28 things I've learned by 28 💖🥂
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- Опубликовано: 25 авг 2024
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Im from Jamaica living in Jamaica, and I've been watching for years even though im only 18. You're so right. I dont want to be average. The average Jamaican girl is working a low paying job with one or multiple kids and is taking care of men who want to be rappers or scammers. I believe im luck. I believe im blessed even though people around me are saying i MUST be realistic. I might not be the richest, and to some, im not even middle class, but i believe im privileged and lucky. Im not a victim. I have so much to be grateful for, and im happy to be alive. I know I'll live a life that im proud of and that i consider successful. LOVE YA SM KELLY!!!
This is exactly how I feel! I hate when people say to be realistic. Like obviously, I can’t become an Olympic gymnast tomorrow with arthritis and less flexibility like I used to have. But it’s not unrealistic to wish for a peaceful, quiet life with your dream family!! Everyone who tells you otherwise is just too defeated to do it themselves so they must drag you down. You’re a threat. It’s so easy to create your own reality if you’re already an attractive, young educated woman…It just might mean distancing yourself from those negative influences. These are the most important years. Getting pregnant by the wrong man can ruin your entire life. I don’t know why people act like it’s a joke. Better learn how to do some non sexual heavy petting if you can’t stay celibate. 😂
You absolutely can build the life you desire! (Re the last line, you absolutely are capable of celibacy. Just be mindful of the situations you put yourself into)
I can tell yourself, you can be and live the life you want if you plan your life being realistic but also optimistic. Being honest not only to others, but to yourself. Life is much more than we think and we are not here to make our own life more complicated. Be kind, be grateful, be honest, be you and hopefully with courage and clearly mind you will achieve everything you want. 😉
Yup yup I. C tax . Is luv
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I moved to NY in my early twenties with only $200 and a smile. Manhattan to be exact. Black girl/ big city. Now I’m twice your age , Kelly Stamps, living my best life in Hawaii. Gotta take life by the balls!
Wow I love THAT!! We truly must Chase what we want. And I think you can create your own happiness!!
You found your way to where you are meant to be!!!! It's not about starting life with all the answers, it's about finding the answers along the way! Good on you for being brave when you were so young! It led you to where you are now
@@KellyStampsLike the famous quote "most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be"
Which is a FACT
Love this!
“Struggling isn’t a flex.” Amen
From a young and awkward black girl, girl please transmit your high self esteem and self concept to me by osmosis 😭 I'm going to grad school in a few months, yet I really want to be happily married and rest in my femininity and you're making me rethink my whole life
👩🏾🔬♻ I just did! How do you feel now??
Edit: Stay in grad school and be an educated, married princess with more options! Go teach English in Asia after. Get scalp massages after work, eat sticky rice, meet cute man in the airport lounge and comment when you complete this task, grasshopper.
@@KellyStamps lmaoooo I’m crying how did you just expose my life plans like that 😭 also shout out to my fellow grab girlie you got this I am wishing you nothing but the best in your decisions 💗💗💗
I’m going to grad school too! Glad to see I’m not the only one in academia who is refusing to get bogged down into misery.
Acquiring knowledge is never a mistake, but college doesn't have a monopoly on it! For most, college just confirms their skills and intelligence, and does not add to it much. Dont tie your self esteem to it at all, and don't let yourself believe its the only path to what you want! You can want a marriage and femininity AND still achieve other things too. (Also, 21st century American universities are kind of just part of a cultish sub culture)
Like Ayn Rand said, everyone is better off when you do what YOU truly want to do.
Otherwise, the overcorrection will never end!
@@Tny_01010I think you have some issues that you are trying to pass on to the rest of us. No thank you 🙈❌🙅🏿♀️🙅🏿♀️🙅🏿♀️🙅🏿♀️🙅🏿♀️🙅🏿♀️🙅🏿♀️🙅🏿♀️🙅🏿♀️
@ everyone: Marry a man who you love! That is the only criteria! It doesn't matter how much melanin he has or doesn't have!!!!!! (But it might matter how tall he is 👀)
“I can’t be obese, unhappy, and unmarried!” I totally agree!!! 👍🏾 Stay in your feminine energy and continue to attract the happiness you deserve! 💍💍💍
Yes! Thank you!
