How I See the US After Living Abroad for 15 Years [CULTURE SHOCK]
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- How I see the US after living abroad as an expat for so many years - pros, cons, and reverse culture shock. What's your opinion on living in the US vs Europe or abroad? Join the conversation in the comments.
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This is the first video I've seen from you. I'm curious if your income is American currency. I have traveled with the military and American currency was worth so much more in other countries. So living was extremely cheap.
Don't agree with you about "the selection of stuff". To me, the selection of stuff, including but not limited to snacks, in the U.S. is severely lacking and monotonous when compared to China.
I just saw this and it resonated with me. I spent ~3 years in Hungary, England, Ireland....I agree with you completely. I have come back with modified values from when I left and now I am old enough not to care too much about what others think of me. Thank you, very interesting points.
Yes, Americans are very binary thinking.
Great you left....now there 's more room for the millions of immigrants that come here every year. People vote with their feet. By the way, you can revoke your US citizenship anytime.
I'll never forget the time when an American friend asked me "hey, so how many sick days do we get?" Which confused me, we take days off when we're sick
Wait what ? How ? I am sorry this is a bit of a weird shock to me . I can't imagine this . Why ? This is just evil . Why would anyone be ok with THIS
However, many European countries have 2 months vacation in their annual employment contracts.
@@rmp7400 We only have 5-7 weeks, plus the sick days (if you get ill on a day that's a vacation day, you get deducted a sick day and get the vacation day back to be used later.) In the 1930's they had only two weeks of vacation, four weeks in the 1970's and now five to seven weeks. I don't think it will increase any further. 🤔
@@disciplinedgrindset623 when I worked at Walmart I literally would go to work severely sick all the time because otherwise I would’ve been fired. I have health problems and managers would tell me I look like death and I should go home but then I’d reply I would be fired because I already have too many points. Also, if you are injured in the job and have to be rushed to the hospital, but you don’t have enough points, they will literally fire you because you left the building. Even if it means you would’ve died to stay. And this was one of the highest paying jobs in the area in 2018
@@Jenny-tm3cm ok how is that even legal people could literally DIE that is in no way legal , there must be some law that doesn't allow that
The USA's greatest weakness is thinking that it has none. As a fellow world traveler, I'm in agreement with all your points.
We don't wallow in it, and flail ourselves to impress Europeans that all think it's cool to see your nation as dumb and horrid, and wonder why we dont act like them.
@@WillmobilePlus ....huh?
@@WillmobilePlus ....huh?
@@willumvans5833 *rolleyes*
>The USA's greatest weakness is thinking that it has none
We dont think like this. We just dont make a show of ourselves crying and engaging in self-flagellation over every little damn flaw, like a lot of Europeans do with their countries, or how a lot of self-hating Americans do in order to impress foreigners online.
We look on the bright side and all of the positives of being in America (far more than people online will ever admit).
What? It seems the popular pastime of a large portion of our country to talk about how terrible every single thing is.
Travel is fatal to prejudice, bigotry and narrow-mindedness... per Mark Twain. Whenever I travel outside the U.S., I find it much more difficult to adjust to our culture than I do to places away from home. I miss the simplicity and appreciation for everyday life I experience elsewhere. Thank you for posting this informative video. As a woman who travels alone, friends and family just don't understand what I experience. It's refreshing to connect with you in our like-mindedness. Thank you, thank you!
Americans are still not traveling, but with things like RUclips, we’re starting to open our eyes to some of the things that we just ain’t doing right.
Mark Twain - Following the Equator!
Ashley Colburn - Feels Like Home ruclips.net/video/6dHhL6e2HgM/видео.html Ashley Colburn na hrvatskom jeziku govori o Hrvatskoj ruclips.net/video/tWZyvsVYQec/видео.html
I was raised in the US but in a European way. My mother was English and my father was Italian. I always thought we were odd..small house, shopping local, keeping things forever and maintaining things, not over shopping just what for what we needed, homemade meals, my parents didn't allow fast food, being outside all the time and being healthy with homegrown food. Being conscious of how much water and electricity one uses, clothes lines, and wearing the best clothes we could afford but not excessive in the our closets. Still weird like this and I am almost 50. I consider myself a well curated somewhat minimalist and people make fun of me, still. I experience it quite a bit more when I was in the military for 8 years and travelled overseas. America has always thought we had the best, we are the best, etc...reality is kicking in now.
Thanks for sharing your insights, TxSpaceMOM!
I wasn't much of a cook, although we did buy organic. We didn't grow our own food, but I checked all the other boxes when it comes to how I raised my daughter. Fortunately, we lived in a small community of like-minded people in a large city. My parents and siblings were more consumeristic and your average Americans who were addicted to sports and quite oblivious to world events. Even years before my daughter was born, I was considered the "oddball" of the family. Once organic food and healthy living became more mainstream around 2000, they didn't think I was so crazy anymore. I guess I'll be on the cutting edge again, when they're stuck here in America, and I've moved on to another country!
I'm Irish in my 70's and feel you have iriterated exactly how we still live here in Ireland, my grandchildren are being brought up with the same values of community and respect for all regardless of their circumstances, hopefully that'll continue in spite of outside influences like the Internet which I find can be a fantastic educational tool,never lose hope for the next generations
@@quaker1849 This makes me smile! And I am tiny bit Irish.
yes exactly we both just want some PEACE & SANITY vs the war with ourselves here in post TRUMP and post COVID 19 America I am SICK of the bizzaro Pharmaceutical Ads, then 2 years later "class action law suits"....my friends seem alienated and depressed also....feeling disenchanted really SURE we all LOVE our country and proud of America but now...I think we are in the decline in a malaise and having an identity crises...kinder, calmer, simpler, like when I was YOUNGER..right? xoxoxoo ?/?
I have a Brazilian friend who has been living in America for the past 10 years. I asked him what his impression of America is from the time he arrived to the present. He said "America is an illusion." I think many of us fellow Americans feel the same.
A lot do feel this way as well. Thanks for sharing this, itodave100!
America is a stage.. or a freak show
Brazilian here living in the US for the past 15years. I wouldn’t move back to Brazil if you forced me to.
There’s a lot of benefits to each country. It really depends on the individual and their current needs and wants
Yes, i do agree with this view. In fact, most of my international family & friends feel exactly the same way.
@@Tyson-luvs-nuggets Absolutely, well said! Pros and cons to all countries. We pick what we want to focus on. We all have different needs. Perhaps malls are important to some while safety to others.
From Mark Twain, “ travel is fatal to prejudice, bigotry, and narrow-mindedness, and many of our people need it sorely on these accounts. Broad, wholesome, charitable views of men and things cannot be acquired by vegetating in one little corner of the earth all one's lifetime.”
However....we are humans capable of learning and empathizing....so even if WE don't travel, our minds can travel and learn about other societies and therefore WE CAN develop broad, wholesome, charitable views. Sadly I think empathy for our fellow man is diminishing as well.
Unless you have the Internet.
Thank you for sharing that bit of wisdom. Refreshing in these times.
Respect that, thank you 👍🏿
@@theme6590 Democracy always fails. History proves that.
The USA is a republic, not a true democracy. There is a difference.
As a US born and raised person I have travelled and lived as an expat for nearly 45 of my 80 years. I finally left the United States just over 30 years ago to live in Europe, never to look back, and I haven't. As a now senior citizen I am fortunate that I made that decision and regret that I had not done so sooner. The social system where I have settled is just so much better and supportive, and I am alive whereas had I stayed in the US it is quite likely, nearly certain, for many reasons, I would have been long gone by now.
amerikkkka sucks.
Oh my gosh I am so relieved to hear someone with an objective view point say all the things I’ve been feeling for years now. I’m not just imagining it!
Lack of empathy is the thing that concerns me the most .
Maybe it's just my imagination, but I get the impression that the influence of social media is largely to blame for that being an increasing thing in the younger generations, as silly as it may sound. Feels like young adults, and teenagers especially, have to be part of the "me, me, me"- culture, otherwise they feel left out of the internet's social norms.
@@DillaryHuff It's not your imagination, social media is cancer, where do you think crap like QAnon came from?
@@Radwar99 Austin Steinbart out of jail!!! MEGA
@@Radwar99 And Antifa and BLM...
Thank you for your honest thoughts on this world today. If only the leaders of the world were as honest,.
“They call it the American Dream, because you have to be asleep to believe it.”
George Carlin
Carlin also has a similar routine about stuff. Having a house is just a place where you put more stuff! Then you get a bigger house so you can put even more stuff!!
@@gelinrefira I like Carlin as comedian. i hope you know the difference between comedy and reality . Having a house is a lot MORE than just a place where you put your stuff . IN my world it is an investment in the first place , if you know what you are doing .
@@nyranstanton203 Home is always an investment , and you do NOT need to sell it !! NO wonder that you are POOR .
@@nyranstanton203 That is his value system because he is indoctrinated to think life is the rat's race. He is precisely the type of person Carlin also castigated in his Baby Boomer routine, even if he is not born during the boomer years.
@@martinko4086 Eww - you're vile.
The US healthcare situation is the most terrifying thing as a brit, especially with our government looking at destroying our NHS and replacing it with a US style system.
I was just studying this, UK is currently #2 in excellent health measures. Australia is further down the list, but well above the USA. BUT - that said, the sneaky privatisation of the health system is a creeping disease. Chipping away, so that someone at the top makes better profits.
I'm a Brit living in Canada for 22 years. I see the UK drowning under woke nonsense, pandering to those who have no respect for British culture or heritage and ridiculous political decisions that could only be made by teenagers with zero knowledge of the mistakes of the past.
The UK had fallen.
Yes. The American elites are manipulating governments in Europe trying to export their private tax business exploitation models. They need to be stopped
Take the streets! Do not let that happen. I repeat, do not let that happen, else your health will become a complete business. I mean it prolly already is but I promise it'll be worse lol
A government that's poured more billions into it every year than ever before (25 billion more in 2023 than three years earlier!)?
As an American, I agree wholeheartedly. Lately I’ve been seriously considering moving to another country after graduating next year. I’ve notice people have gotten more vain and narcissistic in recent years, and it’s frowned upon (especially in the South) to take time to care about other people. Individualism is pushed heavily here.
If you're young...which I am not...LEAVE. Don't consider it. Do it. You will not regret this.
Don't fall into the trap of thinking that you can run away from sinful traits in humanity by moving to a foreign land. You'll quickly realize that human nature is human nature no matter where you go.
If you can go explore the world! Be safe if you do but I hope you do!
@@GWorksGrowI
Beautifully expressed. I am a German living in Italy, have travelled the world, including the USA, and have wonderful American friends. If all people travelled and met other realities, with open heart, we could learn so much from each other. I love my American, Italian, German, Indian, British, Russian friends.
The beauty of traveling
Ha. Good for you. But traveling isn’t easy when the cost of living is so high.
