how to look attractive in school I simple & easy tips
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Some random tips i learned
1. Virgin Olive oil or castor oil for your lashes in an empty mascara container is a MUST everyday for 1 or 2 weeks. It will make your lashes longer and curly
2. Being a bad bleep doesn't mean you have to be rude for no reason at all. It means you know your worth and you are confident and you love youself ofc
3. Fake it until you make it. I was not confident at all, but i faked it until i made it. It works trust me.
4. Being popular is not about having terrible grades and being cool.
5. Cheap rings. You will loose them anyways.
6. A little red lipstick ''inside'' your lips and lip gloss on top works like MAGIC
7. Be whoever you want. We will die anyways.
LMFAO “be who you want, we die anyways” was so unexpected but great 😂
Thanks army💜
that took a bit of a dark turn tho don't you think.... BTW I LOVE YOUR VIDS YOU GAVE ME SUCH A CONFIDENCE BOOST!!! I ALWAYS WATCH YOUR VIDS AND I NEED MOREEEE!! I USED TO WAKE UP AT 7:30AM AND LITERALLY ALWAYS HAD NO TIME FOR SCHOOL AND LOOKED SO UGLY WHEN I WENT BUT KNOW I WAKE UP AT 6AM AND I LOOK MUCH MORE FRESH!! LOVE YOUUUUUUUUUUU
too true lmao
I also always say as the encouragement "we are gonna die anyways" and I am an army too 💜😂 we are bros 💪
This shouldn’t apply in school only, this applies throughout life
Yes u r right!!
So true tho lol😂
When I walk I always look to the ground... I simply feel that I don't have the right to walk like I "own the place" because it's like people are going to judge me and think "she's not good enough to walk like that, she looks weird". I don' t know, it just makes me kinda sad
Nah, hell no girl u better walk like u own that place, other people's opinions doesn't make u money, u gotta stop caring abt them judging u, people are going to judge u either way, + their judgment reflect their own insecurities, jealousy... and by the way you ARE enough, worthy and precious. Wear what makes u feel good , do what u think is actually helping u grow, i got something that may help you, it's going to be hard, scary but worth it, u get a paper and u right (*write lol) in top "what would i do if..." exp: what would i do if i was confident (or if love my body...) and your write at least 30 things each on of it is a daily challenge. Hope it helps and again U ARE GOOD ENOUGH.
Dont care abt em you ARE good enough to be walking like that,Don't let those jealous people get to you!,I've tried walking like I own the place and it really makes you confident,give it a try!
@@itsme_kb. well yeah you r right cuz people will think of you as a popular spoiled brat if you're always walking like that
It’s not about people… who are they to say she has no right to walk like that- like they have no right to talk trash about you-
I used to think that way kinda too.
I dont exactly remember how I overcame this but like I used to slouch and look at the ground, until my friend told me I looked weird walking that way erm then I realized it actually did.
look nobody cares.
nobody cares how you walk unless u walk weirdly so if u got that grand, lovely, pace -- they wouldn't be callin you arrogant until and unless they r jealous. plus if someone judges you for walking like a queen then fuck em they ain't the right ppl
Here is another tip:
Always surround yourself with good people and good influnces. Do not hang out with people who are bad and do drugs. Instead, make new friends who are nice and encourage you!
Yes I stand for that!
some of my friends do drugs and they are the nicest ppl they never encourage me to try it or peer pressure which im thankful for 😊
@@ashxo_o2935 Thats nice but always be cautious !
Yea sure 😂
YES 🙌
i am a 12 year old girl and i have a fear of being myself.
i am afraid of what every single person thinks of me, one glance and i think, “do they think i’m ugly?”. Every school day i have to deal with people calling me “big nose” because i have a nose bump. i always try to convince myself that i am gorgeous, but it’s hard. it’s hard when i’m being convinced by stupid middle school boys that i’m ugly and unattractive. it makes me feel unhappy with myself. every time i go to the school about it, it’s always the same thing. “they are just learning”. Learning to beat others up with their words and not giving too cares about what they are putting out to let the world hear? not an excuse, in my opinion. but whatever. i am watching this video because i want people to like the way i look. i’m terribly jealous of the popular rich pretty girls at my school, they seem to be liked by everyone. i hope one day, that i will be able to just be myself and feel true happiness with myself.
if you are struggling with something similar or different, just know, your not alone, and whoever makes you feel that way, is jealous of you or is trying to make you feel bad for them to feel better. but the truth is, when they make you feel bad, it really doesn’t, make them feel better. they think it will, and that’s why they say stuff, because they want to feel better, as well.