And you too 😊😊
Something I learned at 20, not every one deserves a reaction. I defended myself when necessary but overall people who I can tell are looking for a response or are used to ppl falling into their antics, I don’t engage at all and let them sit with their actions. I’m young and thriving and personally, don’t want to give my energy to throwaways like that .💕💕
Me too,I don't engage, I don't react ,I let them sit with their actions, u keep ur power😅
ugh this!!!
This is also something I learnt
At 29 I've learned to avoid onsided interactions. And best of all to never feel ashamed of any advantages I have. 🙏🙏🙏
In the words of Tokyo Toni. "I'm sorry you had a f*cked up life. B*tch I DIDN'T" LOL
@@KellyStamps Same way mama stamps. *Snaps fingers and strikes a dramatic pose*
"it's normal to not have a friend group" holy crap that hit me
The last time I had one was in high school! They never work out
It’s always somebody fighting with somebody. I get along with everybody. 😂
The 'jealousy is okay to have. turn it to inspiration' is so true! I'm also 28 and I had friends younger than me and I couldn't understand how they still had a certain type of view of the world. We were just 2 years apart but they were much more childish and I ended up cutting them off from my life.
I’m overweight, not married and miserable and i have to agree with you. This is a life to run away from. That’s why I watch you.
What I`ve learned by age 27 is to *Trust nobody*
Not even sweet grandmas, she the opps 👵 One tried to sweet talk me in line yesterday at Home Goods and turns out she was trying to cut the ENTIRE line. If it was one thing I would've let her tbh but she was rude.
@KellyStamps It's always the elderly trying to skip people in lines😂
@@KellyStampsI'm kind to the oldies,I would just give it up to her,the cnt stand for long😂
that’s the trauma talking 😮
@@KellyStamps ahahhahhaa 🤣🤣🤣🤣
"Dont let losers second guess you" and "shut up" are KEY to happiness. Best bday wishes 🎈✨
Number 19 cracked me up!
“The food in the United States is killing us!”
* Hides Pretzel 🥨 🤣😂
Doctor Professor Stamps!!! Your skin is glowing!! Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us.
You are so welcome!!
@@KellyStamps :))
TLDL: Be quiet and listen more, we get one good week to not be in pain so look cute and go out, get a *soft* pretzel and a *soft* life.
Second spicy rant: There are alternatives to college debt and a 9 to 5 before becoming a mother. Learn a trade or get a job and learn to live below your means. You will have time to take care of yourself and be kinder to your body, subsequently becoming the best version of yourself sooner. That is my experience.
🫶🫶🫶
I want this life. I am visually impaired. What trade or job can I do while single?
@@kaylajames3098do you have any hobbies?
