getting out of a school funk

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  • Опубликовано: 27 дек 2024

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  • @sam3959
    @sam3959 2 месяца назад +261

    The way you have this balance of creating this content whilst also maintaining your school work is inspiring :) your vlogs always give me so much motivation

    • @EvaMeloche
      @EvaMeloche  2 месяца назад +13

      Thank you so much 😊

  • @fritzdusseldorff
    @fritzdusseldorff Месяц назад +56

    Beyond refreshing and so impressive to hear a RUclipsr talk as honestly and intelligently about school (and literature) as you do. Your thesis proposal sounds fantastic.

  • @ejjustee
    @ejjustee 2 месяца назад +123

    always inspired by how eloquently you speak and articulate your day-to-day moments for the viewers. very appreciated

  • @celiarose17
    @celiarose17 2 месяца назад +55

    this was so comforting to watch - it's so refreshing and brave of you to speak about not liking school even when you're passionate about the subject, deadlines, how much time it takes up and actually having balance and prioritising your mental health instead of burning out, enjoying life rather than letting school consume you. especially with the toxic culture of academic achievement on social media, this was such a relatable and honest perspective and experience, and beautifully shot as always

  • @chuucake
    @chuucake 2 месяца назад +79

    my comfort channel ever 🩷ྀི

  • @addiebrooks2006
    @addiebrooks2006 2 месяца назад +39

    one of my comfort RUclipsrs, thank you for keeping it raw and honest with us eva

    • @EvaMeloche
      @EvaMeloche  2 месяца назад +4

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @fairykween333
    @fairykween333 2 месяца назад +37

    you're my favorite channel! i'd love to get a sit down video of you going more in-depth about your major and your pros/cons about your department, favorite courses, least favorite courses, and how you're applying your degree to your career goals

  • @BHERSELF
    @BHERSELF 2 месяца назад +55

    The blueprint of editing 🤍you definitely in your own league✨️ Eva

    • @EvaMeloche
      @EvaMeloche  2 месяца назад +8

      Thank u ❤️❤️❤️

  • @carladossantos7765
    @carladossantos7765 2 месяца назад +14

    I have been in a funk recently - nonstop school and work. It is so nice to know I am not alone. Thx for being vulnerable and real!

  • @earthblossom6225
    @earthblossom6225 2 месяца назад +35

    you def need to give yourself more grace/credit for the work you're doing ( which ofc is much more easier said than done) just listening so the things you had to do made me so anxious lol i can totally relate to the paralysis feeling and it in turn makes me riddled with guilt because no work has been done and the anxiety of everything pilling up. had to journal it out and eventually, painfully I made it out. Unfortunately like you said the anxiety of school still permeates life like they'd always be something i could always be doing yk and that stops me from doing the things I want to be doing outside of school cus I create this narrative and excuse that I don't have time to do the things I love which is the worst cycle to be in but yeah introspection and taking it one step at a time is the right way even though at times the tunnel feels never ending ❤️ thank you as always Eva!

  • @wafalyndabendada
    @wafalyndabendada 2 месяца назад +20

    Your videos peak content , ive been watching you for the past 5 years ,you never disappoint with the delivery.
    Lots of love from Algeria ❤️

  • @manuela0003
    @manuela0003 Месяц назад +7

    I also study journalism but in Buenos Aires, and I love seeing you share your readings and thoughts on it! It sometimes feels like sharing intellectual opinions on the internet as a young girl is "weird", or like it puts you under the tagline of "nerdy content creator". But you are a clear example that you can be cool and intellectual at the same time: one can have deep and also more superficial interests at the same time! Both are fun

  • @carolaideee
    @carolaideee 2 месяца назад +12

    this video was so relatable. i too have been so stressed out by school lately and it feels impossible to do anything else without being crushed by anxiety and guilt. :/ i hope we figure it out tho.

  • @ebrutuncay6181
    @ebrutuncay6181 2 месяца назад +3

    Eva’s vlogs give me life🎉She is the best. Love her sharing her thoughts on books. She simply inspires me to read more.

  • @alexandrawild470
    @alexandrawild470 2 месяца назад +4

    i have no idea how youre doing alll of this!! I'm sending you a massive hug 💗💗fuerzaaa

  • @etsukiikanaa
    @etsukiikanaa Месяц назад +1

    I love the way words come out of your little fingers, the way they listen to youd thoughs and obey you in your journey of expressing yourself.

