How I Broke The Cycle Of Intergenerational Trauma and Abuse - Tiffany Hamilton
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- Опубликовано: 22 май 2024
- Tiffany Hamilton will discuss her unfortunate experience in today's Unfiltered Stories episode. Tiffany grew up in a house were sexual abuse was a thing since the beginning, involving her own mother, stepdad and even her brother. Listen to her story and what unfolded!
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I’m sorry but no matter how traumatized her mother failed her . There are victims who break the abuse. Her mother was terrible mom.
Yeah her mother was horrible
People typically excuse mothers, but in all these cases it's the mother who is evil.
The mother is 100% at fault. My mom did this with infidelity but she never once left us alone with a soul. Despite her flaws, she never let anyone harm her kids.
Jealous 🙄 good God come on 🚫 sick.
Her mom failed cause she didn't protect her. She instead chose to live with the abuser and blame her daughter. That is sometimes the case when the mother chooses not to leave out of fear. Unfortunately, the daughter also became the abuser by molesting her brother. I grew up with sexual abuse and the family dynamics can become very twisted.
Her mother should a spent time in jail too for turning a blind eye to this happening.There needs to be longer and stronger convictions to people who hurt and break children’s souls!
I completely agree! It’s suffocating when a mother can stand by and watch this. I can relate with my mom. If they knew and didn’t take action, they need a consequence. I’m glad she has her mother figure! Anyone can fill that role not just your birth mom!
Depends on what kind of threats he made and what kind of power he has over her. A lot of these men tell the woman he will kill her and the children if they tell. And they fully intend it. In fact, a lot of these stories where the man kills his whole family? That's because the kids were getting older and we're going to start telling about the things he was doing to them. So he ends it all.
So take a break from trolling and stop and think for a sec. LOL
No I agree especially these days this isn't the 80's where a man could rape his wife at will bc she was considered property. These mothers who know and stay & do little nothing are just as compliced especially if they are in the same bed. This woman's testimony has to be the most realist and raw I think I have ever watch. You can definitely tell she has put in the work to heal from her childhood and the trauma inflicted upon her & her brother. Powerful, powerful stuff.
@@nicoleveltman2856 "mothers who know and stay & do little nothing are just as compliced ".. *INCORRECT. read my comment above*. A lot of these men tell the woman he will kill her and the children if they tell. And they fully intend it. In fact, a lot of these stories where the man kills his whole family? That's because the kids were getting older and we're going to start telling about the things he was doing to them. So he ends it all.
no, another victim trapped by the perp is not "just as bad" as the men who R 4p # little ch 1 ld r3n.
sounds ridiculous that one should have to say that out loud. X)
As of Oct. 1, convicted child rapists face the death penalty in Florida thanks to Gov. DeSantis. No BS slap on the wrist in this state anymore.
I can't believe her step father only got 4.5 years in jail, and only spent 3.5 years in jail! WTF!
@@Giraffe919 Step dad?
Canadian prisons are a joke
Should have got life for child abuse and the mother too
It is unbelievable. Child molesters don't deserve to live😤
What can’t you believe it
I thought I was in a “special relationship” with a family member and when I found out he fondled my sisters too, I was hurt. I thought I was special. I retaliated by being promiscuous…It’s amazing what these predators do to your psyche.
That’s awful. I’m so sorry.
I appreciate your honesty. I have never experienced this but my heart goes out to all who have. May God bless you honey.
You aren’t special though. No one is 👍🏼
I've seen people in "special relationships" with a family member & they get jealous. I was in 1, I didn't get jealous. It was just sax 🎷 to me.
Who was it
There are so many times when Mothers know, they see, they hear...their children being sexually abused...& they turn a blind. They take all their inadequacies out on their daughters.
The mother should be eliminated
This does happen. It's disgusting.
