I play a game to get out of my head. Especially when I feel the urge to leave. I tell myself “I can only leave until I get 5 rejections” It never works, I always meet a cool girl and gets me out of the fear mindset. If I’m expecting to get rejected, then it brings a different energy
I have a problem with starting conversations, so I just started to work out like crazy and guess what :D A lot of girls actually contacted me first, I really enjoy that :D
In my 15 years going out to bars this has never happened to me. I’ve never had a girl at a bar approach me and can’t recall a girl ever giving me a look.
"Everyone's gonna know I've been shot down" - oh trust me, they _will_ know. I've spent enough (fruitless...) nights in clubs both alone and with friends to have seen guys getting shot down. But hey, what's the alternative? Becoming the whiney non-approacher I have been all these years? That's not worth the regrets :P
By now I keep eye contact and put on a bit of a smirk :) Last times it happened I didn't approach, and felt sooo bad about it afterwards, so I *have to* next time :P
The whole “just be yourself” stuff gets annoying but no matter how stupid you think it is, they were attracted to YOU, not a persona you put on to attempt keep their attention.
I've had a cjte girl look at me a certain way at me before and wave at a bar and my dumb ass pulled the whole "is she looking at me?" thing and looked behind me lol
I went to up to girl in bar once n said exact line 'hi i'm loyd' and we had great conversation but my name isnt loyd so later she finds out im not loyd and thinks im liar so this is good advice just make sure you use your name not loyds thanks
never a girl looks to me only 1 time she was fat withouth tooth and all women i had i went to them in street never in a bar i ilke street from an algerian
If she looks at you and looks away,is she interested? My neighbour sometimes looks at me secretly but try to go unnoticed when I look at her. Give ur views plz is she interested?
what if you are decent looking guy in a wheelchair and she is looking at you. Most of the time i consider it pity smiles or pity looks. people look at me all the time this way. Im handsome but im not THAT hot lol
I know a guy who’s in a wheelchair who gets PLENTY of women. It’s all about confidence man. My friend always acts super confident, he’s super funny, has great timing w his comments, and he isn’t even super attractive! You just gotta fake it til you make it, and eventually you’ll find a girl who likes you for you.
What do I do after I open then close suddenly? I want to try and open this girl again when I see her again but Im not sure what to do or if I will even get another chance after I closed abruptly last time
If you walked away suddenly, the next time you see her start up a conversation. You can apologize for leaving abruptly if you want but it might not be necessary
@@TheSingleGuy it was a weird situation, I introduced myself and tired to start a conversation and this other guy came up and started talking to her about something else and I could tell her attention was divided and I felt I lost flow and just kind of said bye and and I was nice meeting her even though I kind of just approached after making one comment when she was passing by. It's hard to explain but when we were talking it felt kind of weird too, maybe it was just me but the way she was talking to me felt a bit off and I'm just not sure how to proceed. Or if I'm supposed to feel somekind of spark or something. Maybe it was just she's not interested and that's why it felt off but I feel like I have to make her interested and maybe that's where I failed. Sorry for the long g comment I've just been thinking about it lately and I've been looking for answers.
You and a girl make eye contact THEN YOU LOOK AWAY! Story of my life lmao
@@BlueOriginAire some girls will stare at you for 10+ seconds so if you stare at her without smiling, you are creep
I play a game to get out of my head. Especially when I feel the urge to leave. I tell myself “I can only leave until I get 5 rejections”
It never works, I always meet a cool girl and gets me out of the fear mindset. If I’m expecting to get rejected, then it brings a different energy
This turned into almost a snippet of how I pick up a girl in a bar
This video was more significant that ANY of the other dating advice I've gotten. I never knew when to approach and when not to.
I have a problem with starting conversations, so I just started to work out like crazy and guess what :D A lot of girls actually contacted me first, I really enjoy that :D
I don’t care
In my 15 years going out to bars this has never happened to me. I’ve never had a girl at a bar approach me and can’t recall a girl ever giving me a look.
