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I'd love to see all men walk away from social media altogether. I recently took a respite from my social media and I felt much better. Reduced depression and anxiety. Less desire to be with a woman in any manner. Easier to focus on my priorities. Afterwards, I downloaded the pictures of my children and deleted my accounts. Done and done!
Well said brother, as it is, I won't even call them "men" are just as bad if not worse than women when it comes to social media & the need for attention & sharing pretty much every move they make throughout their day.
Personally the only social media outlet I use is RUclips and that's because there you can find more creative content unlike most other social platforms.
That is why a successful man's 2nd (3rd, 4th, etc.) wife is always younger and better looking than his 1st wife. I have never seen it go the other way.
Honestly its a hard pill to swallow but i broke up with my gf recently primarily on the basis that she couldn't stop posting pics of herself in different kinds of bikinis, bra and underwears and i was thinking who the hell you are doing this for? This didn't make sense until two months ago i started watching this channel and at first i was saying to myself no she isn't like all the others but the truth hurts and she is exactly the kind of woman i was warned about. So i broke it off because i gave her a choice, be with me or keep posting revealing pics to 4k thirsty beta males.. she chose the latter. I just wish i knew about this a long time ago! Thank you so much for your advice its really appreciated.
You did great man. It hurt to see (when i had social media) so many naked women pictures and their boyfriend under the comments like "oh i love my woman". She's not YOUR woman sir....she's ALL OF OUR WOMAN. lol so you did great. I pray the pain heals and you move on easily because regardless, breakups hurt.
You have it all wrong. You are beta because it affects you so hard. That's why you need to stop watching vids that preach on beta alpha shit. You are born into this shit its not learned. You were born with beta genetics sorry
Even if you did ask her to quit she'd probably just say that she can't because it's how she is able to stay in touch with her family. "Hey, pretend it's the 90s and just fucking call them then."
Dont feel bad man, many of us have been there or close to there. It really does suck though. Fukked up state of the world today and just isnt getting any better as far as i can see.
I can empathize with you. I have been there a several times. I think the brain washing of all the movies: The Notebook, Sleepless in Seattle, Meet Joe Black, all that nonsense... plus fairy tales like Cinderella have all caused us to be simps initially. Until we all learn now.
We're not stupid men, we are men searching for true love. For... love it's self. You see, men don't think about material aspects in a relationship, like what can she give me, for we work for ourselves, fix things for ourselves and make things for ourselves. We do everything for ourselves ! Women do nothing for us, only to us! Men, do things for women and expect nothing in it for themselves, women only do something for a man, if the act is in someway entertaining or self gratifying to them as well. They always have to gain...more.. more!...more!!…..MORE!!!
Thankfully, I figured out where my Ex was going sooner rather than later and was able to stave off her constant demands for more material things to make her happy. Yea, we ended up divorced and it cost me some money but I survived. My advise for guys wondering if they can salvage their finances......get out NOW !!!
@@PragmaticOptimist_N7 Also these rainbow haired lunatics SJW's in a constant victimhood state trying to lash out at anyone. Being caught on camera acting the mentally deranged lunatics they are screaming in public at the top of their lungs. Yeah, No thanks.
I was just telling my wife this the other day. We were talking about how so many married women are obsessed with taking selfies of themselves with their boobs bulging out for attention. Told her social media and apps like tender are going to destroy most relationships.
I totally agree with you, there are no rules anymore.....I'm 48 now.......and I've been burnt badly in past.....my rule is fuck and leave, no emotion, no nothing, there's another women around the corner...
I saw a an average-looking woman scan through her FB msgs. There were seemingly endless tabs of thirsty msgs from simps and beta orbiters. She systematically ignored, glanced or tease-replied them in what struck me as an instinctive hypergamous way. She had a boyfriend and had no honest reason to be chatting with so many men. She is not the exception, she is the rule.
GREEK WORD..Hypergamy = Hyper -gamy = Hyper(υπερ) = super gamy(γαμια)=marriage, mating ,sexing hypergamy= the condition where a person wants to mary,have sex ,have relationships wirth many individuals.....
@Gabriela Martinyuk go troll some other video. Your just pissed bc Coop hit a soft spot with mentioning "female nature". Stop Projecting and go away...
Not tryin to to be mean. Jus stating facts as they are. People do not have to like it but changing the present state of things, any time in the near future, is not a possibility. If she's older than 27 and leaves a long term partner (in a functioning relationship).... the odds of her finding anything worth while, without completely compromising who she actually is... that my friend is basically non existent. Meaning she will compromise, or she won't find anyone. Look at the average person, woman or not... western society is getting physically sicker and fatter every year. Currently 60% of north america is obese. The average woman is now a 4 at best. I say average with respect to women between the ages of 18-25, maybe 26-27 as I do not consider women older than 27 to be worth my time. Im almost 42, and yes it is absolutely possible to not have to date women older than 27. Its a double standard, but its a great one. With the wall hitting around 25-26 now... The future's not lookin so great for the ladies.
I once looked at my girlfriend's WhatsApp messenger on day while she was in the shower... I never saw her the same after that, most of the chats were men waiting on deck, trying to their best to win her over... Now whenever I see her giggling with her phone and I know it's probably another dude waiting for his turn I know she probably hasn't done anything yet with the guys, but it's just something that bothers me, I'm probably going to let her go, but I believe most women today are like this.
Yeah bro red flag, let her go. Don't even try to asumme that she dont do anything yet... Find some quality woman and dont stay with the first good looking one, dont be affraid to do that, cause she wouldnt think a second if she find some other guy
Yo man I know nothing of your relationship so I don't want to butt in but if your perception of her has already changed you should get out asap. The negativity will build up in your mind and one day you might lash out and things will be flipped to the extent that you will be considered the guilty one.
Not sure if you're still in your current situation or will ever care to read this but I hope you've wised up and left your gf. I literay went through this after my breakup a few weeks ago, and it was her getting back on social media (after deleting all accounts in the beginning). No matter the excuse a woman has for social media, never settle for her bullshit. I hope you made it out, man.
@Femme Fatale Is this the only argument you can say over and over again? YOU are the one who needs to deal with insecurities so stop looking for male attention outside your realtionship as most guys do once it gets serious. Triangulation is a form of abuse in relationships PERIOD
almost have tears in my ears watching this....i'm 37 and looking back i think about what I would have done differently when i was in my 20's...to the younger guys out there..look after yourself..its a sick world we live in.
@@gusabstract2136 look after urself mentally and physically. Never ever change JUST for a woman. Chase your dreams and career..women will come as a result.. Hope this helps..you will remember this in 10 years..peace and good luck👊🏿
When I turned 27 last year I told my dad I was feeling old. He laughed at me and said "boy, the best years of my life started when I got divorced from your mom in my late 30's. I was free, quite young and managed to regain the lost years. It felt younger than when I was your age". That changed me forever.
we essentially are living in a subverted culture with constant efforts at creating division in order to set it up for invasions via both legal and illegal immigration.
