No H8 - Glee - Burt Yells at Finn Defends Kurt
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- Опубликовано: 10 июл 2011
- It is my hope and prayer that every parent, every sibling, every friend of a gay or lesbian, son, daughter, brother, sister, boy, girl, human being, defends their right to live without judgement or ridicule of who they are, or who they love. Amen
This clip is taken from Glee, 1st Season, Episode 20 - Theatricality. 
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"i didn't take it that way"
"that's because you're sixteen and still assume the best in people. live a few years and start seeing the hate in people's hearts."
that hit close to home.
You and me both
Word
I absolutely love Kurt's dad. He has so much love for his son and accepts him for who he is. It's beautiful, the kind of love that deserves a place in this world (I know it's acting but still)
Sami Ace I agree İt's beautiful :)
Chris Colfer (Kurt) is actually gay irl.
FATHER OF THE CENTURY 😤👊
Definitely!!!!
Annalisa Zucchi not all parents accept their kids for who they are some parents want their kids being what they(parents) want
Universe!
@Annalisa Zucchi not when his son is in the wrong. besides Finn is supposed to be his son to
@Annalisa Zucchi oh nooo all parents are like that that's why they kicked my cousin out when he came out of the closet 🙂🙂🙂
I love how at the end Burt says "The place looks great"
Punctuates the entire scene, doesn't it. And reveals another small facet of his character. You know that golden rule of writing, "show, don't tell?" This is it. The Glee writers don't get enough credit, in my opinion.
I love how Burt is just such a nice guy but if u dare to hurt his son mentally or physically.... be prepared to get killed!!! nobody hurts Kurt Hummel!!!!
Victoria Spatolisano imagine if he found out what Karafske (idk how to spell his name) did
@@jeantrancy8552 he did he fought him
But Kurt Hummel gets to hurt other people?
"HEY! WHAT DID YOU JUST CALL HIM?!"
"Oh, no, I didn't say anything, I was talking to the blanket!" Oh Finn 😂😂😂
ugh this scene was so intense... you could feel the pain from each character...
-burt doing everythig he can to make sure his son knows how loved he is, and doesnt feel like hes some mistake
-kurt being pulled apart by the entire situation. his future stepbrother (and i guess at the time, crush) getting so angry at him to say something like that and burt kicking him out of the house and putting his relationship on the line. i just know kurt was blaming himself somehow
-finn regretting every word that came out of his mouth without even thinking, because he never wanted to hurt kurt. him convinced that he had just messed up his moms chance at happiness, and his chance at having a dad.
this scene had me in tears. such amazing acting that really drove home how all these people felt
So true ^^
Mariah W Couldn't have explained it better!
Mariah W same I cried so much it's the feelings that make u sad
Jadlyn Tagle this scene made me cringe
" place looks great "
I can't believe people are defending Finn. What he said was not cool. Just because Kurt was pushy and clingy doesn't mean Finn had the right to yell at him like that. He could've handled it differently and not say such an offensive word.
Christian Viloria Agreed. Using the F word is NEVER okay.
I can understand anger at Finn - what he did indeed wasn't cool. But Kurt wasn't just being pushy or clingy. Kurt was making unwanted advances on him... That was still the area of time where Kurt had a crush on Finn, and now they're sharing a bedroom. The amount of stress being placed on Finn between a new father, less independence with a new brother, and a brother that he's not sure isn't looking at him as something more...
In that same episode (or the one after), Burt actually confronts Kurt about how he wasn't so innocent in that situation. Finn made a mistake - and honestly it was a mistake he had to make for them to go forward.
Actually, that happened in the Duets episode where Kurt wanted to have a duet with Sam Evans, and where Finn begged Kurt not to sing with Sam. And then, Kurt had a talk about that with Burt where Burt explained how to deal with that. This is also when Burt suffered a heart attack and just got out of a coma.
