See the magic we experienced in Bohol 🥹 White Sand Beaches 🌴, emerald green Cenotes 💚(yes, we have them in the Philippines too!) and the kindness of the locals 🥰 were shining through in this adventure and fun packed video 🫶🏼 Hoping it will brighten up your day 🌞 Watch the Vlog here 🎥ruclips.net/video/0i1XLd4RUSo/видео.htmlsi=NJG0QZqQLvd4gfoT
I am a permanent citizen of the Philippines now. I first came here in 2007. I have been here now since the lockdowns of 2020. The Philippines is definitely not for everyone. I could easily make a list of both advantages and disadvantages of living here. But for me, I like it.
@@paulbagsawan6054 look ay KD, he needed to come home to his parent and parent's house in his old room and see his old and primary therapist. Thats his best option to get out of his anxiety.
His story in that video reminded me of Kumander Daot. He has the same mental issue before he came to visit the Philippines. He lives in UK 🇬🇧. He visited the Philippines and found peace. When he came back to United Kingdom all that related problems he felt came back again. I know a lot of tourist likes to travel to enjoy the nature beauties around the world but if you are not going to settle down your mind problem before then definitely you will be disappointed about all you planned.
There were a lot of foreigners visiting PH alone yet they were able to succeed, you know the reason why? It is because they talk with locals in every place they go. Interacting with Filipinos will definitely make your experience meaningful.
Ya and to think most or 99.9% of Filipinos can speak english. 😊 pandemic era has passed. A lot of people now sometimes do not have the time to watch youtube.
Okay... I have been to Thailand, and to Cebu. In a way Cebu reminded me of Thailand with all the wires everywhere. But Cebu is a very nice place. So are other cities in the Philippines. If you like Thailand, then go to Thailand. If you like Korea, then go there. But do not bash one because it is not the other. There is actually a lot to see in Cebu. I will be going back.
You don't get his point. He was in a state of depression, if you are depressed even if you live in the most beautiful place in the world, it won't feel beautiful on the inside because you are battling something inside of you.
This guy really needs help. A therapist, a psychologist, maybe? He can't live alone and needs a permanent partner or companion. Wish him good luck and God blessings.
maybe he didn't find happiness n d philippines, due to his illness and knowing that depression or having mental health it's not good to put over load activity to a close oriented mentally i'll person , he really needs a milleu therapy to improve his condition. and we advise that all those who watched and red this message just understand he's current state of mental illnesses that needs to seek psychiatric help that includes milleu therapy and his family n friends.
Why Bro. Left The Philippines are you Drinking Wines the Group maybe one Guy put on poison on the Top side of Glass Bottle After you Drink The Result Mental Health Then If Have a Albularyo Like Doctor Medicine after Finish Treament Maybe Back to your Normal God Blessing You Amigo .Sometimes in The Province Bisaya kubli Hide maglalason Poisonings 18:04 18:04 Example: If We Have a Group Drinking Wine inside or outside the House you Calling Hey you Come can you Drink One Shot Ans.like This no Thank's
He already a lot of friends in Thailand , he gets used to be with a lot of Friends , he felt alone in the Philippines and when he encounter problems which makes him dissapointed right away, i guess he already felt stable in Thailand , I think next time if you travel in a strange place you better bring a friend with you , so you dont feel alone.
Hello Nelly...you're so beautiful 😍 happy to know the problem is not the Philippines...it's his mental issue...in life one must do whatever it is that will make you happy...if he's not happy in the Philippines then he should go somewhere else.
The problem is not the places you are visiting but instead your loneliness which affect your mental health. The best is try to consult to some health experts which will give you the right and correct medication and advises.
Having friends and relatives at the sensitive moments of your life makes a big difference. It happen to me in the United States, they have everything to offer, great job, great cities but with my friends and family are in the Philippines.
really he wasnt ready to be a solo traveller, basically he was insecure being alone in a unfamiliar place, probably scared him to death and he couldnt shake it.the best thing for him to do is leave if he couldnt enjoy, i think he mentally blocked himself from enjoying his time.
He should have interacted w/ the locals like the other bloggers did, likes Kumander Daot, Friendly Sergie, Jonathan etc. U really can't enjoy atrip being alone. Look at Island Barbie, she's very much active in Siargao getting along w/ the locals.
How is he not ready to be solo traveller? I'm subscriber on his channel, he has successfully visited many different countries, just because he's not feeling so comfortable in Philippines is his feeling and opinion, everyone is entitled to their opinion. It's not necessary for every vlogger to promote Philippines to grow their channel
He was gaslighting Cebu and the Cebuanos [ I am not a Cebuano] and implicitly promoting Thailand under the guise of a mental struggle. PHL does not need or deserve this kind of tourist.
i disagree with your observation, but he isnt mentally fit with a place that isnt his comfort zone and perhaps it is Thailand, As he mentioned he travelled to other places but seemed he enjoyed those places, he just isnt a solo traveller, so his mental state just didnt comfort him enough to continue, but its ok bcuz those who want to enjoy Ph will enjoy by being open to the culture and people.. u just have to hope he gets mentally healed to perhaps one day return and give it another chance.