In order to recognize a fool you must have had to been a fool. Couldn't agree with you more Daniel. To truly understand what this video is about you must truly have had to go through an experience and fall victim to the game( which by the way every man including the GREAT Alpha's has fell victim too). Things makes more sense when you've played instead of observing, observing only helps but so much. Trial and error teaches one to overcome life great set backs. Love this man!
I have a little brother 17 years old. We are not living in the same city. During my next vacation I will have a deep and real red pill talk with him. He doesn't have to fall into the same traps that I did.
As a young woman who just wants a healthy family in the future, I really appreciate this. Understanding the 'why' behind the action will help me to consciously decide not to do it in the future and have a stronger relationship because of that.
At 61, I've finally realized it isn't worth it anymore. You're either going to be indentured to a life of servitude, or alone. It's also becoming clear to me why the vast majority of the world's religions and sects have diminished the role and influences of their women within their faith, to minimize women's natural tendencies to disrupt and disharmonize. I wish it were different but to deny this would be lying to myself.
Your comment on religion and the minimal role it allows women to play is spot on. The story of Adam and Eve isn't in the very beginning of the most important book in the world for no reason.
The answer is in the bible. Genesis 3 explains our respective conditions. Both men and woman are sinners and with that being so, we rebel against God's order.
Clavius Magnus, there's a huge difference between being alone and being lonely. I hope that bikes got an engine , get out there and burn rubber .. lol
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You can still find someone. You just have to be firm in what you want. Don't do the whole "let them make the decisions" bs. You have to be the one dictating where to go. In reality, you have a lot of options. A man will only be as strong as he believes himself to be.
BEST MALE STRATEGY: When you as a man get with a woman tell her straight from the beginning that you are not in a hurry and you won't move in with her in the first X months (for me X=12 months). That period for me is the period in which I will certainly get bored with her and, if she does not have anything to offer more than sex or "her company" (as some women say), SHE'S OUT! And until now I haven't found a woman who can offer me something to stay with her past that period. So, the advice is for you guys to TAKE YOUR TIME!
@@islami658 Well if they offer anything else u can be sure they will make u pay for it, either in money or slave labor like following them around with a shopping cart in a store that has nothing to offer you!!!
This occurred to me decades ago,in fact today my default position when estimating what women are capable of in relationships is : Just think of the worst possible scenario and you won't be far off.
I haven’t had social media for about 2 years. I honestly didn’t expect so many people to follow suit. I stopped because of how fake it felt to post something about “myself” lol. If you need me I have a phone.
I quit in February. I love it . I only had Facebook but it's no miss here . Social Media ruined my 30 year relationship/ marriage. She was on it 24/7 for the last 4 years , cheating on dating apps , co workers , other social media apps for Chad's ...for years ...now she's gone . The face filter saves her ...
I have seen social media destroy more relationships (regardless of how they we're founded) than I have ever seen social media benifit or start any relationship.
V C You are either a feminist woman or a blue pill Beta because this video is pretty much cut and dry And the truth hurts Especially when someone’s speaking facts
Why even commit to the bitch at all then? Real talk. If you can't get even a little comfortable (and clearly you can't) why even commit to any woman? Just spin plates/have casual relationships with girls. Excessive social media use is an immediate disqualifer for an LTR anyhow.
From the day that you and a woman decide that your in a relationship....she's already looking for your replacement! Your on the clock....its literally a matter of time before she's gonna find someone else!
Revolver Ocelot this! I know a girl posts scriptures then her tits. God must’ve told her post her tits with her young daughter in the background. ( father not around, but plenty of men are)
@@ryanweston9677 I feel you totally. We usually call those "conservadias" (girls who appear to be conservatives, but are actually the opposite (bitches)) here in Brazil. Most of the young girls that go to church in the morning go to clubs at night, drink , have a lot of sex, cheat on men and act like they are virgins to everyone. Things are sad nowadays. I still remember some lesbian chicks who used to smoke weed, post half-naked photos and all of that shit, from my school (a religious school), doing the communion rite in our easter celebration mass in the school church. Bunch of hypocrites...
Before social media. I've had girlfriends tell me "you have a girlfriend, ME, and no other dating anyone else for you." I agreed. Only to realize later, that only pertained to me. Then they all eventually dumped me, for some other guy. Meaning no dating, or even looking for me. But anything was ok for them to do. They ALL talked like that.
This video is 100% accurate and it is the cold hard truth. My ex-wife was, is the exact same way. And in the end none of it was her fault and she did not even see her posting on social media as an error or an issue in her ways. Came out of that relationship virtually unscathed thank God. Great work, keep the videos coming
The upside of this social media era is that you can use it to your advantage, to assess their strategy, mood and even test her. Before you had nothing solid to go on. Social media in that sense is good as it transparently exposes female behaviour, strategy and nature.
Social media: unlimited validation & instant gratification. Which end up in women forming weaker emotional connection with real life partner, everyone supportive of women's idea on social media, which further escalates their ego.
Back in my dating days, you had to go out to meet people...to the bar, the store, church, where ever, but you had to leave your house. Today, it is social media. So when your gal is on SM all the time, she is really just going out to meet people now. The reason you want to meet new people is because you are bored or dissatisfied with the people you know, and that means you.
It could if men were honest and didn't involve themselves with women in other relationships or stayed away from those women who they felt left their boyfriend to be with them
Awhile back I made an Instagram to see what my at the time gf had on there. She had 251 posts before we added each other. After she added me she had 248 posts...what do y'all make of that? Probably nothing good, right? I called her out on it and she got really defensive and just said that they were silly pics and she didn't want me to tease her..And then her story changed about what the pics were. Bullshit. Needless to say I broke up her. There's just no turning a ho into a house wife. I tried with this girl for years and looking back so many things didn't add up. It's so discouraging dating nowadays. I'm bitter. It's like I think every girl is gonna behave the same way.
I experienced hypergamy first hand many years ago. Things were getting serious, I was the one she had been waiting for (her words) One day her feelings for me changed in an instant. I was no longer required or needed and I was no longer the man she had waited all her life for. She made it very clear in indirect terms that it was over. So I left. 10 months later I did a facebook search and she had married a guy with a very very prestigious job, with heaps of upside earning potential....also according to her post she was 8 months pregnant. Women move quick when they want to. Be careful guys.
When i was a kid I realized early that my mother would leave my father on a heartbeat if one of her pop singer idols would come knocking on the door. It stuck with me but I haven't really been able to put it into words and explain it proper.
My brother from another mother you got it RIGHT! This is SO True! I just accept it as female nature and move on to the football pitch to continue my game!!! THANKS !!!
Women will always say they are looking for an exclusive relationships but that only applies to men. They will continue accepting attention from their friends, colleagues and social media but they'll still tell you they are just friends. Always keep your options opened cos that's what she's doing
Channels like this and others like it have opened my eyes to a whole different world that u had no idea existed! I'm finally playing the game on my terms rather than theirs. What you say about SM is no joke!
