WE ALL NEED TO WATCH THIS CHANNEL. WE NEED TO UNPACK OUR JUDGEMENT,IGNORANCE AND SHAME. THANK YOU TO EVERYONE INVOLVED IN CREATING SUCH A POSITIVELY IMPACTFUL SHOW.
This story opens up so many conversations. 1. Cons of Having sex while young 2. Denying people safe abortion which increases the risk of them actually doing illegal ones 3. Unavailability of information when it comes to sex 4. the stigmas in the black community.
@@nthabelengkgalapa6156 yea honestly they don’t . I mean she could’ve used morning after pill , condom , she could’ve prevented. There were just so many options and by the look of things she seems like she didn’t know shem .
Tbh I disagree with you. We have social media, television radios stations and school to provide sex education... I'm not judging anyone but people choose not to use that information wisely
3rd point is very debatable. Especially in South Africa. I would say most are ignorant or misinformed There's stigma towards family planning amongst teenagers. Even nurses treat them so bad for requiring such service
This channel needs to be 500k + subbies, this channel is really unpacking shame. Her family was so supportive, as a sister to a girl child. I am hoping to be the best Momkhulu ever. Our girls needs our support not to be thrown with stones and bad judgements.
My heart really bleeds for what Lebo went through. I know I would not be able to bring myself to talk to that old woman after treating me like that when i was merely looking for help. Her family is amazing for offering her that kind of support and never judging her.
@@nothandomyeni4449 we're here because our mothers/parents chose to keep us. Some people don't want to or cannot keep their babies and that's okay too.
This is so close to my heart because we have people in the rural areas who still go through what Lebogang went through because of not having information. The society is also judgemental without even understanding what one is going through. I am glad this conversations are happening and people can learn, open up and make informed decisions. Thank you Relebogile for caring this show with so much respect❤️❤️
Lebo's story is heartbreaking hle banna. You can just hear and see her pain hle. I can't imagine the outcome if her family were not that supportive. And so many young women go through the same over and over. The stigma has to go.
I think that nurse was so wrong. No way. This is why I hate the “no one owes you anything” statement. We owe each other decency, empathy and kindness ALWAYS!
I support sharing your story, it's shows courage and love for other people. It sad that when a baby is conceive there is 2 people but a woman get to deal with pain by herself. I'm 100% sure your story Lebo will help so many because tough times in our lives are there to help someone to do better. Shame doesn't stand empathy, forgive yourself love. God is the only person who can judge we have not right to judge no one is perfect.
I also gave birth to an 8 month old boy. He died as well. I feel your pain... I really do. I'm so sorry. I'm really sorry. One never gets over the pain. I'm so sorry.
Lebo thank you for Sharing your story, I have a similar one lost my Baby boy after birth at 17 never wanted to abort him ever. But it just shows that teenagers are not emotionally ready for sex. There is too much things to consider.
I think the plastic Object used on Lebo is called an Amniotic hook, we use it in facilities to break the mother's water when she is 7 to 8 cm dilated just to help the process of labour to go quick and to release pressure from the Uterus
Thank you for Unpacking this topic Relebogile🙏🏾 As a young girl, these videos are so informative & needed amongst us to help us even spark these conversations.
Yho Lebogang. I literally shed a tear to this. I relate so much to her saying she was not angry at the nurse and that she has taken accountability. She is her own biggest critic and really dsnt need anyone else to judge or critique her coz she done that herself so ppl must stop with that self righteous mentality. It has no effect really🙄
Yet they get to force men to care for babies they don't want. If you have a right to kill a child you should accept that men have a right to walk away from that child if you keep it against his wishes.
@@ELLIOT8209 if u dont want a child as a man then why ejaculate inside of a woman? Dont lay the blame at 1 door when both are responsible! Both men and women should take contraceptives!!