Thanks Nelly for being so objective about this video...though the TITLE of his video is quite unfair for the Philippines especially for those people who will not finish this video🥲praying for him to be better
His Mental Health is valid but i wanna look in the bigger picture here i think his channel did not pick up so well here in the Philippines i think he thought he is going to have a big influx of subscribers and views but it did not materialize fast like the other vloggers did here and maybe that becomes the reason of his anxiety and uncertainty given the fact that he did get out of his comfort zone. i think the right decision to go back where you are most comfortable and just enrich your market there.
Exactly. Because these vloggers thinks when your content is about the Philippines your views gets high. 😂 boracay is all over you tube nothing new and nothing special.
You’re not alone in the Philippines Nelly. Or with that guy doing that content… you’re in the friendliest people on earth, you just have to explore your self and start having connections with others.
yes ,maybe Marijuana was his cure for his mental health and if he is in Thailand during that time period was legal in Thailand and he can no longer do that in the Philippines. It probably added to his mental stress.
Because travel is not really the goal in life, but it's part of pleasure and relaxation.The real goal is a stable income, which boosts mental health. Philippines may be the place to increase subscribers because most Filipinos love to watch RUclips; Philippines is the texting capital of the world. But sometimes if a vlogger's subscribers won't increase at a target time, they'll leave. For instance Mergim Vlog's subscribers significantly increased thus he stayed long. Mental health or depression is proportional to the success of income goals. If income declines, it's a burden how to survive. Research how to improve contents to increase subscribers or learn new skills to bring in good income, then mental health improves; depression may be chemical imbalance in the body. Seek Doctor's advice for anti-depressants, it will help. Good luck to the guy and to Nelly. Wishing you both success of goals in life.
I wonder if he's being subsidized by Thailand tourism for making Thai vlogs but never did he mention negative things about Thailand and the vlog above reacted on by Nelly, feels like a subtle diss to the Philippines to promote Thailand beaches and culture. It sounds like "why should someone go visit the Philippines, if Thailand has already beaches?". A weak minded tourist would easily fall, not knowing Philippine nature trips have more to offer.
You know you can really respect someone that is really being honest and not disrespectful. He made it very clear that it wasn't the Philippines or the people there that were the problem , but rather it was him. You can respect that.Not one comment was blaming the Philippines for it. That's cool. I have heard so many expact just totally put down the Filipino in a very disrespectful way. Not cool.If you just don't like a place leave. Simple. Don't blame them if it was you. Now if he really had an issue with the Philippines and could really explain it, then that is different. Still do it respectfully. I was in Bangladesh for 4 years and hated it. It was an issue with how they do things, but I don't post about it as I feel no need to disrespect them like that. Hopefully you do come back sometime with friends and really give it a try here. It is amazing here and I just love it.
Not good. Then he will never travel. He needs to be out traveling if that is his passion. Just make friends that have the same passion and go with them. Big difference.
For you guy thats your choice to go wher ever you go, if you are not comfortable to the place where you are in, we Pilipinos only welcome the people who like us, and if you want a perfect place go ahead create your own😂😂
know what? we filipinos also do welcome even those who do not like us.. for as long as they don't abuse our hospitality, otherwise they have to think a hundred times first before coming back here..
I hope he got to visit Siargao! Totally different vibe, people, and the island life is totally different. I had been to different islands and Siargao is the only island I will be coming back to.
Hi Ms. Nelly thanks for sharing your videos and thank you for your honest opinion and nice reaction. And I hope more videos reactions. Please take care of your self and safe. Almighty God bless you always 🙏💝🙏💝🙏💝🙏💝🙏💝🙏.
You rarely hear mental health issues among Filipinos. Mental health issues stems from childhood. Our culture is family/community oriented. We usually get backlash from foreign people because we always give back to our family. At least, we are mentally tough. :p
Yeah we really don't need Psychiatrists here. Therapists are not as necessary as other countries, where people have to run to for anything like marriage or relationship therapy etc..
Don't worry, if this country is not for you, its OK to leave. Mental and Physical Health first. It's also difficult for some Filipinos living here, its much difficult for Foreigners. We understand. Hope you find a better place. God Bless.
I stumbled upon one of your videos today, watched it, liked it and went for the next, and the next, and the next, and the next.... You bet, there are tons of vidz in RUclips but for me, your videos are like diamonds among grains of sand. You are unbelievably amazing and totally inspiring. Thanks a lot!!! 😊😊😊😊😊
Not all people like the Philippines, because of preference. But I like Philippines to visit, I am planning to tour around the Philippine Islands maybe starting next year. Looking to the locals, food in the provinces.
Most foreigners experienced in the Philippines were positive. The beautiful country friendliness and welcoming people who are fluent in English. There is nothing wrong with the country.
I agree with you, Nelly. Just like the person you reviewed, his happiness might stem from his personal well-being, anxieties, or perhaps his introverted nature. In the Philippines, the warm and welcoming spirit of the people ensures that if you open yourself up, you'll never feel alone. You can always find a sense of family or friendship wherever you go.
