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Bt wat if that frnd said this will end one day.. one day we will stop talking.. look for a good frnd who will giv u equal love as u do.. protect your heart frm me.. you think i should still stay? Btw she was my ex n now was like a bestie for me n now she has found new frnds and she keep saying all this things
Exactly. And you know what once you realize your value and what you deserve, you will start to attract it. And you will no longer accept the subpar “friends”
perfect timing because I'm overthinking about my friends being fake. ((edit: I see, I wish everyone in the replies to have a wonderful day/afternoon/night. I hope all of you will make great new decisions and choices in the future and meet new amazing people unlike those fake ones. I love you all 💖💖))
Well I have people in Grand Junction Colorado that ran off because of my father drinking. I lost all 3 of my best friends and felt betrayed because of 5000% alcohol. So I can't trust anyone in person.
Totally agree. The majority of friends people have on social media are really acquaintances. As you say if you have a real friend who is loyal and trustworthy then you are lucky.
Yes indeed ...a 70 year old man told me this in 1993 he said when you get my age and look at one hand and count 1 true friend you have been blessed 19 year old me looked at him like he had three heads 47 year old me perfectly understands now🤔
I am we've been friends for 3 months in game same nationality but thousand miles away from her becuz we just met at online, we really both know each other and we have also same interest, mindset and humor like we can talk for hours and hours i really love her and we both know to ijust idont want to push it myself to turn into an awkward relationship just being best friend is fine to me, fun and memorable, we both 18 and i wish i can flew to her hometown after years past because im badly want to rush and hug her like forever. I love her sooo much
I disagree with some of this. Friends that have anxiety (general, social, etc...), depression, and other issues may bail on plans, may not initiate contact, or keep in touch.
This is true. I have found friends with these types of disorders will tell me that they're struggling socially and recommend less triggering activities.
Yeah. I don't want to think I'm a fair friend just because im socially awkward, too anxious to say something, or depressed and isolating myself from everyone, not just specifically them. I think about that after it happens and really stress over it. I think it's actually made me a walking mat because I feel like i owe certain things to people, or don't deserve their friendship. I hate the fact that i know all of this, but only afterwards. While I'm in the moment, things just happen then i realize later how im treating someone or how they've treated me.
That is why you don't want to get too comfortable with anyone right away. Even if you come across people who seem to be nice, be careful not to be so quick to be comfortable with them and don't be so quick to start hanging out with them, especially if you meet them in school and/or work environments. Take your time to get to know them at least maybe a few years or more before you allow yourself to be close to them and start hanging out and keep in mind, they can turn around and show a totally different personality all of a sudden.
When you have grown up in a dysfunctional family (parents included) your siblings can also be your worst enemy. To combat this when feeling isolated just learn to love yourself and distance yourself away from bad energy.
So true !! , Enigma , you can expect it from strangers , but when its family , its whole nother ball field all together , when strangers are totally better than family toward you , something is very wrong !!
Its not that everyone is "fake". Nature is a lot about instinct and survival. So defensive behavior is taken wrongly. The video is speaking of people you already know for a while. For new people, you have to learn to separate opportunistic people from naturally cautious people... and a third group... friendly people that kind of seem out of place at first.
@@kerisemiekeyourmua4574 always choose your family always parents are important siblings are important ❤️🙏🏼💯 Friends are just Fake always no matter what so be careful what you say or do keep in mind what you doing or say protect yourself 🙏🏼❤️💯
i’m so sorry ppl r dealing with toxic friends and family! i’m really grateful that i have ppl who stick with me but i hope everything goes well with you!
I used to be extroverted but I went through a drastic change and now I'm very introverted but I prefer it that way...I realize ppl respect my opinion more since I talk less but i dont initiate conversations...if ur reading this....trust me...find some time to be alone and teach and learn from yourself...u won't regret it...
Yes. Same thing happened to me. Atleast I think. One day when online classes started a few of my "friends" asked me to come with them and my sister asked to come with us and they refused. They were already suspicious. We headed towards a shop nearby. Suddenly we stopped and they said we have to talk. I recated normally. They said that I should change and that I act wierdly in last couple of days and that they are ashamed to be around me. I was shocked. It happened in March of 2020 and I got over it. They talked about it for 20 minutes when it all came to and edn by me saying and I quote: "I don't want to change for people like you." and I walked away. There were 6 of us, including me. Another fight happened near the end of April 2020. One of my "friends" asked if we had slides from math class and the question was kinda like this: "Does anybody have slides for math? (don't tell if you don't have)" and I, AS A JOKE, said that I don't. Then 2 other "friends" joined them and started talking ABOUT 5th GRADE. I don't know if you would believe me but the fight lasted from 2PM to 10PM. What's the silliest thing, I wasn't even there. That's why I'm introverted, have trust issues and no real friends. Thanks. Have a great day!
I must say that I liked your comment because (I read a lot of comments) it was like break that made me appreciate the craft and dedication that the makers put into these videos. The animation is good too.
I had a friend exactly like that, he was self absorbed, would only hangout when it is convenient for him, he would talk badly of any friend who was not present, would always talk about himself or his thoughts. He was terrible friend and the moment I cut ties, my life became so much better and and less stressful afterwards.
1. (1:04) They Make Plans They Don’t Keep 2. (1:38) They Don’t Initiate The First Contact With You 3. (2:12) They Talk Over You And Don’t Listen Very Well 4. (2:46) They Only Show Up When It’s Convenient For Them 5. (3:09) They Are Never There When You Need Them 6. (3:42) They Are Passive-Aggressive Towards You 7. (4:13) They Only Care About People In Power 8. (4:52) They Willingly Talk About You Behind Your Back If you have a fake friend, I hope that you can find friends that actually care about you and will support you
My mother was the only person who never hurt me or let me down. And I treated her like shit............what a f******g arsehole I am......I will never forgive myself.
@@SA77888 question...would she want you to do that to yourself....knowing how much she loves you....she proabably would be very hurt and very sad that she's the reason why you can't forgive yourself...life is short...forgive and learn from your mistakes...
Narcissists... they're everywhere, unfortunately. I remember when I could go out, see all kinds of nice people, and run into the occasional jerk. Fast forward 20 years, now you see jerks everywhere and you run into the occasional nice person. It's sad. I dated one of these people for a year. She destroyed how I feel and how I trust.
No matter how many fake friends you have .. I know it hurts but still cherish the true friend you have and it's you yourself . Don't be a fake friend of yourself and love yourself.❤️
A sign of a good friend is when you, or when one of your loved one is in jail, or was diagnosed with an illness, or a sudden death of a friend or loved one for they will always be at your side no matter what. Remember, there's a saying that says: a friend is, and will always be a friend until the very end; and not just for the purpose of being your friend for one time only.
I had a similar experience with a friend of 6 years. Hurts at first but I'm happy I don't have to deal with those things anymore. I'm surprised at how much happier I am.
I remember a girl that I met in school, tell me it was her bday and asked if I could get her a gift, I wasn't really talked to much so,I thought this was a chance to make a friend, but when I got her a gift I heard her talking about how I got her a gift and was basically talking behind my back for awhile. She basically though I was an easy target because I didn't have friends let this story be a lesson to not trust everyone you meet.
I think we all are at some point in our life. I definitely was one in elementary.
