Oh my goodness, you don’t deserve that, I’m so sorry for your losses, if you haven’t stopped trying I’ll be praying but if you have stopped trying I hope you have a great rest of your life!!!❤❤❤💕💕
As a mother of four, ranging from ages 35, 25, 18 and 17… I’m right on the verge of being in a complete emptynester… I can say wholeheartedly it is the most devastating and challenging experience thus far. They are all gone away to school, starting their new lives. I’m so proud of them, but I miss them more than I could ever put to words. I feel so lost. #proudmom #emptynest #lostpurpose #whoevenami #momlove
Don't worry mama you have done so well and are about to do even better. One random mom on the internet is super proud of you. :) no one has this like you do!
Wish I had the support we have now for postpartum depression. Its a horrible feeling no new mom should have to go through alone. Thank you to all the moms. You are loved and you can do it!
I had my baby 9 months ago and have been following your videos since your pregnancy. PD and anxiety and the anger after a baby has given me the chance to grow. To learn more about myself. To create outlets when I feel overwhelmed. I’ve been wanting a good podcast to dip my toes in and I can’t wait to follow along on this journey as well. Congrats Mal ❤
This brought tears to my eyes. I just had a baby a month ago and unfortunately I developed an infection during my labour at home and had to be brought to hospital and get an emergency c-section. Not what I wanted, but my baby’s life was in danger, so he had to be out very quickly. After the c-section he was taken to the NICU for 5 days so we were separated.. I’m glad me and my baby are now safe and well, but I’m still processing what happened.. It’s nice that you’re starting this podcast
I feel for you mama. To have those first few days taken from you guys like that, where you want to be snuggling and bonding with your little one, is so hard. My best friend has three children, and she had home births with the first two. She planned on it with the third as well, but things went very wrong and they ended up at the hospital. Baby was in NICU for about 4 weeks, and they were unable to even hold her really until about the two week mark. It really, really affected her. She eventually told me that she was having a hard time connecting with the baby as she did easily with the first two. She said sometimes she felt as if it wasn’t even her child, and she had nightmares constantly that the child was switched in the hospital. She felt SO guilty at this, and I think the guilt more than anything was what was affecting her so much. We both didnt even realize this was a thing.. as people don’t talk about it much. But apparently it’s very very common, especially for mothers of NICU babies, to really struggle in the weeks and months after birth.. they don’t feel the bond as strong as they thought they would, or had felt with previous children. They feel a little distant and sad, and don’t really understand why. I think it’s because they were robbed of that initial connection right at birth, the first few moments where the child is no longer inside you but still connected to you, and the first few days of closeness. Your brain can literally see the child exit your body, and be placed on your breast. But if you have a c section or things go wrong, sometimes you aren’t even awake or aware of it happening. It just seems you go to sleep pregnant, and then wake up empty. It’s very jarring, and hard for the brain to accept and process, even though you know exactly what happened and why. But just know mama, it will pass. As you bond and spend time with your bub, the connection will strengthen and any feelings of distance will fade. My friend was so relieved when it did, and said that now, at about 6 months in, she can kind of laugh about how worried she was and the very harsh thoughts she had about herself as a mother. It’s normal. She said that now, she feels the same for the baby as she did for the others, overwhelmed with love, and says she almost feels even closer with this baby, because they had such a rough and scary start. You got this girl!! If you need help, reach out for it… don’t suffer alone. Xx.
Oh mal. I love this! We tried for 4 years to have a baby. I cried daily. I got pregnant and thought “the postpartum depression won’t hit me.. I tried so hard for this baby”. Unfortunately it hit me hard. My baby is 3 months and I still cry 5x a day. It’s hard to tell ppl because “this is what you wanted for 4 years” so sadly I keep the postpartum depression to myself, my husband, my close family and my therapist. I truly truly need this podcast. Thank you 🎉
Congratulations on the new podcast. I see you and Cam as my kids, but I can't wait yo listen to it. You guys are amazing parents. You are both blessing for others suffering like you and being vulnerable and to share your journey. ❤
This is wonderful. Being in mid 40s now with adult kids this would have helped me so much. I lost both my parents in my early 20s amd the result was i had to learn by experience only and many many times was lonely and overwhelmed, this gives me hope for the future💜
This made me tear up Mal 🥹 You’ve been like a sister walking through this journey of new motherhood with me this past year. Thank you so much for being vulnerable. I know it isn’t easy but you’ve blessed so many of us. I can’t wait to hear more from you ❤ Much love to you all. Happy Mother’s Day!
