank you for blessing us with this wonderful animation 🙏
i support
CLOTHES HAVE NO GENDER
Same
@@Kiib_ ithey never said anything about clothes having gender
@@Kiib_ Clothes don’t have gender, but feminine clothing is more associated with the female gender. That’s probably the case on why they feel that way.
I’m cis, and just from the way people describe dysphoria sounds so suffocating. I can’t even imagine feeling trapped like that. I’ll support you guys no matter what, I know at some point things will change cause everything is temporary, everything. It baffles me how being a trans ally is so complicated for people, even other people in the LGBT community. I hope you all the best for your future and that you always feel safe and respected. Oh, and I’m so so proud of your transition, for those who wish to do so.
What does cis mean?
@@lucidfangirl1030 it’s short for Cisgender, people who identify with the gender they were assigned at birth. Aka people who aren’t trans
If you really want to know how dysphoria feels like, i reccomend playing House from Kitty Horrorshow. She's an overall amazing horror developer
Edit: the game's name is Anatomy NOT House lol
I heard another trans person explain it as "Walking into the wrong classroom" or hearing your voice in a recording.
I hope that helps, even if just a little.
Gender Dysphoria happens 1 and 30,000 males and 1 in 300,000 females. Look it up. What they’re experiencing is NOT dysphoria.
I’m glad the top comments are mich nicer. Usually nice videos like this have a mix of good and bad top comments, or just bad ones, but this video seemed to attract better audiences (a little bit more than other videos). I must warn those who wish to see the bad comments, that they are in fact mostly in the new comments that you are most likely in right now. And if you wish to adventure down into that rabbit hole more, I need you to stay strong! Protect yourself from the horrible trolls that are new comments! Don’t trust what they say unless it’s kind! Even though I’m a new comment, I just want you to stay safe in the dry wasteland that is the meaner new comments!
Edit: Also beware the weird skibidi toilet worshipper people that reside in these new comments as well! They are…really…interesting…
i don't understand how people can watch this video and still comment these hurtful things. is this what happens to a society when politics matters more than sympathy?
We need more people like you fr
Logic >>>>>> Sympathy, emotions and other irrational trash
Skibidi isn't hurtful, neither can words on a screen really hurt you (unless you're weak) 😂🤡
> "ERMMMM YOU NEED TO HAVE SYMPATHY BECAUSE..... UMMMMM...... YOU JUST HAVE TO HAVE IT OKAY?!? DONT QUESTION ME!!! YOU VILL EAT ZE BUGS......"
@@LOL-bu5nvWhat if the screen is red doe?
As an enby, this is exactly how i feel. I just feel like crying everytime and it doesn't help that my family dont exactly support me. This is amazing everything about this is just masterpiece.
U WATCH SK8 THE INFINITY TOO?? Also sorry ur parents don't support you 😕
@@Wishfull._..Editor57 ah yes! Sk8 the infinity is perfection.
@@Wishfull._..Editor57 Oh thats quite alright! I kinda lived with it now. :')
Both...this gave me the feels :( ...cheer up, ok? I hope everything turns out alright...ily ♡ enby
@@VexDeePhilosophs Aaaaa thank you so much! im getting too emotional now !! This actually made my day better!! You stay safe! ilyttt :D
Used to identify as trans but nowadays I feel more cis. Guess what? Trans people are still 100% valid. Y'all are brave and you all deserve support, love and acceptance. Hope you all get to be whoever you want to be ❤
and ur also 100% valid!! its okay to have fluid thoughts about gender, there is no permanent sense of self
love this comment
absolutely based, there always valid
@@Da-arctic if only you couldnt pick to be an asshole either...
@@Da-arctic like seriously, do you have anything better to do?
Bro dropped the coldest transgender edit and didnt give us a blanket 🥶💯
But the hanging in the first 10 seconds was wild
Good luck to all the transgender ppl out there 💝
Saying good luck cuz there’s like a 50/50 chance they’ll be dead within a couple years is crazy
@@eiavops4576 Good luck with passing ("as a girl" not "away") 🙏
gd dosent mean ur trans-
This is so sad, you expressed the feeling so well through this animation. You can get through this
i really needed this because it shows me that im not alone going through this. i feel really shit recently because im on my period and its a physical reminder that no matter what i do ill always be a girl and i just want that feeling to just,, go away
My dear, you are not a girl, you are as valid as any cis person, i know how you feel and I feel like that too sometimes, but just think that in the future everything will get better, just endure this a little more, it's hard, but no one said that life is easy, at least in the future you will have the right to flex abt going through a shitty and awful situation and still living your gender as vivid as you want and will
Ily
You never have and never will be a girl, your physical features don’t define your gender and I promise someday you’ll get to have the body and voice that matches your gender- it’ll be ok, I know it will
What do you mean? You're not a girl at all, you're whatever you want to identify as. But if you want to look less feminine, you can save enough money for a hysterectomy, they remove your uterus and it prevents you from getting pregnent and having periods! You can also get a top surgery which removes your breasts, and you can take testosterone which will make you look and sound more masc. it's alot of money tho, I heard alot of health insurence could cover the cost.
