Disgusting, I pray women see him and avoid not knowing there saving theirs own life. He needs help ASAP before he hurts another woman, his own children, etc. 🙌🏽🙏🏽
I thought the same thing as soon as the words left his mouth! I thought “oh yea you are gonna be taking another loss,the very moment the judge sees those pics and hears that recording it’s a wrap!” So delusional!
My ex attempted to kill me by drowning in scalding hot water, run me over in a Quad cab Truck , put a knife to my throat until I got away & there’s so much more, but he’s just this arrogant to think of our son as a Possession ! & All his !
As a man, I kept my composure when Judge Mathis read that transcript. As soon as he played the actual audio though I started crying. I couldn’t even imagine saying ANY of that to the Mother of my daughter. I don’t even wish death on an enemy of mine. Omg. I have five sisters and I’m the oldest of eight. If any man on this planet talked like that to any of my five sisters... I can’t even incriminate myself with what I’d do. Then on top of it, he was physically abusive too? Omg... I’m so lost as to why he thought he should show his dumb ass in court against her and on tv.
You're missing a glaring point here also. SHE is not a good parent either allowing him anything toward that child. Nope nope and nope. She'd have zero issue getting sole custody without visits. The fact she still wants to Coparent proves she's still young and dumb and has learned nothing about the person he is and she's going to put herself and more importantly her child in danger.
It will not be the woman's fault. It will be because 99% of women will not see this video. He will present himself with his mask on as a "nice guy". Then he will begin the love bombing / abusive process with the new woman.
This man is so delusional that he genuinely believes he's going to win custody over their kid lmao. No one in their right mind would trust you with an infant after we all witnessed your temper and abusive ways in court. Crazy
As a woman, that has suffered from an abusive man, this totally got to my soul. I cannot believe what I heard! And I just cried the whole time! God bless her and her children, and I hope she leaves the guy alone!
Welp, her brother knows now. I hope nothing happens to him and that boy grows up without a father, but he might grow up without a mother if nothing happens to his daddy.
I was thinking the same thing that she is still alive, I hope she never has anything else to do with him, it’s sad she has a child by him it kind of forces her to-have to deal wit that Psycho😡
This happens everyday in family courts across America and these abusers actually win and control us and our children forever. Please help by speaking to your local rep and having them pass a law similar to our law, jennifers law in Connecticut. It's starts with coercive control.
It’s so crazy how these men become abusive once a baby is involved. It’s like they feel like they got you & they can show their true selves. Disgusting. 🤧
She said she doesn't want to press charges because she wants to take care of her child... Girl u keep dealing with this nut, u won't be around to take care of your son. Good the world knows what kind of evil he has in his mind and heart. Hopefully he'll be locked up before he hurts another woman.
God? Let me tell you the church 's role in domestic violence. night before Sally finally left her husband and the townhouse they lived in on Sydney's northern beaches he told her she was also failing her spiritual duties. "Your problem is you won't obey me. The Bible says you must obey me and you refuse," he yelled. "You are a failure as a wife, as a Christian, as a mother. You are an insubordinate piece of s**t." Sally, an executive assistant who had just turned 44, stared at him, the simple act of coming down to say goodnight, which he interpreted as a lack of willingness to have sex. Peter then opened his Bible and read out some verses: "Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Saviour." Ephesians 5: 22-23 Next was: "Let a woman learn in silence with all submissiveness I permit no woman to teach or have authority over a man; rather, she is to remain silent." 1 Timothy 2: 11-12 For years, Sally had believed that God wanted her to submit to her husband, and she did her best, bending to his will and working to pay the bills, despite the pain she was in. God does not help but creates these victim.
She should have had him prosecuted for the abuse she suffered. He is trying to get custody of his children. I would be terrified for them to be around him unsupervised. Just sickening
Nah there are worser people out there, especially females, and I bet the only reason y'all are hating this man so much is because he's light skin. Now let this be a dark skin black man or better yet a woman in the abuser's spot, then such a big deal would not be made. Lastly, if we do not know the whole story or weren't there to see what's been going down, then don't play the judge or executioner.
I have never cried watching any case on Judge Mathis but this case was extremely heartbreaking. The look on his face tells me he has not been defeated and will retaliate. There is no way a person this damaged can properly parent. She will continue to suffer if she does not pursue jail time for him.
The first time? "Call me young, dumb, and in love..." And the second time? "I found my strength!" And she said it fierce and with that beautiful smile!!!!
