Dealing With Loneliness and Building Christian Community (VLOG)
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- Опубликовано: 8 май 2023
- In this vlog, I'm taking you along for a Thursday/Friday in my life, showing the behind the scenes of what it's looked like to balance work and motherhood, how I prep to batch film my RUclips videos, and opening up what's been weighing on me in this season...and what God is teaching me through it. I pray it encourages you! 🤍
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“Jesus said to him, 'No one who puts his hand to the plow and looks back is fit for the kingdom of God." | Luke 9:62
Thanks for spending the day with me and hearing me chat through this pain point and what God's been showing me through it...I pray it was an encouragement to you! 🤍
Jesus who bodily dwells in him all the fullness of the divinity without any interest for him. (Colossians 2:9) said, “As for the day or the hour, no one knows, neither the angels in heaven, NOR THE SON, but the Father alone. (Mark 13:32)
Nor Jesus the man,
Nor Jesus the god,
Nor Jesus the flesh,
Neither Jesus the 100% man,
Neither Jesus the god 100%,
Nor Jesus fully man,
Nor Jesus fully god,
Nor Jesus the Son of God,
Nor Jesus the son of man,
Nor Jesus on earth,
Nor Jesus in heaven,
Nor Jesus before being glorified,
Nor Jesus after being glorified,
Neither Jesus the alpha and the omega,
Neither Jesus the first and the last,
Nor Jesus the king of kings,
Nor the holy spirit,
Neither the angels nor anyone else...
Knew the hour of the day of judgment.
But the FATHER (ALONE + ALONE + ALONE) who knew the HOUR.
THE FATHER, THE ONE TRUE GOD as Jesus himself said in (John 17:3) who knows the moment of this hour.
And the funny thing is that inside of him dwelt all the fullness of the Godhead bodily. (Colossians 2:9).
Paul said: For in Jesus dwells all the fullness of the Godhead bodily. (Colossians 2:9).
This fullness of divinity that dwelt in the body of Jesus served him nothing and did not even help him when Jesus said he did not know the time.
God is like oxygen you cant see him but you can't live without him
It's so true - we need Him!
What an amazing quote !!! ❤
True
I am going through loneliness myself and talked to God about it this morning. God revealed to me some of my doubts , fears and loneliness comes from emotional neglect in my childhood. I want community but deep long lasting connection. God is showing me that is going to happen for me by trusting in him to provide for my emotional needs.
I hear you. I can get very sad in lonely times. It’s hard to not pray a season away, but to trust the waiting process. It’s hard, I serve as leader in a woman’s group, but many don’t understand lonliness
Wow I could have written this myself. I also experienced childhood neglect, and I’ve come to the conclusion that it has left a hole in me that has been hard to fill. I have a boyfriend and even a few friends, but there is just an itch I can’t scratch. My boyfriend is a Christian, but some of my friends I’ve known since I was a kid are not because I was not always a Christian. I have found that while I can be friendly with non-Christians, it sometimes is lonely when you don’t have certain things in common.
I’ve just had a hard time building community with other Christians. I have my boyfriend, but he can’t be my only companion
I needed this I’m so lonely. My husband died three years ago. I’m not over it. God is always testing us his purpose is to prove that our faith is real. Even though I’m struggling I will keep faith, Since covid I fell on a terrible hardship. I lost my job for declining the vaccine. I declined due to my health conditions. I suffer from lupus, and heart disease. I’m now waitressing but not making nearly enough to get by. I’m a single mom, my husband died suddenly years ago. I’m all alone. My children are autistic and non verbal, I’m overwhelmed. I recently started homeschooling them because they were having so many issues in school including bullying. Please pray for me. I’m struggling to pay rent, struggling to buying groceries, struggling to afford the tools I need to homeschool my sons. I WANT TO GIVE UP! But I TRUST in you JESUS. Even as I struggle providing for my children. I will keep faith in God. Faith over fear. Lord hear my prayers. I don’t understand why I’m going through this hardship for so long but I trust you LORD!
