That's true you'll never get a trophy for bekezeling. I left a 10 relationship also last year and I didn't hide the reason for leaving. He was shocked and never thought I'd pull it off. And I left, never looked back. Currently with a man that loves me so much, 6months into the relationship he's already making plans of bringing the cows at home
What changed is that she met a man who probably made her see that marriage is not just certificate. You need to meet the right person to understand certain things, especially after her experience
But let’s be honest even when she said that statement she didn’t mean it, she was still hurt and felt humiliated for staying in a relationship for 10+ years and the guy married someone else in less than 2 years of dating. Sometimes we are so defensive due to the level of hurt we are going through at the moment but jahhh!! We are here now congratulations to her, she is such a beautiful soul.
Can I like this 200 times.. I have 3kids and am single I've told myself am done with kids but am dating someone with no kids and he wants merry me nd have kids am giving it a thought. Ngoba wow the love and treatment 👌
@Zine_Ngcobo Giving it a thought? Tf? Go get your man, girl. Nothing wrong with being a single parent at all. Everyone deserves love and if he's a good man then he's worth it. Good luck and I hope it all works out
My boyfriend once said "People/society always ask women when are you getting married? ". He continued to say that "No one has ever asked him that question". Society is asking the wrong gender cause women do not have to ask their partner for their hand in marriage / are expected to say pay lobola. He then continue and said "if someone ask you please direct them to me".
Adding on to what he said alot of women are not married because not all men are marriage orientated,then it makes alot of women look like their a problem In this current generation being in a cohabitation is better than marriage, spiritually marriage is right and beautiful BUT realistically marriage is beautiful for few years and most men fall out and enjoy side chicks It's a reality
People change, O. We evolve. Most of us don't believe in the same thing we did 10 years ago let alone 5. She probably met a man who made her chance her opinion about marriage
I don’t understand how saying the difference between marriage and a relationship is a certificate means that a person doesn’t want to get married. To me she’s saying her 10 year relationship was just as serious to her as marriage even though the was no formalities. It doesn’t mean she didn’t want the formalities to happen.
Lol, when I was 21 - 23, 2 years was my cut off time. Now that I am 24, 1 year had become my cut off time. I feel like there’s nothing worse than betting on the wrong horse😭😭 Wasting your young years on someone who will never see you as their wife😭😭 And I agree with you woman love to lie. I was about to get married last year and was unsure of the decision because the man didn’t really meet my needs. All the women in my life were saying go for it, it took my dad to tell me the truth. He told me all about what I was to expect from a man’s behaviour and marriage. Completely changed my mind, I almost made the worst decision of my life.
Yeah hey some people think when you are young you dont deserve to be married! "Ohh you are young" and dont regret it it wasn't the right time. 😊there are still more marriage opportunities coming your way. Am 22 the cut off for me is 2years too! Maybe I might change my mind in my mid-20s
People’s perspective change Owami, an Owami who was played by Big B and Owami today are two different women. At that time she didn’t believe in marriage now she does. A wise man always changes his mind so they say. Your honest is not everybody’s honest neh. We as women we must learn to let others be. Sometimes you can be uncomfortable too opinionated, kind of imposing your beliefs. The need of being right and proving points 🥴🥴But your channel your rules contradict yourself all you can Queen 🥴🥴
I believe two things can be true at the same time. You’re right that people change their minds. I was never interested in marriage when I was in a relationship with someone who had no plans of marrying me. I was happy and saw no need, then after we broke up and I met my husband I realised that I actually would love to be married. But Owami is also right, as women we don’t like admitting that we want to be married because we are the ones who are judged when a man decides to marry someone else. I just believe that you don’t have to admit to the world that you want to be married but most women want to be married because we are natural builders and nurturers. So whether Huli changed her mind (very possible) or she has always wanted to be married and was waiting for the right man, we should also learn that as people we have different perspectives and we should respect each others points of view.