I’m not sure what this original case was for and clearly doesn’t matter, but boyyyyyyyyyy did she stop his plan with all that proof. I’m glad she left and stood up for herself. He came in talking all smooth, that doesn’t mean jack!!!!
I love JM, he knew he was going to give him nothing once that evidence screamed to his soul. He was definitely sad and upset.... He was professional enough as not to release his real feelings... Curse him out or kick him out Custody..wait till she play that recording snd they deem him mentally unfit .. F around she might br granted an eternal order protection for life... Since he want to end her life
I am actually terrified for her. She is still afraid of him and probably blames herself which is why she ain’t going forward with pressing charges. I wish we can get an update and see if mom and baby are okay.
I think he didn’t because he’s not locked up and can still get to her. The fact that she’s willing to even have contact with her child is crazy! That puts him in contact with HER! Get child support and let him go in about his business! Talking about getting custody...I’d lock him up for that! 🤬
I don’t want to justify anything at all and you’re absolutely right, but my dad emotionally abuses my mom but acts completely different in front of us (my siblings and I)
@@Archimedes-v2o If you know your father abuses your mother, it will impact you negatively. You will have to make a strong conscious effort to live better.
@Badlands.NYC169 here you are again. How are telling someone to miss you with the bs?!?! A hit dog will holla, and you are mighty riled up. Either you too are an abuser or you are the dude in this video. This little shrimp of a male in tbis video talking about reading her name on a death certificate, and you mad at the judge. You sound real punkish.
@@thejay3804Not that bad? Would you feel the same way if that were YOUR daughter, mother, sister or aunt? You condone violence against women and children? And yes, I said CHILDREN because he's teaching his child to be just like him. FOH
Wonderful thing but she also needs to see reality how it is. He is trying to take the child that she is trying to coparent with. She took an awesome step forward but she can't just stop there. A child is involved with alot of dangerous what ifs with that man his father or not. Its just not worth it because it could be like a light switch for all the anger to go from her to that child or even bringing that child up teaching him how to abuse others. It's not worth it.
He should have known Judge Mathis wasn't messing with him. I know she wants to co parent but if he's gone be teaching her child this negative behavior then she's better off keeping him away. He really thinks he won't lose custody after those tapes and that is sad. She seems like she thinks having a horrible father in her child's life is better than no father and that is a sad mentality to have. Hopefully she gets smarter.
Co-parent, if he abuses the mother of his child he will eventually get around to abusing the child, he should not have visitation unless it is supervised.
As a DV survivor I feel for the defendant. It seems as though she is still in the midst of dealing with the residual effects of the abuse for choosing not to prosecute him for the abuse she endured. Those effects can last for years even with therapy. What may seem simple to some...like “why didn’t she press charges? Why didn’t she leave sooner?” etc are much harder choices to make as someone who has suffered years of psychological & emotional abuse, nevermind the physical. Abusers really break you ALLLLL the way down in every way. It’s awful. I pray that she continues to gain strength & confidence in her healing journey for her kids sake & for hers. It took me almost 5 years to muster up the courage & strength to leave. It’s far more difficult than a lot of folks realize. Prayers up for her & those kids. 🙏🏼🥺
Plaintiff got off easy. JM usually goes in on the women abusers. He should definitely be in jail. The defendant could have filed a countersuit for $5000 for emotional distress. She would have gotten err' penny!
Short man complex in full effect! He had the audacity to stand up there afterwards talking about custody. No judge on this earth would grant him custody when they see all the proof she has of his abuse. He's insane and she should've told her brother like he begged her to.
I’m assuming her brother isn’t a big dude, he wouldn’t have been talking so tough nor would he have been beating on her like this. I hope a male in her life sees this and handles this coward
I feel for her! I was in her shoes many years ago. The court gave me a few short term protection orders before giving me one for life. He violated them and ended up in prison. My 2 kids know who their dad is, remember how he treated me, but had other positive male family members to fill the void of not having a good father. I know how hard it can be to cut ties when you're in a DV relationship and I am so proud of her for getting away from him. Now, she needs to take it a step further because he is still dangerous, especially after losing this case.
He’s sick bro. Like why would you ever dare to talk to the mother of your child like that? I knew he wasn’t going to win when that audio played. He’s sick. She’s still being sweet even though this man threatened to kill her, LITERALLY! Lord. I pray for strength and guidance for her for the entirety of her life dealing with this man!