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I used to be a Fake friend to 2 of my This True friends bcos of they always complain everything fly- by/ &passed- by them, I felt they are quite annoying but In terms of helpin me, They helped me a lot in school works and exploring places so I decided to jus B their "Fake friends" and take advantages of the Helping until KARMA STRIKES BACK, AFTER 1- year They stop contactin me and I Found this New friend who was a FaKe Friend to me instead(In which I taught him BacK all School works and helping me do Assignments even pickin- him up drivin him ups-and- downs to places and In Returns He Walked- off /Away and Ignored me When I falled- off from the Bed and No friends to hang- OUT WITH :( ~ Ever since THEN, I regret the entire of my life OF not Appreciating True/ Real friends over some of their Annoying Bad Behaviour/ Habits !!!
@ it's alright sweetie you'll get many other friends i really love when people realise their mistakes and try to improve themselves and we are just human beings we tend to make mistakes but when when we learn from our mistakes and try to change them makes us a good human and you are a good person and deserve to have good friends
The most hurtful is when you realise that the person you trust, care and love the most, the person you call your best friend, collects the most of the signs. Lifetime disappointment 😔😔
1:05 - 1. They make plans they don't keep 1:39 -2. They don't initiate the first contact with you 2:13 -3. They talk over you and don't listen very well 2:46 -4. They only show up when it's convenient for them 3:09 -5. They are never there when you need them 3:42 -6. They are passive aggressive towards you 4:14 -7. They only care about people in power 4:54 -8. They willingly talk about you behind your back
The way I see it, there are two ways to live. One where your life is guided by intellect and focus. Everything has a purpose and is calculated. You are in control of your emotions, and you do what is necessary to reach your goals. The more you live this way, the clearer it becomes that other people are hard to relate to, they simply do not understand you, and they do not see the world the same way as you. This path is lonely but tends to leave you with an inner happiness and contentment. The second path is one where everything is based on externalities. You need to buy this, buy that, meet these friends, go in this vacation, do these drugs, get out there. etc..... You will make more friends, but you will see the associations are not very meaningful and both parties are at some level questioning the whole thing. This path is easier, more social, but internally more chaotic. I have walked both paths, and the older I get, I realize the first path is better. I still do believe though that maybe one day I could meet a soulmate and have true love. I still believe a man and woman can have a real connection. Well, hope this helped. Peace Out.
No, given my observations, it ISNT strange. Just be thankful it was only The Olive Garden that considered you family--If your family is involved with the mafia, it would probably be best to do what "daddy" says!😂😂😂
You guys forgot to mention: friends also love telling you who YOU are and pass off their perceptions and opinions of you as facts. They also like to test you by either doubting you, or saying something outrageous just to see how you react. Fake friends will NEVER stick up for you, only blame you. They pretty have this "you're on your own" attitude or "not my problem, so I don't care" or "you're so selfish! You only care about yourself! What about ME?" Or the classic "not responsible for you, so I don't need to _____." That, and they often like to "joke" around, but they really just have no sense of humor so they insult you as a "joke". Make you feel nervous and complain excessively over everything you do to the point of nagging but never look at their own bullshit. Bitter, or overly positive, never "just right". Complain constantly that you made them lose brain cells. Refuse to undersrand you ans give up on you when you need them the most. All of those are just a few extra signs of a fake friend.
And they often judge you if you like something they don't :/. Or if your better than them at something, they'll say you're showing off. Don't listen to those people. Whatever they say, you are still special and unique in your own way and you should not be worried about that. Be yourself!
I remember actually having quite a lot of fake friends back in middle school, at first I thought I was just being emotional, but then I realized that indeed, they were fake, as I found out that one of them had thrown my binder in a ditch, and got dog poop on it. Forget what they say about high-school, fricken middle school is where all the bull crap is! I'm a senior, and there has been NO conflict socially in all my years there, god I hate middle school.
I'm now in my 60's and work with people in their 20's and 30's. Many act like middle-schoolers trapped in adult bodies. These people never mature, they "succeed" by trashing others and virtue-signaling to their "woke" friends.
Middle school is where a lot of kids’ personalities change. My mom always tells me that I used to be a happy trusting person and then I did a hard 180. I got rid of my fake friends FAST. Because if they tried any more bullshit they were going to be wishing that they remembered how to breathe correctly. I am still a loving person, but I believe every faker needs to be taken out. But that’s just my opinion and no one needs to stand on a soap box about it.
1. They make plans they don't keep 1:04 2. They don't initiate the first contact with you 1:38 3. They talk over you and don't listen very well 2:13 4. They only show up when it's convenient for them 2:46 5. They are never there when you need them 3:08 6. They are passive-agressive towards you 3:41 7. They only care about people with power 4:13 8. They willingly talk about you behind your back 4:53 I hope I could help! :D
I'll show this my 12 year old son,in this video the woman explains everything better than I can,its great and I'm giving this video a thumbs up,thank you very much for your video.
@@RearAdmiralTootToot Your response tries to imply I was being arrogant, but if you do your research, you'll find it is truly a blessing if we empaths can manage to avoid those individuals. But, as you said, you're a mere mortal so you wouldn't understand. 😒
I'm an empath too. I love my solitude more than being around people who make small talk. My intuition is always 100% spot on. A lier has no chance with me.
A sign of a real friend is someone that can laugh at each other's imperfections & shenanigans, respect personal boundaries and appreciates your growth as a person. People nowadays are loosely using the label "friends" to almost anyone that appears friendly or compliments their ego on a periodic basis. Neighbors, school colleagues, relatives, co-workers, employers, etc., are not your "friends", nor will they ever be.
Its ok to be a loner and an introvert, i dont mind being alone i enjoy it since ive been single and choose to be single, no drama no heartaches. Wisdom is my best friend she is a hottie and a real beauty
That is so true when I was in the hospital for a week and recovery for another 3 months. I realize not only who my friends were but family. only about 10 people came to see me, no one asked me if I needed any help when I got out.
So true... I had so many friends when I was teenager. By the time I became pregnant and couldn’t partying with them anymore... That’s how I find out who my real friends are...
Counting. Zero. But been there for others, and broke my heart over them, many... Stopped even trying to beg god to help me, cuz in my worst hours he didnt even come through. From a tired and torn soul. Who always tried to be kind good and giving to others. Now looking at the pieces left of myself into self love, which once felt so selfish to do, no kinda vital to keep me on ... All my life I wanted at least one true friend... now I'm too scared to get hurt again and trust, pushed beyond I can take. I hate being selfish, but I guess it's me time. Peaceout
Here's the thing. These people tend to be the one to walk first, leaving you, to ask yourself, what you could have done to offend them, when absolutely nothing you could have done could ever please them. They can do great damage to ones self esteem.
Truer words have never been said. It took me a while to realize that one fake friend of mine never really liked me. It hurt a lot and to this day, it still kinda does that someone treated me that way. But I'm happy it happened since I no longer have to shoulder that burden alone anymore.
This has happened to me my whole life. That is why I know I don't even have one friend. After watching this video, it made me realize that this has happened to me from every single person I thought was my friend.