Too much expectation is too much frustration bro..settle first your mental health before you go back to the Philippines..but rather not to come back there if you did not enjoyed in your first travel..home is sweet home Cebu..❤😂
People with mental issues always struggles the feeling loneliness, anxieties and depression wherever they have been in the world. Praying for his healing.🙏
I feel sad to him,, I pray get will soon.... 🙏❤️I understand you brother... Some people is like that.. Like my boss... Too... So is not easy you have like that sickness 😥
I think he is just lost. And i also think he is running away from the darkness he has been through. And whatever it is that he is not telling that makes him depression. He just needs to find a way that makes him happy. He is not prepared mentally. That's why he travels alone and afraid to ask. He could be introvert.
Nope, he is not fit to go there either( in the mountains of Luzon or Rizal) seeing & knowing how mentally troubled he is! If i could give him an advise, i must tell him not to keep on travelling anymore. Hevmust stay in Thailand coz it is obvious it is the place where he could only adjust and consider for himself. Isaksak nalang niya ang baga niya dyan! Ph is still a wonderful country for Filipinos and nit for him!
I think it’s not a big deal he left the Philippines. I think he has a very unstable set of mind because of his mental health, which he admittedly say at the beginning of his video. He’s alone so nobody he can mingle with comfortably. It’s just right to leave the Philippines.
tbh, he's the type that wants everything done fast and easy...i live in the western part of the US, and not everything is taken cared off in the same hour or two, much less day or week...what works for others didnt work for him...he has different wants, needs, and expectations...do what you gotta do, its just the way life is...i watch alot of foreigners enjoying life in the PH, dont get me wrong, foreigners find some things to be an inconvenient, but that doesnt interfere with their decision to stay and live there. cool, u dont like dealing with paperwork, so do i...if too many paperwork, i usually dont bother, so i know how you feel...but it doesnt bother me to a point i need to move elsewhere LOL
I get it... After retirement the end of this month... I'm coming out to Cebu City in Mid to Late October for Six to Eight Months. I have a LIST & PLAN of where & how to make connections....
I'll Inform the Philippines is Archipelago so technically it's not advisable to do land Travel specially when Raining Season,it's rare that Tourists Got Bored in the Philippines well It's Really Purely Internal Factors Personal Experience is Hard To Fight Versus the Beauty of the Philippines
There are some vloggers who experience negative things when being in a new place. Some vloggers, too, have experienced negative things in Thailand and returned to the Philippines. ... Different strokes; different folks, guys. Remember: it isn't the place ... it's just the person. Nelly!!! 😁
I'm an islander, moved from the city to the island with my family, so I understood him in a way. Honestly, Boracay is not the best place for anxiety and socializing on a deeper level, which I assume he's also looking for. It's a "party" island. People are not really there to "chill" and it's too touristy. Then, Cebu? Ugggh. I lived there for 13 years and the struggle was real. Better than Manila though, if you're looking for a big city scene. It's not for everyone! So, as someone who has traveled extensively in the Philippines (I'm Filipino), I found happiness in two places: Siargao and Siquijor. Currently, living in Siquijor. As soon as we moved in to our new home 3 years ago, there was a feeling of actually belonging to a community. It's different for everyone, so find your place in your own corner of the world. I'm sorry the Philippines was not where he found "home." Maybe he should stay away from "touristy" and super crowded places here. It's awful, I know.
What's the link to his vlog? Ive watched that vlog of him before, but it's only now that ive noticed about his issue with mental health. Wishing him healing and peace of mind.
You're free to go anywhere you wish to go.if we go to other countries,we all experience the loneliness and uncertainty.all you have to do is try to adjust and go with the flow.we Filipinos are friendly people and accomodating and helpful.but then later on you 'll find yourself loving the place,and maybe you will plan to stay for good.
I dont think he is depressed. He expect he is gonna get more views and then go back to Thailand. He is different from Mergim Vlogs who get depressed in Thailand and now very happy in the Philippines
I think I know how he feels. I can be in a very lovely place around a lot of people having fun and yet feel really sad and depressed. I remember being new in the US in my early 20's and I wanted to visit the nicest places I dreamed about as a child. Because I started working right away and all my relatives being too busy, I went to Disneyland by myself. It was as pretty as I expected and I was around a lot of people having fun, yet I felt really alone because I was not with them. I was just around them. I went to one ride after another and one show after another and I could only cry because I couldn't enjoy everything with the people I love that I just wanted ro go home. That was more than 30 years ago and I have cultivated friends through the years. But I would never do that again.
Its good that you are back to Thailand, that your health is back to normal. Sorry that you feel anxiety, mental health while you are in Philippines 🇵🇭.
Hey bro just stay in Thailand if you said you got your happiness there. Take care. People have their own choices. He should have tried the north of the Philippines before leaving 😅.
He came to Thailand first before Philippines so i think he’s a little biased. Also, he needs a companion while traveling to prevent him from being lonely.
First of all, it is very impossible to explore the 7+ islands of the Philippines by motorbike. I also agree with Nelly that you can ride a roro from an A-Z destination. I just don't understand that he has lived in Thailand for 2-3 years, as he said, if I'm not mistaken. So in Thailand, he already has a mental issue; did he seek medical advice from a psychiatrist?. As far as I know, Filipinos are the friendliest people in the world, and you can easily find locals if you will incorporate or blend with them. Oh well, that's his perspective, and I hope he can find a partner in life so that his mental health issues and anxiety won't get worse.
