Things to give up to get a high value man to marry you: 1. Social media 2. Male friends 3. Girl nights out 4. Rubbish attitude 4. Dont be a single mom to Pookie & Ray Ray 5. Dont be overweight 6. Avoid tatoos 7. A big mouth
Got with my husband at 21. Dropped everybody! Moved to another state just us and our son for 5 years.Focused on our family and our goals. 22 years later, we look around at our friends and family and understand why we move different!
you cant get better in your time, its a metaphysical thing but your so deep into your brainwashing that its just a wash cycle, the new norm for women starts in 2024 when the millenial's will all be post wall aka 30-40 and with no free perch for women and with the term ''left over women'' going global. the new norm is women are in a hideous middle ground, more educated then their moms , of whom their own mom told them ''they will come into their own at the wall aka 28 and men will work harder for them'' and its not true its ust a single mother tale to protect their kids from making mistakes outta ego to soon in life like the mom did now we have gen z seeing this, they have to work , they have to school but they know theirs nothing waiting for them at 30 and they now have to humble up, i mean every man wheter rich or poor wants a girl from 18-25 anyways so they now have the run of the place from men their own age to 45, young an virile guys to older rich guys who at 40 are looking 30. no loner can older sisters and moms groom their dauhters with 90s phantasies about indy women and how men will try more, men have it easier today as now women must go dutch. men have taken the pill and now women around 2024 will be taking the pink pill, the new norm for post wall women= no perch. this is progress.
Supermodels are weird looking because of their even features. You guys are weird for living the American dream. Maybe we'll get back to a time where low body counts are respected again instead of laughed at. Congrats you guys! Hope you're doing well!
👇🏽Timestamps👇🏽 00:00 Intro Music 21:26 Godfathers power outage monologue 23:02 Candle and Fragrance of the evening 24:25 Godfathers Monologue 31:18 Likes up moment 33:20 Godfathers Monologue Continues 01:07:52 1st Caller 28yo Ilyanette 01:09:29 2nd Caller 26yo Mariah 01:30:00 3rd Caller 33yo Gladys 01:46:10 4th Caller 29yo Khandola 02:00:54 5th Caller 24yo Breaz 02:03:21 6th Caller 32yo Lynn 02:24:42 Godfathers response to superchat comment from Ali 02:30:00 Community Tab Guidelines for Content Creators 02:36:00 How to get Godfather to respond to trending topics 02:39:46 End of show special song
Kevin's gift to read people is humbling to watch. So much focus and hate on this man for his blunt honesty. But here is the thing... To be able to successfully read people the way he does consistently requires a great deal of empathy. You can only accomplish this by being able to put yourself in someone else's shoes and view their lens of the world and feelings. An amazing gift. Respect.
The way he read the lady who came in wanting to give women 4 additional tips was simply breathtaking! He completely disarmed her of her huge ego and proceeded to let her know how broken she really was when she wanted to portray a picture of someone winning. Only then could he give her tips that could really help her and ultimately save her from herself and possibly saved the rest of her life. How people could say this man hates (Black) women do not know the definition of love. No one else genuinely cares about improving the outcomes of women for a lifetime than this man right here!
Kevin asks about weight for a reason and he’s spot on when he says you should be at a healthy weight especially if you want to have kids/marriage. My sister was overweight for 10 years and couldn’t even get her period and it was very irregular the time she got pregnant she ended up losing the baby because of her weight issues. I know we know of some overweight women who has kids but for the most part being overweight stops you from conceiving and or carrying full term and healthy pregnancy. Ladies stop getting defensive on weight issues stop the crap with the whole big girl movement obesity shouldn’t be normalized. We want to be healthy and spend many years with our kids and family not worry about issues like diabetes high blood pressure knee problems sleep apnea etc .
As a 47yr old Man Married for 18yrs… I appreciate my Wife and realize that not only did I choose correctly but my Wife is truly worthy and the best of our Women.. I feel truly sorry for the Men out here! She did all this and more which is why she was chosen. KS don’t stop!!
@@anonymous121474 Okay, I’m just asking cuz I actually called in to his show bc he tells us black women to find a husband when we go to college like the other races of women but then tells us not to marry men the same age but older…
@@lethallines5898 he stated to date up when Women have the expectations of landing a HVM. Men reach their financial peaks around 40,. But if you’re currently a student, you should Marry a peer from school as it will be a harder pool of Men to find once you graduate. In the end, you must do what is best for you base on the outcome you want.
This is dumb tbh. A fool is someone who doesn't learn at all. I'd say your well ahead of the curve if you have the ability to learn from your own mistakes. Many people don't have that ability unfortunately. I partially agree with the wise man learns from the mistakes of others but individual differences and nuances must be taken into account.
To the sistah who is 375lbs and more worried about keeping a disrespectful man than working on her weight: Boo, been there , bought a t-shirt. I took a hiatus from dating and started working on my health. Meal prep, gym, reading more, trying new hobbies,etc. When I meet my king I want to FEEL good and look better.This “ plus size movement” has ruined us. 😑
Meal prep? Look up "Snake Diet." Fat people can literally stop eating for over a month without fear of death. Over 300lbs you can ACTUALLY stop eating for several months SAFELY. You need to STOP prepping meals. SERIOUSLY.
My advice to you as a Man is COOPERATION, Not EVERYTHING is worth a Headache n resistance to. The more Your cooperate with him the more You'll get in return if he truly Loves you which YOU hold him to that standard.
It's good that you're working on your health and fitness. Well done for getting on the right path. 375lbs is the weight of 3 average females combined and it's classified as being morbidly obese. In fact around 220 lbs is the morbidly obese point for the average female so she's waaaay past that! She might only live another 5 or 10 years if she stays at that weight. Maybe even not 5, who knows for sure but she's created a major health risk for herself by eating that much.
375lbs and wondering why her man gets outta bed to answer a call from another woman. Please!! She's lucky to even have a man, and she knows it. No disrespect, but what's she gonna do if he leaves? Go find another man!!
I’m in the top 20% of men, a man of value and the Christian traditional values relationship system. Shout out to the men that want to have a life Of value and want a healthy marriage with a woman of value !!! Marriage is a good thing with the right wife / spouse!!!
@@NickmcWhirter good man!! I left a job yesterday.. I was making 460k between 3 companies but had to walk out of one paying 130k year because they wanted me to quit my other roles. Told them F off they have gone mad! So get another role and double down
The way he read the lady who came in wanting to give women 4 additional tips was simply breathtaking! He completely disarmed her of her huge ego and proceeded to let her know how broken she really was when she wanted to portray a picture of someone winning. Only then could he give her tips that could really help her and ultimately save her from herself and possibly saved the rest of her life. How people could say this man hates (Black) women do not know the definition of love. No one else genuinely cares about improving the outcomes of women for a lifetime than this man right here!
To the woman that’s 300+. Dont crash diet or try to lose that weight fast as possible. It’ll make you look worse and increase the likelihood of a ton of loose skin. Lose it slow but not 15 pounds a year slow. It’ll be a long process but you need to start today! Get in a caloric deficit and resistance train with heavy weight. Don’t cut carbs but cut all sugars. You’re only drinking water for now on. Also don’t follow any celebrity diets they’re a bunch of bs. To lose weight the only requirement is a caloric deficit. You got this 💪🏾
KS is the man! Best content on RUclips by far IMO. Certain RUclipsrs can talk down all they want, questioning his sexual preference, but it all stems from them having no smoke for him. Keep knocking em in the head Mr Godfather 👍🏽
yeah, we love KS and protect the Godfather! I remember the great man from circa 100,000..... Now he's blowing us all away with over a MILLION. Love the man!
Thanks to social media the modern woman is living in an alternate reality. In which their shit don't stink and men want to take care of their 5 kids and should feel honored to do so. I sit back and laugh.
I only found out about Kevin a few months ago and I have immersed myself in listening and learning. Although I’m married you can never stop learning. I’m in my kitchen in the suburbs roasting Friday night chicken like I do every Friday night and can’t be happier! Ladies there are a lot of amazing men in this world, open yourself and your mind and listen to them! 💜
1 Samuel 16:7 “But the Lord said to Samuel, “Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The Lord does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.”
@@moneymonny The message specifically was applied to God choosing a king for Israel. This has nothing to do with selecting a wife or husband. Again, look up eisegesis... Now, if you want to suggest the importance of observing a person's heart for values etc... that's different. Values too are subjective to interpretation. For example, some Christians value pro choice others value pro life. Both are Christians, but can argue over whose interpretation is "right" Let's not take this down a bunny trail. If a man was 4"11, 350 pounds, one arm, and broke would you "look at his heart" to marry him in 6 months?
The quality and value of the content on this video and others you've produced is just so high. This applies to everyone of all nationalities but especially like folks that date black women with forever marriage in mind. Thank for putting these things out there. So many women act like us men are crazy for thinking and wanting these things that you state. It's great to see and identify with a public figure such as yourself on these topics regardless of the fact that I'm not a black man. I did grow up in a predominantly black community in the dc area and only date black women.
