That's really frightening that it seems like those two people feel even more entitled to keep harassing a woman who is deaf than a hearing woman. Like they feel they have even more right to exploit her.
It looked a bit "human trafficking" to me... If you're ever in that situation, walk into the nearest shop/restaurant/business and ask the staff for help or to call the authorities. Never put yourself in a position where you're going somewhere with them or might be alone with them 💕
FR a Cosmo 90s vibe. I lived that era and prior. There's an old sitcom "Just Shoot Me" profiling the doings of a women's "fashion mag" of that period. It starred David Spade among others. Really a glimpse of the era and mindset, albeit comedic. I too fell into that heavily marketed trope aimed at young women.
@@sylviajones6745naah, the 50s were more staid and demure. I lived the peak Cosmo years and my mum was born in 1951, so she gave me pretty good insight into her younger years as well.
I had a subscription to Mademoiselle when I was a teenager in the 1970s for one year. I think it was a gift from a relative who thought I needed advice on how to be more appealing to boys. It was very cringey! Some of the dieting tips were dangerous. They encouraged anorexia in the 60s and 70s, and having curves certainly wasn't considered attractive in those days. My how times have changed!
@@LazyIRanch I had Mademoiselle too, and Seventeen, Tiger Beat, all that jazz. I think there was even a Cosmo Light or Junior, something along those lines. Yes dangerous advice for dieting, dating, and being available to the male gaze. So trippy. Mom had me dieting a lot. She was a beanpole in her youth, I was not. I still remember how she and Dad shamed me when I reached 140 on the scale in my teen years. I was born in 1970, BTW, so presumably a bit behind you in development because I didn't start spending my allowance or earnings on those rags until early 80s.
As a HoH woman it doesn't surprise me at all that those men became more interested when they thought she was deaf- that's actually a dangerous tactic to use on harassers and I wouldn't recommend trying it. Deaf (and disabled in general) women are statistically more likely to be assaulted, so definitely don't do this, it will put you in more danger. Try the silly tactics Charlotte has recommended in the past! 😊
Yeah I use a wheelchair for long distances. I can walk but not for long distances or long amounts of time. I’ve found that I get harassed by men more when I’m in the chair than when I’m out of it. I guess because to them they think I can’t fight back if they try something (which isn’t true).
It is not just an abusive thing though. Men (and other genders as well) can subconsciously be attracted to a people with disabilities because it triggers the "saving the damsel in distress" thing inside of them. A lot of people like to be strong or perceived as strong, want to be the hero and want to be (seen as) the provider for someone else. A person with a disability can provide more opportunity for helping so they can attract people that either like to help out of the kindness of their hearts or people that like to help because that makes them feel stronger and more able in comparison. Also, it could be less scary to approach someone with a disability. A lot of people can feel insecure about themselves and seeing that another person is just as imperfect as them, can take of the pressure a bit.
@@Freya778 yeah that can be a fetish for sure, I was more speaking on abled women who pretend to be disabled once they're approached. The statistics for abuse/assault are so high they're increasing their risk in those moments, not decreasing.
Pro tip: if a guy is harassing you, don’t pretend to be deaf or like you can’t speak whatever language they’re speaking to you in. They’ll see it as a green flag and that you won’t be able to do much against them. Instead, pretend to be absolutely batshit crazy. They’ll leave you alone if they think you’re looney toons. Learned from experience. Acting like a basket case has never failed to get them to leave me alone. Edit: I love how this reply section has become people sharing ways they’ve acted crazy to get harassers to leave them alone.
I had someone following me probably 2 am, was having an argument with my boyfriend and wanted to chill it out. Dude was following me with a baton tapping it in his hand. I was already irate and turned around and said "I hope you're not coming after me" he said "I sure am". I started walking toward him yelling now "You better start thinking about sucking my motherfucking dick!!!". Dude backed off. He was arrested two weeks later in Wyoming for raping 5 women in my neighborhood. Never act weak around a predator.
They are not just harassers. Those two are human traffickers. It is very obvious from their behavior. As someone who has travelled a lot and also grew up in an area with high rates of human trafficking, they are textbook.
I think the problem with the 90's Cosmo magazine girl is that she's trying to lump 50% of the population under the same umbrella. I'm sure the men that SHE has dated loved her pink nails and accessories (and that makes sense, given it would appear that she enjoys them too, and those men were dating her specifically), but you're pretty much guaranteed to be wrong any time that you say "100% of X group likes/dislikes Y thing". 🤷🏼♀ My boyfriend can't stand lip gloss or perfume, doesn't give a flying fuck about purses or painted nails, and has expressed to me that he actually finds me more attractive in, like... athletic wear and cargo pants than anything that would classify as traditionally "girly".
Videos like that are so dumb. Like you said, they put every men/ women in this tiny box and they say such mundane shit too, of course most will agree with it Girl acting like she's sharing the discovery of the century
It's because she is still young and beautiful. She will probably (hopefully) see some changes as she and the men she dates age. Especially if she ever gets married or has children. Whoooweee!
@@hippychick420 congrats on missing my point. People can be old and beautiful as well, that's precisely why I said I hope she and the men she dates change as they age.
@@TamMareehmmm in my experience, women who have given me similar advice to hers in my life have almost exclusively been mothers in their forties (who did look amazing!!) so I don’t really think marriage and kids will change that kind of thinking. It’s just her personality and she will probably care about her appearance until she physically can’t anymore (which is great! Pop off! But not for me…)
As a legally blind/deaf woman, it's horrifying that men try to take advantage of people like us. I have a laser pointer kind of vision. I can't see my surroundings, so that's even more terrifying. Sure, I wear hearing aids and talk, but oftentimes, I don't pick up on a lot of things. I always go with friends or my husband.
@CountryRockz I'm always aware of my surroundings as best as possible without looking like a crazy lady. But better to be crazy looking than being unsafe and unaware of my surroundings.
I'd literally never be able to leave my home. After a man attempted to sexually assault me about 2 years ago, I've been super paranoid about my surroundings always, I no longer go for walks (I was attacked at 9:30 AM on a casual morning walk), I have to be hyper aware of my surroundings, I don't go outside after dark. If I was blind? Yeah, I'd literally never leave my home without my boyfriend
@Rosefirelight I wear hearing aids that's connext3d to my hearing aids via bluetooth. Blindness is a spectrum. No one experiences the same thing. As I explained before in the comment, I do not have peripheral visions. I have a laser beam like vision. I'm moving my eyes really fast. I may not see the whole screen but I can rewatch or rewind it as many times I want. I hope that answers your questions! Lots of love.
Plus the tattoo artist (seems like a real one that just wanted to make this joke, too) wiped it wayyy to gentle (so that the fake tattoo doesn't smear).
Not disagreeing that it’s a fake video, but I have many tattoos & none of them were red & swollen until the next day, & even then it was barely. So it is possible that others may get tattoos that barely get inflamed.
@@Fates1Embrace I'm going to assume you either have no solid black ink or you have very little a, solid black line around your eye would 10000000% swell I have 19 tattoos many of then with block shading... If you artist have properly worked the ink you will swell no ifs or buts
“Love yourself by never ever ever letting yourself have a lazy day” Girl, I love myself by not combing my hair, shutting off my phone, and just enjoy being me.
That’s right baby. Mental health days are just as important, and make you glow just as much as your hydrated and gym days. Just live your life beautifully. That’s all you CAN do.
Anyone I love is going to love *me*, not some humanoid art piece they obtain to decorate their home. Then we can look nicer as a boost ourselves or for each other but it’s not a condition of the relationship.
They were persistent, even more when they learned she’s vulnerable due to her deafness, and then they wanted a photo of her…. That just gave me human traffickers vibes. They’d probably send that photo to another ‘colleague’ around the corner with the order to follow her. You don’t know what major bullet she may have dodged. I was abroad in Istanbul for 3 months for my job as fashion model. One day, there were 2 very creepy men watching me. I just felt their eyes piercing through me from a distance. Not worried at all to get caught, bold attitude, vile look in their eyes - my gut was telling me to get the HELL away from there. They ended up following me for about half an hour. I had to try really hard to shake them off. The faster I went, the faster they went. I eventually managed to lose them and I entered a metro station. I hid in the crowd and took the first train I saw. Boy was I paranoid! I held my breath until the doors were closed and I was sure they didn’t jump aboard. Be careful out there. And stay aware of your surroundings.
The guys who tried to take a picture with the girl reminded me of when I was visiting South Korea and if I turned down a guy a lot of times they would still ask for a picture. I was told later it was because they liked to send it to their friends or post it online that they slept with you and they wanted to brag. There might be other reasons as well and every country and situation is different but I can’t watch that video and not immediately think they had ill intentions with what they’d do with the photo.
Honestly, as a man, I love when women who don't focus and center their lives around attracting men. If that means make up or no make up, etc. Whatever. I like women who are like cats. Their lives are their lives and not to revolve around me constantly. And if they choose my company, I feel like it's because they chose me... and not because they just need to be in a relationship and don't want to be alone
I have the same thought process when dating men! Because I’ve had men make me the centre of their lives and it’s actually really uncomfortable? Like, can we not be fully fleshed out humans with lives and passions? I don’t want to be responsable for their entire happiness…
Exactly my thoughts as well. I hope they didn’t give in to a picture and made sure they were not followed after that. I’m just seeing a whole Taken scenario in my head with that whole situation.
As one who worked specifically with sexual predators and pedos never ever let anyone just take a pic of you to store on their phone because it WILL be used for really disgusting purposes you didn’t consent to. Especially if you or your child is in a costume or acting out a character. They prey in areas where this will be an easy to stop for a play dress up theme photo. I just had bile rise thinking of my work as a chaplain there….
