Narcissists dont know WHO THEY ARE!
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- Опубликовано: 19 сен 2024
- Narcissists tend to lack their own identities so they go around and assume that of others. Narcissistic people, Like myself, tend to take on the personality characteristics and traits of people around them that they either admire or are jealous of.
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Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything.
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Identity theft is not a joke Luna. Millions of people suffer every year. 😂😂😂😂
And they will actually repeat things you have said TO THEM ABOUT THEM as if they themselves came up with it, example: "you are so petty" and I wanted to explode!!!! lol seriously it's annoying AND THEY KNOW THAT.
They want your intellect, style and confidence and it's all rooted in jealousy and entitlement.
Yeeeessss!!
Omg yes all the time! The last time I told him he was cruel and then he started calling me cruel. I told him he should be a parrot in his next life because he's really great at it
@@C_Jellybean 😂 💯
Yes! I used to say something then literally 2 seconds later he’d say the same thing just worded a little differently. I used to get mad and say “Are you not listening?!” but once I caught on, then I started laughing and saying “there must be an echo in here”. He didn’t like that lol.
Yes exactly 💯
My ex mirrored me exactly as you said until the day after we were married. So bizarre!! Back then, before narcissism was being discussed everywhere, over 25 years ago, I had no idea what was going on. Periodically he would go back to mirroring me and faking like he was interested in what I was interested in. Those episodes became fewer and fewer. Mostly he ended up being his very negative self. It really was a mind f... in the end. Terrible. It's taken a lot of effort to fully comprehend it all. 😮
I so feel that god bless you in your beautiful future. Im a year an half free from a 22 year marriage of the truest form of toxic evil abuse in my now adult children an my life . alone yes but im in such peace its all about loving yourself protecting your peace. Many healthy safe loving blessing from our heavenly father..... Go team healthy❤
Too bad it can take so long to figure out these people. The damage they can do over a period of time is outrageous. For normal people, narcissism is a very difficult personality condition to understand. It is complicated. I have a family member I thought was a sociopath, until a recent episode that made me study the differences between a narc, sociopath and psychopath - BOOM! It was so obvious. Still I wanted to be sure as I could to be fair. I have read many papers, books and watched aver 600 videos to understand what is going on. And I am still learning things every day. My relative used to have me as their adored “pedistal person.” Then someone came along cooler and she put her on the pedestal and emulated everything about the new “adored one.” Then they both started bashing me. I was bashed behind the scenes for absolutely everything about myself as a person, and no one ever told me. They were so good t hiding it. It had been a relief to not be her pedestal person, but I was shocked to be told by several people that they despised me for everything I did, was and had success with for at least 20 years. And then I realized that I was the source of ALL her problems. Now I am her biggest targets! She believes she is always a victim and never at fault for anything. She has always emulated her pedestal idolized person in every way, just like Lee is saying. Several people now have called her out and had an intervention. It hasn’t been pretty and there is still a thing or two to play out. I have pretty much pulled the shade on her and feel better for it. As a family member, though, I had to establish with her what I would and would not do with her in the future. That part of it has worked out well so far. She and her husband are seeing separate therapists now. He is gaining strength and she does not like it at all because she can’t control him, although she tries hard. Time will tell how it works out, but I am thankful to know how she really feels about me. A narc thinks the success of others should be theirs and they are jealous of the successes and happiness of others. Having no real personality of their own, is a hard thing to comprehend, but I had thought that about our narc for many years. She is 61 years old now, and I think it is a long shot that she can improve. Her husband is ready to jump out of the marriage for the third time. One day soon I plan to stop thinking about narcs and their personalities. Still, it is important for each of us to understand it enough to protect ourselves from them, and it takes some thorough study to understand it enough to do that. My heart goes out to kindly, devoted empaths out there who are locked into a relationship with a narc. The PTSD from the gaslighting is real for many people, and the partner of a narc can get so worn down and depressed, they hardly know who they are any more. I hope and pray everyone out there who suffers from such toxicity finds their voice and their strength to deal with it and get away from it safely.
