🫂🕊️… Learning to reach out … Be still and know God ( Jesus is your best friend) the moments you feel isolated 😢… pray to the creator and yes there is a season for even emotional awareness… empathy and kindness 🫂 Jesus said to ASK… Ask Seek Knock 🕊️ Tears are prayers Smiles are prayers Laughter with God’s joy is Prayer … Being Awed by your reaction to your moment in the now … being present in your Now Intimacy is a woven fabric of all the seasons in your life… We are learning to wear our fabric well 🕊️ Grateful for your share and 🫂🕊️
I also learnt that I don't want to speak about my problems. I face them effectively, I bring them out to God. And if I'm sad, is ok to cry and bring it out to the Lord too! He is my strength and my rock!🙏 ❤
Yes, this is how you lament. Lament is a very powerful tool. Pour out your heart to God- all the hurt and pain- then get up and continue to trust that He's got it all under His control. 🙌🏽
YESSS, so very true. People can be so selfish and not want to hear what you're going through My brother actually told me he and his wife are too old for drama. You know what I told them? I said, I want to end my life 😔 I truly felt that. It's sad but God is always there to listen and the holy spirit will guide you 🙏 ✝️💛⚘
She took the words right out of my mouth… Listening to her almost made me sob… My friends weren’t really my friends same goes with the majority of my family… I feel numb at times…. The only comfort I have is getting closer to GOD…🙏🏼
@@arlene-is-here I had seen a really funny episode of “I Love Lucy” of where she felt the same as us and she was crying and she said, she felt friendless. Now, I dont find it funny at all.
This is true. In my profession, I talk to many people. They'll share their life story with me. The moment I attempt to share mine, they interrupt. So I don't share much anymore. I just listen.
Same. And then I went and got married with closest friends and immediate family only. They got upset I didn't tell them. It's all or nothing. Living my best life quietly and peacefully now.
You are doing a great job to humanity by listening to those people! Sometimes you might be the only person who actually listened to what they had to say. Also some people need to hear themselves to be able to sort out their problems. And most people are addicted to their phones due to work, studying, pleasure, even friendship, everything was made to be done in front of a screen and when they meet people they can't contain and take turns in speaking. I relate to this as well and it doesn't get me anymore. I speak when is my turn and if I have something to say. We have 1 mouth and 2 ears. Blessings 🙏❤️
I am so sorry that happens to you. I am absolutely terrible about interrupting. I have trauma and I babble because I get disregulated and I don't listen to my son's the way that I should and it kills me. I absolutely hate it. I just wanted you to know that. Sometimes people are too messed up to hear but sometimes they don't care and that's horrible.
Hey Haitian Black yes she did and you can hear me in her like if I was saying it. I am Trinidad and I hope that over time life will change for me and all of us who are hurting. I learn to love myself more now cause I looked out for others amd now my time is now no ones around so I do things that I love and enjoy to make me happy. I wish you all d best dont wallow in sorrow pls
Exactly. I don’t know why people think this is unusual. As you get older you don’t crying to mommy and daddy whenever you had a tough day or week, you deal with it and move on. You don’t cast your problems on others so they can reassure you that you’ll be ok, you figure out that if you keep driving on, you will be ok. No need to burden others with your daily life problems. It’s called living.
@@bananaboyTS I agree with what you’re saying bro. But I stand by what I said also. You don’t need to lay out every life problem to your friends or family, you have to learn to get through stuff on your own. But yes we aren’t meant to have community and help each other out. Neither of my parents have been involved in my life since a teenager my parents were split as a child so I’ve just had a little less people to call for help in my adult life, so I’ve learned to manage most things on my own. But, friends and family are of course more important than anything else in this world. That and belief and faith in Jesus Christ. Just my opinion.
At least,speak with your Creator ,pour your heart out to him,depression crawls in when you program your mind sadly,you are enough attitude, smile with yourself.
I dont know who you are, but your words I felt in the depth of my soul and I want you to know you aren't alone ... every word you said I understood so well
I think this is the problem and it continues to foster an environment that hinders wounds from healing. Lack of communication. Everyone’s thoughts and feelings are valid and should be heard. For once in my life, I’m realizing that it’s not a burden for others to hear my points of view and how I feel about certain matters. This is what we need more of and positive communication needs to be nurtured , not suppressed. As individuals we need to go out of our way to ask our friends and family how they’re feeling and what are they thinking about especially if they tend to be more introverted, such as I have been the majority of my life. i’m grateful that I’ve had family and friends that have in the past listened to me no matter how difficult it was for them to understand my points of view.
