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    Watch the BBC first on iPlayer 👉 bbc.in/iPlayer... Ben Howard performs End of the Affair on Later... with Jools Holland
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  • @rohitgurung5054
    @rohitgurung5054 3 года назад +4287

    Let's admit, we always come back to this performance year after year.

    • @michaelsweeney8071
      @michaelsweeney8071 3 года назад +26

      Mee too my friend

    • @vinilag_
      @vinilag_ 3 года назад +51

      Exactly. One of the most beautiful live performances on the internet.

    • @lukeroberts9701
      @lukeroberts9701 3 года назад +25

      And always will

    • @twgiovanna
      @twgiovanna 3 года назад +9

      yesss

    • @kier.
      @kier. 3 года назад +9

      Facts

  • @HaydenRox
    @HaydenRox Год назад +358

    This video is going to be 10 years old in 11 months. And it's still one of the greatest live performances ever!

    • @andyhartwatp
      @andyhartwatp 6 месяцев назад

      The greatest

    • @chemfon9096
      @chemfon9096 Месяц назад

      the best

    • @Tomohawk-e1n
      @Tomohawk-e1n Месяц назад

      Next month then? Just found this. Magic

    • @Njaaks
      @Njaaks 19 дней назад +3

      10 years old now

  • @Smokescreen654
    @Smokescreen654 Год назад +717

    It's 2023 and it still gives me the feels like the first time I heard it.

    • @-Mimi-1
      @-Mimi-1 Год назад +5

      Agreed. Ben's raw despair is still so powerful today

    • @christringrove3448
      @christringrove3448 Год назад +2

      I’m with you on that my man!

    • @jakubslubikoficjalnie
      @jakubslubikoficjalnie Год назад +1

      I literally heard it today for the first time... I thought nothing in music would ever move me anymore. oh how wrong I was

    • @ABerti
      @ABerti Год назад +1

      maybe now the time it is to grow up finally... 😂

    • @cjchilli
      @cjchilli Год назад +1

      I saw Ben play on Later at the time and have revisited this video rather a lot…still wonderful ❤️

  • @tomevans1388
    @tomevans1388 10 месяцев назад +100

    We're all in agreement right? This is the best performance Later...with Jools Holland has ever seen.

    • @seanoflynn5180
      @seanoflynn5180 5 месяцев назад

      Agreed, what could top it?

    • @andrewdarley3373
      @andrewdarley3373 2 месяца назад +6

      Bon Iver, Skinny lover is close ..

    • @tomevans1388
      @tomevans1388 2 месяца назад +1

      @@andrewdarley3373 Definitely close, but I just don't think it tops it!

    • @fintanocarroll7909
      @fintanocarroll7909 2 месяца назад +4

      Elliott Smith - Waltz #2
      Jimmy Cliff - There Are Many Rivers To Cross
      Check Lo - Sankara
      Mary J Blige - No More Drama
      The Burns Unit - Send Them Kids To War....Not saying they're superior, but I think they affected me the way this affected you.

    • @tomevans1388
      @tomevans1388 2 месяца назад

      @@fintanocarroll7909 Love a lot of these performances

  • @kendrabarron5861
    @kendrabarron5861 3 года назад +933

    he captures the chaotic, almost manic side of pain in a way that i’ve never heard any artist do before. i’m yet to find a more painful, raw performance. truly amazing

    • @pratosaurusrex1128
      @pratosaurusrex1128 2 года назад +21

      I’m new to this song but the emotion conveyed reminds me a lot of Bon Iver’s Skinny Love, that was done on the same show. Both convey the pain and tiredness of putting everything into a relationship only for it to fail.

    • @chrishowe8773
      @chrishowe8773 2 года назад +3

      Well worded ! Intellectual statement x

    • @thekid9394
      @thekid9394 2 года назад +6

      Pearl jam black like is pretty deep too, go check it out i think it's the unplugged thing

    • @paulmcmahon6492
      @paulmcmahon6492 2 года назад +12

      Go listen to Damien Rice

    • @alessandroserra4943
      @alessandroserra4943 2 года назад +3

      Agree on the quality, but check Chris Cornell unplugged and live concerts if you want to find something amazing

  • @garethnewsam
    @garethnewsam 4 года назад +651

    the sound engineer NAILED this one

    • @christopher1800
      @christopher1800 4 года назад +5

      MathewNewsam You think? I am not satisfied. Compare this to the Tiny Desk concerts on RUclips (and basically all the NPR concerts like Bon Hiver). In fact the Jools Holland performances I listened to online could have been much much better (purely talking sound-wise).

    • @Jamajalama
      @Jamajalama 4 года назад +31

      You are mistaken. Ben Howard NAILED this one. The sound guy just did his job

    • @communistloser3182
      @communistloser3182 4 года назад +5

      @Tom's Songs I feel the riggers and the sound tech did a good job and helped the performance get just that bit better

    • @WarButler
      @WarButler 4 года назад +66

      @@Jamajalama Come on man, no need to disrespect anyone. Without good sound engineers your favourite performances would sound like shit. Respect the people who let the artists shine

    • @Malc180s
      @Malc180s 4 года назад +6

      @@WarButler That utterly disrespects the entire sound engineering field.

  • @Anhedonia22
    @Anhedonia22 3 года назад +214

    It took me 42 years to find the most beautiful song in my life

    • @michaelwray1034
      @michaelwray1034 2 года назад +4

      I didn't find ben until i was 50. Thats 10 years ago.. What a talent he is.

  • @evanderholiday2535
    @evanderholiday2535 2 года назад +797

    As he screams “what the hell, love” into the guitar, few performances come close to that level of immersion. It’s almost a live demonstration of the manic agony he felt at the time of writing it. Completely entrancing on every level.
    I’m going through something right now and this performance makes me feel somehow listened to and understood
    Hats off, Ben

    • @DrBox88
      @DrBox88 2 года назад +8

      Im there too. 😢

    • @elrond8306
      @elrond8306 2 года назад +5

      Oath man, hope you’re doing well brother x

    • @joshdodd7214
      @joshdodd7214 2 года назад +3

      😂

    • @evanderholiday2535
      @evanderholiday2535 2 года назад +6

      @@elrond8306 things are beginning to look more positive mate. Cheers brother, hope you’re well yourself x

    • @evanderholiday2535
      @evanderholiday2535 2 года назад +3

      @@DrBox88 hope things are getting better pal

  • @HelenMason463
    @HelenMason463 8 лет назад +2453

    When he shouts into his guitar I feel like I'm invading on such an intimate moment. Amazing.

    • @4Track-Mind
      @4Track-Mind 8 лет назад +6

      spot on

    • @LackedMushroom0
      @LackedMushroom0 7 лет назад +42

      Helen your comment literally gave me goosebumps. It is exactly how I see it

    • @amaracruentus2922
      @amaracruentus2922 6 лет назад +12

      Yeaaah, it's like I wanted to close the door from outside.