Caller one doesn't attract older men, she pursues older men for security, a father figure, etc. She came in to give advice and got some much needed schooling.
I told my gf to get off social media and get rid of all her male friends but I was not successful. When she turned around and started talking about marriage, she was not successful either and I moved on.
@ 56:27 He makes a point here. I'm french myself, but American people have a high popularity ratings overseas. Especially men, because they make a lot of money compared to every other countries
@@janelleg597 yes we do, we are seen as basically "the king that everyone in public honors but is secretly waiting for one of them to be the assassin to take him out." You will be treated well, but in private a lot look at us as thinking we think we are better than the rest of the world, ignorant, Ill-mannered, loud, and greedy. Basically the 7 deadly sins many parts of the world especially religious ones think America embodies, modern day Sodom and Gomorrah.
She stopped going to therapy bcuz they were connecting the dots that she was a 19 year old dating at 60 year old. Basically the therapist was telling her she was wrong and she didn’t wanna hear it so she stopped going.
Caller #1 here. That’s false. I was in therapy for 2 years while I was with the older guy and only went for a few months after moving to Houston for a wellness check. KS didn’t ask me when I went to therapy so when I told him my most recent time he assumed that was it. It’s not even worth explaining the whole story because he’ll cut you off or interrupt.
@@titanjake8640 also my aunt wasn’t in my life at that time. Only until recent years was she around. KS takes bullet points of your life which changes the entire narrative of the story. My mother kicked all of the kids out the house when we got over 18.I wasn’t intentionally trying to replace my father but those 2 years of therapy showed me that I was unconsciously doing so.
@@macman9689 and 51% of men between 18-29 are single. While only 32% of women are. There arent enough women available and they arent choosing average men.
As a woman willing to listen- said very correctly and on point Godfather Samuels- “ Put your cape up and remember where you are at”. Needed you in my younger years!
The first caller is the reason why KS is successful and needed. She came out strong with all the confidence in the world and after asking questions 2 to 3 layers deep, he was able to see the real issue and hopefully saved that woman's life. I salute you brother.
Watching this made me think okay i’m not crazy, that’s weird how i’ve done all these things only 19 , don’t have social media anymore , we are long distance as of right now and i’m ALWAYS planning for future plans to see each-other . hopefully we work out because we are a perfect match for each other and joining the military soon THANKS Mr.Samuels
KS has all my respect....he knows all the right questions. Callers on the other hand never learn anything from the convo. I was happy when I saw the title cuz I thought ok now it's broken down easy so women can understand the 7 points....but no...women still not taking away anything it seems
I was taught at an early age that if a man is planning to be around you for the long haul he is going to invest in you, if he’s not planning to be around you for the long haul he will not invest in you. And that’s real talk! 🤔
Your dad is traditional, but we aren't living in traditional times. These days their is a dangerous shortage of women to invest into for the long haul.
I'm glad he talked about how many brothers talk down on marriage. I'm not married but I grew up around it. It's amazing if you find someone compatible. Meaning your personality and values line up with hers. He's talking about survival of a specific group. Other groups know this already.
Ah!? (The right person no such thing.) see we all have this self righteousness, in retrospect its so easy to point the finger yes to hear these stories/hurt truhts all us fall short and will continue to. The greatest gift in a union any union to develop communication skill and compromising. That is the 🔑
@@SuperYoyoitsme brother, you have no clue what you're talking about. I didn't say the "right person". I said COMPATIBLE. That's a real thing. Most people pick the wrong person then convince themselves that they need to just try harder and make is through the tough times enough. That's not what relationships are about. Folks pick people with the most trauma but try to force it so they don't feel like failures. I've been there. The red flags are always there when you pick the wrong person. This ain't about perfection. It's about picking someone that fits you.
*First caller was 26 with a 48 year old boyfriend in a 4 month relationship. Before that she was 19 dating a 56 year old who didn't try to marry her. She said that she was broken. Wonder what age she was broken before that? These women know everything about nothing.*
Sounds like she was taken advantage of by older men from a very young age. 19 yo is a teenager not a woman and shouldn't be dating men old enough to be her dad or grandfather in the first place.
Ummm nope. And I've been with my hubby for 28 yrs. Been with him since I was 19. But the absolute crap coming out of this dudes mouth is absolutely laughable.
@@ray205k7 🤣🤣🤣 not masculine. Just old enough to know better. No friends, no social media, no social life outside of what hubby says is okay. That's classic isolating and coaching that manipulators love to use. So many red flags.
@@ray205k7 I didn't come to the platform. It showed up in my feed. Back in the 80's this was called manipulation and it wasn't good. No matter if it was a women or man doing it. There is no good, honest reason to isolate someone you want to be in a relationship with. If that is the standard then the relationship is doomed out of the gate.
“She’ll be sleeping with this guy, that guy. But she’s only spending her money on one man. The man she’s spending real money, that’s the one she wants to be with” ELITE fact!
In addition to thinking she was smarter than her therapist, the self-taught coder thought she was smarter than Kevin too until he gave her a swift response to her unnecessary follow-up question. Kevin’s deduction skills are sharp.
Yep... slowed her arrogant ass RIGHT down... She was at least polite, while The Godfather systematically dismantled the entire basis of her argument and demonstrated in 7 minutes how broken and out of order she was... Humility is beautiful to watch in motion...
The 7 requirements KS stated are not exclusive to only high value men. I'd argue by saying *ALL* of the requirements are baseline to get a man in general regardless of status.
@@mr_willwhite8465 Respectfully no. Every human being has inherrent value. Guys looking for work outside Home Depot have those 7 things and much more. Think however you want about yourself; but men deserve much more than that and the worse things get, the faster women will get their mind right.
@@julesfalcone you don't get the point. We live in a free choice world. That means a b80 man can WANT a woman to get with all 7 requirements, but if SHE doesn't see enough value in him, she won't be with him. That's why the leverage is important. If women don't SEE your value, who cares what you "ask" they won't do it
Why do women who claim to be the prize, or call men trash have some of the most unappealing tattoos? Some tattoo locations carry masculine meaning and unfavorable connotations ie lower mid back (tramp stamp). Women will know of these meanings, get the tattoos anyways, and then get mad when a man draws a conclusion. Who decided to get a tattoo and have it placed there?
Once again The Godfather has opened my eyes to what else I need to change to get the outcomes I want! I'm going to endeavor to enlarge my network of success minded people! I'm also going to start attending events that require me to put on a suit or tux! I realize that I'm that guy who just works and sits around the house! Thanks again Godfather...U Da Man!
I just cut off a woman who refused to give up her social media for me. I was even second guessing if there was some validity to the gas lighting about being controlling or insecure that she was liking pics of other guys. So refreshing to hear Kevin confirm that it’s nothing wrong with a man having a standard of cutting off male friends and social media
I love this comment section. I’ve interacted with some interesting men today. I’m so happy I’m emotionally and mentally tapped in to have such lovely conversations 💃🏽.
The get the likes up beat, somebody help me..😎this my jam session through the session. GET THEM LIKES UP, ITS FREE GAME, and appreciated ♥️. Thank you Mr. Samuels ✌️
5’5, 375lb woman: I want a high value man that’s 6’5 and has a six pack Same woman: But he has to accept me as I am otherwise he is a insecure and shallow jerk
I met a women like this recently. Delusional. The worst part is even if they have their weight in check, they have attitude issues form being unwanted due to their obesity.
Ladies, please think at least ten times before getting those tattoos (especially the more visible ones). Most serious men look at you and immediately put you in the “for fun” box mentally. I can take you to the club but not the gala. Is that what you want?
No matter what anyone thinks or feels about the content, or if it’s “accurate” if we do a quick summary of the content, all he is saying is common sense Having a child immediately lessens your options, man and woman, it’s just worse if your a single mother because then the man damn near can’t approach you if he’s not stable enough to take on you and your kid(s) but the men who are stable enough would rather deal with someone without any children. All of this is logical. It gets worse if you have multiple children. At the end of the day, if you wouldn’t want your son bringing home a single mother with 2+ kids and wifing her, you shouldn’t expect that either Don’t be 200-300+ expecting to get treated the same as someone who is a lower number and prettier. You can’t expect to hit the top of the top if your not the top of the top. Generally those who are consistently in shape look better than those who are not. It’s just basic science Just like a man doesn’t shoot his shot at a super model if he’s broke or at the very least not in shape. It has to be realistic. There’s nothing Immediately wrong with being overweight, or having kids, but it is wrong to try and force people to lower there standards if you don’t meet them.
But shorty said out her mouth she would never be with homie if she lost all that weight that means she settling for him, when he's actually settling for her elephant hippo ass
@@solo-us4is At that point its on her to either lose some weight(which in turn will give her self esteem) and leave his ass. In a perfect world, that man wouldn't be playing her, but this is reality, and the reality is, he's not going to take her seriously, because she doesn't even take HERSELF seriously.
