ELIMINATE NEGATIVE THINKING & CULTIVATE A POSITIVE MINDSET | your guide to becoming an OPTIMIST

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  • Опубликовано: 4 май 2023
  • Welcome to 𝘈 𝘉𝘦𝘵𝘵𝘦𝘳 𝘠𝘰𝘶 podcast by lifestyle, wellness, & self help youtuber - Fernanda Ramirez. In this episode we're diving in on how we can eliminate our negative thoughts and change our mindset to a much more positive one 💖 I'll tell you about all the ways i stay optimistic, happy, and looking forwards to the future. Listen along to hear about all about cultivating this mindset and how you can maintain it too ! :)
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  • @aekorntastic
    @aekorntastic Месяц назад +34

    I'm in 5th grade and I love listening to ur podcasts

    • @xomich.
      @xomich. 24 дня назад +4

      that's so good for you! the fact that you are in fifth grade and experiencing bad things and somehow you seek for ways to put the bad things aside is very mature! your vocabulary is very impressive for your age as well, probably because you listen to constructive podcasts.i just wanted to say keep seeking for the positive side and focus on yourself God bless!

    • @aekorntastic
      @aekorntastic 24 дня назад

      @@xomich. needed this

  • @Intisar0
    @Intisar0 Год назад +408

    This is my favorite podcast right now

  • @LillaF-xo7rr
    @LillaF-xo7rr 4 месяца назад +25

    it is so true about how the body shows those negative thoughts, whenever I'm very stressed I start THROWING UP, literally trying to get rid of the negative vibes via vomiting.

  • @nienkevancaillie2328
    @nienkevancaillie2328 5 месяцев назад +20

    I'm told a lot that im negative so I'm actively trying to be more positive

  • @officiallyqueenzee
    @officiallyqueenzee Год назад +16

    I'm the luckiest person ever.
    I attract abundance.
    I attract wealth.
    I AM A DIAMOND.
    MONEY FLOWS WHEREVER I GO.
    I WAS BORN A MIRACLE.
    I AM A LEADER.
    I am luxury.
    I am beauty.
    I am wealth.

  • @soulcontact2
    @soulcontact2 11 месяцев назад +16

    It's really sweet from her to take from her time to help other girls (boys) become better and happy, it shows that she's one of those super rare people who've really got sweet and clean hearts 😯🍃💖

  • @elifnazsurucu7344
    @elifnazsurucu7344 Год назад +95

    As an architecture student, It's hard to be optimistic when professors constantly criticize the work that you spent hours and even days on. I really needed this. I have been following you for years, and I can say that you have been so helpful to me. Thank you!

    • @linde2391
      @linde2391 Год назад +4

      As an engineering student I bear with you. It can be really tough to not take all the criticism to heart, and being an architecture student you must get criticized a lot. But seriously you guys make some very cool stuff, keep up the good work!

    • @shakoorah1
      @shakoorah1 Год назад +2

      Ah yes this is familiar! I’ve graduated as an interior architect and the portfolio crits’ were intense at times. Fern is relatable with these wellness/positivity videos ❤she’s helped me along too xx

  • @indiakxoxo
    @indiakxoxo Год назад +54

    Girl it’s so true about the body and negative thoughts. I literally made myself sick when I was dealing with some trauma bc I couldn’t let go

  • @dewdproduction
    @dewdproduction 16 дней назад +1

    Pro Tip: If you don't like listening to music while studying, listening to this podcast, really sets you in a motivated and productive mood! Thank you Fernanda for your A Better You !

  • @avocadok4789
    @avocadok4789 Год назад

    It’s amazing! Fernanda, your podcast is what makes me understand that there are a lot of improvements which can change my life and because of your advice it can be real. You are an optimistic person and I really appreciate you being such a positive person. Thank you for your work✨🤍

  • @salimouche3945
    @salimouche3945 Год назад

    it's been 1 month since this video has been up but i wanted to say that you are definitely a positive person and that your podcats lift me up so much after i've been having harsh thoughts about myself recently. now i realise that the situation i'm in is temporary, life is really not that deep and i have so many things to be proud and happy about. thank you !!

  • @elianamolina4339
    @elianamolina4339 Год назад +3

    I absolutely love your podcast Fernanda! Theres just some type of energy and vibe u give off! 💗🎀 I love the change of setup, so cute at night 🌙✨ manifesting good vibes for your podcast! Love uuuu queen!