He has a little sugar in his tank. I think he mad because he really wants the love of another man. Body language says he is a little lite in the loafers.
@fishbrain9591 I'm not homophobic. I used very polite language and don't ever put that on me. My brother is gone because of homophobes. I have mad respect for the homies
@@dankjankings7339 Even if you didn't mean to sound homophobic, you did. You said he was gay bc of his body language, that IS homophobic. You can't tell someone is gay just bc of body language. Also, the insinuation that a misogynistic person is gay bc they hate women is also homophobic. I'm truly sorry about your brother, really. I'm also queer, I have also lost queer people in my life. I understand the pain and anger that comes with that. I hope he rests easy.
Listen!!!!!! When he kept saying "get your brother". Whew. We would have had brothers, cousins, uncles, neighbors, classmates, best friends and the county coroner's office on standby.
Happy with the judgment. However, she has a heart that let's him off for the sake of the child but she needs to have him prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law. That will help and teach their child that this behavior is unacceptable by anyone. This is the kind of fool that could still harm you or your child or another woman in the future. Once a beater always a beater. And despite her forgiveness and no counter claim he has shown no remorse at all. Girl wake up.
He’s still being shady and tryna be cocky even in the end. Sir you not getting custody ok smh. Pray for her girl please have him locked up you can forgive but make sure u do what’s right
Plaintiff: "I took a loss, today, but in this custody case, when it starts, I won't be taking a loss." Ma'am, you need to install doorbell cameras, purchase some industrial grade pepper spray...the hunter's kind that is strong enough to stop a grizzly bear, as well as invest in a top of the line taser gun. You also need to arrange a buddy system, so that your daily routine is never the same, for obvious reasons. Please, listen to reasonable advice, beloved. This man has made up in his mind that his life would be much better without any traces of you in it, in whatever way that means. Please, DO NOT ignore the sound wisdom that is crying out to you, for it may very well save your life. I pray that the Lord protects and covers you and your children and allow no manner of evil to infiltrate your place of dwelling and disrupt your peace. May the Lord dispatch His Heavenly Angels to stand guard over you and your children, at all times. In the matchless name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, I pray, Amen.
I'm a domestic violence survivor. I got out of that bs 15 yrs and never got married after that. I'm not sure if I want to. I can't imagine how wicked it would have been to get away from him if we had gotten married. I would have ended up dying with secret blood on my hands. 😑
@@rosiebrooks7685 thank you, Rosie! 🤗🥰🥰🥰🥰 it hasn't been easy, but everyday, it's been worth it. Abusers always try and abuse, in some fashion, even from a distance, but for the sake of finding and keeping one's own self, it's definitely worth it: everyday.
This Cornwall has some nerve suing her. I wish she would have counter sued for 5k she would have won. I knew the judge wasn't going to give his clown ass a dime.
He got the nerve to come in there suing someone he abused? Audacity is at an all time high!
I'm saying!
And brought it to a national TV show.
Yes it is
Yes, these males are not worth having kids with. Ladies save your self
Disgusting, I pray women see him and avoid not knowing there saving theirs own life. He needs help ASAP before he hurts another woman, his own children, etc. 🙌🏽🙏🏽
" I found my strength" You better find a gun! The man told you he wants to read your name on a death certificate. Stop collecting pictures!!!!
Thank ya!
That's why after my abusive relationship I keep my .380 on me at all times!! Ffffacts!
@@marklesparkle5882 That's what I'm talking about. 😂 😂 😂
His ass would be paralyzed 😡😡😡
Exactly
The only reason why he wants custody is to use the child as a pawn to control her.
Coercive Control its called. Read the book by Evan Stark
@DragonFlyy like to Kayden in Pennsylvania ❤🧡
100% agreed
Can you imagine him when he won't stop crying god only knows what he would do. M
surprised the judge didnt challenge him, usually guys like him are only tough with woman
She's still afraid of him and she doesn't need to ever be around him by herself PERIOD‼
Right
@@cedpage1 👍🏾
@@diamondbarnes7506 Never understood why men would wanna hurt a woman...Just weird
@@cedpage1 I was brought up to never hit a woman, never have.
I agree with you
He beat on his girlfriend and he wants CUSTODY???? Make it make sense
Right he’s delusional
I thought the same thing as soon as the words left his mouth! I thought “oh yea you are gonna be taking another loss,the very moment the judge sees those pics and hears that recording it’s a wrap!” So delusional!