  • @Olivia-fu5ow
    @Olivia-fu5ow Месяц назад

    Eva, your insight from the books you read to your own life is beautiful. Not everyone takes the time to do this. You're going to look back at these times and wish you were back. It's like drinking through a fire hose and that's the point! From my experience, it's all about surrendering to the acedemic process, to your perfection, to everything. And instead, finding the place where you flow through. That's where you'll find the joy again. May you find some more ease in the process! I love your videos, thank you for making them despite the chaos!

  • @joana1684
    @joana1684 2 месяца назад +4

    Watching Eva's vlogs after a long day of school is the best feeling ever! 🤎

  • @zeynebzino
    @zeynebzino 2 месяца назад

    I love how you try to keep a positive attitude/ approach even on those days when nothing seems to be going according to plan. It's inspiring

  • @florencelabrador
    @florencelabrador 2 месяца назад +6

    Yay! In a school funk right now so this is just what I needed 🩷🌟

  • @taraasridharan
    @taraasridharan 2 месяца назад +1

    this is definitely one of my favorite videos you've made! i love the school content, and actually really appreciate hearing all about what you are doing. it's so motivational especially as a college student. also the editing is amazing!!

  • @katherine.ashleyyy
    @katherine.ashleyyy 2 месяца назад +7

    your videos make my whole week 💓💓

  • @jen_gone
    @jen_gone Месяц назад

    wow your whole brainstorming towards the beginning was so like overwhelming? intellectual? it was just the brainstorming and i almost cried haha. and im sure there is more you could brainstorm on that alongside with grief. you're amazing and well spoken! aside from that i'm a little older with full time job and part time studying so i totally get being stuck in funks, cool video !

  • @mwendeee
    @mwendeee Месяц назад

    Your sentiments about your last year remind me so much of my own. 4th year was the busiest year in the entirety of my uni life and together with my thesis and a whole system to develop (I did IT) I often felt like I was losing my mind.
    But going through the madness together with my classmates, and having support from my family, it was bearable. All this to say it's normal to feel all these emotions, every time and all at once. For what it's worth we're all rooting for you and you've got this Eva 💗

  • @elbellexx
    @elbellexx 2 месяца назад +1

    really needed that reminder to change my mindset with school, gratitude goes a long way!

  • @syatime
    @syatime 2 месяца назад +1

    thank you so much! this made my day better after i got notifs for my mid term exam grades, was rlly baddd, sO disappointed at myself but at least i learn something that i wouldn't repeat again in the future, again! thanks for the vids eva:) much loves from korea

  • @emmaweiss4787
    @emmaweiss4787 2 месяца назад

    Eva, I have loved watching your videos for years, and this school year in particular I have found myself channeling you a lot in my everyday life. Your insightfulness and creativity is so inspiring! I have never been so engaged with my school material and motivated to work hard. I know it may sound dramatic, but your videos really do remind me that I love to learn and that I am so privileged to be a university student. It is so easy to get wrapped up in life and forget that.
    Sending you love from Vancouver Island

  • @cheskabalt
    @cheskabalt 2 месяца назад +10

    This made my night💗

  • @tagbon
    @tagbon 2 месяца назад +6

    Thanks for sharing another entertaining and beautiful video despite your funk. I hope you feel on top of your challenges now. I looked up some of the books you mention (Heti, Cusk, Andrews) and all are available at my local library. So I am going to read them, and I will learn and grow and be educated a bit as well, thanks to you ☺

  • @ellen9445
    @ellen9445 2 месяца назад +10

    Just what I needed!

  • @adrimulet5965
    @adrimulet5965 2 месяца назад

    Best channel on RUclips at the moment. Excellent editing, pace and very relaxing. Thank you Eva!

  • @lucykong4649
    @lucykong4649 2 месяца назад +2

    your videos just hit every single time 💗

  • @lilasarchive102
    @lilasarchive102 Месяц назад

    love your videos so much and really appreciate the authenticity!!

  • @CarliCasteel
    @CarliCasteel 2 месяца назад +1

    i always feel smarter and inspired after watching your vids !!