    • @ChampsMusic
      @ChampsMusic 5 лет назад +29

      Feel like that throughout the whole performance. So intimate like they're all closed in that world. And India and Ben looking at each other from the shadows is so hmmm... subtle and anxious. It's like she knows that hell and he lets her be a visitor not an invader

    • @greggreg7400
      @greggreg7400 5 лет назад +5

      @@ChampsMusic
      Yooooo man that so real, deep

  • @ArniLochner
    @ArniLochner Год назад +148

    If this isn’t one of the greatest performances you’ve ever seen, you’re not ready for it yet.

    • @subarolla
      @subarolla Год назад

      Come back

    • @MrStuBStu
      @MrStuBStu 11 месяцев назад

      Keep coming back until you are

    • @André-k5s1t
      @André-k5s1t Месяц назад

      Schauen Sie sich Jeff Buckley an, wenn sie ihn noch nicht kennen oder Damien Rice

  • @jozepedro27
    @jozepedro27 Год назад +236

    Major props to the camera operator. The choices of close ups and movement were impeccable, really added to the music in the video.

    • @hervebenganga8561
      @hervebenganga8561 Год назад +4

      They did such a good job that this performance could pass as an official video

    • @KentaurTV
      @KentaurTV Год назад +5

      Well, that's what the BBC is knowing for: Best of cameramen, lights and sound.

    • @jakebeatstheworld
      @jakebeatstheworld 5 месяцев назад

      Thats the director

    • @guypenrose5477
      @guypenrose5477 Месяц назад

      @@jakebeatstheworldA combination of both Director and the person on the camera.😊

  • @ronshina4022
    @ronshina4022 Год назад +79

    The end of the after
    The weight of a war
    The kindness gone to bed
    The weight of your laughter
    Alive in the hall
    Did he hear, did he hear the fumbled words you said
    Living without her
    Living at all
    Seems to slow me down
    Living forever
    Hell I don't know
    Do I care do I care the thunders rumbled sound
    And now I watch her
    Running round in love again
    Now I talk about you
    When I'm with our mutual friends
    The end of the after
    The weight of a war
    The kindness gone to bed
    The threat of your laughter
    Alive after all
    Did he hear, did he hear the fumbled words you said
    Living without her
    Living at all
    Seems to slow me down
    Living forever
    Pale light on all
    Do I care, do I care the thunders rumbled sound
    [x2:]
    Now I watch her running round in love again
    Now I talk about you when I'm with our mutual friends
    Could you be, could you be alone?
    My hatred, my hate will bring me closer
    [x2:]
    This is it?
    Well this is desert
    And what of him?
    What the hell love
    What the...

    • @jgp6185
      @jgp6185 Год назад +2

      Just discovered this video tonight, thank you very much for posting lyrics, brilliant performance.

    • @ricardopereira6873
      @ricardopereira6873 Год назад +1

      Thank you for this. Thank you.

    • @Niko-xz5lk
      @Niko-xz5lk Год назад +1

      Thank you

    • @ritabyrne561
      @ritabyrne561 11 месяцев назад +2

      It's not "the end of the after", it's "the end of the affair". Listen closely and watch his mouth on the second occurrence. And it's "the kindness borne to bed".

    • @TheBoardgamist
      @TheBoardgamist 10 месяцев назад

      @@ritabyrne561nope the original lyrics are correct

  • @hakolind
    @hakolind 3 года назад +1316

    Ive played alot around with alternative tunings in band settings and such, and ive listened to alot of artist like bon iver who are concireded masters at the craft. But never, NEVER, have i seen and heard someone push music to the limit like this. Abselotely breathtaking and a complete masterpiece. This is the stuff that should go down in the historybooks, not half-assed drake albums and 100 mumblerappers mumbling over over the same exact backingtrack. I salute you Ben.

    • @flossie266
      @flossie266 3 года назад +29

      then you havnt heard John Martyn then

    • @Girl90949
      @Girl90949 3 года назад +1

      True!

    • @minotaur953
      @minotaur953 3 года назад +7

      @@flossie266 big Influence of Bens music

    • @augustocordeiro3548
      @augustocordeiro3548 3 года назад +1

      "concireded" what does that mean? or what did you mean?

    • @hakolind
      @hakolind 3 года назад

      @@augustocordeiro3548 seen as*

  • @83gshane
    @83gshane 2 года назад +19

    Thousands of comments. Thousands of ppl trying to.... But really there isn't any words, is there?
    Much love if you are here and feel this.
    You are seen.

  • @tomevans1388
    @tomevans1388 Месяц назад +31

    10 years ago today this was released on TV. I still stand by the fact that this is one of the greatest performances ever.

    • @mattb9138
      @mattb9138 Месяц назад +1

      Remember hearing this for the first time on the album. I was travelling on a bus around New Zealand and will never forgot it!

    • @prototype0808
      @prototype0808 26 дней назад

      So true.

    • @B_A_B_O_O_N
      @B_A_B_O_O_N 21 день назад

      You've mentioned the TV twice there. Put your eyes to sleep and turn the headphones up.

    • @tomevans1388
      @tomevans1388 21 день назад

      @@B_A_B_O_O_N Thank you for the save!

  • @halaabdulhaq
    @halaabdulhaq Год назад +71

    It’s 2023, and I still think that this is one of the greatest, most heartbreaking songs I’ve ever heard.

  • @Mecz2
    @Mecz2 4 года назад +2138

    Currently on lockdown with this Coronavirus nightmare, and I randomly stumbled on this. For over 7 minutes I was transported into myself and found true solace. Thank you for this.

  • @Dyalla
    @Dyalla 9 лет назад +3560

    Who in the hell broke this beautiful man's heart?

    • @marius-popa
      @marius-popa 9 лет назад +145

      Dyalla Swain Life... ;)

    • @Dyalla
      @Dyalla 9 лет назад +16

      Sam Drone
      Ah yes. I love Jeff, and know this too well :'(

    • @joe1edge
      @joe1edge 9 лет назад +8

      +Sam Drone what a lyric. great stuff

    • @adam77d
      @adam77d 8 лет назад +152

      +Dyalla His first love died when he was a teen, I'm pretty sure that was what inspired his first album.

    • @Dyalla
      @Dyalla 8 лет назад +35

      Wow, what a soul searching time. That's awful.

  • @plumeetpixels7062
    @plumeetpixels7062 5 лет назад +751

    Left-handed, particular guitar playing, unusual tuning, special way of singing... almost tribal... it blew my mind... it's a trance as much as a song.

    • @mrh5020
      @mrh5020 4 года назад +26

      Yes, plus using the guitar pickup for voice truly wild and great

    • @plumeetpixels7062
      @plumeetpixels7062 4 года назад

      @@mrh5020 indeed ! 👍🏻

    • @Sarahfromparis
      @Sarahfromparis 4 года назад +8

      Dermot Kennedy reminds me of this guy.

    • @claudiabailey5302
      @claudiabailey5302 4 года назад +7

      He has an unusual way with a capo

    • @0-0-s3i
      @0-0-s3i 4 года назад +7

      Claudia Bailey he keep the e string free for a good bass

  • @modasarrasul6350
    @modasarrasul6350 3 года назад +210

    The audience didn't exist. He sang from the core of his bones and meant every word. A musical same lyrical genius.