@Nate W It's not like he forced them to. Yes Kurt introduced them with the intention of getting close to Finn, but there was no garuntee that they would hit it off and get together. Finn went way over the line saying that word.
I can easily defend Finn here. Kurt has been pursuing Finn for a year, not taking no for an answer for the longest time and to the point where he initially got Carol and Burt together just so he could share a room with Finn. If sympathizers weren't blinded by their love for Kurt, they would understand just how ridiculously creepy and wrong that is. I don't care what genders are involved in a scenario like this, it is still wrong and it's completely reasonable for Finn to lash-out when he's tried so hard to be polite and put Kurt down gently earlier.
Sure, him calling stuff faggy was bad, but when you compare his outburst to Kurt's long-winded planning to get Finn to be his boyfriend, how can you honestly think Finn wouldn't snap eventually? I find it hard to believe people wouldn't be more sympathetic to Finn if the character involved was an ugly side-character or if Finn had been smaller and weaker than Kurt. And just to preempt anything, yes I am gay and yes I still still think Finn lashing out wasn't as bad as what Kurt had been doing all season.
Oh, and either way, Burt was still awesome here even if he didn't know the whole story and he's one of the best fathers in television.
I love this scene so much! Burt is an amazing father. And I don't hate Finn, I think this scene was important because it's true. People use this words without knowing what it does to others and no Finn isn't perfect (God we know he's not) but he's realistic. Like most of the first season characters. He's a teen boy, he used the word because he was mad and it's part of their vocabulary in a way. So yeah, I love this scene, and I love season 1 so much and Kurt and Finns relationship.
The sad thing about it, alot of parents wouldnt say this. They would yell at the child but still invite thier parent to move in with them. Alot of parents would put ass before their own child
He stands for his boy like any dad should.
Love this scene, Burt is so loving and cares so deeply about Kurt. I almost cried during this scene
Shamila Mahmood absolutely,
I did cry
In all the "best Glee scenes" there surely are A HELL LOTA scenes with Burt. Such an amazing character!! & Father!
This scene is so beautiful! It's no doubt one of my favorites.
this is such a crazingly strong scene... one of the best glee moments ever and the way it comes out, it is actually one of the most powerful moments i have scene in a movie or tv serie before!
lol "I was just talking to the blanket"
janaynayification1 grade A response
"I was talking to the blanket"
The hand on Kurt’s shoulder at the end of the scene is just beautiful....😢
in the late 80s as a teen age boy. My sister who was one year older would defend me from anyone who tried to do what Finn did. So when i watch this every few months i remember how much i love her for loving me just the way i was. In my opinion its one of the greatest scenes of all time on television
I comptely agree and thank you for telling us your story I’m glad you have your sister
I miss this Tv dad so much. He is the number one best dad I have ever seen on tv to date, and boy oh boy, there were many times I wished to myself: what would it have been like, having someone like him as my dad growing up.
Always remember my sister when I watch this scene . My sister was born my brother. Guess I always expected him to come out of the closet just not wearing my clothes but you know what she's my sister and all I want is her happiness. Anyone who is cruel to her has to deal with me. Not so easy, I'm a hair puller
The acting is superior and deserves Oscar's. Even though Kurt may not realize it the word affected him. The first time Finn said it his head shot up and you could literally see it hurt him and then he cast his eyes downward. Burt was right. It hurt him more than he realized.
This is a powerful scene acted beautifully by all involved. I love the absolute love and acceptance that Kurt's father shows for him.
what makes it great is that he admits he was uncomfortable but that he wanted to over come it
I never expected to like Glee just because it seemed like every other teenage drama out there, and for many years, I believed it was so monumentally stupid and childish that if I was ever caught watching it, I would be burned at the steak....but I was surprised by how realistic the writing was in almost every scene. The script of this scene feels exactly how a moment like this in real life would feel.
I wish burt would of gave this same chat to karofsy and aiamzo or whatever and see how they react
Oh yeah!!! Imagine the look on their faces... Priceless!