A final attempt to victimize her. These men enjoy hurting the women that love them. Mommy issues and insecurities..
The judge is telling her what to do! And yet,..... she doesn't listen.
My ex attempted to kill me by drowning in scalding hot water, run me over in a Quad cab Truck , put a knife to my throat until I got away & there’s so much more, but he’s just this arrogant to think of our son as a Possession ! & All his !
As a man, I kept my composure when Judge Mathis read that transcript. As soon as he played the actual audio though I started crying. I couldn’t even imagine saying ANY of that to the Mother of my daughter. I don’t even wish death on an enemy of mine. Omg. I have five sisters and I’m the oldest of eight. If any man on this planet talked like that to any of my five sisters... I can’t even incriminate myself with what I’d do. Then on top of it, he was physically abusive too? Omg... I’m so lost as to why he thought he should show his dumb ass in court against her and on tv.
How can he be a good father but he abuses the mother of the children? When he hurts you he hurts your children 🤦🏽♀️
💯!
Tru tru
She is scared of him
This
Right!
“I wanna see yo death certificate.” I would be terrified to even be in the same courtroom as him and she’s smiling through it😳
You can tell he was getting close to killing her
It’s not a happy smile
She’s smiling as a coping mechanism she doesn’t want him to see her week like he had for so long
Because She’s A Strong Woman!!! We Just Don’t See Her Hurt 🤦🏽♂️
Smiling and giggling !! Very disturbing and Something ain’t right
I am incredibly sad that she did not try harder to get him locked up. Death threats deserve jail time.
He's a evil bastard for putting his hands on her
@@gabrielleelliott8169 So true.
Exactly
She's probably off that I don't want to see my baby's father in jail.
I pray we don't read about her, he has issues
That's a thick ass stack of pics of her abuse, that made me cry, this is sad asf
I glad the judge played the audio so everyone that knows this loser or possible employers can see this and know what kind of person he is.
Hopefully other women who cross his path see this too and know to steer clear
He should be in jail just on that intent to harm
Exactly!
Right it sounded bad reading it but the audio was a whole different story
Exactly!
He has some freaking nerve bringing her to court for anything
It's called being a narcissist
He is NOT a good father. Everything she experiences will effect that child in his adult life.
Thats why the statistics are what they are.
You're missing a glaring point here also. SHE is not a good parent either allowing him anything toward that child. Nope nope and nope. She'd have zero issue getting sole custody without visits. The fact she still wants to Coparent proves she's still young and dumb and has learned nothing about the person he is and she's going to put herself and more importantly her child in danger.
RealLifeHater I agrée .
He is not a good father because he cannot teach a son to respect women. He clearly has a hatred and deep doses for women. Complete trash.
Sad part is.... there’s actually a female out there that will still date him and think she has won. SMH
This
Exactly, not knowing she just met the devil himself 😫
It will not be the woman's fault. It will be because 99% of women will not see this video. He will present himself with his mask on as a "nice guy". Then he will begin the love bombing / abusive process with the new woman.
@@God-Love-FreedomThat’s how the cycle starts huh…smh.
This man is so delusional that he genuinely believes he's going to win custody over their kid lmao. No one in their right mind would trust you with an infant after we all witnessed your temper and abusive ways in court. Crazy
Courts are iffy though. Never know who they assign.
Amen🙏🙏🙏👏👏👏
Hopefully she will bring those pictures and recording with her to the custody hearing!
@@pastathemechanic7536 they only announce joint custody if both parents are clean you almost never win custody with an abuse count
Who knows what dirt he has on her
But his chances look slim from outside looking in
She’s so afraid of that POS. Breaks my heart for her. I hope he didn’t hurt her after this. He sounds dangerous.
I hope she's doing better today 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
I'm sure he did
Right, with all that's going on nowadays.
The moment judge Mathis read the messages it was a wrap.
I was thinking the same thing.
Damn right !
💯💯💯💯
Bingo
Periodt
As a woman, that has suffered from an abusive man, this totally got to my soul. I cannot believe what I heard! And I just cried the whole time! God bless her and her children, and I hope she leaves the guy alone!
We are planning a March at the Capitol in October for 2 days against Domestic Violence.
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I would love to get my hands on him.