I don't want to be a high value man...I'm not working 80hrs a week... Unless you love your job. We already work too much, this is not what life's about. I need my time to surf, mountain bike, kickbox and relax...no woman is worth more than that. Then your wife divorces you because you are never there and your kids resent you. Why can't we just both make 60k a year and live a middle class life. You cook and clean and I'll fix the car and mow the lawns. You nurture our kids, I'll punish them.
60k to 80k is cool. Everyone can't make high 6 figure income. All I say is try to be greater than average. Not for a woman's sake but yours. Because cost of living is increasing and gotta keep up with inflation.
Coming from a recently divorced HVM I actually agree with a minimalist lifestyle. Slow down your life and just enjoy it. In this capitalistic society we're taught to go go go get get get and the next thing you know you've done it so much life actually passed you by. I get it
I still get surprised that women will lie about their dress size when they are on camera. We all can see and KS catches them on their lie. It makes me wonder what lies they are capable of, especially of the things we can’t see.
There's a cost to having the things you want. Nothing in this world is free, accept the air you breathe so be thankful for the average things that come across your way cause cats and dogs are everywhere and the stocks for Alpo and Friskies will hit the roof
Even fresh air is not guaranteed - wait for a dust storm, smoke, or bad air pollution. So it's free but not guaranteed. And even your taxes pay to make sure it is clean enough. Not trying to criticise your point, just emphasising it more, the idea that EVERYTHING comes with a price
I just met a 6 or 7 who's super happy. I offer this bc it's easy to get black pilled. She works a shit job, with a shit uniform and everytime I go in there I notice she's really nice and happy to all the customers. (Mostly old people and third worlders i.e. she's not flirting - she's legitimately good natured.) She was so pleasant it got me thinking: maybe I'll stop going for 8's, 9's and 10's. This woman was pretty and her personality was really easy to be around. I could see having a nice life with a woman like that. (I live in Los Angeles, and haven't met a woman worth the hassle in a long time.)
Giving up male friends => with social media ppl now stay connected to ex-partners for decades and now over a lifetime. They just go dormant when ppl are in relationships then they are reactivated whenever needed (dead bedrooms, during relationship difficulties, boredom, for excitement, and for post relationship rebounds)
These women under 25 are the worst with that with how addicted they are to social media and how they have no concept of boundaries. Just had a woman throw away a whole relationship because she didn’t want to give up engaging with those male “friends” on social media. They literally would rather die alone than sacrifice the freedom to seek attention and validation from other men who are even of lesser value than you
I love being married and even when I was divorced, I still spoke highly of marriage. My husband and I were divorcees and thank God he found me and I attracted him. He’s amazing and I couldn’t imagine my life without him.
Remarriage = Adultery , marriage is until death so if your husband is still alive and you’re in a counterfeit marriage you should repent while you still have time. Your happiness in your sinful state is not as important as repenting and being saved from eternity in Hell. Without repentance there can be no forgiveness of sin. If the prodigal son never repented and returned home he would have stayed lost forever.
I just realized where not wanting to give up single friends comes from. "Sisters before misters". Your single friends have always told you they will always be there for you. When he breaks your heart, they will be there for a shoulder to cry on. But if they get a man, you won't hear from them same girlfriends. I will drop my single girlfriends in a heart beat. Matter of fact, most of them I already have. I hardly speak to any of them and we never hang out anymore. They know I am on a mission to keep my man permanently.
I never did girl’s trips when I was single, always found them lewd. My social media is private (I make money off of it because I have an apparel business that I design for), and I was actually pretty happy to get rid of my single friends. They did everything they could to try and sabotage my marriage early on. Ridiculous.
The damage has been done. There's really no reason a man is going to take on the financial jeopardy of a marriage contract with a party that can walk and take half, plus her kids, and leave for any reason whatsoever. Put aside the fact that none of them actually bring any domestic skills. The only thing they offer, that one thing, can be gotten without marriage. Fix no fault divorce. This is where the conversation should always start because the woman you marry isn't the same that sues for divorce.
I'm actually waiting on KS to do that show but he advocates for marriage so hard yet doesn't speak on how detrimental it can be to men. Which leads me to believe he didn't have much when he divorced those 2xs. I could be wrong but as a recently divorced HVM my mind hasn't processed whether or not I'd ever do it again. From a financial perspective it makes no sense.
@@ThurstMETV You aren't wrong. You would be a FOOL to get married in this day and age especially if you're successful. There's no literally no benefit especially when women don't really bring anything to the table anymore but problems. Kevin is capping on this one.
KS has already stated that marriage makes no sense for the average guy. Pretty soon, he’ll start to acknowledge that it probably doesn’t make sense for the top 20% either.
Kevin speaks the truth. I am a successful six figure earning black man and I am going through a divorce. I find these modern women to be very difficult. I’m thinking about going to Brazil, Costa Rica, or somewhere similar to get my next wife if I choose to get married again.
People need to train themselves to do three things to make weight loss easier: 1) Stop consuming sugary and carb heavy foods and drinks. 2) Learn to fall in love with only drinking water, and drink at least 12 cups of it throughout the day. 3) Keep to a consistent schedule, of at least 16 hours per day, where no calories are consumed (Example: No foods or drinks between 6pm-10am, water is the exception)
@@shayeallmon5671 Diet is a way more critical factor to losing weight for people who are really overweight and obese. Exercise is not nearly as important. Once you shed a decent amount of weight, start to incorporate cardio, and a proper weight lifting program like "starting strength" to build muscle.
am so thankful for the seriousness ,and work i see i need to do for myself as well am beginning to change my opinions about the bubbled life i looked at now ...reality hits new you r the best👌🤝
A lot of men became loners because they took a look at the dating pool and realized that the juice is not worth the squeeze for the most part. For some of the men who do get married again there are plenty of other stories of men never rebuilding to that point again in their lives. I understand wanting to build a network and what not, but finding a woman who respects all that and her role is like finding a needle in a needlestack. No thanks.
Today’s marriage is for the upper middle class. It is for men who can stand to lose 30% to 50% of their net worth. Women change daily, according to what society allows. Men adjust to that change…. the adjustment we have made is that we no longer make plans to one day build a family. We accept that their are way more concubines than there are wives. The men that Kevin deals with runs in networks and clubs/fraternal organizations that 99% of the men in this world no nothing about. They live their lives by much different rules than the average man does, so it’s important to live by the decisions that we make. If you have a standard, live by it. As a man, if the numbers don’t add up, then stand by your logic. The cost benefit analysis is skewed one way, irregardless of the networks that are needed to establish yourself as a HVM. Follow your logic brothas.
@@Dbo_Sports divorce doesn't mean you lose 30 to 50% of your assets. That only applies to men who grow rich while they are married to a woman who does not also grow rich and especially if she has kids rather than work. But again, that is for men with lots of MONEY
@Darkrosewine - You mean that tiny clip where he’s talking about men having other men’s backs when they wanna date out? So disingenuous. Watch the whole clip. 🙄
I have been Happily Married 22 years🍋 We have two beautiful children 🍋 My Husband and I have Always been Loyal and Faithful to Each other 🍋 Our Most Important Family is the One we Create🍋
The hardest thing for women to give up, especially black women, is their female friends. For men, we unconsciously cut off ours with the quickness. And the funny thing is men understand that when it happens and women don’t.
To add, men can bring that shit right back with friendship if it happened to drop off after a long time. I work hard, my closer friends work hard, so we know the rule - We handle ours and if it's 4 days, 4 weeks, 4 months, or 4 years until we hang out again, then that's what it is. Women take 4 hours personally as an attack against them
@@ronswanson1410 this 💯. Hung out with my friends when I was on leave for the first time in almost a year. Didn’t miss a beat because true friends won’t.
This comment is pure facts. I can go for months without taking to some friends but I can call one up today and we start talking like no time passed. If he needs something done I'm there and vice versa.
Been saying it for long time, married men tend to give worst advice/opinion, & take everything personally. If you are out of market for a while, you don't understand, stay over there.
Kevin✨ I really appreciate the perspectives you shared today. The stepfather role I wholeheartedly agree with you🧸❤️!!! The rest of the list ✅ is easy 😏 Male orbiters 😝 Much love and blessing for being of service to humanity 🚀🚀
Damn kevin read the 26 year old with ease that shit was pretty Impressive he truly has a gift I would’ve fell for her bullshit thinking she had the answers and she more lost then me damnnn bro thank u kevin u really changed the way my mind sees the world especially women
Mr. Samuels was damn right when he told the last caller that the audience gained a lot from their conversation . I gained wisdom about selfish and crazy modern women who expect UNCONDITIONAL LOVE from a men( women expect men to love and accept me the them the way I am) but they will give a man CONDITIONAL SUBMITION (men should prove he's worth to get submition).
_That part when KS said about a woman who is not spending on a man_ Ladies and Gentleman. This is a gem to take note. I discovered it too late. That waste of time and money you will never get it back.
Social Media has taught our women that they are Queens without Kings, that they're time and vaginas are an even exchange for a man's time and resources. It blows my mind that a woman thinks she can cook for you one time and you should take her on a trip. This coming from a recently divorced HVM.
