Why the younger generation today are so done
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- Опубликовано: 12 сен 2024
- Atleast that’s what the older generations are saying. My question is, why do you keep listening to them?
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Being a human being in a world that won’t treat you like a human being is a sad reality.
Wild huh
@@realitydesigners its unbelievably pathetic and sub-human, that they been given endless privileges have relentlessly squandered everything, scum.
I wish I knew about B cluster personalities when I was 15.I worked 25 years in Psychiatric but it was You Tubes on B cluster that helped me the most.These personalities are Narciccists, Histrionic,anti social and Borderline and they are common in society dangerous manipulative and deceptive.Do not marry one or become friends as they will destroy you.
LEAR, STUDY and gain WISDOM !!
I think we have to form a corporation in order to be treated like a human being. I don't like this game mankind is playing. How about we tell the rich they win and then play a different game?
You can't be more right about that my friend.
Having a job kills your freedom but allows you to live. The catch 22 of modern life. The amount of poor guidance I received not only from parents but also guidance counselors and professors was astounding. Almost everyone is totally checked out.
You’re free, wtf? If you’re not willing to sacrifice, then so be it. Lose. Generations past made sacrifices that you couldn’t even fathom.
It does kill ur freedom, but ur right is necessary to life the modern life. I received very poor guidance, hoping to change that for the future generations. This time is different. Everyone is sleepy
people especially those kinds don’t really enjoy life or understand it. they are sheep just going with the flow
@@mackeejack6731what sacrifices? Giving it all away to minorities???? So we could be surrounded by the enemy
Even if you can find a way to earn without a job, the modern living standard demands that people must work in order for the logistics to happen.
I'm not talking about a college educated job. I'm talking about the tangible results of the basic necessities of life, food, shelter, energy, infrastructure.
Someone has to manufacturer it, deliver it, build it, install it and maintain it or it doesn't exist.
People must resolve themselves to take pride in their labor and skills.
I refer to the malaise our younger generations face today as a type of 'arrested development’. Older folks refuse to pass the torch even when most of their ways and advice are useless for most younger people to follow.
Exactly this take !
Yeah when I think of giving advice to a young person I realize I don't know what to say, the advice I was given as a young person does not necessarily help anyone today. Not sure I would recommend college anymore unless you are going into something like STEM, otherwise you are starting your life off with a ton of debt that you may never be able to pay back. I am not sure what good advice for young people would look like as I have no way of knowing if that advice will actually pan out for today's youth. It is a tough spot to be in, not knowing what a positive way forward should look like.
I find the best thing we can do (and I"m genx) is listen. Really listen and accept their lived reality. This is an entirely diferent world for all of us, and they must be the path finders.
@@Shanawolf Yep, and use our knowledge to the best of our ability to guide in the places we can, and not let our own limitations be passed to them.
@@billcarpenter5615 Ya this is really real. It's hard to say what to do... but I think it will get more clear when the tech really settles and we find how to truly harness it's power. But right now, ya life is messy for many.
I was 27 by the time I came tro realize that everything is a lies, the world is full of fakeness, people are actually just consumers, virtually no one is critically thinking. Kudos to you! You young people can join me in my off grid pursuits any day. We can all learn how to build a foundation for successful living without the standard 9 to 5 and the myriad of other dependency problems that most Americans experience today.
Would love this and maybe even document it if it’s in order!
As long as you have building permits. And if you don't when they tell you to tear it down because lack thereof they will also fine you for not getting a teardown permit.Nothing is free,nothing
Facts. I came to this awareness when I was around 12. I was somewhat of a recluse and would ponder things. Wondering what to do with my life and how I was gonna make a substantial living. Catching onto the fact that we learn and are taught about people who accomplished things and many of them were dropouts/aimless and had to make a way for themselves. Then people that do their very best and break societal barriers become the enemy and target of cooperations and lack support from family for ‘shaking things up,’ for encouraging independent thinkers. In this grim reality there still is a diamond buried in the dirt called encouragement, and you must have that. Day to day nothing changes.. but when you look back you’ll see how different everything was and how much power you have, and how much you have in fact influenced your surroundings.
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@ifihadsmesumchicken6276 Therein lies my resolve chicken. I am not asking for permission for nothing. And if it comes at the cost of defending this property with my life, then so be it. You have highlighted one of those dependency problems I alluded to earlier. America wasn't founded by people begging for permission. And it won't be saved by them either.
I think the younger generation just wants a job that they are not manipulated by and can share more of their ideas of work and also have a work life balance
Most people can only exist as somebody elses employer. Coercion is literally necessary to keep the system running.
@@bobdole6691 When he mentioned "those young, dumb kids always on their phones," he highlighted that older generations don't understand the speed at which things are happening today. The boomers are accustomed to a resource-based economy, where physical effort and time are directly linked to money. With the advent of the Internet, boomers often overlook how much time can be saved by doing things faster online. They are used to a more tangible connection between time and money, and it's upsetting because so much of their energy is wasted on commutes and they cannot do things faster outside their realm of work. This creates a mental disconnect between providing for themselves and their households, as well as their relationship with the younger generations.
Love this comment. The world truly is changing and we are actually picking up on it well, collectively. The younger generation is definitely reconfiguring reality and I think it will all work out. But ya we gotta tune out most boomer takes at this point
Someone told me that if you come up with an idea where you and another person will split the profits 50/50 most people will say no because they want you to do all the work and keep all the profits for themselves.. introducing the employment agreement..
@@thothheartmaat2833 this checks out. A hard reality.
The older generations could control your reality. You didn't know what was going on down the street, so what ever they said, that is how the world was. Now, your eyes are open to the world and you get a birds eye view. The younger generation can see the cage that they are being put into and not having it.
I’m so down with them being done. They will teach us many things.
I like that analogy, I think the internet has connected this generation a lot more as well. You could be firm different countries culture but still relate to trends online
@@realitydesigners Your one that could have benefited from being in the military. Only because when they break you, you end up healing stronger. Like when someone thinks they can't handle a tough situation, But the difference is the military breaks you over and over till your one bad mother fucker who doesn't need a helping hand. Being done when this young tells me you have never been broken. I was broken again and again being in construction for 35 years, We always had a cage on us.
