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This dude is literally a red flag. He couldn't accept that she picked another dude, he managed to get her email without her knowledge and he's basically stalking her.
This could be a PSA commercial about stalking, and when people you meet are a red flag.
Right! Every little detail about this is so creepy.
"just cause i'm a stalker"
He also refused to see any fault with himself until she broke down crying. And he kinda looks like Elliot Roger
she wasn't that bothered because she dated him for 6 months
the girl deserves an award for not immediately just decking him in the face
thats what i totally wouldve done
That award should be the chance to deck him in the face
and she also deserve an award if ever she did.
She didn't even need to come on here.
profile pic twins
Unbelievably irresponsible of the organiser of Tinderella to give out that’s girl’s email
And gross that he brought her home after it too. Like I get that it's a silly little dating event but that's still very unprofessional
they’re enabling stalking so easily
how does anyone think this is real...
@@emilyb.8219I feel like her hooking up is a personal decision.
She's an adult. She can say no.
......but the email thing was definitely an inavasion of privacy.
@@krishnaveervohra5641I seriously hope this is fake.
the way he immediately invalidates her once he finds out that his shitty stand up is why she left is very telling.
I'm just replying so you can see how much likes you got
How can he say she’s in “another relationship already” after 9 months... + NINE MONTHS OF JUST STALKING HER??? That’s so scary
especially considering they were only together for six??
he was stalking her for 9 months and she was in a relationship during the same 9 months. not 18 months.
@blau woods either way, the way that this show is clearly trying to normalize this behavior is ridiculous. that's arguably worse than the behavior itself.
I don't really know if it's scary, it's just sad.
No wait yeah it is pretty scary,
Dude's stand up was horrible, didn't make a single joke. Just said stuff.
ye i hope that was made up just for this show too; can't imagine people paying to see _that_ smh
It’s not my kinda of stand up but it wasn’t terrible like he wasn’t bombing he was clearly just having fun
@Nirio he was making fun of the fact that she doesn’t know her dad and he was broadcasting their personal life to strangers. that’s not him having fun.
@@katam7299 “broadcasting her personal life” look up josh wolf or any comedian with a kid that’s what they do dipshit I mean it’s kinda shitty but it makes for good comedy
@@nirio1874 dude that's not the point. the point is that he crossed boundaries and didn't ask her whether his jokes were ok or not
So…he’s acting like he didn’t know that the comedy would be offensive to her but he specifically went out of his way to hide it from her? How does that make sense?
no he had to have known what he was doing
Bad writing on a fake show lol
"Yeah, she's openly bisexual, she calls people daddy."
I... I think this guy is mixing up bisexual with something else
bicameral?
@@ratedpending “Bicameral” means “two-chambered” as in an animal’s heart, or the US Congress.
@@andrewollmann304 So it's the correct term? Nice.
(Obvious joke)
THE AUDACITY FROM HIM AND THE FACT HE DOESNT EVEN UNDERSTAND WHAT HE DID WRONG
I KNOW!! DISGUSTING
@semi "but its her fault too because being open is very important. Like me. I never hid anything from her, ever."
Don't understand it either. Almost every dude does what he does. not necessarily to make fun of her, but more to make fun of yourself. He even said he's half a virgin, so how could he be making fun of her
She's not in the right at all. Not saying he is either. He seems like a douche, sure.
IKR THE AUDACITY WTF
@@lIlIllIlIllIlllIllIIIIIIIIIlII he wasn’t making self deprecating humor in his stand up, it was all making fun of her and sharing intimate details that would only be okay to share if he asked her first and didn’t go out of his way to hide it from her
If you are ever doubting yourself, remember a fully grown man said he was “like, half a virgin” on MTV
💀💀💀
“Half a virgin” is just a stolen line from Mean Girls.
hah
I could cry when looking at my like dislike ratio. I have so many jealous people that my videos always get way more dislikes than likes. Please don't be jealous, dear jim
They're actors, dude
It's a scripted show, my guy
I love how they just gloss over the fact that in his stand-up, he basically implies that she's like, a practice girlfriend to learn sex stuff from. Talking about how now he's going to go to PTA meetings to pick up the women he -really- wants. That's the MOST disrespectful part of the routine and they don't even touch it.
Being bisexual has nothing to do with how much sexual experience you’ve had
someone tell half a virgin that 😩
Yeah, it just means you’re willing to do it with both parties. Stop trying to make bisexuality innocent.
@@Ellivation what does bisexuality have to do with innocence
@@funkytime69 because bisexual people maybe will have sex with someone they like and are in a secure relashionship?
So like the same as straight people, but now they don’t only want to form relashionships with people from just the opposite sex.
Okay, sure bud. We'll all pretend lifestyles are basically the same between heterosexuals and homosexuals.
So the guy who runs "Tinderella" gives out client info freely and therefore absolutely can not be trusted even beyond the lack of trust he should already have as a guy that runs something called "Tinderella". Thats the point of that first bit yeah?
yeah plus just openly sharing on tv that he took her home that night?? thats pretty scummy too
It’s most likely staged, but yeah it’s pretty fucked up
He also apparently sleeps with people he meets there, which is a big red flag in general.
!!!!!!
Also hooking up with her afterwards like shouldn’t you be more professional than that? Hosting a dating show and hooking up with contestants is inappropriate and a bad look for you
Honestly, the fact that they put this on TV is disgusting.
Everyone on the show had to sign consent forms.
@@spqcevvoid6075 Well it's scripted.
Yeah I feel really bad for this girl. It seems like she has dealt with a lot.
