The mother is 100% at fault. My mom did this with infidelity but she never once left us alone with a soul. Despite her flaws, she never let anyone harm her kids.
Her mom failed cause she didn't protect her. She instead chose to live with the abuser and blame her daughter. That is sometimes the case when the mother chooses not to leave out of fear. Unfortunately, the daughter also became the abuser by molesting her brother. I grew up with sexual abuse and the family dynamics can become very twisted.
I thought I was in a “special relationship” with a family member and when I found out he fondled my sisters too, I was hurt. I thought I was special. I retaliated by being promiscuous…It’s amazing what these predators do to your psyche.
Her mother should a spent time in jail too for turning a blind eye to this happening.There needs to be longer and stronger convictions to people who hurt and break children’s souls!
I completely agree! It’s suffocating when a mother can stand by and watch this. I can relate with my mom. If they knew and didn’t take action, they need a consequence. I’m glad she has her mother figure! Anyone can fill that role not just your birth mom!
Depends on what kind of threats he made and what kind of power he has over her. A lot of these men tell the woman he will kill her and the children if they tell. And they fully intend it. In fact, a lot of these stories where the man kills his whole family? That's because the kids were getting older and we're going to start telling about the things he was doing to them. So he ends it all. So take a break from trolling and stop and think for a sec. LOL
No I agree especially these days this isn't the 80's where a man could rape his wife at will bc she was considered property. These mothers who know and stay & do little nothing are just as compliced especially if they are in the same bed. This woman's testimony has to be the most realist and raw I think I have ever watch. You can definitely tell she has put in the work to heal from her childhood and the trauma inflicted upon her & her brother. Powerful, powerful stuff.
@@nicoleveltman2856 "mothers who know and stay & do little nothing are just as compliced ".. *INCORRECT. read my comment above*. A lot of these men tell the woman he will kill her and the children if they tell. And they fully intend it. In fact, a lot of these stories where the man kills his whole family? That's because the kids were getting older and we're going to start telling about the things he was doing to them. So he ends it all. no, another victim trapped by the perp is not "just as bad" as the men who R 4p # little ch 1 ld r3n. sounds ridiculous that one should have to say that out loud. X)
I think it is so brave and important that this woman is being open about the fact that she initially enjoyed the sexual abuse she survived. A child has no frame of reference that what is happening to them is an inappropriate and egregious abuse of power. Survivors feel so much shame about the fact that the abuse was enjoyable to them, but of course it is not their fault and they didn't know better. This is a complete mind f**k for survivors. Kudos to this woman for breaking the stigma and shame so that she and others can heal.
Absolutely agree with you.. People judge that and I boggled that they do.. Touch, if not blatantly forceful or violent, is going to feel nice. You hit the nail on the head.. They have no frame of reference, so that closeness and feeling special/loved, wpuld seem positive. I genuinely think that's why men in particular have such a difficult time in processing abuse. Their body's have a physical response after a certain age, so they blame themselves for "actively enjoying" it.. so the guilt often overwhelms them. They can't even convince themselves, never mind others, that they weren't "asking for it". This lady is badass and I hope other victims of assault can take comfort hearing her story.. The cycle can be broken, and you can actually heal and overcome this horrific violation of innocence.
@@lykarabbit3just watched a doc about child sexual abuse. One of the survivors who told his story of being raped by his uncle really stood out. He said it wasn’t violent and that it became such a regular activity that he would even beg for it at times. Both of his parents worked crazy hours so he explained how this relationship with his uncle felt like love at the time. He would get jealous and somewhat possessive of this uncle. Then, at only 13 years old he became to old for said uncle. He described the different “outfits” he would wear. Explaining, that throughout his adolescence one of these “outfits” he wore was promiscuity. He goes on to say he became very promiscuous with young ladies, having to have a lot of girlfriends to validate his masculinity, “to make [him] feel like a man.” To be rid of the feelings and confusion of if he’s homosexual or heterosexual. Another “outfit” being aggression, hostility, anger, rage. He explained his thought process at the time was “if I’m the toughest, if I’m the baddest you can’t get close enough to me to get intimate with me to hurt me”. I remember how hard life was for me at that age, not having experienced SA, but to have to go through all those emotions and feelings at that age not to mention the confusion and frustration?! I can’t even imagine how torturous and awful that must be for these young men.
There are so many times when Mothers know, they see, they hear...their children being sexually abused...& they turn a blind. They take all their inadequacies out on their daughters.
Sounds like my ex's story which turned him into a narcissist. Was with him for years until it clicked that some you can't help or save (I was molested to but my mother beat the crap out of that man). Where as his mother ignored the fact that his own brother did this to him, she realized years later and would correct it by being his best friend loving mom now*. Not realizing that what was done to him, those he was surrounded by are what turned him into who he is today. Uses women, sleeps around, abusive, didn't care about if us women got pregnant -hes out and gone. The woman had to be this non existent person of his creation - always love him, only feel for and listen to him, must have your own income (if you have a disability or not) etc because he was surrounded by one kind of environment not knowing what else exists.
What is worse than the abuse is the guilt the victim feels because of the fact that it is an action that is meant to feel good. Like this woman says, she liked the way it felt. That's normal in an unnormal situation
So many people have this experience and are ashamed to ever say it because it just sounds so awful and makes them feel so dirty. I think some assaults are more violent and brutal so those are the kind where people don’t understand how someone could have had any pleasure from it, but some assaults are not violent and painful like that, so sometimes your body will respond in a way that feels like it’s betraying your mind and gut, that are telling you it’s wrong. 😢
I'm sorry her relationship with her brother was damaged because of what she endured. This is the said truth about abused victims, some will abuse also.
Both of their childhood was taken away from them. They should have grown up having fun, learning to ride bikes, going to school and most of all, their parents protecting them. But it was their parents that ruined their childhood and took away their innocence. There are truly evil parents out there that needs to be sent to prison for life.
@@FS02012excuse me?? Who are these men that cannot stop assaulting kids? There are two monsters involved, the mother isn't the one using the kid for s*x. Don't put all the blame on the mom alone, wth
The sad thing is that her brother has his own survivor story where she is the perpetrator, due to the enabling environment her mother caused by refusing to protect her own children, she should be in jail too.
Putting in jail is not enough, her stepdad and mom should be sentenced to death. Double death sentence for her mom who allowed to happen (to her children) that happened to her.