Hell yes
Where in italy do you live? How come you moved from Germany to Italy?
Aber nimmer die schrecliche Französischen
Every country has a different energy in the air. I'm an American living in Morocco for 10 years and the energy here is calm and slow. The energy in America is so intense and fast that it gave me anxiety. Morocco's energy has cured my anxiety from living in America.
At the age of 18 (so many years ago) I was stationed in Torrejon, Spain and the pace of my life ground to a halt. Time seemed to stand still for 2 years. Then I ended up in San Antonio, TX; not as slow as Spain, but close. A year and half later, I returned home to SoCal. On my drive back, I ended up on the freeway during rush hour and the energy was INSANE. I panicked.
same here! Living abroad cured my anxiety
This effect also occurs when living in different parts of the USA. Small city mid america is fairly chill
This is why some Americans have confessed staying home & having their whole states slow down due to Covid has been good for their anxiety. Doesn't apply to everyone of course, but many people have spoken out on this
Yes, if you go to a Third World country, things really slow down. When you're dying, it's slow too.
Oh Kristin, thank you for speaking the truth about the US. It has become a superficial, shallow population for so many reasons. I thought that I was thinking crazy, but I feel the way you do. I don’t value a shallow conversation or the materialistic culture. I’m in my mid 50’s and I’m ready to escape the negative, self-centered mindset of the US. It’s time to find a better community for the next years of my life. You’re a fantastic inspiration!
Glad to know you resonated with me, Carmin! Thank you for watching and for sharing your insights as well!
@@TravelingwithKristin I just turned the corner on 57 years. Starting out as a military brat [stepchild], did kindergarten in Augsburg Germany... allot of learning about how to be small and quiet to avoid drunken violent attention. Had to live that way until 16 and emancipation came my way thanks to Grandparents who finally could speak for me. I appreciated them and their love for me beyond anything I can ever express. They were a WWII couple who got together when he came home from the 82nd Airborne. He built her a home with a beauty shop she could work in, and he went to work in a factory in southern Indiana.
I thrived in their care. Got good grades and won a scholarship and was on my way at 18. I followed him into the business of engineering at the same company he retired from and I have been caregiving for both of them in their last years. He slipped away in 2016 at 90, and she passed at 93, in 2018. I have lived, laughed and loved in the light of their love... and their teachings.
I watched your post about Costa Rica with mild interest because I am a few short years from retirement... I am intrigued by living somewhere away from the burning shytteheap that is American politics, but I have been totally schooled by the school of hard knocks,, and despite all the fleas to scratch,, Lady Liberty is the light of freedom, for the world.
I saw the words from the Brazilian who lives in Denmark and said they worshipped the USA when he was a kid, but now, not so much,, and I agreed in principle,, but I am loyal to a fault.
I am interested in whether a pizza in Bulgaria could POSSIBLY be better than the one I had last night outside of Indianapolis.... or if there's ANYWHERE else in the world where I can enjoy Top Fuelers at full candle,, or a fabulous blue eyed girl telling me how wonderful the rest of the world is from the comfort and safety of the good Ole USA.
Kristin ,,, thank you for sharing your experiences and your thoughts. You 'resonated' with me because I remember well,, the big German gals who looked after us kids in Augsburg in the early 70's. They laughed easily, and shared their baked goods and their love with us kids,,, and they showed a very young me, that not all Germans were the kind I saw in the wartime newsreels from my Granddad's war.
I hope we get a chance to avoid WWIII.
It's not looking good though.
Only progressives have rotted the USA.
I feel like the friendliness here in the US comes sort of from our detached way of living, and I could be totally wrong since I'm not exactly "one of them". I've always been friendly and was automatically raised to do things like smile and say hello to anybody I pass while walking, but I've never been a "comfortable talking to people" person. Which is becoming more and more common, people are terrified of eachother. But I do find that people here will express friendliness regardless of willingness to actually have any level of closeness to another person. To me, that's almost like an expression of what you're missing in life.
One time, an online friend from Bulgaria asked me how my health was, and I gave him an honest answer. Then I immediately apologized, because here in the US when you ask someone how they are, you don't really care, you just want to hear "I'm fine" (which I obviously find pointless). He said no no, I asked you because I was actually interested, we ask eachother this all the time and we don't expect the other person to fake. It was very surprising to me. In fact, I felt like I wasn't important enough to actually answer that question honestly, which really shows something wrong with how people treat themselves.
The four things that really stood out to me when I traveled across America was the consumerism, propaganda, shallowness and fear. I've never been to a society that is driven by so much fear of 'others'.
Yeah, Jason, and it's precisely these traits that trumpism has taken a hold of, which has brought out the very worst of humanity. Very sad...
I noticed the same thing during my travels in America. As much as Americans can be friendly, they also fear strangers.
I've always thought "home of the brave" was more an aspiration then anything, when you think about all they spend on defence
Only the guilty ones FEAR things. The virtuous fear not.
As an American who has lived abroad, I can attest to the dear of others. It's the most insane thing ever. I am curious what you mean by propaganda (politics?) and shallowness.
realizing that it's time to leave the U.S. here, we've been sold a colossal lie and few can escape it. we're both geographically isolated and living paycheck to paycheck. thanks for this video.
You're leaving the US? Who's going to be trolling cops?
I have watched this very interesting video, I don't agree with everything but it explains a lot of things very well: ruclips.net/video/yhBkeAo2Hlg/видео.html
You can leave anytime you like, go please.
@@bobsmith6953 Typical American mentality, or what a troll would like others to believe, I pity you.
go ahead
I guess it all depends on where you live in the US, your culture, and your values. It’s a huge, diverse country. Many people still live in small towns with more relaxed lifestyles. For instance, I live outside of Tampa, Florida and work from home (about 20 hrs a week, salaried). Luckily I’ve always had great health insurance and I earn over a month of PTO.
I maintain a simple lifestyle by cooking my own healthy Mediterranean meals during weekdays, entertaining myself with little hobbles and fitness activities, traveling abroad annually and throughout the states regularly. My focus is on simplicity and peace. Materially, I’m good as long as my needs are met. I don’t have many material wants. I earn an average salary.
Life doesn’t have to be a rat race.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts on the topic, Insouciant9! 😊
The U.S.A is an amazing country. Liberal thought is ruinous.
I was thinking the same as you, I live in Bangkok and hate it, I miss small town living in the USA. Let's not even get into how dangerous walking or commuting is in Thailand, one of the most dangerous places to walk or commute in the world!
What do you mean by "Mediterranean meals" ? That doesn't mean anything.
@@asellandrofacchio7263 “The Mediterranean Diet emphasizes plant-based foods and healthy fats. You eat mostly veggies, fruits and whole grains. Olive oil is the main source of fat. Research shows the Mediterranean Diet can lower your risk of cardiovascular disease and many other chronic conditions.” -Cleveland Clinic
Great video! As a latin kid growing up in Brazil we used to worship the US and dream about moving there. A lot of what we consumed was American, including movies, music etc. Now as an adult living in Denmark, I completely changed my mind. The best definition I can think of is: “The US is a developing country with a Gucci belt”
Thanks for sharing your thoughts Camilla! 😊
Well said! I always refer to America and Africa together but it's not fair to the multiple African nations that are aware of their issues and actually try to fix them.
E o brasil é um pedaço de bosta sem cinto mesmo 😂
and you are a 3rd world parda that dyes her hair blonde to feel norwegian 🤣
This isn't meant to sound rude, but based upon interaction with family and friends in the US, I find Americans the most sheltered and naive people in the west. So much of what's being discussed here is general knowledge, particularly among Europeans. It's extremely whimsical to us Europeans when Americans talk about the US "freedoms". 🤷♂️ We have our own set of problems in my home country of the UK, but it can be bizarre to hear some of the US assumptions about the rest of the world.
to be fair, the indisputable fact is, the only people here in the US that talk about 'freedoms' like that with any seriousness (not in context of general advantages as a 1stW nation to thinking about a catastrophe or conditions in a 3W country or something) are right-wing. It's not most of us bragging about being better than everyone else..it's fascists and naive republicans with personal, emotional baggage
@@elizabethbennet4791 and I hate to say it but I'm pretty sure that even regardless of ostensible party affiliation amongst citizens, the majority of people in the USA are essentially very right wing in exactly that way that you're articulating. It's a real shame.
Nowadays in America anything anyone says or does is politicized, as you can see here by these comments..they've never even met 99% of the "right wing" people they're referring to and simply pass on severe judgement. I'm sure every country has its similarities and differences but I can agree America there is plethora of naivety. I think there is a huge world wide "lack of awareness" issue going on coupled with loss of compassion for the human race. When you have to start a sentence with "I dont mean to sound rude", it is rude. Most Americans adore Brits by the way.
Good point!
@@alexhindes3861 Amen, I don't form opinions about people UNTIL I interact with them, and even then my opinion is not generally absolute or permanent.
I am a 62 year old single female who hasn't been much of anywhere outside the western US. Thank you so much for this video. It has given me alot to think about.
When this epidemic is over, I hope you can do a trip abroad. I am sure you will find things you love and hate about the country you visit and at least I find travelling also make you appreciate the good things about your country or life more too.
I am 55 and have been trying to take my life simple. I am not a Philippino but I do recommend you to visit the Philippines. I am sure that you will get a lot from your trip there. Wish you best^^
@Martin Luther divorced, male, streight and single at the moment. Looking for a lovely lady to praise.
Wish my fiancee children would leave the little village where they grew up; expand their knowledge, and become enriched by other world views.
Spoiled; access and not a clue about values like empathy, importance of education and thrift
You NEED to get the heck out of the US. It’s fun & you learn so much about life & yourself.
While we’re in a lock-down mode...Take time now & prepare how to travel, keeping your health & safety. Good Luck 🍀
I know you’ll be amazed with other countries. How different cultures are, experience how people live.
Just discovered your channel and watched this as the 2nd video and it’s more relevant that ever even after 2 years of it’s posting.
Thanks for putting your heart into your work to share that side of you. Vulnerability is the real strength.
Subscribed and shared this with my family 👍🏽
I like that you brought the issue of the 2-party system. As an European, I've occasionally tried explaining to Americans online how that polarizes the political discussion in the US. Though it's not getting through since they don't have the experience of witnessing how multi-party governments work here in EU for example.
Here we don't have such emotional attachments to specific political parties in general since you have so many options to choose from that still align with your views. But all the political discussion online done by Americans seems borderline existential where the other party winning will mean the end of everything you love. It is really weird to witness this phenomena.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts on the topic, Daniel 😊
LOL, EU countries are similar to the U.S. in terms of political system and are American vassals.
We didn’t used to either. The polarization of the two party system & party before country, materialism, illegal government shenanigans, out for #1, lack of empathy for others, let alone helping them, ideas like ‘I have to keep you from getting anything so I can have mine,”. has change literally everything.
