He Got Catfished And Instantly Left The Date Now She’s Furious
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He Got Catfished And Instantly Left The Date Now She’s Furious
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Deception is part of who they are. Makeup, filters, gaslighting, manipulation ... different words ... same thing.
Yup, fake eye lashes, plus size, fake finger nails, lip injections and lots of ink. Oh and the bull rings in their nose, green hair, etc.
Aww give em a break, they're just doing what society trained them to do
Imagine every nasty thing men have done throughout history by physical violence.
Now imagine that women are just as bad, they just can't use force. What do they use? Tongue.
They are weak both physically and mentally. Deception is a weaklings weapon.
No means "yes" and vice versa. also I don't want you around but also fight for me and give me attention when I want it and you should be psychic to know this
What if a man showed himself in expensive clothes standing by a lambo and then showed up in jeans and a t shirt driving a Honda.. . . Think she'd be ok?
Say you’re 6foot when you’re 5’9… watch the meltdown 😂
Not the same thing
Yes, it is. It is the male equavlent. You are in denial of biological evolutionary differences. @@charleslangley1641
@@charleslangley1641 It is. We judge men and women on different scales.
She will Food Dig him for a few weeks 😅
"I have no one to impress" while she uses filters and has a meltdown that people don't think she's that hot.
I'm more attracted to 5's & 6's who don't wear makeup, than I am to 8's, 9's, & 10's who do.
I wish women understood this.
It's the same 'logic' behind them saying "we don't dress up to get attention from men". Sure thing honey, that's why you're not in the club with no makeup, sweats, a t-shirt & f*cked up hair, right?
Many cr@zy chicks out there
I got into a huge argument once, because a guy I knew was infatuated with a young woman that I thought was rather so so looking. I made the mistake of saying so. He then created a massive scene out of it. And this was in public and in front of the woman in question, though she seemed rather aloof.
@@MendedPerspective 5s and 6s with a healthy body and no makeup is waaay better than an aggressive, over-confident, heavily make-up'd 8,9,10
All these 304s demanding an "honest man". But trying to deceive a man from day 1. Make it make sense
Chads won't put up with catfishing.
It will never make sense because it can't.
It’s the hYpOcRiCyYyYyYy for mee 🤣
@@Apollo1011 they’ll happily share 🤮
Fellas the word is Solipsism.
I once ended a date in under 20 seconds as she was walking up to me laying the ground rules. I just said , "this is not going to work" and I walked away as she was still talking
What were the rules?
@MachoMaster Doubt he heard em as he left I. 20 seconds. "OK, before we go inside I need to let you know first I'm not.....🚶♂️
@@2muchReality7ven All I heard was, " I don't believe in sex before marriage and no hand holding on the first date". As she was explaining herself, I said what I said and started walking
I can understand if they won't do sex before marriage. But that is NOT what you start the first conversation with.
@@rogerm3708 At least you knew what you wanted. Salute.
The issue is accountability, these women can't handle the truth
Something something … _Kryptonite!_
Before they got bank-accounts, they really were just sweet and actual women you could bank on even in difficult times. Pretty ironic, isn't it?!
They don't want the truth.
Back when I used to use eHarmony, I had a girl show up that was literally a different person. She even admitted to using her friend's photos...
That's wild and absolutely crazy. What the...???
🚩
Actual catfishing.
That must have been severely awkward.
I once dated a women who used old pictures of her where she looked healthy and happy. She had, at least, gain 50 pounds, was the worse alcoholic I've ever met and she clearly had a mix of depression and bipolarity disorder. She was one hell of a train wreck. For a year, she tried to convince me to be her boyfriend. Hell no!
Bet you were nailing her for that year 😂
Tread carefully when speaking about my wife.
you hit it multiple times lol
A year??
Bruh?! Like why?! Why didn't you just walk away after finding out you got catfished? Stop being simp and set some standards, you deserve better.