church. ty mother stamps
This is my third comment under anything on youtube or any social media, but I just had to because you're telling THE truth! I'm a Polish girl with 2 BA's, MA and in the first year of my PhD program. None of these achievements gave me the sense of fulfillment or being good enough. In fact, it's the opposite. I've realized recently that I'm happiest not writing another article or sweating over my dissertation or preparing a conference speech (my current pain), but being in the kitchen, in the garden, in the fresh air, and being rested! I've invested too much time and effort in my "career", but as soon as I get that degree I intend to find a light teaching job, let go of large-scale research and live my feminine energy life too! I've never identified with the various Western cultural nonsense that has unfortunately found fertile ground in my country as well, but I myself have fallen into the mindset of your career equals your worth, which equals your chance of creating a family with someone of values and normal! Wishing you all the best:)! Miami looks good on you:) Maybe someday I'll be able to see the American coast myself, for now I'm left with the Baltic Sea (it may be colder but it's beautiful too!) ;)
Wow! I’m sorry our toxicity has made it over to Poland 😂 But I’m so happy that you recognize that education and career can’t bring you as much joy as just being kind to yourself!! ❤ you are not your job
Not me tearing up for you when you spoke about how much he told u he loved you and wanted to take care of you.I wish you all the best and staying private is the way to go.Go for your heart,and everyone take Kelly as an example that God can give u what u want if you ask him,work for it and remain patient.❤❤
it's really refreshing to hear what is essentially the dialogue going through my head at all times from you. i don't want an average life - i don't want to slave away at a job that i don't connect with, i want the best body i can have, i want a deep control over my emotions and i seek awareness (in the spiritual sense) at all times, i want to live adventurously and to have my love story with life as a whole. i don't often meet people who feel the same, so i just wanted to say thank you for sharing this with the world, and for being brave enough to do what you think is right despite what our environment tells us we can do.
The car dealership one is such a crucial one! 😅
I was a Daddy's girl all the way lol, but now I'm assertive and I talked my way out of paying a silly medical bill today. A huge win for the former people-pleasers!!
@@KellyStamps omg same, but I wanted to wear my big girl pants and be Ms. Independent and go to the dealership on my own!! I got conned into buying a 2008 beetle that smelled like a grandpas armpit for $5500 and paying $500 a month for the note. And it broke down almost every week for various reasons. One hot summer in GA with no AC was the last straw 😭 needless to say I learned my lesson and sold it.
I'm 28 and have reached the same conclusion. As I get older, I'm realizing it's going to take a lot more for me than most people to be truly fulfilled. I'm grateful for my blessings (and realize I am ahead of most people my age in terms of career/finances) but I want A LOT out of life and I'm going to get it. One step at a time but I WILL get all of it.
It was the “Focus on yourself and pray for everyone” for me. That’s been the hardest thing for me to do In life when you have no choice but to just watch all the bad choices your loved ones made/make. I’ve always been an empath and I’m really starting to resent that about myself. Living in the same environment together makes it even harder. It’s difficult to try to create a life in which you can be happy living with all these things going on around you right in front of you and there’s nothing you can do. Taking your advice, I’m determined to continue trying to make life easier and enjoyable for myself and pray for the others who are staying stagnant. I can’t help them if I don’t have an overflow to give. That’s really the mentality you need these days.
I just screenshotted this and send it to my friend because she was just saying the same thing. I think it’s extra hard as women because we are naturally just hardwired to try to nurture everybody else. We have to set boundaries!!
Going to miss your videos when you start doing less but reallyyyyy happy for you that you’ve found someone who knows how to allow you to be the classy and valuable woman you are ❤❤❤ continue to enjoy life. Thanks for the laughs and inspiration.
Thank you so much!!
those that get it, get it!! i have always had people around me who are jealous.. and some have gotten cut off but im looking around like… i need to find new people who can be happy for me
Honestly, very very few people can actually be happy for you 😭 I knew it would be a small amount, but I didn’t realize this till recently. Their confidence needs to exceed the average!!
A colleague recently asked me "why are you so elegant today" and I just replied "not just today, always!"
Just wear whatever makes you feel on top of your game (you can be comfy AND slaying at the same time!)
Kelly continues to inspire me😭💕 please never change for the sake of the future stampede university students
I WON'T
I love how unapologetically yourself you are!!!
Thank you, it’s a super power nowadays! In a works full of lies lol
Posting for engagement! Kelly you are really killing this ! Everything you mentioned about being average is true! I want to follow and not be average as well and I’m glad you are starting to want to be more private! Hopefully if you get some pets you show us them someday!
I can catch a lizard LOL
The hard part about being average is that no one wants to be average, working their whole lives. Being middle/upper class allows you opportunities to improve your life or give yourself a life of excitement. I don’t want to be average but it seems like the only way to break out of this working 9-5 cycle (or looking for a job in the meantime) is to start a side hustle on RUclips or do anything online. It seems like many people are doing this now. I watch people who opens brand new tech products, go travel to cool places, live in beautiful homes by themselves, I want to be like them one day so it’s like I live through these videos.