I’m outing myself as old because I can remember when it was different & people weren’t so harsh with each other. ( not back in the day, it really was different. )There’s very little I can say is better. Tech? I sure don’t miss the ubiquitous smoking although I understand it that way still in many countries.
& yes to another poster. Advertising pharmaceuticals was illegal & is still jarring to me. I feel that ought change back, along with how political contributions are now regulated. Even our Supreme Court is outed with corruption.
So many things that once were trustworthy. & companies had pride in there products ( before planned obsolescence) & many of them cared about there employees as much as they did about profits.
& yes I think Americans are workaholics & companies take advantage of it.
It really, truly was different. It’s not nostalgia.
This period is closer to the robber baron era as much as anything.
Okay I’ll stop my rant now which no will see.
"But all the political discussion online done by Americans seems borderline existential where the other party winning will mean the end of everything you love"
Because it will.
Sounds like you're too disconnected to know the things that are at stake.
Contrary to what Europeans think, the two party system doesn't really stymie the political gradient at all. There are conservative Democrats and Liberal Republicans. It's been very common.
However it has deteriorated only in the recent past, precipitated by the culture war.
When my wife and I went to Europe for the first time, we went to Venice first. At dinner we noted the smaller and reasonable portion. The next thing we noticed had us stop eating at the same time. Then I said to her, “something is different.” We remained quiet as we thought, then at the same time we said, “it’s fresh!”
I had the same experience while traveling around New Zealand. I had bought apples and carrots for a snack and taking a bite stopped me dead in my tracks. It tasted. So. Good. I was absolutely gobsmacked.
It has made eating food back in the US very difficult.
@@lomborg4876 I mean it’s fresh as lacking in chemicals and whatever crap they do to food in the US. Trust me, go to Italy or Spain or the place the other responder mentioned. You’ll taste the difference.
I’ll give an example of an experience in the US. I don’t like blueberries. I went to brunch at a vegan restaurant in NYC. There were blueberries on my plate. I tried one, then another, then another until they were gone.
What was the difference? They were fresh and free of whatever they usually do to the food. They burst with flavor.
I tried blueberries from the grocery store again after that. The things were flavorless and nasty. They looked fresh, they weren’t going bad, they had no flavor.
@@lomborg4876 Ahh….ok. I wrongly assumed you were from the States. My bad.
I have a feeling, based on what you shared about Scandinavia, I’d tell you Scandinavian food is fresh. 😊
Pam, I concur, I visited the states and ordered a salad. It was massive just too big and tatsted bland. I’m glad you enjoyed your experience though.
@@pambmusic I'm not denying what your saying is true, but there are farmers markets all over the USA, and it's legal to grow a garden last time I checked....eating fresh is a choice.
Watching this I thought “oh boy, the comments are going to be crazy”. And yet the popular comments are written by reasonable people who understand what she’s saying. Nice job Internet!
I totally agree. I was hoping she didn’t get dragged. And the responses are quite thoughtful.
Then you haven't delved into the comments of those comments
I thought the same thing. My experience is much less than hers..although I speak several languages, which has given me the opportunity to empathize with foreigners in their country. I half expected to see..no way..if you don’t like it..leave..etc. it is interesting if not promising how objective and rational many Americans can be!
If you enjoy a shitshow sort comments by Newest First 😂😂
Well America is getting expensive due to over population,
and in California the Asian immigrants are driving up housing.
Ask real estate agents there. Millions being paid for homes.
The key is personal safety which is lacking,in many places.
Also, American Laws allow high profits and rip offs(think Pharma).
America remains the number one destination of potential immigrants.
I have also lived in multiple Countries. Very few are even close to
America in terms of safety and opportunity. We allow everyone to leave.
This is the last bastion of Raw capitalism. However, the medical
capitalism is overboard here--profiting off suffering humanity.
Americans are caught up in getting rich and into themselves.
America has a lot of abundance (electric meters without coin slots).
In the U.S., people live so squeezed by employment, competitiveness and the cost of living that when they drink alcohol, what they are looking for is to release all the tension created by this way of life; I guess that is partly why there is also so much addiction to opiates.
I really appreciate you being so sensitive at the end, it shows the love you have inside.
Keep those wrinkles, especially the ones next to your eyes (in Spain we call them "patas de gallo", crow's feet). They make you more expressive and more authentic, more human so to speak.
13% of Americans are 'on' anti-depressants.
Keep her wrinkles because it makes her more authentic and human?🤷♀️🤦♀️ And opiate addiction happens everywhere in the world, not just America.🙄
Choosing to be sober is quite lonely in the US
I am an 82 year old native U S citizen. I have had many hardships in my life (loss of job,death of many close friends and family, financial hardship, divorce general hard times) and drugs or alcohol have never seemed like an answer.The facts about both drugs and alcohol and their risk are widely known. No one holds you down and forces you to ingest either one of these substances. Drugs and alcohol are life style choices made each individual.You reap what you sow.
Came across your Channel while searching info on Costa Rica. I'm a retired teacher and have become so outraged at the toxic "environment" in my own Country that I have been looking at alternative places to travel to and maybe even lay down new roots. It's so refreshing to see a young woman with your perspective. I plan on watching and learning more from you and will inquire about your services. Thank you.
As a Naturalized Citizen in the US and having migrated here in my teens , I wholeheartedly agree with you and wish so much to relocate to Costa Rica and still be close enough to the US so I can see my grandkids and my daughter and husband yearly. I'm retired (early) on SSI and cannot afford to live here anymore although I have been working here since I was 18 , two degrees and nothing to show for it but stress, disease and anxiety. I feel I will die an early death if I continue living here. I'm 65 yrs old and feel 80😢😢😢😢
The fact that Kardashians are famous is a prove of consumerism mentality in America
You said it ! I Mean who even follows the Kardashian Crap???
But they're famous globally, not just in US
@@annakirshenbaum1458 Yes but here in Europe we are mostly making fun of them but American´s are mostly praising them or Am I wrong
Also a bad look for millennials. Boomers, for all their flaws, would nvr have made the kardashians famous.
The kardashians have nothing to do with consumerism. It is celebrity for the sake of celebrity worship.
When i was a kid i wanted to go to university in USA. For the last years i have seen how truly usa is. Instead of spending 50k a year in university, I will spend 697 Euros per year on a top engineering uni.
Totally agree, Tiago. It’s much more affordable abroad
this is the role model country for many Indians
in my country Uni is free, we pay for PhD, but even this can be paid for
Oh also Highschools sometimes have programs where when you graduate highschool you have the certificate to work in whatever field you studied. For example my highschool offer kids a computer programming class, automotive class, or childcare class. For these classes you would take it for the 4 years that you were in highschool. The end of your 4th test you would take a test to get your certification. I had 3 friends that went through one of the programs. All of my friends graduated highschool with an ok paying job. My one friend went on to work for working for the US government to make our government files safer. My friend at 28 made $100,000 a year and this was just from a highschool program.
My cousin got his certification to work on Air conditioners in highschool. He graduated highschool with an ok job as a a/c repairman. Now he's on his own and is raking in the money. I hope more schools go to offering these kinds of programs.
I should say Uni should be way more affordable. You shouldn't have to jump through hoops to make Uni affordable.
I still think all schools in the US should do some kind of schooling for trade work. Not every kid is cut out for Uni and they should have a way to make decent money right out of highschool. What I mean by decent is not minimum wage or $8.50 an hour. I'm talking about $10-$20 an hour. Yes I understand for most areas anything under $15 you can't live alone. Some areas you gotta work your way up the ladder.
Wow! What a wonderful video! I am from Brazil. 🇧🇷😊 Thank you for taking your time to share such wise and necessary conversation.
I love my country and know that every nation has something for its citzens to be proud of. Every nation has its good and bad parts and recognizing it makes us see that no matter where we are from, we ALL have great acomplishments.
We are ALL the same!!! We are ALL citzens of this same world during our journey here!
And I feel so happy to watch contents like yours!
God bless you!
me too 🇧🇷
Glad to know you enjoyed the video, Daniel! Indeed, every country will have its pros and cons. Thank you for sharing your insights! Take care and all the best to you 😊
Wow!!! You are amazingly REAL!! A breath of fresh air to know that people like you exist!! Thanks from the bottom of my heart ! In these days of craziness and turmoil I'll be looking forward to your grounding videos every day. Sending you the biggest and warmest hug for what you do!!!
From your 64 year old Colombian woman and biggest admirer.
Thank you sweetheart ❤
I used to live in Long Island, New York... I went on vacation to a place called Mallorca, Spain... I never went back to the states.. That was 13 years ago...
Oh wow! How is life there? hope you are doing great Cris.
Cris Iturralde , tell the true, you lost all your money and you cannot afford to come back . OR you got married and your wife made a personal slave of you . I am not crazy about NEW York , But there are many places in the US worth to live in . ARE you a citizen of SPAIN ??
Lucky you, Mallorca is such a beautiful island.
@@martinko4086, what does he need money for if he’s already living his best life?
Do you know the fisherman story? A man tells another man: Instead of just fishing for your food everyday, you could work hard over many years to build a fishing company, then hire a manager or sell it, and retire. What would you do in retirement? Do what you love, fishing.
Fisherman: I already do that...
@@KK-sg5gl Your story is "good " for little children , because they are easy to fool . Fisherman on commercial ship is one of the deadliest jobs on this planet and i am convinced that if this fisherman has o lots of money / like this IDIOT cris ilturralde with a lots of money in Mallorca / he would NOT risk his daily life . Most of the people are working jobs they do not like , just to feed theirs families . Please , teach children reality , NOT bullshit .
European here, who has now lived almost 20 years (approx. half my life) in America. Literally everything stated in this video I find to be true. This is a great country that really could be as great as so many think it is, if more people travelled and realized what so much of the rest of the world has, and what Americans also deserve, and then returned home to fight for it.
Now that we have the internet, a lot of Americans are starting to do that. Hopefully we can change before it's too late
Well, sorry to inform but you have nothing to do, just enjoy your victory comrade.
THIS!
Agree on the fact that more Americans would benefit from traveling and living abroad and seeing how world works outside of here.
We're too busy working not moaning and whining all the time about every damn thing in life
I'm Italian, I married an American, and I've lived in the US, Germany and the UK, and I agree with you on pretty much everything! And no, you don't talk about deep stuff just because you are a foreigner, it's how we are. A lot of topics are kinda taboo in the US (religion, sex, politics) but totally normal to discuss and even "nicely argue" about for us
Glad to know you resonated with me Silvia! Thanks for sharing your insights as well 😊
I lived the first 1/3 of my life in Asia, the following 1/3 up and down California, and this present 1/3 in Europe, having traveled to 35 countries, a few of these many times. Kristin has perfectly put into words what I have felt all these years about the "greatestcountryintheworld" and its relationship with the rest of the world. This video is gold. I'm keeping it forever.
