I have Down syndrome and sometimes it's really hard to get myself out to more social with other people and going out to hang out because I have experienced with being bullied when I was little when I was like nine yrs old and I have been told it's not really easy dealing with it and it's really tough to be able to get myself new friends and to socialize with young people with Down syndrome and I have been raised with special needs and I have experienced with an amazing family that I have and sometimes it's very hard for my mom and my dad had to deal with a lot of stress of how I was going to experience my life independently and I still do a lot of chores at home and I can even do certain things that I can mange on my own and to be safe about it and being confident of who I truly am as a person and I have been involved with being in a relationship with other guys that I was friends with and I still try to understand what's important to be having a great healthy relationship and think about what's really important and I still manage myself to do other things in my life
Hey Chelsea... Here's a mom of three kids from whom one is with Down syndrome. You should know that people around you are blessed to have you❣ Keep making genuine friends who see your beautiful soul!
Why shouldn't she get married? She has the right to marry just like every other adult and she should also be allowed to become a mother (of course the state and/or her family should help her taking care of them)
I totally agree, people with Downs Syndrome and other disabilities DO and HAVE gotten married AND have had children, she and her partner would need some assistance but they can do and have all the same things as though who aren't dealing with a challenge. I wish her the best of luck and hope she's able to have all the wonderful things in life just like everyone else. :)
You clearly don’t know anyone with downsyndrome. Very few can. My brother has downsyndrome and I work with special needs kids. But they can’t really live on there own like that and they can’t raise a family. It’s not that simple.
I agree! I know of people with Down Syndrome that have gotten married. Even a couple who have been together over 20 years. Whether she would need help is beside the point. Being married doesn't mean others cannot be in her life to assist her as she needs.
People with disabilities (like my sister) sometimes can’t get married (you can choose if you want to) but they can’t have sex, so they can’t have the risk of getting a child with Down syndrome because it’s really difficult to take care of a child with Down syndrome.
I love children with down syndrome. They are so sweet. If I had the money and a safe place to live, I would love to adopt some of them. Children are a blessing.
Never said Never she lives a normal life I'm teaching a friend of me how to be independent it's working you have explained to her way she will understand it's working for my friend anything is possible she is beautiful women she need a friend I'm here i never thought I would be independent i got married my husband taught me how to be independent
I know this mother loves her daughter. But to be so negative & to say she will never hv a life like her siblings is just so wrong & discouraging. She is limiting her daughter's abilities. And she couldn't be more wrong about that. She is capable & it is her right to make a great & happy life for herself. She has the right to be married if thats what she wants. She is adorable
I agree 100%. Lots of people with DS get married, have jobs, and live relatively normal lives with some assistance. To hear her say that her daughter will never be able to get married or have the life that she wants is heartbreaking and discouraging.
And who looks after her babies? And is that fair for babies to be born to mothers without the intellectual capacities to support them through the complexities of life? The mother is a realist who has done and will always love and be devoted to her daughter.
@@Jdjustsaying To say they are incapable because they have down syndrome is the farthest from the truth. This world is full of cruel unfit parents having many children just to abuse them and some even kill them. And they have no legit disability. Of course they will need guidance but I never doubt their abilities to learn and continue to give hope to parents who have children with down syndrome.
Your daughter can get married someday but no children I have a learning disabilty I was married my husband died We having feelings and rights Your daughter is very smart
I understand where this mom is coming from Because it is tough having a child and young adult with a disability i have a disability and even though mine is mild my parents still worry about me and i really don't mind because it shows how much they love me
I have always had an affection for these wonderful people ever since I was a child @ primary school I used to look after people that had a dissability as others used to pick on them and bully them so as a big boy for my age used to kick the shit out of bullies and then was reckognised as a bully myself.Guess what? I got letters from school stating to my wonderful parents stating this.To this day I am still the same,I am now 58 yrs old and I mean old and am physically dissabled but I will still stand up for these people as they have a great deal to give to communities world wide.I do believe things are getting better after 100,0000 years so why can we not as a human race face reality and treat everyone with respect and equallity ?????.
You're daughter can do anything! You raised her to be independent and it is possible for her to marry! Your daughter wants the same things in life just like us! Check into it!!
You go girl you can do anything you want to be I wish the best for you, you have a great mother who loves you very much. Your in my thoughts and prayers always. SJ
I think Kara is beautiful and she should be able to marry when she finds the "one" and live independently with help from others. I wish Kara and family all the love and best wishes for a very happy future -♡♡♡♡
saying her daughter will never have the life her siblings have is wrong. People living with DS can have and do things anyone else can do. Don't limit options or her ability to love and be loved.