Mine to Girl, he had no real personality..just weird in his actions, making corny jokes..it was annoying..Attention seeking telling his medical history to anyone that would listen.. TGBTG once the devaluation started i discarded and Blocked that Narc. 😊
Thats awful! To not know who you are
Same experience here and feeling for you. Also coming from a decades old marriage where I’m just now (last 4 years) getting my eyes opened and the layers pealed back. I am hoping for continued blessings and light to you, to all of us, as we navigate out emotionally, and eventually physically, from these mind fart factories.
They have no mind of their own.
Narcissists are followers not leaders
I don´t think so. They always want to be superior than others. Who exactly do they follow? And they always want to be leaders... A lot of narcissists work in leading-positions.
90% or more of the world's population are followers not leaders
Isn’t that ironic? A narcissist don’t know who they are, but after becoming their feed you can lose your identity too?! 😮Crazzzy..
They dont know who they are so how am i gonna know.🤷🏿♀️
Even platonic friends will try to steal your hobbies, your job, your man. It's so bizarre.
The thing I can't shake now that I'm confidently away from people like this is just... Why this one, tho. I'm average on a good day, the things I want and manage to acquire are decent at best.
I've even had people steal from me...not things that were nice or expensive, BUT JUST TO HAVE MY THINGS.
You would think that someone with a grandiosity complex would go after something more thrilling that my whole mess.
I swear I noticed that in a jealous ex friend of mine. She used to tell people things I told her about myself and she used it to sound special to others in public. I was so confused. Like, girl, you never did that, you never had that, you never were like that, why are you acting as if you had MY childhood?!
So true! I used to be friends with this narcissistic, false and envious woman. She copied my style of clothing, my expressions, even some of my hobbies. And then, after some time, she casually told me that i was copying HER 😐
OMG, you know the same thing that you just described had happened to me too. I to used to be friends with a woman, at first we hit it off, she said she admired what I had or was wearing. Then months later had passed which was there my Nightmare had begun. She began acting 🎭 like me, talking like me, dressing like me whatever. If that wasn’t already bad enough, she had a nerve to say that I should so called apologise to her( copycat) I was like WTF, then said I should apologise to her for her failed attempts at male relationships as well. That’s when I decided to go No Contact from her been nearly 2 years now.
I hope you are far away from that person.
@@Wayoutgurl not yet, she lives next door 😐 but i'm planning my escape to freedom, it's not easy. Meanwhile, i'm aplying zero contact and ignoring her.
It's funny cus my ex narc assumed my identity and I chuckle to myself knowing I removed the source material by leaving.
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I experienced all of what you expressed, im thankful the Lord Jesus pulled me out of 11yrs of abuse and hell.
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Narcissists should develop their self and identity.
More like 'Find'
They created a false-identity for themselves. They abandoned their real self when they were small children. They don´t even know what there real self is anymore (when they are adults). The false-self rules their lives forever.
😂😂😂 what?? Someone didn't understand the assignment.
I noticed this with my ex. Like a year before I finally left. He would do this with coworkers and denzel Washington. I watched one of Denzels movies while on vacation with my family and that's when I noticed. He walks exactly like him with the bookbag on same stride, same everything. It was weird looking at it.
To anyone wondering. It is one of their greatest 'tells'. When they all of a sudden have bizarre new fascinations (ie: songs, interests, meals, etc)...that idea came from somewhere. Betcha it was new supply and not pinterest. Dead giveaways.
Nah, keep the dreads! Your mane is beautiful!
Oh thank you!
AGREED! 💯
I agree! The dreads are absolutely georgous!!
That mirroring is something else more on this 😂😢❤❤
I realized this a few years ago …I truly hope that’s every narcissist can one day seek God and not themselves or who they believe they are .the Key is to know who you are in God .doesn’t make them bad people ,just lost souls ..deeply lost souls ..
