Years ago I had the good fortune to get a consult with a really good surgeon who did subtle, elegant work. I was unhappy with my bulbous tip and big nostrils. He said no, don’t do it, because the skin on my nose is thick and would never “drape well” with that kind of work. So I never had surgery and decided, like Jodie Foster did, that I’d rather be the girl with the bad nose than the girl with the bad nose job.
I have heard of this issue with the skin before. A friend was told she could not have Jaclyn Smith's nose because she didn't have her skin. That was good advice, even though it didn't make her happy at first.
My nose isn't amazing (bump, bulbous tip) and have considered a nose job, but personally hearing about the high complication rates and need for revisions as well as the cost and recovery time I would never forgive myself if I paid thousands to have a mediocre result, so I don't think I'll go for it. I'd also hate if I ended up with an objectively 'better' nose but felt it didn't fit me/my face.
I have the same complaints as OP. I also have thicker skin. While I haven't had a consult, I'm guessing I might have the same issue. I'll just have to get over it. Though I'm not fond of my nose, I only see it when I look in a mirror or another reflective surface. So really, it's everyone else's problem that has to look at me all day.
They aren't happy because the problem ISN'T really the body part it's their unrealistic expectations. They think it will make them perpetually "happy" and "change their lives". But as my father used to say "wherever you go, there you are" - your problems will still be there.
The "as long as it makes them happy who am I to judge?" are the biggest enablers too. It clearly doesn't make them happy because they keep going back for more.
It was very common in the 70s/80s for Jewish girls to get a nose job as a "birthday present" when they turned 16 or 18. It's not just social media, social conditioning runs deep.
A lot of the Jewish girls I went to school with in the 2000’s got their noses done at 16 as well. I’m sure that is still a common practice even now. I totally agree with you. This has been going on since before social media
I don't recommend nose jobs. My nose looks great now, but here's why I would have never done it. I had a nose job at 23. It collapsed and shrank within 6 months. Couldn't breathe. Had sinus infections. Then, the revisions failed due to cadaver rib resorption each time and my own ear was not structurally strong enough. 5 surgeries later my own rib grafts took well. My nose is not an obvious nose job anymore (looks great - thank you to a top revision surgeon), but I know it's held together with grafts so I'm careful with Red Light Therapy which can shrink scar tissue. I'm wary around dogs and little kids that might knock my nose. That whole ordeal cost me $100k start to finish. It cost me my 20's and if I'm honest, my marriage too. I'm 41 now and only a few people know the trauma all that caused me.
Thanks for this. Honestly the fact the nose is a very 'functional' part of the face puts me off. If surgery doesn't go to plan, collapse and breathing issues don't sound great.
BOTCHED is a very important public service. That show is great for leveling your expectations and showing all of the potential bad results that can happen.
@@clownbag the amount of money needed to tweak your face when many of us grow into it is enough to make a huge impact in debt or actually get a down payment on a house. I was looking at the average yearly cost for fillers…in two years you’d have between 14-20k. That can help with schooling even.
You know the thing I love about Botched (from what we're shown), the surgeons will not do unnecessary work at any cost. I feel like there's alot of surgeons could learn from this.
I used to think my nose was too big and I considered getting work done. I got this nose from my dad. Ever since he passed away, I've felt like I want to keep it exactly the way it is. Perspectives can change a lot over time and with new circumstances.
Very good point. In a similar fashion I have been helped with the aging process as I am old now and I rather like looking in the mirror and seeing my beloved grandmother once more.
Same. It's a family nose on my dad's side. My grandpa worked in entertainment and had it done, my aunt had it done. Made me hate it even more, but now I accepted it and see it as continuing a fun family quirk, rather than having a cookie cutter nose like thousands of other women
In Switzerland we have the idea of "following ones nose" in the sense of following ones own path and being able to judge situations correctly. If you change your unique to you nose, you might loose your sense of direction. metaphorically speaking.
I love that! In dutch we have the saying "looking further than the length of your nose" when (for example) decisions are too easliy made without consideration. Also a accurate methapor :)
I think this is perhaps your best video yet. I also loved Steph"s video too. Some mean friend made a comment about my nose being big when I was a teenager in front of a group of guys. The insecurity it caused me was soul destroying. I ended up working in reception for a plastic surgeon in my 20's and asked him to do a rhinoplasty. He looked at me and said I was crazy because people paid to have noses like mine and he refused. Today I look back and realise how just one person can purposely try to ruin your self esteem. I love my natural nose!
It's amazing how one comment like that will stick with someone and affect them so deeply. A friend done something similar to me. I had a consult at 19 but my parents wouldn't allow it, thankfully 😊.
Same here!! She did purposely to me any chance given. She’d brag about her little button nose. I suppose that’s why when we hit our mid-to-late teens, she tried for my leftovers. Can’t imagine why…..
There are people who can't visualize what a new carpet or wallpaper will do to a room , never mind what a new nose will look like , they build up this issue in their minds and then when it doesn't meet their nebulous imagining of what they wanted they are never going to be happy.
Yes, that's true. And the nose can really change your whole appearance. We all know what happened to Jennifer Grey after her nose operation. Her new nose is pretty and suits her, no doubt, however she turned out to look completely different, like a different person. You really need to think about all of these consequences and understand that you might not recognize yourself in the mirror afterwards ;-)
What I realize now is that I love my nose. It looks like my dad's nose, just smaller. It ties me to my sisters. I also see my mom in my face. My dad is gone, and my mom's not doing well. I would be heartbroken to not have that reminder of them every time I look in the mirror.
I know what you are talking about. Same here: my eyes = mother, grandmother and grandgrandmother. Ears and teeth = my grandfather. The whole mouth and chin area = my father. My nose came from none of them all and ask my granny. She told me, that my nose is like her fathers. So I have got my grandgrandfathers nose. I love my nose! Now I am 63 and they are all dead and all what is left is still in my face. I can see all my familymembers when I look into a mirror.❤
We also spend way too much time using cell phones to take pics. My nose looks way bigger in cell pics. But it is because our noses are the closest thing to the lens and of the way cells take pics. Take pics from different types of cameras before just assuming it's too big, it may be just perfect 👌
If I’d seen your comment I wouldn’t have posted basically the same thing. I think growing up in the 90’s with real cameras and photographic prints made it easier for me to see the distortion caused by cellphone cameras.
I completely agree I look great in old photos and my face and nose looks terrible now in the new cameras and I look terrible on zoom too. It's painful lol
I used to really dislike my nose when I was younger and it looked quite large on my face. Now that I'm a full adult, it's still slightly on the large side but it's definitely become a lot more proportionate. People actually compliment my nose now and I'm glad I didnt decide to do anything to it based on what I saw in the media
Same with me. I wanted a nose job in my teens and 20's then in my 30's I discovered contour and now in my 40's I barely even contour it. My face has definitely rounded out more with age and weight and it fits my face well. Even when I don't have makeup on ppl have commented on my nose. It was all in my head, I'm glad i didn't do anything crazy.
That's why lm glad l did not have social media or access to surgeons growing up. I've naturally filled out and my body is just fine. Growing up today, l would have gotten a BBL 😢. Honestly, my nose is a bit big, but l think my face would look empty if it were made smaller 😂. All is well as it is.
I have a nice big Polynesian nose. All my family has it. It suits our very large faces. I've seen so many ethnic noses snipped. It's so sad. Enjoy your uniqueness people.
I feel very insecure about my mixed African-Native American nose. It's so wide and the bridge is wide enough for a car to go through it. It's a nice cindy button nose on the side, but a super wide bridge on the front. If I could, I would have plastic surgery, but I'm scared of the complications that come with it. I wonder where did my insecurities come from.
@@drgarylinkovI'd be very interested in a video about the physiological aspects of these kinds of procedures. E.g. if a patient is very dissatisfied which leads to psychological issues or even performing a procedure on someone with psychological conditions before.
@@drgarylinkovtrue!! I just had surgery 2 years ago, nose job, ear pinned and Blepharoplasty. They were all bad, and was in so much depression, don’t take pictures anymore and wasn’t going out unless it was just my immediate family. Now, I’m finally overcoming the sadness, and go out with friends but don’t like taking pictures, as I don’t like that I look different
I have this natural small nose that I always wished was a bit longer, so my nostrils wouldn't be as visible. My mom envies my nose, and to me, it's wild that so many people like this kind of nose.😂
I have a button nose that is now considered“in fashion”, but I’ve always wanted a more defined Romanesque nose. I personally like the look of prominent noses. Everyone is starting to look the same, it’s frightening.
@@misscleo378 My nose kinda looks like Grace Kelly's kinda small and nothing really dynamic or interesting, just soft, small, straight. I like it just fine, but I love a Roman nose! My husband has one and I think it's a nice attractive feature. One of our daughters has his nose and I think she's beautiful.
I think of Jennifer Grey so often (“Baby” in Dirty Dancing). Her nose job after DD essentially destroyed her career, and she has spoke openly about this for decades. When she would go on auditions and such, no one fucking recognized her as Jennifer Grey. That one tiny surgery completely altered her appearance. She’s still beautiful, but her natural nose had such character and her face was positively charming.
She looks better but SO DIFFERENT. Think about the nose job Cher had which really made her look a lot better, but didn't change her appearance so much.
Nose jobs can make people look virtually unrecognisable which was her case. But it happens to a lot of people and it’s one of the problems with nose jobs. They have to be very subtle and natural of anything because one step too far and the person doesn’t look like themselves anymore
Once I learned how to contour, my desire to get my nose done has disappeared. I get to shape my nose almost exactly how I want it and if there’s a mistake, I can go back
I had rhinoplasty when I was 16. I chose a local surgeon because it was cheaper, and my parents covered the cost. I was eager to fix my crooked, long nose as soon as possible. During surgery, the anesthesia didn’t work as expected, and I woke up later than anticipated. The healing process was tough-my face was extremely puffy, and I had bruises all around my eyes. It was horrible. The summer heat only made the swelling worse. Removing the silicone tampons was the most excruciating pain I’ve ever experienced. I nearly fainted and blacked out. Although I’m okay now, I didn’t get the results I had hoped for. The surgeon removed too much cartilage from my bridge and didn’t reduce the tip projection, making my nose look disproportionate and unnatural. Now, I’m faced with the decision to undergo a revision surgery, risking the same painful ordeal, or learning to live with it as it is. Also, let’s not forget that a revision costs almost twice as much as a primary rhinoplasty.
man when i was a teenager, my nose looked GIGANTIC on me, i dont know why but it just doesnt anymore. i still have an ethnic middle eastern nose but...id never touch it now, my face sorta grew into it 🤷🏻♀️i wish younger girls were aware of this....
I got a strong nose from my Iranian grandfather. Used to get lots of trash for it and sometimes I feel insecure about it, but I am slowly beginning to appreciate it more.
I have a middle eastern nose too. I always hated it. However, I realized that beauty standards always change. Back in the day big noses showed status. Thin lips were a thing too. All these beauty standards we have now will change again.