Someone give him the award for the best protective dad
Did anyone else cry or am I just gay 😭
+Raven white gay
+Raven white but so am I lol😭
I cried! I loved what he said! I thought you were a different generation of man who just came into the world knowing!
I cried too, man
Raven white mee too..
I'm doing a Glee rewatch, and just finished Theatricality, and GAH I had forgotten just how freaking good this scene is!! Both the acting and the writing were absolutely top notch. What I love about it is that, the obvious fact that the language Finn used was completely not okay aside, you really can understand exactly where each of them was coming from, and none of them (I'd argue not even Burt) was *entirely* in the right or *entirely* in the wrong.
Finn never should have used that word, and he should never have let his anger and frustration boil up to the point, but at the same time Kurt WAS clinging too hard, and was letting his loneliness get in the way of seeing that his behavior was making Finn uncomfortable. Burt obviously was an incredible dad for giving that speech, but in total fairness to Finn, he did go as far as kicking him out without understanding the full extend of what had been going on, and why Finn had some understandable reasons for having been uncomfortable. So the intentions were fantastic, but the punishment perhaps a little harsh given that Finn really *wasn't* generally the type of person who'd just throw that word around.
So yeah... I just find everything about this scene so powerful. The fact that they each had their points as well as their mistakes in the situation, the fact that Burt wasn't just telling Finn off from some pedestal but also owning the fact that he HAD had to work hard to overcome his own prejudices for the sake of his son, the incredible acting from all three of them... all of it!
I love this scene I think everyone should be treated equally it shouldn't matter if you gay or lez or bi it shouldn't matter if your different and you should stand up for people who are getting because of this
SuperRebel FanGirl PREACH!!!!
Approximately one in ten children are born gay. We do not take our parent's love as certain. We sit across from them at the dinner table and hear intolerant language because they assume their children are heterosexual. This scene features a parent who admits to using offensive language when he was younger and admits it took time for him to realize that being hateful is wrong and potentially leads to tragic outcomes.
Kurt's father is the parent many of dream about while living with nightmares.
A lifetime of hopeful understanding and love stood in that shoulder grab. That was a great moment.
burt deserves the world
Kurt dad is the best parent in the show . He cares alot about Kurt and defened him when he needed to BEST DAD EVER .
Why am I watching videos of Burt Hummel being a good dad at 4 am and crying
I stan Burt for clear skin.
Kurt realized that his dad loves him for him and proud of him finn realizes you can't treat people that way without hurting it opened his eyes
Mike O'Malley did such an amazing job with this role. Just so, so good.
God i love Burt 💖
Burt rocks!
Kurts face when burt came in was like " ohhh shitttt"
Kurts dad is the best character in the show. Period.
I LOVE your prayer!!!!!!!!!!!!
that guy deserves a round of applause honestly I salute you dog
I cant believe this scene gets me in tears EVERY time i rewatch it its so powerful
Is it because Cory Monteith died later on?
toyoscio No its the emotion in burt’s voice and the intensity of his message
MissPerrieQueenEdwards Oh ok. I understand.
Iconic Scene
the world needs more of this
Wow..I'm cry so hard..what so AMAZING DAD for his son . . .
And Kurt STILL defended Finn. What a soul...
I never watch the show but is interested in seeing it. after seeing a few clips of the show and after seeing this makes me wish I had a dad like that. this part gave me chills.
This is the scene that Burt refers to in The Quarterback when he said "I really lit into him". I never saw this until today. What a hard lesson Burt was trying to learn and to properly teach to Finn.
I will love my child no matter what
Best tv dad ever.
He is such an awesome, Dad! I hope there a many more Dad's like this in the future!
Damn. I like him, he's the best.
this scene makes me cry every time. I love this so much
Amen to that! We are loved!