She didn't know any different. #metoo has in my mind taken a lot of credibility from woman as they all jump on the bandwagon. But her honest interview is probably one of the first that actually hit me. She doesn't need jail, her parents need to meet the electric chair, straight up. I hope her brother can move on aswell
My wife started taking classes at community College when she was 35. I met her when she was 49 and had just finished her post doctorate internship to become a psychologist. She just had her 72 birthday and is is still seeing patients. Become your dream!
My pastor always preached to his congregation not to allow children sleep over anyone’s house..and some parents got really offended and left the church. They said he was too old fashion.
No words... One of the strongest humans I've ever seen. I'm so sorry for what you had to go through. That man deserves to be in jail forever. Keep shining lady, you are an inspiration.. speechless.
God bless this girl. She has survived a lot of generational curses in her family. I hope her she keeps healing and her and her husband have a great life! 💜
It's hard to believe a lot of people nowadays. I've never seen such a brutally honest woman, and I hope a lot of people recognise the truth in normalising. What a woman!!!
This ladies account is truly disturbing…. People that can do this to a child are just absolutely disgusting….. I can’t imagine what she went through…. I hope her life is getting better.
She is a true survivor and fighter for surviving through this and learning BY HERSELF that what happened was wrong. As an aside, she has a literally ANGELIC face!!
I'm so ashamed of my country and its justice system for being so easy on these scumbags. 3.5 years is nothing for years of abuse and a lifetime of trauma. I'm so sorry Tiffany. Thank you for being a beacon for other survivors.
This is the true sadness of abuse. Even now this lady makes excuses for her mom. For her, it all came to her personal decisions to have her children abused. It is our responsibility as parents to PROTECT our children not use them. Stopping the cycle of abuse and not normalizing it is key to survival. This woman has immense strength to continue carrying on.
That happens when the mom is dependent on her husband/boyfriend. It can be money, it can be fear, it can be sex. I think in this case was sex because her mom was jealous on her.
I am really sorry to hear that you were abused by your brother. He is sick on so many levels. You say you have no family. In your case, that may be a really good thing. Getting away from toxic people can benefit you and help with the healing process. I wish you the best of luck on your journey.
I remember I started to get my girl cousin (we were both 5 years old) to do what my uncle (opposite side of family) had been doing to me. And I held such guilt also, especially when she was struggling with drugs. God bless you ❤
Tiffany, If you read these comments please have your thyroid checked. I can see it's swollen. Many of us who have lived thru this stuff end up with autoimmune and or thyroid issues. Many times all that is needed is some thyroid medication or even removing gluten and or dairy can greatly help with thyroid function if it's sluggish. Thank you for sharing. It helps soo much to know we aren't alone.
I’m a victim of CSA and was diagnosed with hyperthyroidism in my 20s. It came back 3 years ago and I was prescribed with meds, 1 was for my thyroid and 1 for my heart symptoms. About 3 months into my meds, the pill for the heart palpitations lost its effect and so I notified my endocrinologist. She just guessed maybe I have trauma because my heart is normal but I told her a few times that my heart felt otherwise - felt like I still have tremors. So for days I kind of dig deeper into the “trauma” theory of my endocrinologist and just like a puzzle, all the pieces were suddenly put together... I was s*xually abused when I was 4, 6, 14 and 15. There was also an assault at age 18. That explains my behavior - dissociation, depersonalization, derealization, anxiety, depression, suicidal thoughts, self harm and so on. And there’s the “control” issue as Tiffany described. The control issue pissed people around me. I never thought I have PTSD and that I was s*xually abused. The mind does its thing to hide those dark secrets to protect the young mind from the bad effects of those terrible events
@@shortcircus8769 First a big hug 🤗. Also soo glad you figured it out. I also get hormone pellet and thyroid medication. My digestion is deeply affected as well as my mental health. Those of us who are seriously strong handle, battle and healer it the rest of our lives.
Is sexual abuse in childhood and thyroid issue connected?? I was sexually abused in my childhood... And currently suffering from hyperthyroidism since I was 17
I am so happy that you were able to move past all the sexual abuse and able to discuss it because that helps make it real. You have found a new normal that keeps you safe with a desire to help others who may be in the same position you have been in
This is why you dont send your kids to friend's house so easily. you just never know whats going on. so sad what happened to her. im happy she is strong enough to talk about it and enlighten others. sexual abuse is real, and sometimes its done by the closest ones to you.
Always a good policy to never let a man be alone with female minors without a wife being there. I never allowed my daughter to have friends over when my wife wasn't present nor allow her to go to others houses with only a man there. But in this situation it wouldn't have mattered. If for no other reason, there cant even be an accusation that something happened. Bette rot be safe than sorry.
Idk She was abused to an extreme level by everybody This is nothing compared to her story She knew that this guy that was only charged 4.5 years and only served 3.5 years is bs and she wants change Most ppl want change when it comes to the court system regarding sex crimes. That was her final straw
"All my family have knocked my truth down." This resinated with me. Abuse is perpetrated in silence and gaslighting, this does the utmost damage because even when you tell outsiders, your truth is never validated by your family of origin for many reasons. Fear, love, respect and betrayal have many faces within a family such as the one I grew up in. Sexual abuse takes away our identity as an autonomous person, separate from the family. I am saddened by any person who goes through this while trying to grow as a functioning individual. I am saddened for myself. We did not choose what should never have been done to us. These heinous crimes against children and adults.
You are very brave for sharing your whole truth. I know so many families, including my own, continue to push abuse under the rug because the denial is easier. Thank you and wishing you continued healing and strength.
Sorry you went through such a terrible childhood. Your mother clearly had a terrible childhood herself and possibly her own father.may have been abusing her. The fact that your grandparents walked in the room when your mum was hitting you and walked out and said nothing, speaks volumes to me. Your entire family they are sick people. Break this generational curse, speak it out of existence and take back your power. Protect your children. Please go to counselling. I do not have the courage to share the trauma I went through. We are survivors. You are an inspirational, strong, courageous lady. I pray continuous healing over your life.
These stories mean so much too me.I grew up with fear of sexual abuse.Thankfully I was able to avoid the suggested questions by my stepfather. I left home the day after my 16th birthday .
This is so common. I dated a girl I fell deeply in love with. However, she could never heal from the abuse she endured from her uncle. I could not take it anymore and broke it off with her. I still think about her every now and then. Very sad situation.
This is some true shit...goes on all over. Very sick but prevalent.. I had an ex girlfriend who went through this and she had her dad arrested. Her mother was against her.. In the end we had problems communicating, she was also a sex addict.. Sex abuse of family members or anybody is evil..