Someone could literally download your profile pic and do the same thing. People doing nasty shit with your photos is just a risk you take when you exist on the internet, or when you cosplay, or work as a street performer. Most people are not that awful though. I've cosplayed for years and have some dudes probably done something nasty with a picture they nicely asked me for? Sure. But a lot of people who asked for my picture were women or children. Am I to assume they also did awful things, or are you just stereotyping an entire gender based on your perspective that is VERY skewed by the work you do? People can literally look at you and imagine disgusting things. It's weird to ask a random stranger who's not in costume for a picture and that should set off red flags, but I'm not going to stop enjoying my costume based hobbies because gross people exist. There are lots of WONDERFUL people who ask for pictures. Don't expose your children to such things, sure. But as an adult? I will always let people take pictures of me in cosplay. I'm proud of the costumes I create, and I wont let fear of a few creeps stop me from living.
The 1st thing I thought of was I've seen people pretend they are dating the person in the photo, but of course, as you said people use them for worse things than that unfortunately, yuck.
Yeah... I'm over here like, "does no one else think these guys are traffickers?." 🤨 That interaction freaked me out because clearly people are duped into thinking he's sweet or he reallly likes her or that, "people from X country are just really forward." I dunno... He just gave me bad vibes beyond being an annoying, pushy dude. Stay vigilant!
yeah we all have a picture of you right now by the way. they could just take a picture regardless lol. they could have been traffickers, or they could just view women, and even more so, white women, from a culturally significant perspective that we dont agree with.
My grandfather told my grandmother that “every old barn needs paint.” She wore her beautiful long gray hair in a bun and bright red lipstick her only makeup. After giving birth to seven children, she became a bit round. He adored her and said she kept him warm in winter and shaded him in the summer. ❤️
As a woman in her 40's I can tell you that young lady is definitely reading from the same Cosmo I had in the 90's! Lol! Every boyfriend I have ever had in my life prefered no make up and sweatpants lazy days more than full makeup and dressed up. Life is too short to spend it trying to make sure your man never sees your natural face and it's unrealistic! Enjoy your lazy days ladies
Preach! I'm also in my 40s and I have NEVER had a man tell me, "I wish you wore more makeup. I wish bronzer wore off on my jacket and pillows and I didn't recognize my girl in the morning." I wore sunblock instead of foundation. I highly recommend it.
I wish you all could see my husband's face while watching the girl saying what men love 🙄 haha My husband watches me in my worse taking care of our son everyday, still holding the pregnancy weight and it never made him want me less than he does when I have make up on. Thank god I married a real one ❤
Yeah my husband says I’m the prettiest when I’ve just woken up and am all crazy looking. Lol well. Not crazy looking, but my face is still all swollen from sleep and my hair is a lil messy. He lives for my sweat pants and bun days and just stares at me when I’m working in the yard or doing any work (construction) around the house. Not all men like the same thing. Just like not all women do. We have different people and different types. Thank God we don’t all like the same thing, or we would all be the same person basically!
Yea she is smelling yeast. I hear all the time that some people will smell bear or bread. She was just sick and antibiotics are not good for a woman's body after the fact
About the mom who wanted to tan... what shocked me is that absolutely nobody seemed to be bothered and wondering if they should call 911 (or its equivalent depending on the country). She did look like she was drowning or dead. 😮
"Beauty is fleeting?" I'm sorry, I can't hear you over my aspirations to look like that kickass 70yr old woman with crazy flowing angelic white hair, who wears whatever tf she wants, and she walks like there are two leopards following her wherever she goes.
The girl at the 7 minute mark has confused "things I like to do" with "things every guy in existence loves." I've never wanted a mirror to fall on someone more in my life.
The girl describing what men want, could not be farther from the truth in my case. My husband has always told me I'm prettier to him without makeup on. I'm 5 months postpartum and he still compliments me when I am tired and covered in spit up and pee. I am so lucky that I have someone who loves me for me.
I got the best guy I've ever met (we were friends for a year prior) and the one thing he cares the most about is if it makes me happy. She was sooo lost in Delululand.
If I got my toenails done, it would take my husband a full week to notice. 😂 He's never once cared if I wore pajamas or make up or any other "girlie" thing, doesn't care what I weigh or give a hoot about stretch marks or anything else. We just love each other, literal warts and all, and any effort we make to look nice is mostly for ourselves to feel confident or comfortable for our own sake.
He’s lying to you. He obviously just knows it won’t make a difference to complain. I’m sure if you took the time to fix yourself up, he would be all over you in the bedroom asap
@@cbpd89 her point is that if you had long, ingrown dirty ass toenails he would notice. She's really just pointing out that men love women who look like they take care of themselves. That obviously doesn't apply to the "my husband is still attracted to me before i've brushed my teeth" crowd. It's aimed towards single women who are actively trying to attract single men.
Girl at 08:00.. I was in baggy, bleached sweat pants, a baggy ratty t-shirt, hoping out of MY rusty Ranger, walking into Dollar Tree trying to mind my business... And I still got hit on by a dude...
The girl at 5:49 gave me 'r/arethestraightsokay' vibes because no they absolutely are not. Being so focused on doing what men like, the constant stream of "they like when we're feminine(in this specific way)just like how we like when they're masculine(in this specific way)", the over generalization("all men are like this," "all men want this," "they won't tell you but this is what they all want." Stuff like that). It heavily reminds me of that subreddit and the sort of stuff you'll see on there. Edit: Grammar
Let’s all agree that if we ever sees someone in a clearly uncomfortable situation (like the girl pretending to be deaf) go and act as if you know that person to scare the harassers away!
To do whatever you have to to not be kidnapped, trafficked, raped and killed, I think we can cut people in situations like that a bit of slack. In any other scenario, I’m sure she wouldn’t pretend to be deaf. The guys were more than just “in the wrong”. They were clearly traffickers.
9:55 you got to be careful, even though you are pretend, they could still take a advantage on you because you are "deaf". I know this because I am deaf too and been in this situation. Thankfully my brother save me, what is chilling is that I overheard them saying "f*ck we almost had her". I dodged a bullet there.
I can relate to the drunk girl story and the president. I went out one night in Las Vegas and these 4 guys at other table were eyeballing me and then finally bought me drinks. They came over and asked if i had any movies that were coming out. They thought i was Davaid Arquette from scream. So i just played along and signed their napkins and drank the free beer
My first thought with the guys harassing that girl was human trafficking... And her being"deaf" was a bonus. They wanted a pic so bad so they had a reference to show who to grab. I always jump to worse case scenario though.
I played golf once with my ex. I heard him sighing when it was my turn, and then he said, "Come on!!". I picked up the ball and threw it. I have never played golf again unless its with my girlfriends. None of us can play at all, we just go to drink beer and laugh at how bad we are.
@@LoriCrabtree31 Yay! Putt Putt is FUN and doesn't take all friggin day or cost $$$$. When I was a freelance artist, in the 1980s, one of my more unusual (and best-paying) gigs was painting the features on a mini-golf course in Austin TX. Painted dinosaurs and castles during the day, then the boss took us out for great BBQ or Tex-Mex (and margaritas) in the evenings. Fun times! I used to go with my friend to the municipal golf course where she went to practice. Our snooty upper middle class public school actually had a golf team! When I went there with my friend I brought my sketchpad. The grounds were beautiful and it helped me practice drawing different kinds of trees, water, and birds. I also got a kick out of seeing old rich guys wearing hideous outfits, but the game itself looked pretty boring. But then, I find football boring. I prefer baseball, more action but less violence, and the guys are usually cuter.😉
Getting harassed by Turks when I lived in Germany was the absolute worst! My girlfriends and I had a wallet stolen, we were literally CHASED by car in heavy traffic for 30 mins, my friend was assaulted in a pub...the list goes on and on. They were a literal nightmare.
Miss Charlotte’s description of golf has me rolling thinking of Robin Williams’s bit on how golf was invented! The fact that he did it all in accent was phenomenal! Iykyk. I’m sure it’s out there if you wanna find it. RIP Robin. 🥺
Oh it was great. I was a kid and remember that bit. My step dad was big into golf and tried so hard to get us kids into it. I helped him make golf clubs and putters. But I refuse to play chase with a tiny ass ball I couldn’t find if I tried. I’m so blind. Lol
I gotta find it now 🥹 I may only be 20 but Robin Williams was and Is still a MAAAJOR part of how my sense of humor became what it is, that man will never Be forgotten
When she's comfortable enough around me that she can be a complete couch potato; no makeup, hair in whatever way she's comfortable with, regular nails without any color/yesterday's color, whatever bra/underwear combo she's comfortable in, baggy sweater and sweatpants just chilling on the couch together, that's when I feel like this is going to last. Think Penny from Big Bang Theory in her gaming addiction phase, I find that appealing on the same level as when being fully decked out like James Bond and the female lead actress. Because she is herself around me instead of that 2+ hours other version she makes herself into when going out, don't get me wrong I love that version also, it's just that warm feeling of trust and comfort around each other. I will catch myself staring or glancing over because I feel so lucky and accomplished by this chill mood. Every day doesn't need to be conforming to a certain standard, but just be two humans together enjoying living.
Hi Queen Charlotte, that hammer that he used to break the car window at 11:11 is called a "glass breaker". As you are learning to drive I thought I should tell you that when you get a car please make sure you have one. Sometimes it comes with the car, sometimes you need to buy it yourself. It is a very useful, life saving, tool to keep on you in case of emergency. They work not only on your car window but also bus and train windows too. They usually have a sealbelt ripper on it as well, which is really useful in an emergency situation too. There are fancier ones that even have a torch on it too, which will help you find the window to smash/seat belt to rip if you're in low light. Stay safe out there Queen! Lots of love from Manchester UK xXx
6:28 I asked my boyfriend what he loves about me, he said "the whole you. I can't just like a part of you, I like everything about you, the good and the bad" So men liking those physical things are just the top layer attraction. It's not that you are trying to lure all men. The goal is to have just one by your side.
1:50 I just got the greatest idea for a cartoon short. It's a golfer looking for his ball, and he's calling "Marco" and different balls are answering "polo", so he still can't find his ball and the whole thing ends up as a huge wild goose chase.