"The place looks GREAT!" - Burt
I feel like Burt is one of the most understated characters on the show because even though he may not be as interesting or campy as some other characters, he was always willing to learn and grow and help Kurt. At the beginning I wasn’t sure if he would be accepting of Kurt’s sexuality, but by the end of the series I knew that he would defend his son no matter what and that he would always supported him, which makes him such a great character.
One of the most amazing scenes I’ve ever watched.
I hope somehow if someone treated me like this, my dad would defend me like Burt did for Kurt. I had forgotten about this scene and nearly refused to watch it because I remembered I hated how angry everyone was, but I was like ten when this happened.
Every gay person needs a parent like Burt.
Burt upstairs hears Finn talking: Hol up 😳🖐
God damn I need to watch Glee again.
One of the few times I was disappointed in Finn. I get that Kurt was wrong in trying to seduce Finn despite Finn being straight, but the way he said it with such hatred. I would've just been like, "dude, idk bout some of these choices lol"...
Burt is such a fucking legend
I love the bond between Burt and Kurt Burt would do anything for his son every parent should be like that
I want everyone to be like Burt.
This scene makes me cry every time ...
My mom would do this for me it breaks my heart to watch this but when kurts dad comes in my heart heals
I love how he waits for kurts touch...
So Deep 🙈😍
0:00-0:35 PREACH!!!!!
One of the best scenes in Glee history.
This scene is so well done, the intensity and the emotion is felt. I wish I'd had a father that defended me. I am now 60 years of age and gay and never really supported by my parents.
i LOVE this
I miss all of them. I really do.
Burt is a good man and a great father.
This is quite painful to watch as it’s quite similar to how my brother treated me until my late mother stepped in.
S1 is still the best I swear :3 S2 alright too lol
This scene was so touching to me
I honestly love Burt so much! This scene is just intense but he has a point, I’m bisexual, and I was so scared to admit I liked girls just the way I’m supposed to like boys, I was so scared, I’d be so proud to have a father like that, someone who is from another generation, but still knows his morals and what’s right, bullying is never right, I just wanna hug him😩
Not under my roof. He owned that hateful phrase used against us for so long, and turn the tables 💕
Burt is so cuteeee!!
I wish I had a family who supported me for being bisexual, I envy Kurt for having a supportive dad.. Even if it's only a show..
I cried during this scene
All this talk about Kurt being too pushy in his advances and, like, he was never told no. Rachel was far more obsessive and stalker-ish, but it's suddenly okay since it's her? All Finn had to do was straight up tell Kurt he's sorry, but not interested.
I love him sm
I'm weeping.
This is my prayer I have a friend who's lesbian and then I get a call from a former BF and had him call my friend disgusting and a freak I went all out on him I defended her I will always defend her cause she's not a freak she's an amazing girl and she is still my friend no matter what
It's all fun and games until you hear Burt scream, "HEY"
Every time I see this I remember some ppl I knew in high school and college. Product of the times where “that’s so gay” was a big phrase everyone would say.
In high school I’d push my friends when they’d say it, since everyone’s heads were too thick to process words. I’d give them a shove and go “don’t say that”; then you’d get the typical “why does it bother you? Are YOU gay?” And I’d say no and arguments ensue because at the time I didn’t have the right words but I kept at it. But, it would stick and they wouldn’t say it
In college, I had some friends who would say that’s gay and again I’d say it but more sternly “dont say that”. I am a big guy with patience but I don’t stand for that kinda crap
Similar to Kurts dad
Wish this would’ve just went to the video. The “intro” was just too much.
What sticks with me the most from this scene is that Finn called Becky his friend... Does Becky even know who Finn is? :D
Finn was being very hurtful. He had it coming.
'You live a few years..' so sad
I wish my father was like this
"Place looks great."
XD hahahahaha
I feel bad for kurt and finn
Just any notice that fact that kurt has a crash on finn did he mention to mercedes when their doing the car wash that he has crash on him wondering why finn feel comfortable sharing a room kurt he got very excellent about it when he find out sharing a room with him
BURT IS THE BEST DAD