There are people who came from the gutters who are celebrities now or doctors , if you keep yourself in a simple mindset life will not be simple for you 🤷♀️ for example , Daniel ceaser was homeless before he became a singer , cardi b was a stripper in a abusive relationship before she became a rapper , Beyonce just didn't become Beyonce , she puts in the world she had the drive and the passion and she wasn't an average women , she wanted to be big but thought bigger , BTS a giant kpop group dominant charts was 7 broke ass boys in a one bed room apartment with mattresses on the floors before they became what they became , all it takes is drive and passion , because if you want it enough than you ain't getting fed my guy
@@aRIE_vcr These are all people who were lucky and in a time where they were doing something that was still new. The entertainer market is saturated, more and more people are looking for perfection and you can't just sit around while trying to 'achieve your dreams'. You're gonna have to get a job at your local target for the next who knows years and if you dare look old/depressed/tired it's all over.
@@Quon it's not like their career chose them , I done things that I got to experience and I'm not famous , I got to perform background for several famous gospel musicians , and even got to be in a video , how do you expect to achieve your dreams when you don't do anything to achieve it? What all famous people have in common is that they put themselves out there , if they would've stayed with the mindset that you have where do you expect to go ? Like I said all these people came from the gutters and are now celebrities, if they can do it , then anyone can do it
@@aRIE_vcr Yes you should always try to achieve your dream, ANYONE can do it but not EVERYONE can
I really needed to hear number 10 about friends cause I’ve never really found that group and I’ve always felt that made me inferior. Especially since everything else in my life is pretty good but I’ve realised now that 1) it’s honestly hard out here to find good, reliable friends as an adult, 2) All I really need is God, my family and future partner. Plus there’s so much jealousy and backstabbing in friend groups nowadays that perhaps I should accept it as divine protection lol. I see some stories on TikTok and Twitter and I know I’d be traumatised by some of these stories of supposed friends plotting on one another.
YEEEEEEEEEEP: All I really need is God, my family and future partner. My married friends I mentioned were just a unit with their husbands, faith and pets and I didn't understand why at first. Friends are great but honestly as we get older the Bible makes more and more sense. I don't take offense anymore like I used to. At the end of the day Jesus loves you. Friends come and go and they're too busy plotting against you half the time. Your family is forever. I only really tell EVERYTHING to my long time friend from college who lives in nyc and another RUclipsr Annemarie Chase who travels even more than myself. They're the two matured women I've met in YEARS who don't try to compete. I've met a couple new influencers from TikTok who are also super confident and fun. They add to my life and I'm ok with not living in the same city.
Im 20, and Ive literally cut off all of my toxic friends and have been living in solitude for literally months
Its so exhausting but also so rewarding
Kelly Stamps, one of the only GIRLS WHO GET IT. I feel very understood by this video
YES
honestly probably the best "things I've learned " vid I've watched like I'm re-thinking everything in the best way!!!!!
Great vlog Kelly! I love that you are telling people average should not be their aspiration. We limit ourselves by our imaginations. If we can see it, and believe it we can achieve it. You are a blessing! Keep up the work you were put here to do.
I told my TikTok, Instagram and FB that I’ll be returning April 1 and now it’s May 17 and I haven’t posted an update. Honestly I don’t wanna. I had so much peace being off social media. I’ve been more present for my family and I can watch movies without missing a scene. It’s been awesome.
THIS CONVERSATION IS BADLY NEEDED. Thank you so much Kelly! ily
" Somebody didn't get a birthday today " Oh! 😭
I could've at least taken a sad pause lol
@@KellyStampsLOL 😂
Love this vid.. I moved from Los Angeles to Austin, TX a year ago and I could go on and on about the differences in my lifestyle between the two places, but one big thing has been connecting with more women who want marriage and a family or at least admit they want that. In LA it felt like we were all just drifting around with the wind… wanting things but never getting them.