I want to be able to hold a space for others. We, as humans, all need to be heard!! If we do not seek out SAFE, kind, caring, trustworthy people we are doomed to a life of isolation and overwhelming loneliness. There are good people out there, we just have to be ever so wise & discerning asking God to connect us with the right people who get us.
Agreed...💚💚💚💚IT IS Divine Balance...IT IS Divine Universe GOD With Me...And No Matter Who Does Things For Me...I Know IT ALL Comes From GOD...ALL Divine Doors Will Open...ALL Divine Possibilities ARE Here For Me NOW In This NEW NOW Era And Age Transition 💚💚💚💚🦅🦅🦅🦅
Tis true! I was venting to a friend and she just blurted out she didn’t wanna hear my problems. From that day forward, I keep my mouth shut and just deal with it in solitude.
💯true…..when it comes to my problems or burdens I keep it to myself because no one will understand it…..I talk to God all my problems and it will make me better and stronger
In 5 decades, I've learned to trust myself and both of the service dogs that I've trained. Other people? Not so much. Always move forward. Always bet on yourself.
Cerebral palsy and epilepsy have given me unique windows to view the human condition. Both of my dogs have helped me stay clean and sober. One day at a time.
Life has humbled me and made me quiet in the world because I am someone who has spent most of her adult life with a chronic illness. Yet I still speak...to the LORD, for He always listens. And for this reason I am not on my own, for I have a Savior who totally understands my burdens. For my burderns are His. So yes, life is hard, but the joy of eternity is promised, and my faith in Christ is enough that I know that I am not all I have. Thank you LORD for the gift of your eternal love. I am never on my own. 🙏✝️❤
You ll be fine, trust me. Trust in yourself...the most. We will all leave alone one day anyways. But know that you are here for a reason, one day you ll find that reason 100%
100%!!!!! I’ve definitely felt that way. People don’t really want to hear about what ails you. “When you’re better, they want to play, and when you’re bad, you’re on your own.” Deep. Sobering.
In the morning during worship I cry to God and I don't need to cry again for the rest of the day. I am strong as a Lion in His strength. Praise be to God
You described me in a nutshell. People only to hear when I'm happy and have something to give. When I'm sad I'm always on my own So I keep that side of me to myself
I’m the same like you. I’ve learned the hardest way from every walks of life .And I’m very quiet and prefer keep to myself . Kudos all what you’ve just said.
That is why i picture the world as a me in my mothers womb...because i knew nobody and was by myself for a whole 9 months, but i kept on perfecting and developing myself😊😊
Your mother nourished you and helped you grow during those 9 months .. imagine a mother drinking while you are in her belly .. My mother did .. Even if you now feel that you were all alone in that 9 months , you couldn't see the food she nourished you with and the clean water she drank to keep your environment clean .. You don't remember she spoke to you so that you knew who she was when you were born .. God's the same way .. We just don't sometimes realize we aren't really ever alone ..
Robert I found my faith in God when I was about 5. I've had my trials that stretched my faith but He never left me. I've just come out of such trial that I understand how He is all we need. I honestly for many ,many years have had nobody to talk to but God was faithful every time. When it is really bad He even allows me to sit on His lap and sob on His shoulder. I can't imagine life without Him.
@@lauraflegal5848 Wow that’s a long time as I also found my faith when I was young about 10. He never leaves His children. How did your trails stretch your faith in what ways ?
@@RobertButler-dp8oj hello Robert. My husband died 11 years ago April 6. He was my world. I was lost. I knew God was with me but I had nobody to talk to. I ended up literally running away from life. I had lost my home ,vehicle, everything material that we spent 29 years accumulating. My mom died in January of 13 my hubby in April a week before our 29 anniversary. Losing material things I knew could be replaced but people you can't replace. For 5 years I was homeless despite working. I finally came back to the area where I grew up.A friend helped me find a place to live and I started to finally heal. I experienced God's grace,forgiveness,His protection and His provision for me. I found how much we hinder God's plan for us. At least I didn't wonder 40 years. I've been through a journey that I don't want to go through again but if I do so be it. Losing everything is hard but had I not had God I wouldn't be here tonight. I've gained much in wisdom and I know how wealthy I am because I have the one and only God in me and with me. Would you like to share with me? If you want details ask . I have no shame. Its because of where I came from God revealed more and more to me all because I submitted and ask. Thank you Robeet. Your a blessing. Your reminding of how truly blessed I was and am. Sweet dreams. Laura
Can I have your email so we continue our conversation or would you prefer Facebook or instagram since we are both Christian’s and can learn a lot from each other
This is so sad. There are people, such as myself, who truly understand that friendship means listening to what hurts as well as sharing the good times. I've found that, if you ask, God will send you a friend.