@@joshroehl6098 JOSH YOU NEED TO STOP YOUR SONG (WHICH IS HOPEFULLY IRONIC) FUCKING SUCKS IT MAKES ME WANT TO DIE
@@joshroehl6098 great song! Really inspired me to pop my ear drums! Keep it up man!
The comedian doesn’t understand that he literally said that he used her to learn sexual stuff that he could then use those ‘techniques’ on other women, that’s very hurtful in so many ways, it’s not a joke at all.
I want to give that first girl a hug :(
No one should ever have to go through their significant other telling everyone your sexual business. Its messed up. I hope she’s doing alright now.
"She sounds pretty traumatized" after they wouldn't leave her alone. Smdh.
"Let's traumatise her some more!"
Yeah, wtf
she sounds pretty traumatized... now lets put her in a room and force her to talk to the thing that traumatized her!
I really hope this is staged
wait, that wasn't Drew's voice-over? 😰
Ghosted sounds really Invasive. Imagine just leaving someone creepy and then they track u dowm using some randos find u and force u to talk to them. Like, WHAT THE FUCK. who thought this was a good idea!?!?!
Just about to comment this, I hope this show is fake because wtf
I think it was trying to play off the success of catfish but it’s different bc there’s super valid reasons why someone might ghost the other person
@@aurorasore it seems super fake but still pretty hard to watch
Nobody is forcing you, and finding someone's Instagram account isn't tracking.
@@LaVaZ000 getting blocked by someone on all their socials and then getting someone else to look for that person is tracking someone?
It might be a year later, but the amount of red flags given off is scary. Especially stating that he's spent 9 months trying to wrap his head around why the relationship ended, when they only dated for 6... truly terrifying. And taking it to a whole other level by getting an MTV show to track her down. There's something seriously wrong. Definitely obsessive and possessive personality traits showing. I would get a restraining order.
Hey... Obsessive and possessive "personality traits" is not the way to put it. There are mental illnesses with that, such as bpd, dpd, and old. We don't need to demonize mental illness, especially those with a stigma around it.
@@NoctisTheBogWitch nobody even brought up mental illnesses though?? i agree mental illnesses and personality disorders shouldn't be stigmatized and demonized, but still those kinds of behaviors aren't okay
That poor, poor girl. She was stalked, belittled, and harassed, and he has the audacity to try and play the victim?? God, I'd be scarred forever, I just hope she's able to live some semblance of a normal life now with real, genuine people who actually treat her like she has feelings
Why'd they even ask if she would ghost him again... she was in a relationship lmao
that's what i was shouting for that entire part... it's like they just forgot about that fact?? gee...
I was hoping that they’d show him saying that he now wants to ghost her. TRIPLE GHOST!
FRR
but she said that she still loves him?????? that was the most confusing part for me
They all must have forgotten about the script at that point. Maybe this story is real or completely staged or somewhere in between. This is 'reality' TV after all.
I just can’t believe he’s a comedian. He’s like the most boring looking and sounding person I’ve ever seen.
his jokes are based on shocking the audience and sexism. who tf even laughed there.
@@solala1312 probably misogynists
Drew? Yeah
Yeah the snippet of the routine we saw was just "Sex? mildly kinky sex? *waits for laughter and applause* " Painful.
The routine wasn't as offensive as it was straight up unoriginal. If it was me, I'd break up with him because he's a shitty comedian.
He's literally emotionally abusive, that poor girl
Re-watching this video, you can SEE in Ross’s eyes that he thought Holly was going to choose to stay in contact. He only chose “ghost” to try and get her to beg him to come back. But she said “ghost” and you can see in his eyes “oh fuck”
"she's openly bisexual and i'm still half a virgin" does he think all bisexuals sleep around
Also, what does half a virgin mean? He's only slept with a woman and not a man? He lost his straight virginity but not the gay half.
@@NateBeeman that seems to be what it means.
Yes. Yes he does.
I think MTV used to make that impression. I remember a show they had where it was like the bachelor but with bisexuals.
yeah that was really fucking gross
White Guy Complains is a cinematic masterpiece
Ikr
Deseves an award
yeah have you watched the danny gonzalez,kurtis conner or cody ko edition? They're all 11/10
Cody, Danny, Drew, and Kurtis are the white guy commentary set
White guy complain*
I refuse to believe that she still loved him. It HAS to be staged! Or maybe she just said that so she can kinda get him to ghost her so then he can feel like he was the rejecter and finally stop stalking her! I really hope it's staged
very weird how the cult girl called her girlfriend "a sister to share this with"
So to recap: This man got a girlfriend, just to make fun of her sexuality behind her back, and then they broke up, and then like half a year later he sends gangstalkers to force her to sit in a void with him and embarrass herself, and then says things wont work because she didnt tell *him* stuff.
Ah yes, romance!
a dream😍
uh idk if u watch the show but she ghosted him because of his stand up routine was about her and their sex life. it was cause he didn't communicate anything
I wouldn't say she was the one who embarrassed herself....
Typical XY chromosome behavior
Just saying "It's a joke" doesn't justify stalking or toxic behaviour.
I just though of going to the alps. ruclips.net/video/tQjONoAUTMA/видео.html
@@donthecrab that link is kinda sus, dont think ill click on it
@@cookiehawk You do not see the way.
@@donthecrab lol, someone stole my comment word for word
Holy shit, this has 1k likes! Thanks guys.
11:55 "hey let's move away from these cameras and move over here by some other cameras"
🤣
dude seeing her cry just ripped my heart apart because i've been in a similar situation (with family) and i know that feeling of just betrayal and shame
Why are they making her out to be the bad guy? “What did you learn?” Tf? He’s the one making jokes about her personal life
Their.