Biologically you are only born as a girl, and your body doesn’t know you are not. Regardless, you are still a valid male and I hope you find more peace someday
You are a female and will always be, but dont let that bring you down
as someone who also struggles with dysphoria,this touched me and i approve of this,i hope others do as well:) cus dysphoria sucks and i wish and hope for those who can fight past it to be who they were ment to be 💜
Ever notice this whole dysphoria thing started since 2020?
@@bumb.wingmanmhm, people are accepting now !
@@Astari-SkyeHowever I wouldn’t call intercepting children’s normal puberty cycle for an imaginary treatment “acceptance”
@@bumb.wingmanwhat about people who get treatment when they're over 18? Also just... stop being a dick?
@@bumb.wingmanyeah, it’s when people became more self conscious, or when it started getting publicized. Idk I did zero research on this topic, and I don’t want to.
Trans masc here, even if you don't have dysphoria you are still valid, if you still like the fashion of the opposite gender you are still valid(and honestly tbh guys fashion is hella boring sometimes)I love playing into my feminine side while also staying masc. You are valid, you are strong and you aren't a mistake and if you have an unsupportive family or friends then remember, there will always be people who support you :] and if youre looking for a friend or just someone to talk to, I'd gladly be there..
As a trans man whose mostly transitioned, it does get easier along your journey. There will be bumps in the road but finding/creating a support system helps a lot along the way. Best wishes for all you out there. I wouldnt wish dysphoria on my worst enemy, i know how hard it can hit. Best wishes to all my trans siblings out there.
Thanks :)
Thanks!
Thanks man ♡
Welcome to Manhood
you'll never be a real man
I feel exactly like this, being on my periods and looking at my body repeatedly reminds me that I’ll never actually be a boy
y’all are so fucking supportive 💀I love y’all
You are a boy! It doesn’t matter about what you look like or what you have to go through. Your still a boy if you believe you are.
YOU ARE A BOY!
>:(
You are male , you may not feel like it but trust me , you are :)
Don ‘ t let yourself down like me , be who you were meant to be.
smae #[
Ayo we’re all here for you, brother
I felt that clock so hard, waiting lists in europe are so long
Proof that you can make funny jokes under this video without being a transphobic discriminatory degenerate
everyone reading this please ignore the two guys spamming uttp they both have 100+ comments on this one video and come back daily im 90% sure they’re bots. or report them for spam
That's concerning, who the hell would make 100+ comments to hate?
@@XS-03_ApolloChuds can only say Tr00n 😂. Soy culture is autismFAIL
@@XS-03_Apollo Too sigma for this JewTube
@@LOL-bu5nvToo stupid to understand a vent
My god that’s concerning 💀
As someone who’s never really dealt with gender dysphoria, huge props to the trans community as a whole. How you guys put up with that day after day? Respect.
Edit: plot twist: i’m enby, i just dont have dysphoria. surprise!
its hard but we do it :)
Do only trans people go through this? I’m cis but I went through this maybe once or twice, but that was when I was young
@@twqtt yes, only trans people experience gender dysphoria, you might’ve been experiencing another type of dysphoria though
@@arcadeii thanks for the explanation!
We don't, hope this helps!!!
Hi guys, trans man who with a shit load of dysphoria and has yet to transition and is also in a red state, here to say: Y'all are amazing and beautiful! I know it's hard to live as a trans person, I'm surprised I made it to 18. But that's bc I know, and you should know too, that it gets better. I eventually found support and confided in those that cared and I was able to drag myself through my last years of highschool and into early adulthood. Even now, I still struggle and sometimes it's so, so hard. But I keep reminding myself, one day, I WILL live the life I want, even if it takes a while. So, keep pushing through life, even if you feel that there's nothing to keep going for, because one day, you'll find that thing that made it all worth while.
thank you very much from my part
You sound like a pretty badass guy
@@biothehaz4rd Thanks! I don't think I see myself that way, more of just someone who tripped somewhere in their childhood and is now rolling forward at varying speeds lol.
I dont have anything to do with this topic, but this message is very relatable. As for my experience with ADHD, I say that sometimes the only one that can keep getting you up and keep fighting for you is yourself. Never stop fighting!
Cause of my dysphoria idk if I will make it pass 16-
Hello, likely you sorting by new! Reminding you your gender is valid and to not doomscroll, you’ll be better off for it and less tempted to fall into feeding the trolls! You deserve love and support no matter what you’re going through or who you are, promise
And to the video creator, hope you’re doing better now or at least have a good no-dysphoria streak, take care
Preciate that.