Yeah ask god hahaha I need to tell that to the starving children! They just have to ask god! But maybe u are just more important that’s why he helped u and not the dead children ❤
I learned that and it brought me into a great state of depression. One cannot do it alone. I speak to God now, we have a great relationship, He guides me in my prayers and I know I am supported and valued through him. Interestingly enough that feeling of peace has affected my relationships and brought me much closer to certain people and completely cast away from others. The sense of lightness and unburdened feeling is a tranquility I only prayed for. No therapy brought me that level of clarity, no new age tool ever got me that calm, stable and at peace either. I pray that if you're in this state you find your way; know you are very much loved and always looked after and anything that comes your way you'll find a way to handle it. ❤🙏🏽
You're never alone. You can always confide in the Holy Spirit. He's here for you always, you just have to have the desire for the relationship. You can be guided every moment of each day and know that in spirit, you're never alone. Lots of love and blessings to you x
Burdens are lifted at Calvary. Jesus said, "Come to me all who are weary and heavy laden and I will give you rest." Ladies and gentlemen there is a Friend in Jesus, he Loves Y'all, Amen 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
My father used to tell me that when you share your burdens with others, you become the burden they now have to carry…so carry it yourself. 49 years old and that shit still stays with me.
💯Right, my beautiful sister! Life has quieted me as i get older... I don't have too much to say nowadays, but i damn for sure listen more... I sometimes look back and realize how much fkg time I've wasted on nonsense and people i should've never even said "hello" to... Quiet is good now...its my peace
@RobertButler-dp8oj 🙋🏽♀️ 💯 more than I used to just a little over a year ago... The world has sadly and tragically imploded, and "people" have fallen victim to the ills of this jacked up artificial society. The toxic playgrounds on SM has a lot to do with my newfound views because of the mostly fake narcissistic and hypocritical people that feed/play on it. I've distanced myself from it a lot, and now, i live a more peaceful, enjoyable and quieter life than before. My emotional, mental, physiological, physical and spiritual health are finally healing and is much stronger. ... the toxic energy that was once prominent in my life is dissipating.. The calmness has brought me to a place of satisfaction and contentment. 😂 That's why God gave us all ONE mouth and TWO ears! Hope i made sense😂 Peace!🙏🏿
Her words hit me hard 😢 this is exactly how I feel. I was always the one who cared about everyone. My family, my friends, even as a nurse I cared about everyone. But when I got diagnosed with Leukemia 2 years ago, I found out who the real ones are. And unfortunately just a few. 😢
I call my silence stoic now because there are those who enjoy to hear and see your pain so silence is truly golden. I rather be alone with god as my true friend 🙏
OMG. Sounds exactly like me!!!! There needs to be a new definition of family out there. Sure isn't what my Dad taught me what it should be. My friends are my family!!!!!
I feel you!… Now you are a Survivor not a Victim. You don’t even realize how strong you are yet. The day would will come … Through learning to Love Yourself, as the people whom hurt you are miserable. Hurt People… “Hurt People! You have the courage to break this chain. You are Worthy.. So stand Tall, shoulders back Beautiful , Intelligent , Strong. I kill those People with Kindness. When a Narcissist is in the throws of a Tantrum… when the poison spits from his mouth. … “I am Sorry You Feel that way.” Calm, Collected, Class. Don’t circle the drain with him. You are WORTHY…
I can relate. I dont have anyone who cares enough to hear me or be there for me when I need them. I saved myself bcuz no one else would/could. Might be sad at times but I am proud of myself for always rising from the ashes and have no one to thank but myself and my Hp for my blessings today. Ty for posting. Beautifully said. Touched my heart 🙏❤
Yes as we get older and wiser we learn to deal with the mistakes we make and overcome the things we are not in control of ... sometimes ..thats too much for a person to cope with ..but we will Always live in hope with GODS help
OMG 😱…. I feel you heavy on this message ‼️💯 I mean your much younger than I,but regardless of that, Iv been in hermit mode / isolation… and I am so ok with that ‼️.. thank You for sharing this message ‼️ I really felt it hit my stomach .. so yeah God Bess you 🙏♥️‼️
Amazing beautiful woman. Don't let no one take you Joy. In if they are a true Friend they will be there when you are going through something bad. God bless you and your family Aman 🎉🎉
Me too. But I have learned that God is always there for me❤ and God is all I need.
Is God real??? Where is he?