My brother we adopted when I was 7 and he was 9. BEST BROTHER EVER. LOST HIM 6 DAYS BEFORE HIS BIRTHDAY 2 YEARS AGO VIDEO I MADE FOR HIM ON MY RUclips. HES MY BESTFRIEND AND BROTHER AND MISS HIM SO MUCH
This so lovely bless her 😊 i wish her luck ive got Mild learning difficulties meaning that able to do things on my own without support as ive been around people with learning difficulties at school ive seen different types and u cant judge as eveyone has right have a choice when its when its right for them i can understand if there really unable do things then they need Extra support. But all my life was told couldnt do things but i prove people wong . but got i daughter she got Autism and luckily ive been around with kids with autism and learning difficulties as I understand them and have Patience and let them live a Independent life all i can say to this we have skills and maybe faster then other else but gotta give people the Chance becouse u think leaning difficulties means cant do nothing for they selfs wich is wong . My daughter Surprises me she very smart and she Verbal but she very Independent and know whats wants.
i agree with the majority of what this mom says but not the fact that she BELIEVES her daughter will not get married or have children. why take something so precious away. it might take help with relationships but if that’s what she wants, does it really matter? let her be who she wants to!
It is physically impossible for folks with Down's Syndrome to have children. They are to the truest extent of word sterile. Unnatural positivity is condescending and patronising.
Their is kid's out there like her get married. You are denying the younglady a right to life outside your. What happens if you ever die before her. You can't stop her then. Buy law the day she turn's 17 years old you have no say in what she does. She can up in live and there is nothing you can do about it.
Good for you for being am excellent mom..my parents n siblings all hated me and i was told daily i was stupid n ugly, they still think that way of me but it's really them b/c of how they are.
I don't know how limited resources is there...but in Finland most of the people with down syndrome can move to their own apartments, or "group home" when they are 20+, if they want to... so they might have like own room, kitchen and bathroom and joined big living room...and some nurse or other caretaker can be there available in daytime....And I'm not sure at all, but I think it wouldn't be impossible to get married... but kids, I don't know..depends on a person I guess, but ..no I wouldn't like that idea..
Why can’t she get married? You don’t want to baby her yet she can’t get married? She seems perfectly capable to have a happy marriage with the right person.
Lots of kids with down syndrome have stable relationships with the opposite sex. Check out the "undateables" series from channel 4. There are often young adults with DS there and many go on to have very fulfilling relationships. Its totally possible, don't deprive them of something that is so important to them when its entirely possible and done successfully all over the world. Find a dating agency that deals also with people who have disabilities.
Bride 👰♀ and paul are away from the wedding ceremony and I love your family very much so much joy and happiness and you can be taking care worker to keep the product before you get ❤️ 😊 💗 💕 💖
I can't believe how ignorant this mother is. Everyone from all abilities of life can get married if they want to. She says that she's letting her daughter have hope but donot the same time telling her daughter that she can't get married. Doesn't sound like the mom is educated on the 2nd half of a child's life that has different abilities
I was told I'm autistic I believe it they say they get along with down syndrome women I even almost dated one pure ecstasy but there never around only bad girls someone please help me
I get bad vibes from this mother . Like she don't want to let her go and live an independent life that she is most likely capable with some support when needed (we ALL need support from time to time). Did she say her mother went to court and she HAS to stay there with her forever ? ummm... Just going to say it I think mom wants her there for a disability check every month .
Why does the mom keep bragging about her having plenty boyfriends and that there’s always someone on the “back burner” like how is that cute ? it’s not I love the daughter she seems sweet but the mom seems controlling and toxic .
Very independently spending more time with her boyfriend out for date with him very nice girl with learning disabilities and their family look wells to
U r an awesome mom telling her 100 percent honesty my mom and women lied to me the right 1 will come it's true we r not a sexual we need to reproduce 2
She can get a norplant put in her arm to stop her from having kids. They put it under the skin and you only have to change it every 3 years. It will keep her from have a baby and live a normal life. I have one and I love it. I don't want know more kid's. I am done.