I have lived in Europe for 22 years. I am from Detroit (the ghetto). You are correct on every level. I lived in the Netherlands, Belgium, London. I live in France now. I speak fluent Dutch and my French is okay as of now, but working hard toward fluency. I will return home in time, and I already know that I will have serious culture shock. One thing for sure is having to deal with the dogmatic policing of the citizenry. I have not engaged with a police officer in any fashion during my now 22 years in Europe. Well outside of a pleasant conversation here and there. Oh yes and a few years ago I was lost in a Dutch city, the police officer saw that and stopped me to give me directions after being extremely polite and cordial. Didn't run my plates or anything like that. Didn't ask for my ID. Sometimes I tell my friends that I live the American Dream in Europe, which is stupid.
Most Americans do not have much interaction with the police. Aside from random pleasantries I Have not had an interaction with any police in over 35 years. Don’t believe what you see in the media. They have an agenda that they are presenting
Great post Andre, thanks.
Why don't you come back to "Mokum" Amsterdam.
greetz from Amsterdam.
@@IAmTheEggMan111 thats bullshit!!! blk ppl out here dying at the hands of police daily!!! what are you talking about??? Ive seen it with my own eyes!!!!!
Living the American dream in Europe is not stupid. Unfortunately, I don't honestly believe you could live it in the United States, especially right now. None of seem to be able to at this time. Too much power grabbing and political b.s. Stay where you are, if you want to stay happy. I wish you much luck and happiness. Pray for us in America. 🤗
George Carlin was so right about America: “The reason they call it the American Dream is because you have to be asleep to believe it.”
"People spend money they don't have, on things they don't need"
@@Antagonopolis well they’ve been conditioned too. This is what happens when you’re raised in a society that does nothing but teach you to spend money
Says the guy who made millions telling jokes on a stage
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This don't make sense.
Hi Kristin. We are a retired couple and are in the process of moving to Portugal. Thank you for your wonderful, thoughtful, well produced channel. You are wise beyond your years, and that is a result of the life that you ended up living. I just watched your video about being back in the US, and you really hit the nail on the head with your observations. We have seen many changes in our country in our lifetime, some good some bad. We just completed a year and a half journey around the USA, and you're right. It is an amazing place, but there are problems also.
The highlight of our trip was definitely the many people from all walks of life that we met. They gave me hope that the country will continue to progress toward a positive outcome. Thanks again.
the ending was powerful through your vulnerability. i really appreciated that. thank you for making these videos. you have gained a new subscriber
I'm in my sixties, and the differences between the US and other countries that you describe is similar to the differences between the US now and the US when I was young. Food was more natural, medical care was inexpensive, rent was affordable. As I recall, pharmaceutical ads were illegal too. The 1960s counterculture movement was a reaction against the kind of materialism that is celebrated in the US today. I don't want to get into a tedious debate with some internet troll about whether I think it was 'the good old days,' but those differences were real and actually happened and to repeat, compare with the differences you describe between the US and other countries today. There is a saying that has turned out to be literally true: "The past is another country."
Thank you for watching and for sharing your insights Joe!
I posted this to another comment, but it fits so well here, I’m adding to here too.
We didn’t used to either. The polarization of the two party system & party before country, materialism, illegal government shenanigans, out for #1, lack of empathy for others, let alone helping them, ideas like ‘I have to keep you from getting anything so I can have mine,”. has change literally everything.
I’m outing myself as old because I can remember when it was different & people weren’t so harsh with each other. ( not back in the day, it really was different. )There’s very little I can say is better. Tech? I sure don’t miss the ubiquitous smoking although I understand it that way still in many countries.
& yes to another poster. Advertising pharmaceuticals was illegal & is still jarring to me. I feel that ought change back, along with how political contributions are now regulated. Even our Supreme Court is outed with corruption.
So many things that once were trustworthy. & companies had pride in there products ( before planned obsolescence) & many of them cared about there employees as much as they did about profits.
& yes I think Americans are workaholics & companies take advantage of it.
It really, truly was different. It’s not nostalgia.
This period is closer to the robber baron era as much as anything.
Okay I’ll stop my rant now which no will see.
Thanks to the Democratic Party for making the US nearly unaffordable for the majority of citizens
As you suggested, I'm not continuing an argument. Not fun, however, to find myself in the late 1950s as a college student. I had no idea about culture shock or how horrifically rude, etc. people would be to me for no reason. So it goes both ways. I couldn't stand the lack of consumer variety, slow pace of life, no motivation of anyone to get ahead or improve themselves.
@joeschembrie9450 you are exactly right! Also what this channel fails to explain is that the other countries are catching up to the USA at lightening speed!! and turning into the USA, and adopting the USA's way of life and culture. I have lived in Spain, Germany and Italy and traveled ALL over europe(England, France, Denmark, Holland, Sweden, Hungary, Austria, etc.etc...). Taking Spain as an example(which could not be further away from the US culture), what she says describes Spain 20 or 30 years ago, but certainly NOT now. The rent in Spain has skyrocketed! people no longer sleep siestas, people no longer have long lunches. People in Spain now have dryers for their clothes. All the food in Spain is now flooded with American brands, people drive cars everywhere, and no longer walk, etc.etc..
This video is outdated in the sense, if she was talking about 1990's or early 2000's europe, I could agree there is a difference between the USA and Europe. Now Europe is basically, for the most part, becoming more and more of a carbon copy of the USA living style.
FYI I have lived in europe since 1995, for 28 years! I have seen and lived the changed.
"...in many ways, we have been taught more to value hard work and independence sometimes at the expense of logic, empathy, and humanity" I couldn't have said it better!
Yeah, I also totally agree with that!
Btw if you’re looking for something to watch, I have videos from London and other cities as well☺️ if you want to check them out
100%
It doesn't even make sense.
Freedom is bad? Now I know I'm dealing with leftards.
I’d add to that and say sense of community is lost as well
I think you nailed it. You are wise beyond your years, obviously your travels contributed to this. Everywhere has its good and bad. The US is an amazing place with many great people as you pointed out. I just wish it wasn’t being co- opted by corporate greed.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts on the topic Brian!
WOW! That final ending segment really was heavy and really packed a punch! Thanks for making such a thoughtful, thought provoking video, Kristin. And now, as I write this post from my motel room here in Albuquerque, on the verge of a return back to Guanajuato, Mexico, I will definitely keep your thoughts and observations in mind and take them to heart.
I'm glad you found the ending impactful! 🌟 Safe travels back to Guanajuato 🌄✈️😊
This was awesome! I lived abroad for 9 months in the balkans. Traveling through those countries truly changed my perspective on life. It's amazing what it does to you, living amongst people who live and think differently than you. We need that as human beings. This world is too big to just live in one country your whole life. There's SO MUCH out there. So much beauty. So much life... Thank you for making this Kristin
🙏 amen
I lived for 3 years in Belgrade/Serbia. Best time of my life!
And the Balkans can be very diverse. Different cultures... Albania and Croatia, for example, different worlds
@@tvplaych7666 That city had the best vibe
True. But not to sound like too much of a conservative, but this is just a life lesson for all disgruntled Americans... if you hate it here or don’t find America to your liking, find somewhere else to live. There really are plenty of great places out there. This isn’t North Korea. We’re ALL free to live our best life somewhere else. And on that note, I didn’t like the state I was living in ( Nevada, for over 40 years) so I packed up my car and drove 2,700 miles east to southwest Georgia. Couldn’t be happier. Great weather and homes cost a quarter of what they cost in Nevada. There’s thousands of towns around this great nation that are very affordable on even a limited budget. The house I bought 4 months ago here for $89,000 would have cost me close to $500,000 in Reno. With half the yard.
And yes, before moving here I considered moving to Thailand, Mexico or Portugal.
My own sister ( who owns one of those $500,000 homes in Reno) bought a secondhand house in Baja Mexico for $5,000, put $15,000 into for renovations and it’s a beautiful home. Only a 5-10 minute walk to the Pacific Ocean. Beautiful crystal clear blue water and empty beaches. In a tropical 🌴 climate. I’m considering moving there still.
I was fortunate to live in a small village in Germany for six years while I was in the Army. And most people like myself would agree that living in Germany was a beautiful experience. Instead of hanging out with GI's I made friends with the locals that took me to places that I will cherish forever. And it afforded me the opportunity to visit Austria, Switzerland, Liechtenstein, Italy, France and my favorite city was Amsterdam. It was an education that money can not buy. The people I met in Germany were so friendly and hospitable. Those memories I will cherish forever. I too live in Florida and it is sad what has become of my home town. And now that I am retired I look at all my stuff I am trying to get rid of most of it. Less is more. I fell right into that consumerism trap.
I recently ,y retired and travel most of the year (until now of course). What I’ve found, and those I meet agree - people around the wotld are basically the same. We want to enjoy and help show visitors our life, share the similars, appreciate & learn from the differences. I mean just the food around the world is worth the trip!
@Robbi Grimm Lori didn‘t say „countries“. So we‘re good. :)
Western Europe is such an epic place to explore, and the people are generally awesome too. Such a shame we can’t enjoy it anymore.
@@pushnpow they love the money we spend there.
@Robbi Grimm Lori stated..."and my favorite CITY was Amsterdam".
Thank you Kristin for your insights, honesty and authenticity. I am in midlife, wrapping up a productive career and looking to open myself and discover the world and a new way of living after 25 years of pursuing my teenage dreams. Im now moving on to a new phase and your videos have inspired me. From Cape Town, South Africa
Glad to know you got inspired by content, Marcus! All the best to you trip!
Being from the USA and having lived in 5 countries in both Western and Eastern Europe for the last 8 months I can say that the information Kristin presents here is accurate and spot on.
more like a bunch of lies.
@@RobertMJohnson hahaha you wasteman
I lived in Asia for 30 years before coming to the US and I can tell you that I am still in a cultural shock. I am sharing the same perspective here with you. I think Americans, American businesses and most strikingly the US government , are constantly being in a state of flux marked with feeling of insecurity (being less powerful than another country), loss of control (being overtaken by someone more superior). The mainstream media have made Americans mentally sick by constantly, explicitly comparing people's "net worth" in terms of $, millions, billions, trillions but never encourage people to look at society from a human point of view.
Glad you resonated @handy mack and thanks for sharing your insights.
YES, YES, Though I never considered it before, you are absolutely correct. The money drive is fabricated by the MEDIA!
Exactly! We Americans are mostly asleep. We're dumbed down by our Mainstream Media. A real lack of critical thinking among the population. Too much emphasis on the material and the superficial here.
Me too. 28 years away, Now back and seeing people hating each other with division growing.
