Angry yelling. Like the kind of yelling that you can only really describe as “violent” because all the usual words just don’t fit. Anger management issues aren’t manly or “alpha” or any of that dumb crap; it’s terrifying and makes women absolutely sure that you’d hurt them.
Back in the 1980's I picked up a guy who was hitchhiking in a downpour. He got into my car and asked, "How do you know I'm not an axe murderer?" I just answered, How do YOU know I'M not?" We then had a very nice connversation until we got to his destination. :D
@@AwoooOga3503 There's not much else to the story. I was an Italian New Yorker living in the south, so was used to intimidating people just by being who I was. The guy was just a random twenty something who was getting drenched and I didn't want him to drown on the side of the road.
I am a 58 year old female. One thing I have learned over the years is always always trust our gut instincts…they never lead you wrong. If it doesn’t feel right..get the heck out of there and away from whatever situation you find yourself in.
But yet we’re overreacting when we say we don’t feel safe around men or show all the ways we have to protect ourselves just to live 🙄🤦🏻♀️ Like a comedian said, “every man has “crazy girlfriend” stories but not women, they just end up dead”
It's bc of this that as a guy I hate being near any women, I avoid them as much as possible bc I feel like i'm being judged as a potential threat. Sometimes it's unavoidable and i'm passing by someone in an alleyway and I just gotta try and look as inconspicuous as I can in the hopes that they don't feel threatened. It's even worse when it's dark and i'm walking behind them i'm like "I want to pass her so she knows i'm not following her but if I speed up that would be scary". So I opt to cross the road or slow down just to make them feel safer! Do you have any advice on what I can do in situations like that? Although being as anxious as I am around humans in general I understand it may not even be possible, I get danger vibes whenever I see a man or a woman behind me along a path.
@Bluejay Productions and here we see the “but us too” man 😒 we stay far away from ones like you too, always having to invalidate our experiences when men have to go through the same fears and safety checks like we do, come back and talk to me
@@DivineDefect unfortunately there’s nothing you can do, it’s just the reality we live with not your fault, but there’s enough bad men that have ruined it for the rest of you even with another commenter on this comment not being able to resist “but men end up dead too”, stay away from those like him because they just want to invalidate what we women go through, or better yet educate them and correct them. sure it happens, but in what world is it to the level that we are?
@@DivineDefect I understand, we are not here to invalidate your experiences at all Men 100% can be victims too and sometimes people don't realize that. But people invalidating our experiences when we have to go through this on the daily is very very upsetting, Men 100% can be victims because they are some crazy people out there but men have more privilege over us then they realize and that's just everyday life for us girls and women.
If a man literally jokes about killing cats. It's one thing to not be a cat person (I don't even understand that cats vs dogs competition, I love both pets, I just don't have dogs because I love them. Weird logic, but I simply don't have the conditions for a dog, and cats are equally cute.) , but if you joke about killing or torturing animals, or if you have a book that is called "how to cook a cat/dog" , then I yeet you the fuck out of my life. People have favourites in pets, I get it, but joking about killing pets is a big red flag. You don't hear me joke about killing your pet tarantula, if you have a pet tarantula either.
People eat cats and dogs in other cultures; but having said that, First, that does not excuse cruelty. Second, if they know you're against eating cats and they keep. talking. about. killing. cats and bringing up the subject frequently (been there) because your disconfort amuses them, that's a second red flag.
When guys try to tell me how much ‘harder it is to be a guy’ then saying ‘if girls don’t want to get attacked at night, don’t go outside after dark!’ Because we’re ‘making our lives harder.’
I wish men understood how hyper aware women have to be. Go to the corner store alone at night? Nope. Walk down an empty street with one man walking towards you from ANY direction. Maybe not. Etc. Remember that sexual assault is not about sex; it’s about intimidation and power just like other forms of violence. And words can definitely be violent.
Feeling unsafe is not something exclusive to woman. Guys also known the feeling of creeping out ever so rarely from woman but mostly from other guys and there are men that are also feeling uneasy of going out at night. This does include even 6 foot 5 and above large dudes. Meanwhile, that feeling of unsafety physical or verbal sexual harasment is much more rare compared to woman it is not something completely unknown to men. Most of the creepy guys that are creepy to you might also be uneasy for no creep guys to be around. There is a reason they used to be outcast.
Male can partially relate with opposite gender with the feeling of being creeped out but I think it is the other way around that woman never know what to be a man with the paranoia of creeping someone out just by being exist. It felt like being a pest to hide out just to not potentially creeping out someone which does also take a tool but almost never being talked. You happen to be only person taking that street at night. Your thoughts might be “what should I do not coming across as a serial killer”, “should I change the street”, “should I outrun or rather slow my phase”. And if you happen to take care of your own child, some random people might call cops on you just so there is a chance it that may not be your own child and you might be a pedophilia that just kidnapped. Meanwhile a woman are welcomed to spend time kids and no one thinks of her as pedophilia. Even when it is not their own child. Same applies for securities on events and cops. Strangers of all kind from both gender are more afraid, paranoid and on guard, just with the mindset of “better to be false positive than sorry" approach. The approach, variety of stranger feel entitled and feeling justified to treat someone they do not even know as some sort of menace. Therefor if you happen to take care of your own child, people might call cops on you, just incase there is an odd that you might be pedophilia kidnapped that child rather than a father. The risk of false alarm with that kind of behavior? Screw that. You are born with a dick, you are meant to suck it up to being mistakenly treated that way for your lifetime with the "better being safe than sorry" kind of logic. That is what woman can not relate with man. Dating? If you are going to parting ways the guy more likely than the girl to be just ghosted instead of having the decency of bothering to tell "Let's not meet". If you are a guy, you are considered to be a jerk if you are giving mixed signals or parting ways via ghosting the girl without a word. But if it is the other way around, it is justified/normalised just incase there is the odds of the guy that might turn out to be a creep.