Thank you so much Mal. Cant wait to tune in! My husband and I struggled with infertility for years before finally doing IVF and was given our greatest little blessing 💙 it's still been a long road since he was born unexpectedly at 29 weeks and spent 52 days in the NICU. He's been home a few weeks now though and so far doing amazing!
You are adorable! I know firsthand how post partum depression affects a woman, as I struggled for 2 years after the birth of my 4th child. God bless you. You can & will get through it 🩷💪
What a wonderful idea! You'll be successful in this new arena and I'm certain others will want to participate, learn, share, and grow alongside of you. There are so many young mothers who feel alone and will benefit from your channel. God bless!
I could listen to your sweet, soft voice all day! I will definitely subscribe! Many blessings to you and your beautiful family ! Ps. You look happier than ever , I am so proud of you ! 🌼 🌸 🌻
Stoooppp I’m going to cry! I can’t wait for this. My daughter will be 4 months next week and it has been such a blessing to have her, but in having her I have lost parts of myself but gained new. It’s definitely a big transition to become a mama but so very worth it ❤
Love this! I gave birth to my daughter 3 weeks ago and am struggling from postpartum depression heavily 😢 I already knew this would happen because I was already depressed during my pregnancy… It’s hard to feel at the moment that I will ever truly love her or feel joy caring for her, cause at the moment I do not. Momentarily all I feel is misery
I'm so sorry that depression has taken over and took the joy of motherhood away from you. No mother should ever experience it. When I had my babies (over 20 years ago) everything was good. Something happened after I had my third baby and triggered the depression. I was put in the mental institution for a week instead of being treated like they are today. I wanted to stay home with my babies, it was my husband I didn't like at the moment in time, not my babies. I'm still grateful for the help I got then because it could have easily turned into a situation where I didn't want to be with my babies. I didn't get therapy, I was just put in the psych ward and put on medication. That's how I was done over 20 years ago. People didn't talk about PPD back then. I was only 21 at the time, with three babies. I pray things start to look up for you. The best thing you can have is a support system. You need somebody there that can lift you up when you're down and not criticize you for everything. You need somebody that will help take care of the baby when you don't feel like you can. You will get yourself back, and your baby will have the best mother she deserves. Your body just went thru all kinds of things, your hormones will go back to normal. I believe in you, and I'll be praying for you. I'm over here cheering you on!!!
Wonderful idea. My baby sister is a new mom and I believe she would benefit to hearing other moms of this generation and how they are hanging in there. Good job!!
Is he diagnosed with that? My father is and it doesn't compare to the behaviors associated with the term usage in general. If he truly is I hope you have a lot of help and support, because you need it, as they can't be helped. If he's not diagnosed, I encourage you to get support and help for yourself.
Omg seeing you so glowy and smiling and opening up about PPD is so heartwarming. I remember seeing your videos shortly after you gave birth and I could tell you were struggling, this is coming from a mom who was also struggling. I even left comments hoping you'd read them and feel a bit seen ❤ so happy to see your spark is back!
I love this!! ❤ I’ve lost all my pregnancies and one that was 15 weeks along. There are very few spaces for women who are moms with no babies. This made me think maybe I need to work on creating that space
Way to go turn your own journey into a way to bless others, Mel! 🌹 May God bless your new endeavor, may He build you up for the emotional struggles the stress will bring, and may He use this to help so many struggling or hurting others. 🙏 ❤ 🌸
This makes me so happy for you , I’m literally tearing up you’re so cute this is so awesome of you , I can’t wait too hear about how you helped so many people!!!💕
I appreciate this so much more than you know! My son was premature and I had to have an emergency c-section and still struggle to this day with all that has occurred. Anyway, you rock! 💜
Yay! Aww this is so great. As a mother who suffered miscarriage, postpartum depression and postpartum anxiety. Who had a traumatic second labor… this is right up my alley. ❤
You had your girl about a week or so before I had mine and I really struggled with motherhood at first. One night as my baby screamed for the 10th hour in a row and I found a video of yours talking about what I was going through❤️
This is so needed! I had my son 2 months ago in a super emergency delivery and he spent a month in the NICU and this was following by daughter that I had 2.5 years ago a month early in a semi emergency situation and she also had NICU time. With her I suffered from postpartum depression. So happy to see a space where mamas like me can hear other mamas who are learning to open up and speak about these things!