@@hkraytai what you perceive as hate really profits one political party, the one that promotes that and would have you think that they are against it but still they promote it so you'll vote for them. In truth they are the source of the hate, these are the people that promote that minorities are not smart enough to bring a driver's license to a voting booth. If you believe that... you are the racist
Your video is spot on! My husband and I are both Filipinos who used to work in Chicago for 20 yrs. We moved back to the Philippines in 2013, and believe it or not, all our back pains, insomnia are gone. My husband's BP is controlled now. When I was in the States, I felt self-entitled, impatient, selfish, etc. Here in the Philippines, where I see real poverty among our neighbors, I am more giving, more understanding, more patient. And what's even more incredible is that our poor neighbors turned out to be way more generous that most of our so-called "moneyed friends" back in the US. We retired early, and my colleagues asked me how I was able to survive here without all the conveniences America has to offer. But no, they'll never understand. And it's okay. Because I know their consumerism and materialism mentality are what's molding the kind of life they feel everybody wants and should have.
I can relate to your experience. For many they will not see it, even if they travel to the Philippines simply because they view it as a tourist.
Our health care system though😔( among other things)
Edit: I agree. We're "poor" but you can still see genuine smiles. How many "rich" people on developed countries have you seen still smile like how a child would?
WOW….Your statement is Absolutely Perfect…Every time I go home mental and physical pains fall away, and true humanity is embrased again.
@@silynita The irony is that although there's excellent healthcare system in the US, more often do we find ourselves sick there. Not only did we have the frequent insomnia, back pains, migraines, and high BP there (stress-related?), but we also had our bad stomach or respiratory flu every year. Here in the PI, we never had any bouts of flu. In the US, before you get to see the doctor for non-urgent reasons, the complaint is all gone ☺️.
Thr other side of the coin is that you lived in Chicago for 20years thus enabling you to financially NOT be impoverished as your Phillipine neighbors
Omg Kristin, I totally agree with you on all fronts. I have reached these same recollections conclusively in my life after 58 years and currently working to reverse the normal course dictated in this culture. How awesome it is that you have reached such pure and wonderful understanding so young in life. I thank you for this video and others I am sure I will enjoy too 😊. I watched the about why you left Costa Rica because people have been telling my wife and I it’s a good place to retire. So, starting to research a little. Think for sure that I would like for us to have options to escape the hustle and bustle, and consumerism prevalent in the US. I, too, like you believe there is more to life than consuming stuff. How much do we need? I want to help others and have started a non-profit to initiate this aspiration.
I found this so eye-opening and clear. You could lead a movement with your presence and brilliant mind. I am a 72 year old retiree looking to move somewhere I can afford, but your video encouraged me to look at America with a clearer eye. So I thank you. Any ideas where a poor old guy could move? :)
One thing that I wish you would have mentioned is the perceived American belief that we are the most free people on the planet. Law enforcement is extremely heavy handed over here. Your experience may differ, but I have been effed with my entire life by government authority personnel. I was truly shocked when I lived in Europe for a half-year, and I noticed that police agencies don't harass you at all over there unless you actually really do something wrong. I breezed through airports and rail stations in Europe, but the instant I came back to the US, Customs agents subjected us to unlawful searches in violation of the 4th Amendment. Folks, we are very much NOT the Land of the Free.
I think people say that we have freedom because we are able to voice our opinion about politics, our sexuality, the president and etc. without cruel punishment. Because in some countries that’s not a thing. I feel like it’s a spectrum of freedom we’re not entirely free in all aspects but we do have a freedom to express ourselves.
Eh, its a cultural thing. The police dont have to be so heavy handed as the populations in europe tend to be better behaved. As my ukranian friend said, the police are cool and wont bother you unless you mess with them. If you do mess with them, you will have very bad time.
@@brittanywashington407 Americans tend to think/be told they are freer than Europeans, who have similar political and sexual freedoms (if not more!), simply because Europeans do not have free access to guns. Americans do not understand the freedom it is to not feel you need a gun in the first place.
yes very weird why our law enforcement is more relaxed, it's because guns are illegal?? only heavy criminals have guns here. and they don't walk around strapped if they don't need it. so police assumes everybody is unarmed.
More freedom in Mexico!✌🏽
I am from Greece and have been living in the United States for quite some time. Every time I try to discuss how I feel about it, people say "well if you do not like it, leave". There will never be improvement here. Here; you pay for health insurance but it takes months just for a primacy care doctor to grant you a visit. If you need something, you have to go to an urgent care where usually they do not help much and there is ALWAYS advertisements for medication. I feel like this psychologically just makes you sick. It is always about being ill. They have closed so many companies just to open up urgent cares everywhere. They want to advertise these things because they want to make money from us. This is subconscious making us sick.
Yes everyone says that the taxes here in the United States are low, but we keep less money from our pay-check due to the cost of living. To be honest, I pay 30% in tax, and I receive no incentives for it. I have been working since I am 16. College isnt free, healthcare isnt free, there is no maternity leave, no prenatal care, and none of this money goes into retirement. In fact, unless your job provides you with a retirement, you will not have one. You can have a 401K but this is attached to the stock market, so if the market crashes, guess what? You cannot retire. The cost of everything is so high and salaries stay the same.
In Greece, people might me more poor but they enjoy life more. You go to a coffee shop, and you can get coffee and dessert, and just sit down for hours and talk with your friends. Here in the USA, once you eat, they basically throw the bill at you and yes, the food here is terrible. It is packed with hormones and antibiotics. In Greece, we have something called "Laiki" and you can only get what's in season at this market. It is much cheaper than a super market too.
I am just tired of being overworked. I cannot wait to leave!
This place is not getting better. Why cant people accept that?
I can relate to everything you have said so far.
The USA has always been like that, always with a snear with the foreigner that just arrived to work while being mocked by those who just happen to be here before.
Sure, it is the dream paradise for those with aristocratic aspirations but nothing of nobility in them. Is an awful place to live where everything is focused in how to make more money.
I came here because I was offered a job, but after 4 years working here, I'm tired of living in the USA. Getting permanent residency is difficult and I haven't been able to make true friends at all here. And they are also discussing about leaving.
This country is a big scam for new arrivals and I'm hoping to get a job somewhere else soon.
Worst thing is that this rotten American culture is spreading everywhere around the world through the mass media of news and entertainment. Many people are adopting this toxic American mentality.
@@jaimegutier273 Yeah. This country prides itself in being overworked and I do not get that. You are supposed to work to live not live to work. People take pride in being at their beck and call of their company and job and people get fired just for wanting to take a personal day. Its terrible. Meanwhile in many countries, they have mandatory vacations!
I believe its the dream paradise for those who have either a lot of money or come from REALLY shitty countries like Syria. Nobody from a first world country comes here and does not want to leave again.
If I may ask are you American born?
@@jaimegutier273 Actually I travel a lot and I don't see it as bad as it is here. People are not obsessed with their phones and they have a different sense of pride.
I feel like this everyday. I'm 28 and thankful I have woken up to this true reality to see things for what it really is. Majority of Americans here do not care because they are too deep down the rabbit hole.
Tremendous posting. I've traveled to only 3 foreign countries. Your thoughts have added clarity to my experiences and musings during my travels, if that makes sense. It would be difficult to explain to my non-traveled self what I now know and feel. Thanks for this vlog....so enjoyable. ❤
I'm Aussie, I've never been to America. I'll be blunt. Based on observations over my life, I see the USA as similar to or worse than a third-world country. I think consumerism and pettiness are to distract themselves. It must be hard to admit that they live in a terrible country. I never even want to visit there. I'd feel safer anywhere else. Love the video! 💕
Glad to know you love my video, Tessa and thanks for sharing your insights as well 😊
If you think usa is a third world country you are massively privileged and ignorant
@@TravelingwithKristinand shame on you for spreading this false information
I'm an Aussie too and I agree with you! I can't imagine any Aussie wanting to live in the USA. Yuck! Essentially the civil war never ended and never will by the looks of things. Just a country of people at each others throats and loud mouth Morons like Trump stirring the Pot. No culture, no health care for all, homeless people left to rot in the gutter, poor education, selfish people climbing over each other like rats and nut jobs running around with guns. No thank you! I have met some really nice Americans visiting Australia and can only offer them my deepest sympathy having to go back to that Hell Hole. Instead of talking crap and telling people "Lets make America Great again" How about aiming to make it good - for the first time. I hope that country gets it's act together one day. I really do :)
"I've never been" but you'll call it similar to third world countries? That's the most ignorant thing I've ever heard.
Lack of Empathy in the US is a big thing I've noticed .
The people trying to out do each other .
Pandemic has made it especially worse.... the "Me Me Me" mentality has been turbocharged.
I feel like this is a product of our brand of capitalism combined with our notion of individualism. From birth we're all inundated with a message saying "YOU are the greatest thing ever. YOU are special. YOU are amazing. Nobody can tell YOU what to do. The whole world wants to watch YOU...using the latest ! So hey, come buy one!" It was like this in the 80s and 90s, and the advent of the internet and social media have only exacerbated the "EVERYBODY LOOK AT ME!!" problem.
Add in the fact that politics and profit margins are focused solely on short term goals of *this quarter* or *this election cycle*, and it adds up to a society built on instant gratification with no regard for next year or next door neighbors. I don't feel like we can reasonably be surprised that the US has turned into a nation of sociopathic narcissists who burn every penny they have on status trinkets. America, land of the "F' em, I got mine!"
@@lordstephen513 No, I don't think that's it. What you are describing is more of a symptom than a cause.
It's more ingroup vs outgroup and how that thinking permeates every strata of population in the US. Once you no longer qualify for an ingroup, people in it no longer care for you... add the rampant racism and classism and the rat race and empathy dies --- because everyone fears that they'll dragged down to drown with those 'losers' (in all the many ways you can be considered a loser by society). So they have to constantly prove that they are not like them.
The American type capitalism makes it so that you can't trust really other people because they too often want (or rather 'have to' to survive) to make money of you with their side hustles or other kind of deals. It must be so stressful and tiresome.
Its like the majority of the people have become sociopaths.
Yes, greed is very high.
I cancelled my accounts in Netflix, Prime, don’t eat out and three things happened:
My cholesterol got better
I had more money at the end of the month
And I have more time to perform better with my family.
It could be even better if you could use cars less. But US cities and towns are designed to make people rely on cars and have nothing in walking distance
@@MashZ cars don't really have to cost that much. I've been driving the same Toyota pick up for 20 years. Even with repairs, tires, insurance, and fuel it amotorizes out to less than 2k USD a year. It doesn't get good fuel mileage because its 4WD, so it could be even less. If you need a new car every 3 years, it will cost a fortune.
I cut out watching movies as they are huge time wasters and 99.99% of the time glorify poor values and/or negativity.
Itt ppl virtue signalling by giving up dumb inconsequential things for dumb inconsequential reasons.
