I am Psychiatic mental Nurse Practitioner in the 🇺🇸. After watching this video, the wife gave a vivid description of the effects of alcohol in the family. Effects of alcoholism is universal. It’s impact the person suffering, the family and financial. The man needs help. The wife and the entire family need help. The family needs to support the man in his recovery and that is the only way he can recover not by throwing stones. Alcoholism is a disease. DSM 5 diagnosis for severe alcoholism is F10.20. This man and entire family needs help. Remember one common behavior with alcoholics is DENIAL
Moral of the story; Never ignore the red flags whilst dating. 2) keep 3rd parties out of your relationship 3) even in divorce or separation aim to be amicable
This is my first time watching this. I Don't know we have this type of proper court in Nigeria. I presently work in the court here in the states. And every time I go to the court environment, my heart always prays that God should help us in Nigeria to have this type of proper court of law with the judge that has the wisdom of judgment like Judge Funmi.
This case is very touching. Both the plaintiff and the defendant have their points but I have the opinion that Yemi's wife's parents are unduly intruding in the marriage and oppressing Yemi because of their contacts with the law enforcement agencies. All the same, I respect the judgement of the judge.
I have come to realize Marriage is not by your strength to handle all issues cos your strength might just get tired one day......You can never go wrong Activating the presence of God for divine direction.
I would rather say she's one of the many intelligent Judges in Nigeria and she's known because she has put herself online. Not all rich people show off online.. not all intelligent people are online. Thank you Judge for letting us know you. We appreciate your brilliant work. It is quite entertaining
I wish Nigeria would truly understand the real caliber of Judge God bless them, this Judge deserves more than just a Judge, I wish her minister of justice some day in a very respectful and responsible government in Nigeria . Corrupt African leaders will never see ur effort. Look the way u give everyone the platform to express their stories , this is call peace building and without peace no development. God will reward you ma Judge
I weak... Didn't know d husband was prepared: apart from d marriage problem de both have: guess her mum is interfering in her marriage giving her bad advices
The fathers house that she left for 7years and had 3kids She even agreed to stay with him in his family house 😏🙄 She really tried Can you handle a woman who is alcoholic and still manage her for 7years🙄😏
All you calling her mother-in-law, no mother will watch her child going through distress for quite a time & will keep acting dumb. Remember she stayed with the husband's family for 4 years before they packed out. So when did her mother start interfering? Right from the start? The man should work on his alcoholic & anger issues while both work together to limit the interference of in-laws.
If her mother was doing the right thing, the pastor wouldn’t have stopped her from going to the house, instead he will talk to the man to behave himself. Secondly, see how the woman was lying if not that the man brought proves. U haven’t seen a bad mother that’s why u saying this
Yes, but that's not enough reason for him not to address the alcohol problem he has. IF HE STOPS TAKING ALCOHOL, MORE THAN HALF OF THEIR PROBLEMS AS A COUPLE WILL BE SOLVED ! The alcohol problem is leading to him beating his wife.
Meeeen this case is not a child play, I'm working and also watching I don't want to miss any part of it, God bless you MA, we from the eastern part of the country appreciate your wonderful work.
Brother I feel your pain, I refused to be controled by my mother inlaw. This is almost the same thing I have been facing since I got married in 2017 n divorced in 2018. My marriage life was hell because of my mother inlaw. Third party in marriage is hell. Since 2018 I have been denied access to my beautiful twins because I couldn't go on with the marriage and file for divorced. Wise word having a good mother in law is better than having a bad wife. The truth shall overcome always. I wish we have platform's like this in Gambia where Divorced rate is high n most are cause because of mother-in-law interference. Beating a woman is not an excuse as well we should protect them and if we can't be together in peace after million times trying separation is the way. May the lord give us all the right partner!
This woman is very wise judge i salute droping and picking the children to the father, one thing can lead to another thing, then comes eventual settlement.magana yakari. Very lovely judgements❤❤😅😅😅😅
Bro u have an angel for a wife.....there is no proper channels of communication here.....its very simple,stop drinking,engage with deep conversation nd recreation to re kindle ua love for her.Relocate bro.TAKE CHARGE OF YOUR FAMILY.
Bringing up kids in such a toxic environment can be damaging to them. This is a sad case caused by alcohol abuse, interference from third parties, anger issues etc. Good thing they’re no longer together, they both need to seek therapy. Sadly there are so many damaged souls roaming around the streets. Lastly, those kids need counselling because I’m sure they’ve witnessed so much abuse. Such a shame
You're absolutely correct,but I think three hours is small for man to bound with the kids, because the children might have been poisoned against their dad.
