It's Payday! Do You Need Money to be Happy? My Payslip & Monthly Budget
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- Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
- It's Payday! Do You Need Money to be Happy? My Payslip & Monthly Budget
How I manage and spend my salary on payday as an average office worker in Japan.?
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What makes rhea so special is that she doesn't flaunt her luxuries to the rest of the world unlike other vloggers, and she is very honest about her journey and doesn't cover up the bad parts. She improves and doesn't try to take pity for her difficult past, unlike many other vloggers who excuse their present bad behavior for their tough upbringing. She doesn't exaggerate her wealth, pretend to live very luxuriously and is very open about her pay and her struggles.
we are all so proud of you rhea, wish you all the best!
You are so right on about that. She is so modest about stuff that is why we love he😍😘
Agree much
I totally agree with you, but while I was reading your comment, I was being distracted by your username hahaha😅
I know sad childhood, im glade she is in a better position. Cherish what you have
Ikr, it makes me realize that you don't have to act the complete opposite of yourself just to fit in and be cool. I remember when I tried to post vlogs on my channel, I was real bad depressed, and yes it was fun making them, but after re-watching them something was off. I'm a really quiet and reserved person, I saw a different person in the videos I made. I even used slang I NEVER use (not cussing or anything ) and slapping on a fake smile was worse. I was hurting myself more than expressing myself. Yes I can be funny sometimes but- what I saw, I was hurting. I had planned on doing story times, even doing one based on a bad betrayal I had- but I told myself "Am I on the intent of trying to expose my bully, or will it be a lesson to others to be careful?" I took all of my videos down and made one private. I may start again when _I feel comfortable_
"Eating icecream with my husband is happiness" - It's really the little things that matter. Much love from Nairobi, Kenya 🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪
Fellow kenyan hello...tuko kila mahali...just as u said it’s the small things like meeting a fellow Kenyan in a comment section that matter😅
I love the fact that you send money for your mom and your brother's tuitions how selfless of you to do so this only shows how kindhearted you are. i wish you all the best in life.
That's also so beautiful. I remember reading a Book called I'll Take Manhattan where Zachary Amberville the Son of French & Swedish Ancestry went to Columbia to Study Journalism who was on Scholarship. He waited Tables at The Lion's Den Restaurant and lived off of his Tips and sent the Bulk home to his Widowed Mother to help take care of his Brother Cutter & Sister Emily. When he became successful in Publishing he paid his Brother Cutter's Tuition at Stanford University in Los Angeles, CA but instead of being Grateful, Cutter was very cruel to his Brother.
I have always rather hated the term "Money can't buy happiness." After living in an impoverished area of Kentucky for 6 years, struggling to find employment, in a shitty trailer park infested with roaches and our trailer literally falling apart around us...then moving back to my hometown in Pennsylvania and getting good paying jobs for myself and my husband, moving into a nice apartment and able to buy enough food and things for our cats... It has been a journey, these last 10 years, for my husband and I. There was a time, living in that horrible place, where I felt that I could no longer go on and I had thoughts of suicide. I'm 35 years old in a far better place, physically and mentally, and I now think that the phrase should be "Money can't buy happiness, but it can pave the way to finding happiness."
It's not you, its China, the job thief, who the politicians sold us out to.
Absolutely. Money can't buy happiness, but it can sure as hell make things a lot more comfortable.
There are a wise phrase: "Money maybe not bring happiness, but lack money is certain to live in despair".
"Money can't buy happiness " is usually used on those filthy rich people who think they can buy anything, even love, friends, and health... They don't care about building relationships and maintaining healthy lifestyle but only use their money to solve their problems. This sentence properly explains them.
I've never once thought it's applicable to normal people working hard for their everyday lives, living with their loved ones, surrounded by understanding friends and eating well. Glad that you're living a happier life btw.
@@ursulasmith6402 People have the government they deserve.
HEY GUYS MAKE SURE NOT TO SKIP THROUGH ANY ADS THAT COME UP BEFORE, AFTER OR DURING RHEA’S VIDEO. LETS MAKE SURE SHE GETS THE MONEY SHE DESERVES FROM HER RUclips CHANNEL. 👍🏼👍🏼
I love her videos so much I watch the ads for her... It's so pleasing
Yea I also thought the same but we make sure not to click on ads because if it happens, RUclips will take it as a spam and may suspend all the benefits she would get in the future.
How much could be the benefit in average ?
@@SOFIAVICCHI not sure but it helps the RUclipsrs quite a lot!
She gets more money from sponsors rather than ads. RUclips can monetise any video
Rhea, the feeling never goes away. I too only could afford rice and soy sauce as I was living alone for many years after being kicked out of my home. It is a feeling that you never forget... wishing you could eat something you cannot have. You dream about it, you think if only one bite to satisfy. I think it makes us more appreciative of the food we can eat now and we are not wasteful. I eat everything and I mean everything before going to the grocery’s store now :) lovely video rhea, i am glad you are doing so well. Cheers from California
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What a wonderful comment. Bless you for persevering and not giving up.
