I Told My Husband He Could Cheat Just Not Close To Us And He Still Did, He Abused Me Soo Much

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  • Опубликовано: 15 янв 2025

Комментарии • 220

  • @molatelochokoe1867
    @molatelochokoe1867 Месяц назад +122

    She keeps saying “that man loved me”, Nooo he did not love you sis

  • @wilhelminashaningwa4612
    @wilhelminashaningwa4612 Месяц назад +16

    Proper or broken English, we are okay and I thank you Owamie for using English on your podcast because you are accommodating all of us from different countries. I salute you queen nija😊

  • @bossnation9595
    @bossnation9595 Месяц назад +117

    We listen , we don’t judge 😂

  • @ntandomatini9088
    @ntandomatini9088 Месяц назад +21

    sometimes they say "you cant say it could never be you" but some things could literally never be me bawo.

  • @sibongilemthunzi3857
    @sibongilemthunzi3857 Месяц назад +52

    The lesson to be learned here is , you cant love someone into loving you

  • @nonoliciousnoah115
    @nonoliciousnoah115 Месяц назад +68

    Thank u owami for using English on yr podcast,u cater for everyone in every corner of the world, subtitles is just boring ❤

  • @msngema1380
    @msngema1380 Месяц назад +28

    I am no better umjolo uyanginyisa, listening to this story I see so many gabs where I would have found a reason to leave. A year is too long for me to give to a man to waste…:
    Now I know why I am single, I can’t bekezel to save my life

  • @VictoriousVee.
    @VictoriousVee. Месяц назад +13

    Some stories should only be shared with best friends,

    • @rejoicedongonda2060
      @rejoicedongonda2060 Месяц назад +1

      Right!!😂😂😂

    • @Nthabeleng507
      @Nthabeleng507 День назад

      Then the best friend is stressed alone. 😂

    • @VictoriousVee.
      @VictoriousVee. День назад

      @ I’m more concerned about exposing yourself publicly. Get a therapist and a best friend to help you out.😂😂😂😂

  • @vickyitenyo.
    @vickyitenyo. Месяц назад +53

    Thank you for catering to your Kenyan audience ninja!We appreciate it.

  • @pulanemolotsi6998
    @pulanemolotsi6998 Месяц назад +19

    This lady knows her story hey, she's such a go getter, she is an alchemist powerhouse

    • @msngema1380
      @msngema1380 Месяц назад +6

      Neh, imagine where she would have been if she was by herself

    • @pulanemolotsi6998
      @pulanemolotsi6998 Месяц назад

      @@msngema1380 yooooh sis!

  • @mizko1407
    @mizko1407 Месяц назад +40

    Owami's facial expressions are honestly the best😂. You make the story interesting.

    • @siphokaziluzipho4197
      @siphokaziluzipho4197 Месяц назад +3

      She always try not to judge, but she does, and so do I. When Owami says chomie, she is shocked.

  • @amahlemaria4802
    @amahlemaria4802 Месяц назад +35

    I like her but her story was a bit all over the place. The timeline was a bit confusing.

  • @MissPickles22
    @MissPickles22 Месяц назад +19

    She has a fear of being alone

  • @jeanethmabaso6367
    @jeanethmabaso6367 Месяц назад +6

    Listening skills unlocked😂😂😂if u don't pay attention u won't understand what's happening. You handled this interview like a queen miss Owami❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉

  • @mizko1407
    @mizko1407 Месяц назад +7

    My takeaway from this is one of Owami's favourite sayings 'you can't build a man'. This man had it gooooooood, but he still couldn't get in line and behave for her or make anything proper of herself.

  • @palesamotsoeneng322
    @palesamotsoeneng322 Месяц назад +15

    We watch and we judge! Yoh chomi you need brother Enigmas prayers

  • @LimdaHoho
    @LimdaHoho Месяц назад +15

    I'm actually angry on yo behalf, ur too kind cc, he slowed yo progress, this was just 2 much.