@@adityabhandari5448 there is no point in my comment where “their” should be used
@@GravityFallsUp Arguably could say he's making jokes about 'their' personal life, as it was also his personal life :)
@@snailb0y No they meant that the jokes were about both of their personal lives but tbh it was a pretty pointless correction lmao
@@Kn1cknackz0 oh that makes sense. I was like... I'm pretty sure "she/her" were the pronouns that both the show and Drew were using.
Her saying, "i mean, I still love him." made me think the whole thing is fake af.
yeah don't worry it is
3/07/21: The day @knovis started using 2% of their brain
They dated for 6 months. I do not think time is the perfect indicator on the strength of the relationship.
But still, how can you hold a flame for some one you have not seen longer than you were actually together?
Reality shows are notorious for editing footage out of context and coercing people to say/do things they don’t want to
Maybe she meant her dad?
I love how upset the producers looks like "OMG the girl doesn't want to be in a toxic relationship????" and the guy just looks like doesn't understand what a toxic relationship is.
I knew this dude was creepy from the beginning like they met because he stalked her. They made eye contact and suddenly he felt entitled to find her personal information so he can talk with her even though she clearly pick someone else. He then gets upset when he found out that she slept with some other guy before they even dated, he gives off major creepy stalker vibes. When he couldn’t stalk her anymore he then found a camera crew who would. This poor girl dodged a bullet by ghosting him, hope she doing well cause this whole thing is traumatizing
Who’s here after Drew got nominated for the “Best White Guy Complaining” Award
This is probably gonna be the pinned comment
Me🤗
I’m here before that
LMAO
He got nominated but Danny won
Ok but that’s so rude. She’s just trying to live her life and they’re making a whole episode exposing who she slept with, a bunch of personal things, etc.
"This guy making jokes and revealing my personal info and talking about my sex life really bothered me so I ghosted him!"
"Wow, you know what would be great? If all of this was revealed on actual television :D"
@@awfulroffle fr. That’s invasion of her privacy and literally none of their business. It’s creepy and they should just leave her alone lol
I’m like 90% it’s mostly, if not entirely staged. It’d be way less work to stage everything than it would be to get waivers for everything and everyone involved as well as getting everyone on board with it.
when her friend said “who’s ross” lmaodndndbdhshsgd
Bruh this is so clearly staged. Just like the radio show drew references. Dont get angry over fictional chara tera
The "Its okay.. i want to give her a hug now" sent me into fight or flight mode
Edit: plus imagine getting over a toxic ex and learning that you're stronger than that, just for two hosts to tell you "hey! No no no. You bad person for that." Circus behaviour
His telling the show crew that he was "half a virgin" while she's an "open bisexual" is like... ew. Firstly being bisexual doesn't mean you're experienced. Secondly being sexually experiences doesn't mean you're a bad person as he repeatedly implies. Thirdly he should not have shared this information about her on tv.
can we talk about the fact that the guy said “she’s openly bisexual, and i’m half a virgin” as if those two things have ANYTHING to do with each other
literally- some people think that just cause they're bi that they sleep around and that they have double the experience , it's honestly gross
Obviously this means that dude wants to get pegged.
Yeah that's a really annoying thing people believe; 'bisexuals are sex fiends.'
She slept with the tinderella host after choosing "Brian" and then the main guy who she dated for six months, also he said she dated girls back to back so this has nothing to do with bisexuals she actually sleeps around a ton
that literally doesn't change that direct comparison he made, he could've said she's more sexually active and that he's half a virgin, her sexuallity is completely irrelevant to the subject + mentioning it at all when talking about how promiscuous someone is spreads false stereotypes that create more biphobia
I know this video is ostensibly comedy, but I am genuinely so pissed at Ross. This dude comes in acting like a meek victim of unfair heartbreak, blatantly misrepresents the context of the relationship, is _visibly ashamed_ when his disgusting "comedy" is exposed, and then _gets upset with Jordan for overreacting‽_ At least Jordan seemed happy in that last clip of her. Now I just hope the world joins me in never giving Ross another moment's thought ever.
I watched this whole episode, and what he was actually upset about was her not confronting him.
EDIT: I highly recommend watching the episode before this one: season 1 episode 1. They help two best friends reunite. It’s what I wish the whole show was like.
@@nickc3657 It’s not her job to tell him to be a better person?
@@nickc3657 he knew already the jokes were inappropriate and wildly hurtful, that's why he wouldn't tell her about the comedy shows. he had every opportunity to bring it up or change his material but he kept doing it for SIX MONTHS! obviously she didn't feel safe or comfortable enough to confront him about it, he probably would've made a "joke" about that too. it's literally entirely his fault
Ok, obviously I touched a nerve lol- I’m not defending Mr. Demi-virgin. Just trying to clear up a plot point based on what I remember from the show.
And he’s literally the ultimate soyboy
as someone who had a stalker and finally broke free, if a random number claiming started calling me and all of my friends asking about me i’d be terrified.
8:30 he makes it sound like the dog told him about the job LMAO
That’s the joke lol
Who else would the ‘he’ be? It’s the joke
“she’s openly bisexual I’m half a virgin” bro being bisexual isn’t synonymous with sleeping around or being experienced c’mon now you coulda just said that instead
Omg I thought I was the only person to catch that and I felt crazy
Right?? I thought that was such a creepy and lowkey misogynistic thing to say. Especially considering the jokes he made about her.