This mothers day I would've had a newborn. It's heartbreaking and has been one of the hardest things I had to go through, I've been through a lot already but man was this one hard. Happy (late) mothers day everyone ❤
My mum, had a miscarriage 4 months before she found that she was pregnant with me! When I was 11 years old she sat me down and talked to me about how she had a miss carriage and what it meant I got extremely emotional for my mother and worried about my future she comforted me about this and now I realise you will get over it and soon that ray of sunshine will pass by!
HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY MELL. You're doing a great job. Thank you for sharing with us. Can't wait to watch the podcast.💐❤️ God bless everyone Jesus Loves you so much ❤️😇🙏
You will do great! You also look great!! Your hair is cute! Postpartum is real. I find I am more emotional after than during pregnancy. You will do amazing!
ADORABLE PICTURE MISS❤❤❤ I BELIEVE YOU AND YOUR PODCAST WILL BE/DO AMAZING,YOU ARE THE MOST COMPASSIONATE,EMPATHATIC AND AMAZING HUMAN😊WITH A HUGE PURE HEART PERFECT FOR A "SAFE SPACE" JUST SAYING
This made me cry. Thank you for recognizing all mothers. I couldn't carry a pregnancy past 6 weeks so this video means a lot. ❤
I'm so sorry 🥺
I'm sure they could feel how loved they were 🤍
Oh my goodness, you don’t deserve that, I’m so sorry for your losses, if you haven’t stopped trying I’ll be praying but if you have stopped trying I hope you have a great rest of your life!!!❤❤❤💕💕
@@emma_luce_0623 ❤️
@@Katy_Death Thank you. I had to have a hysterectomy 4 years ago. No more trying. But thank you so much 💓
@@DeepBlue7 awww your most certainly welcome, I wish you nothing but happiness now on xx
Her vibes are so awesome, gentle and calm. I bet she’s a good mother
As a mother of four, ranging from ages 35, 25, 18 and 17… I’m right on the verge of being in a complete emptynester… I can say wholeheartedly it is the most devastating and challenging experience thus far. They are all gone away to school, starting their new lives. I’m so proud of them, but I miss them more than I could ever put to words. I feel so lost. #proudmom #emptynest #lostpurpose #whoevenami #momlove
Crying 😢 this was so sweet and thoughtful well said sweetheart
Don't worry mama you have done so well and are about to do even better. One random mom on the internet is super proud of you. :) no one has this like you do!
Wish I had the support we have now for postpartum depression. Its a horrible feeling no new mom should have to go through alone.
Thank you to all the moms. You are loved and you can do it!
I had my baby 9 months ago and have been following your videos since your pregnancy. PD and anxiety and the anger after a baby has given me the chance to grow. To learn more about myself. To create outlets when I feel overwhelmed. I’ve been wanting a good podcast to dip my toes in and I can’t wait to follow along on this journey as well. Congrats Mal ❤
She is absolutely gorgeous and I'm so glad she wants to help all Mom's!!!! I'm sure she's a wonderful person and Mom
Best wishes on your journey! You will do great things! Much love from Texas! 💝
This brought tears to my eyes. I just had a baby a month ago and unfortunately I developed an infection during my labour at home and had to be brought to hospital and get an emergency c-section. Not what I wanted, but my baby’s life was in danger, so he had to be out very quickly. After the c-section he was taken to the NICU for 5 days so we were separated.. I’m glad me and my baby are now safe and well, but I’m still processing what happened.. It’s nice that you’re starting this podcast
I feel for you mama. To have those first few days taken from you guys like that, where you want to be snuggling and bonding with your little one, is so hard.