@@vickyjohndaniel6140as a mother I will even prefer he picks them up from school on Friday and they spend weekends with him and return on Sunday Just so I can have my peace at least Women should take care of themselves and stop trying to be hero in their kids life 🤷♀️
What if the man successfully works on his problem of alcoholism and anger and they see a marriage counsellor who succesfully resolves their issues and move far from their parents? Dont you think they may still have a chance to live peacefully? They seem to still have some love for each other from their body language. Divorce is not the best option for the children....
An extremely fair and intuitive judge based on experience in life and law. Marriages don’t have to always have a resolution but the children’s welfare is paramount. The couple still require counselling on how best to communicate moving forward so that the children of different sexes still learn about conflict management and have poor views of relationships.
No matter what happens in your marriage, never, never, never raise your hands on your wife. Instead of doing that, just walk away and cool off. Especially, especially, if you've children.
Being married for more that a decade now. The first year before me and my wife had kids, she kept pushing my buttons all the time by pointing finger on my nose and screaming in my hears all the time for simple disagreement. She thinks she can control me. She thought I was too slow. She knew I am a cool headed man. Could not take that sh...t anymore until I gave her a slap one day. Since then, she never did that again. She even apologize for saying things that led to that. End of story and Peace since then !!!
They both proved that they love each other but the wife's parents are going through their marriage & destroying it. As father I will rather fight my child than fighting my in-laws
Yes ooo but when the woman started talking Omo I taught the lady was saying the truth oooooooo but when I saw the evidence from the man Omo I believe the man... My gender can be manipulating oooo Fear women
My dear the guy has good friend and family that is giving him advice. If not that girl will mess him up in the court. I wish the man could have taken his kids so the woman won't see it as her investment to be collecting money from the Man
He beats her, he is a drunk... she reacts and leaves but her family is a problem for wantjng to protect her? Wow! This is the problem with Patriarchal society. I like how Judge Asaolu says go to the Police in cases of DV; but we know nithing happens when cases get there
Domestic violence is never excusable. He just decorated his side of the story......how can you be leaving your matrimonial home for days? Haba! You are irresponsible jare.
This is good woooow, Judge Funmi I would just want to come and stand alone in court oooh so you can judge me. I love the way you handle issues God bless you God bless Nigeria
This Judge has great wisdom in dealing with complex cases. Keep on with the good work ,ma. Your reward is in heaven. May God Almighty continue to bless you and give you long life to continue the good work, ameen.
My advice to the husband is to seek medical and spiritual solution to his alcohol addiction. He will make a great husband and father. He has a good heart. The alcohol addiction might be spiritual. I'll counsel he goes for deliverance, and start listening to messages of Apostles Arome Osayi and Joshua Selman. The wife keep her family from external interference henceforth, to preserve her husband's honor. Wishing them the best. Thanks to judge Asaolu who is doing a great job for humanity. God bless you ma.
Words can destroy and can build. With few adjustments and counselling the marriage can be resurrected. For a start, the alcohol and external influences most stop.
This is by far the best case the judge has dealt with, in my opinion. She follows the standards of the laws, demonstrates her usual compassion and fully moral justice.
The Man's addiction to Alcohol is the beginning of their problem. A man must be responsible regardless. Manage your home and inlaws will stay away from your marriage.
This is a very serious matter but the Judge did a very good job. I guess the man needs some help. If he can heal from alcohol, he will be a very good father, may be husband too. I think the domestic violence is alcohol induced. The wife made good effort but everyone get's to their limits at some points, she has gotten to her limit of coping with an alcoholic and she is free to move on. They both need to look after the children.
Did anyonelse notice that the woman seems excited at the 50k monthly upkeep for the kids, but didn't have same expression when asked to be dropping the kids with the husband?
Accountant general of the federal republic of Nigerian.. na waooo marrying an accountant no easy ooo.. be prepared for he can even keep an account of the Maggi and salt he provided at home🤷🤷
Perfect statement. Lol, she's intelligent... The guy was trying to be smart, but was hooked on all his words... He was sending 10k before lol, then exaggerated it to 50k for buying lol
The things that lead to the break in this relationship: 1. Financial loss by the man. 2. Respect for the man was lost. 3. Love between both was lost 4. Alcoholism triggered 1-3. 5. Amnesia by both. 5. Third party influence was the final thing that destroyed. Note they had a 3rd child in the midst of there problems there the 3rd party influence was the real reason they fell apart.
@@victorezeagu1893 Truth. Both verbal and physical acts are a form of domestic violence. While women go verbal, men go physical most times. Alcohol can always trigger violence.
Providing is not enough, frequently communication is very essential otherwise whatever the mother tells them they believe all because the information they are hearing is one sided information.
@@kenigtv6691 in many cases like this, women do make communicating with the kids very very difficult for the man, not minding whatever court said. But for future and the mans conscience, never relent providing and caring no matter how difficult it is. As a man in this situation, no matter how difficult the woman made it for him, if he continues to care and not abandon the kids, God always straighten the future with the kids.