Marijuana was probably his cure for mental illness unfortunately it is not legal in the Philippines and it is legal in Thailand so he can continue using it. I heard they use CBD for mental problems too not just for vices.
It's entirely up to your choices - no one is forcing you I guess so ! Every person has its own experience whether pleasant or not but you're free to do however you choose to experienced.
you forgot one of the most important thing to experience in the philippines.... the beauty of the country is not only the place itself but more of its people..... to experience ph is to experience the friendliness and hospitality of its people.... sad thing is i think you never even tried to connect at all... to other countries, it's just all about the place, in the philippines it's all about its people, just happened that we live in a beautiful place as well,... you missed a lot my friend, things that could have washed away all your depression and anxieties...
It's okay if he doesn't come back. Most Filipinos would admit PH is not 100% tourist-tailored. To add, I think the message of his vlog is to promote Thailand beaches, that you don't have to go to Philippines to experience paradise islands, well in fact, Thailand will lose if we're talking about beaches and islands. Mental health issue is just a cover of his vlog.
See the magic we experienced in Bohol 🥹 White Sand Beaches 🌴, emerald green Cenotes 💚(yes, we have them in the Philippines too!) and the kindness of the locals 🥰 were shining through in this adventure and fun packed video 🫶🏼 Hoping it will brighten up your day 🌞 Watch the Vlog here 🎥ruclips.net/video/0i1XLd4RUSo/видео.htmlsi=NJG0QZqQLvd4gfoT
I am a permanent citizen of the Philippines now. I first came here in 2007. I have been here now since the lockdowns of 2020. The Philippines is definitely not for everyone. I could easily make a list of both advantages and disadvantages of living here. But for me, I like it.
Lol, no country is for everyone
CRAP CULTURE. AVOID AVOID AVOID PHILIPPINES.
And why you come here in our country that is not suitable for you you're not welcome here anymore
He made it clear in the start that it was his mental struggle that made him leave the Philippines. My advice to him, "meet the people not the place".
@@paulbagsawan6054 look ay KD, he needed to come home to his parent and parent's house in his old room and see his old and primary therapist. Thats his best option to get out of his anxiety.
U should put God in ur travel!
@@aromathera-k6pnot all people believe in god 👍🏿
@@paulbagsawan6054
Not much sexual tourism in the Philippines Women are not easy picking unlike Thailand
He should go mental first before traveling.. 🤭🤭
His story in that video reminded me of Kumander Daot. He has the same mental issue before he came to visit the Philippines. He lives in UK 🇬🇧. He visited the Philippines and found peace. When he came back to United Kingdom all that related problems he felt came back again. I know a lot of tourist likes to travel to enjoy the nature beauties around the world but if you are not going to settle down your mind problem before then definitely you will be disappointed about all you planned.
exactly
There were a lot of foreigners visiting PH alone yet they were able to succeed, you know the reason why? It is because they talk with locals in every place they go. Interacting with Filipinos will definitely make your experience meaningful.
Ya and to think most or 99.9% of Filipinos can speak english. 😊 pandemic era has passed. A lot of people now sometimes do not have the time to watch youtube.
This man is negative mind, explore ,communicate,
Okay... I have been to Thailand, and to Cebu. In a way Cebu reminded me of Thailand with all the wires everywhere. But Cebu is a very nice place. So are other cities in the Philippines. If you like Thailand, then go to Thailand. If you like Korea, then go there. But do not bash one because it is not the other. There is actually a lot to see in Cebu. I will be going back.
Thailand is irrelevant unless you bring down pH to make Thailand look good
@@gangstagummybear3432basically that's what he did there
Guys not all foreigners like philippines, depends on their preference. its ok to criticized foreigners, no one is perfect.
You don't get his point. He was in a state of depression, if you are depressed even if you live in the most beautiful place in the world, it won't feel beautiful on the inside because you are battling something inside of you.
Lol
This guy really needs help. A therapist, a psychologist, maybe? He can't live alone and needs a permanent partner or companion. Wish him good luck and God blessings.
maybe he didn't find happiness n d philippines, due to his illness and knowing that depression or having mental health it's not good to put over load activity to a close oriented mentally i'll person , he really needs a milleu therapy to improve his condition. and we advise that all those who watched and red this message just understand he's current state of mental illnesses that needs to seek psychiatric help that includes milleu therapy and his family n friends.
Why Bro. Left The Philippines are you Drinking Wines the Group maybe one Guy put on poison on the Top side of Glass Bottle After you Drink The Result Mental Health Then If Have a Albularyo Like Doctor Medicine after Finish Treament Maybe Back to your Normal God Blessing You Amigo .Sometimes in The Province Bisaya kubli Hide maglalason Poisonings 18:04 18:04 Example: If We Have a Group Drinking Wine inside or outside the House you Calling Hey you Come can you Drink One Shot Ans.like This no Thank's
@@meynardcarino2255not psychiatry. More counseling therapy or psychology therapy
We don't force u to stay herein the Phil's..
this guy is SO RIGHT ABOUT PHILIPPINES.
