@@MannyMannyG Instead of spending so much time watching cats take a sh*t, try jumping on a treadmill. She doesn't 'have to' share anything and why would she give details, it's no one's business.
It is her video, so I guess its her perspective since the other guy already did his video. Wont it be counter intuitive to repeat someone else's perspective?
This is exactly why Western men go to the Philippines in the first place. She talked herself into a divorce like so many Western women do. Quite possibly had some coaching from single friends. So tired of seeing this BS. I wouldn't marry a Western woman at this point if you paid me. They've been gassed up for decades. They haven't been empowered they've been brainwashed and many will end up alone.
Both partners have to keep working on a LIFETIME commitment. You don't give up on people you commit to for no solid reason it shows a lack of character.
Marriage is the longtime promise and commitment to take care for the needs of another person for the rest of your life, as only to think for yourself. Each partner has agreed to work on and maintain this relationship for a lifetime. Unfortunately, we have forgotten how to work on a relationship. For this reason, marriage should be very carefully considered and a person's character carefully evaluated before deciding to take this crucial step. In my opinion, there shouldn't be an exit out of marrage. Why would you want that? You have made a binding commitment. Just like when you give birth to a child, you are making promise to care for this child and to be there for it for the rest of your life. There is no way to dodge the responsibility away from you.
It is a great opportunity for Mike to find a really good non-western traditional woman in the Philippines. He seems like a really great catch and a nice man all-around and it is good that you set him free so he can find just that!
New to channel. I picked up on the fact that their was zero affection from you to him. Not like other couples on RUclips. From my perspective it appears you are the one pushing this. Not a negative comment, just an objective observation. The grass is not greener. Make sure you are doing the right thing. Time is moving.
She seems like she wants to be the main character of her own show. When you’re married, you’re still two separate persons despite being “one in body.” How can marriage work? By allowing your man to take the lead, and be submissive to one’s husband. That’s how it was from the old patriarchs of the Old Testament, and it’s still the same in our own time. She has the modern feminist view, and can end up being a cat-caring person the rest or her life. Her value in the eyes of men starts falling fast at thirty, while men’s value in the eyes of women keeps going up beyond forty or fifty and even older. He has a major advantage, only she doesn’t know it. Regrets will be too late!
How about NOT being submissive to anyone? If it is in one’s interest to follow the tenets of a religion, then one should do so. I would suggest that Bianca has no obligation to do the same. The “old” testament stretches back back a few thousand years. Homo sapiens stretches back >200,000 years and other Hominids 2.0 million or so - all with the same characteristic. Females reproduce, and we males are generally good for providing genetic diversity. If just up to us, our species would have been lost long ago. Yet we are supposed to be dominant over females? Methinks that has more to do with preference and a bit of bullying than with biology and logic. Most of the rationale (men are smarter, men are more logical, etc.) has been debunked long ago.
@@samquinn6427 , how can you be so sure? By being a divorced woman, she has already lost 90% of her value in the Philippines. Perhaps in Canada, her value lost would be less, but less value nevertheless.
Why would someone get married and think that marriage ends if you "grow apart"? I thought getting a marriage meant that you are going to agree to work on coming back together if you drift apart. lol
They are at different phases in life. She wants to pursue something different (modeling and cosplays) and he wants to keep traveling and vlogging. They see a lot of opportunities for themselves in the Philippines, but they can’t achieve their goals at the same time if they stay together. Marriage is about compromise, whether we support our spouse in achieving their dreams while we wait a few years try achieving ours or you both go for it and the marriage doesn’t work out, which is what they decided to do. She’s much younger than he is too which is why their interests didn’t seem to work together. I had a feeling this would happen. Anyway, we wish them well.
@cwayzums dude, you can pursue your interests without being divorced. This girl makes a mockery of marriage typical of Western women. The only reason for divorce is negligence or abuse from the spouse otherwise you're supposed to work on any issues.
If you are going to move forward in your life This how it should be ● no phone call ● no asking him when have trouble with your vlog ● you cannot ask Mike to fix aomething broken ● When your stuck somewhere call a girlfried or something ●When you dont have any money for rent,groceries,etc..etc.. call your parents instead ●this is what i call growing apart .Just a thought not a sermon
Strange growing apart , why have a wedding , if not sure to love or like the person you living with. Life is never easy,you have to work all the time and all days on a relationship. I think social media have big part's in relationships. Better stop social media than a relationship.
I can tell Mike truly loved you. It seems like you wanted this to happen. You used him to grow financially and once you reached your goals you left. Don’t sit there and say you both grew apart I don’t think so, I can tell he didn’t want this to happen and he loved you truly.
@@ginag17 that's all fine and good but they both made the divorce and why they divorced public. As soon as they did that they opened themselves up to criticism. Her rationale sounds disingenuous and mostly excuses for her own selfishness. So take your fortune cookie proverb and shove it.
Ironic, not simping here but why would you mention the Lord here? Can you tell me in your bible where your Lord Jesus took a big rock and joined the fray in stoning a woman? And yes i said your because your Lord seems to be a different one from the one that is portrayed to be forgiving to sinners and all humans.
You "Weren't growing separately" You weren't growing up. Watching your other videos, it is so obvious that you were taking more than giving in the relationship.
Of course its for the viewers to judge, that's how interaction works. It's going to be incredibly difficult to sustain living anywhere on 1 video a fortnight that gets 6.5k views anyway. Can see things unravelling pretty quick once the house lease expires.@@limtseho3540
@@limtseho3540actually you’re wrong. When people want to put their entire lives online, then they will be judged. If you don’t want that to happen, don’t make your entire life public🤷🏻♂️
wat a cop out. it disturbing when i hear married couples say "we grew apart" when you take the oath of marriage its all about growing a life together and compromising. there's way too much selfishness in Western culture
People do grow apart. It happens. Those that recognize it and make changes to be happy are bigger people than the ones that hold on to an archaic doctrine that makes them miserable.
Imagine agreeing to get married and thinking that ends if you "grow apart." Why even agree to a marriage in the first place? Haha. Of course you should know you will grow apart in advance.
@@MrBroccoliGuy Growing apart takes years. Years longer than they have been married. This is simply her dropping him because she has no use for him anymore. A change of mind. 😆 Oh well it's all out there for public consumption and any decent man wouldn't waste his time committing to that.
Well it's not like they both don't come from Western society and culturally they both were raised from Canada so I wouldn't take this situation the same as finding an actual Filipina who was raised in the Philippines and the culture has more emphasis on working through hardships in marriage and Western culture just pushes how easy divorce is as an option. As a Western brought up culture it's not shocking at all as it's super rare to see a foreigner getting divorced from an actual Filipina born and raised here that isn't looking only for money because there are many here lol. Like she explained she "grew" into a different place and found herself and that's exactly a Western outlook on why divorce is so high.....it's totally fine to search and find new things and grow as an individual but in my eyes if you can't grow with the person you choose to marry ( should be a forever decision) then it's actually an excuse to either try new men/woman or the life you want to live is in a class of society your partner is not apart of.