Silence is a prison. Shes wonderful. I cant believe how amazing she is after all shes been thru. Im the opposite. Im just a hollow shell of a person who cries multiple times a day and suffers from suicidal ideation. I wish i had turned out different but i let the pain eat away at me until there was nothing left. Shes amazing and what i hope most people can be like after trauma.
Her story is heartbreaking, but the message she shares is so important & invaluable! She's so beautiful inside & out. I cried tears of sorrow & joy for her 🥺💖
what a woman ? not only she managed to endure all the suffering , perversion from her step dad, mother...many would have end into drugs, suicide or revenge. Tiffany you are definitely the perfect example of resilience and positive thinking. such an inspiration..And well done for having been able to turn your life around
The psychology of abuse is absolutely fascinating. When you "broke up" with the abuser, he was probably heart broken. Like honest heart break and rejection. He's a bad person, but he probably saw this abus as mutually beneficial in some way. This is why these people fly under the radar. They seem so normal and so loving, but it's a super toxic kind of love that destroys people. I hope you do well in the future. God bless.
Unfortunately it's so so much of this happening and I'm a survivor to. I remember struggling remembering that because it felt good at 2 or 3 or 4 years old you want that again and may even ask for it yourself because you don't understand or know any better. The person who knew better is the abuser and only the abuser. Completely understand where your coming from and anyone who has been through this will know the shame of those same feelings. You are beautiful and life is beautiful even after abuse!
its the natural response of the human body to feel pleasure. the human body was designed to feel pleasure from sex, the predator new this and violated boundaries the victim had no knowledge of. many childhood victims says "it felt good" which is what scares them so they often stay quite due to confusion. stop shaming other people for sharing their most vulnerable parts of themselves. its so common for victims to feel that way.@@kirstiehiorns618
You seam like such a nice young woman, I can’t believe the horrors that were perpetrated against you and you have been able to survive. Horrible things happen to some people, that is the real evil of the world. I credit you with amazing strength of character and heart. I wish you happiness and joy. You are amazing.
Her life story is wild! I feel so sad for her and other children that have to live this kind of crap. God bless her for being so strong to share her experiences
This is devastating she's the villain in her brothers story but his father traumatized her and made her like that if he cuts contact with her it makes sense but his dad's the real predator
I feel the same way. I don’t really share my story publicly but im open about it and have told evey1 I know. I hold the power, im not scared of them. I survived ❤
Im sorry your going thru this, the fact that i don't personally no u has no factor here becus i trully feel saddness here for any women whos suffered thru that and i hope one day u find the will to come out to those important to u and share ur story. I hope u happiness moving forward
I’m glad to watch her story.. it makes me feel less alone but as a victim of sexual abuse I don’t feel like telling my story.. I don’t feel comfortable doing that. it makes me feel ashamed it happened.
when you're ready remember- the ones who did it should own the shame and fear. not you. stealth isn't forcing yourself forward its giving yourself permission to heal in your own time. not your faults
thank you for sharing this! as a survivor of child sexual assault i remember being abused by my two cousins who would partake in inappropriate behavior and liking it because if it felt good, but once i grew up i realized it was nothing but good 😭 it leaves you damaged and disgusted. I am glad this is being normalized I remember growing up being super sexual and didn't know why, but then years later realizing really why. God Bless you!!
You are such a hero and an inspiration to other victims. And yet you dont require my praise or other praise to keep going. You have already grown beyond being "just" a victim to being part of the solution! How admirable...
This is really sad :( but it’s a powerful statement for her to share her story. Also hearing her story makes you realize that you can never tell what someone has been through, so you should always be kind
I'm happy for her she chose to break the cycle and heal. What she went through is so sick I'd loose my mind if I was in her shoes she's so strong. Stories like hers incredibly terrifies me to ever have a child of my own, I have a deep trust issues with the world. The world is so anti-child in my eyes.
You are truely doing amazing...its great you are speaking out for youself....im a victim of child rape. Im 63 now...have been in the helping of CSA 40years.as teacher and psychologist...you will be excellent at helping .
You're incredibly strong for opening up. Thank you. It really is a shame for any child to grow up while having to manifest such unsettling origins-but we become the product of those origins; acquiring the lessons learned, and responsibilities to seize the positive change, which we'd like to create for the future. Thanks again, for sharing your story. God bless 💜
SUCH A LIGHT THAT CAME FROM A SUCH AN EVIL AND DARK PLACE!! Whatever environment you surrounded yourself in to be nourished to where you are now, praise God!!!
Its pretty fkn sad that the mom was not told about this not because she'd be upset her daughter was being victimized but because she'd get jealous if she found out mom is just as much responsible as the pedo.
Right, imagine seeing your own daughter being molested by a creep and you be jealous🤯mind blowing to me. Her mother didn’t even care to protect her daughter from such evil
Aside from the background music, thank you for sharing your story. So much hurt and broken people in one family. There is a probability that her brother harms people because of what he went through. May you stay safe, happy and continue to thrive.
I follow her in tiktok and she gets a LOT of hate and it's disgusting. What she opened my eyes to, was the "it felt good". This is why we need to not shame kids when they touch themselves. We need to take the opportunity to explain to them that only they are allowed to touch themselves and make them feel that way. And that if ANYONE, including mum and dad, touch you to make you feel lile that, it is wrong.
@@Jeff-sp7bgand that’s why parents teach about privacy as well. Mass terbation is inevitable but sexual education can keep minors safe from being taken advantage of
I’m so sorry Tiffany. My heart breaks for you but I’m glad you’re able to start healing from this and hope one day you can mend your relationship with your brother.. ❤ May you both find healing.
You are so brave for telling your story. It is devastating to know that so many experienced this in silence for years. As a mother I cannot express how deeply sorry I am for the loss of your innocence and I’m sorry no one protected you from this! Parents! You HAVE TO CHECK IN WITH YOUR KIDS AND OFTEN
I’m so sorry the very people that are meant to protect you betrayed your trust. I glad you have people in your life that you can finally put trust in that will care for you, giving you the foundation you need for healing.
I dated a woman with a similar upbringing to this. She had a massive disconnection with all of her previous partners. She always thought everyone else was the problem. She had to normalize so much of what she went through in order to cope with it. Once it all came out and I got a really good picture of her history that created her personality, I almost walked out of the house. The damage that abusers can create is devastating to kids. It carries on afterwards to the next generation. This is why its so important to remove abusers and predators from the community, even violently. Its more criminal than murder. Death is final, you dont suffer. Living after abuse is worse than death. I dont even think that to this day my ex has even seen a therapist. Frankly, I couldnt care any less about her at this point, because my short interaction with her was also very damaging to myself. She became an abuser. I think Tiffanys ability to free herself from it is extremely rare. Oh yeah, she would actually victim blame girls that Epstein touched. "They knew what they were getting into." WOW honey, yeah keep your dog, Im out.
