Don’t move in with your boyfriend ladies . A proposal and a ring should be your incentive to moving in . Men beak and thrive in their late 20s mid 30s . Women don’t have that luxury . It might sound old fashioned but ladies , prioritize yourself and your future . Don’t let no man or woman waste your time .
The sisterhood in these comments make me a happy subscriber. Look at how blessed and loved you are amber !!! YOU GOT THIS AND WE GOT YOU. And if you’re reading this hey sister !!! I love you too !❤❤❤❤❤
Amber is the only RUclipsr I can say I have consistently watched from her college days (I was in high school) until now! I feel like we grew up together ! Love me some Amber you still continue to motivate me 💕
Amber, as a person who works in the mental health field, it's important you find someone to share your feelings with. It can be a therapist or someone who you can really trust. Too often, we try to deal with things on our own, but sometimes you need to process your feelings in a "safe place."
@junglesuperstar9270 oh Sweetie! I'm sorry you feel that way and maybe had experiences that have made you feel that way. There is a safe place. If it's not a person in your life, therapy is that safe place. At least, for my clients it is. I pray you find that safe place
This is such a real moment, moved out after living with my ex for 3 years and I never lived alone before. The first week or two was tough. But I am glad to have my own space and doing whatever I want. I'm glad God removed me from an abusive relationship that no longer served a purpose. I'm welcoming this new single journey and learning to be one with self.
Sis, don’t feel bad. I just left a 5 year relationship. We were engaged and have a daughter. It hurts now but I know with time it will get better! We got this and you’re not alone. ❤
First I am older and watching you. The two of you were young and have grown together, what I saw over the years was a true friendship. I am sure you both were a blessing to one another. It has been a blessing that you also share your loving and support family. I know going back home was always an option for you so you moving in your own was huge. You got this but it is a journey. You are strong, smart and beautiful and God has you and your family is going to roll all the way with you. Much love and blessings to you
@@AmberMartinTV I believe the break up hurt you. But only superficially not to your core. I believe at your core you're OK. Because at the end of the day it all about you. You are a classic narcissist. You match all of the definitions and your vlogging history will verify that. Also, you're really hurt foreal to your core, broken with very serious anger issues. Because your Dad abandoned you. You have to get Therapy for all of those issues or they'll only get worse as you get older.
@AmberMartinTV You are n awesome person Amber! God is taking you in a direction that you've never dreamed of! Change is always hard but can be so rewarding! t will get better day by day babes! We all love you❤❤
Now amber to be giving us a hour of pure bliss is an early Christmas gift . It’s going to feel lonely at times trust but remember the true reason you did it for and the support is definitely here !!
As someone who is approaching mid-30s and just learning how to be vulnerable and open with people about my own feelings, just know it takes time, go at your own pace and I think you’re doing great.
I left my ex fiancee of 6 years 3 years ago and it was the best thing i ever did for me and my daughter. When a situation no longer serves you and people dont realize your true value its time to go. Been here since before i had my daughter and shes 6 going on 7. I already know you're good and your journey is only going to get better.
@MsUniqueChellann: I’m saying this with kindness, a 6 year engagement or relationship doesn’t exist for men. You physically left, but he was already mentally/emotionally gone. Ask any man. Wishing you the best. 🦋
@xoxo-vp7ww I feel that but that's not my case. He tries even to this day to win me back. He's a certified narcissist and manipulator so we will never know how he feels lol but I'm good lovem thanks for the insight
@cortezmiller1899 Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. I'm in school for counseling and he was diagnosed.
As a fellow pisces I can relate. I’m all ears when people come to me with tea but private about my shit because I don’t want to be a burden😂 I feel like there’s more pros to a private life, but I definitely feel you girl 💕
Crazy..., you and I are living the same life. This was me 5 months ago. Moved out of my ex bfs house and never looked back. Best decision ever. Living alone is definitely quite but friends help.
It’s definitely an adjustment living on your own. Therapy can be a great way to start the healing process. Childhood trauma can definitely influence our decisions or how we feel towards expressing ourselves
Been watching Amber since day 1. Honestly it’s okay to pour your heart out, it’s okay to take a break and cry but also get back up and look in a mirror to say “ God got me,I’m going to be okay”. Write down how you feel at the beach and just listen to the waves. Write down wrong doings,what you should have said ect and throw it in a fire pit. Write down what you are going to change as a person and check off as you go
I am the same way Amber. I understand you not being a complete open book on social media. From some of the comments that I’ve seen toward you(&others) ..people are way out of touch with reality. You don’t owe us anything and you are allowed to close yourself off. However…when it comes to people who know you personally, that might not be the best. A lot of people sink into depression because the enemy has convinced them that they are burdensome to others. In my case, I felt like I could handle everything myself. I was being prideful. Anywho, We love you Ms.Martin❤❤❤ I hope this doesn’t come off weird lol
When you settled down for the first time since moving into your apartment, you finally realized this is real and you live alone. I personally didn’t experience that because I’m a Pisces who loves being alone. Once you finish setting up your home, things will get better.