@@Khethelo_ you have just raised a valid point! Sometimes the people we with have an effect on how we feel about marriage. Some people we love them enough to be with them at that time being but somehow do not feature in the long run. And how one feels at that time is valid and is her truth at that time based on the feelings she is having.
what Owamie is saying is people should be truthful about their stands, her opinion was clouded by her being hurt then she said she doesn't believe in marriage. she should've been truthful and said yes, I was hoping for marriage in those ten years, but it didn't happen and that's ok. not her being out here misleading the young girls who follow and love her by making them think marriage is just a piece paper.
Queen ninja, I agree with you to a certain degree. Marriage isn’t for everyone, societal norms have conditioned us to believe that marriage is the be all and end all for everyone. Personally I was brought up in a two parent household but not me shame. Maybe later in life, the standard I have in my head of marriage is too high shame. But each to their own and maybe one day someone’s son will change my mind 🤷🏾♀️
@@TattoosByDeeYes, and you can accomplish that companionship without a certificate. We have cohabitation agreements these days where you can live with your partner without the marital basics like change of a surname but everything else is similar to that of a marriage based on your agreement. It’s not a crime, and truly when you look back in history at how marriage initially started, you’ll realise that it’s not necessary today. To each their own.❤
I know a lady, her name is Jennie Mia, she was married for 12 years and did not want to have kids, divorced and remarried to someone else, has a child and and she hasn't even been married longer than 2 years, she's in her 40's, she simply changed her mind. People change their minds.
You can feel a certain way and believe something with conviction and change you mind. Hulisani was not misleading anyone, she was simply living her life. Anyone who used her life and belief system as a measure and a guide on how to liver theirs , is just a casualty of their choices at this point if they feel misled or deceived by Hulisani's past statement.
Totally agree. I’m about Hulisani age too. 5 years ago or more I ddnt feel ready for marriage bt now feel mentally ready she was just enjoying her life. Atleast she’s not a divorcee
Lol I don’t think you understood what she said! She has no regrets about the 10 year relationship because her benchmark for love was not marriage but she lived in the present . Not to say she didn’t believe in marriage either😅
She may have found a man that has managed to change her perspective about marriage or being married. I see nothing wrong 😊actually very happy that she found happiness
@@HisPrincess_ Nope. @doinglife_love is not lying. I am married with 2 sons n when we give advice from a perspective of a healthy marriage they think they know better so i stopped trying to help.
For me 12 months is enough. After 6 months we review, by month 12 I want a proposal. I’m not cooking and cleaning and sexing a long time boyfriend. Three years is too long when you’re over 30 owamie.
Dont you think SHE was not ready for the mshado that is why Psyfo went and found someone who shares the same sentiments as him. Remember when they broke up she was super busy with her Businesses and making money and shading was not on her plans then and now she is settled and maybe found her soul mate.
There are people who genuinely do not date with marriage as an end goal but do end up being married. There are also instances when one is just way too committed in other aspects of life that they can't see adding marriage in the mix and because they view the rest of their lives in light of how their lives are currently setup, they end up believing marriage is not for them. This can change when the buzz in their lives quietens down or if they meet very supportive partners. You can genuinely believe in something today and change your mind about it tomorrow, let's not assume people are not entirety honest about their feelings if they change their minds about something.
What's your analysis on Oprah who doesn't want to get married...I doubt it's everyone's dream...I personally believe in marriage but I don't think it's everyone who wants to get married...also goals change as you mature
But did she say she wasn't going to get married or she simply said it's just a piece of paper? And did she also say she does not want this piece of paper? Cos kunomehluko uma kunjalo
I personally never cared about marriage, Owamie, but I get u. I love my husband and kid, but I didnt get married because of that. I did it because we wanna move to his home country in the UK because financial opportunities for him are better there because he has an established business and career, and because we have an adopted child, our not being married was making the move a nightmare. This doesn't mean that I will break up after. I'm just saying as much as I love him I was ok with never marrying because it was never a priority for me. But I'm also 40 so I left the childhood wonder of marriage long ago. But I get what ur saying and have to say I agree. But my answer to the certificate thing is always,'So if its just a certificate, why not just do it?'