  • @jasmijnamzirolo6773
    @jasmijnamzirolo6773 Год назад +3

    This podcast really makes me feel alive again! My mood this year was like, really sad.. but this is something I enjoy every moment❤ thank you so so so much! Your a strong girl Fernanda, your words are positive power for everyone that struggles with something.

  • @user-cr4pd6bc2y
    @user-cr4pd6bc2y Год назад +6

    I needed this so much, I have been going through normal teenage girl drama and I just needed to hear this ❤ you are so wise and easy to listen too.

  • @josephkustra1644
    @josephkustra1644 Год назад +4

    awww yay i’m so happy u uploaded it!!! fern you already have the best tips and make my day when you upload ❤

  • @NYKIRA
    @NYKIRA Год назад +34

    Wow these are such powerful points Fernanda! "Set aside time to worry" I absolutely agree 💖 For myself I set aside time to honour the full spectrum of my emotions so that when I am interacting with others I can fully see myself and recognise if my ANTs (automatic negative thoughts) are running into our conversation 💖

  • @NadMartineau
    @NadMartineau Год назад +6

    Changing my mindset is something I continuously need to work on. It doesn’t come easy for me but helps me so much. Thank you for these videos ❤

  • @mayaramires5660
    @mayaramires5660 Год назад +2

    Fernanda your a natural I love your podcast your awesome . You really helped me whit a bunch of struggles and you are just amazing basically, I’m very happy for you that your new podcast channel is blowing up your awesome and you always have the positive energie that makes you shine i have so many ways to explain how much you’ve helped me and how much joy you gave me keep it up girl! we love you❤❤❤

  • @Oakcitymedia
    @Oakcitymedia Год назад +8

    Positive mindset, giving my life to Jesus Christ and being around uplifting people changed my life

  • @thegirlwiththekabukimask2895
    @thegirlwiththekabukimask2895 5 месяцев назад

    ilysm girl like, It's not that I stopped manifesting but, I've learned to focus more on the "change" than just blindly asking the universe. You help me jump-start xoxo

  • @soniamaldonado6275
    @soniamaldonado6275 Год назад +1

    This podcast has just helped me out tremendously, I am a negative thinker also an over thinker & listening to this really made a change for me ❤️ I thank you and appreciate you so much 🙏🏽❤️ God bless ❤️

  • @cjray04
    @cjray04 Год назад +12

    I loved and totally relate to the topic rn. I’m at a point in my life where I should feel so accomplished because I finished my first year of college which was not easy, but because of my shitty part time job that was overworking me and abusing me, I felt a downward spiral of negative thoughts which even made me start to almost relapse in old patterns I used to do like smoking and binge eating. So I said fuck this and for my own mental health I quit the job which was scary tbh. I’m at a way better point and I this episode made me realize that I made the right choice and I feel so much happier and free.

  • @victoriaaragon9294
    @victoriaaragon9294 Год назад +8

    I love how you brought up hobbies!!! I've been thinking of starting a hobby or two! My husband loves to garden so I think for one of them I want to help him, so it can be something we do together and spend some quality time. I did already ask him to make sure I won't be intruding on his time/hobbie, and he was so excited that I asked! I love your podcast, I found you while scrolling on YT looking for positive uplifting content and I do my best to catch every new episode!!!

  • @L0v3m3.
    @L0v3m3. 3 месяца назад +1

    I was listening to this while I was getting ready for school and I have to say that ur words were super gentle and so sweet that I almost cried a bit cause people hated me for having a negative thought all the time, I want to be a better person for me and my mom and family! And i believe that ur podcast can help me to be that girl

  • @ThanhTran-kd5pv
    @ThanhTran-kd5pv 11 дней назад

    how can love yourself right way!
    - love unconditional yourself without judge
    - self- responsibility things around you
    -look at loop that you catch up to expand comprehension!
    Before we want to attract good things into your life. we ought to accept darkness part inner and release it. A real love without suffers ! ❤
    I’m from Vietnam

  • @user-xw1xk5rr9h
    @user-xw1xk5rr9h Год назад +2

    I've never given optimism a try until I listened to this podcast. For years, I believed the popular misconception that optimism was always seeing the bright side of everything, which made me think it was toxic. Thank you Fernanda for clearing up toxic positivity and providing us with the true definition! I've been enjoying these podcasts, implementing some of your suggestions, and have started to see a change in myself. My skin is glowing, I'm feeling great, and I'm more at peace. Looking forward to catching up on the rest of the episodes and the future ones to come! ♥