So….its terrible for this man to recognize she absolutely faked her looks, and that’s just terrible all the women cry about this horrible man……but if he had said on his profile he’s 6 foot 1 and really was 5 foot 11, then that would be grounds to have the police called on him.
So sick of the double standard.
Women who have rules like this will hate the children they produce who don’t measure up to these impossible requirements
They would totally do the same thing for a man! Bwahaha
If women didn’t have double standards, they would have none
hard to tell that difference - if hes 5'4 then its the same thing
I’ve turned around and immediately walked away from women after meeting in person for the first time. I would never feel guilty about that- she’s the liar. She’s the deceptive one. She should be ashamed
The foul mouths of these women would make them a no go. Such low class.
You have no idea just how foul. For Chad, Julio, Rayray, Tyrone, cousin Pookie and many more those mouths are used for a lot more than just whining & complaining.
It’s very off putting. No class, no femininity.
Takes a fire hose and a low level EMP if you wanna know what girls look like today. LMAO
Or, a first date to the water park.
Or in the mornings. 🤢😱
@@davids11131113 You'd fail miserably.
Since there's waterproof eye-liner, mascara and even full make-up these days, which withstands even public swimming pools …
No, you tell her, that she has to come without any whatsoever makeup - Lip-gloss, lib-stick and eyelash black is all there is …
If she then comes with anything and refuses your pocket-wipes of make-up remover tissue, you leave her on the spot no matter what!
@@davids11131113 beach/ pool
That one women shows where the issue is: "without filters, i do not look like myself". Considering the filter-picture as reality - imagine dating them (i can't)
What she really means is, "Without beauty filters I do not look like what I imagine myself to look." Oh, the power of delusion !!!
That. is. scary. That's a hard core case of image dysmorphia to the Nth degree. Abort! Abort!
@@matthewronsson biggest red flag ever, right?
Why would I buy a gift for someone who just lied to me?
Chinese women are complaining if they don’t filter their photos they can’t get dates. They are also complaining that when the date happens the guys complain they don’t look like their photos.
Terrified of being 'leftover women'.
I used to watch that Chinese dating show; the girls on it all pretty much look the same, with enough paint on their faces to freshen up a Ghost City. 🤣
Make it make senses 🤦🏿♂️😂
If she has been married for 5 years why does she care about how she looks on social media??
Exactly! It just goes to show that even if they’re married, they still want attention and validation from strange men.
Married 5 years and there is ZERO difference between her pictures and appearance and those from the teenage girls or single women.
She still desires the attention from all the simps on social media.
304 will always be a 304.
We don't really know that she's married. Just because she says she is. She wants to be more desirable. The "you want what you can't have" mentality. Let's say she's telling the truth, her attitude tells me she'll be the one to initiate a divorce when she doesn't get her way or she becomes bored and there's a line of simps waiting to court her.
Narcissism?
Good on that dude for walking out
What an alpha 🫡
A woman with 20 filters.... Im a 10/10.
That's like a guy on IG posting pictures of nice cars boats lavish lifestyle then when the date happens he pulls up in a 2001 corolla and you're going to Applebee's not the 5 start restaurant you thought he was taking you to.
I tell my son to date using our beaten up 12 year old Toyota. Leave the BMW at home. And split the bill.
Well, I am a 55-year-old female and I say you should take the luxury of being able to reject a woman. There was not a darn thing wrong with what he did. I would respect him for that. She is absurd to think that she could get away with that in the first place. I feel like it's all on her and I think you man need to stand up and be the alpha man that you're called to be honesty with compassion.
I dont understand why women feel the need to wear makeup, if you think about it logically they are packing chemicals into the pores on their face, just washing your face will not remove them, you would need to set in avery hot sauna for 4 hours to sweat them back out. over the years of doing this they will just age must faster
It needs to be appreciated that, broadly :-
Women like filters because they're looking to have dinner with a guy one time.
Men dislike filters because they're looking for a woman to have breakfast with many times.
🎠 FREE DINNERS
Thats a great way to sum it up.
She is lying from the start. She is not who she is.