I don't agree, marriage is not the end goal to a relationship (for some people), a healthy relationship is the goal and then we can put marriage on the table.
That lady deserves it and more xrm 😂❤❤❤I love her heart sense of humor her laughter yeeey everything xrm about Huri is up and above ❤❤congratulations my love
Thank you, once you are in love you believe in marriage... It just may take longer for others to meet theeee one or rather the one who see you as someone to marry .! We created for love and full time commitment ,unless otherwise really you called to just serve God and need no spouse which is very few of those
Guys, how are we making the conclusion that she's married. I did not see a picture of the groom or a setup that said wedding/marriage. Are we sure sure?
Not all relationships are supposed to end in marriage… i still don’t agree with Queen Ninja on this one… I think the girl just meant that relationship was not supposed to be a marriage… Syfo was not her husband and she was fine with that. We don’t have to be all heart broken about the relationships that didn’t end in marriage
You can still marry someone and divorce immediately after. There are no guarantees in life. Some people are married but still looking for their soulmates.
Soooo many people didnt value marriage during their YOUTH. They took a decision that they wouldnt get married. But there are things in this life that put women between a rock and a hard surface. Such circumstances force individuals to take a compromise to their DECISIONS. Women are not safe in this country. They are vulnerable. They need SECURITY, a man FIGURE on their side to protect them. That man cant be your Father for sure, but a husband. People get married for VARIOUS REASONS. My original plan was not to get married too. BUT I CHANGED MY OUTLOOK ON LIFE. Thank God I met the right man, and I am more happier than i ever thought. TO GOD BE GLORY.
But it's not though. I'm 29 now and I've known since I was 20 I was not getting married. God didn't make everyone the same. But it's one of those things people convince themselves we must all want it just because it's the norm in society. There are people who don't mind just having a life partner like oGoldie Hawn and Oprah Winfrey. Or even staying single tbh.
@@basiphilegumede4327 Oprah has trauma. She has never alluded to the fact that her trauma contributed to her reluctance to want to marry. Let’s also be real here, marriage is a contract it needs to benefit both parties. Most marry for financial rep-rival. A woman like Oprah probably doesn’t see the need due to her financial standing too, besides the trauma.
@@moe_ramz Trauma or not, that's one of her reasons for not doing it. My point is for whatever reason people decide not to get married the same way some decide to. Both sides have their reasons. And even those reasons can change on both sides and that's okay. Angani we are all human and evolving even the married ones change their mind and divorce if it turns out not to be for them. There's nothing wrong with that.
@@basiphilegumede4327God didn’t make everyone the same, yes. But God loves marriage! The Bible talks about the covenant of marriage. So if you’re gonna be okay with dating someone for Bo ma 10 years + with no intention to marry, that has nothing to do with God. But ke, different strokes for different folks i guess
2019 was 4 years, surely people mature and change their stunts on many things otherwise it would not be wisdom to stay on the same ideals...... The older we get a new window of wisdom and knowledge is opened where we base our decisions from.
Vat n Sit is also risky because if that man dies guess what his family will do despite you and your person purchasing and building a life together? Lol...men will leave women vunerable and the poor women are left to pick up the pieces. I grew up with my parents married and my mom always said I want this marriage thing for you BUT take your time before saying yes to ANY man...a person will show who they are waaaay before he pops the ring.
I would rather be in a 10 yr happy relationship than these fly by nights marriages and ending up as a divorcee. And no I dnt blv that marriage =love and that’s my stand.
The reason i stay subscribed to this channel is for the honesty. Owamie is so open and honest and i love it. These female celebrities and influencers out here lying to us and putting themselves on pedestals that don't exist. Thank you for Always keeping it Real Owamie. I LOVE YOU FOR THAT MAMA 😍😍😍😍😍
I used to say i wouldnt ger married coz its meant to trap women😂😂. Sorry if i ever influenced anyone. Coz it all changed wen i met a good man, wat wud i b without marriage🥹🥹. I highly recommend marriage 😊
It's so easy to be happy for Huli. She's such a wonderful, down to earth woman. She deserves all the best.