I didn't even notice the biphobia in that statement 🤢
i was shocked bc this sounded like early 2000's branded biphobia like??? this guy is such a jerk.
yeah that’s what i was thinking-
This girl is fucking traumatized and just got manipulated and we watched it happen
It's very fake though
@@theleafeon1 shit like this still happens tho :( all the time
@@scout4844 It's a teenybopper show on MTV, chillax
@@NeonCicada
Why are you so defensive?
@@deereye87 Why do you perceive me as being defensive?
12:08 I wanna know how many takes these reactions from Drew took. The perfect amount of incredulity, the right volume, the precise tonal cracking. It's beautiful, really.
i just got a notification for this that said 41m ago what the fleep
anyways drew ur my favorite youtuber
This seems very much like repeat trauma against her. Yikes. She had issues with her father, got her boundaries and autonomy disrespected by this dude, and then was forced to sit down and talk about it all with random people for a show in a way that didn't respect her again. I know she had to agree to be on there, ultimately, but this is messed up.
She didn't have to agree. It's a stupid fucking tv show made by MTV. She more likely signed a contract and this is scripted.
@@mojavecourier6987 well it sounds like she was ignoring the show people for awhile to the point they started contacting people in her life, so she probably felt the only way to get the show to stop harassing her was to go along with it.
@@indigocarra2762 I think that too. People from these shows can be really manipulative.
Can't believe people nowadays still think shows like this are real. I mean common, the video of the stand up show? That was so obviously fake and she was filming from like the second row, like he wouldn't see her lol
Yeah this was a big fuckin’ yikes
this guy is who i’m gonna imagine now everytime i see a comment that says “wow, nobody can take a joke anymore. the world is so sensitive”
hahahah fuck the problem is I always assume anyone I meet online that acts like that is too immature to NOT be a kid/young adult.... but no you can stay stupid apparently
I just wonder why some people laughed those "jokes" 😒
@@marivirtanen4506 even ignoring the fact that they were very disrespectful, they just weren't good jokes
We have more video proof to define a "neck beard."
This guy is accurate to those morons
When he said “hey Jordan, I love you…” I was truly terrified. Shit sounds like the last thing a person hears before they disappear forever
I feel like there's been a big "anti-ghosting" movement the past couple of years, and it's always really bothered me. For the most part, I agree that ghosting can be hurtful & ideally, it's better to try communication first. And at the same time, it seems like far too many people (like Ross) have twisted this into more toxic/dangerous mindsets like "I am *always* entitled to an explanation for why someone doesn't want to have contact with me anymore, and I don't have to accept the end of this relationship until I get one I understand & agree with."
As I was watching this, I was hopeful that this show might help people see these pitfalls of "anti-ghosting culture." Ross could've spent that 9 months accepting & processing the end of the relationship, self-reflecting, maybe even attending therapy. He didn't need an explanation from Jordan to do any of that. But instead, he spent it obsessing over someone who didn't want any contact with him. Even when he got the explanation he *claimed* he wanted so badly, he didn't even accept it, he continued to refuse to take any accountability & used it as an opportunity to gaslight her. It's no wonder she didn't feel safe telling him why she didn't want to be with him anymore! And yet they still ended the episode with the message that "Jordan shouldn't have ghosted him." What??
Ghosting is a coward's way out. Person ghosting might have closure but other parties don't, it's easier to process with a reason than a mystery. It happened to me before and took six months to get what I did wrong out of my head daily (was April to September 2020, so during lockdown and couldn't go out for obvious reasons) and another six months without it occasionally popping up or asked about. I'd still like to know what happened since it was so good for two years talking with 16 months dating with no disagreements but ultimately I'm too good for her if that's how she'll handle the end. So just end the relationship with understanding is over for both to move on in a healthy way.
@@nickmoney Of course ghosting can be really harmful, but sometimes ghosting is needed in really abusive relationships. The abuser can be manipulative and able to keep the other from leaving or realizing how bad the relationship is. Sometimes, they need to be completely cut off to be escaped.
@@taitia8619 If it's an abusive relationship or manipulative one then ghosting won't help. You just piss them off and you'll never escape them, so if that's the case you need to break up via text or something that can have a paper trail. If you don't and they track you down and something happens to you or your family there is no evidence or cause because you just ghosted them. Usually ghosting happens when they cheat and can't face consequences.
@@nickmoney Abusive doesn't always mean murderous, but I see your point. In those cases, the lack of paper trail can be a problem. But in an emotionally manipulative relationship where there are people who love making their friend/partner/etc feel bad about themselves, who feed off of that, the person being abused needs to get away, any way they can. A friend who will talk shit about you behind your back and never admit it to your face, a family member who will gaslight you until you start to doubt your reality, a partner who will tear you down at any opportunity. Sometimes, these people can't be reasoned with, only escaped.
@@taitia8619 If it's emotionally abusive like that who you can't face, text break up then block and still send scariest family member that won't be f'd to get your stuff and put them in their place. Maybe my two decades in sales tells me that closing is the best option whether it be clean or dirty. Also the ex who ghosted me I recently found out has a two and half year old and confirmed have been cheating, used COVID and lockdown as cover to never tell me. I ran into her coworkers who didn't know what happened and they asked about how often see my daughter with her and it'd be impossible as we never did that dance yet. That's one reason why and what happens when you ghost I guess, shame she couldn't tell me or I'd have helped.
I feel like they don’t understand that “Catfished” works because catfishing is always a dick move, whereas ghosting is sometimes a dick move, but sometimes incredibly justified - and if it’s the second you aren’t going to find out until after you’ve already exposed somebody’s personal life and humiliated them on national television 😬😬😬
Ghosting is nowhere as bad as catfishing. People have reasons ☠️
yeah especially if you blocked someone.