    • @jexiagalleta
      @jexiagalleta Год назад +1

      The only time they registered was that self-conscious little stroke of the hair before he yelled into the pick-up.

    • @davidjeffery1261
      @davidjeffery1261 9 месяцев назад

      Great comment.

  • @max-beckett
    @max-beckett 10 лет назад +895

    One of my favourite live performances of all time

    • @Janeylou70
      @Janeylou70 10 лет назад +18

      It was incredible. Love how it builds up and he just gets better and better live doesn't he.

    • @claireyfairey07
      @claireyfairey07 9 лет назад +9

      The first time I heard this song was live at a festival last July that Ben was headlining. I was moved to tears and knew the second album would be special :)

    • @Kramtteckebb
      @Kramtteckebb 5 лет назад +1

      Me too brother

    • @martintaylor3216
      @martintaylor3216 5 лет назад

      Beautiful in every possible way 😍😍😍

    • @UNISERVIS-ss3gs
      @UNISERVIS-ss3gs 5 лет назад

      Max Beckett you are right.... I never saw something like that.

  • @PilsburyLJ
    @PilsburyLJ 3 месяца назад +26

    10 years later and I still get goosebumps every time I watch this.

    • @eddiemclaughlin-e2m
      @eddiemclaughlin-e2m 20 дней назад

      it is one of the best emotive performances of all time .........just brilliant .....outstanding .....a classic in any decade....

  • @luciferdern
    @luciferdern 4 года назад +776

    Well the algorithm has decided it's Ben Howard's time...

    • @janikautto6801
      @janikautto6801 4 года назад +8

      Same here, stay safe.

    • @o0TheLight0o
      @o0TheLight0o 4 года назад +9

      All hail the mighty algorithm

    • @CaptainChuckk
      @CaptainChuckk 4 года назад +2

      luciferdern, about time!

    • @Vool2go
      @Vool2go 4 года назад

      lol!!

    • @ughh8290
      @ughh8290 4 года назад +1

      About time I've been waiting for years for him to get the recognition he deserves

  • @TheBoardgamist
    @TheBoardgamist Месяц назад +8

    Ten years ago I was sat on my own on a Friday night at midnight. This exploded out of my TV speakers and still reverberates around my brain even now. Thank you Ben.

  • @eoinegan1021
    @eoinegan1021 3 года назад +196

    Anyone else watching this master at his craft in 2021?

    • @Tidgemo
      @Tidgemo 3 года назад +2

      no

    • @djb1276
      @djb1276 3 года назад +2

      Yep👊

    • @MojoTojo2000
      @MojoTojo2000 3 года назад +2

      Just curious, but what is the point in these comments about "who's watching in 2021"? If it gets a response within this year then presumably yes. But as I'm sure is the case for many others, as well as myself - yes, I am obviously watching it now (which is 2021) but have been listening to this song for the last year or 2.

    • @eoinegan1021
      @eoinegan1021 3 года назад

      @@MojoTojo2000 it's to see who is still watching and appreciating such a good artist that is not as popular any more. It's about appreciating the other followers of the artist, like a Ben Howard family.

    • @Tidgemo
      @Tidgemo 3 года назад +2

      Its just an easy way for them to get likes

  • @alejandralezcano7525
    @alejandralezcano7525 3 года назад +731

    who's here in 2021? masterpiece

  • @djb1276
    @djb1276 3 года назад +190

    I think this may be the best thing I have ever heard. I’m 49.

    • @kubeczekowicz
      @kubeczekowicz 3 года назад

      Uwielbiam!!!

    • @Tasha25681
      @Tasha25681 3 года назад

      This is very very good but try the tallest man on earth-blue bird fly on RUclips
      Listen to the video where he is playing in a studio in a sort of light khaki jumper. That has to be the most beautiful song I've ever heard

    • @peterfleming4967
      @peterfleming4967 3 года назад +1

      @@Tasha25681 I read your comment and then went to check it out and was blown away, so thank you.

    • @Tasha25681
      @Tasha25681 3 года назад

      @@peterfleming4967 you are welcome! Isn't it just stunning that song

  • @barrybazjohnson6141
    @barrybazjohnson6141 2 года назад +163

    I just cry. 16 wonderful years together. 4 years going through a messy divorce. And less than 7 minutes for Ben Howard to make me relive it all. Took her nephew on as an apprentice at my painting and decorating company. Good lad but it hurts to hear how well she's doing now with her new man.
    Listen to this on repeat every night when I get home from the boozer. Drunk tears streaming down my face. Sobbing. Nose running. Fists clenched. Head all over the place. Sometimes I get so angry I smash up the living room.
    Only Ben Howard can do this to me. Cheers.

    • @onthetrail506
      @onthetrail506 2 года назад +64

      Hey Baz, sorry to read you are going through this stuff man. I know it's hard but you owe it to yourself and those 16 years to let yourself feel at peace. Drinking doesn't help, I've been there and when we are sober again we are still there facing this pain. Get help my friend, whether that means looking at your activities around drinking or your mental health, or both. People want to help. Friends, family, or complete strangers if that is easier. You are more than the sum of a relationship. I hope you find some peace my friend and reach out here if you ever need a chat. All the best Baz. Don't forget that people want to help and listen.

    • @jodierickey9307
      @jodierickey9307 2 года назад +7

      @@onthetrail506 omg that was so kind..

    • @onthetrail506
      @onthetrail506 2 года назад +4

      @@jodierickey9307 thanks Jodie, I just hope Baz is OK and has reached out to someone. Feeling so desperate is a terrible weight on a person. And men often don't feel that they can talk to other guys about how they feel, we do that whole macho I'm alright thing when we are not. And people need to be kinder to each other I feel, there is enough heartache in the world at the moment.

    • @jodierickey9307
      @jodierickey9307 2 года назад +3

      @@onthetrail506 Baz, I see you too and can feel your pain.. we have all made mistakes and have regrets..we can't change the past but we can go into battle with those mean inner thoughts in our head that want to bring us down .. to claw our way back to happiness. I really hope you find it.

    • @jukkaikomi1763
      @jukkaikomi1763 2 года назад +2

      Deep .... hindsight is such a beautiful thing.
      If only time could be revered eh ...?

  • @caribbeanbeauty88
    @caribbeanbeauty88 8 лет назад +1518

    I will tell them that I lived in the time of Ben Howard...

    • @younussm
      @younussm 8 лет назад +5

      Yes we will

    • @fergalwergal
      @fergalwergal 8 лет назад

      G-Wanderer perfectly said.

