booktok, brainrot, and why it’s okay to be a hater

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  • @alishanotalihsha
    @alishanotalihsha  6 месяцев назад +679

    i think the pinned comment on this video got deleted by the commenter? which is really disheartening because there was some great discussion under there but i'm just going to say what i said in reply to that comment: i obviously should've mentioned that there is a way to read about sex that exposes young adults to that kind of content in a healthy manner! this might be tmi but that's one of the first exposures a lot of my friends and i ever had to the topic and we were able to be exposed to these topics in a safer context than say, actual porn. sex in books has been extremely important throughout history for women's sexual liberation and deriving enjoyment from reading that isn't inherently wrong!
    overall, i think the line between adolescent and adult spaces online has definitely been blurred as well, leading to murky boundaries between what children and adults are seeking out in books and a lack of communication about what kind of material is portrayed in popular novels. young people do have agency over what they read and what they don't - there should be a greater description of what is in the books they're advertised online. i also think we shouldn't be fully zeroed in on sex in books (hence why it was such a miniscule section of the video) because it leads to really poorly written literature and oftentimes we just accept it and don't ask for more, which is disheartening! we deserve to read well-written books about romance and sex and love! but the current demand feels like an oversaturation of mediocre writing, which ties to my bigger issue that a lot of people don't want to broaden their literary horizons, expand their scope, read things that make them uncomfortable, and critically think about the literature they read - the problem isn't sex in books! you can still enjoy things!! you can think things are bad!! (those things can be true at the same time) yet you can also ask for better books and clearer communication! i should've said this in the actual video, but i hope this clears some things up!
    and getting asked for book recommendations -
    i put the social media recs document in the description, but here are a handful of my all-timers (check content warnings):
    gone girl by gillian flynn
    anything by ada limon but especially bright dead things
    know my name by chanel miller
    educated by tara westover
    little women by louisa may alcott
    slouching towards bethlehem by joan didion
    life on mars by tracy k. smith
    the anthropocene reviewed by john green
    the great gatsby by f. scott fitzgerald
    sweetdark by savannah brown
    and then there were none by agatha christie
    the stand by stephen king
    american sonnets for my past and future assassin by terrence hayes
    pachinko by min jin lee
    american primitive by mary oliver

    • @craneraevsky8030
      @craneraevsky8030 6 месяцев назад +17

      And Then There Were None was AMAZING! My mom and I just finished it and it's probably one of the best mysteries we have ever read.

    • @lilacfields
      @lilacfields 6 месяцев назад +3

      oh you’re so real 🙏🏽😭😭😭

    • @cloverazar5315
      @cloverazar5315 6 месяцев назад

      This list includes a man who stole his wife’s intellectual property and gaslit her for years (Fitzgerald), and a man who wrote explicit sexual content featuring minors (Stephen King).

    • @Iovesight
      @Iovesight 6 месяцев назад +4

      I just have to know if you ever read any books like A Thousand Splendid Suns (historical fiction that incorporates life in the time of war and political unrest, also similar to The Kite Runner or The Stationery Shop--I have not read these two but have heard of the relation) or All My Rage (this one is sort of just realistic fiction, very YA in my opinion, and addresses broken family dynamics and societal issues--I really hope I got that accurately). I personally really enjoyed these books and I feel like I tend to stick to similar books. Since I want to try reading some of your recs, I just wanted to know if you have any thoughts about these that I often think about! Haha I just realized I may be an avid YA book reader.. but I'll still ask about these 😥

    • @artthenecromancer404
      @artthenecromancer404 6 месяцев назад

      @@cloverazar5315 and?

  • @maybesopgia
    @maybesopgia 3 месяца назад +2265

    as an avid fanfiction reader, it feels as though its just published wattpad that a 13 year old girl wrote. literature doesn't feel like literature anymore...it feels like tumblr in 2014.

    • @ladadidarlee
      @ladadidarlee 3 месяца назад +98

      literally!! the repetitive plot especially in the romance genre is just a ‘money stealing’ campaign now. 🫠

    • @Ryzard
      @Ryzard 3 месяца назад +137

      At least the wattpad novels had authors unhinged enough to come up with crazy worlds or characters sometimes lol

    • @annakp5034
      @annakp5034 2 месяца назад +125

      Yeah and at least that was coming from a genuine love of something and was for no monetary gain. This is entirely soulless regurgitated stuff. At least the 13 year old girl on wattpad was exploring something she was going through, some kind of desire awakening inside her, even if it was silly and objectively badly written. For example that one clip in this video where a woman sells her book based on what tropes happen in the story, like "tending to wounds". I will admit that as a teenager i loved a good scene where the love interest had to tend to the main characters wounds and it was all intense, but i felt that way because i UNCOVERED that. I didn't go into the book expecting "oh there's gonna be a scene with getting battle wounds cleaned" but rather it was a scene that happened organically as a result of the plot. I've read some of these kinds of books, and while they might be well enough written (aka the quality of writing isn't quite "13 y/o who just discovered wattpad" LOL), they really just feel like you're going from scene to scene. It's written with those tropes in mind, and the rest of the plot and the world really takes a backseat. You can tell they wrote a specific scene not to make it beautiful and heartwrenching and stick in the mind of the reader, but to be easily quoted as a tiktok soundbite. It's not about the person reading the book anymore, but about getting that person to share the book with other people, even though if you write a good book, that should happen organically. I also know nothing about the book that creator had written. Okay, wounds are being tended to, but what is the book ABOUT.

    • @black-aliss
      @black-aliss 2 месяца назад +20

      @@annakp5034 I think this is a bit related to reification. The scene of tending to somebody's wounds is no longer valuable and meaningful for more than its base elements only within the context of that book, but because it is a trope in itself meant to evoke specific feelings. It encourages the reader to be lazy and complicit and to shut their brain off, because there's a Pavlovian response that the trope calls for. If a character sends the MC lingering looks, this is a signal for romance regardless of their previously stated feelings, marking them out as the love interest, no thought or chemistry required. It means now that there's no reason why an "author" shouldn't just string together a bunch of well-loved genre mainstays and just send it off to the market. This decontextualisation and the mad rush to evoke the desired feelings without actually creating what will bring them about organically isn't specific to books, it's in serials and movies and even video games. People persistently talk about how new entertainment is not that good anymore, but they can't put a finger on why. It's not that the soul has been sucked out of things, it's that a lot of them lack a soul to begin with.

    • @jil8091
      @jil8091 Месяц назад +6

      Omg I said this before to my friend. I read those stories when I was a teenager and even back then I knew it was bad but now those things get published or even adapted to movies and grown up people read it??? I used to be embarrassed for reading a fanfic

  • @_jsy_
    @_jsy_ 5 месяцев назад +7036

    "youre not healing your inner child, you are regressing into ignorance"
    what a great line

    • @OhMyJoshy
      @OhMyJoshy 3 месяца назад +12

      I was just about to comment this.

    • @Owen.zantsi
      @Owen.zantsi Месяц назад +6

      I was genuinely gagged 😅

    • @MK_ULTRA420
      @MK_ULTRA420 19 дней назад

      Maybe ignorance is a good thing, ever think about that?

    • @kunpunko
      @kunpunko 10 дней назад +19

      @@MK_ULTRA420it’s not….

    • @Zythryl
      @Zythryl 5 дней назад

      @@kunpunkoYou say that, but if the general public didn’t want to be ignorant about our food as an example, we wouldn’t have factory farms. But, since we hate thinking about it, they persist.
      Choosing not to engage with something you could know more about in the name of comfort is ignorance. It is practiced by all people, every day.
      Not to mention war…

  • @TheOneAndOnlyLobster
    @TheOneAndOnlyLobster 3 месяца назад +650

    “Does it have spice” and the book is Watership Down

    • @gretafreitag2041
      @gretafreitag2041 3 месяца назад +36

      Absolutely, Thethuthinnang and Bigwig's whirlwind romance was amazing /s

    • @altmycelium1
      @altmycelium1 2 месяца назад +85

      “guys does Metamorphosis by Franz Kafka have smut in it🤭”

    • @politereminder6284
      @politereminder6284 2 месяца назад +41

      Yes! So much spice on almost every page of the Dune saga.

    • @worm2976
      @worm2976 2 месяца назад

      Here, a cookie for making me laugh :🍪​
      And another for the impeccably executed reference : 🍪 @@politereminder6284

    • @PsychoticAnarchist69
      @PsychoticAnarchist69 2 месяца назад +6

      Yeah it’s got spice, if spice is the heat of your heartstrings being torn

  • @alyote4905
    @alyote4905 6 месяцев назад +17732

    i want a booktok tiktoker whos obsessed with "spice" in books to be tricked into reading the entire 6 book Dune series

    • @jessicamoore8903
      @jessicamoore8903 5 месяцев назад +1002

      The spice must flow!

    • @dreamerwav698
      @dreamerwav698 5 месяцев назад

      i feel like their brains would melt if they didnt ingest the most cringe hetero smut in existence every twenty pages so unfrotuatnely i dont think theyd get through that or any normal book

    • @fxlcontalon4281
      @fxlcontalon4281 5 месяцев назад +509

      LISAN AL-GAIB!!

    • @shrimpel3542
      @shrimpel3542 5 месяцев назад +233

      HELP THIS GOT ME SO GOOD 💀

    • @karawyss2069
      @karawyss2069 5 месяцев назад +475

      And it does get "spicy" as the series goes on! Book 5 is basically about "the genocidal dangers of good p**sy"

  • @quingariusgoochiii9548
    @quingariusgoochiii9548 4 месяца назад +3532

    “We can begin the book confidently, knowing the enemies will turn into lovers and the fake dating will turn into real dating - all will be tied up with a neat bow”
    YA romance books are the reinvention of Hallmark Christmas movies, safe, digestible, and easily produced

    • @saraferguson1156
      @saraferguson1156 4 месяца назад +102

      😤 it’s so frustrating when all you see are these same kinds of books. Like you read one of them and you really don’t need to read any other because it’s just the same recycled story with (slightly) different character names and settings. I want to read something that has substance and flips the happy ending on its head. I don’t want them to end up together just because that’s what’s expected. I want it to happen because the events that have transpired LED to that outcome. And if things happen to create an environment where it wouldn’t make sense for them to end up together, the outcome needs to reflect that.

    • @vaishnavisingh9244
      @vaishnavisingh9244 4 месяца назад +64

      Also there is no secondary conflict beyond the romance, there is no losing battle, there is no complicated emotions, hell you don't even see the characters to speak about things which are not conductive to the bland plot or an innuendo for their lover to catch onto. Sometimes hallmark movies are great, but if there is no pain or conflict which is deeper than the surface, then there is no point of your story.

    • @oliviabooknook
      @oliviabooknook 3 месяца назад +44

      Which is severely saddening because YA novels should be deep novels or just fun but still well written novels created for teenagers. The YA genre has turned into a pool of smut in some cases because adults love YA too and want it to contain more adult themes. It’s like reading Dogman or Captain Underpants and wanting them to have a violent fight or something.

    • @any8574
      @any8574 3 месяца назад +12

      @@saraferguson1156 i know we are talking about books, but that's one of the reaons why i like 500 Days of Summer. they weren't right for each other, of course they don't end up together. but so many people hate this movie because of it. i think it's a beautiful story.

    • @politereminder6284
      @politereminder6284 2 месяца назад +1

      YA is better than adult ones though imho

  • @jordanlewis1909
    @jordanlewis1909 4 месяца назад +1069

    Never seen a booktok video, but man its so weird looking at the barnes and nobles "BookTok" table and seeing some sadboy literary novel like No Longer Human next to like 7 different piles of enemies to lovers romances. Does not exactly paint a flattering picture of the community's well-being

    • @bru1sedg1rl
      @bru1sedg1rl 4 месяца назад +253

      I'm sure Osamu Dazai wouldn't be thrilled for his book to be placed next to the Colleen Hover section.

    • @canti7951
      @canti7951 2 месяца назад +50

      The internet is just all about "being seen as..." not necessarily "being...", so it wouldn't surprise me if it got there as like a token book or an attempt to legitimize the rest of the list with one critically acclaimed book. Like saying "hey, we enjoy the great books too". Like having shrek 1, 2 and 3 and then Citizen Kane in your 4 faves unironically.

    • @ReneJonsun
      @ReneJonsun 2 месяца назад +17

      Ok shrek one is actually good though

    • @jamescarr1265
      @jamescarr1265 2 месяца назад +1

      Is No longer human worth watching?

    • @maddyririe3487
      @maddyririe3487 2 месяца назад +45

      @@jamescarr1265 No Longer Human is a book by Osamu Dazai and is a life-changing read. It is about feeling out of place in the world and not feeling like a human. It forces you to think about what being human truly means. I would 100% recommend reading it but be forewarned it is not a happy-go-lucky book.

  • @forcetruck3118
    @forcetruck3118 6 месяцев назад +15877

    “You can’t ‘I’m just girl’ your way out of everything. You pay taxes and vote. You’re not healing your inner child. You’re regressing into ignorance”
    My favorite quote !!

    • @PlanetHertz
      @PlanetHertz 6 месяцев назад +546

      willfully incompetent, blissfully ignorant.

    • @qiff6667
      @qiff6667 6 месяцев назад +37

      great quote

    • @Iwannaeatlasagna
      @Iwannaeatlasagna 6 месяцев назад +4

      69th like ​@@PlanetHertz

    • @Iwannaeatlasagna
      @Iwannaeatlasagna 6 месяцев назад

      69th like ​@@PlanetHertz

    • @UnendingCoda
      @UnendingCoda 6 месяцев назад

      Or let's grow up be adults and do well?
      No special treatment just do you and whatever manipulative therapy language use on yourself and your 6 foot 8 abusive husband or something.

  • @elephantshell3617
    @elephantshell3617 6 месяцев назад +7669

    “Book stylist” is one of the most dystopian terms I’ve ever heard in my life.

    • @gyrosik8851
      @gyrosik8851 6 месяцев назад +502

      To be honest having books only for aesthetic is much older phenomenon than you think, basically since they were more available to rich people

    • @samachell
      @samachell 6 месяцев назад +99

      @@gyrosik8851 okay so dystopia is an older phenomena than we'd think too. what's your point?

    • @JoeticJustice
      @JoeticJustice 6 месяцев назад +46

      As someone who has recently stepped out of my time chamber and into the world of modern bookreading… Yeah from an outside lens it does feel like I’m jumping ass-backwards into a broth of dystopia.

    • @hiphiphoogray
      @hiphiphoogray 6 месяцев назад +203

      ⁠@@samachellthat WAS their point. they were adding context, not disputing the original comment.

    • @teddiespicker
      @teddiespicker 6 месяцев назад +4

      WHAT THE HELL DOES IT EVEN MEAN 😭😭

  • @sophiasaudacity
    @sophiasaudacity 3 месяца назад +2122

    people need to realise that 'dark academia' wasn't supposed to be an aesthetic of ... brown clothes and old buildings --- it was literally created as a genre of intellectualism that criticised the racism and classism so prevalent in academia

    • @annatravina8928
      @annatravina8928 3 месяца назад +196

      For me the funny part is that the literal bible of da is the secret history, in which one of the main themes is the criticism of aesthetisation and idealisation

    • @NormieNeko
      @NormieNeko 3 месяца назад +96

      Subcultures morph with time, but some people argue that most aesthetics aren't deep enough to be considered subcultures. Anyway, everything gets edited sooner or later. That's what happened with cottagecore when trad millennials took it over from lesbian gen z. Gatekeeping doesn't work anymore. I'm also not surprised we have aesthetics, to begin with, since most people rather dip their feet and experiment with shallow takes on life. It's no different than trying a filter. The core beliefs of an original subculture seize to matter once it becomes mainstream.

    • @annatravina8928
      @annatravina8928 3 месяца назад +6

      @@NormieNeko I guess that sometimes aesthetics can be considered a part of subculture
      And could you please elaborate on your take 'gatekeeping doesn't work anymore'? What exactly do you mean by it?

    • @ErinaBleu
      @ErinaBleu 3 месяца назад +12

      @@annatravina8928 yeah, i don't know if these people are actually READING these books

    • @enricocoochie3113
      @enricocoochie3113 2 месяца назад +18

      If you asked me, id say some people don’t understand the difference between aesthetic and vanity

  • @MoriMementa
    @MoriMementa 6 месяцев назад +3355

    The Pro Golfer going "Touch her and die" was hilarious. My dude, you may have a mean swing but murder is still illegal. That only works in feudalistic fantasy novels.

    • @justl1453
      @justl1453 6 месяцев назад +400

      “Bad Boy Golfer” hes. A. Golfer…

    • @teddiespicker
      @teddiespicker 6 месяцев назад +91

      @@justl1453 right like golfers are the most boring people ever. rich, maybe, but still boring. I say this with a dad who’s into golfing btw.