@@koray6261 I'm way too tired to reply in paragraphs and explain but no, guys getting 'creeped out sometimes' does NOT compare to what women go through on the daily.
@@koray6261 guys feeling "a little creeped out" is nothing compared to the fear women face every day. Yes, it's true, men can be assaulted as well. But women are much more vulnerable in that area. Do you understand how hard it is for a woman to fight off a horny man? Most women fight back with all their might and still don't succeed. A woman is more likely to be drugged and taken advantage of than a man. Like I said, men can experience these things to a degree, but it is nothing like what a woman goes through. And if you think it is, you're part of the problem.
@@koray6261 You said it yourself, its RARE. But women have safety tips to defend themselves from men, ingrained in them from childhood. Women literally have to become borderline body language experts and psychologists just so they can watch out for any sign of danger from men and the saddest part is, men from their own family or friend circles are part these violent and dangerous men that they have to look out for. For women, all of this is not rare by any means, its so frequent that it becomes a normal part of our lives and becomes a subconscious thing, sometimes we don't even realize we are being hyper aware because it feels normal.
The one about being picked up. Hella MOOD. As a heavier set person, I've always hated it when my past boyfriends would pick me up because im terrified of them accidentally dropping me even though they never did.
There was once a guy who told me all the ways he would un alive me after I let him know I was uninterested in him. We were in school at the time I told the vice principal and the authorities got involved and the boy never bothered me again. ( I have many more stories about creepy guys )
@@kettliebouwens7898 Thank you for your kind words I appreciate it. Yes he was I should have known in the first place after he told me the ways he liked to torment his grandma. But luckily all that is in the past.
When I was a kid, one boy kept trying to convince people to swap seats with him in classes so he could sit next to me. One time when I went to the bathroom he went through my bag and read through my diary (I know thats dumb but I was like 8) and I managed to catch him only one time. He said it was so he could learn more about me so I would like him more, since I refused to talk to him (he was creepy even before this and would constantly ignore any boundaries I gave). He even repeated back stuff he learnt from reading it, apparently this was a pretty common occurrence before I caught him. I was so creeped out.
The license plate one gives me bad memories. When I was 10, my parents opened a kiosk in our tiny mall that went on for 5 months. Since my siblings & I are homeschooled, we would come with our parents to work and walk laps around the mall together since it was so tiny. There was this elderly mall walker named Henry who would buy a hotdog from our concession kiosk everyday and sit at the tables we had set up behind the place. One day he started acknowledging our presence and we would exchange hi's & byes. This went on for a couple months during the holidays until January came around. He started sitting closer to us and began having longer conversations with us, which started to make me feel uncomfortable. Whenever he would see my sister (she was 6 at the time) or me, he stayed talking for like 3 hours before heading home & for some odd reason we gave him hugs like he was our own grandpa. One time he tried to kiss me, and that's when the line was crossed. We tried to avoid him for the remainder of our time at the mall until one day when our grandmother dropped us off my the side entrance instead of the usual so we would meet up with our mother & not run into him. This didn't work, and next thing we know after he leaves the mall, we hear from our sister that he was behind of our grandmother's van with a piece of paper & a pen. Our parents talked to the mall's manager & contacted the police and trespassed him from the mall. He died about a year later, but I still get paranoid to this day and very hesitant towards old men 😳
Good thing I had my guy put his number on all our pet's tags. Never mine. It never really cross my mind if someone with whatever/ill intentions is trying to get closer to you and decides to do that by grabbing your pet to check for your information. Honestly should have gotten the police involve because that's outright stalker behavior. Her information is there for her dog to be returned to her. Not for him to behave like a creep. If a person ain't interested in giving you their number or information then leave them ALONE. And don't you dare grab their pets. I would have broken the person's hand if they touched mine without my permission.
My sister said how she sits somewhere, waiting for her fiancé, and sometimes random guys sit near her or if it's at a restaurant they linger around her area. In stores too, she says how sometimes guys follow her around but never actually talk to her, they just stalk her. She often wears yoga pants and a tunic but she told me how years back when she didn't cover her butt, that's when she got more negative attention from guys trying to hit on her in gross/forceful ways. I'm glad she has her fiancé now and pepper spray just in case. I honestly don't know why so many guys are creeps like this, especially at grocery stores where you don't go there to be hit on.
