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A lot of us doubt ourselves with looks attitude clothing our own life style so we got some efforts to make things work I know that I'm not Hercules well traffic is scary
#8, Don't just "Be Yourself," be your best self. And not just in front of women - all day, every day. It's not just about being yourself. You should always be stretching beyond who you are in this moment.
The best way to go about it is... To not listen to video's like these or advice off the internet. Take advice from it but dont actually follow it. But remembering something she said then coming back to it later is a real woman pleaser it shows you listened.
@@p.stephen5032 Not all the time, they just back themselves and view and treat good looking girls for what they are. Just another person. Nothing more. They don't get intimidated by them, and they don't view rejection as the end of the world.
*To really connect with a girl, ask open-ended questions that require more than a yes or no answer. This encourages her to share more about herself and keeps the conversation flowing.*
When it comes to me I have looks and the personality, and women try talk to me but I just don't know what to say and I kill the conversation in seconds
Saw a hot girl in coffee line adjusting her hair whilst she was waiting for her coffee using her phone as a mirror ,as i walked passed her i said looks fine from where i am standing ...she was thrilled ...im now the master of one liners to hot girls 😂😂😂
I built up the courage to ask a girl what her name was that was working on a till as I noticed her looking at me a lot while I was walking around, but when it came to it I was super nervous so after I asked what her name was I forgot to give her my name 😑 I looked her in the eyes, asked what her name was, finished paying for what I bought and walked away. It really sucked when I realised I hadn’t told her my name. Now I’m not sure what to do about it
Humor is a very big tool to. I have a funny story I once met a girl who was into gaming like me. I made her laugh alot but not much else. One day she comes over to my house to play games. There was a game where u could name your characters. We started making silly names for them and soon enough naughty names. And things got hot for us quickly. It was a private joke we shared and we started out just having a great time which lead to a strong connection. I see to when she came over I was just chill and wasn't super worried about her liking me. We took a moment and ran with it. The naughty names allowed the whole mood to change. I was with her for 2 years.
Okay..... About number 8.... sooooooooooooo..... you say I should be myself..... all those tips are trying to make me NOT be myself. How does that work? I mean, i have to pretend that i'm mysterious by walking away after one compliment according to number 10, i'm tottally not like that.
Fmf - They are absolutely DYING to get guys to go through this.If you are going to "play", you are going to HAVE to pretend to be someone else.Maybe that is the way to go so that you do not take things too personally.
Yes yes. This gets you friendzoned for sure. I’ve done all this and that’s where I end up. The question is how to get her to like you as MORE than a friend.
Try. If she really likes him she will politely reject you no matter how sexualy attracted she is to you, if she keeps making herself available to u, it means that the relationship with her bf is not going well and she is looking 4 a replacement. Just dont be too needy or "thirsty" because thenshe will do an aggressive rejection which will influence ur ego 4 a long time. U never know how satisfied she is with her bf unless u try.
just convince your brain that shes just the cute cashier at the coffee shop that you approach every day. me: approaches girl... hey can i get a number 2
Yup I do all these things in the video and it does work to get girls interested however my lack of cold hard cash catches up with me. You definitely need some serious numbers in your bank account to keep a girl or she's going to go for someone that takes her to Disneyland
Last Friday during class this girl who we sometimes see each other, was standing near behind me for 20 minutes so when I was about to leave. I looked at her and she was starring at me and then looked away kinda mad. And I was like Wtf?😂
There's always advice out there for guys on how to talk to women you don't really see advice for women on how to talk to men, or maybe I just don't notice it because I'm a guy so my urge of seeing if there's information like that is not there, but I know there is a guy like Matthew Hussey for women, but I don't see why women would need help when there is no action required on the woman's part or women just don't have to take action on their part
Trust me, there are dating advice for women. I get a lot of ads about dating(even tho I never ask for it) and sometime I like to look up thing such "10 things that you should do make ANY girl/boy fall for you" in youtube just for fun.
"Just get her talking about herself" Me: Whats your work? Me: How many siblings do you have? Me: Where do you see yourself in 5 years? Me: What are your hobbies? Her: IS THIS A JOB INTERVIEW??
Well yeah, when you rapid fire the questions like that it will feel like an interview! The goal is to find a topic you can have a longer conversation about.