My only sister is like a fake friend, she only talks about her own concerns and opinions. She doesn't listen to me about what I might have to say or how I'm feeling.😑
@@Disha-k4f If you realise your mistake , you already take the first step . So don't feel bad about yourself but change yourself . I have to do that too.👍
Yeah I understand because truly there comes a time when you become tired of spotting these fake friends and decide to be on your own which is easier honestly
You know what that happened same with me one of my friend. She always tell me that "hey, tomorrow is test can learn it and help me too cheat it in test" She give stupid reason for not doing study . Even she take my cradit. And if i need some help she refuses. But now i learn this world is not easy you have to fight for yourself otherwise this people will eat you. Try to get communicate with people but don't get attached . And learn to say NO to this kind of people
I’ve finally solved that problem, I just refuse to be friends with anyone at all.. because for all of my discernment and intuition, my spineless empathy betrays me every time.
@Just Julia aww thanks for the compliment ,I just think what a advantage to meet friends on a channel talking about it , we are both on the same page so to speak lol! My email is , if you can shoot me a Hi so thrn I can go back and erase it ok and we can go from there?☺☺☺💐💐💕
All of the fake friends that I've had, and I've had a few, ALWAYS initiated contact, persistently sought and "nurtured" the friendship. Looking back, it's as if they had some kind of goal, and agenda. And they did.
Me: “All my friends secretly don’t like me and really don’t want anything to do with me” *watches video and realizes they don’t match any of these* Me: “Maybe they really do love me as much as I love them” Can anyone explain this?
Just try believing them more ...and try not to overthink...ik that its hard...but just believe in yourself and believe that "They deserve you as much as you deserve them" 🙂 ATB!!
You just need to be more confident with yourself because I'm sure that you're definitely an amazing person. Don't overthink anything and just go with it, as long as you know they're not using you or excluding you from anything, you're fine.
Hey my dad is the same. Along with him faking care, he is neglectful and abusive. Stranger I don't know you, or your life, but may I advise that you be very weary of him always. Coming from years of personal experience I know blood is thicker than water, and we always have the choice to drown in either. Family is not unconditional love. People use people. Please take care of yourself. Wishing all the best to you.
I think that sometimes these type of things are just overthinking signs, you can't really determine someone's motives or intentions or why they did or din't do something solely by some-type of actions. These may be accurate for most people that are fake friends but some of these qualities liking taking intuitive in contacting each-other or something may be because they wouldn't like to disturb you or aren't confident and potentially don't know what to say. So if you have a friend and you're suddenly suspecting now, please calm down and actually think properly, if you trust in your friends and KNOW that they're really believe in them and trust them. Blessed for those who are pure in heart...
yes or the person might be having a tough time/dealing with mental illness. I don’t know what to think about this video but yes I understand it’s important that people should recognise a fake friend and get what they deserve and i know mental illness isn’t really an excuse to be a bad friend but I guess what I’m saying is just because someone is isolating themselves from others doesn’t mean they should be put in the same category as a “fake friend” because this is happening to me now and I’m not a fake friend, I love my friends with the whole of my heart and I think my best friend doesn’t like me anymore which is great but what am I expecting lmao
I understand that sometime there is this feeling of distancing yourself from "friends". And I guessing you also get the feeling of how people don't understand how you "really" feel and how you at thinking right? I'm a person who has personally experienced and have been in contact of different types of friends. And to be honest I've always questioned what exactly can be considered a friend or something like if I've ever actually gotten a friend and what are the emotions we feel. I've always been blurry about how things are how I am. But now it's just the feeling of people walking away because you've pushed them away at your own will but still feeling tingly and weird inside. I wouldn't describe it as sad but ...something. Judging from what you've written I'm assuming that it's hard being a friend to someone and people aren't actually able to be empathising and linking with you directly. I really hope that someday you'll be able to find whatever that you are searching for. Please think of what's best for you and try to not always force the blame on yourself. With an emotional restraint things all become harder. (^_−)−☆
@@-_-3621 yeah you’ve got it all right there. It’s just that one friend who I don’t think likes me anymore because he’s the only one who speaks to me everyday, who’s actually there for me and for me to not reply to him for days must be hurting him. Also I’m not sure about this but he might’ve got his friendship group (which btw is “the boys”) involved somehow and they probably think I’m doing this purposely to hurt him and a total bitch so yeah it’s hard I guess lmao but thank you so much you understand me more than anyone and you’re a stranger on the internet lmao it’s funny how the world works
I recently watched “ The Red Hen” recommended for me to read. What a great book written and describes the two types of people, one whose in the relationship to benefit, the other is the one who takes on responsibility to initiate . A giver vs a taker. A true friendship is rare!
Narcissism is a personality disorder that is spreading across society like a disease that's much worst than covid. You can thank social media and 'dating' apps for the narcissism explosion.
I hate to say this but I found out one of my "friend" showed all these eight signs. It was an awful feeling to find out she was such a toxic person. But I moved on! Life is too short to hang out with these ungraceful human being.
They are some of the most precious people you'll ever have. HOLD ON TO THE LOVE YOU HAVE FOR THEM. BECAUSE YOU DO LOVE THEM THEY ARE NOT YOUR FRIENDS. THEY ARE YOUR PARENTS AND TO SPEAK THIS WAY YOU HAVENT LEARNED ANY BETTER YET. BUT YOU WILL. TALK TO YOUR REAL FRIEND (JESUS) ABOUT YOUR SITUATION WITH THEM AND TAKE HIS ADVICE. ITS GUARANTEED YOU WILL FEEL BETTER. HE SAY JUST HONOR YOUR MOTHER AND FATHER. A REAL FRIEND IS NOT GONNA TELL YOU NOTHING WRONG. TRY HIM
A good way to know if someone is talking behind your back is to see if they talk about their other friends behind their backs. If she is doing to her other friends she is doing it to you.
I don't think it is about them. It is about extrovert superficial people who contact you only when they need something or are bored and want to talk about themselves. Otherwise they forget you and since you are not very imporatant to them, never ask how are you doing, actually. Never initiate contact doesn't mean being two strangers who just met. Being myself somewhat introvert, I still like to call people ocasionally and see how they are doing, have a chat. I don't understand extreme social anxiety, to be honest.
@@akumabazooka9169 my social anxiety is so bad I'm scared of getting messages. Answering them is pretty hard too. Messaging first is terrifying. They'll reply and then what? I understand its hard for people to understand but its the sad truth 😢
Too many I've met. It's very unfortunate and unfulfilling for them. I didn't have many friends growing up and I don't have many to this day. The best way to not fall for fake friends is to spot their behavior early on
I cut a friend off a month ago and watching this made me feel that I made the right choice and he was exactly like the person that you talked abt in this video
Very good video. I’m 59 years old and yes I’ve had my share of fake friends. I now go in with extreme caution and have been able to avoid fake friends. Everything you said in this video is accurate. As the old saying goes “ you really hit the nail on the head”
@Aprajita Kool name , if friends treat you that way who needs Enemies lol I'm here I'm a Kool loyal guy Smart , business, have things going for Me if you need a good Friend I'm here a email away anytime for chats or advice really just let me know!!🙏🌸🌸🌸☺💕
Amen my Lord.. Choose your friends wisely. And keep your enemies closer.. Smiling faces are deceaseful!!! Thank you my Lord.. For your beautiful wisdom..
Fake friends are hard to spot in the early days and the devastation is large when you do. Fake 'friendly' family members are just as prevalent - as being stabbed in the heart can hurt a great deal.
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I always overthink I have fake friends, And I thought I was just being paranoid. Even if they were fake, I never had the audacity to confront them.
@@kaguyabokuto1509 me to..
Fake people don't surprise us anymore, loyal people do
They really do
Point made🤔🤔
When distrust becomes normal and trusting real honesty becomes a chore. It's a rough perspective, and very tough to get out of.