Surprisingly not very many transphobes. I'm really only seeing skibidi rizz or whatever brain rot.
It's pathetic but a little funny lol.
Thank you I'm stop scrolling now before I fucking explode or something
@@Xaphiiumm.... it seems you just have L non-aryan Rizz and have gyatted all your fanum tax away, go get some baby gronk Hyperborean Chuddy Gyatt juice and talk to me later, mmkay?
What the hell are these comments? Don’t listen to those weirdos, even 2 years later I love ex this animation
Huggy wuggy is calling📞
@@Huck5-7IM BETTER THAN SKIBIDI TOILET INFANT!
@@HaverBrickzITD no skibidi toilet solos
this is exactly what gender dysphoria feels like and it’s so goddamn annoying because i can’t do basic human things without feeling horrible about my body and self
Hey man I hope your doing ok your valid you and your gender are both valid.
Hope you are doing ok, and you should be proud of yourself
@@bat.blood._ exactly what I'm sayin. Everyone is completely valid in my eyes and so are you too
@@rollypolly9784 thank you for the kind comment i really appreciate it!! :)
@@bat.blood._ thank you that means a lot tbh :>
i cant tell if this is meant to be meant for transfem or transmasc individuals, and i absolutely love that. ive seen transmascs relate and transfems relate in the comments, and i think that its genuinely awesome that so many people can relate with just one edit :DD
@@luv4kurapika thank you for letting me know! :DD
@@luv4kurapika It can also be taken as mtf.
as an afab gendefluid person, i can also heavily relate to this animation meme ^^
i think its originally mtf; the glitch effect in the mirror with the blue figure, the slightly off-color female figure in the sea of pink figures, both of these can represent seeing yourself as not passing as female, but some people can take it as ftm, because all the pink in the video and lack of other colors can be seen as suffocating and stereotypical to ftm trans people who had a very feminine upbringing
basically it could be taken as an older mtf trans person's dysphoria or a younger ftm trans person's dysphoria
*but obviously i cant speak on the creators intent so idk*
WARNING
if you choose to continue to read these highly offensive comments, prepare to be extremely pissed the frick off
its full of gen alpha ipad kids who are literally just commenting arbitrary stuff about skibidi toilet and ohio
thats it
proceed with caution
>highly offensive comments
>newGODS talking about 'kibidi and Ohio 💎💎
TECHNOBLADE IS DEAD WOOOO
Fanum Tax!!!!😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹
no way whats wrong with my name!??
@@BESTGORE65 dear god
@@BESTGORE65you think that kind of name is funny. Grow up.
Okay, so I saw a ton of comments say stuff like:
"God made two genders"
"find God"
Or stuff like that.
Let's get one thing straight:
Religion is not a valid argument. Why? Well, there are no fundamental evidences that claim God is real. I am not trying to say that it's wrong to believe in Him: In fact, I respect all religions! But if we're talking about arguments, well, it is not confirmed and thereof invalid. By the way, not everyone believes in God, another reason why it does not count. And some believers also support or are in the LGBT community! Religion is also flexible and not always the same. Many say "but in the Bible-" The Bible was created by humans, and humans can commit mistakes, and thereof the Bible is not a viable source of religious information. That's what a lot of people mean when they say the believe in God and not the church.
Also, didn't God hypothetically say that you should love or at least respect everyone, even your enemies? You are behaving in a way God, if He exists, would be really disappointed to see.
Please, if you do not have anything positive to say, then don't say it. And refrain from saying negative stuff in a video that is meant to comfort people who feel this way!
Treat people how you would like to be treated so everyone can have a nice environment where they can be safe. And if you don't support them, at the very least respect them!
I cannot believe people don't understand something as basic as this. Have a nice day :D!
My dude, science can't say that such a perfect word could be created by nothing
@@user-hd7oe6hd8fIt can doe
@@user-hd7oe6hd8fwhat word
Reasons why this comment is awesome:
1. You respect all religions!! 🎉🎉
2. You’re nice!
3. You’re speaking the truth
4. You make very good points
Thank you for restoring my faith in humanity.
scientifically, there's only male, female and intersex, if you're so interested about science
Trans fellas who worry about never being validated, you don't need anyone's to validate you, be unforgivingly joyous. You need your own validation and people who will truly love you for you are.
how can someone love them for who they are when they didnt love themselves for who they are?
@@redacted8577Cope, it's not your life, no? That's what they want and it doesn't matter cause we only have one life and we should live it and it doesn't affect us. Who cares if a few people change.