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Hi california, lets be friend on yt, im from brunei..
Everyone!!! Let's all watch Rhea's ads so she and her hubby can go on their dream Paris trip
And if you need i have a house .. So I can lend it to you and I would go to my parents ! it would be my pleasure :) Love from Paris
@@linamiezi3942 Very sweet of you to offer your home. What great human being. Wish everyone was as compassionate.
@@linamiezi3942 That is so sweet and lovely to do.
Well done for being a kind human.
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@@linamiezi3942 what a nice thing to do!
You're probably the only RUclipsr I'll be okay with if she does any no. of paid promotions on her channel. May your subscriber base grow, ad revenue grow and you get the most opportunities for paid promotions. Because you deserve it. God bless. Supporting your family is the best way to spend. The blessings you get in return are priceless.
GOD loves you all. GOD bless you all. Have a blessed day everyone.
This was really beautiful, when you were talking about the budgeting and you not being able to eat the food you wanted, I looked down and saw the nice dish in front of me. I realized how lucky I am to have all of this, and how hardworking my mother has been. My father was abusive to the point where the only choice we had was to escape. I moved from Nicaragua to The US, thankfully we were able to do it legally, and at the time, I was 5. We had family here so we didn’t have to struggle financially as much as others would. It was really hard not being able to communicate so I learned english(up to the level I was at in age) in 1 year or less. I grew up in a loving household with my mother, brother, grandparents, aunt and cousin. I thought we had it easy since I could ask for something and my mother would be able to provide it. My mother worked from 7am -5pm, at a clothing factory, where they would unpack trucks and pack clothing while scanning them and separating them. She did meet the man I now consider my father and we moved across the street to my grandparents. It was when I started getting older that I realized that the only way we would have all of this was through my parents hard work. I had always been a good student, straight A’s, the first time I got a B+, I remember sobbing to my mom and just saying sorry. All she did was look at me and hug me saying, you did a great job, I am so proud of you, you worked hard. I have always tried to be the best in my studies to make sure I can graduate from university with a doctorate in Marine Biology since I really like the medical field but I get people shy, therefore I mixed my love of medicine and animals. I still think that through all my hardships, I am still very lucky. I have a great and loving home, a very stocked kitchen, a nice bedroom, very nice clothing and I get to travel and go places that many people who don’t have as much would only dream to go to. I am very thankful to god for giving my such a great mother. This thought surfaced recently when I went to a store and got 3 things but it totaled up to about $145. I looked up to my mom and told her, this is too expensive but she just ignored me and payed for it. As we were leaving the store and going to another one, she just smiled and patted my head. Although I haven’t seen my father for about 9 years now, I don’t feel like anything is missing from my life, I am really happy with who I am and where I come from. I decided to share my story to tell those who may be struggling that everything will get better, it may be a long ride but the ending destination will always be worth it. If you want to smile, smile with a calm mind. If you want to cry, cry knowing you are brave for showing your emotions. If you think that no one loves you, you are wrong, I may not know you but I do love you and I am very proud of where you have gotten to and the fact that you haven’t given up. I may only be 14, and I may be faced with many more struggles to come, but I am excited to see what the future brings. Please make sure to stay healthy and happy everyone! I love you all❤️❤️❤️❤️
Love you too . ❤
It's funny, you are saving to go to France, I'm a mexican living and working in France saving to go to Japan (my dream). :)
This is the struggle with us.. we all need to travel the parts of the world, that other people live in.. while they are saving up to visit the places, where we have been for years. DITTO.. :)
Laura may i ask what job you do? I am seeking employment overseas myself. Thank you! I lived in korea too.
@@milkandspice1074 sure, I work at an university making online courses. But I worked in a million things while learning french and getting my master's degree : on a hotel, giving tours for spanish tourist, as a babysitter, cleaning houses, etc.
@@lauraarlenfloresfalcon9280 that is wonderful. I want to work at a university myself and get my master's in tefl.
Seeing this video make me remember when i was live in Japan 3 years ago..いつかまた日本に戻りたいです。再来年に行けるように祈っています。
Growing up in middle class America the only thing I ever remember being envious of was someone’s new bike, or their new Nintendo. I never had to worry about food. We always had plenty. This puts things into such perspective. I need to call my parents and thank them for all of their hard work and for the many blessings I have had in life. Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your story. It was very moving. And a good reminder to save!!!
When I was a Kid in the 1970's it was very easy for me to take for granted that I was able to eat Breakfast, Lunch & Dinner. I found out that some kids weren't as lucky as me so I would share my Lunch with them.
This was my experience watching this. I grew up in a mid to upper middle class area but we were more towards the middle of middle class. A lot of kids at school got new games and electronics which my parents could not afford and of course I was jealous. There was always food, clothes and presents under the Christmas tree (even if they weren't a playstation) and these stories put your whole life in perspective. Yes there are people with more money but there are so many with less and suffering.
