This woman seems to have some self-esteem issues. She didn't give one real example of a time where her friend and husband could've been cheating and even after hearing what the husband's sweet card said she still doesn't believe it. It's almost like she wants to find something.
The fact she’s not involved in the friend’s day to day situation says a lot about her. Didn’t know she found a home, etc. Interesting she has all these observations, but never talked about what she’s doing to help the friend.
She knows something that we don't, she knows something that she's not willing to reveal. There's NO way she got that sort "confirmation" and it STILL didn't alleviate her concerns....
Anyone who falls for this is dumb as hell. I got promotional emails for a lot of things every day. I assume all of them are scams. I just don't understand how this works.
No shit I thought the same thing? How is he going to send her flowers to his and his wife's house? But so far 8:13 I haven't heard anything sketchy from her if they're going out to do errands, unless the friend isn't hanging out with her anymore and just the husband.
Yeah it’s not the best test for a supposed mistress who lives in your home…. If he were cheating on her he wouldn’t send Heather the flowers at their house… where else could he send them?? I guess if he could send them to her job… but he sent it to their home.
#1 never move a women into the house with your man #2 why are they running running errands together all the time. Seems like the wife us looking forward to exposing them without any proof.
#3 LISTEN TO YOUR INTUITION. Even if he’s not cheating there’s something going on that’s making you feel a certain way and if it bothers you that much, it’s ok to voice a concern!
This lady is annoyingly in her head. That was solid proof enough that her husband is loyal. If she keeps this mistrust shit up then she may lose a good man. The unnecessary jealousy would drive me up a wall and I’d be pissed if I were him.
Honestly she seems more disappointed that he doesn’t appear to be cheating than upset when she thought he was cheating. Makes me wonder what has happened with her to jump on the cheating train. Has she cheated on the past or is she currently having an affair and her guilt is making her project that onto her husband? Has her friend gone after her men in the past? Has she gone after her friends men in the past? Has her husband cheated in the past? Like she’s not saying something and whatever it is would completely explain this issue?
She sounds like she was very disappointed and I think I know why. She was HOPING her husband was cheating with her friend because she's most likely doing something similar or worse.
No one is gonna the fact he sent yellow roses?? Everyone knows yellow roses mean friendship, not love. I’m so happy he wasn’t cheating and has given some redemption for all the good guys out there.
I think she actually wanted the drama of him cheating with her. Maybe he's just not cheating? You have actually no evidence that he is. Now if he's being sneaky and you found stuff then yes but don't look for what's not there
And maybe there's a coordinated effort for her husband and the friend to tell the wife together. The husband can lead into the friend's intro to the story, with an "As you know, "she" has been trying to find a house." Like a segway. Imagine feeling perhaps that you're a burden to your friends and now you're unburdening your BEST friend, wouldn't that be "surprise!" worthy? But why keep the flowers a secret, if he did, which I don't think so. If he tells his wife too soon, it blows the secret, the "surprise". Doesn't it? Sequence is important. He can insert it later. Something like.... In the friends presence, he says, "I sent your friend flowers today, from both of us." Wife: "Why? What's going on??" (And reacts to the news, not the 'it verifies he's cheating, it'll be a diff expression and body language, no confrontation) Him: "I'll let her explain." Friend: "We did it. Your man helped me find a house!! I did it, I found the perfect one." Why couldn't it go like that? So why wouldn't he go out of his way to tell his wife's out the flowers. Well, if the plan is right, why WOULD you?
What I don’t understand is how married couples or even couples how do they not know about this show I mean if your partner listen to this show how does your partner also not know I mean like your telling me your partner hasn’t overheard this show or you know once in a while when couples go like oh let me show you this show check this out. My partner knows all the shows I watch and what I listen to because we’re a couple you know I just find the show really hard to believe how couples don’t ever listen to the same thing or share with them? I believe he’s heard this show before or the best friend knows and told him
some how I believe her because why would he help the friend of her wife to look for an apartment. First of all he is not even the friend of her and why would he help her at the beginning. Me as man we are so lazy to help somebody to look for an apartment or we do it but we are going to get something out of it
I checked the comments and most are on the "she's tripping vibe", but I think there's something to it. I've known dudes that have lived with their GF and were screwing the GF BFF and the GF was never the wisest. I have also heard other War of The Roses calls where the dude sends the flower to the friend with his and the wife's name attached call to cover his tracks. There's something to this. Trust me. As a former cheater, I can smell one and know how they move.
Don't listen to your gut listen to your heart he signed the card from both of you why would your husband do that if you cheating unless you married a complete idiot I think this guy is married to an over-thinker I know because I have a tendency to overthink and not really except good I hope you find peace in the situation and I hope you understand your husband was just trying to be a good person
You never invite anyone into your home. Even your BFF.
This woman seems to have some self-esteem issues. She didn't give one real example of a time where her friend and husband could've been cheating and even after hearing what the husband's sweet card said she still doesn't believe it. It's almost like she wants to find something.
The fact she’s not involved in the friend’s day to day situation says a lot about her. Didn’t know she found a home, etc. Interesting she has all these observations, but never talked about what she’s doing to help the friend.
This!!!!!
She knows something that we don't, she knows something that she's not willing to reveal.
There's NO way she got that sort "confirmation" and it STILL didn't alleviate her concerns....
how he gonna send flowers to his “mistress” while she lives with his wife?! that would be so dumb for him to send flowers to her….wtf?!
Anyone who falls for this is dumb as hell. I got promotional emails for a lot of things every day. I assume all of them are scams. I just don't understand how this works.