What a powerhouse - I’m so lit up by hearing her story. Fostering teenage girls? Yeah, she’s angel energy all the way & she’s making good good waves with her story and service, wow
It's time for you to live your happiest life. You are a brave and courageous woman and will help many other women along the way. Good luck and I take my hat of to you . With a virtual hug and a kiss 😘. Go girl!
YOU WERE SOOOO LUCKY that you found a man who actually loved you & protected you! God bless you! Unfortunately most women in your situation dont have a fairytale ending
I was with sexual assault at age 16. My mom was in the living room as it happen. She didn't believe me when i told her. As watch your video and your story, i realized i was also groomed starting at the age of 8 years old. Thank you for sharing your story.
@@Tomas-uh1ml Nope, just mentioning what's literally in the Bible because so many Christians have gone astray due to the lies of the church. Nowhere does Jesus say he should be worshipped. Instead he prays to God and even refers to Him as the only true God.
This is so sick. WTF is wrong with people? How did this dude get away with doing this to these girls. Why didn't anyone do anything? The mom don't deserve to have children. Hopefully they lady heals from all of this.
This stuff happens a lot, sadly. You never know the horrors people have been through. They walk around looking just like everyone else and inside they know horrible secrets. A lot of people are terrified to tell their story. We must always offer a safe space and be safe people to tell their secrets to, if they can😢
Thank you for sharing your story. You would be surprised how many people share in your story. It happened to me as a child as well and my mother was the same way. Many people don’t seem to understand that sexual abuse can happen to little boys as well and it makes it very difficult to deal with even into adulthood.
I was sexual abuse at 7 years by my teacher,than by my uncle,than by a familly friend,than by the concubin of my sister..... No one have belived me! My mother,sister,brother even beat me and told me im a lier! Im 42 years old now and i feel a sad abused cild inside me! I am mother. My son its 20 and dougheter 8. Im the mother that i never had😢 Until the end of my life i will protect my kids from any try of abuse ,Even verbal!
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I’m sorry but no matter how traumatized her mother failed her . There are victims who break the abuse. Her mother was terrible mom.
Yeah her mother was horrible
People typically excuse mothers, but in all these cases it's the mother who is evil.
The mother is 100% at fault. My mom did this with infidelity but she never once left us alone with a soul. Despite her flaws, she never let anyone harm her kids.
Jealous 🙄 good God come on 🚫 sick.
Her mom failed cause she didn't protect her. She instead chose to live with the abuser and blame her daughter. That is sometimes the case when the mother chooses not to leave out of fear. Unfortunately, the daughter also became the abuser by molesting her brother. I grew up with sexual abuse and the family dynamics can become very twisted.
I thought I was in a “special relationship” with a family member and when I found out he fondled my sisters too, I was hurt. I thought I was special. I retaliated by being promiscuous…It’s amazing what these predators do to your psyche.
That’s awful. I’m so sorry.
I appreciate your honesty. I have never experienced this but my heart goes out to all who have. May God bless you honey.
You aren’t special though. No one is 👍🏼
I've seen people in "special relationships" with a family member & they get jealous. I was in 1, I didn't get jealous. It was just sax 🎷 to me.
Who was it
Her mother should a spent time in jail too for turning a blind eye to this happening.There needs to be longer and stronger convictions to people who hurt and break children’s souls!
I completely agree! It’s suffocating when a mother can stand by and watch this. I can relate with my mom. If they knew and didn’t take action, they need a consequence. I’m glad she has her mother figure! Anyone can fill that role not just your birth mom!
Depends on what kind of threats he made and what kind of power he has over her. A lot of these men tell the woman he will kill her and the children if they tell. And they fully intend it. In fact, a lot of these stories where the man kills his whole family? That's because the kids were getting older and we're going to start telling about the things he was doing to them. So he ends it all.
So take a break from trolling and stop and think for a sec. LOL
No I agree especially these days this isn't the 80's where a man could rape his wife at will bc she was considered property. These mothers who know and stay & do little nothing are just as compliced especially if they are in the same bed. This woman's testimony has to be the most realist and raw I think I have ever watch. You can definitely tell she has put in the work to heal from her childhood and the trauma inflicted upon her & her brother. Powerful, powerful stuff.
@@nicoleveltman2856 "mothers who know and stay & do little nothing are just as compliced ".. *INCORRECT. read my comment above*. A lot of these men tell the woman he will kill her and the children if they tell. And they fully intend it. In fact, a lot of these stories where the man kills his whole family? That's because the kids were getting older and we're going to start telling about the things he was doing to them. So he ends it all.
no, another victim trapped by the perp is not "just as bad" as the men who R 4p # little ch 1 ld r3n.
sounds ridiculous that one should have to say that out loud. X)
As of Oct. 1, convicted child rapists face the death penalty in Florida thanks to Gov. DeSantis. No BS slap on the wrist in this state anymore.
I can't believe her step father only got 4.5 years in jail, and only spent 3.5 years in jail! WTF!
@@Giraffe919 Step dad?
Canadian prisons are a joke
Should have got life for child abuse and the mother too
It is unbelievable. Child molesters don't deserve to live😤
What can’t you believe it
I'm so glad that you found the courage to escape from your abusive family and is doing well in your life
I think it is so brave and important that this woman is being open about the fact that she initially enjoyed the sexual abuse she survived. A child has no frame of reference that what is happening to them is an inappropriate and egregious abuse of power. Survivors feel so much shame about the fact that the abuse was enjoyable to them, but of course it is not their fault and they didn't know better. This is a complete mind f**k for survivors. Kudos to this woman for breaking the stigma and shame so that she and others can heal.
VERY brave. I could never openly admit that.
Absolutely agree with you.. People judge that and I boggled that they do.. Touch, if not blatantly forceful or violent, is going to feel nice. You hit the nail on the head.. They have no frame of reference, so that closeness and feeling special/loved, wpuld seem positive. I genuinely think that's why men in particular have such a difficult time in processing abuse. Their body's have a physical response after a certain age, so they blame themselves for "actively enjoying" it.. so the guilt often overwhelms them. They can't even convince themselves, never mind others, that they weren't "asking for it". This lady is badass and I hope other victims of assault can take comfort hearing her story.. The cycle can be broken, and you can actually heal and overcome this horrific violation of innocence.
It truly needs to be said!