I was so moved with your story, I cried. I think you are an incredible woman, who lived with limitations, and now are independent and kind, plus, how many languages you speak? I’m a Mexican who live en California
I have the same feeling. Such a lovely young woman. I became very emotional after watching this video too, I'm also an emigrant and it reminds me of my beginnings
I cried too 😭 Be safe, I’m in Florida. Take card of yourself. 💜
Same here, I also struggle in my student life.. Now I am helping my husband and my parents
You really are an incredible lady ... your vloggs are soo relaxing to watch and you truly are an inspiration to everyone who watches 💖💖💖💖
Vamos Mexico :)
The most wholesome and honorable content on RUclips. I’m a single Mother and try to live a simple life on my salary for my son and I. Thank you for this gentle reminder that money isn’t happiness.
@Sarah Hoy, welcome over to my channel :)). I live in Poland and live a mindful life!!
Your whole journey inspires me because I can really relate to it. I'm also very poor and I often blame our situation in life but I realized there's no point in blaming other people and life as a whole because I have the power to change my situation. Recently I've been focusing more on gratitude rather than the things that I lack. Thank you for inspiring me to be a better person ate Rhea 🥺
This made me cry. At 27, i decided to come and work here in Germany. It was hard, i can say it is a daily struggle. I need to be independent at the same time learning to manage my homesickness. Watching this video gave me an idea how to better manage my finances while enjoying life as well. Thank you, Rhea for these videos. i am your fan since i accidentally came across your channel last year. Looking forward to watching your videos and thank you for giving us a glimpse of your life there in Japan. It's my dream to be able to visit that beautiful country. More power! 😊 😊
Rhea + Quarantine = 👌🏻🙌🏻💕
I’m an accountant and I have NEVER seen such an aesthetic budgeting process. You make this paperwork seem enjoyable! Wow, subscribed!
She is so organized and efficient, watching her is so wonderful, peaceful and Zen like. She makes doing Bills so much fun, and enjoyable.
My dream is to live and work in Japan. I'm just 18 yo Italian girl. I really love your videos. I wish you and your family and husband a very happy life. You give me force to not giving up. While watching your video I always think "this will be my life one day". I really appreciate and respect you ❤
Rhea, I'm glad to hear your husband has found a job. Also thank you for sharing this sensitive part of payday and budget management to all of us. Not everyone is comfortable being asked about how they manage their budget. I shed some tears when reading your childhood story. Thank God now you're in much better condition and can even support your family back home. I love your content always.
We were poor when young but rides and the park made us happy- just being together when we could. We were married almost 59 years. A good marriage.
I’m literally crying because I have now found someone with my exact mindset 🥺 I loved this video so much !!
God Bless
You are D_1??
It might seem a bit silly but I'm also brought to tears that we can be happy simply by appreciating what we have. I used to keep a mindset that my partner and I need to make X amount of money in order to have maximum happiness according to X statistic or X article, but since seeing Rhea's video I'm inspired to be grateful for the joy that i experience in my life, no matter how much it costs. Sure, in society we need a little bit of money to meet our basic needs, but that's it. Other than that, happiness largely comes from within, not from bought items.
@@mindyhua8299 😃🤗
D I’m crying because I’m still young (I’m 10) and I just realised how spoiled I am, like I’m forcing my dad to get me a new IPad because youtubers have it but this video made me realise how important it is to spend money wisely and that money can’t buy happiness. I think I’m doing way better now because I’m earning my own money now by helping my parents and spending time mowing my neighbours lawn and I’m going to use it wisely I even made my self a bank so if my parents don’t have cash I’ll just put the money I’m earning from doing some chores I’ll just write it down.
more kind hearts like yours & this world would be a better place 💖🌈
R A totally agree! ☺️💖
Becky London 베키 런던 you’re sweet 💞🤗
You mentioned that money can't buy many things such as good health, friendship, love etc, but I can't agree. Money cannot buy you health directly but it can buy you proper nutrition and good medical care when needed (in the end contributing to your health). Money can allow you to not work three jobs and therefore have time to build relationships with people (it's much easier to maintain friendship and romance). Money helps you donate to charity directly and help others considerably (e.g.fully paying for a much needed renovation in dog shelter, or buy expensive medicine for an elder who cannot afford it), therefore boosting your happiness and content (it can be also achieved when you can afford to study and learn what makes you happy and dedicate enough time to it). Money contributes to almost everything in life, the point is how to use it.
You're one of those that like to disagree on everything ...
@@bryana50cents16 Rhea: asking her aduience a very direct question about money and happiness. Me: answering Rhea's direct question about money and happiness. You: drawing wild generalizations about me and my character...