Like many of your comments, I’ve been a follower of you since the start of my undergrad year in 2014. I’ve always loved that you have remained true to yourself on this platform. Thank you for showing us what you’re comfortable with and congratulations on this new chapter in your life. May God continue to watch over you and your loved ones 🫶🏾
I love the way you create your space to fit you! While so many of the other RUclipsrs seem to jump on the bandwagon of what everyone else is doing. You are original, that's why I enjoy watching your channel.❤👍🏿
I’ve been living on my own for the past 7 months since leaving my past relationship of 7 years. Definitely an adjustment and when that silence gets loud smh but it’s soooo liberating. I’ve been taking the time to learn myself and who I am forreal not in a relationship and just do me. Have no regrets for sure but it takes time❤
I'm in a similar space in my life so watching your videos is like therapy-I don't feel so alone. My 14 year relationship ended last year and I am in my rebuild phase. Just be glad you are in your twenties still.
Key word LISTEN. One of the main reasons why i don’t over share and deal with a lot of stuff on my own because people don’t listen!!! I can truly count on one hand the people in my life that truly listen.
Once you get used to your apartment, start having girls nights with your sisters and mom. Host game nights, and brunch here there as well. It’s ok to feel lonely sometimes it’s normal.
She still spends a lot of time with them and has before she first moved out. It’s not about “getting used to your apartment” but getting used to living alone. She cannot depend on the entertainment of others all the time. They’re not inaccessible anyway.
Continue to cherish your mom man. I'm 2 years without my mother and those talks and help/company I need in life isn't there anymore making life beyond hard. This s**t ain't for the weak. I can't fall back on anyone and I've been through a rough spot with my relationship and literally have no one to help me so grinding is my first, middle and last name. Prayers for your continuous healing and strength.
Amber, I promise you your not alone. You will have moments, however each day will get better. Right now you might think you will never get over these feeling… but You WILL. God is preparing you for the next chapter. You got this and we are praying for you. I went through a break up after 6 years and I know I would not be the wife I am now to my husband if I did not go through that. ❤️🙏🏽
I went through this feeling about a year ago .. and I’m going on my second year living by myself after being in a relationship I thought would never end & I feel better than ever !
‘He wasted my time’ Amber sigh this thing called life comes with no manual! Sometimes look at the glass as half full and not half empty… Dwell on the great times you had and showed us, college, parties/events you are LIVING ✨🩷 Keep going🎉
"it gave First 48" nah fr, because how you come to do some handy work and not have all the necessary tools? i'm glad you were able to have someone else come in and get it done. it turned out AMAZING! the feeling like a burden part is soooo real. i'm working out getting out of that habit because dealing with stuff on my own can get so hard but it can be so hard because folks will literally either a) not care frfr or b) not listen frfr so then i just keep it to myself or journal. the cargos were cute until you realized they didn't have pockets lol pockets are a MUST. truly enjoyed the vlog
Did she mention D in this blog or is everyone just making assumptions again? I’m so confused. Either way… Amber I will say to connect with others as often as possible while alone. We all fall into this place where we get distant and prefer to stay home. Dinners, gym, other hobbies, etc will do you good. Been living alone for literally only 2 years and it’s sooo easy to fall into isolation habits ✨
nah she didn't everyone just guessing it seems but sis doesn't ADDRESS 😭anything & isn't as transparent😩 as she was when she first started youtube hopefully she gets back how she use to vlog cus its so confusing.
Chile literally love you because you're a whole person. Love your mind and how you express yourself, super relatable. Girl you have the crowd that feels and sees you.
A lot of the times people don’t share things out of fear of rejection. You’d be surprised who really cares to hear what’s going on with you and that they actually want to help you in life ❤ All I can say is your viewers do care. We’ve watched your life online for years, we cared then and we care now 😊
I was just saying this today , I’m a very private person. My family don’t even know my business but this year EXPOSED me lol I think it’s a Pisces thing. We really don’t like to be a burden and we’re realist so we just try to rationalize everything in our minds.
if allergies arent an issue, get a kitten! super low maintenance and they can make home feel a little better an super quiet days/low moods ❤ (get a tuxedo cat and you wont have to worry about fur either)
Amber that apartment from what I can see through your lens is so bomb. I love the high ceilings and the kitchen. Rooting for you and proud of you little sis. You got this! Blessings, love, and hugs everyone. 🩶
This is my comfort RUclips channel for real! Whenever I have too much on my mind or just need to watch something relatable I’m like “whats Amber up to”. Your content is so intentionally curated, it also inspires me to remember that growth is non linear, there’s an effortless grace to the way you carry yourself and I’m always inspired by that. I wish you well on this chapter of your life. The hair is giving grown and sexy too, go off sis! 🔥🔥🌸🫶🏾
we love you Amber !!!! Take it one day at a time fr, its okay to sit and dissect our feelings but to keep pushing through to be our best selves. sending you lots of hugs
how do y'all know she's not even with db ? sis never addressed it they could still be together & maybe wanted to live on her own since she never got the chance too.
