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ma’am Greta good day to you❤️ My boyfriend of two years suddenly stop texting me and ignored my last text to him. It’s been 19 days…am I being ghosted? Pls. enlighten me…I feel loss and devastated 😭😭😭
Something to add...When i was married, my husband would sometimes not speak to me for weeks. This would usually be because I disagreed with some sort of decision that he made without considering me, his wife. He acted as if I did not exist in front of our children. This was specifically intended as a punishment and to hurt me. He learned this behavior from his parents, as they would not permit his siblings to speak to him when he was little if he had done something "wrong." The silent treatment is often used by people who have personality disorders and it is highly abusive behavior. It is particularly damaging when it occurs in families. You cannot stop someone from behaving this way, nor should you ever tolerate it.
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My ex husband gave me the silent treatment. I reached out many times, but to no avail. I moved out and divorced him. Best decision I've ever made for myself. 🌈🌼🙏💖🐦🚸
I mean, as a guy who is probably wrong lol... Can live your life that way, and know this is true for myself too-- if we cannot compromise, we can't rationally hold resentment for constantly having a revolving door of dates (& I haven't even dated for years, just common sense for me I suppose, choose your battles and where you spend your sanity wisely tho, yes)
He was super cute with me for months. Then he started to ask me to show him more interest. I started to text him first a little bit more because i thought he was a nice guy but then he ghosted me!! For 3 weeks he didnt text me! I texted him after 3 weeks saying hi, how are you? (I was decided to leave him). We met in person and he confessed that he “ghosted me” because he wanted to see how i was going to react! I have never been low value with him, so this took me by surprise. Of course i left him. He couldn’t believe it, he was very confident because it was me who texted. Wish him the best but far away, his behaviour was too much toxic, i suffered a lot, the pain was insoportable sometimes
just a power game, they think they have full of control over what happens. instead of running after these guys running away from these guys is the right thing to do. Most girls try to please men.
I feel like silent treatment is childish and also shows lack of communication skills ...if a man does this to me I could never date him or take him seriously ❤️
Wow my ex use to do this to me the silent punishment! I didn’t know that he Was playing a game when he didn’t speak to me for days at a time to punish me! I’m glad I gave him his ring back and moved on
If a person plays silent game, well bye Felicia!. Nobody have time for that! ..No sweetheart, I love myself, why should i let a person steal my joy , my peace. Communication is a key of respect, love , understanding. If he can't do that, he's or she's not the one. Keep moving forward.
That sounds cold. You are bitter. Your hurt and your putting up this strong tough woman facade. Take accountability for even being with him in the first place. I don't want to see you hurt like that again & neither does God.
Greta have you read the book titled "getting to I do" by Patricia Allen. Here is a quote from the book: "Waiting is hell, but I maintain that a man is not gone unless it has been eight weeks, because it can take that long for him to process a decision." I really enjoyed reading that book, and she has similar ideas as you. I learn a lot from you Greta. 🙏💕
If he's waiting 8 weeks he's either testing a reaction or testing other women (or both) and you should keep him silent for good. A man that really wants you won't risk losing you by leaving you alone that long. Know that you are NOT his 1st choice in that length of time.
@@romarina2687 You need to read a book. She relates to how men process emotions in certain area of the brain. That's how long it takes them. Men are not like women. I have had men return after 2 months, but honestly at that point its over because I am not interested. 😊 Hope I answered your question, but the book worth reading.
Thank you for this video Greta. When you become aware of a person's psychological construction you begin to understand that their behaviors do not have to be taken personally. Sometimes the toxic behavior is like a child's temper tantrum.
Please ladies dont chase after him if his doing the silent treatment because then he will not stop doing it I know because i did date a guy that have done it over and over because he did know im gonna chase him
*Do not go after him *Let him go * Silence is a decision: punishment, disrespectful, punishment with silent treatment...set in their mind. *Guys have time frames ......2 months, 1 year...... *Creates Resentment HATE. *Let it go, let them come to you *Seeing if you will chase him, never play the game......