Tell me about it. I am super super happy for her, she deserves this more.
That's true you'll never get a trophy for bekezeling. I left a 10 relationship also last year and I didn't hide the reason for leaving. He was shocked and never thought I'd pull it off. And I left, never looked back. Currently with a man that loves me so much, 6months into the relationship he's already making plans of bringing the cows at home
Good for you. Congratulations. Sometimes ukubekezela doesn't help.
❤🎉😊😊congrats mogirl!!!!
You were a place holder. I’m happy you woke up and saw your worth. Congratulations 🎉🥳
Alilililili God Has Blessed You ❤️ Congratulations
So happy for you mama❤
What changed is that she met a man who probably made her see that marriage is not just certificate. You need to meet the right person to understand certain things, especially after her experience
But let’s be honest even when she said that statement she didn’t mean it, she was still hurt and felt humiliated for staying in a relationship for 10+ years and the guy married someone else in less than 2 years of dating.
Sometimes we are so defensive due to the level of hurt we are going through at the moment but jahhh!! We are here now congratulations to her, she is such a beautiful soul.
Can I like this 200 times.. I have 3kids and am single I've told myself am done with kids but am dating someone with no kids and he wants merry me nd have kids am giving it a thought. Ngoba wow the love and treatment 👌
@@Zine_Ngcobo please say yes and live happily ever after. I’m always rooting for us single mums. 🙏❤️
@Zine_Ngcobo Giving it a thought? Tf? Go get your man, girl. Nothing wrong with being a single parent at all. Everyone deserves love and if he's a good man then he's worth it. Good luck and I hope it all works out
@@andisiwemcasa7360 what happened to growing? Guys the way I saw things then is not the same now thats evolving. It's okay to say it and later change.
She changed her mind the very same way people divorce after getting married
If your intention is marriage and you're over 25, you shouldn't date anyone for over 3years without a proposal. Ain't nobody got time for that
Thank you
Ameni🙌🏽for me it’s a year and a half
Preach!!!!
Halala....thank you hle
Amen 😊
My boyfriend once said "People/society always ask women when are you getting married? ". He continued to say that "No one has ever asked him that question". Society is asking the wrong gender cause women do not have to ask their partner for their hand in marriage / are expected to say pay lobola. He then continue and said "if someone ask you please direct them to me".
Your boyfriend is right!!!
Adding on to what he said alot of women are not married because not all men are marriage orientated,then it makes alot of women look like their a problem
In this current generation being in a cohabitation is better than marriage, spiritually marriage is right and beautiful BUT realistically marriage is beautiful for few years and most men fall out and enjoy side chicks
It's a reality
@wendynemukula7721 you have nailed it dear.
@@bettykhuboni8758 thank you
Boyfriend yakho ngumntu inengqondo and ill stop there
People change, O. We evolve. Most of us don't believe in the same thing we did 10 years ago let alone 5. She probably met a man who made her chance her opinion about marriage
I’m so happy for her, she finally met the one who made her see value in Marriage. Congratulations to her 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
I don’t understand how saying the difference between marriage and a relationship is a certificate means that a person doesn’t want to get married. To me she’s saying her 10 year relationship was just as serious to her as marriage even though the was no formalities. It doesn’t mean she didn’t want the formalities to happen.
Lol, when I was 21 - 23, 2 years was my cut off time. Now that I am 24, 1 year had become my cut off time. I feel like there’s nothing worse than betting on the wrong horse😭😭 Wasting your young years on someone who will never see you as their wife😭😭
And I agree with you woman love to lie. I was about to get married last year and was unsure of the decision because the man didn’t really meet my needs. All the women in my life were saying go for it, it took my dad to tell me the truth. He told me all about what I was to expect from a man’s behaviour and marriage. Completely changed my mind, I almost made the worst decision of my life.
