no cause i had to lecture all my guy classmates about periods. ESPECIALLY the ones with girlfriends because they were like “they aren’t that painful” or “just hold it in”. made a whole powerpoint presentation for them
Oh my God I mean that would be nice if we could just hold it in but we can't, it flows we can't help it! All we can do is try to alleviate the flow as much as possible.
Just FYI I've been told that childbirth pain is like the worst tooth abscess you've ever had over several days. I've been through the tooth abscess, to the point I thought I was going to die. There is no way I want to put even my worst enemy through that, let alone the woman I love.
@@vedantdinkar9682 I've been kicked there, and I threw up, and collapsed on the ground. After I was able to get back up, I beat up the little shit who did that to me, because he thought it was funny. What I did to him hurt him far less than what he did to me. Edit: I just hope the lesson I gave him convinced him not to do that to anyone else. You can kill someone doing that.
The amount of ignorant guys it's like oh my God, I mean luckily I have people in my life that understand my cycle but still it's annoying when someone doesn't understand and you have to explain it to them.
Yes it is ridiculous that the subject of periods are a taboo to the point grown adult men don't understand how a female's body works. Good to be educated.
I heard a story about a woman traveling through the international airport of a, shall we say, less educated country, and got pulled up by a male border control officer for having a pack of tampons in her carry-on luggage, he thought was contraband. Detained her for a while until a female officer came to her rescue. Told my daughter that story and she couldn't believe there are people like that in the world.
Just saying, there was one time in the bar one guy asked why women spend so much time in the bathroom. The bar owner said, "We have a pussy to wipe, you guys are drip dry." I got a big laugh out of that.
"Periods don't hurt" One of my biggest regrets is not calling out a *professor* that say that. He said that 'the uterus doesn't have any pain receptors, so it's all in your head'. I should've at least said 'Yeah, it just swells and squishes the other organs that DO feel pain'. Think of how much a pimple, which is a blocked pore, hurts. Now imagine a "pimple" the size of an avocado that technically pops itself.
So, I have no problems whatsoever but the first day it hurts like hell. Here's the point: it's not my uterus that hurts. It's my side, my back, my tummy and all the bits in between. And I'm grateful I never got headaches. I have friends who actually have problems and I don't even want to imagine it.
The professor is clearly uneducated because the uterus is what causes cramps because of muscle contractions (the uterus is a muscular organ) Stay in school kids and highly recommend that you learn about the reproductive anatomy P.S. -Very sorry you had to go through that
@@cryingrightnow1 That was a Psychology 101 professor. Whenever I think about the number of students that leave that class thinking 'periods don't hurt, my teacher said so' I really really regret not saying anything. He dropped that "fact" in the middle of another subject and the whole class just froze staring at him.
bro that sounds so nice the other day i got my period on the 20th last month and it was like 5 days before i was expecting it and i was in the middle of my class when i felt like i had got it and i was praying to god that it wasn't and it was an i was like 💀⚰️(also im a Muslim woman and it was Ramadan which is the month we fast and i couldn't since i had gotten my period), im happy it was only mid day and not like 2 or 3 bc that would have been sad)
"You're not a virgin anymore if you use tampons." I can blow that myth out of the water. I was a virgin when I got married. And in spite of tampons, gynecological exams, I bled on my wedding night.
@@hannahhester8376 yes, a lot of women don't, so it doesn't mean anything if there is no blood after your first time. A lot of times, your hymen is broken before your first time because any rigorous activity can break it. Even horseback riding, biking, or anything like that.
@@winniethepooht5776 Yes, not bleeding during someone's first time doesn't mean they're not a virgin, but bleeding kinda means that they're 100% a virgin, well, unless their hymen is overgrown.
the whole virgin thing is just another way to control and shame women. it doesn't matter if a man sleeps with 1000 people but if a girl sleeps with 1 she suddenly has less "worth" that is bullshit. Also not everyone bleeds the first time, usually that is caused by your partner not being careful, same with pain during the first time, that is your partner well you get it. girls are told they are supposed to bleed and it is supposed to hurt but both are lies.
The more I read what men have to say about female body, the more I have the urge to buy a t-shirt where Rachel from Friends is saying: No uterus, no opinion.
@@Pringleworm But if everyone only bled for that one day, women would only have to use their products up to 4 or 5 times a day depending on their flow and have some for the next month.
“Can’t you control your period?” Lol the horror on my guy friends faces will forever be the best thing in the world 💀🤚 (I explained to them that we couldn’t and some other stuff)
@@billcipher3946 of course. If you want to see what happens when a woman isn't educated just look at what's happening on twitter. or tumblr or tiktok. or facebook. or... just look.
If my period was scheduled it would be SO weird but also nice at the same time like having a reminder when the cramps start coming. But fortunately I use my period tracker on my phone and I can predict the next cycle. 😂
@@laurentiare I wish it were that simple for me. I just completed fasting for the month of Ramadan, and fasting usually throws my cycle off. Now Idk when to expect it lol
@@Kyutie. I know I'm about to sound a little dramatic here, but tysm for replying to my comment 😊. I've literally watched you for years and was hoping that one day you'd reply, so ty 😊💖🙏
I remember when I was in my early 20s I was working in a grocery store. There was a woman that I worked with who wouldn't let her teen daughter wear tampons because she didn't want her to get use to the "insertion" feeling. I was flabbergasted. That is the LAST think I'm thinking about if I use a tampon. I've never forgotten it. She must of seen it in my face, too, because she looked rather embarrassed when she told me it.
I had to explain to my teacher in middle school about periods. This is a 60+ year old man. He also thought we could hold it in like pee, and that cramps were made up. When I tried to explain it to him he thought I was lying and sent me to the principal’s office. How is this guy this old, possibly has a wife and daughter, and he didn’t know this? Our sex Ed needs to be taught better or something lol
Ummm, I always thought that periods come when they come. One girl I talked with was visibly uncomfortable. She told me she was having her period. I asked her if my periodic intestinal cramps, generally painful enough to double me over in pain, were anything like that. She said yes that was pretty much the level of pain. I have no idea how all she did was wince when I would have been curled up on the floor.