You're absolutely right. There's a cut off in the Western world at a salary of around 70.000 euros. Up until that point money will make you happier as it can partially buy you health, freedom, less stress, etc. A higher income than this will not make you happier however.
@@amara560 absolutely, the diminishing returns hit at some point, where money can even become a problem on its own. I am quite far from that level though atm 😅
Well said 👍👍
I'm legit crying. All I want is to get a job as soon as I finished my studies and helped my family build a house...and buy my mom whatever she wants. This is truly inspiring. Thank you Ms. Rhea
Motivation... I just started a job that's paying me about 2100 a month so I'm trying to keep my self disciplined when it comes to saving, paying debt, and bills ♡
currency?
You'll get there. She's so Zen and organized about everything. Here are some tips that have helped me. Brown Bag it Mon-Thur (Friday Treat Yourself). Ask for Receipts everytime you buy something and write on the back what it "was" you bought, use the Change and put it in a Piggy Bank, know "Exactly" when certain bills are due then when they are paid write the confirmation Number or better yet have a day of the week where you can budget and go over your finances. Make sure your home is nice and clean because Clutter cuts off energy. Way to go.
What profession? I’m in college and am in desperate need of a job
You still haven’t answered 😅🥲
Do not use credit cards unless necessary because it’s money you spent w/c you don’t have to buy things you don’t need, that could really add to your debt
I hate facing my finances and how much my bills are, but you make it look so CUTE. ❤️
this is so true. I feel like she's the only RUclipsr that actually reveals her whole money management technique without hiding anything. most others do percentage, but it's not useful
I would love to pay $21 for that AT&T that is not even work well lol
I RESPECT YOU AND HOW DISCIPLINED YOU ARE!SO HONORABLE! REALLY HAPPY YOUR HUSBAND FOUND AJOB! I WISH YOU LOVE, HAPPINESS AND JOY! YOU WILL BE A GREAT MOTHER ONE BEAUTIFUL DAY!
I really love how things are packaged for single servings. Here in America you pretty much have to buy a whole load of bread... even though you may only need 2 slices. I suppose meals can be planned around buying whole loaves, but I find your stores serving sizes to be AWESOME.
ikr, in my country all stores sell bread in a whole loaf so I often struggle to finish the it since it expires too soon and I usually eat rice for lunch and dinner.
I grew up with food insecurities, never going to the doctor or dentist, never going on vacation and working to pay for my own school clothes and supplies. It wasn't easy but it does teach you how to be more self reliant. But I do not wish any kids grow up in that situation.
Encontré este canal en mis recomendaciones, voy a compartirlo. Ayer vi uno de sus videos y ver tanto orden y limpieza me hace entender que debo ordenar mejor mis cosas para sentirme más tranquilo y organizado, saludos desde Guatemala! Creo que este canal va a volverse popular en Latinoamérica. Muchas gracias hacer buen contenido.
Al ver este canal, veo alrededor de mi casa y me da Vergüenza lo desordenada que se ve a comparación con la de Rhea.
Que bueno encontrar a alguien comentando en castellano!! Amo este canal
@@fyorelarodriguez4921 si aqui estamos para disfruta de la sencillez
Hola. Soy de Chile y me gustó mucho el canal por lo que me suscribí.
Por aquí andamos de Honduras 😁😁😁
Latinos everywhere! 💛
For the 6 years we've been together, my husband and I tripled our initial income. But my mind is still set in those times were I was analysing prices of yoghurt and choosing cheaper one! We were very hopeful about the future as he got a fantastic new job, and I was in the final stages of very promising job, but that was 3 weeks ago. Now with the virus, I only hope he can start his new job as planned and I can keep my current job. Funny how it all changes, couple of weeks ago I was planning which designer bag I will get first, now I pray that things remain unchanged...
Living below your means and saving for your future are the most important things you can do at a young age and any age.
You guys inspire me so much.
Rhea I wish I could go hug the little you and give you some food. That makes my heart hurt. You know what that explains a lot about you. See some people grow up poor and they become bitter you took your pain and turned it to good. You are an amazing person! I can’t wait to see a baby in the future! 🥰
Rhoades Traveled it explains why she takes so much care in her meals. She’s really appreciative because of not having much to eat as a child.
Stacey W yes, I totally agree.
Even though growing up poor and having to work hard for my things that I had to buy for myself I wouldn’t change it because it has made me the person I am today, Christian, loving, giving, and never take anything for granted✨
But were are you living ,dear lovelao 76 ?
totally agree.
When I was a kid, eating mcdonalds or kfc was a luxury. But even then I didn’t even notice how hard our life were because my parents always make sure we get the best. And although now we are quite fortunate (thanks to my parents again) their story motivated me to start budgeting in university and so far I am able to collect quite a lot. Sure i do get jealous when my friends get to go out and do fun stuff but I need to realise that my time will come.
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The grocery store is so quiet and serene. In America, everyone is rushing to get in and out, kids are crying and there’s traffic. I love Japan and must visit one day.