If you don’t want creepy guys to sit next to you, then here is a simple trick: put a purse or anything really, a jacket, bag on the seat next to you. Btw, only do this when it’s not crowded. If it is, it wouldn’t be nice. If it’s not crowded and there are many seats available and they specifically come to sit next to you, tell them there are many seats available, that you are keeping that one for a friend who will join you after a few stations, that you are having a cold and you wouldn’t want someone to get it, make up something.If you have headphones, wear them, look at your phone, pretend you don’t know they are talking to you. I know it’s harsh that we have to do those things, but this is the reality. Once, when I was little, a creepy older man tried to touch me on the bus. The bus was crowded, but not to the point he would have to make contact with me. He blocked me in a corner and pretend to lose balance and bump into me all the time. Just take care, speak up for yourself and be cautious❤️
A lot if the time feeling like you're creeping someone out just hurts your own feelings, can even get you to wonder if there's something wrong with you
I live in Australia and this happened in 2019 (I was 14 at the time). My older sister, her friend and I were on our way to one of our hockey games we took the train since our younger brother had football. So we sat on different sides of the train I was by myself listening to music while the other two were talking, there was these 2 guys that sat in front of me (like 2 seats in front) but were facing me. I kept an eye on them because I had a very bad feeling about them when out of the corner of my eye I saw them get up and sit with me (One sat next to me and the other was in front of me but thank god I had my hockey bag in between me and the guy next to me)till this day I can never go on trains also there were tons of seats available. (I hope this makes sense😊😊)
I had a boy in my preschool class- my PRESCHOOL CLASS- tell me he would r@pe me, cut my head off, and feed my body to the birds after a school convention. I got into the car shaking, and my parents asked what was wrong. When I told them, they marched me back into the school and talked to my teacher. She was kind and handled the situation. She even gave me a certificate for a personal pizza and drink, and my parents got me ice cream. He got in a lot of trouble after that and never bothered me again. Now that I'm older, I no longer blame him. I blame his parents (especially his father) because they were so ignorant and believed their son without fully listening when he said I lied. Either someone said that around him, or he watched it on something. God knows what that poor kid saw at home. Still, it's the creepiest experience I'd gone through as a kid, and still gives me chills to think about. I honestly wish him well, and I hoped he grew up to be better.
When my brother was 6, one of his classmates screamed something like that at the teacher, in front of everybody. I don't know what happened to the kid, but now thinking back I realize that he must've seen some bad stuff at home, like you said. Best case scenario it was R rated movies. Worse case scenario, someone was being abused at his home.
@@riel4553 yeah, that's what I feared. I hope it was just a movie he shouldn't have seen...he was known for acting out, but I believe he had a bad living situation. I genuinely hope he's ok now.
One time my friend is walking home alone, there are some people on the streets and that time a middle age man came to her and claim that he know her but she doesn't know him and than she's got quite tense then the guy ask her, if she's afraid and she said "yes" when she told me this whole story, I scolded her and told her even if you are scared you shouldn't let the other person know or let them feel that you are scared. Well turned out that person knows her father and seen her with him, thank goodness.
Well, it was not mentioned that he did that on hand, maybe he had something ( that actually makes it more scary that he was carrying a notepad or something)
Many years ago I used to visit a videogame forum. A guy started messaging me with the excuse of wanting to learn how to take screenshots of old games; I helped but didn't have time to keep up with all his messages. One day he said that bc I didn't answer inmediatelly he thought something might have happened to me so he "contacted a friend" to find my info: The guy sent me my full name, address, date of birth, phone, ID, my father's full name, my mother's full name. Gave me chills, but I just answered "that information is not accurate, how did you get it?" He never wrote to me again.
Ok I got my first job at 16 I'm now 17. I'm a cashier and when people buy alcohol, we need to look at their ID. I was looking at it I don't take because ya know covid. my coworker told me that I could take it from his hand he won't bite. so, in response he goes not unless you want me to. I look younger than I am but I'm still a minor and female it scared me. it was my first day and I had already gotten screamed at a guy for something I couldn't control it was all in Spanish and being the only person in the store who knows Spanish and can speak it a little he called me a lot of name and slurs. again, all on my first day and I was already scared of men cause of other things.
Thank you for the continual, nightly posts (nighttime for me). I put you on before sleep and usually they help me drift off. Thanks for being my background sounds.
Those earrings are so cute!!!! While my husband was watching the video saying wtf I was just wondering where u got the earring lol 😆 but love the vid too
I accidentally said something creepy to a guy once, mind it I'm a girl and a kid this guy was my dads friend and an adult, I said "Welcome to our lair of your not leaving for a while" I didn't mean it in a creepy way as my family is a bunch of nerds and people who enter usually get distracted by our gaming stuff and don't leave for a while, and so I kind of stated that... I can see why it was creepy but it was kind of funny too
No one is going to mention alcohol? I have spend my fair share on ER waiting rooms to know that drunk people (specially men) are stupid and get in trouble for the most ridiculous thing.
