I am an 87-year-old grandmother with six grandchildren and a marriage that lasted 52 years before my husband died. The longer one lives together the more you understand each other, and, although arguments never cease, may become a whole lot easier to deal with.
I am a 75 years old gay man in a 44 years relationship with my husband and it get easier with time and we give each other space regularly and since we are both retired now, the personal space is very important. We do lots ot things together but still keep the personal time every day. Arguments are good and the loving after is the best. Communication is effectively key. You are doing good. I like that you are sharing your life examples with us. Thank you for this and keep at it. Oh! Happy Birthday Ryan. Long life ahead of you.
Hey Joe and Ryan: I appreciate your sharing with us about your life together. I am 76 years old (truly old) and with my life partner for a very happy although not always easy 32 years. He is younger than I am and our age difference has been a great gift. I value your ideas, because I find that the young can teach how to live today and the old may have perspective and experience that only comes from living. We need each other to learn to successfully live our lives and achieve the last stage of life, balancing both old age and youth at the same time in ourselves. Thanks for what you share with us here.
I truly enjoy how you are communicating with each other. There is so much respect, maturity and of course love. Thank you for staying true to yourself and giving valuable perspectives on sharing one's relationship online + coming out as a couple.
If you don't have conflict, it usually means one or both people are not being honest. That eventually blows up from built up resentment. Learning the skills of good communication and conflict resolution is so essential.
Happy Birthday Ryan and love you both🥰🥰 I love how you present your healthy, sincere relationship spontaneously in the video, rather than showing us a fixed, stereotypical gay couple interaction just like you said a lot of kisses, cuddling or so, which makes everyone know the diversity of LGBTQIA+ relationships. Thanks for bringing us these unique and genuine lifestyle videos.😇
Getting older is mostly just the process of inadvertently broadening ones perspective through the accumulation of experiences, which in turn is inadvertently measure against future, novel experiences. Over time, your perspective changes as the amount of days you have lived becomes greater than the amount of days you have left. Combined, we are lead to to adapt our approach to life, and new priorities and intentions behind the thoughts, behaviours, and expressions of our older selves. For me, coming in to my 30s was followed by a profound sense of certainty and calm I had never experienced before. I'm stoked to reach my 40s, but I'm also just as eager to see how the rest of my 30s plays out. If you get a chance, I hope you guys are able to visit the Maritimes some time soon! hbd🎂
Relationships require effort and work if you want it to succeed. When I was younger I just assumed everyone knew how I felt or thought especially if they are important. Growing up is kinda nice.
Happy Birthday Ryan! 38 here, feel tired more and more lol but it feels like a turning point realizing more and more about myself and learning to step back not giving more of myself then I need to. Savour the friendships you have, don’t waste your energy on negative relationships. It’s exciting when the mind shift starts and worries and concerns from the past don’t mean anything and the bigger picture comes into play. You two are very inspirational I’ve learned from you two to continue working on communication-it is oh so important! Your hard work ethic is also epic and inspiring and it shows!
Hi guys, loved the vlog. I always learn something new about you. You're doing all the right things in maintaining a good and supportive relations ship. Communication is paramount.
I remember when I was young, dreading to get older, because of fears of health and other things... but now I love it! Happy Birthday Ryan 💟 P.S Not y'all got these people freaking out about ryan being '19' lmaoooo
I think the fact that you’re not kissing on camera very often, makes your relationship seem even more authentic, natural and real, which it is. There’s nothing I find more awkward than couples kissing in an artificial way on camera. So thanks for not doing that! 🫶 also happy ✨19th✨ birthday to our precious Ryan!!!