    • @methuselahhoneysuckass
      @methuselahhoneysuckass 6 месяцев назад

      i’m crying😭

    • @daddymememaster5432
      @daddymememaster5432 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@justl1453Prime Tiger Woods could definitely rock my shit though not gonna lie

    • @NoFeckingNamesLeft
      @NoFeckingNamesLeft 5 месяцев назад +2

      legality won’t un-kill you

  • @ashercries
    @ashercries 6 месяцев назад +3411

    As a fanfic reader, this discussion is so interesting to me. What I’ve really noticed is that a huge chunk of booktok people, didn’t have fanfic phases as teens or young adults. Bc it’s so clear to me that what they want, is just fanfic. The same tropes over and over again, large quantities of smut, and even sometimes questionable material are all easily found in fandom content/culture (at least the ones I’m in). And this gap has even negatively affected the fanfic community. Many booktok fans have begun to read fanfic (specifically dramione but other fandoms too) without knowing how the system runs, only for them to illegally bind and sell these fanfics. Resulting in said fanfics, all of which are insanely popular in that fandom, to be taken down off of sites like ao3. As much as I do thing that booktok can be positive in niches, as a whole, it’s causing problems for other reading communities. And don’t get me wrong, fanfic has its own problems for sure, but I think if most of the booktok people had fan fiction phases, booktok as a whole would prob look pretty different.
    (edit for clarity): obvi not ALL fanfic readers are into the things i talked about but even so, there ARE plenty who are. and also, fanfic and published books can talked about/criticized differently so im not sure how much that would really change anything. its still a very interesting thing ive noticed between the two :)
    another edit, really an update: some of the fics that were deleted are now back on ao3. im not sure when they were put back on, but it’s been a bit over a month since the whole situation went down. i’m glad the fics are back up, but the cause is still very much a problem within fandom communities.
    final edit: thank you all so much for 1k likes!! i’m so glad others are agreeing with me on this lol. have a great day

    • @killme5630
      @killme5630 5 месяцев назад +48

      i had my booktok friends tell me that anime is cringe. like yeah, porn is more acceptable and normal, than a medium of story telling

    • @dreamerwav698
      @dreamerwav698 5 месяцев назад +128

      god its really awful that thats happening. not to be a hater or a gatekeeper but we need to hate on these people and gatekeep them from fandom. they have no knowledge of fandom etiquette or history. some of the worst fandoms are what i call 'intro fandoms' or the ones that are the first fandom that people join (generally young teenagers) and they often have a low barrier for entry that makes it incredibly oversaturated with a bunch of people who have no idea what theyre doing but by god are they going to be annoying about it.
      like, an intro fandom imo would be like dream smp (low barrier for entry, popular with young teenagers, very easy to take and interpret in any way they want) or most anime fandoms. a lot of smaller fandoms can generally avoid this oversaturation, though, like pathologic or anything thats particularly old (more than 20 years old, but probalby more than 50. looking at you star trek fans

    • @rae_diant
      @rae_diant 5 месяцев назад +193

      This especially comes out when you acknowledge a lot of the big popular books are just reskinned fanfiction. Excellent observation!

    • @sara-yh6gy
      @sara-yh6gy 5 месяцев назад +247

      interestingly enough, it’s the same profile of women who are into these ridiculous books now, that would judge me as an early teen for reading fanfic. i remember making this observation myself (i was a writer on wattpad, many moons ago) and wondering how in the world that happened. the entire concept of poor writing was bunches of dialogue, with smut and poor plot lines is now what is piling sky high in women’s shelves??? the same ones who would call me weird for reading ??? it’s crazy to me

    • @ashercries
      @ashercries 5 месяцев назад +49

      @@dreamerwav698 i know exactly what you mean!! people get into very large fandoms without knowing what to do, then somehow manage to mess things up (usually accidentally). i also try not to be a gatekeeper and stuff, but i always notice that people who say things like “tiktok ruined (insert fandom)” or “since the rise of (insert ship), the fandom just sucks now” are always younger teens. rarely do i see adults engaging in “discourse” these days.
      there really needs to be more widespread fandom education or else fandom as a whole will begin to fall apart i think :/ (i know that fandoms have always had problems, but they just seem to be so much more widespread right now)
      and no worries!! i really appreciate your response. i think about this convo all day every day so i appreciate the input a lot!!

  • @kaylayanderseen3571
    @kaylayanderseen3571 3 месяца назад +703

    honestly seeing kids in barnes and noble reading icebreaker and haunting Adeline instead of rick rioradan or like Harry Potter was such a culture shock... I NEVER went into the YA sections as a kid I basically LIVED in the "preteen" areas. Books like Percy Jackson, the land of stories and the series of unfortunate events, wings of fire etc. Its so insane that a lot of kids are skipping to the adult books instead of reading the books made for them and I 100% blame BookTok

    • @kaylayanderseen3571
      @kaylayanderseen3571 3 месяца назад +66

      also need to go on a rant about the secret history because its staring at me in the mysterious dark academia starter pack and this portrayal of the book sends me to the moon. Booktok labeling this book as a little quirky read with a sweater and a pumpkin spice latte is EXACTLY what the Donna Tartt is making FUN of. Richard gets sucked into this school and this friend group BECAUSE they are "aesthetic" and because they all want to live out the aesthetics of these stories they are reading. He says this in the book like straight up and the fact people turned exactly what the book was trying to "warn" people of gets me so heated because its one of the most beautiful books ive ever read if people would take two seconds to think about it critically 😭😭

    • @alexandramcginnis8872
      @alexandramcginnis8872 2 месяца назад +51

      Let not forgot that they are literally marketing those books to that age group! Look at those colorful covers! Like I didn’t think that Hockey book was literally erotica until I was told!

    • @moshroomm
      @moshroomm Месяц назад +7

      WINGS OF FIRE MENTION

    • @poodledoodledee
      @poodledoodledee Месяц назад

      Blame their parents

    • @lovelylacie15
      @lovelylacie15 Месяц назад +3

      Isn't the YA section literally for young adults though? Personally I beelined for the YA area after about 12 or so because preteen books were too low level. The problem is adults wanting YA and also adult themes so they force the YA literature to be too adult, when in reality what they want is easily digestible writing

  • @neptuneblu1922
    @neptuneblu1922 5 месяцев назад +5692

    I hate that being dumb is part of being a girl, I love pink girly things, plushies, and all of that, but "girl math" "girl dinner" is just bad financial decisions and eating disorders repackaged with a little pink bow on top. I am not perfect but when I make a bad financial decision and go to my friend and say omg I'm actually so disappointed in myself, I don't want her to say it's girl math. Infantilization is just as bad when you do it to yourself. Come on girls we are better than this.

    • @superhetoric
      @superhetoric 5 месяцев назад +423

      yes, this is internalized misogyny on a wide scale being passed off as acceptable "jokes" to make. don't even get me started about the use of girl over woman. misogyny is hell

    • @cryforhelp7270
      @cryforhelp7270 4 месяца назад +297

      What I'm about to say might not totally have to do with your comment, as I'm not on Tiktok and haven't seen what this trend has devolved into and what harmful practices may be being promoted.
      I think "girl dinner" started because of the stress of having to be "On" all the time. Having to present yourself as always competent, always on top of it because if you don't then people will look at you like how you're looking at them right now. Sometimes it's okay to just chill out and be sloppy, we're not all 100% mature sophisticated people who eat what the doctor recommended. I think it's evolved into something silly, like all trends, but initially it felt like a "cut women some slack" thing. (What I've seen of girl dinner has been pizza delivery, junk food, and fast food essentially)
      In which, yeah, cut women some slack. They don't always have to be some representation of their gender, sometimes they're individuals who ARE just that stupid. We shouldn't weaponize or commodify our incompetence or bad habits, but acknowledging they exist isn't the crime.

    • @blah914
      @blah914 4 месяца назад +18

      ​@@cryforhelp7270yes, this. thank you!

    • @chromberries7329
      @chromberries7329 4 месяца назад +93

      ​@@cryforhelp7270 thats the issue though, the trend was literally called "girl dinner" making it seem like this is something specific to girls as a whole. And like you said you can't generalize like that. Especially when a lot of the popular girl dinner tiktoks I saw were entering disordered eating category (overeating as well as undereating, although obv I don't know of they ate all of what they showed or only what they showed, it's none of my business).
      Stuff like that bothers me a bit as a woman who has struggled with disordered eating but is on a good track right now, seeing these tik toks and feeling like I'm doing something wrong for not being able to be so nonchalant about what I eat...
      I just think the problem with these trends is that they are inherently generalizing women and selling our individuality for tiktok views. It's unnecessary pressure being placed on the women watching these videos who want to also be perceived as "one of the girls."

    • @ae1103
      @ae1103 4 месяца назад +109

      It's sad bc the creator of girl dinner just wanted it to be a silly little thing, and not people showing off their disorder

  • @sarahburke9254
    @sarahburke9254 6 месяцев назад +8622

    Sometimes books are jusy poorly written. People need to learn to accept that some of the books they like are of poor standard, but theres nothing wrong with enjoying it. A book being bad and a book being enjoyable are not mutually exclusive things, and someone critiquing a book you like is not a personal attack??

    • @nootnewt9323
      @nootnewt9323 6 месяцев назад +385

      I don’t even talk about media anymore. I was talking to a friend about it but some people can’t handle different opinions on things they like and it’s just weird.

    • @sydneytaylor4285
      @sydneytaylor4285 6 месяцев назад +260

      i loved the mortal instruments in high school- these books ARE poorly written and there ARE problematic things in there (cassie clare, are you good??), but I can still sit back in the nostalgia and enjoy them, while thinking critically of them. I would never move forward as an artist and my tastes would remain stagnant if I wasn’t able to do this.

    • @teddiespicker
      @teddiespicker 6 месяцев назад +26

      agreed with the second sentence. one of my favourite books of all time is basically a pretty poorly written published self insert, and I can enjoy rereading it while recognising it’s flaws

    • @QuinnArgo
      @QuinnArgo 6 месяцев назад +49

      You're not wrong but I am inevitably *personally* attached to art that resonates with me. I'm one of the people to really enjoy HP Lovecraft for example, and I *do* know all about him, and I *do* know how his views manifest in the literature. But also I am really not interested in learning about where there might be subtle racisms in the Music of Erich Zann because the story means a lot to me, and recognizing its issues would feel like being personally hurt. It's fine to criticize something but I think it's impossible for people to not feel personally attacked because of it.

    • @moodymoofin186
      @moodymoofin186 6 месяцев назад +49

      Righttt, I like McDonald’s, and because someone tells me it’s not gourmet doesn’t mean I can’t like it. Sometimes people wanna read the McDonald’s of books lol 🤷‍♀️

  • @olive_olive.mp4
    @olive_olive.mp4 4 месяца назад +875

    25:47 “You’re not “healing your inner child” - you’re regressing into ignorance.” I KNEW there was always something about the whole “I’m just a girl” trend that’s been going around that’s been bothering me, and this is it, thank you for putting it into words

    • @Amy-tg7tu
      @Amy-tg7tu 3 месяца назад +63

      Fr they’re just infantalising themselves to avoid any responsibility and pretend it’s some innocent joke rather than a coping mechanism because they can’t deal with life and take themselves seriously

    • @justahugenerd1278
      @justahugenerd1278 3 месяца назад +53

      The "I'm just a girl" trend has been so weird because it's literally just sexism. Not even sexism that benefits women (like joking about how women are better than men or something), it's literally the same sexism that has been used to keep women out of certain spaces/careers except now it's okay because it's self-inflicted or I dunno. I was just like "wtf?" when I first saw that trend arise

    • @sparkyblue7016
      @sparkyblue7016 2 месяца назад +1

      I'm glad I haven't seen this trend.

    • @Alderberanirgal
      @Alderberanirgal 26 дней назад

      25:09

    • @ishitapandey2037
      @ishitapandey2037 24 дня назад +4

      ​@@Amy-tg7tu honestly, I think we're being a bit harsh. I always took it as a escapism joke. It's not for everyone but that's how it started. It's just getting recycled on the net now and conforming into something else and being taken SERIOUSLY. Which it isn't supposed to be.

  • @Notllamalord
    @Notllamalord 6 месяцев назад +7663

    “Does it have spice?” The booktok gooners say in unison

    • @Pluto-cw2kh
      @Pluto-cw2kh 5 месяцев назад +338

      I'm pretty sure some of them will literally not touch books without smut in them.

    • @SarahFletcher12
      @SarahFletcher12 5 месяцев назад +28

      Are you using that term in the way people might on reddit?? Cuz to be clear, I don't think most of those readers are using these books to actually get off to... It's probably more similar to how people who are adrenaline junkies like watching horror lol.

    • @Pluto-cw2kh
      @Pluto-cw2kh 5 месяцев назад +199

      @@SarahFletcher12 I don't think most are getting off to it, but it clearly is mean to "rouse them with an a at the beginning."

    • @BlueCoolOla
      @BlueCoolOla 5 месяцев назад +21

      @@Pluto-cw2kh And what exactly is wrong with that?

    • @Pluto-cw2kh
      @Pluto-cw2kh 5 месяцев назад +180

      @@BlueCoolOla Nothings wrong with it, but I think people should read other things than only erotica.

  • @laindarko3591
    @laindarko3591 6 месяцев назад +11548

    I feel so vindicated after years of being told I'm no fun or take things too seriously just because I have critical thoughts about movies and books lol

    • @lilac.mascara
      @lilac.mascara 6 месяцев назад +982

      The amount of times I've heard "it's not that deep" ffs like even if it's truly not let me enjoy analyzing media I consume. It fills me with rage atp

    • @uonigiro
      @uonigiro 6 месяцев назад +642

      @@lilac.mascara like isn't the fun part about consuming media is analyzing it???

    • @MoriMementa
      @MoriMementa 6 месяцев назад +379

      There's a certain subset of the anime and gaming fandoms who, often fueled by misogyny, constantly try to shout down any criticism of the mediums, particularly when the criticism comes from women. You see this in every passionate fandom; the second you suggest it isn't perfect, out come the epithets.

    • @zkkitty2436
      @zkkitty2436 6 месяцев назад +73

      @@MoriMementa I personally wouldn't even mind the epithets much if they were creative and interesting, yk? /j
      I agree, it's frustrating bc criticizing media doesn't necessarily mean you don't like it. Digging deep into media is the fun of it for me and I only recently learned not everyone experiences that

    • @Dollibet
      @Dollibet 6 месяцев назад

      it feels so condescending and misogynistic to be told that, like being told to "smile!" by a man you don't know 🤢
      girls are supposed to be fun and cute and not serious!!! why are you being such a downer??? barf
      making women out to be jokes is how men get away with not taking us seriously when it actually is time to be serious.

  • @RedBirdRabbit
    @RedBirdRabbit 4 месяца назад +335

    I feel that a lot of the "curtains are blue" rhetoric stems from literature analysis being taught poorly in schools. Analysis tends to be taught in high school literature classes as "following a string of clues" that will eventually lead to divining the author's "true intent".
    This is an exercise that feels entirely pointless to most students. There's a fixation on deriving WHAT the text is trying to say, but not WHY the text is trying to say it, and that "why" is where literature analysis becomes culturally important. I find it very understandable that so many people view literature analysis as a time-wasting abstract exercise, because they were never taught to move from "the text says x" to "the text says x, which can tell us xyz about the culture and society in which the text was written".
    The blue curtains representing the protagonist's depression don't hold significance until we consider how we can use the depiction of the protagonist's depression to make inferences about the cultural views surrounding depression at the time the text was written. Until making that jump, literature analysis just looks like a pointless field whose entire purpose is to describe itself- and I think we lose most people before the jump.

    • @takalla9877
      @takalla9877 4 месяца назад +23

      I mean, yeah. But I don't want novels and poems to just be newspapers for historians. There's a part of them, as art, which achieves timelessness despite the beams of culture propping them.

    • @quantumvideoscz2052
      @quantumvideoscz2052 Месяц назад +11

      While this is true, there is a level way above even that type of analysis. A level where you admit that the curtains are blue for a reason you cannot determine with 100% certainty because there are multiple reasons why the author might have chosen to make them blue. Every word is a choice, but not every author uses symbolism as much as our high school teachers would have us believe. Sometimes, the curtains are blue because the author wanted to make the scene more specific and added a random colour. Sometimes, the author loves interior design and wanted their character to live in a well-designed place (which would include blue curtains due to the context of other design choices). Or the author really likes the colour blue. Or the author is referencing a DIFFERENT thing the colour blue symbolizes. Or, if it is a poem, the word "blue" enabled a really great rhyme. There are many reasons for the curtains to be blue.
      Another part of this higher level of analysis is admitting that the meanings the readers extract from a story might be different from what the author intended to convey. The author presents their ideas and the readers might disagree with them and see their own characters differently, even. A well-written story may be seen differently by different people of similarly high levels of education and intelligence simply because their biases and opinions are different and they see the authors ideas differently. Another thing is that many of these things you are lead to discover by your English teachers are not just metaphors, symbols etc., they are tools, means to express meanings without needing to denote them, relying on connotation instead. So analyzing how the author uses these also teaches us about the craft of writing itself. And truly great authors know how to use all of these tools in order to communicate their ideas to people everywhere around the world, even hundreds of years later. One can read Pride and Prejudice today and discover that one concept the book handles masterfully is the algorithmic view of social interactions shared my many modern-day incels, exemplified here by Mr. Collins. Complicated abstract concepts can be communicated through concrete characters set within a very specific culture of a very specific time and remain relevant centuries later and literary analysis also looks into how to achieve this.