@@OneWithAngerBait wow you probably left critical thinking and give the same reply to everyone. You said "people will love you for who you are" it's not our life but we are the people. So this includes us and you can't give the same reply to everyone: "it's not your life 🤓"
Hold up, the whole point of switching genders for most trans people isnt because they didnt love themselves before transitioning. most people transitioned because they didn't feel comfortable in their own skin and because they love themselves enough to care they changed to BE comfortable.@@redacted8577
@@redacted8577 They have their own community that will accept them even in their new skin, I may not understand them fully but I think they don't need random people to accept them because they can't change it others opinions but there will be someone out there and a community that will accept them
cis female sending love, ignore the stupid transphobia in the comments ❤!!
thanks
thanks maam!! :D
thank you !
Thanks
I’m no doctor but I don’t think that we should be performing permanent medical procedures on the mentally I’ll. Seems a little against the hypocratic oath
Holy shit, 4chan got their hands on this comment section!
Sharty*
Clarty*
764*
GIH*
Foodists*
Kiwicvcks*
dwDEITIES*
shortsGODS*
@@LOL-bu5nv Shawtys like a skibidi in my gyatt got me rizz in like nananana
@@pballsgaming123>twitterMIGRANT
@@pballsgaming123cringe
@@pballsgaming123wtf😭
Bro this goes hard also please ignore those 10 yr olds commenting
They’re calling you all the things you aren’t and you don’t deserve it
RIZZ, SKIBIDI, GYATT, THOSE ARE THE THINGS YOU DONT HAVE, YOU SHALL FAIL, JEW
@@idiot-yw5oq are you okay
@@idiot-yw5oq are you a troll?
@@BookBohemianNo, you just have L rizz, I mog you
@@idiot-yw5oq ??? Ok
This is a really good and smooth edit. I hope you have a wonderful life.
This hits hard bro as someone who's gender-fluid. I've never seen something that encapsulates my feelings so well
💕
didn't ask
@@sodk_soggy who
@@fask69 ruclips.net/video/bUmkdO4Y1uY/видео.html
@@fask69 you sound like a middle school boy
giga chad moves☝️☝️☝️
Me a trans guy: same yeah yeah relatable.. *runs to mirror to imagine what I would look like with short fluffy hair and trying to deepen my voice*
update: this comment.. definitely is outdated!! i dont identify as transgender anymore, im nonbinary :) im more masc leaning, but not trans. still, i support all of you transgender people!!
one of the #1 trans guy experiences is wishing you had short fluffy hair
@@fishiesregression1725 my hair is like shoulder length AND its fluffy AND its soft. Now only if I didn't have a transphobic mother..
@@fishiesregression1725 YEAH
@@fishiesregression1725 Universal expierence
@@fishiesregression1725 I also want wide shoulders and masculine face and voice
Why the fuck are the recent comments talking about skibidi toilet
HELP
Cause it's gemmy.
@@LOL-bu5nvtf is Gemmy
@@LOL-bu5nvbro,tf is "gemmy"😦
@@ThatOneIdiotName_Stxrry >newGOD
if boy is blue and girl is pink…
i’m ✨purple✨
@@XS-03_Apollour insane😭
Agenders must be transparent
@@_Mayoz_BAHAHA TRUEEE
@@Freakybob.calling why cant i see my comment anymore 🧐
@@_Mayoz_ maybe it got deleted? icant see it either
Me when people yell at me that clothes have no gender: dysphoria comes in many ways little one, clothing may have no gender but it is a personal preference
Yeah. This happens with my hair style too. I want short hair to feel more comfortable with myself but then things like this are pulled and I’m just like, 🗿
@@matchedpowerofthesun exactlyyy
Clothes don't have gender, but if it makes you euphoric to wear clothes that are traditionally for your gender, then go for it. There's absolutely nothing wrong with conforming to gender roles if it makes you comfortable and happy👍
The fact that clothes have no gender doesn't mean that you're forbidden from giving your clothes gendered meaning and using them to express it :)
I feel terrible watching this because I'm extremely lucky in that I will never experience gender dysphoria as a cis Male and I will never have to go through the amount of pain and suffering that our beloved trans friends do, I just wanted to quickly say that I love you all and I wish you the best of luck in your pursuit of happiness in whatever gender that may be, and remember, you ARE valid and you ARE authentic in whatever gender you decide to transition to, stay strong and keep doing your thing out there because my god is the transgender community tough as nails, yall are out here making me jealous on that part haha
Thanks dude
Idk, I will never understand them.Is not like gender is important.
@@deathlight4210 Individuals who identify as trasngender are essentially stuck in the wrong body, they feel like they would be more fitting in a body of another gender, and so transgender people will go through their young lives loathing their body and their mannerisms that don't quite match up with that of which has been set out by "what is girly / boyish" and this is valid, it has been proven that transgender brains are closer to the gender that they were not assigned at birth.
Gender is important, especially to those who haven't been treated well by it and putten into the wrong box, if you don't understand something you should do your best to educate yourself instead of making a baseless assumptions, no?