    • @michaelbyrne6740
      @michaelbyrne6740 8 лет назад

      Me to

    • @Josh-kt6jh
      @Josh-kt6jh 7 лет назад +2

      G-Wanderer and ed sheeran and John Mayer and liane la havas and many others

    • @edwardkelsey3033
      @edwardkelsey3033 7 лет назад +3

      Josh Carless every generation has its darkness

  • @nooneknows3478
    @nooneknows3478 3 года назад +327

    I love every aspect of this song but I would really like to tip my hat to the bass player standing in the shadows. A master of of his instrument, he brings so much depth to this song. Not there to over play, or show off, he just plays his role in making this masterpiece as perfect as he can. Bravo ❤

    • @heresjohnny3826
      @heresjohnny3826 3 года назад +3

      Holy shit shit what a song

    • @heresjohnny3826
      @heresjohnny3826 3 года назад +2

      Love it

    • @Puuh
      @Puuh 3 года назад +6

      Mickey Smith is a legend!

    • @benthomas1885
      @benthomas1885 3 года назад +3

      Danny Thompson, who played on the real Jon Martyn’s albums is the bass player for me. ( check any pentangle or nick drake)

    • @johnchadwick9267
      @johnchadwick9267 2 года назад +1

      As for the 'cellist! The subtle percussion, too. What an ensemble.

  • @miers2249
    @miers2249 4 года назад +48

    The first part was like accepting the end of the affair, the last screaming part was the deepest part in him that still unable to cope with it

  • @MikeCornwall
    @MikeCornwall 11 месяцев назад +23

    For me this was Ben at his peak. He had started to steer away from the mainstream music that had made him so popular to create stuff that he actually wanted to make. This was a sort of halfway house between that mainstream music and the abstract/creative rabbit hole that he has since gone down. His current stuff is above my head and not my cup of tea but I respect the journey he’s on. Would have been all too easy for him to have kept churning out radio-friendly pop songs that he hated and made a fortune. He’s doing what he wants to do and as long as he’s happy, that’s all that matters.

    • @pieterjansenvanrensburg7322
      @pieterjansenvanrensburg7322 10 месяцев назад

      Summed up perfectly 💯.

    • @antheablackmore5838
      @antheablackmore5838 2 месяца назад +1

      I found it similar with John Martyn ….loved his early stuff but lost the joy in his more experimental years, but now at 67 looking back over it , the man was a genius and his experimentation deserves our attention, it’s never too late to open that door ….Ben reminds me very much of that genius too

  • @elysianka
    @elysianka 10 лет назад +367

    one of the beautiful aspects of Ben’s songs lies in the fact that you can listen to them a thousand times and they will always bring something new to you. always, period. remarkable talent.

  • @alessandromassiniinnocenti2130
    @alessandromassiniinnocenti2130 4 года назад +291

    The end of the affair
    The weight of the world
    The kindness gone to bed
    The way of your laughter
    Alive in the halls
    Did he hear, did he hear
    The fumbled words you said
    Living without her
    Living at all
    Seems to slow me down
    Living forever
    Hell, I don't know
    Do I care, do I care
    The thunder's rumbled sound
    Now I watch her
    Running 'round in love again
    Now I talk about you
    When I'm with our mutual friends
    The end of the affair
    The weight of the world
    The kindness gone to bed
    It's free of your laughter
    Alive after all
    Did he hear, did he hear
    The fumbled words he said
    Living without her
    Living at all
    Seems to slow me down
    Living forever
    Hell, I don't know
    Do I care, do I care
    The thunder's rumbled sound
    Now I watch her
    Running 'round in love again
    Now I talk…

    • @jackknowles5295
      @jackknowles5295 4 года назад +21

      the first line is "the end of the after"

    • @Sophie_Nambram
      @Sophie_Nambram 4 года назад +48

      @@unirod23 Jack Knowles is right. Here is the official lyrics
      The end of the after
      The weight of a war
      The kindness gone to bed
      The weight of your laughter
      Alive in the hall
      Did he hear, did he hear
      The fumbled words you said
      Living without her
      Living at all
      Seems to slow me down
      Living forever
      Hell, I don't know
      Do I care, do I care
      The thunder's rumbled sound
      And now I watch her
      Running round in love again
      Now I talk about you
      When I'm with our mutual friends
      The end of the after
      The weight of a war
      The kindness gone to bed
      The threat of your laughter
      Alive after all
      Did he hear, did he hear
      The fumbled words you said
      Living without her
      Living at all
      Seems to slow me down
      Living forever
      Pale light on all
      Do I care, do I care
      The thunder's rumbled sound
      Now I watch her running round in love again
      Now I talk about you when I'm with our mutual friends
      Could you be, could you be alone?
      My hatred, my hate will bring me closer
      This is it?
      Well this is desert
      And what of him?
      What the hell love

    • @Gorsky1
      @Gorsky1 4 года назад

      @@unirod23 you can always edit you main comment

    • @benjaminhoward5353
      @benjaminhoward5353 3 года назад +10

      @@Sophie_Nambram Hello
      how are you doing?? I want to say a very Big thank you for your love, the likes and support towards my career..I hope you don't stop listening to my music
      🎼🎤🎹🎸🎵🙏

    • @magnum4478
      @magnum4478 3 года назад

      😊 thank you

  • @alohavilladiego3522
    @alohavilladiego3522 4 года назад +718

    NPR, I'm still waiting for Ben's Tiny Desk Concert.

  • @ALAW-hc6fq
    @ALAW-hc6fq Год назад +8

    If this isn't a work of genius I don't know what is. Absolutely spellbinding.

  • @ElohaMusic
    @ElohaMusic 10 лет назад +735

    Ben is light years ahead in his music, every song he has ever produced is outstanding and will be classics in 50 years time. If you doubt me wait and see!

    • @utilitarian12
      @utilitarian12 10 лет назад +6

      Second that. Travelling so far ahead of the pack they canny even see that boy

    • @ElohaMusic
      @ElohaMusic 10 лет назад +7

      Absolutely, he is out of sight! Lucky us, we get to recognise his genius now!

    • @christinamaria36DKQ
      @christinamaria36DKQ 10 лет назад +2

      Eloha Ferin So true....my thoughts two....One of kind in this decade !!!!! No doubt....

    • @ElohaMusic
      @ElohaMusic 10 лет назад +5

      We are in agreement! So lovely to share the love of Ben's genius :-)

    • @christinamaria36DKQ
      @christinamaria36DKQ 10 лет назад +7

      Hi Eloha..Sorry for my late message...Well last week we´ve were in copenhagen and see Ben Howard concert....WOW WOW He´s so amazing , and a very smily , a little shy and embarrassed young man at stage....It was a pleasure and beyond all expectations, an evening together with my daughter as we never forget...

  • @foxdaughter36
    @foxdaughter36 4 года назад +171

    I don't know why but this song just won't let me go. It's in my head. In my heart. I cannot understand how do you move on from love, how do you even start to do that. How do you cope with losing "us" and becoming just "me" when all you wish for is one more time together, one more chance, a silly joke, or a lazy sunday afternoon in bed together planning that amazing future that will never happen. Heartbreaking, really. But damn - Ben sings about it so beautifully that you almost want your heart to be broken just to relate to this masterpiece. Thank you Ben for being you and doing what you do.