@@daryn2826 @mellingensander and @americanmike1957 did not say anything about Filipinas nor about being raised anywhere. They just said what every man should know about every woman on the planet: she'll *TAKE* from you and, if she finds someone better (in her opinion), she'll viciously dump you. AKA hypergamy. No nationality or anything involved. It's just in women nature. The sooner men learn it the better.
Got to ask tho, why was Michael so quick to post that he's going to be single? Bianca might not show that much emotions as she took a lot of time off to process things. What they show on the screen isnt always what they feel.
So you evolved and grew in life with Michael getting you to that level of independence and then you dumped him because you were strong enough. Typical woman.
@@Psycho-Nomics maybe you didn't watch her video it's all about me me me when you put your life on social media it's open for assumptions and speculation. Can't take the heat don't put it out there for the world to see.
@@joerex2612 it's pretty obvious what's happening, and the fact that she keeps saying they just grew appart is woman code for men i just decide to dump him and don't want to have to take responsibility for my choices.
I can understand your feelings. I felt the same. My husband and I “grew apart”, it felt like all the feelings were gone. I had zero desire to get back together, we separated and lived separately for a year but because we have a child, we agreed we should atleast do weekly counseling. We are now back together and honestly happier than we’ve ever been. I never thought it possible but it happened. Slowly but surely. We had neglected the relationship and hardly communicated. So it broke down. But we built it back better and we’ve learned how to avoid another break down. Now I regret that we ever separated during that year. I know you two don’t have children but you did make a vow. I would strongly encourage you to at the bare minimum give counseling a try. Really be open with it and give it enough time to see if it works. If for no other reason then to avoid any possible future regret. Sending love to you both 🖤
@@gg_Javier huh? We already had a child. Hes 11. Lol When all hope was lost between us, we decided we atleast owed it to our son to try marriage counseling to see if we could resolve our issues before just getting a divorce. And we did work it out and are very happy. When we couldn’t find the motivation for each other, we got motivated to atleast try for him and it worked. There was no abuse, cheating, toxic environment, etc. we just felt like we fell out of love, and were roommates basically, which seems to be the same situation with them. Marriage is hard. Counseling can work. I just don’t know if we would’ve tried it without our son but I wanted to hopefully give her encouragement to try. That’s all.
Nothing says "I like a private life, I'm shy, and I don't like to put my life out there for everyone to see" like having a RUclips channel.😂😂😂 This sh*t cracks me up every time I hear it. Couldn't be more of a Western statement if you tried..🤦🏼♂️🤦🏼♂️
Modern woman, guys this is a prime example. When they use terms like " we grew apart" " we need to start our new lives" . How about you tell us the truth, it was you that decided to end the relationship. Well its a blessing in disguise for him. You will have men in your life , but they will be be there not because they want a wife. This will be the last i will watch of your channel.
Wow, this is a tragedy. Such an amazing couple. What I’ve learned from this I’m 45 years old. I guess I’m gonna stick with Filipinos close to my age.🙌🏻
Mike giving this main channel is so noble. It makes sense now why this channel had far more subs than Mike's, which appear to be the new channel. Even you separated, he still know how to take care of you. Nice.
Noble? Dude is laughing, he starts a new channel and his vids are already getting a lot more views without the higher subscriber account. Starting a fresh channel is a display of confidence.
its Mike who made this channel grow, and made famous, you admitted it you were just behind in all these things he does all the work.... so lucky you girl he is so generous he gave it to you and start his own I mean chose to use the lower subscriber channel ..... reward is near to him,
I had been watching your blogs and love you both. I am sad to hear your separations. Think about it very carefully before you get divorce before you realize later that you made a mistake and is to late. Many years ago, it happened to me with my first love, my soulmate and because of pride was too late to get back together. A wise soul once quipped sometimes two people have to fall apart to realize how much they need to fall back together. God bless!🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
I know exactly what she is going through. My relationship just ended on January 20th 2024, after 10 years, a few million Pesos, a house and a 9 year old daughter. all because I'm busy working in America, for a secure future. My Filipina moved a guy into our condo, lied to me for a whole year, just to give me the biggest shock, when I landed in the Philippines recently. Stay safe.
@@isreeramotar3868 I am very sorry to hear of such a betrayal. If you bought the condo yourself, especially before she moved in, perhaps you can keep it. I wish you the best and that you find a more loyal partner once you have time to heal from this shock.
Best wishes to you and your future. And as an introvert myself I can see your struggling, but stay strong. Just be yourself, be weird and awkward. Just keep moving forward at your pace.
As I was telling Michael, I am saddened to hear you two are throwing in the towel on your marriage. I have also watched Michael's video with his side of the story. Marriage is tough even on a good day. There are the good, the bad, and the difficult times. All Relationships take work, but both of you have to want to make it work. Michael seems devastated over this decision. You two make a great couple. Since you are Canadian, staying separated for a year in the Philippines will be tough. I hope you have both carefully weighed all the pros and cons of your relationship. I would try a minimum of 3 months of marital counseling first. I was always given good advice that no amount of success will compensate for failure in the home. I hope you and Michael will try to work through it first. I wish you both the best.
We really dnt know they will not tell us the real reason I asure you its not whatt it seems only they know for sure why they are not together hope they do tell is the reason one day because what they saying is the reason is hogwash I got a divorced from my wife it was for her cheating so only time will tell I hope they get help I really love both of their vedioes
Bianca I understand its is very hard to explain your private life as far as Myself I don't talk about my life either. I wish you the very best on your new adventure.
Michael is doing great. he's a professional level news reporter/travel blogger anchorman all that stuff guy. Kumander Daot and Michael should meet in person and discuss his future.
Ahh the pitfalls of a May - December relationship. Happy to hear you are finding your way, good luck with the future - I am sure many great things are waiting for you. Enjoy your journey - try not be be hard on yourself. Good luck to you both, wishing you both the best.
Change is part of life, whether it's relationships, jobs, lifestyle. I'm glad you and Michael came to an understanding that it's best to move on as your relationship was gradually drifting away. The best part is that you are both handling it extremely well and are still very good friends and hopefully continue to do so. Life is a journey, and changes are a part of it. Stay positive and embrace them. Best of luck to both of you! 🙏
Sorry to hear you guys are splitting up. Its good to see you both are able to respect each other during this tough time. Wish you both all the best and god bless.
Same thing happened to Make It Happen. A lot of opportunities opened and each one has their own interests and goals. No one can just forever be a supportive girlfriend or boyfriend. It's better to part ways so each one can grow.
As a fellow Canadian, I am familiar with divorce laws in Canada. After 23 years of marriage and moving to another country, we separated also. We were advised after we both left Canada, we could not divorce in Canada. I have learned that the Dominican Republic has divorce for International Couples when of mutual consent. CHEAP TOO. Upon filing all correctly it can finish 30 to 40 days often. One of the two in the marriage has to appear in front of the judge quickly.
Both you have different stories for divorce, but both of you are good to see together as usual as earlier. Look good, understanding and better do not accuse each others for any reason. Both of you have to understand their own mistakes then there is not a problem to get divorce. Hope for the best and think twice please both of you before separating each others. Separating is easy but living with love is difficult, so you both have to think better for both your life.