Thank you
@@deathlight4210 i mean you can at least try right? its not like every cis ally knows exactly what dysphoria feels like, but the fact that they took time to learn about us is probably what we appreciate most
Even though I’m Christian this is a really good message! You got this :)!!
>it’s actually soot
Why did you sell the ‘sharty to kuz?
Doll sucked the most@@SkibidiToiletIslnherentlyAryan
I’m scared to look at the newest comments
Run, it's not worth it run
🤓😵🤡😭💀🤣🤡🖕🏻🤓🚽💀
Fish
@@LOL-bu5nvare you serious or joking
skibidi
people, if you see this comment, please do not make rude and downright f##### up comments in this comment section. Just stop. This is an animation of a real problem and most people who iv’ve seen commenting on this could give less of a crap. That’s my two cents.
Keep crying
@@MrAaaaazzzzz00009999 How sweet of a monster like you to comment. Thanks for showing the world you’re a bad person!
@@MrAaaaazzzzz00009999 на что ты так обижен, что оставляешь токсичные и жалкие комментарии здесь?
@@MrAaaaazzzzz00009999bro got mad 💀
@@MrAaaaazzzzz00009999hehehehehehehehehehhehehehehehhehehehehehhe
As a cis girl, I am trying really hard to understand the animation but honestly I don’t think I ever will. I support you trans folks till death, I’ve never met one of you in person and I’m glad the internet showed me the kinds of people I would have never known otherwise that made me see outside my own world and reshape my own ideals of gender and womanhood honestly. I’m also lgbt+, and the more I see of the trans fight, the more I realize it’s not important only to trans people, it’s for all of us - although they are obviously the mainstream and should be put under the spotlight before anyone else. Idk this was just a vent, pls plsss be safe you are loved and valid and supported and when life gets tough, remember that everything, absolutely everything it’s temporary. Again, you are loved and valid and supported and I hope you a great day 💕
It doesn't matter if you can understand or not, you're still a good ally👍
The best way I can explain it is that you feel trapped inside your own body, and not being able to break out (via transitioning) is an absolutely terrible feeling that I would never wish upon anyone. I'm personally glad that you never have to experience it, along with all the backlash you get after coming out.
you sound like a really good and caring soul. as an enby (assigned female at birth), thank you for being an ally to the trans community, and for this message, we really appreciate it.
Every time I see a cis girl that cares about their transgender sisters. I am infinitely happy that people like you don’t have to deal with what we do.
Also incredibly jealous, but that’s not the point
honestly as a trans boy i barely understand it too lol, but i’m not really a symbolic person anyway
I love the animation, it's so smooth!
top comments: 🥰🥳🩵💕💛❤
new comments: 🤬💀☠️💩🤡👹
In all seriousness tho, this is so real and really makes me feel seen I hope that the creator of this video is happy and safe now tho :)
Skibidi ohio
posted it again award
@@SkibidiToiletlsInherentlyAryan get out!
@@Huck5-7 get lost!
I’m not personally trans, but seeing by these comments, you’ve really made THOUSANDS and THOUSANDS of peoples day. Ily 🤟
im cis so i never really understood how gender dysphoria felt like before watching this, and now I feel like I get it a little more.
For all my siblings who struggle with this, please remember that you are very, very strong, I’m so proud of every one of you, that you still continue to push through your dysphoria, as much as it hurts. I love all of you, so, so much. My heart goes out all to you. ❤️❤️
Thank you :)
Thanks!
Kakyoin said trans rights
why tf are these random ppl hating on this?? theres nothing wrong with this and plus the animation is actually really cool. well done!
HELP WHY AM I FINDING THE NEWEST COMMENTS SO ENTERTAINING 4 NO REASONN 😭😭🙏🙏
REAL
supa silly 😂😂🎉🎉🎉😢😢😮😮😅😅😊😊❤
they make me giggle,,
@@fishcakesalthey make me scream AAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH AHH AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH HELP HELP AAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
Ohio
im a transmasc non-binary who goes by he/him pronouns, and i could say that this is absolutely an amazing representation of how gender dysphoria is. ive never experienced such hatred towards myself. i dont look masculine nor feminine, but just looking at my thighs which are pretty big, and looking at my chest from the side makes me want to generally materialize into a dust of nothing.
parents who point fingers at their trans or queer children as a sinner or a stranger to the family, or/and disown them are cruel. they will teach you everything and anything they know til you come out and suddenly you aren’t their kid anymore. absolutely trifling.
I agree!
Yeah...