    • @warpspeed9877
      @warpspeed9877 4 года назад +4

      Υou described it perfecly my dear. My thoughts exactly.

    • @PaulPX
      @PaulPX 3 года назад +1

      You have a fantastic way with words and you use it well, lovely comment.

    • @FrainFreeze
      @FrainFreeze 3 года назад +11

      You don't move on, because the love is never gone. Those moments really did happen, and they are still as real as they were then. Don't grieve the future that didn't happen. Embrace the past that did, treasure those memories. But live in today, be you. Gift your love to someone, every day, over and over. keep chasing your dreams. That special someone will come again, and this time "that amazing future" will just happen, you wont need to plan in because you'll live it.
      Or at least that's how i see it :)

    • @c0letra1n
      @c0letra1n 3 года назад +2

      @@FrainFreeze And now I hope to see things a little more like you in future. This is class. I needed this more than you'll realise. Thank you

    • @FrainFreeze
      @FrainFreeze 3 года назад +1

      @@c0letra1n can't ride the lightning without getting burnt here and there! have faith that future brings what you need and keep on rocking

  • @saufisubari6935
    @saufisubari6935 10 лет назад +209

    I'm completely in disbelieve the moment he sing into that guitar of his. Then I hit the like button.

    • @emilylouise158
      @emilylouise158 6 лет назад

      Saufi Subari same! Jaw dropped

    • @NikGSR
      @NikGSR 6 лет назад +1

      Damn, the same here... Awesome...

  • @withmecafeamsterdam
    @withmecafeamsterdam Год назад +62

    I’m going to see him in concert next month by myself I don’t want anyone there to distract me, it’s gonna be one of the best moments of my life.❤

    • @khuddi8383
      @khuddi8383 Год назад +4

      Can i go with u.

    • @paulagallagher1710
      @paulagallagher1710 Год назад +4

      Same here!!!!! This week

    • @jords3802
      @jords3802 Год назад +6

      I did this too. Although people were speaking behind me so I had to move multiple times. He needs to be heard in complete silence

    • @annaclarebaum
      @annaclarebaum Год назад +3

      Me too!!

    • @itsleonie9732
      @itsleonie9732 Год назад +2

      whereeeee

  • @teiwaz3370
    @teiwaz3370 3 года назад +102

    It's 3:40 a.m. This songs touches me so deep, as if I've lost the love I never had. And so in this sleepless night, I'd like to give my love to whoever is lonely out there, 'cause I'm alone too...trying to heal my heart. Love and blessings to you, brother or sister. May we find the love we all deserve.

    • @fooshoo2006
      @fooshoo2006 3 года назад +5

      Listening to this again after breaking up recently. His music was special to us as a couple, we even went to one of his concerts together in 2019. Brings back lots of painfully good memories..

    • @artyfarty93
      @artyfarty93 3 года назад +2

      To victory brother. To victory of the heart in the long cold night

    • @charlienanochi
      @charlienanochi 3 года назад

      Love & light in the emptiness :)

    • @benthomas1885
      @benthomas1885 3 года назад +1

      Chin up and keep cool. It’s all just waiting for you to move forward. X

    • @joshdalton5803
      @joshdalton5803 3 года назад

      Glad I stumbled upon this comment at this time :)

  • @rvanheukelum
    @rvanheukelum Год назад +82

    My goodness, this performance is probably the best I ever saw. I just stumbled upon this one for no reason, but I just watched this 3 times in a row, last time witch headphones on. What an emotion, what a deliverance, what a band. I'm absolutely stunned.

    • @thomasb907
      @thomasb907 Год назад +5

      Welcome my friend, better late than never ;)
      Now you'll do like every Ben enjoyer and come back to this live performance every now and then ❤

    • @SchmozzleGTO
      @SchmozzleGTO Год назад +1

      Check out his albums, and see him live, he is absolutely incredible.

  • @vanessaazevedosilva6625
    @vanessaazevedosilva6625 5 лет назад +377

    5 years later im here in love with this all over again.

  • @cornholio1962
    @cornholio1962 День назад

    62 years old sitting in the Bath listening to this and it still moves me to years absolutely beautiful, music for the soul

  • @fairlady300
    @fairlady300 4 года назад +120

    Ben howard has got to be one of the best current lyricist out there, he deserves every award.

    • @p.swanton3338
      @p.swanton3338 4 года назад +1

      ya yellow back b***** someone loves ya x

  • @chocolatedconsciousness4064
    @chocolatedconsciousness4064 Год назад +7

    It’s 2023 and i just came here to cry again.

    • @cristianoarellano1
      @cristianoarellano1 4 дня назад

      espero que tu corazón ya haya sanado amigo, mi mejor deseo

  • @morrisonjive7683
    @morrisonjive7683 10 лет назад +706

    I think we are watching the best musician of our generation right here. It's one thing going into a studio and writing 2 flawless albums, but to create this level of emotion and atmosphere live, is quite special. I felt like I was in the audience. Genius at work!

    • @oldbenone77
      @oldbenone77 10 лет назад +7

      I second that motion, just can't understand why EVERYONE else does not get it, muppets they'll catch up one day.

    • @joemcgann3144
      @joemcgann3144 10 лет назад +3

      Well said mate, he's in a league of his own

    • @abbyh1312
      @abbyh1312 7 лет назад

      morrison jive Totally agree

    • @thomasohanlon6238
      @thomasohanlon6238 6 лет назад +2

      I second it again brilliant comment , you need to see him live he takes you somewhere else he is an absolute genius , I love all kinds of music but I can listen to Ben daily and not lose interest amazing

    • @maria_dear
      @maria_dear 6 лет назад +11

      Hey, what about Damien Rice?

  • @karlpearson8032
    @karlpearson8032 3 месяца назад +5

    Anyone who loved and lost them will truly understand these words sang from well within the heart, soul and mind

  • @mrunknown4157
    @mrunknown4157 5 лет назад +82

    I saw Ben live around 7/8 years ago in Manchester at a small(ish) venue. We got to the venue quite early and Ben was stood outside having a smoke. My friends and I approached him and had a great chat with him, took pictures etc.. he later gave us a shoutout in the middle of his set. Truly amazing, and something I'll never forget. I'm just so glad his music grew and is now shared and loved so much by myself and others!

  • @netdaniels
    @netdaniels 8 лет назад +126

    Ben Howard is among us. I hope that everybody in this world understand how incredible this is.

  • @rayxnne
    @rayxnne 3 года назад +37

    when he screams into the guitar... I think about that a lot

  • @chrismorris5565
    @chrismorris5565 Год назад +40

    Just christ what a performance by Ben Howard, listening to it 14 years later and it never gets old

    • @DontBeATit
      @DontBeATit Год назад +4

      Are you in the future? It's only been out for less than 10 😂

    • @chrismorris5565
      @chrismorris5565 Год назад +1

      @Antony Hodkinson hahaha missread it thought the views was the year 🤣

    • @michaelwhite8031
      @michaelwhite8031 Год назад

      Please don't use 'Christ' as a swear word .