My personal opinion is that you marry someone in your faith that can help support you
Ugh. I want your real phone number!! We have sooo much in common! I want to be there and help you! If not in person then over the phone! My dad died when i was 1 so i get the single mama, i have MS, my kid is duagnosed autisic and other things and was non verbal but we found ways to overcome this. I am in montana. And im crushed i cannot put my info out here for you😢. I understand! Dont let the enemy mess with your mind! If you give up then what? The kids go to the state…. Do you really want that? My advice is a church community and the local free options. We used scottish rites free speech classes as one option to help us. The public school can still offer services to homeschoolers if you call and check. Like the library in the school or therapies your children may still qualify for. We had a state run program called quality life concepts that paid for therapies in full for 3 years for us. I am praying for wisdom, patience, love and endurance for you during this difficult time❤😢
Lord, I pray for this sweet daughter of Christ. Please fill her with Your peace that transcends all understanding, strength and patience to endure, and joy to find the hidden blessings in her life. I pray for complete healing from her health condition, a job that better supports her financially, Godly community to love and encourage her, and provision for her children to succeed in school and beyond. Lord, Your Word says you have GOOD plans for us and will finish what you started in those who love you. Please remind Tiffany daily of your provision and love for her. I pray for breakthrough in her life. May she experience the richness of who You are in her life. Amen. you are so loved my friend. Keep fighting the good fight, for this season shall pass, whether in this life or the next. This life is just a vapor and we will soon be in complete wholeness and perfect circumstances one day in heaven ❤️
I will pray for you Tiffany. Just remember that Jesus went through the situations you are dealing with. So not only will you get over them but you WILL find purpose out of them! Because a great woman needs to suffer in order to be great.
You are stronger than you know and you're an amazing woman dealing with all this! I pray Jesus will bless you with answered prayers - and He will for He is faithful.
God bless and please take it easy on yourself ❤🙏
You're life isnt falling apart it's falling into place in the name of Jesus Christ amen to that
Wow. I was just thinking about how lonely I feel last night. I’m almost 28. I am a Christian and live alone. Half of my friends are married, and the other half aren’t married but live with their boyfriends (they are not bad people, but they are not Christians. I’ve known them for years since before I became a Christian).
On weekends I’m fine, but weeknights feel so lonely having dinner alone constantly. My boyfriend spends time with me, but it’s not healthy him being my only human connection most days. I want more Christian female friends, but it has been hard to find any. Most are married with families and busy, which I totally understand. It’s just a struggle sometimes
Thank you so much Vero v for sharing this! I can feel the same sometimes, especially being a Christian! I encourage you to continue on in your faith and pray for God to send you Godly community! You’re awesome.
I’m a married Christian woman almost 29 with 2 daughters, I struggle with loneliness too everyone seems so busy with their lives, not to mention a lot of moms in my church have a lot of kids and are homestead crunchy types…it’s lonely when you’re not like them.
Your son is so precious! I noticed he kept looking at the camera. He's already a star!
This video came right on time. I am unwillingly single and desperately want a child. My fertile time is winding down, and it doesn't help that I am experiencing feminine issues (fibroids, etc). Thanks for this message!
Beautiful woman . God bless you and best of health and strength. You are an inspiration to me
I truly enjoy watching your videos and I enjoyed this vlog on today. God is moving my family in a new season of living in a different state and I had been praying over that and asking God to guide me so that I won’t experience feelings of loneliness or disconnect. But you just gave me a great perspective on how to view and deal with whatever “pain points” I may have to go through in that season.
Best wishes to you!
I truly needed to hear this.
The past two weeks I been listening to nothing but junk and skipping my subscription videos and when I saw yours pop up, I thought, it’s been a while since I pressed play on one of your videos.
I’m starting homeschooling with my daughter this summer and I am feeling at a loss how to manage work and her at home.
Sooo this video is truly something I needed help with. Asking God those two questions of feeling frustrated
Thank you for this video. I’m a new sub here. I too moved from the Bay Area but i moved to the Sacramento area. I pray for God to bless me with Christian community and friends 🥰💜
Hello Sonia. My name is Page Love, and I am a writer based in Oregon. I write devotionals and would love to gift you a free devotional. It is titled 10 Days of Wisdom. With this devotional you will find in-depth biblical studies, reflection questions to help you go deeper into understanding, and a prayer section for you to write down your thoughts, prayers, and concerns to God. If this is something you are interested in, then I would love to send you one. All you have to do is email thelovelife.pk@gmail.com and say you would like one. No strings attached or gimmicks. I am writer who would love to get her product out there. If you would like to check out my website it is thelovelife.net and has my blog and a little information about who I am. Thank you.
Congratulations on your 100k. Your channel is probably the best one that I follow. God Bless. 🙏
Hello Stacey. My name is Page Love, and I am a writer based in Oregon. I write devotionals and would love to gift you a free devotional. It is titled 10 Days of Wisdom. With this devotional you will find in-depth biblical studies, reflection questions to help you go deeper into understanding, and a prayer section for you to write down your thoughts, prayers, and concerns to God. If this is something you are interested in, then I would love to send you one. All you have to do is email thelovelife.pk@gmail.com and say you would like one. No strings attached or gimmicks. I am writer who would love to get her product out there. If you would like to check out my website it is thelovelife.net and has my blog and a little information about who I am. Thank you.
