There's an old doc, "Nice guys finish first", using games on competing or cooperating and the cooperators always come out ahead because the competitors always eliminate each other.
Thanks! I feel like a "real man!" I was a Reagan supporter who believed I deserved all the privileges I had growing up. Today, I am deeply embarrassed by my politics in my youth. I saw the light during the 2008 economic collapse when all of a sudden I screamed for the government to do something! I have tried to become a better citizen with empathy for those less fortunate than me. I support Kamala Harris because she is a decent, competent politician who cares about people.
Still dumb af it appears. More government and taxes embolden the already rich to further control the market. Please do some reading. We need to open up the markets and allow everyone to participate and enrichen themselves. I hope its not too late for you
Real men have empathy for others. Real men can admit when they've made a mistake. Real men have compassion, even when they disagree. Real men love unconditionally.
I say real men are emotionally mature, emotionally secure, kind, caring, responsible, thoughtful, unthreatened by others' existence, tolerant, respectful, have nothing to prove.
Warren Buffett is 94 years old so he might need someone to help and protect him even more now. I know Trump is a psychopath but I’m starting to think Elon Musk is one also now.
Very interesting and impressive talk, I think that I wanted to hear this kind of talk all my life from men. I am female but looking around at me, Sometimes I feel I am more man than them. My grandson is 13, I would make sure he will watch this video. I am very grateful for your wisdom.🙏🙏🇺🇸💙💙💙
Conservatives absolutely hate that ideology. They believe "It's all about me and mine, screw you and yours!" I knew Hillary Clinton was the real deal when I heard her use that phrase, probably another reason they hate her so bad, along with Tim Walz.
To me, what the rich have forgotten is that "Do what's best for all concern including me, not just what's in it for me." AND they have forgotten that it takes a village to raise a child. They also forgot to take care of their own back yard. America. They have become too worldly therefore believing they are better than you and me and have the right to have you and me humble without even knowing who we are and what they do to hurt our lives because of their money. This is what I call the Palace of Versailles mind set of money OVER humanity. You speak of real men. Men with what I call backbone. Patient, loving, caring and in service of others while taking care of themselves to have strength to be called upon when needed. Thank you for your teachings.
Thank you, FS. We need your input for redirecting the "macho-insanity" that is within much of the modern world. Keep it coming. Again, thank you and God bless you.
Love listening to your wisdom & honesty, Frank. I’m especially endeared by your love & awe when speaking of your lovely family with such pride & joy!🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻😍
I'm 72 also. I was so looking forward to this time with MY Grandchildren. Sadly I haven't been allowed to see them for 10 years because my deeply Fundamentalist Daughter doesn't think my 4th Generation Christian Science healing ability is of god so I mush be too "evil" to be around the children. Thanks a lot Frank for "guiding" my daughter.
Yes indeed. You describe it like the words to the song by Bill Withers ‘…lean on me, when you’re not strong , and I’ll be your friend , I’ll help you carry on…’ That represents the kind of man everyone admires and respects deep down because they seek to lift people upwards. You can count on them when things go sideways. Those are the fellows that have large numbers of attendees at their funeral who truly mourn that mans passing. They are the true silent leaders. Those are real men.
From the movie Porky's, an abused teenaged boy to his father, "If you're what is meant by a real man, I'd rather be queer," I saved that line for years, but I finally got the opportunity. I told an Evangelical protestor, "If you're what is meant by a real man, I'm glad i"m queer."
Thank you for this. I raised 3 sons and my greatest aspiration for them, other than their happiness, was and is that they recognize that we are all HUMAN. Women and men are not separate species of human. With this truth being acknowledged, understood, and acted upon, what a wonderful world this could be. Same applies to POC and LGBTQ, immigrants, any other population of PEOPLE that are vilified, victimized, denigrated and abused by people like the megalomaniac Musk and the severely damaged psychopath TCFSF, and those who worship such pathetic excuses for people. thank you for being you.
I was fascinated by your speaking about how you used to think and I so like the man you are now. Would you speak someday about how you made the transition? I think the world needs to have a vision of what a change of mind Looks like, the speed and process. Thank you for you.
Oh my goodness trust me when I say I have a short attention span however I’m so happy I listened all the way through. Thank you Frank very well stated 💖💖💖☮️ peace and love for you and yours always.