AINT TRUE , my daughters GETS whatever she wants , travel wherever too but she insist on doing whatever the mom says , she LIE with her too . They don’t see nothing
@@methodmand9111 I agree with you, but that doesn’t mean your daughter ain’t seeing your good deeds. A lady just told me last week, that not until she turned 19 that she came to realize that her mom manipulated her to hating her dad. So never too late
Very shallow minded comment, so if the father gives the mother money for the kids and the mother uses the money for herself and lied to the kids that the father doesn’t care or provide. How will the kids see it? Please explain.
I wish, the Justice Court should be in my State... Adamawa State/Taraba State... I love these Judge, Judge Fumi... GOD Grace mercy favour will be with Ma... Thanks...////
I believe with marriage counseling they can resolve their marriage. He saw alcohol tore his family apart and he went and got treatment for his addiction. This judgement was fair and I wish this family the best.
The woman will regret this moment for the rest of her life. A man's status can change at any point in life as long as he has the will to change his situation through hardwork and perseverance. She did not try to develop herself but rely on the malicious support of her parents. I pity her, very soon the same parents will ridicule her and chase her out of their home
It's financial issues for me, if the man were rich the issue will simply be "I want custody of the kids" the judge has said it all "marriage might work or might not." they won't even have money issues but I'm sure the woman will still frustrate the man with the kids. That's what women do....one Sunday this woman will go inside the house to pick the kids and love will happen. Nice judge trying to bring them together in some way.
Very succinctly, what I've summarily learnt from all these marriage resolution is this: 'My fellow gentlemen, the supposed patriarchy that affected our women in time past has now been unfairly capitalized to influenced the contemporary law to seem like matriarchy' God bless our noble men out there. #Enddomesticviolence #Endtechnicalmatriarchy
The woman is educated & knows how long she can keep on tolerating things. Many people marry naive & don't know something like alcohol can be an issue in marriage. And the man has been sleeping outside too,nobody mentioned about that. Doing things for your wife doesn't give you licence to abuse alcohol, sleep outside & engage in domestic violence. Your wife can't change your alcoholic habit, it is you who will decide to change. True change comes from within.
*My reviews; 1 The couple still love each other. 2. It seems the lady is the only daughter of her parent. 3.The man needs spiritual help. Finally, God help them cos broken home kills*
@@serignkonta5510 I hope she does cos she deserve better. Have seen your reply in most comment and you solely want ppl to beleive this lady has a boyfriend. How about we talk about the physical abuse she went true and the man not coming home for days. Me am married and I cant even stay outside pass 10pm self talk more of staying days outside. The man has anger and alcoholic issue and I hope he heal soon.
The man did not come to joke no no no He is loaded very sharp in court .fully representing himself .His "drinking" seems educated too not lazy drinking.
I felt very sorry for her at first . I taught she'd lost it Not until she revealed her own side of the story. I'm sure what both families are going through. My dad learnt I fought a female student in my primary . And he asked me " have you ever seen me beat your mother ? I SAID NO He continues Don't you ever beat a girl again" I was trained with it, I grew with it and it will never depart from me . (Best thing I learned from my dad ) Nice verdict ma
@@victorezeagu1893 Mr Victor from your comments it's obvious you are biased in your view on the subject matter here. How do you justify a man earning over 200k and blewing all of that in few days and still borrowing from the wife. Worst still he emptied her account twice when she tries to assist him with some token. Let me tell you, I blame the man 100% because if he was responsible enough, they won't be any need for all this marital insanity which led to the interference of both families. I do not also like their proximity to their families. By the way, I am married with a daughter. So don't think I don't know what am talking about.
The guy lack of employment and alcohol has driven him to the point of " Mental breakdown, anger and frustration " and he's taking it out on the woman. And both in laws and the church are too much in their marriage. That should stop ASAP immediately.They need to leave them alone to manage their own home. Both sides have a lot to say. The marriage is too violent, too volatile,and the children will be affected. And it's not compulsory that they come back together. They can divorce,and then work on co-parenting.
These ones are jokers. They are still much in love with themselves. Keep them in a room for some days (like a retreat) and you will see them making sweet love again💕💕.
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I never knew such a judge still exist. She is just too good. I love her judgment. Well done . More wisdom
lhope it's 1
Please how do I get in touch
Alcohol ooh na wow oooh
I just love this honourable judge; mean:, she is really a judge.. more wisdom and understanding to you ma.🙏🙏
Oh God, 22yrs now in marriage and still counting, no issues. I can't thank you enough. I must reach the finished line by your grace Lord
Go and sleep
Lol.