  • @AlexisBrown-om8gz
    @AlexisBrown-om8gz Месяц назад +16

    She is beautiful they both are❤

  • @musonyanakedibone3896
    @musonyanakedibone3896 Месяц назад +3

    I will never introduce my boyfriend to my child, my son is 12 and the only man he has seen me with is my father, I know so many woman who introduce every man they date to their children, they don't learn if you introduce your child to 2 men and the relationship doesn't work why still introduce the child step father no 3?

  • @patiencegoliath5645
    @patiencegoliath5645 Месяц назад +20

    This is mixed up a bit..she met the guy from pic n pay already staying with the guy waking her up to go to prison. I'm not sure I understand

    • @lulufierce01
      @lulufierce01 Месяц назад +1

      I also missed that part. Hopefully i gain clarity as the story goes

  • @pulanemolotsi6998
    @pulanemolotsi6998 Месяц назад +29

    Owam said "your criminal" lmfaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaao 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @mizko1407
      @mizko1407 Месяц назад +1

      That finished me 😂

    • @siphokaziluzipho4197
      @siphokaziluzipho4197 Месяц назад +1

      That killed me. Tjoe I laughed.... Such a beautiful lady. Irresponsible in dating. But we don't judge, we listen.

    • @pulanemolotsi6998
      @pulanemolotsi6998 Месяц назад

      @@mizko1407 it came out so unexpectedly even she was shocked lmfaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaao

    • @pulanemolotsi6998
      @pulanemolotsi6998 Месяц назад

      @@siphokaziluzipho4197 yaz sis!

    • @msngema1380
      @msngema1380 Месяц назад +1

      😂😂😂the way I laughed

  • @mizko1407
    @mizko1407 Месяц назад +9

    What kind of patience did God instil in this woman's heart? O can't even laugh i just feel sorry. He delayed your progress.

  • @dimphoramodula2174
    @dimphoramodula2174 Месяц назад +26

    lol, I don’t trust this one… she’s going to take him back 😢

    • @zeemali4369
      @zeemali4369 Месяц назад +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣We listen , we don’t judge. Having said that, I think he’ll take him back too🙈

  • @gressildamoyo8697
    @gressildamoyo8697 Месяц назад +13

    We listen and we wont judge❤

  • @sthampala
    @sthampala Месяц назад +10

    I didn’t hear anything about a wedding is she even married

  • @lindaabraham5365
    @lindaabraham5365 Месяц назад +4

    Don't settle for less; he envied your achievements and aimed to put you down to his level

  • @princessdiana9742
    @princessdiana9742 Месяц назад +6

    What am I without these doses ?????💊💊💊 We really need these episodes on a daily shame😮😮😢
    A beautiful intro, the compliments, Our queen excells in that!

  • @nomfunekonosilela3895
    @nomfunekonosilela3895 Месяц назад +21

    Owamie :" Your criminal". I wasn't ready for that

  • @ntombisepeng8519
    @ntombisepeng8519 Месяц назад +1

    It's so sad, Owami. That's how we think it's love. So sorry, my sister. You're not the only woman who gets crushed by love 💔 ❤️

  • @Imogene_Joyce
    @Imogene_Joyce Месяц назад +27

    I’m not a psychologist so I will not comment on what I’m picking up here.

  • @ncisept5900
    @ncisept5900 Месяц назад +12

    We need to really have a consensus on what love is.....
    There, you can find it's characteristics on 1 Corinthians 13.
    This we loved each other is not it.

  • @halacele8571
    @halacele8571 Месяц назад +4

    Owami you were not directing the interview. It’s all over the place. She is talking about this man not loving the kids? Which kids? She mentioned one child that she gave birth to in high school. Did they get married at some point? He doesn’t go home so is she just a girlfriend all along? What happened to a girl that was pregnant when they started dating? I’m confused

  • @lynnemtare-ro4oz
    @lynnemtare-ro4oz Месяц назад +3

    Some of us might as well not be able to watch anymore because i listen while working using air-pods i dont actually watch videos but i listen to them and i love your shows Owamie and am Shona 😊

  • @noctanal9269
    @noctanal9269 Месяц назад +8

    she is so pretty, reminds me of moozlie

    • @Zeei490
      @Zeei490 Месяц назад

      She looks like her!