Such a great video thanks greta I always feel empowered after watching your videos,currently in silent treatment with my bf and not reacting at all he tends to do this from time to time like lately I kept cutting the call off when he tried arguing so he got annoyed and is now giving me silent treatment I refuse to react
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I totally agree the guy wants to go to his own space and evaluate his feelings and if he can break up but that's a, unfortunately, power game he is still in control and he shows it he can decide if the relationship continues or not. but the relationship takes 2 people he thinks he is the catch in here that behavior is toxic itself and hurts the woman, he shows that you are valued and at that point, unfortunately, the woman's trust is gone, i have, the all power i will go and i will come back as I please that happens the relationship is already over from woman side no one likes to be treated like that, that's also disrespectful that's why people needs to have communication skills the man do that usually they are not assertive and doesn't have that skills. someone doesn't know how to be in a relationship doesn't matter if you act high value etc. it's a waste of time. there is no winning in here, both lost. if the guy is like that let go because he thinks he can do it better. Move on.
He sent 2 messages that I didn't see because I turned off the notifications. When I answered I explained about the notifications and told him I was watching a movie. He didn't opened my messages until now. It has been more than 24 hours. His birthday is next Wednesday and we suppose to do a video conference...I don't know what to do if he continues silent until then.
I am so sick of these toxic games! Why are so many men acting like this…? Truly irritating and exhausting. Truly a time waster hallmark. It’s a NO from me. This is the fastest way to loose me and my respect. Why would I trust a man like this when he starts chasing again? When I relax, then it’s back to square one. The saying goes: When a man shows you who he is, believe him the first time. I have decided I will never initiate first contact again. Secondly, he is not a candidate for love anymore - permanently friendzoned. I’m pulling back the focus on me, my career and will go out tonight with my new date.
if he is a quitter start dating another man/men till you find another person for YOU. Never forgive him for silent treatment or any other abusive behavior! NEVER
Greta, great video as always. Thank you. But what if everything was fine, we didnt have a fight so he's not punishing me. He just suddenly stopped communicating? It is LDR and he has ghosted me at least 5x already but he always came back and very apologetic. The relationship is almost 3 yrs now. We havent met in person. But the relationship is very serious. Its been 2 weeks now since he stopped calling me again. He always calls me. I seldom call him. Only when he asks that i should call him. I also dont message him that often. And everytime he ghosts me, i don't chase him. I just wait. But this time i am really upset becoz he's done it again. What should i do? Thank you Greta ❤ P. S. he is in the US, I am in Asia thats why we havent met yet. We are both very religious, traditional
Sis..I don't know. Something is remiss. Doesn't sound like a relationship. Why don't you ask the Lord about it? You'll get your answer & my discernment is ADIOS!!!
Oh my God... Woman, you are living in a fantasy... Wake up already. Thid is highly toxic and non sense. You're waisting years of your life that you will not get back. Get a real man and a real relationship. The fact that he always apologises after ghosting you but then continues to do it is abusive towards you. You are addicted to the cycle.. it's called trauma bond. This is in no way real love, a long distance relationship is never real. His words don't matter, look only at his actions. I would not waiste more time on a "situationship" like this. You need to open your eyes...
Your videos are really nice however can you please talk louder I know you have a cute voice but please speak louder for the audience to hear your valuable advice thanks
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ma’am Greta good day to you❤️
My boyfriend of two years suddenly stop texting me and ignored my last text to him. It’s been 19 days…am I being ghosted? Pls. enlighten me…I feel loss and devastated 😭😭😭
the silent treatment in a relationship is emotional abuse, and you handle it by dumping him. grown ups communicate, and show each other respect.
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Thank you ❤ needed to read this now. It’s exhausting
Something to add...When i was married, my husband would sometimes not speak to me for weeks. This would usually be because I disagreed with some sort of decision that he made without considering me, his wife. He acted as if I did not exist in front of our children. This was specifically intended as a punishment and to hurt me. He learned this behavior from his parents, as they would not permit his siblings to speak to him when he was little if he had done something "wrong." The silent treatment is often used by people who have personality disorders and it is highly abusive behavior. It is particularly damaging when it occurs in families. You cannot stop someone from behaving this way, nor should you ever tolerate it.
I got my help from someone, he was the only one who was able to help me bring back my ex husband back to me and he save and solve my relationship problem ❤️❤️❤️
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Sounds awful. I had two exes like this. Usually it’s part of a personality disorder or abusive behavior - I strongly agree. Glad you got away!
My ex husband gave me the silent treatment. I reached out many times, but to no avail. I moved out and divorced him. Best decision I've ever made for myself. 🌈🌼🙏💖🐦🚸
DO NOTHING LADIES! LIVE YOUR LIFE. MEET SOMEONE NEW!
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Exactly 💯 I would just block and move on
100% agree..cry if u have too, but dont stay there too long. Get up and Move on your life.