Sounds like my ex's story which turned him into a narcissist. Was with him for years until it clicked that some you can't help or save (I was molested to but my mother beat the crap out of that man). Where as his mother ignored the fact that his own brother did this to him, she realized years later and would correct it by being his best friend loving mom now*. Not realizing that what was done to him, those he was surrounded by are what turned him into who he is today. Uses women, sleeps around, abusive, didn't care about if us women got pregnant -hes out and gone. The woman had to be this non existent person of his creation - always love him, only feel for and listen to him, must have your own income (if you have a disability or not) etc because he was surrounded by one kind of environment not knowing what else exists.
I know, they are not mother's they are the enemy also. Terrible existence for a child to have a crap mother.
Sometimes the sick mothers allow it because they hate the father that much, it’s a form of sadism
The sad thing is that her brother has his own survivor story where she is the perpetrator, due to the enabling environment her mother caused by refusing to protect her own children, she should be in jail too.
Putting in jail is not enough, her stepdad and mom should be sentenced to death. Double death sentence for her mom who allowed to happen (to her children) that happened to her.
Oh man really? Do you know his name for his story?
She was a child...
She didn't know any different. #metoo has in my mind taken a lot of credibility from woman as they all jump on the bandwagon. But her honest interview is probably one of the first that actually hit me. She doesn't need jail, her parents need to meet the electric chair, straight up. I hope her brother can move on aswell
@@liammansell3607 I think he was saying the mother needs jail
I think it is so brave and important that this woman is being open about the fact that she initially enjoyed the sexual abuse she survived. A child has no frame of reference that what is happening to them is an inappropriate and egregious abuse of power. Survivors feel so much shame about the fact that the abuse was enjoyable to them, but of course it is not their fault and they didn't know better. This is a complete mind f**k for survivors. Kudos to this woman for breaking the stigma and shame so that she and others can heal.
VERY brave. I could never openly admit that.
Absolutely agree with you.. People judge that and I boggled that they do.. Touch, if not blatantly forceful or violent, is going to feel nice. You hit the nail on the head.. They have no frame of reference, so that closeness and feeling special/loved, wpuld seem positive. I genuinely think that's why men in particular have such a difficult time in processing abuse. Their body's have a physical response after a certain age, so they blame themselves for "actively enjoying" it.. so the guilt often overwhelms them. They can't even convince themselves, never mind others, that they weren't "asking for it". This lady is badass and I hope other victims of assault can take comfort hearing her story.. The cycle can be broken, and you can actually heal and overcome this horrific violation of innocence.
It truly needs to be said!
@@lykarabbit3this is what happened to me. This was very difficult to process. It still is.
@@lykarabbit3just watched a doc about child sexual abuse. One of the survivors who told his story of being raped by his uncle really stood out. He said it wasn’t violent and that it became such a regular activity that he would even beg for it at times. Both of his parents worked crazy hours so he explained how this relationship with his uncle felt like love at the time. He would get jealous and somewhat possessive of this uncle. Then, at only 13 years old he became to old for said uncle. He described the different “outfits” he would wear. Explaining, that throughout his adolescence one of these “outfits” he wore was promiscuity. He goes on to say he became very promiscuous with young ladies, having to have a lot of girlfriends to validate his masculinity, “to make [him] feel like a man.” To be rid of the feelings and confusion of if he’s homosexual or heterosexual. Another “outfit” being aggression, hostility, anger, rage. He explained his thought process at the time was “if I’m the toughest, if I’m the baddest you can’t get close enough to me to get intimate with me to hurt me”.
I remember how hard life was for me at that age, not having experienced SA, but to have to go through all those emotions and feelings at that age not to mention the confusion and frustration?! I can’t even imagine how torturous and awful that must be for these young men.
I'm sorry her relationship with her brother was damaged because of what she endured. This is the said truth about abused victims, some will abuse also.
Yes the abuse goes to the other relatives and possibly family friends. Hope her brother recovered as well or got closure.
Holy shit. This is truly horrible. I hope she and her brother are getting the help they need :(
Evil mother training them for incest. The mother was likely having sex with the brother too.
