PODCAST: 7 KEYS TO A BLESSED MARRIAGE || What we learned in year one + Spiritual Attack on Families!

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  • Опубликовано: 1 окт 2024
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    Hey family! We’re so glad to be back with you to share love and light with all of our supporters/ subscribers. We kicked this channel off introducing you to our baby girl and talking about the pregnancy, birth experience, the highs and lows of parenthood, and marriage. It’s going to be a ride! We are so glad to be back and grateful for our platform that gives us permission to express ourselves creatively and turn every experience into story that hopefully helps somebody somewhere. God called our family to inspire, empower, impact, educate, and positively influence generations of our brothers and sisters GLOBALLY and so this is our answer. A lot has happened over this past year from getting married to having a baby, and moving into a dream home that we felt it necessary to create a family channel that glorifies Jesus through our lifestyle, marriage, and careers. Some of you have been keeping up with us on Maya’s channel @Maya Prosser-Graves and some of you know us through JaVaughn aka Von Graves but by popular demand we present to you The Graves House channel. This is just the first step to the vision God gave us years before we got here but it's been a positive one nonetheless from gainining over 10,000 subscribers in less than 4 weeks to garnering over 100,000 views in our first 4 videos. God, along with you guys, have been nothing short of amazing and so we promise to stay true to who we are and who we've been called to be. We hope we can encourage you to do the same!
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  • @TheGravesHouse_
    @TheGravesHouse_  Год назад +10

    Hey family! Get 10% off your first month of therapy with my sponsor BetterHelp: betterhelp.com/thegraveshouse

  • @NatishaMohamed
    @NatishaMohamed Год назад +36

    Javaughn be rambling BUT it's all gems. I'm ABSOLUTELY using this video as inspiration. I'll be watching this one multiple times! Can't wait for another episode. ❤

  • @latrinkalee2068
    @latrinkalee2068 Год назад +18

    When you realize what you have is God’s it makes giving sooo much easier

  • @mkgcbeauty
    @mkgcbeauty Год назад +31

    You two are so cute. This is great advice for couples. Marriage isn’t always sunshine and rainbows it’s effort every day, showing up for each other and not giving up when times are tough.

  • @dora9368
    @dora9368 Год назад +30

    Javaughn it's okay to ramble sometimes...we all do it at some point in our lives❤

    • @Blasian21
      @Blasian21 Год назад

      Indeed lol I do at times too.

  • @Ianwigginsd8752
    @Ianwigginsd8752 Год назад +20

    You guys are so inspirational to be youngsters. Congrats on the first year and wishing you 100 more to come. Congrats again.

  • @nathaliasimone_
    @nathaliasimone_ Год назад +9

    This was really good !!.. I love the gems, especially the part where you emphasized that if you're both going to Jesus, Jesus will mediate the relationship! That is such an important thing to note. I pray that I will continue pursuing my relationship with God so that in terms of marriage, my future partner would have no way to pursue me but to pursue Christ first. May we be revealed to each other through the Holy Spirit in Jesus's name Amen ! I love this...& the bars at the end; great job Jevaughn 🔥🔥👌!

  • @dora9368
    @dora9368 Год назад +17

    Jesus used parables to teach people and help them understand and remember God's Word❤😊

  • @JazzWorld93
    @JazzWorld93 Год назад +11

    Actually love relationship/marriage videos. Y’all did really good. The end was amazing just speaking on how Christ moves in your relationship when tough times occurs. I think y’all should do more! Loveeeeeeedddddd this. Thank you 🙏🏽 Looking forward to getting married and these kind of videos prepare you! Keep being obedient❤

  • @heycan8774
    @heycan8774 Год назад +12

    He would make a great preacher ! I appreciate the “rambling” he has a lot of good advice and ideas. Both of you do ! Live you guys great video 😊