  • @polisi13
    @polisi13 Год назад +45

    Fernanda, It's hard to put into words how much I love your podcasts. I like it so much when you share your experience and give advice. You're so cute and smart. ILY 💗

  • @makenzivehas8176
    @makenzivehas8176 Год назад +2

    In this video I learned
    : in every embarrassing moment in my life I had a good outcome .
    Practicing self awareness is better that trying to not think about a problem that I'm thinking off. Ask people for advice..you can't control everything. Thank you fernanda ❤

  • @bolaabuah3798
    @bolaabuah3798 Год назад +1

    girl, i just found u and this , is the best thing i have listened to , btw thx for this podcast it acc really hepled me feel really positive and grateful.

  • @esavv_
    @esavv_ 3 месяца назад

    Thank you for this podcast! It's very insightful and helpful to me and many people. I've been struggling with negativity for a while, and a big factor is the way I think whenever I don't want to get my hopes up, as you mentioned. I feel like it's really taken a toll on me mentally, but I don't know what to do to not get my hopes up because I also don't want to face that disappointment. Sorry for the long comment, much love 🩷

  • @uncoolnevaeh2684
    @uncoolnevaeh2684 Год назад +1

    I don’t know if you’ll see this but the one thing you said which stuck with me was not to make bad jokes about yourself or be around people who bad jokes about themselves, and since I heard you say that I’ve been so much happier by not saying negative things about myself, thank you so so much I love you

  • @thehighalix
    @thehighalix Год назад +1

    I struggle with depression since many years on and off and I really agree with you about hobbies, personally whenever I sew or knit I have to be so focused on what I do that it helps me to get out of my head. I am lucky tho for having a hobby because I know some people don't really have one or they don't yet know what they like to do... Anyway, I really enjoy listening to your podcast while I am sewing, please continue doing what you do! love from Paris

  • @xobrook
    @xobrook Год назад +1

    I was in a mood and I already feel SO much better after watching this video. Tysm ❤

  • @rouuulin
    @rouuulin 13 дней назад

    YOU make me be more positive!
    Your videos always bring me so much joy🥺love you!!!

  • @rachealdias9819
    @rachealdias9819 Год назад +3

    Your podcast is helping me so much in my healing journey Fernanda I love you so much 🤍

  • @lauracaldwell5640
    @lauracaldwell5640 10 месяцев назад +1

    You are such best friend material! I needed to hear this today.

  • @Unathi.visualdiary
    @Unathi.visualdiary 3 месяца назад

    Omg i wish i started watching this podcast long ago so helpful i have it and i give it a 10/10 the way i was feeling negative about..... But now i feel so positive

  • @kariiglv
    @kariiglv Год назад +1

    your topics lately have been so valuable to me I've been needing all this

  • @hashihashi11.11
    @hashihashi11.11 Месяц назад

    I dont know why but you are the person who can calm me.I must say this. Thank you very much.Hash loves you.
    Im grateful that i met you.❤

  • @authenticallytrish
    @authenticallytrish Год назад +15

    Listening to this podcast is now part of my morning routine 😊 such an uplifting way to start my day

  • @jamierosalez5912
    @jamierosalez5912 10 месяцев назад

    your podcast has helped me in so many different perspectives, i’m honestly so greatful you are a creator, i feel like i’ve been needing to hear everything you’ve spoke of in all of your videos , i’m definitely headed down the right path with the help of your podcast,thank you Fernanda 💛

  • @aishawhite7862
    @aishawhite7862 Год назад +2

    I love this episode!!! Love you Fernanda💗🫶🏼 Thank you for sharing your thoughts 💭💗💗

  • @bubblelayna
    @bubblelayna Год назад +2

    So grateful to have u fernanda 💗

  • @user-oh5dd5cv4t
    @user-oh5dd5cv4t Год назад

    This has genuinely inspired and helped me a lot thank you so much fernanda❤️

  • @amazzfoods
    @amazzfoods 6 месяцев назад

    I just found your channel and I love listening to you and about your experiences. I feel like I relate to you in so many ways. When I need a refresher and motivation I always come to your channel to keep myself back on my feet and it has helped me to be more productive and positive, thank you :)