I have an Italian nose and I also think it looks better now than in my teenage years and there's several reasons for that. My jawline continued to develop until I was about 17, so the nose looks more balanced. I also stopped dragging my hair on top of the sides of my face to make it appear thinner, so now there's more space on my face for the nose. And the most important thing was changing my glasses: almost all glasses make my nose way worse, some have a neutral effect, but I actually managed to find a pair that makes it look less long and tall
I knooow, I used to think her nose was really pretty and didn't even realize people had issues with it :,o She has a small and sharp jaw and I think it looks very elegant with that
In the late 50s, my mother was in a car crash where she went through the windshield. No seatbelts at the time, no safety glass either. She was mangled, and people would turn and stare at her. She had reconstructive plastic surgery and boy was she a success story! The surgeon did such a great job, she only had one faint scar from her eyebrow to her hairline. She gave her permission for him to publish her photos as before and after. My mother had extremely fair skin. She stayed out of the sun. We ate home made food, much of it grown ourselves. Plus having this plastic surgery at 35 yrs old, she was extremely well preserved. She died at age 96. Looking at her photos in her advanced old age, you would think she was in her 50's. We were in a small northern city. Goes to show you that there are amazing surgeons out there, even in time frames and places you wouldn't expect. As a side note - she was getting glass slivers out of her forehead for decades afterwards. She could feel them migrating under the skin, and when they would get to a curve on her face, they would edge out.
That's fascinating, I'm pleased to hear your mother had such great results and thrived after the accident/subsequent surgery. I'd love to see the results of the surgery if you have pictures, but understand if not
@@biancargh No, I don't have photos, and my mother never showed me any. I doubt she ever had any. My mother never cared about photos, so I don't think she would even have asked for copies.
I had migration of sand and gravel bits through my facial skin into my 40s. My accident and reconstruction was when I was 12 ears old. It can be a long process.
I got my nose done back in the 90s and I’m very happy with the results. I requested that he keep it in symmetry with my face (and body), and he did. My doctor understood the assignment. 👏 ♥️👃♥️
THANK YOU!! Yes Got mine at 18 from a plastic surgeon who made it to fit my face, not a cookie cutter Michael Jackson nose job that was popular for a time.
We will have to see that to see if it’s true 😂 some people say their nose look great but it really doesn’t 🤡 it looks unnatural in most cases or piggy 🐷 🐽
@@SwanTheQueen imo u have to have really horrible nose to be even close to worth it. Its expensive - there is often problems - from reading comments its about 100k at the end of the all corrections propably if u would go to the best ones aka the holywood ones it would cost even more like 200k. Its often have problems - collapses, u cant breathe etc. Its very often look bad and if doesnt look bad it often looks worse and if not it still will look unnatural because it is. If u have 100k to spent as a woman buy good boobs job in proper not too big size it almost always looks better, as a man buy hair transplant if u have bad hair or just buy good car it will also make u better lmao - women dont really care about those things but still u will enjoy new mercedes. Also if u want better look fix ur eyes with laser and then u can not use glasses or u can buy different glasses that looks good for not crazy price like the correction ones. Or just accept u dont have perfect genes and just live with it, also u can just buy good clothes and perfume maybe hairstyle and pomade they also always will make u look better - because u can test if u look/smell good.
I’m so hung up on that doctor that was pressing on that nose so hard. After I got my rhinoplasty my doctor was adamant about not touching my nose at all!!!
@@kathleenkumiega1092 You didn't add anything of value to the discussion. We know that some people are happy with their nose jobs. It is not the point.
I may be late to the party but I thought I was tripping out when the audio kept cutting in & out. Especially when you were talking. I kept raising my volume til I startled myself when the audio continued on 😅 The video was great informatively! Maybe to save from copyright of music when reviewing, add some closed captions please! Definitely don’t want to miss out on what’s being shared
Our features are what makes us unique. Uniqueness is what is missing in today's appearance. I don't have the "perfect" nose but I also don't want to ruin my proportions by changing the size or shape if my nose
Yes! I did portrait art at festivals for years, and people would ask me to modify their faces. :( I would tell them, though, that features like their nose, laugh lines, or even the creases under their eyes were actually the features that make them unique and wonderful. It’s what animates the face - before those details are added, they look unfinished. After, they look joyful. ❤
I was botched at 43. Had 2 reconstructive surgeries and had cadaver rib and my ear cartilage added for structure. I'm lucky I had the money for the revisions with a better surgeon. Happy to provide photos for the channel if you want to show the realities of being botched/corrected.
@@blueseptember2174the reality is that a lot of people who get surgery done are either 1) rich, 2) go into heavy credit card debt, or 3) go to places like Turkey or Korea for cheap surgery.
When you mentioned the filler in the nose my interest was piqued, but the moment you used “necrosis” and “nose” in the same sentence I immediately thought hell no. I’ll live with my nose. No way I’d risk that for something cosmetic.
@@MaxOaklanddepends on where it’s placed. The nose and under eyes are dangerous to inject but elsewhere is fine with an experienced injector. And “maintenance” isn’t always necessary. I’ve had my lips (once) and cheeks filled (twice) almost two years ago and haven’t had the urge to go back again or to get it fixed
Just don't... IS NOT WORTH IT!!! Hurts like HELL!! Like it really hurts, pain made me think surgery would have been better idea as you can't do meds with HA... The swelling! Also you'll be sweating filler like for weeks!! Not gonna lie, it boosted my confidence AF, but it only lasted until pain subsided which took about a month or two!!... Which made me realize everything is on your mind... Confidence starts from whitin because I started feeling ugly once it stopped hurting lol! Even tho in photos looked nice... FIVE MONTHS AFTER my nose has gone back to it's original shape... and comparing all of my pictures... there wasn't a really big change, my nose only looked perfect like for the first two hours. So I don't recommend getting nose fillers at all!! After spending that much money on my nose fillers I learnt why many gurls get addicted to surgery! Pain is a reminder that "you are pretty as you had X done" so yeah beauty starts from whitin, is everything in your head, Confidence you need is in yourself... I mean my nose looked swollen AF but I felt goddess like... and when my nose started to look fine I wasn't feeling it, because it didn't hurted anymore which made me think fillers faded and I was back to normal
@@MaxOaklandI mean, all these procedures are artificial. What's rather mindboggling to me is rather that people think you can do it without consequences. Unless it causes health issues or extreme ( and by that I mean extreme) self image issues, I think our body parts look better the way nature meant them to be
As a visual person, I think the source of disappointed patient outcomes isn't merely unrealistic expectations. Met someone with aphantasia and realized people have varying degrees of visual imagery ability and most, not that strong. A lot of people genuinely can't mentally create a picture of themselves with even a small change to appearance, and don't even realize it. Suddenly the outcome hits them in the face, literally.
You are so right. I am definitly more a earing person, I dont have aphantasia but the details visually dont last long, not like the auditory features I cam distinctly remember. I definitly can not imagine me with an other nose (and I am glad I dont want to change it so it is not a problem).
I love how you started the video as 'Let's react to Stephanie's video'. I knew exactly who you were talking about because I've already seen her video. I'd love it if you two did a video together!
I had a nose job around 22 years old. I had a big bump I hated. All I wanted was the bump shaved off. The surgeon wanted to do some other adjustment to it that he thought would make it even better but I told him no I just wanted the bump shaved down. I love my nose ! I still don’t think it’s perfect. I do think it’s a little thinner than I would like but he did what I asked. Shaved the bump down and it looks 100 times better. I’m happy. I def don’t feel self conscious about it anymore
Thank Christ you stood your ground. I've heard too many stories where patients underwent more or different procedures than they originally asked for and ended up hating it...
I had a rhinoplasty a few years ago and don’t regret it one bit, it was something that I knew I always wanted to do. However, my happiness with it mainly came down to the surgeon. He made moderate changes to my nose that complimented my face more but still looked very natural. In the consultation he was very straightforward about the changes he thought would be best and our visions aligned. I went to other consultations as well before choosing him and those surgeons were less clear and transparent and left me feeling uneasy. If I had went with one of them, I may have easily regretted it. For anyone considering a rhinoplasty, I recommend only moving forward with it if you find a surgeon with a strong portfolio that really takes the time to explain their vision and thoroughly maps out the process to you. And if you’re not 100% certain, definitely don’t rush into it.
@@colalight4888whether he knows or doesn’t it wasn’t expressed in the video. Many people including surgeons think that the on the table aesthetic presented in Turkey is the “finished look” it is not.
@@LorryHillhes a doctor, he very likely knows that the tip drops, hes pointing out how some people want this type of nose (as unachievable as it is). This is a patronizing and unnecessary comment 🤦♀️
She might've just been addressing to the people watching the video, ofc he'd know that the tip drops, but since it wasn't addressed in the video she probably just said it to the viewers for more information
I had a nose job when I was 17 because I had an European nose ( my father is Swiss) and I lived in Brazil and didn’t fit the standard. Looking back I had a great nose that didn’t needed anything done to it. Fast forward, the nose job didn’t go so well and nowadays I need to add filler to the tip of my nose to keep it straight with the rest, a think that I never had before the surgery. My honest opinion is; wait until your frontal lobe is fully developed before doing something so permanent to your face.
@@martafiord But she mentioned her father is from Switzerland explicitly, then said her European nose wouldn't match the Brasilian beauty standard. So I don't think she was referring to an eastern European beauty standard.
Am I the only one who really liked Ashlee Simpson's original nose? It gave her character and she was already beautiful. She had a look and her hair was matching well with her face as well. Then, she had the nose job and well, she looked like just another Hollywood blonde.
Love her new nose, but zero respect or inspiration for her as a singer or “artist”. She s wack, not a talent, but re:nose-I get it-, she looks gorgeous. Now she can revel as a mom and a nepo baby-baby momma wife, but there’s a reason why she isnt and hasnt been a popular vocalist. Her AD house tour was cute, a nepo baby-baby momma wife, for that -Im here for. But dazzit.
I was fixated on getting a nose job and finally did when I was in college. The plastic surgeon got it approved by insurance in the common way: identify it as a deviated septum. I ended up with only a slightly improved nose. Not the nose of dreams, BUT he really did fix the functionality of my nose. Haven’t had a stuffy nose since, so win I guess?
I had a ginormous dorsal hump on my nose. I really disliked it because it felt like it blocked my face and was too masculine. I underwent an open rhinoplasty when I was 20. I paid for it myself and I did it for myself, it was the best decision I had ever made at that time. My doctor was wonderful and gave me a very natural look, which is I wanted. Bump gone and not obvious that I had the procedure. I’m 34 now, and still so happy with my nose. Personally not interested in another plastic surgery or augmentation but would never say never.
Same! Got my nose done at 25 (30 now) and it was literally one of the best choices I’ve ever made. Never regretted it for a second. Made my life sooo much better. I don’t even have a “perfect” nose now but it looks nice and natural. So while people need to be very careful with surgery, it can also be amazing. Never, ever rush into it though and research research research.
I think that before someone goes to a plastic surgeon, the person should look for a therapist/psychologist to find out if they truly want to get whatever changes they want done.
These videos are always highly entertaining and informative, especially the part when receding chin/jawline was discussed. So true, as I can testify to from personal experience. I used to have a mildly recessive, small chin paired with what I considered to be a slightly prominent nose with some tip bulbosity, but I saw an maxillofacial/oral surgeon a year ago to get evaluated. After a few consultations with the surgeon along with extensive research and my medical background, I made the decision to get a 3mm horizontal, 1mm vertical advancement sliding genioplasty (SG) to give my chin more prominence and be in better harmony with the rest of my facial features. I knew that the SG procedure was more involved than getting a chin implant, but I didn't want the risks of bone resorption underneath the implant eroding into my teeth roots, potential shifting, infection or a submental scar. A week after surgery when the majority of my chin swelling subsided and I saw the result, I was ELATED! My facial features looked harmonious and balanced, but my nose looked much smaller, even though it was only my chin that had been moved. It's amazing how a few millimeters can make such a big difference, but then again, a millimeter is like a mile on the face. Another bonus of the surgery was improved athletic performance because even though it was a small advancement, it opened up my airway more. Although my nose still isn't perfect and I've considered rhinoplasty, I've decided to live with it as it is since I would rather be able to go biking, dancing or running and getting that "runner's high" than risk having a smaller, cuter, but less functional nose to breathe out of.