Wow! That was tough to listen to. Thank God she is still alive
Welp, her brother knows now. I hope nothing happens to him and that boy grows up without a father, but he might grow up without a mother if nothing happens to his daddy.
I was thinking the same thing that she is still alive, I hope she never has anything else to do with him, it’s sad she has a child by him it kind of forces her to-have to deal wit that Psycho😡
This is one of the most disturbing cases I've ever seen. In addition to JAIL TIME, the plaintiff also needs professional help.
This happens everyday in family courts across America and these abusers actually win and control us and our children forever.
Please help by speaking to your local rep and having them pass a law similar to our law, jennifers law in Connecticut. It's starts with coercive control.
He’s disgusting 🤮 & a punk
SMH sorry excuse of a male. He should be in jail and he talking about custody case. He would be lucky if he even gets visitation!
Right! All she needs to do is play that audio
Right
I agree. She picked him and probably has another just like him
@Orlando Johnson He cannot because he is setting a bad example for his kids. He is teaching them it's okay for a partner to be abusive.
That’s Right Family
It’s so crazy how these men become abusive once a baby is involved. It’s like they feel like they got you & they can show their true selves. Disgusting. 🤧
She said she doesn't want to press charges because she wants to take care of her child...
Girl u keep dealing with this nut, u won't be around to take care of your son.
Good the world knows what kind of evil he has in his mind and heart.
Hopefully he'll be locked up before he hurts another woman.
Absolutely 💯 she'll be looking down from heaven...
God?
Let me tell you the church 's role in domestic violence.
night before Sally finally left her husband and the townhouse they lived in on Sydney's northern beaches he told her she was also failing her spiritual duties.
"Your problem is you won't obey me. The Bible says you must obey me and you refuse," he yelled. "You are a failure as a wife, as a Christian, as a mother. You are an insubordinate piece of s**t."
Sally, an executive assistant who had just turned 44, stared at him, the simple act of coming down to say goodnight, which he interpreted as a lack of willingness to have sex.
Peter then opened his Bible and read out some verses:
"Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Saviour."
Ephesians 5: 22-23
Next was:
"Let a woman learn in silence with all submissiveness I permit no woman to teach or have authority over a man; rather, she is to remain silent."
1 Timothy 2: 11-12
For years, Sally had believed that God wanted her to submit to her husband, and she did her best, bending to his will and working to pay the bills, despite the pain she was in.
God does not help but creates these victim.
Yep she still dealing with him
If he gets that angry with her just imagine when the child does not listen to him mom should get full custody if she plays this right
She should have had him prosecuted for the abuse she suffered. He is trying to get custody of his children. I would be terrified for them to be around him unsupervised. Just sickening
Ikr I get you love him but come on now snap out of it Caus it’s not love at this point
This man is a punk! How disgusting! You beat on the mother of your son and you want custody of him? He’s a joke. A judge will never grant this.
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He has a lot of hate in his heart! That is the devil himself!
The devil fr that stuff he said about her he wicked
Yes
Pure evil!!!!!
Nah there are worser people out there, especially females, and I bet the only reason y'all are hating this man so much is because he's light skin. Now let this be a dark skin black man or better yet a woman in the abuser's spot, then such a big deal would not be made. Lastly, if we do not know the whole story or weren't there to see what's been going down, then don't play the judge or executioner.
@@thejay3804Are you ok? Seek counseling
Come on dude! You really did this woman like that??? Smh ...
The judge looked like he was biting on his vomit listening to that tape. God save us from violence and abuse.
This hurt my soul fr 😢
Amen 🙏🏽
He needs his parental rights taken.
Yes. He could do this to his children.
He has the nerve to talk about filing for custody!!! He would never win that case!
I have never cried watching any case on Judge Mathis but this case was extremely heartbreaking. The look on his face tells me he has not been defeated and will retaliate. There is no way a person this damaged can properly parent. She will continue to suffer if she does not pursue jail time for him.
I loveee when judge brown said a man that beats a woman won’t fight a man. Ain’t that the truthhh
Judge brown?
You mean Mathis??
Yep straight coward that dude is!
Exactly
Brown 😂😂😂😂
The first time? "Call me young, dumb, and in love..." And the second time? "I found my strength!" And she said it fierce and with that beautiful smile!!!!
I’m not sure what this original case was for and clearly doesn’t matter, but boyyyyyyyyyy did she stop his plan with all that proof. I’m glad she left and stood up for herself. He came in talking all smooth, that doesn’t mean jack!!!!
