What We Have Given Up Since Becoming Mums | Reminiscing | Careers | Freedom ft Golden Tulip
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- Опубликовано: 2 окт 2024
- Do you remember what your life was like before you became a Mum?
We do and we're doing so much reminiscing today. From the fun nights out to the promising career paths, we have given up a lot to become mothers.
What have you given up and what have you gained?
Tell us in the comments below 😊
You too can reminisce with your friends at the Golden Tulip Barbeque Night and band tonight and every Friday!
#motherhood #bumplove #parenting
Do you remember what your life was like before you became a Mum?
We do and we're doing so much reminiscing today. From the fun nights out to the promising career paths, we have given up a lot to become mothers.
What have you given up and what have you gained?
Tell us in the comments below 😊
You too can reminisce with your friends at the Golden Tulip Barbeque Night and band tonight and every Friday!
#motherhood #bumplove #parenting
U girls are really talking to me
U have 💯 represented me
How do I give you 1000likes❤
Honestly sometimes I feel like i have given too much to my hubby and children and gave up on myself. Whenever I feel exhausted, I break down and demand myself back. I would watch movies with hubby until like 1am...Hostle we enjoyed it together, Telemundo etc...I had to give it up painful. I bless the lord for family . To be honest I started discovering myself when I start following Bump love like 2 years back. I love all of you ladies, the beauty about Bump love, my hubby enjoys it too.....He goes, " have u heard your girls". Go getters, keep lighting our candles.
@@liztatu9666 through sharing this link and telling others to subscribe
I became a mom to a baby, Cerebral Palsy baby and I put everything on pause. Shen Baby made one year and I was daigonised with stomach cancer almost taking me out.
My career,my work, everything seemed done..
This talk has really been the most attached for me..
Thanks ladies..
Love u
lots of hugs to you mama
Hugs joan❤❤❤ your loved
Ooh dear❤️
Oh dear! You must be such a strong person to still stand. May your future be filled with easier and lighter days. 🙏
God didn’t only create Pumla….She was manufactured in a factory 😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂 mwana gwe it seems that factory might I have been missing some parts. P
Omg the way she has made my day , uhmmm
😂😂😂😂
I love Pumla oh my... i see alot of myself in her.
Finding your page about a month back felt like finding that new friend. I love how vulnerable you have accepted to be to make it more relatable. May God bless you and your households.
Thanks Maria. We truly are in this together. P
Pumla has lived many different lives in just one. It's awesome.
Ooh my
And i love how candid she is about.She is a true defination of know what you want or don't want. Not pretentious.
Or is she just so honest about who she is and her experience without apologies which isn't something we normally see. I LOVE her!
Hahahaa Cathy. And imagine...I still have some more to live. Hahahaaaaa! P
@@jdm3762 She is not your everyday African chic. .She has a Being Mary Jane kinda vibe. Love her too.🇰🇪
Pumla’s part of foregoing her PHD scholarship offer just to be there for her son...Beyond wowed! & the sacrifices of the other Mothers too🙌🏾.MOTHER is indeed a title just above Queen.🤗🥰
We can now go back and explore all those opportunities. Mothers truly are Queens. Thanks. P
Phew child!!! I can attest to what Manuela gave up. Manuela was definitely on track to lots of corporate success. That said, as someone that has followed in Manuela’s footsteps since primary school, I have been even more inspired by the detour she took. Manuela has incorporated all her skills from corporate into this amazing influencer journey. This is infinitely more rewarding and it’s no surprise it’s what led her to be shoulder to shoulder with Barack Obama, one of the greatest people of our time. I am so proud of Manuela. This is definitely what she is destined for.
Awwwwwwww, thank you for this message....so beautiful......
❤❤❤❤❤❤
She’s very brilliant. Went to school with her in primary but was 2 classes ahead of her. She’s lived a great inspiring life than I did. Very proud of you Manuela & still gorgeous. 😘
Loved hearing Nabachwa and Rosette talk about hitting the pause button and coming right back once our children are older and don't need us as much. Times and seasons are such a beautiful thing..
Yes. Times and Seasons. Listen to them. P
Racheal is the greatest Moderator ❤
Who is not yet married but they're busy on every bump love upload? 🤭
Hahahaha! They are many by the way era you need a special whatsapp group. We love you. Hehe! P
👋👋👋 We are very many 😂
Many😂😂😂
Angie, you have aged like wine. I love your whole outlook on the show. 👏👌
Thank you ladies for sharing Bambi.
It was worth my time as always.👏🫶
Am Soo glad I bumped into this channel. I was feeling like an underachiever because I have given up corporate job and money to raise my daughter but I feel so uplifted because I know am on the right path. Thank you Ladies. I relate Soo much to this content.