I had a friend years ago whose ex girlfriend gave me a book on how to get a husband because she was jealous of me and him (we were not romantic at all). It included things like to never cut your hair short, even if it looks better on you because men like long hair and to not focus attention on him at dinner, he needs to work to capture your attention ... never approach a man first ... I had such a laugh over that book. Especially if you think I stole your man then why would *I* need help?
There's a singer I like you can find on RUclips (C.GEANE) & she used to do live streams and I checked it out .. ALL the comments were like "pretty girl" AND she has short hair! I don't think men care THAT much about hair length & if they do (demand) it then I think it's just controlling behavior cuz it's that individual's hair & they can do what they want with it. I feel the same about tattoos. It's your body & you can decorate it how you want!
I agree. My hubby said I was never more attractive to him than when I'm fixing things in the house. Cracks me up that me putting new parts in the toilet tank makes hi. Horny 🤣 I've always like fixing stuff. My grandpa said. Its already broken dolly so here's a screw driver let's see what going on in there lol. He likes it when I'm out in the garden all dirty too. Maybe he's broken considering what that cosmo girl thinks lol 😅
We need to start viewing people the way we view dogs and cats. No one looks at a maine coone and thinks, "Well you'd be so much more gorgeous if you looked like a persian or tabby." No. Cat lovers see a scottish fold, a sphynx, and a bengal and know they're all lovely cats.
6:43 She's full of it. When I first started dating my SO (at 17), I wore makeup all the time, hair always done, etc. He came over one time unexpected and I was in loungewear, with a ponytail and my bare face just hanging out. He said he found it extremely sexy, and I started wearing it less and less and less...32 years later, I only wear makeup if it's a special occasion. I don't think it's a coincidence that I have no skin problems and often get mistaken for much younger than I am.
7:30 if you’re “girly”, you do you, but let the rest of us do us, this is the 21st century. Outdated stereotypes should leave the building. Also, while it’s fine to look “done” on the occasions that merit it, if your significant other can’t stand you w/o make-up - what are you gonna do in the middle of whatever life throws at you that you don’t have time for a full face?
Ok. I paused at 8:11. The girl talking about what men want just doesn’t know. I was with my ex ten years. When I had my last child i piled the weight on. I stopped looking after myself. Then when I lost my weight, started looking good, self love and wearing “girly” stuff, he couldn’t handle it, so he left. Not every guy is the same.
I am TRIGGERED by this girl! Sitting with my 3-month old daughter on my b**b and having a(nother) “bummy day” after another night of terrible sleep 😂 looking like a refugee. My husband knows where the door is 😂 but he keeps showing up, so weird!
7:50 Almost 42 here, married for over 20 years…..2 kids with hubby….and I laugh at this girl over how reality works when you have kids and long term marriage.
I’m sure he has zero preference. My husband loves when I wear makeup, but says I’m the prettiest when I’ve just woken up. Or he just sits there and stares with stars in his eyes when I’m working in the yard or doing construction on the house. Not all people have the same preferences, thank God, or we’d all be the same person.
@@leylamayhew7520 he’s the greatest, I really couldn’t have asked for a better partner. Thank you so much for letting me brag on him just a bit. I honestly never thought I’d end up with anyone, I always imagined myself as a spinster and growing old with a bunch of dogs and cats. But now I have a bunch of animals and him and the kids. I’ve been truly blessed. I’m sure your husband does the same when he looks at you. Makeup and nails or not. Edited for spelling
Same, same. In fact, when my then-boyfriend-now-husband and I went to senior prom, he said "why'd you cover your freckles???" I didn't wear foundation often, and still don't.
Scrolling through the comments, and I'm surprised that no one seems to be mentioning the dude who shows up halfway through the faux deaf video, apparently trying to send the dudes away, who disappears in the next cut. Kind of makes me wonder if he was a staff member telling them to leave and had to get some backup because they were so insistent.
That “what men like” woman was partially right. Like, I love it when my bf gets all dressed up clean shaven with cologne, styled hair and a good outfit as much as he loves when I put in the same effort. And yes, take care of yourself! People who put care in their appearance are always more attractive! But you don’t always have to (and can) be that way and if your partner can’t accept that then they’re not for you…
That Vanessa girl was Stepford as hell. "So make sure to always look perfect and make all of yourself about always looking good for your man...for yourself"
"I dinnae have any beer!" Charlotte says, in a scottish accent, with a picture of a german village and bierstein, all while french music plays. Truly, mrs Worldwide
7:05 can confirm my husband is happy he doesn’t have to pay for expensive accessories for me. And when I get all ready for Saturday night - he says “You’re better with natural hair and face”. So. She’s finding the wrong men.
Yes, golf is hide and seek with a golf ball. We found a frisbee golf course in a mountainous area. There were trees, wild grass, tons of sage brush...now THAT was hide and seek. Good luck finding a flat frisbee in 2ft of grass and brush! A couple of times we thought we'd lost them for good. There was also a river right along the course...we skipped the ones by the river. Not worth the risk.
Haha that lady floating in the ocean on her stomach is so funny! We float the river and I tie my tube to someone else and I swim 90% of the time and I did the same thing and my dad was like you need to stop that lol cause I looked like a dead body floating down the river😂😂 and he said everyone I was going by looked really really concerned.
Please don’t call the fire and rescue, she’s just a tad dramatic. Don’t mind her… (cops get called anyways and you have to explain that it was you pretending to be a dead body and why you would do that etc) lol oh this lil insert just played a whole scene in my head. Lol thank you for that.
@@erikarussell1142 haha you're welcome I could hear my dad tell people I was ok lol 😆 omg I could only imagine what the cops would say and the lecture I'd get and probably have to attend a safety class!
No I'm always aware of my surroundings it wasn't on purpose until my dad said to stop lol I dive for cans and trash while we float the river and clean it up I can't stand people sinking there cans to the bottom always goggles and my fins. Think we got like 60$ worth in cans not to mention the phones, go pros, and sunglasses. It was a fun day!
But she’s actually correct. Men do like that kind of stuff… men who date her. She only fails to see that there are men who have different preferences than her dates/boyfriends. I have never had a boyfriend who like women being weird with their small pink purses for example. Do I think all men are like my dates/boyfriends? No.
Yep. She loves her goofy little pink bags and getting her nails done (which is fine, I guess), but she's clearly wanting a man who will buy all those things for her. She's speaking for herself, mostly.
As someone who’s actually hard of hearing, that pretending to be deaf is awesome and pure gold! 🤣🤣🤣 it’s why I love not hearing enough. RBF also helps too! ❤️❤️❤️
as for the delulu "what men love" one, I did the opposite. I did the "I look like a cave troll 24/7" thing because if I'm gonna attract a man, he's gotta know up front that most of the time 0 effort goes into my looks. He can deal with that? Then we're golden. And not once, in our TWENTY YEARS OF MARRIAGE has he ever, ever looked at my feet in a naughty way. I got way more going on for him to even make it to my FEET. Even a foot rub, nice little pain relieving foot rub, only gets him in the mood cos them thick thighs are in his lap so he can do it. Remember, people trying to attract men, what he *should* love, most of all, is YOU. Not the meat suit you're walking around in.
Women are largely confused and don’t understand their own motives. The part that goes unsaid is that dolling up for men is perceived as weakness among other women. It’s true.
@@thomasbradley4505Gay men give the best compliments while also being brutal when we make the same mistake twice. They are like: guuuurl, what!? 😂 Love when my gay brother does both.
I have pretended to be deaf before. I actually know a lot of sign language. It was inane the comments the dudes would make to each other about my body, what they would do to me, and how sooooo hot it was that I was “deaf”. Gross!
I should have phrased this differently. I wasn’t pretending to be deaf… I had a temporary five month vocal chord problem where I didn’t speak, and would utilize the sign language I knew because it felt like the only way I could communicate. So everyone assumed I was deaf. I had a card that even said “I AM NOT DEAF. I CAN HEAR YOU. I have a temporary vocal chord problem and cannot speak! Thanks”. It was bizarre how people wouldn’t even read it, just give me a thumbs up. And I would purposely keep pushing it in their face like “no come on, read it!” Just nods and smiles and talking about my deafness to my face lol.
My man was just telling me that me without my glasses throws him off, I don't wear them on my day off cause I don't need them on all the time. I have a love hate relationship with my glasses. 😂
6:31 There's taking care of yourself and then theres taking care of yourself for male validation. How is a tomboy going to want pink nail polish if they're a tomboy. If i want to leave the house that shows im depressed, let me look depressed
6:40 no thank you, my partner likes like punk aesthetic and my BT21 mini back pack. Even if he didn't like it, I would still do it anyways because I like it 😊
I just wanted to say thank you for all the time and energy you put into posting videos every day. I love my routines and so every night before bed I clean my ferrets cage and get him fresh food and water and we play. I start this nightly routine off with watching your videos (and then usually true crime). I love laughing along with you at the videos and I just wanted again to say thank you for being you!
I have a Charlotte routine as well. Most of the time I watch her daily video while I am eating breakfast. Sometimes days are busy and I don't get to watch her during breakfast, so then I will have more video's ti watch during breakfast on another day.
And to be clear, there's 0 wrong with that that vanessa person is saying as long as she's doing it because SHE likes it. if putting on cute sweats for her lazy days, or making sure she has dainty nails, or keeping her hair brushed and styled makes HER feel powerful and attractive and great *that* is what people are responding to. Not the things she's doing, but her attitude when she's done them.
But that isn't what her video is. At no point was she expressing what SHE likes. She is literally educating the masses on what MEN like. She literally be thinking men all want the same thing and all women should do those things. To each their own. I'd rather be single then with a man who is worried about whether my toes nails look pretty. 😂
She's saying to look very young by wearing lip gloss and light pink nailpolish and 'staying hydrated' and 'healthy', and carrying cutesy little purses. Yeah, guys might like childish girls, but 35-yr-old her might not be as happy about that...