@@hannahhester8376 Well, like I said, I do get cramps, and I did ask. She was going through enough pain that had I experienced it, I would have been curled up on the floor. And yes, I did have to hide it myself since I had to be at work, and I did not dare tell anybody. Those close to me knew anyway regardless of how I tried to hide it. I've had that problem for about 50 years that I can remember. I'm 60, just for context.
It really depends on the girl and the cramps. for me the first day was hell, I would stay hom from school, all curled up. This lasted about 16 hours. the rest of the days were a numb pain that I could ignore with relative ease. But if I had to do something in those 16 hours I'd do it. It had to be really necessary and impossible to procrastinate but if it was then I'd just put on a smile and go do my things. Of course people could see it wasn't a good smile and my friends knew not to talk to me. But that's because my priority has always been myself. If it had been to study or work or my friends I would have just smiled and gone through with it.
Depends on the person and their pain tolerance. My mother's are just uncomfortable, but not debilitating. Most of the time mine are the same, but a few times a year it hits me like a bus and I'll have vertigo and agonizing cramps. I've had them so bad I've thrown up from the pain and lost the strength to get up.
I've had guys when I was in kindergarten tell me that ONLY women have eyelashes, men don't. At least they weren't narcissistic so they looked at themselves in the mirror all the time.
Imagine if the first fact was true. Everyone in the world needs to watch out the first of the month because a good percentage of the population is going to be very VERY hormonal 😂😂
The last time I went horseback riding my hymen broke. I was able to have periods at that point, and thought I was getting one. Upon furthur realizing it was just because of the position (and the fact the horse ran to his stall) that it happened. It was no big deal. We need to help the men realize that having or not having a hymen means jack. Edit: I am all for proper, safer sex-ed in schools.
I tried to imagine my husband mansplaining a period to my daughter and seriously can't even start to imagine it. the only thing that comes to mind is his panicked face.
@@OceanSongBird6355 should have learned more about the survival part. How comes he never got to the lesson where if you mansplain something to a woman you risk being killed?
I literally love the men writing women comps, what that person said is true. It's always boobs boobs boobs. I mean... I like women too and boobs are nice but these male authors seemed to be OBSESSED, it's concerning.
There was one time, I was in the bar. The barmaid and 2 other ladies were next to me. I was reading a book at the time and not paying attention to what they were saying. All of a sudden, the bartender asked me "Which do you like, quantity or quality?" I said "Quality" She turned to the other two ladies and said "There you see? He likes my boobs better than yours." Well, that happened to be true, but they all knew I was caught off guard and had no idea what the question was about. In my mind at that time, "The Dragon Riders of Pern" Sci Fi series was more important to me than their discussion. Not that I would have ever admitted that to them.
@@StarSong936 Haha nice. Bar stories are always interesting. Usually because people are very drunk or very... What's an appropriate word?? Quirky (it depends on their reason for going to the bar) and then you have the ones who are both. Makes for quite the night ig
@@mesozoiccreature685 There are a lot of stories I could tell. However, best to save them for another time. I need the entertainment value from them after all. One more story here though. I was sitting at a table with Trouble and Dallas. Dallas said, "We should get closer." Trouble said "I'm a lot closer than you think." I'll leave the interpretation up to your imagination.
The first one… honestly pretty funny. I’m sure he was being lighthearted too 😂 If only am I right- Time to stop procrastinating and study for my ap psychology exam tomorrow. Cramming 101
@ 6:49 I used to read my mom's medical textbooks when I was growing up. I got a very through grounding in the mechanisms of sex but nothing of the emotions and bonding. My first girlfriend was someone my parents did not approve of at all. With my 2nd girlfriend my mom's comment was "I never thought you would have a girlfriend old enough to be my mother." Mind you, my mom liked her, she was just shocked how old my girlfriend was. My girlfriend at the time was about 20 years older than my mom.
My dad one time did research on menstrual cramps and discovered that they're caused by lack of calcium. He used to order this powdered mineral mix that he always insisted to me that drinking it daily will stop cramps once and for all. Every time I'd still get cramps, he immediately got all angry at me and told me that I need to drink it every day otherwise I wouldn't get cramps in the 1st place. It was so annoying whenever he'd find out because he wouldn't leave me alone and it seemed like never wanted to comprehend about the woman's anatomy not working that way. I eventually found out my own hack of not getting cramps anymore by taking pamprin once a day prior to when my next period starts.
@@duaaouznali1176 Unfortunately I lost him from an accident way before I discovered the hack. There's no way of telling if he would have finally accepted the reality that my menstrual cramps were never of his concern in the first place. I'd probably never tell him if he were to notice me not cramping anymore, then he'd probably assume I was drinking those mineral mixes like he expected me to do in the first place.
I was once bleeding through my pants because I didn’t have anything and it was unexpected and my brother told me to just hold it in. This was 3 years ago, so he was 18 and I was 17.
I once said that I felt like I had diarrhea as a joke because I had a stomachache, and he said, “wait women can poop? That’s disgusting.” I’m not joking.
Us trans-guys are just cackling at the fact that other guys don't know this stuff. Then my female friends are like, "How did you know?" And then I'm just like, "Honey... did you forget I'm trans? I was one of you a few years ago!"
Story time! One of my cousins births was very fast and Very traumatic! So fast that she wasn’t dilated all the way, plus that baby had a big head, Plus she is a short person with narrowish hips… let’s just say three holes became one. It took weeks for her to heal. 😬😬😬😬😬😬 And, because this is something I Didn’t Know before I had my daughter, you use the same muscles to push out a baby and a poop. I found out the embarrassing way, when my daughter wasn’t the first thing to come out that day. 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
I think the possible misunderstanding that leads to the thing of boobs changing depending on mood is because of how the appearance of boobs can change a little depending on posture so if you're cheerful you would probably stand up straighter which pushes your chest out more which makes your boobs appear perkier. But if you're sad you're more likely to be slouching and stuff which might have the opposite effect? It's still a bit of a reach though...
the "perk up" thing is probably due to how nipples stand up when a woman is sexually excited. take this sentence then misunderstand it, generalise it, generalise it some more and you get to see how tits bounce up when we're happy
Read a book that said, and I quote, "I could see the small bulges of her nipples becoming a bit more pert. She was feeling better. Soon they would harden to their full glory as a happy woman's should" and "They (the boobs) swayed with a life of their own. Teasing and taunting everyone around them. Showing a bit of cleavage now and then, captivating me like two sultry dancers." Needless to say I noped right outta there.