Ain't no video that sums it up better than this one!! Gave me a beacon right after my ltr girlfriend cheated on me. Now I know how it all is connected.
It kills me that SO many chicks these days will condemn you for not wanting to be with someone who does this. With someone who's constantly soliciting attention, regularly engaging with other guys, who's social-media obsessed, has an Only Fans, or whatever. They always say, and sometimes times angrily, "I do this for me. I don't look good for anyone else but me. Blah blah blah, this is only for me." Usually spiting men somewhere in there too. Well, if it were only for you, you wouldn't need such a big audience all the time, now would you? So there's that solipsistic nature he's talking about...
I slowly watched this phenomenon grow for years starting with MySpace and the emergence of Facebook, pof, RUclips, Twitter and Instagram a few short years later. The Hypergamy fuze was lit the moment smart phones and social media really took off and most men never really stood a chance.
There is no real defense strategy vs hypergamy, the only thing you can do is adapt to it aka never leave the soccer pitch, she plays her game while you play yours, stay fit and continue looking for better options.
The thing is we gotta form a union with hypergamous women for our sons and daughters for a 15 year time. It's like hoping that "The turn" would not switch while the kids are growing.
So true. I’m over 50, been divorced for the last 11 yrs with all the social media and dating apps, etc and I make good money. Truest video I’ve seen you post. Thanks
It is liberating to free yourself from social media. So much more focus on life. My impression is that females use it for validation and to keep tabs on the market place. Like Rich said, As a radar for how many future prospects they have. Its almost like the sexual market place IS their life.
I will NEVER for the life of me understand why a woman in a relationship needs to CONSTANTLY post to online accounts looking for validation. That's childish and scary for any man serious about being in a relationship with that person. If I'm not enough? Go play in Instagramland all you want. You'll have a million men who love you but won't want you.
That's why I never go into a relationship 100%. Who cares if she finds another dude, there are so many beautiful women on this planet I'm just like alright cool peace. Indifference my friends.
Great video I've been saying it for years. I've had both sexes argue with me or just simply stay quiet. I will never take a woman serious if she has any form of social media plain and simple.
I often equate this form of self advertisement to real estate or cars. If you purchased a property or vehicle from a salesman I dont think you'd much appreciate it if they continued to list it as being for sale. Everyone has innate value, and upon entering a relationship one sheds the window sticker or for sale sign so to speak. Relisting should only occur whence a deal falls through. Any form of advertisement whilst closing a deal bodes as bad business. Lol
Watch what she posts. I have a woman on my Snapchat right now that every time she is single a bathing suit pic goes up. And I’ve even had a girlfriend who was hit on regularly that posted herself in a bathing suit (when she was mad at me of course).
I’m just speaking on things that I have seen personally. There are also all the sudden relationship quotes that people do. Guys know that this can often come from a woman that is having problems in her relationship or otherwise vulnerable.
If a lady is with you on a date and keeps looking at her phone then she is playing the game. Last time that happened to me I took my phone out and did the same thing.
I'm a married man now but when I was single I had a strategy I called 90 days same as cash where I would figure out a woman in 90 days to see if she was worthy of continuing our relationship. Most of them didn't make it 90 days
You're just upset because you haven't found the one.... haha Kidding... you my friend are 100% on point. There is no "ONE". Just bad ones and good ones.
@@kaycay6025 i was kinda making a joke, but all kidding aside most all women will dump you for the bigger better deal, if she can get a guy who is better looking, more money, and wins at life, makes her laugh more than you, hell ya she will be banging that other guy, it dont matter what you've done for her, so if your the best she can get, then she will stay, i let the girl jump in on my life, i dont focus on her, i have my goals in life and follow through with them, i win a lot, cuz im focused on me, but be careful who you get pregnant, because that girl is going to be in your life for a very long time bro, and yes conservative women are awesome
@@radriffs2 but it's the same with men and women if we get the chance to level up we'll take it it just depends on what the man/woman sees as a better deal so if U find a woman that values someone who makes her laugh then yes one who makes her laugh more she'll leave U for and if a guy values ass tits and finds a girl with better of that same case or if they value cute/shy then also same case if U found an upgraded version of anything you'll leave for it it just depends on whether U see it as an upgrade but modern women see an upgrade as money and status whereas conservative women value a masculine and strong man who is like a rock in the family and is good with kids once again they'll leave if there's a better one at that but eventually you'll find one that see's you as the most compatible after all our existence is to have kids
@@kaycay6025 ok but i don't think that men would monkey branch over to another woman like a woman would monkey branch over to a guy, this is kinda the point , woman don't love like men do, men kill themselves over woman dude, you think a woman would kill themselves over a guy, no, they are banging some othe dude before she even breaks up with you man, because basically what im saying is for the most part is men are far more loyal, because they love differently, Remember the wize words of Entrepreneurs In Cars, she's not yours, it's just your turn, why do you think so many men aren't getting married? bro it's just a matter of time before she leaves you, and she's taking all you stuff when she goes, lol even Tom Brady can't keep his girl, my parents were together there hole lives, they don't make em like that anymore
Hypergamy nature is something I experienced years back with my ex live in girlfriend when she started dropping big hint bombs to upskill and upgrade my qualifications as well as leave my profession for the building industry or mining industry here in Australia so as to get a higher paying job though i was a university qualified language teacher and working. Even back then without any red pill lense exposure my gut feeling was to bail out of a very uncomfortable future so I left her and went overseas to live for 10 years thank god. Point is she needed me to move up levels to reach a higher male SMV=salary market value to be worthy of her😂😂😂😂
@@SnootchieBootchies27 She/they always want to be with the best man that she could find on the market, she’s forcing/forming you to be the “best”(for her standards) when you fail or when she finds the better man she will leave you immediately. I don't know is it related to your issue but I wanted to share this; when you stop being her Superman(always strong, no sense, no weakness, healing her daddy issues (to be more specific being her daddy in her subconscious )) they leave you immediately because you lose your ground in the market.
Some explanations are meaningless unless the one who suffers come to the answer on their own. -Master Kavar That quote from my favorite video game ties in well with what you said.
Men should always work on their sexual market value even in a relationship. The more options you have, she would think twice before leaving you for someone else.
Richard..... Know this how you came to this understanding was worth it. I watched maybe 10-15 videos during last night. I felt the “switch” click in my brain. I’m getting a divorce for a lot of reasons, and your videos have confirmed my plans. These videos have literally changed my mindset in one night. I actually shed tears because I knew these things in my heart but was to blind to recognize them. Crazy shit, my ex Dad was like this and I always wondered what he knew that I didn’t. He died before we could really talk. God Bless you bro. Sincerely... I’m open to help and wisdom, if anyone wants to drop a comment.
Get the divorce. •Stay away from beer it'll make you a chunky chipmunk •Start going to bed hungry it gives your brain more bloodflow and it makes your cheekbones more pronounced. •start writing your worries into a journal. Short and concise. You'll worry less and notice yourself fixing each and every issue.