100% facts at the end your commentary about fair use ! Sum lame people do videos based on your content ( JRWisdom) giving their low level POV…. Sue their asses KS . They can’t do anything unique so they try and ride your coat tails
I still can’t get over how little the children actually mean to bw. It’s more important to say they have a kid than the child’s actually quality of life.
It's the same in all races. My 53 yo sister recommended I hire a surrogate to give me a kid so I could raise it myself(without a mother). They are all selfish and think the same. My sis left her husband because he was "boring", last year. Guy she's with now has slightly more money and lets her have access to it. This isn't uncommon. She's very typical of women in her group. Again, they all think this way.
@@povofpoa2220 You abandon yourselves by making poor, irrational and short term choices. The vast majority of bm are down to earth and hardworking but you want the thug or the 6 figure mogul 😅
@@povofpoa2220 again with this stupid talking point? You break marriages off faster than the plague killed Europeans over Simply being told that being single is fun by your fat single friends… if not that, you look for loyalty at the club and street corners where there is none…80% of the babies from 20% of men… if not that, you get old and have a baby artificially because you can’t take being alone due to your piss poor attitudes…pathetic…let’s drop the cap already and act like functioning adults for the first time in generations…
Kevin 39 male thanks for the message I've stopped looking around for excuses and started looking in the mirror and working on that person I see...got a person trainer working 0ut 4 days a week...
Kevin did an amazing job with the young lady dating older men, in addition to other callers who were open to dialogue. It's like watching clinicians through a window or video with a supervisor to learn deeply... Man, this is AWESOME. On another note, sadly, I didn't realize my own systemic wounds (Jacked Up) until going through Therapy, while studying to become a clinician... I'm still a work in progress. Damn... I wish I knew what I know now, I would have done different...
I think Kevin is blaming education too much. I do agree in what Ali said on that education is important for women because they are your kids first teacher. It is women who is raising children while the men are away. I think the problem is that marriage is not valued.
@Bianca Brown Let's say he is a "clown" why are men and WOMEN coming on the show then? And it's not like hes being unreasonable. I could understand if he was saying some shit that's wild, or insanity, but I think that if we are being real, its not wrong to want someone who has no kids and is in shape, right? If we are being real, weight goes along with attractiveness. If your a 8 in the face but a 250 on the scale, losing even TWENTY pounds will rise you up OVERALL. Just my take. I don't agree with everything he says, I think he may be off at certain times, but the base message of "Be in shape, don't be ugly, and try to keep the kids down to a 0-1" isn't exactly rocket science. And nobody is saying these women CAN't find a "high value man", It's just that for a man of this high status to claim you, it's a better chance he will if you lessen the negatives(Being overweight and having children)
@@darthkek1953 he’s not delusional but I will say he doesn’t give you a chance to explain yourself. He goes off cliff notes and that’s it. You can’t size someone’s life to a bullet point. I get he has to keep it entertaining, but he will quickly dismiss you to to go back to his point without having brief additional detail.
Good got dangit I found out what my issues is and why I haven't got married I have been a know it all and too head strong sheesh.. Thank you Kevin for asking the right questions I'm going to get give up those things and accept the truth
Things to give up to get a high value man to marry you:
1. Social media
2. Male friends
3. Girl nights out
4. Rubbish attitude
4. Dont be a single mom to Pookie & Ray Ray
5. Dont be overweight
6. Avoid tatoos
7. A big mouth
I'd add weave and fast food to that list.
@@karriemsharief toxic girlfriends , their relationship coach friends who try to dictate their relationship
You forgot no stanky weave. Thank you sir.
And a job as well as some self esteem about yourself.
This is laughable. This is a red flag ladies, a true Alpha man is NOT worried about any of those things. 🤣🤣🤣🤣😆
Got with my husband at 21. Dropped everybody! Moved to another state just us and our son for 5 years.Focused on our family and our goals. 22 years later, we look around at our friends and family and understand why we move different!
you cant get better in your time, its a metaphysical thing but your so deep into your brainwashing that its just a wash cycle, the new norm for women starts in 2024 when the millenial's will all be post wall aka 30-40 and with no free perch for women and with the term ''left over women'' going global. the new norm is women are in a hideous middle ground, more educated then their moms , of whom their own mom told them ''they will come into their own at the wall aka 28 and men will work harder for them'' and its not true its ust a single mother tale to protect their kids from making mistakes outta ego to soon in life like the mom did now we have gen z seeing this, they have to work , they have to school but they know theirs nothing waiting for them at 30 and they now have to humble up, i mean every man wheter rich or poor wants a girl from 18-25 anyways so they now have the run of the place from men their own age to 45, young an virile guys to older rich guys who at 40 are looking 30. no loner can older sisters and moms groom their dauhters with 90s phantasies about indy women and how men will try more, men have it easier today as now women must go dutch. men have taken the pill and now women around 2024 will be taking the pink pill, the new norm for post wall women= no perch. this is progress.
Glad you were smart enough to do what yall did.
Smart and blessed!
Supermodels are weird looking because of their even features. You guys are weird for living the American dream. Maybe we'll get back to a time where low body counts are respected again instead of laughed at. Congrats you guys! Hope you're doing well!
You smart!
👇🏽Timestamps👇🏽
00:00 Intro Music
21:26 Godfathers power outage monologue
23:02 Candle and Fragrance of the evening
24:25 Godfathers Monologue
31:18 Likes up moment
33:20 Godfathers Monologue Continues
01:07:52 1st Caller 28yo Ilyanette
01:09:29 2nd Caller 26yo Mariah
01:30:00 3rd Caller 33yo Gladys
01:46:10 4th Caller 29yo Khandola
02:00:54 5th Caller 24yo Breaz
02:03:21 6th Caller 32yo Lynn
02:24:42 Godfathers response to superchat comment from Ali
02:30:00 Community Tab Guidelines for Content Creators
02:36:00 How to get Godfather to respond to trending topics
02:39:46 End of show special song
Thanks bro
Thanks.
No way the first caller is 28.
Thank you BlueJeans big up yuh self 👍🏼
Blue jeans. Mvp 🤜🏾🤛🏾💯🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Kevin's gift to read people is humbling to watch. So much focus and hate on this man for his blunt honesty. But here is the thing... To be able to successfully read people the way he does consistently requires a great deal of empathy. You can only accomplish this by being able to put yourself in someone else's shoes and view their lens of the world and feelings. An amazing gift. Respect.
Spot on, my friend.
💯
Dude is a fucking ninja
Anthony Patrao, eloquently said.
The way he read the lady who came in wanting to give women 4 additional tips was simply breathtaking! He completely disarmed her of her huge ego and proceeded to let her know how broken she really was when she wanted to portray a picture of someone winning. Only then could he give her tips that could really help her and ultimately save her from herself and possibly saved the rest of her life.
How people could say this man hates (Black) women do not know the definition of love. No one else genuinely cares about improving the outcomes of women for a lifetime than this man right here!
Kevin asks about weight for a reason and he’s spot on when he says you should be at a healthy weight especially if you want to have kids/marriage. My sister was overweight for 10 years and couldn’t even get her period and it was very irregular the time she got pregnant she ended up losing the baby because of her weight issues. I know we know of some overweight women who has kids but for the most part being overweight stops you from conceiving and or carrying full term and healthy pregnancy. Ladies stop getting defensive on weight issues stop the crap with the whole big girl movement obesity shouldn’t be normalized. We want to be healthy and spend many years with our kids and family not worry about issues like diabetes high blood pressure knee problems sleep apnea etc .
Amen. 80% of BW are obese. It's a national crisis.
yes i agree with this 100%
So good. I wish I could go back 35 years and watch this show. Humble yourself ladies. This man knows what he's talking about.
As a 47yr old Man Married for 18yrs… I appreciate my Wife and realize that not only did I choose correctly but my Wife is truly worthy and the best of our Women.. I feel truly sorry for the Men out here! She did all this and more which is why she was chosen. KS don’t stop!!
Are you and your wife around the same age?
@@lethallines5898 4yrs apart
Same sentiments here brother! I feel bad for these men, keep going KS!
@@anonymous121474 Okay, I’m just asking cuz I actually called in to his show bc he tells us black women to find a husband when we go to college like the other races of women but then tells us not to marry men the same age but older…
@@lethallines5898 he stated to date up when Women have the expectations of landing a HVM. Men reach their financial peaks around 40,. But if you’re currently a student, you should Marry a peer from school as it will be a harder pool of Men to find once you graduate. In the end, you must do what is best for you base on the outcome you want.
“Only a fool learns from his own mistakes. The wise man learns from the mistakes of others.”
-Otto von Bismarck
This comment is greatly underrated. I live by this as well.
Word
Trully, this are king Salomon's words. You can find them in the book of Proverbs.
Facts !!!
This is dumb tbh. A fool is someone who doesn't learn at all. I'd say your well ahead of the curve if you have the ability to learn from your own mistakes. Many people don't have that ability unfortunately. I partially agree with the wise man learns from the mistakes of others but individual differences and nuances must be taken into account.