This is LITERALLY what I need to hear. Thank God for this message through you! I'm a new SAHM of 2 under 2 boys. I was just talking to my husband about the loneliness I've been feeling and I've been absolutely falling into temptation to fixate on it. A verse that's also helping me is Psalm 68:5-6a.
Hello Jessica. My name is Page Love, and I am a writer based in Oregon. I write devotionals and would love to gift you a free devotional. It is titled 10 Days of Wisdom. With this devotional you will find in-depth biblical studies, reflection questions to help you go deeper into understanding, and a prayer section for you to write down your thoughts, prayers, and concerns to God. If this is something you are interested in, then I would love to send you one. All you have to do is email thelovelife.pk@gmail.com and say you would like one. No strings attached or gimmicks. I am writer who would love to get her product out there. If you would like to check out my website it is thelovelife.net and has my blog and a little information about who I am. Thank you.
God bless Tyler's wife, this is such a precious video Kaci. Thank you for your service to the Bride of Christ. God bless you💛
Thank you so much for this, i found it personally very insightful x
Something tells me you won't be lonely very long xx
Oh my goodness okay God really spoke to me through this.
Have you ever heard that quote that I think is usually attributed to Calvin: "The human heart is an idol-making factory." (Side note: I am not a Calvinist.) That's what comes to mind when I think about our human tendency to always want something more to be happy. And I absolutely agree that that hunger drives us (or at least should) to Jesus-praise Him! I also agree about the harvest being plentiful-it's been crazy how many divine appointments God has created in my life recently, just as I go about doing errands. Also, I have a pasta sauce tip for you-Organico Bello! It's the absolute best. You should be able to get it at Sprouts (and sometimes it goes on sale there). God bless you!
Yes I love that quote 🙌🏼 one of my college professors used to say it all the time...and I will keep an eye out for Organico Bello - thanks for the tip 😋
Awwe I enjoy watching you and how noble and godly you live ❤❤
I was gonna write a comment thanking you for your heart for the lord and your vulnerability and humility you display in sharing your life on here and personal experiences and testimonies because it has been super encouraging ❤ however I have to say thank you also for proving to me I’m not the only one who sections their hair by holding sections in their mouth 😭😂❤️
Hahaha I was almost going to not show that part then I though, welp...this is reality 🤪 glad I'm not the only one! And thank you so much for your kind words...I'm truly honored and humbled to know my videos have been helpful to you ☺
I love watching you but even more so as a mommy. You’re a beautiful family ❤
This comment makes me 🥲
Thank you Kaci for your beautiful, real, comforting content 💛 I came upon your channel a couple months ago. In the short time I’ve been a subscriber you have helped me so much in my walk with God & facing things I needed to face - those things we try to ignore but cannot keep sweeping under the rug. I am grateful for being led to this community and may God continue to bless your journey.
Kaci Nicole God bless you for serving Jesus Christ 🙏🙏🙏 Keep up the Good works 👍👍😊😊
So sweet and encouraging ❤
I'm so happy seeing your videos 😊
This is something that has been weighing heavily on my heart. Thank you for sharing this timely message. I needed to hear it
Thanks for this topic, I needed it today.
I'm so glad it resonated 🤍
Thank you for sharing your heart and mind with us :) I really appreciate your channel and your insight. Thank you :)
Thank you for opening up! I’m currently struggling with that too and have been reading Jennie Allen’s book on finding your people. I’m going to learn to be content with life right now :)
Thank you so much for this video, Kaci. It really ministered to my spirit as I too, am moving through a period of loneliness.
Amén sister! This was so filling to hear 19:59 God will provide in every way🩵
May God bless you always. Keep up the good work.
May He bless you as well 😊
GOD!!! Willl definitely work everything out. Be blessed!!!🕊🤍
Well deserved! 100k🎉
Aw thank you 😊
1 Peter 5:9-11 I needed that today. Thank you
Ohh wow... I can really feel your loneliness problem without your awesome community.
I live in my van as a solo travelling woman -only having my dog with me. Going through the season of separation at the moment... It's really hard meeting Christian people on the road :(
I will pray for you and your beautiful family. Hope to be blessed with a family like yours one day.
I can relate. I moved from SC to CA. My church on the East Coast I was a part of since I was baptized in 2019. I had such strong roots there. I really felt the community. Here in CA, not so much… but I’ve only been here for 11 months. I know it takes time, so I’m continuing to trust Gods plan for my CA church community.