Its these mothers!! They keep bring men and boyfriends into their children's lives
@@FS02012excuse me?? Who are these men that cannot stop assaulting kids? There are two monsters involved, the mother isn't the one using the kid for s*x. Don't put all the blame on the mom alone, wth
@@aazhie these "men" were all raised by women like you!! All these boy moms... take a look!
I think you're both correct
I'm so glad that you found the courage to escape from your abusive family and is doing well in your life
Hi how're you doing?
What is worse than the abuse is the guilt the victim feels because of the fact that it is an action that is meant to feel good. Like this woman says, she liked the way it felt. That's normal in an unnormal situation
And pedos will take this as greenlight to abuse children
She was a child and didn’t know any different. You’re right. It’s meant to feel good. It’s not her fault
So many people have this experience and are ashamed to ever say it because it just sounds so awful and makes them feel so dirty. I think some assaults are more violent and brutal so those are the kind where people don’t understand how someone could have had any pleasure from it, but some assaults are not violent and painful like that, so sometimes your body will respond in a way that feels like it’s betraying your mind and gut, that are telling you it’s wrong. 😢
This ladies account is truly disturbing…. People that can do this to a child are just absolutely disgusting….. I can’t imagine what she went through…. I hope her life is getting better.
I find it disturbing....
I'm so ashamed of my country and its justice system for being so easy on these scumbags. 3.5 years is nothing for years of abuse and a lifetime of trauma.
I'm so sorry Tiffany. Thank you for being a beacon for other survivors.
youre lucky some of them go to jail at all.
My wife started taking classes at community College when she was 35. I met her when she was 49 and had just finished her post doctorate internship to become a psychologist. She just had her 72 birthday and is is still seeing patients. Become your dream!
That's incredible. So admirable. & a good, understanding & caring psychologist is so hard to come by
If the abuser pushes the right buttons, then the abused can get pleasure from it and terribly confused and feeling guilty about it.
They always feel the pleasure, they just don't talk about it. Because it's too twisted already.
That don't mean it's not the abuse.
It's hard to believe a lot of people nowadays. I've never seen such a brutally honest woman, and I hope a lot of people recognise the truth in normalising. What a woman!!!
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This is why you dont send your kids to friend's house so easily. you just never know whats going on. so sad what happened to her. im happy she is strong enough to talk about it and enlighten others. sexual abuse is real, and sometimes its done by the closest ones to you.
Always a good policy to never let a man be alone with female minors without a wife being there. I never allowed my daughter to have friends over when my wife wasn't present nor allow her to go to others houses with only a man there. But in this situation it wouldn't have mattered. If for no other reason, there cant even be an accusation that something happened. Bette rot be safe than sorry.
This is the true sadness of abuse. Even now this lady makes excuses for her mom. For her, it all came to her personal decisions to have her children abused. It is our responsibility as parents to PROTECT our children not use them. Stopping the cycle of abuse and not normalizing it is key to survival. This woman has immense strength to continue carrying on.
Tiffany, If you read these comments please have your thyroid checked. I can see it's swollen. Many of us who have lived thru this stuff end up with autoimmune and or thyroid issues. Many times all that is needed is some thyroid medication or even removing gluten and or dairy can greatly help with thyroid function if it's sluggish.
Thank you for sharing. It helps soo much to know we aren't alone.
I’m a victim of CSA and was diagnosed with hyperthyroidism in my 20s. It came back 3 years ago and I was prescribed with meds, 1 was for my thyroid and 1 for my heart symptoms. About 3 months into my meds, the pill for the heart palpitations lost its effect and so I notified my endocrinologist. She just guessed maybe I have trauma because my heart is normal but I told her a few times that my heart felt otherwise - felt like I still have tremors. So for days I kind of dig deeper into the “trauma” theory of my endocrinologist and just like a puzzle, all the pieces were suddenly put together... I was s*xually abused when I was 4, 6, 14 and 15. There was also an assault at age 18. That explains my behavior - dissociation, depersonalization, derealization, anxiety, depression, suicidal thoughts, self harm and so on. And there’s the “control” issue as Tiffany described. The control issue pissed people around me. I never thought I have PTSD and that I was s*xually abused. The mind does its thing to hide those dark secrets to protect the young mind from the bad effects of those terrible events
@@shortcircus8769 First a big hug 🤗.