I'm happy you have him😊
Soo trueee Amennnn❤
Aman God is the only one that will get you through anything it's hard God will prevail.
Amen 🙏🏽 ✨️ ❤️
So true, when you laugh, everyone laughs with you, but when you cry, you cry alone,
Perhaps you have to find someone that will cry with you...there is people like that out her.
So sad, hopefully we all find that type of people.
Beautiful comment @allanlivingstone4085.. And so true 😢 God bless you..
🫂🕊️…
Learning to reach out …
Be still and know God ( Jesus is your best friend) the moments you feel isolated 😢… pray to the creator and yes there is a season for even emotional awareness… empathy and kindness 🫂
Jesus said to ASK…
Ask
Seek
Knock 🕊️
Tears are prayers
Smiles are prayers
Laughter with God’s joy is Prayer …
Being Awed by your reaction to your moment in the now … being present in your Now
Intimacy is a woven fabric of all the seasons in your life…
We are learning to wear our fabric well 🕊️
Grateful for your share and 🫂🕊️
Jesus will cry with you and laugh with you. He sympathises with you at all moments
“Life has humbled me and made me very quiet.” >>> deep words 😩🙌🏼
😂🤣. So true
It hit different
Our Creator has given us his Love , how's that grab you ?
He sent his Son to teach us and even die for us .
A humble woman? That’s rare
Exactly what I'm feeling right now. You said it beautifully
I've learned that I've never been alone, God has always been with me.
Glory to God in Jesus name Amen.
I also learnt that I don't want to speak about my problems. I face them effectively, I bring them out to God. And if I'm sad, is ok to cry and bring it out to the Lord too! He is my strength and my rock!🙏 ❤
This right here is how I feel yesss
Yes, this is how you lament. Lament is a very powerful tool. Pour out your heart to God- all the hurt and pain- then get up and continue to trust that He's got it all under His control. 🙌🏽
This is me
YESSS, so very true. People can be so selfish and not want to hear what you're going through My brother actually told me he and his wife are too old for drama. You know what I told them? I said, I want to end my life 😔 I truly felt that. It's sad but God is always there to listen and the holy spirit will guide you 🙏 ✝️💛⚘
@faithNprayer73 Please never take that action. Know that you are here for a reason, you deserve this life. May God always bless you, we love you! 🩷
She took the words right out of my mouth… Listening to her almost made me sob… My friends weren’t really my friends same goes with the majority of my family… I feel numb at times…. The only comfort I have is getting closer to GOD…🙏🏼
Same here. I feel alone
@@arlene-is-here I had seen a really funny episode of “I Love Lucy” of where she felt the same as us and she was crying and she said, she felt friendless. Now, I dont find it funny at all.
I did cry and I’m still crying😢
But why do friends act like they care when they really don’t
Can relate. Keep your head up 🙂
This is true. In my profession, I talk to many people. They'll share their life story with me. The moment I attempt to share mine, they interrupt. So I don't share much anymore. I just listen.
I guess that's the price we pay for being good listeners
Same. And then I went and got married with closest friends and immediate family only. They got upset I didn't tell them. It's all or nothing. Living my best life quietly and peacefully now.
You are doing a great job to humanity by listening to those people! Sometimes you might be the only person who actually listened to what they had to say. Also some people need to hear themselves to be able to sort out their problems. And most people are addicted to their phones due to work, studying, pleasure, even friendship, everything was made to be done in front of a screen and when they meet people they can't contain and take turns in speaking.
I relate to this as well and it doesn't get me anymore. I speak when is my turn and if I have something to say.
We have 1 mouth and 2 ears.
Blessings 🙏❤️
So true...
I am so sorry that happens to you. I am absolutely terrible about interrupting. I have trauma and I babble because I get disregulated and I don't listen to my son's the way that I should and it kills me. I absolutely hate it. I just wanted you to know that. Sometimes people are too messed up to hear but sometimes they don't care and that's horrible.
This is exactly where I am right now in life. You said it so eloquently.
Same here
Same here. Wow. The YT algorithm wants to save its consumers.
❤❤❤
Absobloominlutely true!!!
Hey Haitian Black yes she did and you can hear me in her like if I was saying it. I am Trinidad and I hope that over time life will change for me and all of us who are hurting. I learn to love myself more now cause I looked out for others amd now my time is now no ones around so I do things that I love and enjoy to make me happy. I wish you all d best dont wallow in sorrow pls
Being young is speaking, and being old is listening. Being wise is caring.