@@zharnedesember1910 why let a man ejaculate inside of you if you don't want a baby? Because you can always abort and he can always walk away from the baby. Same difference
This interview was an eye opener and so heart breaking , its really sad how some people would put money first and risk people's lives by performing illegal procedures
@@philly1076 I was not tied to an abusive pedophile. I could leave a toxic work environment, go back to school in a different province(away from abusive relatives), focus on school, get my desired qualification, get my dream job, country-hop & build wealth.
Talk about it dear, write about it. Trauma needs release, otherwise it stays in your body and continues to inflict on you. I hope you find healing and light❤
Something to ponder on as we all watch this video. We are very good lawyers for our own mistakes, and very good judges for the mistakes of others. Let he who is without sin, cast the first stone. Dont judge people because they sin differently from you. That's all.
As a society we need, we have to change and unpack sex, Abortion/termination for the sake of our Children cause the more we do not talk about such it will lead our girl child to take a wrong route of such situations. The Society mindset needs to be changed, in every angle.
I miss the days when life was sacred. Now personal choice trumps the sanctity of life and people now make excuses to support sin. The strong victimising the weak. Quite heartbreaking. And the saddest part is it's never a happy ending for both mom and baby.
@@nonkuanimated3328 I agree with you. It’s better to see a true reflection of the problem that we have as humans and the comments we make hence people are unable to come forth when they have issues.
It's appauling that people voicing their opinions is "sickening" but the act of a woman voluntarily paying someone to kill their own child is not "sickening" to you. The bible did say in the last days people will call good evil and call evil good. We're living it. Repent for your sins & turn to Christ
This is why parents need to stop making sex a taboo topic. If she had been educated about contraception, pregnancy, abortion, adoption -- none of this would have probably happened
The stigma stems from religion ... The arguements are rooted in the doctrines of religion and 'God' and morals according to our religious beliefs. We must start Looking at it from various lenses... mental stability, fincancial stability, emotional support from People around us, how a woman gets pregnant. A Child is lifetime commitment.
This is so sad 😭😭😭😭😭 Thank u Soo much for sharing ur story Lebo .....it has made me realize staff I nvr knew and also this is like my second home now .....the content ,this is such an amazing show ❤️
The law and constitution prohibits schools from discriminating against pregnant girls and preventing them their right to education. Lebo's school was going against the law.
@@nothandomyeni4449 So if you were sexually assaulted/raped, you would opt to keep the child because "it's their body and the baby must make a choice whether they want to stay or go"??? Your reasoning does not make sense at all. Hence there's laws whereby minors can't make their own choices and should have parental guidance who decide what's best for the child. It is the same with abortion, the mother has every right to decide what to do.
I won't throw any stones but... Everyone has a right to live. We are becoming an amoral society. These innocent souls are defenseless. May God help us...
Relebogile just said "when it comes to life and death it shouldn't be about personal views, it should be about duty" I know she was talking about saving Lebo's baby's life but then it also means according to her words that she doesn't respect the rights of medical workers to refuse their services when it comes to termination becauseof their personal beliefs. When it comes to ending a life all that matters according to her logic is performing duty.
Rights goes hand in hand responsibilities, instead of us teaching the young ones that it’s their right to abort let’s teach them safe sex and avoid killing
Lebo May you find total restoration from God. God didn’t want you to part with your son at the moment you expected having known how it was going to affect you. He gave you extra time with him. You met him, you named him, held him and buried him. Be comforted in the knowledge that you will meet him again in heaven. I speak as a mother who lost her first baby 6 days after she had to be delivered at 6 months due to higher blood pressure in pregnancy and lost my third born who was born at 35 weeks due to a placenta abruptio . He was recovering in NICU but left on the 15th day of his life. For me to have had those few days with my babies came as a blessing as I know Satan meant to hurt me or drive me into depression by killing my kids but God was ahead of him. What took your son is called Sudden Infant Death Syndrome. It’s unknown what causes it. You are not to be blamed. Do not doubt yourself as a mother ever. Love and peace to you.
Please don't normalise this in any way. God had nothing to do with this. He gave us free will for a reason to have freedom of choice. However every decision has a consequence. The Lord gave us humans a conscience for this very reason. You know what's right & this certainly isn't.