@@havingherway her thumbnail says "HE WASTED MY TIME!" + 9/10 times the BW RUclipsrs who shared S.O. on YT then stopped/ moved while being silent tend to be due to a breakup 🤷🏽♀️
So happy for you Amber and I hope you know you’re not alone ❤️ As a Master’s student for Clinical Mental Health Counseling I definitely think you could try that out to vent and explore your emotions. Sometimes it’s good to talk about things with someone who won’t judge you and they’ll give you tools to help you with whatever you’re going through. You’re going through a huge transition and it may be helpful to get a counselor to talk about it and process things. There are a lot of virtual therapists now or you could possibly find one for in-person sessions. God bless you and I’m cheering you on 🙌🏾
How do you like the Mental Health Counseling program?? I am considering a career change and second masters degree and mental health counseling has always been something I’ve been passionate about.
@@88ashjen I love it so much! Everyday I’m learning something new and I have a passion for learning the material. I like how everyday there’s something new to do. Also with this field there are many options you can do as well.
I'm PsyD, and I just want to let you know it's normal to have days like this. It's great that you're speaking on it, but don't think that something is wrong with you. We all have gloomy days from time to time. I had a moment yesterday. We are human. I understand what you're saying. If you deal with someone who blows you off, they are not the right people to confide in. I used to keep everything to myself because I didn't want to burden anyone or trust them with my business. I finally felt comfortable speaking to a specific person. Now, I'm comfortable talking when I need to let things out. Again, it's normal to have days. Keep living your beautiful life to the fullest ❤
Your video was incredibly inspiring, and I admire your strength in navigating through this challenging time. Remember, you're not alone, and your journey of healing is a testament to your resilience. Stay strong, and I believe brighter days are ahead for you. 24:57
First off..the hair is🤌🏼! The whole concept of turning the guest room into a closet is definitely a great idea! Love how its coming together. The way you and your mom and sisters get along really warms my heart...wish i had that support in my life. And as for that first not so handy handyman...tuh...that whole situation was definitely one for the books lol.
I believe the break up hurt Amber. But only superficially not to her core. I believe at her core she's OK. Because at the end of the day it all about her. Amber's a classic narcissist. She matches all of the definitions and her vlogging history verifies that. Also, Amber's really hurt foreal to her core, broken with very serious anger issues. Because her Dad abandoned her. Amber has to get Therapy for all of those issues or they'll only get worse as she gets older.
You may have to buy the light bulbs but maybe look for white or natural light bulbs then have your maintenance change then for you. Your closet looks amazing
I’ve been watching you since your college days and long nails. The fact that I feel like we grew up together, makes me sound crazy I know. But I love it and I love your growth! You’re literally the highlight of my day when you post. You got this girl. One day at a time. 💕
Girl this is progress! I’m in the process of looking for apartments and best believe I’m taking notes because ugh I can’t even begin to think about the stress of packing, moving and unpacking
Remember we all move forward for the best of our lives and we are not looking back for any reasons because have provided all of our blessings, protection and guidances❤️
You have people who genuinely love you Amber. So they WOULD NOT feel that way if you are pouring your hurt out and needed someone to talk to. I genuinely understand what you are saying but it is okay to feel and not be okay. Praying for you!! & I love your apartment can’t wait to see the finished product.
The first few days will hurt, its your only thought at times, the first few months will feel odd, then youll start to morn what was and become what is. You are a beam of light that will continue to shine. Sometimes moements like this may have you feel as though your light is dim, but believe one day you'll wake up and it will hurt less and what once hurt will now become a memory. You not only mourn the loss of whats happened but the version of who you were then but you grow, and continue to have your light ahine brighter and brighter. Its ok to talk to someone, but until your ready find some alternative outlets if you can. Jot down your feelings. You've got this. This shall not break you.
Amber, I started following you since your college days, you are hilarious as ever. Better days are ahead, the best thing to do is to continue to give God his praise while chasing that bag. You got this; we are all here for you with nothing but love!