@@MashZ exactly which is trash i live in canada minority of our locations have long range transits
Hi, Kristin. I really resonated with most of the things you shared with us in this video. I am Japanese living in the US for study. Even though I knew about consumerism and capitalism before moving here, I was and still am shocked by the culture. and yes..., it is very expensive living in the US. Many people say it is expensive to live in Tokyo and I am like..., maybe? depends. But it is exceptionally expensive to live in the US and the thing that I struggle with living here is the most is transportation... I am currently living in a small town, having no cars... I think I feel this way especially because I am used to Tokyo's transportation system but it is very hard to travel even in the town... I still felt it was a little hard to travel around when I lived in a suburb to some extent but I learned that when it comes to a small town, it is pretty difficult dealing with the feeling of being "stuck." Also..., omg food... I am like maybe I can get way cheaper and still decent food that makes me satiated and satisfied at Seven Eleven haha... regardless, it is still a good learning experience for me living here, which allowed me to find more beauty in my culture, embrace and appreciate it. and I do really agree the friendliness Americans in general have, which I like about the US as well as. though this is personal, I get to be my authentic self compared to my country of origin where conformity is highly valued!
I am very very glad to hear that you have lived in Japan and sounds like you had a good experience there! (and you made me miss fish A LOT!) haha
Lastly..., thank you very much for being vulnerable and sharing such a powerful message. I only found you now but I am sure you are very smart and wonderful human being with global perspective. I hope I will be able to meet you somewhere on the planet 🤍
Hi Hika! Thank you so much for your kind words 🙏 I appreciate you watching my video and for sharing your insights & experiences as well. I wish you all the best! 😊
I know this video is a bit dated but I just have to say... The whole part about being overworked even when you are working from home is SO true. I often eat lunch at my desk while working and considered it a privilege from having a 30 - 45 min lunch at work filled with the dread of having to go back in. It is nice to hear new perspectives from around the world
America: working hard to become an underdeveloped country.
Unfortunately true.
much less to do with being "underdeveloped" and much more to do with destructive politics that seemingly want to decimate the American middle class
@@WeAretheWalrii The destructive politics is what is causing the USA to become underdeveloped. The USA seems to be in decline.
Give biden another year. And we can just send our retirement money to the government. Bad thing is. He does not even know what he is signing
Wow! That is an interesting way of looking at the direction of America. I neither disagree or agree with that point of view. I will spend time thinking that through. But the statement caught me off guard and if true has bad portents. I personally see America at odds with itself, contradicting directions. But becoming essentially an undeveloped nation is a bold statement.
I think this is......HALRIOUS! Because as an american who has had a similar experience as her (left US at 21 returned at 31) I looked around.... And I was like..... Nope.... I have to go back. I love my family, and I'm proud to be an American but I cannot live here knowing life can be so much better. I wish America could match the quality of life other countrys offer but that is reserved for the few, the rich. America is so preoccupied with bullcrap politics, backstabing, lobbying, lies and misinformation that it is not helping its own people. I wish my family could live in peace here but I cannot make decisions for them. Feels to me like if America continues this way it will be like the fall of Rome.
Thanks Bobby! I wonder how many of us are out here...
@@TravelingwithKristin Some, but it is a strange feeling to live outside of the bubble, look back and think... Dang..
it's a strange thing, bobby, because the last time i was in the US (from oz) i had the overwhelming sense of 'end of empire' everywhere from east coast to west coast :( . it was saddening and unsettling.
@@TravelingwithKristin me , back in canada for now but looking to get out of the cold, canada is nice, but we are not getting rid of snow fast enough, panama here i come! i did live in the carribean for 9 years...
I live in the place of the election breaking hackers....
Actually, I was drawn to Russia - because they were "the enemy". I had to see it for myself.
Russians are interesting (and unfortunately over enamored by American culture.)
Kristin, this video is phenomenal! I'm an American Expat living in Istanbul Turkey and I agree with your views on this video 100%. I'm sharing this video with all my Turkish friends that are contemplating moving to the US (or any other country for that matter!) because it is the issue about culture and lifestyle that really make or break a living abroad experience. Also, the media doesn't reflect a true representation of a country's lifestyle or culture for the majority of people living in that country.
Hey, i almost never comment youtube videos but i felt i needed to do it this time.
Many times I have felt overwhelmed by people's ignorance, or even more, it is not the "ignorance" but the total apathy and unconcern to learn more about the world you live in so that it can become a better world for everyone.
So seeing someone like you, who has taken this "journey" of learning and knowledge, and even more, how you try to transmit it to others, I feel really grateful. Never stop being who you are.
I truly appreciate your heartfelt comment, Gemma! It means a lot to me. Learning and sharing knowledge is a journey we can all take together. Let's keep building a better understanding of the world. Thank you for your kind words😊🌍📚
Glad to hear someone else voice that criticism of American media. Fear, conflict and outrage. Spot on assessment.
Thanks Bobo!
@@TravelingwithKristin which European country do you suggest for an American who wants to retire? a place with lower cost of living, where I can fully enjoy life and nature, but also have money left to traveling within Europe?
"Public television" in other countries is paid for by the state, so the government will find a way to replace journalists who disagree. I saw this in France: David Pujadas, Philippe Verdier, etc. It's bad, but in a different way.
@@TravelingwithKristin Your life experience, work ethic, and awareness make you a very interesting person. Subscribed.
@@stellaborealis4846 I know I am not Kristin, but I would suggest anything in Eastern Europe. I heard Prague and Split, Croatia, are quite nice.
We lived in the Uk for 2 years and had such a culture shock when we moved back to the US. It was actually so much of a culture shock we are moving back and hoping to stay in the UK or Europe for as long as we can.
Chuffed you like the UK, we are not too bad..
@@stuartross2908 we're pretty much america at this point. we have to have a dishwasher and tumble dryer because both me and my partner work full time to pay mortgage, as do most people i know
Ask Julian Assange how he is enjoying the UK.
Just don't have any dental work done in England, even if it is free.
@Frank Silvers why do assume the US is for everyone the best place to live?
Please keep this video up I am
Currently a life coach teaching manners and re educating Mississippi about minimalism. My boyfriend passed in Scotland recently and I’m doing wha to can to keep our legacy alive. Thank you!! 🎉
Will do! Thank you for watching Karen 🙏😊
It's interesting to note the cost of living differences amongst various countries but there are also differences in median wages amongst the various countries as well. So just because rent is cheaper somewhere doesn't mean it's more affordable if you have to work where you live.
For people that have sufficient wealth to just pick up and move to the most affordable location, sure, you can do that. For working people, lifestyle affordability is a function of both income and expenses.
Very insightful, thanks for sharing this Joe! 😊
"Pretty much everything from Bulgaria tastes good." This puts a big smile on my face as I am originally from here. Thank you for sharing your thoughts :)
Glad to know you liked it Domenika. It is my pleasure. 😊
This is true. I've visitted Bulgaria for tourism, and it was amazing, especially thanks to great food and great mountains!
@@TravelingwithKristin I'm Bulgarian, too! The food in California can taste quite good though. There's some good produce in immigrant owned supermarkets
My gf has stated the same about their food
Im British - Ive lived in Bulgaria for 12 years. The food is one of the greatest delights of living here. The American food companies ARE buying out the BG ones and filling everything with sugar - so people are getting fat... BUT, If you buy the real food - meat and vegetable and cheese etc. It is just fantastic.
I eat a diet most people in American would have to be seriously wealthy to have and I buy it 200m from my apartment block.
Whish IS a commi panel block, the nightmare looking things that shock westerners [me included] but are actually great to live in.
Lived abroad for five years, came back and thought "what the hell is with these self centered idiots.." then I realized I was a self centered idiot for 25 years
Thank the boob tube and other media outlets. The robber barons did their job well with their propaganda. Pitted the worker against each other, and fomented the nonsense that everyone is a millionaire or billionaire in waiting... and of course those that have a brain realize this is impossible and statistically obviously ridiculous as buying one of those Mega or Power Ball lotto tickets.
@@jmitterii2 So do you also disagree with 28:14 on freedoom-wealthy?
Im uncertain on what is meant by innovation and opportunity, seems to be more like self-indulgent/using others for mony.
And lastly would you say being rich means running free from prison?
Just look at this channel, what's more self centered than a rootless childless globe traveler.
That's called ETH - NO - CEN - TRISM (check Wikipedia if you ignore the concept)
Every time I've written the whole word in a proper manner, automagically the comment is censored by RUclips. Freedom? Hah!
@@churblefurbles sounds like you're just salty. Rather be a childless globe traveler, than someone with a kid stuck in a debt-driven country.
I’m back. I commented a short time ago, but read more comments.
I’ve found the US so different from the mean, neurotic country most people here describe. Maybe it’s because I live in Omaha and had children and spent time in the park with friends and their children. Spent time at Little League and camping, taking our vacations to visit family or National Parks. I haven’t experienced people who binge since high school. I find advertising here less intrusive than China or Singapore.
In Heidelberg, I lived in Emmertsgrund. It was a very international community. When some friends got a chance to get a family house in Mannheim, they returned after only a year, because they felt like intruders from their insular neighbors.
Don’t get me wrong, I’ve never visited a country I haven’t loved (62 and counting). But those little girls and ladies carrying large loads with a strap around their foreheads in Nepal didn’t seem to spend so much time in cafés. Our friends in Bali who drive vans for tourists post Facebook photos of waiting at the airport for more Australian tourists labeled, “Just trying to make a dime.” (Facebook’s translation). Acquaintances in Kenya or India or Morocco seemed to always be hungry to find something better.
Sure I’ve known people always trying to keep up with the Jones’s, or spending more on their Saab than was comfortable, but most of the people I’ve lived around seemed to live about as balanced lives as I felt I did. Life has always looked very bright to me. Living in Germany, I enjoyed the beauty of my surroundings, but felt occasionally trapped by the government intrusiveness, and an inability to get away from constant people all the time.
Working in Kuwait, I met lots of foreign workers doing 2 years of 16 hours without a day off and 16 people in a windowless room with an AC stuck through the wall. But they did it to make a better life for their family in Sri Lanka, or Pakistan, or the Philippines. Speaking of which, a Filipino engineer who had been 20 years in Saudi or Kuwait making big money and with a house in a gated community of Manila, had to keep two maids in his house when he and his family were overseas to keep it from being robbed. Still, although he lived in luxury in Manila, he wanted to move to the US because he didn’t trust that the government wouldn’t take everything or things might collapse.
A student from Bogota who stayed with me while studying English, marveled at how leisurely life in Omaha was compared to the traffic and strife of home. Of course he marveled at a microwave because he’d always had a cook and if you have a cook you don’t microwave anything.
Some of this is old, but when a colleague in Germany was hospitalized (1980), the hospital had a dozen women in the ward and looked pretty primitive. I’ve been to newer ones since.
My experiences seem so different than most commenters, that I didn’t recognize their Europe or their America.