It is the dilemma of when to listen to an authority figure and when to be confident in your own decisions. You no longer can be psychology chained to caring so deeply about what those figures will think of you if you go a certain route. Since the world changes there are definitely things you have a better understanding of than older generations. Nothing wrong with respectfully listening, just don’t allow yourself to be stifled by others’ opinions.
Grew up in the 90s. I could see it by age 10. It’s just your awakened or your not.
Spitting facts. You live like your parents youll get left behind. Every generation must adapt to their times.
What should we all be doing?
What we SHOULD be doing is getting rid of social media and all these subscription based models.
We SHOULD try to get together, we SHOULD be lowering womens dating expectations. We SHOULD get rid of car dependancy. We SHOULD have less kids.
@@realitydesigners get assets live as poor as possible for three decades you can invest yourself to a million dollars easily. Baby steps dont let anyone stir you off your path. Money is a tool not something to hold on to
Do what you can while you can. Dont regret missing out on the leap you should have took. The leap as in for your future. Not the one of fun. Keep reading, keep seeking truth. Every thing I got good at, Tech can do it better, and you can adapt, but its all greying. It doesnt go much further. Bots dont spend. Our dollars worth nothing now. We are in a new age and the advancement of technology is the destruction of humanity. Btw, my IQ has increased from 25 yo to 33, that was surprising.., but Ive had a handful of head injuries, real ones, plus i was the lab rat for all the ones everyone and their dog now has. so i could just be an exception. The important thing to realize is something big is going to happen soon. Its practically inevitable. The housing bubble is going to pop and our government may collapse or attempt to merge us into a one world government through a state of emergency, or we could lose the power. People like you may do incredible things one day and have no idea what that means yet. It could mean developing some advanced defense system but thats not what I am referring to. The world may need rebuilding, a phone may need to be reinvented. Or you be a lone survivor and find the a woman to repopulate. Just keep that in mind. The future is unpredictable but i dont think it can tolerate this course much longer. Of course you dont have to trust a youtube comment.. But dont dismiss the possibility. @@realitydesigners ps..Christian or not, get in to the ancient translation of the Gospels and become educated on this historical aspect of it before you dismiss it entirely. People who push religion are often poor representatives of what they stand for, and its easy to associate God with this cultish style way we see church.. i dont push religion ever really, I just spent my twenties worshipping myself and always had an excuse to push the Bible away.. as if i understood it, and I knew how I made, but somehow God couldn't do this? Its intellectually brilliant. There's a reason its cool to be against It. Because what's in it is wild. And they dont want you to know
Half false. Adapt- but live like your parents may be the best way to go. They have solved some puzzles already. Would be foolish to ignore that.
I never take advice from somebody I don't want to be like. I look at my life, & then i look at theirs.
Yep. 👍 good rule to live by
I’m teaching my son to listen and follow that inner voice. The external voices were all full of lies for personal gain.
Well that inner voice won't tell him to work all day for retirement that won't be there.
Over 20 years ago I read something that stuck with me - the author stated that Western societies had become increasingly materialistic, individualistic, and socially antagonistic. This rings especially true today.
Im a little older than you (37) and the way I say it is I was very lucky to have lived in the 90s and early 2000s. After 9/11 the world changed forever. 2001-2010 was still semi normal.
2010-2020 was when technology became too invasive and people changed.
2020 after covid and on is like end of the world vibes. It seems to me like the world ended in 2020
and this is like some simulation of a reality we once knew as planet earth.
I exercise alot to feel better, but damn this world is really fucked up.
34 and I agree
28 and you are 100% spot on.
37 also God bless you my brother
Agree with everything, timelines and all
When I was around 17-18, I realized this and fell down a downward spiral. Wasted a good couple of years in self isolation trying to confront my shadow. 25 now been locked in for 2 years now and I’ve made immense progress. I found truth and now I’m at ease. Godspeed
Yep. It’s necessary to have that step back stage from it all honestly. We stay locked in 🦾
I relate to that so hard
I wish I knew about B cluster personalities when I was 15.I worked 25 years in Psychiatric but it was You Tubes on B cluster that helped me the most.These personalities are Narciccists, Histrionic,anti social and Borderline and they are common in society dangerous manipulative and deceptive.Do not marry one or become friends as they will destroy you.
LEAR, STUDY and gain WISDOM !!
#lockedin going four years
I've been in that spiral for a decade now, it's been rapid for the last year. Started getting bad around 15/16 years old, I'm 26 now, and life is one hell of a battle.
I think this generation has more knowledge at a young age because of the internet more than any other generation.
Ya and I think thats the primary reason. There could be others but put it in the hands of any generation and the result would be similar.
The knowledge means nothing if nothings being produced. So far no Mark Zuckerberg, Jeff Bezos or innovative prodigies have been produced by Gen Z of yet, just saying.
I think that that is completely wrong! If you know anything about conspiracy, you'll know how curated the internet is. It's been that way since 2014. A lot of the information that I know, I can't find anymore. And a lot of the people I used to follow are gone! They definitely have information, but it's not anything that isn't supposed to be seen! And anything that isn't supposed to be seen, is abruptly taken down.
Could there be too much information nowadays? I think so
@@ImLehwz I would call that a design, not a flaw
I am 48, so gen x here. Keep thinking the way you are, question it all. Because the powers that be, have decided what the youth is supposed to be. My son is 20, I feel for this generation. If this can help, stay beautiful, share this beautiful with the ones who will hear. Some of the old ones are still young.
Great advice thank u 🐉✨
Factz Gen X as well. We got you. We were the original generation to be shafted by the matrix so we know. Keep your head up, stay focused, watch your six always, and always remember most people want you to do good but never better than them. You seem like an empathic soul that didn't have his inner child tore up by the system of lies ~ good for you abd thanks for sharing this message. You kids will be alright and as the gentleman above stated ~ the sooner you realize the system is lies and rigged against you the sooner you can create your own ecosystems and find your true tribe. Much love and we'll wishes to you and all the younger generations going through the struggle. Life is and always will be hard but it surely is u fortunate that the generations that are older are low key haterz and don't want us to win.
@@moifreestylelyfe Boomers get a bad rap, but some of the most sociopathic managers and supervisors I've encountered were from my own generation (GenX) and older Millennials.