Communication is the key that open many doors. Families and friend's need to dialogue be open speak the truth, and share experiences, to hopefully prevent negative scenarios. 🙏🏾🦋🙏🏾🦋🙏🏾🦋🙏🏾🦋🙏🏾🦋🙏🏾🦋🙏🏾🦋🙏🏾🦋
I am in health i don't have perform termination of pregnancy but i can't stop someone to go ahead for termination but will ensure person get perform legal and professional and do best support psychological
I would like to her the story from the woman who was performing the illegal abortion for Lebo ,just so we know are this ppl affected by this procedures they perform .Like are they affected psychologically?
Abortion is not a form of contraception. Abortion can lead to serious mental health issues. Can cause infertility. Please use contraception so many types out there. Some women have even thought of suicide post abortion. Please use available contraception far safer emotional, mentally, physically well being.
We should not be judgemental as a people, situations do happen in life and people have to do what they have to do. It's sad but sometimes women have no other choice but to terminate the pregnancy.
Shame Lebo really went through a lot at a young age. And worse she had to take care of a premature child while she's still a baby herself. ...I wonder where was the father of the Baby, one day we should have a conversation about how abortion affects the father. ..... That nurse is pure evil, there's no excuse for such cruelty.
Why she sleep with a man without condom rather going to that such a pain....andimveli buhlungu bkoz is not the boy friend ddnt say he dont need a babe it was her own CHOICE
@@dipoleloshirley4407 Making poor life choices doesn't make you immune to pain or ill-treatment. So according to you because she had unprotected sex means she deserves the ill treatment she got? You sound like those people when a woman says they were raped you ask them what were they wearing or what time was it ? If they were walking at night then you say they deserved it why were they walking at night they got what they deserved. I wonder where we would be if we all got such cruelty for wrong choices we made in life....
@@dipoleloshirley4407 If you were as smart as you claim to be, you would have realised that not all aspects of Lebo's story were explored in the interview, including the part about the father of the child (it could have been her choice & rightfully so)......but then, you are not smart & you could not wait to judge. We all make mistakes, even you. For you it might not be in this area of life but there is a part of your life were you made & are still making foolish choices. Let that sink
I personally think the object was a BALLON CATHETER for induction of labour 🤔 . Thank you so much guys for sharing your stories this could save more lives🥰
I feel so ashamed now watching this. There are young women that ive met through school that went through abortions that i feel ive judged, maybe not verbally but still. Ive allowed people to speak ill of them to me nd i said nothing. i am so sorry
Abortion is a moral issue not a medical necessity since you're taking the life of an innocent human being. The main reason for having an abortion is that the child is the inconvenient outcome of irresponsible sex.
Ladies plz as a Christian it doesn't matter if it's fetus it's a human in the future don't have sex at all may God forgive you here I have a frnd who wish she can have a baby she has tried everything but now we just trust God for a miracle this is so sad my neighbour who is also a nurse at a hospital she worked with abortion and oneday day she couldn't do it anymore she collapsed and left her job she had to go for counseling plz ladies use something plz
Ask Christ for forgiveness if you're suffering form abortion guilt and he will free you. Don't relabel evil as good to cope with what you've done. Pro abortion women are lost and need prayer. Unborn children deserve protection too.
There is nothing to applaud here,what kind of a mother allows her 16 year old to have an abortion at 6 months? This is going too far. She could have died. They lived in Linden, they could have found a family to adopt the child.
The Host said "We should have a duty to one another". Me in my mind: where is the duty to the baby when you call it a foetus and scream "my body my choice"?
IF WOMEN ARE NOT SHAMED OF HAVING ABORTIONS. WHY ARE MEN SHAMED FOR NOT WANTING TO RAISE THEIR KIDS... BOTH GENDERS ARE ABANDONING THEIR RESPONSIBILITIES.