Honey. You are on the right path. It's okay. P
You are doing the best thing you'll ever do
I think this is the MOST IMPORTANT episode of Bump Love in terms of parenting resources. The affirmation, the advice, the reminders, the truth.Thank you soooooo much for this conversation.
Love that it spoke to you. Was a reminder to us too. P
I love these ladies so much 💕💗❤💓💖💛💕. Kati for Angie and Rachel, ur accent makes me feel like taking my children to the schools u guys went to . Love u guys
We as kenyans love Pumla
And Pumla loves you right back 😘😘😘. P
In retrospect, i feel i had my child at the perfect time. Partly could be because i had her in my mid 30's, so i had done all the good/bad/crazy/ curious stuff there was to do and was more than ready to transition into a new life of being a mother. Let me add having a child has immensely contributed to becoming better version of myself. Am not married yet, but sometimes i do wonder if i ever get married whether it won't change the dynamics i have with my daughter. We are just two curious souls who have itchy feet and enjoy each other's company.Though i look forward to what God has in store for us in the future. 🇰🇪fan
I tend to agree Alice. Being a mom has made me a better version of myself too. P
Pumla is an amazing 100 people in one 🥰🥰🥰
I love her
100 people. Haha! Atte we are still living. P
😂😂😂😂yeah
my future hubby shud brace himself, wat I learn from u guys is beyond me, n I appreciate you alot
Naye omukazi PUMLA😂omuzungu yamukola🤣
Ndowoza mu China! P
I so much appreciate the different personalities. Thanks a lot for touching my life. I am a new mum and i am learning alot from you. Sending love from Lubumbashi ( D R Congo).
Today I officially accept being a stay home mom...wow..the guilt of not chasing a career u once envisioned..i paused...someday...
True my dear
It's just apause/ detour.
We will get back one day..
Kudos to you mommy! P
@@pumlanabachwa8668 Thanx for these programs...they make us feel at peace in our new lives of motherhood...things we dont usually talk abt...u bring to life when u discuss with the rest on set..thanks for the ministry
Ok on the intimacy part Pumla is so me. Now I don’t feel weird anymore
Hahahaaaaa! We are normal 😅. P
What is parenting without you bump love family ❤thank you for always touching lives . Thanks for uplifting moms who were feeling like underachievers.
I would like Mbabazi Lucky on this show as a guest
You are really right bs if you pose so that you raise up your children is the best option and my wife did the exact pose and now my boys are more of motherly love than the dad love they had,pose pose pose that's the best for the children ever
I miss my life I can’t even watch this video in Peace….My father in law always tells me you are in your own prison…flesh Nakawere Nalongo
But most importantly I miss serving in Church…..Shout out to my Watoto downtown family
Mother for now. All those things will come back to you at the right time. P
Thank you so much ladies.. As a mother of two I feel so much better after watching.. everything will work out 🙏
I get u Rosette. Doing Careerer, school and kids isn't a walkover. Here trying to balance it and Like Angie has said it, support from Family and Hubby and God above it, the boat is balancing.
43:21 …” what is that ka road where the ‘weeluu weeluuz’ 🚨🚨pass” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. LMAO!!!! someone print that on a T-shit 😂
The words had failed me. 😂. P
Nakomye okutegera ku slippery Road to 40🙌🤣
These ladies are amazing, they really inspire me to work harder to make it in life😊.
So happy to be impacting Logose. Much love ❤️. P
Thank you Pumla. I also give up responsibilities at work because of my babies and I sometimes wonder if am doing the right thing.
Our reward is coming honey. Worry not. P
Just like Angie, I laughed when Pumla made Racheal confess that she is living her dream life. "This is the life you wanteeeed!"Ahhahahaha. It was like a scene in a movie 😂. You all represent different seasons of my life, some times am Rosette, others am Manuela, then Angie kicks in, then Pumla...and then boom...Racheal!
Not yet a mum, but i fear responsibility.
Like if i am to go out to my friends, i hve to go with the baby or have to be with a nany to take care of him/ her. Ooooops
@Pumla I love you!
People and God God 👨🏻🎤
How do you put a pause when you don't have a backup support...
This has tickled me so hard... I lost myself in parenting. And not just mine but my siblings and extended family.
I am rediscovering myself
Baby gal,this is so me. I am not even excited to have my own children because i have been a mother sinceee and its so tiringggg. Bump love should do ko for us aka episode
I think I need to force Pumla into becoming my friend 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 this chic is soooooo masculine which I am and love
Hahahahaaa! No need to force bambi. I'm all here. P
Wow, Ladies with brains.....I will always say, that I like the way each one of u shares very honestly from your experience..........Thx alot.......we resonate and learn alot from each one of you. Thx thx thx.....