@@lykarabbit3this is what happened to me. This was very difficult to process. It still is.
@@lykarabbit3just watched a doc about child sexual abuse. One of the survivors who told his story of being raped by his uncle really stood out. He said it wasn’t violent and that it became such a regular activity that he would even beg for it at times. Both of his parents worked crazy hours so he explained how this relationship with his uncle felt like love at the time. He would get jealous and somewhat possessive of this uncle. Then, at only 13 years old he became to old for said uncle. He described the different “outfits” he would wear. Explaining, that throughout his adolescence one of these “outfits” he wore was promiscuity. He goes on to say he became very promiscuous with young ladies, having to have a lot of girlfriends to validate his masculinity, “to make [him] feel like a man.” To be rid of the feelings and confusion of if he’s homosexual or heterosexual. Another “outfit” being aggression, hostility, anger, rage. He explained his thought process at the time was “if I’m the toughest, if I’m the baddest you can’t get close enough to me to get intimate with me to hurt me”.
I remember how hard life was for me at that age, not having experienced SA, but to have to go through all those emotions and feelings at that age not to mention the confusion and frustration?! I can’t even imagine how torturous and awful that must be for these young men.
There are so many times when Mothers know, they see, they hear...their children being sexually abused...& they turn a blind. They take all their inadequacies out on their daughters.
The mother should be eliminated
This does happen. It's disgusting.
Sounds like my ex's story which turned him into a narcissist. Was with him for years until it clicked that some you can't help or save (I was molested to but my mother beat the crap out of that man). Where as his mother ignored the fact that his own brother did this to him, she realized years later and would correct it by being his best friend loving mom now*. Not realizing that what was done to him, those he was surrounded by are what turned him into who he is today. Uses women, sleeps around, abusive, didn't care about if us women got pregnant -hes out and gone. The woman had to be this non existent person of his creation - always love him, only feel for and listen to him, must have your own income (if you have a disability or not) etc because he was surrounded by one kind of environment not knowing what else exists.
I know, they are not mother's they are the enemy also. Terrible existence for a child to have a crap mother.
Sometimes the sick mothers allow it because they hate the father that much, it’s a form of sadism
What is worse than the abuse is the guilt the victim feels because of the fact that it is an action that is meant to feel good. Like this woman says, she liked the way it felt. That's normal in an unnormal situation
And pedos will take this as greenlight to abuse children
She was a child and didn’t know any different. You’re right. It’s meant to feel good. It’s not her fault
So many people have this experience and are ashamed to ever say it because it just sounds so awful and makes them feel so dirty. I think some assaults are more violent and brutal so those are the kind where people don’t understand how someone could have had any pleasure from it, but some assaults are not violent and painful like that, so sometimes your body will respond in a way that feels like it’s betraying your mind and gut, that are telling you it’s wrong. 😢
Well said
I'm sorry her relationship with her brother was damaged because of what she endured. This is the said truth about abused victims, some will abuse also.
Yes the abuse goes to the other relatives and possibly family friends. Hope her brother recovered as well or got closure.
Both of their childhood was taken away from them. They should have grown up having fun, learning to ride bikes, going to school and most of all, their parents protecting them. But it was their parents that ruined their childhood and took away their innocence. There are truly evil parents out there that needs to be sent to prison for life.
Holy shit. This is truly horrible. I hope she and her brother are getting the help they need :(
Evil mother training them for incest. The mother was likely having sex with the brother too.
Its these mothers!! They keep bring men and boyfriends into their children's lives
@@FS02012excuse me?? Who are these men that cannot stop assaulting kids? There are two monsters involved, the mother isn't the one using the kid for s*x. Don't put all the blame on the mom alone, wth
@@aazhie these "men" were all raised by women like you!! All these boy moms... take a look!
I think you're both correct
The sad thing is that her brother has his own survivor story where she is the perpetrator, due to the enabling environment her mother caused by refusing to protect her own children, she should be in jail too.
Putting in jail is not enough, her stepdad and mom should be sentenced to death. Double death sentence for her mom who allowed to happen (to her children) that happened to her.
Oh man really? Do you know his name for his story?
She was a child...
She didn't know any different. #metoo has in my mind taken a lot of credibility from woman as they all jump on the bandwagon. But her honest interview is probably one of the first that actually hit me. She doesn't need jail, her parents need to meet the electric chair, straight up. I hope her brother can move on aswell
@@liammansell3607 I think he was saying the mother needs jail
My wife started taking classes at community College when she was 35. I met her when she was 49 and had just finished her post doctorate internship to become a psychologist. She just had her 72 birthday and is is still seeing patients. Become your dream!
That's incredible. So admirable. & a good, understanding & caring psychologist is so hard to come by
That is so inspirational
Become your dream 💪🏾❤️it
And this is why my mother never let us visit or spend the night with friends without her!
Same!
SAME.!!!!
My pastor always preached to his congregation not to allow children sleep over anyone’s house..and some parents got really offended and left the church. They said he was too old fashion.
…? The parents are the abuser in this case and family members are the most frequent perpetrator so I don’t understand your point at all but cool.
She is a good mother
No words... One of the strongest humans I've ever seen. I'm so sorry for what you had to go through. That man deserves to be in jail forever. Keep shining lady, you are an inspiration.. speechless.
Taking a negative, and turning it into a positive for others. This woman is nothing short of a hero.
God bless this girl. She has survived a lot of generational curses in her family. I hope her she keeps healing and her and her husband have a great life! 💜
It's hard to believe a lot of people nowadays. I've never seen such a brutally honest woman, and I hope a lot of people recognise the truth in normalising. What a woman!!!
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This ladies account is truly disturbing…. People that can do this to a child are just absolutely disgusting….. I can’t imagine what she went through…. I hope her life is getting better.
I find it disturbing....
She is a true survivor and fighter for surviving through this and learning BY HERSELF that what happened was wrong.
As an aside, she has a literally ANGELIC face!!
I'm so ashamed of my country and its justice system for being so easy on these scumbags. 3.5 years is nothing for years of abuse and a lifetime of trauma.
I'm so sorry Tiffany. Thank you for being a beacon for other survivors.
youre lucky some of them go to jail at all.
You have no clue of what the reality really is! Smh!
If the abuser pushes the right buttons, then the abused can get pleasure from it and terribly confused and feeling guilty about it.
Some men are just really good in bed , so you shouldn't feel bad
Not true. A seven year old child what pleasure
This is the true sadness of abuse. Even now this lady makes excuses for her mom. For her, it all came to her personal decisions to have her children abused. It is our responsibility as parents to PROTECT our children not use them. Stopping the cycle of abuse and not normalizing it is key to survival. This woman has immense strength to continue carrying on.