@@IsaacWokocha😂😂😂
I am Psychiatic mental Nurse Practitioner in the 🇺🇸. After watching this video, the wife gave a vivid description of the effects of alcohol in the family. Effects of alcoholism is universal. It’s impact the person suffering, the family and financial. The man needs help. The wife and the entire family need help. The family needs to support the man in his recovery and that is the only way he can recover not by throwing stones. Alcoholism is a disease. DSM 5 diagnosis for severe alcoholism is F10.20. This man and entire family needs help. Remember one common behavior with alcoholics is DENIAL
He is a grown man he chooses to consume alcohol let him get himself out of it
Mary 👍
It’s really sad how people that were once in love become sworn enemies🙁
Ahbi
That is why you don't bring third party in you marriage, they will spoil it for you
Hmm
The realities of life tend to cause amnesia and they forget why they are together. They forgot love 💘
Hmmmmmmmmmmh
Moral of the story; Never ignore the red flags whilst dating. 2) keep 3rd parties out of your relationship 3) even in divorce or separation aim to be amicable
In the case where the man is abusive or either of the couple; you have to go back to your parents before you die.
U r blessed
Don’t think it’s easy to stay single
This comment should be pinned❤
Agreed involvement of third party should be limited. Also agreed that the man should be access to the children. The man also has to stop alcoholism
A very big round of applause for the Judge. clap clap clap clap. What an intelligent judgement. Respect "your Honor".
I really love this beautiful soft spoken wise Judge🙌🏿❤️🌹
This is my first time watching this. I Don't know we have this type of proper court in Nigeria. I presently work in the court here in the states. And every time I go to the court environment, my heart always prays that God should help us in Nigeria to have this type of proper court of law with the judge that has the wisdom of judgment like Judge Funmi.
But this Court is outside the mainstream!
I don’t believe the Govt have a hand in these proceedings.
This case is very touching. Both the plaintiff and the defendant have their points but I have the opinion that Yemi's wife's parents are unduly intruding in the marriage and oppressing Yemi because of their contacts with the law enforcement agencies. All the same, I respect the judgement of the judge.
We are all learning from these court proceedings.
It’s because of the beating which they needed to intrude.
Life is short, why waste time on fights, alcohol etc. forgive, say sorry, do your best to improve, and live together. Your kids need you both. 🙏🏾👍🏾
I have come to realize Marriage is not by your strength to handle all issues cos your strength might just get tired one day......You can never go wrong Activating the presence of God for divine direction.
Absolutely!
You are right oo
YOU JUST SAID IT ALL
Wisdom is your friend and ally👏🏾
Yes ❤❤
Judge Funmi Asaolu is d most intelligent judge currently in Nigeria no arguments❤️❤️🙏
I swear.Never knew we had such platform in Nigeria.
I would rather say she's one of the many intelligent Judges in Nigeria and she's known because she has put herself online. Not all rich people show off online.. not all intelligent people are online. Thank you Judge for letting us know you. We appreciate your brilliant work. It is quite entertaining
No two ways about it
It works out for me I got my ex back within 48hours I can help you out Whatspp me to know how
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Madam Judge,
I tuale for u! 3 gbosa for u, ma!!
God bless u with long, exciting and good health!
Cheers, watching from Ireland🇮🇪🇮🇪🇮🇪
Watching from Canada!
Watching from Mississippi, USA!
She is just too good
How did judge Funmi pull this off? Her sagacity is out of this world. Thank you your honour for this display of professionalism.
Whatever sagacity means, I agree.
I wish Nigeria would truly understand the real caliber of Judge God bless them, this Judge deserves more than just a Judge, I wish her minister of justice some day in a very respectful and responsible government in Nigeria . Corrupt African leaders will never see ur effort. Look the way u give everyone the platform to express their stories , this is call peace building and without peace no development. God will reward you ma Judge
Very good judgement justice Funmi. Couple pls try to solve this problem. Let bygones be bygones. May God be by your side.
She said the husband is lying but he came with receipts like it’s tax season
I weak... Didn't know d husband was prepared: apart from d marriage problem de both have: guess her mum is interfering in her marriage giving her bad advices
It works out for me I got my ex back within 48hours I can help you out Whatspp me to know how
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message him on WhatsApp
Well he is an account so he should
The alcohol is an issue, the mother in law is a problem. But what broke the relationship was a woman who simply never left her father's house.
Sure
Are you kidding? Did you ignore his beating her? Did you miss squandering their resources? But you blame her family? Wow!
The fathers house that she left for 7years and had 3kids
She even agreed to stay with him in his family house 😏🙄
She really tried
Can you handle a woman who is alcoholic and still manage her for 7years🙄😏
All you calling her mother-in-law, no mother will watch her child going through distress for quite a time & will keep acting dumb. Remember she stayed with the husband's family for 4 years before they packed out. So when did her mother start interfering? Right from the start? The man should work on his alcoholic & anger issues while both work together to limit the interference of in-laws.