  • @yuccafry7717
    @yuccafry7717 Год назад +7

    It’s funny how this conversation is marriage focused but it actually relates to so many other life situations. It’s an all around, all encompassing blessing xx
    Javons project at the end 🔥 Refiners fire for sure

  • @michelegonzz
    @michelegonzz Год назад +9

    Wow this pod was soooooo good and just what I needed. I had to shut satan out my brain with his minions saying “ok don’t listen to them for being married for only one year, whilst you (me) been married for 4 years, you know more” yeah I been married longer but y’all have a strong foundation in God and it shows and thank you for being obedient to put this podcast out. The word tells us to not ignore the words of a younger person or child just because of their age for they may know more since they got a relationship with God

    • @TheGravesHouse_
      @TheGravesHouse_  Год назад +3

      Thanks for listening and not taking offense! Praying for you and your marriage

    • @michelegonzz
      @michelegonzz Год назад +2

      ⁠@@TheGravesHouse_ in a future podcast, could you and Maya touch on cutting out weed, the feelings that come with that, and the attachment or reason for using it, and getting past previous relationship or soul ties that y’all might of had from before marriage to each other. I’m just curious what y’all’s experience is, and it might help people in the thick of these sins. Personally I cut out weed three years ago Praise the Lord! However there is this one soul tie that still pulls at me and causes me grief and constant thinking of that person, and I can’t get past it. It’s spiritually and emotionally draining me for years now, I hate it 😢

  • @dora9368
    @dora9368 Год назад +8

    What a pretty dress you have Maya😊

  • @keke7085
    @keke7085 Год назад +6

    Wow such a wonderful and real talk. Thank you for encouraging our marriage relationships in Christ. Do you all ever look at the “Meet the Perry’s” with Preston Perry and Jackie Hill Perry? They also have a wonderful podcast about relationships and Christ. It’s so encouraging to see young black families in this space.
    Thank you!!!!

    • @TheGravesHouse_
      @TheGravesHouse_  Год назад +5

      Thanks for watching! Maya watches/ listens to the Perry’s podcast all the time. We love them

  • @dora9368
    @dora9368 Год назад +2

    🙏🤟💙👌🎤🎷🎧🙏🤟💙👌🎤🎷🎧🙏🤟💙👌🎤🎷🎧🙏🤟💙👌🎤🎷🎧🙏🤟💙👌🎤🎷🎧🙏🤟💙👌🎤🎷🎧🙏🤟💙👌🎤🎷🎧🙏🤟💙👌🎤🎷🎧🙏🤟💙👌🎤🎷🎧🙏🤟💙👌🎤🎷🎧🙏🤟💙👌🎤🎷🎧

  • @GinaO.
    @GinaO. Год назад +4

    My fiance and I love watching your videos! As our wedding is slowly approaching we have decided to have a small and intimate ceremony (25 people) because we are dedicated to focusing on the union that Christ put together rather than a wedding day. I really enjoyed when you guys said that when you are both in your secret place the Lord reveals things to you regarding each other because He wants your union to be successful.

    • @TheGravesHouse_
      @TheGravesHouse_  Год назад

      Praying for ya’ll and I know it’s gonna be blessed and special

  • @Shegrowshere_
    @Shegrowshere_ Год назад +2

    We have to understand that people don’t have their own opinions anymore so far as Javaughn “rambling” i feel like she only said that because Maya said it in a vlog once so don’t feed into that lol i don’t think we would have even noticed if Maya didn’t say it lol

  • @AjaWynn
    @AjaWynn Год назад +5

    I love you all❤ You all have really pushed my journey to God… your advice is really what I needed . Thankyou all so much ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @TheGravesHouse_
      @TheGravesHouse_  Год назад +2

      Glory to God for bringing you to this video. He’s always on time

  • @DoraTheExplora50
    @DoraTheExplora50 Год назад +3

    What Maya can sing? Can we hear please ❤🎉

  • @latrinkalee2068
    @latrinkalee2068 Год назад +1

    Wow. That’s terrible. Love led the first one I heard and this one is great. You can’t please everyone. People learn different so some may catch on the way you are saying it Ja Vaughn. Love the way yall bounce off eachother. It’s amazing to hear men’s point of view because many times we don’t hear men express themselves