@@jasmineprime7422 the only justifiable reason I can think of is you’re very self conscious and hate your identity so you decide to change it just for a little bit every day. You try to convince someone else that this charade you keep up is real. Then you break their heart because you’ve built a relationship with them through texting and you can’t expose your true personality and appearance.
@@jasmineprime7422 It's betraying someone's trust, lying and manipulation vs dodging potential danger, fear of confrontation and anxiety. You get the point ☠️
@@jasmineprime7422 Oh yeah I do agree. Both of them are terrible nonetheless. Although there's no valid reason for catfishing, ghosting has some. But then again, it's more common to be ghosted than catfished. Some people, if not in a danger situation should def give closure before parting ways cause *That. Shit. Hurts* lol.
scripted or not, this show is gross. the message it sends out is disgusting. if someone leaves you, you have to STALK them and find out why, even if it’s been wayyy too long since you’ve dated. poor girl
she was probably in her living room or something having a normal good day then all of a sudden her dms r blowing up and her phone is ringing just because these nosy tv producers want her to sit in a studio and talk about why she ghosted some loser and had sex a couple years ago
in front of a camera and to broadcast to a few thousand people (i refuse to believe more than like 20k people actually watch mtv more specifically watch this show)
ruclips.net/video/IvnAZn6iYLc/видео.html
@Vilfredo Pareto ok
That girl was soft and has 0 sense of humor. He should be happy they broke up
Y
I had a boyfriend (only lasted for two months out of the 2 years we talked) who always made himself seem like the victim. the last straw I had was when he was acting like the victim after basically harassing multiple people (my friends and including me) and being so weird. there is a lot more detail which I won’t get into, but the most important part is he still does not know what he did wrong in this scenario. I can’t imagine how many times I turned on my friends just believing his word saying he was the victim without going further into detail. I’m so glad I haven’t talked to him since last year.
his bio said "when life gives you lemons, make lemonade :)" like i wonder WHY she didn't pick you. what a catch he is
"I made disrespectful jokes about her and now I gaslight her for being mad about it but idk why she doesn't like me anymore"
'and i went out of my way to hide those jokes from her bc i knew she wouldn't like it so i don't get why she doesn't like me doing it now'
Ikr
It's a total mystery.
she's way too dramatic about it though. Like this must be extremely fake. Ok in the moment you could feel hurt or even break up, but 9+ months later and this girl has moved on and has a relationship but she's still crying? About what? Because a guy exposed her daddy kink????? ????
@@lIlIllIlIllIlllIllIIIIIIIIIlII That itself is a insensitive thing to say. She was already going through quite a bit and she could be a very sensitive person. I myself know what it is like for people to make jokes about you about things you told them personally to others. Even if your name isn't told or anything, it still hurts, especially if you have dealt with things like bullying, loss, etc.
The fact that they made the moral of this show “ghosting is bad” as opposed to “stalking is bad” is so telling. I don’t care that these shows are super poorly staged, why send this kind of message to viewers??
I was seeing red flags when he said he went behind her back to get her email after he was originally rejected
Exactly, I'm currently being stalked by my abusive ex, and I genuinely got really pissed off when I heard that, really not a good message, it took me way too long to build up the courage to ghost, often people, especially women have no other choice but to ghost / block, for their safety and the fact that they basically put the blame on them is so fucked
If they had the moral be "stalking is bad" then they'd have to admit that their own show is bad since it's built off of stalking someone lmao
the way they told her that she ‘learned her lesson’ when she didn’t do a single thing wrong. she was 100% the victim, not him, this is so disgusting
he’s like “what am i missing? am i an idiot?” and the answer to the second question was indeed yes
I absolutely abhor how this all went down. Not only was it insanely disgusting & enabling to let him interrogate her after what he did, but to give him the final blow in all of this? To let him be the one to reject her likely gave him a feeling of power, a feeling of victory after HE messed up. He shouldn't have had any of these interactions with her. All he should've done (if ANYTHING) was apologise, but they let him feel like the big dog and "win" over her. He's a nut and so are the producers of the show
Not to mention how normalising his actions and making him the protagonist will only go on to enable more predatory behaviour like his. I hope to god someone knocked some sense into him after this and he fixed himself and apologised
“I mean I still love him” was the moment I knew this entire show was fake
Ikr there's no way 🤣🤣 this show was written my a group of incels that want to live in a world where their creepy and misogynistic antics are accepted and actually work
@@Merpsicles Also don't forget the casual biphobia of saying she's experienced because she's bisexual like the fuck those things are not related.
especially since she’s apparently in a relationship currently??? there’s no way she’d say that
It’s so stupid and fake..
Yeah exactly
“she’s bisexual, and i’m half a virgin” damn well i’m bisexual,, and a full virgin 😖💔
preach
Lol same. This man was so gross
This is so sad 😰😢😢 get well soon 😔😪
Me too
me too pal 💔
I can't believe Rachel hosted this show then almost immediately after Cassie filed a restraining order against Colton for stalking her. No wonder she never hyped this yikes
CAN YOU IMAGINE YOU TAKING A BREAK FROM LIKE YOUR SOCIALS AND STUFF AND THEN THESE MTV HOSTS SHOW UP AT YOUR DOOR AND TAKE YOU TO A WAREHOUSE FOR INTERROGATION??
This is SO abusive and disgusting. Can’t believe this gets aired 😬
@Ika Ayu why do you keep spamming this link into the comments?