  • @velmavanbeulen1025
    @velmavanbeulen1025 8 месяцев назад +1

    I've been in this dump for months after my aunt and grandma passed away in the beginning of the year , i started being hard towards myself and still am . Hearing this podcast just makes me feel good and makes me feel happy ❤ .
    If possible can you make a video about how you stay motivated to keep going in life and to follow your schedule
    ❤❤

  • @cirinechennafi
    @cirinechennafi Год назад

    Your podcasts are just incredibly amazing ♡

  • @Abirosaaa
    @Abirosaaa 6 месяцев назад

    I cannot tell you how much the topics you focus on in your podcast help me. I listen to your episodes while I workout and it pours such good energy into my mind and spirit. Thank you thank you thank youuuuuu💞💞💞

  • @moomoo4695
    @moomoo4695 Год назад

    The setup is a vibe like you Fernanda love your videos🌸🌸🌸

  • @davidbruce2083
    @davidbruce2083 6 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for the advice you have, gave me the opportunity to help myself to know more about my self. ❤❤

  • @Aisha-zy3ks
    @Aisha-zy3ks Месяц назад

    I really do love your podcast your tips are the most accurate way to eliminate negativity

  • @Mimi-xq8wm
    @Mimi-xq8wm 27 дней назад

    I needed this . I was going through it but you helped me find a different view of life

  • @rosietorres
    @rosietorres 11 месяцев назад

    Fernanda! I'm so happy I stumbled upon your "YOUR GUIDE TO SOCIAL CONFIDENCE & CHARISMA" video and I was like "holy shit I should start doing that." Thank you for being the sister figure I've always wanted to have. Your insights are so helpful and I'm excited to learn more!!

  • @abigayleflynn911
    @abigayleflynn911 7 месяцев назад

    Now this was probably the most helpful podcast I have heard about negative thinking and positive optimism.

  • @solfinest5442
    @solfinest5442 Год назад

    I loved this! I knew some of these but having it repeated again & w/ so much honesty, good example and just understanding helps a lot!

  • @ammarahnaeem5028
    @ammarahnaeem5028 5 месяцев назад +1

    She has such beautiful energy!!

  • @user-mk1ro7lv1p
    @user-mk1ro7lv1p 8 месяцев назад

    thank u so much. this is what i needed. love ur podcasts❤

  • @archxnaa
    @archxnaa Год назад

    i just wanted to improve my english skills when i 1st click on your videos, but now i'm learning life as well. Thank you so much.

  • @gaurikunjuzz
    @gaurikunjuzz Год назад +4

    I love your podcast so much... I don't know why it is so relatable.Every episode of your podcast so enjoyable. Your advices and experiences makes it more beautiful❤️

  • @user-sg2ps3sb3f
    @user-sg2ps3sb3f 9 месяцев назад

    Can we agree that she is actually positive and the greatest podcast girl rn!!❤😊

  • @who_is_TA_
    @who_is_TA_ Год назад

    EVERY EPISODE IS JUST SO AMAZING

  • @AraVahanian
    @AraVahanian Год назад

    Hello Fernanda how are you? Thank you so much for this! I would just like to add that it is also important to look for the silver lining in situations as this makes you a stronger and more well rounded person. I subscribed to your main RUclips channel because I really enjoy the content and presentation. One of the things that I've done recently that's really made a huge difference in my life is that I've basically cut out watching the news here in the USA because all of these media companies broadcast too much negative news and I just didn't want to be exposed to that information. There's a lot of good things happening in the world that the news doesn't tell or show you. Thank you so much for starting a podcast like this! And by the way, you are absolutely gorgeous and vibrant as usual!

  • @shyloweperez7038
    @shyloweperez7038 Год назад

    This is exxxxxxactly what I needed girl! Verbatim!! Thank you!!!

  • @violamugisha3843
    @violamugisha3843 16 дней назад

    I feel so much positive, feel what was bothering me wasnt worth it, i will always put reminders/sticker notes to kip the positive. Thanks

  • @user-me4lc8bw7q
    @user-me4lc8bw7q 8 месяцев назад

    I love you sis right you speak so fast but understantable.i am english learner and I am doing shadowing with your podcast❤️

  • @shafiya369
    @shafiya369 Год назад +1

    Wow I love this podcast thankyou so much &we need podcast about hobbies ❤

  • @aye7770
    @aye7770 9 месяцев назад +1

    Best podcast everrrrrrrrr I love you 😭♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @Ellie_clarke
    @Ellie_clarke Год назад +7

    This is my favourite podcast you have helped me so much I just want to say your an amazing person and I hope when I’m older I will be like you ❤love you Fernanda