My best friend has three children, and she had home births with the first two. She planned on it with the third as well, but things went very wrong and they ended up at the hospital. Baby was in NICU for about 4 weeks, and they were unable to even hold her really until about the two week mark. It really, really affected her. She eventually told me that she was having a hard time connecting with the baby as she did easily with the first two. She said sometimes she felt as if it wasn’t even her child, and she had nightmares constantly that the child was switched in the hospital. She felt SO guilty at this, and I think the guilt more than anything was what was affecting her so much. We both didnt even realize this was a thing.. as people don’t talk about it much. But apparently it’s very very common, especially for mothers of NICU babies, to really struggle in the weeks and months after birth.. they don’t feel the bond as strong as they thought they would, or had felt with previous children. They feel a little distant and sad, and don’t really understand why. I think it’s because they were robbed of that initial connection right at birth, the first few moments where the child is no longer inside you but still connected to you, and the first few days of closeness. Your brain can literally see the child exit your body, and be placed on your breast. But if you have a c section or things go wrong, sometimes you aren’t even awake or aware of it happening. It just seems you go to sleep pregnant, and then wake up empty. It’s very jarring, and hard for the brain to accept and process, even though you know exactly what happened and why. But just know mama, it will pass. As you bond and spend time with your bub, the connection will strengthen and any feelings of distance will fade. My friend was so relieved when it did, and said that now, at about 6 months in, she can kind of laugh about how worried she was and the very harsh thoughts she had about herself as a mother. It’s normal. She said that now, she feels the same for the baby as she did for the others, overwhelmed with love, and says she almost feels even closer with this baby, because they had such a rough and scary start. You got this girl!! If you need help, reach out for it… don’t suffer alone. Xx.
Oh mal. I love this! We tried for 4 years to have a baby. I cried daily. I got pregnant and thought “the postpartum depression won’t hit me.. I tried so hard for this baby”. Unfortunately it hit me hard. My baby is 3 months and I still cry 5x a day. It’s hard to tell ppl because “this is what you wanted for 4 years” so sadly I keep the postpartum depression to myself, my husband, my close family and my therapist. I truly truly need this podcast. Thank you 🎉
I’m so sorry you’re going through that :(
Congratulations on the new podcast. I see you and Cam as my kids, but I can't wait yo listen to it. You guys are amazing parents. You are both blessing for others suffering like you and being vulnerable and to share your journey. ❤
This is wonderful. Being in mid 40s now with adult kids this would have helped me so much. I lost both my parents in my early 20s amd the result was i had to learn by experience only and many many times was lonely and overwhelmed, this gives me hope for the future💜
This made me tear up Mal 🥹 You’ve been like a sister walking through this journey of new motherhood with me this past year. Thank you so much for being vulnerable. I know it isn’t easy but you’ve blessed so many of us. I can’t wait to hear more from you ❤ Much love to you all. Happy Mother’s Day!
Thank you so much Mal. Cant wait to tune in! My husband and I struggled with infertility for years before finally doing IVF and was given our greatest little blessing 💙 it's still been a long road since he was born unexpectedly at 29 weeks and spent 52 days in the NICU. He's been home a few weeks now though and so far doing amazing!
You are adorable! I know firsthand how post partum depression affects a woman, as I struggled for 2 years after the birth of my 4th child. God bless you. You can & will get through it 🩷💪
I’m so excited for this. This video absolutely got me in the feelings. 😢❤
Congratulations! Mom's/women really do need a safe space to talk about things.
Yeeesssssss ❤I cried watching this and felt happy to know someone with an influence is doing so much good
I'm so happy for you! You're a blessing to all of us❤ God bless y'all
What a wonderful idea! You'll be successful in this new arena and I'm certain others will want to participate, learn, share, and grow alongside of you. There are so many young mothers who feel alone and will benefit from your channel. God bless!
I could listen to your sweet, soft voice all day! I will definitely subscribe! Many blessings to you and your beautiful family !
Ps. You look happier than ever , I am so proud of you ! 🌼 🌸 🌻
Omg I can’t wait!! I’m a first time mom and would love a podcast that talks about motherhood
Stoooppp I’m going to cry! I can’t wait for this. My daughter will be 4 months next week and it has been such a blessing to have her, but in having her I have lost parts of myself but gained new. It’s definitely a big transition to become a mama but so very worth it ❤
I’m pregnant with my first and so scared. Thank you for this❤
Love this!