Like u mentioned everyone has a different story..On the contrary to majority, it’s like I just started having sex after birth. Before having baby it was all about when will baby come....month after month but after I had the baby now we have good fulfilling sex. We just can’t have enough of each other.
Also I lost my desire to continue with career goals and I couldn’t get over the guilt seeing my colleagues achieve my dreams faster. My husband tried to push me back in line but I just wasn’t the same as before..this has been encouraging. I can evolve to something else that is still fulfilling
Ohhh ❤Angie how I like your listening skills. Everyone talks en when you talk I just want the show to end with you bse I don’t want listen to anyone else.
Mbalaba mutandise okutumanyira 😅. P
The way these ladies react! Someone says eeeeh!" and then rush to rewind to pay attention to the missed point😂 wellnback on topic,
Since I'm not a mother yet, feel like picking up my dear mother and resuming together. Feel like taking her back to school and encourage her chance her dreams
Ladies, ladies ...this was just what I needed to hear. Very timely...thank you for speaking from your heart.
Just loved this episode coz that's me just paused
I needed this so badly .Thank you Bump love.
I will definitely embark on my dreams when my babies are much older .
This just came at right time…l needed to hear this …Putting my career on hold has been devastating but l feel much better after watching this episode. Thank you bumplove ladies🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
You cab pick up at any time as Rosette says. P
Naye nga ye pumla is from another planet,oyo omwana siweuganda😅😂, she's extra real,teli kwekoza
Hahahaa! Life must be lived abeg! P
Thanks ladies for validating my motherhood. I feel like my self esteem has grown.
I feel you. It's tempting to think that being a mum is a waste. But having to raise a good quality citizen for the country...for the world is such a huge role
I am worried about money......, Giving birth in Europe is something else banange.
Na ba chwa 🙌🙌🙌
Omu chaina yakola pumlah teyamucupulamu yadde🤣🤣🤣
OmG these ladies have given me so much hope, thank you very much, I have always bitten myself up that I decided to be a full time housewife and mum and first give my kids the time that they need, but with all the outside noise, I have always felt like a made the wrong decision, but you ladies have surely given me hope that I can still fullfil my dreams and goals at anytime, so thank you very much. #literallytearsinmyeyes
I'm like Rachael. May you have 6 of them
I forgive myself now
Hi Ladies humble request! Kindly asking to know how the five of you met to start this wonderful show.please
Really great episode....I had all these amazing plans but when my child came I gave up a ngo job with a really good pay and everybody thought I was crazy...but in my mind I side I got all this now I can get it all and more again.
I guess today i get to share my story with Bump love. I joined this show just as it had started. I hadn't even thought of when of when am going to have a child. I have seen and took notes off every show. Shared all the videos to those i know they would help. Its now coming to 3mths of motherhood. But you ladies have mothered me in this journey. God bless your beautiful souls. I had a chance to meet Mukyala Nabachwa❤ at my work place @Code Clinic i was at the peak of my morning sickness. She just told me to take one day at a time. Now that this as aired....thank you i was worried about stopping my life for my babies. Thank you am at peace now. I thought when my mom passed i would lack the guidance but thank you because the show has been mom.
Justine love. I'm so happy that you've commenteeeeeeèeeeeeed. Hope to see you soon. I have a tooth problem 😅. P
Pumla I absolutely love your transparency and self awareness. You are so much like a friend of mine, it's crazy how similar your personalities are and I love it!
Haha! I don't know how to be anything else munange. Got me into trouble when I was younger but now that Noone can beat me, I say and do what I want 😂😂😂. P
Every time she speaks I also envision a friend of mine with same demeanor , true to the core, speaks from the heart and very sage nuggets! Yay Pumla🙌🏿
From Kenya loving your shows,the HOSTEL i loved it on our NTV Kenya
Love you right back Naomi. P
Can I meet Pumla she so honest
Thank you so much for today's topic. Pumla...wow....you have helped me make sense of so much. Cheers
Always happy to. P
That's why I plan to have 2 kids and the third one at 43 so that after the 2 leave home, I have someone around
Thanks for the show am learning and unlearning somethings
Eeeeh! but you ladies have brains, I Just want to know what your parents feed on before giving birth. wow wow wow with such conversations we shall get there.
this conversations was indeed so helpful, u deserve medals.
Hahahaaaaa! Our parents are their vegetables and minded their own business 😅. Thanks for this Faima. P
Ambitious mum of a 3 year old. Been "forced" to be a stay at home mum and it was killing me. But this has been encouraging. Gonna be a more focused mum.
Dear Lord I pray I hold my bby one day ..AMEN🙏🙏🙏🙏 thank u.ladies for this inspiring show
Whatever made Pumla to hate marriage I bunt it in Jesus name.. Your a special lady to be someone's wife I declare it to you
Oh SARAH! I'm here for your positivity. Thank you. P
@MANUELA YOU'RE A DOCTOR ALREADY. I TRUST YOU GAL. i admire your enthusiasm.
