I fully agree with you hun. A lot of those people we try and pass for are living a life they hate wishing they had the courage to do what they are really passionate about. No one escapes the fear of not fitting in. Plenty of accountants or lawyers or doctors that wish they were authors or actors or social workers though had to do what was expected of them by society. If we were inside the eye of the observer we would realise that they aren't judging us because we look different - they are envious of us because we are authentic. We have to be the change we want to see in the world. Being trans can be a blessing or a curse, it is entirely up to the individual. It's not easy being authentic though being false comes with a lot of extra dead cats that I refuse to carry around for someone else. In 100 years from now we will all be dust in the wind. No one gets out of life alive. Live it, be true and do harm to none. Your courage gives me courage. Thank you. xo
LOVE your thoughts. I would only change my appearance for myself, but I agree that we need to LOVE OURSELVES first and foremost, regardless how we appear, or any other aspect of our identities. I WOULD like to pass, but for me, not for society. Blessings to you.
Beautiful, confident, and inspirational as always 💜 it’s exciting to see how far you’ve come! That depressed drive to conform early on is so real... Still struggle with that every now and again but thankfully not nearly as much
Every thing is a change .. Using makeup Hair color Surgeries Voice Diets & all It’s all the in the same category . We changing our self to look better to survive or to feel accepted ..
I have watched countless transition videos and you are by far the most helpful in terms of breaking down the barriers of society and how conforming seems to dictate how we feel we should look based on what people expert as apposed to them accepting who we are...I like to be fluid and I don't think there is a spectrum complex enough to label what I am at any one time...the biggest issue some people face (at least here in the UK) is that in order to receive HRT treatment on the NHS, it takes about 2 years and they want to see evidence that you have come out socially to friends family work etc...as if we are expected to dress as how society perceives a stereo typical "female"...anyway, I love your honesty in your videos and hope you continue to make more! x
Dear @Corey Bilous , I want to thank you for bringing attention these points for all to notice and realizing what does it mean to be happy. Like you said, if we do too much then it wouldn't work out what we desire the most. That's why there are big things that always comes in small packages. Keep up the excellent work and do what makes you happy. Thank you and take care
I for one and many other girls feel just like you do. We're not alone and have each other to help with our journey. One other girl noted that you just don't get there overnight. It's a life time journey. Which is great because every morning when I wake up, I know I'm just a little bit closer to my real self. You are so beautiful. I doubt you will ever need a surgery. Thank you so much for this enlightening video.
Thank-you for your thought provoking words, Corey. I cannot think of anything that you said that I would disagree with strongly. I would like to add the thought that perhaps we could try to look back at any ignorance in the world around us, with a compassion which is often absent in its perception of us. Understandably, this will always be a struggle. Love and Peace to you all. M xXx
You're right... Changing yourself is like a band-aid for self esteem issues. Suffering by being rejected by others forces you learn how to love yourself no matter what
I love aestheticness and many feminine things are beautiful, not sloppy and thereby more true. Simplicity->Beauty->Truth->Love. Looking feminine is more that then anything.
In a sense everything our mind creates is true. My body does not rule my mind. My mind rules my body. My minds creates my body and honey, it is good. : )
Even if you don`t like to read this but there are labels for a reason in our society. Please don`t except the society to adapt to your reality. For very good reasons this will never happen. Having said this I wish you all the support and love by your loved ones on your difficult journey.
Happy to see you have a new outlook on life. I’ve felt the same way about myself for awhile now because of James and you. You guys help me accept myself for who I wanted to be. I like to be honest with others and myself(I find it easier to get to the chase that way)...I know I’ll never pass as a real female, but that’s not a bad thing because of James and you I’ve learned to walk on the gray line of life....not just a man and not just a woman..but something else...myself and I couldn’t be happier. Thank you and glad to see a new video keep up the awesome work. 🤗
Hi Denise, I also thought for a very long time I would never pass as a real female. And a lot of amazing things have happened that I can hardly believe. Please don't underestimate what you can do. Look in the mirror everyday a see a whole new you. Believe in yourself. With a positive mind you can do ANYTHING!
