How I See the UK as an American Abroad [CULTURE SHOCK]

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  • Опубликовано: 19 дек 2024

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  • @TravelingwithKristin
    @TravelingwithKristin  Год назад +41

    Why I Left the USA for UK: ruclips.net/video/OYSOcO_3Z5U/видео.html // My fave travel clothing: bit.ly/unboundmerino_twk (referral link)

    • @rbspider
      @rbspider Год назад +4

      You should have seen how growing up in the 50's and 60's were .I would play in the park all day and only go home when the bell rang. (My parents had a bell mounted to the porch) You knew all your neighbors , you knew who lived on the whole street and even adjacent streets. I do not like America right now. It is definitely broken .

    • @pcproffy
      @pcproffy Год назад

      Don't worry, Brits are just as dysfunctional as Americans. The novelty will wear off sooner or later.

    • @alf5735
      @alf5735 Год назад

      Second last chapter: Thank you for sharing your family and emotional topics.
      Try not to skip these emotions but to express them in a private setting until they change into an even more positive quality (could last some weeks). A way to do it could be Organizational Constellations or Holotropic Breathwork. Coaches and facilitators of that methods can be found worldwide. To say more about that in general is not suitable in this public media and without your consent or permission. My experience: When I once was travelling in Skandinavia north of the Polar Circle I felt depressed, sad and left alone for an hour or so , initiated because I felt like to be "at the end of the world".
      You may delete this remark after you have red it.

    • @ricardolorrio8228
      @ricardolorrio8228 Год назад

      you missed last years heat wave.... after that you would only wish for our "bad weather" ...

    • @User-rs6ln
      @User-rs6ln Год назад

      Native Americans are real Americans.
      You just got back to your ancestral home.

  • @michellemaine2719
    @michellemaine2719 Год назад +148

    I moved to Northeast England 5 years ago, after a massive midlife crisis in the states. The first time I got coffee here and the person said ''here you are sweetheart'', I cried. I couldn't wait to get back here after a recent visit to the states to visit family. This is definitely home now (and forever). If you have a minute, come visit Newcastle, it's canny (although you may see more than a few drunks on a Saturday night, ha). Also, get out in the stunning countryside and seaside areas, they are so good for the soul.

    • @DA-of9sv
      @DA-of9sv Год назад +4

      I've got family from Newcastle but from Manchester. " "canny" 😂😂

    • @kathchandler4919
      @kathchandler4919 Год назад +5

      ​@DA canny in Geordie speak means nice/lovely, certainly positive, pop over our border with Scotland and it means something very different, there canny means careful with money, even quite mean 😅
      As a native of Geordieland, home if Greggs, I'd say howay over here bonny lass , come see our party city, our beautiful beaches, gorgeous, wild countryside & experience Northumberland National Park & also the first, and largest, Dark Sky Park to ever be created outside of the US.
      We're waiting to welcome you xxx

    • @duncancallum
      @duncancallum Год назад +7

      @@kathchandler4919 Canny does not mean being mean it means not being stupid when spending your hard earned money in Scotland.

    • @andyhughes5885
      @andyhughes5885 Год назад +1

      @@duncancallum Canny means go easy as in ca` canny`, go easy spending and in Glasgow cannae means `cannae dae that` or I can`t do that `! in Scotland.
      Never heard it not being stupid.

    • @jeanbrown8295
      @jeanbrown8295 8 месяцев назад +2

      There is some stunning scenery near Newcastle,I lived near there for quite a few years,it’s beautiful

  • @alanpower8234
    @alanpower8234 Год назад +217

    Sometimes its good to hear someone new to the UK to remind you that its actually pretty good here overall.

    • @TravelingwithKristin
      @TravelingwithKristin  Год назад +8

      💗😊

    • @timaustin2000
      @timaustin2000 Год назад +22

      It is. I feel more alienated from the UK now than any time in my life. Since the Brexit vote especially I've felt that we've lurched painfully to the right and away from the empathy I was used to as a kid. It makes me so, so sad.
      But to see that, maybe, it's not all that bad does give me hope

    • @benlee8436
      @benlee8436 Год назад +11

      @@timaustin2000 Same here. Things are worse here than I ever imagined they could be, but this shows what we still have and that those things are the real core of a happy life. It gives me hope! :)

    • @lorraine7960
      @lorraine7960 Год назад +7

      @@benlee8436 Yes I agree too. Hope we have a government change soon and that the NHS begins to thrive again. We are not - yet - as bad as America

    • @patrickmulligan7994
      @patrickmulligan7994 Год назад

      ​@@lorraine7960Yes, we in the US will gladly give you our currupt uncle joe and all his war mongering corrupted partners in crime$
      All we are saying... is Give Peace a Chance

  • @asinglewomanontheloose5590
    @asinglewomanontheloose5590 Год назад +453

    As a 72 year old American, I can confirm your spot on changes in America. Everyone is angry & often dangerous. I am actually thinking about doing more & more pet sitting abroad as I just don’t I fit in here. I spend much time in West Yorkshire with my college friends -45 minutes outside of Manchester. People are lovely there.

    • @rbspider
      @rbspider Год назад +19

      America feels so dangerous now, feels like if you move out of your current environment the possibility of living near a murderer , rapist , predator increases dramatically . Might be camping all August and worry about who is around me.

    • @jaylewis9876
      @jaylewis9876 Год назад

      The US is far safer now than decades ago. The media amplifies everything so it seems scary. Like every city there are parts to avoid at night, otherwise the risk is minimal

    • @blue18404
      @blue18404 Год назад

      People are angry because the wages are low and cost of living is too high. If one is smart enough to recognize it. America has alot of dumb people.

    • @george150799
      @george150799 Год назад +34

      I was in Howarth North Yorkshire last week for the weekend, I met a man from North Carolina who was a retired Ford worker, he was travelling alone and said exactly what you said about your country

    • @danhodson7187
      @danhodson7187 Год назад +30

      Come over here to the UK, we'd love to have you! I'm from the south east, but Yorkshire is very lovely, friendly and picturesque :)

  • @KelbornXx
    @KelbornXx Год назад +237

    As a Brit who recently returned from Florida, I can definitely confirm that the UK has a stronger sense of community. I stayed in central Florida and I used to say hello to the locals everyday. There was one old guy who walked his dog and would walk past where I was staying and I could tell that I made his day just by waving to him. And the older ladies who would sit out in the afternoon, just stopping and talking to them about the weather (a very normal British pastime) and it was like I was the first human that had spoken to them, they didn't want me to leave! It was nice to spent time with them but it was also sad that just showing basic British manners was seen as being friendly and charming over there!

    • @ImOk...
      @ImOk... Год назад +12

      I’m not sure that’s the type of “community” she’s referring to... most Americans are overly chatty and friendly. In my life, I’ve never walked by someone without saying hellos and have had plenty of stop-and-chats on the street. But I live in the northeast (don’t know if that makes a difference). I think she was referring to how divided the US is now. Too many different people adopting separate ways of thinking.

    • @TravelingwithKristin
      @TravelingwithKristin  Год назад +8

      I can totally relate - it's so strange! Thanks for this; I'll be sharing your comment on my podcast next week, www.badassdigitalnomads.com ❤

    • @blue18404
      @blue18404 Год назад +9

      @@ImOk... People who are with theor own ethnic communities are more friendly. If you are an outsider expect that. America is just too diverse now for any harmony.

    • @nikiyoussef55
      @nikiyoussef55 Год назад

      ​@@blue18404 i think the media and evil hateful people is the problem in America you have been diverse from the beginning Britain is mini America there are different races and religions it is not homogeneous country if diversety is abused or there is servere racism and segration in a country it will suffer

    • @lawrenceglaister4364
      @lawrenceglaister4364 Год назад +5

      ​@@TravelingwithKristin , well done it seems that you've dropped on with good people and a good area , they'll tell you were not to go and when to leave an area , I used to go clubbing decades ago in Manchester but things have changed since then but it's still great , tell your Yorkshire friends that gods county is actually at the top of the North West just before Scotland lol😂😂😂😂 ,
      As far as football goes stay neutral is my best advice but M United hates Liverpool and it's vice versa 😂 , the funny thing is M City fans have asked the Liverpool fans to hate them but the request has been turned down because they are so nice and of course they beat United regular 😂 .
      Tour the rest of the UK as there is loads to see and only do London if you have 6 months to spare

  • @tessasisson8746
    @tessasisson8746 Год назад +195

    I'm a Brit living in Atlanta, Georgia. When I came here in 1982, everything was thriving, the country was blooming, and things were on the up and up. Oh how it has changed since then! No longer feel safe or welcome - I would go back to the UK in a heartbeat, but my children grew up here, and now have children of their own, so I feel I can't leave. I too, feel sad to have lost the community spirit I felt in England, and for it to have disappeared here in Atlanta. My neighbours are unfriendly, and you have to go everywhere in a car, so you don't meet people just walking around. Walking now consists of a specific place (I have no sidewalks) and there isn't a feeling of friendliness on those tracks - in fact, I've been pushed over for not going fast enough.I am sad now, and lonely except for when my children/grandchildren visit, the emptiness and lack of community is so depressing.

    • @patriciasanderson2171
      @patriciasanderson2171 Год назад +26

      I feel the same way! But not in America, I live in Sydney in Oz but my senario is the same. Car culture, people rarely chat and most are staring at their phones even while crossing a busy street! The chat is almost non existent or basic. Some people are ok but it’s not as open as England. I’m biding my time until my daughter finishes school and praying she’ll want to leave with me. At the moment she’s up for it as she loves England and was born there. It’s so hard and depressing. I feel for you. I hope something changes.