Couldn’t have said it better myself.
*the truth has been exposed*
Fake friends: once they stop talking to you, they start talking about you.
That’s so trueeeee. Sadly :(
Truee
Oof.
Yep!
Sad reality tbh.
Damnn truee
A true friend is the one who stays when all the others walk away.
Bt wat if that frnd said this will end one day.. one day we will stop talking.. look for a good frnd who will giv u equal love as u do.. protect your heart frm me.. you think i should still stay? Btw she was my ex n now was like a bestie for me n now she has found new frnds and she keep saying all this things
I've had too many fake friends
@@Reenanaik674 I had a friend call me when they wanted me to participate in his wedding he no longer talks to me fake friend
The one you trust more is the dangerous one
Family and friends also fake.
“You deserve someone who’s gonna treat you like you matter everyday. Not just when it’s convenient for them.” 🙌🏽
1. Are u on Lucids server
2. If I dont communicate a lot, does that make me fake?
@@daejuanobrien1399 Answer to 2.) no, but you sound like a nice little introvert to me
@@Fatasswatermelon36 thank you ❤️
AYEEEE WUSS GOOD JT
Exactly. And you know what once you realize your value and what you deserve, you will start to attract it. And you will no longer accept the subpar “friends”
When people show you who they really are the first time, believe them.
And keep your distance.
Exactly
I say this all the time it's so true
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So true, but it's unfortunate that some show you their true self after.
Not all the time some r charmers & find ur kindness as a weakness
Never cross oceans to people who can't even cross a puddle for you.
Absolutely! I've done that twice ... never again.
Great comment!
Ma'am you just dropped a crown FOR THIS AMAZING COMMENT
@may I'm Your Friend Always even if I don't know you , we could be chatting friends☺
As the saying goes, "Never make someone a priority when you are only an option."
perfect timing because I'm overthinking about my friends being fake.
((edit: I see, I wish everyone in the replies to have a wonderful day/afternoon/night. I hope all of you will make great new decisions and choices in the future and meet new amazing people unlike those fake ones. I love you all 💖💖))
Same
Same here bud
Aww,i hope you figure it out and remove that back stabbing friend you have,
HDHDJD SAME!!
Wait what's a friend ?
I'd rather be by myself then to have fake friends.
Me too....I finally got rid of them
I'm alone, but I was anyway
@@flowforever9084 i'll drink to that! - to the Good Ridance!
....Salut!
Same
Worst is when PARENTS act like this with their own children .
My ex does this with our kids.
Absolutely 🐝👀
They're called NARCISSISTS
@Maggie's Cottage also not noo
FACTS!
Better to be alone than have a group of fake friends and family. Personal experience
Trueee
Too bad I found that out later in life!
Cassandra Glenn it’s never too late!
@@kumaSOevl So true, thanks!
True, based on my experience. I'm always alone especially when eating lunch at my work.
Friendship is overrated. Almost every friend I have had has betrayed me.
I thought I was the only one that this has happened to. I have no friends.
Well I have people in Grand Junction Colorado that ran off because of my father drinking. I lost all 3 of my best friends and felt betrayed because of 5000% alcohol. So I can't trust anyone in person.
Me also. I prefer my own company now I'm in my 50s
And you haven't betrayed anyone???? 💁🏽♀️
@@damejazesoul Not really. Ones in Great Bend are the ones who betrayed me and set me up.
The majority of people in most people's lives are acquaintances.. They come and go... Real Friends are rare...
Exactly 💯%
Totally agree. The majority of friends people have on social media are really acquaintances. As you say if you have a real friend who is loyal and trustworthy then you are lucky.
Thank you! I’m so glad someone else understands this :) My family certainly doesn’t.
Your lucky to have 1 true friend in your lifetime.
Wow I have spent my whole life looking for that one true friend. Yet to find them!!!!
Yes indeed ...a 70 year old man told me this in 1993 he said when you get my age and look at one hand and count 1 true friend you have been blessed 19 year old me looked at him like he had three heads 47 year old me perfectly understands now🤔
True. I have a best girlfriend. I met her when our sons were little. 25 years later and still my favorite person. Thanks Gretchen!
I am we've been friends for 3 months in game same nationality but thousand miles away from her becuz we just met at online, we really both know each other and we have also same interest, mindset and humor like we can talk for hours and hours i really love her and we both know to ijust idont want to push it myself to turn into an awkward relationship just being best friend is fine to me, fun and memorable, we both 18 and i wish i can flew to her hometown after years past because im badly want to rush and hug her like forever. I love her sooo much
Know one. Knows that more i
I disagree with some of this. Friends that have anxiety (general, social, etc...), depression, and other issues may bail on plans, may not initiate contact, or keep in touch.
Yea , that's why ,not all friends are fake just because they have all these signs . But maybe all fake friend has these signs .
Exactly
This is true. I have found friends with these types of disorders will tell me that they're struggling socially and recommend less triggering activities.
At some point I started questioning if I'm a fake friend because of that
Yeah. I don't want to think I'm a fair friend just because im socially awkward, too anxious to say something, or depressed and isolating myself from everyone, not just specifically them. I think about that after it happens and really stress over it. I think it's actually made me a walking mat because I feel like i owe certain things to people, or don't deserve their friendship. I hate the fact that i know all of this, but only afterwards. While I'm in the moment, things just happen then i realize later how im treating someone or how they've treated me.
My mother always said, "it's better to have quality friends than quantity. Keep your circle small".
“ It is better to be alone than in bad company.” George Washington
Yep exactly
Agree
AMEN!!!!!
right
@@communityloveartprojectc.l9806yes definitely.
Is it possible that most people aren't taught friendship etiquette.
yes and no it can be what you came in content with first idk
I found that being alone teaches you how to be a friend. Some people end up not being alone though...
So obvious answer, introverts are the best friends!
True!!!
yes i think so
That is why you don't want to get too comfortable with anyone right away. Even if you come across people who seem to be nice, be careful not to be so quick to be comfortable with them and don't be so quick to start hanging out with them, especially if you meet them in school and/or work environments. Take your time to get to know them at least maybe a few years or more before you allow yourself to be close to them and start hanging out and keep in mind, they can turn around and show a totally different personality all of a sudden.
So true. Usually the nicest ones are the ones to beware of.
Real talk
So true.....👍👍👍 SOGOIII?!?!
Sadly I can relate I have backstabbers for relatives
Is so true,this kind of people r everywhere.
When you have grown up in a dysfunctional family (parents included) your siblings can also be your worst enemy. To combat this when feeling isolated just learn to love yourself and distance yourself away from bad energy.
Yes my brother was that... I'm free now 😊
I thought it was just me on this one Enigma , you must have been reading my mind
So true !! , Enigma , you can expect it from strangers , but when its family , its whole nother ball field all together , when strangers are totally better than family toward you , something is very wrong !!
@@catherha1 you & me both sis 🙏❤ , bless you always
This is what I'm trying to tell my daughter
It's hard to find good friends. There's alot of fake people out here in this world. Be careful of who your friends with.
Its not that everyone is "fake". Nature is a lot about instinct and survival. So defensive behavior is taken wrongly. The video is speaking of people you already know for a while. For new people, you have to learn to separate opportunistic people from naturally cautious people... and a third group... friendly people that kind of seem out of place at first.
Yet to try me yeah you are yet to.