Hey, could you maybe share a bit about your recovery after surgery? Like how long it took and how painful it was? When were you able to eat normally again?
@@diesuperhenne4851 The pain was pretty mild waking up from surgery, probably felt like a 3 or 4 on the pain scale, however, there was a sharp painful sensation underneath my tongue if I tried to stick it out. The pain was easily managed alternating between 400mg ibuprofen and 500mg acetaminophen every 4-6 hours and although I was prescribed oxycodone, my body had no response to it. The highest level of pain I felt was between a 5 or 6 whenever the ibu or asa was wearing off. Sleeping upright was also a must to prevent excess swelling and potential hematoma formation. My chin was taped for 3 days post-op until my follow up appt. my surgeon removed it since there really wasn't a lot of bruising. My lower lip was completely numb to sensations of pain or touch for the first day which made drinking smoothies a bit challenging, but the sense of touch came back into my lips the next day. I had nothing but high protein smoothies for the first 5 days post-op and started incorporating soft foods such as scrambled eggs or overnight oats after that. Gently brushing and flossing the teeth near the incision site and using a prescription mouthwash was recommended after every meal in addition to occassionally using a salt and baking soda solution to swish around to help with wound healing. After about a week, the majority of my swelling had gone down enough to go out in public without anyone noticing, except some minor swelling under the lips made my smile a little lopsided for about a month post-op. After being returning to work after 2 weeks, most people couldn't tell that I'd had anything done or couldn't pinpoint what was different about my face.
When you have dysphoria and you get surgery, those neural pathways still exist. Depression post surgery, as well as the long process of reduction of swelling just results in the same. That wee lass saying if only she loved the nose she was given, the same applies to the nose the surgeon gave her oop
I went to get a nose job consultation when I was 22. The surgeon himself was so modded that he looked terrifying, trying to sell me the idea that I NEEDED a nose job. He showed me that someone trying to sell you what’s beautiful is someone who will never see beauty
I have hated my nose ever since I was a teenager just for the fact that I have larger bump. But a little bit after I started dating my partner he randomly said that my nose is beautiful. I never mentioned before that it was my biggest insecurity that I always wanted to change so the compliment ended up being really meaningful. After that I have been more accepting of my nose as my hatred for it started to simply seem stupid - like for what reason did I start suddenly thinking that you need a straight nose to be pretty while countless stunning people prove that wrong :P I like my face I don't need to love my nose.
I was in love with a girl who had a classic Roman nose! She was stunning! Then she got a nose job and didn't look like herself at all!!! I hate nose jobs!!!
I spent my teen years wildly insecure about my nose, which is pretty similar to the barbie nose. My first bf broke up with me,citing my f'ed up nose as the reason. My insecurities were further compounded when my mom's friend compared it to a little ski slope for ants (like the girl in the video), or a chipmunk type nose. I begged my mom for a nose job and of course she said no. I grew out of the insecurity and actually get compliments on my nose a lot. Someone actually asked me if it was a rhinoplasty because it was "perfect". I still dont think its perfect, but I am glad that I became comfortable with it.
Sometimes I think about getting a nose job but then I realize I’m more scared of not liking my face after a surgery (something that I chose and paid for and is kinda “on me”) than I am of having some minor annoyance at it right now (that usually I can deal with pretty well.) The second reason I don’t think I could get a surgery is that I might give a potential future kid my nose. And if they don’t like their nose…then there’s no figuring that insecurity out for them bc “yeah well mom used to have it too and she got rid of it.”
I just got a septorhinoplasty at age 28. My mouth breathing was the primary concern that led me to considering a nose job, but the very subtle tweaks that my skilled surgeon made to my nose - no hump, less bulbous, slightly smaller & straighter - INFINITELY improved my confidence. It's not for everyone, but at the right age with the right surgeon and the means (I had quite a lot saved up and also financed the surgery with 0% interest for 12 months) - a rhinoplasty can absolutely be the right move.
Why could I only think of this scene from Clueless? "Ms. Stoeger, my plastic surgeon doesn't want me doing any activity where balls fly at my face..." "Well, there goes your social life."
I notice a number of newscasters have had their noses done that look too small for their faces. I often look back to see what they looked like b4 the procedure. The nose reflects character. I would much rather look like I have character than look like a barbie doll.
I went to see a nose specialist about 25 yrs ago - I'm now 51. He told me there is something that could be done. Sure there is always something that could be done. What I didn't realise was it wasn't my nose that was the problem, it was actually my recessive chin that made my profile not pretty... I am glad I listen to my gut instincts to not go ahead with the nose job. I've since filled my jaw and chin with 6mls and I'm super happy now, as my nose is actually perfect! 😍
I've come to really like your videos because you communicate your intention of informing people of their decisions rather than just make content to funnel clients. I love when a professional can give authentic advice, tips and opinions rather than just make people go away with their own ideas to avoid conflict or a sales flop.
Had mine done ten years ago, best decision I ever made for myself. My confidence boosted up to a full 100%, my bigger nose really made me insecure my whole life until i got the surgery.. Be thorough in choosing your doctor, always ask to see their work, and be very detailed speaking everything you’re wanting. The bridge width you want, how deep of a slope, if you want the tip smaller or turned up.. even if you’re just going to get your bump removed, they will mess with alllllll of that without even telling you. Don’t assume they’ll know what will look good for your face, most dont.
I regret messing with my nose. I was young and did not receive proper guidance. I chose a surgeon who had zero business operating on anyone's face. I got a revision years ago and i still hate it. I'll more than likely just live with hating it. I don't trust anyone to touch it again 🙄
I had a nose job at 21. It was a huge mistake. My nose was more crooked after the surgery than before. I was miserable, and couldn't breathe. So I saved up a ridiculous amount of money, and had it fixed.
@@FailedFlea93 Thank you. I really appreciate that comment. 😊 I never wanted to look unnatural. I just wanted a nose that fit my face. I'm 31 now and I love myself and wouldn't change a thing!
I kept seeing the video being suggested and didn’t watch it. Now that you’re giving your expertise, I’m all ears. Really enjoy your content and point of view.
I always like the collaborations between you and Stephanie. I always feel she has came such a long way for being just a makeup girl on RUclips. I don't know how the combo works but it does with you guys. Would love to one day see you guys do a video in the same room!
This is so important for young people to realize, we grow into our features. Even from 25-35 I feel like my face naturally got more “attractive” as I lost facial fat through the aging process. At 44 I still look young and I think it’s partially because I started with “strong” features that kind of hold up your face like scaffolding, I guess.
I wanted Boris Kodjoes nose when I got mine done, I thought he was so gorgeous. I’m so glad that surgeon was able to explain to me why that wasn’t a good idea…for me.
I'm not sure if it's just me but there are point where the audio goes in and out. Anyone else have this issue with this video? Otherwise love when you do react videos to Stephanie, Dr. L! Y'all should do a collab sometime!!
I was so embarrassed by my broad nose as a teen that I would never keep my face still when in conversation with anyone who was not a family member or close friend. By my thirties, I was relieved by the fact that I did not have a rhinoplasty, as I was just fine with it. Now age 64, I could not imagine a more perfect nose for my now plumpish face. I know of several people who have had the procedure done. Two have noses that were extremely abnormal and the noses dominated their whole appearance (one with an actual hook that curled under and almost touched her upper lip, the other's was so very long and narrow that others called her "Pinocchio.") In both cases, rhinoplasty improved their emotional well-being and gave them the courage to participate in healthy social interaction that they were unable to develop. Two others looked just fine - they had somewhat pronounced nasal bridges that were in sync with their faces. They were never happy, had later revisions in hope of looking like the super-models of their day, and today sport the dreaded ski slope effect.
I got my first Septoplasty/Rhinoplasty at 30 and again 20 years later because it was collapsing and my tip was twisting. Had to have a new nasal valve constructed, some other issues with breathing were corrected again, and I got a cadaver rib graft to fix the tip. The first nose job I was immediately happy with how it looked, but the revision surgery really created a lot of anxiety for me because the appearance had changed again, and initially I was very upset that it wasn’t straight enough and then it got a couple of small dents which I found out was really just the scaffolding of my nose being seen through my skin that was thinner than what the surgeon originally thought it was. If you have a decent nose, be thankful and just leave it because you don’t know what you’re going to feel until way later. I didn’t start appreciating his work until the year and a half mark and have finally found peace with it. I just hope it’s going to look ok as I get older and not have to be redone again because I probably won’t be able to afford it. Thank goodness $25,000 was covered by my insurance with my cosmetic portion being $7,000. I still have a larger nose and I think that’s why no one has really noticed anything. I’m glad that my doctor made me look like myself and my nose actually now looks like my daughter’s and maybe would’ve been close to what I had if I hadn’t damaged it so badly. My nostrils were not perfectly similar which the first several months made me obsess about but then, I looked at my face and appreciated the asymmetry that was already there and like I mentioned, it seemed to slowly improve over the first year and a half.
I'm glad you found peace. I'm 28, got my nose done this year and unfortunately my nasal valve on the left side immediately collapsed. Will have to get revision to correct it. It has deeply impacted my mental health and well being due to the uncertainty of the revision going well and being able to breathe again. I'm happy with the cosmetic result but if I could go back in time, I would. It's a situation that brings me extreme guilt even though I know it shouldn't, but the amount of pain I've put my family and boyfriend through due to this is just heartbreaking for me. I hope I'm able to breathe again and just put this whole thing behind me. Much love to you and thank you for sharing ♥️
Thanks for sharing your experience. I think people are mostly concerned with the immediate results. I'm glad you shared how your nose changed over time; something I think most people aren't aware of. I'm glad your new nose turned out well.
My FIL had a very necessary surgery on his nose that was botched twice. He won’t try it again because it kept getting worse with each attempt to fix it. It terrifies me that my son has the same problem and wants the fix as well so he can breathe through his nose more. I do understand wanting it for cosmetic reasons but we definitely need to talk more about the risks with both medically necessary procedures and cosmetic interventions.
@Celestials615 I probably should have added in that my FIL did go to at least one great surgeon. The problem is the way his body healed which could happen to my son. I might need to remove the word botched because it sounds like it is all the Drs fault but our bodies can definitely botch things done properly by healing weirdly. My husband skipped the surgery and did allergy shots which worked for him where they didn’t for my FIL.
@Celestials615 I might be a jerk to my poor kid but we aren’t helping with the nose until he tries allergy shots. This is based on the tooth implant we started having the first post fall out. He never grew one of his adult teeth and we did braces to keep the spot open and then an implant because for long term health it is best for maintaining bone in the jaw. This current one seems to be fine but he has already shown he is a unique in how things go which is typical for each side of the family and paying twice for the post hurt. He got physical pain and we got financial pain with that. I am an allergy shot failure with them making me sick but he is more like his dad in some ways and it could work.