    • @RedBirdRabbit
      @RedBirdRabbit Месяц назад +8

      @@quantumvideoscz2052 This is 100% true, and I didn't mean to imply that art lacks merit outside of its educational value- but my original message definitely reads that way, whoops!
      A lot of the "magic" of how to construct a story that "feels satisfying" can be found in literature analysis and studying narrative structure. There's a lot of value in studying literature for the sake of learning to convey your own ideas better.
      Society treating creative work as "something that springs magically from the brains of a few special talented people" is a huge issue, though. Art is basically just an exercise in trying to accurately convey an idea or feeling to others, but it's borderline impossible to do that without studying how others have done so in the past. This weird myth that you have to be one of a few special people to be "good at art" disrespects the amount of work and studying done by artists to craft things successfully, and it also causes potential new artists to disregard the study of art as a means to improve their own work.
      The other tricky thing here is that, while analyzing a work in a class theoretically gives you the tools necessary to engage with works of art on a deeper emotional level... academic analysis, particularly as it's done in most public schools, tends to painfully drain emotion out of literature.
      (I've been a victim of this- I LIKE litcrit, but I've experienced texts in coursework that I found horribly boring, only to re-evaluate them later on my own and find them much more enjoyable! I think Shakespeare suffers the worst from this, since reading a work on paper that's meant to be PERFORMED always takes something away from the experience...)
      So we get stuck: we put students in a situation where it's borderline-impossible to engage emotionally with a text, and then ask them to derive meaning from details, or dig for the themes of a story. Then they, very understandably, ask, "why should we care what this old dead guy meant when he said the curtains were blue?"
      In that situation, it's hard to give a good answer. "It's so that you can appreciate the text more" doesn't land well when the academic setting is making it difficult to appreciate the text at all. "It's so that you can write better" just can't stand up against this prominent myth that good writers just appear out of nowhere.
      That's why I think the best way to guide students to the value of litcrit is to take that historical approach, and look at contextualizing the work relative to the society in which it was written. It gives a concrete answer to the question ("It's so that you can understand how people thought about the world at the time the work was written").
      That answer is a direct stepping stone to making the reader consider what kinds of ideas were in the author's mind while writing. I think that projection- the consideration of "the meaning of" a text in order to reflect on the set of ideas and emotions that surround it- is the key step to deeper engagement with literature. Reflecting on the conditions in which a work was written can also just mean reflecting on the present. Try to get into the head of an author, and you- theoretically, at least- end up gaining insight into how to dump the contents of your own brain onto paper. People don't believe that, though, or they don't believe it has value, so you have to use texts as springboards for discussions about other things before students will start having those reflections about the text in relation to other things internally on their own.
      I think that the best art throws complex ideas at you for you to consider on your own, rather than saying things directly :] I think "death of the author" is kind of beautiful- a story transforms into something different every time a new person reads it

    • @Nemamka
      @Nemamka Месяц назад +3

      I!! have!! goosebumps!! yes, thank you!!!
      and it's because media, art, lit, history, and geography have never overlapped in our fuckass schools.
      but most importantly literature and history, whyyy did they teach these things so separately all the fucking time!! why do I have to reach master level university to finally put two and two together side by side

    • @quantumvideoscz2052
      @quantumvideoscz2052 Месяц назад +3

      @@RedBirdRabbit I agree with most of what you've written, especially with the part about learning to express oneself through studying how others have done so in literature. Though I would add that it depends on where and how you wish to express yourself. If I want to learn how to write articles for a newspaper, I should study newspaper articles, as Shakespeare, as amazing as he is, will not be of much help. And if I want to learn how to write hilarious columns aimed at an audience with a dry and somewhat darker sense of humour, I should probably read some of Jeremy Clarkson's column collections. And if I want to know how to do public speaking, I should learn from some good orators.
      I also think it's interesting how literary analysis is ruined by schools when they simply present a book, claim it is brilliant (despite the underpayed, underinterested, and tired teacher never having actually read the entire thing) and then demand students to analyze it from a small excerpt that rarely gets longer than two pages. Not only can't the students, as you said, engage emotionally with the book with no context, the very fact they are being told it is brilliant and given no justification for that claim is utterly moronic. A work of art, no matter the form or medium, must be able to stand on its own without the omnipresent voice of the education system screeching at us that the book is, in fact, great.
      Literary analysis at the elementary or high school level basically ignores 90% of what makes books (and stories in general) amazing and completely fails at teaching its students anything worthwhile beyond tropes and figures, things that are the LEAST important when writing a book. Definitely far less so than stylistics, narrative structure (as you mentioned), or themes and how they are incorporated into the story, character writing etc. etc. etc. Every single thing I can think of in terms of writing a story, be it a book, a movie, a TV show or even a video game, seems to me to be more important than what is nearly exclusively being taught to students. What we also had (not sure if it exists in every country, probably does) was a "reader's diary", where we would read a set amount of books every year and had to have a presentation in front of the class on one of them. Nobody ever bothered to teach us how to actually read books or what to look for or how to describe it etc. Accordingly, the presentations were dismal.
      And for your final point, I could not agree more! Yes, great stories never just tell you what to think, they give you a story where those things that are connected to the opinions and ideas the writer is dealing with happen and you are left to think for yourself. Characters propose stances on the topic, the story usually eventually agrees with some of them, but when done well, it shows so much about the world. My favourite example of this is the Star Trek TNG episode "The Drumhead". The episode is about the dangers of paranoia and paranoia-based persecution. Yet the antagonist is from the same side as the main cast. And ends up turning on captain Picard when he has had enough of the paranoid investigations of his crew members. It is written so well that the leftists think it's about evil rightoids and rightoids think it's about evil leftists while both of them are very much capable of this behaviour. If anything, the story was about the inquisition and witch hunts and how they can happen even in a civillized, post-religious society. I have seen both the left and right engaged in this behaviour against their own and it's so ironic how this complex episode is often viewed by both of the sides as being about the other, obviously purely evil side. And of course, analyzing stories like this also never happens in literary analysis. "Ideas? Themes? Complex moral and ethical questions investigated and pondered through a story? Nah, check out that metaphor on page 347 of this random book by this random old dude who lived with a bear or something so he was obviously aRtiStIqUe!"

  • @whatareyousayinggirl
    @whatareyousayinggirl 6 месяцев назад +3771

    The frustrating thing is that it's not even REALLY being a "hater", right. I just share my personal experiences with a text and yet somehow there is always a booktok girlie who will scream that I am being a hater, trying to cancel the author, or am being a bully. ACOTAR and Fourth Wing fans are some of the worst for this, and they're the loudest/largest groups within the booktok community. I hate that I can't even say "This book made me uncomfortable because xyz" without someone harassing me and dismissing my experience.

    • @mikanchan322
      @mikanchan322 6 месяцев назад +264

      Exactlyyyyy. And this also happens when I talk about things I even feel neutral about. I love to dissect why something may or may not work but as soon as it isnt praise, even if its neutral analysis, Im seen as a hater ??

    • @rizzobeloved
      @rizzobeloved 6 месяцев назад +194

      @@mikanchan322emphasis!!! I thought ACOTAR was meh and I said “I don’t see what’s so special about it” and the fans were so mad. Like if it’s your favorite book, it would be very hard for a stranger on the internet to change that for you with their own opinions. We’re allowed to have different tastes and still coexist in the same space

    • @asea1203
      @asea1203 6 месяцев назад +181

      I am part of an online book club, where you can post your book reviews. There are both negative and positive book reviews and the members are not hostile about the negative reviews. So, I posted a negative review of ACOTAR there, and almost got banned, lol. I didn't violate any community rules and my criticism was really mild compared to some other negative reviews. But the difference was, those negative reviews were of authors like Stephen King or Charles Dickens. But mine was of SJM, who is somehow sacred for some weird reason.

    • @saraferguson1156
      @saraferguson1156 6 месяцев назад +83

      Yeeeessssss. This all the way. ACOTAR/Fourth Wing fans can be the WORST. It’s one of the many reasons why I won’t read either of those series. I’ve read excerpts from both series as well as watched countless video essays/critiques on both as well, and the writing was IN MY OPINION 😂 subpar. It did nothing for me and just made me feel ick. There is one particular part in Fourth Wing where the main character describes the first time she sees the MMC/resident “hot guy” and it was so cringe that I ended my Fourth Wing journey then and there 😂 both authors/series are very overrated and I feel like if we didn’t have booktok there wouldn’t be near as much hype over them as there is.

    • @cloudy_1999
      @cloudy_1999 6 месяцев назад +32

      ​@saraferguson1156 the first book in acotar isn't horrible, but it is very obviously inspired by other books, and read very much like fanfiction. The 2nd book was just plain bad but people will still try to convince me it "gets better" by book 4 lol.

  • @Wagon_Lord
    @Wagon_Lord 6 месяцев назад +7712

    "Let people enjoy things"
    I enjoy critical thinking and being a hater

    • @soho6435
      @soho6435 5 месяцев назад +133

      lmao you're so real for this

    • @elenaprodromou6658
      @elenaprodromou6658 4 месяца назад +324

      okay but like for actual someone disliking a thing doesn’t mean they’re saying you shouldn’t like it, i’m always shocked people are letting haters have that much power over their opinions lol

    • @LordVader1094
      @LordVader1094 4 месяца назад +157

      Yes. Critical thinking should not be discouraged. Being a hater leads to higher quality things being produced instead of endless corporatized slop.

    • @AlphariusOmegon618
      @AlphariusOmegon618 4 месяца назад +23

      "Oh it's not true I don't hate anybody, WELL YOU SHOULD! IT MAKES LIFE MORE FUN!"

    • @lpstweetytv5242
      @lpstweetytv5242 4 месяца назад +24

      And I'm tired of pretending I don't 🙄

  • @bucca2
    @bucca2 4 месяца назад +279

    I remember on Tumblr, a post went viral of Hozier saying “i think even a child’s drawing of a house can be political” and the first few replies were outrage and jumping to calling him a moron. “Politics” isn’t just taxes and bureaucracy. Does the child consider a “home” a single-family dwelling with a yard? Why? Is it because that’s their lived experience, or because that’s what media portrays as a “home”?
    It’s important to think at least a little bit deeply about seemingly non-complex subjects. Without that, you have people harassing John Green for writing a book playing into the “manic pixie dream girl” trope because they somehow missed that Paper Towns is specifically challenging the misogyny of the trope.

    • @benjamaster14
      @benjamaster14 Месяц назад +9

      The problem for me, is that the "everything is poltiical" schtick, is that it simply prohibits You from enjoying things overall. And also sounds preachy as hell

    • @yeehaw_2987
      @yeehaw_2987 28 дней назад +19

      @@benjamaster14you can enjoy something and simultaneously think about its cultural and political implications 🤯

    • @benjamaster14
      @benjamaster14 28 дней назад +2

      @@yeehaw_2987 yeaaa, no
      Usually the people that go like "everything is poltiical" look...miserable
      Like they can't enjoy anything at all
      So i pass on that

    • @Hadeshy
      @Hadeshy 26 дней назад +3

      Gods. I just liked Hozier eveb more ❤

    • @nej6246
      @nej6246 22 дня назад +1

      ​@@benjamaster14 eh? Not necessarily, I don't know where you got that idea from. You can thinking about the cultural and political implications without being a Debbie Downer about it

  • @dukinuki9123
    @dukinuki9123 6 месяцев назад +1086

    The absolute irony and audacity to pull Fahrenheit 451 off the shelves...

    • @p0lyb1u5
      @p0lyb1u5 5 месяцев назад +60

      Literally brave new world

    • @majonaisse3986
      @majonaisse3986 5 месяцев назад +145

      Truly a "that sign can't stop me because I can't read" moment

    • @azncisg
      @azncisg 4 месяца назад +54

      Well, if you are a proponent of book banning, banning this book would seem like a good move

    • @naveerarizwan5329
      @naveerarizwan5329 4 месяца назад +4

      tbh I didn't like it but i agree

    • @Shephardsatan
      @Shephardsatan 3 месяца назад +27

      Honestly idk why people ban books. It's so dumb. It's so incredibly dumb. Like just put the damn 1984 on a higher shelf so little Lisbeth wont get traumatized and move TF on. I wanna hear their reasoning for banning those books lol. Like genuinly. WHY BAN MAUS.

  • @summerchild_
    @summerchild_ 6 месяцев назад +1141

    Haters are an important part of any ecosystem.

    • @skinnyrat4277
      @skinnyrat4277 5 месяцев назад +21

      amen brother

    • @newtonia-uo4889
      @newtonia-uo4889 5 месяцев назад

      I hate _____ people

    • @LimeyLassen
      @LimeyLassen 4 месяца назад +2

      I was just about to make an identical comment

    • @1d10tcannotmakeusername
      @1d10tcannotmakeusername 4 месяца назад +34

      Haters and gatekeepers are the immune system of a social group (such as a fandom). As above, so below. As within, so without.

    • @user-burner
      @user-burner 2 месяца назад +2

      Yes. The thousands of tons of toxic waste we produce as pollution are also an important part of any ecosystem with toxic waste in it.

  • @ciyaturnip
    @ciyaturnip 3 месяца назад +129

    “Now they have this outward behavior of intellectualism but they don’t care about what’s actually in the book in their hands” YEAH AND SPEAK ON THAT

    • @marykatew
      @marykatew Месяц назад +5

      no literally like why do some people act all smart whilst they have something like icebreaker in their hands lmaooo

    • @ishitapandey2037
      @ishitapandey2037 24 дня назад +1

      This comes off as quite judgemental. I can be a philosophy student but also love to read trashy stuff, despite that I'm quite vocal in criticism of these books.

  • @BeautifullyTragicxx
    @BeautifullyTragicxx 6 месяцев назад +6926

    I had to stop engaging with booktok when I got a tiktok of a girl proudly saying "Guys, if your girl says she's a bookworm ... she's just reading thousands of pages of smut." And I know it was a joke but.
    Bestie ... first of all, speak for yourself. Second, while women can, should, and do enjoy erotic literature, art, and films, there's something so strange and insidious about suggesting that all women read is porn. There's a subtle anti-intellectualism embraced there, that is also highly gendered.
    As someone who does enjoy reading smut, but also reads a broad range of other genres, I've never been able to quite articulate what about the joke feels so blatantly anti-feminist and unfair without just sounding like I am anti-erotica, or think that smut is anti-feminist (I do not think that to be clear). I think there is real value to be found in erotic writing, and reading smut can be a fun way to explore sexuality. But I cannot imagine someone saying "Ladies, if he tells you he's a film buff, just know he's actually just watching porn."

    • @rizzobeloved
      @rizzobeloved 6 месяцев назад +729

      This is so beautifully put. I also had to delete TikTok because I was descending into madness, screaming “how are y’all not seeing it???” The exponential rise of anti-intellectualism amongst young women on the app actually put me into such a deep depressive state that I knew I needed some kind of reset. I’m now doing meaningful work at my local libraries and that feels a lot more fulfilling and has put a bit more hope into me

    • @GOD_NEON
      @GOD_NEON 6 месяцев назад +240

      You can read smut and the classics and I really think people should have an open mind. For example I like avant-garde films and Fast and the Furious lmao

    • @alicegam
      @alicegam 6 месяцев назад +5

      Great comment:)

    • @delanybell5613
      @delanybell5613 6 месяцев назад +187

      Ah yes!! This perfectly summarized how I feel. I do enjoy erotic literature, but I stopped getting recommendations from booktok and started browsing by myself because it quickly descended into what felt like a completely uncritical craze for anything smut related. To the point where people were openly recommending (imo of course) terribly written romanticized smut of some of the most abusive situations and dynamics that I started feeling repulsed. Which is the opposite of why I read smut fiction (as someone trying to heal and work through sexual trauma). Moderation is key! If you enjoy smut, you should be interspersing other genres into your reading. Otherwise, it starts to look like an addiction. Pair that with this weird push towards anti-intellectualism and poor media literacy, and you get a recipe for very unhealthy ideas about love and sex.

    • @sao-me1lt
      @sao-me1lt 6 месяцев назад +21

      You hit all the nails on all the heads

  • @oddlyrealms
    @oddlyrealms 4 месяца назад +2362

    as someone who read a lot of fanfiction way too early in life, I'm honestly so bored by the 'spicy' books that get hyped on tiktok. there are so many fanfiction on ao3 that a one more spicy and two have a better and more interesting plot than a lot of modern books.

    • @vaishnavisingh9244
      @vaishnavisingh9244 4 месяца назад +289

      they are also many times either more realistically written or the most bat shit crazy thing you have ever read. And I eat it up everytime. I don't want spice chapters in my books when I can just literally search exactly what tag I want.

    • @salinavita2287
      @salinavita2287 3 месяца назад +291

      no fr like i guarantee no one who read ao3 in their teen years is touching a booktok book cause theyve already read better stuff on ao3

    • @vaishnavisingh9244
      @vaishnavisingh9244 3 месяца назад +116

      @@salinavita2287 literally read a fic which changed the way I consume media because of how well written it was

    • @Badgyalaria
      @Badgyalaria 3 месяца назад +52

      THIS like I love romance books but I’m so completely tired of random smut scenes in books instead of an actual plot 😭

    • @mikubrot
      @mikubrot 3 месяца назад +112

      it's better written, contains characters I already love, AND is more likely to contain oddly specific kinks!