Young people have been denied everything from physical to spiritual development but yet still strive for the best
It’s amazing they keep going at it honestly
Who denied you ?
Plenty have their own issues
@@aotctdthe society and government
@@aotctd GenX Parents, Boomers, the government, authorities, rich people, the works.
The world is a hellhole rn
Absolutely
In life, you will find there is no shortage of people who have plans for your time and resources. Protect yourself, and realize you live in shark-infested waters, the "sharks" are narcissists.
This is true and have been through this enough already
@@realitydesigners Yes me too, I was made the family scapegoat by my covert narcissist "mother".
Oh fuck I'm so sorry
I feel that Millenials are the first generation, in at least the past few generations, that DON'T ridicule the next generation in a "these dang kids" manner. I think we (Millenials) are ready and eager to shift this trauma pattern!
Yes I agree.☝️
Yeah, my only "criticisms" for the kiddos is they don't listen to enough rock music! But yeah, these young kids are pretty intelligent and sometimes oddly funny. It's a hard time to be a kid. It was hard for us in many ways, but technology amplifies all of the difficult teenager stuff.
It's because Millennials are perpetual children. The males look and act like grown teenagers and the females are still mad at daddy.
Millennial here… I see a lot of myself in these younger generations. I was always telling my parents that the systems in place were corrupt and they called me a conspiracy theorist or “unamerican”. Well, guess who is now spouting all the stuff I was saying waaaaay back in my youth? I think older people are sometimes too stuck in their own “knowledge” to see what’s actually in front of them.
Im a Millenial, 1987, I will support my daughter forever if I have to. She never has to leave if she doesn't want to, and she can rely on me as long as she needs to. I was kicked out at 18, and have been on my own since. Millenials are built different. 💪
Life was much easier in the 50s, 60s, 70s, 80s, 90s than it is now for all the people at that time old and young. Today life is hard both for young and old people. I have heard stories from people who are 70 yr old today about how it was when they were young and it sounds like a Christmas story when you listen to them. They all had jobs, no stress, insane opportunities, peace of mind, tranquility, plenty of easy money, travels and good times - EASILY. today to get these things we have to apply huge amounts of efforts.
'' than it is now for all the people at that time old and young. ''
Don't tell them that
Only they have it hard
It's so true. I grew up in the 70s - what I wouldn't give to have our lives back how they were. You'd trade all the technology just to have that sense of humanity again, and all the variety of GOOD things (not bad) we had to choose from.
@@spiritualhammer392 man a guy who was 65 years old told me he was a waiter in a restaurant when he was young and he used to make 10 000 bucks a month as a waiter and he told me you could rent a house for barely 800 chf 40 years ago. Can you imagine??? If waiters were rich then imagine doctors at that time? Everyone had lives just like that. No stress, no pain, less illnesses, any job could easily give you plenty of money to get everything you wanted. If today we had just half of the advantages they had at that time imagine how amazing our lives would be? The 50s, 60s, 70s, 80s, 90s were really the golden age but it has been over for a very long time
and these very same people tell the young people that they are lazy and that they dont want to work, etc, etc. We just dont have the same incentives to work than they used to have
And when you bring this up to others, especially other older folks, they'll scoff in your face and gaslight you into oblivion. There must be something in the water...
The older Gen is just as bad as the new one. Society in general is in the midst of rampant decay.
Yep!
How the fuck am I going buy a house with the current economy
You ain’t. And no one cares. This place is crazy
@@realitydesigners True and it’s because those people owned houses. They want you to give them money until you’re nothing but a homeless person.
@@realitydesigners then they will take your house away and do the same to others that wanted to buy houses.
Plenty of people from other generations have no house either
@@Bubble23428 40% US Boomers live *UNDER* the poverty line
How many live *ON* the poverty line ?
Do you all think everyone else is rich ?
My gawd people, grow a BRAIN !
Older doesn't mean smarter, it just means more experienced. My advice is to get a career that you are good at but more importantly that you enjoy. Because time is the most valuable resource. So if you enjoy your work, you havn't wasted your time. I'm 61. My life has been a very bumpy road but I have learned how to make lemonaid from lemons. P.S. Others might purposely sacrifice with a job they don't like to bank capital -- to start a business, buy a house, pay for college, retire, support a family... So it can be OK if there's a plan behind it, and especially if it's not too long term.
Experience > Age. Thanks for this ✨
Here’s the problem. The people who control power like everything as it is. Most of the time, the system will reject new ideas especially if they interfere with someone gaining something somewhere. I like how the younger generation is going inward; and developing new ways of doing things. This forces the system to pay attention.
We are the new system. But there is a bigger system than us, for now. One step at a time
@@realitydesigners Lazy system. Don't go forward with victim mentality. Never works because in the real-world weakness gets one eaten alive.
also, it's called the new world order that controls us all. Don't blame me a boomer. Agenda 2035 has us all walking and owning nothing.
I can completely understand. I have kids in their 20s and this is very much how they feel. I see many older people treating them like children. There’s a lack of respect. They’ve been given a hard era to become an adult.
Yes they still treat them like they’re kids.
Told dad that. People don't treat me with basic respect. Not earned respect but just waving hi.
29 but everywhere I go I feel like parents are running bars, clubs,
I am 56 but I see the younger generation as full of possibilities. They are limited by a system that denies them the opportunities to interact with real things.
Yep it’s more of the system than the older generation itself I see. Which is kind of both, but the system currently only values a certain type of archetype. And that archetype is what younger people no longer want to become.
@@realitydesigners The old system is designed to structure life for top down control. People today are questioning whether they want to spend their life in a system that no longer fairly compensates them
@@chargermopar Yep and me personally I’m out ✨
We are all prisoners of The Matrix
I’m 55 years old, and I really enjoyed listening to you! When you talked about not being able to get a job, I was surprised. You seem like a very capable and qualified individual. I subscribed to your channel and I’m looking forward to hearing more of your perspective on life. Great job on your video too.
I have still plenty to work on and am later launching a company, but yes the typical job market is rough in the tech field if you’re not already established and maybe I haven’t tried hard enough. But I’ve been burnt out from the traditional work place for a while now.
I'm 56 and am having trouble finding a job that can support me. Work has always been ''a way of life''. Imagine living through the Great Depression.