For the one with the father saying to exercise, he was almost correct. If you exercise, underweight, fit, overweight, or anything else, it slows down your period due to your body being active. Usually u bleed more when ur in a single position, but something abt science with the activity blah blah blah it slows it down and u can make it go away for a few hours. (Yes I’m a female, but my mother taught this when I was like 10, around when I had just got my first period. And yes, it worked, well Atleast 4 me. )
There's something to the idea of that guy thinking his girlfriend wasn't a virgin because she used tampons. Remember the notion that using tampons was self rape? 🙄
The one at 2:56 is partially true, due to some diseases you can have a 'forever period' - basically your body doesn't stop producing blood so you have a continuous period until you get whatever you need removed/treated. So, yes, some periods do last longer then a month, likely over a year, and sometimes over 10 or 20 years.
my teacher alway said that. and always added "it doesn't work like that anymore. look in your pocket - that smartphone you have there means internet and internet means that you are a click away from knowing it. It's not as if you have to take a hour off to go to a library and hope they have the right book. Or maybe hope that someday someone will explain it to you. Ignorance _is_ a sin nowadays." (yes, he would make this speech or a variant of it - usually longer - every single time).
Sorry to be that nitpicky male but male refers to sex which can ot be changed gender refers to anything man woman nonbinary . Also being ashamed of something you were born isn't productive . Don't hate appreciate
HOW DO THESE GUYS THINK LIKE THIS?! On a different note...to the guy who wants to invent vaginal glue: Sooo, you WANT us to die from infections that will assuredly come from sealing ourselves up to "hold the blood in"? Second side note: To the guy who said, "childbirth can't be THAT painful." PLEASE. You can't even push a kidney stone through your peepee without screaming like you're dying (admittedly, they are awful, so I don't blame you, but)...DO NOT be telling me that you could fit a whole full-term baby through there, when you can't fit a kidney stone, sir.
It's even worse in the rare case when the epidural, which is basically the anesthesia of childbirth, gives the mother a headache which can cause throbbing sensations for even a month after the child is born
@@duaaouznali1176 oof...I didn't even know that was possible. I'm sorry for all who had to go through that. A throbbing headache is never fun. But I imagine it's much worse after giving birth, and if it lasts a whole heccing month...that's NOT something I look forward to. 🙃🙃🙃
@ 1:52 I knew what periods were. That being said my first experience was to say "Are you okay, did I hurt you? I had never had that experience before. I had no idea she was on her period or I would not have done anything. I thought I had severely hurt her. I mean, I knew that happens, but this was my first time experiencing what it looked like. I thought I had done serious damage and I felt really bad about it.
Actually, where I live, pads are more common, so we have period underwear for nighttime (Not like I've used any, I just see them in shops). Just thought I would put that out there! :)
I had a friend in middle school who's father told her that her period was a curse from God because she was female.( Ya, that messed her up for quite a while)
BC worked out quite well for me. It takes care of my horrible acne and it makes my periods less painful (though sometimes I'll still get to experience bad pain). I remember my mom and her mom telling me that their period cramps would be so bad that they had to skip school because the pain was not only a distraction, but it would hurt to even do simple things. The only downside I've experienced with BC is that I'm now more sensitive to the sun than I was back when I was 12 (about when I started the pill). Never met any guys or gals that knew nothing about periods, how the female body works, etc.
I’ve met people who genuinely have no idea how annoying the process to get on birth control is or why you’d do it if you weren’t sleeping with someone on the regular. I spent a year on it with a dosage that still meant my periods came every month (it just regulated it) just to make sure my blood pressure levels would withstand not bleeding every month. There were monthly checkups to make sure I hadn’t developed a disorder and that the medication wasn’t conflicting with any of my other pills. The only reason I’m on birth control at all is because of incredibly painful cramps and the only things that exists to deal with it is birth control and pain meds. Personally I would’ve gone for the shot if it didn’t have a depressant side effect that would likely make me react poorly due to my long list of mental health issues.
1:45 no bc this happened to me too, except it was by my history teacher. in middle school. my friend needed to use the bathroom to change her pad and told the teacher, who told her that she could wait. she then explained that she was on her period. (it was normal to say that in oru middle school). he then told her to. hold it in.
There are places where they hook up Guys to feel menstrual cramps and even childbirth. Some moan that the letter is of no point because a birth gives An actual result not with the device. Wella period doesn't so let them at least have fun with a simulation of cramps as best as possible.
I tried the birth control pills they made my period all weird so I eventually stopped and switch to the shot and I’m terrified of needles but that’s all the doctor offered me… And for the childbirth thing I never had but I here woman explain it to guys like pushing a watermelon out of your ass
I once read this story about this girl’s hippie father say to her when she was having cramps “maybe if you worshipped your uterus it would be more nice to you.” Like how in the hell is that gonna do anything?! And how would you even do that to begin with?!
Being the only woman in my family of 4 (husband & 2 sons) I have made sure they all know how a woman works. I don't need them thinking stuff like this, like they know better or I would never get any sympathy when needed. Especially since i had horrible heath experiences as a woman. I feel like I have trained them well for their relationships. Never heard of any girlfriends having a problem with them not being sensitive enough to them for things they cannot control as a woman.
Ladies, you can buy a washable menstrual pad online (if there's available in your country) so you don't have to buy pads every time you got a period. You save the environment and save money!