Also soo glad you figured it out.
I also get hormone pellet and thyroid medication.
My digestion is deeply affected as well as my mental health.
Those of us who are seriously strong handle, battle and healer it the rest of our lives.
Really good point about the autoimmune connection!
these videos are giving me hope that i can speak out against my abusers
start with small steps,
It takes GUTS to talk about this kind of stuff. But it takes a REAL woman to admit to actually liking/enjoying it (because she thought it was normal). But still, most people would probably just leave that part out. Good on her for being so transparent and for becoming the incredible, strong person she is today. A genuine inspiration.
Yes, I agree. But I was thinking also that it is probably just a biological reaction to feel pleasure because that is how our bodies work. I think we cannot control it that we feel pleasure and the perpetrator knows this and figures out how exactly to do this so that we feel guilty for enjoying it, even though that is not at all in our control.
I agree, they are exploiting the biological components. This is why we should never ever lower age of consent. And there’s a strong movement towards lowering it as long as it is consensual and I truly believe it is why they’re trying to teach children about bodily pleasures at such a young age. I warn my kids often about these things, and that they’re suppose to be for someone your married to (as were Christian). And especially not some creepy old dude, but that also other kids are doing this to their peers. Also porn is really messing up the minds of so many pre-pubescent kids, and how much you want to bet all the SAers like this step dad consumed a bunch of smut. Disgusting.
This is some true shit...goes on all over. Very sick but prevalent.. I had an ex girlfriend who went through this and she had her dad arrested. Her mother was against her.. In the end we had problems communicating, she was also a sex addict.. Sex abuse of family members or anybody is evil..
I follow her in tiktok and she gets a LOT of hate and it's disgusting. What she opened my eyes to, was the "it felt good". This is why we need to not shame kids when they touch themselves. We need to take the opportunity to explain to them that only they are allowed to touch themselves and make them feel that way. And that if ANYONE, including mum and dad, touch you to make you feel lile that, it is wrong.
What? No it's not ok to be a compulsive mstrbator that's destructive and sick
She's a survivor on a while other level omg
I really really need this support group 😞 I was SAed since I was 5 until I was 17 by my older brother. I have zero friends and zero family left
I’m so sorry 💗
I am really sorry to hear that you were abused by your brother. He is sick on so many levels. You say you have no family. In your case, that may be a really good thing. Getting away from toxic people can benefit you and help with the healing process. I wish you the best of luck on your journey.
Give your life to Jesus , he will help you ,only him❤
This is devastating she's the villain in her brothers story but his father traumatized her and made her like that if he cuts contact with her it makes sense but his dad's the real predator
The way they title things is awful
@@iliketea162 Yea I so agree, the sensationalized way the channel titled this made me feel guilty for giving them views on it
The brother is a literal r4pist! HE IS THE VILLAIN!!!!
I remember I started to get my girl cousin (we were both 5 years old) to do what my uncle (opposite side of family) had been doing to me. And I held such guilt also, especially when she was struggling with drugs. God bless you ❤
Unfortunately it's so so much of this happening and I'm a survivor to. I remember struggling remembering that because it felt good at 2 or 3 or 4 years old you want that again and may even ask for it yourself because you don't understand or know any better. The person who knew better is the abuser and only the abuser. Completely understand where your coming from and anyone who has been through this will know the shame of those same feelings. You are beautiful and life is beautiful even after abuse!