I mean, as a guy who is probably wrong lol... Can live your life that way, and know this is true for myself too-- if we cannot compromise, we can't rationally hold resentment for constantly having a revolving door of dates (& I haven't even dated for years, just common sense for me I suppose, choose your battles and where you spend your sanity wisely tho, yes)
Nicole William's. if would be easy like that,than not to much comments would be hier
He was super cute with me for months. Then he started to ask me to show him more interest. I started to text him first a little bit more because i thought he was a nice guy but then he ghosted me!! For 3 weeks he didnt text me! I texted him after 3 weeks saying hi, how are you? (I was decided to leave him). We met in person and he confessed that he “ghosted me” because he wanted to see how i was going to react! I have never been low value with him, so this took me by surprise. Of course i left him. He couldn’t believe it, he was very confident because it was me who texted. Wish him the best but far away, his behaviour was too much toxic, i suffered a lot, the pain was insoportable sometimes
just a power game, they think they have full of control over what happens. instead of running after these guys running away from these guys is the right thing to do. Most girls try to please men.
I feel like silent treatment is childish and also shows lack of communication skills ...if a man does this to me I could never date him or take him seriously ❤️
He just broke his 5 months of silence today. I had to laugh. Sooner or later but they always try to come back. I’m not planning to reply.
Dont reply!!! Stay strong! If u have an urge to reply decide a time. Like "in 3 days I will reconsider if I reply"
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Wow my ex use to do this to me the silent punishment! I didn’t know that he Was playing a game when he didn’t speak to me for days at a time to punish me! I’m glad I gave him his ring back and moved on
I got help from someone, he was the one only one who was able to help me bring back my ex husband to me and he seve and solve my relationship problem
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If a person plays silent game, well bye Felicia!. Nobody have time for that! ..No sweetheart, I love myself, why should i let a person steal my joy , my peace. Communication is a key of respect, love , understanding. If he can't do that, he's or she's not the one. Keep moving forward.
He pulls away. I ignore him. He starts calling, I ignore him. He stops calling, I ignore him.Go to the play yard sir.
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Brilliant
That sounds cold. You are bitter. Your hurt and your putting up this strong tough woman facade. Take accountability for even being with him in the first place. I don't want to see you hurt like that again & neither does God.
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Greta have you read the book titled "getting to I do" by Patricia Allen. Here is a quote from the book: "Waiting is hell, but I maintain that a man is not gone unless it has been eight weeks, because it can take that long for him to process a decision."
I really enjoyed reading that book, and she has similar ideas as you.
I learn a lot from you Greta. 🙏💕
If he's waiting 8 weeks he's either testing a reaction or testing other women (or both) and you should keep him silent for good. A man that really wants you won't risk losing you by leaving you alone that long. Know that you are NOT his 1st choice in that length of time.
@@sharfalor4244 suggest to read the book if you care. Disagree with you.
@@lawoman608 you're welcome to disagree, and to wait around on men that aren't worth it.
@LA Woman so yeah, two months seems to be a reasonable time, why does the author said that period of time as a limit?
@@romarina2687 You need to read a book. She relates to how men process emotions in certain area of the brain. That's how long it takes them. Men are not like women.
I have had men return after 2 months, but honestly at that point its over because I am not interested. 😊
Hope I answered your question, but the book worth reading.
Well, I’m not waiting for anyone. Once you are gone, stay gone.
Wow Greta ! You really broke it down in this video-such valuable and priceless information- you are the queen of high value- thank you for your wisdom
Thank you for this video Greta. When you become aware of a person's psychological construction you begin to understand that their behaviors do not have to be taken personally. Sometimes the toxic behavior is like a child's temper tantrum.
Please ladies dont chase after him if his doing the silent treatment because then he will not stop doing it
I know because i did date a guy that have done it over and over because he did know im gonna chase him
*Do not go after him
*Let him go
* Silence is a decision: punishment, disrespectful, punishment with silent treatment...set in their mind.
*Guys have time frames ......2 months, 1 year......
*Creates Resentment HATE.
*Let it go, let them come to you
*Seeing if you will chase him, never play the game......
I'm right here with him with this crud right now. I'm getting the silent treatment, so you know what, he's getting it right back between the eyes.
Such a great video thanks greta I always feel empowered after watching your videos,currently in silent treatment with my bf and not reacting at all he tends to do this from time to time like lately I kept cutting the call off when he tried arguing so he got annoyed and is now giving me silent treatment I refuse to react
Exactly, Greta’s videos always give me the strength to not commit stupid actions like texting him first
If a guy carries on like that, means they have an inability to communicate in a an emotionally mature manner. Let him go move on to the next person.