This kind of thinking means you are maturing! It hurts a little at first but it makes you more resilient
And she’s only halfway there because she doesn’t realize how she spoke too much. She thought she was more important than us. Now she knows
Exactly. I don’t know why people think this is unusual. As you get older you don’t crying to mommy and daddy whenever you had a tough day or week, you deal with it and move on. You don’t cast your problems on others so they can reassure you that you’ll be ok, you figure out that if you keep driving on, you will be ok. No need to burden others with your daily life problems. It’s called living.
@@LP3me😢
@@LP3mebro its called being a human, we arent meant to go thorugh everything without community
@@bananaboyTS I agree with what you’re saying bro. But I stand by what I said also. You don’t need to lay out every life problem to your friends or family, you have to learn to get through stuff on your own. But yes we aren’t meant to have community and help each other out. Neither of my parents have been involved in my life since a teenager my parents were split as a child so I’ve just had a little less people to call for help in my adult life, so I’ve learned to manage most things on my own. But, friends and family are of course more important than anything else in this world. That and belief and faith in Jesus Christ. Just my opinion.
She literally spoke my heart out . Spot on sis
💜💜💜same here, in the same boat💜💜💜
At least,speak with your Creator ,pour your heart out to him,depression crawls in when you program your mind sadly,you are enough attitude, smile with yourself.
Yup💕
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I dont know who you are, but your words I felt in the depth of my soul and I want you to know you aren't alone ... every word you said I understood so well
I think this is the problem and it continues to foster an environment that hinders wounds from healing. Lack of communication. Everyone’s thoughts and feelings are valid and should be heard. For once in my life, I’m realizing that it’s not a burden for others to hear my points of view and how I feel about certain matters. This is what we need more of and positive communication needs to be nurtured , not suppressed. As individuals we need to go out of our way to ask our friends and family how they’re feeling and what are they thinking about especially if they tend to be more introverted, such as I have been the majority of my life. i’m grateful that I’ve had family and friends that have in the past listened to me no matter how difficult it was for them to understand my points of view.
I want to be able to hold a space for others. We, as humans, all need to be heard!! If we do not seek out SAFE, kind, caring, trustworthy people we are doomed to a life of isolation and overwhelming loneliness. There are good people out there, we just have to be ever so wise & discerning asking God to connect us with the right people who get us.
Same brother blessings
I am so sorry. The world is a tough place these days. I send hugs and peace to you.
Mr.@wiliamramirez8097, I think you two should talk more, wish you both much happiness
There is someone who will not only listen but also bear your burdens ❤️
and is the one and only who really cares, And he’s name is JESUS CHRIST ❤🙏
God listens
Beautifully, and Truly Said.
God send herYou and people that love her in Jesus name amen
❤✌🏾
Amenn
❤❤
Amen 🙏🏾
100% true. I am so so quiet that I don't talk anymore
Me too
People don't want to hear about your burdens. In case it burdens them.
It's sad how true this is.
But we do the same thing, don't we?
I personally don't. When I love you I care for you. If I don't genuinely love you, you won't be a close friend.@@chestchirecateyes
@@er_5406 agreed. Im selective who I give this gift to. And so, I choose to have only 1-2 true friends.
@@chestchirecateyesSpeak for yourself. Some people understand what emotional support means
Agreed...💚💚💚💚IT IS Divine Balance...IT IS Divine Universe GOD With Me...And No Matter Who Does Things For Me...I Know IT ALL Comes From GOD...ALL Divine Doors Will Open...ALL Divine Possibilities ARE Here For Me NOW In This NEW NOW Era And Age Transition 💚💚💚💚🦅🦅🦅🦅
Tis true! I was venting to a friend and she just blurted out she didn’t wanna hear my problems. From that day forward, I keep my mouth shut and just deal with it in solitude.
Life has taught me to share and talk to God.....he always listen.😮😮😮😮😮😮 My everything ♥ ❤ 💖 💕
💯true…..when it comes to my problems or burdens I keep it to myself because no one will understand it…..I talk to God all my problems and it will make me better and stronger
In 5 decades, I've learned to trust myself and both of the service dogs that I've trained. Other people? Not so much. Always move forward. Always bet on yourself.
This hurts. I wish it was easy to do what you do.
Cerebral palsy and epilepsy have given me unique windows to view the human condition. Both of my dogs have helped me stay clean and sober. One day at a time.
Life has humbled me and made me quiet in the world because I am someone who has spent most of her adult life with a chronic illness. Yet I still speak...to the LORD, for He always listens. And for this reason I am not on my own, for I have a Savior who totally understands my burdens. For my burderns are His. So yes, life is hard, but the joy of eternity is promised, and my faith in Christ is enough that I know that I am not all I have.