I’m definitely a bloom where you are planted kind of woman. I’m a TCK, so moving and being different aren’t new to me. But I like to be rooted as deeply as possible each place God takes me. 🙏🏿 I’m still praying for really close friendships here in the church. Until then I’ll focus on being a good acquaintance to others, & I’ll let God make clear who I should be close to. 🙏🏿
I moved from Oklahoma City to SC 5 years ago (came for college), and I want to go back to Oklahoma City so bad. I feel the same way you do. Had strong roots in OKC, here in SC its been very hard to feel like I belong. The atmosphere here is very different. Havent been able to find a church like the ones back in OKC as it feels so clicky to the places ive been. I hope you find a church soon!
@@user-hv2rv9ox2y I have a chrch here! It's just getting connected & building deep roots here!
What part of SC?! If you're in York County near the NC border, I loved The Charlotte Church! If you're near Columbia, Columbia Church of Christ across from the hospital, I think Lexington Medical Center.
I needed to hear this and amen 🙏✝️❤️
I have been feeling lonely lately because I don’t have any friends to hangout with and making friends as a adult.
I can so relate 😅
Yup. Feeling so lonely as a young single woman at the moment, and there aren't many young people in my church
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God is like "0" (zero) that split itself into both a -1 (minus one) and +1 (plus one) creating the illusionary duality in our earthly life, in order to experience it through us. In the same way, light needs darkness, life needs death, but the reality and the truth is that they are still a oneness. We need to recognize and realize that. We are the "0" (zero)...
What hair conditioner do you use? I've been struggling forever to find a clean one!
Hi Kaci Nicole, Are you American or Australian..? Please reply if you read my message. Just curious if you were born American or Australian. God bless you for serving Jesus 🙏🙏
What church were you going to in the Bay Area? I just moved from NYC for work and looking for a Christian Community to join. Btw. Love your content! :)
Do anyone know if Kaci Nicole is originally from US or Australia...? I'm just curious. Please reply if you know 😊😊
Romans 8:1-2 (King James Version)
There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit. For the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus hath made me free from the law of sin and death.
I’m 17 and I’m looking to have Christian friends or just wise friends in general the lord removed everyone so now I have to start over
Btw- did you ever feel overwhelmed serving your last church everyday?
Hi Kaci Nicole I just saw from one of your video that you are turning 30 years. You looks younger 😊👍. But American people grow old faster than Asian. So I'm guessing you are originally from Australia 😊😊. Correct me if I'm wrong 🙏 Just curious 😊
1 Peter 4:14
If ye be reproached for the name of Christ, happy are ye; for the spirit of glory and of God resteth upon you: on their part he is evil spoken of, but on your part he is glorified.
We see this with King Asa in 2 Chronicles ch 14-16.
The blessedness of the reign of King Asa. Asa’s emphasis on strengthening the nation’s defense. The threat from Ethiopia and the cry to God. God gives Judah victory over the Ethiopians.
Azariah brings a warning from God. Asa is exhorted to seek God. King Asa cleanses the land and gathers the nation together for worship. A public covenant made at Jerusalem.
Asa makes a treaty with Syria to strengthen himself against Israel.
"Asa used this treasure to buy the favor of Ben-Hadad of Syria so that he would withdraw support from Israel. Apparently, Baasha of Israel could not stand against Judah by himself and he needed the support of Syria.
He took of the treasure that belonged to the house of the Lord, and gave it to Benhadad to bribe him to break his league with Baasha, and be in league with himself."
The word from Hanani the Seer. Asa rejects the message from Hanani.The sad end of King Asa of Judah.
I really need some support somewhere I will be loved and accepted how many of you would like to make a prayer group a place where we can talk about God with one another . I am very depressed
Good luck with that I guess.
May God bring comfort and healing to your soul ❤
Simple words, simple words and simple to grasp them...
Jesus said as he looked up to heaven, “Now, ETERNAL LIFE is that they KNOW YOU, THE ONE TRUE GOD, and Jesus Christ whom you have sent. (John 17:3)
Jesus said, “I ascend to my Father and your Father, and to my God and your God. (John 20:17).
Jesus said, “As for the day or the hour, no one knows, neither the angels in heaven, NOR THE SON, but the Father alone. (Mark 13:32).
Jesus said, “The Son can do nothing on his own initiative; he only acts on what he sees the Father doing. (John 5:19).
Jesus said, "As for me, I can do nothing on my own." (John 5:30).
And according to John 11:41, “So they took away the stone. And Jesus lifted up his eyes and said, Father, I thank you that you have heard me.
Paul said, “And when all things have been subjected to him, then the Son himself will be subject to him who subjected all things to him, that God may be all in all. (Bible, 1Corinthians 15:28).
So according to Jesus the only true god is the Father who is the god of Jesus and who alone knows the time and no one else and without him Jesus can do nothing and he who answers all his prayers and after the judgments, Jesus will be subject to him.