Dont believe all this..as a child i felt wary of adult men. There is no pleasure against your will unless you are truly simple
its the natural response of the human body to feel pleasure. the human body was designed to feel pleasure from sex, the predator new this and violated boundaries the victim had no knowledge of. many childhood victims says "it felt good" which is what scares them so they often stay quite due to confusion. stop shaming other people for sharing their most vulnerable parts of themselves. its so common for victims to feel that way.@@kirstiehiorns618
God bless this girl. She has survived a lot of generational curses in her family. I hope her she keeps healing and her and her husband have a great life! 💜
She is a true survivor and fighter for surviving through this and learning BY HERSELF that what happened was wrong.
As an aside, she has a literally ANGELIC face!!
Sorry you went through such a terrible childhood. Your mother clearly had a terrible childhood herself and possibly her own father.may have been abusing her. The fact that your grandparents walked in the room when your mum was hitting you and walked out and said nothing, speaks volumes to me. Your entire family they are sick people. Break this generational curse, speak it out of existence and take back your power. Protect your children. Please go to counselling. I do not have the courage to share the trauma I went through. We are survivors. You are an inspirational, strong, courageous lady. I pray continuous healing over your life.
Abuse is a game of the mind mostly. Very strong woman she is ❤
"All my family have knocked my truth down." This resinated with me. Abuse is perpetrated in silence and gaslighting, this does the utmost damage because even when you tell outsiders, your truth is never validated by your family of origin for many reasons. Fear, love, respect and betrayal have many faces within a family such as the one I grew up in.
Sexual abuse takes away our identity as an autonomous person, separate from the family. I am saddened by any person who goes through this while trying to grow as a functioning individual. I am saddened for myself. We did not choose what should never have been done to us. These heinous crimes against children and adults.
I cannot fathom the strength it takes to tell this story. I so hope all of this kids can find peace. Horrific. IM SO HAPPY YOU HAVE A COMMUNITY! ❤❤❤
These stories mean so much too me.I grew up with fear of sexual abuse.Thankfully I was able to avoid the suggested questions by my stepfather. I left home the day after my 16th birthday .
Omg. Does your mom know though?
My mother called me a liar. I don't speak to her anymore.
Was not gonna watch because I already felt triggered but I'm really glad I did because I've been fighting with myself about telling my story ❤️
I feel the same way. I don’t really share my story publicly but im open about it and have told evey1 I know. I hold the power, im not scared of them. I survived ❤
Im sorry your going thru this, the fact that i don't personally no u has no factor here becus i trully feel saddness here for any women whos suffered thru that and i hope one day u find the will to come out to those important to u and share ur story. I hope u happiness moving forward
I’m glad to watch her story.. it makes me feel less alone but as a victim of sexual abuse I don’t feel like telling my story.. I don’t feel comfortable doing that. it makes me feel ashamed it happened.
when you're ready remember- the ones who did it should own the shame and fear. not you. stealth isn't forcing yourself forward its giving yourself permission to heal in your own time. not your faults
Its pretty fkn sad that the mom was not told about this not because she'd be upset her daughter was being victimized but because she'd get jealous if she found out mom is just as much responsible as the pedo.
Right, imagine seeing your own daughter being molested by a creep and you be jealous🤯mind blowing to me. Her mother didn’t even care to protect her daughter from such evil
This is HORRIBLE. You must seek to break the family curse lady so it does not pass on to the next generation.
According to her, she did. I hope you're happy for her.
🤦♀️ right, that's like why she's sharing her story
She’s so intellegent and we’ll spoken good for her for breaking the cycle
I'm very relieved to know that this lady was able to overcome that terrible situation
What a horrible childhood/adolescence you had! You are so blessed to have a man who loves you and supports you after all you have been through!
The young brother must need help too i hope he's having a good life now.