Thank you LORD for the gift of your eternal love. I am never on my own. 🙏✝️❤
Her eyes and her delivery made it even more powerful...
That's when I learned the POWER OF JESUS AND HE HEARS MY CRY... AMEN 👼🏾🙏🏾💙🎯...🪖🇺🇲🎖️🙋🏾💪🏾💯👼🏾🙏🏾💙🌍🎯
Anen. I love Jesus too.
She is speaking my truth!!!
You ll be fine, trust me. Trust in yourself...the most. We will all leave alone one day anyways. But know that you are here for a reason, one day you ll find that reason 100%
This is spot-on and highly relatable.
What do you find most spot on about this
I feel this 100%, you aren't alone in this!
100%!!!!! I’ve definitely felt that way. People don’t really want to hear about what ails you. “When you’re better, they want to play, and when you’re bad, you’re on your own.” Deep. Sobering.
Take all you burden, joy, pain and sadness to God. God knows you and will heal and bring you peace.❤
You are not alone. God, the Holy Spirit is in you and with you at all times. Stay Blessed ❤🙏🏾
Miss Lady you're spot on. Woe me to their's truth to every single word you said. Agree❤
There is God, healing is possible with Him❤
I agree God healing helps alot 🙏❤️
In the morning during worship I cry to God and I don't need to cry again for the rest of the day. I am strong as a Lion in His strength. Praise be to God
It's very true. She put it into words so beautifully..
I feel this so deeply
You described me in a nutshell. People only to hear when I'm happy and have something to give. When I'm sad I'm always on my own So I keep that side of me to myself
This is everyone these days. Welcome to absolute individualism. Blame America.
Truth!
Stunning message, yet very accurate. People want to be with you when the smiles are in full swing, but when life gets hard, you’re on your own. 😢
Talk all with God. To him there's no burden that will burden him
God is everything I have❤
This hit home. I feel the same way. I’m not the open happy hearted person I used to be. Life will do that.
For me God is all i have.... Cos even i disappoint myself sometimes, but God has never disappointed me
I’m the same like you. I’ve learned the hardest way from every walks of life .And I’m very quiet and prefer keep to myself . Kudos all what you’ve just said.
Me too. Do you agree it’s better to keep to yourself than with fake people ?
This young lady is a real one. I can relate to every word she just said in how I have been living since I was a child.😢❤❤
Absolutely exactly how I feel 🎯
Amén Praise God 🙏🏻 🙌
He's with us 😇🙏🏻🙌
To be honest,the eyes say it all.
Sadness & pain in the eyes is a giveaway!
I’ve tried to hide pain before but it shows!
Don’t ever suffer alone!
There are times suffering alone is best. If no response, let them go.
😢😢😢so true..I've been a widow for past 6 months now and I have seen this changes happening so quickly..nobody wants to know my burdens
Sorry for your loss 😢
@@margaretpeelen3968 thank you..much appreciated 🙏
So sorry for your loss Ma'am...I pray you will find true solace in the Lord Jesus Christ!
@@carolineroberts646 AMEN 🙏 Thank you and GOD BLESS YOU aswell..
@@cetexjay1119 Love you with the love of the Lord.Stay strong Sis!🙏🏽💕🔥
That is why i picture the world as a me in my mothers womb...because i knew nobody and was by myself for a whole 9 months, but i kept on perfecting and developing myself😊😊
Your mother nourished you and helped you grow during those 9 months .. imagine a mother drinking while you are in her belly ..
My mother did ..
Even if you now feel that you were all alone in that 9 months , you couldn't see the food she nourished you with and the clean water she drank to keep your environment clean ..
You don't remember she spoke to you so that you knew who she was when you were born ..
God's the same way ..
We just don't sometimes realize we aren't really ever alone ..
Please know that you are definitely not alone!
This is actually a beautiful mindset to have.. its sort of like a gift....
Fact. You have God. He's all I have and need.
I agree. When did you first find your faith in God
Robert I found my faith in God when I was about 5. I've had my trials that stretched my faith but He never left me. I've just come out of such trial that I understand how He is all we need. I honestly for many ,many years have had nobody to talk to but God was faithful every time. When it is really bad He even allows me to sit on His lap and sob on His shoulder. I can't imagine life without Him.
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Wow that’s a long time as I also found my faith when I was young about 10. He never leaves His children. How did your trails stretch your faith in what ways ?