To the sistah who is 375lbs and more worried about keeping a disrespectful man than working on her weight: Boo, been there , bought a t-shirt. I took a hiatus from dating and started working on my health. Meal prep, gym, reading more, trying new hobbies,etc. When I meet my king I want to FEEL good and look better.This “ plus size movement” has ruined us. 😑
true
Meal prep? Look up "Snake Diet." Fat people can literally stop eating for over a month without fear of death. Over 300lbs you can ACTUALLY stop eating for several months SAFELY.
You need to STOP prepping meals. SERIOUSLY.
My advice to you as a Man is COOPERATION, Not EVERYTHING is worth a Headache n resistance to. The more Your cooperate with him the more You'll get in return if he truly Loves you which YOU hold him to that standard.
It's good that you're working on your health and fitness. Well done for getting on the right path.
375lbs is the weight of 3 average females combined and it's classified as being morbidly obese. In fact around 220 lbs is the morbidly obese point for the average female so she's waaaay past that! She might only live another 5 or 10 years if she stays at that weight. Maybe even not 5, who knows for sure but she's created a major health risk for herself by eating that much.
375lbs and wondering why her man gets outta bed to answer a call from another woman. Please!!
She's lucky to even have a man, and she knows it. No disrespect, but what's she gonna do if he leaves? Go find another man!!
I’m in the top 20% of men, a man of value and the Christian traditional values relationship system. Shout out to the men that want to have a life Of value and want a healthy marriage with a woman of value !!! Marriage is a good thing with the right wife / spouse!!!
Yes 🙌🏽.
Same here man 👍🏿
so do you earn 80k?
@@NyakzOTSD I earn 130k take home net per year.
@@NickmcWhirter good man!! I left a job yesterday.. I was making 460k between 3 companies but had to walk out of one paying 130k year because they wanted me to quit my other roles. Told them F off they have gone mad! So get another role and double down
The way he read the lady who came in wanting to give women 4 additional tips was simply breathtaking! He completely disarmed her of her huge ego and proceeded to let her know how broken she really was when she wanted to portray a picture of someone winning. Only then could he give her tips that could really help her and ultimately save her from herself and possibly saved the rest of her life.
How people could say this man hates (Black) women do not know the definition of love. No one else genuinely cares about improving the outcomes of women for a lifetime than this man right here!
I'm the middle of his questions to her right now.
She sounds almost like she's reciting a rehearsed script to me so far!
Moment of silence for women with daddy issues. Jesus Christ.
It was masterful! Should be studied!
To the woman that’s 300+. Dont crash diet or try to lose that weight fast as possible. It’ll make you look worse and increase the likelihood of a ton of loose skin. Lose it slow but not 15 pounds a year slow. It’ll be a long process but you need to start today!
Get in a caloric deficit and resistance train with heavy weight. Don’t cut carbs but cut all sugars. You’re only drinking water for now on. Also don’t follow any celebrity diets they’re a bunch of bs.
To lose weight the only requirement is a caloric deficit. You got this 💪🏾
Keto gang
I lost 40lbs doing the same...watch calorie in take, cut sugars, smaller portions healthy snacks.
Thank you 💪🏾
KS is the man! Best content on RUclips by far IMO. Certain RUclipsrs can talk down all they want, questioning his sexual preference, but it all stems from them having no smoke for him. Keep knocking em in the head Mr Godfather 👍🏽
Real talk! The best one by far.
They more they mock him the better he gets
Facts
yeah, we love KS and protect the Godfather! I remember the great man from circa 100,000..... Now he's blowing us all away with over a MILLION. Love the man!
He reminds me of a black version of Tom Lykis. Kevin even mentioned Tom Lykis on his show a few time.
“Your houses are as empty as your hearts” that was extremely deep.
you could tell that cut like a knife
That was a stunning statement!
They can’t love you because I don’t love them selves
Truth!
My mom got a 4 bedroom, 0 visitors
“You can’t evolve from things you don’t acknowledge.”
Gems. Every. Time.
I don't understand people who hate Kevin he always tries to tell the truth as gentle as he can
Thanks to social media the modern woman is living in an alternate reality. In which their shit don't stink and men want to take care of their 5 kids and should feel honored to do so. I sit back and laugh.
@@rastradamus1074 let's laugh together 😆 they act add if they are the ones with leverage over a man and over the relationship.
@@imdon8920 😄
LOL people hate the truth. Why do they follow Politician's so in depth? they want comforting lies while people who speak the truth are vilified.
The ones who hate him are the whumen who are in the business of duping men. Ofcourse they're going to hate him. Haters gone hate. Let em hate. f' em
I only found out about Kevin a few months ago and I have immersed myself in listening and learning. Although I’m married you can never stop learning. I’m in my kitchen in the suburbs roasting Friday night chicken like I do every Friday night and can’t be happier! Ladies there are a lot of amazing men in this world, open yourself and your mind and listen to them! 💜
1 Samuel 16:7
“But the Lord said to Samuel, “Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The Lord does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.”
That's a great verse, however, it really doesn't apply to this perspective...
We would call what you did "eisegesis"😉
I disagree, It applies ❤️ God Bless
@@moneymonny The message specifically was applied to God choosing a king for Israel.
This has nothing to do with selecting a wife or husband. Again, look up eisegesis...
Now, if you want to suggest the importance of observing a person's heart for values etc... that's different. Values too are subjective to interpretation.
For example, some Christians value pro choice others value pro life. Both are Christians, but can argue over whose interpretation is "right"
Let's not take this down a bunny trail. If a man was 4"11, 350 pounds, one arm, and broke would you "look at his heart" to marry him in 6 months?
Appearance matters though it’s human nature
Love this!! Just reread this story about King David recently.
The quality and value of the content on this video and others you've produced is just so high. This applies to everyone of all nationalities but especially like folks that date black women with forever marriage in mind. Thank for putting these things out there. So many women act like us men are crazy for thinking and wanting these things that you state. It's great to see and identify with a public figure such as yourself on these topics regardless of the fact that I'm not a black man. I did grow up in a predominantly black community in the dc area and only date black women.
Caller one doesn't attract older men, she pursues older men for security, a father figure, etc. She came in to give advice and got some much needed schooling.
I think the old men use her for se+.
YOU CANT EVOLVE FROM ANYTHING YOU WONT ACKNOWLEDGE 🔥🔥🔥
Haven’t posted on my Instagram since 2018🤣
This gonna be a piece of cake
Bring on the challenge
I’m just crossing off the list now
What city are you located in Ms. Johnson?
I told my gf to get off social media and get rid of all her male friends but I was not successful. When she turned around and started talking about marriage, she was not successful either and I moved on.
omg 😭
@ 56:27
He makes a point here.
I'm french myself, but American people have a high popularity ratings overseas. Especially men, because they make a lot of money compared to every other countries
Really? I've heard we have a rep for being rude, causing some tourits to display a maple leaf to pass as Canadia . Perhaps known for both?
@@janelleg597 yes we do, we are seen as basically "the king that everyone in public honors but is secretly waiting for one of them to be the assassin to take him out."
You will be treated well, but in private a lot look at us as thinking we think we are better than the rest of the world, ignorant, Ill-mannered, loud, and greedy.
Basically the 7 deadly sins many parts of the world especially religious ones think America embodies, modern day Sodom and Gomorrah.
@@nazareneoftheway3936 We passed Soddom and Gomorrah a long time ago.
Kevin gives great advice he change the way I'm going to raise my daughter. Thank u your heaven sent.
She stopped going to therapy bcuz they were connecting the dots that she was a 19 year old dating at 60 year old. Basically the therapist was telling her she was wrong and she didn’t wanna hear it so she stopped going.
Wow! Yes. Now that is toooooo much.
Yup
@The Esquire of Sports® no she did not live with the aunt. It would have been ideal. She made excuses about being homeless. 😳
Caller #1 here. That’s false. I was in therapy for 2 years while I was with the older guy and only went for a few months after moving to Houston for a wellness check. KS didn’t ask me when I went to therapy so when I told him my most recent time he assumed that was it. It’s not even worth explaining the whole story because he’ll cut you off or interrupt.
@@titanjake8640 also my aunt wasn’t in my life at that time. Only until recent years was she around. KS takes bullet points of your life which changes the entire narrative of the story. My mother kicked all of the kids out the house when we got over 18.I wasn’t intentionally trying to replace my father but those 2 years of therapy showed me that I was unconsciously doing so.
"if your dating pool is trash, the first thing you need to check is the mirror" 💥
IDK, for men being average puts you at trash. kinda unfair but no one cares about fairness.
@@viralt487 make more money.🤷🏾♀️
@@viralt487 most people are average
@@macman9689 and 51% of men between 18-29 are single. While only 32% of women are. There arent enough women available and they arent choosing average men.
As a woman willing to listen- said very correctly and on point Godfather Samuels- “ Put your cape up and remember where you are at”. Needed you in my younger years!