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Someone makes fun of me for my acne im 12 too
I relate to all we gonna be ok
You're only 12. Don’t loose your precious time thinking about how you look. Focus on your happiness, hobbies, time. I hope you will have a great Teenage, girl. You will be the queen in your teenage.
I’m 12 too lol. I’ve never experienced that and people say I’m pretty but I think I’m ugly lol so I just wanna be confident. And those stupid people just don’t see the true beauty that’s hidden in u. Your gorgeous I bet! And nose bumps- there’s nothing wrong with them- I have one. You rock gurl- don’t listen to those people!
i’m 13 and last year i thought negative things about myself but i learned that everyone who had made fun of me and called me ugly didn’t feel good about themselves, it’s better to just ignore them and realize how they are making you feel, i hope you’re doing better now
As a very shy and introverted person (but very loud and bubbly when with close friends), keeping my head up when entering the classroom helps a lot! As well as smiling and practicing a good posture while sitting, walking, standing, etc.
I used to always slouch, but because I’m in uni now, I wanted to change for the better and one of my new friends told me that her impression of me is that I am a very bubbly and friendly but shy person, who’s also elegant in a way she said was hard to describe but she said that I just give off that energy (maybe because of my now good posture?)
Oh! And I used to always deny that I liked wearing makeup but it was just because I was shy and not confident enough, but now, I wear it everyday, I even retouch in the classroom every now and then😅 It’s purpose? Of course it’s not just to look fresh, but to look pretty for myself as well😉💘
So just, be you, do what you love, be with the people you usually hangout with but don’t forget to explore and meet other people (I made friends with people who I once thought are way out of my league to be friends with, but they turned out to be really kind and caring friends, they also helped me get out of my comfort zone)
lastly…
GURL/BOI, DO THE THINGS YOU ALWAYS WANTED TO DO STARTING TODAY WHILE YOU’RE STILL YOUNG!! Wear makeup, dress the way you want to, try out new things…making memories is a must!💖
im 13 n an introvert myself in my classroom n i find it hard making frens but this gave me confidence will try :)
@@chu.chu_chxn You can do it!!🥰 It’s timee
omg you gave me so much inspiration, it's very hard for me to make friends, firstly BC I'm shy and introverted and secondly I'm not pretty or attrative, which is probably why people don't talk to me. And I really hope ppl come up and talk to me, BC I'm shy to start a conversation
@@ralthefish1880 Omg it’s an honorrrr!🥰 And oh believe me, I think I looked ugly before, but now that I’m in a much more healthier & happier mental state, I can see the beauty in me rather than just getting jealous by others’ beauty. Also, sometimes, it’s YOU who has to start the conversation-just be you (i tried pretending to be a different person before, it was exhausting and not fun at all)
@@ralthefish1880 i relate to u too much :(
“don’t be shy”
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Something an extrovert would say. Trust me, if it were that easy I would have a bunch of friends by now. I can’t just get rid of my social anxiety, sorry.
how to be attractive at skl :
rule 1 : throw social anxiety and personality in the trash :)
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I'm an introvert, and I got over being shy pretty early on. It's mostly about lifting yourself up by knowing your worth. If someone doesn't agree with how you are, it's their problem, not yours. When you go to talk with someone, convince yourself it won't be that bad. If it *is* that bad, then whatever. You can convince yourself again next time! Every time you do that, you gain more experience and it gets easier the next time. You learn more about how to talk to others and are more used to doing it. Try not to worry, you got this! It takes some time to break out of your shell, and you will never be the same person to others than you are to yourself, but just believe in yourself and stay calm. You got this! ❤️
@@dionabutshemakesplaylists social anxiety, shyness, introversion are 3 different things. Sadly, I just happen to have social anxiety. I can’t throw it in the trash or break out of my shell. Trust me i try to every year but it makes me super uncomfortable and I just turn red. Maybe next school year will be my time tho. Idk. I just can’t stay calm sorry.
@@evxelyxn That's completely fine! I had assumed that you were mostly just shy, but I agree, social anxiety and shyness are definitely very different. I've never really had to go through social anxiety myself, so I can't really understand your situation. I have heard that some people deal with anxiety with calming scents or other techniques. Maybe something like that could help? Anxiety sucks, so hopefully you can overcome it! And don't forget to always believe that you can, because that's true!