Also Me being in high school knowing that someone had a GUN and reported it the guy found out before he was taken by authorities and told me my house address, family members addresses and phone numbers and what car I had and I was TERRIFIED
It used to scare me when Men would pick me up and put me on a bed or try to put me on a bed I learned a lesson the first time and started fighting back after that I used to be homeless so cha
Wow too many creepy guys in the world as a man I told my sister & female cousins don't go anywhere you feel uncomfortable or isolated with anybody you know let alone first met thank God that girl in the woods is okay I'd be real mad as her brother for following him in there that's a no no!! fine I get it she's safe but that's still risking your life for a nice visual site of the city sorry but that is not worth ur life ❤ if you wonder why I am like that trust me I'm not controlling I went to school with a kid who's sister was found in the woods she unfortunately was not safe & 30 years later nobody was charged for her murder! so ladies please never do this & stay safe 🙏 ❤
The only time I'm ok with my bf saying "I'll unalive anyone that talks to u" it's playful and only the people who aren't the nicest of people (he wouldn't actually hurt anyone ofc)
if I'm meeting someone for the first time it's 100% in public, a few times I went on a date and he bought me a drink then when I was leaving tried to make me go back to his coz he want's sexual favours for buying me a drink, I went to the bathroom to calm down and when I seen him talking to someone else I snuck out of the place we were in and went home, luckily for me I live in a block of flats
Whenever they like get touchy(if I barely know you), they look at you weird or with a perverted look, and ESPECIALLY when they stare when you don’t know them. I had an incident where I was walking in meijer to find my mom. (for context, I was ten.)I was walking past a guy who was staring at me from like 20 feet away. I smiled at him because he was in a wheelchair and I felt bad. I walk past him, think I saw my mom in an aisle, and turn around, only to see the guy(where he was before). Taking a picture of me. I was freaking out and bolted to the registers, where I found my mom and was holding in tears so I don’t make a scene. We’re walking to an exit, AND I SEE THE DUDE WAITING BY THE DOOR. I tell my mom that’s him and then I started crying again. We went out the other door. We got to the car, and I was having a mental breakdown because of how scared I was. I feared that he would find me again, especially because I used to dance at a dance studio. She told me he probably was taking a picture of a product or something, and since he is in a wheelchair he was waiting for his ride. I didn’t believe the first one, and half believed the second.
The friend of a friend that came from a different country. I'm going to assume that it was suppose to be a joke but it was a very dumb joke. He did try to be funny, though, if that was the case.
every time I take my dog on a walk they don't even ask and they just touch my dog no manners or when my dog is off leash she runs to people and they keep touching her like God sakes that's my dog 🐕 they don't ask btw this is just my side of the story sorry
If the person is giving creep vibes, I'm Usain Bolt outta there
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Same 👁👄👁
I’m going to just- uhmmm teleport, thanks, I’m going back to my house and she will never know where I went.
Angry yelling. Like the kind of yelling that you can only really describe as “violent” because all the usual words just don’t fit.
Anger management issues aren’t manly or “alpha” or any of that dumb crap; it’s terrifying and makes women absolutely sure that you’d hurt them.
Agreed. And so damn unattractive
Back in the 1980's I picked up a guy who was hitchhiking in a downpour. He got into my car and asked, "How do you know I'm not an axe murderer?" I just answered, How do YOU know I'M not?" We then had a very nice connversation until we got to his destination. :D
Good god. Can you tell more?
@@AwoooOga3503 There's not much else to the story. I was an Italian New Yorker living in the south, so was used to intimidating people just by being who I was. The guy was just a random twenty something who was getting drenched and I didn't want him to drown on the side of the road.
@@MrsSoup-iu4pq Real question being "What did you talk about?" ...presumably not axe murderers.
I am a 58 year old female. One thing I have learned over the years is always always trust our gut instincts…they never lead you wrong. If it doesn’t feel right..get the heck out of there and away from whatever situation you find yourself in.
But yet we’re overreacting when we say we don’t feel safe around men or show all the ways we have to protect ourselves just to live 🙄🤦🏻♀️
Like a comedian said, “every man has “crazy girlfriend” stories but not women, they just end up dead”
Dang....that's harsh but sadly true.....
It's bc of this that as a guy I hate being near any women, I avoid them as much as possible bc I feel like i'm being judged as a potential threat. Sometimes it's unavoidable and i'm passing by someone in an alleyway and I just gotta try and look as inconspicuous as I can in the hopes that they don't feel threatened. It's even worse when it's dark and i'm walking behind them i'm like "I want to pass her so she knows i'm not following her but if I speed up that would be scary". So I opt to cross the road or slow down just to make them feel safer!
Do you have any advice on what I can do in situations like that? Although being as anxious as I am around humans in general I understand it may not even be possible, I get danger vibes whenever I see a man or a woman behind me along a path.
@Bluejay Productions and here we see the “but us too” man 😒
we stay far away from ones like you too, always having to invalidate our experiences
when men have to go through the same fears and safety checks like we do, come back and talk to me
@@DivineDefect unfortunately there’s nothing you can do, it’s just the reality we live with
not your fault, but there’s enough bad men that have ruined it for the rest of you
even with another commenter on this comment not being able to resist “but men end up dead too”, stay away from those like him because they just want to invalidate what we women go through, or better yet educate them and correct them. sure it happens, but in what world is it to the level that we are?