I hated my nose when I was younger. I thought it was too big and it really bothered me. I used to get a clothes peg and put it on my nose while I did my homework every night 🤦♀️ My mum walked in on me one day and told me I’d end up bruising it and making it bigger. Needless to say, I never used the peg again!
@@NoctisAquila That’s true. My brother chopped the top off of his pinky finger by putting it in a coffee grinder, burnt his tongue on a car cigarette lighter and burnt his ear with steam by putting it to a kettle that he didn’t think was boiling 🙄 He’s now an architect - go figure 😂
I think this channel is a blessing. I'm personally absolutely against undergoing plastic surgery for purely aesthetic reasons, but there will always be people who insist on getting it, so it's important that they're well informed about these procedures. I like how Dr. Linkov always remains respectful and empathetic but still shares his personal opinions when he feels the need to.
@@mrsx7944 I know. I'm talking about the women who had nose jobs they love, not the women who copied them and deeply regretted it. My comment was made when I had only watched a few minutes of the video.
Everybody asks my lady if she got a nose job done. Because honestly she has the most perfect nose. The thing is it's obvious it's natural because her brother and her father have it. Wish I could share it on here. It's pretty amazing.
I’m sure glad there wasn’t social media when I was a kid because I probably would’ve put myself to sleep forever. When you have a large nose with a hump and then fall face first in to concrete, and have all of that PLUS now it’s super crooked…I literally hated myself.
I think the problem with cosmetic surgery is that the person is looking at 1 body part such as nose or butt instead of looking body part in relation to the whole face or whole body. And often that body part is on harmony with your face or body and is unnecessary.
Blame the surgeons, in promising results that the patient desires, knowing that it’s unrealistic and also not pragmatically assessing their mental health and superficial dismorphias..
How about we don't just blame one single thing for it all and realize that there's many factors playing a part. the worst contributor to people wanting to look different is the beauty ideals portrayed on social media. This, too, is a snowball effect. Everyone looks the same. It's not just celebrities (actors, singers) with optimized appearances anymore, it's your average influencer, too. There are so many contributing factors but social media culture may very well be the biggest.
Thank you, I found this video really helpful. I've been insecure about my nose for a long time, but tbh the risk of dissatisfaction after surgery for me seems so high that it doesn't seem worth it.
I ❤ your reaction videos! Overall, you explain procedures, methods of procedures, expected results based on how surgery is performed. You 'dummy it down' really well! Def can sway my interest in a procedure, etc.
They really went for as small as possible in the past, who needs to breathe when you have a small nose? Now they are doing far better jobs but yeah wait till you have finished growing and think about all the risks. When I grew up in the Netherlands no one around me got nose jobs and I found it quite strange how many young girls got it in the U.S. I think we don't mind a bigger nose.
When i was in my late teens and early 20s I wanted a nose job. Now im so happy i never touched it. Time like the Dr says is important, plus waiting til you go through your "second puberty". Lol Media isn't helping the issue and social media is going to make it worse
I am 3 years postop with my ethnic rhinoplasty. And I will say it was one of my BEST DECISIONS EVER! You know why??? I did my research. I watched every vlog I could to prepare for it. I had realistic expectations. I chose a physician who specializes in people who look like me (ethnic rhinoplasty). I chose a double board certified surgeon who is also an ENT and a professor. He found polyps that saw I needed additional internal work I never knew I needed but I don’t have the sinus issues I had pre-op and that wasn’t even my goal everything was for aesthetic reasons. If I hadn’t chosen the appropriate surgeon that never would’ve happened. And I chose after to follow all the rules, protect my investment (I’ve seen people with birds and animals in their face while they’re healing WTF 😳), and to be PATIENT and trust the process. It didn’t stop changing until maybe 6mos ago. That’s 2.5 years of healing and swelling! Lots of people don’t get that and go and get another nose job claiming to be “botched”. Choose wisely folks!
I had a nose job best thing I ever did I wish I had done it earlier. I did it at 37, everything that could do wrong went wrong my, bridge collapsed, I had a bacterial infection. I would still go through it again. I couldn’t even look at myself with my old nose now I like myself.
I'm glad you like your nose now. You said "everything that could go wrong went wrong", but that's not true at all, since you didn't end up botched like many people.
I so related to the girl crying and wishing for her old nose. I didn’t have a rhinoplasty, but I had a septoplasty to fix my double deviated septum because I couldn’t breathe when I slept. Surgery resulted in a saddle nose deformity and was absolutely devastated. I’ve since had a reconstructive rhinoplasty to rebuild my nose with donor rib cartilage grafts (incredibly grateful to the human being who donated their body to science), but I can attest to how she felt. It’s such an awful feeling
glad to see someone saying lana del ray's nose is meh. It's wild that botched nose jobs are so glamourized now. She looked much nicer with her original nose.
Lana's newer nose is stunning. To be honest. I had a hump on my nose that drove me crazy as a teen. I vowed to get that hump taken off as soon as I could get the money. I got it taken off and that really was the best day of my life. Every picture now looked great without the hump. I loved putting makeup on. Sorry but for some of us, we love our new noses. I have had it now for over 50 years and still don't regret it.
I like Dr. Linkov's videos a lot because they help me cut through the noise of what's popular on social vs what is actually achievable and realistic. I think the comparison of tattoos to plastic surgery is interesting, especially as someone who has many visible tattoos. There are trends in both, both have complications, both are affected by age and health. But the risks of plastic surgery are much greater, even when done by a skilled physician, compared to tattoos done by a well trained artist. Yes tattoos can get infected and you could die from that infection, but the variety of issues from plastic surgery are much broader, from infection to collapse (of the nose), nerve damage, migration of filler, etc. I also think it's easier to get information on your tattoo artist than your surgeon, though that's probably less true for plastic surgery surgeons than like cardiac surgeons. I also can't help but roll my eyes at the line "you have to think about what your tattoos will look like when you're 70". They will look old, like the rest of me! I also personally like how tattoos look on older bodies but a nose that received a bad nose job probably doesn't look good on anyone at any age.
Years ago I had the good fortune to get a consult with a really good surgeon who did subtle, elegant work. I was unhappy with my bulbous tip and big nostrils. He said no, don’t do it, because the skin on my nose is thick and would never “drape well” with that kind of work. So I never had surgery and decided, like Jodie Foster did, that I’d rather be the girl with the bad nose than the girl with the bad nose job.
I have heard of this issue with the skin before. A friend was told she could not have Jaclyn Smith's nose because she didn't have her skin. That was good advice, even though it didn't make her happy at first.
My nose isn't amazing (bump, bulbous tip) and have considered a nose job, but personally hearing about the high complication rates and need for revisions as well as the cost and recovery time I would never forgive myself if I paid thousands to have a mediocre result, so I don't think I'll go for it. I'd also hate if I ended up with an objectively 'better' nose but felt it didn't fit me/my face.
Really good advice.
@@lauracraig8110 "My nose isn't amazing (bump, bulbous tip)" - Why do those things mean you don't have an amazing nose? Who told you that?
I have the same complaints as OP. I also have thicker skin. While I haven't had a consult, I'm guessing I might have the same issue. I'll just have to get over it. Though I'm not fond of my nose, I only see it when I look in a mirror or another reflective surface. So really, it's everyone else's problem that has to look at me all day.
They aren't happy because the problem ISN'T really the body part it's their unrealistic expectations. They think it will make them perpetually "happy" and "change their lives". But as my father used to say "wherever you go, there you are" - your problems will still be there.
The "as long as it makes them happy who am I to judge?" are the biggest enablers too. It clearly doesn't make them happy because they keep going back for more.
That's what i tell people who are drug addicts & try to move away thinking that'll change them. I tell them, you'll still be wherever you're going lol
I want pretty privilege.
@@Justlikemagic96That doesn't apply to men
@@trawlins396 it does. Experienced it first hand just by losing weight and from both genders.
It was very common in the 70s/80s for Jewish girls to get a nose job as a "birthday present" when they turned 16 or 18. It's not just social media, social conditioning runs deep.
A lot of the Jewish girls I went to school with in the 2000’s got their noses done at 16 as well. I’m sure that is still a common practice even now. I totally agree with you. This has been going on since before social media
Sad
The "birthday present surgery" is common in Korea as well.
I remember lots of girls wanting this in high school. Not just Jewish girls, although it was common with them.
That's sad.
Especially when parents encourage it.
I don't recommend nose jobs. My nose looks great now, but here's why I would have never done it. I had a nose job at 23. It collapsed and shrank within 6 months. Couldn't breathe. Had sinus infections. Then, the revisions failed due to cadaver rib resorption each time and my own ear was not structurally strong enough. 5 surgeries later my own rib grafts took well. My nose is not an obvious nose job anymore (looks great - thank you to a top revision surgeon), but I know it's held together with grafts so I'm careful with Red Light Therapy which can shrink scar tissue. I'm wary around dogs and little kids that might knock my nose. That whole ordeal cost me $100k start to finish. It cost me my 20's and if I'm honest, my marriage too. I'm 41 now and only a few people know the trauma all that caused me.
Thank you for sharing your journey.
That sounds brutal. I wish more people would share their stories like this
Thanks for this. Honestly the fact the nose is a very 'functional' part of the face puts me off. If surgery doesn't go to plan, collapse and breathing issues don't sound great.
Thank you for sharing to help others before making a life long decision
Wow. That really sucks. I'm sorry you went through that❤
More surgeons need to say, “No, I won’t do that, and I don’t want my name on this”.
Funny lol
Thinking about dentists while reading this. 😢 Especially when your insurance is a blank check.
They definitely don't boast about it if they botch it, but they still take the money...
Turkish doctors never will 😂
xactly ! where is their pride in their profession ? their work ethics ? 😟
I used to want a nose job, but decided to get my nose pierced to celebrate it instead! Best decision ever!
Same, I hated my nose. But I now I like my nose. Growing into it helped too.
Love this!! Used to hate my teeth, now I wear glitter lipstick to show them off 😊
I used to want a nose job too, and my mum always said my nose was too big for a piercing but I recently got it done anyway. Hell yeah
Yesss I love that!
@@Isabelgg18add some bling to that beauty! 🙌🏼❤️
Perfect words at 9:12 : "I think that good plastic surgery should whisper, not scream."
I'm Armenian. We have prominent noses. It's part of our charm 😊
That’s why I was so disappointed when Kim K got her beautiful Armenian nose reduced
I like Armenians other bulbous areas
I like big noses! 😊
Big noses have character
She’s got a big Jewish nose, and it’s there two minutes early wherever she goes.
BOTCHED is a very important public service. That show is great for leveling your expectations and showing all of the potential bad results that can happen.
I used to want a lot of surgeries and then I started watching Botched
@@Bssenterpise me too. I was saving for a facelift in my 20s.. Botched snapped me back into reality.
@@clownbag the amount of money needed to tweak your face when many of us grow into it is enough to make a huge impact in debt or actually get a down payment on a house. I was looking at the average yearly cost for fillers…in two years you’d have between 14-20k. That can help with schooling even.
You know the thing I love about Botched (from what we're shown), the surgeons will not do unnecessary work at any cost. I feel like there's alot of surgeons could learn from this.
I used to think my nose was too big and I considered getting work done. I got this nose from my dad.