I have Down syndrome and sometimes it's really hard to get myself out to more social with other people and going out to hang out because I have experienced with being bullied when I was little when I was like nine yrs old and I have been told it's not really easy dealing with it and it's really tough to be able to get myself new friends and to socialize with young people with Down syndrome and I have been raised with special needs and I have experienced with an amazing family that I have and sometimes it's very hard for my mom and my dad had to deal with a lot of stress of how I was going to experience my life independently and I still do a lot of chores at home and I can even do certain things that I can mange on my own and to be safe about it and being confident of who I truly am as a person and I have been involved with being in a relationship with other guys that I was friends with and I still try to understand what's important to be having a great healthy relationship and think about what's really important and I still manage myself to do other things in my life
How old r u?
@@mercedesarrindell5458 you should not tell a woman her age haha lol
Rember u r beautiful just the way u r dont let no one tell u differnt god made u so u r blessed
Hey Chelsea... Here's a mom of three kids from whom one is with Down syndrome. You should know that people around you are blessed to have you❣ Keep making genuine friends who see your beautiful soul!
Ur awesome- sorry for the idiots that don't realize how cool u are- stay strong and rock on
God bless her, her family, everyone, and everything!. She will have a great life!
Be safe,take care beautiful lady
Why shouldn't she get married? She has the right to marry just like every other adult and she should also be allowed to become a mother (of course the state and/or her family should help her taking care of them)
I totally agree, people with Downs Syndrome and other disabilities DO and HAVE gotten married AND have had children, she and her partner would need some assistance but they can do and have all the same things as though who aren't dealing with a challenge. I wish her the best of luck and hope she's able to have all the wonderful things in life just like everyone else. :)
You clearly don’t know anyone with downsyndrome. Very few can. My brother has downsyndrome and I work with special needs kids. But they can’t really live on there own like that and they can’t raise a family. It’s not that simple.
Agreed cut apron let go always be there
I agree! I know of people with Down Syndrome that have gotten married. Even a couple who have been together over 20 years. Whether she would need help is beside the point. Being married doesn't mean others cannot be in her life to assist her as she needs.
People with disabilities (like my sister) sometimes can’t get married (you can choose if you want to) but they can’t have sex, so they can’t have the risk of getting a child with Down syndrome because it’s really difficult to take care of a child with Down syndrome.
We have friends that are not only Down syndrome but also Married. She is on birth control and both are thriving and productive in society.
With the right supports in place, she can have the life she wants. She can get married and they can move in together.
A beautiful young lady,hope you have a great life,help her and Shaun
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Why can't she get married?? She has that right just like everyone else!
Let her have a life of her own- drama and all- she would be wonderful 💖💖💖 good luck sweetie 💖💖💖
"We're not going to treat her differently. She's going to do things the same as anyone else. Oh, but she won't have her own family."
I love children with down syndrome. They are so sweet. If I had the money and a safe place to live, I would love to adopt some of them. Children are a blessing.
She’s had more boyfriends than I have! lol 😆
Never said Never she lives a normal life I'm teaching a friend of me how to be independent it's working you have explained to her way she will understand it's working for my friend anything is possible she is beautiful women she need a friend I'm here i never thought I would be independent i got married my husband taught me how to be independent
I know this mother loves her daughter. But to be so negative & to say she will never hv a life like her siblings is just so wrong & discouraging. She is limiting her daughter's abilities.
And she couldn't be more wrong about that.
She is capable & it is her right to make a great & happy life for herself. She has the right to be married if thats what she wants. She is adorable
Your so right
I agree 100%. Lots of people with DS get married, have jobs, and live relatively normal lives with some assistance. To hear her say that her daughter will never be able to get married or have the life that she wants is heartbreaking and discouraging.
And who looks after her babies?
And is that fair for babies to be born to mothers without the intellectual capacities to support them through the complexities of life?
The mother is a realist who has done and will always love and be devoted to her daughter.
@@Jdjustsaying To say they are incapable because they have down syndrome is the farthest from the truth. This world is full of cruel unfit parents having many children just to abuse them and some even kill them. And they have no legit disability. Of course they will need guidance but I never doubt their abilities to learn and continue to give hope to parents who have children with down syndrome.
The mother has a defeatist attitude. None of us, the mother included, can know what her daughter's truly capable of.
There a specific programs run for adults with developmental disabilities dealing with sexuality. She can learn.
She is a true inspiration
The mother is.wonderful❤
Your daughter can get married someday but no children I have a learning disabilty I was married my husband died We having feelings and rights Your daughter is very smart
I understand where this mom is coming from Because it is tough having a child and young adult with a disability i have a disability and even though mine is mild my parents still worry about me and i really don't mind because it shows how much they love me
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Why couldn't she get married and be on birth control? Or maybe she would be able to have a child and get help from family...