  • @nodadasinesipho7157
    @nodadasinesipho7157 Год назад +3

    RUclips needs to allow us to like more than once😢 with gem of wisdom dropped I wanted to add a like❤❤❤😊 I love your love and fire for Christ and for each other❤ from South Africa

  • @molebatsi96
    @molebatsi96 Год назад +2

    This pod was so motivational and it's so inspiring to see such a young couple preaching about marriage in such a good light coz as you guys said there's an attack on black families and this just reaffirmed something in me that I've always been feeling so thank you for dropping gems as always ❤❤❤

  • @estherb.2579
    @estherb.2579 Год назад +4

    This is so needed and amazing. I been meaning to comment this but I’m not going to lie I let laziness stop me. You guys really show the fruit of God’s hand in your lives. I truly believe that y’all are prophecy fullfilled and a testimony about God restoring Godly marriages in the earth (Jeremiah 33: 10 and 11). This is so needed for our generation right now. Y’all may not be perfect but the perfect God shows through your lives. I truly thank God for you guys. Also, I get JaVaughn rambling lol, but he is a really good teacher, like a gift from God. I don’t know if the Lord leads you to, but maybe doing videos/ Bible studies videos could help. Maya I’m so joyful with how far you’ve come. You deserve a great Godly marriage and so much more. God knew exactly what and who you needed to show the fullness of who your are. May your union and everything your called to prosper abundantly in Jesus name, for your pleasure and for His glory. ❤

    • @TheGravesHouse_
      @TheGravesHouse_  Год назад +3

      Like A MILLION TIMES ❤️‼️ Thank you so much for this. Easily one of our favorite comments to date. Love you!

    • @estherb.2579
      @estherb.2579 Год назад

      @@TheGravesHouse_ thank you both 💕

  • @aniyahmarroquin
    @aniyahmarroquin Год назад +2

    I just want to say THANK YOU!! This video was so great. My husband and I just celebrated our 1st year of marriage and this is exactly what we needed to hear at the perfect time.

  • @theseasons1172
    @theseasons1172 Год назад +4

    I love you guys together . LIke the way you guys look at eachother melts my heart . I pray your love continues to grow and you both stay together for ever . I am engaged and strive to just be happy as ever

  • @KeepingupwMK
    @KeepingupwMK Год назад +1

    Half way in, honestly I don’t think Javaughn rambles 😂😂 but maybe y’all hearing something I don’t. 😂 but I love you both! Perfect match for each other in my eyes. Love this podcast so far!

  • @DoraTheExplora50
    @DoraTheExplora50 Год назад +6

    Hi Genesis and baby brother... hope we get to learn his name soon 🙏😊🌼🤗

  • @genesisperaza6440
    @genesisperaza6440 Год назад +5

    we need a video on how you guys moved as singles & how long that season was etc..!

  • @DoraTheExplora50
    @DoraTheExplora50 Год назад +2

    TFS...I agree 💯 no taking problems to friends and family 💋

  • @akeamahdavis
    @akeamahdavis Год назад +3

    This was a great dialogue to watch for a young black couple! God bless you both and your union! I am a new viewer but really enjoyed this 😊

  • @chloecallantine
    @chloecallantine Год назад +2

    I love this!! I have been wanting a marriage podcast from y’all for so long! I’m newly engaged and will have my fiancé watch this with me again! Also I’m so excited for the music to drop. I will have it on repeat

  • @Lifes_a_beauty
    @Lifes_a_beauty Год назад +1

    Even me being in a relationship for 17 years it’s hard it’s not easy I swear. we are still learning human beings right or wrong.

  • @TheTrapicorn
    @TheTrapicorn Год назад +1

    Us against the problem (enemy) rather than the problem (enemy) putting us against each other is MAJORRRRR 🔑🔑🔑 .. y’all better teach!!!