  • @mel6691
    @mel6691 Месяц назад

    I absolutely relate! Thank you for sharing your experiences and talking about this. I've had a very similar situation with my laptop right when school started and I had a lot of Deadlines for video editing for my part time job. I felt like i wasn't in control anymore and was duper stressed out. I appreciate your authenticity and sharing such a difficult moment!!

  • @biglpsfan
    @biglpsfan 2 месяца назад

    with an essay due today and 3 exams next week uni finals season has me in a funk too - this video came at the perfect time, thank you for keeping it real, so refreshing and glad you're feeling better! would love your opinions on the glossier perfumes as they aren't in stores in AU yet!

  • @LucíaRevenga
    @LucíaRevenga Месяц назад

    No but my computer also broke last week and everything decided to stop working as well, so my mental stability is hanging by.a thread. I felt so seen watching this video, and also hearing you talk about your honours proposal so in depth was so interesting! Best of luck to get over the funk!

  • @JoshuaBarrish
    @JoshuaBarrish 2 месяца назад

    Also I love your videos you always know how to make me smile, it’s so chill and fun starting a channel.

  • @filipataylor3221
    @filipataylor3221 2 месяца назад

    Love the college videos, they always motivate me to do my own uni work :)

  • @anushkatripathi4961
    @anushkatripathi4961 Месяц назад

    Haven’t someone told you that you are the best ❤❤❤

  • @lilacayed3410
    @lilacayed3410 Месяц назад

    you're in 500k now 🥺💓

  • @marianachajon6987
    @marianachajon6987 Месяц назад +1

    Omg I'm also taking a Romanticism class this semester and ALSO feel like an idiot...you can do this!!!

  • @celesteao
    @celesteao 2 месяца назад +4

    hi eva! i loveeee your videos as always, this one is really comforting as i'm also trying to get out of a school funk! as for your final essay about motherhood/ grief you have to read 'Blue Nights' by Joan Didion. I know you've already mentioned it because you read 'A year of magical thinking' but i’m not sure if you’ve had a chance to dive into Blue Nights yet. if not i'm positive it could be a great addition/ help to your work. xx

    • @EvaMeloche
      @EvaMeloche  2 месяца назад +2

      Such an amazing book!!! It’ll def be a reference xx thanks angel

  • @gracecesty4920
    @gracecesty4920 2 месяца назад +2

    Perfect timing!! 🎀

  • @CarliCasteel
    @CarliCasteel 2 месяца назад

    favorite youtuber ever

  • @gabrielazamora-p4j
    @gabrielazamora-p4j Месяц назад

    thank you for talking about this!! Im feeling the same too

  • @-yukthaLBL
    @-yukthaLBL 2 месяца назад +3

    Loving your videos ❤

  • @stephanicleanthous8017
    @stephanicleanthous8017 2 месяца назад +1

    could you do a video with your top book recommendations? love your videos, lots of love from Frankfurt

  • @emmaegelski
    @emmaegelski 2 месяца назад

    hi eva! this was released at the most perfect time, i've been in a rut/funk too. thank you for this video! i love it! also, i'm not sure if you've ever had to withdrawl from a class, but do you (or anyone in the comments) have any suggestions with how to deal with having to drop a class, especially one that matters for your major/that really matters to me? xx

  • @chdalison
    @chdalison Месяц назад

    If you end up writing about illness in your final essay using ‘Vindications’ I definitely recommend looking into Susan Sontag’s Ilness as a Metaphor as a potential secondary source- it sounds relevant to those ideas you were pulling out :)

  • @sherylneptune
    @sherylneptune Месяц назад

    Watching this and it's taking me back to university days. I used to study English and my friends and I formed an English group where we'd meet in our library common area and talk about things we were reading in class and poetry and linguistics because sometimes someone understood a concept and could help someone. Maybe try discuss some things with your peers especially the poetry and hopefully it'll help you with some of the work you need to cover.

  • @mishkaromanelli7771
    @mishkaromanelli7771 2 месяца назад

    Needed this rn

  • @cadi5497
    @cadi5497 2 месяца назад +2

    “Hey Siri” so real

  • @ellalongwe-smit207
    @ellalongwe-smit207 2 месяца назад

    Love your videos , such an inspiration x love from South Africa

  • @olimpiahillmore
    @olimpiahillmore Месяц назад

    Your pure and innocent beauty, your way of speaking, your dressing up, the way you sit and stand, the way you walk, your smile, your sense of humor, the food you eat, the places you go, your elegance, your politeness all prove that you are a high-level aristocrat girl.
    probably your ancestors comes from a French Royal Dynasties💛❤
    which one you come from?
    - Angevin Dynasty?
    - House of The Borgias?
    - De Montgolfier Dynasty?
    - Salignac De La Mothe-Fénelon Dynasty?
    - House of Goullet De Rugy?
    - Villehardouin Dynasty?
    - Châteaudun Dynasty?
    my last question:
    Is your blood Blue or Red?