Ever since he passed away, I've felt like I want to keep it exactly the way it is.
Perspectives can change a lot over time and with new circumstances.
Your nose is so beautiful and symmetrical!
Very good point. In a similar fashion I have been helped with the aging process as I am old now and I rather like looking in the mirror and seeing my beloved grandmother once more.
You have a great nose 🫶 Glad you decided to keep it:)
This is my grandma's nose. My grandma was the most beautiful woman in the world
Same. It's a family nose on my dad's side. My grandpa worked in entertainment and had it done, my aunt had it done. Made me hate it even more, but now I accepted it and see it as continuing a fun family quirk, rather than having a cookie cutter nose like thousands of other women
In Switzerland we have the idea of "following ones nose" in the sense of following ones own path and being able to judge situations correctly. If you change your unique to you nose, you might loose your sense of direction. metaphorically speaking.
Poetic!
Cute
Immer der Nase nach 😁
I love that! In dutch we have the saying "looking further than the length of your nose" when (for example) decisions are too easliy made without consideration. Also a accurate methapor :)
I absolutely love this! ❤
I think this is perhaps your best video yet. I also loved Steph"s video too. Some mean friend made a comment about my nose being big when I was a teenager in front of a group of guys. The insecurity it caused me was soul destroying. I ended up working in reception for a plastic surgeon in my 20's and asked him to do a rhinoplasty. He looked at me and said I was crazy because people paid to have noses like mine and he refused. Today I look back and realise how just one person can purposely try to ruin your self esteem. I love my natural nose!
It's amazing how one comment like that will stick with someone and affect them so deeply. A friend done something similar to me. I had a consult at 19 but my parents wouldn't allow it, thankfully 😊.
@@angelicaangel2624 It is so true. Sometimes it isn't even intended maliciously but can still hurt! Be careful what you say.
Same here!! She did purposely to me any chance given. She’d brag about her little button nose. I suppose that’s why when we hit our mid-to-late teens, she tried for my leftovers. Can’t imagine why…..
There are people who can't visualize what a new carpet or wallpaper will do to a room , never mind what a new nose will look like , they build up this issue in their minds and then when it doesn't meet their nebulous imagining of what they wanted they are never going to be happy.
Yes, that's true. And the nose can really change your whole appearance. We all know what happened to Jennifer Grey after her nose operation. Her new nose is pretty and suits her, no doubt, however she turned out to look completely different, like a different person. You really need to think about all of these consequences and understand that you might not recognize yourself in the mirror afterwards ;-)
What I realize now is that I love my nose. It looks like my dad's nose, just smaller. It ties me to my sisters. I also see my mom in my face. My dad is gone, and my mom's not doing well. I would be heartbroken to not have that reminder of them every time I look in the mirror.
i’m going to cry. this is why our features are so special.
Same I got my dad’s nose but smaller. I used to not even care about it but now it’s special to me
My mom has my grandpa‘s nose and I love that. It always reminds me of him. He passed away almost a decade ago.
That's poetic
I know what you are talking about. Same here: my eyes = mother, grandmother and grandgrandmother. Ears and teeth = my grandfather. The whole mouth and chin area = my father. My nose came from none of them all and ask my granny. She told me, that my nose is like her fathers. So I have got my grandgrandfathers nose. I love my nose! Now I am 63 and they are all dead and all what is left is still in my face. I can see all my familymembers when I look into a mirror.❤
We also spend way too much time using cell phones to take pics. My nose looks way bigger in cell pics. But it is because our noses are the closest thing to the lens and of the way cells take pics.
Take pics from different types of cameras before just assuming it's too big, it may be just perfect 👌
If I’d seen your comment I wouldn’t have posted basically the same thing. I think growing up in the 90’s with real cameras and photographic prints made it easier for me to see the distortion caused by cellphone cameras.
This is so true!! The front facing cameras do me dirty!
I'm always so confused by this lol. I hate how I look in pictures, but if I stand far away from my mirror and take a picture I do like how I look
EXCELLENT POINT!
I completely agree I look great in old photos and my face and nose looks terrible now in the new cameras and I look terrible on zoom too. It's painful lol
I used to really dislike my nose when I was younger and it looked quite large on my face. Now that I'm a full adult, it's still slightly on the large side but it's definitely become a lot more proportionate. People actually compliment my nose now and I'm glad I didnt decide to do anything to it based on what I saw in the media
Same with me. I wanted a nose job in my teens and 20's then in my 30's I discovered contour and now in my 40's I barely even contour it. My face has definitely rounded out more with age and weight and it fits my face well. Even when I don't have makeup on ppl have commented on my nose. It was all in my head, I'm glad i didn't do anything crazy.
@GingerAde-kz6ks Yup, the same for me 😅
That's why lm glad l did not have social media or access to surgeons growing up. I've naturally filled out and my body is just fine. Growing up today, l would have gotten a BBL 😢. Honestly, my nose is a bit big, but l think my face would look empty if it were made smaller 😂. All is well as it is.
*remember when that one chick from the movie DIRTY DANCING got a nose job and how her career went down immediately after?*
yep. she didn’t even look like herself anymore
Her nose made her memorable - instead she just ended up looking like the 50 gazillion other actresses that couldn't get work.
Yes. Jennifer Gray
@@LorrainecatsGrey*
Tbh she didn't have much of a career before that. Dirty Dancing was her one big hit.
I have a nice big Polynesian nose. All my family has it. It suits our very large faces. I've seen so many ethnic noses snipped. It's so sad. Enjoy your uniqueness people.
It totally does, you’re beautiful
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Is that you in the pic? Cuz your nose is everything but big 😂
I feel very insecure about my mixed African-Native American nose. It's so wide and the bridge is wide enough for a car to go through it. It's a nice cindy button nose on the side, but a super wide bridge on the front. If I could, I would have plastic surgery, but I'm scared of the complications that come with it. I wonder where did my insecurities come from.
@@SaintCharlosplease don't. I'm sure it fits your face perfectly. Probably from society pushing Western beauty standards as the penultimate.
Thanks for the videos … the psychological issues after the process of any kind of cosmetic surgeries are a topic that is usually not discussed .❤
I think that’s one of the most interesting topics
@@drgarylinkovI'd be very interested in a video about the physiological aspects of these kinds of procedures. E.g. if a patient is very dissatisfied which leads to psychological issues or even performing a procedure on someone with psychological conditions before.
I also think post-surgery pain pill addiction is also a problem!
@@drgarylinkov wud u consider to have a nose job
@@drgarylinkovtrue!! I just had surgery 2 years ago, nose job, ear pinned and Blepharoplasty. They were all bad, and was in so much depression, don’t take pictures anymore and wasn’t going out unless it was just my immediate family. Now, I’m finally overcoming the sadness, and go out with friends but don’t like taking pictures, as I don’t like that I look different
I love Dr Gary reacting to Stephanie's videos. They're both great.
I have my spanish/ Italian nose from my grandfather, and I am proud of it.
I have this natural small nose that I always wished was a bit longer, so my nostrils wouldn't be as visible. My mom envies my nose, and to me, it's wild that so many people like this kind of nose.😂
I have a button nose that is now considered“in fashion”, but I’ve always wanted a more defined Romanesque nose. I personally like the look of prominent noses. Everyone is starting to look the same, it’s frightening.
@@misscleo378 My nose kinda looks like Grace Kelly's kinda small and nothing really dynamic or interesting, just soft, small, straight. I like it just fine, but I love a Roman nose! My husband has one and I think it's a nice attractive feature. One of our daughters has his nose and I think she's beautiful.
Amen! Noses are all unique and help distinguish from other humans❤
Same!
I think of Jennifer Grey so often (“Baby” in Dirty Dancing). Her nose job after DD essentially destroyed her career, and she has spoke openly about this for decades. When she would go on auditions and such, no one fucking recognized her as Jennifer Grey. That one tiny surgery completely altered her appearance. She’s still beautiful, but her natural nose had such character and her face was positively charming.
She looks better but SO DIFFERENT. Think about the nose job Cher had which really made her look a lot better, but didn't change her appearance so much.
Nose jobs can make people look virtually unrecognisable which was her case. But it happens to a lot of people and it’s one of the problems with nose jobs. They have to be very subtle and natural of anything because one step too far and the person doesn’t look like themselves anymore
Once I learned how to contour, my desire to get my nose done has disappeared. I get to shape my nose almost exactly how I want it and if there’s a mistake, I can go back
I had rhinoplasty when I was 16. I chose a local surgeon because it was cheaper, and my parents covered the cost. I was eager to fix my crooked, long nose as soon as possible. During surgery, the anesthesia didn’t work as expected, and I woke up later than anticipated. The healing process was tough-my face was extremely puffy, and I had bruises all around my eyes. It was horrible. The summer heat only made the swelling worse.
Removing the silicone tampons was the most excruciating pain I’ve ever experienced. I nearly fainted and blacked out. Although I’m okay now, I didn’t get the results I had hoped for. The surgeon removed too much cartilage from my bridge and didn’t reduce the tip projection, making my nose look disproportionate and unnatural. Now, I’m faced with the decision to undergo a revision surgery, risking the same painful ordeal, or learning to live with it as it is. Also, let’s not forget that a revision costs almost twice as much as a primary rhinoplasty.
You admitted in this comment that you didn’t really do your research and settled for the cheapest instead of the best though.
@@basscanon6687 true, absolutely my fault, people should be careful with these things cuz their life might be at stake
@@basscanon6687 be kind, they were 16
16...far too early.
21 should be minimum!
@@borderlordAgreed! Unless there is some medical reason for one. (Like an actual need.)
man when i was a teenager, my nose looked GIGANTIC on me, i dont know why but it just doesnt anymore. i still have an ethnic middle eastern nose but...id never touch it now, my face sorta grew into it 🤷🏻♀️i wish younger girls were aware of this....
same with me. I also don't see the bumb anymore that bothered me so much in my early 20ies. So strange.
I got a strong nose from my Iranian grandfather. Used to get lots of trash for it and sometimes I feel insecure about it, but I am slowly beginning to appreciate it more.
I have a middle eastern nose too. I always hated it. However, I realized that beauty standards always change. Back in the day big noses showed status. Thin lips were a thing too. All these beauty standards we have now will change again.
Same here but with my ears. It’s probably because our heads just got bigger. Though when it comes to my nose, no head is big enough haha
I have an Italian nose and I also think it looks better now than in my teenage years and there's several reasons for that. My jawline continued to develop until I was about 17, so the nose looks more balanced. I also stopped dragging my hair on top of the sides of my face to make it appear thinner, so now there's more space on my face for the nose. And the most important thing was changing my glasses: almost all glasses make my nose way worse, some have a neutral effect, but I actually managed to find a pair that makes it look less long and tall
Omg now I understand why looking at Lana Del Rey’s face always felt kind of weird, something was just off about it, now I know why
It’s so funny to me when people pick on her rhinoplasty, I actually think it’s so pretty on her and suits her elegant face so well!
@@rebeccaorlando9815 she’s still beautiful but I knew something wasn’t natural.
I knooow, I used to think her nose was really pretty and didn't even realize people had issues with it :,o She has a small and sharp jaw and I think it looks very elegant with that
Her nose looks weird and not natural..:/ a shame because she has a pretty face
In the late 50s, my mother was in a car crash where she went through the windshield. No seatbelts at the time, no safety glass either. She was mangled, and people would turn and stare at her.