You're back! I'm so happy to see you again!!! You look good girl! I'm so glad to hear you and you're partner are happy together! I look forward to your next vid 😄
Кори ты всё правильно сказал.Как бы мы не пытались влиться в общество оно нас не поймет. А мы всего лишь хотим того же что и остальные -счастья своего но счастья.Операция это шаг к тому чтобы приобрести хоть какую нибудь уверенность в себе.Быть хотя бы эстетически похожими на общее число людей.Это не решает все проблемы но хотя бы приносит психологическое равновесие.Да люди не понимают и не поймут этого, потому что они не испытывают это на себе как испытываем мы. И обществу трудно объяснить то что им не дано испытать. Не расстраивайся! Всё будет нормально! Я всегда рад видеть тебя и твоего друга. Удачи и терпения!
So true. Great video. I have a rule that I'm not allowed to change anything about myself if it's coming from a place of shame. I'm lucky that my dysphoria isn't strong enough to be completely debilitating so I can do this. I know others can't. My transition has been slower because of this but each change has been because I wanted it for myself rather than for someone else and that journey has felt a lot stronger in the long run for me.
Yes!! Thanks for the courage to say what's on your mind and heart, Corey. I believe the point you're trying to get across about if we're trying to put so much emphasis on trying to fit into the "perfect feminine mold" of sorts, then it's like throwing off one form of stereotyping for another. And though, I won't necessarily call myself trans, I have and still go through a lot of gender dysphoria, and it's a great weight for me - for myself at least - to try to put off things & characteristics of my body that's male, and trying to changing myself to be more feminine in all of these stereo typical ways. And when I do that, I find that I put so much pressure and weight on myself to achieve a certain level of traditional view of femininity/womanhood. Great job Corey!
I can totally relate to what you're saying and it's been on my mind lately. After reading Sissy, by Jacob Tobia, I felt really motivated to not do some of the things I think I've been socialized to think I would "need" to do. I got excited to break gender norms and show people that we can exist in whatever form truly makes us feel happy and whole. Thanks for sharing! Love you and your content!
Ik u know but I just wanted to say that u are perfect the way u are as is everyone else. I'm so proud of u for coming to this realization it really is a huge turning point :)
Always doing things for yourself, not for anybody, including your partner, if you are happy with what you are right now, that's good and enough, in the future, if you need something else, go ahead and do it if that makes you happy.
I understand exactly what you're saying and I am totally riveted to this conversation. I'm so glad you're saying these things. I'm someone who struggles with a sort of blah level of dysphoria and I think I might be genderfluid as well or at least genderqueer or whatever. I'm just so confused and it's really helpful to hear your perspective on this stuff. Self-love, acceptance, taking steps for the right reasons, not feeding the machine that is just chewing us up...thank you!
I definitely get where you are coming from. I stayed in the closet for a very long time, so I spent a lot of time trying to force myself to present a certain way in order to blend in. When I first came out, I overcorrected and tried to be a lot more femme than I wanted to be because I felt I had to sort of fit in with traditional feminine styles. Lot of skirts and dresses. But then I realized that I'm more comfortable being femme but also a little bit masculine, and if I don't allow myself to express that as well, then fundamentally its no different than when I was suppressing all my feminine side as a guy. If I was to ever reach true self love, I had to be able to express myself completely.
I don't pluck the face. I did, in combination with laser, and I found that if you don't, then the beard doesn't grow back nearly as much. Like, a hair here and there. But if I pluck, it comes back in patches. It takes a while for the beard to get to the point where it's just 5 hairs here and there, but, if you don't pluck, it'll stay that way between treatments.
The only thing you need to change is what you feel you need to feel good about yourself, to feel the way you want to feel, it is all about you. Who cares what others think. Do it for your self and that’s it
not sure if you'll ever read this Corey, but like this video was really helpful. I'm trying to figure out how I can "be my true self" I feel that going through a transition is what I want but I'm also so terrified because I'm so boxed in as a "manly" looking human. It would mean a huge amount if you could post a video on how to build that self-confidence! cheers xx
I get where you’re coming from and I’m glad you’ve learned to accept yourself as you are. For me, I really just can’t stand my face and need to see myself as female when I look in the mirror. As far as other surgeries, they are kind of whatever to me. I’m getting FFS this October after four years of transitioning, and I’ve never been more excited or nervous for anything.