I have been wondering, I have managed to get a fb of a girl I liked, how do I continue from there, it was a couple of years ago but it still ticks me off. Problem, I am quite an introvert and have next to 0 experience with approaching let alone talking online...
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A lot of us doubt ourselves with looks attitude clothing our own life style so we got some efforts to make things work I know that I'm not Hercules well traffic is scary
I want to get a girlfriend one day
Her: oh hey
Me: ok
Shuts down mentally
inco bot101 her: the weathers nice today
Me: thanks
Relatable
girls rarely talk to me, but it's my fault why?
yikes
Her: you look nice
Me: .....
Her: that was a compliment
Me: ok
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Hi Samriddha,
Thanks for the timestamp that helped a lot.
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#8, Don't just "Be Yourself," be your best self.
And not just in front of women - all day, every day. It's not just about being yourself. You should always be stretching beyond who you are in this moment.
Great lines bro
Every cute girls ive met.. has a weird thing around her..... her boyfriend. 🤦♂️
Vaishakh Vgopal nah fam, she single if you dont know her manz
Vaishakh Vgopal tell her BF to hit the road you're working here
unfortunately the list doesnt include how to hide a dead body
lol
Same or sorry I'm not interested 😂
That's funny because when you watch these kinds of videos, it seems like getting a girlfriend is harder than getting a PhD in astrophysics.
Believe it or not 4many guys it is. I would even saymore than 50%.
The odds are stacked against me.
If you have an ugly face, it's impossible.
Because it is
@@cloud-x my existence is fucked
1. Always listen to her
2. Just listen to her
3. Always listen to her
Sam Lim And listen to her
Adam Gamil don’t forget to listen to her
@@justinpettit8282 and the one thing is you want to listen to her
@Alexander Gallardo Marin Don't forget listening to her
@Alexander Gallardo Marin Did I mention that you should listen to her?
The best way to go about it is... To not listen to video's like these or advice off the internet. Take advice from it but dont actually follow it. But remembering something she said then coming back to it later is a real woman pleaser it shows you listened.
DISCLAIMER: This video ONLY applies if the woman finds you attractive, if not, completely ignore this video.
Not true
You'd be surprised how many butt ugly guys I've seen really good looking girls. And they aren't rich either.
beleloy808 Care to elaborate.....
Spacegoat92 Not surprised at all. These guys are utilities. Nothing more.
@@p.stephen5032 Not all the time, they just back themselves and view and treat good looking girls for what they are. Just another person. Nothing more. They don't get intimidated by them, and they don't view rejection as the end of the world.
7:30 is totally true. If a girl likes your looks she will stare at you or smile or nod her head when your eyes meet.
Me: So have you ever listened to Joe Rogans podcast?
Her: I think i have heard of it yes.
Me: So have you tried DMT?
Sounds like you could do with this lad;) thedevelopmentprogram.com/
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*To really connect with a girl, ask open-ended questions that require more than a yes or no answer. This encourages her to share more about herself and keeps the conversation flowing.*
*Be yourself*
I learned one of these tricks from Drake and Josh! 😅
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Pretentious Prick Pickle Picking Punk the first 😂😂 from when josh tried to get more girls than drake and his mom told him that tricc
I wish we could just bump heads like deer to show dominance ... Sigh I hate human relationships
Lol horrible idea
That ad reminded me that thanos is still there
When it comes to me I have looks and the personality, and women try talk to me but I just don't know what to say and I kill the conversation in seconds
Decent video till you threw advertisement in it midway thru. Total turn-off!
Mantelligence got to eat
Lol the beginning of the af
Not just an ad, but an ad selling hand made Italian foot ware. The fuck?!
But but but money
Thank for the video, which in my case means never try to approach.
Only thing is it is easy to talk to any girl that your don’t like but when u talk to ur crush its awkward af
When you’re just getting back from quarantine, have a new crush, and have NO IDEA what to do 🤣
Always be yourself, unless you can be Chris Hemsworth
Or Chris evans,Leonardo DiCaprio,brad Pitt, Tom Holland etc
Saw a hot girl in coffee line adjusting her hair whilst she was waiting for her coffee using her phone as a mirror ,as i walked passed her i said looks fine from where i am standing ...she was thrilled ...im now the master of one liners to hot girls 😂😂😂
and did u continue from there?