I hope that you feel that space that you take up in your grandchildren's hearts. I had a grandpa like you and I miss him every single day. Even though he died in 2006. Even though I'm a 53 year old. Those grandchildren will forever carry you with them and someday impart the lessons you've taught them to their own grandchildren, they will retain your wisdom and they will always know what it feels like to truly be loved. They are lucky kids.
Real man? Not Trump, Musk, and Vance. A real man is honest and humane, tries to understand other people, treats other people as he would like to be treated, informs himself as thoroughly as possible, and then makes well thought-out decisions . Just a little to begin what makes a real man.
My Dad was a very loving, kind, compassionate, incredible human being who was always inclusive of everyone as a pediatrician. He took the Hippocratic oath very very seriously. In the early 1960s I remember dominant male types saying that when they were married, they only wanted sons and no daughters. My sisters and I went and talked to dad about it. She was horrified by what we told him. He reassured us of how happy he was just to have children, and he didn’t care which gender it was if you could’ve seen his face as he smiling and happy and proud of us girls as his daughters and proud of his sons. It was beautiful. He exemplified everything literally that a male is supposed to be. He and mom were madly in love with each other. He treated her as his equal. She was his equal partner and absolutely everything. No if ands or butts and no exceptions. I do have to say that the only thing that saves me during these diabolical disgusting dominant male types that hate is thinking about my dad and who he was and how he lived, and what he said.
There is no difference between Trump and Taliban, avoid mysygnist religious extremists, they are dangerous. Thank you very much for the information, very precious for us.
Frank, as someone who was very much in awe of your father way back in the 70's, I want to thank you for your clear, uncompromising insights -- much needed and very much appreciated!
Love your definition of a real man! Unfortunately, my husband is a good man but he loves Trump as does his family, and my remaining bros and sisters. Fortunately my daughters and their husbands are Dems.
Thanks. I never knew much about musk until this episode happened, "The chief executive of the tech giant Tesla offered to assist the rescue mission by providing a submarine. The request was turned down. Musk lashed out on Sunday, saying he would make a video proving that his “mini-sub” would have been successful and adding: “Sorry pedo guy, you really did ask for it.” I'm not very smart but if divers have to remove their scuba equipment underwater in order to get through the tiny passageways there is no mini submarine that could help. Of course musk had enough $$ to win the court case against him for defamation.
You are a National Treasure. I think you have assended to a vibration of how humans can get along with common sense. Not hyperbole, not made up stories to evoke a visceral response, just plain speak. A language lost but with your help will return. God bless you and your family.
Wonderful description of real manhood! Thank you. There is nothing sexier to me than a man nestling his baby in his arms with love burning in his eyes. Such a picture shows a man of great depth. Let me also add an addition to your reference to Darwin. Survival of the fittest does not answer the question begged by the arrival of the fittest. I believe the answer lies in the heart of the man, which is why it is the main criterion by which I judge a man. Again, thank you for sharing your wisdom.
Thank you, thank you! I wish this would be in high schools for all teenagers to hear. The boys but the girls as well. We must not allow these people like a Elon and Trump and so many dictators of the world who surround themselves with money and guards : to influence us incorrectly. Some men are so threatened by women! It’s sad. Fortunately my Dad was a real man and I have nephews who are real men. As are some of the men in my personal life. You sir are a real man.
Thank you. Even if I now know for a fact, that I have not lived with one ever. I do appreciate your way of putting all this so succinctly. I knew you had to be somewhere. Shame it took me such a long time to find you.
The meek shall inherit the Earth, because they have nothing to lose. These billionaires have got to be frightened children...so much to protect (for some a lot of it ill-gotten).
My late husband could never apologize - at least not to me. In our 35 years, he only did ONCE! Naturally, he expected apologies from me for this and that, and the other - even if it was the weather, or his favorite team losing. I think that's more common than not...
Think about the past decade. If all the energy was focused on helping people. If communications were honest, facts and science were still valued and vetted, and we focused on each issue, making incremental and real progress. The role models for boys that could have been, the culture influence. After a time one can get from chasing problems and fighting fires to making cool things even better
I like what you’re saying here, using Elon as an example. There’s only one thing that I disagree with that you said, and that’s that Elon was “born with” his psychological problems. Elon wasn’t born with this; He was made into this. He’s the product of abuse and neglect. Abuse and neglect, along with special treatment, created the narcissism that we can all see. These guys believe that if it looks like manliness, it’s genuine, because to a narcissist, appearances are everything. So they go through their lives thinking that if they project “manliness”, then they are real men. They’re little boys cosplaying adult men. They know nothing about being a real man because they’ve never had it modeled for them. Real men have integrity and a moral compass.