That is so true. I once said (at 19) I wanted to be childfree and just vibing and those friends will never let me forget that. They are very much man-haters, and they just talk about how disgusted they are by children and married women or girls in relationships. So now that I have clearly changed my mind to neutral, why would I want them around mine?? It’s really important to shift towards friends who want the same things or already have it. Somebody else on my other channel said friends come and go, but your family you choose is forever.
You are so relatable to me and I've been following you for years, I think it´s because I also never wanted to be average. Completely agree with the job vs. career part, as a twenty yo I choose to focus on getting a job so I can be financially independent from my parents first, then IF needed I will get a professional certification (probably short and online) so I can earn more and upgrade my lifestyle.
THIS
Yes men can be providers but a woman should have a solid foundation and should be able to be independent. She should be able to take care of herself in the event that something happens to their spouse and can no longer Provide for her. Plus you should never solely rely on one person, should always have a backup.
Agreed. The solid foundation can be built living at home while working part time and saving her money. She should travel while not tied down. I don’t think it must mean jumping into an average stressful 45 hour a week career with college debt. Many of my Latin American friends live at home and work and study! My friend is literally not allowed to move out and waste money because it doesn’t make any sense. If I got along with my mother, I would’ve stayed there. It’s too expensive to get a one bedroom apartment nowadays.
That's wise advice. Working together works best. Financially yeah, but also if a health issue arises or some other unforeseen event arises.
Kelly, happy birthday (internet says may 30😱). Thank you for staying & being Authentic, living freely and softly. You inspire me & a whole lot others to do same. I pray this new season ushers in more grace to become all that God designed you to be IJN AMEN. Muah🙏🏽💋
AMEN. And thank you! My birthday is May 30th and I hope I can spread my positivity through the screen to the Stampede today lol. Aging can be fun if we are kind to ourselves.
I agree with almost everything! But, my life completely changed after becoming an accountant. Not only did I have access to successful people around me, but my salary can now provide me with a life I never knew I could have. Going to school changes peoples lives, and if you have the chance to go into a degree that can pay well and you enjoy doing it, do it.
Ms. Stamps never fails to give us her unhinged advice!!! I love it! Ofc you can’t do exactly what she does, you need to take what she says and make it your own by adding your own personality. You also got to know yourself absolutely facts! ❤👏🏾😊
Kelly i love ya! Your videos always get my mind going!!! Sometimes i have to pause just to write something to express a lil thought im riffing off your topics of discussion. But im shutting up! And listening ❤
This video is very much needed, thank you kelly! Im working hard on changing the things about my life that I can no longer accept. In five years when im 28 my life will look and feel completely different because of the work im putting in now.
Started watching you again and maaaaan from 2020 to now. I still love your content.
If you don’t like your life, change it 👏
Thanks for your knowledge Queen! 💗
Omg it's Pikachu!
@@KellyStamps hahaha!! Pika pika! ⚡️⚡️
love you Kelly! glad god is guiding you !
LOVE U TOO PUNCTUAL STAMPEDE STUDENT
Im gonna save this video and show it to my kids once they’re teens or young adults. Sums up what I wish I knew at 16-25 years old. Thanks ❤
Wise words Kelly. I'm with you on this ❤❤
Stay tuned for next year’s!
I'm very glad I clicked on this video. Life has been tough and I really needed this today. Thank you, Kelly ❤
I’ve loved watching all your transformations. You’re an actual person we are always growing and changing! You’re the best💗💗
you are such a genuine breath of positivity
i’ve been here since your people pleasing days and i’m just LOVING this new era of speaking nothing but hard truths / facts and defending yourself.!! so refreshing, thank you for being you.!
At 28 I've also learnt to not be argumentative. Not every conversation needs to turn into an exchange. I'm very good at grey rocking. Not saying you should be avoidant, but choose your battles.