😂😂😂 go cry elsewhere
My ex would tell on himself when he was cheating by taking on the next one’s traits, what they drink, what their hobbies are.
Then he would compare me to them and find me lacking. Ask me why I can’t be more like her.
Ms. He was letting you know that he was cheating on you. Do not believe what they are saying. Watch how they act.
So true within 3 months of dating my ex narcissist he wanted me to give up my home to move in with him and I didn't want to because my gut wouldn't let me so after about the 5th month of me saying no his mask fell off and the love bombing went to devaluing, gaslighting, physical, mental and emotional abuse, discarding and hoovering then starting from the beginning to the point I got tired and when I was able to get away safely I did and went no contact and blocking
Yep that's what they do when you tell them NO. They show their true colors.. its absolutely sad. Glad you are safe.
This is so true. My husband starting using the same words or phrases that I use. I've seen his make a friend and copy their hobbies. Recently, he started hanging with a cousin who is a photographer, suddenly Amazon started delivering camera equipment to the house. Weird.
My ex narc is a photographer. Be careful cause he uses it to get women. He uses it to take professional pics of females and it’s an easy, “non creepy” way of talking to them. He gives them free professional photos and of course they eat it up. He also goes to the coffee shop to edit and he’ll have his camera out.. again another easy way for women to see he’s a photographer.. a quick way for any female to come up and start asking him questions about photography or if he can photograph them.. it’s also a quick and easy way for him to share his social media without coming off as a creep. It’s all a coverup. They’re so calculating. Nothing is ever what they say it is. It’s a front, a cover up.
Love your dreads Lee. I'm a huge fan of well maintained locs. I actually can't believe I haven't gotten them yet 🙃 been talking about it for years
My ex pretended to be me with his other supplies, literally just regurgitated all my jokes, stories, words, songs and memes I sent him and acted like it was coming from him, even took them to all the places I wanted to go to, it was crazy as hell to see tbh
Yup I experienced that too… I wanted to go to Utah and Arizona and he knew how obsessed I was with going.. so what does he do… when we were broken up that’s EXACTLY where he took his new supply. What is so funny to me is he called his new supply “crazy” because she copied him 😂 (how he dressed and she started listening to the music he did) and because she was on all this medication, and she started to self harm herself DEALING WITH HIM.. mind you he’s diagnosed bi polar and is on depression medication, mood stabilizers, ADHD medication, and sleep medication, but has the audacity to call his last supply “crazy” because of all the medication she was on. She couldn’t take his behavior so she started cutting herself in front of him is what he told me. I was like good he finally met his match 🤣!Your behavior literally drives people crazy.. it’s YOU.. can you not see that the problem is YOU??!!
@@citygirl713 I wouldn’t be surprised if he was just projecting and he’s the one that’s crazy and cuts himself, just trying to get your sympathy somehow, they’re absolutely insane and put nothing past them tbh.
That’s what the narc said, he learned so much from me and he’s lived there his whole life. So glad he’s blocked. 😂
I take on traits and likes of others too. But that’s how I feel I get exposed to new things and that’s how I develop into the person I want to be. I don’t know that it’s toxic. (?)
Yeh. That’s different.😊
Nothing wrong with that.
The narc in my past, would tell people things I said as it was their own thoughts it was very odd
Very true. i was with my ex covert wife for 15 years. over the years, she dressed and talk and use my expressions and liking my music. I thought it was flattering and sexy when she would wear some of my shirts but until recently i had no idea she was stealing my identity. Now she's dating a guy who's racist, homophobic and sexist and i still don't get it. 3 things i always loathe.
This RUclips channel define your strong wishes to explain simple who you are .... That is "power" . I finish Psychology and truly your channel helps me a lot. Keep do the good job to maintain and practice what your therapist guided you to practice day by day 🤝
This is so true. My ex was terrified of horses - when he went to the doctor and the doctor asked him what he did for a living he said "I jump horses," apparently the doctor looked at him like he had 3 heads (he was in no physical shape to be able to do this and I work with horses every day). I found that quite puzzling, along with jealousy of when other people came to see me.