Don’t open up to people, people are broken and sometimes don’t know better but with God you can let him know anything and he will give you comfort in moments you feel “lows” expecting other people to listen and understand us will only make us feel alone because they don’t understand but Jesus does and he is your #1 friend 💕
I believe the break up hurt Amber. But only superficially not to her core. I believe at her core she's OK. Because at the end of the day it all about her. Amber's a classic narcissist. She matches all of the definitions and her vlogging history verifies that. Also, Amber's really hurt foreal to her core, broken with very serious anger issues. Because her Dad abandoned her. Amber has to get Therapy for all of those issues or they'll only get worse as she gets older.
I’m not even done watching, but as a reader, I peeped those books real quick. Feel free to get into what genres you like and what you want to read in the future. I would definitely be interested in watching you talk about that somewhere in the vlogy vlogs.
Amber! Ive been watching you for the past 6-7 years and to see your growth is admirable . I love how you’re always yourself and how ambitious you are . God bless you on this new journey and we as supporters are always here for you ! 😘😘😘
Everything looks so good Amber!! What really helped me in those dang, I'm in here by myself/ mehh moments. Was being intentional about my schedule, too much down time caused too many of those moments. However, you got this mama!!
I can’t believe he did that 😩 your mom talking about it’s giving first48 😂. I’m glad he did leave his temper was not it. 17:39 I love these pants and the ones your had on earlier !
Don’t move in with your boyfriend ladies . A proposal and a ring should be your incentive to moving in . Men beak and thrive in their late 20s mid 30s . Women don’t have that luxury . It might sound old fashioned but ladies , prioritize yourself and your future . Don’t let no man or woman waste your time .
The sisterhood in these comments make me a happy subscriber. Look at how blessed and loved you are amber !!! YOU GOT THIS AND WE GOT YOU. And if you’re reading this hey sister !!! I love you too !❤❤❤❤❤
Amber is the only RUclipsr I can say I have consistently watched from her college days (I was in high school) until now! I feel like we grew up together ! Love me some Amber you still continue to motivate me 💕
Amber, as a person who works in the mental health field, it's important you find someone to share your feelings with. It can be a therapist or someone who you can really trust. Too often, we try to deal with things on our own, but sometimes you need to process your feelings in a "safe place."
This!
I wish I had a safe place
There is no safe place
@junglesuperstar9270 oh Sweetie! I'm sorry you feel that way and maybe had experiences that have made you feel that way. There is a safe place. If it's not a person in your life, therapy is that safe place. At least, for my clients it is. I pray you find that safe place
@nahomie4224 I pray you find that safe place Sweetie! If it's not a person in your circle, maybe seek a good therapist that is the right fit for you.
This is such a real moment, moved out after living with my ex for 3 years and I never lived alone before. The first week or two was tough. But I am glad to have my own space and doing whatever I want. I'm glad God removed me from an abusive relationship that no longer served a purpose. I'm welcoming this new single journey and learning to be one with self.
Always happy for anyone who gets away from an abusive relationship.
So happy for you, I wish you an abundance of joy and healing on this journey ❤️🩹
@4nomenal28 thank you!
@@sabrinastrong thanks. I appreciate it 💓
Sis, don’t feel bad. I just left a 5 year relationship. We were engaged and have a daughter. It hurts now but I know with time it will get better! We got this and you’re not alone. ❤
I just left a 6 year relationship we were also engaged and have a 4 year old son smh better days are coming
We got this. I just got out of a relationship after 17 years. Big things to come. ♥️♥️
Wow is this the year of break ups! I just left a 7 year relationship.Your peace and happiness is most important
i just left a 3yr relationship and we have a 1 yr old after he violated me …
Did she post that they were no longer together? Or is everyone concluding for themselves because she's living alone?
First I am older and watching you. The two of you were young and have grown together, what I saw over the years was a true friendship. I am sure you both were a blessing to one another. It has been a blessing that you also share your loving and support family. I know going back home was always an option for you so you moving in your own was huge. You got this but it is a journey. You are strong, smart and beautiful and God has you and your family is going to roll all the way with you. Much love and blessings to you
I been watching you before my daughter was born and she will be 6 on December 6 🥺 you have flourished to a beautiful woman amber! ❤️
omg that’s insaneee. done grew with me. love that fr🫶🏾🫶🏾
Hey. Me and your daughter have the same bday🎉🎉🎉 happy early bday to her!!❤❤
@@AmberMartinTV I believe the break up hurt you. But only superficially not to your core. I believe at your core you're OK. Because at the end of the day it all about you. You are a classic narcissist. You match all of the definitions and your vlogging history will verify that. Also, you're really hurt foreal to your core, broken with very serious anger issues. Because your Dad abandoned you. You have to get Therapy for all of those issues or they'll only get worse as you get older.
@@wellwemovingonup7075 do you personally know Amber or just watch an hour of her life every week or so ? Weird energy
@@stephaniedenise9207 Started watching while she was in her 2nd yr of college.
Amber I mean this from the bottom of my heart…. I love you! I’m praying God continues to bless you. Thank you for sharing with us ❤
Thank you so much!