True but it's impossible to chose your own family 👪💔😕
@@kerisemiekeyourmua4574 always choose your family always parents are important siblings are important ❤️🙏🏼💯 Friends are just Fake always no matter what so be careful what you say or do keep in mind what you doing or say protect yourself 🙏🏼❤️💯
i’m so sorry ppl r dealing with toxic friends and family! i’m really grateful that i have ppl who stick with me but i hope everything goes well with you!
There’s a huge difference between a FRIEND and a TRUE FRIEND.
I used to be extroverted but I went through a drastic change and now I'm very introverted but I prefer it that way...I realize ppl respect my opinion more since I talk less but i dont initiate conversations...if ur reading this....trust me...find some time to be alone and teach and learn from yourself...u won't regret it...
Couldn't agree more!
same !!!
Yes. Same thing happened to me. Atleast I think. One day when online classes started a few of my "friends" asked me to come with them and my sister asked to come with us and they refused. They were already suspicious. We headed towards a shop nearby. Suddenly we stopped and they said we have to talk. I recated normally. They said that I should change and that I act wierdly in last couple of days and that they are ashamed to be around me. I was shocked. It happened in March of 2020 and I got over it. They talked about it for 20 minutes when it all came to and edn by me saying and I quote: "I don't want to change for people like you." and I walked away. There were 6 of us, including me. Another fight happened near the end of April 2020. One of my "friends" asked if we had slides from math class and the question was kinda like this: "Does anybody have slides for math? (don't tell if you don't have)" and I, AS A JOKE, said that I don't. Then 2 other "friends" joined them and started talking ABOUT 5th GRADE. I don't know if you would believe me but the fight lasted from 2PM to 10PM. What's the silliest thing, I wasn't even there. That's why I'm introverted, have trust issues and no real friends. Thanks. Have a great day!
You are very true
@@emilijajazic5597 I wish I was that coherent when I was young.
I’m old and fat and stupid now. I’m ok with it.
This woman has such a serene beautiful voice
Amanda Silvera? Yeah, she's the best
I must say that I liked your comment because (I read a lot of comments) it was like break that made me appreciate the craft and dedication that the makers put into these videos.
The animation is good too.
@@EJ-hj4nd Amanda Slivera is the cream of the crop.
Is it just me or do you also think she sounds like dakota johnson?
Bruh,
I know right,
I feel so calm when I listen to her voice
dogs make good friends I wish they could talk
Some of them
I'm not a huge dog fan after getting attacked by a large one when I was a kid
@mpg. And cats!!!
@@flipsiderainbow ??? Thank god??? That means you dont want it to talk?
They do talk just not in the way we do.
I had a friend exactly like that, he was self absorbed, would only hangout when it is convenient for him, he would talk badly of any friend who was not present, would always talk about himself or his thoughts. He was terrible friend and the moment I cut ties, my life became so much better and and less stressful afterwards.
NARCISSIST!!!
1. (1:04) They Make Plans They Don’t Keep
2. (1:38) They Don’t Initiate The First Contact With You
3. (2:12) They Talk Over You And Don’t Listen Very Well
4. (2:46) They Only Show Up When It’s Convenient For Them
5. (3:09) They Are Never There When You Need Them
6. (3:42) They Are Passive-Aggressive Towards You
7. (4:13) They Only Care About People In Power
8. (4:52) They Willingly Talk About You Behind Your Back
If you have a fake friend, I hope that you can find friends that actually care about you and will support you
Thank you very much 🤗
A true friend is someone who's with you against all odds
I was a fake friend to a fake friend 🌚🌚🌚
Same here
Oof 👀
eye for an eye i guess...
I guess that is me...
Lol 😃✌️
I not trust anyone, i trust myself.
Someone wise ever said : "In the end you cant trust anyone."
My mother was the only person who never hurt me or let me down.
And I treated her like shit............what a f******g arsehole I am......I will never forgive myself.
@@SA77888 Everyone makes mistakes. I'm certain she forgives you. Time to forgive yourself and learn from it. Bless you and be safe.
@@gladiator1342 aww thats nice mate.............thank you ..all the best. :)
@@SA77888 well... what if the case is the opposite? Like her being so transphobic and you never let her down ..?
@@SA77888 question...would she want you to do that to yourself....knowing how much she loves you....she proabably would be very hurt and very sad that she's the reason why you can't forgive yourself...life is short...forgive and learn from your mistakes...
Narcissists... they're everywhere, unfortunately. I remember when I could go out, see all kinds of nice people, and run into the occasional jerk. Fast forward 20 years, now you see jerks everywhere and you run into the occasional nice person. It's sad. I dated one of these people for a year. She destroyed how I feel and how I trust.
There's an old saying 'who needs enemies with friends like these'.
No matter how many fake friends you have .. I know it hurts but still cherish the true friend you have and it's you yourself . Don't be a fake friend of yourself and love yourself.❤️
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A sign of a good friend is when you, or when one of your loved one is in jail, or was diagnosed with an illness, or a sudden death of a friend or loved one for they will always be at your side no matter what. Remember, there's a saying that says: a friend is, and will always be a friend until the very end; and not just for the purpose of being your friend for one time only.
I had a fake friend for 10 years and I quit the toxic relationship just recently.
you wont regret it after the initial hurt I promise you
I had a similar experience with a friend of 6 years. Hurts at first but I'm happy I don't have to deal with those things anymore. I'm surprised at how much happier I am.
I had 1 of those for 18yrs! I can't believe it took me all that time to finally notice🤦🏻♀
I did the same thing after 35 years....
good
I remember a girl that I met in school, tell me it was her bday and asked if I could get her a gift, I wasn't really talked to much so,I thought this was a chance to make a friend, but when I got her a gift I heard her talking about how I got her a gift and was basically talking behind my back for awhile. She basically though I was an easy target because I didn't have friends let this story be a lesson to not trust everyone you meet.
Aw. Never lose your loving soul, thats what makes you different from them
Very good lesson from you
When i was younger i thought everyone was my best friend
I was wrong
Your mistake was buying someone a gift that asked you to.
@@stevemarshall3986 yup. Probably XD
You just got played by the wrong person. Don't change
4:55
Don’t tell me what they said about me, tell me why they felt comfortable saying it around you.
Period
YES.
And that’s that on THAT…Period!
Also what did they say to defend you?
Accept the fact that you were/are a fake friend for someone
I think we all are at some point in our life. I definitely was one in elementary.
I used to be a Fake friend to 2 of my This True friends bcos of they always complain everything fly- by/ &passed- by them, I felt they are quite annoying but In terms of helpin me, They helped me a lot in school works and exploring places so I decided to jus B their "Fake friends" and take advantages of the Helping until KARMA STRIKES BACK, AFTER 1- year They stop contactin me and I Found this New friend who was a FaKe Friend to me instead(In which I taught him BacK all School works and helping me do Assignments even pickin- him up drivin him ups-and- downs to places and In Returns He Walked- off /Away and Ignored me When I falled- off from the Bed and No friends to hang- OUT WITH :(
~ Ever since THEN, I regret the entire of my life OF not Appreciating True/ Real friends over some of their Annoying Bad Behaviour/ Habits !!!
Just you.