The illness you speak of regarding implants is for textured implants. We must be clear about what is happening, the textured implants were highly favored bc the textured surface would latch on to the flesh and keep the implants in place better. you wouldn't get those ripples or pulling after a while. Unfortunately the textured surface brought its own downside to the equation.
Don't get surgery and think things are gonna change. Change or accept things first, then look if you still want or even need any surgeries. Anyway - Great vid and good for you 👍
On of my absolute highest wishes is that no little kids in the future must to go throu that phase where adult people expect them to be magically transformed into something else then they are, and blaming them as standing out as "anomalies". (i know that from my own experience too, but i try not to be bitter or think to much about it now it only drags one self down doing so i think, one need to proceed forward, but still i hope the general mindset will change among people one day so other kids does not need to go throu that).
Hi Corey great to see you doing you videos been so long. I am Ashleigh an Aussie transgender MtF. I fully understand that we are trying to fit into society. I am having my SRS in November I have always suffered with genital dysphoria . But having SRS will not make me fit into society because I still look a little bit trans, so I don't care about society, it is my genital dysphoria I know will go away. You Look great beuatifull as always luv Ashleigh 💖
Ever heard that saying "talk to the mirror"? You don't have to justify to us how, or what you should do to make you happy in life. Personally I think your beautiful as you are
Corey, you look great. My .02: You have a beautiful girl face and surgery might actually mess your beauty up! I hope you realize your videos are critical to those of us actively transitioning! I've missed you immensely. Please find the time to produce videos, some of us depend on them!,,,,,,,,LOVE YOU GIRL!!...Sophia
Hi Corey I am an Aussie transgender. I know actually what you are talking about but the problem is, as much as I try to accept who I am I still want to be more female or born female. We as transgender humans will always want to be what we aren't because we are just simply born in the wrong body and are biologically the wrong gender. I don't know any transgender person who accepts what they are. Just my thoughts great to see you back and your videos with Dave. xx Ashleigh 💖
I would like to thank you for your perspective and your self awareness for your personal transition. I disagree with respect to any surgical enhancements that one would like for self. For example: Unlike you, I identify as trans feminine. Not a trans woman. For my own perspective and self awareness, I am already happy and beautiful within myself. And, I am blessed that I have the opportunity to enhance myself in anyway I connect with. This adds to my own personal way of physical expression. My esthetic is different. Will I look or act like anyone else?....no thank you. Will I enhance my esthetic similarly to others? Possibly....because that is what I connect with. To say don’t make changes with surgeries because it’s what society wants or dictates, restricts self expression. How about....your message and approach for your own journey is to refrain from surgical procedures to enhance your external appearance and that you support others who choose to do so. Notice, you still wear makeup, lighten your hair, select feminine clothing, manicure your nails and skin. All of those actions are exactly what society has dictated is necessary to be feminine “passable”. There are layers to self expression. There are layers to transitioning. All are different....and all are beautiful. Let’s just support, encourage and appreciate. I apologize if I come across offensive or upset you in anyway. I am just expressing one perspective of a sea full of many perspectives. You are beautiful however you want to present, express or enhance. Congrats on your journey of transitioning. I enjoy your videos very much. Hugs, -V
As a visibly male trans woman, no, I have not even gotten to visibly trans, even though what you say is mathematically correct, I find that only people who are visibly beautiful, perfectly cis privileged, are really able to say it. It’s like a white person asking black people what they are complaining about.
This world unfortunately judges you on what you look like...no matter who or what you are. It's just a fact if you're a good looking person you get treated better. .sad but true😧
I'm not happy with the way I look. I've never been, just because I'm in the wrong body. It has nothing to do with anyone else, other than jelousy. For me.
While we agree that surgeries which are just to appease society shouldn’t be required for happiness, when they help deal with dysphoria directly they can be useful. We want nothing to do with the front-mounted bottom-dwelling painful liability any longer than we need to.