    • @olafm2416
      @olafm2416 11 месяцев назад +1

      I am getting older ...... but none of my emotions related to this performance changing ..... one of those moments .... thank you Ben & Band!

  • @MrKeefelm
    @MrKeefelm 3 года назад +122

    I really didn’t believe there was anything left to discover on guitar, it’s been used in so many different ways throughout the history of popular music. But this guy has completely reinvented the instrument in ways only a genius can comprehend. How does he even come up with these parts?! Let alone play them live while delivering a flawless vocal performance! It’s mesmerising!

    • @benthomas1885
      @benthomas1885 3 года назад +6

      Jon martyn.

    • @truelovewontwait
      @truelovewontwait 3 года назад

      @Andrew Salter all amazing musician but lack of pop hook it wont appeal to the masses.

    • @Jopeymessmusic
      @Jopeymessmusic 3 года назад +2

      @Andrew Salter Hardly amateur hour, just very different styles. And of course, not at all comparable. Ben's strengths is his songwriting and storytelling. Something that is very lacking in the modern metal scene.

  • @rylandduffield5419
    @rylandduffield5419 4 года назад +225

    For me he's on another level to any other singer songwriter out there. Everything seems so personal with him. When he's screaming in to the guitar pick up at the end I can feel it. Same with his albums, they're unique and emersive. Unbelievable

    • @simonrhys
      @simonrhys 4 года назад +6

      If you haven't already, go see him live. It's amazing!

    • @alexjones3675
      @alexjones3675 4 года назад +4

      he takes you on a journey for sure

    • @joemckeon4587
      @joemckeon4587 2 года назад +1

      Class

    • @subarolla
      @subarolla Год назад +1

      Come listen again

    • @rylandduffield5419
      @rylandduffield5419 2 месяца назад +1

      ​@@simonrhys I'm seeing him in October for the 10 year anniversary of this album

  • @rumenduplessis
    @rumenduplessis 4 года назад +224

    5 years later and I'm still trying to find a better performance than this.

    • @stormy74blue79
      @stormy74blue79 4 года назад +10

      Please don't spend another 5 years of your time "trying to find a better performance than this". There is nothing that compares. Just let the wave grab you and float, with a life jacket on of course.

    • @TyrantOFynder
      @TyrantOFynder 4 года назад

      Good luck with that!!

    • @TyrantOFynder
      @TyrantOFynder 4 года назад +3

      here a suggestion for u..a stunning live performance, Band: London Grammar. Song: Hey Now. @ Radio 1's big weekend 2014.......on youtube

    • @jamesdaniel4276
      @jamesdaniel4276 4 года назад

      Agreed 👍

    • @MFDOOOOM
      @MFDOOOOM 4 года назад

      @Wild Eye hehe

  • @JONATHANQUIGLEY21
    @JONATHANQUIGLEY21 2 года назад +59

    Taking nothing away from Ben's breathtaking performance, the backing musicians are 100% emotionally connected to enable us to experience the overall ora of this masterful display. Would just like to congratulate all involved.

  • @MrIzzyballin
    @MrIzzyballin 3 года назад +41

    April 2021. Comforting in a strange way. What a time to be alive. Stay safe yall

  • @zeynepkavuzoglu8915
    @zeynepkavuzoglu8915 3 года назад +121

    Who came to revisit this masterpiece after he came back?

    • @diegovinich4068
      @diegovinich4068 3 года назад +1

      IAM HERE

    • @patdunlea
      @patdunlea 3 года назад +4

      Shades of Jeff for sure, Talking heads/U2 rifts and David Gray also spiralling in near the end. Glad i stumbled across you tonight

    • @kimjuncotton-ssi2839
      @kimjuncotton-ssi2839 3 года назад

      YES!!!

    • @jarradjones8941
      @jarradjones8941 3 года назад

      Here I am! Haha

    • @tudorsanta5367
      @tudorsanta5367 3 года назад

      Feeling like giving a hug the old sad me

  • @KleinoMusic
    @KleinoMusic 10 лет назад +415

    This is UNREAL, no lie, best performance i have ever seen, he uses his instrument in such a different perspective to most musicians. Love this so much! Massive respect

    • @rayaqin
      @rayaqin 5 лет назад +3

      i love his work but to be fair none of the techniques he is using has been invented by him

    • @debtslave9225
      @debtslave9225 5 лет назад

      ruclips.net/video/LZ_svYdcIcQ/видео.html

    • @Geoff_1975
      @Geoff_1975 5 лет назад

      Yes yes yes...done

    • @TyrantOFynder
      @TyrantOFynder 4 года назад

      He does an incredible cover of Carley Rae Jepsen "Call me maybe"

    • @margaretbarr7705
      @margaretbarr7705 4 года назад +2

      Check out the late brilliant John Martyn if you like this

  • @spookytoaster2770
    @spookytoaster2770 2 года назад +48

    hearts don't break even. This song, this rendition , takes a snapshot of the turmoil , loss and heartache and describes it in 7 minutes and 30 seconds. If you've ever been on the wrong side of it, if you are on the wrong side of it. You'll get through.

    • @vivephremsen1233
      @vivephremsen1233 3 месяца назад

      Still going through it ......

    • @spookytoaster2770
      @spookytoaster2770 Месяц назад

      @@vivephremsen1233 I hope you've got passed this . Go easy on yourself.

  • @Joshthepurple
    @Joshthepurple 4 года назад +102

    Straight up goosebumps when he puts the guitar on his lap and screams into it

    • @24DegreesFahrenheat
      @24DegreesFahrenheat 4 года назад +3

      I felt that too.. Must say it's with feeling for sure.

    • @marcusgingell3585
      @marcusgingell3585 4 года назад +2

      Me too

    • @markwinters5408
      @markwinters5408 3 года назад +3

      Lolz yeah me too mate,it's just transported to a place iv never been,what a fantastically written song,really stratospheric stuff

  • @jameslynch4383
    @jameslynch4383 9 лет назад +148

    I like how the audience take a second to readjust at the end.

    • @ChampsMusic
      @ChampsMusic 5 лет назад +24

      Exactly. And everytime I watch it from begining they are all like smiling and laughing before he starts playing and I'm like "they don't know yet" xd

    • @DarrenCampbellmusic
      @DarrenCampbellmusic 5 лет назад

      Haha yeah I noticed that too! I guess I would need to aswell!

    • @jessicab.2254
      @jessicab.2254 5 лет назад

      Me too!

    • @brentcrude8565
      @brentcrude8565 5 лет назад +12

      It was a collective moment of "holy shit what did we just witness?"

  • @scousehiker7809
    @scousehiker7809 Год назад +74

    He’s so good can take you places mentally no one can. Great tune

    • @melomaniakjm
      @melomaniakjm Год назад

      That's a perfect way to put it...