Also learnt not to be confrontational. There are too many dusties/peasants, who won't hesitate to get physical and harm you.
Great class! Thank you for sharing this insightful wisdom!!
I’m so happy you have found love. Enjoy every step of your journey!
i've definitely "grown up" on a similar timeline as i've watched your videos...I've been married for a year and have recently realized that being an adult is something to embrace and not constantly fight and avoid. it took a long time for me to be able to open up to my now husband because I sort of worshiped my own independence in a way that prohibited real intimacy and connection, and now that i've embraced those things life is so much sweeter, and easier!!
I’m in my 2nd trimester of being pregnant for the second time and didn’t get sickness ONCE because I don’t eat processed food bs they sell!!
congrats
While I agree that if your goals are stay-at-home-wife a career isn't 100% necessary, women should keep in mind that your "provider man"'s provision will always depend on his love for you. Everyone thinks its forever, but %50 of marriages end in divorce, after which the stay-at-home-wife will have no career, a large gap in her resume, and a home to pay rent at on her own. Hope for the best, but have a plan!
You're like the only online celebrity I know that actually isn't afraid to clap back to people and it's great. I might start too lol
Girl you are glowing! Thank you for your words of wisdom❤
I’m so proud of your Growth spiritually and wholeheartedly.
I’m a 36 year old happily married Afro male Artist who’s never been in agreement with being average. Thanks for sharing and being always funny , encouraging, entertaining and inspiring
I’m so glad I get to see your videos, and apply your advice to my life as someone who just turned 18! Thank you 💛
At 25, I learned not to trust people, and work is work
Work is indeed work! My favorite job was hosting at a fun restaurant. I have the urge to do it again on the weekends.
@@KellyStampswas hosting difficult? I was thinking of doing that but I didn’t know if they also have to do serving
The way I needed you to basically yell this in my face. Ty Stamps 💖
Kelly, I simply adore your authenticity and even more, your humor. 🫶🏾
I talk about this on my recent podcasts; being mediocre and basic is not wrong but a choice! I do not want to live a mediocre life because we are more than what we've been taught or directed by society's expectations! happy I discovered your videos, I feel on track and relatable in my current transition in life! ly!
Hello Kelly! I’m so happy that you are taking so time for yourself. I feel fulfilled hearing that. You are so relateable and you are so very loveable ❤ Whenever I listen to you, I think wow! It is thanks to relateable people like you I feel okay during challenging times. You spoke into my life when I was down, and you continue to breath and most importantly live good advice. So thank you so much! I am so overjoyed that they are women just like you in this world. Have the best month of your life.
-Gabby 🎉
yeah but if your already struggling to pay bills you cant really just "change your life" :( its so depressing sometimes to live in such an expensive world
Thank You Kelly. I'm a follower of God and it was refreshing to hear what I've been feeling but not verbalizing it to the extent you did. I live in Florida as well and have noticed in the Church community, there's a mentality of struggling and not desiring to live comfortably. The lie from Hell saying God wants us to be poor or to struggle. Nope. Seek first the Kingdom of God and all his righteousness and all things will be added.
Amen 🙏
Omg it’s so nice to hear someone who has their own opinion💓 keep it up
okay she actually looks extremely pretty in this video
Clap back is the best advice fr lol. I also just turned 28 🎉
Love watching your videos, will miss you if you post less but you gotta do what's right for you. Also, so glad you are happy with your man 😊. Be well.
I love you and love this. Thank you for these facts!!
Hi Kelly, I never comment on youtube videos but thank you for sharing your stories and your messages 🙏🏽
I love when you said you discover a new thing everyday.... That filled my heart.