Yeah hey some people think when you are young you dont deserve to be married! "Ohh you are young" and dont regret it it wasn't the right time. 😊there are still more marriage opportunities coming your way. Am 22 the cut off for me is 2years too! Maybe I might change my mind in my mid-20s
Mine is also 1 year , after that if there are no marriage plans um out no time to waste
People’s perspective change Owami, an Owami who was played by Big B and Owami today are two different women. At that time she didn’t believe in marriage now she does. A wise man always changes his mind so they say. Your honest is not everybody’s honest neh. We as women we must learn to let others be. Sometimes you can be uncomfortable too opinionated, kind of imposing your beliefs. The need of being right and proving points 🥴🥴But your channel your rules contradict yourself all you can Queen 🥴🥴
Danko!!!!!
Yep
Yep, all women are not the same
I believe two things can be true at the same time. You’re right that people change their minds. I was never interested in marriage when I was in a relationship with someone who had no plans of marrying me. I was happy and saw no need, then after we broke up and I met my husband I realised that I actually would love to be married. But Owami is also right, as women we don’t like admitting that we want to be married because we are the ones who are judged when a man decides to marry someone else. I just believe that you don’t have to admit to the world that you want to be married but most women want to be married because we are natural builders and nurturers. So whether Huli changed her mind (very possible) or she has always wanted to be married and was waiting for the right man, we should also learn that as people we have different perspectives and we should respect each others points of view.
@@Khethelo_ you have just raised a valid point! Sometimes the people we with have an effect on how we feel about marriage. Some people we love them enough to be with them at that time being but somehow do not feature in the long run. And how one feels at that time is valid and is her truth at that time based on the feelings she is having.
Come on.
People grow and their opinions change especially when they meet the right person
True ppl evolve ❤
Its called maturity🙌🏽
I agree with you Owamie.People don't get opportunities to get married hence they say they don't believe in it.
what Owamie is saying is people should be truthful about their stands, her opinion was clouded by her being hurt then she said she doesn't believe in marriage. she should've been truthful and said yes, I was hoping for marriage in those ten years, but it didn't happen and that's ok. not her being out here misleading the young girls who follow and love her by making them think marriage is just a piece paper.
True that how I understood her as well
2:46 2:46
Precisely ❤❤
But also she doesn't have to be truthful to anyone, life is not a court room. Let's not have our daughters looking up to strangers that's it..
@@synthiacynthia444 So well put, this wraps everything out....
Queen ninja, I agree with you to a certain degree. Marriage isn’t for everyone, societal norms have conditioned us to believe that marriage is the be all and end all for everyone. Personally I was brought up in a two parent household but not me shame. Maybe later in life, the standard I have in my head of marriage is too high shame. But each to their own and maybe one day someone’s son will change my mind 🤷🏾♀️
I totally agree with you with everything you said.
It is definitely not for everyone more especially you are at your young age.
When you are older and want marriage, it is more for companionship.
@@TattoosByDeeYes, and you can accomplish that companionship without a certificate. We have cohabitation agreements these days where you can live with your partner without the marital basics like change of a surname but everything else is similar to that of a marriage based on your agreement.
It’s not a crime, and truly when you look back in history at how marriage initially started, you’ll realise that it’s not necessary today.
To each their own.❤
Ndim lowo, last thing on my mind nd I’m 35 this year 🤷🏽♀️
I know a lady, her name is Jennie Mia, she was married for 12 years and did not want to have kids, divorced and remarried to someone else, has a child and and she hasn't even been married longer than 2 years, she's in her 40's, she simply changed her mind. People change their minds.
'I know a lady' 😂😂😂
You know Jeanie?
@@marykhumalo8394 Bathong Mary😂😂😂😂
@@marykhumalo8394 lol stop it...we know who she was talking about.
You can feel a certain way and believe something with conviction and change you mind. Hulisani was not misleading anyone, she was simply living her life. Anyone who used her life and belief system as a measure and a guide on how to liver theirs , is just a casualty of their choices at this point if they feel misled or deceived by Hulisani's past statement.