Being shy is a trait that can make you look attractive, but it just depends on the person.
No I don't think it really works ...it is often so harmful for us...we loses our own self respect...we start doing the things for others and they might be not good for our own selves 😢 be yours not of others...it's our own life no one can imply their rules 🥺🥺 I think so
@@azkasmavy232 We shouldnt do stuff for others, I'm also shy at first when I dont know them but when they ask if I can do something for them I choose to ignore them or look away. They stay quiet afterwards
“Dont be shy” is much easier said than done for most. Some tips for overcoming shyness/anxiety is start off my saying small things to people randomly, like asking someone for a pencil or where something is. It can really help you practice talking to people and baby steps is the best way to overcome anxiety. Dont be too stressed about it. Also maintain good posture, try to make eye contact, and smile. It will make you seem more friendly and people may talk to you more often.
I have little to no self confidence, and I hate it. I'm awkward, insecure, and struggle with standing up for myself to ppl who r naturally on the mean side. Hopefully these tips can help lessen my social anxiety for the upcoming school year😧
I hate the popular kids who treat the awkward quiet people rude for no reason and talk to them like a fucking kitten
Hope your doing well now! Btw armyyyyy💜
More tips! :)) (specifically for school)
1) paint your nails!! (If you aren’t allowed then use clear nail polish to make your nails shinier)
2) keep your hair brushed/ clean
3) clear your hair/shower/bathe every other day because every day will ruin it!
4) have a long/ relaxing sleep
5) don’t wear too much makeup! If you want to wear it, wear mascara, lipgloss ( not sticky or coloured too much!) and some powder
6) keep your skin moisturised and healthy, skincare is a daily, twice a day thing to do!!
7) keep your teeth brushed and clean
8) if you have no uniform, wear clothes that make you feel comfortable and look good! Don’t try and go against the dress code, it does not make you cool.
9) if you have uniform, don’t try change it too much, if you can then wear small things like leg warmers (with skirts) and bracelets
10) keep your head held high and have good posture! (Don’t act like you own the place though or you will probably get teased)
11) have a decent and not too large main friend group but branch out a bit to others!
12) don’t be rude or start fights, again it doesn’t make you cool, you just look stupid and get into trouble
13) get a cute bag and accessorise it with pins/badges if you want! :)
14) wear body spray/perfume and deodorant EVERY day! (Don’t go too over the top just so you smell nice)
more tips to be popular
-always participate in any activities
-dont say bad words it will make others think your mean
-dont use your phone alot it will make your eyes tired
-wear clothes like you arent insecure about your body like they say your body your rules
-read books more often this will help you in your studies and you might never know you might top the class
-drink 8-10 glasses of water everyday others will think you have a healthy lifestyle and you will be a role model to them
dont be insecure like i was before, you are amazing and great no matter what, be strong
I'm BTS army too :D
This motivates me sm! Thank u
I’ve got absolutely horrible social anxiety. Every time I walk down the hallway it feels like I’m being stared at. When people are laughing around me I feel like they’re making fun of me. Over long breaks I feel like my friends hate me. It’s so scary. I’m trying to work on it though. The posture thing luckily hasn’t been an issue for a while, since I started doing baton. But confidence is really something that needs work
Same
as dramatic as it sounds id really suggest to get therapy if u have the option or at least try to see where this originates from and find a solution based on that. if it helps u maybe tell urself things like its not always about u and people usually mind their own business? its kinda mean lol but it helped me. besides that the thing with confidence is that no one knows if its real or not. as long as u fake it u can be as anxious as u want inside. i hope itll get better for u
@@void174 thank you- yeah I’ve been hoping to get some kind of help, but my parents arent doin much 😀😀😀😀
@@alanerrrrofavalor you can watch videos of therapists on RUclips for free. It worked for me and also learning a little psychology behind human behaviour might help. God bless you. You're a beautiful person inside and outside. Keep shining 🌟
@@alanerrrrofavalor i would like to recommend Elicia Gougen, Lynette Adkins and Therapy in a nutshell
Don't try to be popular. Just be who you are. Aim to be known as more kind x nice than "popular". Being popular comes with a lot of cons. I witnessed that first-hand as I am close friends with someone who is so popular that now she has severe trust issues and mental health problems. Being attractive is not only your looks, more importantly, it's also how you present yourself.