Are men ever shamed for not wanting to raise kids? Because from the looks of it, men are allowed to neglect their responsibilities at any given time. Look at the high # of single mothers who get no financial support from the child's father...
@@92Kandee what? Women have the right to abort but men are forced to financially support a child. What are you talking about? They garnish men's salaries for babies men didn't want yet women have a right to kill babies they don't want.
@@ELLIOT8209 how often does that really happen? I know countless women who were abandoned by the father of their children, when they were pregnant. The men assumed NO responsibility whatsoever & those women kept their children & raised them SINGLEHANDEDLY - without asking for a cent from the father's. Men are hardly shamed for abandoning their pregnant girlfriend's; & even so, the shaming is a recent thing. With this generation of women who refuse to accept societies double standards.
@@92Kandee you just ignored my point about abortion being legal and men being legally forced to support kids they don't want. Those are the double standards. Not your anecdotal views
WE ALL NEED TO WATCH THIS CHANNEL. WE NEED TO UNPACK OUR JUDGEMENT,IGNORANCE AND SHAME. THANK YOU TO EVERYONE INVOLVED IN CREATING SUCH A POSITIVELY IMPACTFUL SHOW.
Thank you 🙏🏾
There is so much emotion in Lebo's voice when she speaks... I can literally feel her pain... I liked that her family was there for her thou
For a second I thought she was gonna break down, especially when she started. She is too strong.
This story opens up so many conversations.
1. Cons of Having sex while young
2. Denying people safe abortion which increases the risk of them actually doing illegal ones
3. Unavailability of information when it comes to sex
4. the stigmas in the black community.
Unavailability of information when it comes to sex???
@@nthabelengkgalapa6156 yea honestly they don’t . I mean she could’ve used morning after pill , condom , she could’ve prevented. There were just so many options and by the look of things she seems like she didn’t know shem .
Tbh I disagree with you. We have social media, television radios stations and school to provide sex education... I'm not judging anyone but people choose not to use that information wisely
@@nthabelengkgalapa6156 fair enough
3rd point is very debatable. Especially in South Africa. I would say most are ignorant or misinformed
There's stigma towards family planning amongst teenagers. Even nurses treat them so bad for requiring such service
This channel needs to be 500k + subbies, this channel is really unpacking shame.
Her family was so supportive, as a sister to a girl child. I am hoping to be the best Momkhulu ever. Our girls needs our support not to be thrown with stones and bad judgements.
Agreed
@@sphumelelesijadu I agree, it's very informative and I love sis'Lebo
Yho shoutout to Lebo’s family for supporting her🥺
I nearly jumped coz I was wondering when I wrote a comment 🤣
I know right….
There's so much pain in Lebo's voice,I just wanna hug her and tell her it will be okay.
My heart really bleeds for what Lebo went through. I know I would not be able to bring myself to talk to that old woman after treating me like that when i was merely looking for help. Her family is amazing for offering her that kind of support and never judging her.
What is "supportive" about one killing their own child. Everyone that is pro abortion is alive
@@nothandomyeni4449 we're here because our mothers/parents chose to keep us. Some people don't want to or cannot keep their babies and that's okay too.
This is so close to my heart because we have people in the rural areas who still go through what Lebogang went through because of not having information. The society is also judgemental without even understanding what one is going through. I am glad this conversations are happening and people can learn, open up and make informed decisions. Thank you Relebogile for caring this show with so much respect❤️❤️
Ashhh Lebo's story got me so emotional. I just can't imagine what we go through as women...
Lebo's story is heartbreaking hle banna. You can just hear and see her pain hle. I can't imagine the outcome if her family were not that supportive. And so many young women go through the same over and over. The stigma has to go.
I think that nurse was so wrong. No way. This is why I hate the “no one owes you anything” statement. We owe each other decency, empathy and kindness ALWAYS!