@@RobertButler-dp8oj hello Robert. My husband died 11 years ago April 6. He was my world. I was lost. I knew God was with me but I had nobody to talk to. I ended up literally running away from life. I had lost my home ,vehicle, everything material that we spent 29 years accumulating. My mom died in January of 13 my hubby in April a week before our 29 anniversary. Losing material things I knew could be replaced but people you can't replace. For 5 years I was homeless despite working. I finally came back to the area where I
grew up.A friend helped me find a place to live and I started to finally heal. I experienced God's grace,forgiveness,His protection and His provision for me. I found how much we hinder God's plan for us. At least I didn't wonder 40 years. I've been through a journey that I don't want to go through again but if I do so be it. Losing everything is hard but had I not had God I wouldn't be here tonight. I've gained much in wisdom and I know how wealthy I am because I have the one and only God in me and with me.
Would you like to share with me? If you want details ask . I have no shame. Its because of where I came from God revealed more and more to me all because I submitted and ask. Thank you Robeet. Your a blessing. Your reminding of how truly blessed I was and am. Sweet dreams. Laura
Can I have your email so we continue our conversation or would you prefer Facebook or instagram since we are both Christian’s and can learn a lot from each other
This is so sad. There are people, such as myself, who truly understand that friendship means listening to what hurts as well as sharing the good times. I've found that, if you ask, God will send you a friend.
You are lucky. You are the 1 out of 10.
Very true! ❤
Yeah ask god hahaha I need to tell that to the starving children! They just have to ask god! But maybe u are just more important that’s why he helped u and not the dead children ❤
Surrender it all to God sis. You’re never alone. He will heal you beyond your understanding. Praying for you 🫶🏾
Amen 🙏🏾. That’s the complete truth in a nut shell 👌🏽🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I learned that and it brought me into a great state of depression. One cannot do it alone. I speak to God now, we have a great relationship, He guides me in my prayers and I know I am supported and valued through him. Interestingly enough that feeling of peace has affected my relationships and brought me much closer to certain people and completely cast away from others. The sense of lightness and unburdened feeling is a tranquility I only prayed for. No therapy brought me that level of clarity, no new age tool ever got me that calm, stable and at peace either. I pray that if you're in this state you find your way; know you are very much loved and always looked after and anything that comes your way you'll find a way to handle it. ❤🙏🏽
Learnt this too ❤ keep your problems to yourself. People always leave if you over share. They cant handle this level of pain ❤
It's so sad and weak asf I think
You're never alone. You can always confide in the Holy Spirit. He's here for you always, you just have to have the desire for the relationship. You can be guided every moment of each day and know that in spirit, you're never alone. Lots of love and blessings to you x
I learnt that the hard way
Give them to Jesus he cares for you and He wants you to give him your burdens so you will have rest in Him.
Right, but people have the nerve to ask, " How are you doing?" If you know the person, they just want information.
Don’t go through life alone
Jesus is the best friend I’ve ever had.
Straight No Chaser! Yep!🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽
This is the most truest ❤
Fair weather friends in today's world. Relationships have really changed and people do not care.
Recently hit me like a ton of bricks. I haven't spoken in weeks. And I prefer it this way.
Burdens are lifted at Calvary. Jesus said, "Come to me all who are weary and heavy laden and I will give you rest." Ladies and gentlemen there is a Friend in Jesus, he Loves Y'all, Amen 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Yes indeed thank you ❤
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I hope she gets to meet the right people on her life.
So true!!!😢 stop telling people about your burdens and problems..feelings. They don't want to hear about it anyway.
FACTS!!! NO ONE REEEALLY CARES. NO ONE IS GOING TO BE THERE WHEN YOU NEED THEM!!
That's why I'm a cat person. ❤
Cast your burdens on Jesus Christ. Cats aren't going to be there forever. Jesus Christ is.
My father used to tell me that when you share your burdens with others, you become the burden they now have to carry…so carry it yourself.
49 years old and that shit still stays with me.
Your dad sounds like a wise man as am sure you two were very close
@@RobertButler-dp8oj - Yeah, sure. Besties. 🙄
@@corinnefugal6967 that’s nice. How old is he now and how’s he doing
@@RobertButler-dp8oj - No idea. I severed ties 3+ years ago. Haven’t spoken since.
@@corinnefugal6967 oh sorry I didn’t know. Do you mind if I ask why
💯Right, my beautiful sister!
Life has quieted me as i get older...
I don't have too much to say nowadays, but i damn for sure listen more...
I sometimes look back and realize how much fkg time I've wasted on nonsense and people i should've never even said "hello" to...
Quiet is good now...its my peace
How peaceful do you feel now that you listen more
@RobertButler-dp8oj
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💯 more than I used to just a little over a year ago...