i used to be really shy and nervous in school. and i would constantly wonder if people were talking about me behind my back or if people thought i was ugly and such. now i feel so much better and i am more confident in myself and ill tell you what i heard that helped me:
people do not care about you as much as you think they do.
it sounds rude but its true. i mean just think about it. do YOU walk through the halls and judge everyone you see? NO. thats because youre too focused on yourself to notice anyone else. and i promise thats exactly what everyone else is thinking too. everyone is too busy thinking about themselves to notice you or think about you past the moment they look at you. so take advantage of that!
dont think of yourself as so much of a outcast, everyone has insecurities. EVERYONE. I don't care who they are, it's just that some people know how to hide it or know how to deal with it or learn to love themselves past their insecurities.
everyone is human. and all people want is to be liked in some way so I promise you people are not judging you silently as much as you think they are. people will not remember you unless it's something positive. so go and be nice to people! that's all it takes!
reminder! your here to learn, not for fame. i used to always wish to be popular but i realized chasing after the popular girls wasn't really gonna benefit me. but if you truly wish to be popular go right on ahead! just wanted to remind you
I always walk with my head high and a good posture, just because it's what I'm used to doing, and it makes people respect you more for being aware of your manner.
Same, I agree! I always walk like I own the place even if I think I don’t. 😅
one thing i learned is that its okay to be introverted. Im an introvert but in school i always try to appear more extraverted by making myself insanely uncomfortable with talking infront of everyone and doing crazy things so people think im cool and i wanted to be just like my extra extraverted friend but im me and thats perfect. Remember you dont have to be a certain way.
I still want to be extroverted, it seems like a really fun life, instead of being lonely all the time in school
@@ralthefish1880 I think with the right friends I’ve turned myself into an extrovert but I think it’s just my adhd with my friends. I also got more comfortable around my classmates in all classes so it’s easier to talk.
my personal tips and advices
Finally! This is the first time some one is saying the truth abt being popular unlike all those movies we see...that being popular doesn't only mean wearing pink and pink, applying tons of makeup, getting low grades at school etc.
Another suggested tip:
If other people make you feel less, then don't think whatever they're thinking about you, think of how unique and amazing you are. Always think that you are MORE than just enough.
I’ve learned through switching schools every one or two years that if you really enjoy the area you’re working in, the friends you have and the subjects you’re learning, you will excel in school/ the subject and get better grades. Every time I didn’t like where I was or felt uncomfortable, stuck and lonely, I burnt out and my grades dropped. So either fake it till you make it, or become truly confident and make the school your own.
Find genuine and better people to hang out with (I mean those who don’t brag or put you down constantly as a “joke”) and look on the bright sides.
Also, I found that having a hobby or genuine interest in something you’re willing to learn more about in your free time can either distract you, or give you the motivation to keep going. Either way, do what you want to do.
You’re doing great and I love you
A lot of these are easier said than done. I’m one of the quiet kids at school. My guess is that most people think I WANT to be left alone and not socialize but it’s really the opposite. I want to talk and hang out with the rest of my classmates but they never seem interested in talking to me, and I’ve tried initiating conversations with people so idk what to do at this point. I don’t know what’s wrong with me but… whatever I guess.
Me too i'm so quiet at school and i think every day when i will leave this school i have 3 years but now 2 years to study,i hope you got a lot of friends be brave ❤
Same, it always seems like no one is really interested in talking to me and idk what to do..I hope it gets better!
just a reminder that you are beautiful the way you are.
I'm an introvert at sight, but when you get to know me or when I feel comfortable around you, I am SO an extravert. It's weird.
as an introvert, can i say that introverts are just hidden extroverts?
"Dont be shy" me with extreme social anxiety, being an introvert, and having a fear of talking infront of people. 🤭
what if a person is just naturally shy??
its ok to have emotions and personality not everybody is extroverted and loud, its ok to take time to warm up to people, you dont need to be friends with everybody either its ok to not be overly nice
Confidence! Confidence really is key. I'm not an ugly person, but when im just sitting there having a panic attack in the middle of class in complete silence nobodys going to think im hot lmao. i figured out by just talking to people (as difficult as it is.) i had a lot more people interested in me :) Even like a small group of friends to be openly confident around helps a lot.