You are right
You are very right
If her mother was doing the right thing, the pastor wouldn’t have stopped her from going to the house, instead he will talk to the man to behave himself. Secondly, see how the woman was lying if not that the man brought proves. U haven’t seen a bad mother that’s why u saying this
Exactly
Why is the father in law not being mentioned often?
D judge is very smart calculative I love this program we need this kind of person to handle Nigerians having same or similar problems here in Italy.
One thing I love about this man is that he did not hide his problem of alcoholism.
You are definitely an alcoholic. The man dumbed down his alcohol problem.
😂😂😂😂😂😂 because you also drink
Yes, but that's not enough reason for him not to address the alcohol problem he has. IF HE STOPS TAKING ALCOHOL, MORE THAN HALF OF THEIR PROBLEMS AS A COUPLE WILL BE SOLVED ! The alcohol problem is leading to him beating his wife.
@@dadajulius6489but he said he is having treatment for it
And still proved to be a responsible father to Justice Funmi's dismay
Meeeen this case is not a child play, I'm working and also watching I don't want to miss any part of it, God bless you MA, we from the eastern part of the country appreciate your wonderful work.
message him on WhatsApp
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Brother I feel your pain, I refused to be controled by my mother inlaw. This is almost the same thing I have been facing since I got married in 2017 n divorced in 2018. My marriage life was hell because of my mother inlaw. Third party in marriage is hell. Since 2018 I have been denied access to my beautiful twins because I couldn't go on with the marriage and file for divorced. Wise word having a good mother in law is better than having a bad wife. The truth shall overcome always. I wish we have platform's like this in Gambia where Divorced rate is high n most are cause because of mother-in-law interference. Beating a woman is not an excuse as well we should protect them and if we can't be together in peace after million times trying separation is the way.
May the lord give us all the right partner!
I stayed for 10 years before divorce.i have three beautiful daughters that she took away Hypergamy at its best.
Mother In law needs to stay out of daughter and sons marriages, period.
But that was your wife’s fault. She shouldn’t have allowed that to go on.
Hello......i've always dreamt of having a Gambian friend. Can we be friends?
The man is a drunk
I felt this was one of the toughest cases brought before the Justice court but she handled it flawlessly
True
Yes dear
Indeed
Truth
The woman is dying in guilt, is quite obvious her body language shows
This woman is very wise judge i salute droping and picking the children to the father, one thing can lead to another thing, then comes eventual settlement.magana yakari. Very lovely judgements❤❤😅😅😅😅
This judge needs an Award in Nigeria❤❤ thanks Your Honor for saving homed
Bro u have an angel for a wife.....there is no proper channels of communication here.....its very simple,stop drinking,engage with deep conversation nd recreation to re kindle ua love for her.Relocate bro.TAKE CHARGE OF YOUR FAMILY.
When an accountant comes to court with all the financial statements 😅😅 any money that came out must be accounted for ....
Seriously
Hahaha
😂😂😂😂
Lord Asaolu is such an amazing judge, very calm, intelligent and calculating. Amazing personality!
Yes ❤
Bringing up kids in such a toxic environment can be damaging to them. This is a sad case caused by alcohol abuse, interference from third parties, anger issues etc. Good thing they’re no longer together, they both need to seek therapy. Sadly there are so many damaged souls roaming around the streets. Lastly, those kids need counselling because I’m sure they’ve witnessed so much abuse. Such a shame
You're absolutely correct,but I think three hours is small for man to bound with the kids, because the children might have been poisoned against their dad.
@@vickyjohndaniel6140as a mother I will even prefer he picks them up from school on Friday and they spend weekends with him and return on Sunday
Just so I can have my peace at least
Women should take care of themselves and stop trying to be hero in their kids life 🤷♀️
God bless the Judge Funmi and The Justice Court crew for helping the society. These cases are really educative.
The Man came prepared with evidences. Smart move. But please divorce is the only solution in this case. Too much external interference and alcoholism
What if the man successfully works on his problem of alcoholism and anger and they see a marriage counsellor who succesfully resolves their issues and move far from their parents? Dont you think they may still have a chance to live peacefully? They seem to still have some love for each other from their body language. Divorce is not the best option for the children....
An extremely fair and intuitive judge based on experience in life and law. Marriages don’t have to always have a resolution but the children’s welfare is paramount. The couple still require counselling on how best to communicate moving forward so that the children of different sexes still learn about conflict management and have poor views of relationships.
Preach
No matter what happens in your marriage, never, never, never raise your hands on your wife. Instead of doing that, just walk away and cool off. Especially, especially, if you've children.