Thank you for sharing. Your honesty is wonderful and refreshing. I have never lived
outside the U.S. but I have thought about it many times, understanding that no place is perfect. I am aware that the U.S. is very consumer oriented and we are very very spoiled here. It is humbling to know of other places and humans that are more grateful for what they have and do not take so much for granted. I know that many Americans move abroad to live and even retire, as well as get medical care, for much less $$.
My conclusion from your video? Americans need to travel more and be open minded to learn and experience what life is from other places.
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But once they're gone, why will they ever come back?
Okay, give me the money so I can afford it!
That's just not possible for the average American. Many don't have vacation time or the money to do it. 40% of Americans can't even afford a $400 emergency.
bruh most ppl don't have the money to
I left the US 15 years ago and you are spot on with everything. Never going back.
My dad left his home State of MI decades ago, as did his sister and niece.
They went to the UK. ( and later my dad relocated again to Australia)
Other family member moved from MI to Chicago IL and to FL
[ Tampa - Val Rico - Sarasota ]
My daughter did the opposite and relocated from AU to NYC.
where she resides with her husband in Lower Manhattan.
I have resided in the US many times, including 2 years on attachment to the USAF
When I served in the Military.
For the most part the people are excellent though many are overweight, the country
has some great features, but the US System is pathetic in every respect.
Though AUSTRALIA as a US puppet and TRIALUSA has progressively declined
over the past 50 years, it is still a better place to be in than the USA.
Good for you. I wish more people who feel as you do would leave. I lived overseas for thirteen years and now appreciate America and Americans than I ever do before. And no, I didn't live in an American bubble while overseas. I learned the language, worked in the country, lived like nationals and appreciated their culture. When I came back to the States, I started a nonprofit to help the economically disadvantaged. I rely on donations of good and finances on individuals, not accepting government help. I get to see the most wonderful, giving people on a weekly basis. There are wonderful people everywhere and I wish all Americans could live overseas to a while. If they like living overseas better, they should be like you and stay. And people like me, who loved the experience but are drawn back to the States, should take what they learned overseas with them.
@@rickhughesprints well said- I, for one, married a local and we run an art gallery...so there’s that.
I wish he would've taken some liberals with him.
@@dwaynedwayne7951 - Which other countries have you lived in?
I was so surprised when you mentioned food in Bulgaria 🇧🇬. I've heard before that we have good products, but you really put it into perspective. 💜
Such a great video! I appreciate your depth and perspective. This one is worth rewatching for sure. Thank you!
I would love to have optimism about the trajectory of this country but I don't want to sit around for the next 30-40 years waiting for things to change when there's plenty of places already compatible with the way of life I want. Channels like this make me know I'm making the right decision.
Glad you think so, Trevino. 😊
good luck with living in the country of your choice. Greetings from Switzerland.
I have a lot of optimism for America and I love our country, I am even going to school for urban planning but I need a few years out of the country before I pledge myself to helping the trajectory of the country
1000%!
you have to wonder, i live in a country with public health care for the last 139 years... and make a guess what i think about the USA and its political system and its members.....you have Ted Cruz and "Moscow Mitch" McConnell, subhumans!
Yeah I lived abroad for 8 years and this sounds all to familiar. One of the things that strikes me most about Americans is they really think they are so much more advanced and that the American way of doing this is just the “normal” way to do things. Basically completely oblivious to the world around them, even outside of their home state.
That exact mentality has been the main reason for American bad behaviour around the world. Other cultures see it as arrogance and hubris while Americans thinks they're superior. Ironically, that led Americans to think that the rest of humanity should adopt the American way of life, but lashes back when the adopter starts to do even better than the America itself.
Not important but the time I (lived in the US since birth) notice it in our bizarre measurement system. We can’t call it by it’s real name, we call the British Imperial system the Standard measuring system. 7.5 billion use the Metric system but the 0.32 billion who the use antique British system are using the Standard measurement system. Right….
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@@lexstockton2451 Actually, it's called the Imperial system - but that would go down even worse in the U.S. than calling it the British system ;).
I have never heard someone explain the state of the American psyche so well. I love your outlook on life in general. Very empathetic, pragmatic, deep, and thoughtful. Thanks for sharing!
Thank you for a well thought out view and perspective! Travel on sister, life has its intriguing and wondrous examples just waiting for you. I appreciate your candor and I hope to do some traveling of my own.
I moved from the UK to Portugal 4 years ago and never looked back . Still being within Europe the contrasts are not as stark as for you, but there were a lot of things that still resonated with me from your video. In Portugal there is less commercialisation, slower pace of life, and they just seem to get it when it comes to living a healthy balanced life - it comes naturally to them.
When I arrived I had dreams of owning a big house with a pool there one day, overlooking the sea. Now my priorities are the proximity to local cafes, small restaurants, good neighbours to be able to invite them round for a BBQ and a beer. I want to integrate, not set myself apart from them.
You are exactly right when you say you become a product of your culture!
The best things in life are free (or often much cheaper than people think).
Thanks for contributing to the conversation, Fiona! Which area of Portugal are you in?
Totally agree. I made the same move to Spain. Very similar experience..
@@TravelingwithKristin How were you able to sustain yourself financially in all those countries?
Is neighboring a thing in other parts of the world? I've been in Chicago my whole life, I'm v loving person but most ppl don't give 2 shits about anyone but they're profile pic & bank acct here :( I'd love to live somewhere socializing is real
Excellent. Just the points I've been making to all these narrow-minded 'I can't afford it' types. Good for you to go with the flow. High five from me.
btw I have known/know numerous people trans-locate to Portugal (and other places), some like you, embraced it, others couldn't hack it and either came back or moved on (some had to be 'rescued' having got it very wrong), it all depends on how trapped you are by your mindset or the mindset of those you are stuck with, e.g. spouse/kids etc.
I've lived in Europe for 30 years now and what still blows my mind every time I go home is the giant billboards advertising lawyers. TV commercials too - "You got hurt at work? Call me and see how much you get!"
In my country back in the 60s,they had a referendum and the people voted to abolish the right to sue for personal injury,no ambulance chasers,no crash for cash on the roads and car insurance isn't compulsory. I much prefer this system to other countries I've lived in,it was an eye opener to me when I first saw ads like you reference.
I went back to my native country (Laos) for several years. Thought it was bad enough how often they advertised drugs and law suits BEFORE I left. Came back and it was every other commercial.
Yea I hate that
@@DomingoDeSantaClara - which country is this? A good advertisement to live there
I don't know where do you live but in NY we don't have billboards. In NYC yes in Broadway or 42 St. But NY is not just Manhattan. New York is a huge state.
This entire video was honest, thoughtful and compassionate. Thank you for sharing this with the world. It matters more than you know. ❤✨🙏🏽
Thank you for this wonderful video, Kristin. I agree with SO MUCH of what you said. We need people like you in our schools starting from grade school on up.
I am sad to say that I am now an impoverished senior, and although I would like to leave the U.S., I frankly do not see a way out. I have travelled only a little in my lifetime, but I travelled enough to recognise that if I had been given the choice at birth which country I would want to be born in and spend my life in, it would not have been the U.S. The rubbish we feed our kids....and, I am not just talking about food.
Keep making these videos. More people need to hear what you are saying. All the best to you, dear..
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My older Sister lived many yrs back in Africa as a Nursing Instructor. When she came back home and saw me leave the water running while I brushed my teeth, she said "Where I lived you would have just used a good amount of our supply of water for our quarters!" Never forgot that.
I lived in Ethiopia for 2 years. Our water was on once a day and that was it.
@Ev ita Well when you're a kid, you do things like that. Then you learn, as I did from her, not to be so wasteful.
I'm a 75 yo US-born and raised man who moved to the Philippines 20 years ago. I've never looked back! When I visit in the USA I am appalled at the drug culture (both prescription and illicit), the grasping materialism, and the lack of any common sense or grounding in reality. Foul-mouthed, profane, and violent dissent over everything imaginable. Life here in the Philippines is much simpler, much less contentious, the food is surprisingly better. Frankly, I'm sad for my poor country, America has lost its way. Thanks for sharing your thoughts you are virtually "spot on" with almost every word you put into this video..
Absolutely Dave she is Spot On
Maraming salamat po! Ingat!
You obviously don't live in Mindanao.
You have money and live in a nice area fool Cut the bullshit. The Philippines is mostly a hell hole for the people. Foreigners go there to exploit the people and live like kings.
@@paddymaluco people get bexploited everywhere momo. even the u.s . now go do your 12 hour shift at the factory so a rich man can pay you so you can give that money to another rich man so you can buy something you can sell cheap at your next garage sale.
I lived in Marbella (Spain) for a year. I totally agree with you about the quality and pace of life there vs here. I have worked hard to live in places near the beach and in the mountains, but in this country, it comes at a price. I can no longer afford the places I used to love. I have an elderly mother in California that I go to help a couple of times per month...while she is still alive, it's not feasible to move back to Europe or Japan (I taught fitness there in 1985). I'm thinking more and more about bailing when the time is right.
I listened to your entire video Kristen, and also the vid on why some people and yourself left Costa Rica.
You have made so many wonderful social cultural and global observations. Very few people in the world have the broad knowledge and understanding that your travels have given you. Thank you so much for your well rounded perspective and heartfelt humanity. Your worldly views have given me hope for all of us. ❤ these videos are an education you can’t get just anywhere.😊
When I moved back to the US from Sweden 2 years ago it felt like the entire USA had changed. People everywhere here in the USA just seem so miserable. It just feels like everyone hates everyone else. My husband who is Swedish keeps begging me to move back and I have every intention of doing so. We purposely had our daughter in Sweden. She and my husband have free health care because of it.
Well... Not everywhere, you need to get out of the big cities
I feel the same way.
Everyone is pissed off.
I think its due to the fact that everyone works constantly and on days off everything cost an extreme amount of money.
U cant even go to a park or a lake ir even some hiking trails without getting charged a bunch of money.
Not to mention the constant regulations .
The regulations in america are out of control .
From parking spots to regulations at home its crazy to even own a house its like u never really own your house.
Ive been stopped for walkingbthe wrong way down a street .
Then that leads to mistrust and loss of respect for the police.
Life starts to just suck after u put all that together
This country _has_ changed, especially since 9/11, when a host of laws and regulations came into play to “fight terrorism “. But it’s been changing since the 70s, imo. Corruption and glorification of the profit motive has ruined the American dream...and bankers, politicians and mega corporations are largely to blame.
I disagree, the rural areas are where I reside and it's the best :D the cities are cool and all but it's not somewhere people should always stay at.
@@ashtonhashbrown6155 i grew up in a tiny rural tpwn and the laws suck ther as well .
Yrs its great and a paradise on my mind but thats ofcourse accepting the bs laws and knowing that it is better then a city.
Actually me calling it paradise us mainly becausr i compare it to a city.