    • @lexy1151
      @lexy1151 Год назад +2

      Same sis it has really helped

  • @alien1971
    @alien1971 Год назад +2

    I was abused my two of my cousins because of your these podcast I overcome thinking constantly that shitty past and accept that I'm the most luckiest girl in this world. THANKS A LOT GURRLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

  • @hannahvanoverbeek4682
    @hannahvanoverbeek4682 9 месяцев назад +3

    I really love this podcast! Your energy is just awesome and I always feel better after watching your episodes :)

  • @_xxdisgraceyxx_
    @_xxdisgraceyxx_ Год назад +2

    And here she comes saving my day.

  • @ddee_6234
    @ddee_6234 8 месяцев назад +2

    as someone who is nearly the same age with you, and trying to be consistent creating contents in youtube( although i am full time student ) , you are so relatable, honest and all of your contents are quality contents. I feel like I am talking with my bestie when I listen to your podcasts. Just wanna say keep the good work up and thank you dear.

  • @selestineshiro3918
    @selestineshiro3918 Год назад +1

    Hi gal, this talk is very informative and relatable. Loving your energy.

  • @iamchofy8056
    @iamchofy8056 Год назад +1

    I needed to listen this❤ helps me a lot ty

  • @shakoorah1
    @shakoorah1 Год назад

    Great advice Fernanda ❤ nice reminders … thank you 😁🌻💛

  • @juandm09
    @juandm09 3 месяца назад

    This podcast help me to práctice my listening English, is so good and I love it

  • @Yevstifieievakarina
    @Yevstifieievakarina Год назад

    loveee listening to this while at the gym 🤍

  • @ellacreatesart
    @ellacreatesart Год назад +1

    I love this episode, thank you❤❤❤

  • @YuKi-mq8sw
    @YuKi-mq8sw 6 месяцев назад

    I really love this episode thank you so much ❤

  • @romanovadasha
    @romanovadasha Год назад

    This is my favorite podcast of all the time 💌💌💌

  • @_alex.nooram_
    @_alex.nooram_ 7 месяцев назад

    I love your podcasts so so much! Thank you, keep going ❤

  • @yuliali371
    @yuliali371 Год назад +2

    Thank you for such amazing advice. The vibe in this podcast is so cozy and positive🤍

  • @nivekaperera
    @nivekaperera Год назад

    I'm learning so much from this😩❤️

  • @medeeaandrus2866
    @medeeaandrus2866 5 месяцев назад

    Girl i just listen to 3 Podcast from you in a ROW . Love what you’re doing 🫶🏻

  • @rachealdias9819
    @rachealdias9819 Год назад +1

    Love this set up so much 😍♥️

  • @yezstra
    @yezstra Год назад +1

    Thank you for todays episode!

  • @jessicathomas5
    @jessicathomas5 Год назад +2

    LOVE your videos! Such a breath of fresh air 💛

  • @divinechinye1513
    @divinechinye1513 Год назад +1

    This is so helpful,thanks😊❤

  • @Mochiplaysxx
    @Mochiplaysxx 9 месяцев назад

    Girlie I have been listening to your podcasts when I’m on a run/walk and on my bus!❤️😚☺️

  • @Zainab-sx3yd
    @Zainab-sx3yd 11 месяцев назад

    I really needed this rn, thank you love♡

  • @AngelFelix111
    @AngelFelix111 Год назад +2

    The best advice ever. I take notes. Literally.

  • @rachealdias9819
    @rachealdias9819 Год назад +1

    A topic I definitely needed!

  • @leslielopez4205
    @leslielopez4205 Месяц назад

    I love this podcast ❤ you are so relatable and !!

  • @deathlysl444
    @deathlysl444 Год назад +1

    I feel like the last episode was yesterday, time does fly really fast!! take care of youu Fernanda

  • @dorixyz
    @dorixyz Месяц назад

    Love this 💗💗

  • @Horrorzeit
    @Horrorzeit Год назад +1

    Just love your podcast 🎉

  • @nawdianadoo4571
    @nawdianadoo4571 10 месяцев назад

    Recently , i keep listening her podcast

  • @giadacordara8455
    @giadacordara8455 Год назад

    you are an inspiration!

  • @nasimasultana
    @nasimasultana Год назад

    I needed this so bad!

  • @English_with__Sezi
    @English_with__Sezi Месяц назад

    OMG 😭 her speech 👍👍