No shit I thought the same thing? How is he going to send her flowers to his and his wife's house? But so far 8:13 I haven't heard anything sketchy from her if they're going out to do errands, unless the friend isn't hanging out with her anymore and just the husband.
Yeah it’s not the best test for a supposed mistress who lives in your home…. If he were cheating on her he wouldn’t send Heather the flowers at their house… where else could he send them?? I guess if he could send them to her job… but he sent it to their home.
#1 never move a women into the house with your man #2 why are they running running errands together all the time.
Seems like the wife us looking forward to exposing them without any proof.
Sometimes platonic man/woman friendships get too cozy for comfort...
#3 LISTEN TO YOUR INTUITION. Even if he’s not cheating there’s something going on that’s making you feel a certain way and if it bothers you that much, it’s ok to voice a concern!
This lady is annoyingly in her head. That was solid proof enough that her husband is loyal. If she keeps this mistrust shit up then she may lose a good man. The unnecessary jealousy would drive me up a wall and I’d be pissed if I were him.
Can we get an update?
She wants to believe it. She needs to stop or get real proof cause she can ruin her friendship for nothing.
😂😂 she just wants him to cheat at this point 😂😂
Honestly she seems more disappointed that he doesn’t appear to be cheating than upset when she thought he was cheating. Makes me wonder what has happened with her to jump on the cheating train. Has she cheated on the past or is she currently having an affair and her guilt is making her project that onto her husband? Has her friend gone after her men in the past? Has she gone after her friends men in the past? Has her husband cheated in the past? Like she’s not saying something and whatever it is would completely explain this issue?
She sounds like she was very disappointed and I think I know why. She was HOPING her husband was cheating with her friend because she's most likely doing something similar or worse.
I wish they’d play the actual call.
LET ME TELL YALL SOMETHING. NEVER LET ANYBODY LIVE WITH YOU OR YOUR FAMILY. NOT EVEN JUST FOR THIS REASON.
My best friend’s husband also dotes on all of us. We love him for it!
Or they also listen to the Bert Show.
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No one is gonna the fact he sent yellow roses?? Everyone knows yellow roses mean friendship, not love. I’m so happy he wasn’t cheating and has given some redemption for all the good guys out there.
Sorry I think he is cheating
Not sure what happened next. We need a follow up Thursday.
He probably wanted her out of the house just as much as she does. To get things back to normal again. He's doing his part.
If she suspects him he is probably cheating and listens to the Burt show
They shouldn't air the previous day too many people listen it's not well thought out. Pre-record it than air it all on one day.
I think she actually wanted the drama of him cheating with her. Maybe he's just not cheating? You have actually no evidence that he is. Now if he's being sneaky and you found stuff then yes but don't look for what's not there
Where I'm from it's just a hard no...my friend cannot stay with me n my wife ...he has to go to his great grand dad if need be
Trust no one!!!
And maybe there's a coordinated effort for her husband and the friend to tell the wife together. The husband can lead into the friend's intro to the story, with an "As you know, "she" has been trying to find a house." Like a segway. Imagine feeling perhaps that you're a burden to your friends and now you're unburdening your BEST friend, wouldn't that be "surprise!" worthy? But why keep the flowers a secret, if he did, which I don't think so. If he tells his wife too soon, it blows the secret, the "surprise". Doesn't it? Sequence is important. He can insert it later. Something like....
In the friends presence, he says, "I sent your friend flowers today, from both of us."
Wife: "Why? What's going on??" (And reacts to the news, not the 'it verifies he's cheating, it'll be a diff expression and body language, no confrontation)
Him: "I'll let her explain."
Friend: "We did it. Your man helped me find a house!! I did it, I found the perfect one."
Why couldn't it go like that? So why wouldn't he go out of his way to tell his wife's out the flowers. Well, if the plan is right, why WOULD you?
She has some serious trust issues!!! She just needs to deal with the facts.
I'm laughing so hard that she's actually dumb 🤣🤣
This one was on Ryan's Roses. Yes, husband's having an affair. Info came out on RR about the relationship. Wife was correct.
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Maybe the friend can feel her being hostile to her so she’s distancing herself from her friend and asking the husband for help
Pointless
What I don’t understand is how married couples or even couples how do they not know about this show I mean if your partner listen to this show how does your partner also not know I mean like your telling me your partner hasn’t overheard this show or you know once in a while when couples go like oh let me show you this show check this out. My partner knows all the shows I watch and what I listen to because we’re a couple you know I just find the show really hard to believe how couples don’t ever listen to the same thing or share with them? I believe he’s heard this show before or the best friend knows and told him
Girl find someone whos about you..
some how I believe her because why would he help the friend of her wife to look for an apartment. First of all he is not even the friend of her and why would he help her at the beginning. Me as man we are so lazy to help somebody to look for an apartment or we do it but we are going to get something out of it
I checked the comments and most are on the "she's tripping vibe", but I think there's something to it. I've known dudes that have lived with their GF and were screwing the GF BFF and the GF was never the wisest. I have also heard other War of The Roses calls where the dude sends the flower to the friend with his and the wife's name attached call to cover his tracks. There's something to this. Trust me. As a former cheater, I can smell one and know how they move.
Don't listen to your gut listen to your heart he signed the card from both of you why would your husband do that if you cheating unless you married a complete idiot I think this guy is married to an over-thinker I know because I have a tendency to overthink and not really except good I hope you find peace in the situation and I hope you understand your husband was just trying to be a good person
It's suspicious for sure.