Thank you beautiful woman for turning your pain into power and reaching back with us to other survivors. I love you .xo
I also have one pain I want someone who understand my feelings
This is so common. I dated a girl I fell deeply in love with. However, she could never heal from the abuse she endured from her uncle. I could not take it anymore and broke it off with her. I still think about her every now and then. Very sad situation.
Silence is a prison. Shes wonderful. I cant believe how amazing she is after all shes been thru. Im the opposite. Im just a hollow shell of a person who cries multiple times a day and suffers from suicidal ideation. I wish i had turned out different but i let the pain eat away at me until there was nothing left. Shes amazing and what i hope most people can be like after trauma.
I am so happy that you were able to move past all the sexual abuse and able to discuss it because that helps make it real. You have found a new normal that keeps you safe with a desire to help others who may be in the same position you have been in
The more you tell people the better you feel, I know that
You are beautiful and strong. I'm so glad you got thru the sexual abuse and you found a wonderful husband and your blessed with a son☺
I was with sexual assault at age 16. My mom was in the living room as it happen. She didn't believe me when i told her. As watch your video and your story, i realized i was also groomed starting at the age of 8 years old. Thank you for sharing your story.
Give your life to Jesus, only he can help
It's impressive that she can be so open about it.
I would never tell that kind of story with my face exposed. Just... no.
This will help way more than one person dear ... I am an alcoholic and went to the 12 step program and got sober and figured out there was the good life devoid of alcohol, whenever you have a group of people who have suffered a simular trama/circumstances everyone in the group feels less alone. At 16 you made the absolute right decision to leave.
Her life story is wild! I feel so sad for her and other children that have to live this kind of crap. God bless her for being so strong to share her experiences
You are very brave for sharing your whole truth. I know so many families, including my own, continue to push abuse under the rug because the denial is easier. Thank you and wishing you continued healing and strength.
You are not alone, there are so many of us crying with you, supporting you and sending you love.
Thank you for being brave & stepping fwd to share. It will help thousands for yrs to come.
That was the most rawest honesty I have ever heard.
I hope your life is blessed, healthy and stable now.
Glad you've broke the cycle.
This is so sad on so many levels. I am glad that she is able to tell her story and hopefully have a meaningful life.
This is another level. I'm so sorry you experienced this.
I'm SO glad you can talk OUT about it!! THANK you!!
You go Girl! Keep helping. Keep talking. Thank you for speaking out. Silence is the killer and enabler.
I see in your face you are getting your internal beauty back. It's nice to look at. Never mind those messed up caregivers before -- go forward with the good.
Congratulations to her on her incredible achievements in healing!
Thank you for truth. It’s hard to hear, but even harder to live. Ppl need to know these things happen… and YOU CAN OVERCOME IT
Thank you for sharing this. You’re not alone. I hope these stories can teach other children to come forward.
You're incredibly strong for opening up.
Thank you.
It really is a shame for any child to grow up while having to manifest such unsettling origins-but we become the product of those origins; acquiring the lessons learned, and responsibilities to seize the positive change, which we'd like to create for the future.
Thanks again, for sharing your story.
God bless 💜
Thank you for sharing. I am a mom of both girls and boys. Your story will help others
You are so brave . It's something no one could ever imagine.....God bless 🙏 you for sharing.
She realized how strong she is♥️♥️♥️♥️ Bless you, Sister♥️♥️♥️♥️
Her story is heartbreaking, but the message she shares is so important & invaluable! She's so beautiful inside & out. I cried tears of sorrow & joy for her 🥺💖
Tiffany, seeing your face light up when you share about your support group, is so wonderfully heartwarming ❤ Your resilience is admirable 😊 Sending happiness and gratitude ❤
Her story really touched my soul and had me holding back tears at work. It's just so disturbing that these things happen behind closed doors, and what happened to her started at the age of 3, I had to rewind that part because I couldn't believe it! I'm beyond happy that she came out of that nightmare and is in a bright, beautiful place in her life.