Amber one thing I noticed about you is that you are a GO GETTER!❤
@AmberMartinTV You are n awesome person Amber! God is taking you in a direction that you've never dreamed of! Change is always hard but can be so rewarding! t will get better day by day babes! We all love you❤❤
Now amber to be giving us a hour of pure bliss is an early Christmas gift . It’s going to feel lonely at times trust but remember the true reason you did it for and the support is definitely here !!
As someone who is approaching mid-30s and just learning how to be vulnerable and open with people about my own feelings, just know it takes time, go at your own pace and I think you’re doing great.
I left my ex fiancee of 6 years 3 years ago and it was the best thing i ever did for me and my daughter. When a situation no longer serves you and people dont realize your true value its time to go. Been here since before i had my daughter and shes 6 going on 7. I already know you're good and your journey is only going to get better.
@MsUniqueChellann: I’m saying this with kindness, a 6 year engagement or relationship doesn’t exist for men. You physically left, but he was already mentally/emotionally gone. Ask any man. Wishing you the best. 🦋
@xoxo-vp7ww I feel that but that's not my case. He tries even to this day to win me back. He's a certified narcissist and manipulator so we will never know how he feels lol but I'm good lovem thanks for the insight
@@MsUniqueChellannI know a lot of women love using the word narcissist. And a lot of you really don’t know what the word means.
@cortezmiller1899 Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. I'm in school for counseling and he was diagnosed.
As a fellow pisces I can relate. I’m all ears when people come to me with tea but private about my shit because I don’t want to be a burden😂 I feel like there’s more pros to a private life, but I definitely feel you girl 💕
I’m a Pisces as well and yes that’s what we do. We are sounding boards for everyone even people we don’t even know.
Definitely a Pisces thing! I’m a Pisces as well ❤
Yup I'm a Pisces and I do the same thing… I do not call anyone and will not talk about my feelings thinking none wants to hear all that 😂🤷🏾♀️
One's personality has absolutely nothing to do with stars
@@Heyu7her3Exactly because i’m a libra and I have the same issue as these people. 😂
Crazy..., you and I are living the same life. This was me 5 months ago. Moved out of my ex bfs house and never looked back. Best decision ever. Living alone is definitely quite but friends help.
It’s definitely an adjustment living on your own. Therapy can be a great way to start the healing process. Childhood trauma can definitely influence our decisions or how we feel towards expressing ourselves
Been watching Amber since day 1. Honestly it’s okay to pour your heart out, it’s okay to take a break and cry but also get back up and look in a mirror to say “ God got me,I’m going to be okay”.
Write down how you feel at the beach and just listen to the waves.
Write down wrong doings,what you should have said ect and throw it in a fire pit.
Write down what you are going to change as a person and check off as you go
I'm proud of you... we all need to live alone for a season in our lives. Get to know yourself better, improve & heal.😊❤
I am the same way Amber. I understand you not being a complete open book on social media. From some of the comments that I’ve seen toward you(&others) ..people are way out of touch with reality. You don’t owe us anything and you are allowed to close yourself off. However…when it comes to people who know you personally, that might not be the best. A lot of people sink into depression because the enemy has convinced them that they are burdensome to others. In my case, I felt like I could handle everything myself. I was being prideful. Anywho, We love you Ms.Martin❤❤❤ I hope this doesn’t come off weird lol
Be more open !!! You’re not a burden you never know who you’re helping
When you settled down for the first time since moving into your apartment, you finally realized this is real and you live alone. I personally didn’t experience that because I’m a Pisces who loves being alone. Once you finish setting up your home, things will get better.
The body, the apartment it’s giving yes ma’am
Like many of your comments, I’ve been a follower of you since the start of my undergrad year in 2014. I’ve always loved that you have remained true to yourself on this platform. Thank you for showing us what you’re comfortable with and congratulations on this new chapter in your life. May God continue to watch over you and your loved ones 🫶🏾
I love the way you create your space to fit you! While so many of the other RUclipsrs seem to jump on the bandwagon of what everyone else is doing. You are original, that's why I enjoy watching your channel.❤👍🏿
I’ve been living on my own for the past 7 months since leaving my past relationship of 7 years. Definitely an adjustment and when that silence gets loud smh but it’s soooo liberating. I’ve been taking the time to learn myself and who I am forreal not in a relationship and just do me. Have no regrets for sure but it takes time❤
Been here since highschool😭 currently 24💕 youtube big sista
love that🫶🏾🫶🏾
Same 😂 back when she was still in college for graphic design
Same, been here since she started. I was a sophomore in college 😭
Omg me too girl but I’m 26 lol love Amber💖
Me too I’m 25🥰
I'm in a similar space in my life so watching your videos is like therapy-I don't feel so alone. My 14 year relationship ended last year and I am in my rebuild phase. Just be glad you are in your twenties still.
