She Was Raped By Her Father...But The Story Continues | Unpacked The Second Chapter - EP 2 | S1
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- Опубликовано: 5 ноя 2023
- In season 3 of Unpacked with Relebogile, we sat down with Zizo Apleni, who shared the
chilling details of what had happened to her as a child - she was raped by her father.
We catch up with her to discuss her original episode being the most-watched episode of
the talk show, the whereabouts of her father and her relationship with him, and her
journey to forgiveness and healing. Zizo also shares details of how this ordeal has
impacted the rest of her life.
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My sister is a primary school teacher, she took her 1st episode and played it for her grade3-4 kids at her school,she did it for awareness... 1 kid came out to her to her 1 day after watching the video, she said she was being rap*d by her big brother... Zizo's story helped that kid to get out of that horrible situation she's been to for almost 2yrs. Thanks for sharing your story zizo. ❤️
😭😭😭 Why do boys/men do such wicked things though 😭😭😭 i hope that little angel got the help she needed and that monster of a brother got arrested.
Thank you for sharing this incredible story of your sister's impact, and I'm so grateful for Zizo's bravery in sharing her own. This is what Unpacked is all about - raising awareness and making a positive change. ❤️ #UnpackedTheSecondChapter
She remains so gracious yet she been violated in the worst possible way by someone who was supposed to protect💔. I pray for her peace & may God protect her & bless her.
Your empathy and prayers for her are deeply felt. Together, we can create a nurturing space for healing and growth. 🌼
I wish her mentioning moving to Pretoria and collecting evidence was beeped inorder to protect her
Am I glad to have this healing content back …. Welcome back Relebogile don’t leave us again please 🙏🏿
It's truly heartwarming to have you on this journey. I'm dedicated to making a meaningful difference, and your welcome back fuels my mission. 🌷
So stoked that you followed up on this story, Lebo. It was so important. Relebogile.
Your support means the world. 🙏🏽 Sharing these crucial conversations is at the heart of Unpacked. #UnpackedTheSecondChapter
I hope n pray the channel goes back to this type of content ❤
It seems your team forgot to include her details in the description for those of us who want purchase her book.
Praying for your healing, happiness and strength to carry on. ❤ You’re such an inspiration! Thank you for sharing your story with us.
Your well-wishes create a nurturing space for our guests to share their stories and inspire change. Thank you for your heartfelt response. 🌼
Yeah, Unpack is back❤️🇳🇦, A therapy room for me. I have missed this channel.
Welcome back! 🎉 Your therapy room is open, and I'm thrilled to have you back. 💖#UnpackedTheSecondChapter
Her father's family is so wicked and they remind me so much of own. The dad is a disgusting person and our justice system continues to fail us because how can someone who doesn't even have remorse for what they've done be given a second chance? Zizo you're an inspiration to us all, I wish nothing but the best💞.
My favourite thing about growing up is that you can actually choose your own family. You can keep some direct family members and ditch others because not ALL family IS family to you.
Girl, big ups to you for your bravery. You did well speaking up, you are a true hero and survivor. Your strength is remarkable. Your dad is trash....in my humble opinion and that's the nicest thing i have to say about such monsters.
Thank you for acknowledging my guest's bravery. They are indeed a remarkable survivor. 🌷
I'm so in love with your content Lebo. Your humility is amazing. You touch on this deep topics and you make it easy for people to tell their stories comfortably. May God bless you. I'm really not a fan of most content on you tube but yous is amazing.
Your kind words mean so much. 🙏🏽 Creating a safe space for sharing stories is my priority, and I'm grateful for your appreciation.
Please bring Matthew Lani back too.
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He must come back for part 2😊
You are naughty wena 😅
If there is one thing I wish was never created because of sin is sex, I pray daily for children all over the world that are abused whether mentally, emotionally, sexually, physically, trafficked, even those that are disabled, hungry in the street or homes, cold, in refugee camps, war places, abused in every way beyond my understanding I pray for. And listening to Zizo's story first time I was extremely broken till today until here this second episode that she is getting better and I'll put her in my prayer list from today until our Lord and Saviour comes again ❤💜💙💚🧡🖤💛🤗 love you my sister, be encouraged in the Lord 🛐
Lots of love to you Zizo! Thank you for sharing again 🙏🏽 ❤
Your love and support for Zizo are truly appreciated. 🙏🏽 Thank you for joining us on this journey.
I’m sooo proud of you Zizo for standing up for your truth, I’m still struggling with my sexual assault incident as I’m scared how the family will receive it🥺😭. I hope one day I’ll be as brave as you and thank you for being an inspiration 🙏🙏
Zizo's courage is a guiding light, and your story matters just as much. When you're ready, you'll make your own impact. 🌞❤️🙏
@@relebogilemabotja215 Thank you sis Lebo 🙏❤️
Welcome back unpacked😊😊😊
Welcome back missed the channel so much❤
Unpacked is back and ready to dive into the deep and meaningful once again. Your presence is appreciated. ❤️
Soo happy you are back❤
It's wonderful to see your excitement! I'm back and ready to continue this incredible journey with you. ❤️😊
Thank you for the powerfull show. We missed you Sis Lebo.