I... I'm A Transmasc Enby Too. But I Go By They/He. This Comment Is What I Wanted To Say. I'm So Glad That I'm Not The Only One Feeling Like This :')
@@jimbojimmy1236 sure!
this is literally me
i’m usually not too bothered by my body cause i wear baggy or thick pants and baggy tops but when i’m just at home wearing whatever it’s so awful
i just realized i categorized home clothes vs outside clothes by how much dysphoria i felt wearing them all my life. like, home clothes are mega dysphoria and are hell to wear and look at, usually bought by my parents, outside clothes make me euphoric and happy
this is exactly how i feel everyday i go out in public, and the voice in my head constantly telling me im not a boy and never will be
@@luv4kurapika From personal experiencie, I would say that "toxic masculinity" (not in an excessive way) has helped me a lot with my ADHD
You live better being simplier
@@svp5thechad408 ADHD is nothing at all like being transgender…. I have ADHD and I’m also not cis. Also, toxic masculinity does not relate to what you’re saying at all. Please, please, please educate yourself, and stop targeting LGBTQ+ people.
you *are* a real boy and you’re completely valid!!
you'll never be a real man
@@hemireborn6450you'll never be loved by your mother
These newer comments confusing the heck out of me 😭
I don’t know if they’re trying to be transphobic or what, I’m more baffled than outraged, offended, annoyed, or whatever response those commenters expect
@@You-are-definitely-right-but a mixture of everything, say weird and annoying things to get attention, any kind of attention, some will try to be transphobic for a lil bit of ragebait spice but it's mostly to get attention cuz seeing "skibidi Ohio rizzler just came in my Gyattt!!! 😫🥵" will definitely catch your attention :]
Just ignore them, best advice.
@@BurningCookieFR LIKE THE ANIMATION WAS SUPPOSED TO BE SRS.
@@ravelmoura88 they most likely don't care about the animation and I bet most of them didn't even watch the vid, like I said it's just people saying weird and annoying things to get attention
And some will add a spice of transphopia to get more attention like with a guy with his username being "f4g- destroyer" obviously trying to get ragebait while saying cringy things
I found a few that think they're nazis and that it's okay to think that sort of stuff and like . . . NO THEY NEED TO SHUT UP
this is genuinely relatable
I don’t deal with gender dysphoria, but I do have a lot of identity issues (some relating to gender) and this really hit home for me somehow. The repetitive conformity, impulsive thoughts, thinking deep down that you can never be the self within your head... it was all visualized here. Thx for the amazing animation, it’s good to know I’m not alone, even if our experiences aren’t exactly parallel. 👍
Damn I feel that
u trans yet?
Gender dysmorphia?
@@BloodInTheStrawberries it’s different from body dysmorphia bozo
Im a non-binary person and i can really relate to this especially recently, my mom who was one of the few people I thought supported me when i asked for a binder she said “are you sure this isnt some trend your following?” And I almost cried. My dad makes everything about politics sp when i told him I was upset because he kept misgendering me he said “well im pretty sure the democrats just made up these new “genders” to cause separation between people” . My friend calls me she / her all the time even though he knows i go by they / them pronouns and every time i correct him he calls me it / it’s pronouns which are valid but he purposely says it in a way that makes me feel in-human there are only three people who actually support me
Sorry for the vent i shouldn’t have typed that much im sorry im sorry
@@mikansbloodybandaid5878 we’re you attention seeking for likes..?
1. Aight bitch pack up you're coming with me. You're getting new parents. /j
2. Get new friends. That fucker doesn't deserve you.
I wannna die because of gender dysphoria I'm tryna not cry in front of my family I'm at a bday party
@@marble3317 take me
The animation for this video is so amazing but like wtf is up with the new comments? It’s all these weirdos saying LITERAL gibberish and gen z slang like skibidi, Ohio, gyat etc. Literally what is wrong with these comments💀💀
Fr
You just want to get your feelings validated everywhere, don't you?
at what point does ragebait just become incoherent schizo rambling
@@LOL-bu5nv tf💀
@@Miles02cRagebait changes as to what society perceives as insulting. It hasn't changed in strategy one bit, it's just evolved
this hits different with the song and the gorgeous editing
Someone just told me my voice is deep and it gave me euphoria, all those months of training is finally doing something
Omg I love your Haikyuu pfp and username👌
@@prettymuchyeah7520 Thanks Yamaguchi is one of my favorite characters
You’ll never be a boy
This generation.
@@dhadasbfgabfu This is definitely one of the generations of all time
Guys we did it. We’ve reached peak animation
Skibidi Toilet has been out since February last year bro😭💀
@@SkibidiToiletlsInherentlyAryan no one CARES!
@@StrongSadSinzIs that the hypothetical jartyGOD in your pfp?
@@LOL-bu5nv I'm a trans male.
@@StrongSadSinz literally nobody asked but cool 😭😭
I don’t have gender dysphoria but this edit goes hard
being nonbinary fucking sucks bc I can't exactly find anything that feels right, I know I'm not a boy but I'm not a girl. and in a world where everything is either this or that with no inbetween, it's painful. still I'm slowly coming to terms with who I am and slowly learning to love myself more and more
I relate to this a lot
felt this. stay strong, you are valid!
its been 7 months and i can confirm i am not a boy, nor am i a girl. i am 100 meters from your location and rapidly approaching.
