We're engaged and want to obey God, but have already had sex. Now what?

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[@lm2230]

there's no explanation here. They don't want to marry people who already slept together, but why? What's the point? Where does the Bible mentions that marriage starts when you put a ring to your partner with a pastor? Can you even proove that marriage starts with this ceremony? Well, when you know that the person you're engaged with, is sent to you by God, and even your parents and relatives approve this marriage, what is wedding ring, ceremony and papers? Isn't it a life bond made by God? The pastor or Mayor are not there to decide who you're gonna marry, when or how. The Creator, all glory to him, decides. He knows he made that particular person for you, and he knows you will know when the time has come to get together. Am I wrong?

[@Cbawls]

Have you found an answer yet? Also looking for a real explination