She had reconstructive plastic surgery and boy was she a success story! The surgeon did such a great job, she only had one faint scar from her eyebrow to her hairline. She gave her permission for him to publish her photos as before and after.
My mother had extremely fair skin. She stayed out of the sun. We ate home made food, much of it grown ourselves. Plus having this plastic surgery at 35 yrs old, she was extremely well preserved. She died at age 96. Looking at her photos in her advanced old age, you would think she was in her 50's. We were in a small northern city. Goes to show you that there are amazing surgeons out there, even in time frames and places you wouldn't expect.
As a side note - she was getting glass slivers out of her forehead for decades afterwards. She could feel them migrating under the skin, and when they would get to a curve on her face, they would edge out.
That's fascinating, I'm pleased to hear your mother had such great results and thrived after the accident/subsequent surgery. I'd love to see the results of the surgery if you have pictures, but understand if not
@@biancargh No, I don't have photos, and my mother never showed me any. I doubt she ever had any. My mother never cared about photos, so I don't think she would even have asked for copies.
I had migration of sand and gravel bits through my facial skin into my 40s. My accident and reconstruction was when I was 12 ears old. It can be a long process.
It’s disturbing that the glass caused pain for so many years. I personally dislike cars but at least they’re have more safety features now.
I got my nose done back in the 90s and I’m very happy with the results.
I requested that he keep it in symmetry with my face (and body), and he did.
My doctor understood the assignment. 👏
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THANK YOU!! Yes Got mine at 18 from a plastic surgeon who made it to fit my face, not a cookie cutter Michael Jackson nose job that was popular for a time.
We will have to see that to see if it’s true 😂 some people say their nose look great but it really doesn’t 🤡 it looks unnatural in most cases or piggy 🐷 🐽
@@SwanTheQueen imo u have to have really horrible nose to be even close to worth it. Its expensive - there is often problems - from reading comments its about 100k at the end of the all corrections propably if u would go to the best ones aka the holywood ones it would cost even more like 200k. Its often have problems - collapses, u cant breathe etc. Its very often look bad and if doesnt look bad it often looks worse and if not it still will look unnatural because it is. If u have 100k to spent as a woman buy good boobs job in proper not too big size it almost always looks better, as a man buy hair transplant if u have bad hair or just buy good car it will also make u better lmao - women dont really care about those things but still u will enjoy new mercedes. Also if u want better look fix ur eyes with laser and then u can not use glasses or u can buy different glasses that looks good for not crazy price like the correction ones. Or just accept u dont have perfect genes and just live with it, also u can just buy good clothes and perfume maybe hairstyle and pomade they also always will make u look better - because u can test if u look/smell good.
I don't know who needs to hear this, but your nose is already the right size - it fits your fingers perfectly! Try it, you'll see I'm right!
Yep!! Perfect fit
Like.. up the nostrils? 😂
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Yay! Plus I found a little snack!
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I’m so hung up on that doctor that was pressing on that nose so hard. After I got my rhinoplasty my doctor was adamant about not touching my nose at all!!!
Seeing that infuriated me
My daughter had her nose done in her 20’s, she’s 59 now and looks fantastic. Her doctor was known for his natural looking surgery, he succeeded.
Pics of before and after ( you can blur/block other parts)
I don’t have any pictures.
You're 79+yo? 👀
@@kathleenkumiega1092 You didn't add anything of value to the discussion. We know that some people are happy with their nose jobs. It is not the point.
@@slavbarbie That's really not for you to judge. This comments section is public.
I may be late to the party but I thought I was tripping out when the audio kept cutting in & out. Especially when you were talking. I kept raising my volume til I startled myself when the audio continued on 😅
The video was great informatively! Maybe to save from copyright of music when reviewing, add some closed captions please! Definitely don’t want to miss out on what’s being shared
Our features are what makes us unique. Uniqueness is what is missing in today's appearance. I don't have the "perfect" nose but I also don't want to ruin my proportions by changing the size or shape if my nose
Yes! I did portrait art at festivals for years, and people would ask me to modify their faces. :( I would tell them, though, that features like their nose, laugh lines, or even the creases under their eyes were actually the features that make them unique and wonderful. It’s what animates the face - before those details are added, they look unfinished. After, they look joyful. ❤
I have my father's nose. ❤
Not a conventionally attractive nose, but for me is part of my heritage.
I was botched at 43. Had 2 reconstructive surgeries and had cadaver rib and my ear cartilage added for structure. I'm lucky I had the money for the revisions with a better surgeon. Happy to provide photos for the channel if you want to show the realities of being botched/corrected.
I would like to get my abs put back together after several csections. I always wonder how people afford plastic surgery. Do you have any tips?
@@blueseptember2174 I just had to save my money. I don't have kids so admittedly it's easier for me than others.
@@blueseptember2174the reality is that a lot of people who get surgery done are either 1) rich, 2) go into heavy credit card debt, or 3) go to places like Turkey or Korea for cheap surgery.
When you mentioned the filler in the nose my interest was piqued, but the moment you used “necrosis” and “nose” in the same sentence I immediately thought hell no. I’ll live with my nose. No way I’d risk that for something cosmetic.
Apparently, filler causes a lot of longterm issues and requires repeated maintenance
@@MaxOaklanddepends on where it’s placed. The nose and under eyes are dangerous to inject but elsewhere is fine with an experienced injector. And “maintenance” isn’t always necessary. I’ve had my lips (once) and cheeks filled (twice) almost two years ago and haven’t had the urge to go back again or to get it fixed
@@ejhdbegbeidishdj9358 Two years is too soon to need maintenance. Any qualified surgeon will tell you you do need maintenance on cosmetic procedures
Just don't... IS NOT WORTH IT!!!
Hurts like HELL!! Like it really hurts, pain made me think surgery would have been better idea as you can't do meds with HA... The swelling! Also you'll be sweating filler like for weeks!! Not gonna lie, it boosted my confidence AF, but it only lasted until pain subsided which took about a month or two!!... Which made me realize everything is on your mind... Confidence starts from whitin because I started feeling ugly once it stopped hurting lol! Even tho in photos looked nice... FIVE MONTHS AFTER my nose has gone back to it's original shape... and comparing all of my pictures... there wasn't a really big change, my nose only looked perfect like for the first two hours. So I don't recommend getting nose fillers at all!! After spending that much money on my nose fillers I learnt why many gurls get addicted to surgery! Pain is a reminder that "you are pretty as you had X done" so yeah beauty starts from whitin, is everything in your head, Confidence you need is in yourself... I mean my nose looked swollen AF but I felt goddess like... and when my nose started to look fine I wasn't feeling it, because it didn't hurted anymore which made me think fillers faded and I was back to normal
@@MaxOaklandI mean, all these procedures are artificial. What's rather mindboggling to me is rather that people think you can do it without consequences. Unless it causes health issues or extreme ( and by that I mean extreme) self image issues, I think our body parts look better the way nature meant them to be
As a visual person, I think the source of disappointed patient outcomes isn't merely unrealistic expectations. Met someone with aphantasia and realized people have varying degrees of visual imagery ability and most, not that strong. A lot of people genuinely can't mentally create a picture of themselves with even a small change to appearance, and don't even realize it. Suddenly the outcome hits them in the face, literally.
You are so right. I am definitly more a earing person, I dont have aphantasia but the details visually dont last long, not like the auditory features I cam distinctly remember.
I definitly can not imagine me with an other nose (and I am glad I dont want to change it so it is not a problem).
I love how you started the video as 'Let's react to Stephanie's video'. I knew exactly who you were talking about because I've already seen her video. I'd love it if you two did a video together!
I had a nose job around 22 years old. I had a big bump I hated. All I wanted was the bump shaved off. The surgeon wanted to do some other adjustment to it that he thought would make it even better but I told him no I just wanted the bump shaved down. I love my nose ! I still don’t think it’s perfect. I do think it’s a little thinner than I would like but he did what I asked. Shaved the bump down and it looks 100 times better. I’m happy. I def don’t feel self conscious about it anymore
I am glad you did only a small correction. This way you can still feel like yourself.
Thank Christ you stood your ground. I've heard too many stories where patients underwent more or different procedures than they originally asked for and ended up hating it...
I had a rhinoplasty a few years ago and don’t regret it one bit, it was something that I knew I always wanted to do. However, my happiness with it mainly came down to the surgeon. He made moderate changes to my nose that complimented my face more but still looked very natural. In the consultation he was very straightforward about the changes he thought would be best and our visions aligned. I went to other consultations as well before choosing him and those surgeons were less clear and transparent and left me feeling uneasy. If I had went with one of them, I may have easily regretted it. For anyone considering a rhinoplasty, I recommend only moving forward with it if you find a surgeon with a strong portfolio that really takes the time to explain their vision and thoroughly maps out the process to you. And if you’re not 100% certain, definitely don’t rush into it.
Just curious who was your surgeon
I went to Carolina Coastal Plastic Surgery & Medical spa in Myrtle Beach, South Carolina.
@@ma59x can u please tell the surgeons name
Please let us know the drs name thanks
Great video (yours Dr. ) just a note; the Barbie noses are only that upturned in the beginning; they drop in recovery and in the months following.
Do you think he doesn‘t know?😂😂😂
@@colalight4888whether he knows or doesn’t it wasn’t expressed in the video. Many people including surgeons think that the on the table aesthetic presented in Turkey is the “finished look” it is not.
@@LorryHillhes a doctor, he very likely knows that the tip drops, hes pointing out how some people want this type of nose (as unachievable as it is). This is a patronizing and unnecessary comment 🤦♀️
She might've just been addressing to the people watching the video, ofc he'd know that the tip drops, but since it wasn't addressed in the video she probably just said it to the viewers for more information
@@tahsina.cno it wasn’t. they’re buddies lol
I had a nose job when I was 17 because I had an European nose ( my father is Swiss) and I lived in Brazil and didn’t fit the standard.
Looking back I had a great nose that didn’t needed anything done to it. Fast forward, the nose job didn’t go so well and nowadays I need to add filler to the tip of my nose to keep it straight with the rest, a think that I never had before the surgery.
My honest opinion is; wait until your frontal lobe is fully developed before doing something so permanent to your face.
Swiss German, Swiss French or Swiss Italian? There's no such thing as " European nose".
I also don't know what you mean by "European" nose given the continent is made up of 44 different countries
@@louibeansprobably the east European models look.Think of Natalia Vodianova.
@@martafiord But she mentioned her father is from Switzerland explicitly, then said her European nose wouldn't match the Brasilian beauty standard. So I don't think she was referring to an eastern European beauty standard.
Your last sentence is the key to surgery decisions: wait until you're a real adult to decide these things.
So happy to see Stephanie’s content being shared! The messages in her videos are truly so important!
Am I the only one who really liked Ashlee Simpson's original nose? It gave her character and she was already beautiful. She had a look and her hair was matching well with her face as well. Then, she had the nose job and well, she looked like just another Hollywood blonde.
I didn't like her original nose.
Yeah, it made her face special, gave it more depth
I agree that her original nose was super cute, but, I will say I think had a really nice conservative nose job and didn’t go wild at least.
Love her new nose, but zero respect or inspiration for her as a singer or “artist”. She s wack, not a talent, but re:nose-I get it-, she looks gorgeous. Now she can revel as a mom and a nepo baby-baby momma wife, but there’s a reason why she isnt and hasnt been a popular vocalist. Her AD house tour was cute, a nepo baby-baby momma wife, for that -Im here for. But dazzit.