Before I watch the rest of the video, I just caught your intro. I'm thinking, "this is gonna make me angry, isn't it?" I'll try to remember to reply to this if Im right or not. Honestly, it's not that men don't know that's makes me angry, it's when they are so confidently wrong and refuse to be corrected, and then spread the false information to their equally ignorant male friends, or worse the internet, as if they are correct.
I was right for some, others weren't as bad as expected, lol. I've definitely read some really bad ones online. The worse was about this guy who believed that a period should only be one tiny dot of blood, if it's more than your unhealthy, and that's why it's called a period, because it was just a dot. My MOTHER (dropped out of school in grade 8) believes that if you're not sexually active then you lose your period. She won't listen to me. She says that's why she lost hers, I'm like, "no mom, that menopause..."
I'm so glad I found you again!! I used to watch your channels 4 years ago, but I lost your channel name over time. I tried looking for it since I didn't have an account back then and didn't subscribe but here we are! I'm so glad you're still posting ^^
This guys who think that stuff like 'periods' (and childbirth) are not painful, are probably the same one who act like they are literaly dying when they have a cold
I believe men that grew up with out sisters/mums, did not get this very vital lesson in life. My period pain is mostly taken care of with Panadol. For my baby sister, who is in her early 20s', she needs the meds and hot water bottles and space. My younger sister, whom is in her late 20s', is more tougher than us both. Our mother was more like me in hers. My poor brother and father, they had to walk on eggshells when the cycles where bad, because when all four of us where still under the same roof, our cycles went mum, me, younger sister, to youngest sister. He and dad became troopers during this time.
no cause i had to lecture all my guy classmates about periods. ESPECIALLY the ones with girlfriends because they were like “they aren’t that painful” or “just hold it in”. made a whole powerpoint presentation for them
Oh my God I mean that would be nice if we could just hold it in but we can't, it flows we can't help it! All we can do is try to alleviate the flow as much as possible.
as you should bestie, you have my full respect
the world needs more ppl like you frfr
you have ny FULLEST resoect
as 👏🏽you 👏🏽 should 👏🏽
you got all my respect: Give them that education!
"Childbirth doesn't hurt"
Dude. People DIE from childbirth. It's a slow and painful death
Just FYI I've been told that childbirth pain is like the worst tooth abscess you've ever had over several days. I've been through the tooth abscess, to the point I thought I was going to die. There is no way I want to put even my worst enemy through that, let alone the woman I love.
@@StarSong936 Hey, uh... just a curious question.
How does it compare to being kicked there(PP)?
@@vedantdinkar9682 I've been kicked there, and I threw up, and collapsed on the ground. After I was able to get back up, I beat up the little shit who did that to me, because he thought it was funny. What I did to him hurt him far less than what he did to me.
Edit: I just hope the lesson I gave him convinced him not to do that to anyone else. You can kill someone doing that.
From what I’ve heard, apparently childbirth is the second most painful thing a human can experience, second after being burnt alive
And that is why i wanna stay a virgin😆 . I'm a forever single bish and i'm proud of it😎
you know, periods should be taught to guys as well as REQUIRED EDUCATION. DO YALL KNOW HOW MANY GUYS DON'T KNOW WHAT A PERIOD IS?????
The amount of ignorant guys it's like oh my God, I mean luckily I have people in my life that understand my cycle but still it's annoying when someone doesn't understand and you have to explain it to them.
@@slam.p Just recently? We learned it in the 90's at my school (European) although most guys probably tried to forget ASAP when class was over lol
Yes it is ridiculous that the subject of periods are a taboo to the point grown adult men don't understand how a female's body works. Good to be educated.
I heard a story about a woman traveling through the international airport of a, shall we say, less educated country, and got pulled up by a male border control officer for having a pack of tampons in her carry-on luggage, he thought was contraband. Detained her for a while until a female officer came to her rescue. Told my daughter that story and she couldn't believe there are people like that in the world.
A friend and I once had to explain to our guy friend what a period is, it was fun explaining it to him, but he left me on read
Just saying, there was one time in the bar one guy asked why women spend so much time in the bathroom. The bar owner said, "We have a pussy to wipe, you guys are drip dry." I got a big laugh out of that.
DRIP DRY
"drip dry" 💀💀💀💀💀
Do you remember what he said after she replied?
@@dimoned123 He didn't. He was em-bare-assed.
"Periods don't hurt"
One of my biggest regrets is not calling out a *professor* that say that. He said that 'the uterus doesn't have any pain receptors, so it's all in your head'.
I should've at least said 'Yeah, it just swells and squishes the other organs that DO feel pain'. Think of how much a pimple, which is a blocked pore, hurts. Now imagine a "pimple" the size of an avocado that technically pops itself.
Yeah, does he ever heard of endometriosis AND YOUR UTERUS MAKING LINING AND CAUSING BLOOD OUTSIDE OF THE UTERUS THAT BUILDS UP
So, I have no problems whatsoever but the first day it hurts like hell.
Here's the point: it's not my uterus that hurts. It's my side, my back, my tummy and all the bits in between. And I'm grateful I never got headaches.
I have friends who actually have problems and I don't even want to imagine it.
Technically all pain is in the head. Now try telling that to someone who is screaming and writhing in pain.
The professor is clearly uneducated because the uterus is what causes cramps because of muscle contractions (the uterus is a muscular organ) Stay in school kids and highly recommend that you learn about the reproductive anatomy
P.S. -Very sorry you had to go through that
@@cryingrightnow1 That was a Psychology 101 professor. Whenever I think about the number of students that leave that class thinking 'periods don't hurt, my teacher said so' I really really regret not saying anything. He dropped that "fact" in the middle of another subject and the whole class just froze staring at him.