@@TheInterwebzMan true, just better yourself, for yourself. Fuuck smv, just more for her to take when she decides your turn is over and she goes out exploring. Im not getting into anything serious.
Hello Richard! No need to get upset or emotional. As they say “the truth shall set you free!”. The information has been presented in an objective, respectful and dispassionate manner. For good or bad, it is what it is! Thx again!
Ive always had a similar feeling about women on social media. I'm glad you took the time to make this because it was what i needed to stand behind this in the way i need to in order to continue navigating the sexual marketplace.
I bet less than 25% but I think less than 5% or at best 10% it's about the country itself I guess where there is no real values like traditional values or stable families that happens.....
JT Harris There’s a Christian woman I know who has excellent morals and values. We dated briefly back in 2016. She’s the one woman I could trust. She IS marriage material... but sadly doesn’t look after herself and has now put on weight as she nears 40. We met up a few weeks ago (she’s always kept in touch and has never gone more than a month without contacting me). We met, but the spark wasn’t there anymore, unfortunately.
All women' thoughts and actions are essentially influenced by emotions and instincts in that particular moment of time. She is with you now because in that very moment you are giving her the emotional fuel she is feeding off of, getting the validation she craves. Once that runs dry she is out the door looking for that emotional excitement again with another one elsewhere whom she will have that drive with that she is no longer having with you. The truth of the matter is women are unable to have true feelings and that is not their fault it is simply their nature. Great video and BTW I live not far from the area you were driving in LOL. Cheers bud.
I still haven’t made peace with that fact that I’ll die alone, with no wife nor children. But it’s also liberating that I no longer need the validation of women to feel worthy.
I'm surprised this isn't common knowledge, it's so obvious. Some of them take it to the extreme to go on dating apps and write in their bio "I have a boyfriend, I'm just looking for friends". I can just imagine those girls telling their boyfriends upon discovery of said tinder profiles "what, I'm not allowed to have friends?"
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Awesome Video. The more knowledge that get out in the world for men to know the better. Thank you.
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The fact that chicks are on their phones 24/7 should be a clue. She's not checking stock prices, fellas.
I'm on my phone 24/7 watching these videos lol
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. Checking stock prices?
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Lmfao truth
Real shit
I'd love to see all men walk away from social media altogether. I recently took a respite from my social media and I felt much better. Reduced depression and anxiety. Less desire to be with a woman in any manner. Easier to focus on my priorities. Afterwards, I downloaded the pictures of my children and deleted my accounts. Done and done!
Well said brother, as it is, I won't even call them "men" are just as bad if not worse than women when it comes to social media & the need for attention & sharing pretty much every move they make throughout their day.
agreed
Personally the only social media outlet I use is RUclips and that's because there you can find more creative content unlike most other social platforms.
Same here man, a lot more time in the day too when you’re not wasting time on social media.
@@protoluigi2047 i wouldnt consider RUclips a social media. Dont include it in that ces-pool
Hypergamy is real and it's the bitter truth. Always be on your purpose men and don't put a woman on a pedestal!
yeah i always put a woman on a pedestal, i was blue pilled my entire life..
Vikrant Bhagat, ditto...
I always put women on a pedestal. It's a grey cement building block.
That is why a successful man's 2nd (3rd, 4th, etc.) wife is always younger and better looking than his 1st wife. I have never seen it go the other way.
@Inconceivable Disputes hehe, no, but its funny!
Honestly its a hard pill to swallow but i broke up with my gf recently primarily on the basis that she couldn't stop posting pics of herself in different kinds of bikinis, bra and underwears and i was thinking who the hell you are doing this for? This didn't make sense until two months ago i started watching this channel and at first i was saying to myself no she isn't like all the others but the truth hurts and she is exactly the kind of woman i was warned about. So i broke it off because i gave her a choice, be with me or keep posting revealing pics to 4k thirsty beta males.. she chose the latter. I just wish i knew about this a long time ago! Thank you so much for your advice its really appreciated.
You dodged a bullet bro.
@@Subliminal-b5s it wasn't easy but had to do it. Her claws were deep in me but i had to make the call
A man who is able to keep his rationality intact when it comes to love, romance and women is rare.
You did great man. It hurt to see (when i had social media) so many naked women pictures and their boyfriend under the comments like "oh i love my woman". She's not YOUR woman sir....she's ALL OF OUR WOMAN. lol so you did great. I pray the pain heals and you move on easily because regardless, breakups hurt.
You have it all wrong. You are beta because it affects you so hard. That's why you need to stop watching vids that preach on beta alpha shit. You are born into this shit its not learned. You were born with beta genetics sorry
If you don't believe him, try and get your woman to quit Facebook. She'll quit you before she'll quit Facebook.
Lol
@@claytonbouldin9381 Actually all social media.
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Even if you did ask her to quit she'd probably just say that she can't because it's how she is able to stay in touch with her family. "Hey, pretend it's the 90s and just fucking call them then."
That’s what cost me my 18 year marriage
I've always known that women use social media to cheat on their men but I was never able to articulate it as well as you just did, thank you.
Abramo V emotional cheating as well. When he's not there she can upload a sad post and tons of male's " I'm sorry , feel better ect,"
Yes I completely agree. Emotional cheating
That's damn right! Articulation....The weapon of the Feminists. Need to be used against them to demolish their castle of lies.
My ex wife did just this
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I went bankrupt trying to please a high maintenance woman. Why are so many men like me so stupid? Never again. Great advise on here.
Dont feel bad man, many of us have been there or close to there. It really does suck though. Fukked up state of the world today and just isnt getting any better as far as i can see.
I can empathize with you. I have been there a several times. I think the brain washing of all the movies: The Notebook, Sleepless in Seattle, Meet Joe Black, all that nonsense... plus fairy tales like Cinderella have all caused us to be simps initially. Until we all learn now.
We're not stupid men, we are men searching for true love. For... love it's self. You see, men don't think about material aspects in a relationship, like what can she give me, for we work for ourselves, fix things for ourselves and make things for ourselves. We do everything for ourselves ! Women do nothing for us, only to us! Men, do things for women and expect nothing in it for themselves, women only do something for a man, if the act is in someway entertaining or self gratifying to them as well. They always have to gain...more.. more!...more!!…..MORE!!!
the power of pussy is real, bro. By nature, we want to be loved but women can never love us the way we want to be loved.
Thankfully, I figured out where my Ex was going sooner rather than later and was able to stave off her constant demands for more material things to make her happy. Yea, we ended up divorced and it cost me some money but I survived. My advise for guys wondering if they can salvage their finances......get out NOW !!!
The modern relationship world is a shitshow. All relationships are doomed thanks to social media.