    • @antjee
      @antjee Год назад +31

      Maybe spend a few months per year in the UK and see how it goes. Not giving up your life in the US completely. Kids and Grandkids can always visit, that shouldn't hold you back. Good Luck!

    • @aragonchi4191
      @aragonchi4191 Год назад +34

      England has changed alot as well, and not for the better. However, the pockets that exist are timeless with the same sense of empathy and culure.

    • @pinetworkminer8377
      @pinetworkminer8377 Год назад +7

      ​@@aragonchi4191 Are you saying that both US & UK has changed for the worse, but is the extent of change more extreme for the US?

    • @natedavis1091
      @natedavis1091 Год назад +2

      move to charleston

  • @JoeeyTheeKangaroo
    @JoeeyTheeKangaroo Год назад +296

    Wow, a video not from London. I'm from Manchester and when I watch videos by other Americans reacting to the UK they always go to London and never anywhere else and think they have visited the UK. It is refreshing to see.

    • @Isleofskye
      @Isleofskye Год назад +3

      Don't worry,Kristin will soon be sending videos from the greatest City on Earth, my friend, as my 69 wonderful years will testify:)

    • @Tom-771
      @Tom-771 Год назад +19

      ​@@Isleofskye oh, so is she coming to Liverpool next then?😊

    • @Isleofskye
      @Isleofskye Год назад +18

      @@Tom-771 Proving, as always, that Scousers have a great sense of humour.....lol

    • @capitalb5889
      @capitalb5889 Год назад +5

      I’m a Londoner, but great to get this perspective.

    • @galinor7
      @galinor7 Год назад +3

      ​@@Isleofskye not London then.

  • @valbarnett
    @valbarnett Год назад +394

    Fellow Floridian (Orlando). I've been living in the UK on and off for 20 years, more on than off tho. I think as a yank you'll find most Brits are pretty friendly towards us. They've watched a lot of American shows /movies so yea. I left the US for the second time in 15 as I did not like the climate that was on the horizon. Sadly Brexit has created a similar environment but thankfully not on the same level. You'll find that you'll be eating a lot healthier thanks to the non existence of our favourite: High Fructose! Also almost no preservatives, yellow, red ,insert number, put in the foods to keep us on meds. The NHS is the greatest despite what the Tories are trying to do. The UK is an amazing place and the people are cool. As a person of colour I've never felt unsafe anywhere in this country compared to living in the US. It's not perfect, but it is better. Enjoy your time👍🏾

    • @tenniskinsella7768
      @tenniskinsella7768 Год назад +53

      Brexit is good

    • @joyceflowershed
      @joyceflowershed Год назад +12

      Are you at the kidding😂😂🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

    • @nowhere982
      @nowhere982 Год назад

      Thank you for recognising that Tories are destroying NHS, they're desperate to put USA style healthcare here as lots of tories have pharma shares.

    • @SweetThing
      @SweetThing Год назад +10

      There's that "yank" word again. No one in the south of the US likes to hear that word; that is an insult to them. Please drop it.

    • @chrisholland7367
      @chrisholland7367 Год назад +15

      As a Brit, thank you for balanced view. 🇬🇧😂🇺🇸

  • @billythedog-309
    @billythedog-309 Год назад +160

    The weather isn't 'really bad' in the UK - there are no hurricanes, ice bombs or summer months of unbearable heat .

    • @123bwlch
      @123bwlch Год назад +12

      No rain for 5 weeks at the moment.

    • @peterbabicki8252
      @peterbabicki8252 Год назад +20

      Yeah, weather in the UK isn't ever terrible, but it can be depressing during winter.
      You're right though. No disaster weather, and it's rarely unbearably hot.

    • @billybudd5854
      @billybudd5854 Год назад +13

      As you say, the weather in the UK holds very few nasty surprises. Rarely too hot in summer and rarely too cold in winter. But it helps if you like rain!

    • @getnyrb
      @getnyrb Год назад +4

      @@123bwlch LOL....Hosepipe ban imminent in Blaenau ffestiniog

    • @ddemaine
      @ddemaine Год назад +6

      @@billybudd5854 Rainfall works out on average two days out of five in the UK. Plenty of dry days, but enough rain to keep things green and preclude serious droughts

  • @PatrickVanNicePhotography
    @PatrickVanNicePhotography Год назад +108

    Our daughter is going to grad school at the University of Sheffield beginning this fall. I was with her this spring when we toured Sheffield and also spent time in Manchester and Scotland. As Americans, we were both impressed by that part of the UK. Yes, it was great to be in a foreign country where English is the 1st language. I also fell in love with English football. Best of luck to you!

    • @ianlayton6949
      @ianlayton6949 Год назад +7

      Sheffield is a great city. It's not "flashy" but what you see is what you get there. It's got a great student life - and the second most visited national park in the world on it's doorstep. Like most Northerners, the locals might seem a bit reserved at first, but once you get to know them they're great - just tell your daughter not to do the "look at me, I'm American" thing - that doesn't go down well with people for whom self depreciation and understatement are the norm.
      If she wants to meet great locals - I'd highly recommend going to the Golden Lion pub on a match day and then going to Bramall Lane (the oldest professional sports ground in the world) to watch Sheffield United. It's a bit more of a robust experience than US sports with the banter being more pointed and football fans being more tribal - but it's an experience not to be missed.

    • @ianlayton6949
      @ianlayton6949 Год назад +4

      @@JupiterThunder
      Why not?
      It's got a vibrant social scene for students, Sheffielders are a pretty friendly bunch, it's on the doorstep of the Peak, it has a decent sports scene now the Premier League is coming back to Bramall Lane and it has a history to be proud of.
      Why be any less proud of Sheffield than any other city (including London)?

    • @matthewretter3006
      @matthewretter3006 Год назад

      @@JupiterThunder 😂😂 I was thinking the same thing

    • @jimlambo
      @jimlambo Год назад +1

      and forget to visit all the palace houses you can get to from sheffield, chatsworth house, hardwick, and if you go a little further up you have loads more, harewood house, and of course castle howard

    • @JohnSmith-do3ek
      @JohnSmith-do3ek Год назад

      Autumn, Fall WTF

  • @town_walker
    @town_walker Год назад +100

    I am Bulgarian who relocated in the UK so I so glad for my decision. Definitely campare to Bulgarian the UK is much much friendly and people ate really hospitality. Also have been in New York honestly London is better for me. Have you more success with your RUclips channel. Slava Ukraine 🇺🇦

    • @TravelingwithKristin
      @TravelingwithKristin  Год назад +2

      Thank you! I'm a fan of your country as well :) ruclips.net/video/mpPeK_hJkP4/видео.html

  • @godsoneus
    @godsoneus Год назад +10

    English man here...i very rarely add comments, but felt obliged to say tha k you for your positive comments about this little island of ours...BUT also, to say that you seem to represent Americans in a genuinely great way! You present yourself and your thoughts and opinions in a fair and reasonable, and clear and concise, and overall likeable way. Seem to be a good ambassador for the US and for UK. Good stuff👍

  • @Rob.S-
    @Rob.S- Год назад +34

    My wife and I always say(from Canada) that when you go to the UK, It's like taking a time machine to the 90''s. We are moving to London for my wife's work the beginning of next year. I"M SO EXCITED!!! Good luck on the journey.

    • @leec6707
      @leec6707 Год назад

      Good of you to move to our backwards country.

  • @dorothyscreations6490
    @dorothyscreations6490 Год назад +60

    Welcome to the UK Kristin!! I’m an American living here in the UK for 20 years now! I love to hear your take on living here too so I’m subscribing to your channel.😀

  • @aintwurfnufnifitaintfree2853
    @aintwurfnufnifitaintfree2853 Год назад +67

    I understand completely these feelings of nostalgia you describe so well... I have them too. I live in Canada and have connections to England through my family heritage and from the British influence that still permeated our culture until the 80s and 90s. It's crazy, I see YT vids with Brit gen Z'ers using words and phrases I haven't heard since my grandfather used them! It feels good to know that while my culture may be pretty much finished here in Vancouver, in places like Manchester it lives on, and I could actually go there and feel at home again.

  • @thendsufi
    @thendsufi Год назад +57

    As a disabled guy in the US, I can’t wait for an opportunity to get out of here. I don’t feel supported, I don’t feel welcome, and everything is too fast and too much for me. I’m 27 and I’ve never been on a date in my life because of mobility reasons but also because I have a hard time connecting with people, at least in America. I feel so alone and unwanted. I want to travel but I have no money and no income.

    • @davidbentley4032
      @davidbentley4032 Год назад +15

      Good luck, hope you make it.

    • @michw3755
      @michw3755 Год назад +9

      Stay positive and i hope you get the help you need 🙂❤️

    • @fionagregory9147
      @fionagregory9147 Год назад +9

      In UK you would get disabled benefits so you could live comfortably.

    • @rvjoyjunkie2301
      @rvjoyjunkie2301 Год назад +4

      I’m sorry you are feeling so lost. I hope you get the help you need and are able to fulfill your dreams. ❤️🙏

    • @nardostesfaye8599
      @nardostesfaye8599 Год назад +2

      😘❤️❤️🙏

  • @motocyke
    @motocyke Год назад +135

    The lack of a genuine sense of community in US really resonates with me. I felt the same thing after i traveled to my birthplace multiple times. Seems like you found your home.