🎶 Happy birthday to YOU x2 🎵 Happy birthday dear Ryan 🎶 Happy birthday to YOU 🎵 Happy birthday Mister🎈🎁🎉🍾🎂🥂🎇💥💫 Wishing you good, lasting, happy years to come 💯
Happy birthday Ryan no matter what your real age Is enjoy your lives together❤❤ i agree some of bl couples chanel where they focus o n kissing etc is done to round up subscribers remember guys stay happy and positive ❤❤
Sorry I'm not an english speaker, sometimes I have difficult to correct express myself in english but I will try. Every video feels more how do I say this, feels more spontanous, normal natural couple behavior without being over the top but still with some smal gestures we can feel the love 😀 also thats never been the main point for them to show, what they do in private is non of my business and I love them just the way they are and I love the different topics, insights, there travel vlogs ect,... also for the lovey dovey content there are a lot off different couples on RUclips to follow and there is nothing wrong with this but when I discovered this RUclips channel it felt like a new fresh of air between all the other sometimes over the top couple video's.
Very sensible conversation. Personally I'm glad you don't kiss in front of the camera. I think that relationships should be private. PDA can often be embarrassing.
I am an 87-year-old grandmother with six grandchildren and a marriage that lasted 52 years before my husband died. The longer one lives together the more you understand each other, and, although arguments never cease, may become a whole lot easier to deal with.
Go Cahuna
beautiful
I am a 75 years old gay man in a 44 years relationship with my husband and it get easier with time and we give each other space regularly and since we are both retired now, the personal space is very important. We do lots ot things together but still keep the personal time every day. Arguments are good and the loving after is the best. Communication is effectively key. You are doing good. I like that you are sharing your life examples with us. Thank you for this and keep at it. Oh! Happy Birthday Ryan. Long life ahead of you.
Hey Joe and Ryan: I appreciate your sharing with us about your life together. I am 76 years old (truly old) and with my life partner for a very happy although not always easy 32 years. He is younger than I am and our age difference has been a great gift. I value your ideas, because I find that the young can teach how to live today and the old may have perspective and experience that only comes from living. We need each other to learn to successfully live our lives and achieve the last stage of life, balancing both old age and youth at the same time in ourselves. Thanks for what you share with us here.
I truly enjoy how you are communicating with each other. There is so much respect, maturity and of course love. Thank you for staying true to yourself and giving valuable perspectives on sharing one's relationship online + coming out as a couple.
We appreciate hearing your insights on both sides. Keep working hard.
If you don't have conflict, it usually means one or both people are not being honest. That eventually blows up from built up resentment. Learning the skills of good communication and conflict resolution is so essential.
Happy Birthday Ryan and love you both🥰🥰 I love how you present your healthy, sincere relationship spontaneously in the video, rather than showing us a fixed, stereotypical gay couple interaction just like you said a lot of kisses, cuddling or so, which makes everyone know the diversity of LGBTQIA+ relationships. Thanks for bringing us these unique and genuine lifestyle videos.😇
I also like that both of you are unapologetic. Always do what’s best for yourself.
Happy Birthday Ryan hope you have an amazing day🥳🥳🥳🥳🥰
Happy Birthday Ryan!!! Much love for you both!
Getting older is mostly just the process of inadvertently broadening ones perspective through the accumulation of experiences, which in turn is inadvertently measure against future, novel experiences. Over time, your perspective changes as the amount of days you have lived becomes greater than the amount of days you have left. Combined, we are lead to to adapt our approach to life, and new priorities and intentions behind the thoughts, behaviours, and expressions of our older selves.
For me, coming in to my 30s was followed by a profound sense of certainty and calm I had never experienced before. I'm stoked to reach my 40s, but I'm also just as eager to see how the rest of my 30s plays out.
If you get a chance, I hope you guys are able to visit the Maritimes some time soon!
hbd🎂
Now you have everyone thinking is Ryan really only 19 and is Joe a groomer 😂strum that air ukulele!!