@@freezerburning You are born with a gender, Do you have a penis or a vagina?
@@dhadasbfgabfu at least take me out to dinner before asking what I've got going on jeez
Gender dysphoria is like hearing a recording of your voice for the first time you feel like it isnt truly your voice and nobody understands but you
Yes, finally someone else knows about this feeling :/ I'm sorry, I wish you the best ❤️
@@MrPillowStudiosyou realize that every single trans person knows perfectly who they are right
i relate to this on a spiritual level
@@flop3952 the best level 😊
@@MrPillowStudios nuh uh
i dont experience gender dysphoria, but this really makes me feel like i do. It captures what gender dysphoria may feel. I love this your so talented.
It is an amazing video.
Also I'm surprised you didn't get attacked by the skibidi mfs lmao
@@BurningCookie skibidi toilet!!! rizzler!!!! sorry.
@@kokoynut-_ I'm doxxing you for doing that.
@@BurningCookie NOOOOOOOOOOOOO
@@kokoynut-_it’s gender dysphoria, not dysmorphia…Dysmorphia deals with the way you perceive your looks and body ex: eds, and low self esteem. Dysphoria is a common thing us trans people experience relating to the negative feelings they associate with assigned sex characteristics ex: a trans man not feeling comfortable with the fact that he has breasts, or a trans woman feeling uncomfortable with a flat chest.
I don’t have any ill intentions with this comment, I just wanted to help you get the terminology right🤗
Never thought a simple edit could perfectly replicate what I feel like 24/7 but here I am, keep up the amazing work buddy
We have to admit that we cannot stop replaying this.
The fact that some people are so focused on the problems of other people and go out of their way to make them worse is kind of sad🙁🙁🙁
2023 is hell, sure we knew homo/transphobia exists, things are rly getting tougher here on. Like it hasn't been this bad in a long time. Probably all those sigma videos and Tiktok
@@GuiltyGal true..
@@GuiltyGaland the majority of them are children, or at least have the mentality of them.
And its often that they don’t actually mean what they say to a full extent
but rather say it for the sake of attention and being “based”
It’s horrible..
As a person who has been struggling of being the "weakest" zodiac sign ever and getting bullied, yes 2023 is a living nightmare. People try to be ontop and excuse themselves but in reality, they're just jealous of you. I also hate how some adults bully kids in Roblox and say "iTs FuNnY"
@@GuiltyGalmaybe it was the constant news cycle of you guys constantly focusing on children alongside lgbt propaganda, adult books in primary schools, grooming, normalizing pre teens to take life changing hormones / surgeries and just a general annoyance to the population
need I go on?
Who ever’s reading this, I love you so much.
Xhanks
@@LOL-bu5nv it’s ok, I hope you’re doing ok
I love you too :]
@@BurningCookie sending much love
I rizz you
You're so creative! I've never had gender dysmorphia before, but this an amazing way to show what it's like to have gender dysmorphia. Once I saw the video I subscribed right away. The edit was so sad and I feel bad for anyone that has this. ❤
You symbolised a serious topic that many go through, and yet still made it so fun and enjoyable to watch whoa
Henlo, cis person here. I’ve only experienced dysphoria in video games and it makes me so thankful that I happened to be born into a body I’m comfortable with (gender wise, still working on accepting my face and weight lmao). Please know that no matter what you identify as, you are valid. And those of you looking to hide your chest, please please please do safety research before doing so because you can hurt yourself if you bind for too long or improperly, and don’t swim with a binder that isn’t waterproof!!! I have a friend who is trans and that’s why I know this stuff. Be safe pls. 💜
If you have a problem with your weight I would recommend you to change it, because the "body positivity" can be very harmful and you need to be healthy
To loose some weight you can just start by eating less and less sugar, because it makes you anxious and makes you eat more. I guarantee you, you are not fat only for eating a lot, it can also happend by sleeping less (Or changing your sleed schedule), so please search about the topic and care about yourself, I know you can do it!
@@svp5thechad408 okay wtaf you don’t even know what their health state is
@@cheerio4000 What she said
Anyways, if her being not confortable with her weight is because she wants to look better for everybody, I would just recommend to not care about your looks that much, dont be a idiot who harms themself just for physical appearance
as a trans guy i find the new comments hilarious and the people getting pressed about them make it even more hilarious, listen i should be defending on the communities be half, but im an instigator so this is entertaining to scroll through the comments
YWNBAM 41%
newGOD... I kneel....