Totally agree. I’m about Hulisani age too. 5 years ago or more I ddnt feel ready for marriage bt now feel mentally ready she was just enjoying her life. Atleast she’s not a divorcee
I have been watching your videos without commenting but I must say you are a very intelligent lady ❤ truth be told 🤞🏾👌🏾
I am sure Hulisani was hurt yes and at that point she wanted nothing yo do with marriage. Then she met someone who changed that whole perspective!
Honestly its 2023 this thing of dating for 3,5 to 10 years must just end. Unless you are not in it for marriage then ai
But I think she was just saying she ddnt see the relationship as waste of time she enjoyed what it was…
Lol I don’t think you understood what she said! She has no regrets about the 10 year relationship because her benchmark for love was not marriage but she lived in the present . Not to say she didn’t believe in marriage either😅
She may have found a man that has managed to change her perspective about marriage or being married. I see nothing wrong 😊actually very happy that she found happiness
The thing about advising younger girls is that they do not want to hear it. They say they want to find out themselves
😂😂😂😂😂 You're talking to idiots. Some of us want the advice 😢😢
That is not true. Advices we get from women with experience and are older is not good. Its toxic
@Eirene that's why experienced women choose not to say anything because it's perceived to be toxic. I have an adult daughter I know.
You have a point mina ngyakuzwa🤞🏽
@@HisPrincess_ Nope. @doinglife_love is not lying. I am married with 2 sons n when we give advice from a perspective of a healthy marriage they think they know better so i stopped trying to help.
You are on the ball today ❤❤❤❤❤❤ loving all the video's🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
For me 12 months is enough. After 6 months we review, by month 12 I want a proposal. I’m not cooking and cleaning and sexing a long time boyfriend. Three years is too long when you’re over 30 owamie.
True, in your 30s 1 year is enough dating
😂🤣😂🤣😂12 is enough tjooooo 😂😅😂
Wena I love you hle😂 The bible really did not say we should love them😂😂😂
Dont you think SHE was not ready for the mshado that is why Psyfo went and found someone who shares the same sentiments as him. Remember when they broke up she was super busy with her Businesses and making money and shading was not on her plans then and now she is settled and maybe found her soul mate.
There are people who genuinely do not date with marriage as an end goal but do end up being married. There are also instances when one is just way too committed in other aspects of life that they can't see adding marriage in the mix and because they view the rest of their lives in light of how their lives are currently setup, they end up believing marriage is not for them. This can change when the buzz in their lives quietens down or if they meet very supportive partners. You can genuinely believe in something today and change your mind about it tomorrow, let's not assume people are not entirety honest about their feelings if they change their minds about something.
What's your analysis on Oprah who doesn't want to get married...I doubt it's everyone's dream...I personally believe in marriage but I don't think it's everyone who wants to get married...also goals change as you mature
Owamie you don't mince your words......
Straight to the point about marriage
But did she say she wasn't going to get married or she simply said it's just a piece of paper? And did she also say she does not want this piece of paper? Cos kunomehluko uma kunjalo
Agree with three years 😂😂😂i just dumped him after 3years and m happy 😊😊
I personally never cared about marriage, Owamie, but I get u. I love my husband and kid, but I didnt get married because of that. I did it because we wanna move to his home country in the UK because financial opportunities for him are better there because he has an established business and career, and because we have an adopted child, our not being married was making the move a nightmare. This doesn't mean that I will break up after. I'm just saying as much as I love him I was ok with never marrying because it was never a priority for me. But I'm also 40 so I left the childhood wonder of marriage long ago. But I get what ur saying and have to say I agree. But my answer to the certificate thing is always,'So if its just a certificate, why not just do it?'
Ppl evolve and understand things differently once they experience them. That was 5yrs ago she has matured from that statement
I don't agree, marriage is not the end goal to a relationship (for some people), a healthy relationship is the goal and then we can put marriage on the table.
Im so happy for her yooh she deserves all the love in the world
Hulisani posted that this was his brother's 40th birthday, and home blessing🤷♀️
People’s perspectives in life change. Keep that in mind.
I love your honesty owamie❤
It was her truth at the time and this is her truth now and who know whats next?