No different races cultures etc and because of apartheid deep rooted racism wont allow it
Realist Really that statement doesn’t have anything to do to what he ask you.
Instead of going for the Alley-oop stock to the lay-ups I love that
I like how this is a girl explaining
You are a lifesaver....I got me a real beautiful queen after watching this a few weeks back... thanks 😄
I built up the courage to ask a girl what her name was that was working on a till as I noticed her looking at me a lot while I was walking around, but when it came to it I was super nervous so after I asked what her name was I forgot to give her my name 😑 I looked her in the eyes, asked what her name was, finished paying for what I bought and walked away. It really sucked when I realised I hadn’t told her my name. Now I’m not sure what to do about it
it's funny how guys can't talk about themselves but we just need to shut up and listen to them talk about themselves to have a chance
Remember men never ask a zebra how to hunt another zebra 🙊🙊🙊
Of they can understand and reply and you bribe them with loads of grass then they actually might tell you.
In hindsight the girls that I treated the worst treated me the best
I don't care about being liked, just respect me as I respect you.
"You know how to look people in the eye" well now I got to find another video about how to make eye contact
Try looking at their lips instead
i relate to the intro of the video :)
‘Active listening’, also known as ‘listening’...
Humor is a very big tool to. I have a funny story I once met a girl who was into gaming like me. I made her laugh alot but not much else. One day she comes over to my house to play games. There was a game where u could name your characters. We started making silly names for them and soon enough naughty names. And things got hot for us quickly. It was a private joke we shared and we started out just having a great time which lead to a strong connection. I see to when she came over I was just chill and wasn't super worried about her liking me. We took a moment and ran with it. The naughty names allowed the whole mood to change. I was with her for 2 years.
Why’d you guys separate
@@berchin89 she moved for a job opportunity I was happy for her though
Matt Mc 👍🏿👍🏿
Im now facing a few months in prison.
Okay..... About number 8.... sooooooooooooo..... you say I should be myself..... all those tips are trying to make me NOT be myself. How does that work? I mean, i have to pretend that i'm mysterious by walking away after one compliment according to number 10, i'm tottally not like that.
Fmf - They are absolutely DYING to get guys to go through this.If you are going to "play", you are going to HAVE to pretend to be someone else.Maybe that is the way to go so that you do not take things too personally.
lol ikr im not using these im just bored
Be real. *Puts a photo with a cartoon face*
I hope your joking....
I'm Meeting a girl this weekend 😬 wish me luck guys!
Good luck 👌👍
@@ravqen3408 thank you!!!
@@jamjar9419 how did it go
I need to get better at talking and finding stuff to talk about because I hate it when it's awkward silence 😢
@@jamjar9419 same happened with me.. I talked for 2 hours and then last 2 hours i was silent
thx for this, really improved my game on cmg
I love this video. It is so educational
3 years ago I was engaged and now I can't even get a text back lol
Tell me about it man, idk it’s so hard to meet someone nowadays it’s not how it use to be 5-6 years ago
Actually the most helpful video you guys ever made...in my opinion. Especially number 3, I can't stop trying to act like someone bigger than myself
Glad you liked this one, man! We'll keep on trying to come up with the best content for you guys.
Well from my experience, the ideal situation like this almost does not exist. The situation of getting to know each other is always not the same.
"Hi there, I'm rich and I own several properties" usually works!
Done half this and was smacked in the face doesn’t work
Thanks
So confusing. I pretty much gave up, gone threw heartbreak and it seems as the years go by it gets harder and harder to meet someone.
How can you genuinely be interested in someone you do know?
Number 10 and 9 are true....
Yes yes. This gets you friendzoned for sure. I’ve done all this and that’s where I end up. The question is how to get her to like you as MORE than a friend.
Her: Hey there!
Me: ...Wanna trip balls?
Why dowomen ,dislike honest , straight forward men ,clean cut and decent
Girls love talking about themself
If I don't talk during a conversation with a girl, I get bored and start yawning.
bro my crush has a boyfriend 😂🤦♂️
Same here.. 😔
That sucks for you guys.