Manuela Darazsdi great idea she should have kids to further the Polish race
Manuela Darazsdi Exactly!!! I agree with you.
Heh George, you suck
I'm disabled to and I agree with you.
I have always had an affection for these wonderful people ever since I was a child @ primary school I used to look after people that had a dissability as others used to pick on them and bully them so as a big boy for my age used to kick the shit out of bullies and then was reckognised as a bully myself.Guess what? I got letters from school stating to my wonderful parents stating this.To this day I am still the same,I am now 58 yrs old and I mean old and am physically dissabled but I will still stand up for these people as they have a great deal to give to communities world wide.I do believe things are getting better after 100,0000 years so why can we not as a human race face reality and treat everyone with respect and equallity ?????.
You're daughter can do anything! You raised her to be independent and it is possible for her to marry! Your daughter wants the same things in life just like us! Check into it!!
True, but the parents aren't always going to be around plus her mother will get older and caring for grand children is tough.
That’s a great mother!!
You go girl you can do anything you want to be I wish the best for you, you have a great mother who loves you very much. Your in my thoughts and prayers always. SJ
Cheffing with Grace helps individuals be independent so they can be independent and do things like get married
God Bless her ❤
So beautiful hope she has a amazing life
People with down syndrome can get married. It jyst deoends o. How severe the down syndrome is. Some adults with downs can get an apartment and a job.
I think Kara is beautiful and she should be able to marry when she finds the "one" and live independently with help from others.
I wish Kara and family all the love and best wishes for a very happy future -♡♡♡♡
Yes, but sometimes social services don't help with everything, and being a grandparent mother is tough.
A lovely young lady!!!
saying her daughter will never have the life her siblings have is wrong. People living with DS can have and do things anyone else can do. Don't limit options or her ability to love and be loved.
My brother we adopted when I was 7 and he was 9. BEST BROTHER EVER. LOST HIM 6 DAYS BEFORE HIS BIRTHDAY 2 YEARS AGO
VIDEO I MADE FOR HIM ON MY RUclips. HES MY BESTFRIEND AND BROTHER AND MISS HIM SO MUCH
This so lovely bless her 😊 i wish her luck ive got Mild learning difficulties meaning that able to do things on my own without support as ive been around people with learning difficulties at school ive seen different types and u cant judge as eveyone has right have a choice when its when its right for them i can understand if there really unable do things then they need Extra support. But all my life was told couldnt do things but i prove people wong . but got i daughter she got Autism and luckily ive been around with kids with autism and learning difficulties as I understand them and have Patience and let them live a Independent life all i can say to this we have skills and maybe faster then other else but gotta give people the Chance becouse u think leaning difficulties means cant do nothing for they selfs wich is wong . My daughter Surprises me she very smart and she Verbal but she very Independent and know whats wants.
Wait why can’t she get married?
Never say never I think the mother should watch born this way on A&E. It would surprise her all the things they do on that show
i agree with the majority of what this mom says but not the fact that she BELIEVES her daughter will not get married or have children. why take something so precious away. it might take help with relationships but if that’s what she wants, does it really matter? let her be who she wants to!
It is physically impossible for folks with Down's Syndrome to have children. They are to the truest extent of word sterile. Unnatural positivity is condescending and patronising.
@@Aethelwulf_of_Westseaxe So then no worry! They shouldn't be so reluctant to let her marry if she wants and live a more independent life.
Why can’t she have a boyfriend?! Sure she can! She has wants and needs like everyone else!
LOVE HER ACCENT:)
This mother should try and let her go a little bit for God sake She has a lot of the same feelings as us all but you know her better than us all
You’re awesome!
Their is kid's out there like her get married. You are denying the younglady a right to life outside your. What happens if you ever die before her. You can't stop her then. Buy law the day she turn's 17 years old you have no say in what she does. She can up in live and there is nothing you can do about it.
Good for you for being am excellent mom..my parents n siblings all hated me and i was told daily i was stupid n ugly, they still think that way of me but it's really them b/c of how they are.
She's real true beauty 😊
God bless🌺🌺🌺🌺
For me the need to get
Married too. We the parents should always guide.
I love how she said 1 more..mo says for what good luck? Yeah..2 more! Lol she wanted extra good luck.
There are plenty of Down Sydrome couples who have married. Who knows what God has planned for her?!