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Text him on WhatsApp
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How about my silent treatments….FOREVER. Ya get to a point where the person is a waste of time and there is no future.
i think he needs his space and time for me to improve myself and take care of me
Hi! Please elaborate on how to start the conversation on the boundary after he disappears for a week or two?
Greta you were right on time with this one . Thank you
Fudge that, once he stops talking to me, he can kick rocks.
Thankyou so much Greta 💝🙏
He tries to get women to chase him.
Thank you Greta
This video deserves millions of likes 😊
Seriously id rather be alone
If youre having nasty fights... hes not for you
We are not door mats!! Move away fast!! Run from men like this! We deserve better!!DO NOT TOLERATE this type of behavior!!
I totally agree the guy wants to go to his own space and evaluate his feelings and if he can break up but that's a, unfortunately, power game he is still in control and he shows it he can decide if the relationship continues or not. but the relationship takes 2 people he thinks he is the catch in here that behavior is toxic itself and hurts the woman, he shows that you are valued and at that point, unfortunately, the woman's trust is gone, i have, the all power i will go and i will come back as I please that happens the relationship is already over from woman side no one likes to be treated like that, that's also disrespectful that's why people needs to have communication skills the man do that usually they are not assertive and doesn't have that skills. someone doesn't know how to be in a relationship doesn't matter if you act high value etc. it's a waste of time. there is no winning in here, both lost. if the guy is like that let go because he thinks he can do it better. Move on.
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He sent 2 messages that I didn't see because I turned off the notifications. When I answered I explained about the notifications and told him I was watching a movie. He didn't opened my messages until now. It has been more than 24 hours. His birthday is next Wednesday and we suppose to do a video conference...I don't know what to do if he continues silent until then.
I am so sick of these toxic games! Why are so many men acting like this…? Truly irritating and exhausting. Truly a time waster hallmark. It’s a NO from me. This is the fastest way to loose me and my respect. Why would I trust a man like this when he starts chasing again? When I relax, then it’s back to square one. The saying goes: When a man shows you who he is, believe him the first time. I have decided I will never initiate first contact again. Secondly, he is not a candidate for love anymore - permanently friendzoned. I’m pulling back the focus on me, my career and will go out tonight with my new date.
if he is a quitter start dating another man/men till you find another person for YOU. Never forgive him for silent treatment or any other abusive behavior! NEVER
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Greta, great video as always. Thank you. But what if everything was fine, we didnt have a fight so he's not punishing me. He just suddenly stopped communicating? It is LDR and he has ghosted me at least 5x already but he always came back and very apologetic. The relationship is almost 3 yrs now. We havent met in person. But the relationship is very serious. Its been 2 weeks now since he stopped calling me again. He always calls me. I seldom call him. Only when he asks that i should call him. I also dont message him that often. And everytime he ghosts me, i don't chase him. I just wait. But this time i am really upset becoz he's done it again. What should i do? Thank you Greta ❤
P. S. he is in the US, I am in Asia thats why we havent met yet. We are both very religious, traditional
Let him go. 5 years without meeting. It is suspicious.
Sis..I don't know. Something is remiss. Doesn't sound like a relationship. Why don't you ask the Lord about it? You'll get your answer & my discernment is ADIOS!!!
Oh my God... Woman, you are living in a fantasy...
Wake up already. Thid is highly toxic and non sense. You're waisting years of your life that you will not get back. Get a real man and a real relationship. The fact that he always apologises after ghosting you but then continues to do it is abusive towards you. You are addicted to the cycle.. it's called trauma bond. This is in no way real love, a long distance relationship is never real. His words don't matter, look only at his actions. I would not waiste more time on a "situationship" like this. You need to open your eyes...
What if he gives silent treatment even after r being nice and support him not even a single fight.( ldr) but he keeps forearding his photos n vedio
Forwarding photos and videos is cheap and lazy. I wouln't take this guy seriously
He wants your attention and for you to chase him. Forget it. Stay high value and if he doesn't step up = next!
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Your videos are really nice however can you please talk louder I know you have a cute voice but please speak louder for the audience to hear your valuable advice thanks
Silence is God. ❤ God treatment is very painful but everything thats real within you cant be hurt by that. ✨️✨️✨️
Like a "time out" 😂
First comment. 🍓🧸🐭
If I walk in the yard and I get no communication from the other then I will return the receipt.
"playing games"? Thats called emotional abuse!