@ it's alright sweetie you'll get many other friends i really love when people realise their mistakes and try to improve themselves and we are just human beings we tend to make mistakes but when when we learn from our mistakes and try to change them makes us a good human and you are a good person and deserve to have good friends
I never talked to anyone
The most hurtful is when you realise that the person you trust, care and love the most, the person you call your best friend, collects the most of the signs. Lifetime disappointment 😔😔
Fake friends only say cool when you show them something but when they show you something you are really happy for them
1:05 - 1. They make plans they don't keep
1:39 -2. They don't initiate the first contact with you
2:13 -3. They talk over you and don't listen very well
2:46 -4. They only show up when it's convenient for them
3:09 -5. They are never there when you need them
3:42 -6. They are passive aggressive towards you
4:14 -7. They only care about people in power
4:54 -8. They willingly talk about you behind your back
Thank you, our saviour
Thank you
thankiu i eas looking for this
Moral of the story: don’t tie your friends’ shoes if they have a knife
🤣
That is what I also learned.
hahahahahahahaha
Ok
😂👍
The way I see it, there are two ways to live. One where your life is guided by intellect and focus. Everything has a purpose and is calculated. You are in control of your emotions, and you do what is necessary to reach your goals.
The more you live this way, the clearer it becomes that other people are hard to relate to, they simply do not understand you, and they do not see the world the same way as you. This path is lonely but tends to leave you with an inner happiness and contentment.
The second path is one where everything is based on externalities. You need to buy this, buy that, meet these friends, go in this vacation, do these drugs, get out there. etc..... You will make more friends, but you will see the associations are not very meaningful and both parties are at some level questioning the whole thing. This path is easier, more social, but internally more chaotic.
I have walked both paths, and the older I get, I realize the first path is better.
I still do believe though that maybe one day I could meet a soulmate and have true love. I still believe a man and woman can have a real connection.
Well, hope this helped. Peace Out.
🤮🤮🤮
@@justinwilliams7311
Nice belly brah
Matthew, well put!
Strangely enough, or maybe not, most of my fake friends are family members.
Mine too.
Thats the worst kind.
No, given my observations, it ISNT strange. Just be thankful it was only The Olive Garden that considered you family--If your family is involved with the mafia, it would probably be best to do what "daddy" says!😂😂😂
I haven't voluntarily spoken to my relatives for 7 years, so
My father scored 100% on this scale. He also had a lot of "friends" who were power brokers.
You guys forgot to mention: friends also love telling you who YOU are and pass off their perceptions and opinions of you as facts. They also like to test you by either doubting you, or saying something outrageous just to see how you react. Fake friends will NEVER stick up for you, only blame you. They pretty have this "you're on your own" attitude or "not my problem, so I don't care" or "you're so selfish! You only care about yourself! What about ME?" Or the classic "not responsible for you, so I don't need to _____." That, and they often like to "joke" around, but they really just have no sense of humor so they insult you as a "joke". Make you feel nervous and complain excessively over everything you do to the point of nagging but never look at their own bullshit. Bitter, or overly positive, never "just right". Complain constantly that you made them lose brain cells. Refuse to undersrand you ans give up on you when you need them the most. All of those are just a few extra signs of a fake friend.
That was good. Pretty much explains my narc mother.
And they often judge you if you like something they don't :/. Or if your better than them at something, they'll say you're showing off. Don't listen to those people. Whatever they say, you are still special and unique in your own way and you should not be worried about that. Be yourself!
NARCISSISTIC PERSONALITY DISORDER 101 IS DESCRIBED. VERY TOXIC PEOPLE. RUN FROM THEM!!!
Sounds like my ex best friend.
So very true
A friend is one knows you as you are, understands where you have been, accepts what you have become, and still, gently allows you to grow.
I remember actually having quite a lot of fake friends back in middle school, at first I thought I was just being emotional, but then I realized that indeed, they were fake, as I found out that one of them had thrown my binder in a ditch, and got dog poop on it.
Forget what they say about high-school, fricken middle school is where all the bull crap is! I'm a senior, and there has been NO conflict socially in all my years there, god I hate middle school.
I'm now in my 60's and work with people in their 20's and 30's. Many act like middle-schoolers trapped in adult bodies. These people never mature, they "succeed" by trashing others and virtue-signaling to their "woke" friends.
Same
Middle school is where a lot of kids’ personalities change. My mom always tells me that I used to be a happy trusting person and then I did a hard 180. I got rid of my fake friends FAST. Because if they tried any more bullshit they were going to be wishing that they remembered how to breathe correctly.
I am still a loving person, but I believe every faker needs to be taken out. But that’s just my opinion and no one needs to stand on a soap box about it.
Same My middle school years were horrible
I think that’s when my anxiety picked up now I’m 33 and I have the worst anxiety!
@@rprb1957 Yessss!!!
What is that !!
Don't get it !!🤔🤔🤔🤔😘😘
1. They make plans they don't keep 1:04
2. They don't initiate the first contact with you 1:38
3. They talk over you and don't listen very well 2:13
4. They only show up when it's convenient for them 2:46
5. They are never there when you need them 3:08
6. They are passive-agressive towards you 3:41
7. They only care about people with power 4:13
8. They willingly talk about you behind your back 4:53
I hope I could help! :D
Thanks you almighty time traveler
Thanks for putting this together!
ty!!
HOWWWWW IS THAT POSSIBLE
-soft- tulips- u too
I'll show this my 12 year old son,in this video the woman explains everything better than I can,its great and I'm giving this video a thumbs up,thank you very much for your video.
Thank God I'm an empath and I can see all this bullshit right away and avoid these people.
Must be nice. Any advice for the rest of us mere mortals?
@@RearAdmiralTootToot Your response tries to imply I was being arrogant, but if you do your research, you'll find it is truly a blessing if we empaths can manage to avoid those individuals.
But, as you said, you're a mere mortal so you wouldn't understand. 😒
Counselor Troy?
Which god do you speak of? The Christian one bails constantly
I'm an empath too. I love my solitude more than being around people who make small talk.
My intuition is always 100% spot on. A lier has no chance with me.
A sign of a real friend is someone that can laugh at each other's imperfections & shenanigans, respect personal boundaries and appreciates your growth as a person. People nowadays are loosely using the label "friends" to almost anyone that appears friendly or compliments their ego on a periodic basis.
Neighbors, school colleagues, relatives, co-workers, employers, etc., are not your "friends", nor will they ever be.
Exactly
Bullshit, they COULD
@@justice_of_RUclips exactly!!! They were like spot on in the first bit, but went all squirrely with that last sentence...
It's particularly painful
when the "fake friend"
is a close family member.....
I was a true friend but some situations made me a fake one..
You know sometimes you have to keep yourself away from some people..
I find all of that from people I called "family"
Well this is life
Feel yah😥
Well I dont want to call them fake/toxic but that just how I felt when I'm with them😕
Exactly my situation.
same...all my family are transphobic af so i guess I will have to cut them off.
family are the biggest backstabbers ever
This is so true 😔
Its ok to be a loner and an introvert, i dont mind being alone i enjoy it since ive been single and choose to be single, no drama no heartaches. Wisdom is my best friend she is a hottie and a real beauty
Unless you are in jail or in the hospital, you have no idea how many friends you have.
That is so true when I was in the hospital for a week and recovery for another 3 months. I realize not only who my friends were but family. only about 10 people came to see me, no one asked me if I needed any help when I got out.
@@jerrysullivan8424 If any of us want a true friend, it's time to buy a dog.
So true... I had so many friends when I was teenager. By the time I became pregnant and couldn’t partying with them anymore... That’s how I find out who my real friends are...