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A real man hears the cry of the weak and responds with kindness.
run to the rescue and love will follow
Joaquin Phoenix
I salute you and embrace you. Thank you.
Humanity not only survives, but thrives, not through competition but through cooperation. Real men know this.
There's an old doc, "Nice guys finish first", using games on competing or cooperating and the cooperators always come out ahead because the competitors always eliminate each other.
@@petergarayt9634I need to look this one up
Real men love, nurture and protect. 💜
Thanks! I feel like a "real man!" I was a Reagan supporter who believed I deserved all the privileges I had growing up. Today, I am deeply embarrassed by my politics in my youth. I saw the light during the 2008 economic collapse when all of a sudden I screamed for the government to do something! I have tried to become a better citizen with empathy for those less fortunate than me. I support Kamala Harris because she is a decent, competent politician who cares about people.
Still dumb af it appears. More government and taxes embolden the already rich to further control the market. Please do some reading. We need to open up the markets and allow everyone to participate and enrichen themselves. I hope its not too late for you
I love you and your eloquent testimony, Frank!
Real men have empathy for others.
Real men can admit when they've made a mistake.
Real men have compassion, even when they disagree.
Real men love unconditionally.
Amen ! My husband is a Real Man 😊 .
In short, the modern definition of men is that they are women.
I say real men are emotionally mature, emotionally secure, kind, caring, responsible, thoughtful, unthreatened by others' existence, tolerant, respectful, have nothing to prove.
Thank you sir for the enlightenment ! You broke the facade of "Strongmen" who are in reality, cruel and weak men .
Warren Buffett is 94 years old so he might need someone to help and protect him even more now.
I know Trump is a psychopath but I’m starting to think Elon Musk is one also now.
Of course he is.
Well said Frank.....you are a rare person. I love your mind❤❤❤❤
Another great reflection! Very true ideas put very clearly!
Thank you for everything you are doing, Frank! All of your information is verifiable and just rings true!
Great insight!!!🇺🇸💙💙💙
Very interesting and impressive talk, I think that I wanted to hear this kind of talk all my life from men. I am female but looking around at me, Sometimes I feel I am more man than them. My grandson is 13, I would make sure he will watch this video. I am very grateful for your wisdom.🙏🙏🇺🇸💙💙💙
Thanks. It's about time that someone called out these phonys!
The unfortunate thing is that they don't have the introspection to apply it to themselves 😢.
Truth! Thank you for saying this out loud. I wish more people, especially men, would hear this. End this toxic masculinity. 💙🇺🇸💙🇺🇸💙🇺🇸💙
Beautiful. Thank you 🙏🏽
Its also the meaning of It takes a village to raise a child
Conservatives absolutely hate that ideology. They believe "It's all about me and mine, screw you and yours!"
I knew Hillary Clinton was the real deal when I heard her use that phrase, probably another reason they hate her so bad, along with Tim Walz.
Beautiful.
Thank You for this video
Beautifully stated.
I sulate and embrace you to Frank schaeffer 😊❤
To me, what the rich have forgotten is that "Do what's best for all concern including me, not just what's in it for me." AND they have forgotten that it takes a village to raise a child. They also forgot to take care of their own back yard. America. They have become too worldly therefore believing they are better than you and me and have the right to have you and me humble without even knowing who we are and what they do to hurt our lives because of their money. This is what I call the Palace of Versailles mind set of money OVER humanity.
You speak of real men. Men with what I call backbone. Patient, loving, caring and in service of others while taking care of themselves to have strength to be called upon when needed. Thank you for your teachings.
That sentiment you've described is also known as noblesse oblige. 🙂
Thanks, Frank.
Thank you, FS. We need your input for redirecting the "macho-insanity" that is within much of the modern world. Keep it coming. Again, thank you and God bless you.