Here is a bit of a tip: Be yourself and let the people who love you the way you are not for the ones who want you to change 💖
That's the problem. I don't know who I am
Remeber that it's ok to be shy. Just because you're shy not talkative or "popular" doesn't mean you're not attractive. And trust me shy and "unpopular" kids are literally amazing. And as the "quiet shy kid with social anxiety" just saying hi or being nice to shy people really makes their day trust me. And when you get to really know them, its even better
"slips infront of everyone"
Walk right away with full confident because this video told me to be confident
anyone wondering about the vasceline on eye lashes, I have been doing it for months and it makes them darker, longer and healthier. I use mascara and curl my lashes during the day, then at night I use vasceline! It works 1000%
ormer popular kid who’s now in college here!!!
here’s what i can say/the advice i can give
1. grades are a plus but don’t matter as long as you’re attractive and somewhat problematic
2. people will pick appart your physical appearance and you may get extradited for not looking your best
3. being in a sports team is a one way ticket to popularity
whatever popularity you had in high school will be gone practically overnight once you graduate and step out of that high school for the first time, so don’t get too comfortable + honestly it wasn’t worth it lol, too much drama
I don’t really get it.. lolll
thanks for the tips it really helped me overcome my shyness and be more confident , you have earned your self a subscriber :D
Thank you, your are simply amazing, and I love how you basically know every thing you need to know to have some glowups! You are beautiful as well! Thank you, lysm!
“Be yourself. Don’t try to be anyone else.”
*proceeds to be everyone else who followed the tips in this video*
2:19 Ik it won’t be corrected but doing drugs/ drinking isn’t cool. People might see it as cool cause it really isn’t. It just damages you and it’ll be difficult to get rid of the addiction in the future
Very hard to do some of these (me)
-Not be shy
-dont say sorry
-find main group of friends
-stand up for what I believe
-ask for help
-trust gut feelings
-act confident
-write down my feelings (always think someones gonna read it)
-be myself(wanna be like that nice girl to get friends)
-have nails done (i bite my nails)
Your tips are great its just hard for me
🥺🥺🥺 ohhh ...but yeah ....you can find your own way, any other unique trait that can help you to improve your personality 🙃... because it's you ....and must have some rare ability 🙂
@@azkasmavy232 yeah.. I struggle from social anxiety and it sucks. Not really the talking to people I know but i feel like im always being judged and im the weirdo kid who doesnt talk. All my feelings bottle up in my head and i never tell anyone.. sorry for making a paragraph 😞
@@C0NNECTED143 don't say sorry..I can understand it's hurting when you underestimate your own self....but listen...no one is 100% perfect....and those tiny stupid things you see in yourself as WORST must not be seen by the people you feared about ....so don't worry 🥺🥺🥺
@@azkasmavy232 ok.. thank you :)
Soo, I wrote down my feelings not too long ago about everyone, everything and I left my book at my friends house and they looked thru it, took photos of it and sent it to ppl, we sorted it out but that just reminded me of that
about the dont wear the same clothes everyday thing, this kid at my school always wears
blue hoodie
basketball shorts
paper mask
mid top/high top shoes
and hes one of the most funny and popular kids at my school
Maybe he's popular because he is funny?
@@Celestial_Ocean yeah most likely, people usually get popular for have a specific trait that sticks out like being the meanest,the nicest, the best looking, etc. ^^
some people think you need good grades to be attractive or popular, no u dont when I was in 5th grade I was popular for doing a mimicry of a cartoon character and I eventually became popular at school and that lasted for whole 3 years aka till 8th grade! so dont think that way and do something u are proud of. maybe some people might even like your talent.
"Don't be shy" if only it was that easy
"Dont be shy"
Ok so all i gotta do is throw my social anxiety and personality out the window👌
Literally, social anxiety makes it 10x harder
hahahaha
kindie: pink beads
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2nd: rainbow beads
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4th: black beads
5th: black and clear beads
6th: black beads
7th: wooden beads
8th: clear beads
already ahead of you
You have earned yourself a bueatiful subscriber! Ty for all the advice. It's so weird how people actually know this without other people telling them. That's how people learn but some people just..know! Anyway thx so much!