The world has sadly and tragically imploded, and "people" have fallen victim to the ills of this jacked up artificial society.
The toxic playgrounds on SM has a lot to do with my newfound views because of the mostly fake narcissistic and hypocritical people that feed/play on it.
I've distanced myself from it a lot, and now, i live a more peaceful, enjoyable and quieter life than before.
My emotional, mental, physiological, physical and spiritual health are finally healing and is much stronger.
... the toxic energy that was once prominent in my life is dissipating..
The calmness has brought me to a place of satisfaction and contentment.
😂 That's why God gave us all ONE mouth and TWO ears!
Hope i made sense😂
Peace!🙏🏿
I’ve been left with life’s scars, inflicted upon me by others. I will never be quiet again!
I feel the same way 💯Amen sista.
I have just came across ur video for the first time and omg it feels like ur speaking about me exactly 😢😢💔. tuning in from Ireland
💜💜💜same💜💜💜
Your so true sister I agree 💯
Amen sister
Her words hit me hard 😢 this is exactly how I feel. I was always the one who cared about everyone. My family, my friends, even as a nurse I cared about everyone. But when I got diagnosed with Leukemia 2 years ago, I found out who the real ones are. And unfortunately just a few. 😢
💯 Agree. Thank you for being so honest. And I am sorry for your pain.
This is how exactly feel ❤️
I call my silence stoic now because there are those who enjoy to hear and see your pain so silence is truly golden. I rather be alone with god as my true friend 🙏
OMG. Sounds exactly like me!!!! There needs to be a new definition of family out there. Sure isn't what my Dad taught me what it should be. My friends are my family!!!!!
I feel you!… Now you are a Survivor not a Victim. You don’t even realize how strong you are yet. The day would will come … Through learning to Love Yourself, as the people whom hurt you are miserable. Hurt People… “Hurt People! You have the courage to break this chain. You are Worthy.. So stand Tall, shoulders back Beautiful , Intelligent , Strong. I kill those People with Kindness. When a Narcissist is in the throws of a Tantrum… when the poison spits from his mouth. … “I am Sorry You Feel that way.” Calm, Collected, Class. Don’t circle the drain with him. You are WORTHY…
So it’s a true saying, when you laugh the world laughs with you, but when you cry, you cry alone. Prayers changes things💯♥️🙏🏾
Exactly 💯
I can relate. I dont have anyone who cares enough to hear me or be there for me when I need them. I saved myself bcuz no one else would/could. Might be sad at times but I am proud of myself for always rising from the ashes and have no one to thank but myself and my Hp for my blessings today. Ty for posting. Beautifully said. Touched my heart 🙏❤
I hear you and you are not alone. Born alone. Die alone. Answer to God alone at the time of accountability.
God is all i need. Me myself and I and my Jesus ❤️🙏
The realest words I have heard in a long time. Most people are FAKE and don't care about you❤
Yes as we get older and wiser we learn to deal with the mistakes we make and overcome the things we are not in control of ... sometimes ..thats too much for a person to cope with ..but we will Always live in hope with GODS help
Me too I stay by myself I do not want family in my life
OMG 😱…. I feel you heavy on this message ‼️💯
I mean your much younger than I,but regardless of that, Iv been in hermit mode / isolation… and I am so ok with that ‼️.. thank
You for sharing this message ‼️ I really felt it hit my stomach .. so yeah
God Bess you 🙏♥️‼️
I hope that everyone reading this knows that you are wonderful and worthwhile and that you deserve love and understanding. I am sending you Love.
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I feel this message.
you are so young and pretty, Hope you will meet good people in life, best luck
Amazing beautiful woman. Don't let no one take you Joy. In if they are a true Friend they will be there when you are going through something bad. God bless you and your family Aman 🎉🎉
Preach Power💪💪❤️💪💪 Why I Just Listen Or Walk Away.
Absolutely true... No body cares wat we're going through...
Me too. God has never let me down and he is all you need ❤
In quiet, you gain wisdom. GOD is all you have. ❤
Me too.
🫣😢🥺 …🫴🏻sending you a lot of love, peace and empathy 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
How accurate. I could never find the words to explain this. Its perfect
Absolutely true! So I've discovered as well. Be strong ❤
you are all you have.....and all you need. well said.
Silence is golden 🏆🏆🏆🙏RIP 🌹 Auntie Faye 🌹 She always told me that She was the most protected ❣️ in the family by it n respected🤟💯🌹
Life has humbled me too I used to care of what people will say about me but now I don't care anymore the way I do my things it's for me and God