Ogcourse once a person grows in age put of ther teens and 20s and is relaxed at heart then yes rural ereas are excellent and peaxeful.
Ther arevdo many beautiful places in america that ppl have no clue exists becsusr all americans feel tgey have to leave the states to fund it.
Sad really
Retired to southern Italy. Never regretted a second.
Man i love reading comments like this. Did you happen to buy one of those $1 houses?
Truly enlightening experience that so many Americans will not understand. The American bubble is real.
Love Italy and we'll both be retired by September. Don't think we'll settle for long in one place, but if we did Puglia and the Amalfi coast would be right up there. Enjoy your time.
@@TheBoliviaShow No. Paid market prices
We loved from Veneto East Italy to the USA but for some reason I feel like I am not sure whether to stay... I LOVE America it gave me the second opportunity in live I wouldn't have gotten in Italy but the quality of life my friends...
I just watched your video and Hats off to you. I`m from Brazil and I have lived in the USA for the past 4 years, and I share most of the points you brought up in the video, especially when you talk about consumption and human relations. I had a feeling that sometimes people are under a spell, "I need to work more in order to consume more", and they don`t think about what I`m doing with my life in general.
Maybe it`s just a different values problem, btw I had the same problem with gossip and unnecessary stuff when I came back to my hometown back in December. I`m now trying to purse my path as a remote worker / digital nomad, thanks for your very inspiring content.
Yours is the 3rd or 4th video on this subject that I’ve watched (different creators) and you all said the same thing about the food in the US being flavorless. It makes me even more excited to travel overseas because I absolutely love to eat! Btw, love your videos.
Glad I was raised in the country. Meat you raise and eat, eggs from your favorite hens and the fresh cream from milked cows can't compare to the many, high class-high cost restaurants I endure in California. But I'm a Valley Girl, The San Joaquin Valley that feeds much of our country after planes, trains and trucks deliver less than off the tree fresh. Thank God for the Central Valley, so different than La-La Land and the sad decline of S.F., a place that no longer deserves the moniker, "The City."
I'm an Italian immigrant who's lived in the United States for decades and she is right about all of this. Life here revolves around capitalism; money, competition, status. We can learn to appreciate the smaller things more.
As an American who lived in Catania, Sicilia. I can state that I would prefer American Healthcare and advanced treatment options over the Italian healthcare system. Italian cities riddled with spray paint graffiti, trash on the streets, potholes that never get fixed, transportation strikes, and expensive grocery stores. It goes both ways.
@@robtriton That was a result of MASSIVE influx of immigrants into Italy I was told. The same person said it was beautiful and peaceful before all the illegals FLOODED in.
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1) Sicily is among the poorest regions in Italy and the health care system there simply reflects this fact (the service you get in the northern and richer regions is so much better). That said, italian healthcare system is one of the best (2°in Europe and 4°in the world) and far superior to the usa's. in Italy there's universal healthcare too; it means that everyone gets to be cured for free in a public hospital but if you prefer the private option and want to pay for a better and faster service you could also get it.
Summery: you can't say Italian HC is bad just because you saw the Sicilian one (specifically Catania's), that's as if i said the American is bad because i was in Detroit or the Bronx
2)graffiti have not the same negative connotations in Italy as they have in USA, to this day we have graffiti written in Latin by ancient Romans just to say. There are murales, love phrases, satirical drawings, political paintings and others written for fun, we just don't associate graffiti to degrade, the most we do is cover up those that seem not aesthetic or too offensive but for the most part we like to express ourselves even with them.
3) trash on the streets, potholes never fixed, strikes. Again, you were in one of the poorest regions; many things don't work there (mafia, corruption, political scandals are things that to this day influence the daily life of what happens to the community) yet big progresses are happening (i. e. Today trash issue is just a little tiny fraction of what it once was around ten years ago)
4) expensive grocery stores, this is the first time i heard of something like this, really. Maybe you're talking about processed food and yes it cost more than healthy food but that's the aim; you as a state should want your people to eat healthy so vegetables and in general fresh items are gonna be less expensive than a pack of cips or premade dishes for example. You don't get to have one of the best life expectancy result in the world by forcing the poors to buy processed food because it cost less, caring about people means that what you need should cost less and what you want can cost more.
That said, Italy has a lot of issues and we Italians are the first to point them out without any reservations. This is no perfect country at all and could be improved a lot (especially if we started to less the gap between north and south) so you're free to think whatever you want, just wanted to give the point of view of someone who knows what you're talking about since I'm an enthusiast of American culture southern Italian. Love😘
Dear Max: (and this video author). You talk about what life in the USA "revolves around". As if someone has a gun to your head, and you-just-can't-control-the-evils-of-what-Capitalism-has-brought-to-this-country. Absolute bullshit. There is NO COUNTRY on this planet that values INDIVIDUALISM more than America. "We can learn". YOU can "learn" what ever the hell you want. Including to set up what ever life style you want. NO ONE IS STOPPING YOU. MOST people, if you bother to take the time to get to know then, DO appreciate the small things in life. We don't need a lecture from you to tell us how to live our damm lives.
LOOKS LIKE WE HAVE A NEW NATIONAL PASS TIME NOW - bashing the very country that makes peoples lives the most comfortable and choice filled on the planet. Oh, so now it's a "problem". Wow. Just wow. Go take a history lesson and learn how people REALLY lived, just 100 years ago.
@@robtriton true about graffiti and shabby rundown towns but I'm sure there are many such places in the state that are probably worse where not just poverty but desperation ,mental depression no hope ,drugs and alcoholism all things you don't see anywhere in italy
From my perspective as an Englishman, the US looks awesome. The scenery is beautiful. You have mountains, deserts, beaches, huge wilderness'. There is so much good about the US. I want to visit some day. The problem seems to be that everyone is so convinced they are the best there, that they don't question all the crappy political decisions that are made ie health care, working conditions, etc.
I'm from the U.S. and agree with you. There are many things that I love about the U.S. and think that the U.S. does well. I do love our natural landscapes and the people I know and love here. However, we shoot ourselves in the foot all the time because we are so convinced we do everything "the best" and any kind of critique means you "hate America." There are a lot of things that can be improved, and unless we address them, the problems will keep compounding.
I'm from the US- and I disagree. Not all of us think our nation is "the best" or feel the need to rank ourselves. This is a narrative that many of our media outlets and TV shows have pressed for many decades now- so plenty of people do repeat it - that's true, but not to the tune of 'everyone'.
I feel that I have had a pretty good life. I am grateful to the place I live that allowed me to have the life I've had thus far, but I don't feel that we as a people or a nation are "better" or "number one" by any means. I think every nation probably has things that they are proud of and things that they are not.
I, myself, question political motives and decisions regularly. We currently have a number of problems that have yet to be addressed- lobbying for one, persons in regulatory positions that previously worked in industries that stand to gain from decisions made by those regulatory positions for another- a good example would be our FDA, and many others. The fact that the elected employees of our legislative bodies are some of the wealthiest people in our country is really telling. A good many of us are concerned that we are being run by corporations instead of by the will of the people and many of us are making concerted efforts to do whatever little we can to try to change the things we disagree with. Going up against wealthy and powerful corporations and lawmakers is not easy- and I expect it will take a decent amount of time for changes to come, but plenty of people are trying.
There are a myriad of beautiful places here to visit and plenty of worthwhile persons to meet and get to know! I have lived on both the east and west coasts and have road tripped I hope to visit England myself someday! My father was stationed there while in the air force and my mother and father lived in a flat in England for a couple of years before I was born. I grew up watching a number of BBC shows and have always especially enjoyed British humor and British accents! I'd be happy to open up a dialogue if you have any questions about what things are like living in the US.
All this being said- I hope you are having a lovely day and that I have left you with a better perception of the variations of thought here in the US! Cheers!
@@SInman-dz1uj you make some great points there mate. Of course, what I said doesn't apply to everyone. Its just a general impression that I get from watching the news, RUclips etc. Obviously, I've never been there so take it with a grain of salt. All the best.
Half of the US population wants a country with benefits similar to what Europe has. We don't run Congress.
@@SInman-dz1uj Well put! I think you explained the nuances of U.S. culture better than I could. It's definitely not everyone, and there are a lot of people advocating for change. It definitely isn't as simple as wanting the change because of all the power dynamics you mentioned. While it isn't everyone who has the "The U.S. is better than everyone mentalilty," I do see it all the time. A common response I hear when someone brings up areas we need to improve is "if you don't like it here, then leave." I think that is a very toxic mentality to have. Loving your country doesn't mean you have to see everything through rose colored glasses. I hope this changes and that we can actually work on what we need to work on to make the U.S. a better place for everyone.
So insightful video! For me thinking to go traveling as a solo female creator, your video was so helpful and got a point of current consumerism. Thank you so much!
I think the one aspect I found shocking in North America was the lack of social safety net. One could lose a job in a day, your accommodation in a month and be in a very hard place quickly. The social net to catch those on the wrong side of the tracks was limited.
One aspect that sends people to the other side of the tracks is sudden loss of health… and boy was the healthcare mixed… when friends didn’t want to get a broken finger reset, or emergency dental care done because of the costs involved it really did make me wonder … it is perhaps why the rat race drive is so high… it’s a little less forgiving perhaps. 🇬🇧 our NHS is a blessing despite its faults.
I left the US 30 years ago and never looked back. I have returned frequently as a visitor, both for business and holiday to visit family so I maintained a connection to the country, You're right about the consumerism and over the top materialism. Everything is done in excess, even the politics. It's the only country that needs two political parties to have a one party state.
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So true!
Or a proliferation of news channels that put out almost the same news and only include international events if they are sensational.
@@hbourgeois1 I don't think it's just international events they ignore unless it's sensational. I think it's all events. And the corporate media have split themselves into two csmps each side spoon feeding us propaganda
I have lived my life of 66 years in the USA. Much of what you noticed, I have been complaining about for a long time, especially the drugs being advertised & how our medical system has turned into a profit only business. I don't trust the doctors & the food for sale, so I grow most of what I eat now and stay much healthier as a result. I'm ready to leave.
Go, go run fast. You will have a better life away.
Europe has got much safer food regulations.
Have you seen the drug ad where 2 good looking ladies were dealing with their paranoia? 1 thought everyone was staring at her very pretty she is the other heard voices and she was in a crowded area duh!!
The US has been making less & less sense since I was born, I totally agree.
Mike, what is holding you back? We are the same age but the difference is I left decades ago. Life is far better outside of the US.
I am totally with you on your assessment. We (American) are quite materialistic, and I am a part of it. We work ourselves to death and spend, spend, spend on many things that we can certainly do without if we have to (if living outside the US, in another country) eg., no dryer, dishwasher.
I have traveled to Europe, Asia and Africa and realized we are fortunate - having lots of the better or best, but are we really living a happy, minimum stress free lives?