If you're in a Haram Relationship, just hear me out...
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I have been in a haram relationship. Alhamudallah. I ended it and I have not slept with her. I feel happier without a relationship
alhamdulilah, these days im finding more that people will only let us down we must rely soley on allah because he has never let us down not even once
Mashallah im a muslim girl and what your teaching is wonderful we all need to hear this not just the brothers
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Keep posting and inshallah Allah will reward you
Inshallah
though this video is addressed towards men, i have been struggling a lot with haram relationships. i wasn’t dating them, and we had the intention of marriage, but we had inappropriate conversations often and a huge emotional attachment. i just love him so much i can’t let him go. so i’m trying to make it halal. apparently it’s made him closer to Allah, but it’s made me farther. i was doing more things that would be great in Islam, but it wasn’t for Allah it was for him.
honestly ukhti id say just stop talking until its done in a proper way and start improing your deen and your self, just make istikara salah if you really want to get closer allah then you have to let it go for now and see if it's what allah will guide you towards if you make istikhara your asking for allahs guidance over your own feelings because we gotta trust he knows best
Just saw your content. I must say great work.keep it up!
Lots of prayers for u.
Assalamualikum
Mashallah, alhamdullillah may Allah protect us
wa alaykum salam ameen
Everything u said was correct, Alhamdulillah not in a haram relationship no more. May Allah forgive.
i have been in a haram relationship before and it’s not something i’m proud of. i ended the relationship 4 months ago yet i still miss the guy and think of him as he made me feel so loved and happy. i also get jealous when i see other girls in my year in relationships and getting attention from guys. do you have any advice to help me in this situation?
ppl are temporary they dont even know what loves mean,thet dont even tell their parents theyre dating,ppl are so weird nowadays making crazy standarts abt relationship,just follow islam,u will find everyting,im TELLING u just dont,and just follow islam guidance.
ukht just get closer to allah because as much as you may have had strong feelings it was against allahs deen and if we go against that even though we feel happy in the moment it was never gonna be the type that would last forever it sucks to see our generation dating and stuff we wanna be part of the group but honestly what im doing is getting closer to my deen and just improving myself and finding way more peace in that in pursuit to become the best man i can be for my future wife i also made a video on halal loniliness this may help you as its helping me
It's okay sister, everyone thinks they were in love but it was nothing more than limerance, wanting attention from those whom we make images and scenarios with in our heads, you don't what he's thinking or if he actually was being serious to commiting to you. As a guy I can tell most of these dudes only want to lose their virginity, when it comes to meeting relatives, they're gonna make all kinds of excuses.
May Allah safeguard us
ameen
Right timing of this vid. The thing is ive tried to break it off many times but unwantingly i have become the centre of her life. She breaks down in tears and says she needs me and can't reach the deen without me. I know that if she is meant to reach the deen, Allah alone will guide her. But its just hard to see someone you do love crying and suffering, and seeing them in class daily makes it worse. Any advice? Thank you for your video and beautiful intentions. May Allah bless you brother 🙏 ❤️
hey brother give me your discord handle/ join my server and dm me so we can talk and i can send you my advice to your situation and so i can delete your comment just to not expose you after you grant me some way of communication to you or alternatively just edit your comment for your non exposure of shortcomings inshallah
@sultanum thank you my friend, I'll join your server
Assalamualaikum, you have a very engaging way of delivering your research and speech. Thank you for sharing
Jazakllah and alhamdulilah
Beautiful video brother, I’m happy this video is made for everyone. May Allah reward you Ameen
I am 16 and was married a woman two years older than me (avoid haram at all cost brothers)
may allah grant your marridge barakah
@@sultanum inshallah
fair points man , love it
thanks akh alhamulilah
alhamdullillah
Stop treating girls like objects. Treat them like humans. How would u feel if some creep looked at and treated ur female family member in a bad manner. If u were a girl how would u feel if u were treated like shit. So lower ur gaze.
I completely agree , I made this point in my lower your gaze video
Subhanallah I’m a revert too and I get what you mean , I carried the same impression about modern dating, interactions with the opposite gender even before Islam I figured that it was inadequate 👍🏻, also greats points AlhamdulilAllah 🙌🏻
Thank you for talking the truth.. It takes courage to talk the truth
alhamduililah
Well said akhi🖤
Jazakallah Pasha
@@sultanum barakallah feek🖤💪
What Muslims should encourage is turning haram relationship into a halal relationship (aka marriage) rather than just bash the people and tell them to break up. All these 'haram police' are the reason why people become demotivated by Islam. Which is a shame. Conservatives may not agree with me, but I believe that good intention and actively working towards those good intentions are underrated yet encouraged within Islam. So in other words, someone who is in a haram relationship actively working towards making it halal should not be discouraged.
There is a girl who likes me but she weird what should i do
I recommend just keeping your distance and if she asks just say you can’t do anything cause of deen. Repeat this process with any girls who like you pretty or not it’s a test from Allah May Allah protect us Ameen ik it’s hard trust but it’s the better path
@@sultanum thanks brother
SubhanAllah I always found that cringe. I used to cringe when I saw these guys at uni. I used to joke with my mates that these Bollywood wannabes are gonna break up and that’s exactly what happened to all of em 😂. There’s no peace in haram just a waste of time so I advise all brothers and sisters to focus on your Deen and prepare yourself for marriage. Inshallah do things the right way and there will be Barakah in your marriage
may he grant us our other halves ameen