Dude.... I get onto my sweats and hoodies as soon as I get home from work: I don't wear makeup anymore because my eyes water too much (unless its a special occasion-staff party, Christmas). I don't shave my legs in the winter, because...why! Its cold outside, I wear pants. I dress for me. If a maaannnnn doesn't like it, too damn bad!!!
As far as the "what men like" video goes... My husband hates perfume, hates lip gloss, ask me why I'm getting dressed up (as in "where do we have to go today?" Since that usually means he has to get dressed too) along with many other key points in her video that are obviously not for every man. 😂
I’m a manicurist and deal with clients who’s husbands/boyfriends don’t like it when they do bold colors 🙄🙄🙄 I always tell them I’m here when he fucks up and they need a neon green with glitter.
The guy with the glasses they are just drawn on because around the supposed tattoo would be red and swollen and slightly raised especially where it is as it’s a very sensitive area. I’m a tattooist so trust me that is fake That’s just marker. Love your videos Charlotte and your always gorgeous and beautiful ❤
When you are are in the Mediterranean, the water is so warm and comforting that tourists will stupidly swim away from the beach and find themselves in the middle of the water and be too tired to swim back, or disoriented to the point that they don't know which beach they came from. So, yeah, I do think it is a real thing to pick up people out there in the sea. Good thing it is a custom to keep a few seats open just for this situation.
5:56 - She's close, but not in the way she thinks she is. Confidence is attractive, and self care is important. If doing all she does, as listed, makes her feel confident about herself then what's the loss? But honey, please, do it for yourself not for guys! Looks are fleeting, as you well said, but if a guy is with you for your looks... you're in for a bad time. Place value on yourself, not what someone else thinks of you. She'll learn, or find her way, something that works for her. There is no doubt there. Speaking only for myself, I'd much rather be with someone who is comfortable in themselves, than broadly pretty. Rather see my partner in trackies, and a ratty old T shirt... if thats how she's comfortable. Use what you've got, not what you wish you had.
Charlotte is so creative, delulu is now my favorite word. 😂♥️ Everytime i watch a vídeo, i have to watch that vídeo at least 3 times. I always find a new thing to laugh. 😂this Channel is a treasure.
As a guy that see's beauty in a different ways, I never took to seeing a lady go through so much to look good unless it also makes her feel better about herself. I have always been a more natural or a take you as you are type of guy. I want to see the beauty that comes from deep within.
I might have tried that deaf thing once or twice when I was single, lol. The thing was that I didn't really know enough sign language to be believable.
I’m fluent and use it often. It works sometimes, and sometimes it makes them thirstier, which is weird. Disabilities are not a kink. Stop it. Get some help.
As a tomboy rant incoming: For the girl talking about being more girly and how guys love girly girls. I have a feeling she was just going for a tomboy girl she knows and trying to tell her to be more girly. Either jealous the girl is surrounded by guys (tips to know about most tomboys and not the pickme ones, we genuinely do not want those boys in our group to like us like that. We're JUST chilling bro and can't connect to the girly shit, so shockingly, our group usually consists of guys because we all share the same hobbies and likes. Which is okay, it doesn't make anyone lesser or higher, it just how things turn out. I'm not gonna be friends with someone who's requirement of me being in her group is to wear lip gloss. If you view people specifically by their looks and think 'they bring our image down' you're the issue because friends aren't aesthetic accessories.) OR she's wanting to "fix her". Some guys probably do like way more feminine girls but...people tend to prefer a lot of different things, so focusing on it too hard FOR someone else is weird. Idk about any of you but I'm not changing who I am for no one else. I'll change for ME, or because I'm curious about something, not to get some random blokes attention (which I'll say, a lot of my guy friends DID have a crush on me but they got over it quick when they realised I wasn't interested or another girl caught their interest and they went onto be happy with them, which GOOD. Once they got over me being a girl it was gucci. I wasn't there to be the girl of the group I just wanted to exist in a space where I could talk about my interests.) I've had girly friends who wanted to give me makeovers but it was never to get me to fit some social criteria they concocted up. It was just fun "please let me just see what you'd look like!" and I went along with it. It WAS fun, obviously. We had giggles and we had fun with it, but it didn't feel like me in the end or something I'd be willing to do every day and y'know what? That girly friend didn't care. She still hung out with me. We stayed besties up until I left school for personal reasons and life just separated us. But I did have fun and I appreciated some girly things more, it was just never a focus for me. (I've always admired the effort she went through tbh, girl I see you) Pushing people to fit your image of what you think a girl or woman should be is utterly stupid. There are PLENTY of guys who like tomboyish girls, there's plenty of women who support those other women too and can look beyond what bag she's holding. It isn't a kindness to make that tiktok. Chances are that girl she's no doubt targeting doesn't give a shit or has her own little moments with more feminine things, she just doesn't blast it constantly or for the world to see. "You should do it for you." I have when I've felt like it. And I can tell you a lot of tomboys probs have done the same. It's just not a priority for sweet perfume and lip gloss.(Which if it is yours, cool, more power to you.) But we CAN dress up if the mood takes us/we wanna try it. We just aren't into it for daily constants. And people have got to get the fuck over that.
That's really frightening that it seems like those two people feel even more entitled to keep harassing a woman who is deaf than a hearing woman. Like they feel they have even more right to exploit her.
Yea !! They were ready to take advantage
As someone who’s hard of hearing, it’s kinda terrifying, thankfully hasn’t happened to me so far
It looked a bit "human trafficking" to me... If you're ever in that situation, walk into the nearest shop/restaurant/business and ask the staff for help or to call the authorities. Never put yourself in a position where you're going somewhere with them or might be alone with them 💕
They assume she's more desperate. 😡
@@InteriorDesignStudent true, people always think they have more if a chance with me coz I'm blind and in my 30s so... desperate.
As someone who unfortunately read that awful magazine back then I can confirm that she is a living breathing 90's Cosmo article.
Sounds like more like the 50's, lol
FR a Cosmo 90s vibe. I lived that era and prior. There's an old sitcom "Just Shoot Me" profiling the doings of a women's "fashion mag" of that period. It starred David Spade among others. Really a glimpse of the era and mindset, albeit comedic. I too fell into that heavily marketed trope aimed at young women.
@@sylviajones6745naah, the 50s were more staid and demure. I lived the peak Cosmo years and my mum was born in 1951, so she gave me pretty good insight into her younger years as well.
I had a subscription to Mademoiselle when I was a teenager in the 1970s for one year. I think it was a gift from a relative who thought I needed advice on how to be more appealing to boys. It was very cringey!
Some of the dieting tips were dangerous. They encouraged anorexia in the 60s and 70s, and having curves certainly wasn't considered attractive in those days. My how times have changed!
@@LazyIRanch I had Mademoiselle too, and Seventeen, Tiger Beat, all that jazz. I think there was even a Cosmo Light or Junior, something along those lines. Yes dangerous advice for dieting, dating, and being available to the male gaze. So trippy. Mom had me dieting a lot. She was a beanpole in her youth, I was not. I still remember how she and Dad shamed me when I reached 140 on the scale in my teen years. I was born in 1970, BTW, so presumably a bit behind you in development because I didn't start spending my allowance or earnings on those rags until early 80s.
As a HoH woman it doesn't surprise me at all that those men became more interested when they thought she was deaf- that's actually a dangerous tactic to use on harassers and I wouldn't recommend trying it. Deaf (and disabled in general) women are statistically more likely to be assaulted, so definitely don't do this, it will put you in more danger. Try the silly tactics Charlotte has recommended in the past! 😊
Yeah I use a wheelchair for long distances. I can walk but not for long distances or long amounts of time. I’ve found that I get harassed by men more when I’m in the chair than when I’m out of it. I guess because to them they think I can’t fight back if they try something (which isn’t true).
It is not just an abusive thing though. Men (and other genders as well) can subconsciously be attracted to a people with disabilities because it triggers the "saving the damsel in distress" thing inside of them.
A lot of people like to be strong or perceived as strong, want to be the hero and want to be (seen as) the provider for someone else.
A person with a disability can provide more opportunity for helping so they can attract people that either like to help out of the kindness of their hearts or people that like to help because that makes them feel stronger and more able in comparison.
Also, it could be less scary to approach someone with a disability. A lot of people can feel insecure about themselves and seeing that another person is just as imperfect as them, can take of the pressure a bit.
@@Freya778 yeah that can be a fetish for sure, I was more speaking on abled women who pretend to be disabled once they're approached. The statistics for abuse/assault are so high they're increasing their risk in those moments, not decreasing.
Yeah, it just added to their fetishizing of her.
Exactly well said. Let's just all pretend to be deaf then we can all each fuck up those weird rapey men... Nuff said 🇬🇧
Pro tip: if a guy is harassing you, don’t pretend to be deaf or like you can’t speak whatever language they’re speaking to you in. They’ll see it as a green flag and that you won’t be able to do much against them. Instead, pretend to be absolutely batshit crazy. They’ll leave you alone if they think you’re looney toons. Learned from experience. Acting like a basket case has never failed to get them to leave me alone.
Edit: I love how this reply section has become people sharing ways they’ve acted crazy to get harassers to leave them alone.
I had someone following me probably 2 am, was having an argument with my boyfriend and wanted to chill it out. Dude was following me with a baton tapping it in his hand. I was already irate and turned around and said "I hope you're not coming after me" he said "I sure am". I started walking toward him yelling now "You better start thinking about sucking my motherfucking dick!!!". Dude backed off. He was arrested two weeks later in Wyoming for raping 5 women in my neighborhood. Never act weak around a predator.
They are not just harassers. Those two are human traffickers. It is very obvious from their behavior. As someone who has travelled a lot and also grew up in an area with high rates of human trafficking, they are textbook.
This lines up with one of the Man Laws: Don't stick dick in crazy.