I understand him. I get it. I'm just glad he's feeling better.
I like the Philippines compared to the other asean countries .. I’m enjoying a lot here.
Same here
🙏🏻Thanks thanks for liking philippines
Sometimes it's not the place that needs to change, sometimes you are running away from yourself and problems that you need to deal with INTERNALLY.
@@audraelynnegrimmelhaussen8808
Hes got mental and sexual challenges.
He already a lot of friends in Thailand , he gets used to be with a lot of Friends , he felt alone in the Philippines and when he encounter problems which makes him dissapointed right away, i guess he already felt stable in Thailand , I think next time if you travel in a strange place you better bring a friend with you , so you dont feel alone.
Hello Nelly...you're so beautiful 😍 happy to know the problem is not the Philippines...it's his mental issue...in life one must do whatever it is that will make you happy...if he's not happy in the Philippines then he should go somewhere else.
The problem is not the places you are visiting but instead your loneliness which affect your mental health. The best is try to consult to some health experts which will give you the right and correct medication and advises.
Having friends and relatives at the sensitive moments of your life makes a big difference. It happen to me in the United States, they have everything to offer, great job, great cities but with my friends and family are in the Philippines.
Perfect said in we need to understand what he mean
really he wasnt ready to be a solo traveller, basically he was insecure being alone in a unfamiliar place, probably scared him to death and he couldnt shake it.the best thing for him to do is leave if he couldnt enjoy, i think he mentally blocked himself from enjoying his time.
He should have interacted w/ the locals like the other bloggers did, likes Kumander Daot, Friendly Sergie, Jonathan etc. U really can't enjoy atrip being alone. Look at Island Barbie, she's very much active in Siargao getting along w/ the locals.
How is he not ready to be solo traveller? I'm subscriber on his channel, he has successfully visited many different countries, just because he's not feeling so comfortable in Philippines is his feeling and opinion, everyone is entitled to their opinion. It's not necessary for every vlogger to promote Philippines to grow their channel
He was gaslighting Cebu and the Cebuanos [ I am not a Cebuano] and implicitly promoting Thailand under the guise of a mental struggle. PHL does not need or deserve this kind of tourist.
true. some vloggers use this tactic to create extra drama, bring down a less favorite country and to build up another one, in this case, Thailand
Forgive and forget...hes the least of men not liking the phil. We cannot please everybody...thats his mindset...😢
Exactly. and not just Cebu, the entire PH....that Son of a gun hahaha 👊🤛🤜 😤 🤣
i disagree with your observation, but he isnt mentally fit with a place that isnt his comfort zone and perhaps it is Thailand, As he mentioned he travelled to other places but seemed he enjoyed those places, he just isnt a solo traveller, so his mental state just didnt comfort him enough to continue, but its ok bcuz those who want to enjoy Ph will enjoy by being open to the culture and people.. u just have to hope he gets mentally healed to perhaps one day return and give it another chance.
@@youtubephan2427 he doesn't need to return. Its perfectly okay
Kumander Daot(Anselm Plummer) a Brit have to leave Davao and gone home to Wales due to his anxiety attack but returned with new vibrant feeling.
Yeah.. it does help with proper medication
Thanks Nelly for being so objective about this video...though the TITLE of his video is quite unfair for the Philippines especially for those people who will not finish this video🥲praying for him to be better
His Mental Health is valid but i wanna look in the bigger picture here i think his channel did not pick up so well here in the Philippines i think he thought he is going to have a big influx of subscribers and views but it did not materialize fast like the other vloggers did here and maybe that becomes the reason of his anxiety and uncertainty given the fact that he did get out of his comfort zone. i think the right decision to go back where you are most comfortable and just enrich your market there.
Dude, I think you need to fix yourself first, don't be hating and just leave the country.
Exactly. Because these vloggers thinks when your content is about the Philippines your views gets high. 😂 boracay is all over you tube nothing new and nothing special.
To each his own… whatever works. We hope you will find the suitable place where you will be genuinely happy… all the best.
You’re not alone in the Philippines Nelly. Or with that guy doing that content… you’re in the friendliest people on earth, you just have to explore your self and start having connections with others.
The problem is exclusively personal, not the Philippines. No worries. I bope you become all right. God bless you.
I understand him. Thailand is his comfort zone. He should stay there.
With the ladyboys😅😂
With prostitutes
The gay capital of asia@@rottenripper4483
@@rottenripper4483we have, too. At least theirs don't pretend to be real women
yes ,maybe Marijuana was his cure for his mental health and if he is in Thailand during that time period was legal in Thailand and he can no longer do that in the Philippines. It probably added to his mental stress.
Because travel is not really the goal in life, but it's part of pleasure and relaxation.The real goal is a stable income, which boosts mental health. Philippines may be the place to increase subscribers because most Filipinos love to watch RUclips; Philippines is the texting capital of the world. But sometimes if a vlogger's subscribers won't increase at a target time, they'll leave. For instance Mergim Vlog's subscribers significantly increased thus he stayed long. Mental health or depression is proportional to the success of income goals. If income declines, it's a burden how to survive. Research how to improve contents to increase subscribers or learn new skills to bring in good income, then mental health improves; depression may be chemical imbalance in the body. Seek Doctor's advice for anti-depressants, it will help. Good luck to the guy and to Nelly. Wishing you both success of goals in life.