Imagine its so heartbreaking
Absolutely!! We do owe each other common courtesy
I support sharing your story, it's shows courage and love for other people. It sad that when a baby is conceive there is 2 people but a woman get to deal with pain by herself. I'm 100% sure your story Lebo will help so many because tough times in our lives are there to help someone to do better. Shame doesn't stand empathy, forgive yourself love. God is the only person who can judge we have not right to judge no one is perfect.
I also gave birth to an 8 month old boy. He died as well. I feel your pain... I really do. I'm so sorry. I'm really sorry. One never gets over the pain. I'm so sorry.
♥️♥️♥️♥️
Lebo thank you for Sharing your story, I have a similar one lost my Baby boy after birth at 17 never wanted to abort him ever. But it just shows that teenagers are not emotionally ready for sex. There is too much things to consider.
Relebongile's line of questioning is impressive.
❤️✨
She's really good.
Things that woman go through,the pain in Lebo’s voice,and how she said thank you am good I felt that.
I believe this are conversations that need to had openly🙌
Wow Lebo your story is honestly gonna help so many girls who are going through what you went through . Thank you so much for sharing your story. ❤️❤️
I think the plastic Object used on Lebo is called an Amniotic hook, we use it in facilities to break the mother's water when she is 7 to 8 cm dilated just to help the process of labour to go quick and to release pressure from the Uterus
Thank you for explaining to us 👌🏽
Wow, thanks for this.
I had to look it up. Thanks.
Thank you for Unpacking this topic Relebogile🙏🏾 As a young girl, these videos are so informative & needed amongst us to help us even spark these conversations.
Yho Lebogang. I literally shed a tear to this. I relate so much to her saying she was not angry at the nurse and that she has taken accountability. She is her own biggest critic and really dsnt need anyone else to judge or critique her coz she done that herself so ppl must stop with that self righteous mentality. It has no effect really🙄
Lebo's family is really supportive hey😭❤️. I wish most families were like this hey
Information is paramount.
You are right.
Schools need to be able to give out contraception to boys and girls.
This topic is sickening to me when women are being judged as if they made themselves pregnant.😒😒🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Yet they get to force men to care for babies they don't want. If you have a right to kill a child you should accept that men have a right to walk away from that child if you keep it against his wishes.
It’s not always the case , some women get raped.
@@ELLIOT8209 if u dont want a child as a man then why ejaculate inside of a woman? Dont lay the blame at 1 door when both are responsible! Both men and women should take contraceptives!!
@@ELLIOT8209 A condom and contraceptives could prevent all this debate. It's not a gender war, let's educate each other to do better that's all.
@@zharnedesember1910 why let a man ejaculate inside of you if you don't want a baby? Because you can always abort and he can always walk away from the baby. Same difference
This show is so informative and I love it.
This interview was an eye opener and so heart breaking , its really sad how some people would put money first and risk people's lives by performing illegal procedures
Abortion is indeed a medical issue.
The real issue here, is women having complete control over their body.
Aborting is the best decision I made.
why was it the best decision?
@@philly1076 I was not tied to an abusive pedophile. I could leave a toxic work environment, go back to school in a different province(away from abusive relatives), focus on school, get my desired qualification, get my dream job, country-hop & build wealth.
@@LM-he7eb fair enough, xx
This got me so emotional 😭😭Lebo is a strong girl.
This show is so informative 🥺
Thank you so much for creating this platform sis Lebo❤️
that traumatic day 4 years ago ,just came back folding like it happened yesterday .i need help
I'm so sorry honey
Talk about it dear, write about it. Trauma needs release, otherwise it stays in your body and continues to inflict on you. I hope you find healing and light❤
Something to ponder on as we all watch this video.
We are very good lawyers for our own mistakes, and very good judges for the mistakes of others.
Let he who is without sin, cast the first stone.
Dont judge people because they sin differently from you.
That's all.
As a society we need, we have to change and unpack sex, Abortion/termination for the sake of our Children cause the more we do not talk about such it will lead our girl child to take a wrong route of such situations. The Society mindset needs to be changed, in every angle.
We need family like Lebo's in our society,thank's mom for supporting her.