It's called Photoshopping. But this stuff has been going on in some form or another since the 1870s. The very funny Gunsmoke episode Chester's Mail Order Bride was about this.
Catfishing is scamming men. Stop it.
“There are fucking kids dying in Palestine…”. So you all should not criticize me about all the dishonesty regarding my actual appearance.
Her response to dying kids is making a stupid video. That really honors the cause.
7:51 there are kids dying in Palestine. But you can't use that to play down every other unrelated topic.
Customer to car salesman “the new car you sold me broke down”. Salesman to customer “There are fucking kids dying in Palestine…”.
I walked out on more women than I could care because of this shit and don't get me even started on asian "fakeover" makeup! This shit clearly went outta hand with all those filters and fake-up.
What is asian make up? I'm genuinely curious, I really want to know what you're talking about about!
I have known quite a few women who almost always wore makeup. When they did show up without makeup they were almost unrecognizable. But. I find that the personality of the woman may yet overcome the initial discrepancy. I am married to a woman who has worn makeup exactly one time during our relationship ( our wedding day). I love her so so much ! It taught me that I would have to
Make it a courtship requirement that the woman ( even if she typically wears makeup) go without makeup during courtship just for her own sense of value in the man’s eyes to be more secure.
😂 I asked a woman out once I met in a store. She wasn't wearing any makeup. Picked her up a couple days later. She had so much makeup on I thought I was at the wrong house. Didn't recognize her.
Guys are finally realizing makeup IS a red flag.
Thing is, many if not most men assign 'meaning' to the way they feel about a woman based on her appearance.
They fall in love with the way she looks.
It's all biology.
Attracted to her sexually to get the initial interest, then in love with her face so he sticks around.
It does work. What's the population of the Earth now? 😆
I'm 66, a lifelong bachelor, not for lack of good faith effort when I was a younger man, so it is what it is. Still above ground and breathing, and lose no sleep over it.
A few years back I needed to find pet care for my two (now senior) Bengal cats as I had to go out of town for a few days on business.
I went onto this Rover site and had 4 females who vied for the work. All were young women in their early 30s and employed in health occupations. 1 never showed, and the other 3 showed up looking completely different than their profile photos (rougher looking, 20-30 lbs heavier). That was inconsequential because I wasn't looking to try and date them, I just needed pet care.
I hired one, and returned 3 days later to find she'd never showed up. My poor cats had no water, no food, and the litter box was full. I almost lawyered up on that one.
I don't know how young men can deal with these many low-shelf and deceptive dusty women out there today.
Hope your cat is ok!
@@dzllzBoth of them are ok. 13 years old now but going strong.
Now if they only had filters for their thoughts, actions and words.
EXACTLY
Most phone cameras turn on the filters by default. Only a mirror will tell you the truth anymore.
Really!!! I couldn't figure out what was wrong with my new cell recently from this crap.
I was taking pix of the kids at the game for my daughter and texting them without reviewing them first, and she was "take off that filter!" Huh???? Wait..... why is.... Nonono, how is it...? WHERE ARE MY SETTINGS OVERRIDES 🤬😒⛔
They're implying looks shouldn't matter that much. If that's the case, why did you put the filters on? You know why... You wanted guys out of your league. You could have put honest pics and got plenty of hits. But those are not the guys you wanted. You wanted more attractive guys. You're upset because you see the guy as shallow. Only so are you. But you're also deceitful about it.
Nailed it. Even a 5-6 is getting bombarded with attention on dating apps.
If you show up and do not look like your pictures, you are buying the drinks until you do.
Always punish bad behavior. No excuses. No nicey nice.
All those selfies you ladies delete…that’s what you really look like. Accept it.
Yes and no. Camera distortion is a real thing.
Take a photo of a page of writing.
With your phone.
just like the phrase "first impressions last". So when you present yourself as fake the first time, there's a high probability that you're gonna be faking it onward.
Men know what men want. What would women do if a man said they make 10000 dollars a month. Then the girl meets him and the guy says I make 1000 dollars a month. I added an extra zero. It's a financial filter I like to use on social media.