I'm 23 years old, I come from Italy, a country practically for pensioners and for holidays, we young people are worth nothing and I've been thinking all my life exactly what you expressed in this video but I've never been able to express it, thank you. .. I know I'm not alone
You’re not alone. It’s wild. Didn’t think about Italy. But makes sense
In Italy things have been like this since the late 80'
Should I get an Italian dual citizenship?
@@ChristAliveForevermore ya
25 here, I've been wanting to move out and create my ideal reality as best as I can and it feels basically impossible. Went to college years ago and the lecturer was absolutely horrible, got a shitty retail job, covid hit and ever since then I've felt stuck. In the past few years I've been focused on getting better, but no matter how hard I've tried I can't get back into college or a new job, applied for over 300 this year. I just want to get on with my life, I'm trying so hard just to keep it together most days with how overwhelming this is. I know this wont last forever which keeps me hopeful, and I have goals to keep me ticking along, but I'm trying to take it day by day. Something so simple as having my own place even after saving for years feels so out of reach
A lot of us in similar positions. Keep those extra goals busy and don’t lose motivation!
@@realitydesigners thanks for the encouragement man, love the video
Felt like that since 2009. You are not alone.
Gen-X here. Gen-Z has the benefit of the collective and accumulated wisdom of previous generations due to technologies we built. I feel very sorry for this new generation and have sliced and diced this in many ways, realizing the current trajectory isn’t sustainable.
It wasn’t always like this. We grew up in better times.
Practice gratitude and forgiveness, and seek refuge in religion is all I can say. I say this as a man whose daughters simply stopped speaking to me.
We’re all feeling it in our own ways. Godspeed.
It’s not because you’re young. Certain Spiritual types might call you a chosen one. It won’t change with age; you may be casting “pearls before swine.”
Ya that’s it too
Its the economy. When no amount of work gets you the things you were promised then you don't want to do any amount of work. It's quite simple. If a young person comes out of their parents' basement and gets a 50 hr per week job, what do the get if they put themselves to that grind? Well, they GET to live in their parents basement and GET to save money thats becoming increasingly worthless and will never be enough to buy a home or start a family of their own. Might as well play video games and watch the phone. They're not "rejecting" the old ways. The old ways don't work anymore. They're rejecting a broken system and I would too.
Y’all need to listen to this dude. Cus he’ spittin straight facts.
just started cooking
we wuz kangz n shet
The first lie was "Work until 60 and retire to enjoy life"
We are now dealing with the consequences of everyone who fell and lived by that lie, and they don't want to give it up.
What, artists work their whole life
everything isn't just one view
Yeah work to when ur too old to enjoy almost anything sounds great!
@@aotctd average male age span among western countries has been fairly static at 75 years.
By the time you retire at 60 (in Australia that age is now 67) you get to spend a small portion of what equates to your teen years before you die living comfortably.
That's called slavery.
Modernism vs PostModernism, our parents & beyond never grew up with this amount of advanced technology. We still don't even know what this technology is doing to us physically and psychologically as humans, everything has become open-ended, unlike our older gen's life. Everything for them was multiple-choice, This life is now open-ended.
Oof this is what it is. Too many choices. So much to do in such little time. Who to follow? Who to listen to? Etc it’s all part of it
This is a new world and nobody is appreciating what is real ...
We hope to change that trend. We must design the new reality ✨📈
@@realitydesigners💪💪💪💪
A *BRAVE* New World, if you catch my drift...
@@ChristAliveForevermore for real
my life was done before it started
growing up with abusive parents i thought it was just normal, but little did i know, my life ended before it even began
now that im 30 i know theres nothing waiting for me in the future but a lifetime of wageslaving
Forgiveness is for the forgiver.. Release those that have trespassed against you. First seek the Kingdom of heaven and His righteousness and all these things will be added on to you. There's a future if you choose it. Call upon the name of Jesus
Wait i can bully people can then tell them tk go find jesus???
@@sadhu7191 its about forgiveness not justifying wrongs. All have fallen short and all need forgiveness from God , but it goes both ways you must forgive others for there wrongs. Doesn't mean you support there actions. Jesus loves the sinner and hates the sin.
@@UpUplifted Why are we talking about Jesus though? Jesus isn't here right now, we can't actually speak to him.
@@theemotionalremix ( Then you will call, and the LORD will answer; you will cry for help, and he will say Here am I. Isaiah 58:9 ) ... Jesus is waiting for those seeking to call out to him. He gave his life to pay for all of the worlds sins. He will hear you seek him with all of your heart. God bless you theemotinoalremix praying for you.
I'm 54, an introvert, bullied at school, bullied in a more refined way during apprenticeship, during university. Always the outsider, no girls interrested in me, a loner, an outsider. I understand young people who feel confused, rejected and like they'll never have a chance. It's ok. Forget about it all, stop stuggling against unsurmountable odds, don't on top of all this make an idiot out of yourself. I managed to land a mind numbing customer service job and working from home, home suddenly could be anywhere. I've been travelling Latin America for 6+ years with Costa Rica as my base. Life never was this great. I would never be able to have seen all these wonderful places (on the cheap) if I had reached my goals, had been a more normal kid or teenager etc. I feel blessed. And so should you. Embrace the freedom of not getting what you (supposedly) want.
The ability to be human will become more and more valuable. The old path is meant to turn you into a drone.
We’re bullish on the Human being 📈✅✨
@@youtuber-cc8sx some people think this might change
I really resonated with what you said about miserable people. I don't take advice from miserable people, I DON'T want to end up like them and why the hell would I want to take advice from you? No Way. You teaching me everything I don't want to be and mind your own damn business
Facts for real
I'm GenX, Zoomers seem to me to have been born with older, wiser souls than previous generations and see through the matrix more clearly. Not sure how but it's a very positive thing.
Yup exactly, and they’re struggling with what they see
Internet. Social media. Thats how. They have been given access to see the problems of the world from a young age whereas in the past it would take someone til like probably 30-35 to start seeing those same problems
Me too. I agree.
@@jamestribie3387mark twain one said that age of 44 is when every one but biggest idiots become cynical/cynics. I think nowadays its 25 and 17 for smart people
I'm Gen X and I disagree. These last 2 generations are more narcissistic and neurotic because they constantly live in their feelings. This is absolutely the result of the helicopter parenting and the "everyone gets a trophy" method of raising children. It makes them weak and un-resilient.