*modern waves of feminism and the nature of 'entitlement '
@@PragmaticOptimist_N7 Also these rainbow haired lunatics SJW's in a constant victimhood state trying to lash out at anyone. Being caught on camera acting the mentally deranged lunatics they are screaming in public at the top of their lungs. Yeah, No thanks.
I was just telling my wife this the other day. We were talking about how so many married women are obsessed with taking selfies of themselves with their boobs bulging out for attention. Told her social media and apps like tender are going to destroy most relationships.
I totally agree with you, there are no rules anymore.....I'm 48 now.......and I've been burnt badly in past.....my rule is fuck and leave, no emotion, no nothing, there's another women around the corner...
Poker1989
Couldn’t agree more. It’s easier to cheat now than it ever has been, especially for a woman.
“I haven’t handled a divorce in the last 3 years that didn’t involve social media DMs” - My divorce attorney
I saw a an average-looking woman scan through her FB msgs. There were seemingly endless tabs of thirsty msgs from simps and beta orbiters. She systematically ignored, glanced or tease-replied them in what struck me as an instinctive hypergamous way. She had a boyfriend and had no honest reason to be chatting with so many men. She is not the exception, she is the rule.
Good Yeoman Beta orbiter. I liked this Rocket science lingo. Sexual market seems to get complex day by day
female privilege
I've known fat women who had the I'm a queen entitlement attitude. And she was a 3
@@Mgtowaussie the simp who marries her need not worry. she'll die of diabetes before she can claim his estate
@@goodyeoman4534 lmao that's true.
Yes, this is 100% accurate.
i am 20 and YOU and every one in the comments just saved my life. Thank you brothers, will always remember what you did )
Good luck, brother.
this is gold! tearing down the walls of crippling, self torturing male uncertainty about female behaviour and motivations.
We need to get hypergamy into the English dictionary, a lot of guys still don’t know what the hell it is ,,,
@As seen on black & white TV no it's on the legit dictionary the opposite hypogamy
GREEK WORD..Hypergamy = Hyper -gamy =
Hyper(υπερ) = super
gamy(γαμια)=marriage, mating ,sexing
hypergamy= the condition where a person wants to mary,have sex ,have relationships wirth many individuals.....
@Gabriela Martinyuk go troll some other video. Your just pissed bc Coop hit a soft spot with mentioning "female nature". Stop Projecting and go away...
Agreed!
Hypergamy doesn’t bother me because if a women leaves me , the only direction she is going is down 🤪
Yeah, 6 feet under kind of down.
Lock and load brother!
David C hahaha
Gary Martin you’re probably a misogynist
Not tryin to to be mean. Jus stating facts as they are. People do not have to like it but changing the present state of things, any time in the near future, is not a possibility.
If she's older than 27 and leaves a long term partner (in a functioning relationship).... the odds of her finding anything worth while, without completely compromising who she actually is... that my friend is basically non existent. Meaning she will compromise, or she won't find anyone.
Look at the average person, woman or not... western society is getting physically sicker and fatter every year. Currently 60% of north america is obese.
The average woman is now a 4 at best. I say average with respect to women between the ages of 18-25, maybe 26-27 as I do not consider women older than 27 to be worth my time. Im almost 42, and yes it is absolutely possible to not have to date women older than 27. Its a double standard, but its a great one.
With the wall hitting around 25-26 now... The future's not lookin so great for the ladies.
I once looked at my girlfriend's WhatsApp messenger on day while she was in the shower...
I never saw her the same after that, most of the chats were men waiting on deck, trying to their best to win her over... Now whenever I see her giggling with her phone and I know it's probably another dude waiting for his turn
I know she probably hasn't done anything yet with the guys, but it's just something that bothers me, I'm probably going to let her go, but I believe most women today are like this.
Yeah bro red flag, let her go.
Don't even try to asumme that she dont do anything yet... Find some quality woman and dont stay with the first good looking one, dont be affraid to do that, cause she wouldnt think a second if she find some other guy
Chris Rock did a bit on this "why?" .... "because ya never know..."
Yo man I know nothing of your relationship so I don't want to butt in but if your perception of her has already changed you should get out asap. The negativity will build up in your mind and one day you might lash out and things will be flipped to the extent that you will be considered the guilty one.
Not sure if you're still in your current situation or will ever care to read this but I hope you've wised up and left your gf.
I literay went through this after my breakup a few weeks ago, and it was her getting back on social media (after deleting all accounts in the beginning). No matter the excuse a woman has for social media, never settle for her bullshit.
I hope you made it out, man.
@Femme Fatale Is this the only argument you can say over and over again? YOU are the one who needs to deal with insecurities so stop looking for male attention outside your realtionship as most guys do once it gets serious. Triangulation is a form of abuse in relationships PERIOD
It's not your girl is just your turn!
How about it’s just her turn. Men like variety
almost have tears in my ears watching this....i'm 37 and looking back i think about what I would have done differently when i was in my 20's...to the younger guys out there..look after yourself..its a sick world we live in.
What would you have done differently? Im 24 btw if that matters
@@gusabstract2136 look after urself mentally and physically.
Never ever change JUST for a woman. Chase your dreams and career..women will come as a result..
Hope this helps..you will remember this in 10 years..peace and good luck👊🏿
When I turned 27 last year I told my dad I was feeling old. He laughed at me and said "boy, the best years of my life started when I got divorced from your mom in my late 30's. I was free, quite young and managed to regain the lost years. It felt younger than when I was your age". That changed me forever.
I feel you
we essentially are living in a subverted culture with constant efforts at creating division in order to set it up for invasions via both legal and illegal immigration.
It's the hard truth, but men can only see it after they fall victim to it... unfortunately...
@Layne's Apparition 100%. I basically posted the same thing
because till then they fool themselves into believing that they are Special and hence it can't happen to them.
In order to recognize a fool you must have had to been a fool. Couldn't agree with you more Daniel. To truly understand what this video is about you must truly have had to go through an experience and fall victim to the game( which by the way every man including the GREAT Alpha's has fell victim too). Things makes more sense when you've played instead of observing, observing only helps but so much. Trial and error teaches one to overcome life great set backs. Love this man!
I have a little brother 17 years old. We are not living in the same city. During my next vacation I will have a deep and real red pill talk with him. He doesn't have to fall into the same traps that I did.
@@kadaffishakoor5974 one cannot be a great fighter without taking a beating. hopefully he wouldn't get crippled by that.
As a young woman who just wants a healthy family in the future, I really appreciate this. Understanding the 'why' behind the action will help me to consciously decide not to do it in the future and have a stronger relationship because of that.
Bless you. ❤️
@@theinfinitevic9017 quit simpin
@@henrygobblesag1815 what's that?
Make sure that you aren't taken advantage of either.
@@theinfinitevic9017 you know what it is lol
At 61, I've finally realized it isn't worth it anymore. You're either going to be indentured to a life of servitude, or alone. It's also becoming clear to me why the vast majority of the world's religions and sects have diminished the role and influences of their women within their faith, to minimize women's natural tendencies to disrupt and disharmonize. I wish it were different but to deny this would be lying to myself.