Its always a matter of perspective under circumstances.
That lady deserves it and more xrm 😂❤❤❤I love her heart sense of humor her laughter yeeey everything xrm about Huri is up and above ❤❤congratulations my love
Thank you, once you are in love you believe in marriage...
It just may take longer for others to meet theeee one or rather the one who see you as someone to marry .! We created for love and full time commitment ,unless otherwise really you called to just serve God and need no spouse which is very few of those
So happy for her
Congratulations to her. 😍
lol true Owamie you cant be a girlfriend for 10 years😂
Are we sure she is married, just because uyambeswa it doesnt mean anything
Guys, how are we making the conclusion that she's married. I did not see a picture of the groom or a setup that said wedding/marriage. Are we sure sure?
Exactly!! I wonder what is her sources? Hulisani posted that this was her brother's 40th birthday and home blessing
I love your opinion on marriage, its 💯 👏👏👏
Not all relationships are supposed to end in marriage… i still don’t agree with Queen Ninja on this one… I think the girl just meant that relationship was not supposed to be a marriage… Syfo was not her husband and she was fine with that. We don’t have to be all heart broken about the relationships that didn’t end in marriage
I agree with you.dump that person if they are not serious about you
And make sure that prenup is ready and signed 😅
Usangishela,mina already I'm thinking marriage.Ay angikho normal shem
I agree. We need to be honest and stop being supper spiritual about everything.
You’re glowing Wami. Skin 💯
Owami is very opinionated and at times controversial but what she is not, is a liar!
I realised that...she is very intelligent yena struuuu
Im so happy for Huli 🎉🎉🎉🎉love her so much
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂That mdampe mntakabawo 😭😭😭😭😭😭
You can still marry someone and divorce immediately after. There are no guarantees in life.
Some people are married but still looking for their soulmates.
Yes unfortunately. My friend married a guy who told her he thought he could do better than her.
@@beewest5704 See?!
@@beewest5704 Immediate grounds for divorce cos he is blocking your friends blessing mos..
At least she was not desperate for a marriage to a point where she paid her own lobola. She healed and waited for her time
eish ,was that necessary
This was not necessary. You just want attention .sies..Atleast owamiebis leaving better than you...regardless
So not necessary
Mxm Mara some people thou
😭Kodwa yini
she is not married. It was her brothers event
True Owami. Tell the true ain no shame to say he just didn't want to marry me.
I thought it was fake news. A big congratulations if this is true
We grow everyday. We live to learn. She evolved and it's okay.
3yrs of saving money and he doesn't pay your Lobola, you are basically a housemaid. Yes I said it 😊
I agree with you Owamie
Soooo many people didnt value marriage during their YOUTH. They took a decision that they wouldnt get married. But there are things in this life that put women between a rock and a hard surface. Such circumstances force individuals to take a compromise to their DECISIONS. Women are not safe in this country. They are vulnerable. They need SECURITY, a man FIGURE on their side to protect them. That man cant be your Father for sure, but a husband. People get married for VARIOUS REASONS. My original plan was not to get married too. BUT I CHANGED MY OUTLOOK ON LIFE. Thank God I met the right man, and I am more happier than i ever thought. TO GOD BE GLORY.
Today we are out here being spoiled🎉🎉🎉🎉 mgozi after mgozi
Personally form a very young age I never believed in marriage I didn’t see myself in that setting so m here to say not everyone believes in it
Lol watching this after she clarified what was happening, taught me to drink water and mind my business 🤣🤣
Love your unpopular opinions Owamie!
There's many reasons why ppl get married in most cases it has nothing to do with love 😊
Their coming to tell you marriage is not for everyone 😂😂
But it's not though. I'm 29 now and I've known since I was 20 I was not getting married. God didn't make everyone the same. But it's one of those things people convince themselves we must all want it just because it's the norm in society. There are people who don't mind just having a life partner like oGoldie Hawn and Oprah Winfrey. Or even staying single tbh.