  • @beatrizdontal7453
    @beatrizdontal7453 3 месяца назад +223

    9:12 "Popcorn books" is so accurate, because I tried reading some of them and it just felt like a screenplay of any random basic Netflix movie

  • @dolliiefied
    @dolliiefied 6 месяцев назад +4246

    honestly at this point all mainstream books have become so soulless i can find more well written pieces on ao3 😭

    • @MantisSage
      @MantisSage 6 месяцев назад +399

      I've already gone to the next step- Ao3 fics are feeling so same-y (tropes and pairings and bland stories and even similar writing styles) that I'm going back to the classics. The Illiad? Really good! (wish I'd gotten to read in HS)

    • @nijohn12
      @nijohn12 6 месяцев назад +190

      but the hunt is soo strenuous...like i am on there for hours looking for one good piece but I do like some of the little ones I find in between. But you're right. But I can see as mainstream hits that platform too it starts to even out and sometimes I want new characters. Tbh some of the original works on ao3 go hard.

    • @dolliiefied
      @dolliiefied 6 месяцев назад +83

      @@nijohn12 i tend to just read the stuff made by writers i follow so i can expect well written work :3 trying to find new stuff can be horrid though T T

    • @antaresic
      @antaresic 6 месяцев назад +112

      LITERALLY ! one of my favorite pieces of all time is on ao3 and that shit has over 900k words

    • @injy9226
      @injy9226 5 месяцев назад +60

      ​@@antaresicthat's more words that crime and punishment😭😭😭

  • @carziecat
    @carziecat 3 месяца назад +563

    I'm glad someone is finally saying it because if i have to be called a "prude" or a "puritan" for asking people disclaim when they’re recommending me erotica one more time I'm gonna lose it. I hate that "empowerment" for the booktok girlies means women have to be sexual all the time or else it's somehow anti feminist in some way. I'm not a puritan, I'm just asexual and I don’t want to read 300 pages of smut when the book was sold to me as a fantasy epic or a murder mystery

    • @squampie
      @squampie 3 месяца назад +76

      valid, as a non-ace person i even view it as too much. like there's a time and a place for it but if it's 100% of the time i think there's a problem to be examined.

    • @Ryzard
      @Ryzard 3 месяца назад +26

      Empowerment and being a bigot are way too close on everyone's scale, to the point that it's either 100 or 0 on any scale, no in between.

    • @TheBestSam42
      @TheBestSam42 2 месяца назад

      As a man, I understand that I really shouldn't be commenting on women's issues, but the epidemic of disguising the oversexualisation and objectification of women as "empowerment" or "feminism" infuriates me. Just because a character is written by a woman doesn't mean they're well-written women, so often they're nothing more than blank slate 2 dimesonal characters with no personality other than being hot and horny.

    • @RenaissanceRockerBoy
      @RenaissanceRockerBoy 2 месяца назад +83

      Also it's never even GOOD erotica. It's always abusive and terrible with badly-done bdsm elements that always romanticize stalking and completely awful relationships. The actual sex is always the most mediocre, terribly written monstrosity that shows that the author clearly thinks that adding in abuse and coercion can make up for the least sexy sex in the history of writing.

    • @user-sg4ov7ng4h
      @user-sg4ov7ng4h 2 месяца назад +19

      @@RenaissanceRockerBoy YESSSSS!!! i feel like back then books were better written??? the sex and fetishes were fetishes and not abuse straight up? the romantization was there.
      like booktok is romance, but the romance is actually a thriller erotica because the mc gets traumatized by the other main character (this cursed book haunting of adelaine or whatever, this book deserves to be censored. let it burn) so many times, you're surprised he didn't kill her yet, and it might happen on book 2 at this point.
      i wasn't (and I don't like pain lol) into bdsm but the people "acting" it have such maturity it's hard to see the yucky part of it.
      i mean it in the way they say, it's all about consent AND the sub is the one in control.
      but tiktok just writes fear. it's so yucky, but maybe it's my "growing up radar" that just showed up. maybe I would've felt that with past works I've read.
      maybe I'm not 11 anymore and the possessive dude that will be violent with everybody else but you is not attractive but scary. those men i've come to know and that we see everyday are so commonly like that, that it's not attractive. if you're not the one he's gonna fight, you'll be the one he kills after 10 years of marriage.
      and grown adults read that? who are they? traumatized women or women with the best childhood that don't have a "he's gonna turn violent radar"
      I'm personally on a "game dating app", back then it was just romance, no sex, or it was super vague. now, you know when they say bridgerton is all about the presex? it's about that, the romance, the wait is better than the actual thing. but now this is the complete opposite. you're like "oh it sounds cute", and boom it opens up with overtly sexual flirting? like mama you've met 1 second ago chill

  • @VarricsBianca
    @VarricsBianca 6 месяцев назад +1943

    I think people absolutely fail to understand that two things can be true at once. You can criticise something and still enjoy it. I criticised the HELL out of Fourth Wing even though I still enjoyed it. One of my favourite RUclipsrs hated and criticised one of my fave series and even though I agreed with all her criticisms I still enjoyed the series!

    • @whatareyousayinggirl
      @whatareyousayinggirl 6 месяцев назад +160

      This! And also, even if we do end up saying we disliked the book, that is *not* an attack on the author or their fans. I'm so confused why this is how critical discussions are interpreted

    • @VarricsBianca
      @VarricsBianca 6 месяцев назад +87

      @@whatareyousayinggirl the internet is where nuance goes to die unfortunately 🤣

    • @demitwice
      @demitwice 6 месяцев назад +66

      yes! buffy the vampire slayer is my all time favorite show but i am the first person to criticize it when needed. i suppose people sometimes get embarassed of enjoying flawed media so they refuse to acknowledge that said media is flawed. it's okay to like books that aren't a masterpiece of modern writing, but you still should be critical

    • @yasminechoerryscherry3701
      @yasminechoerryscherry3701 6 месяцев назад +12

      Exactly!! We can and have to be nuanced!!
      Liking things means seeing the great and the bad things about them. If we don't criticise art at all, that makes us passive consumers, and I don't think that's the point of reading. Artists need all types of feedback to improve

    • @PaizuruInsanal
      @PaizuruInsanal 6 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@demitwice same but for me it's supernatural.

  • @hj-ct2qi
    @hj-ct2qi 5 месяцев назад +1622

    One time on Instagram I criticized a recent film by a female director. I was immediately told in the comments ✨by a man✨ that my criticism was tantamount to betraying my own sex. That as a woman, I should be supporting women creators by default and being a good "sister" rather than "bringing other women down." I'm an art history PhD and engaging critically with visual media is literally all I have done for the past decade of my life, so being told to silence my intellectual expression and instead mindlessly clap like a seal for a terrible movie exclusively because it was headed up by a fellow woman was so condescending and infuriating. And that's only one example of the growing anti-intellectualism I have contended with in online spaces.
    This video is so important. Thank you for making it.

    • @mollyherbert4803
      @mollyherbert4803 5 месяцев назад +84

      YES! Obviously, it is so important for the media-making world to be diverse but that doesn't mean that anything made by e.g. a woman should not be criticised if it is a valid criticism. Criticism is how things grow into better pieces of art and, at least I believe, that if the point made is not just a direct attack on the creator's sex or race or otherwise and is genuinely relevant to the piece of media being discussed then all opinions should be welcomed.

    • @GangstarComputerGod
      @GangstarComputerGod 4 месяца назад

      Kind of how I’ve been told (as a woman with DECADES of feminist action including policy work) that penises are totally female and I shouldn’t be weirded out by them in my spaces. By men. Men telling women that women are the problem when they’re uncomfortable. We used to call that sexual harassment. The incels have won and their handmaidens are rolling out the red carpet for them.

    • @baiaku.
      @baiaku. 4 месяца назад +43

      By a man it's the cherry on top 😂 I'm sorry you had to go through this, sistá.

    • @auddiadem
      @auddiadem 4 месяца назад +12

      was the movie barbie by chance? i loved it but im also a teenage girl so ik my opinion is invalid lmao

    • @hj-ct2qi
      @hj-ct2qi 4 месяца назад +101

      @@auddiadem it was not Barbie...I really liked Barbie, too! It was actually Madame Web, awhile before it came out and only trailers were available. I was saying that it looked like absolute rubbish based on the trailers, and it turns out I was right, and I'm far from the only person who thinks so. It was critically panned.
      I think the existence of Barbie is a great example of why we shouldn't applaud female directors *just* because they are women. Greta Gerwig is a talented director period, regardless of her sex, and she can be critically assessed alongside the best men and women working in the industry today. And she's also proof that women directors can be held to just as high of a standard of quality as male directors.

  • @SalmaAhmed-tt4it
    @SalmaAhmed-tt4it Месяц назад +19

    "Does it have smut?" talking about crime and punishment.

  • @purpsinbio
    @purpsinbio 6 месяцев назад +1012

    i cannot thank u enough for this video!! i am genuinely tired of the "im just a girl" phenomenon. when i spoke up abt it and how i think women are perfectly capable of comprehending intellectual media someone accused me of internalised misogyny 😭

    • @maria_____.
      @maria_____. 6 месяцев назад +194

      This "trend" drives me insane. At what point does this whole "hehe girl math, I'm just a girl let me girlsplain it to you" that you're constantly regurgitating stops being a joke and becomes a part of your identity? There's nothing liberating about it, this is genuinely setting us decades back.

    • @siobhanflanagan4339
      @siobhanflanagan4339 5 месяцев назад +134

      This trend used to be funny in my opinion at least but it’s gotten so sinister with the internet as per usual dragging it to extremes. I find no issue with poking fun at aspects of our society and how they affect you, sometimes all you do is laugh so you don’t cry. But now it’s repackaged misogyny.

    • @electricfishfan
      @electricfishfan 5 месяцев назад

      Bruhhh. I swear to god if a woman has engaged with zero radical feminist material in the last year she should be banned from the words “pick me” and “internalized misogyny.”

    • @sugarcut
      @sugarcut 5 месяцев назад +74

      its so sad too because the song that they took the phrase from (just a girl by no doubt) is complaining about only being viewed as a girl. she wishes to go out and be herself but at the end of the day the world will see her first and foremost as a girl. tiktok took the song and turned it into the soundtrack of everything the song hates.

    • @CalinJohnson-jh7oh
      @CalinJohnson-jh7oh 4 месяца назад +1

      Fr

  • @finntracy3235
    @finntracy3235 5 месяцев назад +2503

    ""let people enjoy things"" are you so hell bent on getting external validation for everything you do that someone criticizing any of it is literally stopping you from doing things you want? do we not have free will anymore?

    • @superhetoric
      @superhetoric 5 месяцев назад +76

      that bit about worldviews requiring external sources of validation could apply for so much stuff embedded in our current culture. it's sad tbh

    • @soupy_soup2
      @soupy_soup2 5 месяцев назад +129

      Literally. It’s so stupid. Why does one person not enjoying the same things you like make you mad?

    • @finntracy3235
      @finntracy3235 5 месяцев назад +105

      @@superhetoric and it’s not even just worldviews, this implication that someone having criticism for something you enjoy is halting you from enjoying things is so strange, where are we getting this idea that your enjoyment of something is literally stolen from you by the act of criticism

    • @МаруЦубе
      @МаруЦубе 5 месяцев назад +19

      i bet y'all talk about free will right until someone will start criticizing you and your hobbies

    • @finntracy3235
      @finntracy3235 5 месяцев назад

      @@МаруЦубе i actually engage with critical thinking regardless of weather or not it has to do with criticism of me or my hobbies because im an adult who doesnt look for excuses to turn my brain off

  • @sindju
    @sindju 14 дней назад +8

    "let people have fun" - but analyzing is so much fun!

  • @wolf-gh2dz
    @wolf-gh2dz 6 месяцев назад +845

    love this video. you articulated so many of my own issues with booktube and booktok. another thing: i greatly dislike how so many people in online book communities more and more treat books like a pretty decoration more than a piece of art to be enjoyed. if i were an author and i knew someone had just kept my book lying around on their shelves unread for years because the spine / cover looked pretty, i can't imagine how disheartening that would feel. "let people enjoy things" but what if *i* enjoy being a hater? what then? hater nation stay strong

    • @cinnamiina
      @cinnamiina 6 месяцев назад +54

      YOUR LAST COUPLE OF SENTENCES TRULY TRULLLYYYYY HIT THE NAIL!

    • @emitheorbit1118
      @emitheorbit1118 6 месяцев назад +46

      Personally, I would take the fact that someone bought a book I made because it looked pretty collecting dust on their shelf, as a worse insult than any negative review ever.

    • @wolf-gh2dz
      @wolf-gh2dz 6 месяцев назад +62

      @@emitheorbit1118 fr like at least the negative reviewer actually READ the book! and then thought about what worked and didn't work for them enough to leave a review, potentially giving me actually constructive criticism.

    • @DebErelene
      @DebErelene 6 месяцев назад +17

      As an author ... I'd just be happy to have people buy my books. As much as I want to connect with people through my writing, I also would love to make some money at it, so it wouldn't hurt to catch the attention of book collectors ... I might need to revisit my covers (don't tell my illustrator).

    • @Agaricus_cuscus
      @Agaricus_cuscus 6 месяцев назад +19

      I am maybe missrepresenting your comment, but can't someone buy book because of the graphic design could be considered art too? Beautiful book cover and very well made design even on the inside, but maybe it doesn't look like a book you would enejoy. So would you consider this still an issue, if its outside of trendy suggestions and someone buy book, because it just look pretty similarly to poster or painting?

  • @GamerOver0110
    @GamerOver0110 4 месяца назад +454

    Careful, I heard that when you read too many books you become a worm

    • @lunawolf6288
      @lunawolf6288 3 месяца назад +3

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @rosel953
      @rosel953 3 месяца назад +4

      YOO! Dune reference.

    • @isarki09
      @isarki09 Месяц назад

      That's actually awesome

  • @maiacarballo4576
    @maiacarballo4576 22 дня назад +13

    I hate when people say that the whole booktok obsession with smut and erotica isn't that serious and that i should just let them enjoy their thing. But as an sex repulsed asexual i feel like this is no longer a safe space for me and that makes me really sad

  • @Weirdguy38
    @Weirdguy38 5 месяцев назад +971

    I think it’s also important to note that the desire to overconsume books instead of going to a library and checking them out kind of marks the death of a third place.

    • @sophiasaudacity
      @sophiasaudacity 3 месяца назад +12

      really good point

    • @Shephardsatan
      @Shephardsatan 3 месяца назад +24

      Ngl I agree... I use the library sometimes. I'm thinking I wanna read more stuff from there from now on. Though I still want to own some books that I suspect could be banned and such. Like Animal Farm and like, Slaughterhouse 5 or something.
      Also the library where I'm from is doing quite well actually. A lot of people go there to get some schoolwork done. It's usually packed so my business ends at the bookshelves. I wish they'd add more actual tables so working on your laptop would not be such an ergonomic nightmare.

    • @kiwii5463
      @kiwii5463 3 месяца назад +14

      ⁠@@Shephardsatani do what you’re thinking of doing! i check books out from the library when reading them for the first time, and only buy books if i really really loved them, or if i believe they’re important books to own. i genuinely love the library, and im honestly shocked that the booktok girlies arent frothing at the mouth for it. i thought it would be way more desirable to be able to check out as many books as you want FOR FREE (or very cheaply!) rather than buy each book. books are expensive!! i cant afford drop 15-35CAD on each book i read! how do they do it??

    • @jamescarr1265
      @jamescarr1265 2 месяца назад +1

      People need to learn you can take with things. You don’t have to consume everything in the world all at once.

    • @alef_19
      @alef_19 2 месяца назад +2

      I would love to have at least one library in my country where I can find books outside of the academics/scholar textbooks. So unfortunately is not an option for me 😭

  • @bonnefeel
    @bonnefeel 6 месяцев назад +538

    This really properly explained why I feel so strange about the popular low-quality posts and recommendations on BookTok as well as how a lot of people consume things like TV shows, books, and movies these days 😭 Most are so black and white and I never see nuance, if I say I dislike something people will count it as an attack on their person or worse. You really nailed it in by bringing up anti-intellectualism in relation to BookTok and the other things mentioned. Instantly subscribed! Absolutely insane that you have less than 500 subscribers as I comment this, btw. I really thought you had at least 3k with how well done this video was.

    • @YourDadsWaifu
      @YourDadsWaifu 6 месяцев назад +56

      I think you also added onto a thing I have been saying about the “morality of disliking things” I’ve been seeing in the internet spaces I’m in. I’ve noticed that you can’t even just dislike something, you have to have this grand moral reasoning for it. You have to identify the ways the media is problematic, you have to criticize it for promoting unhealthy relationships, etc. Without a moral reasoning, you’re more likely to be attacked for your opinion.

    • @bonnefeel
      @bonnefeel 6 месяцев назад +14

      @@YourDadsWaifu Yes! Most of the time when I dislike something, there's a reason for it but people don't even give you the CHANCE to explain yourself because to them, the media they consume is ultimately better. We can still enjoy things and see flaws in it that might have other people label us as "disliking it."