    • @luizahm
      @luizahm Год назад

      Simply love it! 💖

  • @Keirmarchant
    @Keirmarchant Месяц назад +5

    The tears I've shed to this mans music over the years incredible artist thank you for everything Ben

  • @oezlemeryigit
    @oezlemeryigit 8 лет назад +328

    The end of the affair
    The weight of the world
    The kindness gone to bed
    It's free of your laughter
    Alive in the halls
    Did he hear, did he hear
    The fumbled words you saidLiving without her
    Living at all
    Seems to slow me down
    Living forever
    Hell, I don't know
    Do I care, do I care
    The thunder's rumbled soundNow I watch her
    Running 'round in love again
    Now I talk about you
    When I'm with our mutual friendsThe end of the affair
    The weight of the world
    The kindness gone to bed
    It's free of your laughter
    Alive after all
    Do I care to hear
    The fumbled words he saidLiving without her
    Living at all
    Seems to slow me down
    Living forever
    Hell, I don't know
    Do I care, do I care
    The thunder's rumbled soundNow I watch her
    Running 'round in love again
    Now I talk about you
    When I'm with our mutual friendsNow I watch her
    Running 'round in love again
    Now I talk about you
    When I'm with our mutual friendsThis is it
    This is just it
    Go to him
    What the hell, love?
    What the hell?This is it
    This is just it
    Go to him
    What the hell, love?
    What the hell?This is it
    This is just it
    Go to him
    What the hell, love?
    What the hell?

    • @ChrisParnell.
      @ChrisParnell. 5 лет назад +7

      Thank you mate !!

    • @lisabee3919
      @lisabee3919 5 лет назад +9

      Thanks! wish he'd enunciate a bit better, so freaking difficult to understand a word

    • @alexmh6131
      @alexmh6131 5 лет назад +1

      Thank you for taking the time to write this, what a powerful song when you can understand it!

    • @lianekerr9693
      @lianekerr9693 4 года назад

      Wow

    • @Leon-ry4pq
      @Leon-ry4pq 4 года назад +2

      *weight of a war ;)

  • @brushwa
    @brushwa 9 лет назад +47

    Being 9.9/10ths metal head, this performance blows me away. Fucking amazing. Voice, musicianship, everything.

  • @reinbald
    @reinbald 5 месяцев назад +14

    let's hope he brings this intensity with him for the 10 years of "I forget where we were"-tour this year

    • @davecass1989
      @davecass1989 4 месяца назад +1

      Can't see it tbh but have everything crossed he can pull it off 🙏

  • @onlyontuesdays4483
    @onlyontuesdays4483 Год назад +4

    Im a hip hop and trap producer and about the biggest apologist for trap music you’ll ever find. That said, this is real music, sound pushed to its limits. This is what should be studied for years to come

  • @nickm8494
    @nickm8494 5 лет назад +21

    I've watched this a few times and only just realised that the drummer and the double bass player are the same person. He lays the instrument down gently, walks around behind the lights, sits down and hits the first kick drum in perfect timing. Bravo, sir.

    • @Papertrailband
      @Papertrailband 3 года назад +2

      Just scrolled through the comments ctrl+f'ing for "bass" to see if anyone else copped this. Unbelievable.

    • @Unkownhandler88
      @Unkownhandler88 7 месяцев назад

      Unbelievable

  • @garythespark6295
    @garythespark6295 Год назад +8

    I showed this to my dad years ago to show how amazing Ben Howard is on the guitar and he couldn’t accept that the majority of the music was coming from him and his acoustic guitar. I nearly fell out with him trying to explain how it is!!

  • @inthechairwithcloochy8102
    @inthechairwithcloochy8102 11 месяцев назад +8

    I literally listen to this song every day of my life...

  • @sainsburmcmanus
    @sainsburmcmanus 9 месяцев назад +3

    9 years on and I’m still struggling to find a performance this stunning. Tugging at my heart strings almost a decade later.

  • @BarberMidnight
    @BarberMidnight Год назад +37

    quite possibly the most powerful live performance ive ever seen. years later i still come to witness it. Makes me feel i am not alone when im in serious pain and the im not the only one struggling. Thank you for that Ben.

  • @alexkuiper1115
    @alexkuiper1115 4 года назад +12

    Love the delayed reaction from the crowd after the song.. Needing a moment to land back on earth

  • @samuelmonyeki5338
    @samuelmonyeki5338 3 года назад +11

    RUclips respects this performance so much I've never seen a single ad. Ever.

    • @thomasmadman383
      @thomasmadman383 3 года назад

      That’s right lol I come back every month and still no ads 🤔

  • @SchwiftySamsara
    @SchwiftySamsara 12 дней назад +2

    Saw him live last Friday. He opened with this... life changing performance.

  • @MoonTea510
    @MoonTea510 9 лет назад +172

    "Living without her
    living at all
    seems to slow me down"
    Update: I used to be a simp lol. Hope everyone is doing well!

    • @martinrichardson6253
      @martinrichardson6253 8 лет назад +1

      +Daniel Washford exactly the guy is incredible with words let alone his music to go with it and his performance

    • @PetrolPatrol
      @PetrolPatrol 4 года назад +1

      it's certainly hits home

  • @maciejkaczorowski520
    @maciejkaczorowski520 Год назад +8

    Such a song can be written only by somebody whose love gone bad... And I can truly understand his passion...

  • @TanyaHydeNZ
    @TanyaHydeNZ 4 года назад +11

    There are people that sing songs, then there's Ben Howard, who projects songs directly from his soul. All the feels!

    • @williamn01
      @williamn01 3 года назад

      Its watching john Martyn as a child and lifes experiences thats projecting from this guys soul ,he couldn't have learned from a better guy especially with demons !!!

  • @JN.S.M
    @JN.S.M Год назад +24

    What a musical genius. The way he loses it and screams into his guitar at the end just grips my heart every single time.

    • @jensclarberg6419
      @jensclarberg6419 10 месяцев назад

      Loses it? He screams into the guitar for the effect lmao

  • @imeade9751
    @imeade9751 4 года назад +94

    This is why we HAVE to save the arts. Listening to this song brings up the deepest emotions. I turned this corner and found a surprise..

    • @communistloser3182
      @communistloser3182 4 года назад +1

      What do you mean save art? There are thousands of amazing artist out there. Are you saying this because its not played on the radio?

    • @PeopleAdverts
      @PeopleAdverts 3 года назад

      Do we have to save all the arts ?

  • @Haveagreatday915
    @Haveagreatday915 8 лет назад +44

    Just continues to get better each time I listen, and better live, than on his records.

  • @nicolagregson6054
    @nicolagregson6054 9 лет назад +432

    he sings and plays like he's got a fire inside him . Ben howard is in my opinion the Mozart of our time .

    • @alexpeneau1751
      @alexpeneau1751 9 лет назад +5

      +Nicola Gregson i got the same opinion, but schhhht ! Keep that secret, too many people won't like it ;)

    • @jimmyg5608
      @jimmyg5608 9 лет назад +3

      pffft okay then haha

    • @nicolagregson6054
      @nicolagregson6054 9 лет назад +5

      James Guvercin what!! Like you can do better? How can you not appreciate his musical talent?!!