Good to know you guys don't have bad blood. That is good. You will get there and you will find your style and what works for you. Yes that is a big shoe to fill maintaining the channel, but you can do it! You will figure it out eventually whether you do it fast or slow, just don't burn out yourself with expectations coming from people who may not be really understanding what you are going through. 😇🙏
You have the right though to keep things private but I so admire your courage for being so open and sincere. So saddened about the break-up. I still hope that divorce doesn't have to be your final answer and that you two will be able to find each other again in a better light. Don't worry about being weird and awkward, it is sweet and original! We like you that way. Such kind people you and Mike are. We will miss seeing you together but we will keep watching both your vlogs. All the best to the two of you!
Glad to see that you are both continuing the vlogging life. Couple's lives do change and grow apart more than people realize. It is mentally healthier to become stronger through your life's experiences both together and apart. Live your life as you, whatever that means to you. You Do You and everyone else will do what they do.
She was growing separately. He was already grown 😮. He married Davina and she turned into Bianca. Great no children involved. modern women dont want follow a mans lead. That will eventually be their downfall.
Looking forward to see how big Cozplay is in the Philippines, LARP here in the UK is fun and we have many a Cozplay meetups... also love Dungeons And Dragons and other dice rolling games. Perhaps even try doing some gaming live streams here on RUclips... really show who you are. Wish you all the best... Shame you couldn't grow together, Mike is a great guy.
Thanks Bianca for setting the record straight and your response on the delay. I’ve been enjoying the vlog(s) for some time, so felt vested in understanding what happened to the extent you and Mike were comfortable sharing. I hope this video does good at protecting your image as a public figure, as well as help steer traffic to Mike’s new channel. Best wishes
There are personal things that you cannot share with the public. We're talking about the negatives. Unlike the movie stars' life, people want get to know more about the juicy details. Your case is different. I know you want more privacy. At any rate, my advice is just be yourself. People would love you for that. Life goes on and you're on the right track. You have a great future ahead.
Hi Bianca.I had already heard this and was very surprised as I always thought you two were so good together. I could tell you were getting more comfortable with doing the videos. It is nice that there is no bad blood between you and that you are still friends. Sometimes when you start going in different directions and things are not working as planned it is good to step away so you don't part on bad terms. And who knows what might happen down the road. I know both of you will do very well with your channels. You are both great people and you both have my support. Good luck with all the new things you are doing. I know you have lots of good ideas so just go for it.
It seem like you got married really young. Michael explained also what happened between the both of you. It makes sense that Covid and the lockdown made both of you closer together. Now that everything returned back to normal both of you seem to having nothing in commo and have different goals. The age gap may also attributed to the split as well. Hope for the best and life will treat both of you well.😊
“I take this Man/Woman to have and to hold from this day forward, for better for worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, forsaking all others, till death us do part." Crazy how often we say these words and they mean nothing to us. Not taking sides here, I mean all of us in the world who has ever married.
May life be good for both of yous life is a journey of many destinations there is no right or wrong just new experiences welcome to the real life of living a dream thank you both for sharing your journey of life .. Life is to live and explore our inner self to the fullest through happy, sad,and the opportunities that follow sadness is only a moment in time to be human and to reflect that we will always keep learning new experiences may you both enjoy the separate pathways and peace will always be with yous Thankyou both for sharing the awesome moments in your travels in the Philippines peace be with you both as yous continue into lifes new experiences
Yes, same here. Moving to the Philippines, and living there can do wonders to a marriage of foreigners, in a negative way. Same with me. Young Filipina ladies being attracted to older men say everything.
Whatever was not working for both of you showed on your videos. I do not know at what point it occurred but it was noticeable. One would have to go back from the first vlog and watch the turning point, there was a perceptible lack of enthusiasm. Anyway good luck to both of you. Just be free to express your unique talents.
Bianca… I understand you are an introvert and have difficulty expressing emotions socially. But, I know one thing, it’s very difficult to find that right person and what you and Michael have is one in a million of souls matching. Just don’t regret going for your passions in life, while leaving your marriage behind. I was young once, but I knew, I wanted my husband beside me always during my struggles and goals. (My husband and I, have been together for 15 years, since I was 17 1/2) Which became our struggles and goals, you kind of have to think about marriage as one person, and not two bodies. That’s how we connect, spiritually, emotionally and physically. “ I put him before myself, and he puts me before himself.” Just please rethink all of these emotions. God placed you guys together for a reason, look for signs of the universe to give you understanding. Don’t back down just because silly emotions took over; think deep within yourselves and hearts. ❤ be strong about it, I know you have it in you to dig deep into yourself. You don’t want another guy, who will only be in a relationship with you for themselves.
You are very young so can start over and have time to accomplish many things. Even-though, Mike is 46; he is living in a country that respects older folks so should have no problems finding a mate or even remarrying. Young Filipino woman actually like older men. My wife is from Cebu and 20 years younger. We are married going on 20 years without any problems.. I do watch Mikes new channel and he manages to make an interesting daily video which by no means is easy. I wish both the best of luck and will check back on how things turn out for both.
@@Novaren455 And Mike is now living with a beautiful Filipino woman who is 25, so like I said, a large age gap, is not really a big deal to woman in the Philly Willie.
This was one of the most genuine videos and I appreciate the honesty. You didn’t have to make this, nor did Michael on his channel. I wish you the best. I hope you find your path.
Look girl, I strongly believe that both of you shouldn't have separated because of disagreement in your marriage. Disagreement should not be a recipe for divorce. Deep disagreement in any relationship is necessary but it should bring married couples together not separation. I believe that if couples separate or divorced for disagreement either one person or both don't love each other
Hi Bianca, I admire your courage to face on cam and tell some of your own private life story publicly. Show your own capacity that you can survive the difficulties of life. I can see in you the filipino behaviour the resilience in life like you're not just bow down and not stood up again from the most fierce storm of the season like the bamboo trees does. Show your prowess and tell them I can do this!
You guys won't remain friends. I'm 50, and know for facts you devastated him. (I watched his take) He can barely talk...damn he's got strength. He'll be fine because you act like a spoiled little girl and slowed him down.
This is a great example of why divorce is far too easy in the west. "We grew apart", suddenly means more than a life long commitment and vow. From the sound of it there was no infidelity, no domestic abuse, no verbal abuse. Sorry Bianca, it sounds like you got bored, had an itch, and decided you dont need a man and are chasing the girlboss pipedream. That's gonna sting one day when you look back at what was thrown away. Im sure there were issues, thats part of being a married adult. So is working through those things with that so called partner. Im sure ill get hate for telling it like i see it, but honestly you need to hear it.
I can’t agree more, you said everything I would also like to say…well done you. My own opinion in a marriage it takes two to tango. I’m a mum, a grandma and have been married to the same man my husband for nearly forty years prior to that we lived together for five years before we wed. Everything isn’t perfect as we go through there were hurdles but because we love each other we’re still together to this day. Communicate and be honest, bring out everything you feel inside you and try to solve your problems calmly. I think communication is very important in a relationship let your partner know how you feel and jealousy don’t get you nowhere. Good luck to all your endeavours.