Women get one good week out of the month to be pain free ❤❤❤
Clap back I'm here for it . 😩🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Say less is good practice. Recover and revent yourself is a necessaries with realistic objectives... Have the courage to find a new state and or new neighborhood.. Gosh, I'll be extra busy work on my new life before I know it. Thank you, Miss. Kelly 💫⚘️✌🏼
I wish I could like this video a million times. 10 million times because this information is coming from a believer and you know who the giver of the peace and gifts are. I need a community of people with minds like this.
26 and I’ll be 27 in December. I spent my early twenties living for everyone else and stressed out. Now Im starting to live for me and do things. Also I hate how a lot of people are ageist. Everyone should be happy that we are aging!
I’m SO tired of everyone thinking it’s cute to be a victim, if you hate your life so much then sounds like a YOU problem don’t bring that around me ‼️
Love the stampede nuggets
100% real chicken!!
Much needed video. I believe a better life awaits me. Being from Trinidad and Tobago, the mentality and thinking of most citizens are very low-thinking. They think working a 9-5 is the be all end all. They think that graduates can't get hired because we're lazy or not trying hard enough when literally there's an unemployment crises and the government raising the pension age definitely doesn't help the situation. I hope to one day migrate to the US as there's endless opportunities especially with social media and entrepreneurship. It's taken more seriously and supported more abroad.
I totally resonate with this so bad- I agree ! not everyone will but I totally get it👌 if someone doesn’t get it, that’s okay- I hope they find joy and peace in their lives too
Nahh when I heard you say that you might start posting once a month or even less, I was kinda sad ngl. I've been here for a looonggg time, since you did choreography for different k-pop songs and wig reviews and I've watched how you've come to this moment. It's just amazing. As a black girl who loves anime, drawing, computers, and being soft and feminine the Godly way, it's been so comforting watching your videos.
However, the peace and rest you've been telling us about is God-given. Who are we to determine how He shapes your life and that might include, like you've said stepping back or posting less etc.
Just wanted to say that lol. You're super awesome Kelly
Girl i needed this
You are glowing Kelly. 🥺🩷
yes to creating dream lives ✨ love your insight Kelly, thank you ☺️
great video- BTW your skin is looking FABULOUS!
❤ 😊 Happy Looks Good On You Kelly. Congratulations.
what i learned at 22 - you should value yourself the same way you value others, never let that balance be disrupted or you’ll be left neglected by your own self!
1st time watching you girl you had laughing but you keeping it real 💯and I appreciate that ,there’s nothing at being an average person .
I do find how you communicate to us the life you want to live, the experiences you want to have, and the people you want to surround yourself around at this stage of your life to be valuable information. I think as a black woman you deserve that, I never thought of that being unattainable or unrealistic, i thought of it to be admirable.
Happiest of birthday! May the Lord continue to bless you and keep you! I’ve watched you since the beginning and it’s been a pleasure to watch you do you. I’ll be 33 this year, and I’ve learned the above as well. Most importantly allow God to continue to shape you. Developing discernment as you continue to age.
As a woman of God, it’s important to always desire to live more like Christ. Even in forgiveness! We forgive because God forgave us. But the Lord also says multiple times throughout the Bible that he not only blots out our transgressions but he will not remember our sins.
💫 how wonderful 💫
imagine if he didn’t?! We pray for the offender and we pray for the release of our personal resentment. It’s so important that we strive to be the example to non believers, even thru those hard times.
I went to NYC for first time and i got a eataly tiramisu bc of you! Glad you still create videos!
Also so happy for you Kelly and that you are in a healthy relationship that you feel safe in! Thank you for your insight and advice because it’s stuff I wish I heard before reaching adulthood and going through dating in America haha. Now I’m married but it could have been such a smoother process if I had sought Jesus and applied more biblical wisdom to my life and made better decisions! Happy birthday! ❤🎉
You’re so right! We content creators need to stand up for ourselves.
The intro music and rushing had me so invested.. Love Kelly❤..
I'm not where you are yet but i can feel it i have been telling myself all the thing you are saying and now i aligned with your channel (spirit angel) I am happy rich and living my best life! I know its coming i can taste it!