Ok. Girl I have been on hormone therapy for about 9 months. I am so happy you have decided against breast implants. l have developed some very nice soft breasts. With the right outfits and makeup l feel very passable without the knife.
I fully agree with you hun. A lot of those people we try and pass for are living a life they hate wishing they had the courage to do what they are really passionate about. No one escapes the fear of not fitting in. Plenty of accountants or lawyers or doctors that wish they were authors or actors or social workers though had to do what was expected of them by society. If we were inside the eye of the observer we would realise that they aren't judging us because we look different - they are envious of us because we are authentic. We have to be the change we want to see in the world. Being trans can be a blessing or a curse, it is entirely up to the individual. It's not easy being authentic though being false comes with a lot of extra dead cats that I refuse to carry around for someone else. In 100 years from now we will all be dust in the wind. No one gets out of life alive. Live it, be true and do harm to none. Your courage gives me courage. Thank you. xo
Hi Corey, your wisdom, insight and courage to share is amazing. Please know that you are touching hearts and minds. Take care and enjoy your day😊
LOVE your thoughts. I would only change my appearance for myself, but I agree that we need to LOVE OURSELVES first and foremost, regardless how we appear, or any other aspect of our identities. I WOULD like to pass, but for me, not for society. Blessings to you.
Beautiful, confident, and inspirational as always 💜 it’s exciting to see how far you’ve come! That depressed drive to conform early on is so real... Still struggle with that every now and again but thankfully not nearly as much
you are beautiful, just be you!
Every thing is a change ..
Using makeup
Hair color
Surgeries
Voice
Diets & all
It’s all the in the same category .
We changing our self to look better to survive or to feel accepted ..
I have watched countless transition videos and you are by far the most helpful in terms of breaking down the barriers of society and how conforming seems to dictate how we feel we should look based on what people expert as apposed to them accepting who we are...I like to be fluid and I don't think there is a spectrum complex enough to label what I am at any one time...the biggest issue some people face (at least here in the UK) is that in order to receive HRT treatment on the NHS, it takes about 2 years and they want to see evidence that you have come out socially to friends family work etc...as if we are expected to dress as how society perceives a stereo typical "female"...anyway, I love your honesty in your videos and hope you continue to make more! x
I needed this. Thanks so much! I feel so good when I focus on being me rather than focusing on how I don't look like other girls I admire.
2 years later and your voice is amazing and you are stunning to look at
Dear @Corey Bilous ,
I want to thank you for bringing attention these points for all to notice and realizing what does it mean to be happy. Like you said, if we do too much then it wouldn't work out what we desire the most. That's why there are big things that always comes in small packages. Keep up the excellent work and do what makes you happy.
Thank you and take care
Looking good girl
I for one and many other girls feel just like you do. We're not alone and have each other to help with
our journey. One other girl noted that you just don't get there overnight. It's a life time journey.
Which is great because every morning when I wake up, I know I'm just a little bit closer to my real self.
You are so beautiful. I doubt you will ever need a surgery.
Thank you so much for this enlightening video.
You are already Gorgeous Girl!!!!! Put the surgeries away!!! You are a inspiration 💅💖
Thank-you for your thought provoking words, Corey. I cannot think of anything that you said that I would disagree with strongly. I would like to add the thought that perhaps we could try to look back at any ignorance in the world around us, with a compassion which is often absent in its perception of us. Understandably, this will always be a struggle.
Love and Peace to you all. M xXx
You’re beautiful..wishing you all the best!
u look great with both light and dark hair as well. ur soo pretty. hugs, vanessa
You're right... Changing yourself is like a band-aid for self esteem issues. Suffering by being rejected by others forces you learn how to love yourself no matter what
I love aestheticness and many feminine things are beautiful, not sloppy and thereby more true. Simplicity->Beauty->Truth->Love. Looking feminine is more that then anything.
In a sense everything our mind creates is true. My body does not rule my mind. My mind rules my body. My minds creates my body and honey, it is good. : )
You look great, Corey! Congratulations on your (over) 2 years, sister!
Even if you don`t like to read this but there are labels for a reason in our society. Please don`t except the society to adapt to your reality. For very good reasons this will never happen. Having said this I wish you all the support and love by your loved ones on your difficult journey.