@@pollybean900I agree with you. My parents are still married, over 60 years and counting and I've seen the challenges that life throws at them and how they handled it together, how they treated each other with love and respect.
You’re still young Bianca, it seems like you want to enjoy life being single and that’s very understandable! You dont awe anyone an explaination! Ignore the negative comments do what makes you happy life is short! There’s so much thing in store for you claim it and embrace it!🥰
We’re here for you! You’ll develop your own style Bianca. People are easily entertained 😂 you could literally blog your daily routine and chat about sweet nothings and people will still eat it up 💯
Exactly. When she said something like I could vlog I’m gonna go buy Doritos….i thought, yeah, I’d watch that. lol. It’s like the ducklings & imprinting, but sideways coz I see THEM as the kids…. I really appreciated the original TPL channel & I miss it. Hope the videos will all remain available. I will support both in the future.
Whatever you do, love and value yourself. You seem like a good person, no matter what negative comments people are saying here. We all make mistakes in life, and none of us are beyond reproach. I wish you both all the best.
Your take on your marriage is weird. In Michael’s video he eluded to you pursuing modeling and other ventures. Coming from California I see this time and again where there is 2 million actors and 1 million models. I think some one blowing smoke up your butt telling you that you could be a star and you bought into the lie. Let’s be real I follow you on IG and although 4,000 people is deceit there are also dog IG’s that have 100,000 followers so on the grand scheme of things you are not showing much potential to be a star. Please reconsider your life before you lose a good guy because you chased a lie that you told yourself.
It will be ok, girl. The important thing is that you learn from the past. Key word is : past. Look towards the future and never look back except to give thanks. You are awesome and the Philippines love you. Keep your eyes on the stars but keep your feet on the ground. The whole world is literally, in your hands. Do great with it. Don't waste the opportunities and although I know you are not religious, I am assuming that you believe in God anyway - PRAY. You may not have that much of a belief in God, but know that He sure believes in you!
Although Bianca is half-Filipino but grow up in western culture like most women in Canada and US they are modern and independent. She need self assessment of herself like doing SWOT analysis and self reflection. Sometimes the person become important to you when is gone and has move on his life. If there is no reconciliation Mike might pass as Passport Bro.
There were some videos where I saw he was scary....the split is inevitable They were eating and he accused her of taking his knife On another occassion, he didnt want her to talk, but these videos may have been deleted
Hello Bianca. It is inspiring when both adults are able to openly discuss their relationship. LIfe is a journey. You and Michael will do well. Keep up the positivity in life. May you find happiness and success along the way. As a new subscriber. I will follow your journey
What a selfish demon ,I'm sad as she smiles like a joke was told I hope he cuts all contact,bigger better deal don't happen and these social climbers try to come back or be friends,no men if they need space or something else ,ok I hope she is happy but no friendship ever helps the man. Sad but break ups are not a happy thing so don't fall into friendship trap men
*_Divine sounded so happy and free... as if she adopted a new dog lol. Which means she did the right thing for her. No remorse at all. Kudos to Mike for fully supporting her, even giving her the main channel. We'll support you as you go on your journey, because we're not your only fans._* 😎😎👍👍🤞🤞
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80% of all divorce is initiated by women, just the facts.
@@MannyMannyG Instead of spending so much time watching cats take a sh*t, try jumping on a treadmill. She doesn't 'have to' share anything and why would she give details, it's no one's business.
I call BS
lolz i was thinking the same@@wanabetruckerdave3776
I heard a lot about “me” in this video.
It is her video, so I guess its her perspective since the other guy already did his video. Wont it be counter intuitive to repeat someone else's perspective?
As it should be.
This is exactly why Western men go to the Philippines in the first place. She talked herself into a divorce like so many Western women do. Quite possibly had some coaching from single friends. So tired of seeing this BS. I wouldn't marry a Western woman at this point if you paid me. They've been gassed up for decades. They haven't been empowered they've been brainwashed and many will end up alone.
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@@TJ-hy7gd amazing
Both partners have to keep working on a LIFETIME commitment. You don't give up on people you commit to for no solid reason it shows a lack of character.
it just shows there relationship is shallow
Immature
I totally agree.
How old was Michael and Bianca when they got married?
Marriage is the longtime promise and commitment to take care for the needs of another person for the rest of your life, as only to think for yourself. Each partner has agreed to work on and maintain this relationship for a lifetime. Unfortunately, we have forgotten how to work on a relationship. For this reason, marriage should be very carefully considered and a person's character carefully evaluated before deciding to take this crucial step. In my opinion, there shouldn't be an exit out of marrage. Why would you want that? You have made a binding commitment. Just like when you give birth to a child, you are making promise to care for this child and to be there for it for the rest of your life. There is no way to dodge the responsibility away from you.
It is a great opportunity for Mike to find a really good non-western traditional woman in the Philippines. He seems like a really great catch and a nice man all-around and it is good that you set him free so he can find just that!
New to channel. I picked up on the fact that their was zero affection from you to him. Not like other couples on RUclips. From my perspective it appears you are the one pushing this. Not a negative comment, just an objective observation. The grass is not greener. Make sure you are doing the right thing. Time is moving.
She seems like she wants to be the main character of her own show. When you’re married, you’re still two separate persons despite being “one in body.” How can marriage work? By allowing your man to take the lead, and be submissive to one’s husband. That’s how it was from the old patriarchs of the Old Testament, and it’s still the same in our own time. She has the modern feminist view, and can end up being a cat-caring person the rest or her life. Her value in the eyes of men starts falling fast at thirty, while men’s value in the eyes of women keeps going up beyond forty or fifty and even older. He has a major advantage, only she doesn’t know it. Regrets will be too late!
How about NOT being submissive to anyone? If it is in one’s interest to follow the tenets of a religion, then one should do so. I would suggest that Bianca has no obligation to do the same. The “old” testament stretches back back a few thousand years. Homo sapiens stretches back >200,000 years and other Hominids 2.0 million or so - all with the same characteristic. Females reproduce, and we males are generally good for providing genetic diversity. If just up to us, our species would have been lost long ago. Yet we are supposed to be dominant over females? Methinks that has more to do with preference and a bit of bullying than with biology and logic. Most of the rationale (men are smarter, men are more logical, etc.) has been debunked long ago.
only true thing in the comments section I would never marry a westernized feminist female@@leapdrive
I doubt she will end up being that: "40 year old woman living alone with her cat."@@leapdrive
@@samquinn6427 , how can you be so sure? By being a divorced woman, she has already lost 90% of her value in the Philippines. Perhaps in Canada, her value lost would be less, but less value nevertheless.
Well....one is a still coming out as a child one is an adult. I can see why it wouldn't work.
and the "child" is now in Roxas.