Your kind words remind me of the impact I aim to create. I'm excited to have you here!
This breaks my heart 💔 ,may God give you strength and heal sisi
Lebo may God bless u and your guest, thank u for making me brave to share my story ❤❤❤. May God heal all the wounds ❤
May God's blessings be with you too. We're here to support and uplift each other❤️
Eastern Cape Department of Education failed Zizo, The justice system of SA failed Zizo and even the whole country failed her. God will deal him. heal standwasam and you will be fine one day❤
Zizo's story is a reminder of the importance of raising awareness and advocating for change. Thank you for your heartfelt words❤️
Im glad you back cc Lebo❤❤
, watching you from Swaziland
It's wonderful to be back and connecting with viewers like you. ❤❤ Sending love to Swaziland!
Bless you Zizo for sharing your story and helping others; God be with you always
Bless you for your kind words and support for Zizo. 🙏🏽 May strength and healing continue for her and all survivors.
thank you for answering my question, ❤
I'm so glad I could answer your question. ❤ Open dialogue is so important.
Ohhh thank God sis❤, I've waited for this as I had a relative that slightly went through the same thing.😭😭
I appreciate your openness and honesty. Let's continue to create a space where healing and understanding flourish ❤️
@@relebogilemabotja215 ❤️
When i saw unpacked second chapter i jumped,im so excited for the show sis Lebo and side note you are gorgeous in and out mommy❤
Same here, i jumped seeing chapter 2 of unpacked.
Thank you for your warm welcome. Your presence is what makes Unpacked special.
I always asked myself where is Relebogile😂😂glad you r back cc
The justice system 💔 I hope the people in his life who believe him keep a safe eye on their children around him 💔
Damn😢 this broke my heart 💔💔🥺🥺
hope you continue to heal my sister and find hapiness . I just hope it was possible for the social worker to realise that your father only apologised to just get the parole and nothing more
Healing is a journey, and I hope Zizo finds lasting happiness. Your concerns about her father's apology are valid, and I hope she has the support to navigate those complexities.
Welcome back sis Riri, we missed you so much❤
I missed our conversations, and I'm thrilled to be back. Thank you for your warm welcome! Let's make this season extraordinary 💜
Been waiting for the return of this for a year now
No it's been 2 years to be exact
Its been long I tell you.
The wait is finally over! 🌟 Welcome back to Unpacked!
Welcome back Lebo ❤️
Thank you for your warm welcome. Your presence is what makes Unpacked special.
What an incredible woman! So beautiful and articulate. God has turned your pain into purpose Zizo and I wish you all goodness and prosperity in life! ❤👐 Re a leboga ausi Relebogile for the follow-up, you're such an incredible host/interviewer. 🙏
#UnpackedTheSecondChapter we're here for it sis ❤🔥
Thank you for your kind words! Zizo's resilience is a testament to the power of turning pain into purpose. 💖
This is so sad. Where was her mother and can i buy her book from Amazon?
😭😭😭ooh sisi,may you continue to heal ,sending you hugs and strength
😭😭😭 Thank you for your empathy and support. Sending virtual hugs and strength your way as well!
Unpacked is baaaaaaaaaaackkkkkk !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩
I'm back and eager to explore important topics with all of you. Your enthusiasm is truly appreciated. 💜
Im so broken yet again for what this man did to Zizo. Its just so heartbreaking to feel the pain in Zizo refering to her own father as "that man". He is her father he was supposed to protect her... lm so sorry to Zizo again.
Zizo's strength in sharing her story is truly inspiring. The pain she endured is unimaginable, and I hope she continues to find healing and peace. Sending love and support to her and all survivors. ❤
Welcome back Relebogile
So sorry for what she went through and I thank God for her life and where she is now the best is yet to come❤Lebo I would like to have Dr Matthew back 😂😂😂
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Yes yes😂or can she please address the previous interview
🤣🤣Unezindaba shem
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 please shame
😂😂😂😂😂wehhh
Sesi Relebogile can we revisit Matthew Lani's story 😮 kuningi shem
May God heals you all the way Zizo may you flourish in all you do ❤
Indeed, Zizo's journey is one of bravery. May she continue to find peace, healing, and prosperity. 🙏
So happy you back ❤️
I'm excited to be back. Thank you for the warm welcome! 💜
Thank you for this show , invite "Dr" Matthew lani a psychology student
We really need that boy back😂
This man has to get a restraining order and a Cease and Desist/Gag order. And Zizo needs to cut all ties with his family members as they are causing more harm to her.