Recently I joined a young activists club at school and we made period products free at our school so now people don't have to worry! :)
That's so cool! My school nurse has feminine hygiene products in her office but I kinda wish they were in the bathrooms too
@@boona. yeah same
bro that sounds so nice
the other day i got my period on the 20th last month and it was like 5 days before i was expecting it and i was in the middle of my class when i felt like i had got it and i was praying to god that it wasn't and it was an i was like 💀⚰️(also im a Muslim woman and it was Ramadan which is the month we fast and i couldn't since i had gotten my period), im happy it was only mid day and not like 2 or 3 bc that would have been sad)
"You're not a virgin anymore if you use tampons." I can blow that myth out of the water. I was a virgin when I got married. And in spite of tampons, gynecological exams, I bled on my wedding night.
The whole bleeding first time with sex thing, everybody is different, right? Sone girls do some girls don't.
@@hannahhester8376 yes, a lot of women don't, so it doesn't mean anything if there is no blood after your first time. A lot of times, your hymen is broken before your first time because any rigorous activity can break it. Even horseback riding, biking, or anything like that.
@@hannahhester8376 lmao how did i find you coincidentally on here
@@winniethepooht5776 Yes, not bleeding during someone's first time doesn't mean they're not a virgin, but bleeding kinda means that they're 100% a virgin, well, unless their hymen is overgrown.
the whole virgin thing is just another way to control and shame women. it doesn't matter if a man sleeps with 1000 people but if a girl sleeps with 1 she suddenly has less "worth" that is bullshit. Also not everyone bleeds the first time, usually that is caused by your partner not being careful, same with pain during the first time, that is your partner well you get it. girls are told they are supposed to bleed and it is supposed to hurt but both are lies.
The more I read what men have to say about female body, the more I have the urge to buy a t-shirt where Rachel from Friends is saying: No uterus, no opinion.
well we do have those guys who think that if they get boobs, heels,makeup and walk like they have a log of shit up their asshole that they are females
Trueeeee
Imagine if we all had our period on the same day, AND THAT IT LASTED ONLY A DAY!!!! In that case, that day could be an off day for every women!
I mean, the menstrual products would be sold out in like, seconds lol.
@@Pringleworm yeah… true tho
@@Pringleworm But if everyone only bled for that one day, women would only have to use their products up to 4 or 5 times a day depending on their flow and have some for the next month.
Men Beware a boatload of women with PMS 😂😂 On the same day.
imagine if woman had their period on the exact same day, last one day, AND we'd be able to hold it in?!
“Can’t you control your period?”
Lol the horror on my guy friends faces will forever be the best thing in the world
💀🤚 (I explained to them that we couldn’t and some other stuff)
This is why SOME men need to be educated.
actually _all_ men need to be educated. This is the result when they aren't. For what happens when they are look at the normal people.
@@wisteria3032 it rlly is necessary
@@wisteria3032 same goes for women
@@billcipher3946 of course. If you want to see what happens when a woman isn't educated just look at what's happening on twitter. or tumblr or tiktok. or facebook. or... just look.
I'd love if my period was scheduled. It'd make life SO much easier lol 😂
HAHA right?!
If my period was scheduled it would be SO weird but also nice at the same time like having a reminder when the cramps start coming. But fortunately I use my period tracker on my phone and I can predict the next cycle. 😂
@@laurentiare I wish it were that simple for me. I just completed fasting for the month of Ramadan, and fasting usually throws my cycle off. Now Idk when to expect it lol
@@Kyutie. I know I'm about to sound a little dramatic here, but tysm for replying to my comment 😊. I've literally watched you for years and was hoping that one day you'd reply, so ty 😊💖🙏
I used the pill to track mine for few yrs
I remember when I was in my early 20s I was working in a grocery store. There was a woman that I worked with who wouldn't let her teen daughter wear tampons because she didn't want her to get use to the "insertion" feeling. I was flabbergasted. That is the LAST think I'm thinking about if I use a tampon. I've never forgotten it. She must of seen it in my face, too, because she looked rather embarrassed when she told me it.
I had to explain to my teacher in middle school about periods. This is a 60+ year old man. He also thought we could hold it in like pee, and that cramps were made up. When I tried to explain it to him he thought I was lying and sent me to the principal’s office. How is this guy this old, possibly has a wife and daughter, and he didn’t know this? Our sex Ed needs to be taught better or something lol
The “lipstick” idea is just crazy how the heck would it even be safe
Ummm, I always thought that periods come when they come. One girl I talked with was visibly uncomfortable. She told me she was having her period. I asked her if my periodic intestinal cramps, generally painful enough to double me over in pain, were anything like that. She said yes that was pretty much the level of pain. I have no idea how all she did was wince when I would have been curled up on the floor.
Mine are horrible, but unfortunately girls are taught to not show that periods hurt. Don't talk about it, ect.
@@hannahhester8376 Well, like I said, I do get cramps, and I did ask. She was going through enough pain that had I experienced it, I would have been curled up on the floor. And yes, I did have to hide it myself since I had to be at work, and I did not dare tell anybody. Those close to me knew anyway regardless of how I tried to hide it. I've had that problem for about 50 years that I can remember. I'm 60, just for context.
it happens every month, you get use to being in that kind of pain.
It really depends on the girl and the cramps.
for me the first day was hell, I would stay hom from school, all curled up. This lasted about 16 hours. the rest of the days were a numb pain that I could ignore with relative ease.
But if I had to do something in those 16 hours I'd do it. It had to be really necessary and impossible to procrastinate but if it was then I'd just put on a smile and go do my things. Of course people could see it wasn't a good smile and my friends knew not to talk to me.
But that's because my priority has always been myself. If it had been to study or work or my friends I would have just smiled and gone through with it.
Depends on the person and their pain tolerance. My mother's are just uncomfortable, but not debilitating. Most of the time mine are the same, but a few times a year it hits me like a bus and I'll have vertigo and agonizing cramps. I've had them so bad I've thrown up from the pain and lost the strength to get up.
I've had guys when I was in kindergarten tell me that ONLY women have eyelashes, men don't. At least they weren't narcissistic so they looked at themselves in the mirror all the time.
I’m a guy and I have longer eyelashes than some of my women friends-
if everyone had their period on the same day the menstrual products would be all sold out
It's black Friday every cycle!