@@toniseiler426 they r a bot
@@hebislay yeah a pretty annoying one
@@hebislay I was just playing botw when I saw your name
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As somebody who had to move to get away from a stalker, the whole concept of Ghosted is SO HORRIFYING
I ghosted the person I dated for 2 years because I got sick of the abuse and was genuinely terrified that I'd be killed if I ever went back or talked to her again. If I got tracked down and forced to talk to her, I don't think my mental health would be able to take it.
It's disgusting. And is messing up the minds of girls.
I also had a stalker and he kept bothering me on fb and its one of the reasons why i dont have any social media now other than yt and pinterest. I also ghosted someone ive been talking to for 7months,i just realized i dont like him he was weird af, says rude stuff and insulting without realizing it wtf,he acts like hes so smart
I saw a guy for 5 days & broke things off because he got manipulative and told me "I wasn't ready for a relationship" (??). He proceeded to call my phone numerous times and message me on different apps even after I told him he was scaring me, wait for me outside my uni hall of residence, death stare me & my friends whenever we were in the same eating hall/class, and told all his friends I was a whore. THEN came up to me at the uni ball (I didn't see him coming so that scared the shit out of me) and ask to dance??? I've moved cities and it's been almost 2 years but he's still blocked on everything. I'm scared to think what he would've done if we'd had a thing longer than a week...
There you are!!! Been looking all over for you. Mostly in the bushes outside your house.
Ok sorry thats not funny stalkers are f'ed up.
Drew I know you will never see this but I have to say this anyway. I really appreciate your writing style and video structure. I put it up there with the best of the best like Scott The Woz for how easily binge able your videos are. I cycle back through your catalog like every 3-4 months.
That is a testament to the rewatchability you provide. Truly one of the goats.
Today's schedule:
Biomolecules lec2
Aldehydes and Ketones revision
Complex Numbers ex1
Optics lec 5
@@manthanc7727 yo are a jee aspirant??
@@ijustwanttopassawaythx Yes lmao
@@manthanc7727 best of luck bro
I made some homemade salsa for the first time tonight... 0/10.
I ate all of it.
Geez that dude is a classic incel. Its honestly gross that the showrunners basically bullied Jordan into coming on and meeting him again.
She deserved way more respect tgen what she got
@@Alexdawaffwe it doesnt matter if its fake, its endorsing stalking your ex and forcing them to tell you why they ghosted you.
The way they framed it like “she learned not to ghost people anymore ;)” irritates me so much. She had every right to not want to speak to him.
That dude seems like a venerable narcissist. The girl probably didn't know how to socialise with someone that's socially manipulative. I agree that she probably didn't wanna be on the show at first, however I suspect she got paid for it and a chance to be on telly isn't that bad a deal. I thought the crew handled her pretty well actually.....that dude however, he got thrown under the bus like hot garbage.
So to be fair, if she had been emotionally mature enough to communicate like an adult with the person she was dating....none of that mishegoss would have occurred. Antisocial behaviours like "ghosting" someone is problematic in relationships and should be a red flag. The dude was (essentially) stalking her. That's why you always give them closure when you break up. 😞
I'm not saying she's entirely at fault, only that she was 50% of the problem there.
Than
@@cookiehawk yeah, at least catfish was much better compared to this..
"She's openly bisexual and I'm half a virgin still" Those things aren't like .... opposites tho
Right I was waiting to see someone say this. He confidently said those two things as if they're at all related 🙄
Ikr and I'm both.
Fr, a bad boyfriend and biphobic 😔
i know... it’s like implying all bisexuals are promiscuous... ://
When bae has blond hair but I have blue eyes 😢
dude looked like the exact kind of person that would want to go on a show called "ghosted"
When he said “it’s just a joke” I had to pause the video and scream
that man literally tried to make himself a victim yet HE treated her like shit i’m so annoyed
so disgusting...anyways twice world domination 💙
just the response of “it was a joke ohmygod” made me wanna dropkick him.
Oh my God why are you being so mean to me, all I did was make jokes at your expense without consulting you, then intentionally tried to hide it from you, and then finally stalked you for months after you broke up with me.
Classic gaslighting
for real though, besides being a dumb show, Ghosted is a way for entitled and possibly harmful people to track down exes who had a right to leave them. Like imagine if someone ghosted a person because they started to not feel safe in the relationship, so they blocked them and ran in order to protect themselves. Then imagine that the person who was ghosted used this show to find them. Who knows what could happen after filming wraps.
this!!
yeah that’s lowkey rlly scary
that's exactly what i was thinking!!!!!! this can be so dangerous for people who were in abusive relationships
I heard its staged and they are paid actors
@@yaaassbitch8704 Ah I hope so!
I know so many people, myself included, who've been involved in break-ups where they didn't know why the relationship ended. It hurts. It's so unfair that THIS guy gets to find out 'why', when he clearly didn't care about the girl and clearly knew what he'd done. Ugh.
0:45 holy crap, this is so funny, the way no one was talking and the way she awkwardly smiles at the camera. it's MTV, so it's probably unironic and that's even funnier
This guy seems to want everyone to believe the comedy was no big deal and that he didn't know it was gonna be offensive to her... but he went out of his way to hide it specifically from her? He knew what he was doing lmao
It reminds me of that spongebob ep where he made fun of squirrels
If he didn’t hide it from her then it may look more like he’s just dumb. The fact he hid it sows he knew wth he was doing.
Right! Abusive people almost always know what they are doing is reprehensible. That's why they always try so hard to trick their victims into thinking it's no big deal. "It was just a joke!" He said. But...who was the punchline???
Secrecy is a red flag! Abusive folks try to hide the heinous stuff they're doing that affects others. They don't want to face the consequences, secrecy helps them avoid responsibility!