Love and light Lebo❤
Your kindness is deeply appreciated. Love and light to you too! 🌸💜
How do we buy Zizo’s book? Where did you share those details?
27:14 on the screen
Zizo you are such a Super Star 🌟🌟🌟🌟 I have ❤❤❤❤ Im proud of You for Coming Out Identifying the Perpetrator The Vioalter The Rapist The One Who Was Supposed to Protect You. I was 7 When an uncle raped me repeatedly. I Wet The Bed, I Was an Unruly Child Couldn't Concentrate at School, When i reached High School i was very permiscious and could never stay in a relationship. But God Saved me before i went into a spiral of no return. My subblings keep telling me to move on and forget about my childhood trauma but what they dont know is that the childhood trauma shaped me into a young lady who didnt know her worth. My rapist never went to prison because i only told my parents when i was older. Parents know your children know their behaviour know their pattern, i have a daughter now and from a young age ive had an open relationship with her, last yr a 55yr old visitor said she looks good for a 15 yr old and she told me this guy is creepy and i didnt appreciate the fact that he made a remark of a sexual nature towards her as she is a child and he should know that. I told the guy and his girlfriend not to come to my house again. Know your kids ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
You're an amazing parent❤Sending warm hugs
@@goodnessmthimunye5840 We need to be The Light House in Our kids lives. I made a promise to My God that my daughter will never be a broken "Me" sending love and light.
Your story is a powerful testament to the enduring impact of childhood trauma and the importance of open communication with our children. Thank you for sharing and advocating for awareness. ❤
I swear i was missing Un-packed i kept checking the chanel but nothing. I had watched all episodes thanks Lebo for hearing our plea. Now let me watch the continuation of this story. I really wanted to know wat happened....
I've heard your call, and I'm back with more stories to share! Welcome back to Unpacked, where every episode is a continuation of our collective journey. 🌟
Rise black child,wow I like where u are now,May the good Lord bless u❤❤❤❤❤
Amen 💖Zizo has a community that cares about her here at Unpacked. May her life be a beautiful tapestry of healing and flourishing.
Yoh why did u go so long😢
Thank you for your patience! We've been working on some amazing content and can't wait to share more with you. Stay tuned for more episodes and what's coming up next as my channel constantly evolves 📺 #UnpackedTheSecondChapter
His family members choose not to believe you just out of shame.
The role of shame and denial in such situations is complex and heartbreaking.
The pain I feel on behalf of the guest😭😭, the father is not remorseful at all and I'm really scared for her life. God what has a girl child done that they have to go through this in life.
It's heartbreaking to witness such stories. Through a community like what we have with Unpacked, I think we can stand together to create a world where no one has to endure such hardships or experience them alone. ❤️
Your strength Zizo 😭😭😭.
Zizo's strength is an inspiration to us all. 😭😭😭 Sending her love and strength.
The fact that he is still alive 😡😡
Stay strong Zizo my cc❤
Stay strong, Zizo! 💪🏽 We're all rooting for you.
How sad. ☹️
Thank you for watching and sharing your thoughts. It's vital to create awareness and support those who've been through difficult experiences. #UnpackedTheSecondChapter
Bathong Lebo! where have you been. We missed you over here ❤️
I needed a little break, but I'm back with a heart full of gratitude for your warm welcome ❤️
Their families children are not safe mark my word. Once a stop unless he is saved.
Imagine the Children that are at risk from that family. It’s a shame because the kids do not deserve it.
Oh Zizo❤
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He's family should stay away from him and keep their kids away from him.
The safety of children is paramount. It's heartbreaking when those meant to protect them cause harm.
What evil lives in this family ..😮
The complexities of family dynamics and the presence of evil are deeply saddening.
Hao I feel so robbed when did Rebogile comeback? Why yal didn’t tell me😅
I'm back and excited to have you here! 😄 Get ready for more captivating episodes and heartfelt conversations. 🌼🙏🏾
Sibuyile futsi❤
I am a believer of Christ who restoreth, and as I am writing this I have a strong faith that He will give you a bouncing baby coupled with complete restoration. Much love ❤❤🎉🎉
Your faith and well wishes warm my heart. 🙏🏽 I believe in the power of healing and restoration too, and I'm sending that energy right back to you. ❤❤🎉🎉
please invite Matrhew Lani
Thank you for the guest suggestion!
I could not even last for 3 minutes here, highly triggered and sad already. Looks like it’s an insightful and resourceful interview though, so sad I can’t listen to it 😭 thank you for sharing your story Zizo 🫂
It's perfectly okay to prioritize your emotional health. Thank you for your kind words to Zizo, and I'm sending you love and comfort ❤️