Love listening to your wisdom & honesty, Frank. I’m especially endeared by your love & awe when speaking of your lovely family with such pride & joy!🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻😍
I’m so glad I found you, you are a treasure ❤
I'm 72 also. I was so looking forward to this time with MY Grandchildren. Sadly I haven't been allowed to see them for 10 years because my deeply Fundamentalist Daughter doesn't think my 4th Generation Christian Science healing ability is of god so I mush be too "evil" to be around the children. Thanks a lot Frank for "guiding" my daughter.
Damn Leon Muskrat
Wethep..Union..Justice..insure domestic Tranquility..defense.. promote general Welfare..Liberty..Posterity..'🇺🇸📜🗽
Yeah , authentic
Thank you Mr. Schaeffer, for posting your intelligent commentary.
Thx Frank!, As always keep spreading this lucid, insightful analysis! 😎
Yes indeed. You describe it like the words to the song by Bill Withers ‘…lean on me, when you’re not strong , and I’ll be your friend , I’ll help you carry on…’ That represents the kind of man everyone admires and respects deep down because they seek to lift people upwards. You can count on them when things go sideways. Those are the fellows that have large numbers of attendees at their funeral who truly mourn that mans passing. They are the true silent leaders. Those are real men.
I love you.
From the movie Porky's, an abused teenaged boy to his father, "If you're what is meant by a real man, I'd rather be queer," I saved that line for years, but I finally got the opportunity. I told an Evangelical protestor, "If you're what is meant by a real man, I'm glad i"m queer."
Brilliant! Thank you.
Thank you for this. I raised 3 sons and my greatest aspiration for them, other than their happiness, was and is that they recognize that we are all HUMAN. Women and men are not separate species of human. With this truth being acknowledged, understood, and acted upon, what a wonderful world this could be. Same applies to POC and LGBTQ, immigrants, any other population of PEOPLE that are vilified, victimized, denigrated and abused by people like the megalomaniac Musk and the severely damaged psychopath TCFSF, and those who worship such pathetic excuses for people. thank you for being you.
What a powwrful talk! I thank you for standing up and speaking out.
I was fascinated by your speaking about how you used to think and I so like the man you are now. Would you speak someday about how you made the transition? I think the world needs to have a vision of what a change of mind Looks like, the speed and process. Thank you for you.
Warren Buffet is a more of a sincere and caring man 😊❤
Elon should remember the lesson of Babylon. That even the best defended city in the history of the world can fall overnight.
Zuckerburger should be afraid...truth is marching
"The survival of the friendliest." Absolutely this.
Oh my goodness trust me when I say I have a short attention span however I’m so happy I listened all the way through. Thank you Frank very well stated 💖💖💖☮️ peace and love for you and yours always.
Thank you Frank and you always put things into the right perspective and pointing out that Elson Musk has a mental disability.
Another excellent video, Frank. Thank you.
I hope that you feel that space that you take up in your grandchildren's hearts. I had a grandpa like you and I miss him every single day. Even though he died in 2006. Even though I'm a 53 year old. Those grandchildren will forever carry you with them and someday impart the lessons you've taught them to their own grandchildren, they will retain your wisdom and they will always know what it feels like to truly be loved. They are lucky kids.
Real man?
Not Trump, Musk, and Vance.
A real man is honest and humane, tries to understand other people, treats other people as he would like to be treated, informs himself as thoroughly as possible, and then makes well thought-out decisions .
Just a little to begin what makes a real man.
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A Grandmother is happy to hear all you have to say...thank you
Space will never be privatized
I admire your courageous commentary.🩵🩵🩵
My Dad was a very loving, kind, compassionate, incredible human being who was always inclusive of everyone as a pediatrician. He took the Hippocratic oath very very seriously. In the early 1960s I remember dominant male types saying that when they were married, they only wanted sons and no daughters. My sisters and I went and talked to dad about it. She was horrified by what we told him. He reassured us of how happy he was just to have children, and he didn’t care which gender it was if you could’ve seen his face as he smiling and happy and proud of us girls as his daughters and proud of his sons. It was beautiful. He exemplified everything literally that a male is supposed to be. He and mom were madly in love with each other. He treated her as his equal. She was his equal partner and absolutely everything. No if ands or butts and no exceptions. I do have to say that the only thing that saves me during these diabolical disgusting dominant male types that hate is thinking about my dad and who he was and how he lived, and what he said.
Found your channel today love it, thanks
Thankyou for you insights
Misogyny is Primordial Sin
Eddie Haskel Jr Muskrat
Great video, thank you 🙏💕
I always appreciate you taking the time to give your take on relevant issues God bless
Your words are truth. Thank you!