Mine was jealous and obsessive of a boyfriend I had in 1989. I haven't seen that boyfriend since the end of 1989 it was unbelievable
Lol😂
My ex used to act like his supplies at different points ! And would go as far as pouting his lips when driving , walk/ drive with a broken wrist posture ( this was the worst ) augh like his supplies , dance like a sissy . . . Pose for photos like his supply .
Just a lot of nonsense and stupidity which disturbed me a lot . ....
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I'm a narc magnet and yes totally true. If we actually have something in common that's awesome but i now scan for fake interest because its a clear red flag. I've often even pretended to change my mind and said, "I don't like that anymore." Just to see what happens. I can see how that stems from lack of self but a person that doesn't understand you're two separate individuals will always violate, space and boundaries.
16 years of locs is a long time they are beautiful and you are absolutely right thanks for helping so many people btw i vote don't cut the locs
I would love insight into a narcissist why when a relationship ends they feel entitled to taking nearly everything even gifts.I would like to understand.Even taking things that don't belong to them like to us it's only materialistic.But would like to understand the reasoning to it would be interesting thanks
Because they are greedy materialists.
The office .. DO NOT GET RID OF THE DREADS!!
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What was interesting to me was he started mirroring me every time we SEPARATED, I came back to a "new" version of him and I thought, oh, I finally had an impact on him..but not just personality traits, it was decorating his place like mine, started dressing like I suggested, so many things, but only implemented when AWAY from me, is that smth usual?
My ex used to literally repeat my memories of being a gifted child to me like I don't recognize my own life being repeated out of his mouth like these things happened to him and they never did.
Wow my ex literally copied my everyword and my character. I could always tell when he had been around someone new because he would use new words or quotes I've never heard before. Id asked who have you been with? But it's weird because a narcissist can make you lose yourself all the time copying you.
Thank you lee i really needed this today its all about protecing your peace so greatful for the year an half free the abuser so thankful greatful to GOD hes pulled me through with wonderful people like you here on youtube.🤗
Please Keep the dreads. Your son wouldn't recognize you without them 😊
Thx for keepin it real
Your locs look so nice they are growing lovely..i like the thumb nail. If you do cut them cut the and save them they can always be re attached.
Thanks for the tip
I know a person who takes something from everyone they around every time I see them it’s something they doing or saying that’s not them it’s so annoying
Mine talked about we mirrored each other in the beggining and throughout often. Also would send me emoji of a mirror non stop any time she blew up on me and was being hateful blaming me
Could you do a video on how to withstand narcisstics attempts to make you walk away from your home/children? My brother is suffering terrible abuse by his partner who all of a sudden wants him to get out. I think she is trying to wear him down so he will break and walk away. How can he deal with her constant rages, lies & put downs. He hasn't done anything wrong, he owns half the house & loves his children dearly. She has lied and said he is abusive and controlling towards her (100% not true). Her family believe the constant lies. She is not mentally well.
You speaking true facts. My kids father is one and also there is another guy I rejected and he’s stalked the hell out of me and went as far as taking on my persona and even went as far as my dreams he wants my life smdh. It’s really really really sickening. He literally stalk my family and more it’s crazy. He’s very jealous and envious of me, my whole essence he took on.
True, I have heard MY stories, events that happened to me that I told the N, later coming out their mouth as THEIR story.
Thank you, at the time it was surreal.
Keep ur dreds Lee , we love em ❤
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I’ve had a couple of fake freindships in my 20s. I think the fact I was insecure about my Asperger’s syndrome and I had left my other job and took on one job at that transition stage in life made me an open target. He was Autistic and proud of it plus very open about it. I think he chose to be open about his disability as it gave him an advantage to get more supply. The next one after that was not that open about his autism. I found out some years later. For the other one my lack women know how made me a very open target. He used that insecurity against me and I ended up in a lot of trouble.