    • @kusawwwwww
      @kusawwwwww 5 месяцев назад

      @@YourDadsWaifu I’ve seen some success in just straight up introducing myself as “despicable, evil and trying to be as unethical as possible at all times” or some variation of such to other people. Dismissing morality entirely, upfront and as clearly as possible, seems to help a lot in getting people out of the mindset of “I have to like/hate things for a moral reason”.

  • @noemitamas4066
    @noemitamas4066 3 месяца назад +49

    There is nothing wrong with being intereste in erotic literature, but this thing of having an "intellectual reader" persona, but only being interested in smut is like if someone said they are a filmbuff because they watch a lot of porn.

    • @HopefulMathGirl
      @HopefulMathGirl 3 месяца назад +1

      Haha, nice metaphor. You're intelligent.
      I truly don't care if people have a persona or something. I wish I had a circle of real friends so I'll just let those insecure people create their own make believe world and I'll do meaningful things. It's when I'm lonely that those fake batches get to my head and I keep wondering what would life be if I were around maybe even one responsible genuine person.

    • @nikitawalczak582
      @nikitawalczak582 8 дней назад

      ​@@HopefulMathGirlam i just too tired or is this gibberish

    • @HopefulMathGirl
      @HopefulMathGirl 8 дней назад

      @@nikitawalczak582 What does it matter? Just avoid if it doesn't relate to you.

  • @goliad42
    @goliad42 6 месяцев назад +900

    even tho i do call myself a hater (reclaimed! lol) i never really made peace with us being called that for voicing opinions that come from our deep enjoyment and valuing of literature (amongst other forms of art). being picky, mindful and critical of what we read is a form of appreciation. criticizing authors and publishers for pushing borderline algorithm-generated junk on us is a sign of love and protectiveness of the medium -- and we're the haters?

    • @leam7685
      @leam7685 6 месяцев назад +68

      This!! Because we don't agree with most opinions regarding popular books, I am still hoping readers/consumers don't consider criticism as hate. One will never learn/grow from constructive criticisms if they always think about them as hate, after all. There is a clear line between critics and haters.

    • @masapopovic9022
      @masapopovic9022 5 месяцев назад +12

      Who gets to decide what "junk" is though? Art is subjective, you're haters because you take this stance of superiority about what is "good" art vs what is "junk". That only *you* know and understand what could possibly be good art and everyone else is just lesser or stupid for enjoying what *you* decided is "junk". Saying you're being "protective of the medium" is such nonsense. What are you protecting it from? People enjoying different things from you? The one and only purpose of art is expression and enjoyment. There's no rules and regulations, there shouldn't be. And yet people like you, the haters, come in and try to impose them forcefully on everyone for the sake of what? Upholding the "purity" of literature? Gimme a break

    • @cathy4697
      @cathy4697 5 месяцев назад +21

      @@masapopovic9022 Art isn't subjective, taste is. The Art is what it is, your subjective taste drives you towards or from it

    • @LordVader1094
      @LordVader1094 4 месяца назад +4

      This is the same for many fandoms. People who are passionate about works like Star Wars/Trek/Fallout etc get called toxic haters disparagingly, as if that energy to criticize doesn't come from genuine passion for the series.

    • @LordVader1094
      @LordVader1094 4 месяца назад +8

      @@masapopovic9022 People are literally stating opinions. That's who decides. General consensus of the time.
      Also, art isn't subjective.

  • @jj-reads
    @jj-reads 6 месяцев назад +779

    I used to be a “sometimes the curtains are just blue” girlie in high school. Then I majored in English in undergrad and followed up with a grad degree in English. I’m also known as a hater among my friends, but I strongly believe you can critique something while still loving it. You can have major issues with a thing and still love how it makes you feel, or stimulates you creatively. I think my favorite show is objectively bad, but I still would pick it over many shows I’d consider objectively good (not a book example, just the strongest one I have). I love books. Genuinely! But I also love to pick books apart. Despite my hater reputation, I give out a lot of 4 and 5 star ratings. It’s healthy to critique literature, and encourage others to read books before they form their own opinions of them.

    • @Aa-dn1oq
      @Aa-dn1oq 6 месяцев назад +1

      You know you didn't have to waste your entire young adult life to stop being a reductive illiterate

    • @__tadpole__8195
      @__tadpole__8195 5 месяцев назад +80

      I honestly believe that you cannot claim you love something if you aren’t willing to critique it. You can love something’s flaws while still wanting to fix them. If you truly care about something, you will understand what is wrong with it.

    • @daisysorbet
      @daisysorbet 5 месяцев назад +23

      @@__tadpole__8195 oh fully agree with this. i've seen fandoms that cannot wrap their heads around any criticism and get pissed when someone says "i love this [show/book/movie/etc] but i wish it had done (x) differently" especially when the piece of media seriously mishandled serious topics like racism, ableism, homophobia, etc. its not bashing to acknowledge faults, especially serious ones. i don't know if there's any media that's 100% perfect, and even if there was, someone would dislike part of it--and that's okay! but also i'm def the kind of person who criticizes everything i love because some of it is garbage lmao (love u @ both riverdale + glee. both are fun to watch but man if both don't fuck up a lot lmao, still doesnt always need to be shakespeare for me to enjoy it, y'know)

    • @Athena908
      @Athena908 5 месяцев назад +16

      I will never forgive goddamn tumblr for “sometimes the curtains are just blue” into the world. What a way to set back our critical thinking abilities.

    • @blah914
      @blah914 4 месяца назад +7

      ​@@Athena908it predates tumblr.

  • @Ella-e2e
    @Ella-e2e 2 месяца назад +56

    With your point about "young adult" sections just being adult a this point it's so frustrating bc as a teenager I don't want these super graphic scenes!!!

    • @sassygyuxoxo
      @sassygyuxoxo 2 месяца назад +4

      Same!!! I don’t read pre teen but i also don’t read adult so young adult should be perfect but clearly nit

  • @_nnn_nnn_
    @_nnn_nnn_ 6 месяцев назад +393

    I mostly read ebooks or borrow books from my local library, so I don't own a lot of physical copies, only those that I really like and would reread at some point in the future. So when my friend, who is deeply submerged into the whole 'girly' tiktok thing, u know, the 'haha i'm so dumb and silly' part, saw my room, she said she was disappointed in me, because she thought I was better than trying to pretend to be smarter than I actually am by reading books. I literally was like: tf ur talking bout? Turns out she unironically thought that a true bookworm's room looks like a booktok filming area. She's still sure I'm a fake reader because I read books from my phone and don't want to spend absurd amounts of money on book hauls

    • @_holy__ghost
      @_holy__ghost 6 месяцев назад +87

      i gotta ask, how are you still friends with this person?

    • @killme5630
      @killme5630 5 месяцев назад +23

      my friend, a booktok girlie, thinks ANIME is childish and cringe. imagine someone who reads for smut and unrealistic porn telling you a medium of storytelling is cringe.

    • @just.a.ghost.01
      @just.a.ghost.01 5 месяцев назад +44

      Literally! I read ebooks and library books and only buy physical books that I am 100% sure I will re-read so I can annotate it physically because I want to. Why buy books that you will never actually read? For aesthetic purposes? Whats the point of that?

    • @soho6435
      @soho6435 5 месяцев назад +21

      same i use the library because books are expensive and take a lot of space lol

    • @vaishnavisingh9244
      @vaishnavisingh9244 4 месяца назад +4

      My old kindle saves my life on a regular basis (I tend to pirate if it isn't available anywhere).

  • @gnomeconspiracy2122
    @gnomeconspiracy2122 6 месяцев назад +252

    I never engaged with BookTok purely because of the grip thay Colleen Hoover has on the community. If someone is recommending those books, we clearly have extremely different standards for books we want to read and promote.

    • @the_goddess_1859
      @the_goddess_1859 4 месяца назад +23

      Colleen Hoover and SJM are truly my bane at this point.

    • @blah914
      @blah914 4 месяца назад +5

      i stopped engaging bc of all the hatred for Coleen Hoover. ive read 1 book, and I probably wont read any more. it wasn't my cup of tea. But the overwhelming hatred isnt my cup of tea either. Her books are fine for what they are. like the Godzilla movie (have your pick) is fine for what it is. Most of the time you want good food but occasionally my soul craves McDonalds. just like occasionally my soul craves bad fanfiction, and shitty tv-shows. Critisism is fine, not liking something is fine, even hating something is fine, but the gleeful foam-at-the-mouth outpouring of hatred and personal attacks..... its unhinged.

    • @nivamv
      @nivamv 4 месяца назад +9

      @@blah914 I believe that Colleen Hoover is just one of many women who are just feeding into the male gaze, it's not the effect of her books being some guilty pleasure to just read, her books effectively glorify unhinged topics that should not be in romance at all such as the romanticization of abuse and even some weird mention of jokes such as "we laugh at our son's balls." (it's an actual quote, I am not exaggerating). I think that people hating her has to do with the anger of a woman who understands well enough firsthand about abuse and such things profiting off such things and not being held accountable because of booktok girls who believe this to be peak-level romance and spicy books.

    • @blah914
      @blah914 4 месяца назад

      @@nivamv yeah see, this is what i mean. why should she be "held accountable" for writing fiction? have u noticed that the only writers being "held accountable" for writing fiction are women? nobody does this dumbass shit to GRRMartin or Stephen King.

    • @paddyq3235
      @paddyq3235 2 месяца назад +6

      ​@blah914 ima be pretentious and say, I don't love the comparison of Colleen Hoover to Godzilla. It's an insult to Godzilla. Sure in the West the majority of Godzilla content is dumbed down monster movies Godzilla but, in Japan it is very important. It's a story and creature born from Hiroshima and the horror of war. Godzilla can be and is very impactful.

  • @tabithadobson5824
    @tabithadobson5824 27 дней назад +6

    as a passionate writer I always feel terrible about the quality of my writing and feel like giving up because I don't think I'll ever be able to achieve my personal goals or people won't like what I put out there......... then I see what's being praised on booktok and I suddenly feel a whole lot better

  • @Lhlhlhlhlb
    @Lhlhlhlhlb 6 месяцев назад +2440

    A big issue i have with booktok and 'spice' is that lots of the smut they read involves 'barely legal' people of 16-18 years old. Thats messed up icl

    • @katfujioka212
      @katfujioka212 6 месяцев назад +511

      Also abusive relationships, that somehow don't get recognised as abusive. It's downright concerning...

    • @Lhlhlhlhlb
      @Lhlhlhlhlb 6 месяцев назад +54

      @@katfujioka212 it really is very disturbing

    • @briana845
      @briana845 6 месяцев назад +327

      Another big issue is how grown adults criticize a ya book for not having spice. We all know what smut and spice is, why would you want children to read your fix of porn? If you caught them watching it they would be in trouble, the same should go for books too. I get YA is easy to consume, but YA isn’t for 20+ yr old grown adults. Go to new adult, somewhere where the market isn’t primarily for children and minors.

    • @audiobooksforfree7857
      @audiobooksforfree7857 6 месяцев назад

      @@briana845 I’m 14 and I don’t wanna read kiddie porn. I just wanna read my dumb Lunar Chronicles in peace.

    • @ProudPlatypus
      @ProudPlatypus 6 месяцев назад +64

      @@briana845Even casting aside the 20+ year olds, YA is trying to market to a very wide demographic, what is appropriate for, and how best to deal with a topic is very different between a 13 and a 17 year old, and then you get to the teen adults.

  • @2and1things
    @2and1things 6 месяцев назад +283

    I've always thought that the recent booktok trend in "spice-only" literature is the result of people having their Wattpad phase too late. Instead of getting it out of their system early on and having their taste develop from it, it is leaking onto the shelves and going from free to very very expensive.
    Obviously many fic authors write very well and have no trouble approaching controversial topics and heavy themes in their work, but as a whole it is a completely different ballpark. I'd be curious to see how booktok people would react to finding their niche on AO3 and if it would impact the kinds of books they buy irl

    • @killme5630
      @killme5630 6 месяцев назад +1

      Srsly. As someone who had a nfsw phase at 11, i feel sooo embarrassed to look at my frnds, who are 20, buy books with 3rd grade smut writing. Like? Buying porn? Wasting money off of it while you can find better literature and writing written by a college student

    • @the_goddess_1859
      @the_goddess_1859 4 месяца назад +33

      This is one of the weirder takes that I've seen that I honestly agree with, because it's a VERY similar cast of behaviors and mindsets you would have seen in millennial and maybe some Z middle schoolers and high schoolers. Honestly, its a canon event that led to a lot of growth, especially for people who kept writing.
      Too many girls and women have missed this key like....event, and it shows. They didn't get an opportunity to get the crap out of their system.

    • @the_goddess_1859
      @the_goddess_1859 4 месяца назад +34

      I also think it's a form of maladaptive coping, at some point. Escapism for escapism's sake. Not wanting to deal with real ideas or topics or plots, wanting to give over utterly to fantastical nonsense where bland characters get everything they could want and be fulfilled in everything they need....even if the methods are worrying or counterintuitive.
      People don't seem to want to read to....read anymore. Escapism in reading is great, but it shouldn't be a maladaptive crutch that starts leading to degradation in behavior and judgement.

    • @blah914
      @blah914 4 месяца назад +8

      ​@@the_goddess_1859yes, but sometimes ppl are just exhausted and want some mcdonalds or order a pizza instead of cooking.its like rewatching a tvshow. books are the same. there is a reason ppl like book series like Jack Reacher and Bosch - reocurring characters in the same universe. on another note, I have noticed that the genres recieving the harshest critisism is romance, the readers and writers getting lambasted the most are female. the Jack Reacher books arent any type of masterpieces.... yet ppl get to read those in peace. GoT has more spice than ACOTAR, yet... nobody is having a go at GRRMartin for it, or mocking his readers for reading it. just a thought to keep in mind the deeper reasons why and what we critisise as well.

    • @vaishnavisingh9244
      @vaishnavisingh9244 4 месяца назад +13

      @@blah914 you're right in some aspects, but the solution here isn't to stop criticizing romance authors for the mindless plot, it is to start criticizing the other genre authors more. Also the reason GoT isn't getting as much critic is because the overarching plot is simply more coherent. There isn't a single smut scene in the first book, there is just a good well written story. Having read ACOTAR, I can't say the same. But again, it's besides the point.

  • @merivial8661
    @merivial8661 3 месяца назад +96

    Only 15 minutes in and I already notice this is one of the best videos on this. I've been rejected on pitching my historical fantasy novel set in 1920s Chile by publishers who market themselves as looking for new, fresh and original concepts (bc yeah, I haven't read a historical fantasy set in Chile), but they say something along the lines of "yeah... but is it romantasy? we want something like booktok". idc if that's to ensure sales, but if you market yourself as an avant garde publishing house and just want to dig out the booktok community trends... idk, it pisses me off so much.

    • @Nnwoi
      @Nnwoi 2 месяца назад +8

      oh my goodness....just thinking about it makes me so pissed off as well. This generation is doomed.

    • @lonesomestcowboy
      @lonesomestcowboy 2 месяца назад +7

      That’s a sick concept, I’d love to read it!

    • @MykkiOnTheCusp
      @MykkiOnTheCusp Месяц назад +2

      Your book sounds genuinely awesome and I really hope it gets picked up and given the love it deserves!

    • @endlessgendervoid
      @endlessgendervoid Месяц назад +1

      HUH??? wtf I wanna read your book

    • @Helloknight
      @Helloknight Месяц назад

      if you ever get it published, name drop the book i love latine literature

  • @spacegirlfriend42069
    @spacegirlfriend42069 6 месяцев назад +3386

    Honestly i dont think smut being popular is a bad thing in and of itself. What is bad is the fact that the bulk of smut that skyrockets in popularity romanticizes abuse and falsely frames abuse as kink. Many readers of the most popular mainstream smut tend to be less familiar with actual kink communities. I honestly see this as bordering on a safety issue. Uninformed readers can read these books rampant with depictions of abuse and SA and believe thats just kink, and subsequently find themselves with an abuser who masks their abuse as such. Armie hammer masked his abuse as such and the women he harmed didnt realize at the time he was deceiving them. There is smut that doesnt blur that line of abuse written by people with experience in kink communities, but unfortunately it gets far less attention

    • @lastseenontuesday6040
      @lastseenontuesday6040 6 месяцев назад +214

      oh i agree with this🫱🏻‍🫲🏿 i read 'real' literature and erotica and i will say i try to go for erotica that tries to show healthy sexual relationships. i cannot for the life of me romanticise criminal gangs amd trafficking lmao☠️

    • @spacegirlfriend42069
      @spacegirlfriend42069 6 месяцев назад +145

      @lastseenontuesday6040 or stalking, soooo many of the popular smut has stalking framed as sexy 🙃🙃🙃

    • @gjhslibraryrocks
      @gjhslibraryrocks 6 месяцев назад +132

      I think too I’m noticing a huge problem of straight up erotica being marketed as romance.

    • @mfuentes4961
      @mfuentes4961 6 месяцев назад +3

      THIS!👆🏽

    • @nevisysbryd7450
      @nevisysbryd7450 6 месяцев назад +17

      ​@@gjhslibraryrocksTo some extent, there is no difference. Male arousal is primarily visual and thereby largely image or video of the act. Women's arousal is primarily connection and story/narrative. Romance stories appeal to the female gaze in the same way t&a and carnal acts appeal to the male gaze. Romance literature is softcore erotica to women.