  • @elodievonmansberg422
    @elodievonmansberg422 Месяц назад

    Hey Eva I love your videos you’re so inspiring!!! I just wanted to know where the Pyjama is from that you wear

  • @shanequinichett425
    @shanequinichett425 2 месяца назад +1

    When mid-terms are around the corner, they seem to slam us with loads of assignments that are due on the day of the exam or not long before it.

  • @elladerlachter4714
    @elladerlachter4714 2 месяца назад +2

    I'm from mtl too and I love ur vids 💗

  • @chrissyosozzy6465
    @chrissyosozzy6465 2 месяца назад +3

    Dont forget to integrate the different types of beauty standards in your schoolwork, in many countries they force feed girls and for example the bbl epidemic how it ties to beauty politics and appropriation through culture shifts and media. Also the fetishiation of different races asian/ black and class(veneers, skin lightning, double eyelid, cancer from hair relaxers, the modern bbl(still bbl but subtle) By only focussing on one Beauty standard/ skinny you leave out a big chunk of the female experience

    • @EvaMeloche
      @EvaMeloche  2 месяца назад +2

      That’s super interesting!! Ofc there is more than one beauty standard - I’m writing in relation to Milk Teeth which is centred around eating disorders which is why I mentioned that beauty standard because it’s in line with my thesis’ focus :)

  • @angelina-cp6jn
    @angelina-cp6jn 2 месяца назад

    godddd i love ur videos so much

  • @Mdegand
    @Mdegand 2 месяца назад

    Jess Zimmerman's "Hunger Makes Me" is a MUST READ

  • @delamarespenesin2718
    @delamarespenesin2718 2 месяца назад

    Watching your videos makes me wanna start reading physical books. Please make recommendations book to read as a first time reader pls plssss.

  • @librasonfilm
    @librasonfilm 2 месяца назад

    love the new vid

  • @alecsperber1447
    @alecsperber1447 2 месяца назад +2

    Eva you're my comfort you're my idol I love your vlogs I wish I could give you the biggest hug I love you 🩵🩵

  • @miacarr8891
    @miacarr8891 Месяц назад

    I always look forward to your videos. Where did you get your planner from? I am trying to switch to a physical planner instead of google calendar

  • @eligiagolembieski7268
    @eligiagolembieski7268 2 месяца назад +2

    Hey Eva! I love love your videos!! Just a question, do u usually return the clothes to the sponsors? I can see you usually get many clothes from them and I was wondering if you get to keep them. And if so, how do u have enough space hahah xx

    • @EvaMeloche
      @EvaMeloche  2 месяца назад +2

      Sometimes! I only pick things I really like and share a bunch with my mom/sister/friends xx thank you 🫶🏼

  • @icedmatchalatteM
    @icedmatchalatteM 2 месяца назад

    Favorite RUclipsr 💓

  • @MillieGracex
    @MillieGracex 2 месяца назад

    where’s your top from at 17:10

  • @Iris-uc3fi
    @Iris-uc3fi 2 месяца назад +4

    J’espère que tu peux lire le français et peut être que grâce à ça tu me remarqueras. Pourrais tu consacrer une vidéo à la lecture ? Ça nous intéresserait tellement de savoir comment tu fais pour lire AUTANT de livres AUSSI vite et en même temps réussir à en tirer quelque chose de concret et d’utile pour tes devoirs… De plus si tu veux nous partager des lectures qui ont été « life changing » pour toi, ce serait génial ❤‍🩹. D’ailleurs merci pour ce que tu nous proposes, tu es la seule chaîne que je regarde et qui me donne envie de me pousser à être productive, à travailler et à en même temps ne pas me laisser submerger… My safe place foreverrrrr

  • @user-jm1hl8ov9s
    @user-jm1hl8ov9s Месяц назад

    Where is your leather jacket from?? omg it's so gorg

  • @paulinemerle234
    @paulinemerle234 Месяц назад

    It intrigued me so much the way you talked about your essay on Jean Cocteau's Human Voice. Would love to read it! Is there any way you can share it?