  • @karimasamad829
    @karimasamad829 Год назад +2

    You are defeating the devil, by following Jesus, in your marriage. You are right about the devil he hates marriage, because the God of Israel loves marriage . Keep the faith in all you do, having a spiritual leader in the house is most important before the money, I agree. Love ya.

  • @TheTierraJ
    @TheTierraJ Год назад

    This was such a beautiful conversation ❤

  • @KIARABRK
    @KIARABRK Год назад +2

    Mourning your old self is so relatable!!!! Same here. I was just telling my husband this the other day

  • @cassiehicks
    @cassiehicks Год назад +2

    You guys are such an inspiration 🙏🙏❤️ I just feel like since I came across your channel it has really brought me closer to God . Thank you !
    Blessings ✨

  • @latrinkalee2068
    @latrinkalee2068 Год назад +1

    Yes, family may mean well but they may hold on to stuff that you have forgiven which causes tension in the family as a whole. Good stuff guys. Some take sooo long to get this

  • @dora9368
    @dora9368 Год назад +2

    God loves a cheerful giver

  • @dejagomez4529
    @dejagomez4529 Год назад +2

    Listen JaVaughn really be dropping gems fr! I love y’all this was a great conversation!

  • @DoraTheExplora50
    @DoraTheExplora50 Год назад +2

    I like that...let life life ❤

  • @chynaedwards5979
    @chynaedwards5979 Год назад +2

    I love yalls fresh perspective on marriage. This is helping me with my 4 year old marriage.

  • @godsmijita333
    @godsmijita333 Год назад +1

    Hey fam! Y'all blessed to be a blessing to others fo real fo real! Praise God!!! I love each of your hearts and wisdom straight from God! Lifting y'all! Forward!!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @aaliyahsilvalopes
    @aaliyahsilvalopes Год назад +1

    I love it when JaVaughn speaks. It’s giving wisdom and it makes me wanna hear more. I also love listening to your podcast JaVaughn so please keep spreading the wisdom. And honestly, if you’re here only to watch Maya, you don’t really love her. Cause with her, also comes her family. But that’s my opinion😊. Love the video guys, hope you do more of these cause it really helps me in my relationship with my partner as well.
    All love❤️🙏🏽

  • @courtneyhermelijn03
    @courtneyhermelijn03 Год назад +1

    You guys with ANOTHAAA hit 🙏🏽👌🏽
    You guys have hit it spot on with the tips! I love how you guys truly identify a partnership and that everything is a union and as one flesh and the Lord has blessed. There is many sacrifices, communication, truth and admiring moments that need to be given ❤ most importantly listening to truly understand. I see within the two of you and how you look at one another that God has blessed a treasure within the two of you to unfold only within your union ❤️
    I pray for many more years for you guys!
    My husband and I are going on 3 years of marriage and it's the greatest thing and only will be blessed by the almighty above 🙏🏽💕

  • @kamellrawls9016
    @kamellrawls9016 Год назад +1

    J and Maya All Praises for this video. I believe it will be a blessing to married and unmarried. Unconditional love, self sacrifice, be upset with the problem and not the person, LISTENING - everything shared is truthful and powerful. Anything that’s great will require work from all participants! Unc and I are so proud of you both! Love y’all Auntie 😘

  • @brittanysullivan8916
    @brittanysullivan8916 Год назад +1

    This was amazing, the transparency, inspiring was just what I needed. My fav episode so far. I pray God continues to cover your family❤

  • @s_amimi7499
    @s_amimi7499 Год назад +1

    This hit deep. Thank you may God bless you guys❤❤. I'm a new subscriber and I love you guys keep doin you❤❤🎉🎉