@@Pringleworm 😭 lmao
Imagine if the first fact was true. Everyone in the world needs to watch out the first of the month because a good percentage of the population is going to be very VERY hormonal 😂😂
The last time I went horseback riding my hymen broke. I was able to have periods at that point, and thought I was getting one. Upon furthur realizing it was just because of the position (and the fact the horse ran to his stall) that it happened.
It was no big deal.
We need to help the men realize that having or not having a hymen means jack.
Edit: I am all for proper, safer sex-ed in schools.
I was once mansplained about MY period by my father yeah he got a lot of choice words from me and my mom and he never spoke about it again
I tried to imagine my husband mansplaining a period to my daughter and seriously can't even start to imagine it.
the only thing that comes to mind is his panicked face.
@@wisteria3032 🤣 oh I wish my dad he thought that just because he had a whole bunch of sisters that this made him the expert
@@OceanSongBird6355 should have learned more about the survival part. How comes he never got to the lesson where if you mansplain something to a woman you risk being killed?
I literally love the men writing women comps, what that person said is true.
It's always boobs boobs boobs. I mean... I like women too and boobs are nice but these male authors seemed to be OBSESSED, it's concerning.
Concerning is an *understatement*
There was one time, I was in the bar. The barmaid and 2 other ladies were next to me. I was reading a book at the time and not paying attention to what they were saying. All of a sudden, the bartender asked me "Which do you like, quantity or quality?" I said "Quality" She turned to the other two ladies and said "There you see? He likes my boobs better than yours." Well, that happened to be true, but they all knew I was caught off guard and had no idea what the question was about. In my mind at that time, "The Dragon Riders of Pern" Sci Fi series was more important to me than their discussion. Not that I would have ever admitted that to them.
@@StarSong936 Haha nice. Bar stories are always interesting. Usually because people are very drunk or very... What's an appropriate word?? Quirky (it depends on their reason for going to the bar) and then you have the ones who are both. Makes for quite the night ig
Dude I watch so many videos of boobs and not even I’m that obsessed.
@@mesozoiccreature685 There are a lot of stories I could tell. However, best to save them for another time. I need the entertainment value from them after all.
One more story here though. I was sitting at a table with Trouble and Dallas. Dallas said, "We should get closer." Trouble said "I'm a lot closer than you think." I'll leave the interpretation up to your imagination.
My mom literally cried when she found out I used a tampon because that meant I was no longer a virgin, or so she thought. MY OWN MOTHER!
If only we didn’t have a scare every time we cough or sneeze. A piece of cotton is not pleasurable nor does it equate to sex. It catches blood. Sigh.
Periods products should either be free or at a low fixed cost
The first one… honestly pretty funny. I’m sure he was being lighthearted too 😂 If only am I right-
Time to stop procrastinating and study for my ap psychology exam tomorrow. Cramming 101
Good luck!
@@Buh-byee super late to reply but thank you
@@breezybeezz9090 thank you so much!! Sorry for the late reply
In high school I had a Spanish teacher who told me that it's ILLEGAL to be on your period. HE SAID IT INFRONT OF THE WHOLE CLASS 😭
......that man is stupid, single and shall die alone......that's all I have to say.
WHAT???😭😭😭😭
🙄🙄
Girls…
See you in jail 😔
@@ireallydespisethisname see y’a 😅
This was both hilarious and cringe.😂😂. I really wish I never come across people who actually think like those people.
@ 6:49 I used to read my mom's medical textbooks when I was growing up. I got a very through grounding in the mechanisms of sex but nothing of the emotions and bonding. My first girlfriend was someone my parents did not approve of at all. With my 2nd girlfriend my mom's comment was "I never thought you would have a girlfriend old enough to be my mother." Mind you, my mom liked her, she was just shocked how old my girlfriend was. My girlfriend at the time was about 20 years older than my mom.
My periods always seem to coincide with the full moon. I'm pretty sure I'm a werewolf. 🤣
Me, seeing the thumbnail: “And you wonder why you’re single?” 🗿
My dad one time did research on menstrual cramps and discovered that they're caused by lack of calcium. He used to order this powdered mineral mix that he always insisted to me that drinking it daily will stop cramps once and for all. Every time I'd still get cramps, he immediately got all angry at me and told me that I need to drink it every day otherwise I wouldn't get cramps in the 1st place. It was so annoying whenever he'd find out because he wouldn't leave me alone and it seemed like never wanted to comprehend about the woman's anatomy not working that way. I eventually found out my own hack of not getting cramps anymore by taking pamprin once a day prior to when my next period starts.
Tell THAT hack to your dad and let's see his reaction
@@duaaouznali1176 Unfortunately I lost him from an accident way before I discovered the hack. There's no way of telling if he would have finally accepted the reality that my menstrual cramps were never of his concern in the first place. I'd probably never tell him if he were to notice me not cramping anymore, then he'd probably assume I was drinking those mineral mixes like he expected me to do in the first place.
Everybody clap for Kyutie!
I may have a general idea of how a woman's body works, but I will never have a full understanding.
Welcome to day 2 of KFOTD (Kyutie Fact of the Day) Today’s Fact: Ellen is a Gemini! Her birthday is 2 weeks from today🥳🎂
Happy early birthday to her
Wait how the fudge nuggies do you know that!?!
I'm also a Gemini and my bday is coming up on the 22nd
I'm a Gemini and my birthday is may 31at.
@@Nameless82284 happy birthday then 🥳
I was once bleeding through my pants because I didn’t have anything and it was unexpected and my brother told me to just hold it in. This was 3 years ago, so he was 18 and I was 17.
"Everyone knows women don't fart or poop." So wth is that stuff that keeps coming out of my behind🤔🤨
Your period 😁
I once said that I felt like I had diarrhea as a joke because I had a stomachache, and he said, “wait women can poop? That’s disgusting.” I’m not joking.
@Fluffy
Sorry to break it to you but I'm a woman and i shit fart and piss. Have a great day.
Your imagination. Again, everyone knows we don’t.
Us trans-guys are just cackling at the fact that other guys don't know this stuff.
