I had endometriosis and eventually had a hysterectomy. I thought that would stop the constant pressure to have kids. Nope! People would then tell me I should adopt. I didn't want them, and I really feel for women who do and can't have them.
I chose not to have children and boy anyone who knew that literally lost their sh** I got lectured by almost everyone. My husband got some harassment but not nearly as much as I did. One day after I had my tubes tied at 27 I said I couldn’t have children, which at that point was true, it shut it down. I wasn’t asked to explain I was meant with silence. They seemed to feel ashamed for asking when I gave that answer. That was what I answered from that point on. Thanks for telling us about your background. Have a great day 🩷
I had endometriosis and eventually had a hysterectomy. I thought that would stop the constant pressure to have kids. Nope! People would then tell me I should adopt. I didn't want them, and I really feel for women who do and can't have them.
@@egl3369 I also feel bad for those who want and can't have. It's amazing how much pressure there is on women to have kids!
I chose not to have children and boy anyone who knew that literally lost their sh** I got lectured by almost everyone. My husband got some harassment but not nearly as much as I did. One day after I had my tubes tied at 27 I said I couldn’t have children, which at that point was true, it shut it down. I wasn’t asked to explain I was meant with silence. They seemed to feel ashamed for asking when I gave that answer. That was what I answered from that point on. Thanks for telling us about your background. Have a great day 🩷
@@lalablotz7348Thanks for sharing that. People mean well but can be so infuriating.