THANK YOU SO MUCH!! Help me to see the core of transition is to make you happy not everyone else ...to find and love yourself.
Happy to see you have a new outlook on life. I’ve felt the same way about myself for awhile now because of James and you. You guys help me accept myself for who I wanted to be.
I like to be honest with others and myself(I find it easier to get to the chase that way)...I know I’ll never pass as a real female, but that’s not a bad thing because of James and you I’ve learned to walk on the gray line of life....not just a man and not just a woman..but something else...myself and I couldn’t be happier. Thank you and glad to see a new video keep up the awesome work. 🤗
Hi Denise,
I also thought for a very long time I would never pass as a real female. And a lot of amazing things have happened that I can hardly believe.
Please don't underestimate what you can do. Look in the mirror everyday a see a whole new you.
Believe in yourself.
With a positive mind you can do ANYTHING!
You're back! I'm so happy to see you again!!! You look good girl! I'm so glad to hear you and you're partner are happy together! I look forward to your next vid 😄
Dear, you dont need to fit in society... you are society. As you are. Be confident... you are so great (sorry for my german english )
Кори ты всё правильно сказал.Как бы мы не пытались влиться в общество оно нас не поймет. А мы всего лишь хотим того же что и остальные -счастья своего но счастья.Операция это шаг к тому чтобы приобрести хоть какую нибудь уверенность в себе.Быть хотя бы эстетически похожими на общее число людей.Это не решает все проблемы но хотя бы приносит психологическое равновесие.Да люди не понимают и не поймут этого, потому что они не испытывают это на себе как испытываем мы. И обществу трудно объяснить то что им не дано испытать. Не расстраивайся! Всё будет нормально! Я всегда рад видеть тебя и твоего друга. Удачи и терпения!
So true. Great video. I have a rule that I'm not allowed to change anything about myself if it's coming from a place of shame. I'm lucky that my dysphoria isn't strong enough to be completely debilitating so I can do this. I know others can't. My transition has been slower because of this but each change has been because I wanted it for myself rather than for someone else and that journey has felt a lot stronger in the long run for me.
Yes!! Thanks for the courage to say what's on your mind and heart, Corey.
I believe the point you're trying to get across about if we're trying to put so much emphasis on trying to fit into the "perfect feminine mold" of sorts, then it's like throwing off one form of stereotyping for another. And though, I won't necessarily call myself trans, I have and still go through a lot of gender dysphoria, and it's a great weight for me - for myself at least - to try to put off things & characteristics of my body that's male, and trying to changing myself to be more feminine in all of these stereo typical ways. And when I do that, I find that I put so much pressure and weight on myself to achieve a certain level of traditional view of femininity/womanhood.
Great job Corey!
I can totally relate to what you're saying and it's been on my mind lately. After reading Sissy, by Jacob Tobia, I felt really motivated to not do some of the things I think I've been socialized to think I would "need" to do. I got excited to break gender norms and show people that we can exist in whatever form truly makes us feel happy and whole. Thanks for sharing! Love you and your content!
Ik u know but I just wanted to say that u are perfect the way u are as is everyone else. I'm so proud of u for coming to this realization it really is a huge turning point :)
You're looking super great!
Always doing things for yourself, not for anybody, including your partner, if you are happy with what you are right now, that's good and enough, in the future, if you need something else, go ahead and do it if that makes you happy.
I understand exactly what you're saying and I am totally riveted to this conversation. I'm so glad you're saying these things. I'm someone who struggles with a sort of blah level of dysphoria and I think I might be genderfluid as well or at least genderqueer or whatever. I'm just so confused and it's really helpful to hear your perspective on this stuff. Self-love, acceptance, taking steps for the right reasons, not feeding the machine that is just chewing us up...thank you!
your so right i am being myself and i keep finding more and more of myself and i love that :) you look great and beautiful
You could not have articulated my own feelings, any more clear or lovingly. You Rock. xo
God Bless you. LOVE. is the only answer/way!