Then my female friends are like, "How did you know?" And then I'm just like, "Honey... did you forget I'm trans? I was one of you a few years ago!"
I was one of u a few years ago! 😭🤣🤣
@@kunchalagangawane8528 Glad to know you found me entertaining.
Story time!
One of my cousins births was very fast and Very traumatic! So fast that she wasn’t dilated all the way, plus that baby had a big head, Plus she is a short person with narrowish hips… let’s just say three holes became one. It took weeks for her to heal.
😬😬😬😬😬😬
And, because this is something I Didn’t Know before I had my daughter, you use the same muscles to push out a baby and a poop. I found out the embarrassing way, when my daughter wasn’t the first thing to come out that day.
🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
i saw the "three holes became" and stopped
I know better than that - I grew up
with a divorced mother and two sisters...
A global synchronising of periods would therefore mean the same for PMT, clearly they hadn't thought that one through.
I think the possible misunderstanding that leads to the thing of boobs changing depending on mood is because of how the appearance of boobs can change a little depending on posture so if you're cheerful you would probably stand up straighter which pushes your chest out more which makes your boobs appear perkier. But if you're sad you're more likely to be slouching and stuff which might have the opposite effect?
It's still a bit of a reach though...
the "perk up" thing is probably due to how nipples stand up when a woman is sexually excited. take this sentence then misunderstand it, generalise it, generalise it some more and you get to see how tits bounce up when we're happy
Read a book that said, and I quote, "I could see the small bulges of her nipples becoming a bit more pert. She was feeling better. Soon they would harden to their full glory as a happy woman's should" and
"They (the boobs) swayed with a life of their own. Teasing and taunting everyone around them. Showing a bit of cleavage now and then, captivating me like two sultry dancers." Needless to say I noped right outta there.
These period questions are infuriating
For the one with the father saying to exercise, he was almost correct. If you exercise, underweight, fit, overweight, or anything else, it slows down your period due to your body being active. Usually u bleed more when ur in a single position, but something abt science with the activity blah blah blah it slows it down and u can make it go away for a few hours. (Yes I’m a female, but my mother taught this when I was like 10, around when I had just got my first period. And yes, it worked, well Atleast 4 me. )
There's something to the idea of that guy thinking his girlfriend wasn't a virgin because she used tampons. Remember the notion that using tampons was self rape? 🙄
I understand it I was raised by my mom I am a guy I know how long a ask my female family
The one at 2:56 is partially true, due to some diseases you can have a 'forever period' - basically your body doesn't stop producing blood so you have a continuous period until you get whatever you need removed/treated. So, yes, some periods do last longer then a month, likely over a year, and sometimes over 10 or 20 years.
ive heard the phrase "ignorance isnt a sin" but this feels like a sin
my teacher alway said that. and always added "it doesn't work like that anymore. look in your pocket - that smartphone you have there means internet and internet means that you are a click away from knowing it. It's not as if you have to take a hour off to go to a library and hope they have the right book. Or maybe hope that someday someone will explain it to you. Ignorance _is_ a sin nowadays."
(yes, he would make this speech or a variant of it - usually longer - every single time).
As a male, these "males" make me embarassed to be this gender
Sorry to be that nitpicky male but male refers to sex which can ot be changed gender refers to anything man woman nonbinary . Also being ashamed of something you were born isn't productive . Don't hate appreciate
It's fine bc you sound like you're not one of them
the first one would be amazing omg
I grew up in a family that consisted of mostly girls and it’s so annoying to see/hear a boy talking about periods like they know anything about it 😭
Thank you Ellen!!
This new hair fits you so well!!
Me: Shit. i just started my period
My brother: How do you know? Can you feel it? *joking*
Me: Yes, actually
Him: Eww gross!
idk about you but the feeling of blood inside my crack and some at my thigs is really gross. i hate tht feeling so much my pants get stick too ugh
HOW DO THESE GUYS THINK LIKE THIS?!
On a different note...to the guy who wants to invent vaginal glue:
Sooo, you WANT us to die from infections that will assuredly come from sealing ourselves up to "hold the blood in"?
Second side note:
To the guy who said, "childbirth can't be THAT painful."
PLEASE. You can't even push a kidney stone through your peepee without screaming like you're dying (admittedly, they are awful, so I don't blame you, but)...DO NOT be telling me that you could fit a whole full-term baby through there, when you can't fit a kidney stone, sir.
It's even worse in the rare case when the epidural, which is basically the anesthesia of childbirth, gives the mother a headache which can cause throbbing sensations for even a month after the child is born
@@duaaouznali1176 oof...I didn't even know that was possible.
I'm sorry for all who had to go through that.
A throbbing headache is never fun.
But I imagine it's much worse after giving birth, and if it lasts a whole heccing month...that's NOT something I look forward to. 🙃🙃🙃
Yayyyyyy new post!
I love this video so much because it’s true men will never understand women life 💕🤣🤦🏽♀️
I didn't properly process the title and was very confused lmao
I just clicked without thinking lmfao
I had to pause your video so much to comment on it! 🤣 I have given birth to four children, naturally and it is the worse pain that I ever felt.
Also, I've had an ED for the last 15yrs that dad trying to convince his child it's ok! It's absolutely aborrant and he should be ashamed of himself.
I'm stupid, what's an ed?
@@starlightwolf9093 eating disorders
@ 1:52 I knew what periods were. That being said my first experience was to say "Are you okay, did I hurt you? I had never had that experience before. I had no idea she was on her period or I would not have done anything. I thought I had severely hurt her. I mean, I knew that happens, but this was my first time experiencing what it looked like. I thought I had done serious damage and I felt really bad about it.
You’re one of the sweet ones, need more people like you in the world!
I love her videos I watch at least 15 a day she has really helped me improve my mental health keep up the good work😁👍
Hi friends! Men can be, well, umm... dumb sometimes.
"Sometimes" is an understatement lol 😂😂😂
Yep.
Can confirm as a man, my iq was thrown out the window when I was born.