Survival of the friendliest
Oh my god with tears in my eyes I say thank you frank .you are a real man .
Proud of you.
There is no difference between Trump and Taliban, avoid mysygnist religious extremists, they are dangerous.
Thank you very much for the information, very precious for us.
Thank you for covering this topic. And yes, you are truly a real man. As they say, if you have it, you don't have to flaunt it.
Frank, as someone who was very much in awe of your father way back in the 70's, I want to thank you for your clear, uncompromising insights -- much needed and very much appreciated!
Love your definition of a real man! Unfortunately, my husband is a good man but he loves Trump as does his family, and my remaining bros and sisters. Fortunately my daughters and their husbands are Dems.
Thanks. I never knew much about musk until this episode happened, "The chief executive of the tech giant Tesla offered to assist the rescue mission by providing a submarine. The request was turned down. Musk lashed out on Sunday, saying he would make a video proving that his “mini-sub” would have been successful and adding: “Sorry pedo guy, you really did ask for it.” I'm not very smart but if divers have to remove their scuba equipment underwater in order to get through the tiny passageways there is no mini submarine that could help. Of course musk had enough $$ to win the court case against him for defamation.
You are a National Treasure. I think you have assended to a vibration of how humans can get along with common sense. Not hyperbole, not made up stories to evoke a visceral response, just plain speak. A language lost but with your help will return. God bless you and your family.
🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️🇺🇸🇺🇸💙💙💙
Just be a real person be kind and accepting of others cheers from Australia
Wonderful description of real manhood! Thank you. There is nothing sexier to me than a man nestling his baby in his arms with love burning in his eyes. Such a picture shows a man of great depth. Let me also add an addition to your reference to Darwin. Survival of the fittest does not answer the question begged by the arrival of the fittest. I believe the answer lies in the heart of the man, which is why it is the main criterion by which I judge a man. Again, thank you for sharing your wisdom.
Thank you, thank you! I wish this would be in high schools for all teenagers to hear. The boys but the girls as well. We must not allow these people like a Elon and Trump and so many dictators of the world who surround themselves with money and guards : to influence us incorrectly. Some men are so threatened by women! It’s sad. Fortunately my Dad was a real man and I have nephews who are real men. As are some of the men in my personal life. You sir are a real man.
Thank you. 🙏🕊
Thank you.
Even if I now know for a fact, that I have not lived with one ever. I do appreciate your way of putting all this so succinctly. I knew you had to be somewhere. Shame it took me such a long time to find you.
The meek shall inherit the Earth, because they have nothing to lose. These billionaires have got to be frightened children...so much to protect (for some a lot of it ill-gotten).
KARMA LEON
Tim Walz is a real man
Thank you!
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Thank you Frank for sharing your video with their content it means a lot to me ok ❤😊
Frank I am 76 grue up in Baltimore and I member watching your dad
Narcissists and their ‘tells’ ..I experienced it last year with family ..Thanks Frank
My late husband could never apologize - at least not to me. In our 35 years, he only did ONCE! Naturally, he expected apologies from me for this and that, and the other - even if it was the weather, or his favorite team losing. I think that's more common than not...
Think about the past decade. If all the energy was focused on helping people. If communications were honest, facts and science were still valued and vetted, and we focused on each issue, making incremental and real progress. The role models for boys that could have been, the culture influence. After a time one can get from chasing problems and fighting fires to making cool things even better
May be men but not gentlemen.
Chuckie Steenbergen
It's unlikely you're qualified to have an opinion.
I like what you’re saying here, using Elon as an example. There’s only one thing that I disagree with that you said, and that’s that Elon was “born with” his psychological problems.
Elon wasn’t born with this; He was made into this. He’s the product of abuse and neglect. Abuse and neglect, along with special treatment, created the narcissism that we can all see.
These guys believe that if it looks like manliness, it’s genuine, because to a narcissist, appearances are everything. So they go through their lives thinking that if they project “manliness”, then they are real men. They’re little boys cosplaying adult men. They know nothing about being a real man because they’ve never had it modeled for them. Real men have integrity and a moral compass.
May the LORD ☝️ free us soon and get us out of the Twilight Zone 😳 😕
Thoughts and prayers from germany 🙏 😇
NOT YOU !!!