  • @emitheorbit1118
    @emitheorbit1118 6 месяцев назад +2806

    On a sidenote: Gotta love how all these books are paraded as the ultimate thing by women for ALL women, when almost every single one of them is about and for american, white, skinny, young, and cis-heteronormative women, and they also perpetuate a lot of heteronormativity.

    • @angelbaby2145
      @angelbaby2145 6 месяцев назад +436

      And a lot of them have toxic relationships in some form, which isn't good for some women, especially those triggered by abuse or younger women and some girls who don't have much critical insight and will go 'I want that relationship'

    • @chrono4998
      @chrono4998 6 месяцев назад +59

      ah so that's why they're not for me

    • @padlily2485
      @padlily2485 6 месяцев назад +215

      you forgot to list higher-middle class and all the other isms

    • @florencialopez5119
      @florencialopez5119 6 месяцев назад +15

      They're actually pretty niche

    • @mittag983
      @mittag983 6 месяцев назад +81

      Ah, now I know why they aren't for me as I'm a lesbian, non-american, non-white woman.

  • @theblythedoll
    @theblythedoll 21 день назад +4

    i feel like some people attach certain books to their personality and so they feel offended when someone criticises the book (a well known example can be ‘my year of rest and relaxation’ which is typically associated with girl bloggers, ‘femcels’ (i’m not sure if this is the right term?) and coquette girlies)

  • @itseggnog2077
    @itseggnog2077 6 месяцев назад +362

    "Let people enjoy things" should only be used as a defense in cases where someone is aware of valid criticisms of a media but is shamed for enjoying it. Enjoying something and criticizing something aren't opposite ends of a spectrum, they can be used in tandem. It's frustrating because there are valid points to both sides of the "Let people enjoy things" debate. Sometimes people take criticism against the things they enjoy as a personal criticism, and sometimes people can't keep their critiques of media from becoming a personal attack.

    • @melodysafo5437
      @melodysafo5437 5 месяцев назад +12

      Someone finally said it!

    • @blah914
      @blah914 4 месяца назад +9

      exactly this! esp the ppl who cant keep their critisism from becoming personal attacks!

    • @makeart-notwar-6732
      @makeart-notwar-6732 3 месяца назад +14

      you can call whatever i enjoy dumb, i don't care. but don't call me dumb for enjoying it. that would be a personal attack, not a critique

    • @Cherylmayblii
      @Cherylmayblii 2 месяца назад +3

      ⁠​⁠@@makeart-notwar-6732exactly. A shame that most people online nowadays can’t differentiate between personal jabs and general criticism.

    • @yeehaw_2987
      @yeehaw_2987 28 дней назад +1

      Real I think it’s not obligatory to analyze 100% of the time but if someone else chooses to it should not shatter your worldview

  • @cRub3r
    @cRub3r 6 месяцев назад +196

    As someone who generally feels exhausted by badfaith criticism and overwhelming negative critical response to -everything- in nerd culture, this video really gives me pause for thought about my role and intentions in being one of these "let people enjoy things" actors. It's almost certainly influenced by want/need for healthy and positive third spaces, but I also wonder if I'm becoming an agent for consumerism.
    Thanks for the wonderful video, its thoughts will stay with me a long time.

    • @LordVader1094
      @LordVader1094 4 месяца назад +28

      I'd have to say you may be. Consumerism latches onto the idea of "leave me alone, don't criticize, just let me CONSUME" rather than thinking critically about the art/product one is ingesting.

    • @CarrotConsumer
      @CarrotConsumer 4 месяца назад

      We're all agents of consumerism.

    • @lemonywater2979
      @lemonywater2979 4 месяца назад +14

      ​@@LordVader1094 I mean there's not really anything wrong with consuming something uncritically and enjoy it without analyzing it. I think the issue is more of this pathological need for external validation and taking criticism as a direct, personal attack.

    • @lemonywater2979
      @lemonywater2979 4 месяца назад +3

      Also of course consuming isn't inherently bad but doing it excessively does a good amount of damage in the long run. Kind of like fast food or treats.

    • @blah914
      @blah914 4 месяца назад +9

      im with you here, but i also feel that while critisism is good, bad-faith critisism as you call it is the most common one, and I'll add one to something that vexes me: its when the criticism critizises a book for not being something it was never meant to be. its like being mad the apple you bought isnt a chocolate. Books, like movies, can be enjoyable for what they are and what they were intended as. Ppl are far more forgiving of movies than they are books. Nobody is hating Godzilla because it doesn't have accurate representarion of the scientific community 🙄😂 its an action movie. like it or not, but let it be what it is: an action movie and dont be mad its not David Attenborough narrating the lives of giant gorillas. Books are the same.

  • @autumngoulding4414
    @autumngoulding4414 Месяц назад +9

    "does it have spice" ma'am this is the stardew valley guidebook

  • @este_fi
    @este_fi 6 месяцев назад +853

    "I think we ought to read only the kind of books that wound or stab us. If the book we're reading doesn't wake us up with a blow to the head, what are we reading for? So that it will make us happy, as you write? Good Lord, we would be happy precisely if we had no books, and the kind of books that make us happy are the kind we could write ourselves if we had to. But we need books that affect us like a disaster, that grieve us deeply, like the death of someone we loved more than ourselves, like being banished into forests far from everyone, like a suicide. A book must be the axe for the frozen sea within us. That is my belief.” - Franz Kafka

    • @turtleanton6539
      @turtleanton6539 6 месяцев назад +8

      Deep

    • @cito2820
      @cito2820 6 месяцев назад +62

      kafka the 🐐

    • @nevisysbryd7450
      @nevisysbryd7450 6 месяцев назад +23

      Few people would read at all, then.

    • @florencialopez5119
      @florencialopez5119 6 месяцев назад +79

      I fucking love Kafka (has only read the metamorphosis)

    • @CraftingStudios1337
      @CraftingStudios1337 6 месяцев назад

      ​@@florencialopez5119Try In Der Strafkolonie (In the Penal Colony). It's very short and there's a few audiobook versions on RUclips too!

  • @Hiolori
    @Hiolori 6 месяцев назад +609

    Can we talk about how bad A Little Life is? Reading it as a gay man was honestly upsetting at first and then i just kinda felt weird seeing all of the performative sadness people displayed when talking about the book. It’s a book that’s all about spectacle, using traumatic experiences like spicy scenes, like pron…

    • @meganmadson8588
      @meganmadson8588 6 месяцев назад +110

      i’ve never read it but i was considering for a while, and i found myself reconsidering when i saw a lot of people saying that it was basically just torture porn. like i’m sure there’s other merits to it, but a book eliciting emotion does not automatically mean it’s amazing

    • @MossTunic
      @MossTunic 6 месяцев назад +88

      ​@@meganmadson8588someone i know read it & it is not worth reading at all & i don't say that lightly. it's just suffering pointlessly, there's no meaning to it or anything profound to take away. it is really truly disturbing with no payoff. i feel worse from just having heard the plot, i can't imagine digesting it undiluted. i really can't understand why it exists or how it's become so popular.
      i'm queer & yes i desire a broad range of experiences & stories being written, they dont have to be cutesy & benign. but this book isn't worthy of people's time.

    • @ashleybaum6180
      @ashleybaum6180 6 месяцев назад +43

      I was literally going to comment about this! My coworker wanted me to read A Little Life to see what I thought, based on how popular it's been in media. Personally, I thought that it justified the ending, that if you experience these things in any capacity, it's fine to end everything. And that shouldn't be a message? Your life is your life to do with what you please. But if a reader has faced any of those horrific traumas in their life, it doesn't give them any hope. And giving someone tools to work through and overcome trauma doesn't belittle the events that have happened. The main character was continually isolated throughout the book and with all of the trauma (seemingly for the sake of trauma as you mentioned) it felt like if a reader connected with Jude in any sense, it will isolate them, too.

    • @skiuhjan
      @skiuhjan 6 месяцев назад +30

      i haven’t read it but there’s a great article on vulture (“the hanya yanagihara principle” by andrea long chu) that shares the same sentiment as your comment

    • @beaniebean4885
      @beaniebean4885 6 месяцев назад +1

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 preach

  • @NovemberIGSnow
    @NovemberIGSnow 4 месяца назад +119

    I watched the whole thing and agree with the core thesis. It is healthy to consume multiple kinds of media, to challenge yourself, and not just seek out the easy patterns you're used to.
    However, one thing I think was underaddressed is how there's a growing culture of puritanism on several platforms. It was talked about partly during the section about book bans, but I think there's more to it than just systemic oppression. Part of what creates the response "let people enjoy things" is that for years we've seen more people harass others for enjoying certain things. So to avoid this kind of harassment, people started disavowing media so they don't seem like they endorse everything in it. But this is exhausting to do, and if you do it wrong, then you invite harassment anyways. And when people get fed up with having to constantly address every single criticism of what they enjoy, "let people enjoy things" becomes a defence against this kind of harassment. People are sick of having to be seen as "not problematic", so instead they just embrace "problematic media", because it's a lot harder to be hurt for something you openly admit to to.
    I also think if we want to talk about people "regressing into ignorance" and wanting to avoid growing up, then we need to talk about what is pressuring people into that kind of thinking. Rent is absurd right now. Healthcare doesn't exist. Food prices have skyrocketed. Higher education is impossible to afford. Wages are stagnant. And there's no such thing as a third place anymore. Work, home, and the internet, are all that seem to exist. So the internet becomes people's third place.
    We look at the past and see that it wasn't nearly this difficult for our parents. We're playing on hard mode. Not to say that past generations didn't have their own troubles, but people born in the 90s and later have now gone through multiple recessions right out of college, a criminally mishandled global pandemic (which has robbed huge swaths of children of their literacy), and we live with levels of inequality beyond that of even the gilded age. Why are people adverse to growing up and being an adult? Because the world won't let them. There's no social safety nets, so we can't take risks. We have no money so we can't own property. And everything is manufactured to prevent us from maintaining and fixing it ourselves. Again, people aren't becoming adults because the world won't let them.

    • @Aamnaaaaa
      @Aamnaaaaa Месяц назад

      ohh excellent point

    • @laffycade3151
      @laffycade3151 23 дня назад +1

      I'm not even exaggerating but this comment holds more nuance than the video. Well said

    • @alexanderwaring2176
      @alexanderwaring2176 10 дней назад

      Just because something is a coping mechanism for a bad situation doesn't make it healthy. The problems you describe would be a good example of the vicious cycle of how anti intellectualism and the systems that benefit from it create an environment that anti intellectualism can thrive in

  • @limitlesslizzie
    @limitlesslizzie 5 месяцев назад +223

    I'm currently a literature student and oh my god, I agree with nearly everything you've said. So many "booktok" books are shallow and plotless, or they're popular because those that read them are "intellectuals." I'm also a hater to the point that I deleted tiktok over a year ago to avoid the brainrot content. I don't even own that many books-- outside of class readings, I maybe buy 3 books a year. Being critical is what helps our brains grow and learn!

    • @blah914
      @blah914 4 месяца назад +11

      being critical is not being a hater, but a lot of ppl pass off being a hater as just being ✨️critical✨️. i got off booktube ages ago because it was just getting excessive. engaging critically with literature is not the same as just.... spewing bile and launching personal attacks on authors. and unfortunately, thats what a lot of creators try to pass off as "just criticism".

    • @blah914
      @blah914 4 месяца назад +4

      and on your "not reading a lot" i have a masters in history and literature, and another in script development & writing. the years it took before i have able to read for just pleasure and not have a running tab in my head w comments, is just plainly funny. that you manage to read 3 books in addition to your curriculum is impressive 😂❤️

    • @jamescarr1265
      @jamescarr1265 2 месяца назад

      Preachhh

  • @aaxjgaaovhahkaaoajxkqacuo8569
    @aaxjgaaovhahkaaoajxkqacuo8569 6 месяцев назад +277

    THE FACT THAT THERE IS LITERAL ABUSE ROMANTICIZED IN LOTS OF BOOKTOK BOOKS IS CRAZY

    • @ilpensatore1462
      @ilpensatore1462 6 месяцев назад +47

      And probably the same people who read this type of book would whole heartedly say stuff like "You are reading Lolita? Isn't that the pedophile book, eww"

    • @cezrcasttle
      @cezrcasttle 5 месяцев назад +15

      @@ilpensatore1462 pretty par for the course at this point that people who don't want you to read about child abuse in some critical format are likely in support of it. I don't give a fuck anymore, if you are going to tell me to not read a piece that is against sexual predation because you wish to project, you are complicit and should be virtually ignored in all opinion

    • @jamabo0
      @jamabo0 4 месяца назад

      @@ilpensatore1462is it not the pedophile book?? 💀

    • @Dycehart
      @Dycehart 4 месяца назад +8

      ContraPoints has a lengthy essay on Twilight and "romantisized abuse" in women's literature that you might enjoy if you enjoyed this video.

  • @frothyham
    @frothyham 26 дней назад +7

    I think something that has been lost in the new age of anti-intellectualism/false-intellectualism and identity politics is being able to admit to ourselves and also accept from others that we at some point were wrong about something and/or are allowed to just change our mind about things. Our opinions and subjective views on things are of course an extension of our values, but they aren't 100% what make us up. This isn't going to happen though, as long as huge swaths of folks still tie their sense of self-worth to their "tastes" (aka, the mass media they are pouring all their money into currently). It's a huge web of interconnections that are so difficult to get into online.

  • @jegaevi7371
    @jegaevi7371 6 месяцев назад +129

    I usually separate my reading into "for growth" and "for fun". I am very selective about the growth category. However, the fun category can include literally whatever. I usually get disappointed by the quality of these books, but every now and then I find something enjoyable and well done.

    • @kia-er2po
      @kia-er2po 6 месяцев назад +21

      I do that too! The fun books are usually more in contrast but the growth books really leave an impression on me. Even if they take me several months to finish

  • @hoot10
    @hoot10 6 месяцев назад +474

    "I don't want to say the F word... but..."
    me: !!!!
    "... this is a critical element of fascism."
    me: phew

  • @wincitie
    @wincitie 4 месяца назад +16

    I just have to say the way this video is edited is *chef's kiss*. The newspaper writing acting as subtitles with your talk was so cool!!

  • @Deej210
    @Deej210 6 месяцев назад +321

    I remember a few years ago during the pandemic when I said somewhere online that the quality of the books you read matters, and the flack I caught for daring to say that mindless consumption isn't a good thing, was truly disheartening.

    • @asudebirtane8243
      @asudebirtane8243 4 месяца назад +10

      Absolutely, people think that the act of reading itself is enough to develop oneself however if it was truly like that then we could just read receipts instead? I'm not saying everything we are reading should be quality but it's not gonna hurt if we can diversify the stuff we are reading

    • @DigitalApex
      @DigitalApex 3 месяца назад +1

      I like media that genuinely challenges my own worldview and makes me question how I'd personally deal with the issues in the book, film, game, etc. To say media like that is becoming extinct is a bit of an understatement. Mindlessly consuming media like that is the intellectual equivalent of eating junk food.

    • @lies9111
      @lies9111 Месяц назад

      as a person who loves reading terrible books/watching terrible movies, I understand where you're coming from, but I don't think the quality of the book matters/has to influence you in some way as long as you actively acknowledge that a book is bad while reading it (idk if my explanation made sense tho)

  • @seymagurbuz2066
    @seymagurbuz2066 6 месяцев назад +98

    As a newbie in booktok creator space, who is also an anti-consumerist when it comes to books...I FELT THIS VIDEO. Even though it's been only a month since I've started creating content, I already feel inferior to all the other famous creators who have those shiny bookshelves with dozens of books. It is a pressure to keep up with for sure.

    • @moony-_-.
      @moony-_-. 6 месяцев назад +9

      I grew up going to the library for books because my family could not afford to buy me every book I wanted to read and Im forever grateful for it! seeing the massive overconsumption of books has led me to turn to the Library even more than I did when I was younger I don't know why more people don't utilize their public libraries it's not only beneficial for their pockets but also their communities since most if not all public city libraries are non-profits, it so disappointing I feel like if half of booktok put more emphasis on visiting their local libraries for a book this overconsumption issue maybe wouldn't be as bad as it is now or maybe that's just my wishful thinking overall im just patiently waiting for the day public libraries get all the praise they deserve!

    • @blah914
      @blah914 4 месяца назад

      buying books, and reading books are two separate hobbies 👀 dont be seduced into buying stuff u dont really want to appease an aestethic. Using libraries is both good for you and good for society. if no one uses a library, they lose funding. Authors get paid for their books being borrowed at the library. i have to admit, sometimes I borrow books i have read before bc I know the author and want to support them, or if theyre small time and new. new authors in my country grt up to 30% of their income from being borrowed at libraries! naturally i deliver it back immediatey if there is a waiting list. its literally just a tap on my ipad to borrow an ebook, it cost me nothing, but now ive supported both local community and local authors also, to be perfectly frank, i cant afford to buy everything i read. books have gotten really expensive in the last few years. dont feel bad about being real about that.