    • @TravelingwithKristin
      @TravelingwithKristin  Год назад +9

      Thanks Iki! I’m a nomad so I don’t live here but it’s a wonderful place to visit!

    • @motocyke
      @motocyke Год назад +4

      @@TravelingwithKristin for my favorite no mad…
      i’d observed how others’ live
      in their home
      it’s genuine and warm
      chaos at times
      but their own
      you see
      i’m a nomad
      never my own
      never my home
      always alone
      then i heard
      a no mad
      means one
      who is not mad
      -no mad

    • @Greenwood4727
      @Greenwood4727 Год назад +4

      @@TravelingwithKristin A home is in the heart, not a location

    • @markpalmer8083
      @markpalmer8083 Год назад +1

      ​@@TravelingwithKristin You'll be a nomad until you find the right person. Then you'll want to find home.

    • @starcade90
      @starcade90 Год назад +2

      Trust me, the UK is no better.

  • @Rob.S
    @Rob.S Год назад +26

    Hi Kristin, as a Brit, it’s always nice to hear from people how they perceive the UK, good or bad.

  • @kborom1
    @kborom1 Год назад +9

    How refreshing to see a video about England that isn't criticising every single element! A thoughtful and positive video, hope you enjoy your time here!

  • @ThisAlexia
    @ThisAlexia Год назад +54

    Great video! I’m an American but got my US-UK dual citizenship through one of my parents being British. Moving to the UK has been heavily on my mind. Often times I feel much more connected to the UK than American culture.

    • @incognito96
      @incognito96 Год назад +4

      All depends were you live, london is mega expensive , further from there the cheapest it is.

    • @TravelingwithKristin
      @TravelingwithKristin  Год назад +4

      Thanks Alexia! Fantastic that you’re able to hold dual citizenship

    • @DreweTube
      @DreweTube Год назад +12

      Anywhere but London Alexia...its a dense and diverse country. Heaps to see and do here in the motherland there is Norwhich in the East if your arty , Cornwall in the West for beaches , Manchester for music , Newcastle for the the party and wicked people - may need a translator there though.

    • @ThisAlexia
      @ThisAlexia Год назад +7

      @@DreweTube Oh no, I always thought London would be such a fun place to live. But yes, England has its many charms that people overlook sometimes.

    • @DaSilva995
      @DaSilva995 Год назад +7

      @Alexia what you waiting for Girl? Jump on a plane right away make sure you visit us up in Scotland we'll be pleased to have you x

  • @chesterdonnelly1212
    @chesterdonnelly1212 Год назад +22

    The worker bee is a lovely mascot. Industrious grafters without big egos, working together not against each other, and loyal to their home.

    • @TravelingwithKristin
      @TravelingwithKristin  Год назад +3

      I love it! My high school mascot was also a bee, so I have a lot of bee memorabilia at home

    • @chesterdonnelly1212
      @chesterdonnelly1212 Год назад

      @@TravelingwithKristin that is so cute. What a lovely coincidence 🐝

    • @docman6157
      @docman6157 9 месяцев назад +1

      Get a buzz out of living in Manchester :) I am a content Mancunian

  • @deannedennis
    @deannedennis Год назад +48

    Hey love! As someone from the UK I really enjoyed seeing your perspective on the country and I'm so happy you're enjoying living there :)

  • @CroisMoi
    @CroisMoi Год назад +67

    I’m glad you are enjoying the UK. I loved living in London in 1996. I think daily about going back and where I would live. I’m in Dallas now, but plan to visit the UK soon. I always feel more relaxed there. I would love to see a pub tour where you chat with locals and get their take on things. The non-materialistic way of life in the UK is a more pleasant life. In America we are always dissatisfied with our finances. It adds a level of stress that sits at our subconscious level.

    • @TravelingwithKristin
      @TravelingwithKristin  Год назад +6

      Thanks for the idea, Sarah! I agree that would be interesting to have a chat with them

    • @CroisMoi
      @CroisMoi Год назад +4

      @@TravelingwithKristin I love English accents too, as most Americans do. It would be fun to see that.

    • @Isleofskye
      @Isleofskye Год назад +2

      @@TravelingwithKristin I have just Subscribed and await your views on the Town that has given me 69 wonderful years............LONDON.
      First 29 years in South East London,just 2 miles from Central London and the last 40 years in this same house which I bought in 1983:)

    • @davidr7819
      @davidr7819 Год назад +4

      @@Isleofskye London has an infinite amount to offer. Been here 36 years and love it still. New neighbours have moved in, really nice and friendly. The retired couple upstairs will feed the cat whenever I go away! ❤

    • @Isleofskye
      @Isleofskye Год назад +3

      @@davidr7819 Yes, David.I pop in to see the next doors dogs on the 3 days a week that my neighbour works. She is always bringing stiff back from the Supermarket or a Boot Sale. My other Nepalese neighbours let me park in their drive whenever I need to. My old neighbour 2 doors along gave me their dog when he was 5 months(he is 9 now and I have his daughter) and when they moved they gave me a really good 2 and 3 piece suite. Out of my nearest 8 houses,I have been here 40 years another neighbour 51 and another 52 and another moved 4 doors along to stay here and beats ys all with 55 years. Another is a mere 20 years..lol

  • @vickypedias
    @vickypedias Год назад +48

    Hi!! Floridian living in the UK for 6 years here. The weather was super hard to get used to, physically, mentally and psychologically. Please be prepared for the possibility of developing Seasonal Affective Disorder, I did and it hit me hardddd. Good luck and enjoy your new adventure! I love living here (Bristol- much warmer than Manchester!)

    • @benconway9010
      @benconway9010 Год назад +9

      You live in Bristol? I’m from Bristol… the West Country is the best part of the UK have you ever been to Cornwall and Devon part of the country? Absolutely beautiful areas and Somerset as well 😍😀

    • @vickypedias
      @vickypedias Год назад +8

      @@benconway9010 Yes, and I agree, the West Country is magical! Also been to the Jurassic Coast, Durdle Door, Avebury stones, all around the Cotswolds and the Mendips, and cycling all around the southern tip of Cornwall.... And it's amazing how close it is to cycle to Wales/Brecon Beacons!

    • @2eleven48
      @2eleven48 Год назад +10

      Well, SAD is pretty much common here. Every year during the winter months, I get really down - those dark mornings, those dark dreary grey skies during the day, those dark early nights. That's when I put nice soft lamps on, warm the home, close the curtains, don't pressure myself with things to do, make a snug. Mind you, this weather is not peculiar to the UK - same elsewhere in the Northern hemisphere.

    • @FTFLCY
      @FTFLCY Год назад +2

      Greetings from Bath!

    • @daveofyorkshire301
      @daveofyorkshire301 Год назад

      Buy some Vitamin D3 and start taking it the moment you start to feel it... Keep taking it until you get the first week with multiple sunny hot days, then stop...

  • @phillipbateman2284
    @phillipbateman2284 Год назад +32

    I'm a kiwi who lived in Oxford for 4 years. I found friendships in the UK was a big thing over there. It was expected to socialize weekly, which was similar to life in NZ, and even twenty years later friends from the UK are still in contract. I worked with people who had lived in Oxford all their lives and never been to London. That was a bit different, but they went down to the same pub and drank with the same mates, and didn't want to change. That's why each town has it's own accent. Take care, not everything is perfect, but coming from the states, you'd know that.

    • @MrDaiseymay
      @MrDaiseymay Год назад +2

      Yes I pity visitor's ,even from English speaking countries. A few years ago, Someone did a research into British accents, and amazingly, conclude that our accents change noteably, but approximately, every 20-25 miles.

    • @nicholasmartin297
      @nicholasmartin297 Год назад

      I’m glad you realised that not everything is perfect. I worry about people who come here on holiday thinking it is going to be like a quaint Hollywood movie.
      We are getting more lawless all the time. We are getting more greedy, selfish and cynical too. I honestly believe it started with Margaret Thatcher and under predominantly Tory governments since then we are getting more like the US all the time. Glad you saw Oxford. It’s one of our best cities. The university isn’t too bad either.

    • @aidencox790
      @aidencox790 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@nicholasmartin297 In some ways it is, but a bit snobby - and it did (maybe still does?) breed Russian spies . . . or German spies. Too many super-woke egocentric hubris-ridden students at the Uni of Oxford.

  • @briangibson6527
    @briangibson6527 Год назад +12

    Another lovely American, so refreshing to hear a normal girl being nice about the UK instead of some of the loud mouth ones ,telling us how wonderful and great and brave America is ,because that gets right up us Brits noses. Thank you so very much for a great video,and enjoy your trip to UK .Best wishes to you. x

  • @CunningLinguistics
    @CunningLinguistics Год назад +19

    The part about crumpets was so funny and relatable! haha. Every time I'm in the UK I ALWAYS get crumpets. They're so good if you toast them a bit first, then put a bit of butter and/or peanut butter and honey. Delicious!

    • @TravelingwithKristin
      @TravelingwithKristin  Год назад +1

      Ahh they are so addictive! So soft and fluffy - I’ll try with peanut butter, too 😃

    • @golden.lights.twinkle2329
      @golden.lights.twinkle2329 Год назад

      They are English muffins.