@@Winterholiday Yes, it looks natural. It just looks like a different person now.
I was fixated on getting a nose job and finally did when I was in college. The plastic surgeon got it approved by insurance in the common way: identify it as a deviated septum. I ended up with only a slightly improved nose. Not the nose of dreams, BUT he really did fix the functionality of my nose. Haven’t had a stuffy nose since, so win I guess?
Guess you had an honest doctor.
I had a ginormous dorsal hump on my nose. I really disliked it because it felt like it blocked my face and was too masculine. I underwent an open rhinoplasty when I was 20. I paid for it myself and I did it for myself, it was the best decision I had ever made at that time. My doctor was wonderful and gave me a very natural look, which is I wanted. Bump gone and not obvious that I had the procedure. I’m 34 now, and still so happy with my nose. Personally not interested in another plastic surgery or augmentation but would never say never.
Same! Got my nose done at 25 (30 now) and it was literally one of the best choices I’ve ever made. Never regretted it for a second. Made my life sooo much better. I don’t even have a “perfect” nose now but it looks nice and natural. So while people need to be very careful with surgery, it can also be amazing. Never, ever rush into it though and research research research.
Same here, but I waited until I was 40 to get it fixed. Happy I had it done, and no one knows that I had any work.
@@kimberlyf4888who was your dr ?
Can you please tell us the name of your dr
@@rebeccaorlando9815hi who was your dr please
I think that before someone goes to a plastic surgeon, the person should look for a therapist/psychologist to find out if they truly want to get whatever changes they want done.
i hated my nose when i was younger but i grew into it and now i love it
These videos are always highly entertaining and informative, especially the part when receding chin/jawline was discussed. So true, as I can testify to from personal experience. I used to have a mildly recessive, small chin paired with what I considered to be a slightly prominent nose with some tip bulbosity, but I saw an maxillofacial/oral surgeon a year ago to get evaluated. After a few consultations with the surgeon along with extensive research and my medical background, I made the decision to get a 3mm horizontal, 1mm vertical advancement sliding genioplasty (SG) to give my chin more prominence and be in better harmony with the rest of my facial features. I knew that the SG procedure was more involved than getting a chin implant, but I didn't want the risks of bone resorption underneath the implant eroding into my teeth roots, potential shifting, infection or a submental scar.
A week after surgery when the majority of my chin swelling subsided and I saw the result, I was ELATED! My facial features looked harmonious and balanced, but my nose looked much smaller, even though it was only my chin that had been moved. It's amazing how a few millimeters can make such a big difference, but then again, a millimeter is like a mile on the face. Another bonus of the surgery was improved athletic performance because even though it was a small advancement, it opened up my airway more. Although my nose still isn't perfect and I've considered rhinoplasty, I've decided to live with it as it is since I would rather be able to go biking, dancing or running and getting that "runner's high" than risk having a smaller, cuter, but less functional nose to breathe out of.
Hey, could you maybe share a bit about your recovery after surgery? Like how long it took and how painful it was? When were you able to eat normally again?
@@diesuperhenne4851 The pain was pretty mild waking up from surgery, probably felt like a 3 or 4 on the pain scale, however, there was a sharp painful sensation underneath my tongue if I tried to stick it out. The pain was easily managed alternating between 400mg ibuprofen and 500mg acetaminophen every 4-6 hours and although I was prescribed oxycodone, my body had no response to it. The highest level of pain I felt was between a 5 or 6 whenever the ibu or asa was wearing off. Sleeping upright was also a must to prevent excess swelling and potential hematoma formation. My chin was taped for 3 days post-op until my follow up appt. my surgeon removed it since there really wasn't a lot of bruising.
My lower lip was completely numb to sensations of pain or touch for the first day which made drinking smoothies a bit challenging, but the sense of touch came back into my lips the next day. I had nothing but high protein smoothies for the first 5 days post-op and started incorporating soft foods such as scrambled eggs or overnight oats after that. Gently brushing and flossing the teeth near the incision site and using a prescription mouthwash was recommended after every meal in addition to occassionally using a salt and baking soda solution to swish around to help with wound healing.
After about a week, the majority of my swelling had gone down enough to go out in public without anyone noticing, except some minor swelling under the lips made my smile a little lopsided for about a month post-op. After being returning to work after 2 weeks, most people couldn't tell that I'd had anything done or couldn't pinpoint what was different about my face.
When you have dysphoria and you get surgery, those neural pathways still exist. Depression post surgery, as well as the long process of reduction of swelling just results in the same. That wee lass saying if only she loved the nose she was given, the same applies to the nose the surgeon gave her oop
This is mostly about social perception and low self esteem. Social media is destroying people’s self image and worth.
Plus, what looks good in a picture or on video is not the same as it would irl. Like Kylie Jenner.
It’s the patriarchy. Even before social media women were brainwashed to have certain face and body traits.
I went to get a nose job consultation when I was 22. The surgeon himself was so modded that he looked terrifying, trying to sell me the idea that I NEEDED a nose job. He showed me that someone trying to sell you what’s beautiful is someone who will never see beauty
I have hated my nose ever since I was a teenager just for the fact that I have larger bump. But a little bit after I started dating my partner he randomly said that my nose is beautiful. I never mentioned before that it was my biggest insecurity that I always wanted to change so the compliment ended up being really meaningful. After that I have been more accepting of my nose as my hatred for it started to simply seem stupid - like for what reason did I start suddenly thinking that you need a straight nose to be pretty while countless stunning people prove that wrong :P I like my face I don't need to love my nose.
I was in love with a girl who had a classic Roman nose! She was stunning! Then she got a nose job and didn't look like herself at all!!! I hate nose jobs!!!
I spent my teen years wildly insecure about my nose, which is pretty similar to the barbie nose. My first bf broke up with me,citing my f'ed up nose as the reason. My insecurities were further compounded when my mom's friend compared it to a little ski slope for ants (like the girl in the video), or a chipmunk type nose. I begged my mom for a nose job and of course she said no. I grew out of the insecurity and actually get compliments on my nose a lot. Someone actually asked me if it was a rhinoplasty because it was "perfect". I still dont think its perfect, but I am glad that I became comfortable with it.
Sometimes I think about getting a nose job but then I realize I’m more scared of not liking my face after a surgery (something that I chose and paid for and is kinda “on me”) than I am of having some minor annoyance at it right now (that usually I can deal with pretty well.)
The second reason I don’t think I could get a surgery is that I might give a potential future kid my nose. And if they don’t like their nose…then there’s no figuring that insecurity out for them bc “yeah well mom used to have it too and she got rid of it.”
I love your vids! You talk with such empathy and compassion while being so knowledgeable on the subject
The point of the irony of the barbie movie was great to note! Very interesting
I just got a septorhinoplasty at age 28. My mouth breathing was the primary concern that led me to considering a nose job, but the very subtle tweaks that my skilled surgeon made to my nose - no hump, less bulbous, slightly smaller & straighter - INFINITELY improved my confidence. It's not for everyone, but at the right age with the right surgeon and the means (I had quite a lot saved up and also financed the surgery with 0% interest for 12 months) - a rhinoplasty can absolutely be the right move.
*puts on headphones*
*gets vaporized by Doctor Gary Linkov's awesome vocal fry*
I can't stand vocal fry on ANYONE, with one notable exception. It's sexy AF on Dr. Linkov. Don't ever change, Doc!!
I put my earbud on the bump on my nose and Dr.Linkov’s voice, sanded it down by 13% The perfect mixture of sandpaper and gravel.
Yes. That vocal fry drives me
C R A Z Y
I got a nose job many years ago from a well-known and respected surgeon in NYC. He did an amazing job and I don’t regret it all.
What was your surgeon’s name if you don’t mind me asking? Im so happy you got a good result and are happy with it!
@@dreamsi Dr. Steven Pearlman. Amazing surgeon
Why could I only think of this scene from Clueless?
"Ms. Stoeger, my plastic surgeon doesn't want me doing any activity where balls fly at my face..."
"Well, there goes your social life."
One of the best jokes in a movie ever. I died laughing in the theatre
That sounds sexist to say to a woman and especially a minor.
This video could not have come at a better time in my life. Thank you so much for the facts and for covering nose jobs so thoroughly!
I notice a number of newscasters have had their noses done that look too small for their faces. I often look back to see what they looked like b4 the procedure. The nose reflects character. I would much rather look like I have character than look like a barbie doll.
I went to see a nose specialist about 25 yrs ago - I'm now 51. He told me there is something that could be done. Sure there is always something that could be done. What I didn't realise was it wasn't my nose that was the problem, it was actually my recessive chin that made my profile not pretty... I am glad I listen to my gut instincts to not go ahead with the nose job. I've since filled my jaw and chin with 6mls and I'm super happy now, as my nose is actually perfect! 😍
I've come to really like your videos because you communicate your intention of informing people of their decisions rather than just make content to funnel clients. I love when a professional can give authentic advice, tips and opinions rather than just make people go away with their own ideas to avoid conflict or a sales flop.
Had mine done ten years ago, best decision I ever made for myself. My confidence boosted up to a full 100%, my bigger nose really made me insecure my whole life until i got the surgery.. Be thorough in choosing your doctor, always ask to see their work, and be very detailed speaking everything you’re wanting. The bridge width you want, how deep of a slope, if you want the tip smaller or turned up.. even if you’re just going to get your bump removed, they will mess with alllllll of that without even telling you. Don’t assume they’ll know what will look good for your face, most dont.
I regret messing with my nose. I was young and did not receive proper guidance. I chose a surgeon who had zero business operating on anyone's face. I got a revision years ago and i still hate it. I'll more than likely just live with hating it. I don't trust anyone to touch it again 🙄
I had a nose job at 21. It was a huge mistake. My nose was more crooked after the surgery than before. I was miserable, and couldn't breathe. So I saved up a ridiculous amount of money, and had it fixed.
You don't look like you've had surgery.
@@FailedFlea93 Thank you. I really appreciate that comment. 😊 I never wanted to look unnatural. I just wanted a nose that fit my face. I'm 31 now and I love myself and wouldn't change a thing!
I kept seeing the video being suggested and didn’t watch it. Now that you’re giving your expertise, I’m all ears. Really enjoy your content and point of view.
Stephanie Lange is my therapy. ❤ Really cool, that you reacted to her content ❣️
I always like the collaborations between you and Stephanie. I always feel she has came such a long way for being just a makeup girl on RUclips. I don't know how the combo works but it does with you guys. Would love to one day see you guys do a video in the same room!
Totally agree. Was insecure about my nose in my 20s now in my 40s it’s one of my top features that people love about my appearance.
Wait wait wait. I used to want to get my nose done. Then when I was about 18 my face changed. It changed and then I had 0 issue with anything.
This is so important for young people to realize, we grow into our features. Even from 25-35 I feel like my face naturally got more “attractive” as I lost facial fat through the aging process. At 44 I still look young and I think it’s partially because I started with “strong” features that kind of hold up your face like scaffolding, I guess.
Your nose usually gets bigger with pregnancy and age too.
I wanted Boris Kodjoes nose when I got mine done, I thought he was so gorgeous. I’m so glad that surgeon was able to explain to me why that wasn’t a good idea…for me.