  • @molatelochokoe1867
    @molatelochokoe1867 Месяц назад +3

    “We listen and we don’t judge”

  • @halacele8571
    @halacele8571 Месяц назад +7

    So he last went to his home when she met him right, jikijiki they moved to his home staying in his back room and now it’s a funeral and he must go home🙆‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️I’m just confused

    • @pheladinare2876
      @pheladinare2876 Месяц назад

      Eish she is a good story teller but also all over and can't tell the story in sequence order. Even Owamie is confused she kept going back for clarity.

  • @ThandekaNyandeni-r9t
    @ThandekaNyandeni-r9t Месяц назад +4

    Aii Ninjah!!!!!we listen we Don't Judge crc😂😂😂

  • @MissPearlyWinter
    @MissPearlyWinter Месяц назад +3

    May this level of Mjolo/love never locate me. May a man that requires me to provide never locate my existence!! Yho!

    • @DKs_Journey1
      @DKs_Journey1 Месяц назад

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 you just killed me

  • @theglen85
    @theglen85 Месяц назад +9

    Lol I did the" undideable"😂😂😂

  • @tshiwelatshivhase6888
    @tshiwelatshivhase6888 Месяц назад +10

    Ok I've listened to this lady what did we learn exactly I'm comfused

  • @tedtlyhlatswayo403
    @tedtlyhlatswayo403 29 дней назад

    One good example of 'we listen & we don't judge' 🤦‍♀️

  • @Theincredibleme-98
    @Theincredibleme-98 Месяц назад +1

    Your studio is soo beautiful and quality is top notch ❤❤❤❤

  • @PractitionerIk
    @PractitionerIk Месяц назад +9

    I have finished reading all the comments already, ninjas say something 😂

    • @SibsM93
      @SibsM93 Месяц назад +1

      We listen, we don't judge 😌

  • @kheswa19
    @kheswa19 Месяц назад +2

    I guess you were buying the prisoner airtime sisi.

  • @Nomathemba_7006
    @Nomathemba_7006 Месяц назад +6

    She's so beautiful and eloquent but seems to suffer from low self-esteem. Not judging, been there, but the insistent giggling seems like a facade. I wish her abundant self-love ❤

  • @lulufierce01
    @lulufierce01 Месяц назад +6

    Ive always wondered who are these women thag bekezela, that feed men and and and... Finally i have met one. Sis, no.. You need a break. That man abused you 😮

  • @thabisaningiza6926
    @thabisaningiza6926 Месяц назад +7

    Yuooo shame this lady just made my day ,,,I thought ndiya gowa with my own stress but yhooo this lady made me feel better 😂😂😂😂. Pastor ,,criminal then jikijiki the walls are falling ,,☄️🔥🔥🤣🤣🤣

  • @Tee-mz9nu
    @Tee-mz9nu Месяц назад +6

    I listen and judge shame😂😂😂

  • @mslettiemathibe71
    @mslettiemathibe71 Месяц назад +1

    If moving on was a person 😅
    Shuuuuu... what a strory and that time she's still going?? With two kids? I need to do better😊 im motivated

  • @lebogangkgatle3578
    @lebogangkgatle3578 Месяц назад +16

    Let's listen and not judge.....😅

  • @puritykurgat1766
    @puritykurgat1766 Месяц назад +4

    My situation at the moment 😢😢😢thinking of quitting soon

    • @NdimaMakushu
      @NdimaMakushu Месяц назад

      You shall not do that for your situation is not terminal but temporary....there's greater satisfaction in winning the most difficult situation..just trust God he is good❤

  • @nefefefulu9760
    @nefefefulu9760 Месяц назад +1

    Some churches are understanding staying with someone without being married and get another one pregnant amd you still continue to be called a pastor.. and the girl is so sure that she was loved

  • @liyachumaakhumzi2470
    @liyachumaakhumzi2470 Месяц назад

    Yoh hhayi sisi love yourself and choose yourself first. You're too beautiful to be this desperate.