Thanks!
The first caller is the reason why KS is successful and needed. She came out strong with all the confidence in the world and after asking questions 2 to 3 layers deep, he was able to see the real issue and hopefully saved that woman's life. I salute you brother.
Watching this made me think okay i’m not crazy, that’s weird how i’ve done all these things only 19 , don’t have social media anymore , we are long distance as of right now and i’m ALWAYS planning for future plans to see each-other . hopefully we work out because we are a perfect match for each other and joining the military soon THANKS Mr.Samuels
Your socializing now believe it or not. You probably delete you tube if is the route your going
KS has all my respect....he knows all the right questions. Callers on the other hand never learn anything from the convo. I was happy when I saw the title cuz I thought ok now it's broken down easy so women can understand the 7 points....but no...women still not taking away anything it seems
I was taught at an early age that if a man is planning to be around you for the long haul he is going to invest in you, if he’s not planning to be around you for the long haul he will not invest in you.
And that’s real talk! 🤔
And it's a red flag if it's not reciprocated. She doesn't invest in furthering your life goals by a leap she wasn't planning on staying around long
Invest how please teach me some examples
@@betty367 Quality Time.....
Your dad is traditional, but we aren't living in traditional times. These days their is a dangerous shortage of women to invest into for the long haul.
I'll do one better!
"How you spend your money is how you spend your future!"
I'm glad he talked about how many brothers talk down on marriage. I'm not married but I grew up around it. It's amazing if you find someone compatible. Meaning your personality and values line up with hers. He's talking about survival of a specific group. Other groups know this already.
Ah!? (The right person no such thing.) see we all have this self righteousness, in retrospect its so easy to point the finger yes to hear these stories/hurt truhts all us fall short and will continue to. The greatest gift in a union any union to develop communication skill and compromising. That is the 🔑
@@SuperYoyoitsme brother, you have no clue what you're talking about. I didn't say the "right person". I said COMPATIBLE. That's a real thing. Most people pick the wrong person then convince themselves that they need to just try harder and make is through the tough times enough. That's not what relationships are about. Folks pick people with the most trauma but try to force it so they don't feel like failures. I've been there. The red flags are always there when you pick the wrong person. This ain't about perfection. It's about picking someone that fits you.
*First caller was 26 with a 48 year old boyfriend in a 4 month relationship. Before that she was 19 dating a 56 year old who didn't try to marry her. She said that she was broken. Wonder what age she was broken before that? These women know everything about nothing.*
Great point. Also, she’s been on the show before. I’m not sure if KS remembered her.
Sounds like she was taken advantage of by older men from a very young age. 19 yo is a teenager not a woman and shouldn't be dating men old enough to be her dad or grandfather in the first place.
@@lucky2516true but she deserves accountability for that as well, especially when you have parents that you hide your relations from
Finally self reflection is mandatory for women to have long term legitimate relationships.... before it was only looks...
😅😆😅 you think these 304's listening? 😄😆
@@fevrenevanescence6901 🤣🤣💯I hope so brother really... only pride arrogance and the need 2b right is their own enemy... I'm so serious...
Every female not just the black female needs to digest and apply this content It's life changing 🙏
Ummm nope. And I've been with my hubby for 28 yrs. Been with him since I was 19. But the absolute crap coming out of this dudes mouth is absolutely laughable.
@@Oldfarmlady Masculine in the 1st degree that you are but congrats on being married know he's going thru it
@@ray205k7 🤣🤣🤣 not masculine. Just old enough to know better. No friends, no social media, no social life outside of what hubby says is okay. That's classic isolating and coaching that manipulators love to use. So many red flags.
@@Oldfarmlady Why come to a platform and bash a guy who is trying to get females to the level you're on times have changed since 28yrs ago just saying
@@ray205k7 I didn't come to the platform. It showed up in my feed. Back in the 80's this was called manipulation and it wasn't good. No matter if it was a women or man doing it. There is no good, honest reason to isolate someone you want to be in a relationship with. If that is the standard then the relationship is doomed out of the gate.
Kevin is speaking complete facts. Some people just can’t take hearing the truth.
Their girlfriends will always be more important to them then their relationships! I lived this several times. KS was right on!
“She’ll be sleeping with this guy, that guy. But she’s only spending her money on one man. The man she’s spending real money, that’s the one she wants to be with” ELITE fact!
In addition to thinking she was smarter than her therapist, the self-taught coder thought she was smarter than Kevin too until he gave her a swift response to her unnecessary follow-up question. Kevin’s deduction skills are sharp.
Yep... slowed her arrogant ass RIGHT down...
She was at least polite, while The Godfather systematically dismantled the entire basis of her argument and demonstrated in 7 minutes how broken and out of order she was...
Humility is beautiful to watch in motion...
His IQ is well above even these phd, wannabe Einstein, dog moms 🐕
@@doctornrsfnly somebody I know said this..hmmmm
@SAINT MAURICE he is a wise man
Where was this?
The 7 requirements KS stated are not exclusive to only high value men. I'd argue by saying *ALL* of the requirements are baseline to get a man in general regardless of status.
True but the t20 man has leverage to require that bc women can see his value easier than the b80 (bottom 80) men
@@mr_willwhite8465 Respectfully no. Every human being has inherrent value. Guys looking for work outside Home Depot have those 7 things and much more. Think however you want about yourself; but men deserve much more than that and the worse things get, the faster women will get their mind right.
@@julesfalcone you don't get the point. We live in a free choice world. That means a b80 man can WANT a woman to get with all 7 requirements, but if SHE doesn't see enough value in him, she won't be with him. That's why the leverage is important. If women don't SEE your value, who cares what you "ask" they won't do it
facts
Yes and when he says high value he doesn’t only base that off of financial status of a man though but also traditional men
Why do women who claim to be the prize, or call men trash have some of the most unappealing tattoos? Some tattoo locations carry masculine meaning and unfavorable connotations ie lower mid back (tramp stamp). Women will know of these meanings, get the tattoos anyways, and then get mad when a man draws a conclusion. Who decided to get a tattoo and have it placed there?
I can't tell you how many jack Skellington tattoos I've seen on fat white girl arms. The irony is next level.
Yeah flowers, claw prints, cheetah prints and Trump stamps
Ikr most tattoos on women aren’t sexy
Lady “What can I do?”
Kevin- “Nothing you’re done”
😂😂😂😂😭😭😭
Can I eat those faces dear???????
😂😂😂😂
KS you be dropping it and a lot of people don't want the truth. They would rather be delusional and lie to themselves.......keep on keeping on KS!!!!!
Once again The Godfather has opened my eyes to what else I need to change to get the outcomes I want! I'm going to endeavor to enlarge my network of success minded people! I'm also going to start attending events that require me to put on a suit or tux! I realize that I'm that guy who just works and sits around the house! Thanks again Godfather...U Da Man!
I just cut off a woman who refused to give up her social media for me. I was even second guessing if there was some validity to the gas lighting about being controlling or insecure that she was liking pics of other guys. So refreshing to hear Kevin confirm that it’s nothing wrong with a man having a standard of cutting off male friends and social media
Did you give up your social media too?
@@nicolesawyer7117 are you a social media junky?
@@wiseone8604 no Ive never even had a Instagram. But you didn’t answer my question.
🤣🤣🤣🤣
She dodged a bullet 🤣🤣🤣
I love this comment section. I’ve interacted with some interesting men today. I’m so happy I’m emotionally and mentally tapped in to have such lovely conversations 💃🏽.
The get the likes up beat, somebody help me..😎this my jam session through the session. GET THEM LIKES UP, ITS FREE GAME, and appreciated ♥️. Thank you Mr. Samuels ✌️
Every week, KS exposes these women and it’s amazing and sad all at the same time.
5’5, 375lb woman: I want a high value man that’s 6’5 and has a six pack
Same woman: But he has to accept me as I am otherwise he is a insecure and shallow jerk
I met a women like this recently. Delusional. The worst part is even if they have their weight in check, they have attitude issues form being unwanted due to their obesity.
I didn’t know that it was possible to be 5’5 and be over 200lbs
@@MAli-os2yj Go watch my 600-lb life... you will be shocked hahahaha
@@MAli-os2yj Exactly. I thought I was doing bad. I'm 5'2 133 lbs. I'm still considered overweight but I couldn't imagine being almost 400lbs.
@@racheahoward9998 they got fat stored in their forehead and ears. This is not even funny.
Ladies, please think at least ten times before getting those tattoos (especially the more visible ones). Most serious men look at you and immediately put you in the “for fun” box mentally. I can take you to the club but not the gala. Is that what you want?
A woman with those tattoos? I'm putting a condom on top of my condom.
@@darthkek1953 Lol
Gala ? Met Gala ?
@@goldc4859 😅😂😂
@The Esquire of Sports® 😂😂😂
No matter what anyone thinks or feels about the content, or if it’s “accurate” if we do a quick summary of the content, all he is saying is common sense
Having a child immediately lessens your options, man and woman, it’s just worse if your a single mother because then the man damn near can’t approach you if he’s not stable enough to take on you and your kid(s) but the men who are stable enough would rather deal with someone without any children. All of this is logical. It gets worse if you have multiple children.