  • @sunxbloom_
    @sunxbloom_ 2 месяца назад +2

    Super random but I love your bedsheets, where are they from? Much love!❤

    • @EvaMeloche
      @EvaMeloche  2 месяца назад +2

      Brook Linen!! Thank you

  • @rhythmicelegance4670
    @rhythmicelegance4670 2 месяца назад

    My Macbook Pro went out the window too this year, also before I was ready to replace it. Had to use it with a t.v. as a screen toward the end just to squeeze out the last bit of function it had remaining. 😖😓

  • @skyemorton7777
    @skyemorton7777 2 месяца назад

    I would love to read that honors thesis

  • @luukje
    @luukje 2 месяца назад

    oh my goddd i missed watching ur videos

  • @zeinaabughosh6345
    @zeinaabughosh6345 Месяц назад

    what camera were you using at 0:08 ?

  • @Jules-matcha
    @Jules-matcha Месяц назад

    mama meloche is so funny (16:09)

  • @gabrielazamora-p4j
    @gabrielazamora-p4j Месяц назад

    how do you prepare your matcha?

  • @JoshuaBarrish
    @JoshuaBarrish 2 месяца назад

    What are your best advice for learning French since I am a beginner and have studied it as an elective in my uni. I want to learn while I’m on my break before I start my animation course next week.

  • @abbyhunter3123
    @abbyhunter3123 2 месяца назад

    That’s crazy, last week how I was in a funk and kept saying I was in a funk because I spilled matcha in my bag and my laptop broke too! Coincidence!

  • @ramatoulayesow9335
    @ramatoulayesow9335 2 месяца назад

    hey Eva what kinda program you do ? also love your videos

  • @autumnpauleyy
    @autumnpauleyy 2 месяца назад +2

    In genuine shock of how small your handwriting is

  • @colette5742
    @colette5742 Месяц назад

    Where is your black leather jacket from?

  • @tayylorayyne
    @tayylorayyne Месяц назад

    Where is the pj set from?!

  • @luisacaser2208
    @luisacaser2208 Месяц назад

    Here are the names of the books she talked about: Motherhood, Milk Teeth and Kuddos

  • @paszczkabrygida7216
    @paszczkabrygida7216 2 месяца назад

    what breed is your dog? sorry for spelling english is not my first langauge by the way i love all your videos been watching since 3 years it helped me so much with english i love you eva you are amazing

  • @nicolaemiliano2272
    @nicolaemiliano2272 2 месяца назад

    BEL VIDEO EVA COMPLIMENTI CIAO BELLISSIMA UN BACIONE DA AMSTERDAM 😍😍😍

  • @jupitired777
    @jupitired777 12 дней назад

    ♥️

  • @kara9049
    @kara9049 Месяц назад

    What is the name of the book about mourning not having children???

  • @pddddlgggg1
    @pddddlgggg1 Месяц назад

    I have been in a funk recently as well- Just exactly the same shit.... work work work & other business i have. No friends, no boyfriend. Just rushing and not enjoying. I'm trying to get out from here.

  • @Hellohello12678
    @Hellohello12678 2 месяца назад +2

    Woww how do you write so tinyy

  • @korpetirpan830
    @korpetirpan830 2 месяца назад

    ❤❤

  • @rachelhay456
    @rachelhay456 2 месяца назад +2

    whats your matcha order

  • @jellyfish686
    @jellyfish686 Месяц назад

    可愛い洋服です(⁠=⁠`⁠ェ⁠´⁠=⁠)

  • @pollygrassi9794
    @pollygrassi9794 Месяц назад

    Hi Eva! Loved the vlog, it really motivated me to get back on my study grind! 🤍 I can’t stop thinking about your loafers with buckles on them, I’ve been looking for a good pair of loafers and they are perfect!! Could you please share where I can get them!

  • @ginamarretto
    @ginamarretto Месяц назад

    badly needed this! thank you, eva. you don't know how much this means to me 🥹❤

  • @gaiarocco1565
    @gaiarocco1565 Месяц назад

    omg eva i was about to recommend mary Wollstonecraft to you, but even happier that you found it on your own :))