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"High on their own fumes..." LOL
I can't even use filters. Whenever I try it just says "Nope. Nuh uh. Can't help you. Sorry."
Only select that what can be genetically passed on and what is easy on the eyes the morning after..
I hate filters for the same reason I hate Photoshop and Lightroom, as a photographer MY artistic vision is to recreate exactly what I see with my eye in my photography. You can make a photo look like everything, but truly capturing real life in perfect fidelity and accuracy is a triumph of art, to me.
My favorite stat about pictures is that photographers back when they used physical film would take over 10000 photos for every picture that made it into the National Geographic Magazine
But damn when they did publish, those warthogs looked fabulous!
I usually swipe right on women who have pictures of them hiking, working out or doing anything active. It’s a higher probability they don’t have makeup caked on and you can see what they really look like.
Plus you can tell she’s fit and has a hobby…
20 years ago when i started dating my man he mentioned to me in a nice way that he liked to see women not wearing make up. I thought about it and stopped wearing make up and coloring my hair. Am 67 now and have had many times in my life both men and women tell me how nice it is to see a woman without a bunch of make up on and in their natural hair color. Saves money too. A win win in my book ❤
"DECEPTION" is Why they're still single!!!
I went out with this chick last week. She was super interested in me through text and excited to go on a date. We never knew each others ages, I figured around 19 or 20 since she's in college. I pick her up and everything. Not 20 minutes in she asks my age since she never asked(she never really asked any questions about me). I said "how old do I look?" She said "20 then said 21" I held up a thumb for higher and figured this could take awhile. I said "31". She said "she was 19." I said "Ya I look young" she said "ya you do". For another 15 minutes we talked and she was super talkative until she got a call from a friend that she needed a ride to the doctor because she cut her finger and doesn't have a car. I asked if that was the bail out call and she uh no. It seemed like she was definitely bailing. I verified the next day and ya the age thing bothered her and she was out completely. She was willing to lie on the spot to bail on a date and she was pretty good at lying.
They’re natural born liars and deception is their primary tool
It's crazy how women do that crap all the time. They'll put on an act and pretend to be super interested until they find the opportunity to bail. I've heard so many women defending the behavior by saying that it's to prevent retaliation from the man. The irony is that most men would respect the honesty. The lie and the bailing is what's always insulting and aggravating.
I went on a date once where her pictures on the app looked really good, I get to the site and she looks nothing like her pictures, come to find out that she is using pictures from 15 years ago, when I told her what she was doing was deception she got really pissed and defensive, when will women take accountability for their actions?
Catfishing should be a crime. It’s completely fraudulent. No justification whatsoever. Dating websites should really monitor people’s photos and remove those that have been modified, altered or edited in any way that would affect the appearance of said individual.
I disagree. If it's a public river or lake, you should be able to fish for them.
It is, called fraud.
Sounds like a scammer to me🚩
She is that girl telling her own story
So I think an equivalent would be a guy saying he is 6ft only to find out he was using 5inch lifts
They don't even look like themselves in real life. They wear too much makeup.
Idk how they do it. It's gotten to the point where they look like drag queens. I once had a friend put makeup on me, and not only did I not look like myself, but I felt like I was suffocating under a mask. I have a strong sense of smell too, so after about 10 minutes, the smell made me nauseous. The cost of that crap alone is such a waste and can be spent on better things. Even worse is the fake nails, lashes, and injections. They claim they do it because of societal pressure from men. I've never met a man who complained that I didn't wear makeup or didn't have Freddy Kruger nails. They're doing it to compete with each other. I attracted my husband by being myself. There's no point in faking anything because your true self is revealed eventually.
They have to compete 👯♀👯♀👯♀👯♀👯♀👯♀👯♀👯♀👯♀👯♀👯♀👯♀👯♀👯♀👯♀👯♀
"A three dressed up as a nine, you're only wasting my time".🤣🤣🤣😳
It's not just that they look different. It's that they started the whole thing off by being dishonest. That's not a good foundation, period, regardless of whether it's the dude or the girl. Don't be fake, it's not that difficult.