Gens X & Z need to bond right now on the notion that our futures will NOT have the same dynamic as boomers and millennials.
Yes! And I hope to bring in a portion of that dynamic. It's necessary
@@realitydesigners keep up your important work. I'm 54 & plan to push this notion from my end.
Im a millennial 28 now and my life is not easy at all so im with u
It's a rite of passage, Sir. We all had to go through it. e.g. I'm 36 now but when I was a few years younger than you I started working construction. My boss was in his 60s and he would purposely leave out details or steps to make a job run smoother/without mistakes. They think it's sacred knowledge that they hold on to b/c it makes them who they are. It's a "I had to experience it so you should too" kind of mentality. Same problems different decades. In the end we're all just squirrels trying to get a nut.
From suffrage comes wisdom.... 🫡
We’re all just squirrels chasing a nut 😂
"I had to experience it, so you should too" kind of mentality." In other words, the typical boomer mentality. I've dealt with that a lot in my life from boomer co-workers. They're all insufferable people.
@@grocerygoat06 agree. stupid take. its how nothing changes.
I don't listen to anyone over 60.
But they decide about our future in congress etc. Boomers really don't wanna let the power they have go...
Me either. And I'm 50.
right because everybody who's the same age are identical people, same personality, same virtues, same chracter, same philosophy 🙄
Don’t listen to anyone who 30 or older during the 2008 recession IE 45. They all still live like it’s 2001
under 80*
I'm not trying to be rude, but everything that your generation knows is curated, yes even the conspiracy stuff. Back in the day in the early 2000s, you would find true conspiracy, even true names and connections. Now you do not! Every conspiracy there is knows that the internet has been heavily curated since 2014. So anything that is seen today on the internet, is meant for you to see! Anything else, is abruptly taken down! If you think you're so smart, then why don't you look at all the propaganda around you. And what I mean by that is, look how hard they're pushing Civil War from all sides! Look how hard they're pushing you to give up on the future! Look how hard they're pushing you to give up on your country! America has to fall, and so does the dollar, but in order to do that they've got to break down the psyche in the minds of the people. And here we are. We've got this guy thinking he's awake, but he's not! He's right in the middle of propaganda. And if you think I'm silly, Obama made it completely legal with the ndaa to use propaganda on the public!
True. What you mention is possible because the environment, food and pretty much everything manufactured somehow turns out to be hyperestrogenic so we all become weak, stupid and infertile.
@@KatarinaNolte I agree! However, I don't know how old you are, but I'm a little bit more jaded on Humanity as a whole. Because I've given people facts, I've shown people the truth right to their face, and they will still fight you tooth and nail like you are trying to rob them. It's like the famous line in the matrix, when Morpheus tells Neo that some people aren't ready to be unplugged, and some will even defend the Matrix!! I think it goes much deeper than just the food, it's more of a Humanity trait to deny the truth even when its presented to your face. And that is even more of a flaw of humanity, that as truth comes to humans plainly, they still can't tell if it's actual truth or not. Meaning they can't tell truth from non truth. even you and I can't do that, and that's the flaw with Humanity. If truth came and hit Humanity in the face, it would argue with it out of pride.
@@NeighborhoodWatchMann well yes, it makes people feel helpless. It's disempowering because you can't really change the status quo short of abandoning civilization altogether.
I found this video really relaxing, between your calm voice and subtle sound of traffic and birds chirping. In my 30s and still a very relevant video to me as a late bloomer/failure to launch person trying to make sense of things.
Hey thanks a lot! Also as a late bloomer I feel the same way! Will continue to make more. We need something different here on RUclips
Great video young man and thanks for sharing. Just an old man here pondering what happened to the world I once new. Young and old we have to do our best to respect each other. Please remember that the system is the enemy the very one neither of us control. I will say this about my life. The thrill of the chase was much more fun than to have and to hold.. Biggest problem is that it went way to fast....
"Getting articulate" he's totally right I bought my first business when I was only 22 and in hindsight until I was was able to articulate my service well I didn't do very well but when I got it I was in the money. It's kind of like birds singing and prancing for a mate the better you get at making yourself get seen and noticed the more successful you get my point is get out and get noticed.
Exactly man you got it! Get good at speaking and sharing ur 💡 ideas
And they refuse to pass anything down to their children cause we should "get it like they did."
I was raised by a single mother
I don't even speak to her
@@robertmarley8852 same
I hate this
@@robertmarley8852 I know exactly how you feel. It’s funny how the person designed to be OG provider can end up eroding facets of your adult life.
Reminds me of me when I was younger. I did find out a simple life gave me the most satisfaction.
I’m the older generation and this is helpful to me to help me understand my 20 year old son. I’ll try to listen to his opinions more. He’s smart like you.
"everything you say we are we are and were very proud of ourselves" 🎶
25 this year no relationship no friends, just work my life away or in isolation is my future no interest in kids or marriage everything is destroyed, it was over before we even started. Nobody ever checked up on me, ect.
A lot of people now in this situation. It’s so wild.
Nobody checked up on many from other generations
And still don't
People of all ages are isolated
I’m starting a second channel very soon so I can start to express some of these feelings and observations I’ve had over the last couple years. You’re so right it’s crazy. I’m 24 and it’s wild to see it all unfold, and all the older generation’s advice is practically worthless. Like our parents would’ve struggled to find a job/partner in today’s world. Thanks for this video man
Smart idea. We support it ✨
The younger generation are more introspective and open to spiritual teachings where older generations almost seem incapable of hearing spiritual truths from younger people. It makes older generations feel like they’re not in control when a younger person shares spiritual teachings and are met immediately with resistance. Even if they’ve been in church their whole life.
That's civilization. It's a spiritual racket.
Bullshit
OK boomer
I’m a young person. You’re right, but we’re human and we’ve adapted thus far, so we will continue to do so. Right now it’s about how smart can you maneuver. Just because one doesn’t have half the software engineering skills as you, it doesn’t mean that there is no hope for them. There are other ways to make it and the things you call “copes” are legitimate paths for a lot of people (and will only become more valuable and legitimate as A.I gets more advanced). I think the real cope is people taking the old path (school-job-death) and defending it because they’ve already invested so much time into that path and don’t want to admit that it was mostly unfruitful and it’s becoming more and more irrelevant as we advance.