If your wife holds a knife to stab or kill you, don’t just walk and cool off, RUN FOR YOUR LIFE!! 🏃♂️ (and vice versa)
Being married for more that a decade now. The first year before me and my wife had kids, she kept pushing my buttons all the time by pointing finger on my nose and screaming in my hears all the time for simple disagreement. She thinks she can control me. She thought I was too slow. She knew I am a cool headed man. Could not take that sh...t anymore until I gave her a slap one day. Since then, she never did that again. She even apologize for saying things that led to that. End of story and Peace since then !!!
@@dejiomowale4331 that was deliverance smack!
@@goodscent9097 I'm telling you, a lot men dread their wives so much because the wife know their evil ways.
@@peterreal4900 When you know you ways are right and not evil, you don't need to dread your wife.
In every divorce there's that one person that still love his family.
By far one of the best judgement coming from Nigerian court. I salute judge Funmi’s wisdom
They both proved that they love each other but the wife's parents are going through their marriage & destroying it. As father I will rather fight my child than fighting my in-laws
It depends
God Bless you Judge Funmi. You have been an amazing Judge to Marriage matters. Love u ma.
This case is the highest ohhh, How can this be settle my judge?
The man seems to be more truthful than the woman. The moment he brought out those evidences, the lady expression said it all.
Yes ooo but when the woman started talking Omo I taught the lady was saying the truth oooooooo but when I saw the evidence from the man Omo I believe the man...
My gender can be manipulating oooo
Fear women
My dear the guy has good friend and family that is giving him advice. If not that girl will mess him up in the court. I wish the man could have taken his kids so the woman won't see it as her investment to be collecting money from the Man
He beats her, he is a drunk... she reacts and leaves but her family is a problem for wantjng to protect her? Wow! This is the problem with Patriarchal society. I like how Judge Asaolu says go to the Police in cases of DV; but we know nithing happens when cases get there
Shes the one that beat him
Honestly this is how judgement should be delivered in every law court
Domestic violence is never excusable. He just decorated his side of the story......how can you be leaving your matrimonial home for days? Haba! You are irresponsible jare.
The wife is an absolute disgrace
Wow!!! What a case!! So deeply rooted issues. They need to stay separated while they go for counselling.
this marriage will survive the storm, the couple are so lucky to present before this kind of judge
What an intelligent woman! God bless you Ma!
This judge is amazing! She's so fair and calm my.
These two still love each other. External inputs are a major issue here. I'm learning much!
O God, help we that are yet to marry o! 🙏
My father , my father, my mother,my mother... Kids getting married.
I'm telling you. "My father" "my mother" just scatter everywhere. 😂😂😂
This is good woooow, Judge Funmi I would just want to come and stand alone in court oooh so you can judge me. I love the way you handle issues God bless you God bless Nigeria
This judge is great . Thank you for the way you handled this case
Judge Funmi, thanks very for helping out joung marriages going through difficult times. It's sad to see families turn out this way.
This Judge has great wisdom in dealing with complex cases. Keep on with the good work ,ma. Your reward is in heaven. May God Almighty continue to bless you and give you long life to continue the good work, ameen.
Awesome Judge, love the way she handled this case.
My advice to the husband is to seek medical and spiritual solution to his alcohol addiction. He will make a great husband and father. He has a good heart. The alcohol addiction might be spiritual. I'll counsel he goes for deliverance, and start listening to messages of Apostles Arome Osayi and Joshua Selman. The wife keep her family from external interference henceforth, to preserve her husband's honor. Wishing them the best. Thanks to judge Asaolu who is doing a great job for humanity. God bless you ma.
Words can destroy and can build. With few adjustments and counselling the marriage can be resurrected. For a start, the alcohol and external influences most stop.
when violence is involved?
Raising ur hands in ur wife no matter what is bad, rather calm and be cool outside
Respect for you your honour. What a beautiful calm and cool lady. God bless you ma
I wish all the judges where the same as this mom
The court would have been a very GOOD resolution place
God bless you Mom
This is the problem that couple face when you live around your parents and parents in-law.
very true
Please watch it again or do you support domestic violence?
My own mother in-law and father in law has been the best thing that has ever happened in my life I love them so so much
The twist and turns in this case. All I can say is that keep people this includes family members out of your marriage
This is by far the best case the judge has dealt with, in my opinion.
She follows the standards of the laws, demonstrates her usual compassion and fully moral justice.
The Man's addiction to Alcohol is the beginning of their problem.
A man must be responsible regardless. Manage your home and inlaws will stay away from your marriage.