    • @darrellpowell6042
      @darrellpowell6042 Год назад +2

      @@golden.lights.twinkle2329 Crumpets are NOT English Muffins.
      Crumpets have a loose batter and are usually cooked inside of a crumpet ring mould. English muffins have a firm dough, and the muffins are usually rolled out into little balls before cooking on the stove. Sadly the Americans can't tell the difference to two different words. Crumpet and Muffin.

    • @aidencox790
      @aidencox790 10 месяцев назад

      @@TravelingwithKristin Peanut butter - please - NOOOooooooooo. Preserves or marmalade. But peanut butter - ugh!

  • @Distant394
    @Distant394 Год назад +17

    Such an impressive and thought provoking vid (especially the “sad” bit at the end ) and the most real vid I’ve seen in a long time , I just hope you feel more happiness than sadness 👍

  • @flytronica
    @flytronica Год назад +33

    For me the UK was definitely very different before the internet and mobile phones. Wonderful innovations but I do miss those days of not always being ‘on’ and more living in the moment.

    • @MrDaiseymay
      @MrDaiseymay Год назад +1

      When, I get visitors, especially the younger ones, they are always on their phones as they cross my threshhold, and say hello, only after several minutes natter on it.

  • @vangogh8321
    @vangogh8321 Год назад +44

    Thank you for sharing your thoughts about the U.K. As a Brit, it makes me really happy to know that we are welcoming! I hope that you continue to enjoy your travels around this remarkable cluster of countries and islands, Best wishes to you 😉

    • @YoAddicts
      @YoAddicts Год назад +2

      Legendary profile name. Yes, I agree with you. I felt that UK people are friendly, and there's nobody here trying to find justification for racism in the UK as compared to what we find from time to time in the US. I'm delightfully surprised.

    • @vangogh8321
      @vangogh8321 Год назад +1

      @@YoAddicts I am in my 60s now but feel very proud that we have always been a tolerant society and a welcoming one, Best wishes from the U.K. and much love to the U.S.A 😊

  • @blotski
    @blotski Год назад +28

    It's so nice to hear an American talking about the UK from the northern English perspective. For obvious reasons most similar videos are about London where the people are probably quite different. I get fed up about people saying the English are stand-offish and you mustn't talk to strangers. That is not the case everywhere!
    It terms of the community feel, like a lot of European cities including London, Manchester to a large extent is a collection of former villages which have merged into one urban area. I live five miles north of the city centre and my area can be found on maps two or three hundred years old as a village. So it's grown with its own mini-centre and it has schools, churches, pubs, restaurants, clinics, shops etc etc which both makes everything walkable and gives it a community feels.
    Welcome to Manchester and I'm glad the sun has come out for us all at last!

  • @scottman895
    @scottman895 Год назад +56

    I'm glad that you have been having a great time in the UK so far! I've gone twice, and I agree that the people are very friendly. I agree with you toward the end of the video - it seems that more and more people here in the US are more divided and not as communal as it was a while back which is really sad to see. That's the great thing about travel - we learn from other cultures on how we can improve our own culture. I'm optimistic that if more and more people can show kindness and love with each other here in the US, we can change things for the better. It won't be easy, but I think it can be done!

    • @TravelingwithKristin
      @TravelingwithKristin  Год назад +2

      Great insights, Scott! I'm reading your comment on the podcast next week. 😊

    • @scottman895
      @scottman895 Год назад +2

      @@TravelingwithKristin Awesome! I'll look forward to it!

  • @billybudd5854
    @billybudd5854 Год назад +25

    What we also retain in the UK is a culture of not allowing politics to interfere in our relationships with other people. Which means you can strongly disagree with someone about a political issue but still remain civil and even friendly with them. There is nothing that approaches the toxic atmosphere that seems to exist in the US between right and left, especially since the coming of Trump.

  • @andrewshore2898
    @andrewshore2898 Год назад +20

    An American living in Manchester threw me slightly. there is definitely a stronger connection between people there. In addition, everything is really convenient, you can get a direct train from Manchester to Windermere, and that area truly is another world.

  • @billydonaldson6483
    @billydonaldson6483 Год назад +15

    There are 7 bees over a globe on the crest of Manchester. The city was once known as ‘Cottonopolis’ as it was the largest cotton producer in the world with 108 mills + a cottage industry that was also producing cotton. The worker bee became the symbol of the city that was a hive of activity during the Industrial Revolution following a comment someone made about the workers being as busy as bees, as a result the cotton mill workers were called “busy bees.”

    • @davidbentley4032
      @davidbentley4032 Год назад +1

      500 mills in Oldham. The only place that made more cotton was America. Not a city in America, all of it.

    • @aidencox790
      @aidencox790 10 месяцев назад

      @@davidbentley4032 Yes, but sadly the Yanks will say / claim some different fallacy as a fact - such as New York (yes, the big apple and not even a southern cotton state) produced more cotton than the rest of the world / universe combined. We're best. At everything. Sad, but that is how most Yanks that I have met in my 82 years think - and they believe it totally. And you have to believe it too and not argue or they'll shoot you - seriously. Happens all the time. Lived in the US for 20 years and hated it but too tied up with "family things" and then too old and ill to get back to civilisation when family left. They don't even talk to each other nowadays - anger and hatred are quick to form in the US - and no fuse - no thought - just a big bang right away. Crazy.

  • @stephenjames4937
    @stephenjames4937 Год назад +53

    I was born and brought up here in the UK and moved to California in my early 30s. I lived there for twenty six years, visiting back here occasionally. When I finally moved back here permanently, in 2016, I was surprised to feel culture shock. It was mostly in small ways: slang that had become popular since I left, like munter and nonce, also f-words on daytime TV. One thing I loved, though, and made me feel at home more than anything else, was regional accents. I had to get used to Brummy and Doncaster accents again, and I am living in South Derbyshire. Now I would never live anywhere else.

    • @TravelingwithKristin
      @TravelingwithKristin  Год назад +4

      Glad you found your place in the world! Reverse culture shock can be confusing as well.

    • @andrewshore2898
      @andrewshore2898 Год назад +10

      F-words on daytime TV, never heard that being mentioned before by anyone

    • @frankmontague7544
      @frankmontague7544 Год назад

      🎉'HAVE A NICE DAY!' a Californian says--- and Sincerely 😊 It's what I love about the California I know. I've always considered LONDON as home and I now live in the West of IRELAND 💚 but the great big 🌞 sunny world is pretty wonderful, and after 3 months of a London winter I Want CALIFORNIA or Spain or FRANCE 🎉

    • @AJS86
      @AJS86 Год назад

      ​@@andrewshore2898 you should try being in Australia lol C words during the day 😂

    • @AJS86
      @AJS86 Год назад

      ​@@TDI-87 that's the guy that runs the Catholic church yeah?

  • @MicahB640
    @MicahB640 Год назад +21

    I love listening to your perspectives and observations Kristin. I like this type of content and how you haven’t heard any American accents so far. It seems kinda refreshing to learn how locals live and not the touristy facade.

    • @megand6233
      @megand6233 Год назад +1

      I agree. Kristen is a very thoughtful commentator.

    • @TravelingwithKristin
      @TravelingwithKristin  Год назад

      Thank you, Micah; I'm enjoying sharing these observations with you!

  • @phoebus007
    @phoebus007 Год назад +29

    Very pleased to hear your positive comments about the UK and it's good that you are based other than in London. Having lived in the States for a couple of years in the early '90s, it was interesting that even you had noticed how much they had changed even over your relatively short lifetime. It appears that the US has become very polarised because of your 2 party system. Although the UK also has 2 main political parties, we have numerous others that play a role and are represented in Parliament. Also, I think we British are more tolerant of those with opposing views and most people are very wary of political extremes, being overwhelmingly centrist. Even so-called "conservatives" are pretty liberal, in the broadest sense, compared to the American right.

  • @richt71
    @richt71 Год назад +27

    Hey Kristin. FYI A lot of what you are mentioning applies to the North. Growing up in York everyone chats to everyone everywhere but having lived in London for 12 years they think you're odd if you do this especially on public transport.
    Also should be noted that while UK weather is changeable the west side of the UK gets much more rainfall than the East.
    There are 10's of different local accents, use of words and slang across the UK.

    • @MrRQBQ
      @MrRQBQ Год назад +5

      But London is a cosmopolitan city and very different from the rest of the south of England or even Britain as a whole. People don't chat on public transport because you don't even know if they speak the same language.

    • @benconway9010
      @benconway9010 Год назад +1

      That’s bullshit right there the west side dose not get more rain than the east i live on the west side and a hell of a lot of time when i see the forecast its always the east that gets rain when we have sun most of the time

    • @bron-sconcess.10
      @bron-sconcess.10 Год назад +1

      to @richt71! I'm your 10th 'like', loving your description of the '10's of different local accents!' 😏 Tis funny, and truth of such a small island 🌿

    • @MrRQBQ
      @MrRQBQ Год назад +4

      @@benconway9010 I'm afraid you're wrong Ben. Two factors make the west more rainy than the east.... 1. Prevailing winds in the UK come from the Atlantic and...2. The western side of the country is more mountainous and hilly which always generates more rainfall. If you check met office statistics they will bear out what I've said.

    • @krissyg7026
      @krissyg7026 Год назад +2

      ​@Ben Conway I'm afraid you are wrong, East Anglia is the driest part of the UK by far.

  • @CarpeDiemTravelerMel
    @CarpeDiemTravelerMel Год назад +25

    I think you had the perfect explanation for why you are feeling the way you feel. I have felt that for the last several years as well. I miss the way it felt living in the 80’s and early 90’s in the U.S. It was a more simple life, and definitely not as divisive as it has become over the last 10-15 years. The place I’ve always called home isn’t a place where I want to be anymore, and that’s very sad.