At the end of the day, if you wouldn’t want your son bringing home a single mother with 2+ kids and wifing her, you shouldn’t expect that either
Don’t be 200-300+ expecting to get treated the same as someone who is a lower number and prettier. You can’t expect to hit the top of the top if your not the top of the top. Generally those who are consistently in shape look better than those who are not. It’s just basic science
Just like a man doesn’t shoot his shot at a super model if he’s broke or at the very least not in shape. It has to be realistic.
There’s nothing Immediately wrong with being overweight, or having kids, but it is wrong to try and force people to lower there standards if you don’t meet them.
Preach. Lol. It's simple.
But shorty said out her mouth she would never be with homie if she lost all that weight that means she settling for him, when he's actually settling for her elephant hippo ass
@@solo-us4is At that point its on her to either lose some weight(which in turn will give her self esteem) and leave his ass. In a perfect world, that man wouldn't be playing her, but this is reality, and the reality is, he's not going to take her seriously, because she doesn't even take HERSELF seriously.
Great Post 👍🙏👏
@@whotfcaressb right
I don't want to be a high value man...I'm not working 80hrs a week... Unless you love your job. We already work too much, this is not what life's about. I need my time to surf, mountain bike, kickbox and relax...no woman is worth more than that.
Then your wife divorces you because you are never there and your kids resent you. Why can't we just both make 60k a year and live a middle class life. You cook and clean and I'll fix the car and mow the lawns. You nurture our kids, I'll punish them.
Got a point
60k to 80k is cool. Everyone can't make high 6 figure income. All I say is try to be greater than average. Not for a woman's sake but yours. Because cost of living is increasing and gotta keep up with inflation.
@@darnelljones0425 that’s true too
Sometimes the 80 hrs a week, isn’t for 52 weeks out the year. Know when to grind and know when to relax. I tend to work long hours in the winter.
Coming from a recently divorced HVM I actually agree with a minimalist lifestyle. Slow down your life and just enjoy it. In this capitalistic society we're taught to go go go get get get and the next thing you know you've done it so much life actually passed you by. I get it
Even if you dont want to give up your friends. LIMIT THEIR ACCESS TO THE RELATIONSHIP. ITS CALL RESPECT. God dam it.
Simple as that!
I still get surprised that women will lie about their dress size when they are on camera. We all can see and KS catches them on their lie. It makes me wonder what lies they are capable of, especially of the things we can’t see.
@Jay & Laong's World!🤪²⁰²¹ I wear a dress size 8 and I weigh 165lbs. It all depends on how the women's body is shaped and muscle mass.
@@EliteBelleZoe1 you big
@@EliteBelleZoe1
It depends on how tall u are.
Lady, at 165lbs, u weigh as much as a man.....if ur not 6 feet tall, u got problems🐷🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
They are capable of lying about anything that might change the perception of them
i think because they can squeeze themselves into a smaller size, however terrible it looks and feels, they can claim it to be their real size
There's a cost to having the things you want. Nothing in this world is free, accept the air you breathe so be thankful for the average things that come across your way cause cats and dogs are everywhere and the stocks for Alpo and Friskies will hit the roof
😆. Accurate
Even fresh air is not guaranteed - wait for a dust storm, smoke, or bad air pollution. So it's free but not guaranteed. And even your taxes pay to make sure it is clean enough.
Not trying to criticise your point, just emphasising it more, the idea that EVERYTHING comes with a price
I just met a 6 or 7 who's super happy. I offer this bc it's easy to get black pilled. She works a shit job, with a shit uniform and everytime I go in there I notice she's really nice and happy to all the customers. (Mostly old people and third worlders i.e. she's not flirting - she's legitimately good natured.) She was so pleasant it got me thinking: maybe I'll stop going for 8's, 9's and 10's. This woman was pretty and her personality was really easy to be around. I could see having a nice life with a woman like that. (I live in Los Angeles, and haven't met a woman worth the hassle in a long time.)
"third worlders"
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@@christopheramaro333 Would you have preferred invaders. It's not 2017 anymore dork. Nobody cares about being called "racist".
He’s right some people ONLY get views by creating response videos to his material. Be your own man/woman and be original...
Whatever you desire in this life starts with YOU!!! GOD FIRST!
It’s true. Single friends get upset they aren’t getting any attention.
True. I went to work and went home when I got married. No more hanging out twice a week bar hopping. My husband comes first
Facts!
"You've got bye bye arms"😭😭😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂🎯💯
Giving up male friends => with social media ppl now stay connected to ex-partners for decades and now over a lifetime. They just go dormant when ppl are in relationships then they are reactivated whenever needed (dead bedrooms, during relationship difficulties, boredom, for excitement, and for post relationship rebounds)
Man she gotta let go that for a average man too.
Ur not wrong
@@solo-us4is …facts, triangulation in any relationship is unhealthy.
These women under 25 are the worst with that with how addicted they are to social media and how they have no concept of boundaries. Just had a woman throw away a whole relationship because she didn’t want to give up engaging with those male “friends” on social media. They literally would rather die alone than sacrifice the freedom to seek attention and validation from other men who are even of lesser value than you
@@truthbearer7891 You know this. So focus on church going women. But these are not the insta baddies you guys want so you will keep complaining
I love being married and even when I was divorced, I still spoke highly of marriage. My husband and I were divorcees and thank God he found me and I attracted him. He’s amazing and I couldn’t imagine my life without him.
Remarriage = Adultery , marriage is until death so if your husband is still alive and you’re in a counterfeit marriage you should repent while you still have time. Your happiness in your sinful state is not as important as repenting and being saved from eternity in Hell. Without repentance there can be no forgiveness of sin. If the prodigal son never repented and returned home he would have stayed lost forever.
Wow that song at the end❤️god bless you Kevin for waking the masses
I just realized where not wanting to give up single friends comes from. "Sisters before misters".
Your single friends have always told you they will always be there for you. When he breaks your heart, they will be there for a shoulder to cry on. But if they get a man, you won't hear from them same girlfriends. I will drop my single girlfriends in a heart beat. Matter of fact, most of them I already have. I hardly speak to any of them and we never hang out anymore. They know I am on a mission to keep my man permanently.
Well said 👌🏾
Good job 👏 keep going
I never did girl’s trips when I was single, always found them lewd. My social media is private (I make money off of it because I have an apparel business that I design for), and I was actually pretty happy to get rid of my single friends. They did everything they could to try and sabotage my marriage early on. Ridiculous.
Good for you, you did it right
The damage has been done. There's really no reason a man is going to take on the financial jeopardy of a marriage contract with a party that can walk and take half, plus her kids, and leave for any reason whatsoever. Put aside the fact that none of them actually bring any domestic skills. The only thing they offer, that one thing, can be gotten without marriage. Fix no fault divorce. This is where the conversation should always start because the woman you marry isn't the same that sues for divorce.
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I'm actually waiting on KS to do that show but he advocates for marriage so hard yet doesn't speak on how detrimental it can be to men. Which leads me to believe he didn't have much when he divorced those 2xs. I could be wrong but as a recently divorced HVM my mind hasn't processed whether or not I'd ever do it again. From a financial perspective it makes no sense.
True
@@ThurstMETV You aren't wrong. You would be a FOOL to get married in this day and age especially if you're successful. There's no literally no benefit especially when women don't really bring anything to the table anymore but problems. Kevin is capping on this one.
KS has already stated that marriage makes no sense for the average guy. Pretty soon, he’ll start to acknowledge that it probably doesn’t make sense for the top 20% either.
I enjoy to listening to the rock music...keep it up!
Kevin speaks the truth. I am a successful six figure earning black man and I am going through a divorce. I find these modern women to be very difficult. I’m thinking about going to Brazil, Costa Rica, or somewhere similar to get my next wife if I choose to get married again.
Hands down one of favorite broadcasts.
People need to train themselves to do three things to make weight loss easier:
1) Stop consuming sugary and carb heavy foods and drinks.
2) Learn to fall in love with only drinking water, and drink at least 12 cups of it throughout the day.
3) Keep to a consistent schedule, of at least 16 hours per day, where no calories are consumed (Example: No foods or drinks between 6pm-10am, water is the exception)
I think we know what to do....it's the actual doing.....and doing over and over thats the issue
@@giveme24hrs72 That's where discipline comes in.
Or date a personal trainer
Thanks dear. I've been doing this and lost all my weight. Women need to be focused and disciplined!
@@shayeallmon5671 Diet is a way more critical factor to losing weight for people who are really overweight and obese. Exercise is not nearly as important.
Once you shed a decent amount of weight, start to incorporate cardio, and a proper weight lifting program like "starting strength" to build muscle.