They arrested a man in NYC for lying to women about how much money he made so why don't they arrest women for lying about their looks?
He was arrested for scamming women out of 100's of thousands of dollars by claiming to be an 'investor'.
I had a friend do this online; when we met up I didn’t recognize her & felt stupid for not realizing she used a lot of filters on her face. Still, I think about how unsettling that was even* without there being a romantic component; it’s hard for guys if this is a common occurrence.
If you can't even be honest about your own looks & personality (or lack thereof), you deserve to be alone.
A lot of these deceptive women are just trying to coax a man into a meeting/ dinner. They don’t care if they waste a man’s time. People need to stop lying. A man is going to find out what you “actually” look like, so quit playing games, and grow up.
Did anyone else think it ridiculous when she said she 'wears' filters?
I went on a date from online, we got along really well so decided to meet up for coffee. When I pulled around the corner at the meeting spot I wanted to drive away but she noticed me. I didn't even open my door before I knew it won't be going nowhere. She looked nothing like her pictures because she used a picture from at least ten years prior. Blonde had turned to grey and she clearly couldn't afford hair dye, or even semi decent clothes. The 80's literally regurgitated this chick with some added depression and desperation. She was all over me and I honestly hate people touching me HATE IT! She also looked like she was pregnant with the babie being non existent and stuck in utero for a decade at the same time. We had coffee and went out own way, minutes later the message song came over the phone asking me what I thought about her, I replied with 'wont go anywhere' she then guilt tripped me for not giving her a chance and I replied to that with 'fairy nuff'.
I won't date someone I haven't met in real life from now on, or more importantly I wont date ever again because the date before that was a single mother with three kids and she would have to be the most gorgeous and most horrible chick i have met in my life.
I'm out here dodging all the bullets.
I’m actually the same: I’m not photogenic at ALL! That’s why I don’t use apps.
What? I only used the over 6’ and 100k filters 🤔
Starting a date off with lies, deception, manipulation, right off the bat is so telling what a future relationship would be like. One look in real life is all it takes to say, "NO"!
A lot of men like honesty : filters, angles and heavy make up is lying to herself and other so that is not a good way to start a relationship...
edit : It s like a men using his brother( that kinda look similar) account that won the lottery but he did not.
Exactly. When I first started seeing my husband, a friend did my face. I didn't know how and had zero products. He looked at me and said you look nice but I prefer your natural face. So that's what he got for the next 40 years. 😊
@@LillyMarz777 : Funny how women don't believe men when they say they don't like a lot of makeup. But it's true. My wife looks the most beautiful when she wakes up in the morning rested and with NO makeup.
Plus, confidence is attractive. Filters and what I call "drag queen makeup" are only going to make these men feel deceived and disappointed.
They need to do all of that to get picked, lying and acting or they couldn’t otherwise…
@@zaq1337 I thought they hated pick me? Or at least made fun of them online.
It happened to me twice.... People on their late 50s talking about gow they are ”25 years old".
Most women prefer sweet lies to the harsh truth. Men know the lies will get them nowhere.
Lol. That guy is a comedian!😂😂😂😂
Women don't believe that lying about their physical appearance are lies.
Men don't like liars.
He saw that she had lied to him. So he left.
Most, if not all, problems are based in lies, starting with those we tell ourselves.
I expect absolute honesty. Filters are deceiving they are lying. If she is going to lie about something so small and simple what else is she willing to lie about.
‘She removed the filter, and I think she still looks beautiful’ … yea I highly doubt that. If she’s so beautiful without filters then why is she applying so many filters and makeup? It’s because she doesn’t look good. Yea the BS ‘dating scene’ is so crazy these days I’m not even trying to participate at it.
Women don’t wanna know the truth. She asked, and? Men think women mean the words they say like we do, but often these words are just sounds that she chooses based on whatever feeling she has at the moment.