You are an inspiration and a beautiful woman it’s amazing to see you smile so genuinely despite the pain you’ve endured. You give hope to other survivors that happiness is possible and the things of the past do not define the life ahead of each of us. Thank you for being brave and sharing your story.
You seam like such a nice young woman, I can’t believe the horrors that were perpetrated against you and you have been able to survive. Horrible things happen to some people, that is the real evil of the world. I credit you with amazing strength of character and heart. I wish you happiness and joy.
You are amazing.
It's time for you to live your happiest life. You are a brave and courageous woman and will help many other women along the way. Good luck and I take my hat of to you . With a virtual hug and a kiss 😘. Go girl!
Thank you for sharing! You're amazing and I am happy that you are now living the life that you deserved all along! Peace and blessings.
Thank you for sharing your survivor story! You are amazing and you made a difference in my life today. ❤
I am glad she got brave and got out. It was not her fault. All survivors need to speak up. It heals them and helps others
You are such a hero and an inspiration to other victims. And yet you dont require my praise or other praise to keep going. You have already grown beyond being "just" a victim to being part of the solution! How admirable...
Way to be brave and share. This will hopefully help others to do the same. My heart goes out to all the victims.
I'm glad you were to overcome the abuse. Makes me sad you or anyone has to endure this kind of upbringing
You are sooooo courageous, thank you🙌🏾
Thank you for bravely sharing your story as it may give others the confidence and hope to get away from a terrible situation. I wish you a joyful and peaceful life.💖
Good on you for speaking up
It is not your fault Tiffany. Thanks for sharing your story. It's people like you that help others. May God bless you.
Thank you for sharing your story Tiffany this hits close to home
Hi how're you doing?
😔 nobody should be able to relate to this. So sad
So sorry that happened to you! Glad you can be so brave to speak about your trauma and help others
I’m a survivor as well. It’s good to hear the positive outcome you’ve had in your life. I’m almost 50 and just now starting to get my life on track. After hearing your worthless your entire life it’s hard to change that.
Love your honesty!!
Such a beautiful person you're!!!!! You took the word Victim and turned it into Victor!!!!!
Thanks for sharing your story. It takes a very brave person to stand up & change. God bless you 😇
Thank you for sharing your powerful story. You are so powerful and brave for breaking the cycle of abuse.
I'm happy for her she chose to break the cycle and heal. What she went through is so sick I'd loose my mind if I was in her shoes she's so strong.
Stories like hers incredibly terrifies me to ever have a child of my own, I have a deep trust issues with the world. The world is so anti-child in my eyes.
The world is indeed very anti child, we need to protect innocence more 😞
You are a brave and courageous young woman...
Bravo...
Live your life your way...
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In tears 😢 Sending virtual hugs 🫂 You made me feel valid and not alone ❤
Thank you for being honest. Many people hide pleasure of abuse not knowing its abuse and don't come forward about it. It's sad. My mother suffered severe sexual abuse growing up and to this day, she had neber sought help. It's sad.
Thanks for sharing your story so sorry this happened to you
There are times when you need to get away from family like that. This story was very emotional and hurtful to see a daughter like her go through that mess which is very inappropriate
Agree! Distance and boundaries from birth family is A MUST!! I’m doing that now. Anyone human can be family when you build and live life together ❤️
I’m so sorry Tiffany. My heart breaks for you but I’m glad you’re able to start healing from this and hope one day you can mend your relationship with your brother.. ❤ May you both find healing.
Thank you, thank you for sharing your story! You are a survivor not a victim. Blessings to you and your family.🤗❤️
Very sad to not be protected by those that are supposed to care for you, i hope you can find all the happiness in life that was taken from you.
What a vile vile sick twisted man!! The level of control he exerted over her Mother, who was unable to speak out about this to anyone and get help is so so sad. That she knew what was going on and yet, STILL did not get HELP!! Awful, absolutely Awful!! 🤬🤬🤬
So so happy for the happy ending! Thank you for now helping others, thank you thank you ❣️