Lebogang I pray for your healing you were so young and I hope you are getting counseling even now
Thank you all for this conversation.🙏❤
I miss the days when life was sacred. Now personal choice trumps the sanctity of life and people now make excuses to support sin. The strong victimising the weak. Quite heartbreaking. And the saddest part is it's never a happy ending for both mom and baby.
The Judgement in the comments is sickening, at times I wish the comments under these videos could be turned off.
Honestly!
No hun these comments are a reflection of South Africans, they are actually proof that everything these women are saying is true , people are sick !
@@nonkuanimated3328 I agree with you. It’s better to see a true reflection of the problem that we have as humans and the comments we make hence people are unable to come forth when they have issues.
@@ThlologeloPromiseRampa exactly we need to see it for what it is
It's appauling that people voicing their opinions is "sickening" but the act of a woman voluntarily paying someone to kill their own child is not "sickening" to you. The bible did say in the last days people will call good evil and call evil good. We're living it. Repent for your sins & turn to Christ
"I'm proud of you" 🙌🙌🙌🧡😭
Oooooh so sorry that happened, the baby wasn’t yours, only to teach you the power of unconditional love and your emotions say it all, hope you heal
This is why parents need to stop making sex a taboo topic. If she had been educated about contraception, pregnancy, abortion, adoption -- none of this would have probably happened
The stigma stems from religion ... The arguements are rooted in the doctrines of religion and 'God' and morals according to our religious beliefs.
We must start Looking at it from various lenses... mental stability, fincancial stability, emotional support from People around us, how a woman gets pregnant.
A Child is lifetime commitment.
This is so sad 😭😭😭😭😭 Thank u Soo much for sharing ur story Lebo .....it has made me realize staff I nvr knew and also this is like my second home now .....the content ,this is such an amazing show ❤️
Argh I’m so sorry you went through that. May you heal from the trauma❤️
Today I'm early 🙏😭Dis show is everything
The law and constitution prohibits schools from discriminating against pregnant girls and preventing them their right to education. Lebo's school was going against the law.
Women go thru so much. That nurse definitely did not have to be mean during such a sad moment.
That's no ones business but your own. Your body, your rules
The child's body is not yours to kill. That's why you force men to support in case you keep it.
A baby's body is separate from the woman's body. I hope people understand that simple fact. So it's not the woman's choice
@@nothandomyeni4449 they give these killers too much power and excuses. Maybe the babies will rise from the dead and speak for themselves
@@nothandomyeni4449 So if you were sexually assaulted/raped, you would opt to keep the child because "it's their body and the baby must make a choice whether they want to stay or go"??? Your reasoning does not make sense at all. Hence there's laws whereby minors can't make their own choices and should have parental guidance who decide what's best for the child. It is the same with abortion, the mother has every right to decide what to do.
I won't throw any stones but... Everyone has a right to live. We are becoming an amoral society. These innocent souls are defenseless.
May God help us...
Oh my God, I love Relebogile ❤️
Relebogile just said "when it comes to life and death it shouldn't be about personal views, it should be about duty" I know she was talking about saving Lebo's baby's life but then it also means according to her words that she doesn't respect the rights of medical workers to refuse their services when it comes to termination becauseof their personal beliefs. When it comes to ending a life all that matters according to her logic is performing duty.
The object is an amniotic hook. It is normally used in women in labour to break the waters
Rights goes hand in hand responsibilities, instead of us teaching the young ones that it’s their right to abort let’s teach them safe sex and avoid killing
Thembelihle for president 😊
Abortion is not killing
Termination not killing
@@tebogomaupa_ it is Killing. Accept it
@@katlegomashiloane7921 it is Killing. Words won't change the nature of the act
Lebo May you find total restoration from God. God didn’t want you to part with your son at the moment you expected having known how it was going to affect you. He gave you extra time with him. You met him, you named him, held him and buried him. Be comforted in the knowledge that you will meet him again in heaven.