One of my all time favorite movies..."The 5th Element ". KS has taste!! 😁
am so thankful for the seriousness ,and work i see i need to do for myself as well am beginning to change my opinions about the bubbled life i looked at now ...reality hits new you r the best👌🤝
I never realized how much my tattoos hurt my chances in a relationship.. I’m ashamed. 24yr old female here. Totally agree i wish i never got any
A lot of men became loners because they took a look at the dating pool and realized that the juice is not worth the squeeze for the most part. For some of the men who do get married again there are plenty of other stories of men never rebuilding to that point again in their lives. I understand wanting to build a network and what not, but finding a woman who respects all that and her role is like finding a needle in a needlestack. No thanks.
Facts!! I hear that
Its hard explaining to my family I'm single because I enjoy peace of mind. They think I'm broke 🤣
Hard to find a great woman willing to be with you. We understand.
Today’s marriage is for the upper middle class. It is for men who can stand to lose 30% to 50% of their net worth. Women change daily, according to what society allows. Men adjust to that change…. the adjustment we have made is that we no longer make plans to one day build a family. We accept that their are way more concubines than there are wives. The men that Kevin deals with runs in networks and clubs/fraternal organizations that 99% of the men in this world no nothing about. They live their lives by much different rules than the average man does, so it’s important to live by the decisions that we make. If you have a standard, live by it. As a man, if the numbers don’t add up, then stand by your logic. The cost benefit analysis is skewed one way, irregardless of the networks that are needed to establish yourself as a HVM. Follow your logic brothas.
@@Dbo_Sports divorce doesn't mean you lose 30 to 50% of your assets. That only applies to men who grow rich while they are married to a woman who does not also grow rich and especially if she has kids rather than work. But again, that is for men with lots of MONEY
I can’t imagine my nearly 400lb girlfriend tryna tell me to get rid of my side piece 🤣🤣🤣
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Fashoo
@Lizzy Loca try 45 lbs less
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@Lizzy Loca hell NO. Says”open the gym”
I swear the monologue are more educational than the calls. Please don’t jump to calls… listen and learn.
Those who skip the education for entertainment will always be those at the bottom. -> “They don’t want to be saved.”
@Darkrosewine do you baby girl … do whatever you want, I won’t tell you what to do.
@Darkrosewine - You mean that tiny clip where he’s talking about men having other men’s backs when they wanna date out? So disingenuous. Watch the whole clip. 🙄
@Darkrosewine Which broadcast was this??
People can hate all they want but…this brotha is good! Gotta give credit
I have been Happily Married 22 years🍋 We have two beautiful children 🍋 My Husband and I have Always been Loyal and Faithful to Each other 🍋 Our Most Important Family is the One we Create🍋
The hardest thing for women to give up, especially black women, is their female friends. For men, we unconsciously cut off ours with the quickness. And the funny thing is men understand that when it happens and women don’t.
To add, men can bring that shit right back with friendship if it happened to drop off after a long time. I work hard, my closer friends work hard, so we know the rule - We handle ours and if it's 4 days, 4 weeks, 4 months, or 4 years until we hang out again, then that's what it is. Women take 4 hours personally as an attack against them
@@ronswanson1410 Exactly my guy. We’d pick back up like no time was lost.
Women are fully aware. You are taking their validation from her friends.
@@ronswanson1410 this 💯. Hung out with my friends when I was on leave for the first time in almost a year. Didn’t miss a beat because true friends won’t.
This comment is pure facts. I can go for months without taking to some friends but I can call one up today and we start talking like no time passed. If he needs something done I'm there and vice versa.
Been saying it for long time, married men tend to give worst advice/opinion, & take everything personally.
If you are out of market for a while, you don't understand, stay over there.
True unless he practices polygyny
Kevin be slick showing someone on camera real quick 😂😂😂 love it
I picked up on that as well.
Kevin✨ I really appreciate the perspectives you shared today. The stepfather role I wholeheartedly agree with you🧸❤️!!! The rest of the list ✅ is easy 😏 Male orbiters 😝 Much love and blessing for being of service to humanity 🚀🚀
Learning more about my standing as a high earning man, you have opened my eyes and thinking, thanks KS!
Damn kevin read the 26 year old with ease that shit was pretty Impressive he truly has a gift I would’ve fell for her bullshit thinking she had the answers and she more lost then me damnnn bro thank u kevin u really changed the way my mind sees the world especially women
Mr. Samuels was damn right when he told the last caller that the audience gained a lot from their conversation . I gained wisdom about selfish and crazy modern women who expect UNCONDITIONAL LOVE from a men( women expect men to love and accept me the them the way I am) but they will give a man CONDITIONAL SUBMITION (men should prove he's worth to get submition).
_That part when KS said about a woman who is not spending on a man_
Ladies and Gentleman. This is a gem to take note.
I discovered it too late. That waste of time and money you will never get it back.
Social Media has taught our women that they are Queens without Kings, that they're time and vaginas are an even exchange for a man's time and resources. It blows my mind that a woman thinks she can cook for you one time and you should take her on a trip. This coming from a recently divorced HVM.
That last woman was lost. I’m always learning new things from Kevin’s content and that closing music is beautiful. 😌
Woooo you were preaching last night 👌🏾👌🏾🔥🔥🔥
100% facts at the end your commentary about fair use ! Sum lame people do videos based on your content ( JRWisdom) giving their low level POV…. Sue their asses KS . They can’t do anything unique so they try and ride your coat tails
I still can’t get over how little the children actually mean to bw. It’s more important to say they have a kid than the child’s actually quality of life.
This is born out of complete selfishness and a lack of purpose
It's the same in all races. My 53 yo sister recommended I hire a surrogate to give me a kid so I could raise it myself(without a mother). They are all selfish and think the same. My sis left her husband because he was "boring", last year. Guy she's with now has slightly more money and lets her have access to it. This isn't uncommon. She's very typical of women in her group. Again, they all think this way.
I wonder how much more little do they mean to the men abandoning them?
At least bw are taking responsibility by doing their part.
Do yours.
@@povofpoa2220 You abandon yourselves by making poor, irrational and short term choices. The vast majority of bm are down to earth and hardworking but you want the thug or the 6 figure mogul 😅
@@povofpoa2220 again with this stupid talking point? You break marriages off faster than the plague killed Europeans over
Simply being told that being single is fun by your fat single friends… if not that, you look for loyalty at the club and street corners where there is none…80% of the babies from 20% of men… if not that, you get old and have a baby artificially because you can’t take being alone due to your piss poor attitudes…pathetic…let’s drop the cap already and act like functioning adults for the first time in generations…
Being a Houston native, I can honestly say that the women down there know everything. Trust me on this, I've done the research. SYSBM
Huh?🙄
@@teemuhammad6899 It's called sarcasm
Kevin 39 male thanks for the message I've stopped looking around for excuses and started looking in the mirror and working on that person I see...got a person trainer working 0ut 4 days a week...
Kevin did an amazing job with the young lady dating older men, in addition to other callers who were open to dialogue.
It's like watching clinicians through a window or video with a supervisor to learn deeply... Man, this is AWESOME.
On another note, sadly, I didn't realize my own systemic wounds (Jacked Up) until going through Therapy, while studying to become a clinician... I'm still a work in progress.
Damn... I wish I knew what I know now, I would have done different...
I think Kevin is blaming education too much. I do agree in what Ali said on that education is important for women because they are your kids first teacher. It is women who is raising children while the men are away. I think the problem is that marriage is not valued.
The caller, the 200lb "dress size 8" woman with 2 boys wanting a high-value man... the sheer delusion.
she 100% was delusional , no high value man want a single mother thats on top of that a big woman. nope not gonna happen
@Bianca Brown Let's say he is a "clown" why are men and WOMEN coming on the show then? And it's not like hes being unreasonable. I could understand if he was saying some shit that's wild, or insanity, but I think that if we are being real, its not wrong to want someone who has no kids and is in shape, right? If we are being real, weight goes along with attractiveness. If your a 8 in the face but a 250 on the scale, losing even TWENTY pounds will rise you up OVERALL.
Just my take. I don't agree with everything he says, I think he may be off at certain times, but the base message of "Be in shape, don't be ugly, and try to keep the kids down to a 0-1" isn't exactly rocket science.
And nobody is saying these women CAN't find a "high value man", It's just that for a man of this high status to claim you, it's a better chance he will if you lessen the negatives(Being overweight and having children)
@Bianca Brown it's delusional to say a 200 pound woman with 2 sons isn't going to attract a high-value husband? LOL OK SWEETIE.
@@darthkek1953 he’s not delusional but I will say he doesn’t give you a chance to explain yourself. He goes off cliff notes and that’s it. You can’t size someone’s life to a bullet point. I get he has to keep it entertaining, but he will quickly dismiss you to to go back to his point without having brief additional detail.
@@mariahgrant7779 Its because most women "feel" as they are the exception. The why doesn't matter most of the time.
Watching you helps me get my mind right. Thanks godfather.
Good got dangit I found out what my issues is and why I haven't got married I have been a know it all and too head strong sheesh.. Thank you Kevin for asking the right questions I'm going to get give up those things and accept the truth
This vedio's back to back are great. I had to watch them more than twice.