  • @brendangonyama
    @brendangonyama Месяц назад

    Girl, I know about when a man decides to quit, it is painful

  • @pulengtsotetsi3795
    @pulengtsotetsi3795 13 дней назад

    The way she keeps saying th man loved me and we were happy😂😂😂 ka nako eo he's been cheating through out

  • @anastasimankesemokgobu1724
    @anastasimankesemokgobu1724 Месяц назад +3

    When do we start judging?

  • @komatsu8169
    @komatsu8169 Месяц назад +1

    A narcissist is a child- Sam Vaknin

  • @thandigloria8710
    @thandigloria8710 Месяц назад +2

    Tired of working & stop working? Wow!

  • @silindiledlamini-b4q
    @silindiledlamini-b4q Месяц назад

    There was a problem from the beginning, she decided to stick with it.

  • @busisiwemichelle5391
    @busisiwemichelle5391 Месяц назад +2

    She is soo beautyfull

  • @goitseonebeja6752
    @goitseonebeja6752 Месяц назад +1

    Was this a boyfriend or husband?i haven't heard her saying that they got married

  • @mamolewamodiba9159
    @mamolewamodiba9159 Месяц назад

    Oh that’s how pastors treat people from humble backgrounds! Charismatic churches 🥺🥺🥺

  • @tiffanytembo8293
    @tiffanytembo8293 Месяц назад

    The minute I heard "my friend is selling a car, it's a good deal" I knew it was down hill henceforth 😂😂😂.

  • @pulengrosemofokeng8367
    @pulengrosemofokeng8367 Месяц назад +1

    Eish I hope she doesn't go back to him again maan😢

  • @sindiswahlela197
    @sindiswahlela197 Месяц назад

    The wall building has me in stiches 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @pulanemolotsi6998
    @pulanemolotsi6998 Месяц назад +2

    The title of the video tells me to judge from the beginning💀💀💀gare kweng

  • @koketjorkekana5165
    @koketjorkekana5165 Месяц назад +1

    Is there a part two?

  • @Nthabeleng507
    @Nthabeleng507 День назад

    She is my sister. My sister is her. 😅😂 that girl does not have self-love at all!

  • @dorahnotani4316
    @dorahnotani4316 Месяц назад +41

    I'm too early, I wanted to read comments 😂

  • @siphokaziluzipho4197
    @siphokaziluzipho4197 Месяц назад +6

    Your criminal, Owami hahahahaha.
    Honestly there are lots of Nandipha and Thabo moss. This lady is beautiful.
    Imagine attending prisoners graduation.

  • @ThatoDesiree
    @ThatoDesiree Месяц назад +7

    Egomaniac
    Mixed timelines
    Christian woman who got saved at grade 9 but had a child in matric haaaik 😂

  • @pheladitau6762
    @pheladitau6762 Месяц назад +1

    Ijoo it always about pastors....what is it with this men of God kanti😮😮😮

    • @blackwoman_015
      @blackwoman_015 Месяц назад

      You could ask that again !!

    • @liyachumaakhumzi2470
      @liyachumaakhumzi2470 Месяц назад

      Being a pastor is a career for most, doesn't mean they aren't criminals/sinners.

  • @thandilelucas4538
    @thandilelucas4538 Месяц назад +1

    This story is confusing and all over the place

  • @dikembeafrika8918
    @dikembeafrika8918 Месяц назад

    This woman was used by men in so many ways. What happened to the father of the first child. Hayibo lady - love yourself first before you love someone else. You were cheated on, disrespected, trashed for that long and still took this nonsense

  • @yaneliswakhoza5901
    @yaneliswakhoza5901 Месяц назад

    29:07 😂😂😂😂 Aibo I'm killed iytina for the wall yoh 😂😂😂😂

  • @ndemathabi5508
    @ndemathabi5508 Месяц назад

    We need part 2 please

  • @yaneliswakhoza5901
    @yaneliswakhoza5901 Месяц назад +1

    They were not. Married?
    Were they cohibiting?