Move on
Mine is married
Try. If she really likes him she will politely reject you no matter how sexualy attracted she is to you, if she keeps making herself available to u, it means that the relationship with her bf is not going well and she is looking 4 a replacement. Just dont be too needy or "thirsty" because thenshe will do an aggressive rejection which will influence ur ego 4 a long time. U never know how satisfied she is with her bf unless u try.
PLEASEEE IM A GIRL AND I WAS LOOKING FOR THIS 💀💀
On number 9 when she said you big guy I felt like a alpha 😉
just convince your brain that shes just the cute cashier at the coffee shop that you approach every day.
me: approaches girl... hey can i get a number 2
"Swoop in" 😁
Yup I do all these things in the video and it does work to get girls interested however my lack of cold hard cash catches up with me. You definitely need some serious numbers in your bank account to keep a girl or she's going to go for someone that takes her to Disneyland
thanks, this helped
Thanks, brother. This helped me lots. (I get no females)
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Wow everything you need to be in the friend zone.
Wonderful
Me trying the first trick-*Hey there is something white on your hair*
She-*Thats my hair color*
Woooww thanks guys
She doesn't smile, only eye contact.
In this case what to do?!
It's so frustrating. .. 😤😂😂
She said no. 😂😂😢
maybe this will help you😉
Im a girl and im watching this
Advice: Just be yourself.
Me: Alright, I'm talkative person so I can talk a lot right?
Advice: Let girl talk, you just listen and ask.
Me: ohh okay...
Good video but dirty tactics putting an ad in. I pay for premium to get no ads.
thanks to youuu for improving us😇😘
Of course my man! Glad you liked it!
An ad in the middle of the video?
I think this channel is giving great and valid advice which is unusual for such style of channels
You deserve an award 👐🏆
Umm step 5 sort got me… the cashier said your receipts in the bag… I said you too prolly not the best advice for me xD
But what happens when you're even nervous about talking to the cute barista?!?!?
HOW DO YOU SLIDE THROUGH THE DMs
I'll slide through your DMs 😈
TheJadedLightworker that's a dude
You don't you meet her somewhere in person. DM is lazy work
Stop using memes, it's stupid
Last Friday during class this girl who we sometimes see each other, was standing near behind me for 20 minutes so when I was about to leave. I looked at her and she was starring at me and then looked away kinda mad. And I was like Wtf?😂
Same
She likes you 100% she is just shy
There's always advice out there for guys on how to talk to women you don't really see advice for women on how to talk to men, or maybe I just don't notice it because I'm a guy so my urge of seeing if there's information like that is not there, but I know there is a guy like Matthew Hussey for women, but I don't see why women would need help when there is no action required on the woman's part or women just don't have to take action on their part
Trust me, there are dating advice for women. I get a lot of ads about dating(even tho I never ask for it) and sometime I like to look up thing such "10 things that you should do make ANY girl/boy fall for you" in youtube just for
fun.
Omfg I second thought everything this girl could straight up say she’s In love with and I would second guess it
adi khandelwal swooped in and ruined my life
How are you
"Just get her talking about herself"
Me: Whats your work?
Me: How many siblings do you have?
Me: Where do you see yourself in 5 years?
Me: What are your hobbies?
Her: IS THIS A JOB INTERVIEW??
Well yeah, when you rapid fire the questions like that it will feel like an interview! The goal is to find a topic you can have a longer conversation about.
I don't like how this implies us men have negatives, why are we allowing ourselves to be defined by women?
well first of all why is this video in my reccomendation lmao
To get better rating on your video next time please include ad start and finish time. Your time is valuable so is mine. Thanks in advance.
I have been wondering, I have managed to get a fb of a girl I liked, how do I continue from there, it was a couple of years ago but it still ticks me off. Problem, I am quite an introvert and have next to 0 experience with approaching let alone talking online...
Where are you know?
I'm gonna give her a gift and then on the back of it there will be a letter asking her out
2:04
me: I thought I was in youtube not shoptv
Ask questions about her....... Yup get the pretty chatter box's all the time😂
6:25 like A-train did to hughie girlfriend
How do I approach a girl
what about men?
Step one, don’t be ugly
1- be a mathematician........oh shit
This advice should be comming from older men not younger men or women that don't know what they are talking about.
Yes, ima simp.
Never ask a fish how to catch fish
On god