@@DivineDefect I understand, we are not here to invalidate your experiences at all Men 100% can be victims too and sometimes people don't realize that.
But people invalidating our experiences when we have to go through this on the daily is very very upsetting, Men 100% can be victims because they are some crazy people out there but men have more privilege over us then they realize and that's just everyday life for us girls and women.
If a man literally jokes about killing cats. It's one thing to not be a cat person (I don't even understand that cats vs dogs competition, I love both pets, I just don't have dogs because I love them. Weird logic, but I simply don't have the conditions for a dog, and cats are equally cute.) , but if you joke about killing or torturing animals, or if you have a book that is called "how to cook a cat/dog" , then I yeet you the fuck out of my life. People have favourites in pets, I get it, but joking about killing pets is a big red flag. You don't hear me joke about killing your pet tarantula, if you have a pet tarantula either.
People eat cats and dogs in other cultures; but having said that, First, that does not excuse cruelty. Second, if they know you're against eating cats and they keep. talking. about. killing. cats and bringing up the subject frequently (been there) because your disconfort amuses them, that's a second red flag.
When guys try to tell me how much ‘harder it is to be a guy’ then saying ‘if girls don’t want to get attacked at night, don’t go outside after dark!’ Because we’re ‘making our lives harder.’
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If men say this they should be women and see how hard our lives are
Stupidest thing ever-
Men are the reason I’m gay
I'm sorry?
There's guys that say that? Bet they also wonder why no girls want to go out with them.
@@queerdeificeeli985 yup, then the make creepy jokes about how they’d have an easier time getting girls if they were ‘more aggressive’.
I wish men understood how hyper aware women have to be. Go to the corner store alone at night? Nope. Walk down an empty street with one man walking towards you from ANY direction. Maybe not. Etc. Remember that sexual assault is not about sex; it’s about intimidation and power just like other forms of violence. And words can definitely be violent.
Feeling unsafe is not something exclusive to woman. Guys also known the feeling of creeping out ever so rarely from woman but mostly from other guys and there are men that are also feeling uneasy of going out at night. This does include even 6 foot 5 and above large dudes.
Meanwhile, that feeling of unsafety physical or verbal sexual harasment is much more rare compared to woman it is not something completely unknown to men. Most of the creepy guys that are creepy to you might also be uneasy for no creep guys to be around. There is a reason they used to be outcast.
Male can partially relate with opposite gender with the feeling of being creeped out but I think it is the other way around that woman never know what to be a man with the paranoia of creeping someone out just by being exist. It felt like being a pest to hide out just to not potentially creeping out someone which does also take a tool but almost never being talked.
You happen to be only person taking that street at night. Your thoughts might be “what should I do not coming across as a serial killer”, “should I change the street”, “should I outrun or rather slow my phase”. And if you happen to take care of your own child, some random people might call cops on you just so there is a chance it that may not be your own child and you might be a pedophilia that just kidnapped. Meanwhile a woman are welcomed to spend time kids and no one thinks of her as pedophilia. Even when it is not their own child. Same applies for securities on events and cops. Strangers of all kind from both gender are more afraid, paranoid and on guard, just with the mindset of “better to be false positive than sorry" approach. The approach, variety of stranger feel entitled and feeling justified to treat someone they do not even know as some sort of menace. Therefor if you happen to take care of your own child, people might call cops on you, just incase there is an odd that you might be pedophilia kidnapped that child rather than a father. The risk of false alarm with that kind of behavior? Screw that. You are born with a dick, you are meant to suck it up to being mistakenly treated that way for your lifetime with the "better being safe than sorry" kind of logic. That is what woman can not relate with man.
Dating? If you are going to parting ways the guy more likely than the girl to be just ghosted instead of having the decency of bothering to tell "Let's not meet". If you are a guy, you are considered to be a jerk if you are giving mixed signals or parting ways via ghosting the girl without a word. But if it is the other way around, it is justified/normalised just incase there is the odds of the guy that might turn out to be a creep.
@@koray6261 I'm way too tired to reply in paragraphs and explain but no, guys getting 'creeped out sometimes' does NOT compare to what women go through on the daily.
@@koray6261 guys feeling "a little creeped out" is nothing compared to the fear women face every day. Yes, it's true, men can be assaulted as well. But women are much more vulnerable in that area. Do you understand how hard it is for a woman to fight off a horny man? Most women fight back with all their might and still don't succeed. A woman is more likely to be drugged and taken advantage of than a man. Like I said, men can experience these things to a degree, but it is nothing like what a woman goes through. And if you think it is, you're part of the problem.
@@koray6261 You said it yourself, its RARE. But women have safety tips to defend themselves from men, ingrained in them from childhood.
Women literally have to become borderline body language experts and psychologists just so they can watch out for any sign of danger from men and the saddest part is, men from their own family or friend circles are part these violent and dangerous men that they have to look out for.
For women, all of this is not rare by any means, its so frequent that it becomes a normal part of our lives and becomes a subconscious thing, sometimes we don't even realize we are being hyper aware because it feels normal.
This makes me glad that the only time I’ve “scared” a woman is when I say “boo” to my sister.