That happens when the mom is dependent on her husband/boyfriend. It can be money, it can be fear, it can be sex. I think in this case was sex because her mom was jealous on her.
these videos are giving me hope that i can speak out against my abusers
start with small steps,
Lol god is the one doing this to them read your Bible @user-fx8gb7ju3c
It will be a journey difficult but you can do it! I believe in you!
@user-fx8gb7ju3cGod doesn't exist.
I cannot fathom the strength it takes to tell this story. I so hope all of this kids can find peace. Horrific. IM SO HAPPY YOU HAVE A COMMUNITY! ❤❤❤
I really really need this support group 😞 I was SAed since I was 5 until I was 17 by my older brother. I have zero friends and zero family left
I’m so sorry 💗
I am really sorry to hear that you were abused by your brother. He is sick on so many levels. You say you have no family. In your case, that may be a really good thing. Getting away from toxic people can benefit you and help with the healing process. I wish you the best of luck on your journey.
Give your life to Jesus , he will help you ,only him❤
I'll be your friend, I hope you're ok wherever you are
How old was your brother?
I remember I started to get my girl cousin (we were both 5 years old) to do what my uncle (opposite side of family) had been doing to me. And I held such guilt also, especially when she was struggling with drugs. God bless you ❤
You should talk to her and confess to her everything
You need to get it off your chest
U didn’t do anything wrong you played house u was children
She is awesome and so positive! Sexual addiction is real and is usually passed down through generations.
Soooooo #TRUE🎉
Yep.. the abused often grow up to abuse another. If they don't get the help they need.
People don't like to acknowledge the truth.
No she’s not, you think the brother she abused wants to be in the public spotlight!!!
Abuse is a game of the mind mostly. Very strong woman she is ❤
She’s so intellegent and we’ll spoken good for her for breaking the cycle
Tiffany, If you read these comments please have your thyroid checked. I can see it's swollen. Many of us who have lived thru this stuff end up with autoimmune and or thyroid issues. Many times all that is needed is some thyroid medication or even removing gluten and or dairy can greatly help with thyroid function if it's sluggish.
Thank you for sharing. It helps soo much to know we aren't alone.
I’m a victim of CSA and was diagnosed with hyperthyroidism in my 20s. It came back 3 years ago and I was prescribed with meds, 1 was for my thyroid and 1 for my heart symptoms. About 3 months into my meds, the pill for the heart palpitations lost its effect and so I notified my endocrinologist. She just guessed maybe I have trauma because my heart is normal but I told her a few times that my heart felt otherwise - felt like I still have tremors. So for days I kind of dig deeper into the “trauma” theory of my endocrinologist and just like a puzzle, all the pieces were suddenly put together... I was s*xually abused when I was 4, 6, 14 and 15. There was also an assault at age 18. That explains my behavior - dissociation, depersonalization, derealization, anxiety, depression, suicidal thoughts, self harm and so on. And there’s the “control” issue as Tiffany described. The control issue pissed people around me. I never thought I have PTSD and that I was s*xually abused. The mind does its thing to hide those dark secrets to protect the young mind from the bad effects of those terrible events
@@shortcircus8769 First a big hug 🤗.
Also soo glad you figured it out.
I also get hormone pellet and thyroid medication.
My digestion is deeply affected as well as my mental health.
Those of us who are seriously strong handle, battle and healer it the rest of our lives.
Really good point about the autoimmune connection!
Is sexual abuse in childhood and thyroid issue connected?? I was sexually abused in my childhood... And currently suffering from hyperthyroidism since I was 17
I'm soo sorry that happened and big hugs.
Yes, stress of any kind can affect the thyroid especially prolonged childhood stress.
I am so happy that you were able to move past all the sexual abuse and able to discuss it because that helps make it real. You have found a new normal that keeps you safe with a desire to help others who may be in the same position you have been in
This is why you dont send your kids to friend's house so easily. you just never know whats going on. so sad what happened to her. im happy she is strong enough to talk about it and enlighten others. sexual abuse is real, and sometimes its done by the closest ones to you.
Always a good policy to never let a man be alone with female minors without a wife being there. I never allowed my daughter to have friends over when my wife wasn't present nor allow her to go to others houses with only a man there. But in this situation it wouldn't have mattered. If for no other reason, there cant even be an accusation that something happened. Bette rot be safe than sorry.
AMEN but it's going on in their #Own home by their #biological parents 🎉
You cannot stereo type. If you teach your children the right way they won't get into situations like this.
@@amandaacutt #Not always true🙏
@@amandaacutt Irrational comment. She was 5 when it started.
You are not alone, there are so many of us crying with you, supporting you and sending you love.
It's impressive that she can be so open about it.
I would never tell that kind of story with my face exposed. Just... no.
Idk
She was abused to an extreme level by everybody
This is nothing compared to her story
She knew that this guy that was only charged 4.5 years and only served 3.5 years is bs and she wants change
Most ppl want change when it comes to the court system regarding sex crimes.
That was her final straw
"All my family have knocked my truth down." This resinated with me. Abuse is perpetrated in silence and gaslighting, this does the utmost damage because even when you tell outsiders, your truth is never validated by your family of origin for many reasons. Fear, love, respect and betrayal have many faces within a family such as the one I grew up in.
Sexual abuse takes away our identity as an autonomous person, separate from the family. I am saddened by any person who goes through this while trying to grow as a functioning individual. I am saddened for myself. We did not choose what should never have been done to us. These heinous crimes against children and adults.
You are very brave for sharing your whole truth. I know so many families, including my own, continue to push abuse under the rug because the denial is easier. Thank you and wishing you continued healing and strength.
She's a survivor on a while other level omg
Sorry you went through such a terrible childhood. Your mother clearly had a terrible childhood herself and possibly her own father.may have been abusing her. The fact that your grandparents walked in the room when your mum was hitting you and walked out and said nothing, speaks volumes to me. Your entire family they are sick people. Break this generational curse, speak it out of existence and take back your power. Protect your children. Please go to counselling. I do not have the courage to share the trauma I went through. We are survivors. You are an inspirational, strong, courageous lady. I pray continuous healing over your life.
God bless that woman. Many people would absolutely crumble, but she made it through the worst.
These stories mean so much too me.I grew up with fear of sexual abuse.Thankfully I was able to avoid the suggested questions by my stepfather. I left home the day after my 16th birthday .
Omg. Does your mom know though?