I love when youtubers talk about budget! This is such an important topic.
I am wondering what will you do for work once you go back home?
Your story really resonated with me. My mom raised me and my three older siblings all by herself, and she had to rely on the government to provide food for us, but even then, I remember seeing her come home from working two shifts looking so tired, even as a kid I would also think "I wish we had more money." Your selflessness to take care of your family is very generous and kind of you, I admire that a lot.
Thank you Rhea! I always love to see how other people manage everyday things in their own countries and cultures, like budgeting and food and such. It sounds boring but I find it really interesting to compare what it’s like with everyday life in the U.K.!
This vlog really inspired me to do better and reminded me that the world is round, we may be struggling now but the day will come where we can be at a better place as long as we continue to work hard and be wise with our decisions. Thank you so much for sharing your experiences and the way you budget. ♡
I can totally relate to this. I have also experienced the part where we only eat rice with salt and soy sauce. Where we go to each houses to collect empty bottles, Irons and other things which we can sell on junkshops. I'm grateful to undergo this experiences it just made me strong and independent. Before, I also wished to have lots of money to be happy but as I grew older and started to earn, it was then I realized that money doesn't make you happy. What makes us happy is our perspective in life (how we see life). Yes, money can buy things and makes you happy but without being contented with even just the little things you have,, you can never be happy.
Growing up my parents didn't have a lot of money and they still struggle financially and I help out as much as I can but since I've moved out last year I have my own expenses now but they do the best they can for my siblings.
I always spent a lot of time with my mom and I've seen her make delicious meals out of every single ingredient she had in the house when it got difficult and because of her I learned to do the same and learned to buy items on sale and compare prices on similar items but with different prices since it's sometimes the brand that seems to be the only difference. She taught me a lot and I'll always be grateful for my mom and everything I've learned from her I really admire my mom for being so strong and smart.
I agree with your answer about money I feel the same way you do I just couldn't really put it into words but you did and I'll always remember that. I love your videos I learn so much from your videos, watching your videos relaxes me and gives me a different perspective on life but anyways take care of yourselves! 💕
Ahhhhh my mom does the same! She makes a lot of food with just a few ingredients and everybody loves her meals. She also taught me to compare prices and buy itens on sale... This skills I'm bringing to my own family and I'm so thankful for having such an amazing mom
@@camilapontes7942 I know exactly what you mean I feel the same about my mom! 😊
26 March 2020, Palermo, Sicily.
I needed such a calming video to take my mind off the Coronavirus anxiety.
I'm glad for the both of you that your husband has been offered a job.
Force and love to Italy. I'm from Argentina but part of my heart is italian. My grandparents were born there. Love and peace to Italy and the whole world.
please stay well 🌼💛
Stay well
Benedetto Bruno Ciao. stay safe always❤️
Andra tutto bene bello
You're so humble, sincere & genuine. I never skipped your ads. Your contents are valuable, you spent much time thinking abt them for sure and it's just fair for us viewers not to skip your ads. Bless you and your family ❤
"Eating icecream with my husband is happiness" This made me to take the SCREENSHOT.
And about money?
Money doesn't buy happiness but it is a surviving tool that "erase" unhappiness out of ones lives.
Your life story is inspiring 😭😭Rhea. It literally made me cry! While thinking about what you said 🥺It reminds me that we're not alone and we all go through the same things! Thank you Rhea, not only was your video inspiring but it also tought me to use my money wisely!!!🥰❤️
YOU HAVE AFFILIATE LINKS NOW??? OH MY GOD, IM SO PROUD OF YOU!!! T_T get that coin, sis.
My babygirl making BANK but really tho we gonna keep supporting you Rhea. Thanks for your calming videos
Thank you Rhea for sharing your story. I had the same feeling about money, there was a time where i have no money and i cannot afford to buy food. I have to go to charity and it break my heart and my pride but I wouldn't change anything from this period of my life. I had the best and the worst memories at the same time..
Love from Paris
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To charity ? I can’t believe it ? In France ? It s awful ! No offence.
I lost my father and my brother has abandoned me with my mother..Yeas There us a different between my and your stories but pain is same.. And this is the time that I am really thinking. I wish I had enough money ... I Am happy that you have overcome this situation ..morover..Please pray for me so I can Overvcome the situation as well..
I've just discovered your channel and love your videos ! And I found this one. I cried (and I don't cry easily). Your story touched me a lot because, even I live I'm french, I lived kind of the same history as yours. Nobody should live these horrible things. Even I can't work or study because I have chronic illnesses, I live a little better than before. But I lost all hope in life and future. You gave me this hope again. I'm so impressed by you, you inspire me, really.