Given a choice between hurt feelings or wasted time. I'm choosing hurt feelings every time cuz my time is way more valuable than my feelings
He told the truth, she lied with the photos. Gone, bye, too many red flags.
I was completely shocked that women think a man should still take a woman out and buy her dinner after she Catfishes him...
I've had this exact thing happen to me. The girl texted me afterwards, and asked what the issue was. I replied, much to her dismay, "false advertising". Not only was she a good 10 years older than her pictures, but apparently she was living with her "ex husband" as well. Waited until the first date to mention that little tidbit! 🤣
Imagine going to buy an advertised 2020 blue BMW
Only to find yourself looking at a
2010 blue Toyota,
At the same price...
🤦🤦🤦
Makes me think of house shopping, if I see pictures of an immaculate home and when I show up it’s dirty and dingy or just looks very different in person from the photos it’s so much WORSE than if the pics were more honest and you knew what to realistically expect vs. that feeling of disappointment and being lied too. That feeling of having been tricked and wasting you time is irredeemable in most circumstances.
Celebrities have always had this problem.
Robert Downey is a case in point. He looks like an old lesbian.
It is called 'false advertising' and should carry a fine !!!!
I will never understand why people use filters. It literally makes you look way too perfect like somebody painted on you, even the specialized AI ones, they do a good job of cleaning everyone but there's something not normal about the images.
Even seen black woman/men using skin lighting filters and its overly contrasted the images since they have to apply a heavy filter to make them lighter that it distorts overall image.
I'm one of those people that have been told that I look better in real life than an images because I can never take a good picture of myself. I'm just not a selfie guy which is understandable since most men don't really do selfies.
I talked with a girl for a few weeks before meeting up. When we had our first date she had an older teen girl who had a baby with her, she told me this is my daughter and my granddaughter... shes 35... i didnt know she even had kids let alone grandkids..
I don't wear makeup, other than lipstick. But, I don't photograph well....I'm average-looking at best.
Just a light filter 😂 reminds me of a woman I knew that bleached her hair blonde she was a brunette. Told people she just "highlighted it".
Healthy relationships don't start off with mind games.
Its like a mirror that makes you look better. A delusion mirror.
Oh what a tangled web they weave, when they practice to deceive
She hates it!
They use filters so they can catfish a Chad and then get bent out of shape when Chad does a smash & dash. 🤣🤣🤣
I don't see the issue as being looks...I see it as being honesty versus dishonesty.
You don't owe a stranger the truth. Ever. And you can never trust them at their word, like, tell them because they asked. They aren't asking for the truth.
It’s the age of equality women equal men in all ways and deserve equal treatment.
They need to realize that when they're looking at the filtered picture of themselves, they're actually looking at someone else.
Imagine having a car with dings and scratches, but then applied filters to try to sell it. Looks clean in pictures, but in person....yeah.
No there’s times you can’t tell at all…
Married 5 years and there is ZERO difference between her pictures/appearance and those from the teenage girls or single women.
She still desires the attention from all the simps on social media :)
hes 100% right- if a woman is deceptive about appearance then dont be shocked when men arent interested
This is why when I have a blind date I ask a friend to call my phone shortly after the date starts and if she catfished I simply tell her there is a family emergency and leave then ghost her.
A filter is like a wonder bra lol... take it off and you wonder what just happened lol
If a woman can walk away from a date because she "feels" unsafe, then a man can walk away from a catfish.
If a woman can use worries over her physical safety as an excuse to walk away from a date, then a man can use worries over his financial safety to do the same.
After all, financial abuse is still abuse, right??? If men can be criminalized over this, then so can women, right???
These girls who defend using makeup as if it's not a real life "filter": "Men with muscles are catfishing because muscles make you look different!"
There's a series of books, originally written about 100 years ago, wherein it is often repeated that only the woman can break an engagement. In fact, the main character spends a great deal of time, trying to get his fiancees to break his various engagements.
Superficial superficial not so superficial😂😂😂😂😂😂