Pumla is my spirit animal 😂
You ladies help all mothers out here on our journey.... @manuela speaking of lactation places bambi you guys need to do aka episode on that coz bambi.... We have stories
Reached you are wawoooo! Love you.The best moderator.
The way was eagerly waiting for this episode olemwa. Am no.1
Gwe lekka
💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾
Wow, reaching here seeing #Angie smiling 🙏🏻🥰🥰❤️❤️ hloo beautiful people thanks for the uploading
Just know u are mentoring health and confident mums for the next generation
......bless u
Am with Rachael. Motherhood is a calling
This episode has been by far the most important for me being a stay home mom, having paused my career for the kids. This is refreshing.
The episodes keeping getting better. This one blessed me. Gid spoke to me through you all. As a mom of 3 including a two months old, its encouraging to listen to you say all these things.
So for me i gave up the corporate life, for motherhood n no mattter the season i have never regretted.❤
Thx alot for the show, I have learnt much today because am also a victim
Pumla made me subscribe😂😂😂😂
We love our subscribers. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾. P
This is One of the best Bump Conversations I have watched.
I loved it when Mrs. Mulondo talked about organisations setting up child care facilities for women in the workplace then Angie's point on women being there for their kids till a certain age.
Thank you ladies 🤰
I really think it needs to happen
I am cryiiiiiiiing!!! Pumla accepting to give your baby the time, putting your things on hold!!!
Whenever I'm in the bathroom giving my girls a bath, I tell myself "I accept"
Accept and Pause. Don't forget to press Play when the season changes. Kisses to the girls. P
I relate to everything being discussed by the ladies but most importantly I relate to pausing my career growth. For now am taking care of my babies
Oh, this is so wholesome. Honestly can't wait to be a mom 👩
My mother gave me the first 12yrs of my childhood and it is now that I realise its importance
The self esteem, the love, the strong character....
Kudos to her! P
Please share more on this. Like how did her day look like practically. Been struggling with the notion of giving my children my years and feeling like im wasting away. Your help will be highly appreciated
The day I get married,,,then have children....oh Lord...I will have arrived just like Mrs.Mwine
Loved loved loved loved this episode. Thank you for speaking to me. Took a career break and my role got advertised because yes, the company must run with or without you! A colleague reached out to find out more and ‘He’ went like... just one baby blah blah
I was angry at first because of course he couldn’t get it but made peace with it cause I know it will be well in the end.
Thanks ladies for affirming us always💋
It is well Florence. P
Manuela ❤😊
Pumla your from another world🤣🤣🤣 I really love you
Thank you Sharon. Love you toooooooo. P
This is a beautiful discussion ladies. Very timely for my personal journey. I love what Pumla said, that the motherhood journey is what builds you up to be that Director or competent enough to achieve that position. That its all part of the process and not a diversion or a speedbump. Its a good reminder to take every opportunity as a learning opportunity positively because you never know when you will have to apply what you have picked from it.
Such a perfect summary ❤. P
On a journey of having my second child but already afraid of loosing my business
If u have a caring partner.....u can always put a hold to the careers and opportunities for ur children.......but if u are bringing up the child alone it’s had to drop the hustle..........otherwise thank u ladies ,my mind is relaxed....I can resume anytime 😅
It's definitely easier if you have a supportive partner. But even as a single mom, you can alter your lifestyle in a way that it isn't as demanding in that it keeps you away ffok your children indefinitely. Harder but possible. P
Seriously ladies you were directly talking to me and am here clapping hands for you 👏👏
I love pumla, she is vr open😂😂😂
Oh 😔 let me go and meet my girls.i surely feel like Rachael I just feel like I want to go back to school when I see my ogs graduate to another level 🤷
Ladies in bump love whenever I listen to you I feel alive but with my situation pliz advise me ,I didnt see many black boards as you did I lost my parents at an early stage no one came in to further my education which hurts me so much am now a house wife with three kids one boy from my first bf and my two girls with my boy friend now but pliz how can I be happy bcoz am too depressed help me bcoz am nolonger working coz my small business went down due to corvid issues
Yes Rosette. We can pick up anytime. Our children have only one childhood.
Ts Pamla for mi...
Have a talk about single ship
Kale I thought Manuela was the most blunt unitl I listened to Pumla
Hahaahaaa! I have no brakes. 😅. P
This was a great sharing for me. I currently feel like I gave up the leisure of time for other activities like evening chills with the girls, overnight stays at friends... the likes. But it has overtime made me more empathetic to others.
Thank you so much ladies.
I gave up my job for my beautiful children and many people have laughed at me.....
I know there's a time when I will be able to do other things.