True. Actually the trades are become even more valuable. I plan on picking up a few of these skills myself for basic necessities.
In my early 50s and I’m concerned with young people, my children, and what the future holds for them. We could all benefit from a few life lessons… No matter how difficult life seems be, the one thing that will always make me feel better is doing something nice for someone else. Take someone to experience something they have never done and see the joy it brings. Say Thank You often. Do at least one good deed a day.
It is stupid not to pay attention to young people (especially of the age from around 14-16), as within a decade they will start shaping the world, even if not from positions of power and decision making, but simply where they put their attention and what they desire. It is no coincidence there is so much effort put into controlling these, by people currently possessing power.
That’s such a trip to think about
It’s corrupt a f out here and we’re onto it. I’m gen X.
We see the shi fr
Shit man, I'm a genX, and the whole generation thing is not an identity but a circumstantial reaction to the environment you grow in .. Meaning a millennial from the US is not the same that China.
But when it comes to the western world, genz is not looked down upon, the most looked down upon are boomers that got the easy ticket to life, only cared about themselves, always shiting on younger generations for their lack of material success, then come the millenials that got raised by the everyone is a winner culture, and are so soft and shallow, then genx that we just didn't want to participate or fix anything, and then genz that are actually coming up stronger because of the hard times.
But really bud, we all grew up seeing older generations eating the shit candy, and we wanted something different, the hard reality is that sometimes you come up with something and become successful, but most fail at entrepreneurship or even never attempt, and you become jaded, and biologically tired.
It's a slave world, where we play the game of the musical chair, trying to not get screwed, in this late capitalism stage...
It sucks, in so many ways, but as stoics say, it is what it is....
Bro, I’m 24. I feel every single word you’re saying please keep making videos. This is extremely helpful.
You got it bro! ✨
Why are you styled like other Generations ?
If they don't get anything ?
i'm gen x. and i can tell you spending your life in a job, as part of a system, having a safety net - unless you are doing something that brings great meaning to you - is the least courageous, least adventurous, and the most atrophying thing you can do. i don't think the young people today are that different from the young ones that we were, the ones that wanted to make it despite the system, thereby beating it.
I’m always saying this! Heavily agree ✨
Kids NEED to be taught to be MILLIONAIRES in school.
Yes
Free market capitalism 📈✨
This mindset and overvaluation of materialism is exactly why the world is the way it is right now.
I’m 42, which makes me an older millennial. I’ve done well for myself. I don’t pass on the old advice I’ve received. Instead, I impart my experience. Trying to talk to this younger generation when you see them going down a bad path doesn’t work-they don’t listen. I’ve seen so many crash and burn despite being warned several times.
I just watch now. There’s no reason to offer advice that won’t be heeded.
1:40 this is really true. when i was younger i had this awareness too, but i started to downplay it in order to align with peers. i've been reflecting lately that my intuition/perception was extremely precise when i was younger, and that i should have trusted it more as a got older.
I gotta do a video about this exact topic. Playing dumb for so long you doubt your gift. Some people do that and never get back up to their level. It was looking like that way for me for a while. But you gotta trust it as you said and it allow it shake everything else out.
We need to stop working and force the government to negotiate a better deal with the American public or deny them the needed labor.
The longer ppl operate as if nothing is wrong, the long this country has to run itself into the ground.
Get a job; for what? Get married; for what? Chase ur dream; for what?
I ask myself why would I do these things, and never come up with answers. I can live this life of mediocrity and atomization under fantasy economies based off of theft.
There's a lot of ways to play this game but, have you ever considered that the game was shxtty? How long ur gonna play a shxtty game bruv?
You can and will continue to expand your intellect and skill set in your 30’s and 40’s. It’s a lifelong challenge. You’re definitely spearheading the youth mentality. Women are especially emotional. This video reminds me of myself 40 - 45 years ago. It’s good to hear what you have to say at any age. 😊
Thank you. This info is needed. And I agree about women right now ✨
Hey there Raymond.
Thank you so much for making this video!
I feel like everything you've said here is what's been rattling around in my head for my entire young adult life; the feeling that despite following a "good and honest" path, and despite my skills or my work ethic, society is trying to force us to be cattle herding off of a cliff
We're headed in a worrisome direction, it's high time that we demand new bridges to be built for a prosperous future!
This feeling of control of lack of trust is nothing new to Gen Z. Every single generation feels a need to prove themselves to their elders. Gen Z has to prove themselves to Millenials and Xers. We X-ers had to prove ourselves to the Boomers. We rejected the hippie/yuppie attitude of our elders and wanted independence too. We were known for not trusting older generations. The exact situations and technologies have changed. Human nature has not.
Exactly!
What prove
I don't feel i had to prove myself to a generation
@@aotctd It's just a saying.
Most older people I have spoken with just want the younger generation to find something that they love doing, and focus on those things enough to make a living at it.
So I can grow and sell weed for extra food money?
@@sadhu7191 In NYC yes
Most probably focus on their lives
Not strangers
@@sadhu7191 Plenty Boomers ( and older ) did
@@sadhu7191 OH wait
You invented that, too, right ?
Me being 21 years old working a 12 hour shift and being told that buying a home is pretty much impossible lets me know that I have a exciting future in homelessness ahead of me and I think I’m okay with that. Sure beats paying rent
A bright future indeed lol
Thank you Brother, so much love and respect to you
Hey man, welcome to the squad
The only currencies we exchange in this life experience are our spiritual transactions! We live in a Current-sea. As above, so below. Thanks for sharing wonderful perspective Raymond. They have made generations of humans feel "subordinate" over and over, and yes our generation is no exception in this matrix. We do however, have the ability to change our perspectives, regardless if older generations have passed along trauma to the next. It's very strategic and the chaos is carefully organized to have so many humans souls wrapped up in distractions. Mainstream is just that - the main stream of magic. television = tell-a-vision. Rather than humans recognizing the Divine abilities we are born with, we look outward for that "instant gratification" and externalize our reality into a 3D understanding. We could say technically, most programs are indeed psychological ops, as everything in the human centric world is controlled by man, or so they say. This hierarchal patriarchal complex is what has so many not paying attention to the GAIA, MOTHER GODDESS, of whom we are a Direct reflection of. Love and compassion are at the highest vibratory states, and harmonious thought propelled by these energies would shake their matrix. It is happening now as we communicate these frequencies to one another, changing our old perspectives, and rewiring our senses to a stronger state of inner awareness, in direct connection with our 3rd eye of limitless potentialities. Of course, they don't want a majority of humans innerstanding, as we would quickly realize our own magic and creative possibilities are indeed infinite. So, the dampening of consciousness continues to be embedded while our creative potential is stolen as they use our human bodies/spirits as BATTERIES, harvesting energy from our senses and recycling it through the sensationalized instantly gratifying matrix. The actual Vampires...