I speak as a mother who lost her first baby 6 days after she had to be delivered at 6 months due to higher blood pressure in pregnancy and lost my third born who was born at 35 weeks due to a placenta abruptio . He was recovering in NICU but left on the 15th day of his life. For me to have had those few days with my babies came as a blessing as I know Satan meant to hurt me or drive me into depression by killing my kids but God was ahead of him.
What took your son is called Sudden Infant Death Syndrome. It’s unknown what causes it. You are not to be blamed. Do not doubt yourself as a mother ever. Love and peace to you.
Please don't normalise this in any way. God had nothing to do with this. He gave us free will for a reason to have freedom of choice. However every decision has a consequence. The Lord gave us humans a conscience for this very reason. You know what's right & this certainly isn't.
I did not normalise abortion. Her son survived abortion but died from SIDS and this hurt her very much.
Tjo this show is the best🤞🏿🤞🏿🥺🥺🥺
This episode was very much needed
Sometimes it's a rape situation, but some people are just not responsible at all.... it's a sad reality!
Your family is a blessing dali.
Communication is the key that open many doors.
Families and friend's need to dialogue be open speak the truth, and share experiences, to hopefully prevent negative scenarios.
🙏🏾🦋🙏🏾🦋🙏🏾🦋🙏🏾🦋🙏🏾🦋🙏🏾🦋🙏🏾🦋🙏🏾🦋
My favorite girl Gao
Thank you for this informative show
I am in health i don't have perform termination of pregnancy but i can't stop someone to go ahead for termination but will ensure person get perform legal and professional and do best support psychological
Yes
abortion is a moral issue first then becomes medical when someone decides to have an abortion
I would like to her the story from the woman who was performing the illegal abortion for Lebo ,just so we know are this ppl affected by this procedures they perform .Like are they affected psychologically?
I always hear this saying careful what you wish for. Hearing this story is sad ☹️
Much respect for Lebo
When does this show play on SABC?
Daily at 17:00 CAT on SABC3
Lebogang please be okay .you are crying internally and stop blaming yourself
Abortion is not a form of contraception.
Abortion can lead to serious mental health issues.
Can cause infertility.
Please use contraception so many types out there.
Some women have even thought of suicide post abortion.
Please use available contraception far safer emotional, mentally, physically well being.
As a health practitioner there are alot of concerns in Thato's story
I am just wondering why Lebo got censored when she said vagina? Is it a vulgar word?
Was wondering too
RUclips rules
We should not be judgemental as a people, situations do happen in life and people have to do what they have to do. It's sad but sometimes women have no other choice but to terminate the pregnancy.
Shame Lebo really went through a lot at a young age. And worse she had to take care of a premature child while she's still a baby herself. ...I wonder where was the father of the Baby, one day we should have a conversation about how abortion affects the father. ..... That nurse is pure evil, there's no excuse for such cruelty.
Why she sleep with a man without condom rather going to that such a pain....andimveli buhlungu bkoz is not the boy friend ddnt say he dont need a babe it was her own CHOICE
@@dipoleloshirley4407 Making poor life choices doesn't make you immune to pain or ill-treatment. So according to you because she had unprotected sex means she deserves the ill treatment she got? You sound like those people when a woman says they were raped you ask them what were they wearing or what time was it ? If they were walking at night then you say they deserved it why were they walking at night they got what they deserved. I wonder where we would be if we all got such cruelty for wrong choices we made in life....
@@dipoleloshirley4407 If you were as smart as you claim to be, you would have realised that not all aspects of Lebo's story were explored in the interview, including the part about the father of the child (it could have been her choice & rightfully so)......but then, you are not smart & you could not wait to judge. We all make mistakes, even you. For you it might not be in this area of life but there is a part of your life were you made & are still making foolish choices. Let that sink
I am so sorry for what you went through
Love and light to you Lebo❤
I personally think the object was a BALLON CATHETER for induction of labour 🤔 . Thank you so much guys for sharing your stories this could save more lives🥰
I feel so ashamed now watching this. There are young women that ive met through school that went through abortions that i feel ive judged, maybe not verbally but still. Ive allowed people to speak ill of them to me nd i said nothing. i am so sorry
Lebo🥺❤❤❤ strength to you sis
Relo where do u buy your wardrobe plis help
Abortion is a moral issue not a medical necessity since you're taking the life of an innocent human being. The main reason for having an abortion is that the child is the inconvenient outcome of irresponsible sex.