  • @sordidsun5948
    @sordidsun5948 3 месяца назад +20

    I think a big issue is also the idea that you can’t enjoy something that you also can actively criticize. There is so much media I love that I have also actively criticized and critically think about because there is nothing wrong with going “yeah this book was pretty shallow and there were a lot of plot holes however I loved this one character a lot so I really enjoyed it,” and I think it’s also just generally healthy to be able to do that because it makes you think about what you actually like in the media. I feel like a lot of people feel that if they enjoy something they have to defend every aspect of it, but the problem isn’t enjoying shallow or shitty media the problem is enjoying it and then convincing yourself that it’s flawless and super profound writing

  • @helenross3037
    @helenross3037 6 месяцев назад +156

    i think that one thing about booktok which is completely changing the way people interact with books is the interaction with authors *before* a book has been published, and to such a greater degree than ever previously.
    I'm not Roland Barthes' biggest stan but it's so odd for a writer to be able to build such a large audience without having published a single word. If people love the plot as an abstract idea, or enjoy interacting with the characters before their story arc has been completed, it totally changes the writing process because the authors begin to modify their writing based on audience rather than the novel preceding its fanbase.
    Additionally, never before has a reading community already liked an author *before* reading their work. When I listen to a Taylor Swift album, my brain is predisposed to like it because I know I like Taylor Swift. If an unknown artist produced that same exact album, I would approach it a lot more curiously and want to decide whether I liked it or not. In the same way, I approach a Chimamanda novel knowing I'm probably going to like it (although ofc that can mean readers are let down) but would pick up a debut book without many preconceived notions. By growing such large platforms of followers *before* publication, I don't think social media debut authors are treated as critically/curiously as any group of debut authors before now.
    Not necessarily a bad thing, and it's more financially viable to write for a year if you also have a social media income stream, but realistically it took a long time for people to 'realise' that lightlark wasn't very good, because the first few thousand people talking about it approached the book assuming they were going to love it.
    (apologies if you go on to say this in your video, i'm only a couple minutes in but my adhd brain can't wait to finish the video in order to chip in!)

    • @elephantshell3617
      @elephantshell3617 6 месяцев назад +51

      I feel a lot of the things you mentioned in this comment. I feel like a lot of booktok authors also use borderline manipulation tactics to dissuade people from leaving truly critical reviews. “I’m just a single mom living my dream! A 3 star on my book will tank my recommendations! Why would you say such mean things about something I worked so hard on? How can I pay my bills this month if you don’t buy my latest edition?” I’ve had to unfollow most of the indie authors I follow on booktok because they felt less like writers and more like influencers and had a sort of vapid blandness you get when you’re overly manicured to seem relatable.

    • @fawn2911
      @fawn2911 5 месяцев назад

      chimamanda is a terf

    • @LordVader1094
      @LordVader1094 4 месяца назад +8

      @@elephantshell3617 "they felt less like writers and more like influencers"
      That's likely exactly what they are. Influencers who build a following and plug their merch (a subpar book) purely to increase their revenue and portfolio.

    • @touchgrass7129
      @touchgrass7129 4 месяца назад

      roland? the guy from funny library game?(i have terminal brainrot)

    • @helenross3037
      @helenross3037 4 месяца назад

      @@touchgrass7129 ooh wait what game do you mean 👀 Roland barthes in a game?

  • @Lysa-wx8qp
    @Lysa-wx8qp 6 месяцев назад +441

    while i agree with most of your points, i do love popcorn books because, as an engineering student, that’s all i have the brain capacity for these days (i don’t mean the ones full of smut or specifically booktok books, just ones i can turn my brain off and just read easily)

    • @YourDadsWaifu
      @YourDadsWaifu 6 месяцев назад +203

      Sometimes you gotta relax from heavier reading with some tasty brain rot book candy. It’s like eating, keep a good balanced diet of something that’ll help you grow but also you deserve a little RomCom, as a treat.

    • @camiller6526
      @camiller6526 6 месяцев назад +45

      Yes I agree, a good escapism book is so Nice when you just wanna relax

    • @Lemoncakelover678
      @Lemoncakelover678 6 месяцев назад +204

      Popcorn entertainment, especially in literature, should co-exist with the more analytical/"deeper" ones. There just needs to be a balance.

    • @Lysa-wx8qp
      @Lysa-wx8qp 6 месяцев назад +12

      @@Lemoncakelover678 totally agree!

    • @once.upon.a.time.
      @once.upon.a.time. 6 месяцев назад +56

      Whenever I read a book that makes me cry or feel grieved for having finished it, I always read some children's literature next. Like a chaser lol

  • @angrycharizard
    @angrycharizard 4 месяца назад +19

    booktok, brainrot, watergate, punk rock

    • @astra6137
      @astra6137 2 месяца назад +3

      we didn't start the fire

  • @randomchannel323
    @randomchannel323 4 месяца назад +563

    I don't like how reading is held up as this super intellectual activity when reading books is just entertainment like movies, video games, music and plays. It can be just as mindless and basic and all of the art forms can have stuff with meaning and other stuff that is just surface level

    • @vaelia1203
      @vaelia1203 4 месяца назад +86

      Yes it can be, what is being said it that it shouldn't be everything . Having a mindless read is not the problem, never taking on any thought provoking read is (and the one done only to perform as an intellectual in front of an audience just to prove that they can read "harder" books doesn't really count unless they really take away something from it).

    • @vaishnavisingh9244
      @vaishnavisingh9244 4 месяца назад +101

      But do you think entertainment isn't intellectual? Movies, games, music and plays are all media made with particular political intent. They have a message, a moral and just like books if someone consumes them more analytically.

    • @lovesoftpillows
      @lovesoftpillows 3 месяца назад +30

      @@vaishnavisingh9244​​⁠ the original commenter clarified that all art forms (the media they mentioned) can have "stuff with meaning", so I don't think they were trying to imply that all entertainment outside of books are non-intellectual

    • @aaronjohnson1763
      @aaronjohnson1763 3 месяца назад +44

      ​@@vaelia1203you actually helped clarify what about this video frustrated me. Because I disagree with the premise "it shouldn't be everything" because it implies that the opposite is true (that everything is fluff). And clearly it isn't. Clearly there are people who care about critique and there were a couple points where it did feel as though the argument was "you should never 'simply enjoy something'". If that is something this creator values, and she can't find it anywhere, that's an issue. But she can. There's no shortage of analysis videos on so many pieces of media, books are no different. The whole video came across as elitism masking as intellectualism. It was never explicitly stated in the words "I think I'm better because I analyze media" but it sure came off that way.

    • @sollerona
      @sollerona 3 месяца назад +3

      ​@@aaronjohnson1763 eh?

  • @valentinah3601
    @valentinah3601 6 месяцев назад +155

    As an avid fanfic reader I am in no position to criticize anyone’s reading taste but I do feel the need to point out that the way these books are marketed is the same as tag systems used within fandoms which I find awfully opportunistic.
    It just feels like this piece of internet culture was taken from tumblr and ao3, both platforms well known to be unprofitable and run by writers incentivized solely by their own passion for books and its characters, and it has been adopted as a marketing tool for publishing companies to push their sells which is stupidly ironic

    • @Anindeterminateamountofbees
      @Anindeterminateamountofbees 4 месяца назад +26

      No exactly!!! The easily consumable, predictable romance stories with the broad tropes and the same set of predetermined phrases used in marketing is exactly like fanfiction!!! I’m an avid fic reader as well but it’s such a weird way to market and write a real book. Fanfiction functions that way because you already know the characters, settings and themes and that doesn’t work for a real book unless it’s so generic that you do feel like you already know the characters (like you’ve already read one or more books with characters that are very similar)

  • @thetaaaa
    @thetaaaa 3 месяца назад +8

    There's nothing wrong with turning your brain off, just as long as you know when and how to turn it back on again. I'm a classical music major, my favourite author is Camus, and I've been working my way through a list of 100+ classical novels since I was 14. I also read a *lot* of E-rated Disco Elysium fanfiction on ao3.

  • @its_Aurelia_
    @its_Aurelia_ 6 месяцев назад +100

    I’ve read too many books I thought were YA and ended up having tons of smut… shocked me every time 😭

    • @sadsadtearsofaclown859
      @sadsadtearsofaclown859 6 месяцев назад +5

      Ppl always conflate the two 😭

    • @randomstuffs8045
      @randomstuffs8045 4 месяца назад +3

      I stand by my statement that shatter me (atleast the last couple books) were explicit not young adult

    • @Dycehart
      @Dycehart 4 месяца назад +1

      This is an issue with publishers. Authors don't decide which category their books are placed in.

    • @blah914
      @blah914 4 месяца назад +1

      well, there is an "adult" in that YA category 🤷‍♀️ its young adult, teen.

    • @mikhail.mp4
      @mikhail.mp4 3 месяца назад +2

      ​@@blah914and teenagers are supposed to read smut??? Tf??

  • @MrsSurrealista
    @MrsSurrealista 6 месяцев назад +540

    The funny thing is, romance as a woman-centered genre can be incredibly rich, profound and thought provoking (think Jane Eyre, Wuthering Heights, Anna Karenina, Pride and Prejudice). I will forever be a hater, as someone who grew up poor & ended up on one of the best universities by brains only.

    • @BlueCoolOla
      @BlueCoolOla 6 месяцев назад +54

      Is this not just "not like other girls" flavor of misogyny?

    • @drebugsita
      @drebugsita 6 месяцев назад +23

      I'm guessing by "hater" you mean someone engages in critical analysis of the text, right?

    • @obligatory-handle
      @obligatory-handle 6 месяцев назад +69

      Anna Karenina is not a romance novel 💀 Just because there is romance in it doesn't mean it's genre is romance

    • @bunnywavyxx9524
      @bunnywavyxx9524 6 месяцев назад +54

      Wuthering Heights is NOT a romance. That is a highly dysfunctional toxic relationship, and.. Pride and Prejudice is okay. The romance is quite minor, her sisters are one-dimensional especially Kitty. You just dropped a few classics then said "this is REAL romance." LOL you do not read historical romance at all do you? Carmilla and Doctor Thorne has more intimacy than the 2 ones you listed and in the former, shes a soulless vampire.

    • @MrsSurrealista
      @MrsSurrealista 6 месяцев назад +17

      @@obligatory-handle just because it’s not smut doesn’t mean it’s not romance. The novel is literally about the contrast between too couples.

  • @kijamu01
    @kijamu01 4 месяца назад +116

    I appreciate you cutting through the noise and going right for the throat: anti-intellectualism. its not just small things that make this uncomfortable, not single tropes. It is the attitude, it is the rhetoric and structure of the culture. It is tipping scales, not small details. Thank you for creating this

  • @xXAzureIrisXx
    @xXAzureIrisXx 6 месяцев назад +206

    It genuinely hurts me the amount of anti-intellectualism propaganda there is about the unimportance of English/Literature classes. The fact that someone can genuinely believe that someone labored over their writing for years, editing and rewriting until it's finally just right only for their words to be hallow, filler, and meaningless is intentionally ignorant. Or, that someone can dedicate a portion of their life to crafting and writing a story and completely remove all their personal feelings, opinions, experiences, and aspirations from it. Writing has always been regarded as a meticulous form of communication, and the best way to organize, represent and disseminate your ideas with minimal misrepresentation because of its specificity. You should always question and investigate the intent behind any form of calculated writing, imagery, or form of communication, which is part of the purpose of these English/Lit classes!!!

    • @Aa-dn1oq
      @Aa-dn1oq 6 месяцев назад +13

      It is 100% possible for someone to dedicate their life to something and still end up completely incompetent.
      For reference, Neil Breen

    • @bunnywavyxx9524
      @bunnywavyxx9524 6 месяцев назад +7

      @spicekai4486 This drab argument has gone on forever. People can read for pleasure and enjoyment as they want, books are not intended for knowledge all the time. And, you can't keep some kind of knowledge, improvement, or substance out of a book, even if it's learning that the book was garbage. Just reading a book, regardless of its quality, helps you articulate better. As long as novels exist, then some translation of knowledge will as well (with the obvious predicament of censorship). You forget non-fiction novels are their whole other umbrella. This was the same argument brought up when people began writing fantasy and romance. I don't presume you ONLY read non-fiction?

    • @LordVader1094
      @LordVader1094 4 месяца назад

      @@bunnywavyxx9524 Literally you just kinda made up an argument in your head to go against instead of something they actually said lmao

  • @julienne152
    @julienne152 6 месяцев назад +336

    I will be chewing on this for a while... I really appreciated the book banning section as I am working on a book resume project for a class right now. It is horrifying to see how many books that center around the experiences of black people and queer people are being challenged and deemed unsuitable for children. Sadly I have learned that book banning extends beyond schools and libraries, but also to prisons. For example, Octavia Butler's Kindred has been banned in many prisons. I agree with you that seeing this sort of thing only reaffirms the fact that we need to be encouraging and protecting reading for people at all ages and in all stations

    • @guidedexplosiveprojectileg9943
      @guidedexplosiveprojectileg9943 6 месяцев назад +2

      Do you think they will start banning religious literature?

    • @cloverazar5315
      @cloverazar5315 6 месяцев назад +15

      Well, since we’re talking about smut as a bad thing here - I’m a lesbian woman and I’ve read some of the “queer kid lit” that everyone is so upset is being removed…
      And it’s adult subject matter.
      So if you think the prevalence of smut in TikTok and romance in general is detrimental to reader wellbeing, one could say the same thing about books with age inappropriate material, even if it features “queer” characters. ( I also don’t care that term; it’s a slur ffs)

    • @actualgoblin
      @actualgoblin 6 месяцев назад +37

      ​@@cloverazar5315 I mean...
      ive seen books banned for featuring a character who is gender nonconforming or identifies as trans, or for having a totally sanitized depiction of a gay couple
      there's definitely a double standard there
      its a difficult subject because yes, there are LGBT books that kids shouldnt be reading
      but also, not everything LGBT related is smut

    • @fairsaa7975
      @fairsaa7975 6 месяцев назад +8

      ​@@cloverazar5315I mean, for you it's a slur, but it's quite literally in the title for a school of thought, so that's not so universal.
      And while you might have a point about YA novels with smut in being banned, it's no excuse for books like Beloved to be targeted.

    • @jupitersnoot4915
      @jupitersnoot4915 6 месяцев назад

      No? The people who are banning books are the same people who read religious stuff because they ARE religious. They're not gonna ban the bible because they like the bible. They will ban everything they don't like purely because they don't like it. ​@@guidedexplosiveprojectileg9943

  • @thetuerk
    @thetuerk 3 месяца назад +15

    I'm not particularly deep in the booktok sphere, but I want to mention how I awesome I think it is that the word Hater has been repurposed from "someone spiteful, overly negative" into being a person who critically regards the books they consume and to fight back against consumerism in the hobby. Awesome video Alisha!

  • @maria_____.
    @maria_____. 6 месяцев назад +35

    I feel so vindicated. I had to delete Tiktok because it genuinely felt like I was experiencing psychosis seeing the rampant anti-intellectualism (not just on booktok) and being told "it's not that deep". It IS that deep for me, isn't art meant to be analyzed and criticized??

  • @crystalfairy912
    @crystalfairy912 6 месяцев назад +157

    Thank you for this. I have a sister who is super invested in BookTok, especially the works of Sarah J Maas. I tried reading A Court of Thorns and Roses since she liked it so much. I couldn’t finish it after learning that 1) the romance changes in the sequel and 2) the new main love interest does some pretty horrible stuff to the main female character in the first book. She tells me he did it for her safety and that people can change, even encouraged me to read the chapter of him explaining himself. I did and returned it to her saying “cool motive, still SA.” She thought I was saying her beloved books just suck and wouldn’t hear anything else I had to say since I didn’t want to read any more of it. It’s tricky because I understand wanting to hear input from someone who read the entire work first. But why is it so controversial of me to question why a woman would choose someone who twisted her broken arm before agreeing to heal her, drugged her/forced her to drink, and made her give him lap dances while touching her. How is fated mates and “I wanted you to feel even anger over feeling nothing, but also show off to the guy you were seeing who I happen to hate” make any of that okay? And the sequel, A Court of Mist and Fury, happens to be a banned book for sexual content. So AITA for saying this series actually has a lot of toxic implications to someone who won’t listen because I didn’t finish the first book?

    • @yogeybogeybear3542
      @yogeybogeybear3542 6 месяцев назад

      Also feyra is a ho3 with no agency beyond the two inviting incidents of that first book, she is an object and the worst critics of female entertainment are proven correct by her popularity since she is a manosphere meme.
      ACOTR is what u would get if a cynical author binged Jordan Peterson content and went “how can I make maximum appeal now?”