  • @koketsipohotona8210
    @koketsipohotona8210 Месяц назад +4

    I am also here for the comments

  • @LethoHali
    @LethoHali Месяц назад

    People understand. What is their problem with people’s English? It’s giving self hate.

  • @NitroMandyyt
    @NitroMandyyt Месяц назад +1

    Come with them Queen ❤

  • @BusisiweRutana
    @BusisiweRutana Месяц назад

    This girl is beautiful

  • @Masthape.9
    @Masthape.9 Месяц назад +1

    That wow from Owami😂

  • @kheswa19
    @kheswa19 Месяц назад

    For sure, you love a lot sisi.

  • @m-lloproducts6008
    @m-lloproducts6008 Месяц назад +2

    A bit confusing in the beginning. Let me watch further.

  • @alletahlaboso6926
    @alletahlaboso6926 Месяц назад +1

    Yarr nor marn we listen and we do not judge

  • @NhlanhlaSibiya-r8n
    @NhlanhlaSibiya-r8n Месяц назад +2

    That man did not love you .Pratcise self worth more to do better atleast for yourself

  • @MmapiElizabeth
    @MmapiElizabeth Месяц назад

    For that one of dating a prisoner you are very brave 😂😂😂😅😅

  • @queenm2723
    @queenm2723 Месяц назад +3

    38:52 😂😂😂😂😂 and I agree, good sis 🥂

  • @pulanemolotsi6998
    @pulanemolotsi6998 Месяц назад +1

    I feel like my sister could have eased us into the prison bombshell she dropped😂😂😂😂😂haiiiboooo

  • @blackwoman_015
    @blackwoman_015 Месяц назад

    Kgane ge le re “ Di ups & downs “ le ra bofebe bja banna dichomi tsaka??

  • @patienceikombele9161
    @patienceikombele9161 Месяц назад +1

    Jail guys 🙉🙉🙉 been there done that. I was nice and ended in tears 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @thembikunene4531
    @thembikunene4531 Месяц назад

    Modderbee prison is 10 minutes walk from Daveyton, even though it is deemed as being in Benoni.

  • @rudzanikharivhe6294
    @rudzanikharivhe6294 Месяц назад

    Dont worry love, we are watching you today..

  • @MosidiLekoto
    @MosidiLekoto Месяц назад

    The story is all over the place...I kept on fast forwarding until I stop watching

  • @MamoelaseMeriam
    @MamoelaseMeriam Месяц назад +1

    Ekare ke Teboho wa mvhango 👌

  • @rudzanikharivhe6294
    @rudzanikharivhe6294 Месяц назад

    I know I must judge, but this cannot be me no ways...

  • @ednamacquela7982
    @ednamacquela7982 Месяц назад

    Sorry Ninja for the high production costs.

  • @kheswa19
    @kheswa19 Месяц назад

    Sisi, you just lies to yourself by thinking the former prisoner didn't heal from your actions.
    In reality he didn't even care.
    You are the one who had it in your mind.

  • @MargieMoyake
    @MargieMoyake Месяц назад

    Girl did the undidable 😂😂😂 yessss wena honey 😅😅😅

  • @princessdiana9742
    @princessdiana9742 Месяц назад +5

    Team Tzaneen, mi kwini ka????? ❤❤❤❤

    • @shareentears8664
      @shareentears8664 Месяц назад +1

      We are here but our lady here o jesa team 🤣🤣🤣

    • @mantombimabuza9349
      @mantombimabuza9349 Месяц назад +2

      Hi kona 😂😂😂😂😂😂😅

    • @princessdiana9742
      @princessdiana9742 Месяц назад

      ​@@shareentears8664🤣🤣🤣🤣u dyisa team loyi noo⚰️🚮😅

    • @princessdiana9742
      @princessdiana9742 Месяц назад

      ​@@mantombimabuza9349 sesi va dyisa Team ka, ni tiva hi tlharihe ngopfu 😂😆😂😆

    • @blackwoman_015
      @blackwoman_015 Месяц назад

      @@shareentears8664😂😂😂