Love you guys and this new podcast style is so good! X
Happy birthday Ryan!🎉
Relationships require effort and work if you want it to succeed. When I was younger I just assumed everyone knew how I felt or thought especially if they are important. Growing up is kinda nice.
couldn't agree more denni
Happy 19 Ryan! 💕
Thank you both for another relaxing and interesting episode
Happy Birthday Ryan! 38 here, feel tired more and more lol but it feels like a turning point realizing more and more about myself and learning to step back not giving more of myself then I need to. Savour the friendships you have, don’t waste your energy on negative relationships. It’s exciting when the mind shift starts and worries and concerns from the past don’t mean anything and the bigger picture comes into play.
You two are very inspirational I’ve learned from you two to continue working on communication-it is oh so important! Your hard work ethic is also epic and inspiring and it shows!
Hi guys, loved the vlog. I always learn something new about you. You're doing all the right things in maintaining a good and supportive relations ship. Communication is paramount.
The only RUclipsr who I have post notifications on 🤗
Me too
I enjoy his slow Sunday vlogs
Feliz aniversário, Ryan!!
Parabéns.
I remember when I was young, dreading to get older, because of fears of health and other things... but now I love it! Happy Birthday Ryan 💟 P.S Not y'all got these people freaking out about ryan being '19' lmaoooo
waiitt, is he really 19 though??
@@tsozbkof course no
Happy birthday Ryan!! You are amazing. 🥳
Thanks for sharing your life experiences with us!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY RYAN! and thanks for another great vid, Joe :)
HAHAH i think i’m the only one who noticed ryan doing the “i’m not a criminal” colleen ballanger uke ‘apology’
The reference he made to Colleen and her lil song 😂
Happy Birthday Ryan!! May your every wish come true today, and always!!
Man I love this format of video
loved this talk. Also, happy birthday ryan !!
I love Joe’s flawless skin🤩🤩
5:20 This reference killed me fr 💀💀💀💀
Happy Birthday, Ryan!
Happy birthday Ryan! ❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉😊😊😊 Loving this content. Thank you to you both!
Happy Birthday Ryan! Love your haircut!
happy birthday ryan
Happy birthday Ryan 🎂 hope the new year is treating you well! Really love these calm conversations - equally as soothing as the weekend vlogs 🧡
Also loved the comments on queer couple RUclipsrs - there’s a lot buried there imo
HAPPY BIRTHDAY RYAN!🥳
always look forward to these! happy birthday Ryan
Happy B - Day Ryan
You both are BEAUTIFUL !!!
I think the fact that you’re not kissing on camera very often, makes your relationship seem even more authentic, natural and real, which it is. There’s nothing I find more awkward than couples kissing in an artificial way on camera. So thanks for not doing that! 🫶 also happy ✨19th✨ birthday to our precious Ryan!!!
I think the same way about it.
PLEASE I CANNOT
how old is Ryan fr
@@itstvoicrush5610he is 25 and Joe is 27 it was a joke😂
@@rhyker9597oh so jeo is older. Nicee. His 1996 .
@@itstvoicrush5610 BET YOU CAN'T EVEN TELL WHAT RYAN WAS REFERENCING IN 5:20
Happy Sweet 16 Ryan!
Happy birthday, Ryan! Jasper stole the video at the beginning with his wagging tail and cute face popping up behind Joe.
Happy Birthday Ryan!!🎂
Please don't or do not ever regret anything you did or do.
Everything happens for a reason.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY RYAN!
Great watch as always 👊🏿 and happy birthday Ryan.
The air ukulele I see you Ryan 😭😂💀
happy birthday, Ryan!!🫶🏽
Congrats on being 19!! 🎉 (Oh my gosh, you guys freaked me out 😆 ... I swear )
Is he actually 19
@@nafismiah8597i wanna know too because iirc he had multiple jobs before
Happy birthday beautiful Ryan 💜
HB to Ryan! Lots of Love for both 🖤🖤🖤
Happy Birthday Ryan 🎊🎉
I hope you keep this video and listen to it again every 10 years and reflect on what you said.