My Grandma told me once; be careful because if he's too slick, he slithers.
@@moniquejones6482 your granny was clearly a real one!!
@@mychellehaze2187 Yes indeed!
U ain't neva lied
And he got the nerve to sue her?? What the hell
Brother and whole family heard the tape now.
I hope the brother is a goon that can really make him think twice about hitting another woman
@@diamondlife5825 he’s not cause he woulda been beat his ass. She told him already and he did NOTHING
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A man being a “good father” to his son shouldn’t gloss over the fact that he *beats women* 😕...
EXACTLY!
I love JM, he knew he was going to give him nothing once that evidence screamed to his soul. He was definitely sad and upset.... He was professional enough as not to release his real feelings... Curse him out or kick him out
Custody..wait till she play that recording snd they deem him mentally unfit .. F around she might br granted an eternal order protection for life... Since he want to end her life
RIGHT THAT'S WHAT I SAID!
Exactly that part
thank God she had the strength to record it. imagine how many times it happened with no evidence
You could tell JM was pissed off, he had to control himself!!!
JM WAS READY TO SNATCH THAT BOY SOUL! TOOK A LOT OF SELF CONTROL...
A good father will always lead by example. He clearly is NOT that lady!!
I feel like she still afraid of him the way she's talking
Definitely
She is going back for more. She wants to 'co-parent' with him. She needs help.
@@citytrees1752 very sad she is putting herself in danger to co parent. But it never ends well.
She is.
I am actually terrified for her. She is still afraid of him and probably blames herself which is why she ain’t going forward with pressing charges. I wish we can get an update and see if mom and baby are okay.
im surprise mathis aint really go in on dude..he usually lay into dudes beating on women.
I think behind the scenes he's gonna make sure this woman and her child get help. And this asshole is locked up.
I think he didn’t because he’s not locked up and can still get to her. The fact that she’s willing to even have contact with her child is crazy! That puts him in contact with HER! Get child support and let him go in about his business! Talking about getting custody...I’d lock him up for that! 🤬
@@poohbaefn she definitely needs to get far Away from him he says he wants her dead and she's taking it lightly.
Evidence speaks for itself
If he’s abusive, he’s NOT a good father. That sentence doesn’t even make sense
I don’t want to justify anything at all and you’re absolutely right, but my dad emotionally abuses my mom but acts completely different in front of us (my siblings and I)
@@Archimedes-v2o If you know your father abuses your mother, it will impact you negatively. You will have to make a strong conscious effort to live better.
Once a relationship is over move out why be miserable and make others get on your last nerve.
Heard of a lease?
There are people grown up enough to share a space post relationship......they are very small in number but are around.
He said he wanted to read her death certificate??? 😢 That hurt my heart.
I can't believe he had the nerve to come in the court room to sue
I can never imagine having a child by someone like this! This is horrible. 😢
He’s gonna take a bigger loss in the custody case if she shows that evidence.
@Badlands.NYC169 here you are again. How are telling someone to miss you with the bs?!?!
A hit dog will holla, and you are mighty riled up. Either you too are an abuser or you are the dude in this video.
This little shrimp of a male in tbis video talking about reading her name on a death certificate, and you mad at the judge. You sound real punkish.
I’d be so embarrassed if I raised him. He would not be welcomed to my home if he was my son.
Damn he's not that bad dude!
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@@thejay3804Not that bad? Would you feel the same way if that were YOUR daughter, mother, sister or aunt? You condone violence against women and children? And yes, I said CHILDREN because he's teaching his child to be just like him. FOH
@@thejay3804yes
He is
@@nowirehangers2815 No, he’s really not!
She needs to stay far away from him. He’s dangerous!
Right and there is no way he is getting custody after the family judge hears that audio of him threatening her life. No way possible.
Y'all make it sound like he's America's most wanted lol.
@@thejay3804You are disgusting how u keep defending him on these posts
She will never be able to co-parent with this weakling! He needs to be jailed and she needs to cut all ties, move away, and don’t look back!
I'm glad that she is alive to tell her story and to help other women and some men.
Wonderful thing but she also needs to see reality how it is. He is trying to take the child that she is trying to coparent with. She took an awesome step forward but she can't just stop there. A child is involved with alot of dangerous what ifs with that man his father or not. Its just not worth it because it could be like a light switch for all the anger to go from her to that child or even bringing that child up teaching him how to abuse others. It's not worth it.
