Relationship Agreements - The R Spot - Season 3 Episode 8
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- Опубликовано: 8 июл 2024
- The R Spot Season 3 - Episode 8 "Relationship Agreements"
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This makes so much sense. Agreements. Did you agree to have a monogamous relationship? As silly as it sounds but coming to an clear agreement should be done in the beginning no matter what it is about. It's better to know upfront than to go on blindly & end up getting heartbroken. Communicate.
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You are the human whisper.
Thank yoy
Those Four questions for entering a relationship are amazing!!! I am putting those into practice.
I wish i would have had these tools when I was dating. I forgot to ask some of these questions and I assumed. Things ended badly because I was probably unreasonable, but he knew I wasn't interested in sharing. I should have had this discussion prior to intimacy.
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I live in France, and i want to thank you deeply for your great videos and advices...i am not fluent in english, but the fact you speak with your heart (and to the english subtitles 😉), help me to understand and to have another point of view...Thank you so much Madame Iyanla, que l univers, dieu vous bénisse. Avec tout mon respect et ma bienveillance 🙂🙂
J'adore ❤️😊... Je suis American mais je ressens la même chose 🙃
how an agreement works, negotiation. knowing what's acceptable
Definately on point with the monogomy issue. We get so upset if our partner cheats on us but we never had a discussion about it beforehand. We assume monogomy is an unspoken rule/agreement. Unless you are married, it is not. Dont expect monogomy unless it has been agreed upon by both parties in the beginning.
It's your smile at the intro when you wear the flower in your hair 😍
Omg 😯 I didn’t know there had to be an agreement of monogamy in a relationship?!? 😩
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You are amazing!! You are such a wisdom keeper and giver!!
Thank you for this Iyanla. Excellent information to know!!!!
Wow this is good advice.Thank you soo much Aunty Iyanla❤️❤️.I am starting to apply this to my life😊
Excellent as always! I really enjoyed you this past Sunday at Hillside as well. This video is being put in my dating library. One thing I am doing differently as a result of watching your videos is having direct conversations upfront. I am dating in my 50s and this way of communicating really separates the wheat from the chaff real quick! Thank you for all you do!!
Thank thank thank you Iyanla!!!! God bless!!!
Mama Iyanla! Love this. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom with us. Peace and blessings.
Love your look Iyanla! Sooo cute!
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Oh how I wish I had had this information years ago. Well, it’s not too late. Thank you so much.
Yaaaah thx for ur advice
You look beautiful! I am anxiously awaiting your tshirt line! Thank you for always being a blessing!
Great vide! Wish I would have had direction like this decades ago, but NOW I can watch this again and again with the intent to make better choices and better decisions in my relationships. Thank you, Iyanla, for your wisdom!
Great video. thank you so much. my last relationship broke up largely due to not clearly making agreements.
I found a treasure with this channel. I look forward to each video!!
Thank you
So True!!! I ❤this….would have been been such a blessing to have this before my marriage…..am definitely sharing…Thank U So Much ❤
Awesome!
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Love this video
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Just wow🙌🏾 The truly blessed me. I love the practicality of your teachings and leadership. Much Love ❤️ Thank you🙏🏾
lol, @ smashing up on each other. it's just smashing Iyanla
So intrested
If actions speak louder than words, then why do you even have to specify monogamy in a physical intimate relationship? Surely it ought to be implied. We are functioning adults, not children needing behavioural instructions.
Miss Lyanla thank u for all these powerful videos thank u, I have been involved with a man and I only can see him once a month, I don't feel like I am in to a relationship and is this a good sign, he claims there is no one else, I need it help plz
here is a story: i dated someone who never cheated BUT let me tell you!!! ( feeling emotions arising). this person told lies after lies - minor but many, and enough to realize this broke the trust. many ways to break the trust beside cheating. i didnt trust his character that ultimately did not allow me to trust him.
Therefore, the lies interfered in the trust.
i know, i know ( smiling) why was I in a relationship with someone who told lies. Bc i needed to be honest with myself. this was years ago. thank god. got the lesson. love ya iyanla...
Even when you have an agreement some men an women still disrespect the agreement they lie an make excuses and try an turn sh- - around on you.
So be it.
Good Afternoon!
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Hey Iyanla! Thanks for the powerful message and using your abilities, given by Almighty God, to inspire others. I was wondering if you've ever made speeches or videos on privacy in relationships (Is it important?)... Do we have a right to privacy? Do I have to reveal everything to my spouse, even my deepest secrets? Should allow my spouse to read the text messages on my phone or view all my photos anytime?
Do you ever come to Sacramento CA?
Iyanla, please do a bullying series
Is that the 90s singer Sybil in the intro?
Loving this episode, but I do not agree 100% with the comments made in the question of the day. Sometimes accusations of cheating are not deep emotions of insecurity. It is possible that a partner can show signs of infidelity and set off red flags to their partner. While I do not agree that constantly making accusations is helpful, but ignoring one's intuition doesn't work either. How should one confront a partner when they suspect infidelity?
I agree with you a 100 percent. I was going to put this in my comment. We have to ask ourselves what we are doing or if we are doing something that triggers this jaleousy.
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regarding the question of the day.... i don't believe people suspect cheating out of nowhere. he's doing something to give her that thought. even the thought itself can be transferred to his wife and cause her to be suspicious.
azucarmorena5000 nope some people are just plain insecure, think of the many people in emotionally and physically violent relationships. I was young and naive when I met my ex and he was very insecure. and I stupidly at first changed so many things about me because I told myself I must be doing something to make him think that way. Until I realised nothing I did or said would ever satisfy him, Just going out to the post box to post a letter to him meant I was secretly meeting someone, even though it was at the end of the road and would be back in the time it took to get there and back. I found out that's how he was with his ex before me and his girlfriends after me, controlling and possessive. Some people just have low self esteem and have a feeling of unworthiness that they can't accept true love when they get it.
how about betrayal or behavior from him aside from cheating perpetuating this situation--- like a lack of transparency and agreements??? we haven't heard her side.
Iyanla Vanzant, when you're free, come spend a week with me. If you can help even in the least way or maybe not at all and no probs if it doesn't work, I'll do something special. I'm tired of hearing about high profile folk or celebrity's getting the help and/or advice on air time. How about no title, no name, no fame possibly with blame folk like me. Absolutely no disrespect to you, advice on a screen is one thing but a one to one with a real no name is another thing. New subscriber but very tired
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At 13:14 anyone notice she spelt the wrong "you're" not trying to be negative to this vid.. Just pointing out.. & i also love this r spot..
haha...I notice stuff like that too...especially "loose"......we love you Iyanla.!!!
jeffrey palma I doubt Iyanla is the one editing her own videos.
The people responsible for the editing are Kwane Coley & Damon Vanzant
Grace Ncubuka i agree!
Focus on the message.😉
This is why marriages fail !!! Why do you need a third party to resolve issues ? Make your points and let your husband have the last word ...he is the head ,the wife is the neck ...and guess what the neck makes the head to move ..
Miss Iyanla I Love You, but that hairstyle does not bring out your true beauty, it will grow your hair yes, but i am not sure about it on you.