    • @TheGravesHouse_
      @TheGravesHouse_  Год назад +1

      Thanks for subbing! Glad that this hit home for you 🙏❤️

  • @Shegrowshere_
    @Shegrowshere_ Год назад +1

    Beautiful video 😢❤ I will say the outro could have been a perfect time to include the wedding pictures. It would have emphasized a visual of what God can produce but it was a really great production ❤❤❤

  • @Vessel.For.Christ
    @Vessel.For.Christ Год назад

    And with those dating shows it isn’t even love but lust t

  • @samtv6659
    @samtv6659 Год назад

    I’m sorry … but Javaugh doesn’t ramble at all.. he speaks a lot of facts and us as men NEED TO HEAR ! It Don’t be mad because you have a short attention span …
    Keep up the great work. I tune in to hear him mostly ! 💪🏾

  • @leleeee8335
    @leleeee8335 11 месяцев назад

    I love everyone of your podcasts! But when I tell ya, you both were spitting nothing but straight facts & giving out some great gems in this one! God is great I tell you! Love watching you both! Continue to do Gods work 🙏🏼

  • @MaybeTalia
    @MaybeTalia Год назад +3

    I love a good podcast 🫶🏽💞

    • @TheGravesHouse_
      @TheGravesHouse_  Год назад +1

      So we should do more??

    • @KimberlyK20
      @KimberlyK20 Год назад

      @@TheGravesHouse_yes do more!

    • @MaybeTalia
      @MaybeTalia Год назад

      Yeahhhh, definitely !!!! I could literally listen to y’all all day

  • @LuvCharmaine
    @LuvCharmaine Год назад +1

    I tried those gummy bears you guys talk about, and I made those honey hot wings, so good!! 🤤

  • @nathaliasimone_
    @nathaliasimone_ Год назад

    Ouii I love that bit about parables and the purpose of the parable. Ive heard something like that before.... Mhmm thought-provoking 👌🏾😊

  • @DarrenLeeNettles
    @DarrenLeeNettles Год назад +1

    Great podcast, very helpful. Proud of you my brother. This is inspiring 🙏🏽

    • @TheGravesHouse_
      @TheGravesHouse_  Год назад +1

      My bro! Thanks D, hope all is well man hit my line

    • @DarrenLeeNettles
      @DarrenLeeNettles Год назад

      @@TheGravesHouse_All is well my brother 🙏🏽 bet, I got you for sure

  • @leylacornier1738
    @leylacornier1738 2 месяца назад

    You need to start doing these again

  • @latrinkalee2068
    @latrinkalee2068 Год назад

    Yesssss Mya! A Why that’s bigger than you. I try to live my life like that. I serve cause it’s bigger than me, I forgive because it’s bigger than me, etc

  • @JydaLove
    @JydaLove Год назад

    Thank you so much , you guys have given me the upmost wisdom .
    This may be off topic but I really want to create a pod cast and i am just holding back a little is it okay if you guys give me your words of advice .

  • @Vessel.For.Christ
    @Vessel.For.Christ Год назад

    God bless you both💛 I peep your sober hat in a couple of the videos, by the grace of God may you continue!

  • @lindsay4714
    @lindsay4714 Год назад

    This was so amazing to watch everyone needs to see this. i love your relationship maya it’s so genuine you guys will do everything and anything for each other . I pray for this one day 🩵

  • @SpiritLedLisa
    @SpiritLedLisa Год назад

    I was really blessed by this. Thanks guys. My husband and i been married for nearly 5 years and our lessons are so similar to what you have shared ❤

  • @latrinkalee2068
    @latrinkalee2068 Год назад

    Love that perception of the Parables… I looked at it as examples but I love that reasoning

  • @latrinkalee2068
    @latrinkalee2068 Год назад

    Love this! Sooo true. It took me a while to get to this point… I held on to stuff and Jerry didn’t … feels so much better to put pride aside, talk it out and let it go

  • @StephenieMcIntyre
    @StephenieMcIntyre Год назад +1

    This is such a blessing to hear, tou two! Me and my husband just celebrated 4 years today! ❤

  • @jayelynsworld9115
    @jayelynsworld9115 Год назад +1

    Loved this, thank you and God bless🤍

  • @shanaeevans8585
    @shanaeevans8585 Год назад

    God bless you both! Great video 🙌🏽👏🏽

  • @aalicys
    @aalicys Год назад

    do you all tithe individually or collectively?