I definitely get where you are coming from. I stayed in the closet for a very long time, so I spent a lot of time trying to force myself to present a certain way in order to blend in. When I first came out, I overcorrected and tried to be a lot more femme than I wanted to be because I felt I had to sort of fit in with traditional feminine styles. Lot of skirts and dresses. But then I realized that I'm more comfortable being femme but also a little bit masculine, and if I don't allow myself to express that as well, then fundamentally its no different than when I was suppressing all my feminine side as a guy. If I was to ever reach true self love, I had to be able to express myself completely.
I agree with you 100%, love you.
Girl, you look so amazing and gorgeous!
A very perceptive understanding of the “adaptation process”. It will make the challenges bigger but maybe also make “real societal” changes Bravo!
You look fantastic! After a lot of difficult times you are amazing now
Happy for you girly, and I'll be starting hormones in September. So. If hugs!
Ugh.. you're so beautiful it hurts! Soooo jelly!
♥️🕊🙏🏻
Thanks for your inspiring words sweetie. You became an even stronger woman than ever before. And appear so authentic. Happy to see you like that. x*x*
I don't pluck the face. I did, in combination with laser, and I found that if you don't, then the beard doesn't grow back nearly as much. Like, a hair here and there. But if I pluck, it comes back in patches. It takes a while for the beard to get to the point where it's just 5 hairs here and there, but, if you don't pluck, it'll stay that way between treatments.
The only thing you need to change is what you feel you need to feel good about yourself, to feel the way you want to feel, it is all about you. Who cares what others think. Do it for your self and that’s it
You look spe ktacular and you Do Not need surgery, especially for your face. You're pretty as you are
not sure if you'll ever read this Corey, but like this video was really helpful. I'm trying to figure out how I can "be my true self" I feel that going through a transition is what I want but I'm also so terrified because I'm so boxed in as a "manly" looking human. It would mean a huge amount if you could post a video on how to build that self-confidence! cheers xx
Your beautiful all you ever have to do is be your self 👍❤️
You don't need ffs darling, you are beautiful, love to ya xx
Girl what 🤤 you look so beautiful !! Sorry that was my first thought watching the intro 😘❤️
Thank you
YES 👏 QUEEN 👏 I👏LOVE👏YOU🧡
WOW, i love your video, amazing and soo thoughtful, but i have to say you are beautiful and you are an inspiration!
I love your videos soooooooo much, they help me alot so thank you , you're truly someone too look up to and you should be proud of yourself:)
Thanks. I'll have to try and digest/contemplate what you're saying.
Corey VS bombshell bra and the Up bra sounds like a better option when you need to show more🥀
I get where you’re coming from and I’m glad you’ve learned to accept yourself as you are. For me, I really just can’t stand my face and need to see myself as female when I look in the mirror. As far as other surgeries, they are kind of whatever to me. I’m getting FFS this October after four years of transitioning, and I’ve never been more excited or nervous for anything.
I seriously can't get over how alike we look. Same hair, even... But, opposite clothing styles. Absolutely crazy...
The illness you speak of regarding implants is for textured implants. We must be clear about what is happening, the textured implants were highly favored bc the textured surface would latch on to the flesh and keep the implants in place better. you wouldn't get those ripples or pulling after a while. Unfortunately the textured surface brought its own downside to the equation.
:) Nice transition.
Don't get surgery and think things are gonna change.
Change or accept things first, then look if you still want or even need any surgeries.
Anyway -
Great vid and good for you 👍
On of my absolute highest wishes is that no little kids in the future must to go throu that phase where adult people expect them to be magically transformed into something else then they are, and blaming them as standing out as "anomalies". (i know that from my own experience too, but i try not to be bitter or think to much about it now it only drags one self down doing so i think, one need to proceed forward, but still i hope the general mindset will change among people one day so other kids does not need to go throu that).
Love yourself :)
Hi Corey great to see you doing you videos been so long. I am Ashleigh an Aussie transgender MtF. I fully understand that we are trying to fit into society. I am having my SRS in November I have always suffered with genital dysphoria . But having SRS will not make me fit into society because I still look a little bit trans, so I don't care about society, it is my genital dysphoria I know will go away. You Look great beuatifull as always luv
Ashleigh 💖
Ever heard that saying "talk to the mirror"? You don't have to justify to us how, or what you should do to make you happy in life. Personally I think your beautiful as you are
Well said.