SkibidiARYANS won thoughbeit, TTD is still coming xlbeit you will be delayed from it for 2 xinutes
The new comments are so goofy
These comments are giving me migraines
Think about these questions before you type up your ‘ sigma rizz Ohio ‘ comments:
What if they aren’t religious?
What if they aren’t male/female
Are you even apart of the conversation
Are you even associated with this video?
Do you even know what this video means?
Have you ever felt the damage you can drop on someone?
Are you really that important?
Do you really think you should be commenting this?
Are you sure that your opinion matters?
Are you sure they are listening to you?
Do you know how much it hurts to hear all of that stuff?
Thank you for your time:)
I'm not religious either.
There's no other thing besides male/female if you ask me
Everyone joins the conversation. Nobody is a part of it.
No I'm not yet I want to share my opinion on it
I do
No I haven't because there is no damage that can be done by words. The only damage by words is that which was interpreted by the receiver
To me I am important
Yes I do
Yes I am. What matters is subjective after all
I am pretty sure they are (sometimes) and even then I still comment
I don't because I'm not a weakling
@@LOL-bu5nvgo back to 6th grade kid
@@XS-03_ApolloOhio is a dead meme. Skibidi toilet is not good. You’re the one yapping here. Go back to doing your homework.
@@SkyguccipeppaIt's a dead meme to you. And good is subjective. Define good objectively
@@LOL-bu5nv dam bro wasted his time replying, I said think not say 💀💀
this made me cry because this is exactly how dysphoria feels. i can never thank you enough for putting these feelings into such a beautiful piece of art that i can finally see myself in. thank you 🤍
It's been 2 years. I didn't really get the animation because I'm terminally a dum dum, but I hope your transitioning process has gone well since. And if you're still transitioning, take as much time as you need! No matter what, and even if you're never cis, you're the still realest man/woman out there. ❤
Very offtopic but you have the same profile picture i had 6 months ago
Tick-tock
Heavy like a Brinks truck
Looking like I'm tip-top
Shining like a wristwatch
Time will grab your wrist
Lock it down 'til the thing pop
Can you stick around for a minute 'til the ring stop?
Please, God
Tick-tock
Heavy like a Brinks truck
Looking like I'm tip-top
Shining like a wristwatch
Time will grab your wrist
Lock it down 'til the thing pop
Can you stick around for a minute 'til the ring stop?
Please, God
As time keeps slipping away (slipping away)
Girl, don't start feeling a way (feeling a way)
You and I, we are one in the same
Loving in pain, loving in (loving in pain)
As time keeps slipping away (slipping away)
Girl, don't start feeling a way (feeling a way)
You and I, we are one in the same
Loving in pain, loving in
Tick-tock
Gimme, gimme big bucks
That is all I do, girl
I just hit the jackpot
I wish you were here with me now so I could feel some
I wish you were here to hold me down like a real one, real one
Live long
Wanna be a big shot
Should've stayed away but always had a weak spot
I've been on the road, and I'm sorry for the mix-up
If you still love me, can you see me during liftoff? (Liftoff)
As time keeps slipping away (slipping away)
Girl, don't start feeling a way (feeling a way)
You and I, we are one in the same
Loving in pain, loving in (loving in pain)
As time keeps slipping away (slipping away)
Girl, don't start feeling a way (feeling a way)
You and I, we are one in the same
Loving in pain, loving in
With my hands in the ocean
With my hands in the ocean
With my hands in the ocean, I pay
I pray, ooh, I pray
the song, the theme, the animation, = a masterpiece
This has such meaning behind it, im sorry u have to go through this :( the animation is so amazing
Hydrea is on a WHOLE other level of talent compared to us mortals
It’s not that hard to make an edit like this I hope you realize. All they did was use expansion packs and pre made transitions .
Your pfp 🙏 *chef's kiss*
@@sensen4161 Sae byeok supremacy 🛐🛐🛐
@@nai_bae Not necessarily, many editors use After Effects and other similar programs manually.
As someone who goes throught gender dysphoria like every single day (I think I'm genderfluid tbh), this represent it so well-
Omg tysm for this animation! This really reflects my personal disphoria and have seen others saying the same. Everyone has different experiences with it but it's still important for stuff like this
The element of purple throughout the video is a really nice touch, because the male and female colors are typically pink and blue and they both make purple, showing how the character isnt sure about who they are.
I feel for those who suffer from gender dysphoria. They need the transition just as much as therapy to help them cope with the cruelty of this world. As a cis white man with severe depression I stand by those who feel as if death is better than your truth. I will teach my children to accept everyone around them for who they are and who they choose to be
hey uhm I am sorry if you find this offensive but could you put a trigger warning for the rapist part 😊
@@jadeyn2397 I’ll just remove it entirely because I’m none of those things.
@@jadeyn2397 Making assumptions about someone based on their had a name, but I dont remember it...
Oh yeah, I remember! It called RACISM
Just grow up and dont use twitter, please