I always tell my friends to release their inner demon grudge bitch 😂
Scientific studies show that men and women are attracted to crazy females so that would be defeating the purpose
I think the problem with the 90's Cosmo magazine girl is that she's trying to lump 50% of the population under the same umbrella. I'm sure the men that SHE has dated loved her pink nails and accessories (and that makes sense, given it would appear that she enjoys them too, and those men were dating her specifically), but you're pretty much guaranteed to be wrong any time that you say "100% of X group likes/dislikes Y thing". 🤷🏼♀ My boyfriend can't stand lip gloss or perfume, doesn't give a flying fuck about purses or painted nails, and has expressed to me that he actually finds me more attractive in, like... athletic wear and cargo pants than anything that would classify as traditionally "girly".
Videos like that are so dumb. Like you said, they put every men/ women in this tiny box and they say such mundane shit too, of course most will agree with it
Girl acting like she's sharing the discovery of the century
It's because she is still young and beautiful. She will probably (hopefully) see some changes as she and the men she dates age. Especially if she ever gets married or has children. Whoooweee!
yeah its almost like people have various preferences or something.
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@@hippychick420 congrats on missing my point.
People can be old and beautiful as well, that's precisely why I said I hope she and the men she dates change as they age.
@@TamMareehmmm in my experience, women who have given me similar advice to hers in my life have almost exclusively been mothers in their forties (who did look amazing!!) so I don’t really think marriage and kids will change that kind of thinking. It’s just her personality and she will probably care about her appearance until she physically can’t anymore (which is great! Pop off! But not for me…)
As a legally blind/deaf woman, it's horrifying that men try to take advantage of people like us. I have a laser pointer kind of vision. I can't see my surroundings, so that's even more terrifying. Sure, I wear hearing aids and talk, but oftentimes, I don't pick up on a lot of things. I always go with friends or my husband.
I'm glad that you have that safety net, but I'm sorry that you need it.
@CountryRockz I'm always aware of my surroundings as best as possible without looking like a crazy lady. But better to be crazy looking than being unsafe and unaware of my surroundings.
I'd literally never be able to leave my home. After a man attempted to sexually assault me about 2 years ago, I've been super paranoid about my surroundings always, I no longer go for walks (I was attacked at 9:30 AM on a casual morning walk), I have to be hyper aware of my surroundings, I don't go outside after dark. If I was blind? Yeah, I'd literally never leave my home without my boyfriend
If you are deaf and blind how are you watching this video?
@Rosefirelight I wear hearing aids that's connext3d to my hearing aids via bluetooth. Blindness is a spectrum. No one experiences the same thing. As I explained before in the comment, I do not have peripheral visions. I have a laser beam like vision. I'm moving my eyes really fast. I may not see the whole screen but I can rewatch or rewind it as many times I want. I hope that answers your questions! Lots of love.
That glasses tattoo was not real, that was a sharpie used to make that. There was no redness after and the ink was too matte to be ink.
Plus the tattoo artist (seems like a real one that just wanted to make this joke, too) wiped it wayyy to gentle (so that the fake tattoo doesn't smear).
I was very impressed by the lack of swelling and redness also.
Not disagreeing that it’s a fake video, but I have many tattoos & none of them were red & swollen until the next day, & even then it was barely. So it is possible that others may get tattoos that barely get inflamed.
@@Fates1Embrace On the face though? With so much black? Nah.
@@Fates1Embrace I'm going to assume you either have no solid black ink or you have very little a, solid black line around your eye would 10000000% swell I have 19 tattoos many of then with block shading... If you artist have properly worked the ink you will swell no ifs or buts
“Love yourself by never ever ever letting yourself have a lazy day” Girl, I love myself by not combing my hair, shutting off my phone, and just enjoy being me.
That’s right baby. Mental health days are just as important, and make you glow just as much as your hydrated and gym days. Just live your life beautifully. That’s all you CAN do.
Oh i feel the same. Actually i Love my "lazy" days. It's so good.
Self love is remembering that you can have a break too
Anyone I love is going to love *me*, not some humanoid art piece they obtain to decorate their home. Then we can look nicer as a boost ourselves or for each other but it’s not a condition of the relationship.
love yourself by focusing your thoughts on how to be appealing to manly men lol
They were persistent, even more when they learned she’s vulnerable due to her deafness, and then they wanted a photo of her…. That just gave me human traffickers vibes. They’d probably send that photo to another ‘colleague’ around the corner with the order to follow her. You don’t know what major bullet she may have dodged.
I was abroad in Istanbul for 3 months for my job as fashion model. One day, there were 2 very creepy men watching me. I just felt their eyes piercing through me from a distance. Not worried at all to get caught, bold attitude, vile look in their eyes - my gut was telling me to get the HELL away from there. They ended up following me for about half an hour. I had to try really hard to shake them off. The faster I went, the faster they went. I eventually managed to lose them and I entered a metro station. I hid in the crowd and took the first train I saw. Boy was I paranoid! I held my breath until the doors were closed and I was sure they didn’t jump aboard.
Be careful out there. And stay aware of your surroundings.
The guys who tried to take a picture with the girl reminded me of when I was visiting South Korea and if I turned down a guy a lot of times they would still ask for a picture. I was told later it was because they liked to send it to their friends or post it online that they slept with you and they wanted to brag. There might be other reasons as well and every country and situation is different but I can’t watch that video and not immediately think they had ill intentions with what they’d do with the photo.
Honestly, as a man, I love when women who don't focus and center their lives around attracting men. If that means make up or no make up, etc. Whatever. I like women who are like cats. Their lives are their lives and not to revolve around me constantly. And if they choose my company, I feel like it's because they chose me... and not because they just need to be in a relationship and don't want to be alone
That makes sense. I wouldn't want a guy like that either.
Like cats! Love that! 😂😂
I wholeheartedly approve this message!🐈⬛
I 100% will use this the next time I'm trying to describe the kinda guy I would want to be with. As a cat mom this makes total sense to me.
I have the same thought process when dating men! Because I’ve had men make me the centre of their lives and it’s actually really uncomfortable? Like, can we not be fully fleshed out humans with lives and passions? I don’t want to be responsable for their entire happiness…
By pretending to be deaf,she was limping to the water hole. Showing percieved weakness gets the predators excited
right, that man was 100% playing scenarios in his head where he sneaks up on her.
Agreed! A straight no is always best. Women need to be able to have the confidence to deny access to us with our voices
I tried this once and the exact same thing happened. So much better to just say no.
For real tho
Exactly my thoughts as well. I hope they didn’t give in to a picture and made sure they were not followed after that. I’m just seeing a whole Taken scenario in my head with that whole situation.
As one who worked specifically with sexual predators and pedos never ever let anyone just take a pic of you to store on their phone because it WILL be used for really disgusting purposes you didn’t consent to.
Especially if you or your child is in a costume or acting out a character.
They prey in areas where this will be an easy to stop for a play dress up theme photo.
I just had bile rise thinking of my work as a chaplain there….
Someone could literally download your profile pic and do the same thing. People doing nasty shit with your photos is just a risk you take when you exist on the internet, or when you cosplay, or work as a street performer. Most people are not that awful though. I've cosplayed for years and have some dudes probably done something nasty with a picture they nicely asked me for? Sure. But a lot of people who asked for my picture were women or children. Am I to assume they also did awful things, or are you just stereotyping an entire gender based on your perspective that is VERY skewed by the work you do? People can literally look at you and imagine disgusting things. It's weird to ask a random stranger who's not in costume for a picture and that should set off red flags, but I'm not going to stop enjoying my costume based hobbies because gross people exist. There are lots of WONDERFUL people who ask for pictures. Don't expose your children to such things, sure. But as an adult? I will always let people take pictures of me in cosplay. I'm proud of the costumes I create, and I wont let fear of a few creeps stop me from living.
The 1st thing I thought of was I've seen people pretend they are dating the person in the photo, but of course, as you said people use them for worse things than that unfortunately, yuck.
Yeah... I'm over here like, "does no one else think these guys are traffickers?." 🤨 That interaction freaked me out because clearly people are duped into thinking he's sweet or he reallly likes her or that, "people from X country are just really forward." I dunno... He just gave me bad vibes beyond being an annoying, pushy dude. Stay vigilant!
yeah we all have a picture of you right now by the way. they could just take a picture regardless lol. they could have been traffickers, or they could just view women, and even more so, white women, from a culturally significant perspective that we dont agree with.
This is exactly what I thought, at minimum it goes in the wank bank
My grandfather told my grandmother that “every old barn needs paint.” She wore her beautiful long gray hair in a bun and bright red lipstick her only makeup. After giving birth to seven children, she became a bit round. He adored her and said she kept him warm in winter and shaded him in the summer. ❤️
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As a woman in her 40's I can tell you that young lady is definitely reading from the same Cosmo I had in the 90's! Lol! Every boyfriend I have ever had in my life prefered no make up and sweatpants lazy days more than full makeup and dressed up. Life is too short to spend it trying to make sure your man never sees your natural face and it's unrealistic! Enjoy your lazy days ladies
Preach! I'm also in my 40s and I have NEVER had a man tell me, "I wish you wore more makeup. I wish bronzer wore off on my jacket and pillows and I didn't recognize my girl in the morning." I wore sunblock instead of foundation. I highly recommend it.
"Oh, and I really wish your lashes, boobs, butt, tan, and hair were all fake" said no man ever.
If you’re making sure you look cute on your lazy day. You’re not being lazy enough😂
Never act more vulnerable when creeps approach. For them that's a green flag.
I wish you all could see my husband's face while watching the girl saying what men love 🙄 haha My husband watches me in my worse taking care of our son everyday, still holding the pregnancy weight and it never made him want me less than he does when I have make up on. Thank god I married a real one ❤
Right. My husband couldn't care less
Yeah my husband says I’m the prettiest when I’ve just woken up and am all crazy looking. Lol well. Not crazy looking, but my face is still all swollen from sleep and my hair is a lil messy. He lives for my sweat pants and bun days and just stares at me when I’m working in the yard or doing any work (construction) around the house. Not all men like the same thing. Just like not all women do. We have different people and different types. Thank God we don’t all like the same thing, or we would all be the same person basically!