So if you are to "give birth" at 3 weeks you'll have a baby?????
Lebo 💔
Love and Light to you sis ❤️
Sorry for your loss thou 😭
Rele man😍✊🏽
Ladies plz as a Christian it doesn't matter if it's fetus it's a human in the future don't have sex at all may God forgive you here I have a frnd who wish she can have a baby she has tried everything but now we just trust God for a miracle this is so sad my neighbour who is also a nurse at a hospital she worked with abortion and oneday day she couldn't do it anymore she collapsed and left her job she had to go for counseling plz ladies use something plz
ABORTION THIS YEAR ALONE. 19 MILLION.PLUS. N STIL COUNTING..
JUS COZ IT LEGAL DONT MAKE IT RIGHT.. ALL LIFE IS PRECIOUS.
Ask Christ for forgiveness if you're suffering form abortion guilt and he will free you. Don't relabel evil as good to cope with what you've done. Pro abortion women are lost and need prayer. Unborn children deserve protection too.
Thank you for standing in the truth that is the word of God. Thanks sister
Yooooooo Lebo :(
So painful. I am so sorry.
Deep stuff
Learnt a lot here yho
I can relate to your story cc
Is she regretting????
There is nothing to applaud here,what kind of a mother allows her 16 year old to have an abortion at 6 months? This is going too far. She could have died. They lived in Linden, they could have found a family to adopt the child.
I thought you were going to say what kind of a mother who allows her child to have an abortion period.
Your body your rules? who told you you that this is your body to begin with, where did you get it from?
whose body is it?
@@hulanimukhavhuli3088 It's the baby's body that is killed during abortion not the mother.
@@nothandomyeni4449 I wonder what your IQ score but it is probably below normal.
My heart 💔
😭😭😭😭😢
The Host said "We should have a duty to one another".
Me in my mind: where is the duty to the baby when you call it a foetus and scream "my body my choice"?
How strange, I was reading your comment at the very same time when she said those words
@@russelnkuna1127 they are hypocrites who only serve their gender.
You gave birth on my birth date 13 may......❤️
IF WOMEN ARE NOT SHAMED OF HAVING ABORTIONS. WHY ARE MEN SHAMED FOR NOT WANTING TO RAISE THEIR KIDS...
BOTH GENDERS ARE ABANDONING THEIR RESPONSIBILITIES.
Are men ever shamed for not wanting to raise kids? Because from the looks of it, men are allowed to neglect their responsibilities at any given time. Look at the high # of single mothers who get no financial support from the child's father...
@@92Kandee what? Women have the right to abort but men are forced to financially support a child. What are you talking about? They garnish men's salaries for babies men didn't want yet women have a right to kill babies they don't want.
@@ELLIOT8209 how often does that really happen? I know countless women who were abandoned by the father of their children, when they were pregnant. The men assumed NO responsibility whatsoever & those women kept their children & raised them SINGLEHANDEDLY - without asking for a cent from the father's.
Men are hardly shamed for abandoning their pregnant girlfriend's; & even so, the shaming is a recent thing. With this generation of women who refuse to accept societies double standards.
@@92Kandee you just ignored my point about abortion being legal and men being legally forced to support kids they don't want. Those are the double standards. Not your anecdotal views
@@ELLIOT8209 is life ever just black and white? Believe what you want & I'll do the same; you obviously have your own narrative
At 6 months yoh!?😨
Lebo i.m sorry this is so sad 🥰🥰
What's the name of the organization the lady on the chair is part of?
Abortion SA twitter.com/abortionsa