Your journey really inspires me. I'm the eldest sister in a single-parent family and I basically became the absent parent. Seeing our basic assets being taken away because we couldn't afford the bills was terrifying but it shaped who I am today. I have a stable job now and I can afford to help my family. Sometimes I feel a little sad and defeated, my friends splash the cash on luxury holidays but I'm still frugal to support my sister in college, but my childhood was so much worse. Thank you for sharing your story and highlighting the importance of saving 💖
"Whatever happened in our life someday it will be all right." this words gives us courage and right now the World is suffering hopefully everything will be fine upcoming day. Thank you!!!
YAY!!! I get so excited when Rhea updates!!
i was touched into the portion of "remittance". That really shows the filipino culture :(
Hazel Dawn yes, the undying obligation 🤗
@@burikikay ooooof
Most Asians do that, we feel obligated to pay back to our parents even tho they didn't ask especially those who are coming from a lower-class family being well off and provide our family and make them happy is our main goal.
Asian culture to be exact.
Asian culture I suppose. In India we take care of our parents when we grow up. It's to thank them for taking care of us.
Ay, lloré con su historia. Realmente me hace muy feliz saber que ahora está mucho mejor. Es una persona maravillosa, me encantaría poder llegar a cumplir mis metas como ella.
Mucho cariño y éxito. Amo tus vídeos.
yo tambien... encima esa musiquita te pone triste
Whenever I feel low or anxious I always watch Rhea’s channel. Such a humble and positive person. Love from New Zealand 🇳🇿
i’m 16 and you have changed my perception on life. You’re an incredible woman and i really look up to you💗
How unfair that it is always the mother who makes the sacrifice and take care of all children once the couple divorce or separate, while the father can just brush this responsibility off and moves on with his new life.
Amen! When a Male in Sports Or Music makes it the first thing they do is buy Momma A House. VDJ16I couldn't agree with you more about The Paris Trip. They are saving for it, Coin at a Time. When I did my First Solo Trip to Las Vegas in the early 2000's I started in January because I wanted to go away in December. I brown bagged it Monday to Thursday, treated myself Friday, put coins in my Piggy Bank, saved my Vacation Pay until November and bought and Paid my ticket on the same day. I also bought with me a package of White Envelopes and I gave Myself a Certain Amount to spend per day and I put them in Envelopes. If I had any left over I'd put them in a "Return" Envelope to Return to my Regular Bank Account The Minute I got home, I put the Money back in My Account and used it to Pay January Bills which is the "Hardest" Month. People go Cray Cray using their Credit Cards and don't realize how much they spent until the Bill Comes in Mid Janaury.
That is why no man has a privilege to get pregnant 🤰
Most of the time that’s what happens when filipino parents separate www
That's not always true. I know some single father's that take care of their kids and make sacrifices.
@@kumokundomo9705 The majority is still the women. According to UN Women statistics, single-mother households account for 84% of the global single parent households. It is a painful truth that most men don't value children as much as women do.
Such a heartwarming story. I did the samething with travel savings from my earnings. My husband and I have made it to 36 countries in 16 years. Travel is a passion I have to teach me about people and culture.
20:43 the song is "Inner Child" by BTS for anyone wondering 💜
Omg army 💜💜 and yea our v inner child
Not heard that song, but the title is fitting as they eat snacks, like kids :)
I can relate to this,back in 2017 when I came here I always make a budget and save up for my upcoming tuition fee. I only worked for 28 hours a week as a student. Now that I got a job, I am still budgeting and saving up for my future 😊
Me living here in Japan made me independent and very cautious with my money and spending it wisely. Nice video btw ♥️
YESS, finally a video that will keep my mind off the things that are happening at the moment, love you so much Rhea, stay safe ❤️
I hadn't a rich childhood... When I was little my mom had to struggle in order to provide us food and a bed to sleep. I have 2 older brothers.
I used to wear second-hand clothes and my mom was so grateful for me to have something to wear.
Nowadays I'm unemployed and living with my savings until my husband and I get a job, and I'm so thankful for having food and a home.
Living is so expensive! We have electricity, gas, water bills... And food is definitely the most expensive thing we have to pay... But I hope better days are coming for us!
No child should ever go hungry. I did not have a lot of material things growing up, we were far from rich, but my parents always made sure we had food. On the other hand my husband was raised by a dysfunctional family and went many days without a meal. Your story was very touching to me. You really are an amazing person to be so unselfish and continue to help your parents and siblings. Your videos are truly inspiring.
tell that to the kids in africa
It's not only kids in Africa, unfortunately its in every country.
It is easy to say that money can’t buy happiness or everything but it is true that everything even happiness comes through money
Knowing your back story Ms Rhea makes my sad yet happy the same time because I can see that you can overcome such situation. I wish your siblings and your whole family are doing well, too.
you know what, actually today is my payday 😂
so when i got the notif i was like ' is Rhea wanna tell me something?'
I am so proud of you for being responsible, sticking to a budget, and planning ahead. Hard work does pay off. Things do get better. If more people did as you, the world would be a better place. And, I must put on my mother hat and hope you took out your entire pay just to show how to budget for a month and that you don't do it all the time - I worry about unsavory people might see this.