With a much better quality lady. @@Jimbo-v3m
i knew my wife for 10 days and we married in manila, marriage before vlogs, been married for 38yrs, 3 boys, 5 grand children
Wow, you rolled the dice and landed a good number, lol. doesn;t always end up that way getting married that fast when you don't know someone yet
Pure luck.. congrats
Before internet poison.
me too brother, 14 days, thanks for the example of real commitment
Congratulations you have left a legacy and an example for your heritage to follow ,working not just quitting .
Why would someone get married and think that marriage ends if you "grow apart"? I thought getting a marriage meant that you are going to agree to work on coming back together if you drift apart. lol
He is a simp
@@smacktard6051 Most women in the west think like Bianca. As a man why get married? just have fun with these girls for 6 months and move on.
They are at different phases in life. She wants to pursue something different (modeling and cosplays) and he wants to keep traveling and vlogging. They see a lot of opportunities for themselves in the Philippines, but they can’t achieve their goals at the same time if they stay together. Marriage is about compromise, whether we support our spouse in achieving their dreams while we wait a few years try achieving ours or you both go for it and the marriage doesn’t work out, which is what they decided to do. She’s much younger than he is too which is why their interests didn’t seem to work together. I had a feeling this would happen. Anyway, we wish them well.
@@cwayzums she is not mature yet hope Mike finds a nice mature 20ish Filipina
@cwayzums dude, you can pursue your interests without being divorced. This girl makes a mockery of marriage typical of Western women. The only reason for divorce is negligence or abuse from the spouse otherwise you're supposed to work on any issues.
A marriage is supposed to be for better or for worst. The oath you took. Everybody has flaws. This is going to be a lifecycle. Good luck...
A marriage has to be together and selfless.
If you are going to move forward in your life
This how it should be
● no phone call
● no asking him when have trouble with your vlog
● you cannot ask Mike to fix aomething broken
● When your stuck somewhere call a girlfried or something
●When you dont have any money for rent,groceries,etc..etc.. call your parents instead
●this is what i call growing apart .Just a thought not a sermon
Strange growing apart , why have a wedding , if not sure to love or like the person you living with.
Life is never easy,you have to work all the time and all days on a relationship.
I think social media have big part's in relationships.
Better stop social media than a relationship.
I can tell Mike truly loved you. It seems like you wanted this to happen. You used him to grow financially and once you reached your goals you left. Don’t sit there and say you both grew apart I don’t think so, I can tell he didn’t want this to happen and he loved you truly.
at the end of the day, she still a gold digging 3rd World Asian
You shouldn’t judge when you don’t know all the facts.
@@ginag17 Get back in the kitchen
@@ginag17 that's all fine and good but they both made the divorce and why they divorced public. As soon as they did that they opened themselves up to criticism. Her rationale sounds disingenuous and mostly excuses for her own selfishness. So take your fortune cookie proverb and shove it.
@@ginag17 No just by her actions. Speaks Pok Pok.
Seems like “She” grew apart . Women initiate 80% of the divorces…
If college educated its 90%
Yada yada yada, I'm a bag of chips and I can do better. Well, good luck and don't let the door hit you where the Lord split you.
Ironic, not simping here but why would you mention the Lord here? Can you tell me in your bible where your Lord Jesus took a big rock and joined the fray in stoning a woman? And yes i said your because your Lord seems to be a different one from the one that is portrayed to be forgiving to sinners and all humans.
AS*HOLE!!! first thing comes to mind. PU*K 2nd. and CREE*P 3rd. I am sure this was not easy for her with 137,000 subscribers.
Im not happy... the Title story of 80% of men's life. Why couldn't he keep this channel that he put so much into.... Michael is a gentleman. 😊
You "Weren't growing separately" You weren't growing up. Watching your other videos, it is so obvious that you were taking more than giving in the relationship.
Of course its for the viewers to judge, that's how interaction works. It's going to be incredibly difficult to sustain living anywhere on 1 video a fortnight that gets 6.5k views anyway. Can see things unravelling pretty quick once the house lease expires.@@limtseho3540
Everyones allowed an opinion on publicity...hound vlogs.@@limtseho3540
@@limtseho3540actually you’re wrong. When people want to put their entire lives online, then they will be judged. If you don’t want that to happen, don’t make your entire life public🤷🏻♂️
That's pretty much the norm in western relationships.
wat a cop out. it disturbing when i hear married couples say "we grew apart"
when you take the oath of marriage its all about growing a life together and compromising. there's way too much selfishness in Western culture
People do grow apart. It happens. Those that recognize it and make changes to be happy are bigger people than the ones that hold on to an archaic doctrine that makes them miserable.
Imagine agreeing to get married and thinking that ends if you "grow apart." Why even agree to a marriage in the first place? Haha. Of course you should know you will grow apart in advance.
As opposed to adultery or legal separation in the Philippines? 😜
i think its different when there is no kids involved
@@MrBroccoliGuy Growing apart takes years. Years longer than they have been married. This is simply her dropping him because she has no use for him anymore. A change of mind. 😆 Oh well it's all out there for public consumption and any decent man wouldn't waste his time committing to that.
Jesus I feel so sorry for him...but if nothing else, you gave him a life lesson...
Right, just another case of a guy building up a woman only to get dumped when she gets better opportunities off the back of his hard work.
Well it's not like they both don't come from Western society and culturally they both were raised from Canada so I wouldn't take this situation the same as finding an actual Filipina who was raised in the Philippines and the culture has more emphasis on working through hardships in marriage and Western culture just pushes how easy divorce is as an option. As a Western brought up culture it's not shocking at all as it's super rare to see a foreigner getting divorced from an actual Filipina born and raised here that isn't looking only for money because there are many here lol. Like she explained she "grew" into a different place and found herself and that's exactly a Western outlook on why divorce is so high.....it's totally fine to search and find new things and grow as an individual but in my eyes if you can't grow with the person you choose to marry ( should be a forever decision) then it's actually an excuse to either try new men/woman or the life you want to live is in a class of society your partner is not apart of.
@@American_Mike💯
This will flow like all the others. Watch what happens next.
@@daryn2826 @mellingensander and @americanmike1957 did not say anything about Filipinas nor about being raised anywhere. They just said what every man should know about every woman on the planet: she'll *TAKE* from you and, if she finds someone better (in her opinion), she'll viciously dump you. AKA hypergamy. No nationality or anything involved. It's just in women nature. The sooner men learn it the better.
Mike was bordering on tears describing the break up. Good for you that it is much easier.
They say when a couple break up it’s always easier on the female .
Hard to tell. Some people are transparent, others put on a front to hide their pain.
Got to ask tho, why was Michael so quick to post that he's going to be single? Bianca might not show that much emotions as she took a lot of time off to process things. What they show on the screen isnt always what they feel.
@@gabrielsaad2785Nope
@@denniszenanywhere BS
So you evolved and grew in life with Michael getting you to that level of independence and then you dumped him because you were strong enough.
Typical woman.
you don't know what's happening in their private life, don't speculate.
Ah, applying a stereotype to a relationship you know nothing about... You must be an intellectual.
@@Psycho-Nomics maybe you didn't watch her video it's all about me me me when you put your life on social media it's open for assumptions and speculation.
Can't take the heat don't put it out there for the world to see.