  • @zerohippos
    @zerohippos Год назад +4

    Appreciate the video Kristen. Fellow American that just arrived to Manchester last week (previously in Portugal) and can definitely attest to the really kind people and also the rarity of seeing other Americans. One of the common phrases that tripped me up when I first heard it was "Are you alright?", lol. I was like "Huh? I got something on my face?" :D

  • @CroisMoi
    @CroisMoi Год назад +31

    One thing I found funny was when an English woman told the friend I was staying with in London that “She feels the cold”. She was telling him to turn the heat up for me. In America we adjust our thermostats quickly when we are uncomfortable. This means we do not adapt to the weather well. We are very spoiled. The summer in the UK is hard when it gets hot. Few places have AC. The grass goes brown. It is often 80 degrees, but English people say you don’t need an air conditioner. It is still beautiful, of course, but I prefer non-summer Britain. I was in Scotland in June, and I had to wear a winter coat! When it got sunny in Glasgow, tons of people took their shirts off and laid out in the park to catch a little sun. It was funny.

    • @etherealbolweevil6268
      @etherealbolweevil6268 Год назад +3

      Clothes are important, winter clothes for 9 months of the year and summer clothes the other three. From the ground up, so decent socks, trousers, pullover for indoor wear add proper overcoat for going out of doors (summer overcoats slightly lighter than the winter overcoat). UK is as far north as most of Canadia and part of Alaskia (and all of the contiguous Americian states).

    • @juliaperry2812
      @juliaperry2812 Год назад +3

      Sarah, summers in the uk have only just started to get very hot temperatures, last year temp went up to 40c for the first time, so that is why you do not see AC in homes, shops, offices etc, with climate change and our summers becoming hotter and drier I expect we will adjust to what the country needs

    • @MNP208
      @MNP208 Год назад +1

      Kristin is from Florida which means she is acclimatized to the hot weather. FL is way too hot for me, I couldn't live there in the summer.

    • @TravelingwithKristin
      @TravelingwithKristin  Год назад +3

      Good point, Sarah. We are so quick to adjust the thermostat for the perfect temperature at all times of year! I didn’t think about that. But I’ve seen a lot of people soaking up the sun this week ☀️

    • @RickDeckard6531
      @RickDeckard6531 Год назад +3

      "I prefer non-summer Britain" - then you must visit Ireland. The people there are even friendlier than in the North of the UK (where many Irish emigrated to) and 20 degrees centigrade (68 in the other stuff) counts as a heat wave 🙂.

  • @davidchilton4301
    @davidchilton4301 Год назад +29

    Great video - matches a lot of our observations from 2 weeks in the UK in May. I know exactly what you're talking about regarding the differences in politics not being so divisive - we experienced the same living in Germany for 4 years. It's really refreshing and does make me lament the current situation in the US.

    • @TravelingwithKristin
      @TravelingwithKristin  Год назад

      Thank you, David. 🙏 Hopefully things start improving.

    • @megand6233
      @megand6233 Год назад +6

      What struck me when I first moved to the UK was the high quality of public debate and journalism. The UK media is very sophisticated overall (if we forget about the Daily Mail). I was also surprised to see more women of different ages and attractiveness speaking and hosting on television. It was almost as if women were valued for their brains!

    • @mrn13
      @mrn13 Год назад

      @@megand6233 If that is the way you reason, then you are part of the problem.

    • @DreweTube
      @DreweTube Год назад +4

      @@megand6233 Thats very true i agree..all the TV presenters are immaculate in the states...just not relateable to real life is it !.
      When i catch snippets of US news anchors all glammed up it never fails to amuse me...not a hair out of place , where as ours in the UK look like they just finnished a shift at the supermarket 🤣

  • @SerpentineSeiđr
    @SerpentineSeiđr Год назад +8

    Hi Kristin, I'm glad you feel so welcome here! It was so interesting to hear your experiences after moving here. I've also spent time living in a foreign country, I lived in a small town in Germany for a year, and I enjoyed my time there immensely but there's just something about England that you don't find anywhere else, and you managed to encapsulate that very well.
    I also lived in Manchester while I was at university, and though the University of Manchester is a fantastic institution and I rate it very highly as a uni, it was the only thing I liked about the city! But that's because I'm from Chester, where I still live now, which is a small, historical, eccentric little city that is so different to big industrial cities like Manchester that even though it's just one hour away on a train between Chester and Manchester, I had massive culture shock. I was actually pretty depressed because Manchester felt a lot less friendly and there were so many rough/scary areas, whereas Chester is what people might describe as more posh? I'm not sure.
    Anyway, since you live so close and you're spending the summer travelling, I highly recommend you visit Chester! It's very small so that you can see all the attractions in one day, we're super friendly here, and the city is very photogenic! We have amazing buskers performing on the streets, open air craft markets, a gorgeous river which you can take boating tours on, and we have ancient city walls built thousands of years ago by the romans. We tend to get a fair few tourists (but not too many) so you can definitely find lots of postcards and souvenirs ;)

    • @griswald7156
      @griswald7156 Год назад

      Whenever i go to Chester there always seem to be buskers singing Beatles songs…is that just my experience ?

  • @mej6519
    @mej6519 Год назад +2

    a little tip with dealing with our cooler weather is to get some thermal base layers, go to a hiking shop and get long sleeve thermal top and thermal leggings, and thermal socks, these make a great diffrence and thats from a brit who only had his heating on in the morning during winter.

  • @richied1939
    @richied1939 Год назад +3

    Bless you, welcome to the UK. Make sure you get on the road and have a good look around. It’s very diverse and nowhere is that far away.

    • @TravelingwithKristin
      @TravelingwithKristin  Год назад +1

      Thank you for the warm welcome and kind words @Richie D! I appreciate your suggestion to explore and I'm excited to discover the different regions. 🙌😊

  • @ssilversgs
    @ssilversgs Год назад +6

    Since you're in Manchester, you can easily take public transportation to the Peak District and hike around the beautiful areas. The town of Buxton is very cute and has a wonderful theatre/opera house where something good is always playing.

    • @TravelingwithKristin
      @TravelingwithKristin  Год назад +3

      Thank you, S. Silv! Sounds like a great idea. I'll definitely keep that in mind. Appreciate the recommendation 😊💛

  • @catzee4720
    @catzee4720 Год назад +16

    Totally agree about the US was different 20 or 30 years ago. I thought same, like has my perception just changed or has it really changed., and I believe it’s the later. Felt the same when went to Italy and felt my grandmother and grandfather and why did they leave this all behind to come to America. But America was different when I was a kid. More community like you said. Less intense. We used to be 😢 really considering moving out for a more quality of life

  • @vincedelapena
    @vincedelapena Год назад +37

    I'm from Australia and I used to love going to the USA in the 80s, 90s and early 2000s.
    I agree with you. The internet, social media, divisive politics, mass shootings, etc has made the USA a lot less attractive to outsiders.
    I used to go to the US to get videotapes, CDs, DVDs, ice hockey gear, clothing, candy, cameras, electronics, etc.
    With music and movie streaming, social media and RUclips, Amazon and internet shopping, I no longer need to go to the US.

    • @gordonspicer
      @gordonspicer Год назад

      aliexpress has also shopping experience.

    • @vincedelapena
      @vincedelapena Год назад +1

      @@gordonspicer but not for quality US-made products.

  • @billweatherley8335
    @billweatherley8335 11 месяцев назад +6

    You are a lovely addition to UK, we need good genuine people.

  • @KokowaSarunoKuniDesu
    @KokowaSarunoKuniDesu Год назад +10

    Welcome back, haven't seen you in a while. When I was retiring from the US I looked everywhere for a place where I could eventually do without a car: so it needed to have walking neighbourhoods, cycle ways, buses, trains and accessible countryside, and perhaps a sense of history. Nowhere in the US matched those simple needs, so I have been here in York for the past 5 1/2 years, Wife doesn't like the weather, to be sure, but she loves having an allotment where she can grow veggies, and just hang out generally, while I'm pedalling round the bike paths, or off on music gigs.
    Oh, and Pro Tip: when you are in the North it is pronounced "scone' as in 'gone' and NOT as in 'stone'.

    • @TravelingwithKristin
      @TravelingwithKristin  Год назад +2

      Thank you for the warm welcome, @kokowasarunokunidesu! It's great to be back. York seems like a fantastic choice. It's wonderful that your wife enjoys having an allotment to indulge in her love for gardening while you explore the bike paths and enjoy music gigs.
      I appreciate the pro tip! 😆Thank you for sharing your experiences and insights. I'm excited to continue sharing my adventures with you!

    • @michellemaine2719
      @michellemaine2719 Год назад +2

      I am one of the only weirdos on the planet who loves the weather, 6 months of spring and 6 months of autumn. It's perfection. I don't love the ''darkness'' as I've come to call it. January is absolutely the worst.

    • @kathchandler4919
      @kathchandler4919 Год назад

      Actually, that's the right pronunciation for anyone who speaks Queen's English (I can't call it King's he doesn't speak as well as Elizabeth) , she pronounced it as in SKON too so we must be right 😅 😊

    • @Ionabrodie69
      @Ionabrodie69 Год назад +1

      @@kathchandler4919 Nothing wrong with the way Charles speaks…😡🇬🇧

  • @stephanchee3597
    @stephanchee3597 Год назад +12

    Glad you're enjoying yourself in the UK! I would recommend that if you're heading up further north towards Scotland, do stop by Newcastle upon Tyne! Compact and really beautiful city with plenty of beautiful national parks and beaches nearby, and of course the Geordies who are known to be one of the most friendly people in the UK!