"Everyone's gonna know I've been shot down" - oh trust me, they _will_ know. I've spent enough (fruitless...) nights in clubs both alone and with friends to have seen guys getting shot down. But hey, what's the alternative? Becoming the whiney non-approacher I have been all these years? That's not worth the regrets :P
If you laugh and have good posture it doesn't look like a rejection too much
This guy is so entertaining and thanks to him, things have changed rapidly for me, and it was free. Strike while the irons hot!
Dude you remind me of me if I practised game for a few years. That's why i resonate with your videos so much
I can asure that worked! Hooked 2 japanese last saturday, thanks man!!!
It’s that easy & simple mane eye 👁 contact is hella gems 💎 & key 🔑
By now I keep eye contact and put on a bit of a smirk :) Last times it happened I didn't approach, and felt sooo bad about it afterwards, so I *have to* next time :P
How you doing bud
What about: what to do when no girl looks at you?
I literally just act like I don’t notice her and let her look at me... is this rude?
No im guessing your f irish descent well played
The whole “just be yourself” stuff gets annoying but no matter how stupid you think it is, they were attracted to YOU, not a persona you put on to attempt keep their attention.
With a quirky dorky smile and say,....
" Hey, 'how you doin'"
Just like Joey of "Friends" say it.
Seinfeld.
Just filled out your application
I've had a cjte girl look at me a certain way at me before and wave at a bar and my dumb ass pulled the whole "is she looking at me?" thing and looked behind me lol
I went to up to girl in bar once n said exact line 'hi i'm loyd' and we had great conversation but my name isnt loyd so later she finds out im not loyd and thinks im liar so this is good advice just make sure you use your name not loyds thanks
I would introduce myself lmao. Expect nothing. Depending on the circumstances. But I’d go bold 😂😂😂
i would never do that this is awkward
How many approaches a day do you recommend to not get burnt out?
never a girl looks to me only 1 time she was fat withouth tooth
and all women i had i went to them in street never in a bar i ilke street from an algerian
Can you make dating advice for women?
You can literally ask any guy friend you have he'll surely know how to make men chase you
If she looks at you and looks away,is she interested? My neighbour sometimes looks at me secretly but try to go unnoticed when I look at her. Give ur views plz is she interested?
what if you are decent looking guy in a wheelchair and she is looking at you. Most of the time i consider it pity smiles or pity looks. people look at me all the time this way. Im handsome but im not THAT hot lol
I know a guy who’s in a wheelchair who gets PLENTY of women. It’s all about confidence man. My friend always acts super confident, he’s super funny, has great timing w his comments, and he isn’t even super attractive! You just gotta fake it til you make it, and eventually you’ll find a girl who likes you for you.
Thanks pac man
Dude you look like steph curry
What if you are in the gym?
KaungMyat Hein ask her to spot you, brah. Or ask her if she’s done with her 5 lb dumbbells.
Wow yeh kaam kar Raha hai bro 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗😃
Run
What do I do after I open then close suddenly?
I want to try and open this girl again when I see her again but Im not sure what to do or if I will even get another chance after I closed abruptly last time
If you walked away suddenly, the next time you see her start up a conversation. You can apologize for leaving abruptly if you want but it might not be necessary
@@TheSingleGuy it was a weird situation, I introduced myself and tired to start a conversation and this other guy came up and started talking to her about something else and I could tell her attention was divided and I felt I lost flow and just kind of said bye and and I was nice meeting her even though I kind of just approached after making one comment when she was passing by.
It's hard to explain but when we were talking it felt kind of weird too, maybe it was just me but the way she was talking to me felt a bit off and I'm just not sure how to proceed. Or if I'm supposed to feel somekind of spark or something.
Maybe it was just she's not interested and that's why it felt off but I feel like I have to make her interested and maybe that's where I failed.
Sorry for the long g comment I've just been thinking about it lately and I've been looking for answers.
Clock blocking wtf
Solid
Yo nigga. I got awkward tendencies bro
Thanks to Covid 19 = Women dont wanna go on date no more
I’ve been out in 5 dates man. It’s you
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This is bull shit 😍