I am constantly in & out of hospital with my health and only 2 family members ever visit me. No friends have ever visited me.
Counting. Zero.
But been there for others, and broke my heart over them, many...
Stopped even trying to beg god to help me, cuz in my worst hours he didnt even come through. From a tired and torn soul. Who always tried to be kind good and giving to others. Now looking at the pieces left of myself into self love, which once felt so selfish to do, no kinda vital to keep me on ... All my life I wanted at least one true friend... now I'm too scared to get hurt again and trust, pushed beyond I can take. I hate being selfish, but I guess it's me time. Peaceout
The dislikes are people who are fake friends themselves.
(edit: didn't know this would get so many likes wow)
Here's the thing. These people tend to be the one to walk first, leaving you, to ask yourself, what you could have done to offend them, when absolutely nothing you could have done could ever please them. They can do great damage to ones self esteem.
Sounds like what the narcissists do after love bombing & no longer finding someone a useful supply to feed their narcissism.
Truer words have never been said. It took me a while to realize that one fake friend of mine never really liked me. It hurt a lot and to this day, it still kinda does that someone treated me that way. But I'm happy it happened since I no longer have to shoulder that burden alone anymore.
Ah yes, this perfectly describes100% of the people I had ever known, and is the reason I never leave my house...or talk to people anymore.
Exactly correct!!💯💯
I got alot of fake ppl around me but I distance myself from them especially so called cousins that's jealous cause I am doing better
I feel you!
I’m with you.
Have you found friends?
This has happened to me my whole life. That is why I know I don't even have one friend. After watching this video, it made me realize that this has happened to me from every single person I thought was my friend.
You're level of consciousness has risen.
My only sister is like a fake friend, she only talks about her own concerns and opinions. She doesn't listen to me about what I might have to say or how I'm feeling.😑
Sounds like we have the same sister
I am okay when people don't listen to me. It just means they are not trustworthy enough to know my business.
Narcissist
I have a sister like that also.
Imagine others watching this and thinking of you like you’re doing to them :(
I watch these to realise if I've mistreated someone and I've realised I've displayed a few signs. Something to work on
@@Disha-k4f If you realise your mistake , you already take the first step . So don't feel bad about yourself but change yourself . I have to do that too.👍
@@june756 really proud of both of us for trying to be better people. Good luck friend.
Army 💜
I've had... *some* fake friends. Which is one of the few reasons why I prefer to be alone.
Yeah I understand because truly there comes a time when you become tired of spotting these fake friends and decide to be on your own which is easier honestly
Same... I feel u
You know what that happened same with me one of my friend. She always tell me that "hey, tomorrow is test can learn it and help me too cheat it in test" She give stupid reason for not doing study . Even she take my cradit. And if i need some help she refuses.
But now i learn this world is not easy you have to fight for yourself otherwise this people will eat you.
Try to get communicate with people but don't get attached . And learn to say NO to this kind of people
Sorry if i wrote too much and sorry for my bad English
@@aayushiyadav7811 no, it's cool it's cool.
As Dr. Maya Angelou educated us when she was still among us: "Always believe people when they show you their true colors, the first time!"
Every friend I’ve ever had was fake. I’ve never had a single good friend in my life, you guys aren’t alone. 🤍🤍
one of my old friends did most of these once, now she’s left me so she can go hangout w the “popular kids” and i’m honestly glad she’s out of my life
It is like an exciting feeling, be freed from slavery. Never get the feeling of the spare wheel anymore.
Enjoy Your freedom, chose friends wisely.
Same happened with me as well.
@@janpf0624 That's the word. Slavery.
I’ve finally solved that problem, I just refuse to be friends with anyone at all.. because for all of my discernment and intuition, my spineless empathy betrays me every time.
I completely understand. And your empathy isn't spineless, it's pure, the assholes are spineless, too cowardly to have morals
@@gratefulila9980 🙏
@JUST JULLES I am down with that if you need a Chatting friend I'm here a email away anytime You can talk freely to me I'll talk freely to You ☺💕💐💐💐💐💐
@@equalizertime188 what a kind gesture. Thank you, it’s rare for a stranger to offer such kindness and I appreciate it, very much ♥️
@Just Julia aww thanks for the compliment ,I just think what a advantage to meet friends on a channel talking about it , we are both on the same page so to speak lol!
My email is , if you can shoot me a Hi so thrn I can go back and erase it ok and we can go from there?☺☺☺💐💐💕
This is true but finding real friends is like finding a 💎 in the rough.
more like finding netherite in the nethers to find a true friend
(minecraft)
Damn, without even me realizing it that, I’ve became a fake friend
It’s okay 😃 sometimes that happens do to people talking our friendships for granted but you’re a good person 🖤💚 I felt that way before 😉😉
Maybe I have... Maybe... But I don't socialize a lot anymore
@Amina Sabat i thought I was gonna get ricked rolled 😂, I just subscribe to you, good luck on your journey to becoming a better artist
@@daejuanobrien1399 same....
At least you’re owning up to it, not many people do that nowadays! Very mature. All you can do is learn from your mistakes.
All of the fake friends that I've had, and I've had a few, ALWAYS initiated contact, persistently sought and "nurtured" the friendship. Looking back, it's as if they had some kind of goal, and agenda. And they did.
Exactly they want to ignitiate and be manipulative !!
Me: “All my friends secretly don’t like me and really don’t want anything to do with me”
*watches video and realizes they don’t match any of these*
Me: “Maybe they really do love me as much as I love them”
Can anyone explain this?
You are just insecure and maybe also have low self-esteem. You should probably work on that.
ur profile pic is ugly af
Just try believing them more ...and try not to overthink...ik that its hard...but just believe in yourself and believe that "They deserve you as much as you deserve them" 🙂
ATB!!
You just need to be more confident with yourself because I'm sure that you're definitely an amazing person. Don't overthink anything and just go with it, as long as you know they're not using you or excluding you from anything, you're fine.
Can I explain it in spanish?
I feel like I am both of these people........
🤔🤔
U can change to better
A real friend will tell you the truth even if it hurts ... A fake friend will tell you a sweet lie just to get on your good side.
I'm an email away if you want to be Long distance friends🌸💕💐
Sounds like my dad he does this often . He only pretends to care when it's covinent for him . He has done many of those things .
I'm sorry
Sad 🙁
@Krishna Patel Uh so you are copy and pasting this everywhere now-
Hey my dad is the same. Along with him faking care, he is neglectful and abusive. Stranger I don't know you, or your life, but may I advise that you be very weary of him always. Coming from years of personal experience I know blood is thicker than water, and we always have the choice to drown in either. Family is not unconditional love. People use people. Please take care of yourself. Wishing all the best to you.
Mine too oddly....
This video was Extremely Relevant. I've been around several people mentioned here. It's SO HARD to find Genuine Friends nowadays.😥
#8 hits home for me. If you want to know what someone truly thinks of you, find out what they say about you when you're not there to hear it.
I think that sometimes these type of things are just overthinking signs, you can't really determine someone's motives or intentions or why they did or din't do something solely by some-type of actions. These may be accurate for most people that are fake friends but some of these qualities liking taking intuitive in contacting each-other or something may be because they wouldn't like to disturb you or aren't confident and potentially don't know what to say. So if you have a friend and you're suddenly suspecting now, please calm down and actually think properly, if you trust in your friends and KNOW that they're really believe in them and trust them.