I like this video alot I'm working on being a better highschool student and helping others and being the best I can be! ❤
One tip from me is that when you walk, walk with good posture, chin up and don't be stiff. Look relaxed even if you don't feel relaxed. Fake it till you make it babes. At first maybe wear headphones with phonk music on. And walk on beat and imagine you are walking in those supermodel edits. Think as if you are in a movie, edit, drama etc. Keep going like this and then slowly take off your headphones but keep the whole music and vibe in your head. HELPS ALOTT
Thank you, I personally would not do the headphones, but just already have the music in my head. I'ma try this at school
@@Denisa-s_girl Good luck love
I actually want to glow up because I have such a low self-esteem and I want to work on that more, thanks for all the tips♡
Not me doing all of these things before seeing this video-
I’m proud of myself 😌✋
Everyone is perfect but if this makes u happy and confident u can do this
I'm about to walk to school with this cute beanie i made and for some really I feel anxious hopefully I'll overcome that fear today because I wanna express myself and not give af about others opinions on me
but always remember, school isn't all about looks
Friendly reminder:
You can still be shy or introverted at school! I mean, people say: fake it until you make it but, if you really feel like you need alone time or even time to be introverted then be so, because faking it until you make it is okay. But just remember that you still need to be yourself and don't take it too far to the point you are not your true self.
-love you! 💗
0:35 actually made me realise how many times I’ve said sorry everyday at school, I will try and fix that, thanks!
tips on a natural makeup look, i’m 17 and i’ve worn makeup before but like heavy eyeliner and stuff. this whole school year i haven’t work any makeup yet but i do want to start but i want a natural look :)
this person: don’t be shy
thank you, my social anxiety no longer exists.
I go to school to learn (but still fails)...so I never really cared about personality...but what you always need is manner and common sense. Thats not what I was thought but I learned it myself :)
This is not a tip but how i feel about personality☺
"Dont try to change to impress anyone" in a video about how you can change your self to be attractive to others
Hmm. As a somewhat introverted and socially awkward person who is louder and more comfortable around people I’m close with, I think this really helps! Though i was a little surprised that I did a lot of the things I was told not to do in the video lol. Most of the time I just fake it until I make it and pretend not to care when people tease me about my body and stuff. It doesn’t always work but I find that I do seem to forget about it after a certain amount of time so-? I’ll make sure to try to do these things so I can at least try to appear more put together and like I have my life together even if I really don’t. Oh and does anyone have some tips about insecurity? I feel ugly basically everyday haha.I am *extremely* insecure about practically every inch of myself so I would really appreciate anything that could help!
"don't be shy"
easier said then done
"Don't be shy."
Me with Social Anxiety: How is that a simple and easy tip... 😭
I won't change for someone I'll do it for me ✨
I like how they said “find your main group of friends” but I don’t have any ✋😭
Thatnk you so much for this it literally increased mt confidence alot!
i might not do some due to how shy i am so not being shy is gonna be a hard challenge for me :')
POV:that literally me, no wonder why everyone likes me and has a crush on me
Basically just ✨Be & look confident✨
This is really good advice ;)
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First of all, when I saw this video, it's actually related to me because I am actually an elegant type of people, and also I don't do eyelashes and chapstick because my eye type is cat eyes, and I wore mask bc COVID still here
i wish i could wear what i want, but my strict parents sadly stand in the way, that also goes for dying my hair or getting piercings. not everyone is allowed of doing these things
“Don’t be shy”
Introverts: well I guess I can’t go to school anymore
hi, can you please make a vid for how to improve your performance in school- i really need it- REALLY
i tried to improve but nothing works
our science teacher gave me one work and i messed up so badly that i- aHem- i hope you can make one-
Ok, say, ur crush saw this video and she/he saw that the creator of this video said: “don’t chase anyone” even if, they liked u, they’ll never chase u bc of this video! And youll never chase them so basically, no one’s gunna make a move and y’all are gunna never find out how you like eachother😱
THATS EXACTLY WHAT I THOUGHT, IF YOU WANNA BEFRIEND SOMEONE JUST TALK TO THEM.
So I just had to drop this I am extremely shy I just feel insecure most of the time and there's no one to talk to because people would laugh it of and say be confident like its just "normal" for me
I really dont know how to be confident because I'll always be judged so basically I feel way too insecure of myself to be confident
0:50 wow thanks i never thought of that
I was gonna talk about "dont be shy" one but a lot of people already covered that in the comments, so im gonna talk about the "dont chase anyone" one. I understand the tip if it means "dont be obsessive over a crush", thats fine, but if you are interested in someone and dont show it, or try to play hard to get, that person is probably going to think youre not into them and will give up. If they insist, it doesnt mean "they must really like you" it means they dont respect boundaries and you shouldnt be with them in the first place. So if you like someone, show it, dont be obsessive or follow them around at all times, but dont try to hide it either.