NO WAY YOU'RE JUST 19!!!!!
How many times do you say "like" in this video? Just asking. Happy birthday, Ryan!!
Happy Birthday Ryan! Don't worry - my father in law plays basketball in a league regularly at nearly 80, you'll be just fine :)
You two are my favourite ‘Men in Black’.
Happy birthday, Ryaaaaannnn!
"It's in his kiss!" Smoldering passion begins with a kiss.
19 ???
Exactly what I said ?!😅
Happy Birthday Ryan🎉
Happy birthday Ryan future brother in law. May God bless you with lot of happiness and success in life🥰 lot of love from India🇮🇳
Happy Birthday, Ryan!! 🎉🎉🎉
🎶 Happy birthday to YOU x2 🎵 Happy birthday dear Ryan 🎶 Happy birthday to YOU 🎵 Happy birthday Mister🎈🎁🎉🍾🎂🥂🎇💥💫 Wishing you good, lasting, happy years to come 💯
Happy Birthday Ryan, mine was yesterday.
happy bday!
Ryan, your haircut is a great! Variety is good, but I hope you keep this one for a while.
Yeah that mullet looked like shit. He looks proper and nice now.
Happy birthday Ryan!
He looks cute with the short hair!
Happy birthday Ryan! 😊🍰❤️
happy birthday to my favourite Ryan
Happy birthday Ryan 🎂🎊🎉
Happy Birthday Ryan 🎉🎉🎉
Happy Birthday!☺️🎂🎉
Arguments, breaking up & getting back together is just part of being with someone.
Happy Birthday Ryan
That's incredible, not only did you come out but btw here's my him, all at once😂
happy birthday 🎂
i didnt know that ryan is now 19 happy birthday btw 🖤🖤
Happy Birthday Ryan!! 🎉
🎉 Happy Birthday to Ryan...best wishes...
Could you do a coffee vlog and post which ones you drink and enjoy?
Happy birthday Ryan no matter what your real age Is enjoy your lives together❤❤ i agree some of bl couples chanel where they focus o n kissing etc is done to round up subscribers remember guys stay happy and positive ❤❤
They are not a bl couple. That word is for women who fetish two men relationship. They are a gay couple or a bi couple.
Sorry I'm not an english speaker, sometimes I have difficult to correct express myself in english but I will try.
Every video feels more how do I say this, feels more spontanous, normal natural couple behavior without being over the top but still with some smal gestures we can feel the love 😀 also thats never been the main point for them to show, what they do in private is non of my business and I love them just the way they are and I love the different topics, insights, there travel vlogs ect,... also for the lovey dovey content there are a lot off different couples on RUclips to follow and there is nothing wrong with this but when I discovered this RUclips channel it felt like a new fresh of air between all the other sometimes over the top couple video's.
happy birthday ! (:
We fight too long and hard to let saver bullies are bullies in general keep us apart I will not listen to cyberbullying
Treat each other with respect and remember why you fell in love in the first place.
Happy birthday paw paw!😂😂😂
the title made me think: woaaa they never kiss? but you meant on camera, phew.
Happy Canada Day / Birthday!!!
I love this style sometimes too..from the daily vlogs to this its nice to slow down and just have some coffee and chat!
How old honestly?
Happy birthday hopefully you have a awesome birthday day
Very sensible conversation. Personally I'm glad you don't kiss in front of the camera. I think that relationships should be private. PDA can often be embarrassing.
hey yall. do you guys have any travel plans to asia like Korea or Singapore?
Can't believe Ryans only 19
I love the both of you ❤
The Colleen reference was unexpected bahaha. . Happiest Birthday Ryan!
PS.
I hunted down that christmas vlog. The mistletoe did its thing XD. .
I was searching the christimas vlog and I tyled joe pee💀 im so sorry, luv u guys
Ryan's only 19? He seems wise well beyond his years!
He’s not 19. It’s a joke. He’s older.
happy birthday