Women and Men once a person hits you, leave them the first time please. He or she is not worth it. Leave before you are dead.
That tape lost you custody too! All she has to do is show the abuse he’ll be on supervised visits with no custody
This man is terrifying. He is going to kill someone one day
He should’ve just packed his shit up and leave, case was over ! Embarrassing
He should have known Judge Mathis wasn't messing with him. I know she wants to co parent but if he's gone be teaching her child this negative behavior then she's better off keeping him away. He really thinks he won't lose custody after those tapes and that is sad. She seems like she thinks having a horrible father in her child's life is better than no father and that is a sad mentality to have. Hopefully she gets smarter.
Co-parent, if he abuses the mother of his child he will eventually get around to abusing the child, he should not have visitation unless it is supervised.
As a DV survivor I feel for the defendant. It seems as though she is still in the midst of dealing with the residual effects of the abuse for choosing not to prosecute him for the abuse she endured. Those effects can last for years even with therapy. What may seem simple to some...like “why didn’t she press charges? Why didn’t she leave sooner?” etc are much harder choices to make as someone who has suffered years of psychological & emotional abuse, nevermind the physical. Abusers really break you ALLLLL the way down in every way. It’s awful. I pray that she continues to gain strength & confidence in her healing journey for her kids sake & for hers. It took me almost 5 years to muster up the courage & strength to leave. It’s far more difficult than a lot of folks realize. Prayers up for her & those kids. 🙏🏼🥺
It took me 12 years!
@@purplelove974 I’m so glad you made it out, so many do not. I hope things are better for you now.
Oh my God...this is utterly appalling! So sad for this woman as she has kids with him!!!! He is sick! Horrific to listen to!
Why does he think he would EVER win custody over a child. He’s lucky to even get unsupervised visitation with his anger and abuse.
"If she was scared she wouldnt have come to my job"......he is disgustin.... how would they give him a child when he has a history of violence 🤨
It happens every day believe it or not. Depending on who has more money
You really have to be careful who you having babies with
Yes you do so true
Plaintiff got off easy. JM usually goes in on the women abusers. He should definitely be in jail. The defendant could have filed a countersuit for $5000 for emotional distress. She would have gotten err' penny!
I was hoping he would have gave it to her anyway!
He asked her what’s up with the police, JM wanted her to get him prosecuted. Seems she so scared of him, she won’t do it.
Short man complex in full effect! He had the audacity to stand up there afterwards talking about custody. No judge on this earth would grant him custody when they see all the proof she has of his abuse. He's insane and she should've told her brother like he begged her to.
He not tough she should have called her brother and or the police
@Steven Darkins yea but in this case he needs a visit from those devils...And whatever happens, happens 🤷🏽♀️
I’m assuming her brother isn’t a big dude, he wouldn’t have been talking so tough nor would he have been beating on her like this. I hope a male in her life sees this and handles this coward
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@Steven Darkins some of us do because some of us aren’t scared of them because we aren’t criminals and
She needs a PERMANENT restraining order and should seek to terminate his parental rights...in that order!
I love how Judge Mathis Stands up for victims of DV ❤️❤️ it means so much, even for the people at home.
We need ALL judges to protect victims of crime. Especially our children
A proven abuser thinking he’s gonna get full custody of their child is peak delusion
Wait a minute.....Let me breathe after that listening to that recording. 😔
She still feels the need to protect him, and he is still trying to hurt her... talking about a custody case
Ain't no way this tiny tot gonna get custody after the judge hears and sees the evidence of him abusing her
This was very brutal. My prayers go to her and her young children 😢
Learn to move on! He would have been in jail & on child support & let the court decide visitation. One time too many.
I feel for her! I was in her shoes many years ago. The court gave me a few short term protection orders before giving me one for life. He violated them and ended up in prison. My 2 kids know who their dad is, remember how he treated me, but had other positive male family members to fill the void of not having a good father. I know how hard it can be to cut ties when you're in a DV relationship and I am so proud of her for getting away from him. Now, she needs to take it a step further because he is still dangerous, especially after losing this case.
He’s sick bro. Like why would you ever dare to talk to the mother of your child like that? I knew he wasn’t going to win when that audio played. He’s sick. She’s still being sweet even though this man threatened to kill her, LITERALLY! Lord. I pray for strength and guidance for her for the entirety of her life dealing with this man!