I used to have a great job and made a good salary. I could buy whatever I wanted when I wanted, ended up in debt after I lost my job. I'm working now but not making as much, and I have found I'm happier. I might not have as many things as I did before, but that is okay because I have given most of it away. I still do what I want because most experiences don't cost much. Yes, there is more I wish I could do, but until then, I found little bits of happiness.
I really love that you still think of helping your family while u already have your own, many people think that when they start a family of their own they shouldn’t help their siblings and parents anymore, this is very thoughtful of you.
Your story touched my heart and it inspired me.. I’m not living my best life yet, but I’m working and having faith to live the simple, beautiful life I’m dreaming about. I think I’m close finally. I hope you achieve everything you desire. I love you Rhea.🌻🌻🌻
Okey first of all, i must Say that im in love with your videos, your life is so quiet and calm, i feel a really odd happiness when i watch your life style and i want to thank you so much, i really appreciate the effort that you make editing those vids, so, thank you!!
Pd: Your husband seems so nice.
Pd2: Stay safe!!!
20.43 - V (BTS) - Inner Child (Instrumental). Just soothes my heart💜
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I noticed it too! Quality taste in this channel
I just searched through the comments to see if anybody else noticed it but me I purple you army💜💜💜 and reah! 💜
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This is like David Ramsey's envelope system. I admire you for being so diligent with your budget. It's amazing to learn of people's childhood and how it affects their relationship to money. Because knowingly or unknowingly our childhood shares how we interact and view money. I do belief that having financial stablity does gave you a certain freedom in life. You have more choices and less stress about the security of food, housing and education etc. But that's up to a certain point. That is why my grandmother taught me that a woman should always be able to make her own money and always have some saving put aside for yourself.
The way you made us understood the importance of money , where to use and how much to use and how to save that and specially how to be happy with the little things you do. I just loved how honest you are and brave from your childhood. Lots of love, sis keep growing ❤️
The story about your family really touched my heart and brought tears to my eyes. You are wonderfully humble and I enjoy watching your vlogs. Thank you for sharing your life with us ♥️
Oh, Rhea. You deserve all that you have now and more. This is like watching a story unfold and have a happy ending, but it's real life and it keeps going and I know there are more wonderful things waiting for you along the way. ❤️ Your videos always give me so much nostalgia and longing for Japan, maybe I'll start a return-to-Japan coin bank 😄 stay safe and healthy, Rhea and James! 🧡
I believe you don't need money to be happy but you need money to be content. You need money to make sure you don't go to bed cold or hungry, that you can make sure your needs and those of your family are cared for. Money isn't required to be happy and love one another though.
“It’s not the money itself that makes us happy, but it’s what the money can do for us that makes us happy” I’ll keep that in mind, thank you for sharing such a beautiful story to us! :)
OMG Rhea’s story about her and her siblings going out all day collecting junk and her brother only getting a penny for it made me cry!
You are exceptionally very disciplined, practical & organized person for your age. I admire you for being there for your family helping them w: their financial needs. Your grandmother raised you well👏
Your budgeting and fiscal responsibility is so admirable! I love how you budget your family care in there as well. It's smart for you to save 100% of your husband's salary. It will come in handy. Honestly, you should teach lessons in this. Bless your mother and grandmother for raising you right.
I was eating while watching some of your videos and when you said “let me tell you a story” and after the first sentence I told myself “hold up, let me finish eatin for crying” 😅
But honestly, I love how open and honest you are. And the fact your grateful and very humble for not only the good things in life, but the sad things as well.
And I don’t it’s a problem your plans aren’t 100% perfect, bc unlike most, you have a plan and setting it in motion. Thank you for the video ❣️🖤❣️
So beautiful. It makes me reevaluate everything. What is really important in life? Your childhood story broke my heart. Look how far you've come in life,thank goodness for grandma. You are an inspiration Rhea. Keep up the good work. 💐💗
I'm an Australian and live in rural Victoria. I have been to Japan twice. First time with a friend and we backpacked around there for two weeks, and the second time was with my husband and two teenage sons. We want to come back again, and eventually I want to live in Japan and teach English. I love Japan. I am a Buddhist (although not a very good one) and the two times I was in Japan I felt like i was home. I can feel tears in my eyes even thinking about Japan. I love it there so much. I am going to watch all of your videos, subscribe to your channel, sit through all of the ads because I love your country and watching your channel makes me love it and miss it even more, and, it also just fills me with so much peace. I hope you channel brings you all the happiness you desire.
When you get to eat KFC because it's payday (I only usually get to eat at Jollibee when it's my birthday) and explaining about selling bottles and scrap iron, I told to myself "That's a very Filipino thing" until I read the word "kariton" and immediately checked the about section on your channel for confirmation that indeed you are. And I love that you are so humble and that you are so generous. I'm happy that you're in a more comfortable situation now.