I gave birth to my daughter 3 weeks ago and am struggling from postpartum depression heavily 😢
I already knew this would happen because I was already depressed during my pregnancy…
It’s hard to feel at the moment that I will ever truly love her or feel joy caring for her, cause at the moment I do not. Momentarily all I feel is misery
I'm so sorry that depression has taken over and took the joy of motherhood away from you. No mother should ever experience it. When I had my babies (over 20 years ago) everything was good. Something happened after I had my third baby and triggered the depression. I was put in the mental institution for a week instead of being treated like they are today. I wanted to stay home with my babies, it was my husband I didn't like at the moment in time, not my babies. I'm still grateful for the help I got then because it could have easily turned into a situation where I didn't want to be with my babies. I didn't get therapy, I was just put in the psych ward and put on medication. That's how I was done over 20 years ago. People didn't talk about PPD back then. I was only 21 at the time, with three babies. I pray things start to look up for you. The best thing you can have is a support system. You need somebody there that can lift you up when you're down and not criticize you for everything. You need somebody that will help take care of the baby when you don't feel like you can. You will get yourself back, and your baby will have the best mother she deserves. Your body just went thru all kinds of things, your hormones will go back to normal. I believe in you, and I'll be praying for you. I'm over here cheering you on!!!
Wonderful idea. My baby sister is a new mom and I believe she would benefit to hearing other moms of this generation and how they are hanging in there. Good job!!
Mothers, please also take time for yourself and to grow as an individual human! We kids wish you'd had more hobbies and friends once we grow up!
Ur hair looks rlly good
That’s it jus wanted to say that
Motherhood really does look so good on you, Mal. Enjoy all your future blessings ❤
Thank you so much for your love and care for moms like me who had or still have NICU babies and other moms in different situations!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
❤❤ Mal you are so lucky to have a supportive husband. Mine is a classic narcissist and now learning to cope
Is he diagnosed with that? My father is and it doesn't compare to the behaviors associated with the term usage in general. If he truly is I hope you have a lot of help and support, because you need it, as they can't be helped. If he's not diagnosed, I encourage you to get support and help for yourself.
@@brandylou9132 wtf
You're so real for this Mallory, I truly appreciate you 💖
Omg seeing you so glowy and smiling and opening up about PPD is so heartwarming. I remember seeing your videos shortly after you gave birth and I could tell you were struggling, this is coming from a mom who was also struggling. I even left comments hoping you'd read them and feel a bit seen ❤ so happy to see your spark is back!
As a mom who still struggles, thank you for doing this!!! Looking forward to listening! And congratulations ❤
This is beautiful, Mal! Also that haircut is incredible on you! 😍
Mal!! I'm so proud of you!! You will do GREAT things, Lil Mama!!
Thata girl! You know the analogy, “Things happen first and reason”?!?!? Congratulations!! Blessings! ❤😊😊
If I was local I’d love to share my experiences. But I can’t wait to hear what’s in store!
You're so beautiful..talented. genuine. And an excellent mom!! Keep that head up. You got this. Good luck Mal in your new journey ❤
Proud of you, it's a topic that's not always shared, but it needs to be.❤
Aw i feel so bad for you but also so excited about you starting a new journey in your life❤❤❤
I love this!! ❤ I’ve lost all my pregnancies and one that was 15 weeks along. There are very few spaces for women who are moms with no babies. This made me think maybe I need to work on creating that space
Way to go turn your own journey into a way to bless others, Mel! 🌹 May God bless your new endeavor, may He build you up for the emotional struggles the stress will bring, and may He use this to help so many struggling or hurting others. 🙏 ❤ 🌸
This makes me so happy for you , I’m literally tearing up you’re so cute this is so awesome of you , I can’t wait too hear about how you helped so many people!!!💕
You’re making me cry! I love this ❤
I appreciate this so much more than you know! My son was premature and I had to have an emergency c-section and still struggle to this day with all that has occurred. Anyway, you rock! 💜
I just am seeing this. Infertility, nicu, & special needs mama of 2, I am so excited about this. And I am so extremely proud of you. 🖤✨
YUSSSSS! SO Here for this new venture. Very Proud of you girl ❤ Best Wishes 👏
Yay! Aww this is so great. As a mother who suffered miscarriage, postpartum depression and postpartum anxiety. Who had a traumatic second labor… this is right up my alley. ❤
I'm so excited for you and your journey. Thank you for sharing such a hard topic. I appreciate you and your family so much ❤
You had your girl about a week or so before I had mine and I really struggled with motherhood at first. One night as my baby screamed for the 10th hour in a row and I found a video of yours talking about what I was going through❤️
So cool congratulations Mal. Looking forward to watching.