Do you think “they” actually think about who they are? I don’t unless they really screw up!
They think they have everybody fooled.
I watch this episode last nigh before i fell to sleep and this morning it finally came to me. I married and was discarded by a narc at 20-24 years of age. I told my story hundreds of times to try to get clarity because there was no YT. After hearing Lee say that they act like you, my question was anwered.
The narc did everything I did, bowling, tennis, jazz, travel, jokes, etc that I liked. After we got married, none of that and the he laghed at me instead of with me. He made promises of a beautiful home and a car for each of us and never dilivered. Instead he gave me the silent treatment and moved me into an apartment with roaches and mice, something that I was never exposed to.
After 2 children, he discarded me for going to college. This whole pattern confussed me until I listened to Lee and other people on YT who contunued to say this is the pattern of the narc. This is shadow work. I, at age 62, can see that this is common and a pattern with certain types of people that I have learned to avoid.
I'm just glad I didn't go back or wait for him to change for the better because I would have wasted my whole life.
I did finish my college degree, went into the military and traved the world and lived in places some would only dream of and made many friends that I would not if I had stayed or been waiting on him.
The best lesson that I learned is, leave at the first sigh of disrespect. If they do any of the red flags, leave and don't go back. 40 years went to fast to wait for someone else to make you happy. Find yoursel, be yourself and make yourself happy.
Army Woman. Thank You Lee and my other diciples.
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Non-narcissists will model themselves after others to improve. So, what you are saying is the motive for narcissists is different. Non-narcissists will want to improve themselves based on someone they admire, but not due to envy or for unhealthy purposes. Is that right?
He used my personality to mirror me and later on sustain his cheating while in the relationship in real time I saw the texts they were me.. I feel sorry for her
Always biting and copying because they don’t know who they are they can be attracted to a confident independent person like me jealous jealous and then after I empower them then they say I was you before you were you !
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I love your locs lee. Please dont get rid of them. Im one year in and i love them
Hi mr hammock
U just confirmed what I was talking to my therapist about I told her last week that narcissist are imposters😮
It is true. No hobbies, music taste. Heck she did not even know the parties in parliament!
A void that morphed into a mask according with target.
@leighleigh8725 Drain you for attention and resources first. Then discard. Sickening.
Well, that is not so bad, but they take also friends, money, health... and that is away from the victim. Victims still have their identity when they are cloned.
No you don’t understand. Narcs will take your identity, and then pretend like you copied them.
They’ll take your interests and then make you explain to them why you actually do like the thing you like… then they’ll use that story to your own detriment.
You say something witty or come up with a good idea? They’ll take that too and if you complain they’ll gaslight you.
When a narc has an identity supply from you, it will really drive you crazy. Trust me. Someone copying you through admiration is not the same as a narc. A narc will make it competitive, act like you’re copying them if you ever mention it and then gaslight you.
I once told my sibling who I believe is a narc my dream goal, they made it their dream goal and now acts like I got it from them.
It got to the point where I didn’t like discussing things like this with them and they didn’t like that at all so they started telling other family members how selfish I was and how I was unsupportive.
You are Right Again ✅️ that's just what happened to me. Damn 😮
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I'll see your identity theft quote and raise it.
“Do you mean you knew what was happening to us all the time?”
“Well, of course. I am the Supreme Being, I'm not entirely dim."
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I feel this way, I feel that I don't know who I am.
I was raised by my grandparents in a neglectfull home, my grandpa' used to faith a lot with my grandma who used to get drunk.I recall my grandpa's anger , putting a faith for days and humiliating my grandma.I recall the cold of winter days in a small poor room, being filthy or waking up in the middle of the night alone and not knowing where they were, why I was left alone
At the age of 3 after visiting my grandpa' s sister I was sexualy abused by her son and caused me a strong dissociation that followed my years and years.