Once the veil is removed, the synchronicities from your shifted perception, and vibration, will literally vibrate your senses to a different bandwidth in the universe. It changes the way you experience life, and helps us develop that inner awareness we need to commune with our higher thought forms, and bring them down into creation so we can truly be the Divine beings that we are. They ABSOLUTELY want humans to feel stupid, that is generational trauma that we see today, certainly. We have to break old habits continuously, and put in the REAL WORK to do this. The best way for me to give practical application is learning as many things as you can. Be a constant student and teacher. CONNECT with the MOTHER, GAIA. I will end with this note - Nature is the synonym for the ENTIRETY of the manifested universe, including ALL various planes, realms, AND dimensions.
WIth love!
Peace & chaos.
Thank you for this ✨ start making more videos on this. We must break free fully. Join the discord and continue to share your thoughts if that sounds right!
My youngest brother stayed at home till he was in his 30s. My mom paid for his school got him a computer graphic design degree. He still lives near my mom and she pays for his groceries and helps him with his rent and he makes over $100,000 a year programming computers And his wife treats him like a kid he’s called me regretting all his choices in the end. when I was in the middle of war and really tough times are always think they’re all nice and comfortable sitting back at home, but I wouldn’t trade any of that. knowing what I know now don’t envy anybody. Just do as much as you can this is real life don’t think it’s some simulation. Are you look back and have big regrets
This time last year I left my AC job. I didn’t even have my hvac license. I hit the books, got my HVAC’s license a few months later, created an llc, got a business account, built a website, got on google and by January 2024 the phone started to ring. I was going to my first jobs in my 2015 Honda Civic! I showed up with a big smile and did my very best. I got a work van and wrapped back in June. The days are longer than when I was working at my old job. But it feels better knowing that all the hard work is going towards my business and future. This world is changing fast. Don’t wait for anyone to give you a raise or promotion. Don’t wait for the perfect time to quit and start that business. You gotta take what you want in this life. Period.
The economy took a dump in 2008 and never really recovered, im 38 and kinda watched year by year things up until this point, ive got the house the cars the family but it feels like its easier than ever to loose it all. Its not so much the younger gen not wanting this or that its the very system the game thats been changed so theyll loose out.
Every generation blames the one before. Nothing ever changes.
Mom: son what are you going to do with your life.
Me: mom im only 50.
Trajic
I’m going to be 35 next month, and while I’ve changed a lot (especially in the last 5 years), I found most of my growth came from modifying and adapting existing structures. I can see now with my current job that the cultural changes are starting to take shape for people my age, and that we just weren’t in positions of authority until very recently.
I also think it’s the nature of young people to rebel against the existing power structure by default. Whether you’re in Iran or the U.S. or China, you hear the same complaints from young people just manifesting in different ways. I would also encourage you to remember that all of the old people of today were once just like you. Maybe they forgot that part of themselves, but everything they judge young people for now are things they were equally guilty of. The only thing I’d encourage you to wonder to yourself is why they’re like that.
Why do they hate wasteful and self destructive habits like drugs and social media? Why do they distrust the government by default and fall into stupid conspiracy theories and cults? Why do they all feel like alpha bad ass renegades in their brains despite almost none of them actually being that? You find the answers to that, and you’ll speed right past most of the people you’re age, and before long, you’ll be with us on the other side of this.
Just remember to stay humble, kind, generous, and loving to everyone you meet. You’d be surprised how far a good attitude gets you, even in big bad 2024.
Love this! ✨ this is the reality we want
(1:37) It's called "intuition." And yes, not everyone has it. It's more common among introverts.
INTJ ✨📈
@@realitydesignersinfj-a here. Yes I have crazy,almost schizo level intuition. Clairvoyant type shit
@@herethere5637 welcome to the squad ✨
"My spirit will rise from the grave and the world will see I was right"-a.h
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based ⚡⚡
⚡Real⚡
Older people are just more brainwashed by the passage of time.
Tru
@@realitydesigners no. Like you said it's a defense mechanism. People age and run out of energy. They can't handle arguments and seemingly stop caring. That's when they accept the status quo. At that point you can present the most intelligent argument in the most tactful manner and achieve nothing.
Pathetic
Agree with everything except for "not growing since 25 years old". I'm 39 and still growing. My mom is 66 and she is growing too! 💪
Rare you are! People still grow, but there is a plateau period definitely for most.
Retardation is the lack of growth also called Arrested Development!
I feel like any 20 something person over the last 150 years might of had similar thoughts. It’s tough being human, and each age has its specific challenges. You have a sharp mind and a good spirit, you will be fine :-)
I've been so depressed in the past all because I choose to follow my parents steps, now finally following my own I don't even recall how those dark times were anymore
Couldn’t agree more. Side note: that “just knowing things” is real. Dealt with that my whole life and it was particularly challenging as a child and a teenager because nothing pisses off an adult more than someone younger than them clearly understanding the nature of reality not just better than them but in a way that completely undermines so much of how the “adult” thinks and how their life played out. I’m adult now and I’m still searching for real adults who actually “get it”. If I really thought about it for awhile, I could probably only come up with a list of true adults that MIGHT fit on two hands. At the end of the day, if the younger generation is “terrible” and suffering and struggling, it’s the older generation that is to blame.