    • @asiatravels007
      @asiatravels007 Год назад +4

      I was just about to write exactly the same but you beat me to it as i'm from just outside Newcastle on the coast! 👍

    • @stephanchee3597
      @stephanchee3597 Год назад +4

      @Asia Travel Aye! I was in London for 12 years and I've been living in Newcastle for almost a year now and absolutely love it!

    • @davidlauder-qi5zv
      @davidlauder-qi5zv Год назад +2

      Most friendly people in the UK? That's not been my experience. I am a Scot, from Edinburgh. In a bar in Newcastle a few years ago I was told to "f..k off back to haggisland. You people think you're tough. Well you're not as tough as us Geordies".

    • @asiatravels007
      @asiatravels007 Год назад

      @@davidlauder-qi5zv One person doesn't represent the million people in the Newcastle area. I've met and seen loads of nutters and thugs in Edinburgh and Glasgow over the years but I know they don't represent the majority of Scots. 👍

    • @Bertie22222
      @Bertie22222 Год назад +1

      @@davidlauder-qi5zv Are they?

  • @MrDaiseymay
    @MrDaiseymay Год назад +7

    As A Englishman in my 80's, I have lived through MANY changes in this old unique country, of forbearance , but, to reverse your view of the 'recent past'. I find that we are on the same road as the US, but as usual, a few steps behind them, and not for the better.

  • @patriciamoore3318
    @patriciamoore3318 Год назад +1

    Kristin you are awesome!
    A very thoughtful video.
    I’m 68; I’ve been feeling this RE US for over 7 yrs. Had
    plans then lots of yucky stuff was in the way.
    I was looking up Manchester 2 yrs ago & will get there someday.
    Meanwhile I’m n Europe & loving it.
    Thank you!

  • @BarriosGroupie
    @BarriosGroupie Год назад +8

    I understand your sadness at the end. I've lived in Manchester for most of my life and there's an increasing 'sadness' for me living here. Ironically, it's a consequence of corporate globalization which, on a positive note, imports wealth and jobs into the city laying the foundations for a strong economy, yet changes the sense of identity of local communities leading to their gradual disintegration and replacement. An example is the Manchester football teams which tended to give the locals a sense of connection to a community and adult role models for children, whereas nowadays they represent corporate globalization leaving the locals increasingly disconnected from a sense of ethnic community.

  • @michael-pn9po
    @michael-pn9po Год назад +16

    Glad I came across this video - as I have lived in and around Manchester all my adult life. Every city in the world has "smart" areas and rundown areas. Regarding the point you raised regarding the apparent divisiveness of politics and political views in the USA v the UK - you are right in that the current state of politics in the USA appears significantly more polarised than in the UK. In the USA you appear to either have extreme right wing politics v extreme left wing politics whereas in the UK traditionally all parties fight over the centre ground in the main - we are more conservative (with a small c.) There was a shift to polarisation in recent times, up to and following Brexit, but that now appears to be settling back down. Enjoy your stay and keep smiling - a smile goes a long way in the world.

    • @pinknylon1121
      @pinknylon1121 Год назад

      In my opinion, the left is invisible in US politics. What they call left is still pretty right wing from a European perspective, and it's gradually going the same way here too.

    • @SMlFFY85
      @SMlFFY85 Год назад

      The US doesn't have a left, the lunatics that infiltrated the Republican party have just gaslit many Americans into believing the Democrats are far left loony liberal bogeymen.

  • @alteredillusions100
    @alteredillusions100 Год назад +11

    I totally feel the same way about the quality of life, price, and nostalgic of living outside of the US. I also feel healthier. I lost 15 pounds!

  • @kbbarton1
    @kbbarton1 Год назад +18

    I completely empathize with what you described as making you feel a little sad. I feel the same way (and also some of the same culture shocks, as I just arrived a few days ago). I decided to go to a small seaside town instead of a big city because I feel like the community/connection is a little easier to access (in theory anyway); will see if that's true once I have been here a while...

    • @davidlauder-qi5zv
      @davidlauder-qi5zv Год назад

      If being here makes her feel sad, maybe she should go home again.

    • @Isleofskye
      @Isleofskye Год назад +16

      @@davidlauder-qi5zv Are you, deliberately, missing the point or just slow on the uptake, or just rude?
      She LOVES it here and does not like the way her Country has become so where is your logic and sense in suggesting she should go back home to THe USA. She wishes Florida was like England, as she made clear.

    • @TravelingwithKristin
      @TravelingwithKristin  Год назад +1

      Hi Spartan, I hope that you feel at home soon in your new town. The culture shock will pass with time. I have more videos about it on my channel if you want to browse!

    • @kbbarton1
      @kbbarton1 Год назад

      @@TravelingwithKristin Thanks! BTW, I sent you an email on Sunday. 🙂

  • @PortilloMoment
    @PortilloMoment Год назад +8

    Genealogy fact: people in the UK often die not far from where they were born. Exceptions to this are not uncommon but 'home' still has a powerful draw. The Welsh language even has a word for it: 'hiraeth'.

  • @arutha613
    @arutha613 Год назад +3

    As a Brit who has worked and lived in America, I totally agree with your overview. I sum it up with the simple comparison “ live to work vs work to live “

    • @fatherson5907
      @fatherson5907 Год назад

      As an American who has worked and lived in the UK, I can say that the work ethic and skill of the common person in the UK is laughable. It truly is a third world nation.

  • @Roudaki677
    @Roudaki677 Год назад +9

    I used to travel to London quite a bit and felt at home no matter what I was doing and my long term plans are to retire in the UK. Being a record collector I found a few decent record stores in Manchester as well (Piccadilly and Vinyl exchange just to name a couple) as well as being home to Joy Division/New Order.

    • @seanart1508
      @seanart1508 Год назад +2

      I love JD / New Order, top bands.

    • @PortilloMoment
      @PortilloMoment Год назад +2

      When you do retire (or before if you visit again), Spiller's Records in Cardiff will probably still be going. I think you'd enjoy paying it a visit.

    • @markpalmer8083
      @markpalmer8083 Год назад +3

      Two of the best ever bands.

    • @seanart1508
      @seanart1508 Год назад

      @@markpalmer8083 Agreed, especially Joy Division in my opinion.

  • @cyrusmagnus
    @cyrusmagnus Год назад +2

    As a Seattleite... Cold, grey, rainy is... bad? Huh? Sounds lovely.

  • @mikedytham9996
    @mikedytham9996 Год назад +3

    Just come back from California and beer was upwards of $10. A glass of wine in one restaurant was $22. I am never complaining about the cost of food in Aldi ever again!

  • @gabbymcclymont3563
    @gabbymcclymont3563 Год назад +2

    In Northen England i love the word 'mither' it means to hassel or bother someone. So someone might say "sstop mithering me".
    After the Manchester bombing a one min silence was held infront of the town hall, at the end a lady holding a huge bunch of daffadils. She started singing 'Don't look back in anger" by Oasis (a Manchester band). The jaw dropping moment is when everyone joined in, this is on RUclips.
    After Paris France was bombed there was a football match in Paris. The French police band played "Don't look back in anger" all the English fans sang the song for Paris. Its extreamly moving and shows how we sing on mass ( for historical reasons, we used to sing on the battle field to unerve the oposition, its in our DNA).
    THANK YOU for such a positive vid.

  • @JK4ManC
    @JK4ManC Год назад +1

    Oh! When you do decide on which team to support. Please make sure it is the one that plays in sky blue.👍

  • @rxvvy_
    @rxvvy_ Год назад +24

    Looks like you've found youraelf in a really good place! London might be the capital but Manchester definitely encapsulates the heart and soul of England. I've travelled to quite a lot of places across Europe/US and Manchester immediately took the #1 top spot of best cities from my first visit. The friendliness is absolutely contageous and I've never had even a dull minute in that place. Looking forward to the upcoming videos in the UK

    • @kingofracism
      @kingofracism Год назад

      Northerners reject their English identity what are you talking above t

    • @primalengland
      @primalengland Год назад +1

      ⁠@@kingofracism Ha! What are you on about. 😂😂

    • @primalengland
      @primalengland Год назад +2

      I’m from Manchester. Thanks. 😊

    • @kingofracism
      @kingofracism Год назад

      @@primalengland it's common knowledge that scousers, mancs and even some Geordies reject their English identity. Boo the anthem etc

    • @primalengland
      @primalengland Год назад +3

      @@kingofracism That’s a pretty sweeping statement. I’ve lived in Wigan and Bolton for 69 years. Only people I know that denounce their heritage are people of a mean intelligence. I suppose that includes Scousers, but are you saying ALL Mancs and Geordies do? The mind boggles.
      Also, the Scousers were booing Charlie. Got nothing to do with their heritage. Try harder.

  • @lchris33
    @lchris33 Год назад +5

    Speaking of nostalgia, watching these videos makes me a little nostalgic for the time I spent in the UK a few years ago, though I never made it to Manchester. In addition to groceries being cheaper (though I'm hearing, mostly from UK contacts on social media, that inflation is affecting them as well), it's also more nutritious. In fact, the same brands sold in the US contain more additives and chemicals that are banned in the UK (and elsewhere in Europe). One habit I picked up was listening to BBC radio stations, mainly BBC 2 & BBC 6. Unlike the US, you can hear the same stations everywhere as they are national. Luckily, you can hear them everywhere via internet. I look forward to your future videos!