Soon after I got to now my mother who rejected me ,screamed at me and had a suiccide attemt wich I taught was my fault. Also by then my grandma left me in a strange home for me with the purpose of addoption and because I was so scared, I wet the bed and I was biting the sheets ,the lady said something is wrong with me and complained to my grandmom and finally tooked me back with in the village.
I had been several times trough sexual abuse by the age of 6 , rejected many times by my mother who used to have a very angry display at me when she used to come by.
At 6 years my mother tooked me to the town to babysit my younger sister, 6 month age and we were left outside ,on the street while she was at work.I was humiliated by neighbours because of this but no one stopped to help.
After 6 moths I returned to the village untill the age of 9.I was struggling..one of my molester was in the same school and also neighbour and used to wait for me to go home and keep bullying me .I recall that in that school a couple with a baby entered in our class room and my teacher asked me if I know who they are..I thaught I did something bad to them..but it was my father..and I was so scared because I didn't knew him.
I recall my grandmother"s alcohol problems..people humiliating her, me being scared that we are lost and not able to get home..my grandpa's anger and rigidity, his misstrust in people..my mother violent behavior with my gramother..and of course with me.
At 9 I went back to the town to live with my mother and my two sisters wich I did not knew and I felt like dying of fear because I had to live with my biggest fear..my mother..
I don't know if I am a Narcissit, but I feel like one
I don’t think you sound like a narcissist at all, you have cpstd, you have been thru terrible psychological, emotional,and sexual abuse since you were born. I hope you can start watching videos on narcissism and start innerstanding that you were abused you need to do the inner work and be there for your inner child, hugs to you sweetie, best wishes on your healing journey.
@@timmywitty1432 Thank you!
It tooked me some time to respond because I feel that I am narcissist. More I watch video about It more I feel down cause I see this in me. I really whish I'm wrong.
Get into therapy with a therapist who is well versed in Cluster b personality disorder and Complex post traumatic disorder. @@angelicacroitoru4946
Mirrored me exactly , and continually accused me and bullied me of what he was, he was also telling people I was doing what he was doing, playing victim perfect harmless green snake in the grass, they steal everything they can not just identify, until they kill you. Destroy you
Ef fin drama constantly 🥵
Love the dreads but change is always nice !!!
You're so honest lol it's hilarious
Noooo, don't cut the antennas! Go get em styled and take us with you!
He used to talk crap about things i did and talk crap about things other people did, and then ended up doing all the things he talked crap about. That was always so wierd to me. And after watching your videos I now understand what he was doing. And i could always tell if he was talking to another female because he will drink her same kind of drink or use the same kind of blunt wrap as her things like that. He doesn't even like vodka but his current supply does so now he's drinking vodka. They really don't have their own identity
Awe . . . I was just going to say the Dreads are beautiful. ✨❇😁
They do it for a while but then can't keep up and revert back to the person they actually are.
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This video is so important- thank you.
you’re welcome
OMG! Yes! There's so many nice styles for men now!!!!!! Please get rid of them!!!!
The best video yet
This makes soooo much sense but this behavior creeps me out ngl
It would look amazing without dreads 😆
Thanks Lee.
You're Beautiful too, Lee. God Bless You.
Wow, thank you
But you also have to be thankful because I never imagined that I am such a carefree person. If he mirrored me in the beginning I was a very happy, sportive and carefree person... But yeah I know he doesn´t know who he is by himself... (and sadly the mirroring character was not real - because it would be the best...). I didn´t like the person at the end at all. (But I know that sadly the person was not a fake one)... Mirroring people is not always a good thing - because you also begin to mirror bad habits and wrong-behaviour. So in fact a long the way you realize what strange people (I write strange because that is more polite) such a person meets in his/her life. But yes there is never an authentic self. (There are a lot of masks and you never know what mask is put on - it can switches very fast).