❤ this one👍👍👌
I wonder if he's being subsidized by Thailand tourism for making Thai vlogs but never did he mention negative things about Thailand and the vlog above reacted on by Nelly, feels like a subtle diss to the Philippines to promote Thailand beaches and culture. It sounds like "why should someone go visit the Philippines, if Thailand has already beaches?". A weak minded tourist would easily fall, not knowing Philippine nature trips have more to offer.
So it’s about Philippines it’s about your mental health and mental stability!❤Hope you feel better soon better soon
You know you can really respect someone that is really being honest and not disrespectful. He made it very clear that it wasn't the Philippines or the people there that were the problem , but rather it was him. You can respect that.Not one comment was blaming the Philippines for it. That's cool. I have heard so many expact just totally put down the Filipino in a very disrespectful way. Not cool.If you just don't like a place leave. Simple. Don't blame them if it was you. Now if he really had an issue with the Philippines and could really explain it, then that is different. Still do it respectfully. I was in Bangladesh for 4 years and hated it. It was an issue with how they do things, but I don't post about it as I feel no need to disrespect them like that. Hopefully you do come back sometime with friends and really give it a try here. It is amazing here and I just love it.
You shouldn't be travelling, instead book yourself in a mental hospital and fixed your head first, and then you can travel!!
Agree
Not good. Then he will never travel. He needs to be out traveling if that is his passion. Just make friends that have the same passion and go with them. Big difference.
Perfectly said
Agree
Dont do that to someone who is just longing for someone
It’s okay 😊good luck to your new endeavors! Depression is real… hope you get better soon
For you guy thats your choice to go wher ever you go, if you are not comfortable to the place where you are in, we Pilipinos only welcome the people who like us, and if you want a perfect place go ahead create your own😂😂
know what? we filipinos also do welcome even those who do not like us.. for as long as they don't abuse our hospitality, otherwise they have to think a hundred times first before coming back here..
I hope he got to visit Siargao! Totally different vibe, people, and the island life is totally different. I had been to different islands and Siargao is the only island I will be coming back to.
The best! 🥰
Hi Ms. Nelly thanks for sharing your videos and thank you for your honest opinion and nice reaction. And I hope more videos reactions. Please take care of your self and safe. Almighty God bless you always 🙏💝🙏💝🙏💝🙏💝🙏💝🙏.
You too!
You rarely hear mental health issues among Filipinos. Mental health issues stems from childhood. Our culture is family/community oriented. We usually get backlash from foreign people because we always give back to our family. At least, we are mentally tough. :p
Thanks for sharing!
It's becuase we are living a simple life always smiling even if theres hardship
Hindi naman uso ang mental health sa Phillipines kase ang Pilipino family oriented at may positive outlook sa buhay.
Yeah we really don't need Psychiatrists here. Therapists are not as necessary as other countries, where people have to run to for anything like marriage or relationship therapy etc..
Feel bad to this Guy. Pray that he manage he's mental issue.
Don't worry, if this country is not for you, its OK to leave. Mental and Physical Health first. It's also difficult for some Filipinos living here, its much difficult for Foreigners. We understand. Hope you find a better place. God Bless.
I love you, Nelly. Even if you get tired of the Philippines, I'll always love your spirit and kindness 💜 ingat 💖
Thanks Nelly to actually recognizing our humble Philippines 🇵🇭 ❤and what we can really offer
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Running away is not the solution. Temporary solace in one place is not the answer either nor giving excuse. He needs to solve it first.
I stumbled upon one of your videos today, watched it, liked it and went for the next, and the next, and the next, and the next.... You bet, there are tons of vidz in RUclips but for me, your videos are like diamonds among grains of sand. You are unbelievably amazing and totally inspiring. Thanks a lot!!! 😊😊😊😊😊
Awesome! Thank you for watching!! 🫶
Not all people like the Philippines, because of preference. But I like Philippines to visit, I am planning to tour around the Philippine Islands maybe starting next year. Looking to the locals, food in the provinces.
I'm a Filipino guy and of course the Philippines isn't for everyone.
The Philippines is for Filipinos like us. We don't need foreigners to compete with our resources.
I'm from the US and ph is the only place for me
thank you. youre very right !
❤ I do love your sharing Nelly. I love you. You take care Nel. Pray 🙏❤️
Most foreigners experienced in the Philippines were positive. The beautiful country friendliness and welcoming people who are fluent in English. There is nothing wrong with the country.
Good luck thank you for coming to the Philippines
Have psyche evaluation before coming to Palawan
As you plan to see.
I agree with you, Nelly. Just like the person you reviewed, his happiness might stem from his personal well-being, anxieties, or perhaps his introverted nature. In the Philippines, the warm and welcoming spirit of the people ensures that if you open yourself up, you'll never feel alone. You can always find a sense of family or friendship wherever you go.