  • @SoftwareManiacLSM
    @SoftwareManiacLSM Год назад +13

    Community is the US has been lost for sure. I'm sure in England the folks are more open to progressive ideas and inclusive. The US is really retreating to a polarized, close-minded, Orwellian disaster. It is going to take some real opportunity for leaders to emerge and re-invest in thinking local, education, and frankly doing the right thing (instead of being "loyal" or being pissed off). There is a lot of goodness to celebrate here. Looks like the UK never lost that. Thanks, Kristin for a wonderful, candid video. I tell lots of people about watching you.

    • @pinetworkminer8377
      @pinetworkminer8377 Год назад

      In terms of sense of community, is Canada more like the US or the UK?

  • @roonietunes60
    @roonietunes60 3 месяца назад

    What a wonderful channel. Great videos. I’m a Brit living in southern France and I’d say it’s even better here (than London) but I’ve been here 22 years so I’ve ironed out the downsides.
    I admire your bravery to set up outside the tourist traps and I hope you stick with it. Good luck.

  • @nevillemason6791
    @nevillemason6791 11 месяцев назад

    I like the way the woman at 5:10 says she's from a small town called St Helens, near Liverpool.
    St. Helens is all of 20 miles west of Media City, Salford. There's many cities in the USA that are bigger than 20 miles in size! St. Helens is 12 miles from Liverpool city centre but the accent, broad Lancashire, is completely different. The Liverpool accent (scouse) is a mixture of Lancashire/north Wales/southern Irish. The UK has many diverse accents, as here, often changing markedly in only a few miles.

  • @bron-sconcess.10
    @bron-sconcess.10 Год назад +16

    I'm really amused with your findings, Kristin. It's what I appreciate in you, an honesty!
    As a Londoner and I feel community is high on people's wish list. Many seek relationships via dating apps, with care, finding timely success. I guess there's more determined romance and earnest endeavours, with fun! The north is notoriously more easy going and Manchester I find surpasses it's reputation. Has a host of great points. The UK does have a lot of problems, but friendly people are always nearby; the climate isn't great year round, so people move abroad for better weather and fewer expenses. I think the UK is crazily expensive recently, but not for you! 😂 (Broadband aside) ❤

    • @TravelingwithKristin
      @TravelingwithKristin  Год назад

      Thanks Cyan! The locals here have expressed similar views about the cost of living. But overall there's a lot to be grateful for! :D

  • @archiebald4717
    @archiebald4717 Год назад +3

    Well done! The terms of affection; eg 'love'. varies across the country. As you travel, you will hear 'pet', 'duck. 'darling'' and others.

    • @TheCho-k4m
      @TheCho-k4m Год назад

      As a Manc, I always love going to the north east, that accent and being called pet, it's great. Lovely place, lovely people. Apart from the snobs in Ponteland, that's the only place I've ever been made to feel uncomfortable in the north.

  • @GManShorty78
    @GManShorty78 Год назад +5

    Very interesting what you were saying about that feeling of nostalgia for a sense of community and friendliness; I live in the North East of England (Tyne & Wear [the TRUE North of England]), and I've felt a sense of us loosing that communal spirit, that sense of looking after the most vulnerable in our society, of everyone pitching in together, ever since the Brexit vote in 2016. It got worse with Boris in charge and its not recovering now. I feel we have a very bitter pill to swallow, some humble pie to eat, and an general acceptance of a mistake being made, before we can get back to who we really are.

    • @TravelingwithKristin
      @TravelingwithKristin  Год назад +1

      Thanks for sharing that, Graham. It’s sad to hear that sense of community could be slipping away. I wish I had more solutions of how to fix it! Still thinking it through.

    • @GManShorty78
      @GManShorty78 Год назад

      @@TravelingwithKristin it’s not on you to provide a solution so please don’t expend too much thought on it. It’s a very complex issue and not one that those in charge would ever admit even exists as it’s the pseudo-source of their political power.

    • @paulwusteman9963
      @paulwusteman9963 Год назад +2

      How does Brexit affect the community and friendliness in the UK? Do you miss the influence of Macron and Merkel? What has the EU achieved since 2016 that you miss? - name it please? I'm afraid that you exhibit the strong religious flavour of Remainerdom, which is quite independent of what actually happens in the EU - currently a spat between Poland (justly) with the Germans and French.

    • @travellingmusician2380
      @travellingmusician2380 Год назад +1

      ​@@paulwusteman9963QED

  • @dorothysimpson2804
    @dorothysimpson2804 Год назад +2

    Take a trip to Liverpool (we have postcards) our city began the tradition of having a town symbol, we have The Superlambanana.

  • @davejhlomax
    @davejhlomax Год назад +2

    Jump on the train from Victoria Station and come and visit Hebden Bridge for a unique day out in an independent and beautiful West Yorkshire Mill town.
    Only 37 minutes away!

  • @ptjogara
    @ptjogara Год назад +8

    As a Brit, I have to say - you should come to Denmark! Everyone here speaks pretty good English, so no reason to have anxiety about that. People here are really civil and friendly. Also, our internet is pretty fast.

    • @fredflintstone8569
      @fredflintstone8569 Год назад +1

      That's always puzzled me. Why do Scandinavians speak such good English?

  • @laurafromliverpool
    @laurafromliverpool Год назад +4

    You might find that the sense of community is stronger in the north than the south. I'm originally from cambridge, now live in liverpool. I have found it to be much more friendly up here. Also families are much more likely to stay local when they move so you will often get many houses in a street belonging to members of the same extended family.

    • @TravelingwithKristin
      @TravelingwithKristin  Год назад

      Oh wow, having houses in a street belonging to members of the same extended family is interesting. Thanks for sharing your experience, @laurafromliverpool! 🙌

  • @BRIYONCE1
    @BRIYONCE1 Год назад +4

    Loving this chapter in your channel. Very different to a usual travel channel videos

    • @TravelingwithKristin
      @TravelingwithKristin  Год назад

      Thank you so much, Nerve! That’s great to hear. Look forward to you feedback on new videos. I’ll keep experimenting and sharing

  • @quickclipsmma1095
    @quickclipsmma1095 Год назад +1

    I always say love 😂 I was in Canada on the phone to the hotel and said “are you alright love” instant response “don’t call me love” to which I responded “sound mate”

  • @malsm8892
    @malsm8892 Год назад +1

    I used to work near Media City until l retired my late wife had to give up work due to ill health. We had been to the USA, France and Italy she had been to Switzerland and Austria from school with her twin brother over 50 years ago

    • @TravelingwithKristin
      @TravelingwithKristin  Год назад

      That sounds like you both had some wonderful travel experiences together, Mal Sm . It's great to have those memories to cherish. Wishing you all the best! 😊

  • @thirtysevengreenbot
    @thirtysevengreenbot Год назад +3

    We are privileged that you have shared this epiphany with us. Sadness about childhood seems to be an important and challenging part of growing apart and really becoming an autonomous adult. I have lived in London and really enjoyed the general atmosphere of acceptance and common purpose. Except on the Underground, that was miserable! A quote by Baz Luhrmann in his Sunscreen Song: "Be careful whose advice you buy but be patient with those who supply it
    Advice is a form of nostalgia, dispensing it is a way of fishing the past
    From the disposal, wiping it off, painting over the ugly parts
    And recycling it for more than it's worth
    But trust me on the sunscreen..."

    • @leeklass3907
      @leeklass3907 Год назад

      As someone that was born in Manchester but lived in Essex most of my life and spend some of my working week in Stratford people from the north are friendlier in my opinion. Agree with what you say about public transport as train commuter.

  • @TheFliss83
    @TheFliss83 Год назад +3

    I love your observations. It really makes me appreciate the community we have over here. I’m in Cornwall and everyone talks to everyone. It can make a quick trip to the shop much longer than planned 😂❤

    • @TravelingwithKristin
      @TravelingwithKristin  Год назад +2

      It’s a good thing - I stopped to talk to the florist yesterday. Lovely morning. You’re lucky here!

    • @TheFliss83
      @TheFliss83 Год назад

      @@TravelingwithKristin that sounds fab! Sounds like you fit right in! ❤️

  • @theoriginalfat
    @theoriginalfat Год назад +10

    Kristin, I just gave you the like because of the final comments on what's going on in US right now with the toxic media... you are 100% right about that, thanks God that's not happening in lots of places other than US and some other countries. Greetings from Costa Rica, you know you can always come back here and marry me 🥰

    • @pinetworkminer8377
      @pinetworkminer8377 Год назад +1

      When you say toxic media, are you referring to Fox News or CNN? Because those media outlets can be viewed globally on cable TV channels and right here on RUclips.

    • @golden.lights.twinkle2329
      @golden.lights.twinkle2329 Год назад

      The media is just as toxic in the UK. Especially the BBC.

  • @mikecaine3643
    @mikecaine3643 Год назад +1

    Slang words - quite a few are of naval origins- 'Three sheets to the wind' means - drunk and out of control as a sailing ship would be if it gets its sails wrongly set . 'Clear the decks' as in clear the decks and get ready for battle - tidy up your work space and get ready to be busy.The only trouble is - if somebody asks you for slang words you can't think of any but they are so common we use them without realising it .Lovely video .