@@cupio-stardust a man named Addison? Lol jk
@@cupio-stardustsometimes it just be like that
Actually, where I live, pads are more common, so we have period underwear for nighttime (Not like I've used any, I just see them in shops). Just thought I would put that out there! :)
You always rock your outfits for your videos! 💖
I’m so glad that my schools taught this, so guys know these things
Some men just don’t get it… actually most men tbh
I had a friend in middle school who's father told her that her period was a curse from God because she was female.( Ya, that messed her up for quite a while)
I love your videos so much!! I'm also in love with your hair, its beautiful
My friend thought guys had ovaries….. 🙄 😒 😂
HE IS A GUYYYY AND WE LITERALLY JUST SAW THE REPRODUCTING SYSTEM IN SCIENCE CLASS….
My ex was also convinced that women pee out their vaginas amongst other stupid weird shit lol so that's why he's my ex lol
BC worked out quite well for me. It takes care of my horrible acne and it makes my periods less painful (though sometimes I'll still get to experience bad pain). I remember my mom and her mom telling me that their period cramps would be so bad that they had to skip school because the pain was not only a distraction, but it would hurt to even do simple things. The only downside I've experienced with BC is that I'm now more sensitive to the sun than I was back when I was 12 (about when I started the pill). Never met any guys or gals that knew nothing about periods, how the female body works, etc.
Guys are unbelievable... like im not surprised but still disappointed 💀
YES YES MORE UPLOADS
love your hair
I’ve met people who genuinely have no idea how annoying the process to get on birth control is or why you’d do it if you weren’t sleeping with someone on the regular. I spent a year on it with a dosage that still meant my periods came every month (it just regulated it) just to make sure my blood pressure levels would withstand not bleeding every month. There were monthly checkups to make sure I hadn’t developed a disorder and that the medication wasn’t conflicting with any of my other pills. The only reason I’m on birth control at all is because of incredibly painful cramps and the only things that exists to deal with it is birth control and pain meds. Personally I would’ve gone for the shot if it didn’t have a depressant side effect that would likely make me react poorly due to my long list of mental health issues.
1:45 no bc this happened to me too, except it was by my history teacher. in middle school. my friend needed to use the bathroom to change her pad and told the teacher, who told her that she could wait. she then explained that she was on her period. (it was normal to say that in oru middle school). he then told her to. hold it in.
these men should get a 6th grade biology book for christmas or their birthday, with a bookmark already in it, on the page that explains periods.
I mean, clearly the title of the video speaks for itself. 🙄These men need to take a class in common sense😒
This is why we need better sex ed in schools.
PeRiOdS DoNT HuRT
Hahaha WELL I CAN'T CAN'T PHYSICALLY MOVE UNLESS I TAKE IBUPROFEN
There are places where they hook up Guys to feel menstrual cramps and even childbirth. Some moan that the letter is of no point because a birth gives An actual result not with the device. Wella period doesn't so let them at least have fun with a simulation of cramps as best as possible.
@@Fluffy-Fluffy I love watching those kinds of videos: Yes, men, feel our pain 💔
the disappointed okay at the end though 😭😂
00:06
Me being proud because I got my period at the 5th day for two months🌟
I tried the birth control pills they made my period all weird so I eventually stopped and switch to the shot and I’m terrified of needles but that’s all the doctor offered me…
And for the childbirth thing I never had but I here woman explain it to guys like pushing a watermelon out of your ass
Ngl I was laughing throughout the whole video😂
in no way shape or form is putting dry cotton down there pleasurable tf😭
Thanks for the video!!!
I once read this story about this girl’s hippie father say to her when she was having cramps “maybe if you worshipped your uterus it would be more nice to you.” Like how in the hell is that gonna do anything?! And how would you even do that to begin with?!
Being the only woman in my family of 4 (husband & 2 sons) I have made sure they all know how a woman works. I don't need them thinking stuff like this, like they know better or I would never get any sympathy when needed. Especially since i had horrible heath experiences as a woman. I feel like I have trained them well for their relationships. Never heard of any girlfriends having a problem with them not being sensitive enough to them for things they cannot control as a woman.
Vengeance is mine, since we all pms at the same time!!!!!
They say woman assume things. When in reality it's men 😂
I was eating while watching this 😂
Ladies, you can buy a washable menstrual pad online (if there's available in your country) so you don't have to buy pads every time you got a period. You save the environment and save money!
Before I watch the rest of the video, I just caught your intro. I'm thinking, "this is gonna make me angry, isn't it?" I'll try to remember to reply to this if Im right or not. Honestly, it's not that men don't know that's makes me angry, it's when they are so confidently wrong and refuse to be corrected, and then spread the false information to their equally ignorant male friends, or worse the internet, as if they are correct.
I was right for some, others weren't as bad as expected, lol. I've definitely read some really bad ones online. The worse was about this guy who believed that a period should only be one tiny dot of blood, if it's more than your unhealthy, and that's why it's called a period, because it was just a dot. My MOTHER (dropped out of school in grade 8) believes that if you're not sexually active then you lose your period. She won't listen to me. She says that's why she lost hers, I'm like, "no mom, that menopause..."
I'm so glad I found you again!! I used to watch your channels 4 years ago, but I lost your channel name over time. I tried looking for it since I didn't have an account back then and didn't subscribe but here we are! I'm so glad you're still posting ^^
This guys who think that stuff like 'periods' (and childbirth) are not painful, are probably the same one who act like they are literaly dying when they have a cold
my period almost always starts on the 25th of every month
u look like the girl from turning red ur so beautiful omg
I believe men that grew up with out sisters/mums, did not get this very vital lesson in life.
My period pain is mostly taken care of with Panadol. For my baby sister, who is in her early 20s', she needs the meds and hot water bottles and space. My younger sister, whom is in her late 20s', is more tougher than us both. Our mother was more like me in hers.
My poor brother and father, they had to walk on eggshells when the cycles where bad, because when all four of us where still under the same roof, our cycles went mum, me, younger sister, to youngest sister. He and dad became troopers during this time.
my period actually always starts on the 1st