🇧🇷 you're my inspiration. following in the transition
Thenks. Nice
Thank was very profound.
Corey, you look great. My .02: You have a beautiful girl face and surgery might actually mess your beauty up!
I hope you realize your videos are critical to those of us actively transitioning! I've missed you immensely. Please find the time to produce videos, some of us depend on them!,,,,,,,,LOVE YOU GIRL!!...Sophia
Hi Corey
I am an Aussie transgender. I know actually what you are talking about but the problem is, as much as I try to accept who I am I still want to be more female or born female. We as transgender humans will always want to be what we aren't because we are just simply born in the wrong body and are biologically the wrong gender. I don't know any transgender person who accepts what they are.
Just my thoughts great to see you back and your videos with Dave.
xx Ashleigh 💖
Your so lucky compared to me Corey! I dont even know how to begin to start transitioning
I would like to thank you for your perspective and your self awareness for your personal transition.
I disagree with respect to any surgical enhancements that one would like for self. For example: Unlike you, I identify as trans feminine. Not a trans woman. For my own perspective and self awareness, I am already happy and beautiful within myself. And, I am blessed that I have the opportunity to enhance myself in anyway I connect with. This adds to my own personal way of physical expression. My esthetic is different. Will I look or act like anyone else?....no thank you. Will I enhance my esthetic similarly to others? Possibly....because that is what I connect with. To say don’t make changes with surgeries because it’s what society wants or dictates, restricts self expression. How about....your message and approach for your own journey is to refrain from surgical procedures to enhance your external appearance and that you support others who choose to do so.
Notice, you still wear makeup, lighten your hair, select feminine clothing, manicure your nails and skin. All of those actions are exactly what society has dictated is necessary to be feminine “passable”. There are layers to self expression. There are layers to transitioning. All are different....and all are beautiful. Let’s just support, encourage and appreciate. I apologize if I come across offensive or upset you in anyway. I am just expressing one perspective of a sea full of many perspectives.
You are beautiful however you want to present, express or enhance. Congrats on your journey of transitioning. I enjoy your videos very much.
Hugs,
-V
Omg wow
Corey bilous you looking very bautifole with your body
As a visibly male trans woman, no, I have not even gotten to visibly trans, even though what you say is mathematically correct, I find that only people who are visibly beautiful, perfectly cis privileged, are really able to say it. It’s like a white person asking black people what they are complaining about.
Very well said.glad to see that you are eating plenty .you look very pretty and cute.
I tend to differentiate between looking female, and being born into the wrong body. My main issue is being born in the wrong body.
This world unfortunately judges you on what you look like...no matter who or what you are. It's just a fact if you're a good looking person you get treated better. .sad but true😧
I'm not happy with the way I look. I've never been, just because I'm in the wrong body. It has nothing to do with anyone else, other than jelousy. For me.
The surgeries aren’t to fit in there to help with dysphoria
While we agree that surgeries which are just to appease society shouldn’t be required for happiness, when they help deal with dysphoria directly they can be useful. We want nothing to do with the front-mounted bottom-dwelling painful liability any longer than we need to.
I newer realy fitted into the expected "society" in the first place, not even as a little kid, so i newer realy felt i missed anything there...
You’re looking great. May I ask your height?
Also, you don't need ffs one little bit.
You Look So Prettiest Amazingly Awsomely Lovely it's True it's True
Ok. Girl I have been on hormone therapy for about 9 months. I am so happy you have decided against breast implants. l have developed some very nice soft breasts. With the right outfits and makeup l feel very passable without the knife.
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Well said as long as you have those kissable lips you will number one in my book
Geez. I would be f#$kin pissed to find out she's a guy. She is prettier than most women I see.
Took you alot more serious as a trans "woman" until your bf turned into a your gf. So ya
I wish she would talk more naturally and not try so hard it sounds fake
Gawd you’re beautiful 😘 if you do want implants I will pay for them 😘
I feel so sad for the person to come across this video and not understand the message. Self-Love is the answer! Self-Love is the Remedy. 💪🏾❤️