We love this for u babe!
I wish everyone could have seen my face because I really don't do any of that yet I still managed to get married lol
@@erikarussell1142 thank goodness we are all different. But this "pick me girl" type of content messes with young girls a lot and I hate it
"My hand smells like beer."
"I DIDN'T HAVE ANY BEER!!!"
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
Yea she is smelling yeast. I hear all the time that some people will smell bear or bread. She was just sick and antibiotics are not good for a woman's body after the fact
@@CharlotteDobre I literally almost pissed my pants! NO JOKE!!!
@@CharlotteDobre You smell beer because we’re meant to be frolicking fräuleins dancing in dirndls und drink 🎶 drink 🎶 drinking das bier 😜
@@CharlotteDobre I should clarify "a bunch of us" - I just read what I wrote and it has potential creepy stalker vibes 😂
About the mom who wanted to tan... what shocked me is that absolutely nobody seemed to be bothered and wondering if they should call 911 (or its equivalent depending on the country). She did look like she was drowning or dead. 😮
The more ppl see her the less likely someone is to call 911 because they will just assume someone else could or has done it.
"Beauty is fleeting?" I'm sorry, I can't hear you over my aspirations to look like that kickass 70yr old woman with crazy flowing angelic white hair, who wears whatever tf she wants, and she walks like there are two leopards following her wherever she goes.
The girl at the 7 minute mark has confused "things I like to do" with "things every guy in existence loves." I've never wanted a mirror to fall on someone more in my life.
That haughty "things men love aesthetically" girl made my eyes roll back so hard it gave me a headache.
She's not wrong though.
@@ashenlion805if she was right, I wouldn’t be getting married.
@@ashenlion805 If you think she's right, you're just as self-obsessed as she is.
On god, has she considered that,,,, I dont care ^3^
that lady assumed I want a man 😂
The girl describing what men want, could not be farther from the truth in my case. My husband has always told me I'm prettier to him without makeup on. I'm 5 months postpartum and he still compliments me when I am tired and covered in spit up and pee. I am so lucky that I have someone who loves me for me.
I got the best guy I've ever met (we were friends for a year prior) and the one thing he cares the most about is if it makes me happy.
She was sooo lost in Delululand.
If I got my toenails done, it would take my husband a full week to notice. 😂
He's never once cared if I wore pajamas or make up or any other "girlie" thing, doesn't care what I weigh or give a hoot about stretch marks or anything else. We just love each other, literal warts and all, and any effort we make to look nice is mostly for ourselves to feel confident or comfortable for our own sake.
He’s lying to you. He obviously just knows it won’t make a difference to complain. I’m sure if you took the time to fix yourself up, he would be all over you in the bedroom asap
@@cbpd89 her point is that if you had long, ingrown dirty ass toenails he would notice. She's really just pointing out that men love women who look like they take care of themselves. That obviously doesn't apply to the "my husband is still attracted to me before i've brushed my teeth" crowd. It's aimed towards single women who are actively trying to attract single men.
@@jamieasad742 look, I found the A-HOLE!
Girl at 08:00.. I was in baggy, bleached sweat pants, a baggy ratty t-shirt, hoping out of MY rusty Ranger, walking into Dollar Tree trying to mind my business... And I still got hit on by a dude...
Right, that's when I get hit on the most, lol
The girl at 5:49 gave me 'r/arethestraightsokay' vibes because no they absolutely are not. Being so focused on doing what men like, the constant stream of "they like when we're feminine(in this specific way)just like how we like when they're masculine(in this specific way)", the over generalization("all men are like this," "all men want this," "they won't tell you but this is what they all want." Stuff like that). It heavily reminds me of that subreddit and the sort of stuff you'll see on there.
Edit: Grammar
Let’s all agree that if we ever sees someone in a clearly uncomfortable situation (like the girl pretending to be deaf) go and act as if you know that person to scare the harassers away!
I might have been upset she was pretending to be deaf. I mean we’re those guys in the wrong yes. She was also in the wrong too. Say no and walk away.
shes literally with at least one friend whos recording her. this was a stunt more than for safety lol...
To do whatever you have to to not be kidnapped, trafficked, raped and killed, I think we can cut people in situations like that a bit of slack. In any other scenario, I’m sure she wouldn’t pretend to be deaf. The guys were more than just “in the wrong”. They were clearly traffickers.
When Charlotte said she would use delulu, she whole heartly meant that😅😅😅
9:55 you got to be careful, even though you are pretend, they could still take a advantage on you because you are "deaf". I know this because I am deaf too and been in this situation. Thankfully my brother save me, what is chilling is that I overheard them saying "f*ck we almost had her". I dodged a bullet there.
this must have been so scary, I'm sorry that happened to you.
what the hell...
I am upset beyond belief that this happened to you and others as well 😠
... you're deaf but you overheard them?
I have NEVER had a man tell me I’m looking hydrated. 😂
I can relate to the drunk girl story and the president. I went out one night in Las Vegas and these 4 guys at other table were eyeballing me and then finally bought me drinks. They came over and asked if i had any movies that were coming out. They thought i was Davaid Arquette from scream. So i just played along and signed their napkins and drank the free beer
My first thought with the guys harassing that girl was human trafficking... And her being"deaf" was a bonus. They wanted a pic so bad so they had a reference to show who to grab. I always jump to worse case scenario though.
I played golf once with my ex. I heard him sighing when it was my turn, and then he said, "Come on!!". I picked up the ball and threw it. I have never played golf again unless its with my girlfriends. None of us can play at all, we just go to drink beer and laugh at how bad we are.
Those are the best of times.
Lol I started playing polo with the golf course. I got through it faster that way haha.
We just stick to putt putt golf.
Lol i'm awful at golf. I still don't know where my ball is till this day. 😂
@@LoriCrabtree31 Yay! Putt Putt is FUN and doesn't take all friggin day or cost $$$$. When I was a freelance artist, in the 1980s, one of my more unusual (and best-paying) gigs was painting the features on a mini-golf course in Austin TX. Painted dinosaurs and castles during the day, then the boss took us out for great BBQ or Tex-Mex (and margaritas) in the evenings. Fun times!
I used to go with my friend to the municipal golf course where she went to practice. Our snooty upper middle class public school actually had a golf team! When I went there with my friend I brought my sketchpad. The grounds were beautiful and it helped me practice drawing different kinds of trees, water, and birds.
I also got a kick out of seeing old rich guys wearing hideous outfits, but the game itself looked pretty boring. But then, I find football boring. I prefer baseball, more action but less violence, and the guys are usually cuter.😉
Two days in a row where boyfriend’s dad is an a-hole for going after his son’s girlfriend. Where do you find these people Vanessa?!
Getting harassed by Turks when I lived in Germany was the absolute worst! My girlfriends and I had a wallet stolen, we were literally CHASED by car in heavy traffic for 30 mins, my friend was assaulted in a pub...the list goes on and on. They were a literal nightmare.
The guys trying to take a pic of the stranger gave me the ick. When someone doesn’t understand “no”, I literally start gagging.
Miss Charlotte’s description of golf has me rolling thinking of Robin Williams’s bit on how golf was invented! The fact that he did it all in accent was phenomenal! Iykyk. I’m sure it’s out there if you wanna find it. RIP Robin. 🥺
Oh it was great. I was a kid and remember that bit. My step dad was big into golf and tried so hard to get us kids into it. I helped him make golf clubs and putters. But I refuse to play chase with a tiny ass ball I couldn’t find if I tried. I’m so blind. Lol
I gotta find it now 🥹
I may only be 20 but Robin Williams was and Is still a MAAAJOR part of how my sense of humor became what it is, that man will never Be forgotten
And ye do thes one time O FACK NO EIGHTEEN FECKIN TIEMS!!
''i'm gonna knock it into a gopher hole. EIGHTEEN TIMES.''
I was thinking the same thing. LOL
When she's comfortable enough around me that she can be a complete couch potato; no makeup, hair in whatever way she's comfortable with, regular nails without any color/yesterday's color, whatever bra/underwear combo she's comfortable in, baggy sweater and sweatpants just chilling on the couch together, that's when I feel like this is going to last.
Think Penny from Big Bang Theory in her gaming addiction phase, I find that appealing on the same level as when being fully decked out like James Bond and the female lead actress.
Because she is herself around me instead of that 2+ hours other version she makes herself into when going out, don't get me wrong I love that version also, it's just that warm feeling of trust and comfort around each other.
I will catch myself staring or glancing over because I feel so lucky and accomplished by this chill mood.
Every day doesn't need to be conforming to a certain standard, but just be two humans together enjoying living.
❤
I love the Penny reference!
Hi Queen Charlotte, that hammer that he used to break the car window at 11:11 is called a "glass breaker". As you are learning to drive I thought I should tell you that when you get a car please make sure you have one. Sometimes it comes with the car, sometimes you need to buy it yourself. It is a very useful, life saving, tool to keep on you in case of emergency. They work not only on your car window but also bus and train windows too. They usually have a sealbelt ripper on it as well, which is really useful in an emergency situation too. There are fancier ones that even have a torch on it too, which will help you find the window to smash/seat belt to rip if you're in low light. Stay safe out there Queen! Lots of love from Manchester UK xXx
6:28 I asked my boyfriend what he loves about me, he said "the whole you. I can't just like a part of you, I like everything about you, the good and the bad" So men liking those physical things are just the top layer attraction. It's not that you are trying to lure all men. The goal is to have just one by your side.
1:50 I just got the greatest idea for a cartoon short. It's a golfer looking for his ball, and he's calling "Marco" and different balls are answering "polo", so he still can't find his ball and the whole thing ends up as a huge wild goose chase.