@@zefautino spot on. Im in the same boat but I've come to terms with it at 29, 32 now.
Your comment on religion and the minimal role it allows women to play is spot on. The story of Adam and Eve isn't in the very beginning of the most important book in the world for no reason.
The answer is in the bible. Genesis 3 explains our respective conditions. Both men and woman are sinners and with that being so, we rebel against God's order.
Clavius Magnus, there's a huge difference between being alone and being lonely. I hope that bikes got an engine , get out there and burn rubber .. lol
You can still find someone. You just have to be firm in what you want. Don't do the whole "let them make the decisions" bs. You have to be the one dictating where to go. In reality, you have a lot of options. A man will only be as strong as he believes himself to be.
BEST MALE STRATEGY: When you as a man get with a woman tell her straight from the beginning that you are not in a hurry and you won't move in with her in the first X months (for me X=12 months). That period for me is the period in which I will certainly get bored with her and, if she does not have anything to offer more than sex or "her company" (as some women say), SHE'S OUT! And until now I haven't found a woman who can offer me something to stay with her past that period. So, the advice is for you guys to TAKE YOUR TIME!
PS: If she pressures you, DUMP HER!!!
Be careful tho. Women will try, in many unconscionable ways, to trap you or get revenge if you do leave
It is best to end things in such a way that they think it is their idea. A bit more work but worth it.
What else besides those two things CAN they offer?
@@islami658 Well if they offer anything else u can be sure they will make u pay for it, either in money or slave labor like following them around with a shopping cart in a store that has nothing to offer you!!!
This occurred to me decades ago,in fact today my default position when estimating what women are capable of in relationships is : Just think of the worst possible scenario and you won't be far off.
non-negotiable
@@jackas695 pretty much so 😋
I haven’t had social media for about 2 years. I honestly didn’t expect so many people to follow suit. I stopped because of how fake it felt to post something about “myself” lol. If you need me I have a phone.
I quit in February. I love it . I only had Facebook but it's no miss here .
Social Media ruined my 30 year relationship/ marriage.
She was on it 24/7 for the last 4 years , cheating on dating apps , co workers , other social media apps for Chad's ...for years ...now she's gone .
The face filter saves her ...
I have seen social media destroy more relationships (regardless of how they we're founded) than I have ever seen social media benifit or start any relationship.
She’s always taking applications for potentially your replacement. Always be aware of that and never get comfortable.
So painfully true!!
V C You are either a feminist woman or a blue pill Beta because this video is pretty much cut and dry And the truth hurts Especially when someone’s speaking facts
Why even commit to the bitch at all then? Real talk. If you can't get even a little comfortable (and clearly you can't) why even commit to any woman? Just spin plates/have casual relationships with girls. Excessive social media use is an immediate disqualifer for an LTR anyhow.
Not ALWAYS. You have very posion belifs that might create your reality
From the day that you and a woman decide that your in a relationship....she's already looking for your replacement! Your on the clock....its literally a matter of time before she's gonna find someone else!
If she's half-naked on almost every other photo on IG, she's no good girl, IDGAF how many scriptures or motivational quotes she posts.
Revolver Ocelot this! I know a girl posts scriptures then her tits.
God must’ve told her post her tits with her young daughter in the background. ( father not around, but plenty of men are)
Don't forget snapchat. Some girls act innocent on ig but are the opposite on snapchat.
The more religious, the worse they are in my experience.
@@ryanweston9677 I feel you totally. We usually call those "conservadias" (girls who appear to be conservatives, but are actually the opposite (bitches)) here in Brazil. Most of the young girls that go to church in the morning go to clubs at night, drink , have a lot of sex, cheat on men and act like they are virgins to everyone. Things are sad nowadays.
I still remember some lesbian chicks who used to smoke weed, post half-naked photos and all of that shit, from my school (a religious school), doing the communion rite in our easter celebration mass in the school church. Bunch of hypocrites...
😂😂😂😂😂😂
I always say: Show me a women's Instagram page and I'll tell you what type of woman she is by looking at her ten most recent posts.
Lol I screamed facts from the top of my lungs
Before social media. I've had girlfriends tell me "you have a girlfriend, ME, and no other dating anyone else for you."
I agreed.
Only to realize later, that only pertained to me.
Then they all eventually dumped me, for some other guy.
Meaning no dating, or even looking for me.
But anything was ok for them to do. They ALL talked like that.
Insane bs
This video is 100% accurate and it is the cold hard truth. My ex-wife was, is the exact same way. And in the end none of it was her fault and she did not even see her posting on social media as an error or an issue in her ways. Came out of that relationship virtually unscathed thank God. Great work, keep the videos coming
The upside of this social media era is that you can use it to your advantage, to assess their strategy, mood and even test her. Before you had nothing solid to go on. Social media in that sense is good as it transparently exposes female behaviour, strategy and nature.
Igor Jaramaz I ALWAYS do a background check on a female of potential interest. I even tested my ex with it..she bit the line.
@@AntonioWolfpack I verify rock solid facts/people constantly.
Social media: unlimited validation & instant gratification. Which end up in women forming weaker emotional connection with real life partner, everyone supportive of women's idea on social media, which further escalates their ego.
Back in my dating days, you had to go out to meet people...to the bar, the store, church, where ever, but you had to leave your house. Today, it is social media. So when your gal is on SM all the time, she is really just going out to meet people now. The reason you want to meet new people is because you are bored or dissatisfied with the people you know, and that means you.
social network
hypergamy never stops.
And never fails
It could if men were honest and didn't involve themselves with women in other relationships or stayed away from those women who they felt left their boyfriend to be with them
I was told by a woman that "they are not too settle" I think this thinking is passed down through women in the western culture.
Yeah "not to settle" for a great guy lmbo.
Awhile back I made an Instagram to see what my at the time gf had on there. She had 251 posts before we added each other. After she added me she had 248 posts...what do y'all make of that? Probably nothing good, right? I called her out on it and she got really defensive and just said that they were silly pics and she didn't want me to tease her..And then her story changed about what the pics were. Bullshit. Needless to say I broke up her. There's just no turning a ho into a house wife. I tried with this girl for years and looking back so many things didn't add up. It's so discouraging dating nowadays. I'm bitter. It's like I think every girl is gonna behave the same way.
I experienced hypergamy first hand many years ago. Things were getting serious, I was the one she had been waiting for (her words) One day her feelings for me changed in an instant. I was no longer required or needed and I was no longer the man she had waited all her life for. She made it very clear in indirect terms that it was over. So I left. 10 months later I did a facebook search and she had married a guy with a very very prestigious job, with heaps of upside earning potential....also according to her post she was 8 months pregnant. Women move quick when they want to. Be careful guys.
she was not yours only your turn
Powerful message. Excellent video.
@@godeater6382 Why don't you piss off fool
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What's up brothers?😎🌪🤘🏻🥂
LFA!