Key word LISTEN. One of the main reasons why i don’t over share and deal with a lot of stuff on my own because people don’t listen!!! I can truly count on one hand the people in my life that truly listen.
Amber, we're all proud of you and support you. ❤️
We get it, and we’re here for you. It’s going to take time. Not much has to be said❤❤❤
Amber girlll… can we get a life update? Career? Working in the Art field? Friendship at this age? Why don’t you RUclips full time?
Yeees. These are the things I’ve been interested in since she graduated
@@TWForeeever Right! Not invested in her relationship/personal business interested in what caught my attention in the beginning her being a student!
Once you get used to your apartment, start having girls nights with your sisters and mom. Host game nights, and brunch here there as well. It’s ok to feel lonely sometimes it’s normal.
She still spends a lot of time with them and has before she first moved out. It’s not about “getting used to your apartment” but getting used to living alone. She cannot depend on the entertainment of others all the time. They’re not inaccessible anyway.
She needs friends 😢
Amber unpacking the kitchen in the bra top and baggy jeans is giving 1995 video vixen.🔥❤️🔥❤️
The hair the fit the vibes. She ate us up and wasn’t even trying to! 🔥
I said ok AALIYAH vibes lol 🔥🔥🔥
Continue to cherish your mom man. I'm 2 years without my mother and those talks and help/company I need in life isn't there anymore making life beyond hard. This s**t ain't for the weak. I can't fall back on anyone and I've been through a rough spot with my relationship and literally have no one to help me so grinding is my first, middle and last name. Prayers for your continuous healing and strength.
I’ve been enjoying seeing mom in the vlogs! She’s so supportive I just love it ! ❤
Amber, I promise you your not alone. You will have moments, however each day will get better. Right now you might think you will never get over these feeling… but You WILL. God is preparing you for the next chapter. You got this and we are praying for you. I went through a break up after 6 years and I know I would not be the wife I am now to my husband if I did not go through that. ❤️🙏🏽
I went through this feeling about a year ago .. and I’m going on my second year living by myself after being in a relationship I thought would never end & I feel better than ever !
Hello. How did get through? Im going through this as we speak and here it is the holidays. My ex and I broke two weeks ago.
‘He wasted my time’
Amber sigh this thing called life comes with no manual! Sometimes look at the glass as half full and not half empty… Dwell on the great times you had and showed us, college, parties/events you are LIVING ✨🩷
Keep going🎉
Living alone is an adjustment. It’s fair for you to have those moments. 🥰🤗🤗
Your conversation about being really private, is 100% meee. I related to every single thing you said!
"it gave First 48" nah fr, because how you come to do some handy work and not have all the necessary tools? i'm glad you were able to have someone else come in and get it done. it turned out AMAZING! the feeling like a burden part is soooo real. i'm working out getting out of that habit because dealing with stuff on my own can get so hard but it can be so hard because folks will literally either a) not care frfr or b) not listen frfr so then i just keep it to myself or journal. the cargos were cute until you realized they didn't have pockets lol pockets are a MUST. truly enjoyed the vlog
Did she mention D in this blog or is everyone just making assumptions again? I’m so confused. Either way… Amber I will say to connect with others as often as possible while alone. We all fall into this place where we get distant and prefer to stay home. Dinners, gym, other hobbies, etc will do you good. Been living alone for literally only 2 years and it’s sooo easy to fall into isolation habits ✨
nah she didn't everyone just guessing it seems but sis doesn't ADDRESS 😭anything & isn't as transparent😩 as she was when she first started youtube hopefully she gets back how she use to vlog cus its so confusing.
A whole hour with amber what did we do to deserve this 😊
Chile literally love you because you're a whole person. Love your mind and how you express yourself, super relatable. Girl you have the crowd that feels and sees you.
A lot of the times people don’t share things out of fear of rejection. You’d be surprised who really cares to hear what’s going on with you and that they actually want to help you in life ❤
All I can say is your viewers do care. We’ve watched your life online for years, we cared then and we care now 😊
I was just saying this today , I’m a very private person. My family don’t even know my business but this year EXPOSED me lol I think it’s a Pisces thing. We really don’t like to be a burden and we’re realist so we just try to rationalize everything in our minds.
I am living for this Kelvin collaboration. Absolutely the sweetest.
if allergies arent an issue, get a kitten! super low maintenance and they can make home feel a little better an super quiet days/low moods ❤ (get a tuxedo cat and you wont have to worry about fur either)
They would scare me
Cats stink and have fur everywhere can’t wear black anymore
@@SaharaKnows lol why?