This is a very serious matter but the Judge did a very good job. I guess the man needs some help. If he can heal from alcohol, he will be a very good father, may be husband too. I think the domestic violence is alcohol induced. The wife made good effort but everyone get's to their limits at some points, she has gotten to her limit of coping with an alcoholic and she is free to move on. They both need to look after the children.
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I came all over from Twitter to watch the full video here on RUclips because that's where I saw the video.😢💔
Did anyonelse notice that the woman seems excited at the 50k monthly upkeep for the kids, but didn't have same expression when asked to be dropping the kids with the husband?
She deserves it after dealing with this alcoholic cheating man. Who stays out for days and having wife and kids? Nonsense of a man.
The man is an alcoholic that beats the kids. The kids need to stay with the mother with help from the husband.
@@HeyMe75you have no evidence on that . Women manipulate men into be violent .
Accountant general of the federal republic of Nigerian.. na waooo marrying an accountant no easy ooo.. be prepared for he can even keep an account of the Maggi and salt he provided at home🤷🤷
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Stop the buying ,stop the supplement, just PAY 😂😃😂😂
Perfect statement. Lol, she's intelligent... The guy was trying to be smart, but was hooked on all his words... He was sending 10k before lol, then exaggerated it to 50k for buying lol
The things that lead to the break in this relationship:
1. Financial loss by the man.
2. Respect for the man was lost.
3. Love between both was lost
4. Alcoholism triggered 1-3.
5. Amnesia by both.
5. Third party influence was the final thing that destroyed.
Note they had a 3rd child in the midst of there problems there the 3rd party influence was the real reason they fell apart.
With the beating third party cannot stay away pls
@@victoriousking6899no. All those things leeds to beating. They lady get frustrated and started nagging and abusing you until u heat her
Happened to my family... My father lost his job and my mom switch but we thank God today is different
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Truth. Both verbal and physical acts are a form of domestic violence. While women go verbal, men go physical most times.
Alcohol can always trigger violence.
This Judge is wholesome and very well learned.
Proud to see our African people doing this.. Not just focused on the west.
No matter how kids are manipulated, when you as a father is providing and caring, your kids will see it.
Providing is not enough, frequently communication is very essential otherwise whatever the mother tells them they believe all because the information they are hearing is one sided information.
@@kenigtv6691 in many cases like this, women do make communicating with the kids very very difficult for the man, not minding whatever court said.
But for future and the mans conscience, never relent providing and caring no matter how difficult it is. As a man in this situation, no matter how difficult the woman made it for him, if he continues to care and not abandon the kids, God always straighten the future with the kids.
AINT TRUE , my daughters GETS whatever she wants , travel wherever too but she insist on doing whatever the mom says , she LIE with her too . They don’t see nothing
@@methodmand9111 I agree with you, but that doesn’t mean your daughter ain’t seeing your good deeds. A lady just told me last week, that not until she turned 19 that she came to realize that her mom manipulated her to hating her dad. So never too late
Very shallow minded comment, so if the father gives the mother money for the kids and the mother uses the money for herself and lied to the kids that the father doesn’t care or provide. How will the kids see it? Please explain.
I wish, the Justice Court should be in my State... Adamawa State/Taraba State... I love these Judge, Judge Fumi... GOD Grace mercy favour will be with Ma... Thanks...////
I believe with marriage counseling they can resolve their marriage. He saw alcohol tore his family apart and he went and got treatment for his addiction. This judgement was fair and I wish this family the best.
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@@egogogodday6896 b lf
with domestic violence? 💀
Your DECISIONS is always ACCURATE and LOVELY, Thanks and GOD Bless you abundantly in the Name of Jesus Amen
This couple have potential... they can overcome their challenges and become an example for their siblings.
AMEN
Yeah that's true
Nope she's done.
The woman will regret this moment for the rest of her life. A man's status can change at any point in life as long as he has the will to change his situation through hardwork and perseverance. She did not try to develop herself but rely on the malicious support of her parents. I pity her, very soon the same parents will ridicule her and chase her out of their home
It's financial issues for me, if the man were rich the issue will simply be "I want custody of the kids" the judge has said it all "marriage might work or might not." they won't even have money issues but I'm sure the woman will still frustrate the man with the kids. That's what women do....one Sunday this woman will go inside the house to pick the kids and love will happen. Nice judge trying to bring them together in some way.
Judgement well served...not a word more needed!
Eerteeee
Wise jugde.. well done ma
I know you're going to bring this people back together
I love this show and the Judge ALWAYS imparts such good wisdom 💙😃💙
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This judge should be on the supreme court of Nigeria 🇳🇬 she is fair and amazing
No they don’t put truthful people there only people who can cooperate with INEC😂
Yes it happens when ppl don't have forgiven spirits. Sometimes I feel that marriage is a gamble
God bless you ma and if I may ask is like marriages in Nigeria this days is tough 💪than abroad o!