    • @TheGravesHouse_
      @TheGravesHouse_  Год назад +1

      Everything is collective Sis. We share all of our finances

  • @Its_tiy
    @Its_tiy Год назад

    Not the EP dropping on my birthday 🔥!!! I will definitely be tunning in because I'm a huge fan of the intro song, it stayed on repeat when I first added it to my playlist!! Maya you really should hop on some songs y'all would make a dope duet!!! 🤍

  • @Blasian21
    @Blasian21 Год назад

    ❤❤ Thank yall sooo much for these tips for marriage, it was some good wholesome tips! God bless yall! My favorite Godly couple you tubers❤❤.

  • @Chiichii0503
    @Chiichii0503 Год назад

    You guys are definitely an inspiration and complement each other. And I think rambling make you you javon and that’s perfectly fine thats how you express yourself.

  • @AdrianaGonzalez-qu4iz
    @AdrianaGonzalez-qu4iz Год назад +1

    Amen ❤

  • @AllAboutAndrew444
    @AllAboutAndrew444 Год назад

    😂😂😂😂😅😅😅🤗🤣🤣

  • @Hija-del-Rey
    @Hija-del-Rey Год назад

    Definitely enjoyed this video. You guys are great examples. Love it❤❤ May God continue to bless your family!

  • @cbanz2248
    @cbanz2248 Год назад

    I am single, but I am preparing! Thank you for this, very much needed! ❤️

  • @chopperr_
    @chopperr_ Год назад

    Thank you guys for this podcast. I Loved it ! Great topics and advice . 💚😊✨

  • @latrinkalee2068
    @latrinkalee2068 Год назад

    Yes tithing is such a Blessing to us!!!!

  • @AllAboutAndrew444
    @AllAboutAndrew444 Год назад

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @syesejackson8899
    @syesejackson8899 Год назад

    YOUUUU KNOWWWW I HAD TO HOPP ON . IMMEDIATELYYYY . NO QUESTIONS ASKEDDD😭 LOVE YOU GUYSSS ❤

  • @AllAboutAndrew444
    @AllAboutAndrew444 Год назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @ValerieChalliol
    @ValerieChalliol Год назад

    Loved everything about this you guys are truly made for each other praise god for both of you bless this marriage

  • @Fishermanroe
    @Fishermanroe Год назад

    Saved this video for later ❤

  • @gisselh5121
    @gisselh5121 Год назад

    Not me woooowwwing with Maya. This was needed

  • @jamilacurry3559
    @jamilacurry3559 Год назад

    This was great❤ Thank you for sharing!

  • @ashleyharriott2034
    @ashleyharriott2034 Год назад

    🙌🙌🙌 This was so good! Thank you!!! 🙌🙌🙌

  • @DoraTheExplora50
    @DoraTheExplora50 Год назад

    Love this video 📷

  • @LilBarbie22
    @LilBarbie22 Год назад

    So where the pictures at sis? lol

    • @TheGravesHouse_
      @TheGravesHouse_  Год назад

      Peep our last vlog we showed them in the beginning. Our cook with me !

  • @brendarobinson76
    @brendarobinson76 Год назад

    I really enjoyed you guys Podcast ❤❤❤

  • @kthename08
    @kthename08 Год назад

    3:41 trying this now ❤

  • @michellequiles6369
    @michellequiles6369 Год назад

    This was so good.

  • @SheWhoSpeaks
    @SheWhoSpeaks Год назад

    Loved this !

  • @marlen5677
    @marlen5677 Год назад

    Can you guys do a video on how to hear God’s voice and how do you know it’s him?