Same girl. And when you finally decide to open up to someone they don’t listen and try to take over the conversation and make it about themselves 😒
Amber that apartment from what I can see through your lens is so bomb. I love the high ceilings and the kitchen. Rooting for you and proud of you little sis. You got this! Blessings, love, and hugs everyone. 🩶
Orrrrrr Amber what if you open up to somebody and you feel understood, you feel lighter, and you’re able to smile afterwards ☺️ YOU GOT THIS GURL!
This is my comfort RUclips channel for real!
Whenever I have too much on my mind or just need to watch something relatable I’m like “whats Amber up to”. Your content is so intentionally curated, it also inspires me to remember that growth is non linear, there’s an effortless grace to the way you carry yourself and I’m always inspired by that. I wish you well on this chapter of your life.
The hair is giving grown and sexy too, go off sis! 🔥🔥🌸🫶🏾
Mine too❤
we love you Amber !!!! Take it one day at a time fr, its okay to sit and dissect our feelings but to keep pushing through to be our best selves. sending you lots of hugs
it’s okay to have bad days just can’t sit in your feelings for too long
You can sit in them for as long as you need to. Especially if you’re not over it.
You unpacking the fenty just gave me a flashback to the college vlog days!
BABY!!! Let me put this damn cookie down.... Cause the body is giving per usual! GOOD TO SEE YOU MY GOOD SIS!
Amber 😊 How are Pop and Grandma? We haven't seen them in a while.
I was in a 10 year relationship it’s was shitty but it gets better your doing a great job I love you girl
how do y'all know she's not even with db ? sis never addressed it they could still be together & maybe wanted to live on her own since she never got the chance too.
@@havingherwayexactly!!
@@havingherway her thumbnail says "HE WASTED MY TIME!" + 9/10 times the BW RUclipsrs who shared S.O. on YT then stopped/ moved while being silent tend to be due to a breakup 🤷🏽♀️
@@havingherwayshe will address it when she’s ready… no one moves out of their “partner’s” home if they are happy! …. Read the room
So happy for you Amber and I hope you know you’re not alone ❤️ As a Master’s student for Clinical Mental Health Counseling I definitely think you could try that out to vent and explore your emotions. Sometimes it’s good to talk about things with someone who won’t judge you and they’ll give you tools to help you with whatever you’re going through. You’re going through a huge transition and it may be helpful to get a counselor to talk about it and process things. There are a lot of virtual therapists now or you could possibly find one for in-person sessions. God bless you and I’m cheering you on 🙌🏾
How do you like the Mental Health Counseling program?? I am considering a career change and second masters degree and mental health counseling has always been something I’ve been passionate about.
@@88ashjen I love it so much! Everyday I’m learning something new and I have a passion for learning the material. I like how everyday there’s something new to do. Also with this field there are many options you can do as well.
I'm PsyD, and I just want to let you know it's normal to have days like this. It's great that you're speaking on it, but don't think that something is wrong with you. We all have gloomy days from time to time. I had a moment yesterday. We are human. I understand what you're saying. If you deal with someone who blows you off, they are not the right people to confide in. I used to keep everything to myself because I didn't want to burden anyone or trust them with my business. I finally felt comfortable speaking to a specific person. Now, I'm comfortable talking when I need to let things out. Again, it's normal to have days. Keep living your beautiful life to the fullest ❤
Your video was incredibly inspiring, and I admire your strength in navigating through this challenging time. Remember, you're not alone, and your journey of healing is a testament to your resilience. Stay strong, and I believe brighter days are ahead for you. 24:57
First off..the hair is🤌🏼! The whole concept of turning the guest room into a closet is definitely a great idea! Love how its coming together. The way you and your mom and sisters get along really warms my heart...wish i had that support in my life. And as for that first not so handy handyman...tuh...that whole situation was definitely one for the books lol.
Amber girl is killing the uploads wow!! Thank you sis!
She bout to be back working lol
OMG AN HOUR VLOG IM SO EXCITED….
somebody asked for an hr…i delivered lol
I believe the break up hurt Amber. But only superficially not to her core. I believe at her core she's OK. Because at the end of the day it all about her. Amber's a classic narcissist. She matches all of the definitions and her vlogging history verifies that. Also, Amber's really hurt foreal to her core, broken with very serious anger issues. Because her Dad abandoned her. Amber has to get Therapy for all of those issues or they'll only get worse as she gets older.
You may have to buy the light bulbs but maybe look for white or natural light bulbs then have your maintenance change then for you. Your closet looks amazing
I’ve been watching you since your college days and long nails. The fact that I feel like we grew up together, makes me sound crazy I know. But I love it and I love your growth! You’re literally the highlight of my day when you post. You got this girl. One day at a time. 💕
Whaaaaat her and Donovan Broke up, I would have never thought, he seemed soooo Angelic towards amber 😮😮😮
So breaking up with someone makes you diabolical ?😂
Girl this is progress! I’m in the process of looking for apartments and best believe I’m taking notes because ugh I can’t even begin to think about the stress of packing, moving and unpacking
I can definitely relate. Some days are good, some days are not so good. Just one day at a time. You are strong, God got you.🙏🏽💞🌹
Remember we all move forward for the best of our lives and we are not looking back for any reasons because have provided all of our blessings, protection and guidances❤️
That perfume collection though 👌🏾 Yesss ma'am!!!