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Too much expectation is too much frustration bro..settle first your mental health before you go back to the Philippines..but rather not to come back there if you did not enjoyed in your first travel..home is sweet home Cebu..❤😂
Im having social anxiety and depression as well. Damn have a companion that really helps
True. After a traumatic breakup I am so glad I found my cat and he helps me a lot
why i have this feeling that its just an excuse to downgrade Phil among other asian country.
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Looking great Nelly ❤
People with mental issues always struggles the feeling loneliness, anxieties and depression wherever they have been in the world. Praying for his healing.🙏
I feel sad to him,, I pray get will soon.... 🙏❤️I understand you brother... Some people is like that.. Like my boss... Too... So is not easy you have like that sickness 😥
I think he is just lost. And i also think he is running away from the darkness he has been through. And whatever it is that he is not telling that makes him depression. He just needs to find a way that makes him happy. He is not prepared mentally. That's why he travels alone and afraid to ask. He could be introvert.
Since he stays in the beach in Thailand, he should try the mountains of Northern Luzon or Rizal and Volcanoes of Bicol etc.
Good one
@@WhatsupPhilippinestry to climb the Mt. Mayon halfway. or hike the Magayon Trio, volcanic mountains in Albay.
Nope, he is not fit to go there either( in the mountains of Luzon or Rizal) seeing & knowing how mentally troubled he is! If i could give him an advise, i must tell him not to keep on travelling anymore. Hevmust stay in Thailand coz it is obvious it is the place where he could only adjust and consider for himself. Isaksak nalang niya ang baga niya dyan! Ph is still a wonderful country for Filipinos and nit for him!
No, let him leave. We don't need him lmao
I dont care if you leave the Phil. Nothing to lose.
I think it’s not a big deal he left the Philippines. I think he has a very unstable set of mind because of his mental health, which he admittedly say at the beginning of his video. He’s alone so nobody he can mingle with comfortably. It’s just right to leave the Philippines.
That’s rude! Did you understand what he said? His reason? Try to watch it again.
That's harsh.
@@ainakho8241people comment without reading.
tbh, he's the type that wants everything done fast and easy...i live in the western part of the US, and not everything is taken cared off in the same hour or two, much less day or week...what works for others didnt work for him...he has different wants, needs, and expectations...do what you gotta do, its just the way life is...i watch alot of foreigners enjoying life in the PH, dont get me wrong, foreigners find some things to be an inconvenient, but that doesnt interfere with their decision to stay and live there. cool, u dont like dealing with paperwork, so do i...if too many paperwork, i usually dont bother, so i know how you feel...but it doesnt bother me to a point i need to move elsewhere LOL
mental health is more important to take care of first im a pilipino but i understant his situation.
I get it... After retirement the end of this month... I'm coming out to Cebu City in Mid to Late October for Six to Eight Months. I have a LIST & PLAN of where & how to make connections....
We love you Nelly❤
I'll Inform the Philippines is Archipelago so technically it's not advisable to do land Travel specially when Raining Season,it's rare that Tourists Got Bored in the Philippines well It's Really Purely Internal Factors Personal Experience is Hard To Fight Versus the Beauty of the Philippines
Exactly
Thank you for sharing your story.
Very happy to see you again Miss Nelly... God bless you 🙏🙏🙏😍🥰🤩💐💐💐🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭
as long as he's OK,that's something worth to be happy about.live and fight another day.
Thailand is his comfort zone, so, I understand how he feels. Thank you for visiting our country Philippines. I'm glad you're ok .
You must first to travel all islands in entire Philippines so that you can choose better scenery..
Good stay in Philippines, thank you! Stay safe and good luck.
Its ok don't mind him just one guy with issues hes not in focus god bless him
Hey even here in Canada if we buy cars or motorbike we need to have a paperwork 😊 wherever you go if you have a mental issue it's de same feeling.
Depression is not easy. Sir I hope you fine peace and happiness. You can always come back to Philippines anytime.
Totally
This guy is funny ... 😂
Ikr
Love you Nelly. Take care always.
Good on you man.stay where you are happy.life is precious.
Maybe your are tourism ambassador of Thailand. Just stay in thailand where you are happy.new subs.of your channel ❤🇵🇭
Exactly
There are some vloggers who experience negative things when being in a new place. Some vloggers, too, have experienced negative things in Thailand and returned to the Philippines. ... Different strokes; different folks, guys. Remember: it isn't the place ... it's just the person. Nelly!!! 😁
I'm an islander, moved from the city to the island with my family, so I understood him in a way. Honestly, Boracay is not the best place for anxiety and socializing on a deeper level, which I assume he's also looking for. It's a "party" island. People are not really there to "chill" and it's too touristy. Then, Cebu? Ugggh. I lived there for 13 years and the struggle was real. Better than Manila though, if you're looking for a big city scene. It's not for everyone! So, as someone who has traveled extensively in the Philippines (I'm Filipino), I found happiness in two places: Siargao and Siquijor. Currently, living in Siquijor. As soon as we moved in to our new home 3 years ago, there was a feeling of actually belonging to a community. It's different for everyone, so find your place in your own corner of the world. I'm sorry the Philippines was not where he found "home." Maybe he should stay away from "touristy" and super crowded places here. It's awful, I know.