These are basically like tips for life, thank u! 😊
Some of these really depend on where you're from.
Where I'm from, shyness is seen as something beautiful and attractive. Obviously, still have confidence and speak up for yourself, buy don't be so loud and shove yourself into everything. That's frowned upon where I'm from.
I'm going to a new school this year and I've never clicked a video so fast
some tips r helpful but i cant help being shy especially when i have social anxiety
Change myself to impress others: ⛔
Change myself so I can simp for the cute girl in the mirror: ✅
Oh and a tip for when you can't maintain eye contact: just look at the other person's unibrow 🤣 or at the bridge of their nose
THANKS FOR THE TIP BECAUSE I CANT LOOK AT SOMEONE IN TH3 EYE OR ELSE WHAT ILL BE LOOKING AT IS THEIR DETAILED IRIS CUZ IM INTRESTED IN EYES ITS SO BEAUTIFUL AND GORGEOUS
I don’t know how to not be shy.
Be yourself❣️you are unique and more than enough! The world needs you !Sending hugs to everyone ❣️
And i have something just be yourself anyway at the end of the day that is who you are
Im surely gonna try these...i'll just start them from today cuz tommorow is my school starting cuz we were having winter break and i really wanted these kind of tips....thank u soo much! I subbed!😊😊😊😊🥰
Im usually the "quiet kid" in class, because i always wear a facemask and i will never ever reveal my face (because its full of pimples and my face is really chubby 😬) and i dont talk to anyone, except my friend...my friend is quiet kid #2 because both of us only talk in whisper, or in texts...i always think that if i reveal my face people will judge me and make fun of me and i dont want that...i'd rather hide in the shadows with my one and only friend :)
I'll try this tips starting rn i hope i can do it!
Some of
these were
a bit discouraging
Because I
really wanted
to be myself.
Like I am
still shy and
sensitive, and people
always say
I'm very sweet
and I like it
that way.
I also don't want
to put mascara
on or put too
much on because
I have very
big eyes and they're
kind of a rare
colour and they
are just too gorgeous.
😔💌
Also, schools have
rules, you know !
And it's important
for you to follow
them.
Like if it's a school
for royals, you cannot
paint your nails.
Only natural tan
colours if you
really want to
paint them.
But the most
discouraging one
in this video
was the "signature
hairstyle".
Everyone wants
to do a different
hairstyle.
It just cannot
be the same
one over and
over again or
else it gets very
tiring for the head.
We need to do
different hairstyles,
like hair buns for
Ballet, Braids if you
want to go swimming,
Or a hairstyle that
no one had done
ever.
Kind of like
making your own.
It is fun doing
different hairstyles.
Just don't Make
your head tired
and hurt with the
same hairstyle.
Please be careful
not to hurt yourself
all the time.
LMFAOAOAOA TF IS THIS GOOFY AHH COMMENT
I'm not reading allat
your videos are the best I swear✨
"wear contact lenses"
bro just made me ten times more insecure about my glasses.
Don’t worry! I bet there cute!😊
@@hunnilola Nah, they def aren't. They make my eyes like 3 times smaller
This is definitely easier said than done...
Nawr cause there’s something in that school air that makes me automatically look crusty when I walk in 👹
Guys...tbh I'm the popular girl in my school and this girl tell all the things I do so just do it...it will work 100%
whitening your teeth isn't necessary, remember, yellow teeth are stronger than white ones, ofc if you want to whiten them, do it! but i feel like whitening your teeth will make them more fragile
Don't worry im aNti-Ti-Ti-Ti-Ti-fRagIle
@@uriemo3577 LOL
do not chase anyone . If they want you they will come to you eventually. That’s why I’m watching this vid so they WiLl LIke Meee
dont be shy me struggling with anxiety
theres something i've been struggling with recently. i want to look pretty, like everyone does, right? but whenever i stand infront of the mirror or fix my hair when there are other people around, i feel very uncomfortable. i just feel like i don't deserve to care about my appearance.
I have the same struggle, but just remember: do you care about people fixing their hair? No, right, so why would they care bout you doing it?
The first part was very useful, thank you ☺️
Thanks so much i will try my best to do everything ❤❤❤❤
For the hair one I don’t think you should have a signature style because that gets really boring having the same style most of the time you should switch it up to look different and to coordinate it with your outfits and emotion of that day💗