I had a friend years ago whose ex girlfriend gave me a book on how to get a husband because she was jealous of me and him (we were not romantic at all). It included things like to never cut your hair short, even if it looks better on you because men like long hair and to not focus attention on him at dinner, he needs to work to capture your attention ... never approach a man first ... I had such a laugh over that book. Especially if you think I stole your man then why would *I* need help?
There's a singer I like you can find on RUclips (C.GEANE) & she used to do live streams and I checked it out .. ALL the comments were like "pretty girl" AND she has short hair! I don't think men care THAT much about hair length & if they do (demand) it then I think it's just controlling behavior cuz it's that individual's hair & they can do what they want with it. I feel the same about tattoos. It's your body & you can decorate it how you want!
What’s the book called?
@kandacenoire6000 I don't recall, it was so long ago. It was something about getting a husband and it was from maybe the 90s so not that old-timey
If the book was called “The Rules”, a podcast called If Books Could Kill just did an incredible episode on it
@@alexandrapavlinac4768 yesss just listened to that. So damn antiquated even then lol
Beauty is different for everyone. It’s not a one size fits all. Find who likes you for all of you. Don’t try to fit into someone’s mold. 💜
I agree. My hubby said I was never more attractive to him than when I'm fixing things in the house.
Cracks me up that me putting new parts in the toilet tank makes hi. Horny 🤣
I've always like fixing stuff. My grandpa said. Its already broken dolly so here's a screw driver let's see what going on in there lol.
He likes it when I'm out in the garden all dirty too. Maybe he's broken considering what that cosmo girl thinks lol 😅
We need to start viewing people the way we view dogs and cats. No one looks at a maine coone and thinks, "Well you'd be so much more gorgeous if you looked like a persian or tabby." No. Cat lovers see a scottish fold, a sphynx, and a bengal and know they're all lovely cats.
Agreed!
Somebody once told me "when a man looks at a woman he admires, when a woman looks at a woman she compares".
He gets up early for any other occasion INCLUDING YOU CHARLOTTE! 😅😢😂
6:43 She's full of it. When I first started dating my SO (at 17), I wore makeup all the time, hair always done, etc. He came over one time unexpected and I was in loungewear, with a ponytail and my bare face just hanging out. He said he found it extremely sexy, and I started wearing it less and less and less...32 years later, I only wear makeup if it's a special occasion. I don't think it's a coincidence that I have no skin problems and often get mistaken for much younger than I am.
Now I'm imagining all the hetero men of the world lying awake at night, secretly swooning at the thought of light-pink painted toes and handbags.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
The mini hammer is specifically for smashing windows. I guarantee he died a little inside.
I was about to comment the same thing. What did he think would happen hitting the glass with a diamond tipped hammer made to smash glass?!
It kind of satisfied my own curiosity, to be honest.
@@sophiea.k.hafstrm3568 lmao I love it then. He learned so you don’t have to. As you can see it takes almost nothing to just decimate that bad boy.
Keep the delulu videos coming🤣
You’re absolutely amazing
We will!
7:30 if you’re “girly”, you do you, but let the rest of us do us, this is the 21st century. Outdated stereotypes should leave the building. Also, while it’s fine to look “done” on the occasions that merit it, if your significant other can’t stand you w/o make-up - what are you gonna do in the middle of whatever life throws at you that you don’t have time for a full face?
Ok. I paused at 8:11. The girl talking about what men want just doesn’t know. I was with my ex ten years. When I had my last child i piled the weight on. I stopped looking after myself. Then when I lost my weight, started looking good, self love and wearing “girly” stuff, he couldn’t handle it, so he left. Not every guy is the same.
I am TRIGGERED by this girl! Sitting with my 3-month old daughter on my b**b and having a(nother) “bummy day” after another night of terrible sleep 😂 looking like a refugee. My husband knows where the door is 😂 but he keeps showing up, so weird!
7:50 Almost 42 here, married for over 20 years…..2 kids with hubby….and I laugh at this girl over how reality works when you have kids and long term marriage.
If men truly love that stuff, then I feel bad for my husband since I hate makeup and dislike getting my nails done 😅
I’m sure he has zero preference. My husband loves when I wear makeup, but says I’m the prettiest when I’ve just woken up. Or he just sits there and stares with stars in his eyes when I’m working in the yard or doing construction on the house. Not all people have the same preferences, thank God, or we’d all be the same person.
@@erikarussell1142 AWWWWW, that's really cute!!
@@leylamayhew7520 he’s the greatest, I really couldn’t have asked for a better partner. Thank you so much for letting me brag on him just a bit. I honestly never thought I’d end up with anyone, I always imagined myself as a spinster and growing old with a bunch of dogs and cats. But now I have a bunch of animals and him and the kids. I’ve been truly blessed. I’m sure your husband does the same when he looks at you. Makeup and nails or not.
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Same, same. In fact, when my then-boyfriend-now-husband and I went to senior prom, he said "why'd you cover your freckles???" I didn't wear foundation often, and still don't.
I am sure his mistress does her nails.
I love Charlotte's facial expressions, they are everything!
Scrolling through the comments, and I'm surprised that no one seems to be mentioning the dude who shows up halfway through the faux deaf video, apparently trying to send the dudes away, who disappears in the next cut. Kind of makes me wonder if he was a staff member telling them to leave and had to get some backup because they were so insistent.
That “what men like” woman was partially right. Like, I love it when my bf gets all dressed up clean shaven with cologne, styled hair and a good outfit as much as he loves when I put in the same effort. And yes, take care of yourself! People who put care in their appearance are always more attractive! But you don’t always have to (and can) be that way and if your partner can’t accept that then they’re not for you…
That Vanessa girl was Stepford as hell.
"So make sure to always look perfect and make all of yourself about always looking good for your man...for yourself"
Girl we’re so proud of you learning to driver! Keep it up and don’t hit nothing lol
Godspeed
I agree. I'm very proud of you as well ❤️
"I dinnae have any beer!" Charlotte says, in a scottish accent, with a picture of a german village and bierstein, all while french music plays. Truly, mrs Worldwide
7:05 can confirm my husband is happy he doesn’t have to pay for expensive accessories for me. And when I get all ready for Saturday night - he says “You’re better with natural hair and face”. So. She’s finding the wrong men.
Yes, golf is hide and seek with a golf ball. We found a frisbee golf course in a mountainous area. There were trees, wild grass, tons of sage brush...now THAT was hide and seek. Good luck finding a flat frisbee in 2ft of grass and brush! A couple of times we thought we'd lost them for good. There was also a river right along the course...we skipped the ones by the river. Not worth the risk.
Haha that lady floating in the ocean on her stomach is so funny! We float the river and I tie my tube to someone else and I swim 90% of the time and I did the same thing and my dad was like you need to stop that lol cause I looked like a dead body floating down the river😂😂 and he said everyone I was going by looked really really concerned.
Please don’t call the fire and rescue, she’s just a tad dramatic. Don’t mind her… (cops get called anyways and you have to explain that it was you pretending to be a dead body and why you would do that etc) lol oh this lil insert just played a whole scene in my head. Lol thank you for that.
Nothing wrong with a good dead-man's float😁 Obviously stay aware of your surroundings and give a thumbs up to any passers-by.
@@erikarussell1142 haha you're welcome I could hear my dad tell people I was ok lol 😆 omg I could only imagine what the cops would say and the lecture I'd get and probably have to attend a safety class!
No I'm always aware of my surroundings it wasn't on purpose until my dad said to stop lol I dive for cans and trash while we float the river and clean it up I can't stand people sinking there cans to the bottom always goggles and my fins. Think we got like 60$ worth in cans not to mention the phones, go pros, and sunglasses. It was a fun day!
I'm surprised that nobody tried to rescue her. What if she really was unconscious and floating with her face down?
I like women that aren't shallow, that girl is naming stuff she likes herself 😂😂😂
But she’s actually correct. Men do like that kind of stuff… men who date her. She only fails to see that there are men who have different preferences than her dates/boyfriends.
I have never had a boyfriend who like women being weird with their small pink purses for example. Do I think all men are like my dates/boyfriends? No.
@@Trammiliin_nr2true, i like feminine things just like she described, but my partner loves an athletic look on a woman
Yep. She loves her goofy little pink bags and getting her nails done (which is fine, I guess), but she's clearly wanting a man who will buy all those things for her. She's speaking for herself, mostly.
As someone who’s actually hard of hearing, that pretending to be deaf is awesome and pure gold! 🤣🤣🤣 it’s why I love not hearing enough. RBF also helps too! ❤️❤️❤️
Watching others in their delulu lands help me break out of mine 😂
It happens every time me and my friends say: let's have a chilled night 😂😂. We're still trying
as for the delulu "what men love" one, I did the opposite. I did the "I look like a cave troll 24/7" thing because if I'm gonna attract a man, he's gotta know up front that most of the time 0 effort goes into my looks. He can deal with that? Then we're golden. And not once, in our TWENTY YEARS OF MARRIAGE has he ever, ever looked at my feet in a naughty way. I got way more going on for him to even make it to my FEET. Even a foot rub, nice little pain relieving foot rub, only gets him in the mood cos them thick thighs are in his lap so he can do it. Remember, people trying to attract men, what he *should* love, most of all, is YOU. Not the meat suit you're walking around in.
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I'm heterosexual but I do it for the gay men😅 NOTHING feels better than a gay guys compliment.😂😂😂😂
Women are largely confused and don’t understand their own motives.
The part that goes unsaid is that dolling up for men is perceived as weakness among other women. It’s true.
Truuuuth
I’m gay and I do notice that when I compliment a woman many do seem to appreciate it
@@thomasbradley4505Gay men give the best compliments while also being brutal when we make the same mistake twice. They are like: guuuurl, what!? 😂 Love when my gay brother does both.
@@thomasbradley4505 we LOVE it!
I have pretended to be deaf before. I actually know a lot of sign language. It was inane the comments the dudes would make to each other about my body, what they would do to me, and how sooooo hot it was that I was “deaf”. Gross!
Oh ew 😢
Jesus - wtf?