When i was a kid I realized early that my mother would leave my father on a heartbeat if one of her pop singer idols would come knocking on the door. It stuck with me but I haven't really been able to put it into words and explain it proper.
Your mom and 3.5 Billion other mums. There's are reason, God put the word "wo" before "man" in the word Wo-man. It was clearly a warning.
Raining truth bombs....
Right in the "Bulls eye" Coop! This is wisdom, training, experience and knowledge spoken from a true instructor.
The Red Pill is a very bitter pill to swallow, but I'm glad I've done it.
My brother from another mother you got it RIGHT! This is SO True! I just accept it as female nature and move on to the football pitch to continue my game!!! THANKS !!!
Women will always say they are looking for an exclusive relationships but that only applies to men. They will continue accepting attention from their friends, colleagues and social media but they'll still tell you they are just friends. Always keep your options opened cos that's what she's doing
Never leave the soccer pitch. Life is too short for that kind of sacrifice.
comment of a slave
Brother this channel has blown my mind!!!
Channels like this and others like it have opened my eyes to a whole different world that u had no idea existed! I'm finally playing the game on my terms rather than theirs. What you say about SM is no joke!
I'll be sharing this with my son.
It just the COLD HARD FACTS... women run subconsciously 90% of the time!
If subconscious spells HOE
That I can agree with!
Ain't no video that sums it up better than this one!! Gave me a beacon right after my ltr girlfriend cheated on me. Now I know how it all is connected.
Social media is the nail in the coffin for female
Loyalty
Amen my brothers from another mother 👊🏻🇺🇸
It kills me that SO many chicks these days will condemn you for not wanting to be with someone who does this. With someone who's constantly soliciting attention, regularly engaging with other guys, who's social-media obsessed, has an Only Fans, or whatever. They always say, and sometimes times angrily, "I do this for me. I don't look good for anyone else but me. Blah blah blah, this is only for me." Usually spiting men somewhere in there too. Well, if it were only for you, you wouldn't need such a big audience all the time, now would you?
So there's that solipsistic nature he's talking about...
I slowly watched this phenomenon grow for years starting with MySpace and the emergence of Facebook, pof, RUclips, Twitter and Instagram a few short years later. The Hypergamy fuze was lit the moment smart phones and social media really took off and most men never really stood a chance.
There is no real defense strategy vs hypergamy, the only thing you can do is adapt to it aka never leave the soccer pitch, she plays her game while you play yours, stay fit and continue looking for better options.
The thing is we gotta form a union with hypergamous women for our sons and daughters for a 15 year time. It's like hoping that "The turn" would not switch while the kids are growing.
Great breakdown about the truth. Keep em` coming
Brilliant! Absolutely 100% correct!
So true. I’m over 50, been divorced for the last 11 yrs with all the social media and dating apps, etc and I make good money.
Truest video I’ve seen you post. Thanks
Never get emotionally attached
I agree 100 percent. She needs to get off social media.
It is liberating to free yourself from social media.
So much more focus on life.
My impression is that females use it for validation and to keep tabs on the market place.
Like Rich said, As a radar for how many future prospects they have.
Its almost like the sexual market place IS their life.
I will NEVER for the life of me understand why a woman in a relationship needs to CONSTANTLY post to online accounts looking for validation. That's childish and scary for any man serious about being in a relationship with that person. If I'm not enough? Go play in Instagramland all you want. You'll have a million men who love you but won't want you.
That's why I never go into a relationship 100%. Who cares if she finds another dude, there are so many beautiful women on this planet I'm just like alright cool peace. Indifference my friends.
It’s hard to switch to another girl when you are going with 220km/h (100% of yourself) but it’s much easier to take a turn when you are at low speeds
You're so right. Most women have daily photos showing off their beauty and or body. Clearly showing off and begging for validation from the world.
Great video I've been saying it for years. I've had both sexes argue with me or just simply stay quiet. I will never take a woman serious if she has any form of social media plain and simple.
This is a very important video Rich. Glad you put this out there. 110% true.
I often equate this form of self advertisement to real estate or cars. If you purchased a property or vehicle from a salesman I dont think you'd much appreciate it if they continued to list it as being for sale. Everyone has innate value, and upon entering a relationship one sheds the window sticker or for sale sign so to speak. Relisting should only occur whence a deal falls through. Any form of advertisement whilst closing a deal bodes as bad business. Lol
Watch what she posts. I have a woman on my Snapchat right now that every time she is single a bathing suit pic goes up. And I’ve even had a girlfriend who was hit on regularly that posted herself in a bathing suit (when she was mad at me of course).
I've noticed its a very cyclic pattern in how they post for attention.
They're disgusting
I’m just speaking on things that I have seen personally. There are also all the sudden relationship quotes that people do. Guys know that this can often come from a woman that is having problems in her relationship or otherwise vulnerable.
That guy BLUE a girl on my friends list recently got pregnant and still posts half naked pics while her belly is showing lol with a healthy 90+ likes
Antonio Wolfpack 1990
WOW! Knocked up and looking?...
With resources dwindling, the housing, college debt and credit card bubble, women will become desperate
A compact, self contained, nugget of truth. Once again, RC has potentially saved a man's life right here.
Simple, just don't leave the soccer pitch, just mirror her actions and gain new female FB friends and give her something to think about!
A little competition anxiety does wonders to keep things lively.
@@ReventonSpeed women don't want a man who will cheat, but subconciously they want to be with a guy who could cheat!
Correct. Fight fire with fire
If a lady is with you on a date and keeps looking at her phone then she is playing the game. Last time that happened to me I took my phone out and did the same thing.
The disheartening thing about this video and others is it's not clear what to do about it.
I'm a married man now but when I was single I had a strategy I called 90 days same as cash where I would figure out a woman in 90 days to see if she was worthy of continuing our relationship. Most of them didn't make it 90 days
That’s a long ass warranty period, but I feel you lmao
You know after about a month.
Best explanation I've heard! You're right on it!
You're just upset because you haven't found the one.... haha Kidding... you my friend are 100% on point. There is no "ONE". Just bad ones and good ones.
The only difference between a good woman and a bad woman is, the good woman hasn't been caught yet.