@@joerex2612 it's pretty obvious what's happening, and the fact that she keeps saying they just grew appart is woman code for men i just decide to dump him and don't want to have to take responsibility for my choices.
OP being misogynistic.
I can understand your feelings. I felt the same. My husband and I “grew apart”, it felt like all the feelings were gone. I had zero desire to get back together, we separated and lived separately for a year but because we have a child, we agreed we should atleast do weekly counseling.
We are now back together and honestly happier than we’ve ever been. I never thought it possible but it happened. Slowly but surely. We had neglected the relationship and hardly communicated. So it broke down. But we built it back better and we’ve learned how to avoid another break down.
Now I regret that we ever separated during that year.
I know you two don’t have children but you did make a vow. I would strongly encourage you to at the bare minimum give counseling a try. Really be open with it and give it enough time to see if it works. If for no other reason then to avoid any possible future regret.
Sending love to you both 🖤
@bre8164 = It's a TERRIBLE idea to use children to patch up a troubled marriage. 👀 Better choose another option, plzzz ...
@@gg_Javier huh? We already had a child. Hes 11. Lol When all hope was lost between us, we decided we atleast owed it to our son to try marriage counseling to see if we could resolve our issues before just getting a divorce. And we did work it out and are very happy.
When we couldn’t find the motivation for each other, we got motivated to atleast try for him and it worked.
There was no abuse, cheating, toxic environment, etc. we just felt like we fell out of love, and were roommates basically, which seems to be the same situation with them. Marriage is hard. Counseling can work. I just don’t know if we would’ve tried it without our son but I wanted to hopefully give her encouragement to try. That’s all.
Nothing says "I like a private life, I'm shy, and I don't like to put my life out there for everyone to see" like having a RUclips channel.😂😂😂 This sh*t cracks me up every time I hear it. Couldn't be more of a Western statement if you tried..🤦🏼♂️🤦🏼♂️
Narcissists can be shy too
You broke his heart. He still looks broken even sounds that way. He is just being polite letting you off the hook.
Modern woman, guys this is a prime example. When they use terms like " we grew apart" " we need to start our new lives" . How about you tell us the truth, it was you that decided to end the relationship. Well its a blessing in disguise for him. You will have men in your life , but they will be be there not because they want a wife. This will be the last i will watch of your channel.
You could not say it better.... Weird and awkward!... Best of luck to you both ...hope you are not making a mistake ....
Wow, this is a tragedy. Such an amazing couple. What I’ve learned from this I’m 45 years old. I guess I’m gonna stick with Filipinos close to my age.🙌🏻
I'm gonna stick to those 1/3 my age.
Yeah that's a smart idea even Filipinos in their 50's want money
Amazing couple? Obviously not if they’re divorcing over “drifting apart”
I don’t think it’s her age. She’s been westernized so it doesn’t count 😂
Mike giving this main channel is so noble. It makes sense now why this channel had far more subs than Mike's, which appear to be the new channel. Even you separated, he still know how to take care of you. Nice.
Mike is a white knight
Yes props to Mike
Noble? Dude is laughing, he starts a new channel and his vids are already getting a lot more views without the higher subscriber account. Starting a fresh channel is a display of confidence.
We all know Mike is the hero maybe her next cosplay should be Cruella De Vil
its Mike who made this channel grow, and made famous, you admitted it you were just behind in all these things he does all the work....
so lucky you girl he is so generous he gave it to you and start his own I mean chose to use the lower subscriber channel ..... reward is near to him,
I had been watching your blogs and love you both. I am sad to hear your separations. Think about it very carefully before you get divorce before you realize later that you made a mistake and is to late. Many years ago, it happened to me with my first love, my soulmate and because of pride was too late to get back together.
A wise soul once quipped sometimes two people have to fall apart to realize how much they need to fall back together. God bless!🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Simp
You did great, Bianca! People appreciate authenticity and raw vlogs. God Bless you both and continue evolving and enjoying life 🙏 ❤️
I think we all saw this coming....
I knew it was coming today he was making a video doing his laundry outside lol I be dam if I'm doing that while married
I know exactly what she is going through. My relationship just ended on January 20th 2024, after 10 years, a few million Pesos, a house and a 9 year old daughter. all because I'm busy working in America, for a secure future. My Filipina moved a guy into our condo, lied to me for a whole year, just to give me the biggest shock, when I landed in the Philippines recently. Stay safe.
@@isreeramotar3868 wow, just wow! Very sorry to hear this.
@@smccarthymccarthy😭😭😭😭I’m only human, just can’t understand how someone can be so cruel and cold…
@@isreeramotar3868 I am very sorry to hear of such a betrayal. If you bought the condo yourself, especially before she moved in, perhaps you can keep it.
I wish you the best and that you find a more loyal partner once you have time to heal from this shock.
Best wishes to you and your future.
And as an introvert myself I can see your struggling, but stay strong.
Just be yourself, be weird and awkward.
Just keep moving forward at your pace.
As I was telling Michael, I am saddened to hear you two are throwing in the towel on your marriage. I have also watched Michael's video with his side of the story. Marriage is tough even on a good day. There are the good, the bad, and the difficult times. All Relationships take work, but both of you have to want to make it work. Michael seems devastated over this decision. You two make a great couple. Since you are Canadian, staying separated for a year in the Philippines will be tough. I hope you have both carefully weighed all the pros and cons of your relationship. I would try a minimum of 3 months of marital counseling first. I was always given good advice that no amount of success will compensate for failure in the home. I hope you and Michael will try to work through it first. I wish you both the best.
Many times, distrust is the factor in a divorce. 95% or so. Adultery is one of them. We don't know.
We really dnt know they will not tell us the real reason I asure you its not whatt it seems only they know for sure why they are not together hope they do tell is the reason one day because what they saying is the reason is hogwash I got a divorced from my wife it was for her cheating so only time will tell I hope they get help I really love both of their vedioes
Bianca I understand its is very hard to explain your private life as far as Myself I don't talk about my life either. I wish you the very best on your new adventure.
I think he’s too good for you. Michael is the man.
Michael is doing great. he's a professional level news reporter/travel blogger anchorman all that stuff guy.
Kumander Daot and Michael should meet in person and discuss his future.
Yeah, he’ll be fine, watch what happens when bounces back.
He'll be fine. He was old when he picked up Bianca, he'll find another young lady to groom.
Ahh the pitfalls of a May - December relationship. Happy to hear you are finding your way, good luck with the future - I am sure many great things are waiting for you. Enjoy your journey - try not be be hard on yourself. Good luck to you both, wishing you both the best.
Change is part of life, whether it's relationships, jobs, lifestyle. I'm glad you and Michael came to an understanding that it's best to move on as your relationship was gradually drifting away. The best part is that you are both handling it extremely well and are still very good friends and hopefully continue to do so. Life is a journey, and changes are a part of it. Stay positive and embrace them. Best of luck to both of you! 🙏
I hope that one day you and Michael find your way back to each other, you guys are good together.
Sorry to hear you guys are splitting up. Its good to see you both are able to respect each other during this tough time. Wish you both all the best and god bless.