  • @jeffjeziorowski8612
    @jeffjeziorowski8612 Год назад +1

    I have watched several of your videos and I really enjoy them. I’m a bit older than you. I’m also from south Florida. I grew up in Miramar in the 70’s. I’ll be in the UK in September. I was stationed in Germany for six years and married a German. My only regret in life is I didn’t stay there. Now that retirement is around the corner I’m seriously considering retiring in Germany or Poland. I know I don’t want to stay here in Florida anymore even though I’m not in south Florida anymore. I live in a small town north of Tampa now. I’ve never planned for retirement. All my extra money always went to traveling. I do own my house which is worth a lot more than what I paid for it. A friend of mine that I’ve known my entire life told me I turned into a German. I took that as a compliment since I don’t feel comfortable here like I did when I lived in Europe.

  • @kainzowgroup-seniordigital3763
    @kainzowgroup-seniordigital3763 Год назад +4

    Kristin, as a several year follower of your channel, I appreciate your observation of the 'differences' between the UK and the USA, that is very insightful on your part! But I think your observation goes deeper, when you apply it to many EU countries.
    I was fortunate to travel throughout the globe during my business career, primarily Mexico, and many of the European countries, and over the decades watched and experienced the significant changes that has taken place, from a travel, business and cultural perspective. Two years I begin to travel as a 'Senior' Digital Nomad, as my background is in the Technology, Management consulting fields, and have sensed similar cultural changes that you see. To say the least it has been invigorating for me as it keeps me curious, insightful. One of my assignments was a 15 month manufacturing site , in Manchester, for an Automotive supplier, in what was called the Midlands.
    As you settle into Manchester it may be interesting to share our experiences, feel free to reach out....

    • @Muckylittleme
      @Muckylittleme Год назад +1

      As a Mancunian I can see the negative changes across our communities, it is just a slower process than in the US and N England has always been very friendly and communal so it takes time for the new world entitlement and cynicism to override that

  • @jlvandat69
    @jlvandat69 Год назад +4

    Enjoyable and informative, Kristin. Thank you. The loss of a sense of community is greater in areas where there's been rapid change, with the USA generally at the top of the list. Countries where change is inherently slowed, e.g., where there's strong adherence to eastern religious doctrine tend to have a better sense of belonging, in my experience. America is challenged on multiple fronts, by a range of factors to include extremely high per capita gun ownership which definitely contributes to more hostile social climate. I don't see the trend reversing in the USA for sometime, and have chosen to live abroad. Regarding the dating experience, it was interesting to hear that the UK guys tend to be more inquisitive vs USA men. Sounds promising. As an international traveler I have rarely witnessed scenario where the woman has exhibited a genuine interest in the "backstory" of men they date, especially in the initial meetings. This is a generalization, of course. I have the USA the worst in this regard, but international exceptions do exist. In several countries in SE Asia, e.g., it's not unusual to be asked probing questions by a woman on the first date, or even when meeting casually. Bali was notable in this regard, as was the Philippines. I think there's a ubiquitous apathy around dating, generally-speaking. People have given up, since the pursuit so often results in a net loss, either emotionally or financially or both. So many people are living entirely within their own world and exhibit very little interest in exploring the lives of others with an aim towards intimacy. Regarding the UK from a macro sense, I am a bit concerned about their economy post-Brexit as the GDP has declined since 2016 quite a bit, and the trend is expected to continue. But your report on food prices is encouraging, although salaries in the UK tend to be about 30% lower than the USA which helps to justify the lower costs. Best wishes on this new chapter of your life, Kristin.

  • @scottlarrabee9527
    @scottlarrabee9527 Год назад +4

    Wait til you travel about the north and someone calls you petal or duck.
    Manchester is a very real kind of place, and only very recently a tourist spot. its amazing though, and wildly under valued by visitors. Glad you're enjoying it. (I'd recommend seeking out the Manchester compendium book if it still exists you'll come to see the city in a whole new light. Glad you're enjoying it.

    • @TravelingwithKristin
      @TravelingwithKristin  Год назад

      That hasn’t happened yet 😂🦆Thanks Scott and I’ll look up the book

    • @DavidGrayOK
      @DavidGrayOK Год назад

      The West Country, 'my lover!'

  • @SubnetMask
    @SubnetMask Год назад +1

    London resident here. Thanks for the upload, learned a lot about Manchester. Sounds like paradise

    • @TravelingwithKristin
      @TravelingwithKristin  Год назад

      You should come visit! Also check out Chester, it’s a very cool town about an hour away

    • @TheCho-k4m
      @TheCho-k4m Год назад

      Paradise? No. Honest, fun, alive, affordable and friendly? Yes! Our city faces it's challenges like all others do, it just mostly does it with a smile.

  • @TommyBahama84
    @TommyBahama84 Год назад +1

    Im a Brit moving to southern Alabama for two years soon. That'll be a culture shock!

  • @coastcity7029
    @coastcity7029 Год назад +26

    The U.S. is more diverse every day, not just culturally but also in terms of people's ideologies. What was once our greatest strength has turned into poison for our communities. What keeps communities together isn't shared ideology, it's shared traditions and practices. Diversity's great, except when people have nothing in common to do together besides purchase stuff.

    • @TheCho-k4m
      @TheCho-k4m Год назад +6

      And yet Manchester is an incredibly diverse city and has been for the last 200 years. We have had Asians, Arabs, Jews, Italians, Germans and many more in our city for a couple of centuries. We make it work, it isn't always great but most of the time it's golden.

    • @golden.lights.twinkle2329
      @golden.lights.twinkle2329 Год назад

      What is great about diversity?

    • @ragnargrabson1287
      @ragnargrabson1287 Год назад +1

      @@TheCho-k4m Have you had your monuments of Churchill removed yet?

    • @sutty85
      @sutty85 Год назад

      ​@@TheCho-k4mno it hasn't 😂😂 Manchester has never been diverse until 1997. We have always had the odd pole but Manchester was 98.9 percent White British.

    • @sutty85
      @sutty85 Год назад

      ​@@TheCho-k4mits isn't working at all. I love in Manchester and Muslim ans African immigration isn't working at all.

  • @STEVEHOLE1
    @STEVEHOLE1 Год назад +7

    Hope you keep enjoying the UK, accents change within a few miles. 👌😊🇬🇧

  • @roverchap
    @roverchap Год назад +5

    I'm really pleased that you are enjoying the UK. Great that you are living at least for a while in Manchester. So many Americans only visit London and perhaps a few historic towns which tend to be tourist-focussed, so they don't get a really authentic impression of modern British/English culture. Manchester has a great history, Roman origins but a big player in the Industrial Revolution, there are many buildings and sights around the city of huge historical importance. Many political struggles took place here and kickstarted positive changes for working class people. These don't yet get the attention they deserve, British tourism is still too centred on Royals and old castles etc.
    Yes, we call people 'love' here, it's very warm! In other parts of England the locals may call you 'pet' or 'duck'.
    Your comments on USA vs UK are interesting. The UK has changed a lot and many people, especially older ones like me, are not too content with the changes and hanker after a time 30 or 40 years ago. Like you say, the internet and toxic social media has eroded a sense of community. Also in the UK the Brexit issue still divides the country and is testament to a deeper cultural divide. Mass immigration, especially from outside Europe is rapidly changing the face of English cities to the extent that some areas don't resemble Britain any more. Visit Longsight, in south Manchester. Keep your videos coming, I really enjoy hearing your thoughts, it gives another welcome perspective on these funny old islands.

  • @zzzpip
    @zzzpip Год назад +2

    you're in the best country in the world, enjoy cousin. and respect to you,all the best

  • @we-are-electric1445
    @we-are-electric1445 Год назад +1

    I wouldn't worry about the freezer - when you get to Winter you wont need it. In fact you will only need a fridge to keep the milk warm.

  • @777petew
    @777petew Год назад +5

    You're very welcome. I live in Manchester, and the good outweighs any bad. You talk very sensibly about the differences you find. Your attitude will endear people to you, not like the famous loud and brash American stereotype. Manchester and Salford were very industrialised with lots of slum housing, but most of that has gone.

    • @TravelingwithKristin
      @TravelingwithKristin  Год назад +2

      Thank you so much for your kind words and for sharing your perspective as a resident of Manchester, Peter. I'm glad to hear that the good aspects of the city outweigh any negatives. I strive to approach my experiences with an open mind and sensible observations, and I'm grateful that it resonates with you. Thank you for your support and for being a part of my journey! 😊💗

  • @sumitkapur9479
    @sumitkapur9479 Год назад +5

    "Civil"... you got it absolutely right. That's the #1 difference between the US and Europe. Great video!

  • @daverushambuza3827
    @daverushambuza3827 Год назад +3

    Thankyou Kristin, some illuminating insights into the enduring community spirit in the North West of England, in spite of the turbulence of politics and social media. Sometimes it takes an outsider to articulate the best of us, and I’m sure that you are welcome as one of us !

  • @nevillemason6791
    @nevillemason6791 Год назад +1

    I have to say in the UK when buying fuel for the car and paying with cash, you normally fill the tank first. You then pay at the kiosk. The only place I've come across where you have to pay cash in advance (which is standard in the USA) was a filling station in a rough area of Manchester.

  • @princebuster93
    @princebuster93 Год назад +2

    Nice to meet you love 😊wishing you a lovely time in England, thanks for sharing ❣