You and your mom have me hollering this morning! I love it! Ok let me finish watching the vlog!
You have people who genuinely love you Amber. So they WOULD NOT feel that way if you are pouring your hurt out and needed someone to talk to. I genuinely understand what you are saying but it is okay to feel and not be okay. Praying for you!! & I love your apartment can’t wait to see the finished product.
It’s been a little minute since I been watching vlogs throughout and girlllllll it feels good catching up w yours! The hair is giving ❤❤❤
Your mom is hilarious!! The part where y’all do the story time on the handyman and closet was pure comedy 😭
The fact tht he dodnt read the instructions sent.me😂
The first few days will hurt, its your only thought at times, the first few months will feel odd, then youll start to morn what was and become what is. You are a beam of light that will continue to shine. Sometimes moements like this may have you feel as though your light is dim, but believe one day you'll wake up and it will hurt less and what once hurt will now become a memory. You not only mourn the loss of whats happened but the version of who you were then but you grow, and continue to have your light ahine brighter and brighter. Its ok to talk to someone, but until your ready find some alternative outlets if you can. Jot down your feelings. You've got this. This shall not break you.
You being private and feeling like you don’t want to bother anyone is such a Pisces thing. I can relate sis! Love you Amber, you’re doing great 🫶🏾
That’s any sign thing!
The closet is real cute! Love that you picked this apt it definitely fits your aesthetics.
yesss my favorite girl is back making videos ❤ ready to see you on this new journey amber . RUclips hasn’t been the same without you 🥹
It’s always good vibes with you Amber. Yes one hour long vlog 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
your momma had me cracking up about the handy man 😂😂😂 your bodyyyyy 😍😍😍😍
Amber I just want to say I love you !!! I feel like I’ve grown up with you !!! ✌🏾keep being great girl !!!
We need some better lighting. Switch them lights!!
I’m so happy Mom was there 🙌🏾✨🙏🏾
An yess all that was Sus.
Amber, I started following you since your college days, you are hilarious as ever. Better days are ahead, the best thing to do is to continue to give God his praise while chasing that bag. You got this; we are all here for you with nothing but love!
Don’t open up to people, people are broken and sometimes don’t know better but with God you can let him know anything and he will give you comfort in moments you feel “lows” expecting other people to listen and understand us will only make us feel alone because they don’t understand but Jesus does and he is your #1 friend 💕
Hey girl hey!!! I been waiting on this part 2 of the new chapter!
we back!
I believe the break up hurt Amber. But only superficially not to her core. I believe at her core she's OK. Because at the end of the day it all about her. Amber's a classic narcissist. She matches all of the definitions and her vlogging history verifies that. Also, Amber's really hurt foreal to her core, broken with very serious anger issues. Because her Dad abandoned her. Amber has to get Therapy for all of those issues or they'll only get worse as she gets older.
yessss for the perfume collection!
Yeah, I’m not an open book either & hate feeling like a burden too. I’ve always been this way
Give yourself some time and grace, you are doing just fine.
AN HOURRRR?! 🫨 Ooo you love us real bad. this series is very refreshing & motivating I love to see it.
Everyday not gonna be a good day but you got this! Like I tell my younger cousins no matter what you're that girl never forget that.
I’m glad you found a new handy man to get the job done Amber😊
One day at a time sister girl. You got this. We’re all rooting for you! 🥂🤎
I’m not even done watching, but as a reader, I peeped those books real quick. Feel free to get into what genres you like and what you want to read in the future. I would definitely be interested in watching you talk about that somewhere in the vlogy vlogs.
Your mom had me weak 😂 ‘ it gave murderer’ 😂😂
Amber! Ive been watching you for the past 6-7 years and to see your growth is admirable . I love how you’re always yourself and how ambitious you are . God bless you on this new journey and we as supporters are always here for you ! 😘😘😘
I'm loving what you're doing with your spot... You always give nothing but great vibes!!!
Who else gets excited seeing a new upload from Amber???!!!! Lemme pay attention!!
Everything looks so good Amber!! What really helped me in those dang, I'm in here by myself/ mehh moments. Was being intentional about my schedule, too much down time caused too many of those moments. However, you got this mama!!
I can’t believe he did that 😩 your mom talking about it’s giving first48 😂. I’m glad he did leave his temper was not it. 17:39 I love these pants and the ones your had on earlier !