Keep up the good work
you nice keep going
I appreciate this keep that the only way you aspire to scare any person in general
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The one about being picked up. Hella MOOD. As a heavier set person, I've always hated it when my past boyfriends would pick me up because im terrified of them accidentally dropping me even though they never did.
There was once a guy who told me all the ways he would un alive me after I let him know I was uninterested in him. We were in school at the time I told the vice principal and the authorities got involved and the boy never bothered me again. ( I have many more stories about creepy guys )
Jesus i'm really glad you're okay. That dude is a psycho for real.
@@kettliebouwens7898 Thank you for your kind words I appreciate it. Yes he was I should have known in the first place after he told me the ways he liked to torment his grandma. But luckily all that is in the past.
Oh my gosh. So glad you're ok, though.
@@winniethepooht5776 Thank you.
Jesus. How many creepy guys have you encountered? I mean that one guy sounds horrifying enough!
When I was a kid, one boy kept trying to convince people to swap seats with him in classes so he could sit next to me. One time when I went to the bathroom he went through my bag and read through my diary (I know thats dumb but I was like 8) and I managed to catch him only one time. He said it was so he could learn more about me so I would like him more, since I refused to talk to him (he was creepy even before this and would constantly ignore any boundaries I gave). He even repeated back stuff he learnt from reading it, apparently this was a pretty common occurrence before I caught him. I was so creeped out.
“Hugs yourself when you’re lonely, man” sounded so funny 😂
The license plate one gives me bad memories. When I was 10, my parents opened a kiosk in our tiny mall that went on for 5 months. Since my siblings & I are homeschooled, we would come with our parents to work and walk laps around the mall together since it was so tiny. There was this elderly mall walker named Henry who would buy a hotdog from our concession kiosk everyday and sit at the tables we had set up behind the place. One day he started acknowledging our presence and we would exchange hi's & byes. This went on for a couple months during the holidays until January came around. He started sitting closer to us and began having longer conversations with us, which started to make me feel uncomfortable. Whenever he would see my sister (she was 6 at the time) or me, he stayed talking for like 3 hours before heading home & for some odd reason we gave him hugs like he was our own grandpa. One time he tried to kiss me, and that's when the line was crossed. We tried to avoid him for the remainder of our time at the mall until one day when our grandmother dropped us off my the side entrance instead of the usual so we would meet up with our mother & not run into him. This didn't work, and next thing we know after he leaves the mall, we hear from our sister that he was behind of our grandmother's van with a piece of paper & a pen. Our parents talked to the mall's manager & contacted the police and trespassed him from the mall. He died about a year later, but I still get paranoid to this day and very hesitant towards old men 😳
I know this was mentioned but when they won't take your no. Just shows what they really want and how much respect they have for you
Good thing I had my guy put his number on all our pet's tags. Never mine. It never really cross my mind if someone with whatever/ill intentions is trying to get closer to you and decides to do that by grabbing your pet to check for your information. Honestly should have gotten the police involve because that's outright stalker behavior. Her information is there for her dog to be returned to her. Not for him to behave like a creep. If a person ain't interested in giving you their number or information then leave them ALONE. And don't you dare grab their pets. I would have broken the person's hand if they touched mine without my permission.
The fact that Kyutie's B-Day was on May 31st and not many people notice. She needs a break too! Been uploading everyday for the last 3 years
My sister said how she sits somewhere, waiting for her fiancé, and sometimes random guys sit near her or if it's at a restaurant they linger around her area. In stores too, she says how sometimes guys follow her around but never actually talk to her, they just stalk her. She often wears yoga pants and a tunic but she told me how years back when she didn't cover her butt, that's when she got more negative attention from guys trying to hit on her in gross/forceful ways. I'm glad she has her fiancé now and pepper spray just in case. I honestly don't know why so many guys are creeps like this, especially at grocery stores where you don't go there to be hit on.