@@basiphilegumede4327 Oprah has trauma. She has never alluded to the fact that her trauma contributed to her reluctance to want to marry. Let’s also be real here, marriage is a contract it needs to benefit both parties. Most marry for financial rep-rival. A woman like Oprah probably doesn’t see the need due to her financial standing too, besides the trauma.
@@moe_ramz Trauma or not, that's one of her reasons for not doing it. My point is for whatever reason people decide not to get married the same way some decide to. Both sides have their reasons. And even those reasons can change on both sides and that's okay. Angani we are all human and evolving even the married ones change their mind and divorce if it turns out not to be for them. There's nothing wrong with that.
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@@basiphilegumede4327God didn’t make everyone the same, yes. But God loves marriage! The Bible talks about the covenant of marriage. So if you’re gonna be okay with dating someone for Bo ma 10 years + with no intention to marry, that has nothing to do with God. But ke, different strokes for different folks i guess
The last dump 😆 🤣 😂 😹
"I'm not a medical degree" 😂😂😂 3years is too much ke nyani
Wa bona wena o boletxe nnete yago felelela
Aah, Auntie Owamie 😂😂
Can we get update about our favourite youTubers what happened to them.... The happily ever ditibane couple
Also allow me to be spicey, those who are saying marriage is just a piece of paper how do u know when u arent married 😂
what is psyfo even doing? maybe the lady didn't want to marry that man. He's not even on radio hulisani been hustling psyfo could be a bum
I hear you but I think Psyfo is doing well in life as well.
Psyfo is a tv producer. Doing very well
Psyfo is actually a Senior Manager Executive Management Support at Showmax. Before that he worked as a Senior Manager at Multichoice
2019 was 4 years, surely people mature and change their stunts on many things otherwise it would not be wisdom to stay on the same ideals...... The older we get a new window of wisdom and knowledge is opened where we base our decisions from.
I beg to differ. Vat in sit is waaaay comfortable in this society than marriage. Because people don’t know what they are doing
Vat n Sit is also risky because if that man dies guess what his family will do despite you and your person purchasing and building a life together? Lol...men will leave women vunerable and the poor women are left to pick up the pieces. I grew up with my parents married and my mom always said I want this marriage thing for you BUT take your time before saying yes to ANY man...a person will show who they are waaaay before he pops the ring.
But honestly psyfo and huli met at such a young age nd like it or not, in most cases ppl change nd may longer see eye to eye as adults.
She apparently did not get married, it was her brother's ceremony
Thank you for this!! Thank you
that is not my opinion, I'm the one who doesn't wanna get married. Marriage is not a priority for all of us🤷♀
Your dad was speaking from experience it just took one to know one just ask your dad's first they are the ones who have a phd in that
Cc said she did not believe in marriage when ha owamie!!!
I think she "grew up". This year you may say something...next year go against it...ts just growth.
I would rather be in a 10 yr happy relationship than these fly by nights marriages and ending up as a divorcee. And no I dnt blv that marriage =love and that’s my stand.
I always tell my colleagues, a failed relationship is better than a failed marriage.. My 2c opinion
The reason i stay subscribed to this channel is for the honesty. Owamie is so open and honest and i love it. These female celebrities and influencers out here lying to us and putting themselves on pedestals that don't exist. Thank you for Always keeping it Real Owamie. I LOVE YOU FOR THAT MAMA 😍😍😍😍😍
I agree with you on this one. Our Queen Ninja, is the best.
Listen to justify podcast interviewing penuel in the podcast he talks about the idea of marriage nowadays. They do it for the wrong reasons
Your energy gives me life shame🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂only trueth
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Mina I love marriage ne but a marriage that is pressured by family because of pregnancy is a BIG NO NO
I'm not talking about Cece
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Are you sure she was getting married or becoming a Gogo as others says
Then the should be no more dating and relationship if man no longer want to do the right thing and honor the woman they claim to love
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I used to say i wouldnt ger married coz its meant to trap women😂😂. Sorry if i ever influenced anyone. Coz it all changed wen i met a good man, wat wud i b without marriage🥹🥹. I highly recommend marriage 😊