@@radriffs2 that's dumb your saying that all women cheat like Bro that's a stretch and isn't true especially with conservative women
@@kaycay6025 i was kinda making a joke, but all kidding aside most all women will dump you for the bigger better deal, if she can get a guy who is better looking, more money, and wins at life, makes her laugh more than you, hell ya she will be banging that other guy, it dont matter what you've done for her, so if your the best she can get, then she will stay, i let the girl jump in on my life, i dont focus on her, i have my goals in life and follow through with them, i win a lot, cuz im focused on me, but be careful who you get pregnant, because that girl is going to be in your life for a very long time bro, and yes conservative women are awesome
@@radriffs2 but it's the same with men and women if we get the chance to level up we'll take it it just depends on what the man/woman sees as a better deal so if U find a woman that values someone who makes her laugh then yes one who makes her laugh more she'll leave U for and if a guy values ass tits and finds a girl with better of that same case or if they value cute/shy then also same case if U found an upgraded version of anything you'll leave for it it just depends on whether U see it as an upgrade but modern women see an upgrade as money and status whereas conservative women value a masculine and strong man who is like a rock in the family and is good with kids once again they'll leave if there's a better one at that but eventually you'll find one that see's you as the most compatible after all our existence is to have kids
@@kaycay6025 ok but i don't think that men would monkey branch over to another woman like a woman would monkey branch over to a guy, this is kinda the point , woman don't love like men do, men kill themselves over woman dude, you think a woman would kill themselves over a guy, no, they are banging some othe dude before she even breaks up with you man, because basically what im saying is for the most part is men are far more loyal, because they love differently, Remember the wize words of Entrepreneurs In Cars, she's not yours, it's just your turn, why do you think so many men aren't getting married? bro it's just a matter of time before she leaves you, and she's taking all you stuff when she goes, lol even Tom Brady can't keep his girl, my parents were together there hole lives, they don't make em like that anymore
Hypergamy nature is something I experienced years back with my ex live in girlfriend when she started dropping big hint bombs to upskill and upgrade my qualifications as well as leave my profession for the building industry or mining industry here in Australia so as to get a higher paying job though i was a university qualified language teacher and working. Even back then without any red pill lense exposure my gut feeling was to bail out of a very uncomfortable future so I left her and went overseas to live for 10 years thank god. Point is she needed me to move up levels to reach a higher male SMV=salary market value to be worthy of her😂😂😂😂
Going through this right now. Just realising that no matter how many upgrades I do, I will never be "good enough" for her. So I'm done with her.
@@SnootchieBootchies27 She/they always want to be with the best man that she could find on the market, she’s forcing/forming you to be the “best”(for her standards) when you fail or when she finds the better man she will leave you immediately.
I don't know is it related to your issue but I wanted to share this; when you stop being her Superman(always strong, no sense, no weakness, healing her daddy issues (to be more specific being her daddy in her subconscious )) they leave you immediately because you lose your ground in the market.
@@MrRatuyan oh I left her probably that week, two years ago. I lost my stake in the house but kept my sanity. It was a big win.
@@SnootchieBootchies27 oh I didn’t check the date lol .
That’s good especially when you look back and notice your win now.
Some explanations are meaningless unless the one who suffers come to the answer on their own.
-Master Kavar
That quote from my favorite video game ties in well with what you said.
Men should always work on their sexual market value even in a relationship. The more options you have, she would think twice before leaving you for someone else.
Perfectly put into words, gonna keep this one in the back of my head forever
Canadian= Un armed American with health insurance. Great video
@Michael G ... I'm guessing you lack a sense of humor eh?
Calling Canadians an American is insulting to Americans
lol
Richard.....
Know this how you came to this understanding was worth it. I watched maybe 10-15 videos during last night. I felt the “switch” click in my brain. I’m getting a divorce for a lot of reasons, and your videos have confirmed my plans. These videos have literally changed my mindset in one night. I actually shed tears because I knew these things in my heart but was to blind to recognize them. Crazy shit, my ex Dad was like this and I always wondered what he knew that I didn’t. He died before we could really talk. God Bless you bro. Sincerely...
I’m open to help and wisdom, if anyone wants to drop a comment.
Get the divorce.
•Stay away from beer it'll make you a chunky chipmunk
•Start going to bed hungry it gives your brain more bloodflow and it makes your cheekbones more pronounced.
•start writing your worries into a journal. Short and concise. You'll worry less and notice yourself fixing each and every issue.
Villiam Karl-Gustav Lundberg I appreciate the advice. I’m definitely putting this into practice.
Maximize your smv as a man.
Nah, we shouldn’t have to all increase our SMV as women’s collective SMV drops.
@@TheInterwebzMan true, just better yourself, for yourself. Fuuck smv, just more for her to take when she decides your turn is over and she goes out exploring. Im not getting into anything serious.
Man if only i found your videos about a year ago it would saved me A LOT of frustration.
Keep it up bro
You are a legend!!!! 👑
Absolutely correct.
If you’re in a relationship short term and long term . Her focus should be on you as you stated many times.
I found this site and have been watching many of your videos and have decided I want to change my name to steve and go into accounting!
Hello Richard! No need to get upset or emotional. As they say “the truth shall set you free!”. The information has been presented in an objective, respectful and dispassionate manner. For good or bad, it is what it is!
Thx again!
Never a dull moment brother from another, damn enlightening. Articulate as hell too!! Kudos 😎
Ive always had a similar feeling about women on social media. I'm glad you took the time to make this because it was what i needed to stand behind this in the way i need to in order to continue navigating the sexual marketplace.
I agree one million percent but.........are there any attractive women that DON'T do this?
Yes, few and far in between.
@@I_am_not_a_bot-s6i ....is she a female? If she is.... She is on Facebook!
I bet less than 25% but I think less than 5% or at best 10% it's about the country itself I guess where there is no real values like traditional values or stable families that happens.....
@@jelenar3952 Gross. No Thanks. We were not even asking for it. Yuck. Women only want one thing and its *Disgusting*
JT Harris
There’s a Christian woman I know who has excellent morals and values. We dated briefly back in 2016. She’s the one woman I could trust. She IS marriage material... but sadly doesn’t look after herself and has now put on weight as she nears 40. We met up a few weeks ago (she’s always kept in touch and has never gone more than a month without contacting me). We met, but the spark wasn’t there anymore, unfortunately.
Advice coming to me 20 years too late. But if ONE man needs this information, I’m content. Well done.
All women' thoughts and actions are essentially influenced by emotions and instincts in that particular moment of time. She is with you now because in that very moment you are giving her the emotional fuel she is feeding off of, getting the validation she craves. Once that runs dry she is out the door looking for that emotional excitement again with another one elsewhere whom she will have that drive with that she is no longer having with you. The truth of the matter is women are unable to have true feelings and that is not their fault it is simply their nature. Great video and BTW I live not far from the area you were driving in LOL. Cheers bud.
Truth hurts! Very spot on: “If she’s still on the pitch, you should be, too.” 👍🏼👍🏼
Lol i figured this out by myself, i ignore her and she posts, i dont text her and she posts. It’s consistent everytime
dcmmmmm bro its true
He's bang on.👏🏾He proper knows his stuff
Thank fucking God for finding Redpill content, my life woulda suck if I never knew about this cold hard truth.
I still haven’t made peace with that fact that I’ll die alone, with no wife nor children. But it’s also liberating that I no longer need the validation of women to feel worthy.
I'm surprised this isn't common knowledge, it's so obvious. Some of them take it to the extreme to go on dating apps and write in their bio "I have a boyfriend, I'm just looking for friends". I can just imagine those girls telling their boyfriends upon discovery of said tinder profiles "what, I'm not allowed to have friends?"