Same thing happened to Make It Happen. A lot of opportunities opened and each one has their own interests and goals. No one can just forever be a supportive girlfriend or boyfriend. It's better to part ways so each one can grow.
as long as you both are happy , wishing you both the best and i will keep following
😘
As a fellow Canadian, I am familiar with divorce laws in Canada. After 23 years of marriage and moving to another country, we separated also. We were advised after we both left Canada, we could not divorce in Canada. I have learned that the Dominican Republic has divorce for International Couples when of mutual consent. CHEAP TOO. Upon filing all correctly it can finish 30 to 40 days often. One of the two in the marriage has to appear in front of the judge quickly.
Both you have different stories for divorce, but both of you are good to see together as usual as earlier. Look good, understanding and better do not accuse each others for any reason. Both of you have to understand their own mistakes then there is not a problem to get divorce. Hope for the best and think twice please both of you before separating each others. Separating is easy but living with love is difficult, so you both have to think better for both your life.
on the one hand I always thought he could be her father, on the other hand I feel sorry for this guy, even leaving the channel to her...
Good to know you guys don't have bad blood. That is good. You will get there and you will find your style and what works for you. Yes that is a big shoe to fill maintaining the channel, but you can do it! You will figure it out eventually whether you do it fast or slow, just don't burn out yourself with expectations coming from people who may not be really understanding what you are going through. 😇🙏
Sort of strange that she is carrying on her ex channel don't you think
You have the right though to keep things private but I so admire your courage for being so open and sincere.
So saddened about the break-up. I still hope that divorce doesn't have to be your final answer and that you two will be able to find each other again in a better light.
Don't worry about being weird and awkward, it is sweet and original! We like you that way.
Such kind people you and Mike are. We will miss seeing you together but we will keep watching both your vlogs.
All the best to the two of you!
Good theraphy,talk and let it out and once its all over,walk away and be happy for each other,a new day beckons ahead.
Glad to see that you are both continuing the vlogging life. Couple's lives do change and grow apart more than people realize. It is mentally healthier to become stronger through your life's experiences both together and apart. Live your life as you, whatever that means to you. You Do You and everyone else will do what they do.
She was growing separately. He was already grown 😮. He married Davina and she turned into Bianca. Great no children involved. modern women dont want follow a mans lead. That will eventually be their downfall.
Looking forward to see how big Cozplay is in the Philippines, LARP here in the UK is fun and we have many a Cozplay meetups... also love Dungeons And Dragons and other dice rolling games.
Perhaps even try doing some gaming live streams here on RUclips... really show who you are.
Wish you all the best...
Shame you couldn't grow together, Mike is a great guy.
Thanks Bianca for setting the record straight and your response on the delay. I’ve been enjoying the vlog(s) for some time, so felt vested in understanding what happened to the extent you and Mike were comfortable sharing. I hope this video does good at protecting your image as a public figure, as well as help steer traffic to Mike’s new channel. Best wishes
It’s very obvious he still adores you too bad you can’t return that affection
She's a self centered girl, if she wasn't center stage she would pout, She thinks she is a super model, She didn't bring anything to the table.
There are personal things that you cannot share with the public. We're talking about the negatives. Unlike the movie stars' life, people want get to know more about the juicy details. Your case is different. I know you want more privacy. At any rate, my advice is just be yourself. People would love you for that. Life goes on and you're on the right track. You have a great future ahead.
Hi Bianca.I had already heard this and was very surprised as I always thought you two were so good together. I could tell you were getting more comfortable with doing the videos. It is nice that there is no bad blood between you and that you are still friends. Sometimes when you start going in different directions and things are not working as planned it is good to step away so you don't part on bad terms. And who knows what might happen down the road. I know both of you will do very well with your channels. You are both great people and you both have my support. Good luck with all the new things you are doing. I know you have lots of good ideas so just go for it.
Simp
People love truth and honesty, but don't focus on the audience. Do what you love to do and show the world the real you. No need to explain, good luck!
too much selfishness in western culture. In marriage its not always about you. Gotta work at it and grow a life together
It seem like you got married really young. Michael explained also what happened between the both of you. It makes sense that Covid and the lockdown made both of you closer together.
Now that everything returned back to normal both of you seem to having nothing in commo and have different goals. The age gap may also attributed to the split as well. Hope for the best and life will treat both of you well.😊
Yes. Dont give up on vlogging your young smart and beautiful and have alot to give.take care of yourself find your new happiness
Imagine if she was a guy..she would never make it! pretty girls almost always do well in RUclips! trust me I know!
You must relax, be yourself and move on with confidence 😊
This break up video is just like Michael’s both are as clear as mud on why the marriage is ending.
“I take this Man/Woman to have and to hold from this day forward, for better for worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, forsaking all others, till death us do part." Crazy how often we say these words and they mean nothing to us. Not taking sides here, I mean all of us in the world who has ever married.
May life be good for both of yous life is a journey of many destinations there is no right or wrong just new experiences welcome to the real life of living a dream thank you both for sharing your journey of life ..
Life is to live and explore our inner self to the fullest through happy, sad,and the opportunities that follow sadness is only a moment in time to be human and to reflect that we will always keep learning new experiences may you both enjoy the separate pathways and peace will always be with yous
Thankyou both for sharing the awesome moments in your travels in the Philippines peace be with you both as yous continue into lifes new experiences
She Does have right. It's up to her decision if she wants to talk about her life
At the end of the day, it’s more fun in the Philippines 🤟
Yes, same here. Moving to the Philippines, and living there can do wonders to a marriage of foreigners, in a negative way. Same with me. Young Filipina ladies being attracted to older men say everything.
I’m sorry to hear that you are separated. I wish you the best in life and with your vlogs.
Whatever was not working for both of you showed on your videos. I do not know at what point it occurred but it was noticeable. One would have to go back from the first vlog and watch the turning point, there was a perceptible lack of enthusiasm. Anyway good luck to both of you. Just be free to express your unique talents.
still will support you as you are. hope you will enjoy your exploration. enjoy your journey be as you are.
Bianca… I understand you are an introvert and have difficulty expressing emotions socially.
But, I know one thing, it’s very difficult to find that right person and what you and Michael have is one in a million of souls matching. Just don’t regret going for your passions in life, while leaving your marriage behind. I was young once, but I knew, I wanted my husband beside me always during my struggles and goals. (My husband and I, have been together for 15 years, since I was 17 1/2) Which became our struggles and goals, you kind of have to think about marriage as one person, and not two bodies. That’s how we connect, spiritually, emotionally and physically.
“ I put him before myself, and he puts me before himself.”
Just please rethink all of these emotions. God placed you guys together for a reason, look for signs of the universe to give you understanding. Don’t back down just because silly emotions took over; think deep within yourselves and hearts. ❤ be strong about it, I know you have it in you to dig deep into yourself. You don’t want another guy, who will only be in a relationship with you for themselves.