Thank you ma!. We all are learning from you. God bless you so much.
This is truly the justice court and justice judge.
This alone is practical wisdom for marriage success class for me.
Very succinctly, what I've summarily learnt from all these marriage resolution is this: 'My fellow gentlemen, the supposed patriarchy that affected our women in time past has now been unfairly capitalized to influenced the contemporary law to seem like matriarchy'
God bless our noble men out there.
#Enddomesticviolence #Endtechnicalmatriarchy
@point Zero may we speak more on this via a private chat
I am very proud of the way you handle the case. Great job. TD from USA
Alcohol problem is the worst thing that can break any marriage .
Lord, indeed You are God of all creation. May your praise be on all the lips of all your creation.
Amen
The woman is educated & knows how long she can keep on tolerating things. Many people marry naive & don't know something like alcohol can be an issue in marriage. And the man has been sleeping outside too,nobody mentioned about that. Doing things for your wife doesn't give you licence to abuse alcohol, sleep outside & engage in domestic violence. Your wife can't change your alcoholic habit, it is you who will decide to change. True change comes from within.
You have said it all
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Have you thought about the fact he could have become an alcoholic because of her nagging and behaviour
If you decided to leave him due to alcohol It,s wrong to prevent him from seeing his children.
Alcoholism is very bad.
*My reviews; 1 The couple still love each other. 2. It seems the lady is the only daughter of her parent. 3.The man needs spiritual help. Finally, God help them cos broken home kills*
The lady seems to being distracted by another man elsewhere, from the way she laugh at her husband no single respect
@@serignkonta5510 yes it seems so
@@serignkonta5510 I hope she does cos she deserve better. Have seen your reply in most comment and you solely want ppl to beleive this lady has a boyfriend.
How about we talk about the physical abuse she went true and the man not coming home for days.
Me am married and I cant even stay outside pass 10pm self talk more of staying days outside.
The man has anger and alcoholic issue and I hope he heal soon.
@@victororji1195 u are rite I'm totally against domestic violence
Sorry that wife am seeing does NOT love the husband again o....her body language shows she truly have boyfriend as accused by her husband.
The man did not come to joke no no no He is loaded very sharp in court .fully representing himself .His "drinking" seems educated too not lazy drinking.
I swear😁
Lol
Your choice of words very funny but precise👌👌👌
I felt very sorry for her at first . I taught she'd lost it
Not until she revealed her own side of the story.
I'm sure what both families are going through.
My dad learnt I fought a female student in my primary . And he asked me " have you ever seen me beat your mother ?
I SAID NO
He continues
Don't you ever beat a girl again"
I was trained with it, I grew with it and it will never depart from me .
(Best thing I learned from my dad )
Nice verdict ma
Lucy u are very funny 😄
This judge is God sent to Nigerians
I still see love in their eyes! I hope its resolved and they come back together having gone through all procedures duly mentioned.
Me too, there's too much interference.
Women have fish brain. The moment people start deceiving her the moment her attitude towards her husband changes
@@victorezeagu1893 Mr Victor from your comments it's obvious you are biased in your view on the subject matter here.
How do you justify a man earning over 200k and blewing all of that in few days and still borrowing from the wife. Worst still he emptied her account twice when she tries to assist him with some token.
Let me tell you, I blame the man 100% because if he was responsible enough, they won't be any need for all this marital insanity which led to the interference of both families. I do not also like their proximity to their families.
By the way, I am married with a daughter. So don't think I don't know what am talking about.
@@stephenikebuogo7813 you talk too much please say less, absolutely meaningless 😂
@@stephenikebuogo7813 not all mam can withstand a ladies Walhalla. But you are right some men can be useless though
Honestly Judge Funmi will be difficult to get. Keep the good work going
If he is beating your children you must leave!!! You cannot stay with a man that is abusive to children!!
May God bless this judge
The guy lack of employment and alcohol has driven him to the point of " Mental breakdown, anger and frustration " and he's taking it out on the woman. And both in laws and the church are too much in their marriage. That should stop ASAP immediately.They need to leave them alone to manage their own home. Both sides have a lot to say.
The marriage is too violent, too volatile,and the children will be affected. And it's not compulsory that they come back together. They can divorce,and then work on co-parenting.
Did you watch the whole episode or you stopped at the woman's testimony
You have failed to understand the proceedings I n the Court. Probably, you lost focus. Rewatch for proper reviewing!
The judge handled this perfectly. As a Judge and as a counselor
These ones are jokers. They are still much in love with themselves. Keep them in a room for some days (like a retreat) and you will see them making sweet love again💕💕.
I swear 🤣🤣🤣
It not about making love. The issue is that the man have alcoholics problems. They didn't say they not in love.
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I swear🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