I don't EVER go alone, no matter where I go. Especially if it's dark😬
If you don’t want creepy guys to sit next to you, then here is a simple trick: put a purse or anything really, a jacket, bag on the seat next to you. Btw, only do this when it’s not crowded. If it is, it wouldn’t be nice. If it’s not crowded and there are many seats available and they specifically come to sit next to you, tell them there are many seats available, that you are keeping that one for a friend who will join you after a few stations, that you are having a cold and you wouldn’t want someone to get it, make up something.If you have headphones, wear them, look at your phone, pretend you don’t know they are talking to you. I know it’s harsh that we have to do those things, but this is the reality. Once, when I was little, a creepy older man tried to touch me on the bus. The bus was crowded, but not to the point he would have to make contact with me. He blocked me in a corner and pretend to lose balance and bump into me all the time. Just take care, speak up for yourself and be cautious❤️
A lot if the time feeling like you're creeping someone out just hurts your own feelings, can even get you to wonder if there's something wrong with you
I live in Australia and this happened in 2019 (I was 14 at the time). My older sister, her friend and I were on our way to one of our hockey games we took the train since our younger brother had football. So we sat on different sides of the train I was by myself listening to music while the other two were talking, there was these 2 guys that sat in front of me (like 2 seats in front) but were facing me. I kept an eye on them because I had a very bad feeling about them when out of the corner of my eye I saw them get up and sit with me (One sat next to me and the other was in front of me but thank god I had my hockey bag in between me and the guy next to me)till this day I can never go on trains also there were tons of seats available. (I hope this makes sense😊😊)
It does make sence. That must been really scary especially for a young teen
What kind if idiot would sit next to a random child if they meant no harm. But they do seem very sus
@@Hvhvjbknllctcrfuogo My uniform we had to wear short skirts so yeah
I had a boy in my preschool class- my PRESCHOOL CLASS- tell me he would r@pe me, cut my head off, and feed my body to the birds after a school convention. I got into the car shaking, and my parents asked what was wrong. When I told them, they marched me back into the school and talked to my teacher. She was kind and handled the situation. She even gave me a certificate for a personal pizza and drink, and my parents got me ice cream. He got in a lot of trouble after that and never bothered me again. Now that I'm older, I no longer blame him. I blame his parents (especially his father) because they were so ignorant and believed their son without fully listening when he said I lied. Either someone said that around him, or he watched it on something. God knows what that poor kid saw at home. Still, it's the creepiest experience I'd gone through as a kid, and still gives me chills to think about. I honestly wish him well, and I hoped he grew up to be better.
When my brother was 6, one of his classmates screamed something like that at the teacher, in front of everybody. I don't know what happened to the kid, but now thinking back I realize that he must've seen some bad stuff at home, like you said. Best case scenario it was R rated movies. Worse case scenario, someone was being abused at his home.
@@riel4553 yeah, that's what I feared. I hope it was just a movie he shouldn't have seen...he was known for acting out, but I believe he had a bad living situation. I genuinely hope he's ok now.
oh hell no, I'm good. this is why I stay polite and be respectful.
One time my friend is walking home alone, there are some people on the streets and that time a middle age man came to her and claim that he know her but she doesn't know him and than she's got quite tense then the guy ask her, if she's afraid and she said "yes" when she told me this whole story, I scolded her and told her even if you are scared you shouldn't let the other person know or let them feel that you are scared. Well turned out that person knows her father and seen her with him, thank goodness.
"hug yourself if you're that lonely"
- *kyutie : a wise young lady*
NO means NO!!! 😠
I still cant believe he wrote down someone license plate ON HIS HAND
Well, it was not mentioned that he did that on hand, maybe he had something ( that actually makes it more scary that he was carrying a notepad or something)
If that happened to me I'm moving out of the country 🏃♀️
@Lunic_Saffron Uh it literally said “on his hand”
I would like to think since nothing happened since then for her, it means he realized later on how missed up his behavior is and let go.
@@Yer_blue_angel Oh, my bad, I am sorry I didn't notice that
Men: *scares women*
Also men: *pulls their dog*
Women: So you have chosen death, 💀💀
I love youre videos and ive been watching them forever you've gotten so far and I'm proud of you!
Hell nah if someone touches my dog, it’s free game. All hell will break loose
Many years ago I used to visit a videogame forum. A guy started messaging me with the excuse of wanting to learn how to take screenshots of old games; I helped but didn't have time to keep up with all his messages. One day he said that bc I didn't answer inmediatelly he thought something might have happened to me so he "contacted a friend" to find my info:
The guy sent me my full name, address, date of birth, phone, ID, my father's full name, my mother's full name. Gave me chills, but I just answered "that information is not accurate, how did you get it?" He never wrote to me again.
Ok I got my first job at 16 I'm now 17. I'm a cashier and when people buy alcohol, we need to look at their ID. I was looking at it I don't take because ya know covid. my coworker told me that I could take it from his hand he won't bite. so, in response he goes not unless you want me to. I look younger than I am but I'm still a minor and female it scared me. it was my first day and I had already gotten screamed at a guy for something I couldn't control it was all in Spanish and being the only person in the store who knows Spanish and can speak it a little he called me a lot of name and slurs. again, all on my first day and I was already scared of men cause of other things.
Thank you for the continual, nightly posts (nighttime for me). I put you on before sleep and usually they help me drift off. Thanks for being my background sounds.
Can you do woman who have scared men stories???
Seconded
Most of them unfortunately end up dead. (If you meant crazy bf stories)
Those earrings are gorgeous! Where'd you get them?
2:05. My crush said that to me 😩😩😩
Creepy hope you no longer have a crush on them 💀 or maybe they've changed?
@@paniniprincess5211 I don’t like them anymore
Those earrings are so cute!!!! While my husband was watching the video saying wtf I was just wondering where u got the earring lol 😆 but love the vid too
Thank you Ellen for always posting daily😁
I remember this man was staring at me so I looked away he started laughing I hurried and went to my mom 😮💨 I am glad I did
I accidentally said something creepy to a guy once, mind it I'm a girl and a kid this guy was my dads friend and an adult, I said "Welcome to our lair of your not leaving for a while" I didn't mean it in a creepy way as my family is a bunch of nerds and people who enter usually get distracted by our gaming stuff and don't leave for a while, and so I kind of stated that... I can see why it was creepy but it was kind of funny too
@@dihydrogenmonoxide7056 lol alright
Hiii ellen loved the video please stay healthy and coco to I wish that both of yall will always be happy to💜💜💜
9:00 "I'll kill anyone who talks to you [the woman]". Well, _you're_ talking to her... meow
The story of the man who yanks the bag and demands a hug then copies down the womans licence plate actually gave me chills
Aw HECK no- The dude in the thumbnail is totally crazy…I'd get a whole new car JUST because of that.