I should have phrased this differently. I wasn’t pretending to be deaf… I had a temporary five month vocal chord problem where I didn’t speak, and would utilize the sign language I knew because it felt like the only way I could communicate. So everyone assumed I was deaf. I had a card that even said “I AM NOT DEAF. I CAN HEAR YOU. I have a temporary vocal chord problem and cannot speak! Thanks”. It was bizarre how people wouldn’t even read it, just give me a thumbs up. And I would purposely keep pushing it in their face like “no come on, read it!” Just nods and smiles and talking about my deafness to my face lol.
@@cestlaphie my reaction was to the gross guy's talking about you because they thought you couldn't hear them 😔
@@kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066 oh yes, that’s what I assumed!! Just thought I’d further clarify my post 😂
My man was just telling me that me without my glasses throws him off, I don't wear them on my day off cause I don't need them on all the time. I have a love hate relationship with my glasses. 😂
This was a good one 😂 almost forgot for a second that life is a bottomless pit of despair
6:31 There's taking care of yourself and then theres taking care of yourself for male validation.
How is a tomboy going to want pink nail polish if they're a tomboy. If i want to leave the house that shows im depressed, let me look depressed
LATE 40's??? Oh lord.
At 50, I must be "elderly" in this girl's book.
she was saying it’s old in comparison to the 20something they’re having an affair with…
55 is the age people can start going into senior homes where I live 😭😭
6:40 no thank you, my partner likes like punk aesthetic and my BT21 mini back pack. Even if he didn't like it, I would still do it anyways because I like it 😊
I just wanted to say thank you for all the time and energy you put into posting videos every day. I love my routines and so every night before bed I clean my ferrets cage and get him fresh food and water and we play. I start this nightly routine off with watching your videos (and then usually true crime). I love laughing along with you at the videos and I just wanted again to say thank you for being you!
I have a Charlotte routine as well. Most of the time I watch her daily video while I am eating breakfast. Sometimes days are busy and I don't get to watch her during breakfast, so then I will have more video's ti watch during breakfast on another day.
Delululand seems to be a fantastic place. Full of people , for sure 😂
And to be clear, there's 0 wrong with that that vanessa person is saying as long as she's doing it because SHE likes it. if putting on cute sweats for her lazy days, or making sure she has dainty nails, or keeping her hair brushed and styled makes HER feel powerful and attractive and great *that* is what people are responding to. Not the things she's doing, but her attitude when she's done them.
But that isn't what her video is. At no point was she expressing what SHE likes. She is literally educating the masses on what MEN like. She literally be thinking men all want the same thing and all women should do those things. To each their own. I'd rather be single then with a man who is worried about whether my toes nails look pretty. 😂
She's saying to look very young by wearing lip gloss and light pink nailpolish and 'staying hydrated' and 'healthy', and carrying cutesy little purses. Yeah, guys might like childish girls, but 35-yr-old her might not be as happy about that...
@@dinaboopewww…. I didn’t catch that! She’s attracting guys who may actually prefer girls to women 😣😟
@@LadyKris3345 yeah no, I know that. I watched the video too. I was saying other people.
Good Morning Petty Potatoes! ❤
Noon here, but still in bed so it counts 😊
😂 18.00
It’s 12 for me but I just woke up anyway so gmorninnng 😂😂😂
Good evening European potatoes ❤
It’s 12 right now but morning
10:30, this is what almost every woman have to deal with weekly. But we should appareantly be "thankful" for the "compliment"
Dude.... I get onto my sweats and hoodies as soon as I get home from work: I don't wear makeup anymore because my eyes water too much (unless its a special occasion-staff party, Christmas). I don't shave my legs in the winter, because...why! Its cold outside, I wear pants. I dress for me. If a maaannnnn doesn't like it, too damn bad!!!
I think you cracked the code Charlotte.
Giving of a natural beer scent is the true secret to attracting guys. 😂
As far as the "what men like" video goes... My husband hates perfume, hates lip gloss, ask me why I'm getting dressed up (as in "where do we have to go today?" Since that usually means he has to get dressed too) along with many other key points in her video that are obviously not for every man. 😂
11:49 not me thinking the tripod was a gun 😂
6:24 this: ew like idk if it’s the way she’s explaining it but I just got the biggest ick
This is another like “molding for men” not that all men are like this CUZ IK FOR A FACT THEY ARENT but YUCK JESUS
I’m a manicurist and deal with clients who’s husbands/boyfriends don’t like it when they do bold colors 🙄🙄🙄 I always tell them I’m here when he fucks up and they need a neon green with glitter.
I just love you so much... keep posting more fun...It makes my Day❤😂
The guy with the glasses they are just drawn on because around the supposed tattoo would be red and swollen and slightly raised especially where it is as it’s a very sensitive area. I’m a tattooist so trust me that is fake That’s just marker. Love your videos Charlotte and your always gorgeous and beautiful ❤
When you are are in the Mediterranean, the water is so warm and comforting that tourists will stupidly swim away from the beach and find themselves in the middle of the water and be too tired to swim back, or disoriented to the point that they don't know which beach they came from. So, yeah, I do think it is a real thing to pick up people out there in the sea. Good thing it is a custom to keep a few seats open just for this situation.
5:56 - She's close, but not in the way she thinks she is.
Confidence is attractive, and self care is important. If doing all she does, as listed, makes her feel confident about herself then what's the loss? But honey, please, do it for yourself not for guys!
Looks are fleeting, as you well said, but if a guy is with you for your looks... you're in for a bad time. Place value on yourself, not what someone else thinks of you.
She'll learn, or find her way, something that works for her. There is no doubt there.
Speaking only for myself, I'd much rather be with someone who is comfortable in themselves, than broadly pretty. Rather see my partner in trackies, and a ratty old T shirt... if thats how she's comfortable.
Use what you've got, not what you wish you had.
The guy with the glasses tattoo was making a spectacle of himself 🤓
6:10 this one is so funny "it's like how we love muscles" i personally love it when men have girly shit done like literally all of that but for men 😭
5:17 the glasses are toally fake. It looks like it was done with a sharpie and it was, there's 0 irritaton, redness or swelling on his face too
Charlotte is so creative, delulu is now my favorite word. 😂♥️
Everytime i watch a vídeo, i have to watch that vídeo at least 3 times. I always find a new thing to laugh. 😂this Channel is a treasure.
I feel so happy for that girl that once she finds true love she’s gonna realize all that stuff is mundane and she can finally relax 😅💛
The editing team is 👌👩🍳💋 Y’all deserve more recognition!
As a guy that see's beauty in a different ways, I never took to seeing a lady go through so much to look good unless it also makes her feel better about herself. I have always been a more natural or a take you as you are type of guy. I want to see the beauty that comes from deep within.
I might have tried that deaf thing once or twice when I was single, lol. The thing was that I didn't really know enough sign language to be believable.
I’m fluent and use it often. It works sometimes, and sometimes it makes them thirstier, which is weird. Disabilities are not a kink. Stop it. Get some help.
I guess they see it as a vulnerability, an opening so to speak. Disgusting.
Neither did she
@@InteriorDesignStudent lmaooo no she didn’t.
@@Carrot880 yeah that’s sick.
As a tomboy rant incoming:
For the girl talking about being more girly and how guys love girly girls. I have a feeling she was just going for a tomboy girl she knows and trying to tell her to be more girly. Either jealous the girl is surrounded by guys (tips to know about most tomboys and not the pickme ones, we genuinely do not want those boys in our group to like us like that. We're JUST chilling bro and can't connect to the girly shit, so shockingly, our group usually consists of guys because we all share the same hobbies and likes. Which is okay, it doesn't make anyone lesser or higher, it just how things turn out. I'm not gonna be friends with someone who's requirement of me being in her group is to wear lip gloss. If you view people specifically by their looks and think 'they bring our image down' you're the issue because friends aren't aesthetic accessories.) OR she's wanting to "fix her".
Some guys probably do like way more feminine girls but...people tend to prefer a lot of different things, so focusing on it too hard FOR someone else is weird. Idk about any of you but I'm not changing who I am for no one else. I'll change for ME, or because I'm curious about something, not to get some random blokes attention (which I'll say, a lot of my guy friends DID have a crush on me but they got over it quick when they realised I wasn't interested or another girl caught their interest and they went onto be happy with them, which GOOD. Once they got over me being a girl it was gucci. I wasn't there to be the girl of the group I just wanted to exist in a space where I could talk about my interests.) I've had girly friends who wanted to give me makeovers but it was never to get me to fit some social criteria they concocted up. It was just fun "please let me just see what you'd look like!" and I went along with it. It WAS fun, obviously. We had giggles and we had fun with it, but it didn't feel like me in the end or something I'd be willing to do every day and y'know what? That girly friend didn't care. She still hung out with me. We stayed besties up until I left school for personal reasons and life just separated us. But I did have fun and I appreciated some girly things more, it was just never a focus for me. (I've always admired the effort she went through tbh, girl I see you)
Pushing people to fit your image of what you think a girl or woman should be is utterly stupid. There are PLENTY of guys who like tomboyish girls, there's plenty of women who support those other women too and can look beyond what bag she's holding. It isn't a kindness to make that tiktok. Chances are that girl she's no doubt targeting doesn't give a shit or has her own little moments with more feminine things, she just doesn't blast it constantly or for the world to see.
"You should do it for you." I have when I've felt like it. And I can tell you a lot of tomboys probs have done the same. It's just not a priority for sweet perfume and lip gloss.(Which if it is yours, cool, more power to you.) But we CAN dress up if the mood takes us/we wanna try it. We just aren't into it for daily constants. And people have got to get the fuck over that.
6:51 that girl, yes, girl, is absurd. Why are you going out of your way to do things that you think that OTHER PEOPLE WOULD LIKE?! You're delusional.
have been happily married 20 years and haven't done a single thing to look cute.
Delulu land is officially my new fav words now, thank you Charlotte.