This man didn’t miss her at all. His ego was so bruised when she ghosted him that he just needed to see her again to see that he can get her back and be the one to reject her. What a manipulative insecure freak lmao
that’s exactly what happened, he really is disgusting. 🤢
I don't think that's particularly true, he seems like a somewhat genuine guy that did really like her, but at the same time I get that the jokes weren't taken well... However, when I have friends who make jokes about me I don't leave them forever, I go to them and communicate with them, if they do it again then okay fair, she just straight ghosted him, didn't even give him a chance to apologize cuz her ego was bruised. Have you heard the shit Kevin Hart or Gabriel Iglesias says about their love lives, they said much worst jokes. Especially kevin about how freaky women he's dealt with are.
she's just too sensitive, which isn't necessarily bad but she should have been mature enough to atleast communicate with him, rather than secretly go to his show to hear one bad joke, that's like me secretly going to my gf work place and hearing her say something bad about me so I dump her, it's stupid cuz I guarantee every person you been with had had thought atleast one bad thing about you.
@@akkoismydaughter3573 yep, it’s the woman that needed to learn communication and be more mature, and it’s the woman whose ego was bruised and was too sensitive. Not the guy who knowingly made shitty and toxic stand up jokes behind his partner’s back, and then berated her for getting mad at him for it. Not the guy who tracked down his ex months after the relationship had ended, when she was already in another relationship and more time had passed since they’d been together than when they’d actually been together. Not the guy who thinks he can still be the comforting white knight, saying “it’s ok” to his crying ex after he tracked her down, made her confess her personal life in the spotlight, and then rejected her immediately after.
It’s probably mostly fake anyway, because I can’t imagine she would actually still love the guy after all of this shit, so this argument is likely pointless. However, if we’re really going to moralize these people and analyze them, one is clearly more flawed than the other.
@@macknight2352 @Mac Knight nah I'm not saying the guy wasn't shitty himself, he def could have been more mature, and not be a stalker. I just feel like it's all being put on the guy becuz he's clearly more flawed and has bad way of doing things, while we are overlooking what the women could have done better.
Just put it into perspective, the jokes he made was about her freakiness, nothing was about her having dad issues or her personal baggage, just jokes he most likely thought would be relatable, and to be fair when he said thanks for the pta for the girls I do want, yeah that was honestly a part that bothered me, but it is stand up, you don't watch Kevin Hart and think those stories are the real him, you know they are a bit exaggerating to be more funny, you know he's partly in there but you know you can't base all his intentions off his jokes, so I get why she lost her trust at that part, but if he really wanted other girls he wouldn't have cared when she dumped him, you don't care about closure if you don't like the women.
Look I ain't tryna make an argument out of this just giving a different perspective, we don't have to agree with eachother but all I'm saying is that guy is flawed and he needs to work on himself, but she definitely is just as flawed and she expects a guy to accept all her baggage, which is how it should be, but as soon as he makes one fuck up, she doesn't even try to accept his and give a chance, she just goes instantly to blocking which is petty becuz you know she did that to make him feel some type cuz she felt some type herself. And then she's crying cuz a man said she's too freaky, get over it, if your crying cuz someone said that, you most likely are, and even if not, why do you honestly care?
@@akkoismydaughter3573 if somebody talks about you behind your back, you have no obligation to "hear them out". She didn't attack or try to argue with him, she exited a situation and relationship she didn't want to be in. It's not her fault he couldn't let go after ALMOST A YEAR. if you want to forgive someone that's your choice, but don't blame someone for not putting up with toxic behavior.
he was blocked for a reason- jesus this is actual stalking at this point
Man, this episode just bummed me out massively. Obviously not Drew’s fault, he did a great job explaining the content, just can’t believe how sad and cynical MTV is.
This shit is one of the reasons why some women won’t leave their abusers. The fear of being stalked and harassed by your ex is so real and so scary, this entire concept makes me furious
It disgusts me too, no means no and they need to understand that.
While what you say is true, I don't, for one second, believe this is not entirely scripted.
@@benjones7634 True although I still think even so the show is damaging for probably making some men and women and teenagers think that she was in the wrong and that if they were in that situation it would be wrong to ghost the other person which isn’t true because he clearly crossed boundaries and disrespected her
There's a fucking blockbuster movie about this
@@yokloj1503 for sure. The guy is a complete turd.
this show is so annoying because people will actually go on a HUNT for someone who obviously doesn’t wanna talk to them. i would be creeped out.
I know. I actually thought it was illegal
not to mention, they were literally guilttripping her over the phone to get her to go talk
Yea but also you would be a grown adult who can say "no" and move on
@@ghostly7139 lots of women have self confidence issues or have trouble saying no. Plus, it's easy to say "she could've just said no" when you're a outsider looking in.
The ending shouldn't have been a confrontation between him and her but with him and a psychologist who would explain to him and the audience how his behaviour was not ok.
"I didn't say anything, this is my first time talking" Drew's commentary never fails to make me chuckle
I'm a tad bit upset that there aren't any actual ghosts on "Ghosted" ...
I came for the apparitions, not the drama.
YESSS FIRST TO VERIFIED DUDE
Edit: Though I do agree on the misleading title
Same! Those liars have taken it to far this time.
@@hector07.42 there's also a massive lack of proton packs & containment units.
What if they are people that hated the person they were dating so much that they killed themselves, then turned into ghosts and literally ghosted them? Then they have to do a crossover with a ghost hunting show to sit her down and ask her why she literally ghosted...
@@wolfhawk1999 now thats a show i would DEF watch!
This is a terrible idea.