Amen.
My heart is broken for her. I wish her healing 💕
That man is a monster!!!!
The irony is that he is willing to pursue legal action against her, but she is hesitant to do the same to him.
He has a little sugar in his tank. I think he mad because he really wants the love of another man. Body language says he is a little lite in the loafers.
Huh really?
What does his assumed sexuality have to do with anything lol
The hell? What brand of homophobia is this? 😭
@fishbrain9591 I'm not homophobic. I used very polite language and don't ever put that on me. My brother is gone because of homophobes. I have mad respect for the homies
@@dankjankings7339 Even if you didn't mean to sound homophobic, you did. You said he was gay bc of his body language, that IS homophobic. You can't tell someone is gay just bc of body language. Also, the insinuation that a misogynistic person is gay bc they hate women is also homophobic.
I'm truly sorry about your brother, really. I'm also queer, I have also lost queer people in my life. I understand the pain and anger that comes with that. I hope he rests easy.
That guy is a nutcase. I hope she gets smart and armed!!!
He will never get custody with all that abuse he in inflicted on the child’s mother lmao
I'm shocked that he is still talking about a custody case after all this evidence against him.
Dude has a lot of nerve, coming to court
Babygirl sat and re-lived that whole conversation. He HAD the right one. My folks pull up DEEP with NO REMORSE. #DOA ☠☠
Listen!!!!!! When he kept saying "get your brother". Whew. We would have had brothers, cousins, uncles, neighbors, classmates, best friends and the county coroner's office on standby.
The judge doesn’t like men that abuse women, and I don’t either. He needs to be locked up!
Judge Mathis got his ass
Judge Mathis needs to call the police and file new charges.
3:31 The way Judge Mathis was looking at those papers. I can tell he was getting a little heated.
She needs to show the family court judge this video.
Something tells me he not gone keep that same energy when her brother comes.
This hurt my heart He isn’t a good father if he was he would be good to the mother
Happy with the judgment. However, she has a heart that let's him off for the sake of the child but she needs to have him prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law. That will help and teach their child that this behavior is unacceptable by anyone. This is the kind of fool that could still harm you or your child or another woman in the future. Once a beater always a beater. And despite her forgiveness and no counter claim he has shown no remorse at all. Girl wake up.
I love how at the end the officer is looking at him like he's crazy
I knew he wasn’t getting shit
Lol
What a disgusting man. He doesn’t deserve any time with his child. He needs to be in jail.
He’s still being shady and tryna be cocky even in the end. Sir you not getting custody ok smh. Pray for her girl please have him locked up you can forgive but make sure u do what’s right
Custody?
Really!
With evidence of you abusing the Plaintiff, I will like to know how it goes...
Plaintiff: "I took a loss, today, but in this custody case, when it starts, I won't be taking a loss."
Ma'am, you need to install
doorbell cameras, purchase some industrial grade pepper spray...the hunter's kind that is strong enough to stop a grizzly bear, as well as invest in a top of the line taser gun. You also need to arrange a buddy system, so that your daily routine is never the same, for obvious reasons. Please, listen to reasonable advice, beloved. This man has made up in his mind that his life would be much better without any traces of you in it, in whatever way that means. Please, DO NOT ignore the sound wisdom that is crying out to you, for it may very well save your life. I pray that the Lord protects and covers you and your children and allow no manner of evil to infiltrate your place of dwelling and disrupt your peace. May the Lord dispatch His Heavenly Angels to stand guard over you and your children, at all times. In the matchless name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, I pray, Amen.
Amen! Such a beautiful prayer
I'm a domestic violence survivor. I got out of that bs 15 yrs and never got married after that. I'm not sure if I want to. I can't imagine how wicked it would have been to get away from him if we had gotten married. I would have ended up dying with secret blood on my hands. 😑
I'm proud of you.
@@rosiebrooks7685 thank you, Rosie! 🤗🥰🥰🥰🥰 it hasn't been easy, but everyday, it's been worth it. Abusers always try and abuse, in some fashion, even from a distance, but for the sake of finding and keeping one's own self, it's definitely worth it: everyday.
This Cornwall has some nerve suing her. I wish she would have counter sued for 5k she would have won. I knew the judge wasn't going to give his clown ass a dime.
You’re not a good father if you’re beating the mother of your kids, no excuses.