Congratulations and thanks for helping moms with your encouragement and words that can be helpful. Sending love from Tx
Such a good person with positive messages
you’re such a beautiful soul mal 🤍
Momhood podcast! That’s awesome!
Love the blonde on you! You’re glowing! 🩷 Gorgeous 😍
You are SO PRETTY OMG
The blonde hair looks amazing.
Much more importantly, I know you’re going to do amazing things with your experience and your voice. ❤
At the end of the day, moms are just girls, and people forget that❤
This is so needed! I had my son 2 months ago in a super emergency delivery and he spent a month in the NICU and this was following by daughter that I had 2.5 years ago a month early in a semi emergency situation and she also had NICU time. With her I suffered from postpartum depression. So happy to see a space where mamas like me can hear other mamas who are learning to open up and speak about these things!
Mal thank you for the reminder of love. Hugs I cannot wait to hear the podcast.
i love that cam is always dressed to go running
This mothers day I would've had a newborn. It's heartbreaking and has been one of the hardest things I had to go through, I've been through a lot already but man was this one hard. Happy (late) mothers day everyone ❤
Hold on.. this made me so emotional ❤❤❤❤❤😢😢😢
That podcast thumbnail picture is stunning, fits the vibe perfectly 💞
praying for all moms out there ❤🙏
Congratulations you really deserve it!!!
I thought the world sence was single I almost cried 😂😂
My mum, had a miscarriage 4 months before she found that she was pregnant with me! When I was 11 years old she sat me down and talked to me about how she had a miss carriage and what it meant I got extremely emotional for my mother and worried about my future she comforted me about this and now I realise you will get over it and soon that ray of sunshine will pass by!
I’m gonna be there to support Mel the whole way❤️
i love your hair your awesome and beautiful ❤
You can do this Mel. So proud of you snd when you have the next baby do t go to the same hospital. They're really terrible the way they did you...
STOPPP THAT'S AMAZING MAL!!!! Gorgeous, btw 🫶
Mal!!! So awesome. I'm here for it
HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY MELL. You're doing a great job. Thank you for sharing with us. Can't wait to watch the podcast.💐❤️ God bless everyone Jesus Loves you so much ❤️😇🙏
Dude. Motherhood podcast from someone who’s been a mom a couple months. Hahaha lol
So happy for u your gonna do great 💕
Awe this is so awesome 💯 i am so very proud of you Mal!!! I cant wait to hear what you've got next!!!! 🩷🩵
Congratulations and I love your hair.
So proud of you!!
Mal is the sweetest person ever ❤❤❤❤😢😢😢
Such a sweet and cool idea! I can totally relate to those topics!
Your hair is amazing on you looks very good
YAY MAL so proud of you ❤
Girl, I had no idea you changed your hair.Youlook stunning!
Okay girl!!! I see you!!!🥹🥹🥹😊
You will do great! You also look great!! Your hair is cute! Postpartum is real. I find I am more emotional after than during pregnancy. You will do amazing!
ADORABLE PICTURE MISS❤❤❤
I BELIEVE YOU AND YOUR PODCAST WILL BE/DO AMAZING,YOU ARE THE MOST COMPASSIONATE,EMPATHATIC AND AMAZING HUMAN😊WITH A HUGE PURE HEART PERFECT FOR A "SAFE SPACE" JUST SAYING
Proud of you, Mal
Love this, and loving your bangs!
Happy Mother's Day, Mal.!!!
Congrats! As a mom of a medically difficult child I’d be more than willing to talk with you
Thank you for this ❤️🫶🏽
This was so Beautiful 🥹
Has everyone noticed the people who became famous on tiktok ate now doing podcasts.
Yup literally all of them
You look AMAZING!!!! ❤
This is so sweet!❤❤
How Exciting 🎉🎉🎉🎉Praying this helps so many dealing with this ❤
Ik im a kid but I will definitely take a listen
You said nicu moms
🥺🥺🥺💕💕💕💕
So excited! Rooting you on 🥹🫶🏼