As long as yah don’t change your video style and content then the money will keep flowing
You’re not weird and awkward. You will kill it and look forward to future vlogs 😊
You are very young so can start over and have time to accomplish many things. Even-though, Mike is 46; he is living in a country that respects older folks so should have no problems finding a mate or even remarrying. Young Filipino woman actually like older men. My wife is from Cebu and 20 years younger. We are married going on 20 years without any problems.. I do watch Mikes new channel and he manages to make an interesting daily video which by no means is easy. I wish both the best of luck and will check back on how things turn out for both.
He’s turning 49. Lmfao
@@Novaren455 And Mike is now living with a beautiful Filipino woman who is 25, so like I said, a large age gap, is not really a big deal to woman in the Philly Willie.
At least there’s no kids involved. So you both can move on with life and wish you the best.
We will continu to support Michael and you Bianca to the fullest. Just stay friends and enjoy.
Good thing children are not involved. They are the ones who suffers the most in these situations. Thank God
TIME HEALS BIANCA,
OCCUPY YOURSELF ,
OR GO BACK TO SCHOOL.
Typical of what's wrong in the western world
Glad I'm retired in the Phillipines
He's better off without the baggage
This was one of the most genuine videos and I appreciate the honesty. You didn’t have to make this, nor did Michael on his channel. I wish you the best. I hope you find your path.
Look girl, I strongly believe that both of you shouldn't have separated because of disagreement in your marriage. Disagreement should not be a recipe for divorce. Deep disagreement in any relationship is necessary but it should bring married couples together not separation. I believe that if couples separate or divorced for disagreement either one person or both don't love each other
Hi Bianca, I admire your courage to face on cam and tell some of your own private life story publicly. Show your own capacity that you can survive the difficulties of life. I can see in you the filipino behaviour the resilience in life like you're not just bow down and not stood up again from the most fierce storm of the season like the bamboo trees does. Show your prowess and tell them I can do this!
As always be safe when u travel anywhere. Where your heart takes you. ♥️
Simp
Sad to hear that you and Michael separated! I follow both of you and wish you both tons of Happiness and Success in the years ahead!!
Best wishes to you and your future. Be yourself. ❤🇵🇭🇺🇸
You guys won't remain friends. I'm 50, and know for facts you devastated him. (I watched his take) He can barely talk...damn he's got strength. He'll be fine because you act like a spoiled little girl and slowed him down.
This is a great example of why divorce is far too easy in the west. "We grew apart", suddenly means more than a life long commitment and vow.
From the sound of it there was no infidelity, no domestic abuse, no verbal abuse.
Sorry Bianca, it sounds like you got bored, had an itch, and decided you dont need a man and are chasing the girlboss pipedream. That's gonna sting one day when you look back at what was thrown away.
Im sure there were issues, thats part of being a married adult. So is working through those things with that so called partner. Im sure ill get hate for telling it like i see it, but honestly you need to hear it.
I can’t agree more, you said everything I would also like to say…well done you. My own opinion in a marriage it takes two to tango. I’m a mum, a grandma and have been married to the same man my husband for nearly forty years prior to that we lived together for five years before we wed. Everything isn’t perfect as we go through there were hurdles but because we love each other we’re still together to this day. Communicate and be honest, bring out everything you feel inside you and try to solve your problems calmly. I think communication is very important in a relationship let your partner know how you feel and jealousy don’t get you nowhere. Good luck to all your endeavours.
@@pollybean900I agree with you. My parents are still married, over 60 years and counting and I've seen the challenges that life throws at them and how they handled it together, how they treated each other with love and respect.
You’re still young Bianca, it seems like you want to enjoy life being single and that’s very understandable! You dont awe anyone an explaination! Ignore the negative comments do what makes you happy life is short! There’s so much thing in store for you claim it and embrace it!🥰
We’re here for you! You’ll develop your own style Bianca. People are easily entertained 😂 you could literally blog your daily routine and chat about sweet nothings and people will still eat it up 💯
Exactly. When she said something like I could vlog I’m gonna go buy Doritos….i thought, yeah, I’d watch that. lol. It’s like the ducklings & imprinting, but sideways coz I see THEM as the kids…. I really appreciated the original TPL channel & I miss it. Hope the videos will all remain available. I will support both in the future.
Whatever you do, love and value yourself. You seem like a good person, no matter what negative comments people are saying here. We all make mistakes in life, and none of us are beyond reproach. I wish you both all the best.
Your take on your marriage is weird. In Michael’s video he eluded to you pursuing modeling and other ventures. Coming from California I see this time and again where there is 2 million actors and 1 million models. I think some one blowing smoke up your butt telling you that you could be a star and you bought into the lie. Let’s be real I follow you on IG and although 4,000 people is deceit there are also dog IG’s that have 100,000 followers so on the grand scheme of things you are not showing much potential to be a star. Please reconsider your life before you lose a good guy because you chased a lie that you told yourself.
It will be ok, girl. The important thing is that you learn from the past. Key word is : past. Look towards the future and never look back except to give thanks. You are awesome and the Philippines love you. Keep your eyes on the stars but keep your feet on the ground. The whole world is literally, in your hands. Do great with it. Don't waste the opportunities and although I know you are not religious, I am assuming that you believe in God anyway - PRAY. You may not have that much of a belief in God, but know that He sure believes in you!
Stay strong and positive bianca! 🙏
Although Bianca is half-Filipino but grow up in western culture like most women in Canada and US they are modern and independent. She need self assessment of herself like doing SWOT analysis and self reflection. Sometimes the person become important to you when is gone and has move on his life. If there is no reconciliation Mike might pass as Passport Bro.
stay strong, take it one day at a time its gonna be okay.
I cant believe that you can make enough money to live, even in the Philippines, by just doing a few videos a month!
Has he been drifting apart or have you been drifting apart?🤔🙄
She’s definitely the one that drifted away sadly
Don't worry I'll still support your own vlog. Just be yourself in doing your content it's better to be natural than scripted. Keep it up !!!
Is it true that 7 Years Prison is the minimum sentence for Adultery in the Philippines?
Sorry to hear, Bianca. Good luck in your new journey.
I can see it's your idea for the split. I will unsubscribe. I hope everyone else moves to his channel, too.
There were some videos where I saw he was scary....the split is inevitable
They were eating and he accused her of taking his knife
On another occassion, he didnt want her to talk, but these videos may have been deleted
Hello Bianca. It is inspiring when both adults are able to openly discuss their relationship. LIfe is a journey. You and Michael will do well. Keep up the positivity in life. May you find happiness and success along the way. As a new subscriber. I will follow your journey
What a selfish demon ,I'm sad as she smiles like a joke was told I hope he cuts all contact,bigger better deal don't happen and these social climbers try to come back or be friends,no men if they need space or something else ,ok I hope she is happy but no friendship ever helps the man. Sad but break ups are not a happy thing so don't fall into friendship trap men
*_Divine sounded so happy and free... as if she adopted a new dog lol. Which means she did the right thing for her. No remorse at all. Kudos to Mike for fully supporting her, even giving her the main channel. We'll support you as you go on your journey, because we're not your only fans._* 😎😎👍👍🤞🤞
i think the other mike fought tooth n nail for his channel🤭