First of all, great video. I completely relate. However, this generation of youth isn't the only one going through these things, and won't be the last. When I was a kid, very young, at 4 years old I knew things and said things that would even scare my parents because there was no way I should know these things. Clairvoyant type shit. Youth across the world from all cultures and generations experience these things. Kids have way more capacity and potential, sensitivity and awareness to reality than people realize. But also discipline and certain traditional values are still important + good parents who are still open to learning with their kids and letting them discover and develop in their own way.
I'm 56 years old- have had quite a crazy life: a horrific childhood followed by being discovered on the street and beginning a 25-year modeling career, wherein I traveled the world and got to do things NO ONE gets to do (or not many people at least). Anyway, now I'm a high school History teacher and (if I may) my students LOVE me- not because I'm some "awesome instructor" (who knows; perhaps I suck at teaching lol) but because I TREAT MY STUDENTS AS FULLY EQUAL AND ABLE HUMAN BEINGS- great minds and spirits, all of whom I utterly respect as people. Indeed, I tell them on an almost daily basis "I learn more from YOU guys than you do from ME."
Point is, please know that SOME older people do NOT look down upon young people- not at all. I most certainly do not. I DO, admittedly, revile the phone addiction but I ALWAYS say to my kids "Hey- look- I absolutely wish you could live without your phone-- BUT- if I was your age- I'D BE DOING THE SAME THING-- SO IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT! You can't help it that you happened to be BORN into this specific world at THIS specific time! If anything the blame lies with US for making this garbage and then getting you guys hooked!" Putting the "phone issue" on young people is like blaming the addict rather than the drug dealer.
Anyway great thoughts- I hear you- and because of your words I will endeavor to be even MORE attuned to my students.
Please keep making these vids and I'll keep watching and liking them. Oh and duly subbed.
I love this! You are amazing ✨ really feel this one. Thanks for hopping on the ride! It’s going to get wild and who knows what’s in store. Let’s design this new reality
Less young now, but felt the same as you when younger. Young adults are expected to “pull themselves up by their bootstraps” when they have neither boots nor straps. Had to make my own boots and straps to pull up. Meanwhile, still working to make it better for the younger, but it’s difficult when capitalism is deeply embedded and people vote in representatives that give all the perks to the corporations and fight against social safety nets. May youse guys do what the hippies of the 60s tried to do before you existed. Good luck! 🥂🖖🏼
Time to reinvigorate the hippie movement - but with a little less “hippie” tho.
The old generation tells the new generation to work. But times are different. And the new generation must work twice and even more for a little pay. Overworking can cause so much stress, depression. The system is like designed to work work work in order to get some fair salary. But still it is not enough. You want to create you want to build but you cannot because you are stuck in a loop. Go work pay bills get home sleep. And you repeating this process over and over again. You don't have time for nothing. But rich people have all the time in the world all the resources at their fingertips that they can build using the money they have. But building with the money the working poor make for them. I wish everything in this world was not builded like this. Things to be builded by slave labour. This whole system is enslaving. But people are fine with that and they are unaware of that enslaving feeling and thing. They after work sit in front of the tv watch sports but they are so unhealthy eating burgers drinking coke and eating chips. They get obese. But watch fit energetic people who play in their favorite sports. This is insane. So many people around the world are becoming obese fat because they eat so much unhealthy foods that makes them fat with so much calories. And some are overeating. That tells how ierresponsible people are. But this system is falling apart. Soon a new even more scary system will be made people will have even less choices and opportunities to decide what is right and what is wrong. A system that will keep us in check and monitor us 24/7. But of course the people who are ierresponsible who are unaware will have no problems to live in that system and we the awared ones do we have a choice?
I'm 37 and my generation had similar problems growing up. Every generation has its own sets of problems. I agree older people struggle to resonate with the younger generations, but that problem goes both ways. My parents could afford housing, had better paying jobs etc, but they didn't have what I had growing up. I was speaking with a colleague who's in her 40s and she was telling about all the stuff she's buying her children. Clothes, phones, subscription services, video games etc all throughout the year. I only got stuff like that on birthdays and Christmas. It's just different issues. The societal changes are holistic and must be balanced out between the situation we're in, how people vote and the attitudes of each generation who live in the society itself. People who have kids tend to have different attitudes than people who don't in my experience. So that's just one way how one generation can influence another.
Ya the challenges we just face are different. Thanks for this ✨
I'm a Gen Xer and I can honestly say that the best thing my parents ever did was show me love and take me to church every week.
I don't want money or car or girl. I want family ans unconditional love or I am be ok homeless as man
man just cooked for 15 min
Cooked what? Eggs for dinner?
@@mkwarlockits the newest slang old man
@@mkwarlock bacon 2
You ain't said nothing but a word. The status quote has returned.
Frog legs
It's a totally broken system.
I was already feeling this way when I was more or less your age a decade ago.
Now it's only gotten more obvious that things are about to crack open.
People are throwing around all kinds of blame, usually across generations, but in reality, we need only look at the system.
Our entire lives have been under the shadow of capitalism, which worked fine for several generations when things were booming, but the inherent flaws were already there.
If you build a system based on concentrating wealth, then that's what it will do.....
Meanwhile, the rest of us will be fighting over crumbs.
We need to really work together to make sure that when this system falls apart, which is already underway really, we don't fall for the traps of the ruling class that keep them in power.
They've blown it.
They don't deserve to stay in charge at all, nor do they deserve the insane wealth they've accumulated on our backs.
They are trying to hard to make sure they retain control, so be weary of the promises they start making
I been saying thjs for yrs but ppl dont n cant accept it (esp boomers n older generation) cus they feel inferior n threatened
It is hard to get established in adulthood these days. Harder to find a secure job. Harder to find a secure relationship. It is not impossible but takes a lot more failure.
boomers will advise you to to go to school and get into tens of thousands of debt but if you ask them or a bank for a loan to start your well drafted business idea.... " 15% APY + 10% equity "
They hate us
You're totally right, it's all a big psyop. Technology is amplifying a lot of the difficult teenager stuff and they're struggling to adjust to it. Pair that with a bunch of boomers and not understanding parents you have the current malaise we find ourselves in. 36 here myself and glad to work a professional career with mostly younger people. But the boomers have to be nice to me because I manage and service their retirement accounts.
I would laugh at you 😂
No offense but you need to grow up
Thanks for this video. I will share it on my youtube channel as generation y 🙂
One question: When will you use Mastodon and Pixelfed?