Traffic problem in my home town Cebu City is also make it worst.
I suggest Davao Oriental province. Plenty of serene beaches and waterfalls
Hey Nelly girl! Great to see you looking so bare of makeup look and very beautiful. love also your objectivity in reacting to this video. Amping!
Thanks for the kind words! 🫶
What's the link to his vlog? Ive watched that vlog of him before, but it's only now that ive noticed about his issue with mental health. Wishing him healing and peace of mind.
THANK U NELLY ❤🥰👍🙏
don't go here, sir, who cares, if you're lonely or sick just don't make my country the cause..
You're free to go anywhere you wish to go.if we go to other countries,we all experience the loneliness and uncertainty.all you have to do is try to adjust and go with the flow.we Filipinos are friendly people and accomodating and helpful.but then later on you 'll find yourself loving the place,and maybe you will plan to stay for good.
I USED TO LOVE AND WATCH YOU GUYS! YOU GUYS WERE GREAT!
I dont think he is depressed. He expect he is gonna get more views and then go back to Thailand. He is different from Mergim Vlogs who get depressed in Thailand and now very happy in the Philippines
So he'll get less views in Thailand since many Thais don't speak English? I like Thailand but likely I won't watch his videos 😊
@@RomanMuralloi will his stupid comment section will be full of stupid Thailand fanatics that have something to say about ph like always
Love u nelly!!! ❤❤❤
I think I know how he feels. I can be in a very lovely place around a lot of people having fun and yet feel really sad and depressed. I remember being new in the US in my early 20's and I wanted to visit the nicest places I dreamed about as a child. Because I started working right away and all my relatives being too busy, I went to Disneyland by myself. It was as pretty as I expected and I was around a lot of people having fun, yet I felt really alone because I was not with them. I was just around them. I went to one ride after another and one show after another and I could only cry because I couldn't enjoy everything with the people I love that I just wanted ro go home. That was more than 30 years ago and I have cultivated friends through the years. But I would never do that again.
Prayer for this guy to find his happiness. God bless him and you Nelly.
Its good that you are back to Thailand, that your health is back to normal. Sorry that you feel anxiety, mental health while you are in Philippines 🇵🇭.
Hey bro just stay in Thailand if you said you got your happiness there. Take care. People have their own choices. He should have tried the north of the Philippines before leaving 😅.
He came to Thailand first before Philippines so i think he’s a little biased. Also, he needs a companion while traveling to prevent him from being lonely.
Exactly
He needed a bike to keep him sane + w××d maybe?😂
I would be the same if I travel alone. I need my family or friends to share it with. I could never be a lone traveler.
😂 he forgot his medication. Totally understand your situation. Good luck to you.
First of all, it is very impossible to explore the 7+ islands of the Philippines by motorbike. I also agree with Nelly that you can ride a roro from an A-Z destination. I just don't understand that he has lived in Thailand for 2-3 years, as he said, if I'm not mistaken. So in Thailand, he already has a mental issue; did he seek medical advice from a psychiatrist?. As far as I know, Filipinos are the friendliest people in the world, and you can easily find locals if you will incorporate or blend with them. Oh well, that's his perspective, and I hope he can find a partner in life so that his mental health issues and anxiety won't get worse.
Marijuana was probably his cure for mental illness unfortunately it is not legal in the Philippines and it is legal in Thailand so he can continue using it. I heard they use CBD for mental problems too not just for vices.
He don't know how to approach to people don't travel alone if you have social anxiety😊
It"s good to know he is back to normal.
It's entirely up to your choices - no one is forcing you I guess so ! Every person has its own experience whether pleasant or not but you're free to do however you choose to experienced.
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You look stunning Nelly!
you forgot one of the most important thing to experience in the philippines.... the beauty of the country is not only the place itself but more of its people..... to experience ph is to experience the friendliness and hospitality of its people.... sad thing is i think you never even tried to connect at all... to other countries, it's just all about the place, in the philippines it's all about its people, just happened that we live in a beautiful place as well,... you missed a lot my friend, things that could have washed away all your depression and anxieties...
It's okay if he doesn't come back. Most Filipinos would admit PH is not 100% tourist-tailored. To add, I think the message of his vlog is to promote Thailand beaches, that you don't have to go to Philippines to experience paradise islands, well in fact, Thailand will lose if we're talking about beaches and islands. Mental health issue is just a cover of his vlog.
He miss the sex tourism offered in Thailand.
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Thailand is for sex tourism, Philippines is for nature lovers, beaches, waterfalls, deepsea diving.
not all people is like him
Thank you Nelly 😍
Wish him good health. Prayers from a Filipino
Nice vlog Nelly…very honest to goodness…
Thank you 😊
He was a person like a bar area, city boy and a lot of activity around. Mostly foreign guy like that.
Exactly
Hi Nelly. Love you always. Thanks for my brkfast fun vid.
don't blame the country and the ppl. if u keep saying it's you, then the problem is from within and should fix internally.
Thanks for leaving the Philippines, Philippines is not meant for you to stay...