    • @thynottea
      @thynottea 6 месяцев назад +33

      the relationship is incredibly unbalanced and toxic but many sjm readers don't clock it because the author constantly shoves down your throat that rhysand "cares" about feyre's autonomy - at least until she becomes pregnant and even though he knows her body cannot handle their baby and she is at severe risk of dying at child birth, he proceeds not to tell her and tells all his friends not to tell her. incredibly awful and poorly written male lead who supposedly cares about feminism lmao

    • @terranceorwhatever60
      @terranceorwhatever60 6 месяцев назад +12

      The way ur sister sees that as okay shows that the writer shouldnt write books that contain complex relationships and should just let someone else, that actually knows how to write taboo subjects thats are actually atleast seen as taboo by the narrator, write it

    • @kusawwwwww
      @kusawwwwww 5 месяцев назад +13

      “Fated romance” is a blight on the genre, I think. Fated tropes are an extremely easy, lazy way to excuse any and all levels of behavior on the parts of the involved characters because it doesn’t matter how awful or abusive or generally horrible they are for each other, it’s ~*~*fated*~*~ and therefore they’re soulmates and it’s twu wuv forever and ever no matter what.
      Like I understand why it’s a fantasy for that exact reason, but personally I find it to be piss poor writing. Totally grinds my gears. We wouldn’t accept a soldier who commits egregious war crimes because he’s ~*~*fated*~*~ to be emperor, or a businessman who exploits their employees because they’re ~*~*fated*~*~ to be a CEO, like…
      “God said it’s okay, so it’s infallible” is some childish logic. I don’t mind toxic romance as a theme in and of itself, but when the story is like “well they’re fated mates, so everything they do is totally okay actually and no permanent consequences will ever come of it” god it’s so fucking stupid it makes me want to take a flamethrower to something.

    • @biib6318
      @biib6318 5 месяцев назад +8

      As a younger sister, I thought I'd say if my sister did this to me I'd be kinda upset, not because of the criticisms themselves but because I'd feel like I was getting shut down when sharing my interests, maybe its just me because I dont talk about my interests often with my sister so when I do I'm really looking for her reaction. The criticisms are good and valid but I would suggest offering her alternatives that you enjoy, so that she doesnt just feel judged. If possible, maybe have them also be romance? Something that she can enjoy and see a better example of the genre. English isnt my first language sorry if I misunderstood your comment.

  • @bookednnbusy
    @bookednnbusy 25 дней назад +4

    I go on a tangent once a month about categorizing adult books with YA- we have most definitely lost the plot 🙄

  • @jpickens189
    @jpickens189 5 месяцев назад +293

    The anime community needs a video like this.

    • @lampenfieber
      @lampenfieber 5 месяцев назад +9

      You're so right.

    • @dorotheecc8986
      @dorotheecc8986 4 месяца назад +32

      You can add the kpop stans to the list 😂

    • @jpickens189
      @jpickens189 4 месяца назад +64

      @@dorotheecc8986 I don't think anyone is that brave.

    • @rosetea7451
      @rosetea7451 4 месяца назад +16

      if anyone made a video like this about the current state of anime they'd just be brushed off as a "tourist" nowadays, no matter how long they've watched it//have been present in that space.

    • @moosesues8887
      @moosesues8887 4 месяца назад

      🤫 the one piece agenda must continue lobotomy kaisen has to go on

  • @annaluizab.365
    @annaluizab.365 6 месяцев назад +147

    This video was released with such a great timing because yesterday a secretary of education of a state in the country i live (brazil) has ordered the removal of a highly critically acclaimed book about racism chosen by a pannel of educators to be taught in high schools called O Avesso da Pele [or The Dark Side of Skin, as it was translated to the US] by Jeferson Tenório.
    The Secretary of Education of Paraná simply ordered all school in the state to turn in all copies available by THIS friday, even though THEY HAVE NO AUTHORITY TO DO THAT, AT ALL.
    The reason i’m telling you all of this is because book bans are unheard of here because making books publicly available is also a fairly new practice (we’re not exactly known for well-kept public libraries) and it makes me worried to see this project (which hasn’t even reached the region i live yet) getting sabotaged in its baby steps and privatizing the enormous amount of reflection, growth, understanding, companionship and empathy from so many other teenagers like myself. I hate it and i want it to stop.
    All of this to recommend you to read The Dark Side of Skin (never read the translation myself but its translator has such a good precedent I can’t help but trust her) because i’d love to hear your thoughts on it!
    P.s: i’m almost scared to ask but would you happen to have any recommendations of a short literary fiction book for me, please 🥺

    • @demitwice
      @demitwice 6 месяцев назад +4

      eu não sabia que isso tava acontecendo no paraná, assustador que essa coisa de banir os livros tá tão presente no brasil também. :(

    • @annaluizab.365
      @annaluizab.365 6 месяцев назад +2

      @@demitwicee a secretária da educação de Goiás acabou de fazer a mesma coisa ☹️

    • @kimwicks5540
      @kimwicks5540 6 месяцев назад +4

      Tudo que acontece nos eua o Brasil segue no rastro... Por isso sempre fico muito preocupada quando vejo esse tipos de política crescendo por lá. Triste demais :(

    • @zeltzamer4010
      @zeltzamer4010 6 месяцев назад +1

      I’m not her but The Loved One by Evelyn Waugh.

  • @BlueberryBoogie
    @BlueberryBoogie Месяц назад +4

    This is one of the best videos I’ve watched on RUclips. The editing was so well done!
    I’ve been loving books that’s don’t require much “brainpower” because real life is kicking my butt, but I do appreciate the message behind this video. It has made me reflective of the books I’ve been gravitating toward and why, and reminds me that books aren’t meant to be “easy” they sometimes are supposed to be challenging and thought provoking, that is where we grow and our minds expand.
    “You can vote, you are not healing your inner child you are regressing into ignorance” well stated 🙏🏽

  • @DOOR2Dusk..
    @DOOR2Dusk.. 6 месяцев назад +366

    I personally think that something as the sentence "reading should be..." should not be said with a tone of objective truth. I can enjoy and analyse Notes from the underground and then on a Friday night be bored and pick up an Ali Hazelwood and have the time of my life. The act of reading is such a subjective thing (like every form of art) that just saying that because it was "meant to be like this" or "it's like this because..." is kinda of reductive and limited. Although i also look at the side of over-consumerism and toxic positivity with a skeptical eye, and believe that we should stay critical of all things, not just reading, i also believe that sometimes we forget that it's just words on a page. What the reader makes of it, is their choice, be it pure entertainement or new provoking thoughts, or shit, both. I have read a lot of trashy romance books that i knew were probably "objectively worse" than Crime and punishment, and that i rated 1 stars at the end of my reading, does that mean i wasn't having fun reading them? Hell no, then why would I have read them? So why should i judge someone who reads only those books because they read only for fun and nothing else? However i do agree that both appreciation and critique should be accepted in every form of art, and that the authors of this books were aware that by putting out their writing they would get feedback on their work, be it good or bad. So yeah, be critical of everything, but don't think that how you do things is inheretely the only way it can be done. Especially in art.

    • @DOOR2Dusk..
      @DOOR2Dusk.. 6 месяцев назад +7

      Good video btw :) (sorry for the English, it's not my native language)

    • @lajourdanne
      @lajourdanne 6 месяцев назад +86

      Completely agree. I think it’s also counter productive to say “reading should be…” and then advocate for the prevention of book bans. Books bans are a result of people putting their own personal biases about literature and the purpose of reading onto other people…

    • @alicegam
      @alicegam 6 месяцев назад +15

      Sorry, long comment ahead:)
      I understand what you mean with your comment, and I think you’re definitely right with the assessment that you don’t really know what someone’s reading life is like just because you know they’ve read several pop romantasy books. In general, the statement “reading should be…” is as strange as saying “watching RUclips should be…” or “watching movies should be…” or “listening to music should be…” etc etc…
      However I’m also trying to come up with a counter argument:) I think Alisha’s video and criticism of the popularity of simple fantasy books still has some grounds, even though we can’t know for certain who reads them and how much and whether they read anything else. (And reading is obviously not the only way to engage with critical ideas and be fighting to make a positive impact in the world - maybe someone does that in their jobs or volunteering day to day. Can we blame them for not reading?). Where Alisha does have grounds for her argument is with facts about how popular these books have gotten….maybe if we were to look at statistics and see that romantasy books were being bought at stores and borrowed from libraries much more than other books, that can give us more objective sense of if it’s a worthwhile discussion to be having. Maybe you read both Ali Hazelwood and Dostoyevsky in equal part, but if we were to have some numbers about how people are reading literature significantly less than popular fiction, do you think Alisha’s video and argument are worth being made and discussed? If the majority of books that are being read are simple fantasy stories that conform to the status quo and don’t present any challenging ideas, should we care? (Im asking genuinely! :) cuz I think so, but maybe you disagree)
      I do agree that declaring an objective purpose of reading is definitely very difficult to defend and maybe we should stay away from making such claims, but I feel like Alisha’s argument is not coming from an objective stance but rather trying to say ‘hey, if you value empathy, thoughtfulness, open mindedness, learning, and democracy, then there is good reason to be critical of popular books (and all media we consume) because it is vital for us to be challenged by the things we read and be challenged by others perspectives”. And she is also saying that not valuing these things can have dire consequences, so if you don’t value them, then here are reasons for it.
      It’s a difficult argument to make! Because she’s essentially having to argue that we need to care about challenging ourselves by learning if we care about other people and making the world less of a horrible place - but lots of people don’t care at all, and even those of us that do, it’s hard to accept that our caring has to have significant effort behind it. (And it gets back to the earlier part of my comment, the fact that lots of people do plenty of things in their day to day life that support their values, so it’s a hard judgement to make!)
      Sorry for the long comment, kudos to anyone who actually read it xD

    • @19Rena96
      @19Rena96 6 месяцев назад +57

      ​@@alicegam Reading doesn't have to challenge your world view tho.
      You can do that with other media (documentaries, interviews, etc.) and still read only wholesome fluff and "dumb" books purely for entertainment value. Reading serves as escapism for many because the world is shitty enough on it's own and i don't need it in the books i consume as well.
      I don't like smut and tend to avoid spicy books and i definitely would appreciate it if authors/publishers would make it more obvious if it has some or not. And (removable) recomended age group stickers to protect younger teens from unhealthy despictions of relationships and graphic s*x scenes would be a great addition as well.

    • @nevisysbryd7450
      @nevisysbryd7450 6 месяцев назад +14

      ​@@alicegamIf it was all deeply/intensely challenging, most of those people would not read much at all. The majority of people in any activity are casuals and challenging paradigms is by its very nature uncomfortable at best. While popular entertainment and art can certainly be harmful, the surge in reading as an activity likely has as much to do with increased accessibility as degeneration in quality. And mass media like TikTok inherently incline towards catering to the largest audience outside of niche channels. While I agree with making space for critical analysis and the dangers of unchecked narrative implications, that is a social value, not a literary one.
      Besides, Sturgeon's Law will always apply; 90% of everything is crap.

  • @jcc195
    @jcc195 6 месяцев назад +149

    not to be that guy who posts quotations under youtube videos, but this one is truly apt: "have I not reason to hate and to despise myself? Indeed I do; and chiefly for not having hated and despised the world enough." -william hazlitt

  • @daniellenoble4705
    @daniellenoble4705 2 месяца назад +22

    Speaking as an English literature major and teacher, sometimes you need a good Hallmark movie book. I think that's fine. I don't think every book has to be deep or challenging. Sometimes you can just have a sweet, safe ride. That being said, I am such an ACOTAR critic that I think I've turned around and become a kind of fan.

  • @cathy4697
    @cathy4697 6 месяцев назад +65

    We might one of these days as a society address the fact that you can absolutely have a porn addiction via other forms of media other than just videos. e.g, via books. Its wrapped up in a more acceptable format so we often overlook it and just base any criticisms of it as being a snob, as per the pinned comment

    • @fisticuffs12
      @fisticuffs12 4 месяца назад

      porn addiction is not a diagnosable disorder. according to psychologists it doesn't really exist, it's more shame about sexuality than a behavioural issue

  • @SandB
    @SandB 5 месяцев назад +129

    I've been an unknowing anti intellectualist for like the past 3 yrs, because simplifying complexity just feels natural. Like one of those antivax parents who read an article and thinks they're on equal grounds with a trained scientist. It's appealing to think we can all be equal intellectually if the material is digested enough. This video is making me rethink a lot

    • @pofficial3345
      @pofficial3345 5 месяцев назад +8

      I'm glad it did. Because trust me, it's hard to find the good stuff, but there's nothing more satisfying than knowing why the fiction you love is so good

    • @LordVader1094
      @LordVader1094 4 месяца назад +32

      I think in general there's a massive strain of anti intellectualism in society. Nobody wants to admit that they know less than someone else, so they want to act like everything when condensed can be understood the same by everyone, and every opinion is equally valid.

    • @the_goddess_1859
      @the_goddess_1859 4 месяца назад +6

      That's really cool and brave of you to admit and see in yourself. I hope you find more good resources to nourish you further!

    • @the_goddess_1859
      @the_goddess_1859 4 месяца назад +7

      ​@@LordVader1094
      It's also become so shameful to admit you don't know everything. It becomes a gotcha, or means you've been defeated, or means the other person is right, when in reality it only means the person may not be equipped with the vocabulary or further expertise to really drive home anything they're trying to say: What they're saying could have tons of value, they're just struggling to communicate it well. And people, instead of seeing it that way, or whatever, then take that and run with it with glee. It's very aggravating.

    • @aleahcim24
      @aleahcim24 3 месяца назад

      Wait how do you add that emoji? 😅

  • @morbidcorvid
    @morbidcorvid 4 месяца назад +36

    Hey man, this is the first video of yours thats popped up on my recommended and I just want to say that your argument is so necessary in this really odd world we have around us today.
    I'm currently rotting in a British high school and am absolutely sick of the act of reading, of analysing and of critical thinking being seen as unecessary, outdated and a chore. It's because of this that I've gone from devouring books like theres no tomorrow to being stagnant, and unmotivated to keep going; something I'm trying to rectify slowly but surely.
    So, in short: Thanks for making this video, Thanks for being a hater. Fuck book bans.
    (im gonna go read a book now lol)

  • @Natmitch08
    @Natmitch08 6 месяцев назад +94

    Ironically I’ve been telling all my friends this is my year to be more of a hater. I’ve been reading more books lately , but genuinely trying to challenge the different types of genres that I’m reading. I really like the point that you made talking about how these young adult books are advertised with a lot of smut in them and I agree that that could be really harmful especially if that’s the only thing you read. And you definitely change my perspective on the over consumption of books especially on TikTok because I used to think that it wasn’t a bad thing because I genuinely think authors should get paid more for their work but I understand how we should be pushing books that are quality and of substance behind them. Because if we don’t, then that just pushes more authors like Coleen Hoover lol instead of the ones who are extremely talented and deserve that spotlight . This video was amazing Thank you! - new subscriber

  • @silhouette_chr
    @silhouette_chr 6 месяцев назад +43

    ive always had this vague reasoning as to why im always a hater and this video has put it all into words so eloquently... thank you, i even feel like ive learned even more from this video too. this has been very enlightening.

  • @mystermysterman
    @mystermysterman 3 месяца назад +13

    Also, from my observation, being bombarded with shallow, short-form content all the time tires your brain out and makes it so much easier to give in to ignorance. So to have the energy to be critical means to be picky instead of consuming everything in sight to satiate your FOMO. But to people used to only perceiving things surface-level, pickiness may be taken for elitism.

  • @anitappg3
    @anitappg3 6 месяцев назад +29

    Most people confuse being a hater with critiquing something. I don't want to sound snobbish or anything, but I do believe that the reason for that is that they have no self-awareness.
    You can like a "bad" book, but you have to be aware of its cons. Liking something that is considered bad does not make you stupid, but being against all debate does!!
    Oh, and I tried reading ACOTAR because it was so popular. Turns out the main plot doesn't make any sense, and it's incredibly boring. I do not see what everyone likes about that book.

    • @aleahcim24
      @aleahcim24 3 месяца назад +3

      SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE AT THE BACK 🗣️🗣️🗣️

    • @aleahcim24
      @aleahcim24 3 месяца назад +4

      I also tried ACOTAR and honestly I regret spending money on the first three books 🥲

  • @BeautifullyTragicxx
    @BeautifullyTragicxx 6 месяцев назад +126

    "You're not healing your inner child, you're regressing into ignorance" !!!!!!!

  • @Pazliacci
    @Pazliacci 4 месяца назад +32

    to quote Anita Sarkeesian:
    “It's both possible, *and even necessary*, to simultaneously enjoy media while also being critical of its more problematic or pernicious aspects.”
    way too often do I go to criticism an element in a piece of media someone shared with me, and they get ANGRY at me for criticizing it and daring to say a thing they like has problematic elements... its not my fault that your love for a thing is ruined by it having problematic elements that were always there, and if you truly do love this piece of media, you should be able to look at the good and the bad, and critically engage with both, and still love it... but instead they want to ENJOY a piece of media, but also IGNORE the shitty elements, a privilege most people don't have.

    • @quantumvideoscz2052
      @quantumvideoscz2052 Месяц назад

      Somehow, that person said something worth quoting... I am genuinely surprised. And I 100% agree with her on this. Even if I know she doesn't mean what all these "haters" mean when they criticize consumerist slop, smut, and generally rubbish stories.

  • @1grapesoda
    @1grapesoda 6 месяцев назад +31

    i haven’t finished the video yet, but im very concerned about adults on booktok making mature books so easily accessible to children (i saw a vid of a lady who put an explicit book in the kids section or something) or gifting mature books to their own children/young nieces/nephews. i hope one day someone will get them to stop because that is extremely inappropriate.