Blessed for those who are pure in heart...
yes or the person might be having a tough time/dealing with mental illness. I don’t know what to think about this video but yes I understand it’s important that people should recognise a fake friend and get what they deserve and i know mental illness isn’t really an excuse to be a bad friend but I guess what I’m saying is just because someone is isolating themselves from others doesn’t mean they should be put in the same category as a “fake friend” because this is happening to me now and I’m not a fake friend, I love my friends with the whole of my heart and I think my best friend doesn’t like me anymore which is great but what am I expecting lmao
I understand that sometime there is this feeling of distancing yourself from "friends". And I guessing you also get the feeling of how people don't understand how you "really" feel and how you at thinking right? I'm a person who has personally experienced and have been in contact of different types of friends. And to be honest I've always questioned what exactly can be considered a friend or something like if I've ever actually gotten a friend and what are the emotions we feel. I've always been blurry about how things are how I am. But now it's just the feeling of people walking away because you've pushed them away at your own will but still feeling tingly and weird inside. I wouldn't describe it as sad but ...something. Judging from what you've written I'm assuming that it's hard being a friend to someone and people aren't actually able to be empathising and linking with you directly. I really hope that someday you'll be able to find whatever that you are searching for. Please think of what's best for you and try to not always force the blame on yourself. With an emotional restraint things all become harder. (^_−)−☆
@@-_-3621 yeah you’ve got it all right there. It’s just that one friend who I don’t think likes me anymore because he’s the only one who speaks to me everyday, who’s actually there for me and for me to not reply to him for days must be hurting him. Also I’m not sure about this but he might’ve got his friendship group (which btw is “the boys”) involved somehow and they probably think I’m doing this purposely to hurt him and a total bitch so yeah it’s hard I guess lmao but thank you so much you understand me more than anyone and you’re a stranger on the internet lmao it’s funny how the world works
@@natashakozlowski8062 Wow !!😘😘😘
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This pandemic and quarantine really helped me determine who are truly my friends cause fake ones didn't even texted a hello
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I recently watched “ The Red Hen” recommended for me to read. What a great book written and describes the two types of people, one whose in the relationship to benefit, the other is the one who takes on responsibility to initiate . A giver vs a taker. A true friendship is rare!
I wish this come out 12 years ago. Today's youth is so lucky to have these available before they learn the hard way.
It doesn't really prepare you.
Sounds like you’re describing a narcissist.
That’s what I thought as well:)
Sounds more like every person on the planet.
Exactly. Need to add gaslighting, deflecting, lacking in compassion, selfish, self entitled, dismissive and manipulative.
Narcissism is a personality disorder that is spreading across society like a disease that's much worst than covid. You can thank social media and 'dating' apps for the narcissism explosion.
@@RearAdmiralTootToot soooo true going thru all this now
"I'm not mad that you didn't want me, I'm mad that you acted like you did"
In your lifetime you'll have many acquaintances, but true friends you'll be able to count on one hand!
A true friend is when you call them up and say you've killed somebody and a 1/2 hour later they show up at your door with 2 shovels
*sigh if only
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That's not a real friend. That's a friend that's lacking in character probably much like yourself
@@jimkelly2829 r/wooooosh
I hate to say this but I found out one of my "friend" showed all these eight signs. It was an awful feeling to find out she was such a toxic person. But I moved on! Life is too short to hang out with these ungraceful human being.
Yup I have had such bad experiences with people I see why everybody is living alone .
No matter if they are fake or not,
Once you let them in your life they never leave
Fact is I realised I dnt have any true friend.Even my parents r nt with me.I hope I will survive
You Will 👍
@@sushil6509 loop h by njuujj Moo moo moo nikki bull
Your Parents love you, even if you think they don't. Hang in there. 🤗
You're not alone... Be your own best friend.
They are some of the most precious people you'll ever have. HOLD ON TO THE LOVE YOU HAVE FOR THEM. BECAUSE YOU DO LOVE THEM THEY ARE NOT YOUR FRIENDS. THEY ARE YOUR PARENTS AND TO SPEAK THIS WAY YOU HAVENT LEARNED ANY BETTER YET. BUT YOU WILL. TALK TO YOUR REAL FRIEND (JESUS) ABOUT YOUR SITUATION WITH THEM AND TAKE HIS ADVICE. ITS GUARANTEED YOU WILL FEEL BETTER. HE SAY JUST HONOR YOUR MOTHER AND FATHER. A REAL FRIEND IS NOT GONNA TELL YOU NOTHING WRONG. TRY HIM
A good way to know if someone is talking behind your back is to see if they talk about their other friends behind their backs. If she is doing to her other friends she is doing it to you.
“Never first to start conversations”
Bruh you know social anxiety exists right?
There is also introversion.......
@@ozzivpodno1356 yeah I was gonna mention that
Bullshit. You know messenger exists, right? They don't even text first on there either. I'm sick and tired of fake people
I don't think it is about them. It is about extrovert superficial people who contact you only when they need something or are bored and want to talk about themselves. Otherwise they forget you and since you are not very imporatant to them, never ask how are you doing, actually. Never initiate contact doesn't mean being two strangers who just met.
Being myself somewhat introvert, I still like to call people ocasionally and see how they are doing, have a chat. I don't understand extreme social anxiety, to be honest.
@@akumabazooka9169 my social anxiety is so bad I'm scared of getting messages. Answering them is pretty hard too. Messaging first is terrifying. They'll reply and then what? I understand its hard for people to understand but its the sad truth 😢
Too many I've met. It's very unfortunate and unfulfilling for them. I didn't have many friends growing up and I don't have many to this day. The best way to not fall for fake friends is to spot their behavior early on
Don’t let anyone in, assume everyone is fake, problem solved.
I keep getting labeled the a-hole for that approach.
@@CTuna-uo3pq let them label. Don’t deal with it.
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When I saw the thumbnail I was like: Sorry hun,I don't know how to tie shoes.
😂 same
@The Emo Enby Thembo same
I cut a friend off a month ago and watching this made me feel that I made the right choice and he was exactly like the person that you talked abt in this video
Very good video. I’m 59 years old and yes I’ve had my share of fake friends.
I now go in with extreme caution and have been able to avoid fake friends.
Everything you said in this video is accurate.
As the old saying goes “ you really hit the nail on the head”
Most of my friends do these things to me. That is why I've decided to study Psychology and I'm very glad I saw this video❤
friendship died centuries ago. don't bother anymore:-)
just get yourself a pet.
Watching this, I know I don't have true friends. Never really had.
@Aprajita Kool name , if friends treat you that way who needs Enemies lol
I'm here I'm a Kool loyal guy Smart , business, have things going for Me if you need a good Friend I'm here a email away anytime for chats or advice really just let me know!!🙏🌸🌸🌸☺💕
Amen my Lord..
Choose your friends wisely.
And keep your enemies closer..
Smiling faces are deceaseful!!!
Thank you my Lord..
For your beautiful wisdom..
The cute leaves on their heads are missing in this vid. Why????😭
Imposters. 😱
@@rakeshinimani8466 get out of my mind
I didn't even realize until you pointed it out
Because they are fake 😂
They have multiple animators, who have different styles.
Fake friends are hard to spot in the early days and the devastation is large when you do. Fake 'friendly' family members are just as prevalent - as being stabbed in the heart can hurt a great deal.