To say the least
@Vilfredo Pareto its creepy and awkward
@Vilfredo Pareto whats the benefit of putting effort on something people will dislike anyway
Yep
@Vilfredo Pareto Can’t argue with that since the economy supports these bad shows
I'm so glad these people are actors reading scripts - otherwise this guy's behavior would be criminally disturbing
I didnt need to watch the confrontation, I just knew there would be a perfectly valid reason to ghost him 😂
even if the show is fake the message they’re sending is soooo bad wtf.
"are you a creepy incel who got dumped by a girl you liked even though you just talked shit about her? stalk her until she sits in a room with you and tell her she's an idiot for being traumatised by you!"
It's really telling. Whoever produced this is showing the way they think.
People love it tho sadly
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It’s really gross how he makes a big deal that Jordan is “openly bisexual,” like he’s implying that she’s had a lot of partners because of her sexuality or something
ughhh more bisexual stereotypes. we hate to see it
Yeah it’s really bad stereotyping. Just because someone is bi doesn’t mean they fuck or date everyone that walks by
I know. People, more specifically men, have fetishized bisexuality and now it’s used as a synonym to being promiscuous
@@daliahmeadow5257 Is it though? I'm a man and I've seen or heard of that. "Bisexual" seems like a pretty difficult thing to fetishize tbh. I've never even thought of sexuality being related to sluttiness, that just doesn't make any sense
@@creeperhunterD All the damn time. Bisexual women are treated as threesome fodder and it's honestly kind of stressful dealing with the expectation that I must be both promiscuous and polyamorous
I've been stalking my ex for years and I didn't know all I needed was MTV help to get her back! I'm gonna keep going! Thanks MTV
not sure why but this is the best video you have ever made
ah, so he sexually objectified her infront of a crowd without her consent and then tried to gaslight her after she had justifiably cut him out of her life?? very nice very cool, i love it here
And for some reason she still kinda loved him???? Did not expect her to say that
@@purplexerox827 That's why I assume it's prolly fake lmao. This is the textbook definition of movie relationships
Have yah not seen Kevin Hart, he made literally the same jokes about his wife being too sexual and how women are way too freaky.
Nah but honestly his jokes were bad but this is about her not communicating, you shouldn't expect a man to be able to read your mind or your feelings, I can't stand women who get emotional but don't tell you why and expect you to know what not to do. That's like you saying something I don't like, instead of telling you not to do that, I ignore you, your gonna do it again most likely cuz you don't know why I'm ignoring you
@@akkoismydaughter3573 Those jokes were his fault. If somebody cheats on me for example, I'm out of there. I don't need to explain why I'm leaving if I have a good reason. If my partner gets involved with bad shit that I don't wanna be apart of, I'm out of there. You are not entitled to an explanation as to why your partner no longer wants to be involved with you if you have done something like this. The lack of communication was his fault, not hers. She left for a good reason, he made those jokes because he thought it was funny to put someone's intimate life on blast without permission. Also Kevin Hart is a misogynistic homophobic little bitch, so that's a stupid comparison anyway lmfao
"are you telling me I made jokes at your expense and gaslighted you afterwards and you're like...not offering to make it better? Nvm I don't wanna date you anymore" -the half virgin
That's not what gaslighting means at all. He hid the jokes from her in the first place and didn't even know she knew about them until later. That's not even remotely like gaslighting.
Just to head off the possible misinterpretation: just because it's not gaslighting doesn't make it okay, obviously.
@@TheTheValer he acted like it was completely fine and tried to mak her feel like she was blowing it out of proportion by getting reasonably upset...how is that not gaslighting
lmao right?!
Twitter leftists arent at all prepared for the coming wave of cottage core moodboard making tik tok ecofascist racist e-girls but thats not a conversation anyone wants to have.
“My ex won’t respond to me, I figured I should MTV in on this and get them to respond.”
This show is so toxic and dangerous. I've been ghosted before and while it hurts, the furthest I pushed it was e-mailing back like twice after no initial reply. There's people that don't seem to ever get the message and then there's the full blown psychos who commit murder... great job MTV lol
The way he said that shes "fully bisexual" whiles hes half a virgin. As if being LGBT is like a high level sex act or something. Bruh I was bi when I was a virgin, smh.
I hated him the second he opened his mouth and said those words 🙄🙄🙄
Trying to understand the logic in this is stunting my brain growth.
@@Deg40000 my logic or his??
@@evat267 his logic
@@rosieandre6121 (coming from a bisexual) correct me if I’m wrong, but aren’t pan/poly/omnisexuals technically bisexual as well? Like they’re more specific terms the same way that agender/genderfluid/bigender/other are all part of the non-binary and transgender umbrella terms. So then obviously it’s totally fine for you to just say you’re bi as well, even if you know you are more specifically omni.
Also, slightly unrelated but can you describe your own definition of omnisexuality? I’ve only heard one other person’s experience before and I’m curious just how universal that was (so I can THEN see how accurate my own definition is! C: )
This is probably staged but that doesn't change the fact that people like these exist. People who have suffered having a toxic stalker, people who think stalking and harassing their crush will make them fall in love with them. This show is portraying horrible and toxic real life situations but instead of denouncing them it excuses them and makes them seem innocent and romantic. It's disgusting.
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Agreed
i like your pfp!!
i've seen it first hand! my mom had to get restraining order against her ex.
why the hell did 3 spamers target your comment, lol
Edit: 4
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The thing is, if this was fiction, it would actually be a relatively interesting plot, having the guy be slowly revealed to be an obsessive stalker and consistently hurting the person he only cares about for the sake of his ego. Unfortunately, it's real