I love how you are still thinking about your whole family and spend for them monthly, I do that too with my allowance, and it's satisfying, the more i give, the more i received, may you and your whole family have happy lives always 😊
I feel so uncomfortable seeing fruits and vegetables in plastic. But with what’s happening right now it’s understandable
I’ve noticed this too and individually wrapped slices of bread 😥Don’t get me wrong there’s excess plastic used everywhere but I’ve not seen it on this level
No I think in Japan they have been putting fruits and vegetables in plastic for decades. They aren't doing it for the Coronavirus. They have high standard of personal and public hygiene.
It’s just baffling to me that they would wrap every single thing in plastic. But I hear they are pretty good at recycling so their impact may not be as much as we’d expect.
Isn't that funny, because as I was watching I was thinking how pristine, fresh and clean her produce is, and how it stays that way because it is wrapped in plastic. Different perspectives on the same subject.
There exists a plastic that's biodegradable from corn. Maybe businesses should look into that.
11:20 💜 thank you for sharing your story with us. I enjoy your content and how peaceful your videos are.
Rhea, after watching this video, I just sat quietly. I admire you and wish you and your family health, love and blessings! ❤️
Why counting the bill makes me so teary😭
And thank you for being so transparent explaining about money also bits of your past. So proud of you🤗
This vlog inspires me to be more disciplined with my money and made me feel as comfy as the rest of your videos 🧡
being born in the middle class is such a blessing to me although i cant lie that sometimes i wish that i could afford more nice clothes and stuff. our fridge have never been empty and we have enough money to survive school and support our daily needs. thats when i thought thay we should count our blessings and be kind to others who needed helps the most :)
So inspiring. I’m happy you’ve overcome so much and it made you a stronger person. I too had a similar upbringing. Parents had 9 kids. One of our home meals was white rice with scramble eggs (which I still enjoy with different seasoning) and it was hard. I taught myself to budget everything! Today I have a good job but I don’t over do it. That old life and feelings never leave you but make you a stronger and wiser person at a young age just like you which by the way your doing amazing. Sending you love and best wishes ☺️
I just found your channel and I'm so inspired. I'm still a young adult new to the work life, and I still have trouble managing money. I grew up privileged, so I think I take money for granted most of the time, but I've also experienced tough times when I was alone in the city when I only ate once a day because I spent money for leisure, and I am unable to provide any support to my siblings. Now I know I can't lean on my parents for money anymore and I am more eager to spend money wisely, especially now because me and my partner are planning our future together. Thank you for this video and your story ☺️💕 I hope you and your family are happy and safe.
God Bless you both. You are both trying and you know you just can't spend the way you used to. Be thankful you can eat Three Meals a Day most are lucky they can eat one. I save by bringing Lunch to work each day then I eat Breakfast early but when I get to the Office, I have My Coffee. On Friday which is Payday I get up extra early do My Bill Payments on My Tablet, write down the Confirmation Number then transfer that information on My Excel Spreadsheet. Also do this "Test" Save every Receipt you spent and then record it on an Excel Spreadsheet, at the end of the month calculate what you "made" as opposed to what you spent you'll see a big difference trust me. You'll both make it, if you want it badly enough and trust me people will respect you and admire you for it.
Even in a video about money and budgeting you manage to make it the most peaceful and calming thing I have seen all day long. Thank you for this content, it warms my heart every time
Thank you Rhea! I have been in a daze ... pondering the same exact question: "Do you need money to be happy?" I am really grateful for you to create dialogue on this topic and I am really respectful of you to show your payslip on video. I myself was making about 2.5x more (please, do not get me wrong ... I am NOT showing that I am better or anything like that). Creating dialogue is key to eliminate the false hope of getting in a job/career because someone somewhere did the same and got rich. The past 2 years of making the income I was making ... I was really unhappy. I was trading in a lot of time away for money. Time that I am losing that could have been spent with my wife, with my family, with my friends. No matter how much money you have, you can never buy back time ... not even one second of it.
I can't remember how i found your channel few months back, but I am glad I did.
I watch your video every morning while i’m getting ready for work .. and your new video notification came in right now !! So happy ! 🥰
New subscriber here, I tried to stifle my tears and emotions as she was narrating her life as a youngster. I can relate to it. I hope to see more good vibes and wake-up moments as to what's really important in our lives. In this fast-paced world, it's easy to be lost of the things that are really important. Thanks, Rhea! Looking forward to your videos 💖😉
Very touching his account of his life. I am Brazilian, my husband and I live very well, but we often see ourselves worried about our future. We are middle aged people and this concern is very constant in our life stage. I believe that money does not bring happiness, but it gives us security, comfort, tranquility. So it is very important, but really happiness is not a consequence of money. Your videos are really cute. I would love to see Japan one day! Hugs from Brazil.😍😘😘😘🇧🇷🏖🏝