I don't know how limited resources is there...but in Finland most of the people with down syndrome can move to their own apartments, or "group home" when they are 20+, if they want to... so they might have like own room, kitchen and bathroom and joined big living room...and some nurse or other caretaker can be there available in daytime....And I'm not sure at all, but I think it wouldn't be impossible to get married... but kids, I don't know..depends on a person I guess, but ..no I wouldn't like that idea..
She can get married. She can live independently.
This lady need to Watch born this Way they have gotten married Down syndrome
What a cool broad. Love her accent.
Why shouldn't she be allowed to get married if she wants to? Let her live her life like any other adult.
Stay awesome!!!
As long as she has someone to guide her to & through marrying she should be ok. She just needs more guidance to understand..
Why can’t she get married? You don’t want to baby her yet she can’t get married? She seems perfectly capable to have a happy marriage with the right person.
Why won't she have that life? She can.
My daughter is Down syndrome also she is 12 yrs old now.
Lots of kids with down syndrome have stable relationships with the opposite sex. Check out the "undateables" series from channel 4. There are often young adults with DS there and many go on to have very fulfilling relationships. Its totally possible, don't deprive them of something that is so important to them when its entirely possible and done successfully all over the world. Find a dating agency that deals also with people who have disabilities.
Bride 👰♀ and paul are away from the wedding ceremony and I love your family very much so much joy and happiness and you can be taking care worker to keep the product before you get ❤️ 😊 💗 💕 💖
She is very intelligent. That's great she has bf, she should embrace it. Some people don't even have a bf gf.
The mom is a walking contradiction in the things she says here does she know she can do things or not lol still not sure by end of video
Eric S I know right the mom said she doesn’t baby her oh all I heard was she can’t do this and this like ugh that’s babying her
Some downs get married with families helping ..i think the more theyre allowed to be " normal" the happier theyll be
I can't believe how ignorant this mother is. Everyone from all abilities of life can get married if they want to. She says that she's letting her daughter have hope but donot the same time telling her daughter that she can't get married. Doesn't sound like the mom is educated on the 2nd half of a child's life that has different abilities
Girl: “I love him and hope to marry him one day.”
*cuts to mom*
Mom: “Cara’s with a different man every week, lemme tell ya.”
I have special needs
I was told I'm autistic I believe it they say they get along with down syndrome women I even almost dated one pure ecstasy but there never around only bad girls someone please help me
she might - and you don't know that
Beautiful
she so cute
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Way to go
They are capable of keeping a job even have a appartement
Kara is so beautiful! 😀😃🌺🌸💐 my. Dr diagno0 me with mild Mr I just want to be treated like everyone else!
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Get her a house not to far from you and get married and check in with them couple of times and let her babysit that baby boy
This. Mom. Is good.
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I get bad vibes from this mother . Like she don't want to let her go and live an independent life that she is most likely capable with some support when needed (we ALL need support from time to time). Did she say her mother went to court and she HAS to stay there with her forever ? ummm... Just going to say it I think mom wants her there for a disability check every month .
Why does the mom keep bragging about her having plenty boyfriends and that there’s always someone on the “back burner” like how is that cute ? it’s not I love the daughter she seems sweet but the mom seems controlling and toxic .
Very independently spending more time with her boyfriend out for date with him very nice girl with learning disabilities and their family look wells to
Hi love you so much
This is what u get for not having an amniocentesis. From someone who works with the disabled and had a disability myself.
You can still have an amniocentesis and choose to give birth knowing the diagnosis!
@@mcgheebentle1958 and be the village idiot..
I think they should get married enough to next thing she’ll end up, knocked up, which means pregnant
The mon isn't teach her to cook she isn't teach her to wash her own clothes
She could go to shepherds college.
U r an awesome mom telling her 100 percent honesty my mom and women lied to me the right 1 will come it's true we r not a sexual we need to reproduce 2
My son's 19 had 4 siblings he wants girlfriend so bD never had a girlfriend
I'm sorry but if the daughter wants to find a good man let her get married and have kids ....
Bride 👰♀ in car 🚗 😍 ✨️ 💕
She can get a norplant put in her arm to stop her from having kids. They put it under the skin and you only have to change it every 3 years. It will keep her from have a baby and live a normal life. I have one and I love it. I don't want know more kid's. I am done.
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My god, the accents! I live here and cant stand them
It's 100000 times better than the Southern accent!
In my opinion, this momma has a bad attitude
No you don't and don't infantilize yourself or allow them to
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