My mother called me a liar. I don't speak to her anymore.
This is so common. I dated a girl I fell deeply in love with. However, she could never heal from the abuse she endured from her uncle. I could not take it anymore and broke it off with her. I still think about her every now and then. Very sad situation.
This is some true shit...goes on all over. Very sick but prevalent.. I had an ex girlfriend who went through this and she had her dad arrested. Her mother was against her.. In the end we had problems communicating, she was also a sex addict.. Sex abuse of family members or anybody is evil..
Wow the level of honesty and transparency you have is astounding. You are an absolute beacon of light thank you so much
Thank you beautiful woman for turning your pain into power and reaching back with us to other survivors. I love you .xo
I also have one pain I want someone who understand my feelings
You are beautiful and strong. I'm so glad you got thru the sexual abuse and you found a wonderful husband and your blessed with a son☺
Silence is a prison. Shes wonderful. I cant believe how amazing she is after all shes been thru. Im the opposite. Im just a hollow shell of a person who cries multiple times a day and suffers from suicidal ideation. I wish i had turned out different but i let the pain eat away at me until there was nothing left. Shes amazing and what i hope most people can be like after trauma.
Her story is heartbreaking, but the message she shares is so important & invaluable! She's so beautiful inside & out. I cried tears of sorrow & joy for her 🥺💖
What a horrible childhood/adolescence you had! You are so blessed to have a man who loves you and supports you after all you have been through!
The young brother must need help too i hope he's having a good life now.
It is not your fault Tiffany. Thanks for sharing your story. It's people like you that help others. May God bless you.
The more you tell people the better you feel, I know that
what a woman ? not only she managed to endure all the suffering , perversion from her step dad, mother...many would have end into drugs, suicide or revenge. Tiffany you are definitely the perfect example of resilience and positive thinking. such an inspiration..And well done for having been able to turn your life around
The psychology of abuse is absolutely fascinating. When you "broke up" with the abuser, he was probably heart broken. Like honest heart break and rejection. He's a bad person, but he probably saw this abus as mutually beneficial in some way. This is why these people fly under the radar. They seem so normal and so loving, but it's a super toxic kind of love that destroys people.
I hope you do well in the future. God bless.
I can't believe this happens! It's horrible. God Bless this woman for finding her way out to normalcy. She's adorable! ❤🎉
Thank you for truth. It’s hard to hear, but even harder to live. Ppl need to know these things happen… and YOU CAN OVERCOME IT
That was the most rawest honesty I have ever heard.
I hope your life is blessed, healthy and stable now.
Glad you've broke the cycle.
Unfortunately it's so so much of this happening and I'm a survivor to. I remember struggling remembering that because it felt good at 2 or 3 or 4 years old you want that again and may even ask for it yourself because you don't understand or know any better. The person who knew better is the abuser and only the abuser. Completely understand where your coming from and anyone who has been through this will know the shame of those same feelings. You are beautiful and life is beautiful even after abuse!
Dont believe all this..as a child i felt wary of adult men. There is no pleasure against your will unless you are truly simple
its the natural response of the human body to feel pleasure. the human body was designed to feel pleasure from sex, the predator new this and violated boundaries the victim had no knowledge of. many childhood victims says "it felt good" which is what scares them so they often stay quite due to confusion. stop shaming other people for sharing their most vulnerable parts of themselves. its so common for victims to feel that way.@@kirstiehiorns618
You'all enjoy sex at 2 years old ? Wtf ?
You seam like such a nice young woman, I can’t believe the horrors that were perpetrated against you and you have been able to survive. Horrible things happen to some people, that is the real evil of the world. I credit you with amazing strength of character and heart. I wish you happiness and joy.
You are amazing.
Her life story is wild! I feel so sad for her and other children that have to live this kind of crap. God bless her for being so strong to share her experiences
I'm very relieved to know that this lady was able to overcome that terrible situation
This is devastating she's the villain in her brothers story but his father traumatized her and made her like that if he cuts contact with her it makes sense but his dad's the real predator
The way they title things is awful
@@iliketea162 Yea I so agree, the sensationalized way the channel titled this made me feel guilty for giving them views on it
The brother is a literal r4pist! HE IS THE VILLAIN!!!!
@@iliketea162her brother went on to do stuff to a child he was babysitting she told it on her TikTok a 6 year old
She's so brave and strong for speaking her truth. I pray she is always supported and genuinely loved.
Was not gonna watch because I already felt triggered but I'm really glad I did because I've been fighting with myself about telling my story ❤️
I feel the same way. I don’t really share my story publicly but im open about it and have told evey1 I know. I hold the power, im not scared of them. I survived ❤
Im sorry your going thru this, the fact that i don't personally no u has no factor here becus i trully feel saddness here for any women whos suffered thru that and i hope one day u find the will to come out to those important to u and share ur story. I hope u happiness moving forward
I’m glad to watch her story.. it makes me feel less alone but as a victim of sexual abuse I don’t feel like telling my story.. I don’t feel comfortable doing that. it makes me feel ashamed it happened.
when you're ready remember- the ones who did it should own the shame and fear. not you. stealth isn't forcing yourself forward its giving yourself permission to heal in your own time. not your faults
thank you for sharing this! as a survivor of child sexual assault i remember being abused by my two cousins who would partake in inappropriate behavior and liking it because if it felt good, but once i grew up i realized it was nothing but good 😭 it leaves you damaged and disgusted. I am glad this is being normalized I remember growing up being super sexual and didn't know why, but then years later realizing really why. God Bless you!!
You are not alone okay we got you
This is another level. I'm so sorry you experienced this.
You are such a hero and an inspiration to other victims. And yet you dont require my praise or other praise to keep going. You have already grown beyond being "just" a victim to being part of the solution! How admirable...
This is so sad on so many levels. I am glad that she is able to tell her story and hopefully have a meaningful life.
This is really sad :( but it’s a powerful statement for her to share her story. Also hearing her story makes you realize that you can never tell what someone has been through, so you should always be kind
I'm happy for her she chose to break the cycle and heal. What she went through is so sick I'd loose my mind if I was in her shoes she's so strong.
Stories like hers incredibly terrifies me to ever have a child of my own, I have a deep trust issues with the world. The world is so anti-child in my eyes.
The world is indeed very anti child, we need to protect innocence more 😞
You are truely doing amazing...its great you are speaking out for youself....im a victim of child rape.
Im 63 now...have been in the helping of CSA 40years.as teacher and psychologist...you will be excellent at helping .
You are so brave . It's something no one could ever imagine.....God bless 🙏 you for sharing.