Me, seeing the thumbnail: *grabs mace from drawer* 🗿
No one is going to mention alcohol? I have spend my fair share on ER waiting rooms to know that drunk people (specially men) are stupid and get in trouble for the most ridiculous thing.
Also
Me being in high school knowing that someone had a GUN and reported it the guy found out before he was taken by authorities and told me my house address, family members addresses and phone numbers and what car I had and I was TERRIFIED
It used to scare me when Men would pick me up and put me on a bed or try to put me on a bed I learned a lesson the first time and started fighting back after that I used to be homeless so cha
Wow too many creepy guys in the world as a man I told my sister & female cousins don't go anywhere you feel uncomfortable or isolated with anybody you know let alone first met thank God that girl in the woods is okay I'd be real mad as her brother for following him in there that's a no no!! fine I get it she's safe but that's still risking your life for a nice visual site of the city sorry but that is not worth ur life ❤ if you wonder why I am like that trust me I'm not controlling I went to school with a kid who's sister was found in the woods she unfortunately was not safe & 30 years later nobody was charged for her murder! so ladies please never do this & stay safe 🙏 ❤
And even worse is when these psychos try to guilt and shame you for not trusting them!
The only time I'm ok with my bf saying "I'll unalive anyone that talks to u" it's playful and only the people who aren't the nicest of people (he wouldn't actually hurt anyone ofc)
The first guy is so amazing!!
Hi!! i love your videos and I have been watching you since I was little, and I will never stop! byee
if I'm meeting someone for the first time it's 100% in public, a few times I went on a date and he bought me a drink then when I was leaving tried to make me go back to his coz he want's sexual favours for buying me a drink, I went to the bathroom to calm down and when I seen him talking to someone else I snuck out of the place we were in and went home, luckily for me I live in a block of flats
Ive said it before and I'll say it again.So glad im a heavier set girl that knows how to punch.
It was a guy who snuck up behind me then ask me to follow him to a dark alley.
Hey Kyutie! I love your videos. You’re a great RUclipsr 🫶
You always look so pretty and have a beautiful smile! (I'm an old lady so this isn't creepy! LOL)
Luv the cute earrings too. 😀
omg!! i just heard the thumbnail story today!
“What? No hug?”
- Dagmar has entered the chat
9:15 im 14 and my dad does that 😭i find it funny ngl
0:15 her laugh is so funny lol
Hello Everyone! I hope everyone has a wonderful day
Congrats you’re first! 🥇❤️
@@js8303 Thank You :)
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Hello Ellen how's your June going so far.🤗💖🌸
Whenever they like get touchy(if I barely know you), they look at you weird or with a perverted look, and ESPECIALLY when they stare when you don’t know them. I had an incident where I was walking in meijer to find my mom. (for context, I was ten.)I was walking past a guy who was staring at me from like 20 feet away. I smiled at him because he was in a wheelchair and I felt bad. I walk past him, think I saw my mom in an aisle, and turn around, only to see the guy(where he was before). Taking a picture of me. I was freaking out and bolted to the registers, where I found my mom and was holding in tears so I don’t make a scene. We’re walking to an exit, AND I SEE THE DUDE WAITING BY THE DOOR. I tell my mom that’s him and then I started crying again. We went out the other door. We got to the car, and I was having a mental breakdown because of how scared I was. I feared that he would find me again, especially because I used to dance at a dance studio. She told me he probably was taking a picture of a product or something, and since he is in a wheelchair he was waiting for his ride. I didn’t believe the first one, and half believed the second.
I love you and your channel so much💖💚
I wanna see women frightening men
im confuseddf the title says "men who frightened women" yet it’s about women’s experiences with creeps ? i’rkehejerjwk
its bc those creeps were men as said, and they were frightening the women
The friend of a friend that came from a different country.
I'm going to assume that it was suppose to be a joke but it was a very dumb joke. He did try to be funny, though, if that was the case.
Does anyone know where her earrings are from?
every time I take my dog on a walk they don't even ask and they just touch my dog no manners or when my dog is off leash she runs to people and they keep touching her like God sakes that's my dog 🐕 they don't ask btw this is just my side of the story sorry
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LOVE U!
I love your videos
About who what baby just wait you wanted me to wait until you completely get that woman off your. You the one frighten of her.
Wow I've never been this early 😂
You CANNOT randomly whisper in my ear you have to ask me first or you have to be playing telephone or like some game that involves whispering
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Third!
Here's your bronze medal! ====> 🥉
#kyutieisthebestyoutuberever
Yikes
Hi....~♥~🙂
(Will i get a reply from kyutie this time!?)
yasss
Am I really this early? ._.
hello early
Whoever you are, Jesus loves you
AAA early