    • @deanweller2226
      @deanweller2226 9 лет назад +9

      +Nicola Gregson Even my nan likes Ben Howard. He's a fuckin legend producing quality tunes

    • @jimmyg5608
      @jimmyg5608 9 лет назад +2

      +Dean Well exactly he is music for nans. Look you just can't compare a child prodigy and genius to this guy.

  • @DragonUAV
    @DragonUAV 2 года назад +64

    Ashamed to say I have just watched this for the first time ! WOW what a track, what a performance. This is going on my top playlist. Incredible.

    • @ShopFloorMonkey
      @ShopFloorMonkey 2 года назад +2

      And yet you still beat me by a month! Agreed, wow! What a find!

    • @lolly1811
      @lolly1811 2 года назад +2

      It’s incredible. Kind of intensity you don’t get in much music. Especially now now!

    • @richreeves9547
      @richreeves9547 2 года назад +3

      Congrats - your life has officially changed!

    • @rewindirreversibly
      @rewindirreversibly 2 года назад

      This has been recommended to me for years now but I only took the time to listen to it last month. What moves me almost as much as the music are the comments.

  • @LoneWolfOfHouseStark1989
    @LoneWolfOfHouseStark1989 3 года назад +36

    This man knows what it’s like to lose that special person, what a masterpiece.

    • @FrainFreeze
      @FrainFreeze 3 года назад +16

      Your comment made a thought cross my mind.
      Maybe that someone wasn't so special after all.
      Maybe that person was just the mirror to the lovers own soul.
      Nothing was lost, because it came from, and has always been, you.

    • @beansontoast5164
      @beansontoast5164 2 года назад +4

      @@FrainFreeze Hey I just came across this comment and thats so beautiful it made me cry, thank you.

    • @FrainFreeze
      @FrainFreeze 2 года назад +1

      @@beansontoast5164 💛

    • @alduslummus6380
      @alduslummus6380 Год назад +2

      @@FrainFreeze in need of that kind of perspective at the moment. Thank you

  • @KenMoss2986
    @KenMoss2986 3 года назад +13

    When someone special leaves your life, it hurts and sometimes you never recover, or ever can.

  • @warpspeed9877
    @warpspeed9877 4 года назад +22

    Do you think that someday this man woke up and said "Lets make a song about lost love and regret?" There's real pain in this one. His own.

  • @stander2625
    @stander2625 2 года назад +24

    One of the greatest musical performances of all time. No hyperbole.

  • @YasAdele90
    @YasAdele90 4 года назад +16

    Anything dramatic happens in my life I play this song. I've been here every day this week. He makes me cry in the nicest way possible. My heart is broken for so many reasons and he heals me.

    • @buwar87
      @buwar87 4 года назад +1

      Yasmin kelly,heads up girls,stay strong what ever it takes,we are stronger than anything in this planet😊

    • @bmg2507
      @bmg2507 4 года назад

      I'm the same, its a spiritual thing connecting with desperate emotions but in a controlled manner through a song. Love and peace to you.

  • @carrieadams6342
    @carrieadams6342 6 лет назад +110

    still come to watch this almost every day. can't get over how amazing this performance is

    • @rosssims9969
      @rosssims9969 6 лет назад +1

      Second this !

    • @calvingrantham7467
      @calvingrantham7467 5 лет назад

      Belter

    • @kobyashimaru1353
      @kobyashimaru1353 5 лет назад

      I listen to this in bed every night nearly. Trying to get over someone, proving difficult. This helps strangely

    • @symonhughes9155
      @symonhughes9155 4 года назад

      Exactly the same, I end every day with this song.

  • @jurgeng.t.420
    @jurgeng.t.420 2 года назад +7

    I've never heard so much emotion, so much desperation and so much love in one song....

  • @aliibra4546
    @aliibra4546 10 лет назад +26

    I love when he screams at his guitar for echo..so talented and creative..goosebumps man real music right there!!!

  • @mfmkelly
    @mfmkelly 10 лет назад +61

    Seriously one of my favourite tracks. Such an incredible performance not only by Ben but the rest of the band as well.

    • @MrDannyGraf
      @MrDannyGraf 10 лет назад +1

      Absolutely! I hope the band gets the probz they deserve, wouldn't be fair if only Ben is focused, although, hands down, he is the big genius

  • @shyshy8788
    @shyshy8788 4 года назад +24

    I recently discovered ben Howard. He has a way of transporting his pain into your own heart. Not had a good day today. Sitting here listening to this.. 😿

    • @darthattenborough1145
      @darthattenborough1145 4 года назад +3

      Tomorrow will be better

    • @butteryh
      @butteryh 4 года назад +1

      A n u

    • @aeropro7558
      @aeropro7558 4 года назад +3

      There is an air of sadness all around lately. Don't despair as you are certainly not alone. I cycle every day to a new place I've not been and this gets me through. I wish you well buddy.

    • @sheffieldamanda
      @sheffieldamanda 4 года назад +2

      He'll help you through believe me 💜

  • @snurgette1
    @snurgette1 6 лет назад +32

    The two halves of this song are like two parts of a person's emotional termoil. Knowing that something is over and the sadness that it brings vs the anger of rejection and guilt. I love Ben Howard and his band, every song takes me on an emotional journey. The passion that is put into the music translates perfectly every single time it's played and is only conveyed tenfold live. Goosebumps

  • @MarkMathewsMusic
    @MarkMathewsMusic 4 года назад +25

    I'm watching this from my bed suffering with corona-virus and it's better than any medicine. 🙏

    • @rahulvikram3252
      @rahulvikram3252 4 года назад +4

      God bless you dear, get well soon🙏💐

  • @alangray612
    @alangray612 2 месяца назад +2

    Simply a masterpiece of a performance. I've watched some great performances on the show over the years but none to rival this.

  • @jacksdaddy13
    @jacksdaddy13 4 года назад +20

    Why are we limited to just one ‘like’ on this performance, it just doesn’t do it justice. This is musicianship on another level. Brilliant

  • @RobDymott
    @RobDymott 4 года назад +29

    the camera work to pull in when he's singing into the guitar at 5:57 is exceptional

    • @liamgibbins484
      @liamgibbins484 4 года назад +3

      I love it when people appreciate shit like this ❤️

    • @jexiagalleta
      @jexiagalleta 3 года назад

      Yes, the intimacy it gives is so much purer than if there was a cut.

  • @MrSmid888
    @MrSmid888 5 лет назад +38

    I listened to this multiple times when my sister died suddenly.
    Then album had only just came out.
    There are probably comments of mine years previous.
    Anyway,I couldn’t listen to the album because everything related to her death.If not obviously I made it fit.
    I’ve returned for a listen if this track.
    MASTERPIECE of playing and writing.
    Peace to all humans ✌🏻🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

    • @amandalynn6663
      @amandalynn6663 4 года назад

      I'm so sorry for your loss. That's such a painful thing to go through. I hope you have since found peace where pain once was.

    • @tartaringus
      @tartaringus 4 года назад

      may she rest in peace