You're incredibly strong for opening up.
Thank you.
It really is a shame for any child to grow up while having to manifest such unsettling origins-but we become the product of those origins; acquiring the lessons learned, and responsibilities to seize the positive change, which we'd like to create for the future.
Thanks again, for sharing your story.
God bless 💜
This is HORRIBLE. You must seek to break the family curse lady so it does not pass on to the next generation.
According to her, she did. I hope you're happy for her.
🤦♀️ right, that's like why she's sharing her story
SUCH A LIGHT THAT CAME FROM A SUCH AN EVIL AND DARK PLACE!! Whatever environment you surrounded yourself in to be nourished to where you are now, praise God!!!
Its pretty fkn sad that the mom was not told about this not because she'd be upset her daughter was being victimized but because she'd get jealous if she found out mom is just as much responsible as the pedo.
Right, imagine seeing your own daughter being molested by a creep and you be jealous🤯mind blowing to me. Her mother didn’t even care to protect her daughter from such evil
Aside from the background music, thank you for sharing your story. So much hurt and broken people in one family. There is a probability that her brother harms people because of what he went through. May you stay safe, happy and continue to thrive.
I follow her in tiktok and she gets a LOT of hate and it's disgusting. What she opened my eyes to, was the "it felt good". This is why we need to not shame kids when they touch themselves. We need to take the opportunity to explain to them that only they are allowed to touch themselves and make them feel that way. And that if ANYONE, including mum and dad, touch you to make you feel lile that, it is wrong.
What? No it's not ok to be a compulsive mstrbator that's destructive and sick
@@Jeff-sp7bgand that’s why parents teach about privacy as well. Mass terbation is inevitable but sexual education can keep minors safe from being taken advantage of
@@Jeff-sp7bg😂🤡
Thanks Lord for bible study class
@@Shaolin91z the religious indoctrination of children is child abuse.
I’m so sorry Tiffany. My heart breaks for you but I’m glad you’re able to start healing from this and hope one day you can mend your relationship with your brother.. ❤ May you both find healing.
She realized how strong she is♥️♥️♥️♥️ Bless you, Sister♥️♥️♥️♥️
You are so brave for telling your story. It is devastating to know that so many experienced this in silence for years. As a mother I cannot express how deeply sorry I am for the loss of your innocence and I’m sorry no one protected you from this! Parents! You HAVE TO CHECK IN WITH YOUR KIDS AND OFTEN
Thank you for sharing your story Tiffany this hits close to home
😔 nobody should be able to relate to this. So sad
She is brave enough to speak up completely. This is the only way this vicious cycle of SA can end. May God bless her.
Congratulations to her on her incredible achievements in healing!
Nina is amazing. A truly courageous woman. Im so pleased for her that she got out.
Trust anyone, protect children at all costs 😔
I’m so sorry the very people that are meant to protect you betrayed your trust. I glad you have people in your life that you can finally put trust in that will care for you, giving you the foundation you need for healing.
I dated a woman with a similar upbringing to this. She had a massive disconnection with all of her previous partners. She always thought everyone else was the problem. She had to normalize so much of what she went through in order to cope with it. Once it all came out and I got a really good picture of her history that created her personality, I almost walked out of the house. The damage that abusers can create is devastating to kids. It carries on afterwards to the next generation. This is why its so important to remove abusers and predators from the community, even violently. Its more criminal than murder. Death is final, you dont suffer. Living after abuse is worse than death. I dont even think that to this day my ex has even seen a therapist. Frankly, I couldnt care any less about her at this point, because my short interaction with her was also very damaging to myself. She became an abuser. I think Tiffanys ability to free herself from it is extremely rare.
Oh yeah, she would actually victim blame girls that Epstein touched. "They knew what they were getting into." WOW honey, yeah keep your dog, Im out.
What a powerhouse - I’m so lit up by hearing her story. Fostering teenage girls? Yeah, she’s angel energy all the way & she’s making good good waves with her story and service, wow
It's time for you to live your happiest life. You are a brave and courageous woman and will help many other women along the way. Good luck and I take my hat of to you . With a virtual hug and a kiss 😘. Go girl!
Bless your soul Tiffany, I pray that you continue to heal and overcome your traumas.
YOU WERE SOOOO LUCKY that you found a man who actually loved you & protected you! God bless you!
Unfortunately most women in your situation dont have a fairytale ending
The pain of staying silent when you’re in true pain is so overwhelming and shattering. I hope I’ll get where u are someday
Such a beautiful person you're!!!!! You took the word Victim and turned it into Victor!!!!!
Bless this woman and her strong heart and incredible eyelashes
Thank you for sharing. I am a mom of both girls and boys. Your story will help others
Your a survivor you are a strong woman never blaim yourself your innocent and your a good woman..
I was with sexual assault at age 16. My mom was in the living room as it happen. She didn't believe me when i told her. As watch your video and your story, i realized i was also groomed starting at the age of 8 years old. Thank you for sharing your story.
Give your life to Jesus, only he can help
@@Tomas-uh1ml Only God can help, the One whom Jesus worshipped.
@@beastvader you want a debate
@@Tomas-uh1ml Nope, just mentioning what's literally in the Bible because so many Christians have gone astray due to the lies of the church. Nowhere does Jesus say he should be worshipped. Instead he prays to God and even refers to Him as the only true God.
@@beastvader No you wrong , read the Bible brother
She is a very strong person. I am so glad she got on the other side of this abuse. I wish her only good things in her life moving forward.
This is so sick. WTF is wrong with people? How did this dude get away with doing this to these girls. Why didn't anyone do anything? The mom don't deserve to have children. Hopefully they lady heals from all of this.
This stuff happens a lot, sadly. You never know the horrors people have been through. They walk around looking just like everyone else and inside they know horrible secrets. A lot of people are terrified to tell their story. We must always offer a safe space and be safe people to tell their secrets to, if they can😢
Thank you for sharing your story. You would be surprised how many people share in your story. It happened to me as a child as well and my mother was the same way. Many people don’t seem to understand that sexual abuse can happen to little boys as well and it makes it very difficult to deal with even into adulthood.
I was sexual abuse at 7 years by my teacher,than by my uncle,than by a familly friend,than by the concubin of my sister.....
No one have belived me!
My mother,sister,brother even beat me and told me im a lier!
Im 42 years old now and i feel a sad abused cild inside me!
I am mother.
My son its 20 and dougheter 8.
Im the mother that i never had😢
Until the end of my life i will protect my kids from any try of abuse ,Even verbal!