If you lost your identity you need redemption because you lost your true self your soul.
Yes cut the dreads and reinvent ourself!
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💯💯💣 loved this video... ex narc tried to take my identity down to wearing my jackets and driving my car! 😅
Btw locs store energy I had mine for 7 years 3 of those years were with a narcissist..needless to say I combed them out
This is so true....this guy was trying to mimic my skincare line😅. I just laughed because it shows how he envy my future success
Last Narc I dated, I met him online. I noticed all the things he had on his profile were things that I liked, that’s why I swiped but getting to know him he really didn’t know Jack shit about any of those things. And looking back they were all mostly feminine things lol It fizzled and time went on, I got back on the dating site only to see he copied all the stuff I had on my profile that made ME authentic and put it on his. Yuck!
So basically narsissist are nuts 😂
My ex always wanted me to wear cowboy boots 👢. I HATE BOOTS!!
The adding and admiring
Your right my ex claimed indian heritage but never really was living or decorating etc with it. Went to a pow wow and she went 50/50 dresing up to look good and blend the indian look in with her then went all out acting like she is so in depth with her history. She also did this with cajun, irish, jewish and hebrew because she is deep into her church. Her dad is a white biker cajun, and mom idk just white as well but she wanted to tell me she knows her dna without a test, she can see inside and feel what her dna is.a bit much over the top to be honest. Just simply saying could get a dna test could set her off
I used to call it parroting. Cant believe its actually a thing.
My narc copied everything. How I wrote, phrases I say...
He recycled songs I listened to and even shared to him and sent them to other females!
I don’t play that! Not my music! But guess what… they can’t feel what I feel when I listen to it!! 😂 that part!
@@Wayoutgurl I like the way you think!!
I swear before Jesus that this happened twice in my life with the two men that I trusted and loved to the point that I was convinced by their words and actions .. until the facades fell away took me years to let go..
Sounds like Dwayne said that.
The transparency Is fantastic.
I always have COOL GUYS n Gals around me lol 😂😂😂😂😢😢😢😢😢
💯💯💯💯💯💯✅️ a You Naracs are truly the same stories. This is CRAZY!!!!
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YOUR DREAD ARE BEAUTIFUL SIR... DO NOT CUT THEM!!! I HAD DREADS I CUT THEM THEY WOULDVE BEEN LONG LIKE YOURS BUT... NOW MY HAIR DONT GROW LIKE IT USED TO
My ex took my haircut and said he gave me the idea for it 2 weeks before we broke up. I got that cut a year before I ever even met him LOL
Thank you for stating and explaining this ❤❤❤-Xclusyph Icon
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I’m going to vote for a hair change. 16 years is a long time. Think of women you know who have not changed their look in over a decade….
I guess I just dont understand how or why a man (my husband /separated 🙌🏽) would want to mirror me ....a woman ...
he did this so much he even applied to a job I worked early on without telling me that i had been at for 2 years and counting at the time ..and got hired and after I found out he acted like it wasnt a big deal but it obviously was .i didnt mean him at work and wasn’t interested working with him ….fast fwd 6.5 years later I lost count of all of the mirroring situations but didnt know what it was for the first few years … smh its WERID I mean he would even laugh like me …
I stopped sharing my goals with him bc he would literally copy EVERYTHING 🤯
I could write a book . He acts like everyone he meets after 20 mins of talking with them smh 🤦🏾♀️
Your locs are really pretty 😍. Too many guys with nice hair cut it off. 😢
Listening to them giving the facts or knowledge about something that you told them. 🧐🤣
Exactly!
Literally
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I DEALT WITH A DAM COPY CAT NARC.... HES A MESS- HES STILL IN HIS 30S AND IM IN MY MID 40S HE TALKING BOUT CAN WE SWITCH AGES?😑SMH
Id be interested to see you with out them.... try seeing what you like and feel more like yourself... you can always grow them back.
This is my ex 1000% . So validating to hear this.