I'm not sure if it's just me but there are point where the audio goes in and out. Anyone else have this issue with this video? Otherwise love when you do react videos to Stephanie, Dr. L! Y'all should do a collab sometime!!
I was so embarrassed by my broad nose as a teen that I would never keep my face still when in conversation with anyone who was not a family member or close friend. By my thirties, I was relieved by the fact that I did not have a rhinoplasty, as I was just fine with it. Now age 64, I could not imagine a more perfect nose for my now plumpish face. I know of several people who have had the procedure done. Two have noses that were extremely abnormal and the noses dominated their whole appearance (one with an actual hook that curled under and almost touched her upper lip, the other's was so very long and narrow that others called her "Pinocchio.") In both cases, rhinoplasty improved their emotional well-being and gave them the courage to participate in healthy social interaction that they were unable to develop. Two others looked just fine - they had somewhat pronounced nasal bridges that were in sync with their faces. They were never happy, had later revisions in hope of looking like the super-models of their day, and today sport the dreaded ski slope effect.
I got my first Septoplasty/Rhinoplasty at 30 and again 20 years later because it was collapsing and my tip was twisting. Had to have a new nasal valve constructed, some other issues with breathing were corrected again, and I got a cadaver rib graft to fix the tip. The first nose job I was immediately happy with how it looked, but the revision surgery really created a lot of anxiety for me because the appearance had changed again, and initially I was very upset that it wasn’t straight enough and then it got a couple of small dents which I found out was really just the scaffolding of my nose being seen through my skin that was thinner than what the surgeon originally thought it was. If you have a decent nose, be thankful and just leave it because you don’t know what you’re going to feel until way later. I didn’t start appreciating his work until the year and a half mark and have finally found peace with it. I just hope it’s going to look ok as I get older and not have to be redone again because I probably won’t be able to afford it. Thank goodness $25,000 was covered by my insurance with my cosmetic portion being $7,000. I still have a larger nose and I think that’s why no one has really noticed anything. I’m glad that my doctor made me look like myself and my nose actually now looks like my daughter’s and maybe would’ve been close to what I had if I hadn’t damaged it so badly. My nostrils were not perfectly similar which the first several months made me obsess about but then, I looked at my face and appreciated the asymmetry that was already there and like I mentioned, it seemed to slowly improve over the first year and a half.
I'm glad you found peace. I'm 28, got my nose done this year and unfortunately my nasal valve on the left side immediately collapsed. Will have to get revision to correct it. It has deeply impacted my mental health and well being due to the uncertainty of the revision going well and being able to breathe again. I'm happy with the cosmetic result but if I could go back in time, I would. It's a situation that brings me extreme guilt even though I know it shouldn't, but the amount of pain I've put my family and boyfriend through due to this is just heartbreaking for me. I hope I'm able to breathe again and just put this whole thing behind me. Much love to you and thank you for sharing ♥️
Thanks for sharing your experience. I think people are mostly concerned with the immediate results. I'm glad you shared how your nose changed over time; something I think most people aren't aware of. I'm glad your new nose turned out well.
Gary, does any plastic surgeons make full 3D models of the head before and after, so the patient can fully approve the changes?
My FIL had a very necessary surgery on his nose that was botched twice. He won’t try it again because it kept getting worse with each attempt to fix it. It terrifies me that my son has the same problem and wants the fix as well so he can breathe through his nose more. I do understand wanting it for cosmetic reasons but we definitely need to talk more about the risks with both medically necessary procedures and cosmetic interventions.
@Celestials615 I probably should have added in that my FIL did go to at least one great surgeon. The problem is the way his body healed which could happen to my son. I might need to remove the word botched because it sounds like it is all the Drs fault but our bodies can definitely botch things done properly by healing weirdly. My husband skipped the surgery and did allergy shots which worked for him where they didn’t for my FIL.
@Celestials615 I might be a jerk to my poor kid but we aren’t helping with the nose until he tries allergy shots. This is based on the tooth implant we started having the first post fall out. He never grew one of his adult teeth and we did braces to keep the spot open and then an implant because for long term health it is best for maintaining bone in the jaw. This current one seems to be fine but he has already shown he is a unique in how things go which is typical for each side of the family and paying twice for the post hurt. He got physical pain and we got financial pain with that. I am an allergy shot failure with them making me sick but he is more like his dad in some ways and it could work.
I hated my nose when I was younger. I thought it was too big and it really bothered me. I used to get a clothes peg and put it on my nose while I did my homework every night 🤦♀️ My mum walked in on me one day and told me I’d end up bruising it and making it bigger. Needless to say, I never used the peg again!
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@@NoctisAquila 😂 you’re welcome for the giggle. I was a strange child!
@@ProofBeyond Not any more or any less than anyone, we all did funny weird shit 😀😂
@@NoctisAquila That’s true. My brother chopped the top off of his pinky finger by putting it in a coffee grinder, burnt his tongue on a car cigarette lighter and burnt his ear with steam by putting it to a kettle that he didn’t think was boiling 🙄 He’s now an architect - go figure 😂
I think this channel is a blessing.
I'm personally absolutely against undergoing plastic surgery for purely aesthetic reasons, but there will always be people who insist on getting it, so it's important that they're well informed about these procedures.
I like how Dr. Linkov always remains respectful and empathetic but still shares his personal opinions when he feels the need to.
I used to hate my squat snub nose and wanted to get a nose-job for years, but I'm glad I didn't and I love my nose now!
It really takes a lot of women until they’re 30ish for our features to settle and then we end up thankful we didn’t cut up our faces.
@@allybearbearYou're assuming the OP is a woman. Could be a man.
That's also because the older you get the less fux you give about what other ppl think.
I've never thought upturned noses were attractive, but if these women are happy with their nose jobs that's what really matters. Good for them.
Obviously a lot of them aren't happy. That's the point
@@mrsx7944 I know. I'm talking about the women who had nose jobs they love, not the women who copied them and deeply regretted it. My comment was made when I had only watched a few minutes of the video.
As a singer I would be afraid to lose my ability to properly breath after getting a nose job
Everybody asks my lady if she got a nose job done. Because honestly she has the most perfect nose. The thing is it's obvious it's natural because her brother and her father have it. Wish I could share it on here. It's pretty amazing.
What's her nose type? Is it an aquiline nose?
Maybe her father and brother also had surgery!
I’m sure glad there wasn’t social media when I was a kid because I probably would’ve put myself to sleep forever. When you have a large nose with a hump and then fall face first in to concrete, and have all of that PLUS now it’s super crooked…I literally hated myself.
I LOVE that you’re quoting Stephanie!!! I also love your videos!
I think the problem with cosmetic surgery is that the person is looking at 1 body part such as nose or butt instead of looking body part in relation to the whole face or whole body. And often that body part is on harmony with your face or body and is unnecessary.
Blame the surgeons, in promising results that the patient desires, knowing that it’s unrealistic and also not pragmatically assessing their mental health and superficial dismorphias..
Nah. Blame the patients who want it no matter what. They search for the surgeon who’ll say yes.
How about we don't just blame one single thing for it all and realize that there's many factors playing a part. the worst contributor to people wanting to look different is the beauty ideals portrayed on social media. This, too, is a snowball effect. Everyone looks the same. It's not just celebrities (actors, singers) with optimized appearances anymore, it's your average influencer, too. There are so many contributing factors but social media culture may very well be the biggest.
Thank you, I found this video really helpful. I've been insecure about my nose for a long time, but tbh the risk of dissatisfaction after surgery for me seems so high that it doesn't seem worth it.
I ❤ your reaction videos! Overall, you explain procedures, methods of procedures, expected results based on how surgery is performed. You 'dummy it down' really well! Def can sway my interest in a procedure, etc.
I must live under a rock, I thought tyra banks was born with that nose😅
Bro same
They really went for as small as possible in the past, who needs to breathe when you have a small nose? Now they are doing far better jobs but yeah wait till you have finished growing and think about all the risks. When I grew up in the Netherlands no one around me got nose jobs and I found it quite strange how many young girls got it in the U.S. I think we don't mind a bigger nose.
When i was in my late teens and early 20s I wanted a nose job. Now im so happy i never touched it.
Time like the Dr says is important, plus waiting til you go through your "second puberty". Lol
Media isn't helping the issue and social media is going to make it worse
I am 3 years postop with my ethnic rhinoplasty. And I will say it was one of my BEST DECISIONS EVER! You know why???
I did my research. I watched every vlog I could to prepare for it. I had realistic expectations. I chose a physician who specializes in people who look like me (ethnic rhinoplasty). I chose a double board certified surgeon who is also an ENT and a professor. He found polyps that saw I needed additional internal work I never knew I needed but I don’t have the sinus issues I had pre-op and that wasn’t even my goal everything was for aesthetic reasons. If I hadn’t chosen the appropriate surgeon that never would’ve happened.
And I chose after to follow all the rules, protect my investment (I’ve seen people with birds and animals in their face while they’re healing WTF 😳), and to be PATIENT and trust the process. It didn’t stop changing until maybe 6mos ago. That’s 2.5 years of healing and swelling! Lots of people don’t get that and go and get another nose job claiming to be “botched”. Choose wisely folks!
I had a nose job best thing I ever did I wish I had done it earlier. I did it at 37, everything that could do wrong went wrong my, bridge collapsed, I had a bacterial infection. I would still go through it again. I couldn’t even look at myself with my old nose now I like myself.
I'm glad you like your nose now. You said "everything that could go wrong went wrong", but that's not true at all, since you didn't end up botched like many people.
I so related to the girl crying and wishing for her old nose. I didn’t have a rhinoplasty, but I had a septoplasty to fix my double deviated septum because I couldn’t breathe when I slept. Surgery resulted in a saddle nose deformity and was absolutely devastated. I’ve since had a reconstructive rhinoplasty to rebuild my nose with donor rib cartilage grafts (incredibly grateful to the human being who donated their body to science), but I can attest to how she felt. It’s such an awful feeling
glad to see someone saying lana del ray's nose is meh. It's wild that botched nose jobs are so glamourized now. She looked much nicer with her original nose.
Literally, like Bella Hadid who has all the deformities in the book but no one ever mentions it 🤯
Lana's newer nose is stunning. To be honest. I had a hump on my nose that drove me crazy as a teen. I vowed to get that hump taken off as soon as I could get the money. I got it taken off and that really was the best day of my life. Every picture now looked great without the hump. I loved putting makeup on. Sorry but for some of us, we love our new noses. I have had it now for over 50 years and still don't regret it.
I like Dr. Linkov's videos a lot because they help me cut through the noise of what's popular on social vs what is actually achievable and realistic.
I think the comparison of tattoos to plastic surgery is interesting, especially as someone who has many visible tattoos. There are trends in both, both have complications, both are affected by age and health. But the risks of plastic surgery are much greater, even when done by a skilled physician, compared to tattoos done by a well trained artist. Yes tattoos can get infected and you could die from that infection, but the variety of issues from plastic surgery are much broader, from infection to collapse (of the nose), nerve damage, migration of filler, etc. I also think it's easier to get information on your tattoo artist than your surgeon, though that's probably less true for plastic surgery surgeons than like cardiac surgeons. I also can't help but roll my eyes at the line "you have to think about what your tattoos will look like when you're 70". They will look old, like the rest of me! I also personally like how tattoos look on older bodies but a nose that received a bad nose job probably doesn't look good on anyone at any age.